WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Lakers Jacket 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:01.480 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.680 --> 0:00:03.360 See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:07.760 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:11.720 So, Pannahama City. Hey, Serena, how are you? 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:13.360 Hi? 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:14.160 I'm doing good. 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:15.440 How are you good? 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:17.960 So explain to us what's going on in your concern 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:19.040 and how we can help. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:20.640 So. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:23.640 I saw my cousin at the grove. I was with 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:27.200 my friends. We were hanging out, and we saw that 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.280 he was holding hands with another guy, and none of 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:32.400 us had any idea that he was gay, Okay, But 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.120 when he saw us, though, he quickly let go the 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:39.760 guy's hand and he said Hi. But he obviously looks 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:43.080 so uncomfortable, and he made no effort to introduce us 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:46.919 to him. So my question is, can I let him 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.600 know that we saw and tell him that we support 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:51.720 him one hundred percent? Or should I just pretend I 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.760 never saw it and just let him come out in 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:54.800 his own time when he's. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:58.400 Comfortable he knows you saw him, right. 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:00.480 I. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:03.600 I don't think she knows that we saw him. We 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:06.480 didn't tell him, right, Okay? 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.120 Well, Serena, I mean this is you know your cousin 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:11.360 better than any of us here. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.120 And so if it were me and I. 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:17.440 Saw him, I probably wouldn't say something because there's a 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.720 reason why he hasn't said anything to me yet, right, 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:23.880 And so that's that's really what I would do in 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:25.760 that situation if it were me. 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:30.800 Yeah, Or you can just tell him that you saw him. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:33.720 Yeah, because I don't want to lie to him, and 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:36.680 you know, like I don't want to just like hide 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:39.320 the fact that I saw him holding hands with another guy. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:40.600 I want him to know that I can. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:41.160 I'm here to. 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.080 Support you exactly, So why not just talk to him? 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:45.320 That's good too. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:47.639 Yeah, yeah, No, you're. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:50.520 Right, and if he denies it, maybe that just means 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.040 that he's not ready, and then just respect that as well. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:55.600 Thank you. 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.480 Yeah, so well, thank you for reaching out to a Serena. 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.160 You have a great day, Yeah, thank you. 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:01.560 Well. 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:07.840 Okay, So I realized that my alarm clock is so jarring, 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:12.400 and I I realized if other people wake up with 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:14.000 such pleasantries, and so. 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.280 I wait, like a physical alarm clock, like one that 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:17.600 sits on your nightstand. 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:18.919 No, my phone, my iPhone is my. 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:20.720 Realize there's different tones. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.600 You can you can put the chimes on, you can 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.200 put spa music on, you know, a bunch of different stuff. 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:29.160 But here's the the cape. No, no, no, I do want 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.160 to use my phone, but I want it to wake 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:33.320 me up, so I'm nervous. I don't want to have 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.600 like a like a nice little soft thing. 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:39.480 My volumes down. I don't know something's wrong with my 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.720 volume sometimes and I barely hear. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:42.880 I have chimes, yeah, and. 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.680 I don't think the chimes would would do it to me. 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:49.000 It will, trust me. I thought the same thing. I 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.520 thought I had to have like a siren to wake 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:51.880 me up. 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:53.400 Do you want to hear? Do you want to hear? 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:53.880 What it is? 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:54.799 What is it? 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:56.000 I'll play it for you. 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:59.160 My phone also is jarring, like if the phone rings 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:00.840 in the house, it's jar ring beside the ben. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:03.680 Well, what do you have for your phone? 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:05.320 It's a ring, but it's just. 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:07.440 Like the old school sounding ring. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:12.400 Yeah, like a handheld ring. I know that's that sound, Tony, 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:16.480 I've fallen asleep. Oh gosh, no, yeah, that's the generic one. 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:22.880 Oh that's painful. That Actually, that's a bad mood every day. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.639 That's why I don't snooze, though, I believe that, because 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:27.280 that's why I don't snooze, because I just want to 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:27.760 turn it off. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:28.440 So is mine. 