Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: So, Pannahama City. Hey, Serena, how are you?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 4: I'm doing good.
Speaker 5: How are you good?
Speaker 3: So explain to us what's going on in your concern
Speaker 3: and how we can help.
Speaker 5: So.
Speaker 6: I saw my cousin at the grove. I was with
Speaker 6: my friends. We were hanging out, and we saw that
Speaker 6: he was holding hands with another guy, and none of
Speaker 6: us had any idea that he was gay, Okay, But
Speaker 6: when he saw us, though, he quickly let go the
Speaker 6: guy's hand and he said Hi. But he obviously looks
Speaker 6: so uncomfortable, and he made no effort to introduce us
Speaker 6: to him. So my question is, can I let him
Speaker 6: know that we saw and tell him that we support
Speaker 6: him one hundred percent? Or should I just pretend I
Speaker 6: never saw it and just let him come out in
Speaker 6: his own time when he's.
Speaker 2: Comfortable he knows you saw him, right.
Speaker 5: I.
Speaker 6: I don't think she knows that we saw him. We
Speaker 6: didn't tell him, right, Okay?
Speaker 3: Well, Serena, I mean this is you know your cousin
Speaker 3: better than any of us here.
Speaker 2: And so if it were me and I.
Speaker 3: Saw him, I probably wouldn't say something because there's a
Speaker 3: reason why he hasn't said anything to me yet, right,
Speaker 3: And so that's that's really what I would do in
Speaker 3: that situation if it were me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Or you can just tell him that you saw him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I don't want to lie to him, and
Speaker 6: you know, like I don't want to just like hide
Speaker 6: the fact that I saw him holding hands with another guy.
Speaker 6: I want him to know that I can.
Speaker 5: I'm here to.
Speaker 1: Support you exactly, So why not just talk to him?
Speaker 2: That's good too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, No, you're.
Speaker 1: Right, and if he denies it, maybe that just means
Speaker 1: that he's not ready, and then just respect that as well.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so well, thank you for reaching out to a Serena.
Speaker 2: You have a great day, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 7: Well.
Speaker 8: Okay, So I realized that my alarm clock is so jarring,
Speaker 8: and I I realized if other people wake up with
Speaker 8: such pleasantries, and so.
Speaker 1: I wait, like a physical alarm clock, like one that
Speaker 1: sits on your nightstand.
Speaker 9: No, my phone, my iPhone is my.
Speaker 1: Realize there's different tones.
Speaker 3: You can you can put the chimes on, you can
Speaker 3: put spa music on, you know, a bunch of different stuff.
Speaker 8: But here's the the cape. No, no, no, I do want
Speaker 8: to use my phone, but I want it to wake
Speaker 8: me up, so I'm nervous. I don't want to have
Speaker 8: like a like a nice little soft thing.
Speaker 3: My volumes down. I don't know something's wrong with my
Speaker 3: volume sometimes and I barely hear.
Speaker 2: I have chimes, yeah, and.
Speaker 9: I don't think the chimes would would do it to me.
Speaker 1: It will, trust me. I thought the same thing. I
Speaker 1: thought I had to have like a siren to wake
Speaker 1: me up.
Speaker 9: Do you want to hear? Do you want to hear?
Speaker 5: What it is?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 9: I'll play it for you.
Speaker 3: My phone also is jarring, like if the phone rings
Speaker 3: in the house, it's jar ring beside the ben.
Speaker 1: Well, what do you have for your phone?
Speaker 2: It's a ring, but it's just.
Speaker 1: Like the old school sounding ring.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a handheld ring. I know that's that sound, Tony,
Speaker 2: I've fallen asleep. Oh gosh, no, yeah, that's the generic one.
Speaker 1: Oh that's painful. That Actually, that's a bad mood every day.
Speaker 8: That's why I don't snooze, though, I believe that, because
Speaker 8: that's why I don't snooze, because I just want to
Speaker 8: turn it off.
Speaker 9: So is mine.
Speaker 3: But I think it shocks you too much like I
Speaker 3: feel the cortisol in my body.
Speaker 2: Right, yep, I have that one.
Speaker 1: I make him like Cinderella.
Speaker 3: But I still when it goes off, I go, oh, yeah, Tony,
Speaker 3: we'll get into your phone and we can. You can
Speaker 3: also put songs. Why don't you put a song like
Speaker 3: a hook?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Jack Carlow, Yeah, I need.
Speaker 2: Some spicy margarita, get them.
Speaker 8: I need something because this is not working for me.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: Once your alarm goes off, how quickly do you hit
Speaker 3: off and then you get up right away?
Speaker 2: Do you sort of lay there?
Speaker 9: I get up right away.
Speaker 2: And Robbie just leaps through that.
Speaker 8: I think it probably wakes him up, though, I mean
Speaker 8: he doesn't sure the neighbors are going to wake up
Speaker 8: without alarm.
Speaker 2: He doesn't move when that jarring sound goes on.
Speaker 10: No.
Speaker 8: Well, sometimes like this morning, he was like, good morning,
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, is.
Speaker 2: His any players again?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, I get it.
Speaker 3: Oh it's Maria carry all I want for Christmas. It's
Speaker 3: the beginning. Oh right right there, that's like the song intro. Well,
Speaker 3: I thought we're not supposed to use our phones while
Speaker 3: we're on this topic, we're not supposed to use our
Speaker 3: phones to wake up. We're supposed get an actual alarm
Speaker 3: clock because the phone extra ben's.
Speaker 2: Bad for you.
Speaker 9: I know, yes, you know what.
Speaker 3: I did figure out a couple weeks ago. I did, actually,
Speaker 3: even though I didn't have it this morning. I did
Speaker 3: figure out with one of the coffee machines that I've got,
Speaker 3: how to pre program it the night before, so it
Speaker 3: makes coffee in the morning and it's ready. It's not
Speaker 3: as good, but it makes the pot. Is there with
Speaker 3: coffee in it?
