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Speaker 1: But there is an update three months later as a recap.

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Speaker 1: I made it am I the ale post about me

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Speaker 1: After my last few posts gained some traction, I promise

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Speaker 2: And once again, cheating saves the relationshipships better.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to be able to go back in time

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Speaker 2: This is respond less bad than the first time. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: gave in to him. The email was, in large part

443
00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,680
Speaker 1: a story of unrequited love. Rick was upset in the

444
00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,040
Speaker 1: email that he showered her with praise and attention but

445
00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,560
Speaker 1: never really got anything out of it. And finally, the

446
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,920
Speaker 1: email is the ramblings of a sad little man. As

447
00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,800
Speaker 1: much as I personally suffered post discovery of the affair,

448
00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 1: Rick has suffered to a much higher degree. He's not

449
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 1: doing well, and this email showed the depths of his despair.

450
00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,760
Speaker 1: Perhaps it's bad to admit, but I've been experiencing significant

451
00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 1: shorten freud. It's cool knowing that Rick has been suffering.

452
00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 1: He deserves it. I'm furious at Roderick. We have reached

453
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 1: a detent a while back, and I've been civil with

454
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Speaker 1: him the last few times i've seen him. At one

455
00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,760
Speaker 1: point I had straight up asked him to his face

456
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:27,679
Speaker 1: what his motives have been and what he had been

457
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Speaker 1: trying to accomplish with respect to his relationship with my wife.

458
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,840
Speaker 1: He had the nerve to tell me that he had

459
00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,520
Speaker 1: no real plan or goal and was just sad and

460
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,119
Speaker 1: depressed and looking for a friend. It admitted he had

461
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,680
Speaker 1: made a few wasted mistakes and wished he could take

462
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Speaker 1: them back the scumback light to my face. The email

463
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,200
Speaker 1: confirmed that he was trying to convince my wife to

464
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Speaker 1: leave me, even after the affair had ended. I'm inevitably

465
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 1: going to run into him again before too long, and

466
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Speaker 1: I don't know how I'm going to react, but probably

467
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,919
Speaker 1: not well. I really want to punch him, but I

468
00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 1: know that this is probably not a mature choice. Even

469
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,320
Speaker 1: if he deserves to have the crap eaten out of him.

470
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,479
Speaker 1: My wife had an interesting perspective, which was that the

471
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 1: most soul crushing way to get my revenge would be

472
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 1: to grab her and kiss her right in front of

473
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Speaker 1: him the next time we run into him, as it

474
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,720
Speaker 1: would flaunt that I have what he desired more than

475
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 1: anything but could never have.

476
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I kiss your wife.

477
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if she should be giving you advice

478
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 1: on how to get back at the guy that cheated

479
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 1: on you.

480
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 2: Also, he seems unstable, like, I don't think it's like

481
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,520
Speaker 2: a good idea to rub it in his face.

482
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I don't know if this is the best

483
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:32,920
Speaker 1: advice from your wife. And the more I have thought

484
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: about it, the more I know she's right. No, she's

485
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 1: not right. He's really not right, Patty. Sure, but I

486
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,520
Speaker 1: could use some vengeance right now. And that is where

487
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:46,359
Speaker 1: the story ends. Man, oh man, this guy is This

488
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:50,119
Speaker 1: guy is a simp. He's a Simpton simpleton.

489
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's simp, and all around.

490
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 1: Him simptown population. This guy.

491
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, we luckily he's all alone.

492
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Speaker 1: It's all alone and Simptom and his wife is with

493
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 1: Roderick at least in fifteen years. But that's the end

494
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:08,120
Speaker 1: of that story and specifically the end of this episode.

495
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 2: So how are we doing time, Addie. Yeah, thirty two

496
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: and twenty seven. That's that's pretty good.

497
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 1: We should be in about an hour.

498
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, perfect, sutiful. Yeah.

499
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Speaker 2: I mean I think I think Roderick is unstable and

500
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: you help, and so I don't think any of this

501
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 2: idea of getting back I get it.