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.880 But I think it shocks you too much like I 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.880 feel the cortisol in my body. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.080 Right, yep, I have that one. 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:40.920 I make him like Cinderella. 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:44.320 But I still when it goes off, I go, oh, yeah, Tony, 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:46.320 we'll get into your phone and we can. You can 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:48.280 also put songs. Why don't you put a song like 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:48.680 a hook? 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:49.080 Yeah? 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:51.600 Jack Carlow, Yeah, I need. 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.960 Some spicy margarita, get them. 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:57.800 I need something because this is not working for me. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:03:58.880 Let me ask you this. 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.320 Once your alarm goes off, how quickly do you hit 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:02.920 off and then you get up right away? 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:03.760 Do you sort of lay there? 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:05.200 I get up right away. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:06.680 And Robbie just leaps through that. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:09.280 I think it probably wakes him up, though, I mean 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.720 he doesn't sure the neighbors are going to wake up 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:12.440 without alarm. 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.240 He doesn't move when that jarring sound goes on. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:17.400 No. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.000 Well, sometimes like this morning, he was like, good morning, 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:21.719 Oh yeah, is. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:22.560 His any players again? 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:22.719 Oh? 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.240 Okay, I get it. 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:30.080 Oh it's Maria carry all I want for Christmas. It's 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:35.920 the beginning. Oh right right there, that's like the song intro. Well, 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:37.720 I thought we're not supposed to use our phones while 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.200 we're on this topic, we're not supposed to use our 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.000 phones to wake up. We're supposed get an actual alarm 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:42.400 clock because the phone extra ben's. 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:42.720 Bad for you. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:46.600 I know, yes, you know what. 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:49.400 I did figure out a couple weeks ago. I did, actually, 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:50.920 even though I didn't have it this morning. I did 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.960 figure out with one of the coffee machines that I've got, 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:55.880 how to pre program it the night before, so it 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:59.000 makes coffee in the morning and it's ready. It's not 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:01.760 as good, but it makes the pot. Is there with 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:02.840 coffee in it? 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:04.120 You told us? 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:06.640 Because the beans. I like to gorind the beans so 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:08.800 the beans have that fresh flavor. Yeah, but it takes 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:09.600 so much time. 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:11.760 And now you're not even drinking the coffee. 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.760 This is literally you got to go back. I'll go 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:16.800 back to it next time. I think I've actually done 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:19.560 this too. Where whoever I'm following, I'd scroll and I 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.960 don't mean a heart, but I press too hard or 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.159 I tapped the wrong way or something like. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:25.119 Is that how it works? 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:28.040 In my case, it was in a DM and it 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.279 was a story or something, and I was like watching 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.040 stories and it was my neighbor's story and I meant 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:34.839 to just like do the hearts where it just like 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.120 does like little hearts that come up on the story 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:40.479 and for whatever reason, it sent a DM heart like 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:43.120 a fool on emoji heart in like a DM. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.320 And what message is that sending to that DM? It 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:45.680 was my. 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:48.039 Neighbor across the street who was married. Like It's like, 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:49.839 oh my god. And so then I felt like I'm 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.599 like I need to write like a whole thing. I 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:53.240 was like, oh yeah, like we went there with the 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:56.280 family and it's awesome, Like I just oh, it felt awful. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:58.960 So the thing I have in a roufine, I have 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.640 like the issue with texts. Right, I'll be doing something 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.880 fast and I have Mom in my text. Now have 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:11.000 other people's moms in my text? Okay, it's all right there, mom. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.599 And if you have other people's moms in your phone, 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:14.200 as mom. 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:17.080 I brought mom, and then the name of the person mom, 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:18.360 and then the name of the person. 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:19.000 Right. 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.000 I mean over time, you liked a lot of moms. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.480 Why don't you put like time, I don't know, why 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:27.800 don't you put they're names, not mom, because at the 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.080 time I was working fast, you know, to put them 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:32.240 in my context anyway, But I'll make mistakes like that. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.680 So Ruby, who did you accidentally heart on Instagram. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:41.440 So my phone was apparently still open on the Instagram app, 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:44.760 and it wasn't just liking the photo. It was dropping 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.480 like a red heart emoji in the comments, and it 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:52.760 was for the Valentine in the Morning Show. They posted 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.560 some like dance or something, and so I didn't even 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:59.599 realize I left the comment. I only realized it until 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.120 after they liked it, and I looked and I was 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.800 like what comment. I looked and then there was a 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:07.880 red heart emoji and I was like, oh my god. 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.320 So did you not like what you were seeing? 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.160 It just wasn't intentional, so it was it was kind 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.440 of like a random thing to drop a heart on, 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:18.760 and so I just felt so. 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:23.280 Going on over there, maybe is coming out like. 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:25.320 The laughing emoji would have been more appropriate because it 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:27.080 was like a funny day exactly. 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:29.160 But then they liked your like back your heart? 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:33.200 Was it the show's Instagram? Was it Valentine's Instagram? 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:35.960 I think it was like a joint when they collab. 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:36.840 It was like a collapse. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.600 It still that means that it was like his Instagram. 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:41.400 That's like so cringey. 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.559 Loving it right, And then it was a red heart. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.760 I use blue hearts. So that's why I was like, Wow, 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:48.800 this is how. 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.320 You do was like love. 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:53.480 It's just like it's too much in that red heart 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.080 accidental red heart moment of panning. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:56.800 Then what you do, Well, you can't delete it. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:57.760 They already liked it. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:01.360 So if this is saying that it was a mistake. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.440 I just took the l Yeah, okay. 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:07.360 Tany has that ever happened to you? 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.880 Worst things have happened to me, Like I have sent 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:15.040 I've sent you know how, Like let's say h Sysney's 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.560 story and well, I don't want to use this as 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:20.120 an example. Let's say somebody does something that's like cringey 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.679 or whatever, and you send that story to somebody else 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:24.840 and you're like, oh no, and then you end up 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:27.600 accidentally responding to theirs that happens. 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.360 So you're saying this is cringe, but you sent it 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:31.400 not to the other person. 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.000 They see you say it's cringe. Correct. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:38.080 It usually happens to people that are like not my friends, 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:38.680 like it happens. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:41.480 I'm like celebrities. I usually will send or whatever, but yeah. 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:42.720 What celebrities are cringing you? 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.000 I can't think of the top of my head. It's 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:48.880 like I do it all the time. But like, yeah, oh. 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:51.560 Well, it's an honest mistake, Ruby, but be very careful 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:54.520 when you're liking everybody else technology. 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:56.160 I guess it could have been worse, like it could 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:58.800 have been like if it i'ms down emoji or something 0:08:58.960 --> 0:08:59.959 that's true, that would. 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:00.600 Have been so bad. 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:02.439 We have an Instagram you could check out, and we 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:05.280 also have a podcast. Oh my gosh, you don't have 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.800 to go, you know, across the street. It's down the hall, 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.360 I know, but figure of speech across the street. You know, 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:12.920 sometimes morning hacks come out of the blue. But I 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:15.480 think you appreciate this one. And then the quote of 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:18.840 the day, plastic wrap. I have a drawer with wax 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:23.040 paper for pounding of meat. I have a drawer pounding 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.560 my chicken. When I pound my chicken, flap, Yeah, I 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.120 take the cleaver. So Tanya look at me confused. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:28.640 No, it's nice. 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:30.079 Yeah, I'm not a paper chef. 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.760 I don't know wax paper over the you know his 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:33.880 pound it thin. 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:35.160 Make it thin. You can make it like a million. 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:39.280 I love. If I'm gonna have chicken, I want it thin, 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:39.959 paper thin. 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:41.720 Yes, I wonder how they make it like that? 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.840 You pound it okay. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:47.840 So anyway, the drawer has all that in it, lemon 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:49.800 and foil, plastic wrap, bagg ease. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:51.000 Yeah that. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:55.199 So they say plastic wrap can be very annoying. You know, 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:58.840 it sticks to itself and frustrates you the way it 0:09:58.840 --> 0:09:59.680 comes off the roll. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:00.880 I can never get it right. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.480 You gotta get the right brand, because that's the cheap 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:03.400 brands never work. 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.880 So here's the hack. They say, keep it in the freezer. 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:10.240 The cold air makes it much easier to handle, less clinging, 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.600 So put your plastic wrap in the freezer today. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:16.360 Funny, who's gonna put their plastic wrap in the freeze? 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:17.440 I'll try it. 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.160 FM headlines with siciny Well. 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.840 US swimming star Katie Ledecki won her eighth Olympic gold 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:29.040 medal in the fifteen hundred meter freestyle. The star studied 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:33.280 US men's basketball team cruised to win as well, and 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.880 the US women's soccer team beat Australia two to one, 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:39.319 advancing now to play Japan in the quarterfinals. The president 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.800 of the University of California announced that he would step 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.280 down after five years of leading one of the nation's 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:48.360 largest public university systems. Hundreds of Taco Bell locations in 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:52.240 the US will use artificial intelligence and drive through lanes 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.080 by the end of twenty twenty four. 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:57.960 On air with the Ryan Seacrest. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.440 Alice is on the line inside. Good morning, Alice, So 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.920 you're calling you got fired? 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:08.439 I got fired? 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:19.439 Oh no, I just I made I made a mistaken. 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:21.040 But it's gonna be okay. 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.400 What kind of job were you doing again? 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:30.880 I worked at a a mental health facility of psychologists, 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:34.839 but therapists worked there, and I was a receptionist. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:40.400 What happened to Well, I don't want to know. It's okay. 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.520 You're gonna You're gonna bounce back and be great when 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:43.800 we're here for you every day. 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:47.840 When one door closes, another one opens, learning experiences all that. 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:50.880 That's why I love you guys. You guys are so 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.600 positive and that's what I need. And every time I 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.840 wake up in the morning, you guys are positive and 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:58.640 you're laughing. And I woke up this morning and I 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:00.960 needed that and you were there for me. And then 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:02.840 I called you to tell you I appreciate that. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.040 Oh that's so nice. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:08.880 Well, look, we know that with every day, every show, 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.840 every hour that this thing is on the air, somebody's 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:15.280 going through something, right, and whether it's a breakup of divorce, 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:20.880 a heartbreak, a firing, this is life and maybe it's 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:24.840 all for the greater good and the better plan in 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:25.400 the future. 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:30.040 The universe has spoken, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:33.320 And I'm looking forward to the future and I'm not 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:34.960 looking backwards. I'm looking forward. 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.320 Let's think this was for the best. Let's look through 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:41.880 that lens. And good luck to you on this next 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:44.640 chapter of your journey, Alice. 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:47.480 I appreciate it you go through those best. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:49.400 Thank you for listening to us. 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:54.720 Thank you have a good one. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:55.360 Thank you. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.800 I mean it is true, like you know, when you're 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:00.280 going through something stressful or something difficult in you and 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.520 then you see someone that you are used to seeing, 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:07.440 or you tap into your routine and your routine is 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:11.199 still there. It's like this steady it eases the pain 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.760 a little bit, or it can ease the pain a 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:13.160 little bit. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:18.760 Yeah, let's grab Sam. Hello Sam, Hi. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:21.400 Yes, So let's see if we can help out and 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.480 find out what's going on. Your manager blocked everybody on 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.880 your team from seeing your Instagram stories. 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:32.240 No, so my manager blocked everyone from seeing their Instagram story. 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:36.120 So like we can't basically blocked everyone so we can't 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:39.640 see their story at all, and we cannot see. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.079 You a manager story exactly. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.480 I can't see my manager's stories. I don't know. And 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:49.400 what happened is my manager has been so flaky lately, 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:53.360 so calling out sick, not showing up, saying they'll be 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.839 there and then never coming. So one of the new 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:00.640 members of our team wasn't blocking Instagram. We found out 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:05.319 what's going on with our manager. Our manager is vacationing, partying, 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:09.280 staying late, and those happen to be the days she'll 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.720 call out sick the next day. So my team's like 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.280 at a loss. We don't know what to do because 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:16.360 it's affecting all of our work and now we know why, 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:17.800 but we don't know how to handle it. 