Speaker 1: You told us?
Speaker 3: Because the beans. I like to gorind the beans so
Speaker 3: the beans have that fresh flavor. Yeah, but it takes
Speaker 3: so much time.
Speaker 1: And now you're not even drinking the coffee.
Speaker 3: This is literally you got to go back. I'll go
Speaker 3: back to it next time. I think I've actually done
Speaker 3: this too. Where whoever I'm following, I'd scroll and I
Speaker 3: don't mean a heart, but I press too hard or
Speaker 3: I tapped the wrong way or something like.
Speaker 2: Is that how it works?
Speaker 1: In my case, it was in a DM and it
Speaker 1: was a story or something, and I was like watching
Speaker 1: stories and it was my neighbor's story and I meant
Speaker 1: to just like do the hearts where it just like
Speaker 1: does like little hearts that come up on the story
Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, it sent a DM heart like
Speaker 1: a fool on emoji heart in like a DM.
Speaker 2: And what message is that sending to that DM? It
Speaker 2: was my.
Speaker 1: Neighbor across the street who was married. Like It's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. And so then I felt like I'm
Speaker 1: like I need to write like a whole thing. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, like we went there with the
Speaker 1: family and it's awesome, Like I just oh, it felt awful.
Speaker 3: So the thing I have in a roufine, I have
Speaker 3: like the issue with texts. Right, I'll be doing something
Speaker 3: fast and I have Mom in my text. Now have
Speaker 3: other people's moms in my text? Okay, it's all right there, mom.
Speaker 9: And if you have other people's moms in your phone,
Speaker 9: as mom.
Speaker 3: I brought mom, and then the name of the person mom,
Speaker 3: and then the name of the person.
Speaker 7: Right.
Speaker 2: I mean over time, you liked a lot of moms.
Speaker 1: Why don't you put like time, I don't know, why
Speaker 1: don't you put they're names, not mom, because at the
Speaker 1: time I was working fast, you know, to put them
Speaker 1: in my context anyway, But I'll make mistakes like that.
Speaker 3: So Ruby, who did you accidentally heart on Instagram.
Speaker 10: So my phone was apparently still open on the Instagram app,
Speaker 10: and it wasn't just liking the photo. It was dropping
Speaker 10: like a red heart emoji in the comments, and it
Speaker 10: was for the Valentine in the Morning Show. They posted
Speaker 10: some like dance or something, and so I didn't even
Speaker 10: realize I left the comment. I only realized it until
Speaker 10: after they liked it, and I looked and I was
Speaker 10: like what comment. I looked and then there was a
Speaker 10: red heart emoji and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: So did you not like what you were seeing?
Speaker 10: It just wasn't intentional, so it was it was kind
Speaker 10: of like a random thing to drop a heart on,
Speaker 10: and so I just felt so.
Speaker 2: Going on over there, maybe is coming out like.
Speaker 8: The laughing emoji would have been more appropriate because it
Speaker 8: was like a funny day exactly.
Speaker 2: But then they liked your like back your heart?
Speaker 1: Was it the show's Instagram? Was it Valentine's Instagram?
Speaker 10: I think it was like a joint when they collab.
Speaker 2: It was like a collapse.
Speaker 1: It still that means that it was like his Instagram.
Speaker 1: That's like so cringey.
Speaker 9: Loving it right, And then it was a red heart.
Speaker 9: I use blue hearts. So that's why I was like, Wow,
Speaker 9: this is how.
Speaker 2: You do was like love.
Speaker 3: It's just like it's too much in that red heart
Speaker 3: accidental red heart moment of panning.
Speaker 2: Then what you do, Well, you can't delete it.
Speaker 9: They already liked it.
Speaker 2: So if this is saying that it was a mistake.
Speaker 9: I just took the l Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Tany has that ever happened to you?
Speaker 8: Worst things have happened to me, Like I have sent
Speaker 8: I've sent you know how, Like let's say h Sysney's
Speaker 8: story and well, I don't want to use this as
Speaker 8: an example. Let's say somebody does something that's like cringey
Speaker 8: or whatever, and you send that story to somebody else
Speaker 8: and you're like, oh no, and then you end up
Speaker 8: accidentally responding to theirs that happens.
Speaker 3: So you're saying this is cringe, but you sent it
Speaker 3: not to the other person.
Speaker 2: They see you say it's cringe. Correct.
Speaker 8: It usually happens to people that are like not my friends,
Speaker 8: like it happens.
Speaker 9: I'm like celebrities. I usually will send or whatever, but yeah.
Speaker 2: What celebrities are cringing you?
Speaker 8: I can't think of the top of my head. It's
Speaker 8: like I do it all the time. But like, yeah, oh.
Speaker 3: Well, it's an honest mistake, Ruby, but be very careful
Speaker 3: when you're liking everybody else technology.
Speaker 10: I guess it could have been worse, like it could
Speaker 10: have been like if it i'ms down emoji or something
Speaker 10: that's true, that would.
Speaker 9: Have been so bad.
Speaker 3: We have an Instagram you could check out, and we
Speaker 3: also have a podcast. Oh my gosh, you don't have
Speaker 3: to go, you know, across the street. It's down the hall,
Speaker 3: I know, but figure of speech across the street. You know,
Speaker 3: sometimes morning hacks come out of the blue. But I
Speaker 3: think you appreciate this one. And then the quote of
Speaker 3: the day, plastic wrap. I have a drawer with wax
Speaker 3: paper for pounding of meat. I have a drawer pounding
Speaker 3: my chicken. When I pound my chicken, flap, Yeah, I
Speaker 3: take the cleaver. So Tanya look at me confused.
Speaker 1: No, it's nice.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm not a paper chef.
Speaker 2: I don't know wax paper over the you know his
Speaker 2: pound it thin.
Speaker 1: Make it thin. You can make it like a million.
