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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
Speaker 2: Y'all really be living with these niggas and that's crazy
Speaker 2: to me?
Speaker 1: Bitch were starting the show? Why are you talking about me?
Speaker 2: Anyway? What's up?
Speaker 1: Y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a new episode
Speaker 1: and We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you by
Speaker 1: just will be shocking up in the niggas that don't
Speaker 1: is your co host? AJ Holiday two point Oh?
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 1: Ten?
Speaker 2: It's official team band. I love y'all once again. I
Speaker 2: love you too. AJ. How you doing. I'm doing well?
Speaker 1: Okay, it's sunny outside. I feel good. I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm you know, lucky again this week?
Speaker 2: How was your weekend? What'd you do? Nothing?
Speaker 1: Bitch went a boy? A band went by the bed
Speaker 1: because the bitch been sleeping on the mattress on the floor.
Speaker 1: Yes it's a good one though, costs a couple of dollars,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I got me a bed coming chat.
Speaker 2: Just growing up. That's good, growing out, y'all. I'm proud
Speaker 2: of you, y'all. I was supposed to go to DC
Speaker 2: this weekend for the Tequila Talk Live show, but man,
Speaker 2: I the ms was mssing this weekend and I just
Speaker 2: could not be bothered to get up and go nowhere.
Speaker 2: My body just was not with it. I was so
Speaker 2: upset because I bought tickets to the show, had my
Speaker 2: flight books and everything, and my body that shit is
Speaker 2: just you know, it do what it wants. So I
Speaker 2: didn't get to go. But shout out to Tequila Talk.
Speaker 2: He had a live show. It was on the sixteenth.
Speaker 2: I'm sure it was lit, and I will not miss
Speaker 2: the next one. And I know I said that last time,
Speaker 2: but I really did all the things to be there.
Speaker 2: I just couldn't make it happen. So I just stayed
Speaker 2: at home, and uh, I watched this movie Damsel on Netflix.
Speaker 3: Y'all.
Speaker 2: If y'all like movies, if y'all like sci fi movies,
Speaker 2: y'all gotta watch that Damsel.
Speaker 1: It's about a dragon, a bad bitch dragon. So oh,
Speaker 1: I want to see that. I want a dragon.
Speaker 2: It's of course you, of course you want to Drag
Speaker 2: Dracoda's bitchy'all be like Calisi on y'all host. So, yeah,
Speaker 2: I watched that movie. It was good and I just
Speaker 2: kind of chilled. Yeah, that's all got on the scale.
Speaker 2: I'm one hundred and eighty three pounds. Don't play with.
Speaker 3: Me, girl, Fuck you guy.
Speaker 1: I did take a laxative today, so I didn't lose
Speaker 1: two pounds right before this recording. Okay, let's get in
Speaker 1: the stupid Internet news.
Speaker 2: And happier news. Marriage race are up and divorce races
Speaker 2: are down. Dadda share by the a A Right dadda
Speaker 2: share by the CDC on Friday shows how the number
Speaker 2: of marriages grew from five point one per one thousand
Speaker 2: people in twenty twenty to six point two per one
Speaker 2: thousand people in twenty twenty two. The highest rate observes
Speaker 2: is twenty eighteen, and a four percent increase from the
Speaker 2: year before. Between two thousand and nine and twenty thirteen,
Speaker 2: the marriage rate stood at six point eight per one
Speaker 2: thousand people, according to the CDC, so people are getting
Speaker 2: married and staying married. More people got divorced.
Speaker 1: I think during COVID twenty twenty right twenty nineteen twenty
Speaker 1: twenty is when people realize I can't be with this
Speaker 1: motherfucker no more, because we were forced to sit the
Speaker 1: fuck down. So now a lot of people got divorced
Speaker 1: during that time. And then if you survived COVID with whomever,
Speaker 1: maybe your you know, a boyfriend, girlfriend, maybe those are
Speaker 1: the people who are getting married now. So everybody who
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be together have split, And then the
Speaker 1: economy has always been based on double occupancy. I don't
Speaker 1: know why people be out here trying to struggle by themselves.
Speaker 2: I be living with.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I have only lived with a
Speaker 1: couple of men in my life. I have normally just
Speaker 1: always lived by myself.
Speaker 2: But I do not that in my life.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I do not want to pay
Speaker 1: all my bills by myself when I was in college,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to pay fifty percent either, So
Speaker 1: there's that.
Speaker 2: When I was in college, I had a boyfriend. I
Speaker 2: had my own place and he had his own place,
Speaker 2: but we always kind of stayed at his place, so
Speaker 2: I kind of lived with him, but I kind of
Speaker 2: didn't because I still had my own shit.
Speaker 1: But one foot in, one foot out, yep.
Speaker 2: And then and then I live with one man in
Speaker 2: my entire life for like three years. I think of that,
Speaker 2: and that's the three of the hardest years of my life.
Speaker 2: Exactly all my life, I had to fight.
Speaker 1: Girl, trying to cohabitate with someone else is very fucking stressful.
Speaker 1: And I followed this bitch on Instagram. Her name is
Speaker 1: Elena something. She's a Russian lady, like I want to
Speaker 1: live that life, like I need I need need everything
Speaker 1: in my place, in perfect order, where it's supposed to
Speaker 1: be at like I'm trying to lie.
Speaker 2: I'd rather be jealous of those people. Are their lives
Speaker 2: really like that structured? Because how the fuck you do that?
Speaker 2: Like my it could be my house looks like in order,
Speaker 2: but until you open a drawer, open a closet, I
Speaker 2: look under the Oh, well, you can't get under my bed,
Speaker 2: but if you could have, it would have been shipped
Speaker 2: up under there. But that closet. Lord, have mercy. So
Speaker 2: we're happy to see that people are staying married, whether
Speaker 2: it be for money or love. We're happy to see
Speaker 2: y'all staying together.
Speaker 1: Poor people get married for love. Remember we said that, Okay.
