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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: So, Pannahama City. Hey, Serena, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing good.

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Speaker 5: How are you good?

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Speaker 3: So explain to us what's going on in your concern

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Speaker 3: and how we can help.

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 6: I saw my cousin at the grove. I was with

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Speaker 6: my friends. We were hanging out, and we saw that

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Speaker 6: he was holding hands with another guy, and none of

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Speaker 6: us had any idea that he was gay, Okay, But

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Speaker 6: when he saw us, though, he quickly let go the

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Speaker 6: guy's hand and he said Hi. But he obviously looks

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Speaker 6: so uncomfortable, and he made no effort to introduce us

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Speaker 6: to him. So my question is, can I let him

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Speaker 6: know that we saw and tell him that we support

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Speaker 6: him one hundred percent? Or should I just pretend I

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Speaker 6: never saw it and just let him come out in

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Speaker 6: his own time when he's.

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Speaker 2: Comfortable he knows you saw him, right.

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Speaker 5: I.

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Speaker 6: I don't think she knows that we saw him. We

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Speaker 6: didn't tell him, right, Okay?

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Speaker 3: Well, Serena, I mean this is you know your cousin

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Speaker 3: better than any of us here.

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Speaker 2: And so if it were me and I.

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Speaker 3: Saw him, I probably wouldn't say something because there's a

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Speaker 3: reason why he hasn't said anything to me yet, right,

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Speaker 3: And so that's that's really what I would do in

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Speaker 3: that situation if it were me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Or you can just tell him that you saw him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I don't want to lie to him, and

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Speaker 6: you know, like I don't want to just like hide

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Speaker 6: the fact that I saw him holding hands with another guy.

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Speaker 6: I want him to know that I can.

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Speaker 5: I'm here to.

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Speaker 1: Support you exactly, So why not just talk to him?

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Speaker 2: That's good too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, No, you're.

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Speaker 1: Right, and if he denies it, maybe that just means

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Speaker 1: that he's not ready, and then just respect that as well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so well, thank you for reaching out to a Serena.

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Speaker 2: You have a great day, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 7: Well.

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Speaker 8: Okay, So I realized that my alarm clock is so jarring,

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Speaker 8: and I I realized if other people wake up with

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Speaker 8: such pleasantries, and so.

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Speaker 1: I wait, like a physical alarm clock, like one that

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Speaker 1: sits on your nightstand.

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Speaker 9: No, my phone, my iPhone is my.

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Speaker 1: Realize there's different tones.

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Speaker 3: You can you can put the chimes on, you can

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Speaker 3: put spa music on, you know, a bunch of different stuff.

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Speaker 8: But here's the the cape. No, no, no, I do want

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Speaker 8: to use my phone, but I want it to wake

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Speaker 8: me up, so I'm nervous. I don't want to have

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Speaker 8: like a like a nice little soft thing.

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Speaker 3: My volumes down. I don't know something's wrong with my

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Speaker 3: volume sometimes and I barely hear.

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Speaker 2: I have chimes, yeah, and.

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Speaker 9: I don't think the chimes would would do it to me.

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Speaker 1: It will, trust me. I thought the same thing. I

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Speaker 1: thought I had to have like a siren to wake

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Speaker 9: Do you want to hear? Do you want to hear?

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Speaker 5: What it is?

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 9: I'll play it for you.

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Speaker 3: My phone also is jarring, like if the phone rings

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Speaker 3: in the house, it's jar ring beside the ben.

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Speaker 1: Well, what do you have for your phone?

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Speaker 2: It's a ring, but it's just.

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Speaker 1: Like the old school sounding ring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a handheld ring. I know that's that sound, Tony,

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Speaker 2: I've fallen asleep. Oh gosh, no, yeah, that's the generic one.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's painful. That Actually, that's a bad mood every day.

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Speaker 8: That's why I don't snooze, though, I believe that, because

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Speaker 8: that's why I don't snooze, because I just want to

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Speaker 8: turn it off.

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Speaker 9: So is mine.

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Speaker 3: But I think it shocks you too much like I

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Speaker 3: feel the cortisol in my body.

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Speaker 2: Right, yep, I have that one.

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Speaker 1: I make him like Cinderella.

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Speaker 3: But I still when it goes off, I go, oh, yeah, Tony,

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Speaker 3: we'll get into your phone and we can. You can

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Speaker 3: also put songs. Why don't you put a song like

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Speaker 3: a hook?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Jack Carlow, Yeah, I need.

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Speaker 2: Some spicy margarita, get them.

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Speaker 8: I need something because this is not working for me.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you this.

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Speaker 3: Once your alarm goes off, how quickly do you hit

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Speaker 3: off and then you get up right away?

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Speaker 2: Do you sort of lay there?