Speaker 2: I love. If I'm gonna have chicken, I want it thin,
Speaker 2: paper thin.
Speaker 9: Yes, I wonder how they make it like that?
Speaker 2: You pound it okay.
Speaker 3: So anyway, the drawer has all that in it, lemon
Speaker 3: and foil, plastic wrap, bagg ease.
Speaker 1: Yeah that.
Speaker 3: So they say plastic wrap can be very annoying. You know,
Speaker 3: it sticks to itself and frustrates you the way it
Speaker 3: comes off the roll.
Speaker 2: I can never get it right.
Speaker 1: You gotta get the right brand, because that's the cheap
Speaker 1: brands never work.
Speaker 3: So here's the hack. They say, keep it in the freezer.
Speaker 3: The cold air makes it much easier to handle, less clinging,
Speaker 3: So put your plastic wrap in the freezer today.
Speaker 8: Funny, who's gonna put their plastic wrap in the freeze?
Speaker 9: I'll try it.
Speaker 2: FM headlines with siciny Well.
Speaker 1: US swimming star Katie Ledecki won her eighth Olympic gold
Speaker 1: medal in the fifteen hundred meter freestyle. The star studied
Speaker 1: US men's basketball team cruised to win as well, and
Speaker 1: the US women's soccer team beat Australia two to one,
Speaker 1: advancing now to play Japan in the quarterfinals. The president
Speaker 1: of the University of California announced that he would step
Speaker 1: down after five years of leading one of the nation's
Speaker 1: largest public university systems. Hundreds of Taco Bell locations in
Speaker 1: the US will use artificial intelligence and drive through lanes
Speaker 1: by the end of twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: On air with the Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Alice is on the line inside. Good morning, Alice, So
Speaker 3: you're calling you got fired?
Speaker 4: I got fired?
Speaker 11: Oh no, I just I made I made a mistaken.
Speaker 4: But it's gonna be okay.
Speaker 5: What kind of job were you doing again?
Speaker 4: I worked at a a mental health facility of psychologists,
Speaker 4: but therapists worked there, and I was a receptionist.
Speaker 2: What happened to Well, I don't want to know. It's okay.
Speaker 2: You're gonna You're gonna bounce back and be great when
Speaker 2: we're here for you every day.
Speaker 1: When one door closes, another one opens, learning experiences all that.
Speaker 4: That's why I love you guys. You guys are so
Speaker 4: positive and that's what I need. And every time I
Speaker 4: wake up in the morning, you guys are positive and
Speaker 4: you're laughing. And I woke up this morning and I
Speaker 4: needed that and you were there for me. And then
Speaker 4: I called you to tell you I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Oh that's so nice.
Speaker 3: Well, look, we know that with every day, every show,
Speaker 3: every hour that this thing is on the air, somebody's
Speaker 3: going through something, right, and whether it's a breakup of divorce,
Speaker 3: a heartbreak, a firing, this is life and maybe it's
Speaker 3: all for the greater good and the better plan in
Speaker 3: the future.
Speaker 2: The universe has spoken, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: And I'm looking forward to the future and I'm not
Speaker 4: looking backwards. I'm looking forward.
Speaker 3: Let's think this was for the best. Let's look through
Speaker 3: that lens. And good luck to you on this next
Speaker 3: chapter of your journey, Alice.
Speaker 4: I appreciate it you go through those best.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 4: Thank you have a good one.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 3: I mean it is true, like you know, when you're
Speaker 3: going through something stressful or something difficult in you and
Speaker 3: then you see someone that you are used to seeing,
Speaker 3: or you tap into your routine and your routine is
Speaker 3: still there. It's like this steady it eases the pain
Speaker 3: a little bit, or it can ease the pain a
Speaker 3: little bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's grab Sam. Hello Sam, Hi.
Speaker 3: Yes, So let's see if we can help out and
Speaker 3: find out what's going on. Your manager blocked everybody on
Speaker 3: your team from seeing your Instagram stories.
Speaker 12: No, so my manager blocked everyone from seeing their Instagram story.
Speaker 12: So like we can't basically blocked everyone so we can't
Speaker 12: see their story at all, and we cannot see.
Speaker 3: You a manager story exactly.
Speaker 12: I can't see my manager's stories. I don't know. And
Speaker 12: what happened is my manager has been so flaky lately,
Speaker 12: so calling out sick, not showing up, saying they'll be
Speaker 12: there and then never coming. So one of the new
Speaker 12: members of our team wasn't blocking Instagram. We found out
Speaker 12: what's going on with our manager. Our manager is vacationing, partying,
Speaker 12: staying late, and those happen to be the days she'll
Speaker 12: call out sick the next day. So my team's like
Speaker 12: at a loss. We don't know what to do because
Speaker 12: it's affecting all of our work and now we know why,
Speaker 12: but we don't know how to handle it.
Speaker 3: Or well, why does the new hire have access to
Speaker 3: your manager's stories?
Speaker 12: She must not have blocked them because they weren't on
Speaker 12: our team when she went up through.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's how you know what's happening. Okay, now it's
Speaker 3: all adding up. Well, who's the leader of the team.
Speaker 12: As far as I mean, like, the manager is the
Speaker 12: main one in charge. We of course have a boss
Speaker 12: over everyone, but the manager's in charge of us, so.
Speaker 3: Right, but there's got to be a leader of the
Speaker 3: team that's underneath the manager. Because here's my thinking. My
Speaker 3: thinking is if it's affecting the team's work, and ultimately
Speaker 3: that's what a team is on a team for to
Speaker 3: be productive, it's going to affect the manager's productivity and
Speaker 3: they're reputation at work too. So I wouldn't address what
Speaker 3: your manager is doing outside of work. I'd address what
Speaker 3: your manager is not getting done with the team inside
Speaker 3: of work, because it's holding everybody back. And that's just
Speaker 3: a results oriented conversation. It's not personal, it's professional.