Speaker 2: As long as they staying together, I'm happy for you.
Speaker 2: Drunk the broom, baby, whatever you gotta do, it's love.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I've been obsessed with marriage lately.
Speaker 2: I've been picking out wedding songs. I've been picking out
Speaker 2: wedding colors. I ain't got the first man. That's manifestation,
Speaker 2: but like, yeah, so weird because I heard the song,
Speaker 2: like y'all, I literally saved it the other day and
Speaker 2: I put wedding song playlists and I had to like
Speaker 2: bust out laughing at my motherfucker stuff because I've.
Speaker 1: Had I have had vowels written for many years in
Speaker 1: my cell phone, and you know, like nowadays, like once
Speaker 1: you save some shit, it goes like I have my vowels.
Speaker 2: It's a song called first Time by Teaks. If y'all
Speaker 2: getting married, y'all need to put that in your wedding playlist.
Speaker 2: It is so beautiful. So yeah, that's on my playlist too.
Speaker 1: That's how you manifest though. You just start doing it. Things,
Speaker 1: start planning, shit, you trying to move, start packing.
Speaker 2: Listen, I got a really really hot date this weekend.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to make that my husband and I think
Speaker 2: put them in a little job. Ain't putting no more
Speaker 2: niggas in No more jars. The last thing I put
Speaker 2: in my jar ignored me the whole time we was
Speaker 2: in the club together. I'm not putting no more niggas in,
Speaker 2: no more jars for that shit. I just playing Saucy
Speaker 2: Santana and Gilbert Arenas. What happened girl?
Speaker 1: So Sacy is sharing a message for Saucy Santana has
Speaker 1: a message for Gilbert Arenas. After the formal NBA player
Speaker 1: praised the rappers twerking skills. Okay, he said he didn't
Speaker 1: know whether or not to throw money at Saucy or
Speaker 1: at Magda Stallion. I don't know how a heterosexual man
Speaker 1: could be confused by either one of those things, but okay,
Speaker 1: I'm here for it regardless. So here's how things initially
Speaker 1: popped off between Gilbert Arenas and Saucy Santana on March
Speaker 1: eighth and episode of Arenas's podcast with stream on YouTube.
Speaker 1: About an hour and eight minutes into the show, Arenas
Speaker 1: broadfellow former NBA player Nick Young as a guest. So
Speaker 1: apparently Nick Young and Saucy Santana are homeboys, okay, and
Speaker 1: Gilbert feels like he's not a raper, but he feels
Speaker 1: like Saucy Santana isn't a rapper, and how could this
Speaker 1: be your homeboy?
Speaker 2: This you know gay man. He was like, oh, hell,
Speaker 2: that's your dog. It's just how old is that nigga?
Speaker 1: Let's see old enough he gets on my goddamn nerves. Okay, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he would be afraid of gay men or just being
Speaker 1: seen with one. I don't know what the problem would be.
Speaker 1: You see that picture recently that fifty Cent posted with
Speaker 1: him young Buck and some.
Speaker 2: Trans woman. No, and fifty.
Speaker 1: Cent was like, now I know why that boy like
Speaker 1: young Buck was far away from fifty Cent in this woman.
Speaker 1: But you know Young Buck had been caught with a
Speaker 1: transsexual at some point, so you want to keep up
Speaker 1: being parents that you don't fuck with them. Meanwhile, right,
Speaker 1: meanwhile you dibbling, dabbling and skippity pappen with them niggas. Anyway,
Speaker 1: that could be what Gilbert Arenas is on.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It'd be those older millennials that like
Speaker 2: really be like low key homophobic, and I think it
Speaker 2: expawns from the culture of the nineties in the early
Speaker 2: two thousands where people were extremely homophobic, you know, especially
Speaker 2: in a hip hop and black community that was a
Speaker 2: huge thing. But I mean, you can be friends with
Speaker 2: someone who's gay. That's dumb, that's stupid.
Speaker 1: Right, And obviously Nick Young is comfortable in his own
Speaker 1: skin sexuality, and yeah, where he can have friends who
Speaker 1: prefer the same sex. And because the thing is is
Speaker 1: that even though a man is gay, gay men still
Speaker 1: have preference. You may not be his preference, right yo words, Okay,
Speaker 1: he may not even like you. But just because a
Speaker 1: man is gay, you automatically think he wants match.
Speaker 2: But Saustly was like, I do like you, I do.
Speaker 2: I will take you down, gilbrit Man, Yeah that was
Speaker 2: that was interesting. I didn't know Gilbert Arena's It's a
Speaker 2: lot of sports shows out now, how I didn't know
Speaker 2: he had a podcast. So everybody got a damn podcast.
Speaker 2: Shah everybody and they mama, well, I can't wait to
Speaker 2: see what unfolds with this, Saucy Gilbert. Good luck to
Speaker 2: you too whatever happens.
Speaker 1: So Golorrilla tweeted New Orleans really do got the best
Speaker 1: food in the whole wide world.
Speaker 2: I stamp it you and you too. You're on to
Speaker 2: stamp some shit, Golilla.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm from Charleston, South Carolina, and I feel like
Speaker 1: we got the best food, and it's very similar to
Speaker 1: a lot of the things that people eat normal.
Speaker 2: Even a dialect is kind of similar, right, I think.
Speaker 2: But I have similar cuisine for sure.
Speaker 1: Because it's a lot of good places to eat at
Speaker 1: in Charleston. But this may be an unpopular opinion as
Speaker 1: much as I see posts online about people talking shit
Speaker 1: about white people and how the food look unseasoned and
Speaker 1: all that. Sama y'all over seasoned food. You do not
Speaker 1: have to use everything in your cabinet to make food
Speaker 1: taste good. I lean towards using herbs and spices more
Speaker 1: and salt and larries. Okay, y'all put butter on everything.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. The best food I ever
Speaker 2: had in my life was in Soul. Korea sold them.
Speaker 2: Korea's got sold okay, because that food was so good.