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Speaker 9: I get up right away.

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Speaker 2: And Robbie just leaps through that.

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Speaker 8: I think it probably wakes him up, though, I mean

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Speaker 8: he doesn't sure the neighbors are going to wake up

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Speaker 8: without alarm.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't move when that jarring sound goes on.

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Speaker 10: No.

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Speaker 8: Well, sometimes like this morning, he was like, good morning,

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, is.

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Speaker 2: His any players again?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I get it.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's Maria carry all I want for Christmas. It's

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Speaker 3: the beginning. Oh right right there, that's like the song intro. Well,

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Speaker 3: I thought we're not supposed to use our phones while

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Speaker 3: we're on this topic, we're not supposed to use our

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Speaker 3: phones to wake up. We're supposed get an actual alarm

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Speaker 3: clock because the phone extra ben's.

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Speaker 2: Bad for you.

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Speaker 9: I know, yes, you know what.

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Speaker 3: I did figure out a couple weeks ago. I did, actually,

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Speaker 3: even though I didn't have it this morning. I did

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Speaker 3: figure out with one of the coffee machines that I've got,

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Speaker 3: how to pre program it the night before, so it

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Speaker 3: makes coffee in the morning and it's ready. It's not

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Speaker 3: as good, but it makes the pot. Is there with

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Speaker 1: You told us?

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Speaker 3: Because the beans. I like to gorind the beans so

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Speaker 3: the beans have that fresh flavor. Yeah, but it takes

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Speaker 3: so much time.

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Speaker 1: And now you're not even drinking the coffee.

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Speaker 3: This is literally you got to go back. I'll go

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Speaker 3: back to it next time. I think I've actually done

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Speaker 3: this too. Where whoever I'm following, I'd scroll and I

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Speaker 3: don't mean a heart, but I press too hard or

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Speaker 3: I tapped the wrong way or something like.

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Speaker 2: Is that how it works?

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Speaker 1: In my case, it was in a DM and it

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Speaker 1: was a story or something, and I was like watching

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Speaker 1: stories and it was my neighbor's story and I meant

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Speaker 1: to just like do the hearts where it just like

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Speaker 1: does like little hearts that come up on the story

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Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, it sent a DM heart like

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Speaker 1: a fool on emoji heart in like a DM.

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Speaker 2: And what message is that sending to that DM? It

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Speaker 2: was my.

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Speaker 1: Neighbor across the street who was married. Like It's like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. And so then I felt like I'm

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Speaker 1: like I need to write like a whole thing. I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, like we went there with the

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Speaker 1: family and it's awesome, Like I just oh, it felt awful.

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Speaker 3: So the thing I have in a roufine, I have

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Speaker 3: like the issue with texts. Right, I'll be doing something

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Speaker 3: fast and I have Mom in my text. Now have

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Speaker 3: other people's moms in my text? Okay, it's all right there, mom.

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Speaker 9: And if you have other people's moms in your phone,

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Speaker 9: as mom.

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Speaker 3: I brought mom, and then the name of the person mom,

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Speaker 3: and then the name of the person.

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 2: I mean over time, you liked a lot of moms.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you put like time, I don't know, why

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Speaker 1: don't you put they're names, not mom, because at the

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Speaker 1: time I was working fast, you know, to put them

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Speaker 1: in my context anyway, But I'll make mistakes like that.

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Speaker 3: So Ruby, who did you accidentally heart on Instagram.

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Speaker 10: So my phone was apparently still open on the Instagram app,

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Speaker 10: and it wasn't just liking the photo. It was dropping

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Speaker 10: like a red heart emoji in the comments, and it

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Speaker 10: was for the Valentine in the Morning Show. They posted

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Speaker 10: some like dance or something, and so I didn't even

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Speaker 10: realize I left the comment. I only realized it until

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Speaker 10: after they liked it, and I looked and I was

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Speaker 10: like what comment. I looked and then there was a

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Speaker 10: red heart emoji and I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So did you not like what you were seeing?

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Speaker 10: It just wasn't intentional, so it was it was kind

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Speaker 10: and so I just felt so.

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Speaker 2: Going on over there, maybe is coming out like.

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Speaker 8: The laughing emoji would have been more appropriate because it

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Speaker 8: was like a funny day exactly.

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Speaker 2: But then they liked your like back your heart?

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Speaker 1: Was it the show's Instagram? Was it Valentine's Instagram?

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Speaker 10: I think it was like a joint when they collab.

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Speaker 2: It was like a collapse.

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Speaker 1: It still that means that it was like his Instagram.

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Speaker 1: That's like so cringey.

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Speaker 9: Loving it right, And then it was a red heart.

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Speaker 9: I use blue hearts. So that's why I was like, Wow,

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Speaker 9: this is how.