Speaker 12: Yeah, right, So you think we should go to the
Speaker 12: manager directly and just talk work only, noting up.
Speaker 3: You just say, like the ball is being dropped. Here's
Speaker 3: what we're missing. We're not getting answers, things aren't moving along.
Speaker 3: This is a problem like just affecting all of us
Speaker 3: as a team. We want to be results oriented, solutions oriented,
Speaker 3: but we got to be productive and we've got to
Speaker 3: get things done. And for some reason, it's not let
Speaker 3: them manager, you have a chance to apologize or or
Speaker 3: you know, fess up to what's going on. But the
Speaker 3: results at work or a product of whatever's happening. You
Speaker 3: still need to talk about your manager doing what they're doing.
Speaker 3: It's like what they're not doing at work? Do you
Speaker 3: see what I'm saying?
Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 1: I think so true. I think you go to the
Speaker 1: professional round because then it seems less gossipy and you're
Speaker 1: you know, you're not getting involved in the personal life,
Speaker 1: you're just going straight.
Speaker 2: Professional and the new hires watching it all.
Speaker 9: I kind of like that.
Speaker 12: They've screen recorded it, so we've all.
Speaker 1: Now it's getting messy, so dark.
Speaker 3: I think I would address the issues at work which
Speaker 3: are the product of what you've seen in the video.
Speaker 2: Thanks Sam for calling.
Speaker 12: Thank you. Okay, well, definitely sure. We will definitely go
Speaker 12: about doing that way because you didn't really want to
Speaker 12: go over anyone's head, you know, so we didn't know
Speaker 12: how to handle it the team.
Speaker 2: I got it. I appreciate you reaching out just to
Speaker 2: chat with us about it. It's very nice. Thanks for listening.
Speaker 12: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3: Right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM. I
Speaker 3: want to get to Ryan's roses right now. Dear Ryan
Speaker 3: and Sisiny. My husband has a super unique leather Lakers jacket.
Speaker 3: I've never seen it anywhere on anyone else. It is
Speaker 3: a one of a kind jacket. I was driving down
Speaker 3: Imperial Highway and saw him coming out of a motel.
Speaker 3: I could not stop, so I called him on his
Speaker 3: cell phone. It was straight to voicemail. I then confronted him.
Speaker 3: He said it wasn't him. She says, I know it
Speaker 3: was him. Actually, have a picture of the jagged let
Speaker 3: me bring in Rachel. Rachel, thanks for coming on, just
Speaker 3: to know a little bit about this jacket. Where did
Speaker 3: it come from? Why is it so unique?
Speaker 2: I see it. I'm looking at a photo of it.
Speaker 13: Yeah, so he got it at like some sort of
Speaker 13: thrift shop, like a long time ago. So there's there's
Speaker 13: no one else who has this one.
Speaker 2: And what were you doing in the area where you
Speaker 2: saw him?
Speaker 13: So I had just been running some errands, but I
Speaker 13: was driving down Imperial Highway and I was at like
Speaker 13: Imperial Highway and Pioneer in Norwalk, Okay. And but when
Speaker 13: you're sitting at the light there, you can see the
Speaker 13: motel six And that's when I absolutely saw him walk
Speaker 13: out of one of those rooms. And like I couldn't
Speaker 13: stop because there was traffic obviously, and like whatever, and
Speaker 13: he insists it's not him, but like you're looking at
Speaker 13: that jacket, there is no one else who has a
Speaker 13: jacket like that. I know what my husband looks like.
Speaker 3: All right, So if we put she and two together,
Speaker 3: you think he was in a motel room with another
Speaker 3: woman and is denying it.
Speaker 13: Well, yes, because there's more. So that night I did
Speaker 13: go through his phone and I found some texts with
Speaker 13: someone named Carly. Okay, and it's just like some hearts
Speaker 13: back and forth and the occasional like thinking about you.
Speaker 13: But I started wondering if maybe it's some sort of
Speaker 13: like code. So when she gets a heart, she knows
Speaker 13: to go to the motel. He doesn't know that I've
Speaker 13: been in this phone, and I have no idea who
Speaker 13: Carly is.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we are going to Rachel and Santa
Speaker 3: Fe Springs. How long you been married.
Speaker 13: We've been married five years.
Speaker 3: I need you to say, Ryan, you my permission to call,
Speaker 3: and then your husband's name on Kiss FM.
Speaker 13: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call on
Speaker 13: Kiss FM.
Speaker 2: We're going to do that.
Speaker 3: Now, be very quiet until we find out who he
Speaker 3: sends the roses to and why.
Speaker 2: Good luck, Rachel, thank you? Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 2: to Josh please.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is Josh.
Speaker 1: Hi Josh, my name is Emily. I'm calling from Santa
Speaker 1: Fe Springs Flowers. How are you doing this morning? I'm fine,
Speaker 1: I'm good. Thank you for asking. Actually, we're doing a
Speaker 1: promotion offering local residents a free dozen red roses that
Speaker 1: you can send to anybody that you'd like today. They
Speaker 1: are free. Just trying to promote our business, and we
Speaker 1: just asked that if you like the arrangements, you refer
Speaker 1: to friends and family or come back as a returning
Speaker 1: customer one day. But I don't need any cash from
Speaker 1: you or anything like that, just the name of the
Speaker 1: person you want to send the flowers to and a note.
Speaker 1: Is that something you'd be interested in?
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really understand. I get free roses.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a dozen red roses and we do this
Speaker 1: promotion about once a month. Today you've been selected, so
Speaker 1: we just need the name of the person you want
Speaker 1: to send them to in a note.
Speaker 5: Okay, but why did my number come up?
Speaker 1: You may purchase something online in the past eighteen months
Speaker 1: and selected to receive promotional offers from local vendors. That's
Speaker 1: how we get our database.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah, whatever, that's cool, sounds good.