Speaker 2: It definitely had some black and fluids. I don't care
Speaker 2: what nobody said. That food was so good out there. Now,
Speaker 2: we do use a lot of season I remember I
Speaker 2: was like at my white girlfriend house and I was like,
Speaker 2: let me cook the chicken because I don't know what
Speaker 2: you're about to do. And I might have got over
Speaker 2: zealous with the Laris because I felt like I had something.
Speaker 1: To prove.
Speaker 2: And that shit was salty as fuck. I was like,
Speaker 2: my bad, not you ruined that lady chick. I didn't
Speaker 2: ruin her chicken because I just had something to prove
Speaker 2: as a black person that we used season and I
Speaker 2: just went too crazy with it.
Speaker 3: Yo.
Speaker 1: I used missus Dash a lot. You know, it's salt free.
Speaker 1: It has like garlic, all these different herbs and stuff,
Speaker 1: and then I just added like a pinch of salt
Speaker 1: and pepper, you know, just depending on what I'm cooking.
Speaker 2: If I'm I don't eat chicken this.
Speaker 1: Shit, so I eat fish, a lot of fish. So
Speaker 1: I usually use kinda not the same seasoning because I
Speaker 1: don't want all my food to taste the same, right.
Speaker 2: But some of y'all put to I watched these.
Speaker 1: Videos on Instagram, and I'm like, they take a bowl
Speaker 1: and they put all this seasoning in the bowl and
Speaker 1: pour it on top. That is wild to me, because
Speaker 1: there's no way this shit tastes good, Like I want
Speaker 1: to taste some of this food.
Speaker 2: I got a theory. I think it is the season
Speaker 2: is that we use as black people that's given Black
Speaker 2: women fibroids.
Speaker 1: It's all the things because a lot of that stuff
Speaker 1: has MSG. And I don't know if y'all know or not,
Speaker 1: but that season accent, that's all that is. MSG is
Speaker 1: assault substitute. And I know in Charleston for sure, most
Speaker 1: black people are putting accent on everything. It's MSG, that's
Speaker 1: all it is. That long ass mono, whatever clos word,
Speaker 1: that's all it is. Yeah, our food is hereditary, hereditary,
Speaker 1: not the diseases, right, So shout out to New Orleans.
Speaker 1: I would agree that they probably have the second best
Speaker 1: cuisine in America. Okay, travel a little because I mean
Speaker 1: some are shit.
Speaker 2: Ain't touch another country. I like New Orleans food, but
Speaker 2: I also like Charleston too. I ain't gonna front.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've only been to New Orleans one time, and
Speaker 1: I don't recall having a good meal there. And it
Speaker 1: may have been the places I went to, you know.
Speaker 1: But we cook some of the same simular shit like
Speaker 1: rad rice, jambalaya, all that shit. We could just call
Speaker 1: it something different. Oftentimes weat a lot of crabs, blue crab,
Speaker 1: like I'm sick of the crab tasting like roger wood sausage.
Speaker 2: I don't like that shit. Who are I don't Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't like, don't put no sausage in my bag
Speaker 2: because it just like everything tastes like sausage. And a
Speaker 2: lot of people don't know what roger Woods are, Like
Speaker 2: DM must if y'all know what a roger Wood sausage is,
Speaker 2: because then here and Charlotte I talk about roger Woods,
Speaker 2: they'd be like, what's that? How the fuck y'all don't
Speaker 2: know what a roger Wood is. Y'all ain't had a
Speaker 2: sausage until you had a roger Wood period.
Speaker 1: Girl, I think you used to bust in the microwave.
Speaker 2: Oh not bust's say, it's been a minute since I
Speaker 2: so so anything say everything sounds sexual sexual. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Growing up, if we didn't have roger Wood sausage, we
Speaker 1: ain't have.
Speaker 2: Nothing to eat. We at least have yeah period.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, listen, we are we've ended cuffing season essentially, right.
Speaker 1: They say it ends uh begins in October sometime ends
Speaker 1: around Valentine's Day and we in tax season now. So
Speaker 1: is it a good time to start talking to your
Speaker 1: bay about finances? If you guys have made it, you've.
Speaker 2: Been getting at Roger Wood, you talking about money yet
Speaker 2: we're gonna talk about it when we come back.
Speaker 1: Before we get into the today's topic. Y'all. I saw
Speaker 1: a white girl. She was saying she was on a podcast,
Speaker 1: and she was talking about all the things she does
Speaker 1: for he husband. She was like, I rub his head,
Speaker 1: you know, she basically like caresses him like a baby
Speaker 1: to put him to bed and shit like that. And
Speaker 1: when he wakes up, she makes some coffee, she massages
Speaker 1: his back like all of those are like that might
Speaker 1: be his love language, like touch, touch. I don't see
Speaker 1: what the big deal was. Like women was in the
Speaker 1: comments like wow, anybody doing all that? But she may
Speaker 1: just be talking about it verbally. But it's natural, right
Speaker 1: when you love somebody, you rubbing them up. I rather
Speaker 1: rub a nigga back to sleep like a baby than
Speaker 1: they have to have sex every night. Nigga, I'm rubbing
Speaker 1: this skin off.
Speaker 2: Your rubber too. But it's a sensory thing for me
Speaker 2: because once I hit the weed, I'd be wanting something
Speaker 2: to touch. So nigga here get rubbed.
Speaker 1: Like y'all ain't touching y'all, man, what's what's.
Speaker 2: Run with y'all? Yeah, I'm rub feet and everything has It's.
Speaker 1: Not my thing. Okay, No, I like to rub feet,
Speaker 1: like with my feet, but like rub foot my hand.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm definitely giving my nigga fut message.
Speaker 1: I had that, not you trying to get that husband.
Speaker 2: I had that. It's all like a sensory thing for
Speaker 2: me though, So it's don't even be about them seriously.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, how do we start talking about money
Speaker 1: and relationships? I mean, especially when you're about to maybe
Speaker 1: perhaps cohabitate. I don't think we're doing the traditional way
Speaker 1: of you know, being at your parents were old as
Speaker 1: fuck now, is what I'm saying, speaker.