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Speaker 2: You do was like love.

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Speaker 3: It's just like it's too much in that red heart

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Speaker 3: accidental red heart moment of panning.

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Speaker 2: Then what you do, Well, you can't delete it.

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Speaker 9: They already liked it.

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Speaker 2: So if this is saying that it was a mistake.

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Speaker 9: I just took the l Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: Tany has that ever happened to you?

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Speaker 8: Worst things have happened to me, Like I have sent

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Speaker 8: I've sent you know how, Like let's say h Sysney's

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Speaker 8: story and well, I don't want to use this as

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Speaker 8: an example. Let's say somebody does something that's like cringey

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Speaker 8: or whatever, and you send that story to somebody else

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Speaker 8: and you're like, oh no, and then you end up

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Speaker 8: accidentally responding to theirs that happens.

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Speaker 3: So you're saying this is cringe, but you sent it

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Speaker 3: not to the other person.

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Speaker 2: They see you say it's cringe. Correct.

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Speaker 8: It usually happens to people that are like not my friends,

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Speaker 8: like it happens.

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Speaker 9: I'm like celebrities. I usually will send or whatever, but yeah.

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Speaker 2: What celebrities are cringing you?

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Speaker 8: I can't think of the top of my head. It's

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Speaker 8: like I do it all the time. But like, yeah, oh.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's an honest mistake, Ruby, but be very careful

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Speaker 3: when you're liking everybody else technology.

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Speaker 10: I guess it could have been worse, like it could

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Speaker 10: have been like if it i'ms down emoji or something

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Speaker 10: that's true, that would.

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Speaker 9: Have been so bad.

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Speaker 3: We have an Instagram you could check out, and we

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Speaker 3: also have a podcast. Oh my gosh, you don't have

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Speaker 3: to go, you know, across the street. It's down the hall,

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Speaker 11: Oh no, I just I made I made a mistaken.

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Speaker 3: It's like what they're not doing at work? Do you

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Speaker 3: Right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM. I

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Speaker 3: All right, So if we put she and two together,

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Speaker 13: Well, yes, because there's more. So that night I did

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we are going to Rachel and Santa

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Speaker 3: Fe Springs. How long you been married.

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Speaker 13: We've been married five years.

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Speaker 3: I need you to say, Ryan, you my permission to call,

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Speaker 13: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call on

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Speaker 2: We're going to do that.

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Speaker 3: Now, be very quiet until we find out who he

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Rachel, thank you? Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is Josh.

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Speaker 1: Hi Josh, my name is Emily. I'm calling from Santa

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Speaker 1: Fe Springs Flowers. How are you doing this morning? I'm fine,

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Speaker 1: I'm good. Thank you for asking. Actually, we're doing a

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Speaker 1: Is that something you'd be interested in?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really understand. I get free roses.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a dozen red roses and we do this

449
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Speaker 1: promotion about once a month. Today you've been selected, so

450
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:15,919
Speaker 1: we just need the name of the person you want

451
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Speaker 1: to send them to in a note.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but why did my number come up?

453
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Speaker 1: You may purchase something online in the past eighteen months

454
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Speaker 1: and selected to receive promotional offers from local vendors. That's

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Speaker 1: how we get our database.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah, whatever, that's cool, sounds good.

457
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Speaker 1: Great. Who would you like to send roses to?

458
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Speaker 5: I would like to send them to my wife Rachel.

459
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Speaker 1: Right, and what would you like to put on the Card's.

460
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Speaker 5: Just say I love you so much and I know

461
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Speaker 5: you're going to be the best mom ever.

462
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Speaker 3: Okay, Josh, your voice would be broadcast on the radio. Congratulations,

463
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Speaker 3: we have your wife Rachel on the line.

464
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Speaker 2: Are you expecting, Rachel.

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Speaker 13: Yes, this is going to be our first child.

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Speaker 2: That's great. Well here we are, Josh. Good news.

467
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Speaker 3: Congratulations. Just stay on the phone with this. Your voice

468
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Speaker 3: is being broadcast. Rachel reached out to us because she

469
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Speaker 3: was concerned. She thinks she spotted you coming out of

470
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Speaker 3: a motel with another woman. When I say the name Carly,

471
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Speaker 3: what do you think about.

472
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Speaker 5: Carly? Like, I mean, I have a friend named Carly,

473
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Speaker 5: But that's what do I think about? Like? Why I

474
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Speaker 5: don't I don't understand.

475
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Speaker 3: She believes that you are cheating on her with Carly.

476
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Speaker 3: You were at the motel. She's seen text messages. What's

477
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Speaker 3: going on?

478
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Speaker 2: Josh?

479
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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 5: No? No, absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with Carly?

