WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Vetoed

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jubles. Second dat day girls have two tricks that

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<v Speaker 1>they like to use after a one night's stand. They

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<v Speaker 1>either do the old leave behind that's what I call it,

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<v Speaker 1>where like leave an article of clothing or something at

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<v Speaker 1>the guy's house hoping that he'll call you, be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you left your bra here, you want to come get it.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, if you've ever done a leave behind

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<v Speaker 1>with me, whatever you've left has gotten thrown directly in

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<v Speaker 1>the trash or their other trick that they use is

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<v Speaker 1>a takeaway. It's either a leave behind or a takeaway

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<v Speaker 1>where they take like a sweatshirt or a hat or

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<v Speaker 1>some sunglasses or something, hoping that the guy will call

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<v Speaker 1>them to get it back. Yeah, I've missed a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of sweatshirts. Actually. Well, today's second dat or Katie is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. She took something from the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants us to call today, but he still hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>called to get it back, and she's confused. Why Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm great? How are you guys good?

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<v Speaker 1>So you took something from a guy hoping he'd call

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<v Speaker 1>you back and he hasn't called you. Huh have you

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<v Speaker 1>used this trick before? For and it's worked. I haven't,

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<v Speaker 1>but a girlfriend of mine says that she does it

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<v Speaker 1>a lot and that it said it's like harmless, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a good excuse to, you know, have the

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<v Speaker 1>guy call you. I don't know. It depends what you took, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because something very small, he might not call. He might

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<v Speaker 1>not even notice it's gone. You take the guy's car,

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's getting in contact with you. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>take from the guy that you So you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a one night stand, right, I, oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to think of it as a one night stand,

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<v Speaker 1>looking like it was a one night stand. So what

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<v Speaker 1>did what did you take the morning after with you?

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<v Speaker 1>I took it just like a sweatcher hoodie. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really called out all right. It really was freezing next day?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ask him or did you just do it

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<v Speaker 1>without him even knowing it? I didn't, but I he

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of still sleeping and I did say goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>I grabbed it, But later I did text him, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just I haven't heard anything. So you texted him like, hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry it was cold. I was leaving and grabbed your sweatshirt.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you don't mind. Yeah, like I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to wake you up. Basically itach I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>wake you up, was freezing cold out I had continue

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<v Speaker 1>I had to rush out early, so I just said,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you don't mind. I just grew and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a basic It didn't have a logo or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I figured, you know, Katie, it might have been

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<v Speaker 1>the sweatshirt that has great great grand fall here handed

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<v Speaker 1>down big back. Then do you think it's the sweatshirt

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's making him not call you back? Or do

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<v Speaker 1>you think it's something else. I don't know what it

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<v Speaker 1>could be, maybe bad or the fact that we hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up so fast. Okay, we'll first tell us how you

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<v Speaker 1>met him. Basically, my where I work, the whole department

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<v Speaker 1>finished the big project. So we just went out for

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<v Speaker 1>like a happy hour, and the tind of co worker.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't work with him directly. He had a group

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<v Speaker 1>of friends that met him out and I got introduced

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<v Speaker 1>to him, and there was just instant chemistry and when

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<v Speaker 1>we talked and laughed a lot, and he said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'd like to take you out, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like great, And so after that he said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we can go grab another drink somewhere else and

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<v Speaker 1>he lives close by. So I said, oh, well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, do you do you have drinks back at

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<v Speaker 1>your place? And he was like, oh, waite sick up something.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he was like, oh, actually I do have

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<v Speaker 1>a few things. And I said, well, I'm not picky,

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<v Speaker 1>I can drink anything. You're like, I don't care, just

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<v Speaker 1>get me back to your house. So you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>back to his house and we had we had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. Did anything interesting or strange or anything

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<v Speaker 1>noteworthy happen while you were I mean, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to tell us about what you were actually doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all know. But did anything weird happen

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<v Speaker 1>that think might make him not want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you again? No? I mean I we really had

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<v Speaker 1>so much fun. I thought we had a lot in

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<v Speaker 1>tom and so it was like this is this is fast,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is great. But now I'm thinking I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know now maybe he was like whoa, that was too easy,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe he was kind of like, wow, this chick

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<v Speaker 1>just took like an item of clothing like that so forward.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. You said goodbye to him on

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<v Speaker 1>your way out. Did he say anything to you? What

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<v Speaker 1>is the last thing that he said to you? Just

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<v Speaker 1>like talked to you later and he was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And when you texted him, what did you say? I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, oh, I had a fun time, and I

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<v Speaker 1>started to rush out, but it was really freezing cold.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you don't mind that I grabbed your hoodie

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<v Speaker 1>on my way out, but I can get right back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. And he hasn't said anything back to you.

