1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Y'all wouldn't care to talk to me if I ain't 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: get raised by that man. Do you remember the last 3 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: conversation you had with your father? Mm? Yeah, he was, 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: uh my bad. 5 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: All my life, grinding all my life, sacrifice, hustle, pricing, 6 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 2: one slice, got the brother. 7 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: All my life. 8 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: I been grinding all my life, all my life, running 9 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: all my life, sacrifice, hustle, bat pricing, one slice, doctor brother. 10 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 3: All my life, I've been grinding all my life. 11 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: Hello, welcome to another episode of Club Sha Shay. I 12 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: am your host, Shannon Sharp. I'm also the propride of 13 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: Club Sha Sha stopping by the conversation and the drink today. 14 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: He's a true renaissance man. He's an NBA champion. He 15 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: was also a member of the very first NBA Championship 16 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: brought to the Cleveland Cavaliers. He's the first NBA player 17 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: to take home the grand prize on Dancing with the Stars. 18 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: He's the first athlete in his high school history to 19 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: have his number retired. A multi happened analysts, a rapper 20 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: and actor, artist or entertainer, TV host, a businessman, and 21 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: a father and he's from Chicago. Here. He is Aman 22 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 1: Shumple b How you doing? What made me sound better 23 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: than that? Give me some big. 24 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: Shoes, you know. 25 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: Don't want to ask how you get them because I 26 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: only know one aman, and that's the that's the the 27 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: famous model. How did you get that name? Is that way? 28 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 3: Did your mom like my mama? She didn't name me 29 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: after she'd always loved the name. Yeah, okay, man, it's 30 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 3: of African descent. But me and my brothers all got 31 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 3: like little wrinkles of African descent. We're not technically we 32 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 3: don't know our roots, right, Okay, you know what I mean. 33 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: But so you haven't did like a DNA or an 34 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: ancestry or anything like that kind of roots. 35 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know my roots. I just know my 36 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 3: mama liked African name. She came with, Hi mind, it's 37 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: just me someone to follow what she said because I 38 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: was just a big as. I was a big baby. 39 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: I was born twelve pounds four hours damn, twenty three 40 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 3: and a half inches lot, so she kind of thinking 41 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 3: about the pain. 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: She kind of knew you gotta give him some sort 43 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: of day. Yeah, yeah, man, with congratulations. Man, I want 44 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: to toast everything that you do. You know what I can't. 45 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't ramadide. Oh my bad, I forgot 46 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: so I forgot that. 47 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 3: Oh no, I ain't Muslim, like I said, I ain't Muslim. 48 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: I ain't got nothing going on. But it's a disciplined thing. 49 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: So it's okay. Yeah, I'll take a little water. Do 50 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: if y'all got right down by your see yeah, right 51 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: there by your seat. I knew you could. Yeah, yeah, 52 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: you could jack down the mask? Youw this? I remember 53 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: seeing on your Instagram post you lost your father unfortunately 54 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: last year. What did your dad mean to you? How 55 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: influential was he in in the demand that we that 56 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: shape that we see sitting here today. My dad. 57 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 3: He just did everything like he It's like it's such 58 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 3: a hard thing when you got somebody there and you 59 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 3: get so used to it. It ain't that I underappreciated him, 60 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 3: because I talk to my dad every day, you know 61 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I didn't underappreciate him. But it's like 62 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 3: when you when it's good being around up when they 63 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 3: when especially when they just get snatched up like that, 64 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 3: ain't nobody really ready for it? Like the whole that 65 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: it leaves, Like I just I guess the process that 66 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 3: it was like understanding that until I go down, like 67 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 3: they really won't know. I mean, we can celebrate, we 68 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: can do this. People talk about getting flowers while you're 69 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: still here on earth, but you can't really feel it 70 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 3: till somebody. 71 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: Gone, you know what I'm saying. So it's like now when. 72 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 3: I do like this my day to day stuff, like 73 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 3: I could hear him, like I know, I know what 74 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 3: he taught me. Like it's to the point where it's 75 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 3: like waking up and finna leave out my room before 76 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 3: I brush my teeth. I could again, like you you 77 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: need to brush your teeth, like being everybody face even 78 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 3: brush your teeth, dude, you. 79 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: Know what I mean. 80 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 3: But it's like you hear him, and it's like, I 81 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: guess I'm it's like the happiest hurt that you can 82 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: have because it's like I'm so uh. I know a 83 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 3: lot of people didn't have their father, and I'm just 84 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 3: I leaned on mind. 85 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 86 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,679 Speaker 3: I had, I had friends that leaned on my father, 87 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 3: and it's like it makes me happy as hell to say, 88 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 3: like he was a good man, you know what I mean. 89 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 3: But it's like within that same breath, it make you 90 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 3: cry like a little baby. 91 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 1: That is like I ain't got him no more. You 92 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 93 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 3: It's uh yeah, he taught me everything I know though, Man, 94 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: I definitely wouldn't be y'all wouldn't care to talk to 95 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: me if I ain't get raised by that. 96 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: Man. Do you remember the last conversation you had with 97 00:04:55,720 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: your father? Mmmm? Yeah, he was. 98 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 4: Uh uh the day before. 99 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: Uh, my bad, oh, my bad dog. Oh he really 100 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: want bad. 101 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 3: So he really wanted me to Uh. He liked when 102 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: I uh but I would wear the suits, full suit. 103 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: He liked when I wear a shirt and tie stuff. 104 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: He always got dressed for the office every day, wear 105 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: a shirt, shirt and tie and uh last cowbo. He 106 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 3: just was like, man, you look good at them uh 107 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 3: and them suits. Man like I like that you're taking 108 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 3: jobs now that you you're wearing that suit. And then 109 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 3: he told me don't come home finished filming because we 110 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 3: was filming the podcast. Told me and my brother not 111 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: to come home finish filming. He gotta go in the hospital. 112 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: He be right back. Yeah that was the last month. 113 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: But did you know your father was that sick? He 114 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: never showed he never shared that. 115 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean I knew he had to go 116 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: in the hospital. I thought he just had some like 117 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: you know, people get older. Yeah, being there a couple 118 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: of days and he'd be right back, yeah, and then 119 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 3: knowing them, I just you know, I would have been 120 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 3: I guess I naturally worry more about my mom because, yeah, 121 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: I ain't never the dude don't ask for help. 122 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: He don't. 123 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, even in the last couple of months, Man, it 124 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: was like hard to help, you know what I mean. 125 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: We ain't know what was going on for real, but 126 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 3: it's like the help we think that we're doing were 127 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 3: just like, yeah, Dad, like you could ask us for anything, 128 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 3: like you know what I mean. But I ain't even 129 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: like notice that that he's going out his way to 130 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 3: say thank you, cause it's like he ain't never had 131 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: to ask nobody for shit, right, you know what I mean. 132 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 3: He been doing it all since he was younger. So 133 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: it's like, uh, it's just hard to process. Man. If 134 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 3: he definitely said I look good my last conversation, he said, 135 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: you look good in the suit. 136 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: Dude. 137 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 3: He was happy to see me in the suit. So 138 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 3: I shout out to ESPL man, he could be a 139 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 3: reason to wear him suits. 140 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: If your dad was sitting in this chair today, it's 141 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: been going a year, and you could have a conversation 142 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: with him. What do you think he would say to you? 143 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: And what would you want to say to him. 144 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 3: I don't know if my dad held back anything for me, 145 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 3: so I don't. 146 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: Think he'd have much to say. 147 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 3: He probably just reflect on whatever I'm going through at 148 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 3: the time at the moment. 149 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: But well, what would you want to say. 150 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 3: I wouldn't talk. I wouldn't even talk. I ain't even gonna. 151 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 3: I wouldn't even talk. I wouldn't be able to my 152 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 3: bad I can't even do the interview. 153 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: But uh, I wouldn't be able to talk. 154 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 3: Thank You don't get like we don't get good men 155 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 3: in the world, in the world like we even get 156 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 3: Like as a kid, I was raised to like deal 157 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 3: with the bad men, like to like protect people from 158 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 3: I'm the bad men. Like when you just say the 159 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: word men, like you just naturally think of all the 160 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,599 Speaker 3: possibilities and all the negative. 161 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: Stuff that can come. 162 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 3: But I just like if I could like hugging your 163 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 3: dad and he down, like you just you don't know 164 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 3: until you see it, Like you can't process it. So 165 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 3: it's like I just need him to be moving again. 166 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: We was talking about it when we was cleaning him up. Uh. 167 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: But it's just like, you know, he looked like he's 168 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: in a move, bro. 169 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 3: Like he looked like he's smiling some ship like like 170 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 3: he want to get up. 171 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: Uh. 172 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 3: But uh yeah, if he was here, I probably just 173 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 3: hug him. Ship bro sitting this like like. 174 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: A little kid. Bro. 175 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 3: But I ain't never It's crazy because I processed death 176 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 3: in a lot of different ways, bro, Like you know 177 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 3: what I mean. But I ain't never had the like 178 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 3: really deal with it. It seemed like all the family 179 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 3: members I even lost, Like it was like once he passed, 180 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 3: it's like things made a little more sense, yess, like 181 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 3: with the waight of things. 