Speaker 2: So I'm not right.
Speaker 1: I'm not at my parents' house about to move in
Speaker 1: with this man about to marry. We already passed that
Speaker 1: order of things, right, So when is when is it
Speaker 1: time or when is the appropriate time you think tam
Speaker 1: to discuss finances when dating someone?
Speaker 2: I mean, as a younger, we passed dating right as
Speaker 2: a girl. Shut up girl on the first day, let's
Speaker 2: talk about it. It's like I'm joking, but I mean
Speaker 2: that's how these young girls are. They talk about money
Speaker 2: right out the gate, like if you're not paying to
Speaker 2: play like they don't even want to talk to me.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's right. Y'all need to calm down
Speaker 2: with that, because y'all just gonna get somebody who only
Speaker 2: got money and nothing else, and that's about everything else,
Speaker 2: and that's low key broke. I know that sounds crazy
Speaker 2: to y'all, Like he got all the money, but if
Speaker 2: he ain't got nothing else, he still broke. Baby. I
Speaker 2: had to learn that shit the hard way. So I
Speaker 2: was in a beautiful place, miserable as fuck, with a
Speaker 2: nigga who just had money. So trust me, that's not
Speaker 2: all you want. But okay, when is the best time
Speaker 2: to start talking about finances? I don't know, I think
Speaker 2: see I feel like I know, like I don't exactly
Speaker 2: know what a nigga got, but I know if a
Speaker 2: nigga got some you know what I'm saying, Like I
Speaker 2: don't just be out here like I can't tell if
Speaker 2: he's poor or not. Right, So when we're discussing like
Speaker 2: joint finances is when we start talking about living together,
Speaker 2: When we start talking about moving in, I think that's
Speaker 2: when you start talking about like do you expect me
Speaker 2: to pay for shit? Like that's that's what and I
Speaker 2: think I would go into it like I don't want
Speaker 2: to pay. I don't want to pay for nothing. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna just tell you that, right, I don't want to
Speaker 2: pay for nothing, but I am willing to contribute in
Speaker 2: some type of way, Like I'll pay the cable bill,
Speaker 2: I'll pay the Wi Fi, I'll pay for my gas
Speaker 2: in my car, payment in my cell phone bill. So
Speaker 2: you don't want to pay for any living experience. I'll
Speaker 2: pay for groceries. I don't want to pay no rent.
Speaker 2: I don't want to pay no mortgage. I don't want
Speaker 2: to pay no leads. I don't want to pay none
Speaker 2: of that. No, I don't.
Speaker 1: Think I think the ideal like situation, right, we would
Speaker 1: love would be like the woman moving into a man's home.
Speaker 1: But we know oftentimes women owning homes more than men.
Speaker 1: So the man is moving in which I don't think
Speaker 1: any man should want to do that. You should probably
Speaker 1: try to have your own and have the woman moving
Speaker 1: with you. Right, You've already been fitting the bills in
Speaker 1: your space, so adding a woman in there, there's intrinsic
Speaker 1: value that women come with. Right, So like say, for instance,
Speaker 1: you're a business owner, like I may not pay like
Speaker 1: bills in the house, but somehow, because I'm here, existing
Speaker 1: and breathing and nourishing you, your business has now explanged tenfold. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is what women bring should bring A good woman, right,
Speaker 1: should bring to the table to where you're not concerned
Speaker 1: about what she's actually paying for financially, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that may not be the case for everybody.
Speaker 2: Like some people are not going to you know, some people,
Speaker 2: men and women included, are getting into relationships to lighting
Speaker 2: a load on both of them.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: So if you do go, if.
Speaker 3: You do here, present the fuck.
Speaker 2: Whatever works. Okay, whatever works.
Speaker 1: But I think that I don't think I've ever sat
Speaker 1: down with a man, even when I was engaged about
Speaker 1: to get married. I think I was kind of like
Speaker 1: just being with somebody for a while, you kind of
Speaker 1: know what their financial situation is, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I had the good credit, this nigga old a bunch
Speaker 1: of taxes, like I kind of knew what the fuck
Speaker 1: going going on. Yeah, and then eventually like we're gonna
Speaker 1: figure this shit out. I'm gonna go get get us
Speaker 1: a business loan. All this shit, We're gonna pay that
Speaker 1: shit down, Like we were trying to work together in a way.
Speaker 1: But even even a situation like that can become like damn,
Speaker 1: why you don't got this shit to get together on.
Speaker 2: Your own without me?
Speaker 1: It could start to feel like that, like why are
Speaker 1: you depending on me to do this this thing that
Speaker 1: you should have been this?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I had I was dating this guy and
Speaker 2: I liked him a lot, but and he was you know,
Speaker 2: he had money or whatever, he was doing well for himself,
Speaker 2: but he gambled. He had a very very bad gambling
Speaker 2: habit like that that year during the football season. I
Speaker 2: think he lost well over fifty thousand dollars gambling. And
Speaker 2: that was like a yeah, I ain't gone into this, Nancy.
Speaker 1: That's the type of things you need to find out
Speaker 1: when you ask about finances, because if somebody somebody, people
Speaker 1: can appear to have things together, but then when you
Speaker 1: actually get into the real action potatoes, you realize like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he might look like he got shit going on, but
Speaker 1: he's really in debt or he's living off credit, which
Speaker 1: is okay, right, But if you have some liquid cash somewhere.
Speaker 2: Right, something so okay, how would you approach it?
Speaker 1: Like I don't talking about finances politics religion. They're all
Speaker 1: like very touchy subjects, and especially.
Speaker 2: For men, men are very like they value their money
Speaker 2: the way we value our bodies. So it's kind of like,
Speaker 2: are you trying to take my virginity? That's how a
Speaker 2: nigga with his money.