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Speaker 5: Look? This is it about Carl? Okay? Carly is Todd's wife.

483
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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, why were you in a motel with her?

484
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Speaker 5: I wasn't in the motel. Okay, that wasn't me.

485
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Speaker 3: Okay, do you have a Laker's jacket? It's all kinds

486
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Speaker 3: of patchwork on it. And do you have a thigh

487
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Speaker 3: that's tattooed?

488
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Speaker 5: Yes, I got it Ultra. Yeah, I mean that's me.

489
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Speaker 5: But that wasn't me at the motel.

490
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Speaker 2: I'm just looking a picture of you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe he wasn't drinking the mankel of Ultra coming

492
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Speaker 1: out of the motown.

493
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Speaker 3: Well, I just gonna make sure I'm talking about the

494
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Speaker 3: same gun. I got a photo that Rachel sent to

495
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Speaker 3: me of him in the jacket, and he's got it's

496
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Speaker 3: a very unique. I've never seen a Laker jacket like that.

497
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Speaker 3: I mean it's a hodgepodge of different things on the jacket.

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Speaker 2: So, Rachel, what do you think? I mean?

499
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Speaker 3: Ray, you you told me, Rachel, no one else has

500
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Speaker 3: that jacket. You're sure it was him, but he denies it.

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Speaker 13: Well, I'm just I'm starting to get a little confused

502
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Speaker 13: because if Carly is Todd's wife, like he said, I

503
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Speaker 13: know who Todd is.

504
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Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, okay, so what do you We're out a lot.

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Speaker 3: What do you make of it? Do you think he's

506
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Speaker 3: lying to you? Do you think it was him at

507
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Speaker 3: the motel? Do you think he's with Todd's wife? What

508
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Speaker 3: do you think?

509
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Speaker 11: Well?

510
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Speaker 13: I guess just Josh, why are you texting Carly? Like?

511
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Speaker 13: I just explain that?

512
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Speaker 5: So I text Carly every year because she's Tod's wife.

513
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Speaker 5: Todd's my friend who passed away, and every year on

514
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Speaker 5: his birthday and on the anniversary he dies, and on

515
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Speaker 5: their wedding anniversary. Any day that I know that she's struggling,

516
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Speaker 5: I check in.

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Speaker 1: How come you don't communicate this to your wife so

518
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Speaker 1: that she's aware that you do this?

519
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Speaker 5: What? How am I the one who left to commune?

520
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 5: This should be obvious. I'm just checking in with one

521
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Speaker 5: of my best friends is widow. And I don't understand

522
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Speaker 5: why you would assume that I would.

523
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Speaker 3: Josh, you, Josh, were you at this motel on Impire Highway?

524
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Speaker 11: No?

525
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Speaker 5: I was not on the hotel and a pel highway.

526
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Speaker 5: So jacket is amazing people have that.

527
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Speaker 2: So Rachel, is it possible that someone else has the jacket?

528
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Speaker 15: But look, I said, Rachel, I said, you you're you're

529
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Speaker 15: looking at my baby.

530
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Speaker 5: I love you so much.

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Speaker 15: I literally just check in with Carly because I know

532
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Speaker 15: how big of a loss losing Todd was. And and

533
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Speaker 15: that jacket, you guys call it gross. It's an amazing jacket.

534
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Speaker 5: People have that.

535
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Speaker 2: No gros, No, it's got luck going on. Who said gross?

536
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Speaker 2: Nobody said that.

537
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Speaker 1: Well, he's a hodgepodget design.

538
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 2: Well, hodgepodge. It's got a bunch of different.

539
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Speaker 9: Patchwork on, like patch podge, mosaic.

540
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Speaker 2: Yeah, mosaic patches.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, listen, Rachel, Josh were we are not going to

542
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Speaker 3: go further here, Rachel, We've done everything we can. I

543
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Speaker 3: I don't know, Josh, I don't know Todd's widow situation.

544
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Speaker 3: We're gonna let it go at that. I mean, you've

545
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Speaker 3: gotten a lot of raw feedback here, and we wish

546
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Speaker 3: you the best of luck. I honestly, I don't know

547
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 3: what to think. Here's the short Rachel and her husband Josh.

548
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 3: She thinks she saw him come out of a motel.

549
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 3: He says it wasn't me. I know it was the

550
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Speaker 3: jacket that I have, but it wasn't me. And then

551
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Speaker 3: he's texting this woman named Carly, who's Todd's wife. Well,

552
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Speaker 3: Todd passed away. He texts Carly on birthday and anniversary

553
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Speaker 3: to check in with her. All sounds legit and good

554
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Speaker 3: to me, and we didn't really take it much further

555
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Speaker 3: than that. But after hearing it, do you, I mean,

556
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Speaker 3: do you believe him or not?