502
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, a good idea.

503
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Speaker 1: Well, I think sticking it to him implies that he

504
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 1: still has a hold over your relationship. And also the

505
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 1: fact that the wife specifically offered that suggestion feels like

506
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 1: she's still kind of, you know, trying to get back

507
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: at him, which is weird too, Like she shouldn't want

508
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,160
Speaker 1: to do anything with Roderick. She should be like, oh,

509
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 1: let's just you know, ignore him. He literally has no

510
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 1: power over us. Yeah, but it's like they both are

511
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,680
Speaker 1: still trying to involve.

512
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: Roderick and Rod Like I'd be like, yeah, you just

513
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: gotta I think if you want as little drama and

514
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 2: maximal benefit it, you should cut him off completely, no contact.

515
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 1: If you see him at a party, ignore him.

516
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 3: But that is where that story ends.

517
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Speaker 1: Indeed, this episode and this episode.

518
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Speaker 2: We got a long one.

519
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

520
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: We love you and seeing tomorrow.

521
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Speaker 4: My evil sister removed my girlfriend from being a bridesmaid

522
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 4: and then did something even worse.

523
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Speaker 3: I think I know the perfect revenge, But am I

524
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 3: a hole?

525
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 2: If you know the perfect revenge, maybe it's a revenge

526
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 2: that is a holeless. It is like a taped over sphincter. Oh,

527
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: it's like a sphincter that's been sewn shut.

528
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: It's gone.

529
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 2: Or maybe it's like a cheese grater. No shit can escape,

530
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 2: but it's a little bit slower. God, and it might hurt.

531
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Speaker 4: That's that's imagery I don't want in my brain saying

532
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 4: I don't want it, but I do want this story. So,

533
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 4: my girlfriend, Naomi and I have been together for over

534
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 4: a decade. My younger sister, Sarah and my girlfriend have

535
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 4: never been super close, but are friendly when we get together.

536
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 4: Or I thought they were. M We always think we

537
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 4: gotta stop thinking and just start doing each other. A

538
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 4: god sizter with a step in friend or maybe not

539
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 4: or not. Now Sarah got married a few days ago. Grats, congrats.

540
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 4: When Sarah announced her engagement to the family, she asked

541
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 4: Naomi to be a bridesmaid, which surprised us a little,

542
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 4: but Naomi was very excited because she's never gotten to

543
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 4: do it before and probably won't have the chance.

544
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Speaker 3: I want to be clear.

545
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 4: There was no suggestion from either of us that Sarah

546
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 4: should ask her. It was about two seconds after she

547
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 4: told us that she was engaged. She said that she

548
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 4: was so grateful to Naomi for the help when she

549
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 4: was younger, and Naomi was very touched.

550
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Speaker 2: Oh, it's cute.

551
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 3: But a few weeks oh duty, oh.

552
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 4: A few weeks later, Sarah post her bridesmaid proposals brunch

553
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 4: and Naomi wasn't there.

554
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: Oh gone.

555
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 2: Oh.

556
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 4: Sarah never said it to either of our faces directly,

557
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 4: but clearly she has changed her mind. I just don't

558
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 4: feel like anymore.

559
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly.

560
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 4: Why would I tell you when I've already decided it exactly? Yeah,

561
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 4: I think things in my head. You should be able

562
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 4: to read my thood telepathic. Come on, come on, get on,

563
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 4: be like professor X. I know what you're thinking.

564
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Speaker 3: I'm out of the wedding.

565
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: Ah wait, catch me up to speed on what exactly

566
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 2: is going on right now? I'm a little confused.

567
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, So basically, Opie's girlfriend been around for ten years.

568
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 4: Opie's sister is getting married and was like, hey, Naomi,

569
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Speaker 4: I want you to be my bridesmaid, even though they

570
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 4: were never closek and out of nowhere, Opie's sister posts

571
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Speaker 4: bridesmaid's bunch pick which all the bridesmaids are at except

572
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 4: for Naomi.