Speaker 1: What I would tell men and women listen, just put
Speaker 1: your expectations out on the table. They won't really you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So people can get the fuck
Speaker 1: on through if it's something that they don't want to
Speaker 1: deal with. So I'm not saying the very first date,
Speaker 1: you should be trying to see how much money this
Speaker 1: man got. You can kind of get.
Speaker 2: An idea.
Speaker 1: Based on his lifestyle, how he lives, his social status,
Speaker 1: like who he knows, you.
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can kind of gauge what type of man you're
Speaker 1: dealing with without as actually asking him how much money
Speaker 1: you got, unless you're now.
Speaker 2: In Atlanta, because them niggas is boo but for nesser
Speaker 2: central goods. Damn, Like these niggas be like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: live downtown and then it'd be like seven of them
Speaker 2: in a high rise apartment or he only.
Speaker 1: Courting you to steal your social s down there in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: But listen, remember Jim Bay, Remember the nigga from the
Speaker 1: gym I told y'all was fucking with one. So he
Speaker 1: was like actively, well, I don't know if it was
Speaker 1: just he wanted me to do this thing or he
Speaker 1: was actively looking for somebody to basically be in a
Speaker 1: poly relationship with. And I'm like, listen, I don't like women,
Speaker 1: and he wanted like somebody to move into his home.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't like women, right, And then if
Speaker 1: I did like women, who's to say I'm gonna like
Speaker 1: your bitch in particular?
Speaker 2: Right right?
Speaker 1: And on top of that, I'm like, well, how much
Speaker 1: money you got for a situation like this? He was like,
Speaker 1: I got I got about three hundred thousand in the bank.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's enough to take care of two
Speaker 1: women and all the shit that you want to that's
Speaker 1: not a bad starter help you financially. I feel like
Speaker 1: he wants two women to help him get to the
Speaker 1: next level.
Speaker 2: Well, I think if you in that, y'all all should
Speaker 2: be helping in some type of way, right. You can't
Speaker 2: just have two bitches laying around the house.
Speaker 1: I'm not moving in Listen. Even if I was down
Speaker 1: with some type of poly situation. I'm not moving into
Speaker 1: a house with another woman like your your fucking nuts.
Speaker 1: When white men or other men do these type of things,
Speaker 1: they yeah, everybody got their own house. I'm not about
Speaker 1: to be in the house with you and another woman like,
Speaker 1: you're nuts. You can't afford this situation. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Three hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Two grown women can't live in the house together unless
Speaker 2: they are also intimate with each other. I think they
Speaker 2: have this. Yeah, they have to be in love with
Speaker 2: each other too. And Susan period sink of bitch is
Speaker 2: gonna be scrapping. He might be the one getting beat.
Speaker 2: So I went on this website called elves dot com
Speaker 2: and they have a list of things that you how
Speaker 2: to get started with a conversation with your partner when
Speaker 2: you're getting serious talking about money. So what it says is, uh,
Speaker 2: here's a breakdown of what you two should share and discuss.
Speaker 2: So you should first start with what each what are
Speaker 2: each other's approaches to spending money. So this is a
Speaker 2: good one to start with because it's about the day
Speaker 2: to day stuff. What kinds of things do you think
Speaker 2: are worth splurging on and saying before do you both
Speaker 2: have a good idea of what you are coming in
Speaker 2: with and what's going out? Do you track every penny?
Speaker 2: Are you more of a fifty to thirty twenty kind
Speaker 2: of person? Which one do you think you are? Track
Speaker 2: every penny or fifty thirty twenty rule?
Speaker 1: Break that down?
Speaker 2: What does that really mean? So, okay, let's google it.
Speaker 1: I kind of I.
Speaker 2: Don't track every penny.
Speaker 1: I remember growing up and my mom would have her
Speaker 1: checkbook register and she's writing down. We don't really have
Speaker 1: to do that anymore because we have we have online banking, right,
Speaker 1: but she'd write down everything she spent and have her
Speaker 1: total at the bum. I definitely don't live that type
Speaker 1: of life now. My older sister does because she was
Speaker 1: really raised the longest with my mom. So she, even
Speaker 1: though she has online banking, she stole rights out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all just bad. That's when people use track
Speaker 2: checking books, you know, so they just had everything written down.
Speaker 2: The fifty to thirty twenty rule recommends putting fifty percent
Speaker 2: of your money towards needs, thirty percent towards once, and
Speaker 2: twenty percent towards savings. These saving categories also include money
Speaker 2: you will need to realize your future goals. So that's
Speaker 2: the fifty thirty twenty rule.
Speaker 1: Okay, so right now I'm definitely not doing twenty, but
Speaker 1: I'm talking with a financial advisor trying to get my
Speaker 1: life together for the future. So that's what I definitely invest,
Speaker 1: but I probably spend more money than I invest at
Speaker 1: this point. I make money off and off my investments,
Speaker 1: but I be spending money, so I would say, I, no,
Speaker 1: I don't do no fifty thirty twenty nothing. I'd be
Speaker 1: swiping and then I'm scared to look at my account.
Speaker 2: I'd be avoiding.
Speaker 1: Logging into online binging, like I kind of got an
Speaker 1: idea in my head and what the number gonna be
Speaker 1: when I log.
Speaker 2: In, I'm like, I'm a penny picture, Like I save everything.
Speaker 2: I save everything. My mama said, I hold a dollar
Speaker 2: so tight. The ego on that motherfucker be screaming.
Speaker 3: Don't want to spend everybody el shit, But.
Speaker 2: That just comes from a mindset of growing up with less.
Speaker 2: I just want to hold onto everything I get. I
Speaker 2: really definitely down to like the penny for everything, Like
Speaker 2: I literally put everything in the savings and then have
Speaker 2: to like pull from it sometimes because I don't want
Speaker 2: to touch it.
Speaker 1: I kind of do the same thing, and not with
Speaker 1: savings because you know, you ain't supposed to be withdrawing
Speaker 1: from savings account that many times because then you end
Speaker 1: up with a fee.