557
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Speaker 1: I don't believe him. I do you don't believe him?

558
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Speaker 1: Initially he was stuttering a lot for me, which made

559
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Speaker 1: me be like, Okay, you're lying, But I think that

560
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Speaker 1: was just because we caught him off guard and he

561
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Speaker 1: he was trying to just defend himself because he was like,

562
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Speaker 1: what is happening right now? And I think it checks out.

563
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Speaker 1: I think I do believe him.

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Speaker 2: I believe him too. Alexis what do you think you

565
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Speaker 2: heard it?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, I believe him too. You know I when I

568
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Speaker 16: was pregnant, even at the beginning of my pregnancy, I

569
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Speaker 16: was very hormonal, so you know, she says, maybe just

570
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Speaker 16: a little insecure and little.

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Speaker 7: Worrysomes, but I believe him. And you know your body

572
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Speaker 7: when you're pregnant, you're extremely like so, you know, conscious,

573
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Speaker 7: and you don't think feels beautiful. So maybe that's what's

574
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Speaker 7: going on. Maybe he should do something more romantic for

575
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Speaker 7: her or take her out. You know something nice.

576
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Speaker 1: It is true rain does crazy things on you when

577
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Speaker 1: you're pregnant, and you even like dream about exes and stuff.

578
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Speaker 3: All right, well, thank you Alexis for listening to that.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate you calling in with your feedback. We're all

580
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Speaker 3: on the same page on this one.

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Speaker 2: All right.

582
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Speaker 3: So are you somebody that every day, every evening, maybe

583
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Speaker 3: in the morning, you don't sit on your couch. You

584
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Speaker 3: just get down on your floor. I guess that's more

585
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Speaker 3: common than we originally thought. This is something that's coming

586
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Speaker 3: out of TikTok. It's called floor time.

587
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

588
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Speaker 1: Yeah, TikTok is all about floor time right now, and

589
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Speaker 1: it's the go to move for anybody who's feeling stress

590
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: or if you're just feeling overwhelmed, maybe even sad. Think

591
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Speaker 1: about like after a breakup.

592
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, for some reason.

593
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: Remember like you watch movies and they're always on the ground,

594
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: like listening to music or whatever. After a long day.

595
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: Floor time. If you're in a bad mood, floor time

596
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: Apparently it's like the ultimate grounding. So you know how

597
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Speaker 1: like if you're trying to wake up every day and

598
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: put your feet on the earth and actually be grounded

599
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Speaker 1: with the earth. If you actually put your whole body

600
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Speaker 1: and lay on the floor, it does something to you.

601
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Speaker 3: Do you have to do it naked to connect with

602
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Speaker 3: the earth or you can get dressed?

603
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Speaker 8: Now?

604
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Speaker 1: What to each their own?

605
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 3: That's what If you're down on like a natural material.

606
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Speaker 1: If that's what makes you feel good.

607
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,959
Speaker 2: Why are you laying there? Well? So I don't mean

608
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: for you to have to step over me right now.

609
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Speaker 1: Taylor, of course, is somebody that brought this to our attention,

610
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: lying on the cold, hard ground from I knew you

611
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: were trouble. And for adults, it's apparently extra soothing because

612
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Speaker 1: it brings and if it's similar to a more intentional

613
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: practice that you do right after like a yoga class,

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Speaker 1: where you're done with the class.

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Speaker 9: And then you just lay there.

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Speaker 2: Hey, can I ask you.

617
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Speaker 3: A question about that moment? After I take my sporadic

618
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 3: yoga classes. Am I the only one that keeps looking

619
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Speaker 3: like opening their eyes to see when we can get up?

620
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 2: No?

621
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Speaker 1: You're not. I do the same thing.

622
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Speaker 2: I'm like, how long do.

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Speaker 9: They tell you when you But.

624
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Speaker 3: I often just sort of quickly open my eyes and

625
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 3: get caught staring, you know, like, hey, it is it?

626
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Speaker 2: Can we is it? Time, and there's people.

627
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Speaker 14: That don't do that part. They just get up and

628
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 14: leave early. Yeah, well they're more impatient than I am,

629
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Speaker 14: and that's rare. I was just thinking about this, so

630
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Speaker 14: I tried it this morning.

631
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Speaker 9: Huh.

632
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Speaker 3: It is interesting because it gives you a totally different perspective.

633
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 3: You're looking at the ceiling. There's a there's a calming

634
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Speaker 3: thing to it. The other thing that I don't know.

635
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Speaker 3: If you don't sleep well, try this tonight, tomorrow, whatever

636
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 3: this weekend. Instead of putting your at the headboard, put

637
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Speaker 3: your head at the footboard. Sleep down there by your

638
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: partner's feet. Let me know how that goes.