Speaker 1: Great. Who would you like to send roses to?
Speaker 5: I would like to send them to my wife Rachel.
Speaker 1: Right, and what would you like to put on the Card's.
Speaker 5: Just say I love you so much and I know
Speaker 5: you're going to be the best mom ever.
Speaker 3: Okay, Josh, your voice would be broadcast on the radio. Congratulations,
Speaker 3: we have your wife Rachel on the line.
Speaker 2: Are you expecting, Rachel.
Speaker 13: Yes, this is going to be our first child.
Speaker 2: That's great. Well here we are, Josh. Good news.
Speaker 3: Congratulations. Just stay on the phone with this. Your voice
Speaker 3: is being broadcast. Rachel reached out to us because she
Speaker 3: was concerned. She thinks she spotted you coming out of
Speaker 3: a motel with another woman. When I say the name Carly,
Speaker 3: what do you think about.
Speaker 5: Carly? Like, I mean, I have a friend named Carly,
Speaker 5: But that's what do I think about? Like? Why I
Speaker 5: don't I don't understand.
Speaker 3: She believes that you are cheating on her with Carly.
Speaker 3: You were at the motel. She's seen text messages. What's
Speaker 3: going on?
Speaker 2: Josh?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 5: No? No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: What's going on with Carly?
Speaker 5: Look? This is it about Carl? Okay? Carly is Todd's wife.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, why were you in a motel with her?
Speaker 5: I wasn't in the motel. Okay, that wasn't me.
Speaker 3: Okay, do you have a Laker's jacket? It's all kinds
Speaker 3: of patchwork on it. And do you have a thigh
Speaker 3: that's tattooed?
Speaker 5: Yes, I got it Ultra. Yeah, I mean that's me.
Speaker 5: But that wasn't me at the motel.
Speaker 2: I'm just looking a picture of you.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe he wasn't drinking the mankel of Ultra coming
Speaker 1: out of the motown.
Speaker 3: Well, I just gonna make sure I'm talking about the
Speaker 3: same gun. I got a photo that Rachel sent to
Speaker 3: me of him in the jacket, and he's got it's
Speaker 3: a very unique. I've never seen a Laker jacket like that.
Speaker 3: I mean it's a hodgepodge of different things on the jacket.
Speaker 2: So, Rachel, what do you think? I mean?
Speaker 3: Ray, you you told me, Rachel, no one else has
Speaker 3: that jacket. You're sure it was him, but he denies it.
Speaker 13: Well, I'm just I'm starting to get a little confused
Speaker 13: because if Carly is Todd's wife, like he said, I
Speaker 13: know who Todd is.
Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, okay, so what do you We're out a lot.
Speaker 3: What do you make of it? Do you think he's
Speaker 3: lying to you? Do you think it was him at
Speaker 3: the motel? Do you think he's with Todd's wife? What
Speaker 3: do you think?
Speaker 11: Well?
Speaker 13: I guess just Josh, why are you texting Carly? Like?
Speaker 13: I just explain that?
Speaker 5: So I text Carly every year because she's Tod's wife.
Speaker 5: Todd's my friend who passed away, and every year on
Speaker 5: his birthday and on the anniversary he dies, and on
Speaker 5: their wedding anniversary. Any day that I know that she's struggling,
Speaker 5: I check in.
Speaker 1: How come you don't communicate this to your wife so
Speaker 1: that she's aware that you do this?
Speaker 5: What? How am I the one who left to commune?
Speaker 5: This should be obvious. I'm just checking in with one
Speaker 5: of my best friends is widow. And I don't understand
Speaker 5: why you would assume that I would.
Speaker 3: Josh, you, Josh, were you at this motel on Impire Highway?
Speaker 11: No?
Speaker 5: I was not on the hotel and a pel highway.
Speaker 5: So jacket is amazing people have that.
Speaker 2: So Rachel, is it possible that someone else has the jacket?
Speaker 15: But look, I said, Rachel, I said, you you're you're
Speaker 15: looking at my baby.
Speaker 5: I love you so much.
Speaker 15: I literally just check in with Carly because I know
Speaker 15: how big of a loss losing Todd was. And and
Speaker 15: that jacket, you guys call it gross. It's an amazing jacket.
Speaker 5: People have that.
Speaker 2: No gros, No, it's got luck going on. Who said gross?
Speaker 2: Nobody said that.
Speaker 1: Well, he's a hodgepodget design.
Speaker 2: Well, hodgepodge. It's got a bunch of different.
Speaker 9: Patchwork on, like patch podge, mosaic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, mosaic patches.
Speaker 3: Anyway, listen, Rachel, Josh were we are not going to
Speaker 3: go further here, Rachel, We've done everything we can. I
Speaker 3: I don't know, Josh, I don't know Todd's widow situation.
Speaker 3: We're gonna let it go at that. I mean, you've
Speaker 3: gotten a lot of raw feedback here, and we wish
Speaker 3: you the best of luck. I honestly, I don't know
Speaker 3: what to think. Here's the short Rachel and her husband Josh.
Speaker 3: She thinks she saw him come out of a motel.
Speaker 3: He says it wasn't me. I know it was the
Speaker 3: jacket that I have, but it wasn't me. And then
Speaker 3: he's texting this woman named Carly, who's Todd's wife. Well,
Speaker 3: Todd passed away. He texts Carly on birthday and anniversary
Speaker 3: to check in with her. All sounds legit and good
Speaker 3: to me, and we didn't really take it much further
Speaker 3: than that. But after hearing it, do you, I mean,
Speaker 3: do you believe him or not?
Speaker 1: I don't believe him. I do you don't believe him?
Speaker 1: Initially he was stuttering a lot for me, which made
Speaker 1: me be like, Okay, you're lying, But I think that
Speaker 1: was just because we caught him off guard and he
Speaker 1: he was trying to just defend himself because he was like,
Speaker 1: what is happening right now? And I think it checks out.