573
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh, that's weird, and she.

574
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Speaker 4: Never said anything or like, all the other bridesmaids are

575
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 4: there except for her.

576
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Speaker 3: Well, I get but they were never close. You were

577
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 3: never close. But she did asked her to be a bridesmaid. Yeah,

578
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 3: but she didn't ask her to go to the bridesmaid's party. Well,

579
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 3: I guess not.

580
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 4: Naomi was hurt, but she understood because she hadn't expected

581
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 4: the ass anyways.

582
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so Naomi's taking it in stride.

583
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 3: That seems like it. That would have been fine.

584
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 4: But then a few weeks later, Sarah asked Naomi to

585
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 4: go to the bachelolette party and also come get ready

586
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 4: the day of with her friends and bridesmaids.

587
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 3: Same thing.

588
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 4: Naomi said yes and even helped her find a good

589
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 4: place to go and get a rental a month and

590
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Speaker 4: a half before the wedding. I'm talking to my mom

591
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Speaker 4: on the phone and she mentioned that Sarah's at her

592
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 4: bachelorette party.

593
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 2: Wait, so Naomi helped find the bachelorette party location and

594
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,679
Speaker 2: was not invited to the bachelorette party and.

595
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 4: There's no mention of it to Naomi. So yes, that's

596
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 4: kind of fucked right.

597
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 2: It gets deeper, So like, I don't have a problem

598
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 2: with saying, hey, be my bridesmaid, but not being involved,

599
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 2: like especially if they don't know each other that well,

600
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: like not being involved in things, but if you're planning

601
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 2: it and then not being involved.

602
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 4: Also, she's so far invited her to two things essentially

603
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 4: and just had them without her without telling her.

604
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 3: Just invite her, don't invite her, don't do this weird

605
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 3: middle round, literally, like, just leave it be. Now.

606
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 4: I'm kind of pissed because Naomi was clearly very hurt

607
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 4: at two invites and then sort of being ghosted. A

608
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 4: week before the wedding, Naomi texted Sarah and asked about

609
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 4: getting ready for hair and makeup and everything, and Sarah

610
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 4: responds acting confused and basically tells her nicely to not

611
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 4: get her hair done and just come with me.

612
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: So she's completely uninviting her from the bridesmaids thing.

613
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 4: From the bridal shower to the bachelorette party to yeah,

614
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 4: getting ready with the bride space, Like, I just don't

615
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 4: get it after directly asking her to join three times. Yeah,

616
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 4: it's kind of fucked right, I just don't understand the

617
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 4: logic even I'm really curious what the thought process is.

618
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 3: Well, there's only one way to find out.

619
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: Let's keep reading.

620
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 3: Then I was really pissed.

621
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 4: Sarah wanted this really expensive baking mixer thing for a

622
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 4: long time, and I got it for her as a

623
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 4: wedding gift. My mom had ruined the surprise, so she

624
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 4: expected it. But after everything with Naomi, I felt like

625
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: being petty, so I cut her a check instead and

626
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 4: returned the mixer.

627
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 3: Dango pettiness level raised. Yeah.

628
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 4: A few days after the wedding, Sarah texted me saying,

629
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 4: I don't know how to ask this, but I'm like,

630
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 4: what happened to my mixer?

631
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 3: What happened to my girlfriend being part of your party?

632
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 4: What happened to you telling her three times to go

633
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 4: to something and then doing it without her?

634
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: Yeah? What happened to that?

635
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 2: What happened to you being an asshole?

636
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 3: Oh?

637
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 4: Right, you're still one, yeah, and I responded, I don't

638
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: know how to ask, but what happened to treating my

639
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 4: girlfriend like a freaking human eye?

640
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 3: We would call it?

641
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 4: Totally called that clapback we did. We did clapback kigs.

642
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 3: Yep. Now my brother and my new brother in law

643
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 3: and my mom are.

644
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 4: All texting me saying WTF and then I'm ruining her

645
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 4: happy time. Naomi, for her part, says I probably shouldn't

646
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 4: have done that, but she feels a little vindicated.