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Speaker 9: I don't want to do that. I don't want to

640
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Speaker 9: do that either.

641
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 3: Why I have a buddy that does it, and he

642
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: says it makes him sleep so much better. He showed me,

643
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Speaker 3: he showed me how you do it. You basically you

644
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Speaker 3: flip around and put your head down on the other

645
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Speaker 3: side and it just changes your perspective and for some

646
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Speaker 3: it makes them sleep better.

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Speaker 8: But then I think your partner has just to flip

648
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Speaker 8: flop too, because then you're taking the sheets and putting

649
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 8: them over your head, so then it's probably not going

650
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Speaker 8: to cover your partner's feet and vice versa.

651
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Speaker 2: You can you can manage that.

652
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Speaker 3: And also there's less bodied volume with feet than there

653
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Speaker 3: is head and breathing, so it can be more comfortable

654
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Speaker 3: if you don't like being breathed on.

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Speaker 1: If I got slapped in the face by Michael's foot

656
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Speaker 1: in the middle of the night, that would ruin my day.

657
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Speaker 2: You see, aren't going to go sideways?

658
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Speaker 1: No, I don't know.

659
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Speaker 2: You mean because he kicks heat? Does he kick out?

660
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Speaker 16: Yeah?

661
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Speaker 1: Or like you know, he does like the knee up

662
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Speaker 1: and takes up. I swear he's in the middle of

663
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Speaker 1: the bed sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I sleep like your husband. It doesn't like a triangle.

665
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Speaker 1: Knee yes, And then he hugs a pillow too.

666
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Speaker 2: Me literally be sleeping twins.

667
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Speaker 3: We lie so well together because did you think of

668
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Speaker 3: the configuration?

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Speaker 2: It's perfect?

670
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 3: Good to go, all right, everybody's all just giddy over

671
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 3: there in the back room.

672
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 2: Have you heard? Have you heard? If you just got here,

673
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if you know.

674
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 3: Uh, Marianna has come in saying and she came in

675
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 3: early mark today.

676
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: Thank you?

677
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 3: Why I have to throw under the bus. I thought

678
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 3: it was early. Now is right on time?

679
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 5: Almost late?

680
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 3: Basically saying almost late. So you came in and you

681
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 3: said you have a crush on a guy?

682
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,719
Speaker 17: Yeah, I was talking to the girls back here. I

683
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 17: think I have a crush on someone.

684
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 2: This what do you think? Or do you no?

685
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 17: I think I do, I just don't want.

686
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: To admit it.

687
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 3: Well is this how do you even start with? Who's

688
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 3: the guy? I guess that's the first question.

689
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 16: Yeah.

690
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 17: So he's just a guy in the friend group, like

691
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 17: my friend's boyfriend's friends, and he's always around.

692
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 3: How long has he always been around for like a

693
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 3: year or so? And have you ever thought about hanging

694
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: out with him?

695
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 2: Well?

696
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 17: I always thought he was cute, but it was like okay,

697
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 17: Like I never really talked to him that much.

698
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: So and so what changed? Why'd you talk to him

699
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 2: all the sun?

700
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 17: Because we already went out a couple of times, and

701
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 17: this last time that we went out, he invited me

702
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 17: to go to the gym with him, and I don't

703
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 17: know if he like heard me, but I was like, oh, yeah,

704
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 17: I'm gonna leave because I'm gonna go to the gym soon.

705
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 17: And then later that he was after that, he was like, oh,

706
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 17: are you going to go to the gym or did

707
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 17: you go to the gym, Marty, and I was like, oh,

708
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 17: I'm gonna leave right now, and he was like, we

709
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 17: should just gym together.

710
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, Jim a verb. Was this

711
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: your first time hanging out together alone?

712
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,239
Speaker 17: No, we had already done that before, like hung out

713
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 17: a couple of times. But it's always only after we

714
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 17: hang out with the friend group. So he's like never

715
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 17: like reached out aside from hanging out with the friend group.

716
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 17: It's always after we hang out with the friend group.

717
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: Here's what I need to understand.

718
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: What makes the difference, What crosses the line, what opens

719
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 3: the door to come the crush?

720
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: What did he do to green light a crush?

721
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 17: Well, he'll do certain things like the other day. I

722
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 17: don't know if he really means to, like give me

723
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 17: a kiss on the cheek, but it's not like his

724
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 17: full lips on the cheek. He'll just do like the

725
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 17: little you know, like you know, and then he'll say that.

726
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeah the side hello, yeah.

727
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 17: But when he looked like a French hello yeah time

728
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 17: hello exactly. But when he was saying bye to everybody else,

729
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 17: I noticed that he didn't do that to everyone else.