Speaker 1: I think I do believe him.
Speaker 2: I believe him too. Alexis what do you think you
Speaker 2: heard it?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 16: Yeah, I believe him too. You know I when I
Speaker 16: was pregnant, even at the beginning of my pregnancy, I
Speaker 16: was very hormonal, so you know, she says, maybe just
Speaker 16: a little insecure and little.
Speaker 7: Worrysomes, but I believe him. And you know your body
Speaker 7: when you're pregnant, you're extremely like so, you know, conscious,
Speaker 7: and you don't think feels beautiful. So maybe that's what's
Speaker 7: going on. Maybe he should do something more romantic for
Speaker 7: her or take her out. You know something nice.
Speaker 1: It is true rain does crazy things on you when
Speaker 1: you're pregnant, and you even like dream about exes and stuff.
Speaker 3: All right, well, thank you Alexis for listening to that.
Speaker 3: I appreciate you calling in with your feedback. We're all
Speaker 3: on the same page on this one.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 3: So are you somebody that every day, every evening, maybe
Speaker 3: in the morning, you don't sit on your couch. You
Speaker 3: just get down on your floor. I guess that's more
Speaker 3: common than we originally thought. This is something that's coming
Speaker 3: out of TikTok. It's called floor time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, TikTok is all about floor time right now, and
Speaker 1: it's the go to move for anybody who's feeling stress
Speaker 1: or if you're just feeling overwhelmed, maybe even sad. Think
Speaker 1: about like after a breakup.
Speaker 9: Yeah, for some reason.
Speaker 1: Remember like you watch movies and they're always on the ground,
Speaker 1: like listening to music or whatever. After a long day.
Speaker 1: Floor time. If you're in a bad mood, floor time
Speaker 1: Apparently it's like the ultimate grounding. So you know how
Speaker 1: like if you're trying to wake up every day and
Speaker 1: put your feet on the earth and actually be grounded
Speaker 1: with the earth. If you actually put your whole body
Speaker 1: and lay on the floor, it does something to you.
Speaker 3: Do you have to do it naked to connect with
Speaker 3: the earth or you can get dressed?
Speaker 8: Now?
Speaker 1: What to each their own?
Speaker 3: That's what If you're down on like a natural material.
Speaker 1: If that's what makes you feel good.
Speaker 2: Why are you laying there? Well? So I don't mean
Speaker 2: for you to have to step over me right now.
Speaker 1: Taylor, of course, is somebody that brought this to our attention,
Speaker 1: lying on the cold, hard ground from I knew you
Speaker 1: were trouble. And for adults, it's apparently extra soothing because
Speaker 1: it brings and if it's similar to a more intentional
Speaker 1: practice that you do right after like a yoga class,
Speaker 1: where you're done with the class.
Speaker 9: And then you just lay there.
Speaker 2: Hey, can I ask you.
Speaker 3: A question about that moment? After I take my sporadic
Speaker 3: yoga classes. Am I the only one that keeps looking
Speaker 3: like opening their eyes to see when we can get up?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: You're not. I do the same thing.
Speaker 2: I'm like, how long do.
Speaker 9: They tell you when you But.
Speaker 3: I often just sort of quickly open my eyes and
Speaker 3: get caught staring, you know, like, hey, it is it?
Speaker 2: Can we is it? Time, and there's people.
Speaker 14: That don't do that part. They just get up and
Speaker 14: leave early. Yeah, well they're more impatient than I am,
Speaker 14: and that's rare. I was just thinking about this, so
Speaker 14: I tried it this morning.
Speaker 9: Huh.
Speaker 3: It is interesting because it gives you a totally different perspective.
Speaker 3: You're looking at the ceiling. There's a there's a calming
Speaker 3: thing to it. The other thing that I don't know.
Speaker 3: If you don't sleep well, try this tonight, tomorrow, whatever
Speaker 3: this weekend. Instead of putting your at the headboard, put
Speaker 3: your head at the footboard. Sleep down there by your
Speaker 3: partner's feet. Let me know how that goes.
Speaker 9: I don't want to do that. I don't want to
Speaker 9: do that either.
Speaker 3: Why I have a buddy that does it, and he
Speaker 3: says it makes him sleep so much better. He showed me,
Speaker 3: he showed me how you do it. You basically you
Speaker 3: flip around and put your head down on the other
Speaker 3: side and it just changes your perspective and for some
Speaker 3: it makes them sleep better.
Speaker 8: But then I think your partner has just to flip
Speaker 8: flop too, because then you're taking the sheets and putting
Speaker 8: them over your head, so then it's probably not going
Speaker 8: to cover your partner's feet and vice versa.
Speaker 2: You can you can manage that.
Speaker 3: And also there's less bodied volume with feet than there
Speaker 3: is head and breathing, so it can be more comfortable
Speaker 3: if you don't like being breathed on.
Speaker 1: If I got slapped in the face by Michael's foot
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night, that would ruin my day.
Speaker 2: You see, aren't going to go sideways?
Speaker 1: No, I don't know.
Speaker 2: You mean because he kicks heat? Does he kick out?
Speaker 16: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Or like you know, he does like the knee up
Speaker 1: and takes up. I swear he's in the middle of
Speaker 1: the bed sometimes.
Speaker 3: Okay, I sleep like your husband. It doesn't like a triangle.
Speaker 1: Knee yes, And then he hugs a pillow too.
Speaker 2: Me literally be sleeping twins.
Speaker 3: We lie so well together because did you think of
Speaker 3: the configuration?
Speaker 2: It's perfect?
Speaker 3: Good to go, all right, everybody's all just giddy over
Speaker 3: there in the back room.
Speaker 2: Have you heard? Have you heard? If you just got here,
Speaker 2: I don't know if you know.
Speaker 3: Uh, Marianna has come in saying and she came in
Speaker 3: early mark today.