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:20.520 Or well, why does the new hire have access to 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:21.640 your manager's stories? 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:25.600 She must not have blocked them because they weren't on 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:26.880 our team when she went up through. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:30.960 Okay, that's how you know what's happening. Okay, now it's 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:39.960 all adding up. Well, who's the leader of the team. 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:38.840 As far as I mean, like, the manager is the 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:41.240 main one in charge. We of course have a boss 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:44.760 over everyone, but the manager's in charge of us, so. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:46.800 Right, but there's got to be a leader of the 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.080 team that's underneath the manager. Because here's my thinking. My 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.000 thinking is if it's affecting the team's work, and ultimately 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.320 that's what a team is on a team for to 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:59.320 be productive, it's going to affect the manager's productivity and 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:03.680 they're reputation at work too. So I wouldn't address what 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.200 your manager is doing outside of work. I'd address what 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.000 your manager is not getting done with the team inside 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:12.000 of work, because it's holding everybody back. And that's just 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:16.000 a results oriented conversation. It's not personal, it's professional. 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:19.920 Yeah, right, So you think we should go to the 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.160 manager directly and just talk work only, noting up. 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:26.040 You just say, like the ball is being dropped. Here's 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:29.040 what we're missing. We're not getting answers, things aren't moving along. 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:30.680 This is a problem like just affecting all of us 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:34.240 as a team. We want to be results oriented, solutions oriented, 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:35.560 but we got to be productive and we've got to 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.480 get things done. And for some reason, it's not let 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.640 them manager, you have a chance to apologize or or 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:42.760 you know, fess up to what's going on. But the 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:46.680 results at work or a product of whatever's happening. You 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:50.240 still need to talk about your manager doing what they're doing. 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:51.760 It's like what they're not doing at work? Do you 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:52.440 see what I'm saying? 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.280 Yeah, yeah, what do you think? 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.080 I think so true. I think you go to the 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:00.360 professional round because then it seems less gossipy and you're 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.880 you know, you're not getting involved in the personal life, 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.160 you're just going straight. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:07.440 Professional and the new hires watching it all. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:09.040 I kind of like that. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.720 They've screen recorded it, so we've all. 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:17.280 Now it's getting messy, so dark. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:21.160 I think I would address the issues at work which 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:23.680 are the product of what you've seen in the video. 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:25.040 Thanks Sam for calling. 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:30.800 Thank you. Okay, well, definitely sure. We will definitely go 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.760 about doing that way because you didn't really want to 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.280 go over anyone's head, you know, so we didn't know 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:37.400 how to handle it the team. 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.160 I got it. I appreciate you reaching out just to 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.120 chat with us about it. It's very nice. Thanks for listening. 0:16:42.480 --> 0:16:43.160 Yeah, thank you. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.880 Right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM. I 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:50.480 want to get to Ryan's roses right now. Dear Ryan 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:53.680 and Sisiny. My husband has a super unique leather Lakers jacket. 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:56.840 I've never seen it anywhere on anyone else. It is 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:59.520 a one of a kind jacket. I was driving down 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.240 Imperial Highway and saw him coming out of a motel. 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.639 I could not stop, so I called him on his 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:09.080 cell phone. It was straight to voicemail. I then confronted him. 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:12.320 He said it wasn't him. She says, I know it 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:14.879 was him. Actually, have a picture of the jagged let 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:17.879 me bring in Rachel. Rachel, thanks for coming on, just 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:19.520 to know a little bit about this jacket. Where did 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:21.119 it come from? Why is it so unique? 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.959 I see it. I'm looking at a photo of it. 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:26.680 Yeah, so he got it at like some sort of 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:31.080 thrift shop, like a long time ago. So there's there's 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:32.800 no one else who has this one. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:36.520 And what were you doing in the area where you 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:37.120 saw him? 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:41.800 So I had just been running some errands, but I 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.000