182 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: There's just so much weight to it. 183 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 3: But yeah, it'll make a man out of you real 184 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 3: like you like work your whole life to like be 185 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 3: like man, I could do it, like I could do it, 186 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 3: just like that I could do I could do it. 187 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 3: It's like now y'all got y'all niggas got to do it. 188 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: You know it's time to do it. Now. How close 189 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: are you to rare in your daughter in the relationship 190 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: that you and your daughters have compared to what you 191 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: and your father had. 192 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 3: Oh, it's the same. They like they I'm an open 193 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 3: book with them, open door. Ah, Me and Junie have 194 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 3: tough conversations, you know, everything that's transpired. They won't they 195 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 3: I don't have their ear every day how my dad did, 196 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 3: right I'm saying, so I might. Yeah, that's their difference 197 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 3: that I don't have their ear every day. But as 198 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 3: far as when they're around me, when they speak to me, 199 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: the protection that they need from everything that they need, 200 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 3: they get it, you know what I'm saying. 201 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: Like, I know it'd be a lot going on. 202 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 3: In the world, but it's like with kids, like they 203 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 3: see time they see you looking them in the eyes, 204 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 3: they see you paying attention and remembering they got a 205 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: presentation today, you know what I mean, Like it counts. 206 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 3: You know, you can't you can't, they can't have a presentation, 207 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 3: and then you just kind of forgot that they would. 208 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 3: He just came home. You like, how a school like 209 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 3: they don't want to hear house school. They want to 210 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 3: house the presentation, right, you know what I mean. So 211 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 3: it's like their only difference is that they won't get 212 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 3: me access to me every night. How it was in 213 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 3: my households. That's their only difference. But as far as 214 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,479 Speaker 3: what I can present to them, as far as love. 215 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: The love and attention that when you are in their presence, 216 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: the time is all mimicked. Yeah from him, you know 217 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. This episode is brought to you by 218 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: Prize Fix. 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But you still need 247 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: to be a parent. But you still need to be 248 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: a disciplinarian, You still need to be a friend, You 249 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: still need to be a at the end of the day, 250 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: your father, among all friends and all that other stuff. 251 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: You a father above all things. But knowing, like damn, 252 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: my dad probably would have said this, But he would 253 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: have told me this on Monday and Tuesday, And if 254 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: I did it on Wednesday, then that would have been 255 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: a problem. Well, I'm only seeing these my kids Friday, Saturday, Sunday, 256 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: so it's a whole different scenario. I mean for me 257 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: is looking at it like. 258 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 3: Because a little bit of it it comes in like 259 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 3: my older my older, My oldest is like she's like 260 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 3: able to handle, like the calls, the text. My youngest 261 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: she's more like face timed. So luckily my my ex 262 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 3: is not. She's less. It's not like a war or 263 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 3: none anymore, like we can talk to the kids or whatever. 264 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 3: And I think the part that I could appreciate the 265 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 3: most is that my big girl, she she knows the 266 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 3: weight of it, like she kind of knows, like. 267 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: That's junny. 268 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 3: Juny would be like awesome, Like you know, she she 269 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: knows like I'm trying to make sure I still check in, 270 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 3: Like I ain't talked to Dad in a couple of days, 271 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 3: so she's like check in and she wants to show the 272 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 3: phone the roof, but she like tries to stay on schedule. 273 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: So it's like her making an effort. But I still, 274 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 3: you know, that's that's what took so long, Like that 275 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 3: was the process, the whole shebang of you know what 276 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 3: I'm saying, having to separate. That was what the biggest 277 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 3: hurt was, like we're not going to have our kids 278 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: on a day to day Like I know how much 279 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 3: I benefited, Like I benefited having my dad come home 280 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 3: and say why this ain't clean? It don't make no 281 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 3: sense when you were you fourteen, it don't make no sense, 282 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 3: your asshole. Yeah, then you get around some grown ass men. 283 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 3: That's nasty. Yeah, Like I don't clean other people cribs, 284 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 3: and people be like what you want? 285 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, you mean when I'm on, I'm not finna 286 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: sit down in this? Yeah? How you living like that? 287 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: So what I'm saying, Yeah, man. 288 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 3: He's like, bro, I don't really win in people houses 289 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 3: and start like while I'm talking to him cleaning it 290 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 3: like it's my crib when I'm cleaning, and they like, bro. 291 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: What you're doing, Like like what you need? This is gross. 292 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say jokes about it and sit over 293 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 3: here and point at like you see how that is. 294 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 3: I'm in the house too, that's gross. Like I'll leave 295 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 3: by example. So I'm gonna do it, but it'd be 296 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 3: like that'd be my dad here. 297 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: You talk the importance of black fathers, Yeah, and you 298 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: know you hear sometimes like I can do this on 299 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: my own. I don't need a man. But hearing you 300 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: talk the importance of your father and then and in 301 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: turn the importance of you being there for your kids. 302 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: Can you speak to the importance of having a black 303 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: father in a black household. Yeah, man, even if he's 304 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: not there on a daily basis, that he makes sure 305 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: that he checks in and then make sure everything's flow smooth. Yeah, 306 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: I think that I get. 307 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 3: This is the best example I could give you about 308 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:07,959 Speaker 3: black father is right. Black fathers are like a really 309 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 3: good defensive back, you know what I'm saying. I say 310 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,880 Speaker 3: that because like when you got a cornerback or a 311 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 3: safety out here that's so good and their hands are 312 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: so good they catch everything. Do nothing get past them 313 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 3: or they gonna deliver that big hit. Do nothing get 314 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 3: past them. The other quarterback mofucker won't even throw him 315 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 3: the ball. And that's what having a father is like. 316 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: They won't even try. You. All the shit that your 317 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 3: dad do for you, you not. 318 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: Gonna see it. 319 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 3: Like the insurance for this and fixing this and money 320 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 3: was tight, but he done did this this and this 321 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 3: stayed out all night, you know what I'm saying, Like 322 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 3: real pain like and he ain't gonna let you feel 323 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 3: none of it, see none of it. It's like, hey, 324 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: your dad gotta be drel Reeves out there, Like while 325 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 3: you're throwing the ball over here, it's bad news you 326 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 3: throw it over here, you know what I'm saying. So 327 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 3: it's like, I think that's what having a father and 328 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 3: then having a black father being able to walk through 329 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 3: like this country got some up and down shit that's 330 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 3: going on. You know what I'm saying, These files is out. 331 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 3: It's a lot of crazy shit going on. 332 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 1: It would be for especially for a black boy. How 333 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: can I take. 334 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 3: Advice from somebody who tried to keep me down, like 335 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 3: you tried to push me down. Now y'all saying okay, 336 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: well that's over with. So now I'm gonna teach you this, 337 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 3: this and this. But I still kind of got to 338 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 3: take it with a greater saut until my black father say, no, 339 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 3: that that there. 340 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 341 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 3: We cipher Yeah, we ciphered through that info. Don't trip. 342 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 3: That's cool. You can learn this, you can learn that. 343 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 3: This curriculum you should learn woo woo. But they very aware, 344 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 3: very conscious, you know what I'm saying, Like I know 345 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 3: a lot of the you know stereotype with the black fathers, 346 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 3: like he ain't a rhyme, he doing the most so 347 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 3: he whatever. But it's like, no, bro, especially I come from, 348 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, having a black father that 349 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 3: was always there, My uncles always showed up, you know 350 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Like the teammates that I've had are 351 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 3: great fathers. Wow, and they don't get talked about a lot, 352 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. But it's like I have, 353 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 3: I've had the most wonderful experience. Like even now it 354 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 3: is it's cool to me now, but at first it 355 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 3: was kind of weird. I'm more attentive to an older 356 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 3: man because I lost my dad, But it's like it's 357 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 3: a safe space to me. Like there's so many people 358 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,439 Speaker 3: that walk down the street. You see five black dudes 359 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 3: on a corner, paper bags over their cups and everything. 360 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 3: It's so many people that that give him goose bumps. 361 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 1: They feel weird. They don't know what they own right 362 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: a whole life. 363 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 3: When I see five men on the corner, it's a 364 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 3: safe ass corner to me, you know what I'm saying, 365 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 3: Like it's safe if my uncles and my dad is 366 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 3: standing outside this store. 367 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: Every kid that walk past it is safe. 368 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 3: So that's how I view black men, And it's like 369 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 3: I see the opposite when people deal with us, where 370 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 3: they just like y'all infury, Like the intena goes up, 371 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 3: yours go down, mine go, I put my guard in. Yep, 372 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 3: I go talk to an old man. Their poor dog. 373 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 3: I'm be so chill, had me taking shit off. I'll 374 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 3: be the mister flight. Let's unpack, let's talk, you know. 375 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: What I'm saying. 