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 3: Why I have to throw under the bus. I thought
Speaker 3: it was early. Now is right on time?
Speaker 5: Almost late?
Speaker 3: Basically saying almost late. So you came in and you
Speaker 3: said you have a crush on a guy?
Speaker 17: Yeah, I was talking to the girls back here. I
Speaker 17: think I have a crush on someone.
Speaker 2: This what do you think? Or do you no?
Speaker 17: I think I do, I just don't want.
Speaker 2: To admit it.
Speaker 3: Well is this how do you even start with? Who's
Speaker 3: the guy? I guess that's the first question.
Speaker 16: Yeah.
Speaker 17: So he's just a guy in the friend group, like
Speaker 17: my friend's boyfriend's friends, and he's always around.
Speaker 3: How long has he always been around for like a
Speaker 3: year or so? And have you ever thought about hanging
Speaker 3: out with him?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 17: I always thought he was cute, but it was like okay,
Speaker 17: Like I never really talked to him that much.
Speaker 2: So and so what changed? Why'd you talk to him
Speaker 2: all the sun?
Speaker 17: Because we already went out a couple of times, and
Speaker 17: this last time that we went out, he invited me
Speaker 17: to go to the gym with him, and I don't
Speaker 17: know if he like heard me, but I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 17: I'm gonna leave because I'm gonna go to the gym soon.
Speaker 17: And then later that he was after that, he was like, oh,
Speaker 17: are you going to go to the gym or did
Speaker 17: you go to the gym, Marty, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 17: I'm gonna leave right now, and he was like, we
Speaker 17: should just gym together.
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, Jim a verb. Was this
Speaker 1: your first time hanging out together alone?
Speaker 17: No, we had already done that before, like hung out
Speaker 17: a couple of times. But it's always only after we
Speaker 17: hang out with the friend group. So he's like never
Speaker 17: like reached out aside from hanging out with the friend group.
Speaker 17: It's always after we hang out with the friend group.
Speaker 2: Here's what I need to understand.
Speaker 3: What makes the difference, What crosses the line, what opens
Speaker 3: the door to come the crush?
Speaker 2: What did he do to green light a crush?
Speaker 17: Well, he'll do certain things like the other day. I
Speaker 17: don't know if he really means to, like give me
Speaker 17: a kiss on the cheek, but it's not like his
Speaker 17: full lips on the cheek. He'll just do like the
Speaker 17: little you know, like you know, and then he'll say that.
Speaker 2: Yeah the side hello, yeah.
Speaker 17: But when he looked like a French hello yeah time
Speaker 17: hello exactly. But when he was saying bye to everybody else,
Speaker 17: I noticed that he didn't do that to everyone else.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh, so you don't know if it's romantic.
Speaker 17: Yeah, I'm not knowing if it's romantic, Like do you
Speaker 17: see me as a friend or do you also like me?
Speaker 9: Oh that's the worst.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think these signs indicate like but he doesn't
Speaker 3: know if you like him.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think you guys are both thinking you're in the
Speaker 1: friend zone when in reality you both just.
Speaker 2: Want to did you do the same workout?
Speaker 13: Do?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 2: Did you do the same workout? Yeah?
Speaker 17: He was like showing me how to do these little workouts.
Speaker 17: I'm like running out of breath. I'm like, all right, hold.
Speaker 1: On, okay, it's so cute. So it wasn't okay, here's
Speaker 1: here's how you know, because if you guys would have
Speaker 1: gone to the gym, he would have gone a separate
Speaker 1: way and like done his own thing.
Speaker 2: But the fact that he.
Speaker 1: Stayed with you the whole time was almost like his
Speaker 1: way of being cute and it's like kind of a date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 8: You can't assume these things because you just can't assume that.
Speaker 17: I know, I'm scared of like just getting my hopes
Speaker 17: of I'm thinking that he all.
Speaker 2: Have the solution, what is it? There's a lot to
Speaker 2: carry the solution here. You know, there's a lot of
Speaker 2: pressure very much.
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I feel for you because I'm like,
Speaker 1: this better be right.
Speaker 3: It's a burden tab the solution here to carry that
Speaker 3: on these wells.
Speaker 1: So claiming go on with your solution.
Speaker 3: So didn't you just tell me that there's a friend
Speaker 3: of a boyfriend's friend friend friend. Aren't there enough people
Speaker 3: that you could go to to see if he's vibing
Speaker 3: on you, to find out sort of behind the scenes.
Speaker 9: It's actually good to do.
Speaker 17: Yeah, that's a good idea, but also I don't want
Speaker 17: everybody to.
Speaker 1: Find out I don't know the idea the right one,
Speaker 1: because they need to spread and then they can also
Speaker 1: like teasing them and it can be like a weird,
Speaker 1: annoying thing.
Speaker 2: I just said. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think a guy inviting you to the gym and
Speaker 3: then kiss you on the side of the cheek afterwards
Speaker 3: is a pretty good sign that like they're intersted, but
Speaker 3: you don't.
Speaker 17: Know for sure, Like what if you just see me
Speaker 17: as a friend?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we got to take the leap of faith
Speaker 3: here at some point, either we got to go behind
Speaker 3: the scenes or we got to go out with him.
Speaker 2: Again, how'd you leave it?
Speaker 17: We just we didn't. He just said bye to me,
Speaker 17: and then he's like, drive safe. And then another thing
Speaker 17: is like he'll always text me out of his way
Speaker 17: to tell me to drive save when we.
Speaker 2: But he does out of the friend group.
Speaker 8: We got to keep it friend group for now because
Speaker 8: the next thing, you know, she's going to be ubering
Speaker 8: to a sushi date and he's going to order tea.
Speaker 2: Okay, does he like your posts on Instagram?
Speaker 17: No, he doesn't. That's another thing that I noticed, Like
Speaker 17: he'll like and he's always so supportive about friends and
Speaker 17: like likes. I see him in all of everybody else's likes,
Speaker 17: But what about me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's playing hard to get.