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<v Speaker 1>After trying to text him and call him, you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>got one word, nothing not ah. Well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on. I guess it's true. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>good at a one, but I still need enough because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just a this nuts suit looking jubil In the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>Katie is on the phone with us. She wants us

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<v Speaker 1>to call a guy named Nathan. They went out, had

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<v Speaker 1>fun at a bar, ended up going back to his

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<v Speaker 1>place hooking up. When she was leaving, she grabbed his

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<v Speaker 1>sweatshirt on the way out, sort of a thing to

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<v Speaker 1>take away from the scene so that he'll call her

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, hey, I get my sweatshirt back. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that trick. Well, he hasn't called her, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why. Katie, I don't really have any speculation for

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<v Speaker 1>you on why the guy's not calling you back, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a question for you. On a scale

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<v Speaker 1>of one to ten, how was he in the bedroom? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I want a second date to I guess. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>he was lousy, then you would be like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care if I ever see that guy again. And good

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<v Speaker 1>at least I got the sweater out of the deal. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I slept with this guy and all I got was

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<v Speaker 1>this lousy sweatshirt. Katie. Well, let's make your phone call then, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Nathan please? Yeah? This is him. Hey Nathan, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Um, I'm good, Okay, I don't know what. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. It's where you go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with one of our listeners and if you end up

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<v Speaker 1>blowing them off after your date, they email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and ask why so you

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out with somebody who listens to our show

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been trying to get ahold of you. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>any idea who might be trying to track you down? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest with you, I don't Is it Robin Robin? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it is not Robin. I'd love to hear about Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>She sounds lovely, but no, it's not Robin. Whoever that is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a girl named Katie. Okay, Yes, I know Katie. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds nonchalant about it, so she should probably go

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<v Speaker 1>through her the initials, just to make sure that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Katie who has your sweatshirt. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember kat Katie's that's great. Yeah, Katie's great. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't sound like it doesn't sound like you think

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<v Speaker 1>she's great because you haven't called her back for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date or even to get your sweatshirt back, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's been trying to get a hold of you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there any reason why you aren't giving Katie a callback? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really hobnously think she's great. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I can't really um pursue her or really go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with her anything, So you can't pursue her.

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<v Speaker 1>You just why is it that I'm just not allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to see her right now. You're not like your parents.

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<v Speaker 1>How old are you name? Seriously, No, I'm thirty one

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<v Speaker 1>years old. Okay, what do you mean you're not allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to see her? I feel like you can do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you want, Nathan. I mean, I'm just in a situation

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<v Speaker 1>right now that I'll just be honest with you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in an open relationship right now. Okay, so wait,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't that mean you can't see her? That's what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say. If you're in an open relationship, that means

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<v Speaker 1>you can see whoever you want. That's true. But the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is the girl that I'm being right now doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want me to contact her or see her. So open

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<v Speaker 1>relationships are trying to understand this a little better. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you date somebody else, sleep with somebody else? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell us what's going on this? This This other girl, the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that I'm kind of in this relationship with, is

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<v Speaker 1>totally cool. She goes on on dates and we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it and it's totally fine. But specifically Katie, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't see her. Well, but what's the reason that you

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<v Speaker 1>can't see Katie? Yeah, like, your girlfriend's cool with r Well,

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<v Speaker 1>is it your girlfriend? Can I call her your girlfriend. No,

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<v Speaker 1>actually we're partners. We're partners. Yeah, so your partner's cool

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<v Speaker 1>with you seeing other girls, just not Katie. So we

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<v Speaker 1>have some guidelines that we follow. And when I came home,

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<v Speaker 1>I showed her on Facebook Katie and what she looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>And we both have to do that once we come

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<v Speaker 1>home from a date. And I did show her that.

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<v Speaker 1>And we do have one VITO that you cannot call,

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<v Speaker 1>and she actually used it on Katie, so she vetoed Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not allowed to see Katie in your open relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not allowed to not only see her, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not allowed to contact or nothing. That was the one

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<v Speaker 1>thing I had. So I'm just following these guidelines. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I still have my vito too. So she goes out

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody, I have a Yeah, does Katie know that

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<v Speaker 1>you have an open relationship with a partner. I usually

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell anybody that unless I pursue more of that

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<v Speaker 1>relationship or that person. So if you're having like a

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<v Speaker 1>one night thing, you won't tell somebody that you're in

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<v Speaker 1>an open relationship. But if you actually want to continue

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<v Speaker 1>to like see them more often, yeah, if it comes up,

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<v Speaker 1>I do, But usually no, I don't tell them. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask you a question, Nathan, Thank you very much

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<v Speaker 1>for being honest by that. I appreciate that. Is Katie

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<v Speaker 1>hotter than your partner? I mean they're both different types,

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<v Speaker 1>but I definitely think Katie's beautiful. Do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>your partner is threatened by Katie? Probably a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you she's a little intimidated. Has she done

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<v Speaker 1>this before? No, this is kind of the first time

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<v Speaker 1>that I've ever had any type of block and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in this open relationship now for about five six months.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I was Katie, I'd be so weirded out

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<v Speaker 1>at the thought of, like some guy I slept with

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<v Speaker 1>rating me on Facebook with a girl that he's a

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<v Speaker 1>partner with. Yeah, I mean I understand, But again, like

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<v Speaker 1>if I would have gone on a second day with her,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have told her that. But for this time being,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not pursuing her right now. Do you even want

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<v Speaker 1>your sweatshirt back that Katie has? I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>can't see her because you're a current partner won't let

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<v Speaker 1>you date Katie, But do you want your sweatshirt back?