376 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: But it's a safe space for me because I have 377 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 3: my dad, you know what I mean. So I just 378 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 3: I'm big on that. I love dad. 379 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: Dad. 380 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 4: Shit. 381 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, how your mom doing as good as she could do? 382 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 3: You know, that's a strong woman. She had me naturally. Yeah, 383 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 3: twelve pounds, four hours. Yeah, they have all the medication 384 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 3: that they got now exactly. She said that having her 385 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 3: grand babies around her and being able to look up 386 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 3: and see all four of her boys in one room again, 387 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: she like, even though it was because of that, She's like, 388 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 3: just seeing y'all, that was enough for me. 389 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: She's like, y'all ain't got to worry about me, you 390 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 391 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 3: That's all I needed from her, like I needed to 392 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 3: know I don't have to be worrying because I already 393 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 3: know how it goes. Like you lose your loved one 394 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 3: that you've been riding with. They still married, you know 395 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It's like you your health could dwindle, 396 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 3: losing somebody that been keeping you up, you know what 397 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 3: I'm saying. 398 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: So I'm just like, man, just I've seen it. 399 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 3: She like, no, they give my heart the most joy, 400 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 3: like the little grand babies running around. 401 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 1: That she said, give them the most joy. They have 402 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: a good time. I have my uncle and aunt. They 403 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,199 Speaker 1: had been married, oh my god, probably thirty plus years, 404 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,959 Speaker 1: and she got a call that said they found him 405 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: the head in his car. 406 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: Thirty minutes later, she had a heart attack just like that, 407 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 3: died in saying, just like the understandable. Yeah, but it's 408 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 3: understandable because you I'm sure everybody's had like just you know, 409 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 3: some traumatic death that's happened that you wasn't ready for, 410 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 3: and we all have that human thought like man, I 411 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 3: could just might as well go out. Yeah yeah, just 412 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 3: take me, yep, just take me. I had as soon 413 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 3: as I was my dad. Man, it's some bullshit. I 414 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 3: don't know if I don't know if I could deal 415 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 3: with this one. You know what I'm saying, you get 416 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 3: to looking at the sky. I wanted to say something crazy, 417 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: and it's like I could totally understand somebody, you know 418 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 3: what I mean? 419 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,879 Speaker 1: Kicking a can right after that, it's crazy. 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Application times and rates may bear your mom? 443 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: Which was she more proud of you winning an NBA 444 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: championship and you win and dance with Start with the Star. 445 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 3: Come on, man, said I would to play in the NBA, 446 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: you would have championship. 447 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: You brought a championship city. She concerned that championship. 448 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 3: Led to me getting the ball I really was supposed 449 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 3: to get. So that mirror ball is when she pried 450 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 3: at mirror balls in her house right now, she loved that. 451 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: Damn Trump, your daughter, Your daughter was born at home. 452 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: Obviously your eggs exactly in the baptub You were there? 453 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 1: What what? Why? Why was that the first one was accident? 454 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,439 Speaker 1: Was trying? The first one was not? That wasn't playing? 455 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 3: No, No, we was yeah, I was trying to get 456 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 3: to the get her to the hospital, grab the bag. 457 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do this. She's like, we ain't making it. 458 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 3: I'm what to me, We're not gonna I ain't no doctor, 459 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 3: but yeah I could catch I got yeah, yeah, yeah, 460 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 3: ain't no doctor, but I can catch. Yeah, I ain't 461 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 3: do nothing. She pushed it out, but yeah, it was 462 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 3: right there at the bathroom. And then because we did 463 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 3: it that way, it was like, you know, rugo, Phil 464 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 3: left out and she got the she got the hospital birth. 465 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 3: That ain't as good. So we did it at the 466 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 3: new house. We had the new house, and we did 467 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 3: it at the house. You might want to go back 468 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 3: and give me a doctor, you know, man, you got 469 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 3: this fantasy in your head getting out of the life. 470 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: It's crazy, man. 471 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 3: You know, as an athlete, I do like taking challenges 472 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 3: like that, But that might be a road that's too 473 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 3: long for me, Shannon, A lot that's at road. I 474 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: don't want to do. Lawyers and doctors, those routes. And 475 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 3: then and then the nerve of some of y'all to 476 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 3: do seven eight years and be like, I just don't 477 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 3: want to do it anymore. What at the hundreds of 478 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 3: thousand dollar and hundreds of thousand. I was a studying 479 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 3: and knowing, like you know how to cut a person open, 480 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 3: and you don't want to use it. You could fix 481 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: what's going on. If I test something up, you could 482 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 3: go in and fix it. And you ain't gonna use it. 483 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,479 Speaker 3: You're just gonna walk around. You go. You're gonna stream 484 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 3: that you're gonna do to make money correctly. 485 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: If you got to you got to girls? You you 486 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: want more kids? Oh yeah, you will have more? Want 487 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: you boy? You want? You want a junior? I gotta 488 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 1: have it. 489 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 3: That's why I'm I gotta get I gotta get it. 490 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 3: I gotta get it. 491 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 1: You gotta have it. You know, just your luck, but 492 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: you gotta have you gonna be bore girls. That's cool. 493 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: More girls in school. I don't really care. 494 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 3: But we go until we get that boy, going till 495 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 3: the boy come. I'm sorry, you gotta have it. You 496 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 3: gotta have it. 497 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: Okay. What about this marriage? I don't know if I 498 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 1: do it legally. 499 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 3: I don't want to sign papers and all that, like 500 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 3: gonna do a contract. We're gonna do a contract owning 501 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 3: something that we both trying to do. Anyway, I'd rather 502 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 3: the contract be about a business. If my mama at 503 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 3: the wad and we got married, if my mama was there, happy, 504 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 3: it happened, for sure. But this whole they get to 505 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,719 Speaker 3: be a part of it now because we went to 506 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 3: the courthouse and now. 507 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 1: We gotta do this now, I got it. I ain't 508 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: even doing all that. What do you learn about in 509 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: your marriage? What have you learned about relationships that you 510 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 1: didn't know because obviously you know you dated. Dating is 511 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: one thing. Marriage is a whole different ending. That was 512 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: a whole different ball game. Oh it's like there, marri 513 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: ain't no saing, ain't no light. Because when you get 514 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: that piece of her name and your name on that 515 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 1: piece of paper, that's a whole that's a game changer. 516 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: I think. See, we was young, so it's like we 517 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 1: were just young. 518 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 3: But I say, I say, the biggest thing I learned 519 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 3: is like, when you get married, you think it's like 520 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 3: a new other love love. A lot of people think 521 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 3: you get married and now like she FeelA love you 522 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 3: way more on the other side of this, and it's like, 523 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 3: hell no, the real love, that honeymoon love whatever. Honeymoon stage. Yeah, 524 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 3: the honeymoon stage is it's not love. 525 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: It's like you see what I'm saying, Like we thinking we're. 526 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 3: Gonna love come now in like times eight, It's like, no, 527 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,199 Speaker 3: she love you already. 528 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: If y'all at this point, y'all already in love. You 529 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Do she still like your ass? Though? Right? 530 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 3: That's probably how well I'm in now where I'm like, gee, 531 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like you get demray do this. 532 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: It's like you finish, get a whole new bounce in 533 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: your step. 534 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 3: It's like, hell no, ain't nothing gonna change it. 535 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: It's a piece of paper. I was talking to someone 536 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: and that said, the thing is that the person that 537 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: you met when you originally met them, they're not that 538 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: same person in six months. They're not that same person 539 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 1: of the year. They're not that same person in six years. 540 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: The only thing is is that you have to adjust. 541 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: You guys have to adjust to each other because you're 542 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: ever evolving. 543 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm done adjusting, though. 544 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: I'm being for real though, like how you gonna be 545 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: able to situate you too? 546 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 3: But you've done adjust it, So I know they probably 547 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 3: sounds crazy, but I'm trying to speed up the process 548 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 3: of us getting to know each other, like if I'm 549 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 3: dealing with a woman, it's like you finish see it 550 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 3: all day, like I'm not finna put on, like I 551 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 3: ain't told to laugh and I don't know how long, 552 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 3: but I like, I get I will have to have 553 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 3: two three months separated from a person because they feel 554 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 3: like in that moment, you ain't have to tell me that. 555 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,720 Speaker 3: You ain't have to say that. You ain't have to 556 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? That was harsh, but it's like, no, 557 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: I'm done lying. Like it's been where a woman has 558 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 3: tried to tell me to know my worth and what 559 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 3: I'm supposed to be doing. I'm like, oh no, I'm 560 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 3: worth doing what I just did. I'm worth it, right, 561 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 3: I did it, you. 562 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? 