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Speaker 1: Looking jubles. Second dat day girls have two tricks that

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Speaker 1: By the way, if you've ever done a leave behind

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Speaker 1: a takeaway. It's either a leave behind or a takeaway

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Speaker 1: them to get it back. Yeah, I've missed a couple

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Speaker 1: of sweatshirts. Actually. Well, today's second dat or Katie is

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm great? How are you guys good?

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Speaker 1: So you took something from a guy hoping he'd call

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Speaker 1: I took it just like a sweatcher hoodie. It was

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Speaker 1: wondering why. Katie, I don't really have any speculation for

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Um, I'm good, Okay, I don't know what. Well.

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Speaker 1: She sounds lovely, but no, it's not Robin. Whoever that is.

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Speaker 1: And we do have one VITO that you cannot call,

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Speaker 1: for being honest by that. I appreciate that. Is Katie

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Speaker 1: I bet you she's a little intimidated. Has she done

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Speaker 1: I'm not pursuing her right now. Do you even want

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to hear your voice anymore. And Nathan,

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Speaker 1: Well then I guess that brings me to my next question. Nathan,

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Speaker 1: If you just tuned in, Katie wanted us to call

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Speaker 1: moving nine two five dot com. We will call the

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