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<v Speaker 1>At least? I mean, yeah, I could take that thing

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<v Speaker 1>back or are you in your stationship. I love my sweatshirt.

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<v Speaker 1>See whoever you want, Nathan, I can get your sweatshirt

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<v Speaker 1>back if you want it back. Yeah, I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>get my foot shirt back. Perfect. Well, I know how

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<v Speaker 1>you can, because Katie's actually listening and she's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line. No, I just don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm heard it out and I'm pissed off trying

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<v Speaker 1>play Like I personally wanted to call you and I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to, but you know, I am in this

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<v Speaker 1>type of relationship or the situation or your relationship, Like

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys have been trying this thing out for

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<v Speaker 1>five or six months, yet there've been so many like

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<v Speaker 1>other people like you guys are so promiscuous, Like I mean, well, Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>don't judge us and my relationship. When you slept with

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<v Speaker 1>me the first night, I didn't know. Do you hear yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's so warmed, like she's not even your girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>just like I don't even know what you get out

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<v Speaker 1>of it, Katie. Start thinking of this as a compliment, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're very attractive and beautiful, and the partner that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with right now said to not go out with

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<v Speaker 1>you anymore because she's intimidated. Oh yeah, Nathan, You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>I should feel so honored. I'm wow, I feel so

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<v Speaker 1>good about myself that I'm just that good looking, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just that wonderful. Okay, you are? Thank you? Yes

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<v Speaker 1>you are? You really are. You're beautiful and I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with you. Kat It's just again, like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do anything me personally. It's out of my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to hear your voice anymore. And Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>like you are the biggest as You're just a straight

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<v Speaker 1>up pass whenever this school shit is that you're in

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<v Speaker 1>this like other lah? Would you guys have got I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. I don't care. You're that's it period. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well then I guess that brings me to my next question. Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Katie again? You

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for a second day. I honestly would, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I think that you two maybe want different things. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he's kept an individual obviously. All right, Well, Katie, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry you just you did not get a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>but at least you got a sweatshirt out of the deal, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I am that's still fun too successful second date in

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<v Speaker 1>my opinion in the morning, it never ceases to amaze

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<v Speaker 1>me how people can surprise me and their reactions to

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<v Speaker 1>the second date updates Broke and Jewil in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm moving ninety two point five. All the text messages

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<v Speaker 1>that we're getting in at seven, eight, five, nine two

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<v Speaker 1>are ripping the girl who called us to get a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, not the guy that she slept with

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<v Speaker 1>on one night stand that it's currently in an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>If you just tuned in, Katie wanted us to call

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<v Speaker 1>this guy named Nathan. They met, hooked up, she took

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<v Speaker 1>a sweatshirt. He never called her back. She was wondering

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<v Speaker 1>why we got him on the phone. It turns out

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<v Speaker 1>that he's in an open relationship and apparently his partner

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<v Speaker 1>said x nay on the eighty K sorry he vetoed Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently they have an arrangement where one of them gets

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<v Speaker 1>a VETO card and if they don't want you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with that person, then you can't. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why he wasn't calling her back, because apparently Katie was

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<v Speaker 1>probably hotter than his girl. That he's in an open relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>with But everybody's ripping Katie because Katie got really pissed

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<v Speaker 1>at him for leading her on or whatever. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was a one night stand and they didn't have a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And he says that after time, if he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>date somebody or see somebody again, he'll let them know

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<v Speaker 1>that he's in an open relationship. Now does anybody in

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<v Speaker 1>the room disagree with that or do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>Katie was okay for getting upset? I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>she was justified in being upset because if I go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with a chick and I saw of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden one date and I feel these huge sparks

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<v Speaker 1>on chemistry, then she tells me next day by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I like you, but I have a boyfriend, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the do you think that he should have told

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<v Speaker 1>her before they slept together that he's in an open relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think knowing that that would have changed her

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<v Speaker 1>decision to sleep with him, Like he had to know

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<v Speaker 1>deep down that, Like if I tell her that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>probably that's why he doesn't tell people. Of course, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not an idiot. He knows that that's gonna ruin everything

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<v Speaker 1>for him. So anyway, he can't see her anymore. She

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<v Speaker 1>got pissed, and now everybody on the text message board

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<v Speaker 1>of saying how judgmental is she? It's nice to know

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<v Speaker 1>that we have so many swingers listening to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's even like, oh man, what a weird relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>guy's interview. It's like, how dare she judge him in

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<v Speaker 1>his lifestyle? If he wants to sleep with whoever he is,

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<v Speaker 1>he can sleep with whoever he wants. Texas at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eight five nine too, I'm curious, are you in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship like that? I want to see how many people

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<v Speaker 1>listening actually have a relationship like that. There only a

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<v Speaker 1>lot or at least a lot that wish they were. Yeah, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>remember if you want a second eight up, they'll have

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<v Speaker 1>to do his email the show. Brooke and Jewel at

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<v Speaker 1>moving nine two five dot com. We will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back. Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning presents thousand dollars Thanksgiving. We want to thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for making