563 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 3: However, I did it. 564 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: If it's an error in your mind, that's cool. 565 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 3: But I'm no longer discussing errors in your shit, like 566 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like if you process it 567 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 3: like that, you process it like that. But it's like 568 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 3: for me, I'm done feeling bad after you tell me 569 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 3: you don't like it, like I used to do that 570 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 3: as a I think that's like my cancer trait. Like 571 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 3: somebody could tell me like, oh man, I ain't having 572 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 3: a good day, and then it's like, damn, I don't 573 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 3: want to have as good a day in front of it. 574 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: I don't want you to feel bad. You feel me? Yeah? 575 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now you could tell me you having a bad day. 576 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 3: I'll rub your back for two minutes. If we're not 577 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 3: trying to stand up in a just this behavior. If 578 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 3: you finel soaking it, You're finna watch me eat a 579 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 3: big ass sandwich while I turn on this big ass TV. 580 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 3: I'm finna watch all the games and I'm gonna be. 581 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: Excited because we do feel bad. I'm gonna cancer. And 582 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: if somebody feel bad, like damn, I feel bad? Man, 583 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: what can what I do? Man? What can I do 584 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: to pick this person up? 585 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 3: Hey? A, but I did it already. 586 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: I did, so you ain't trying to make nobody feel 587 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and make it. I'm a I'm gonna try. 588 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not doing the whole My day gotta 589 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 3: get thrown away now. And I don't want I don't 590 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 3: want another person doing that for me. That's from my kids, 591 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 3: a person I date, my homies. 592 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: If you don't want to be here, don't come. 593 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 3: If you come and you feel like, man, I don't 594 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 3: like the vibe here, get up and leave. Don't nobody care. 595 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 3: I think I got that points too, that place too. 596 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 3: My daddy told me that it was one of my. 597 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,719 Speaker 1: Favorite quotes from him growing up. 598 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 3: He said, the sooner you learn that don't nobody care, 599 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 3: better off, you're gonna be he like you just want 600 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 3: to care. 601 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 1: You want to out care somebody for what. 602 00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 3: He like when they go down, You're finna be byo 603 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 3: oh when they go down. And it's like when they 604 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 3: when that click for you, man, it just be like 605 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 3: you start realizing, Like you know how many women have 606 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 3: detached from me. Say we've been talking and there detached 607 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 3: from me for a couple of weeks, maybe a month. 608 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: Come right back and be. 609 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 3: Like, you might be the only dude that don't just 610 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 3: be lying for no reason. And I'll be like, bro, 611 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 3: for what what I'm lying for? Because you thinking you 612 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 3: lying and it's gonna keep her. But when she find 613 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 3: out the lie, you're gonna be sick. And you lie 614 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 3: because you was trying to play it right for because 615 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 3: you thought I'm showing you I like you. I told 616 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 3: a quick lie, made it make sense. Everything's perfect, It's dreamy, 617 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah that I would have read the back 618 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 3: of the book. Doog, I would have read the back 619 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 3: of got the synopsis? What was that spark note of 620 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 3: did all? I ain't reading the book? No more, man, 621 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 3: we ain't doing it. We ain't doing that shit. Okay, 622 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 3: let me see this public dating. 623 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: I had Amber rolls on here and she said, man, 624 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: beating Bond are good friends? People thought we were dating? 625 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: Where are you on public dating? Would you ever be? 626 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: Because you were a very high profile marriage. Everybody knew 627 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 1: who you were, they knew who she were. She was 628 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: excuse me, not was is? Would you do public dating again? 629 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 1: Public marriage again? 630 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 3: I mean, I think it naturally becomes public these days, 631 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 3: cause it's like if y'all seen me with a woman, 632 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 3: like but I'm not. I used to think like that though, 633 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 3: like where it's like, oh man, I don't want to 634 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 3: be seen it. It's like, nah, just be like yeah, nah, 635 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 3: if I feel like going to lunch and y'all have 636 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 3: cameras there, y'all just got cameras there. If y'all say, 637 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 3: is that your girl, I'm not gonna answer. 638 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: Y'all, like I don't care to you ain't going to somebody? Hey, 639 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: min and min, how you doing? If you see me? 640 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 1: If I get photoed with the lady? Yeah, thirty times 641 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: y'all could kind of feell in like that's his girl, 642 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: that's his girl. 643 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 3: She worked with it right, right, But it's like, why 644 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 3: am I sent a check my phone on an app? 645 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 3: I gotta go through here, read through this and woo 646 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 3: just because y'all trying to figure out who I just went. 647 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: To lunch with. 648 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 3: That's too much like even like me and AM like 649 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,760 Speaker 3: am hung out. And don't get me wrong, I ain't blind. 650 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 3: Look good, I ain't blind. I ain't say that I 651 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 3: wish you when you're right, say that were you right? 652 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: Said? We went to College Hill together. You know what 653 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 654 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 3: I see what y'all see. Just I'm more used to 655 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 3: AM's like, Am woke me up all day. I ain't 656 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,200 Speaker 3: used my alarm clock. That was that's her thing. Like 657 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,840 Speaker 3: she's just a mom. She's used to waking up the boys. 658 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 3: He come up there, tell us, hey, the food ready, 659 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 3: come down. But it was like she had a sweet voice. 660 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 3: She could wake me up. Though none of y'all else, 661 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 3: don't nobody on her poker cool. Everybody else knew can't 662 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 3: do it till New York loved it up. Don't come 663 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 3: in here, yelling, don't come here. Loud Jos was in 664 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 3: that crazy gonna be a loud ray j Crazy gonna 665 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 3: be crazy, real smooth. 666 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 1: Am was real smooth. 667 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 3: But you know, we got photo on the beach and 668 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 3: it was like I just needed to vent to Am. 669 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: But it's like everybody was tweaking out, like oh, I'm like, bro, 670 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: y'all can fill in whatever blanks y'all want him. 671 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 3: But I'm telling you we needed to sit down and talk, 672 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 3: like I needed to vent to her that day. So 673 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,479 Speaker 3: it was like, I don't care. I see this taking 674 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 3: a picture like I don't care. That's really my people. 675 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 1: Cam caught a lot of criticism that he says he 676 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: couldn't be platonic friends. He was talking about it and clectic. 677 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 3: What are He's saying, Yeah, well, you got boy watching 678 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 3: you gonna go on the word back with lady Yeah, 679 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 3: lady Loddon going to the word. 680 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: It's crazy. He said, I just can't. He said I 681 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: can't because eventually I'm gonna I'm gonna be I'm attracted 682 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 1: to you or X, Y and Z. Can men and 683 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: women be platonic friends. I think they can't. Oh, yeah, 684 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 1: I got a patonic friend. Yeah, my best friend is Taco. 685 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 3: She's with me all the time, like even Keys, Like 686 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 3: I'll be with Keys all the time. We don't be 687 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 3: on nothing, Like they sleep in my bed if they won't, 688 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 3: Like they don't kick me out? 689 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: What now do you not in there with them though? 690 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 1: When they sleep? 691 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 3: Right? 692 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: I have been plenty of times. This is my best 693 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 694 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 3: Like, Hey, I got me and kid got pictures with 695 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 3: no teeth together. That's Kia. Like I grew up with Kia. 696 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,800 Speaker 3: Kid been doing my hair since I was in fourth grade. Okay, okay, 697 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. Like I can go to 698 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,840 Speaker 3: kill Mama house without her. She can go on my 699 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 3: Mama house without me. You know what I'm saying, Like Taco, 700 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 3: since they won in college, it's like I've been with her, 701 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:45,799 Speaker 3: I've been with al they free flow, Like sometimes I 702 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 3: get into it with girls all the time over them 703 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,359 Speaker 3: because they can't believe it. Taco start doing her modeling thing. 704 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 3: Now she ain't all sweaty with braids all the time. 705 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,800 Speaker 3: So now all of a sudden, they oh she's gorgeous 706 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 3: and there they can't fathom why you don't sleep with her. 707 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, bro we shared meals when everybody was flying, 708 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 3: I mean going flying home for the holidays, the people 709 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 3: from Georgia going. I'm like me and Taco in here 710 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:15,240 Speaker 3: sharing little random bills, you know, I mean like really 711 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 3: trying to go through it. And then I'm like, Taco 712 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,359 Speaker 3: rebounded for me though, like she don't play basketball, right, 713 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 3: she trying to help because she just like, we got 714 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 3: to get out of this. 715 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 1: This sucks. We I hate being broke, me too. 716 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like if Taco in the bed sleep like 717 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 3: we're tired, like we're. 718 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 1: Not on that. Hey, I've got I've got a women friend, 719 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 1: but I do. I do like that he said he 720 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: ain't the one. Yes, yes, and I ain't got no 721 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 1: problem with that. That's damn thanks for telling me, That's 722 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:47,919 Speaker 1: what I said. 723 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 3: Thanks for telling me, brother, because because I don't want 724 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 3: minds around you then, but he told us don't. I 725 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 3: ain't trying to be disciplined about it. And it's like people, 726 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 3: I don't like that. People did go take that and 727 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 3: try to make it seem like he was a weak 728 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 3: man or a weak. 729 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: Mental I'm like no, no, no, no, no, no no no. 730 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 3: No no no like seeing this world here, this is 731 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 3: a doggie dog world, right. And what he did is 732 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: he just looked out for y'all and said, I ain't 733 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 3: gonna take your girl or shoot at your girl. Just 734 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 3: keep it from around me because after a while, that's 735 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 3: gonna happen. 736 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's like, bro that's played 737 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,840 Speaker 1: and anything else for me, I don't know. Let me 738 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: ask you this. You said you could be friends with 739 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,840 Speaker 1: a young lady. Yeah, what if your young lady was 740 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,919 Speaker 1: friends with another dude? You cool? Yeah, yeah, she gonna 741 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: understand me way better. 