Speaker 2: Right, So I got multiple checking.
Speaker 1: I do certain things out of But yeah, I'll fuck
Speaker 1: around and be swiping from all three accounts all day long,
Speaker 1: like oh, this one might not have no money left,
Speaker 1: and let me go hit this one like.
Speaker 2: Wilin, No baby, I'm definitely in the grocery store if
Speaker 2: it's a packaged chicken and eight is one for eight
Speaker 2: sixty five, and there's one for eight sixty three.
Speaker 1: But that's savings, right, So you're looking for a deal always,
Speaker 1: I'm definitely Yeah, me too. That's not really like uh
Speaker 1: as far as keeping your finances in order though, because bitch,
Speaker 1: you be looking at them chicken, but I know you
Speaker 1: just have food delivered that you could have win and gotten.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did so, saving a penny on a pack
Speaker 1: of chicken, But you're paying these extra fees for Uber
Speaker 1: Eats doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2: I need. I'll definitely be door dashing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all tripping with that door dash it y'all are tripping,
Speaker 1: go get your food. If you're trying to save money,
Speaker 1: start there. If you are trying to like course correct
Speaker 1: your finances, start at all the luxuries that these people
Speaker 1: have created to get your coin.
Speaker 2: The girl, that's why I work hard, so I cannot
Speaker 2: some things I'm not gonna give up, And that's a
Speaker 2: door dawsh ever rebound again. All right. So the next
Speaker 2: one is how do you each feel about your finances
Speaker 2: at the moment? Like who has debt and if so,
Speaker 2: are you working on paying it off? Some people manage
Speaker 2: to avoid debt their whole lives, but most don't, and
Speaker 2: paying it off has a big impact on how much
Speaker 2: of your income is left for saving and spending. Discuss
Speaker 2: what kinds of debt you each have student loans, car loans,
Speaker 2: credit cards, et cetera, and what their balance and interest
Speaker 2: rates are. Do they have an emergency fund just in case?
Speaker 2: It might be a good to ask about their credit score.
Speaker 2: People get very sensitive about their credit score, But.
Speaker 1: If you have a good one, you always bragging.
Speaker 2: But if you don't, you don't be like you asked
Speaker 2: me all kind of personal shit.
Speaker 1: Like I'm not bragging on my credit score.
Speaker 2: Right now. But the thing is, I don't really care
Speaker 2: about credit.
Speaker 1: I'm more like Glorella when she said I'm not fucked up,
Speaker 1: but no credit score might be rich them all, and
Speaker 1: I know how to beef my credit score up overnight,
Speaker 1: so I'm never concerned about the credit score ship. But
Speaker 1: the motherfucker taxes. When somebody mentioned taxes, like I get offended.
Speaker 3: Like why who are you?
Speaker 2: Who sent you? Who sent you?
Speaker 1: Like a nigga in a DM if he say he
Speaker 1: worked for like any of the letters like why are
Speaker 1: you here?
Speaker 2: Are you looking for me?
Speaker 1: Because they have a lot of creative ways to find
Speaker 1: people that old taxes.
Speaker 2: My thing is, I just got mad when I started
Speaker 2: becoming people who had the people who had to pay
Speaker 2: taxes versus getting my check. I've always been there. Oh
Speaker 2: what the hell? Why am I paying? I never got
Speaker 2: big checks because I didn't have no kids, right, but
Speaker 2: I done got like an eight three dollars check one
Speaker 2: year now, bitch, don't get nothing I owe every time.
Speaker 2: I hate that.
Speaker 1: The only time I've never not paid taxes is when
Speaker 1: I'm doing some finiggling and claim somebody's kid. Other than that,
Speaker 1: I always even when you were yard, I made more
Speaker 1: money when I was younger, like bitch was balling in
Speaker 1: her twenties. Like, I always paid fucking taxes unless I
Speaker 1: had like a dependent to kind of offset the amount
Speaker 1: of taxes I had to pay.
Speaker 2: But I've never gotten no stupid checks from taxing. I
Speaker 2: never gotten read. I think I got like like a
Speaker 2: student credit or some sort, like when I was in
Speaker 2: college and got a couple dollars back, But I never
Speaker 2: got no big checks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like people with kids or people who would just
Speaker 1: be doing the most filing all these kids elderly any taxes.
Speaker 2: The next one is what are your short term money plans?
Speaker 2: Here's where you can go and feel for where you're
Speaker 2: headed together over the next year or so. Do they
Speaker 2: have plans to get the debt paid off? Do they
Speaker 2: want to build an emergency fund? Do they want to
Speaker 2: change jobs anytime soon? Are you currently saving for retirement?
Speaker 2: Things like that. I definitely have a retirement fund. Yeah.
Speaker 2: We don't have these conversations enough. You know, no, and
Speaker 2: I don't think so, but I think that.
Speaker 1: Okay, if you're dating someone seriously, y'all now pass courting.
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship and you're talking about finances, I
Speaker 1: would think that, like, y'all need to be calculating the
Speaker 1: price of an engagement ring too. But are you expecting
Speaker 1: this other person to contribute to the things that you
Speaker 1: have or are you there just to counsel them into
Speaker 1: how to pay their debt off?
Speaker 2: Or like what are we doing?
Speaker 1: Like could this be a maybe you're walking away after
Speaker 1: this conversation? Damn right, because nigga, I can't help you
Speaker 1: too far at debt.
Speaker 2: I was dating this guy that I really liked, y'all,
Speaker 2: I really liked him, Like everything was phenomenal. We got along,
Speaker 2: he seemed to be he had a business, you know,
Speaker 2: he had on his own store, and we were talking
Speaker 2: about you know, he told me he had a daughter,
Speaker 2: and we talked about the daughter, and then somewhere randomly
Speaker 2: the conversation said, he came up and said he had
Speaker 2: a son that lived thirty minutes away that I had
Speaker 2: never heard nothing about. And we had been kicking it
Speaker 2: for months. I was like, well, what's up with this son?