647
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 3: Am I've a whole? Now we have an update?

648
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 2: Well, I mean just just a quick breakdown before the update.

649
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 3: Yep.

650
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 2: I think OPI's a little bit the a hole because

651
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 2: changed something without really like what he should have done

652
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 2: is just say hey, it's really fucked up what you did, yeah,

653
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 2: instead of like holding the petty card. So a little

654
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 2: bit the a hole, But obviously the sisters the a

655
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 2: hole too. Naomi is the angel. She's just rolling with

656
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: the punches and she's getting shat on. I feel like

657
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: the other family members need to be like, Bro, Sarah,

658
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: what are you doing?

659
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 3: Literally, why are you being such a dick?

660
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 4: Just don't invite her? It's so yeah, it's so simple. Well,

661
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 4: onto the updates. I just want to know why Sarah's

662
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 4: doing That's what I want to know. That's the mystery

663
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 4: to me. Well, we shall see. So I talked to

664
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 4: Sarah and things just got more confusing.

665
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 3: No. Yeah, I wanted it to get less confusing.

666
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 2: I thought we were solving this Rubik's cube of fucking

667
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 2: lies and weird decisions.

668
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 3: No, she said.

669
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 4: When she asked Naomi to be a bride'smaid, she meant

670
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 4: her honorary bridesmaid.

671
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 2: Of course, what does the honorary bride? It's made to

672
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 2: plan everything but not participate in the fun is I

673
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 2: want you to be my honorary bridesmaid. What that means

674
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: is you're gonna help out with the wedding. You're gonna

675
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: prepare stuff, you're gonna plan stuff, you're gonna get all

676
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: the logistics in order, and then you're.

677
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: Just not gonna come to it.

678
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of like a wedding planner, but not

679
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 2: paid and not treated well.

680
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 4: Exactly. You should know that I am implying honorary just

681
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 4: by saying.

682
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: Honorary bridesmaid, but like mine is the honor exactly and

683
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 2: all of the air because there's nothing here I'm not

684
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 2: doing anything for you.

685
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 4: She then said for the bachelorourette party, Naomi had told

686
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 4: her she works most weekends, so she didn't think that

687
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 4: Naomi would be able to attend and was just helping

688
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 4: her to plan it. Naomi said that she told Sarah

689
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 4: to give her the dates so so you could take

690
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 4: those dates off, Sarah, Fuck you. Naomi is a very

691
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 4: non confrontational person and had asked me not to bring

692
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 4: up the bridesmaid or the bachelorlorette things because she didn't

693
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 4: want to feel like she was pushing in at the time,

694
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 4: which is why I didn't the makeup thing. My sister

695
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 4: said that Naomi I had told her she would do

696
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: her own hair, so she didn't see a reason for

697
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: her to come get ready with them.

698
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 3: But you told her to join, So what is she

699
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: to expect?

700
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: What does it mean to be an honorary bridesmaid? Yeah, Sarah,

701
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: what is your definition of honorary bridesmaid? Hey?

702
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 4: Sam, so I would like you to be the best

703
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 4: man at my wedding.

704
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: Oh oh thanks, Sean.

705
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 3: Oh you're so welcome.

706
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 4: So you're just gonna pay and plan for like the

707
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 4: whole bachelor party and everything. You're not gonna go you're

708
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: actually not going to the wedding because you're the honorary

709
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 4: best man. Oh okay, you do all of the work

710
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 4: and get nothing.

711
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 3: It's so honorary. Fuck you exactly.

712
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 4: Now we're talking and my sister Sarah is still pissed

713
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 4: at me and says I ruined her honeymoon period, she's

714
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 4: not on a trip and some other crappy stuff. So

715
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 4: I just hung up on her nick. She also said

716
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 4: that not giving the mixer was rude to her and

717
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 4: her husband, which is hilarious because my brother in law

718
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 4: probably couldn't even figure out how to turn on the

719
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 4: oven without neon flashing lights. Thanks for all the comments.