742 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 3: And what you know, how much how you when you're 743 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 3: dealing with a woman that don't got no male friends 744 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 3: like she try and keep it super strict for you. 745 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 3: Do you know how much delusion you finna deal with 746 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 3: on your phone? She delusion or the friend even worse 747 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 3: other friend ain't got no man. 748 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: She giving all the advice. Yes, yes, with no man. 749 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 3: I just want one dude. Yeah, if you got a 750 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 3: best buddy, step right up. We got a best buddy 751 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 3: that he's a dude, He got a job, he take 752 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,799 Speaker 3: care of his old kids and he picked up the 753 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 3: phone for you. He gave you advice. Oh yeah, sign 754 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 3: me up. And where's your dad? 755 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: You know how you get to dinner now? 756 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 3: Like and you be asking all your love yeah HATI 757 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:21,720 Speaker 3: pa questions or whatever? 758 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,360 Speaker 1: My question in time? What's your relationship like with your father? 759 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, I don't really miss Oh I got it, 760 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 3: I gotta go, I got I got it. 761 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: No, no, not you. But she's saying that she don't 762 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: really miss. 763 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 3: You if she said it, h but I'm knowing right now, 764 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 3: like especially if she got like salt that come with it, 765 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 3: like she said, I. 766 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 1: Don't mess with him. 767 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 3: You know, I never really met him, but it is 768 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 3: what it is, like, I just take it with grace. 769 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 3: I still got my granddad, you know, I still got 770 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 3: If she positive like that, yeah cool. 771 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: She could get off, like I can't stand his ass, 772 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: what dad? What she do? Any of that? All? I'm out. 773 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 1: You can't. 774 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be able to process nothing I got 775 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 3: going on because I have my dad. I don't even 776 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 3: know them triggers. I don't know what that is like. 777 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 3: As soon as you start doing that, it's irregular to me. 778 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 3: My younger self would lean into it. Try and cater 779 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 3: to it, understand it, but you're making it. You making 780 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 3: it worse for somebody, because it's like, if I like 781 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 3: my shoes white, you can't just come in randomly at 782 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 3: thirty five and be like, hey man, it's okay when 783 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 3: they you know what I mean, they got that little 784 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 3: yellow yellow, it's okay. 785 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, no, it's not. 786 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 3: I've been bleaching these bitch just every day. 787 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You get like that, how 788 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 1: would you feel an ex? And I'm not talking about 789 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 1: your ex wife, but if ex popping up on on 790 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 1: podcasts saying things talking about you, not your. 791 00:40:56,160 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 3: No, No, it wasn't that, did it though? Yeah about 792 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 3: other eggs. But it's cool. 793 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 1: I'll be honestly do that. 794 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 3: Let me tell you this. Let me tell you this. 795 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 3: First off. I think it's kind of funny that everybody. Man, 796 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,959 Speaker 3: I've been kind of taking advantage of it a little 797 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 3: bit because everybody been walking on pins and needles since 798 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 3: I don't care that much, like the whole like Kayler, like, 799 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 3: oh this happened dated at this timeline, and I'm just 800 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 3: why we can't bring that up. Though I don't know 801 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 3: why she brought it up honestly, but me and Kay 802 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 3: are good friends. Like it's not like a thing where 803 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 3: I'm finna be mad at her because she did that, 804 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 3: Like she low KEI was just speaking her truth. 805 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,759 Speaker 1: It was a funny story. Honestly. I don't know why 806 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,919 Speaker 1: she did it. But when you first heard the name man, 807 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: because I'm sure a lot of people didn't know what 808 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: that happened. Yeah, they're like sump. 809 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 3: And you girls saying on the pod. Yeah, but uh, 810 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 3: I don't know, Like some of that stuff is just 811 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 3: like that'd be for the girls, Like no dudes had 812 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,399 Speaker 3: we ain't have really no rabbit hole to go down. 813 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 3: It's like, okay, you dated her, she said this, and 814 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,359 Speaker 3: then it's over for a dude. For a female, it's 815 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 3: like what happened first? Who this? And it just like 816 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 3: I'm not a female, so I don't know. I didn't 817 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,359 Speaker 3: take it. I wasn't offended. She hit me up, and 818 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 3: that's what I do appreciate about. 819 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: Okay, she hit me up. It was like, I'm so sorry. 820 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking you know what I'm saying. 821 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell a funny story on the spot, 822 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 3: Like I did not mean to do that, and I 823 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 3: was just like, honestly, gee, like, it's everything's all over 824 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 3: the place. 825 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 1: Who cares? Right? So he was cool with it. 826 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 3: As long as I can see my kids every day. 827 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 3: I really don't care, bro, I promised, I don't. I 828 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 3: tried to, though, at one point I tried, Man, I 829 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 3: did my bid done caring. 830 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: Did you see the Clifton powerpiece where he was sitting 831 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 1: around He said he's trying to find how to love 832 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 1: someone at the age of seventy. Uh, I didn't see that, 833 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: but uh. He said he didn't have any examples of 834 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: what love is. You're different. Your mom and dad were together, 835 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: and so that's powerful. Yeah, he's said he didn't have 836 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 1: anybody to show him what love because you I grew 837 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 1: up in a situation if you had food on the table, 838 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 1: you had clothes on your back, you had a roof 839 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 1: of your head, that's love. That's love. Ain't no, I 840 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 1: love you? What did you see the movie Fences with Denzel? 841 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 1: Denzel told him the same thing. 842 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 3: You got a roof over you head, Remember that, Yes, sir, yes, sir, 843 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 3: that was a good that's love. 844 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,880 Speaker 1: That's love for sure. So he's saying for someone to 845 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 1: come up to him and table I love you, or 846 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,719 Speaker 1: someone to say I love you, or his uncles and 847 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,719 Speaker 1: his father or grandpa. He said he didn't have examples, 848 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 1: so it's taking him this long to try to figure it. 849 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,879 Speaker 1: So now he's trying to navigate on the back end 850 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,359 Speaker 1: what he should have learned on the front end damp 851 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: or what he should have been shown on the front end. 852 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 3: It's crazy because I think I'm a lot like you 853 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 3: I was. There's actions and there's like there's approaches. That 854 00:43:56,360 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 3: for me is love like knowing that like you ever 855 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 3: seen when they like the old movies and stuff, the 856 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,919 Speaker 3: dad comes home and like the kids is waiting to eat. Yes, yeah, 857 00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 3: that's like, well, yeah, I've never seen that. My dad 858 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 3: is like kids gotta eat. It's sometimes where it'd be 859 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 3: like I asked them, Dad, what do you when you eat? 860 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, I eat, don't worry about it. 861 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Whatever he gotta do, he 862 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 3: gotta do. But it's like to me, love is I 863 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 3: gotta make sure y'all straight, then I'm gonna get me, 864 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like my dad went out 865 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 3: his way for that, Like y'all got to go to school, 866 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 3: then I go to work. But putting somebody before you, 867 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, just even having the 868 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:52,359 Speaker 3: ability to prioritize somebody else before yourself. It's like, it's 869 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 3: cool because everything else in life is like the mask 870 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 3: on the airplane. 871 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 1: You gotta put your mask before you help somebody else, 872 00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. 873 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, But my example of love from my parents, they 874 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,520 Speaker 3: totally are putting my mask on first. 875 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: Wow. And it's like for me, for me, that's that 876 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,719 Speaker 1: was It's funny that you say that because I'm, you know, 877 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: twenty years older than you are, and my ground. We 878 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,239 Speaker 1: couldn't cut the cake until he got a slice of cake. 879 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: The cake just be sitting up there and we just 880 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: thinking like. 881 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 3: Damn, Papa, will you go well tysha hope he tells 882 00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 3: ready you you want a piece of cake or piece 883 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 3: of pie. 884 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,720 Speaker 1: We can't get it. We can't eat anything until. 885 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 3: You know, if I could have done that, took the 886 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 3: assha before us off boy, I ain't gonna lie. Took 887 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 3: the boy and me has a brother, I'm taking that ass. 888 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 1: I can't do it. And so that that was the thing, 889 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,759 Speaker 1: and that's how we grew up. We grew up there 890 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,640 Speaker 1: structured a no a and you do boom boom boom boo, 891 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 1: you walk these steps. But to hear you say that 892 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: my father, the kids eat Okay, then I'll eat Ma 893 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,880 Speaker 1: Mama too. Yeah. 894 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 3: I remember one time not liking something I ordered some shit, 895 00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 3: didn't like it. 896 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,840 Speaker 1: We done left. 897 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 3: I couldn't eat it now because it's like, it's just 898 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 3: I don't like it. 899 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 1: And my mama knew. 900 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,400 Speaker 3: I I liked what she was eating, but she not 901 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 3: eating chicken wings. It was a lot of foods that 902 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:18,799 Speaker 3: we like. We get some steak, some rib steaks. She 903 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 3: loves steak, rib tips. 904 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 905 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 3: Some shit that just pork and just you know, man, man, 906 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,280 Speaker 3: she gave me a ship and. 907 00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:30,319 Speaker 1: I'm like, what you gonna eat? 908 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,480 Speaker 3: She like, oh, don't worry about it. And now, like 909 00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 3: you know, that was like I was real young. You 910 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying that it didn't stick with me. 911 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 3: I just ate, Like you know what I'm saying, like whatever, 912 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 3: As I got older and my daughters do it to me, 913 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:48,440 Speaker 3: like luckily, I'm like we got uber eats. Now my 914 00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,160 Speaker 3: food to be at the house by the time we 915 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 3: get that girl eat my whole whatever the hell's in 916 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 3: that bag, eat it, you got it. You're a growing girl. 917 00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 3: I could just order something to the house and be straight, 918 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,040 Speaker 3: but I really thought about it, like. 919 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 1: Damn, it was time my parents didn't eat. 920 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:09,319 Speaker 3: Y'all just straight up didn't eat and watched us do that, 921 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 3: and then sat outside watch or sat at the window 922 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 3: in the kitchen and watched us who we arguing fighting 923 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 3: all types of ship ain't nothing in the frize. That's 924 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,480 Speaker 3: why you took us to go grab some. So I'm like, 925 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,399 Speaker 3: what the hell is you gonna eat today? And it's 926 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,840 Speaker 3: just wild to play the ship back and be like, Wow, 927 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,279 Speaker 3: that's that's that's love. 928 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,279 Speaker 1: Like you said, that's love. You want love? That's right. 