Speaker 2: He was like if I don't know what's up with him?
Speaker 2: And he's like, if that little nigga want to know
Speaker 2: me when he gets big, he can come find me immediately.
Speaker 2: My Cuchie dried up like the Sahara Desert prairie dars
Speaker 2: start running past. It was like I heard Little House
Speaker 2: of the Prairie thee music. That's how dry my coochie
Speaker 2: got and I had to get up out of there
Speaker 2: like immediately. That made me leave him alone, even though
Speaker 2: I liked everything about him. But if you're somebody who
Speaker 2: can say that about your own son who's thirty minutes away,
Speaker 2: ain't nothing for me and you baby, nothing.
Speaker 1: So I mean kids are something that need to be
Speaker 1: discussed during the finance time. Absolutely, you have back child support.
Speaker 1: I told you just before. Like I used to work
Speaker 1: at a pink like customer service so people would be
Speaker 1: It was so many women black and white, okay, and
Speaker 1: everybody else in between call and crying about how the
Speaker 1: government has now garnished their taxes because their husband owed
Speaker 1: back child support. So now my money's gone for the
Speaker 1: kids we have together or for my kids. But you
Speaker 1: had a joint bank account bank account with this person,
Speaker 1: so yeah, do you have back child support? Okay, y'all
Speaker 1: niggas can act like y'all don't give a damn about
Speaker 1: a woman's income or her her her having a degree
Speaker 1: or not when half y'all need help.
Speaker 2: With paying child support.
Speaker 3: Apparently, so yeah, children, that's not true.
Speaker 2: A j don't do that to do some of them.
Speaker 1: Girl, at a lot of them need help. I'm ashamed
Speaker 1: to say this. My best friend has a child for
Speaker 1: my second cousin.
Speaker 2: She took him to.
Speaker 1: Court because he was talking shit to her daughter, saying
Speaker 1: like how much money he pays in child the whole time.
Speaker 3: Girls, she don't care.
Speaker 1: Whole time he was back, he had money, like back
Speaker 1: child support he hadn't paid, but you brag into the
Speaker 1: daughter about how much money you pay a child's for.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: They got in front of the judge and he was
Speaker 1: like no in a super geechee voices. Imagine this man,
Speaker 1: she got money, look at her.
Speaker 2: What does that have to do with anything? Nothing?
Speaker 1: Because at what point do you think you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to be contributing at all?
Speaker 2: Right? You know two things for your child? Absolutely, I
Speaker 2: need to.
Speaker 1: Know if you're on child' support. I need to know
Speaker 1: how you how you take care of your kids. I
Speaker 1: need to know that. Also, you know, at this age,
Speaker 1: younger people maybe they don't have any kids. It's not
Speaker 1: a topic that would come out when talking about finances.
Speaker 2: But yeah, if you're older, that's a conversation now. And
Speaker 2: then the last one, what are your dreams for the future?
Speaker 2: Are you working on it? This is the fun part.
Speaker 2: Do you want to buy a home in a few years?
Speaker 2: What do you dream about when you dream about retirement? Like,
Speaker 2: that's the things that you can talk about. Putting those
Speaker 2: things out on the table now will help you each
Speaker 2: understand why the other person may be making today's financial
Speaker 2: choices and gives you the opportunity to maybe even sync
Speaker 2: up your plans once you're ready. That's dope. I Ideally,
Speaker 2: for me, I would want to be in a relationship
Speaker 2: where my man's money pays the bills and my money
Speaker 2: creates the investments for us.
Speaker 1: That's entertainment some type of way. Yeah, like my maybe
Speaker 1: my money is for entertainment. If we do our vacations,
Speaker 1: all that we can have fly ash vacations. If I've
Speaker 1: been saving all year for this thing.
Speaker 2: Now, I feel like, yeah, vacations, but also building new
Speaker 2: streams of income. That's what my money is gonna do.
Speaker 2: That's ideally how I would want our relationship to go.
Speaker 1: You know a lot of times people look at stay
Speaker 1: at home moms. Oh, they're not contributing financially, but a
Speaker 1: lot of them have like side hustles, online jobs, things
Speaker 1: that they're doing from the house that may be making
Speaker 1: more money. Like look at the TikTokers, right, Okay, it's
Speaker 1: this one girl I'd be following on Instagram. She's a model,
Speaker 1: sores or husband. They'd be making fun of her ass
Speaker 1: on TikTok so bad. She's cooking. So she's cooking pregnant.
Speaker 1: I mean she's making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches from scratch.
Speaker 1: Bitch seeing her y baking the bread like, that's all content.
Speaker 1: And she has over a million followers and she's making
Speaker 1: money doing day to day life. We just had Lexi
Speaker 1: your homegirl in here. Like people, you can literally make
Speaker 1: money off of being a homemaker now.
Speaker 2: Right at this, As long as you got the right
Speaker 2: camera angles, you can get a check.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: So yeah, Like women with a lot of stay at
Speaker 1: home moms have found a way to create online businesses
Speaker 1: and they are driven into their households.
Speaker 2: All the time. Right, I agree.
Speaker 1: So I'm going to get a whiteboard and I'm going
Speaker 1: to put up all my goals and my partner's goals
Speaker 1: and we're going to execute things together. Like two people
Speaker 1: is always better than me, right, always, especially when I
Speaker 1: come to some money too many times two moneies.
Speaker 2: So however I'm making money, I always be telling bitches
Speaker 2: where they got their man and they living in the house.
Speaker 2: I'll be like, girl, I am in a single income home. Okay, relax,
Speaker 2: don't tell me I gotta bring you no birthday gift.
Speaker 2: I was gonna bring one, but I have a single
Speaker 2: income home to relax.
Speaker 1: So I would say, talk about money often and soon. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're planning on, like really being with this person,
Speaker 1: because it's important.