720
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 4: I've never seen that much many people on any Reddit

721
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 4: post I've ever made in my life.

722
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 3: Wow.

723
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: Well, I think we can all agree that Sarah is

724
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 2: an asshole, But I just want to like, has anyone

725
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 2: ever done an honorary bridesmaid or groomsman? Like it's bullshit?

726
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: Let us know if you've ever heard of that ever?

727
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: And also, what is your biggest wedding drama? Because there's

728
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 2: a lot of drama that happens when you're planning for weddings.

729
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 4: When you're involved in the planning so I want your

730
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 4: wedding drama stories. Instantly drop that tea down there. Yeah,

731
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 4: OPI's not the a hole. Naomi's not the a hole.

732
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 4: Well I guess maybe a little bit of the a

733
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 4: hole for the way he reacted Naomi or op Op? Well,

734
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 4: OPI maybe a little bit. Yeah, maybe a little bit.

735
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 4: But Sarah the biggest a hole ever. Yeah, so you

736
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 4: cheat on me and brag to your friends. Well, enjoy deportation, man.

737
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 3: That is ultimate clad back. Yeh. It's like I control

738
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 3: whether you live in this country or not. All your

739
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 3: disting die abroad.

740
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 2: So I met this girl twenty two at the time,

741
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 2: while I was thirty at the time. I was working

742
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: at a national park and she was a housekeeper on

743
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 2: a work VISA classic romance story. Musty puck ranger coming

744
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: in from the wilderness.

745
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 4: Oh sorry, I smell like pine needles, babe, And coincidentally,

746
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 4: she smelled like pine needles too, but from.

747
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 3: The cleaning product.

748
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 2: And they're like, do you want to pine and dine me?

749
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 3: M I see you, pine needle, poppy, Poppy, that's a

750
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 3: good day.

751
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 2: We instantly hit it off, and within a month we

752
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 2: were in a relationship, a sexual relationship yes. We even

753
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: had a solid long distance arrangement where we would visit

754
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 2: each other on recreational visas in our respective off seasons.

755
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: I'd spend is there an off season for being a housekeeper?

756
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: Maybe shit always needs to be cleaned.

757
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 4: You know, my house would be dirty during the summer,

758
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 4: but clean during the winter.

759
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 3: Because your home more Yeah, more people are home. Yeah

760
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 3: that's true.

761
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: Or but maybe it isn't because more people are home,

762
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: which means they have more time to clean.

763
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 3: This is getting too deep for me.

764
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 2: I'd spend a few months in Romania or meet her

765
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: on some vacation destination. Then she'd spent a few months

766
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: in the States. Seems like this great trade, you know,

767
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: getting a little knowledgeable, let each of each other's countries.

768
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: Nothing could go wrong.

769
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 4: Also, I hear Romania, and I'm like, Andrew Tate, Yeah,

770
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 4: I met this girl Romania. She lived on this compound

771
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 4: with twenty other women in one bald man. I didn't

772
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 4: see it all right.

773
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 3: And she said she didn't want to be my property,

774
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 3: Like what the hell?

775
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 2: What the heck? This went on for about two years.

776
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: Two years, yown, it's a long time. Whoa And eventually

777
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 2: the conversation came up with her family about possibly moving

778
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 2: her to the States permanently. Joy. Hey, yo, you guys,

779
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 2: what are you thinking at this point? Tell me if

780
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: you see any red flags? Yeah, I don't. Romania never

781
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: really recovered from the quas regime and the political economic

782
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: corruption makes men I don't know how to pronounce that

783
00:33:55,920 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 2: word at all. We're rolling with a kyo sesku any

784
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 2: Romanians helpless. Romania never really recovered from the Quiziku regime,

785
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 2: and political economic corruption makes life pretty unpleasant for a

786
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 2: lot of people. Her marrying and moving to the US

787
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: meant that her mom wouldn't have to worry about her

788
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 2: daughter having a good life.