929 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 3: Country ain't saying them skits, you boy, shout out country. 930 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: We had. So what what's it like? What's it like 931 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: being one of wayne skits. 932 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:45,520 Speaker 3: Roller coasters? 933 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:48,960 Speaker 1: You don't know. We'll never go drop. 934 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 3: No, But Wayne, I think does an incredible job of 935 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:05,800 Speaker 3: uh absorbing the storyline from what's naturally. 936 00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: Happening around him. 937 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 3: I mean a little bit of it is, you know, 938 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 3: everything that happened in his life. You know, the man 939 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,320 Speaker 3: got ten baby mamas, here ten kids. 940 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how your baby mama a bad way, 941 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,279 Speaker 1: but uh. And they all live like close proximity the me. 942 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 1: He got them all like within a mile or two 943 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: miles from each other from him. 944 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,319 Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying. Like they'll tell you he 945 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 3: got all the baby mamas. They're gonna tell you how 946 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:31,399 Speaker 3: taking care of take. 947 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 1: Care of laugh one of them. They ain't gonna tell 948 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 1: you that part. They don't tell you he just out 949 00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 1: here just doing anything. Like, nah, he got all his 950 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: kids together. 951 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll tweak you out seeing eight of the ass 952 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 3: run up on your ass, like like. 953 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: They all these kids are like, yeah, wait till they 954 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,719 Speaker 1: all grown. I remember walking there with my brothers and 955 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,319 Speaker 1: it'd be like everybody be. 956 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 3: Damn he do your brothers like a bunch of brown 957 00:48:56,160 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 3: ass men. But it's like to have that family right 958 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,439 Speaker 3: there in that vicinity doing them skits with him. Man, 959 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:08,000 Speaker 3: It's like he writes that stuff and can bend it 960 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,879 Speaker 3: on the fly and he acts it out. 961 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,880 Speaker 1: That's my favorite part about it. He prayed before everything. 962 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, pray. You gotta do a big prayer first time. 963 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,359 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie way And I chuckled a little 964 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 3: bit I wasn't ready. I ain't know he really he 965 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 3: really liked that. 966 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:22,279 Speaker 1: Yeah. 967 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 3: I thought it was like, you know what I mean, 968 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,719 Speaker 3: like a comedian too done. 969 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I've been laughing at 970 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:28,400 Speaker 1: the motherfuckers. 971 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:35,879 Speaker 3: It's like, he just butt, we're gonna pray heavily. I'm like, boy, 972 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 3: did a three minute pro dead serious, standing on his toes, 973 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,840 Speaker 3: voice inflections going up and down. 974 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:44,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa this shit. 975 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,440 Speaker 3: It's low key hitting. Yeah, Like it's low key all right, 976 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,120 Speaker 3: like you got that Bible on the string up. 977 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. Like it stopped 978 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 1: feeling like that, and it's like. 979 00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,959 Speaker 3: Naturally, when you know it's somebody you're dealing with that one, 980 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:06,120 Speaker 3: you know, spiritually he's allie. You know what I'm saying. 981 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,280 Speaker 3: He's a family guy. So he's just got his family around. 982 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 3: He treats his employees like family. It was very easy 983 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 3: for me to accept the script from him. Wow, like 984 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 3: you're gonna. 985 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:19,840 Speaker 1: Pray before he starts. 986 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 3: You're gonna y'all, gonna y'all gonna pay me a check 987 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 3: after we're done today. Everybody else net sixty thirty? 988 00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,759 Speaker 1: How at you? Yeah? You and then yeah, you know, 989 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: you know, man, I didn't get out. 990 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:34,359 Speaker 3: I got all that. 991 00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, they do it pay up front. Uh. 992 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:40,840 Speaker 3: If he got shoot, hey man, I need you to 993 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 3: bring seven eight outfits, shoot all our stuff and get 994 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:45,839 Speaker 3: up out of there. Man. 995 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 1: If I tell him, hey man, I got to pick my 996 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 1: daughters up at four. 997 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 3: We're gonna start at eight am, We're gonna be out 998 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 3: there for you know what I'm saying. So it's like 999 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 3: with me because he says something and then it happens. 1000 00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 3: I truly hold him at a high level because It's 1001 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 3: like it's been people that have come up to me 1002 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 3: and say, you, why are you doing Wayne Skins? You're 1003 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,279 Speaker 3: supposed to be doing movies and w oooh woo. And 1004 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't think y'all realize how much Wayne 1005 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 3: paid people. I don't think y'all realize how how much 1006 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 3: better it is to have something this man do this 1007 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 3: three sixty five. How much better it is to have 1008 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 3: something consistent that you can do three sixty five rather 1009 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 3: than that one mega move boom and then nothing. I'm like, 1010 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,480 Speaker 3: I done did plenty of things. I came on said, 1011 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 3: did this, did that? Everybody loved it. I haven't talked 1012 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,440 Speaker 3: to them, producers, director, nobody yet. You know what I'm saying, 1013 00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 3: I ain't never gonna see him again, which is fine. 1014 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,840 Speaker 3: I'm not saying nothing wrong with that, but to be 1015 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,320 Speaker 3: a part of something with Wayne where it's like every 1016 00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:52,320 Speaker 3: week or so, two weeks whatever, it's like we're still 1017 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 3: doing the job. And then he accepted my life because 1018 00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, I'm like, gee, I ain't gonna lie. 1019 00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes ESPN called me fan Doom, like call me, I 1020 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 3: gotta do my pod. You know what I'm saying. My 1021 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 3: daughters might go. I'm like, I ain't gonna lie. I 1022 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 3: am gonna like hit you with the man. I can't 1023 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 3: do it. Sorry, you know what I mean. He was like, nah, 1024 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 3: I get it. He like, the more you do, the 1025 00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 3: more I could play it into the storyline, the more 1026 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,360 Speaker 3: we can make it to where you promote us, we 1027 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 3: promote you. And this is a good marriage, you know 1028 00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,440 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. And it was like the way he 1029 00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 3: spoke and how calm he was about it, I'm like, bro, 1030 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 3: this all makes sense. 1031 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,399 Speaker 1: I've been rocking with dou there since then. I ain't 1032 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: gonna let the shot you feeling you did that yeah. 1033 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:36,160 Speaker 1: He over with Rob down. Rob't coming back. Come on, man, 1034 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 1: they have got you up out of there. Oh Rob. 1035 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 1: He had to lay on his mama porch man. 1036 00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,319 Speaker 3: It was I ain't a lot of I ain't gonna lie. 1037 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 3: That was an epic go out. Though I watched it, 1038 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,799 Speaker 3: it was hard for me to watch. When I saw 1039 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:55,400 Speaker 3: lying in slow motion they played the music. 1040 00:52:55,440 --> 00:53:00,839 Speaker 1: I stopped. I'm getting when we feelmed. I do want 1041 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:01,400 Speaker 1: to tell y'all this. 1042 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 3: When we filmed it, there was a take that I 1043 00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 3: damned near was sleep because it was cold as hell 1044 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,040 Speaker 3: outside and I still had to shoot it. But I 1045 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,760 Speaker 3: had these heat things, so we sitting in between shots. 1046 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 3: They changing one of the shots and everything. I fall asleep, 1047 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:21,440 Speaker 3: low key, see what I'm saying. I don't know how 1048 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,160 Speaker 3: I'm a Chicago kid. It was cold, but I was 1049 00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 3: sleep and it was late. Lynn came to do it 1050 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 3: and she grabbed my Bundy. When she grabbed me and 1051 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 3: started like pulling me like I let myself just like 1052 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,720 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, because I'm you know, I'm gone. 1053 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 3: But then in the middle of doing that shit, she 1054 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 3: started screaming and crying. I look out this all right here, 1055 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:49,400 Speaker 3: I look at her. Shouldn't have did that, tried to 1056 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:54,000 Speaker 3: close it. When I closed it tears. I'm like, bro, 1057 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,600 Speaker 3: I'm not hurt, it's nothing wrong. But I'm sitting in 1058 00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 3: a plastic bag laying on my mama's steps, like and 1059 00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,720 Speaker 3: it was like just being like that and then seeing 1060 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,399 Speaker 3: it it would just tweaked me out real quick. 1061 00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, I don't like this. I don't 1062 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,880 Speaker 1: like this active man, I like this. I don't like it. 1063 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,279 Speaker 3: It got too real, bro. But she like she just 1064 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,680 Speaker 3: went crazy with that. But yeah, the shop was fun. 1065 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 1: Well, obviously you like you said you did Country Wayne, 1066 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:24,160 Speaker 1: you did actually uh shy auditioning is there's something that 1067 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 1: you auditioned for that you didn't get you? Like, damn, 1068 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,280 Speaker 1: I wish I could have got that part. Yeah, yeah, 1069 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: I had. 1070 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,480 Speaker 3: Well, it ain't that I I ain't get it. I 1071 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,000 Speaker 3: just wish I could have did it. It was this 1072 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 3: movie all supposed to do, but we just scheduling wise, 1073 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,280 Speaker 3: it just wasn't gonna happen. And I wasn't gonna pass 1074 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 3: on the NBA. It's just hard for me. It's hard 1075 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 3: to say no when basketball is involved. 1076 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: It's just so it was basketball steal An option for you. Now, 1077 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,439 Speaker 1: would you go and somebody call Oh yeah. 1078 00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,319 Speaker 3: One of my guys was like, hey, bro, get in shape, 1079 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:00,200 Speaker 3: we need you right week. 1080 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:00,799 Speaker 1: I'm all right. 1081 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,759 Speaker 3: That's why I didn't retire, because I ain't gonna lie. 1082 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 3: They gonna mess around, do something cute, and that all 1083 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 3: they would have let Dame shoot. 