730
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh, so you don't know if it's romantic.

731
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 17: Yeah, I'm not knowing if it's romantic, Like do you

732
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 17: see me as a friend or do you also like me?

733
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 9: Oh that's the worst.

734
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think these signs indicate like but he doesn't

735
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: know if you like him.

736
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 5: Yeah.

737
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: I think you guys are both thinking you're in the

738
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: friend zone when in reality you both just.

739
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: Want to did you do the same workout?

740
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 13: Do?

741
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 5: What?

742
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 2: Did you do the same workout? Yeah?

743
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 17: He was like showing me how to do these little workouts.

744
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 17: I'm like running out of breath. I'm like, all right, hold.

745
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: On, okay, it's so cute. So it wasn't okay, here's

746
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: here's how you know, because if you guys would have

747
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: gone to the gym, he would have gone a separate

748
00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: way and like done his own thing.

749
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 2: But the fact that he.

750
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,719
Speaker 1: Stayed with you the whole time was almost like his

751
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: way of being cute and it's like kind of a date.

752
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.

753
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 8: You can't assume these things because you just can't assume that.

754
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 17: I know, I'm scared of like just getting my hopes

755
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 17: of I'm thinking that he all.

756
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 2: Have the solution, what is it? There's a lot to

757
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: carry the solution here. You know, there's a lot of

758
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: pressure very much.

759
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I feel for you because I'm like,

760
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: this better be right.

761
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 3: It's a burden tab the solution here to carry that

762
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: on these wells.

763
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: So claiming go on with your solution.

764
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: So didn't you just tell me that there's a friend

765
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 3: of a boyfriend's friend friend friend. Aren't there enough people

766
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,479
Speaker 3: that you could go to to see if he's vibing

767
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 3: on you, to find out sort of behind the scenes.

768
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 9: It's actually good to do.

769
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 17: Yeah, that's a good idea, but also I don't want

770
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 17: everybody to.

771
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: Find out I don't know the idea the right one,

772
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: because they need to spread and then they can also

773
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: like teasing them and it can be like a weird,

774
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: annoying thing.

775
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: I just said. I don't know.

776
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 3: I think a guy inviting you to the gym and

777
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 3: then kiss you on the side of the cheek afterwards

778
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 3: is a pretty good sign that like they're intersted, but

779
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 3: you don't.

780
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 17: Know for sure, Like what if you just see me

781
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 17: as a friend?

782
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we got to take the leap of faith

783
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 3: here at some point, either we got to go behind

784
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 3: the scenes or we got to go out with him.

785
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 2: Again, how'd you leave it?

786
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 17: We just we didn't. He just said bye to me,

787
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 17: and then he's like, drive safe. And then another thing

788
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 17: is like he'll always text me out of his way

789
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 17: to tell me to drive save when we.

790
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: But he does out of the friend group.

791
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 8: We got to keep it friend group for now because

792
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 8: the next thing, you know, she's going to be ubering

793
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 8: to a sushi date and he's going to order tea.

794
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: Okay, does he like your posts on Instagram?

795
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 17: No, he doesn't. That's another thing that I noticed, Like

796
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 17: he'll like and he's always so supportive about friends and

797
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 17: like likes. I see him in all of everybody else's likes,

798
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 17: But what about me?

799
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's playing hard to get.

800
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: I think he likes you. Let's see how this plays out.

801
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: You tell us about what happens in the next week

802
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 3: or so. But I think he likes you. I like

803
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 3: that you like him.

804
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: I know.

805
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exciting.

806
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 17: Yeah we love a little scary, but I'm excited.

807
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 3: Tone, why are you not wanting her to have a crush?

808
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:00,959
Speaker 3: I feel the vibe. Don't use this energy?

809
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 13: Little?

810
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, first of all, there's a little here. Yeah, there's

811
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: a breeze coming.

812
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 9: Cynicism I'm I want her to have a crush.

813
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 8: I'm just saying, when you have a crush on someone

814
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 8: and they friend zone you, it's a tough pill to swallow.

815
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 9: So I just want her.

816
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: It's also tough to not try to see if your

817
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 3: crush has the crush on you. Yeah, how many hoods

818
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 3: are inside that collar of your parka just one? The

819
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 3: biggest collar I've ever seen. I can't even see you.

820
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: Like twice the size of her head.

821
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 3: Well, it is the world we live in, you are right, yea,

822
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 3: And uh it has to do with impulse, doesn't it.