789
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 3: Sounds good, Hey, that's what we want.

790
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 2: So I arranged for a sponsorship and I proposed to her.

791
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 3: It seems like all my dreams are coming true.

792
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: John, It's all making sense, all making sense. It's all

793
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 2: coming together.

794
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: Again and so perfectly right. Nothing bad will happen, nothing bad,

795
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,919
Speaker 4: nothing bad will happen. Guys, guys, nothing bad's gonna happen.

796
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 4: Why are you worry you look at your silly little face.

797
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:37,919
Speaker 2: Worry so much? You worry too much?

798
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 3: Come on.

799
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 2: Then, about a month after she's all settled, in, I

800
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: get a message from her best friend back home. What's

801
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 2: the only message you want from your her best friend

802
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: back home is can I join in anything other than that?

803
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 3: And you're in murky territory? Hello, bestie, bestie.

804
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: What followed were a year's a year's a year's worth

805
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 2: of of screenshots where my fiance ragged about conning me

806
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 2: into paying for her residency while she cheated on me

807
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 2: with eight different men, but one of them was bald

808
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: and lived in the compound in Romanthia andrew ate and

809
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: ate hate that bussy and her friend's words, you are

810
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,760
Speaker 2: a good man and you don't deserve this, which true, dude,

811
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 2: I feel to you.

812
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 3: How are you still best friends with her? Come on,

813
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, get that out of here. Yeah.

814
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 4: Also like after a year, like that's a long time,

815
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 4: that's true. Yeah, what if she was like yeah, I

816
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 4: want to build it up. Yeah, and then she comes

817
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 4: in and she gets the green card. Oh now we're

818
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 4: talking so over the following two weeks, man goes on

819
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 4: a rampage. This guy, this guy doesn't give her a break.

820
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 4: I reported her to ICE and Homeland Security for a

821
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 4: conversation her brother and I had over a bottle. At

822
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 4: one point, he bragged about how he done time in

823
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 4: prison for smuggling weapons to Turkish terrorists, and how she

824
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 4: had been his lookout on several occasions. As you might

825
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 4: imagine in the war on Terror days, this was not

826
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 4: taken lightly, and she was immediately arrested and deported and

827
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 4: put on a permanent no entry terror watch list.

828
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

829
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 2: I want to take advantage of me, and she'd have

830
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: fun never being able to come to the States again.

831
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: That is some pro revenge. I don't know what you

832
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: guys would have done differently, but I cannot imagine Sweeter

833
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: Chef's kiss revenge than completely deporting this person.

834
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 4: This this is a bit mun I mean, no, I

835
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 4: doubled down, do it.

836
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,240
Speaker 2: It's the part your fiance.

837
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,479
Speaker 4: It's terrible what what she did?

838
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 3: Oh man, that's oh man, two years, eight different guys

839
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 3: bragging about it. I mean, it's awful.

840
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 2: It's awful, Like like, I think punishment fits the crime.

841
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 3: I mean she did.

842
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 4: It's it's It's one thing if she was just like, oh,

843
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: I'm just like coming over and like, oh I'm doing

844
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 4: my thing, blah blah blah. But I guess if she's

845
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: like aiding and abetting smuggling terrorist. Yeah that is okay, okay,

846
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 4: wow this also.

847
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 2: I love how like the whole terrorist thing didn't like

848
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 2: I could put up a red flag.

849
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 3: For him, Like that's true, that's like you heard this

850
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 3: stories Like I would have been like a babe.

851
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: Babe, are you a terrorist?

852
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 3: So? Are you a terrorist?

853
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: Bro?

854
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 3: Make sure you're making content. Bro. You wouldn't lie to me, babe,

855
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: God tell me if you're a terrorist right now. Wow,

856
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: I'm not a terrorist, sweetie.

857
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. So Meg definitely got his revenge. But if you

858
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: want another story about cheating, look at this video. My

859
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: mom's sabotaged my dead dad's grave for cheating on her.

860
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: Check it out.

861
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 3: Oh,