1084 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,520 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They gonna do something cute 1085 00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 1: with that All Star game, gonna. 1086 00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:15,279 Speaker 3: Be let me get it out, get it out, break 1087 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,960 Speaker 3: the old time with back what time? They can't let 1088 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:18,080 Speaker 3: me get it out, But I'm gonna get it in 1089 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:19,600 Speaker 3: shap I ain't gonna tell nobody. I'm gonna get in 1090 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,799 Speaker 3: shape though, Like I ain't gonna come out there and 1091 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:25,160 Speaker 3: be bogus. I don't want to be fraud I want 1092 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:26,440 Speaker 3: I want to really show improved. 1093 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 1: Is there any actor that's giving you great advice on set? 1094 00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: It says, you know, we think you good at this, 1095 00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 1: We think you got a future in this if you 1096 00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 1: just do X Y and Z. 1097 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 3: Jacob Latimore and then Hannah Hannah Hall like uh me 1098 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,360 Speaker 3: and Hannah. You know Hannah was she plays Tiff So 1099 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,520 Speaker 3: that's my girl in the show. And she she got 1100 00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 3: my baby. Now she got my she got my son 1101 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 3: or daughter, I don't know what it is on a 1102 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 3: daughter on her too, but tif well, Hannah always be like, gee, 1103 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:14,759 Speaker 3: you need to really like go do your actings like 1104 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 3: coach stuff, like really go in there and really dive in. 1105 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,600 Speaker 3: But she like, g like if you could do She like, 1106 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,120 Speaker 3: I thought that you was just playing us, like you 1107 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,800 Speaker 3: from Chicago, so I thought you was just doing yourself. 1108 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,960 Speaker 1: She like to know that you don't act like dude. 1109 00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,640 Speaker 3: She like, you really should dive in and try and 1110 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:34,839 Speaker 3: start developing accents and like she do that randomly and 1111 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,680 Speaker 3: just be doing London accents and have to do She like, 1112 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 3: you need to exercise it. And I'd be like, I 1113 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 3: mean eventually I think I will. But it's like I 1114 00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:49,280 Speaker 3: it's because of the girls right now, it's the girls. 1115 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:54,279 Speaker 3: It's the again. I have a problem lying to my 1116 00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:59,360 Speaker 3: childhood self. My childhood self. I designed myself to be 1117 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,839 Speaker 3: able to look at little Nigga and I and I 1118 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,479 Speaker 3: can't look him and I and be like I spent time. 1119 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm finna go do. 1120 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:11,879 Speaker 3: Acting wholeheartedly and act like I can't talk basketball, right, 1121 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,239 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like it's tough to not 1122 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,479 Speaker 3: be on ESPN talking ball, like I'm gonna watch these 1123 00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 3: games anyway, correct, like for free. I'm gonna watch them, 1124 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,600 Speaker 3: and then I'm gonna argue with my brother like a what, 1125 00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 3: We're gonna argue the hell out and it's like we 1126 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 3: ain't gonna get paid for it. It ain't gonna be 1127 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 3: relevant nothing, but we're gonna do it every single day. 1128 00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:36,000 Speaker 3: So it's like now having it to where it's like 1129 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 3: you could you could do this, or there's a cool 1130 00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 3: opportunity over here for you to do this. Like as 1131 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,960 Speaker 3: much as I'll be sitting there like I always oooh 1132 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 3: you telling me I could do that, I'll be like, man, 1133 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,200 Speaker 3: the Knigs and Detroit play tonight, right, they play tonight 1134 00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 3: the time it is, man, I got time, bro, they 1135 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 3: damn near the bad Boy Pistols too. This dude, Oh 1136 00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,000 Speaker 3: it's too good. I gotta go watch the game. So 1137 00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,680 Speaker 3: That's where I'll be at with it. But if if 1138 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 3: I get opportunities, even when I'm doing my auditions, my 1139 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 3: daughters be helping me, like they cool with it. They 1140 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 3: grew up in this, you know what I'm saying. They 1141 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 3: Mama still doing this. Yeah, It's like it's just not 1142 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,320 Speaker 3: a passion of man. Right, where are you on the 1143 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 3: reality TV? You do reality TV? Again? I never really 1144 00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:23,880 Speaker 3: did reality TV. 1145 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 1: I did college here. 1146 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:35,280 Speaker 3: You don't think that reality I mean, like, I mean, 1147 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 3: if they can't if they came to you do they 1148 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,920 Speaker 3: have a New York hip hop New York love it 1149 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 3: hip hop or something. It's all like a love and 1150 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 3: hip hop? Why would I be on there? 1151 00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm just saying with you, I mean I think I 1152 00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:47,720 Speaker 1: just don't got enough drama. 1153 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:51,320 Speaker 3: Gee, Like, yeah, they're people interesting, I don't lie there, 1154 00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 3: people interested in they grabbing their phone explaining theyself. 1155 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, people be crashing day where you are right now? Up? 1156 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 1: Really thirty five to be thirty six for ship? 1157 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,440 Speaker 3: Like I'm getting my my issues these That type of 1158 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:09,160 Speaker 3: drama I got going on is eating a burger and 1159 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,640 Speaker 3: the onion's falling into my beard, right And I don't 1160 00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 3: know those type of problems I got these days. 1161 00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 1: But you got you got girls. You a different place 1162 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 1: of time now. 1163 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,720 Speaker 3: But it's just like I don't. I'm also a dude, 1164 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,920 Speaker 3: just like bro, I don't even want to argue right 1165 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:25,680 Speaker 3: like now you throw me on zeus. 1166 00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,560 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They allow people to fight, Yeah, 1167 00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:29,720 Speaker 1: like because I'm. 1168 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:31,160 Speaker 3: Not gonna go back and forth. We're not gonna have 1169 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,440 Speaker 3: no cute back and forth. Everybody gonna replay it. No, 1170 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 3: let's get out. We're gonna do that. We're probably gonna 1171 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:38,280 Speaker 3: be best friends after we fight. 1172 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I usually befriend all the people that. 1173 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,640 Speaker 3: It's weird like that, Like I don't I don't even 1174 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 3: want to be your friend. We can't not your hen Yeah, 1175 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,680 Speaker 3: don't do none of that strong football ship. I got 1176 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:54,720 Speaker 3: time trying to get tackled today. None of that ship 1177 00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:58,120 Speaker 3: out of us. I saw your games. I ain't got time. 1178 00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 3: But for real, I like when I get into competition 1179 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,720 Speaker 3: or I get into that, like when I have usually 1180 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 3: a nice little quarrel with somebody and we have a 1181 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:10,920 Speaker 3: little tussle, we become incredibly close because it's like, especially 1182 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 3: when going out there in the battle again. 1183 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:16,080 Speaker 1: You know, I ain't going right, you know, do can 1184 01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:16,720 Speaker 1: count on you? 1185 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, like me and j R. Me and j R 1186 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 3: them fought a couple of times. But that's why that's 1187 01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 3: body dog right, Like we and it be stupid shiit 1188 01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:24,440 Speaker 3: Like in. 1189 01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,280 Speaker 1: The middle of the game. 1190 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're in the middle of a scrimmage. Were going 1191 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:31,160 Speaker 3: for a loose ball, go too far, extra push, extra push. 1192 01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 3: But it got to the point in New York they 1193 01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,560 Speaker 3: don't even bothering us, you know, they just. 1194 01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,760 Speaker 1: That's how they Yeah, that's what the figure. Let them. 1195 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, let them. They want to be extra for this 1196 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 3: loose ball, go ahead fight. That's like my best dog now. 1197 01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 1: A dog. You know, ain't nobody for out do be 1198 01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 1: for no loose ball? Paul, that was crazy partner. Yeah, 1199 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,440 Speaker 1: the fan that you had with the fan threading to 1200 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,520 Speaker 1: rob you. And then because you wouldn't do an interview. 1201 01:00:58,320 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 1: I mean, do you do you get to do? You 1202 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 1: get a lot to do people because I think sometimes 1203 01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:07,200 Speaker 1: like people, they do have a perception of an athlete 1204 01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,919 Speaker 1: and they like whatever they come up, Man, we pay 1205 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 1: your salaries. They just think, no matter what they you 1206 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:15,840 Speaker 1: have going on, you should take time to sign, take 1207 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,520 Speaker 1: a picture, or do whatever they ask. 1208 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the only thing I told him, I said, uh, 1209 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 3: because we was in there. He was in there trying 1210 01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:26,760 Speaker 3: to get this interview well before it was over with. 1211 01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 3: The only reason I stayed that long is because I 1212 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:31,240 Speaker 3: was trying to let some of the people clear out. 1213 01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 3: They had everything blocked off. I couldn't get the car 1214 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 3: to pull up close enough. But I'm like, I can't walk. 1215 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,520 Speaker 3: It was it was the playoffs, so people think that 1216 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 3: happened this year. That was in the playoffs. Uh, Indiana 1217 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:49,520 Speaker 3: going crazy, Halliburton going nuts, that's for everybody playing. Damn, 1218 01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,720 Speaker 3: what was what was that song that everybody was singing? 1219 01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:58,000 Speaker 3: The everybody was singing that Halliburton. 1220 01:01:58,200 --> 01:01:59,960 Speaker 1: When it was last year when they playing the next 1221 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:04,080 Speaker 1: and would be what was the song? Halle? 1222 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:10,160 Speaker 3: It was a somebody's song. But yeah, like I can't 1223 01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 3: think of what it is. It wasn't his name, but 1224 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 3: it fit, you know what I'm saying. Uh, But yeah, anyway, 1225 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 3: Halliburton going crazy, everything going nuts. I went out after 1226 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 3: the game. I'm like, wow, I didn't even think Indy 1227 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:26,880 Speaker 3: was gonna be But I'm I know Indy because I'm 1228 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,120 Speaker 3: from Chicago. I've been to Indy plenty of times. So 1229 01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, Indy, I ain't never seen any like this. 1230 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:33,720 Speaker 1: This ship Like, yeah, damn. 1231 01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 3: So I'm having a good time, drinking, doing all types 1232 01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 3: of stuff at this point, my eyes, my speech, This 1233 01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 3: is not a good interview, you know what I'm saying, Like, 1234 01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 3: and I'm having a good time. Correct, I'm having a 1235 01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 3: great time, like y'all, just one Like it's like, why 1236 01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 3: do you want to do a soup like like what 1237 01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 3: we're doing. 1238 01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,200 Speaker 1: That's what he wanted for me and him to go. 1239 01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,080 Speaker 1: He like, I could set this bro at that very moment. 