823
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: Instant gratification. Instant gratification exactly, the viral products that we

824
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: see when we're scrolling TikTok or Instagram and they pop

825
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 1: up on your feed and you're like, Wow, I really

826
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 1: do need that thing for my cabinet, or I really

827
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: do need that special water bottle. It's only twenty five

828
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: dollars click purchase done. But all those little purchases, whether

829
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: they're ten dollars, fifteen, twenty five, forty five, they all

830
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: start adding up. And the damage that you're doing to

831
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: your finances throughout the year is kind of wild. So

832
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: they pulled some data gen Z spends almost eight hundred

833
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars a year on spur of the moment

834
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 1: impulse buys, and it's even higher for millennials. We're at

835
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: over one thousand. So are you guilty of this?

836
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 3: Well, the thing is when you're in it, I mean

837
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: they always say, and I should do this just in

838
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,760
Speaker 3: general and life. Don't make a knee jerk decision about anything.

839
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 3: I'm going in the moment, kind of get it done,

840
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: make a decision to move on. Yes, I can't tell

841
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: you how many times I'm heated about something and then

842
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 3: I realize literally four hours from then, I don't really care. Yeah, right,

843
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 3: like I it's just time helps and heels. But the

844
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 3: thing is that you got to just calculate and you

845
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 3: don't think it's look at your credit card statement. You

846
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 3: start looking at like you don't realize how or I

847
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 3: don't realize, like the little charges at up.

848
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: It's all the little charges. And then you can go

849
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 1: into like it's the streaming services that we all have

850
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: because they don't seem like a lot. It's like twelve meters,

851
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: twelve dollars here, whatever, Yeah, parking meters two dollars there,

852
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: and it all starts adding up. So these impulse by

853
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: imagine saving like one thousand dollars or fifteen hundred bucks

854
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: a year if you just didn't buy that stuff on.

855
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,320
Speaker 2: Instac last impulse buy tissany.

856
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: Last impulse buy Actually this hydro flask.

857
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 2: For your water. It's good. Ye how about you, Tanya.

858
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 8: Mine was a hat organizer for the closet that's still

859
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 8: sitting on my desk and has not been put up

860
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 8: in the closet.

861
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: Yep.

862
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: Mine was a chalkboard.

863
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,720
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with that chalkboard?

864
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 2: Oh, it's great.

865
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 3: So I it's like a little chalkboard you put on

866
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 3: the counter and then you can write if anybody's coming

867
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 3: for dinner, what's for dinner.

868
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 2: So it's like a dinner party chalkboard. Oh my, So

869
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 2: you put out there.

870
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 3: Like that dinner menu. Yeah, for taco Tuesday, you would

871
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 3: put chicken.

872
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: That is that?

873
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 8: That is very funny because I almost bought a mini

874
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 8: whiteboard for the same reason. Not for the same reason,

875
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 8: but to write Robbie's notes on in the morning. So

876
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 8: I'm not wasting paper.

877
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 2: For more charming Chalkboard's pretty cute. It's really cute.

878
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 3: And they don't even come with chalk these days, to

879
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 3: come with chalk marks.

880
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: Chalk markers.

881
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 9: Yeah, I might get that now.

882
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 3: It's great to be very careful. I made a mistake.

883
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 3: Make sure you look at the dimensions because the other

884
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: thing I always get the wrong size. Yeah, like they

885
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 3: all look quick, they all look human size. Then they

886
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,399
Speaker 3: come g I Joe size right.

887
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yes, chalkboards will throw you.

888
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 1: So there's a few ways that you can maybe stop

889
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: yourself from impulse buying. One, maybe wait a few days,

890
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 1: see if you actually still need that product in two

891
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: or three days. And then one thing I like to do,

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Speaker 1: And this list is long for me. I have a

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Speaker 1: wish list, so I'll be like save for later, and

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Speaker 1: then I actually would go back to it and look

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Speaker 1: through it, and I don't don't need any of that

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Speaker 1: stuff that I've saved later.

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Speaker 3: Also, don't impulse by after a glass of peano.

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Speaker 1: Oh, drunk shopping no fun.

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Speaker 2: It's not drunk. It's just like a glass something.

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Speaker 3: They make a lot of sense. How many times have

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Speaker 3: I solved problems after a glass of wine? Like you

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Speaker 3: know what, how come is didn't dawn on me sooner?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And then and then you're like you brush your teeth,

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Speaker 2: you getting ready to go to bed. You're like, that's dumb.

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Speaker 2: I do not need I do not need that.

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Speaker 3: That's a for us, guys. Thank you for listening. Great show, everybody,

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Speaker 3: Thank you for being here this morning. Have a good one,

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Speaker 3: but bye and bye time. Thank you Ryan, Yes, thank you,

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Speaker 3: gratitude y, thank our coworkers.

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Speaker 2: Love you guys, Kiss FM.

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Speaker 3: Have a great Thursday, go on almost Friday.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 2: sure to subscribe it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.