Speaker 2: But that don't mean begging because some people get that wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, people be in bad moods when they when they
Speaker 1: money fucked up. Right, So you don't want to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with somebody you didn't You didn't realize
Speaker 1: this nigga was fucked up financially. Not a relationship is
Speaker 1: going or this woman. Yeah, yeah, I will never be
Speaker 1: considering women when I talk about money.
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about us. But don't know, man, want
Speaker 2: to meet a woman, think she's great. The first conversation
Speaker 2: she's like, hey, you're like, what's wrong with you? I
Speaker 2: don't really want to talk about it. Don't tell me
Speaker 2: what's that? Baby, what's wrong? I'm just saying, okay, well,
Speaker 2: since you asks, I just I just have some debt
Speaker 2: right now, and I just don't know how they're gonna
Speaker 2: they're gonna put me out. I'm and get a victim
Speaker 2: from my high rise apartment if somebody does not pay
Speaker 2: this one for me, Like don Ni, No nigga wants
Speaker 2: to hear that right out the gate.
Speaker 1: But if you're trying to get rid of him, go
Speaker 1: ahead and do that, because either he gonna give you
Speaker 1: the money or you're gonna get the fuck on through.
Speaker 3: Either way it's a win win.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: We're not talking not necessarily.
Speaker 2: Because you might run off a good guy because you just,
Speaker 2: you know, coming out the gate telling him what you need.
Speaker 2: You know, That's what I said.
Speaker 1: Unless you want to, unless your your your intention is
Speaker 1: to get rid of him, don't do that right yeah,
Speaker 1: because men will get lost if they think you're trying
Speaker 1: to get in their purse real quick. Okay, But I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about my finances too, you're talking about yours.
Speaker 1: We're trying to see how we fit in each other's life.
Speaker 1: Financially because like it or not, on this realm. Okay,
Speaker 1: you need money to live. We can't get around it. Right,
Speaker 1: So y'all mad when somebody say, oh, I make he
Speaker 1: makes thirty forty thousand dollars a year, or you have
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars the date is one ninety five, but
Speaker 1: your man only has such and such.
Speaker 2: How much you're paying?
Speaker 1: Like, what are we talking about? Okay, we need money
Speaker 1: to breathe. At this point, air costs two dollars to
Speaker 1: put gap to put air in the tire at the pumps,
Speaker 1: So what are we talking about? So it's an important
Speaker 1: conversation and you need to find out early as possible.
Speaker 2: You don't want to get in a relationship with.
Speaker 1: Somebody who has fucking people looking for him because he
Speaker 1: owes fifty million dollars to MGM Studio like Bruno Mars.
Speaker 1: Bruno Mars, they say they own him. Somebody said that
Speaker 1: MGM Studios' excuse me, MGM Casino, not Studios. Casino owns
Speaker 1: Bruno Mars because he is in debt to them from
Speaker 1: his gambling habits.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's what That's why I said I couldn't
Speaker 2: talk to that guy because he was successful, but his
Speaker 2: gambling habit was out of control.
Speaker 1: I can't do it and one wrong move, shit can
Speaker 1: go south.
Speaker 2: This nigga had me down. Download and uh, what's that
Speaker 2: sports bet and shit talking about? They're giving away a
Speaker 2: free two hundred and fifty Go ahead and put it
Speaker 2: on your phone. What I don't Okay.
Speaker 1: He sounds like he was already in debt and he
Speaker 1: just was balancing his debt and he was managing debt
Speaker 1: is what he sounds like.
Speaker 2: He was in sports betting.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I had to go. I had to exit
Speaker 2: stage left, baby, because you're gonna have it. You could
Speaker 2: build something great with someone and they gamble it all
Speaker 2: the way. You got time for that. Get at it there,
Speaker 2: So old, let me just say this. I know this
Speaker 2: is kind of like off topic. I mean it's on topic,
Speaker 2: but I used to work when I was living in Europe.
Speaker 2: I used to work at this. Uh it was a
Speaker 2: club and it had like, uh, the machines, the poker
Speaker 2: machines like they had. Yeah, they had like a whole
Speaker 2: section of slot machines and roulette and all kind of
Speaker 2: stuff like that, right, And these people used to come
Speaker 2: in there and they be on the machines all day long,
Speaker 2: just feed and money into that machine. And this one
Speaker 2: man he did not want to leave his machine because
Speaker 2: he said it was getting hot, whatever that meaning. And
Speaker 2: he doodooed on himself. He shipped his pants trying not
Speaker 2: to lead a machine. Yeah, that's how bad it was.
Speaker 2: And then they gonna tell me I got to go
Speaker 2: in there to clean up. I said, I bet you
Speaker 2: the fuck I won't. I bet you the fuck I won't.
Speaker 2: I bet you I quit this motherfucker before I go
Speaker 2: in there and clean up. No doodo out, no chair,
Speaker 2: You'll find somebody else to do it.
Speaker 1: They throw that chair in the trash. What.
Speaker 2: I'm a bartender, that's it. I came here to make drinks.
Speaker 2: That's whole casino funk his hell because this man couldn't
Speaker 2: get up from that machine. On that note, yes, get
Speaker 2: your finances in order.
Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about it. It's all about the Benjamin's baby period.
Speaker 1: Talk about the money you got to it's a must.
Speaker 1: You do want to end up in a bad situation.
Speaker 1: That's your last last Yes, bitch, it's all about the Benjamins.
Speaker 2: My last last is you want a nigga to trick
Speaker 2: on your trick first. It's like real gold niggas definitely
Speaker 2: trick first.
Speaker 3: Somebody a little trinkt a little nice little.
Speaker 1: Because nine times out ten, nobody's ever done anything nice
Speaker 1: for him, Like niggas don't get flowers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but not that. Don't say that. I say that,
Speaker 2: but don't do it because you are looking for something
Speaker 2: in return. Do it because you actually care about this nigga.
Speaker 2: You want to see him smile. And usually when you
Speaker 2: treat somebody good, they'll treat you good in return. That's
Speaker 2: my last last Yeah, okay, y'all.
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