Speaker 3: I think he likes you. Let's see how this plays out.
Speaker 3: You tell us about what happens in the next week
Speaker 3: or so. But I think he likes you. I like
Speaker 3: that you like him.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exciting.
Speaker 17: Yeah we love a little scary, but I'm excited.
Speaker 3: Tone, why are you not wanting her to have a crush?
Speaker 3: I feel the vibe. Don't use this energy?
Speaker 13: Little?
Speaker 1: Yeah, first of all, there's a little here. Yeah, there's
Speaker 1: a breeze coming.
Speaker 9: Cynicism I'm I want her to have a crush.
Speaker 8: I'm just saying, when you have a crush on someone
Speaker 8: and they friend zone you, it's a tough pill to swallow.
Speaker 9: So I just want her.
Speaker 3: It's also tough to not try to see if your
Speaker 3: crush has the crush on you. Yeah, how many hoods
Speaker 3: are inside that collar of your parka just one? The
Speaker 3: biggest collar I've ever seen. I can't even see you.
Speaker 1: Like twice the size of her head.
Speaker 3: Well, it is the world we live in, you are right, yea,
Speaker 3: And uh it has to do with impulse, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: Instant gratification. Instant gratification exactly, the viral products that we
Speaker 1: see when we're scrolling TikTok or Instagram and they pop
Speaker 1: up on your feed and you're like, Wow, I really
Speaker 1: do need that thing for my cabinet, or I really
Speaker 1: do need that special water bottle. It's only twenty five
Speaker 1: dollars click purchase done. But all those little purchases, whether
Speaker 1: they're ten dollars, fifteen, twenty five, forty five, they all
Speaker 1: start adding up. And the damage that you're doing to
Speaker 1: your finances throughout the year is kind of wild. So
Speaker 1: they pulled some data gen Z spends almost eight hundred
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars a year on spur of the moment
Speaker 1: impulse buys, and it's even higher for millennials. We're at
Speaker 1: over one thousand. So are you guilty of this?
Speaker 3: Well, the thing is when you're in it, I mean
Speaker 3: they always say, and I should do this just in
Speaker 3: general and life. Don't make a knee jerk decision about anything.
Speaker 3: I'm going in the moment, kind of get it done,
Speaker 3: make a decision to move on. Yes, I can't tell
Speaker 3: you how many times I'm heated about something and then
Speaker 3: I realize literally four hours from then, I don't really care. Yeah, right,
Speaker 3: like I it's just time helps and heels. But the
Speaker 3: thing is that you got to just calculate and you
Speaker 3: don't think it's look at your credit card statement. You
Speaker 3: start looking at like you don't realize how or I
Speaker 3: don't realize, like the little charges at up.
Speaker 1: It's all the little charges. And then you can go
Speaker 1: into like it's the streaming services that we all have
Speaker 1: because they don't seem like a lot. It's like twelve meters,
Speaker 1: twelve dollars here, whatever, Yeah, parking meters two dollars there,
Speaker 1: and it all starts adding up. So these impulse by
Speaker 1: imagine saving like one thousand dollars or fifteen hundred bucks
Speaker 1: a year if you just didn't buy that stuff on.
Speaker 2: Instac last impulse buy tissany.
Speaker 1: Last impulse buy Actually this hydro flask.
Speaker 2: For your water. It's good. Ye how about you, Tanya.
Speaker 8: Mine was a hat organizer for the closet that's still
Speaker 8: sitting on my desk and has not been put up
Speaker 8: in the closet.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 2: Mine was a chalkboard.
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with that chalkboard?
Speaker 2: Oh, it's great.
Speaker 3: So I it's like a little chalkboard you put on
Speaker 3: the counter and then you can write if anybody's coming
Speaker 3: for dinner, what's for dinner.
Speaker 2: So it's like a dinner party chalkboard. Oh my, So
Speaker 2: you put out there.
Speaker 3: Like that dinner menu. Yeah, for taco Tuesday, you would
Speaker 3: put chicken.
Speaker 1: That is that?
Speaker 8: That is very funny because I almost bought a mini
Speaker 8: whiteboard for the same reason. Not for the same reason,
Speaker 8: but to write Robbie's notes on in the morning. So
Speaker 8: I'm not wasting paper.
Speaker 2: For more charming Chalkboard's pretty cute. It's really cute.
Speaker 3: And they don't even come with chalk these days, to
Speaker 3: come with chalk marks.
Speaker 1: Chalk markers.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I might get that now.
Speaker 3: It's great to be very careful. I made a mistake.
Speaker 3: Make sure you look at the dimensions because the other
Speaker 3: thing I always get the wrong size. Yeah, like they
Speaker 3: all look quick, they all look human size. Then they
Speaker 3: come g I Joe size right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yes, chalkboards will throw you.
Speaker 1: So there's a few ways that you can maybe stop
Speaker 1: yourself from impulse buying. One, maybe wait a few days,
Speaker 1: see if you actually still need that product in two
Speaker 1: or three days. And then one thing I like to do,
Speaker 1: And this list is long for me. I have a
Speaker 1: wish list, so I'll be like save for later, and
Speaker 1: then I actually would go back to it and look
Speaker 1: through it, and I don't don't need any of that
Speaker 1: stuff that I've saved later.
Speaker 3: Also, don't impulse by after a glass of peano.
Speaker 1: Oh, drunk shopping no fun.
Speaker 2: It's not drunk. It's just like a glass something.
Speaker 3: They make a lot of sense. How many times have
Speaker 3: I solved problems after a glass of wine? Like you
Speaker 3: know what, how come is didn't dawn on me sooner?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And then and then you're like you brush your teeth,
Speaker 2: you getting ready to go to bed. You're like, that's dumb.
Speaker 2: I do not need I do not need that.
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