1240 01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 3: What I'm saying, I'm like, you're not even trying to 1241 01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,080 Speaker 3: schedule nothing, my man, You're talking about pull it out 1242 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:11,040 Speaker 3: right now, lock in right now. I'm like, that's that's nuts. 1243 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:12,919 Speaker 1: Gee, I can't really do that, you know what I'm saying. 1244 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:15,800 Speaker 3: I told him a couple of times, and then we 1245 01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:18,480 Speaker 3: got outside and it was like, I don't know, he 1246 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,360 Speaker 3: just I don't know what happened. Once he's seen me 1247 01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 3: Finna walk to the car, It's like he just started 1248 01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,640 Speaker 3: getting tough. And then he pulled that phone out. He 1249 01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:29,640 Speaker 3: got even tougher. And I apologize, y'all. I should have 1250 01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,480 Speaker 3: walked off wholeheartedly. Should have just got right in the car. 1251 01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:35,959 Speaker 3: I do not recommend people do what I did, because 1252 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 3: you never know what could happen after that. 1253 01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 1: I turned around. 1254 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 3: I had because it was like it was too enticing, 1255 01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 3: like we're gonna rob you where. 1256 01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,280 Speaker 1: Who you That's how That's what I did. It's like 1257 01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 1: that was done. Yeah, but I would tell my son, 1258 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,920 Speaker 1: that's stupidest you already done, walk away, just keep it moving. 1259 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,640 Speaker 3: Like I'm like, and my man know, because I'd have 1260 01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,400 Speaker 3: had a few. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Think 1261 01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:04,080 Speaker 3: it's stupid, acting stupid. I stand there, look at him, 1262 01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,400 Speaker 3: and then I realized after a while, I'm like, all right, 1263 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:08,080 Speaker 3: it don't seem like. 1264 01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:08,840 Speaker 1: He want to do nothing. 1265 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,439 Speaker 3: I just don't really need to go left. I don't 1266 01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 3: feel like guns need to come out or nothing crazy. 1267 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:15,560 Speaker 3: But I'm like, the only way he could beat me 1268 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,440 Speaker 3: is with a gun, right, And if he talking to 1269 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,120 Speaker 3: me like that, I can almost guarantee if you got 1270 01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:22,920 Speaker 3: a gun, yeah, or your homie got it. 1271 01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,200 Speaker 1: Somebody got somebody got you talking to me. 1272 01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 3: There's no way. I'm looking down at the man like, 1273 01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 3: there's no way you talking to me like this unless 1274 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,520 Speaker 3: you got something that can remove me. So I'm like, 1275 01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:34,080 Speaker 3: you know what, I'm gonna get in the car. I'm 1276 01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 3: gonna get in the car'm and go home. But it 1277 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 3: was like, I was all the way cool with the 1278 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,920 Speaker 3: video until I saw that part, because I'm like, see 1279 01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 3: that's the dumb shit, and I got I got kind 1280 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 3: of like they kind of like clapped for me for it, 1281 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,200 Speaker 3: like you see, he wasn't scared though, And I'm like, nah, 1282 01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:52,400 Speaker 3: but that shit ain't cool. That was Loki dom like 1283 01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 3: it probably you know, got some likes. Yeah that's cool. 1284 01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 3: That shit was stupid, and he really from there. 1285 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 1: You you know what I'm saying. 1286 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,200 Speaker 3: Whether I liked it or not, whether I could beat 1287 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,760 Speaker 3: him or not was irrelevant. He was willing to do 1288 01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,040 Speaker 3: whatever for his pride that night. I'm just glad. I 1289 01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,680 Speaker 3: don't know what made me get in the car after 1290 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,440 Speaker 3: a while, but I just got in the car and 1291 01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:13,160 Speaker 3: it was like thank god I did, because it's like 1292 01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:16,080 Speaker 3: that was stupid as hell. That whole interaction was. It 1293 01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:18,600 Speaker 3: was supposed to be funny, like it was supposed to 1294 01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:20,760 Speaker 3: be a quick back and forth like I'm like. 1295 01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:25,880 Speaker 1: Man, whatever, yeah, we're gonna rob you. 1296 01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:28,400 Speaker 3: How you going for girls? 1297 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,120 Speaker 1: Y'all get in the car? What? But didn't dressed hold on? 1298 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 1: Just for the last hour you've been talking about doing 1299 01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 1: an interview. And because I say no, now you're about 1300 01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 1: to rob me? 1301 01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,360 Speaker 3: Wou you do it exactly what I did. That's how 1302 01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:43,600 Speaker 3: I went through my head, like bro, you love what damn? 1303 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:46,000 Speaker 3: You were just my friend, like we was. 1304 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:46,320 Speaker 1: Dog. 1305 01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,520 Speaker 3: He was sitting by me for I don't know how 1306 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,560 Speaker 3: long I wasn't tripping off the men. Then I told 1307 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 3: him some other shit. Oh the he had a thing 1308 01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 3: everybody thought. I was like, like on my way out, 1309 01:05:56,560 --> 01:06:00,960 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm like, no, nigga. He said, no, 1310 01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:04,840 Speaker 3: I really need the interview woo woo. And I was like, dog, 1311 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:08,000 Speaker 3: you not getting it like this, ain't. He like, were 1312 01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 3: in the playoffs, Indiana in the playoffs? Ivit you the interview? 1313 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:13,760 Speaker 3: I said, Ge, you gotta keep realized I'm with ESPN 1314 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 3: right like, I have to uphold a certain standard, right 1315 01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,000 Speaker 3: I can't. I just been drinking, I had a good night. 1316 01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,640 Speaker 3: I can't do an interview right now. I'm like right now, 1317 01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,240 Speaker 3: but I remember doing like this, and he said, man, 1318 01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 3: it's for Indiana. I'm like, bro, if it come to 1319 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 3: my job, Indiana, Chicago, Atlanta, you get what I'm saying. 1320 01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 3: But I done name about four five cities but me 1321 01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,600 Speaker 3: in this tone. So when he got on Hill, I 1322 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:42,000 Speaker 3: guess he was just trying to turn. 1323 01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:42,640 Speaker 1: Indiana against me. 1324 01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:44,880 Speaker 3: I'm like, bro, do whatever you gotta do, my dog. 1325 01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:48,000 Speaker 3: But you know how long we were sitting here talking 1326 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 3: and I'm like, bro I had a good time in Indiana, 1327 01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:51,880 Speaker 3: like they were showing me love. 1328 01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. 1329 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:55,680 Speaker 3: For him to become angry at the very last second 1330 01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 3: of the night was actually quite random and low Ki 1331 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,480 Speaker 3: could have been scary because I was having so much fun. 1332 01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,480 Speaker 1: My guard was now, Wow, the soul was what the hell? 1333 01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: What the helly? That was? What the helly? What the helly? Yeah? 1334 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,160 Speaker 3: What the Halle Burton? Yeah, what the what the yeah? 1335 01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 1: Go ahead? Crazy? Did you see ode Odell Beckham said 1336 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,560 Speaker 1: one hundred million dollars? He went viral said one hundred 1337 01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:20,640 Speaker 1: million dollars doesn't last a lifetime. We know of professional 1338 01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:25,120 Speaker 1: sports that five years after person seventy percent of the 1339 01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:28,560 Speaker 1: players football, basketball, after they leave the sport. If they're married, 1340 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 1: they're divorced. Five years after they leave the sport, they're bankrupt. 1341 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,720 Speaker 1: What happens to the money? Where the money going? And 1342 01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:42,960 Speaker 1: he's spending it? Mix be spending like I done been 1343 01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:45,880 Speaker 1: around Margs. That doesne had Now. 1344 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 3: Granted I ain't make four hundred million like they making. Now, 1345 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 3: you're right, you know what I'm saying, But it's like 1346 01:07:52,760 --> 01:08:00,440 Speaker 3: I was broke. I remember broke. Yeah, probably a month 1347 01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:05,240 Speaker 3: into when I first my rookie year. A month in, well, 1348 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:08,160 Speaker 3: I'm probably two three checks in. Looking at my account, 1349 01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 3: I can't go broke. There's no way I'm going broke. 1350 01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:16,920 Speaker 3: But the difference was one my brother always him and 1351 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:20,320 Speaker 3: my financial advisor have been taking half my check the 1352 01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,040 Speaker 3: whole time, So I never knew how much money I had. 1353 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,000 Speaker 3: I just thought what I got in Bank of America. 1354 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,479 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, I don't know why I 1355 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:30,960 Speaker 3: told you that y'all skimming. I'm been switch baks right 1356 01:08:31,000 --> 01:08:34,519 Speaker 3: after this shit, I know it take every dollar out 1357 01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 3: that account. Well he don't know he got boughed, but yeah, yeah, 1358 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 3: he just basically like, bro, if you don't know how 1359 01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,040 Speaker 3: you going to Like, if I'm looking at my account, 1360 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,120 Speaker 3: I don't see nothing but a couple of hundred bands. 1361 01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,479 Speaker 3: I'll never go spend a meal, right, it's a hundred 1362 01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,960 Speaker 3: couple hundred bands in here, Like why I'm gonna go 1363 01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,920 Speaker 3: spend a meal? And from my man, it's like from 1364 01:08:55,960 --> 01:09:00,439 Speaker 3: going from overdraft and twenty dollars in year account if 1365 01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 3: that you know what I'm saying, from going from that 1366 01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:06,240 Speaker 3: to seeing you know, just six figures period with just 1367 01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:11,280 Speaker 3: like but then I noticed, like all my teammates, everybody 1368 01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:14,840 Speaker 3: lifestyle was changing. All the people I got drafted with, 1369 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 3: they all just like it's like they couldn't wait to 1370 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:17,840 Speaker 3: be rich. 1371 01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, Nigga, I don't even know how to be rich. 1372 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, y'all, when and got the craziest car you 1373 01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:28,080 Speaker 3: could find, Like, I wouldn't even know how to start this. 1374 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:29,120 Speaker 3: I caught a geep. 1375 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:31,960 Speaker 1: I had a gun metal jeep. 1376 01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:35,639 Speaker 3: I'll never forget it, Rhino skin on it and everything. 1377 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,720 Speaker 3: They like, Like Mellow used to be mad at me, 1378 01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:40,479 Speaker 3: like Trump, you come up here with this goddamn jeep. Bro, 1379 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:44,240 Speaker 3: Like I'm embarrassing him or something. He his jeep was 1380 01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:46,599 Speaker 3: like for like a day off. Yeah, Like he like 1381 01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 3: my jeep for taking off the doors and acting crazy 1382 01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,280 Speaker 3: in the summer. He like, you got a jeep on 1383 01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:52,080 Speaker 3: a day to day? 1384 01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1385 01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 3: He like something you know, you could buy bends, this, this, this, 1386 01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:01,360 Speaker 3: and I just like, gee, I barely even right, you 1387 01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. I just never was one of 1388 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 3: them excessive kids, Like even with shopping. I'm like, I 1389 01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,679 Speaker 3: don't like looking like y'all. I was gonna go to Nemon's. 1390 01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,360 Speaker 1: I was gonna go to Barney's or whatever else, y'all. 1391 01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:15,880 Speaker 3: Went sacks sacks, But I'm like, three of y'all came 1392 01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:17,479 Speaker 3: in looking like twins. 1393 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all weird to say. All y'all did was everything 1394 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,120 Speaker 1: off the mannequs y'all. 1395 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:26,240 Speaker 3: Y'all a mannequan books, Medican men, Medican men, like, come on, 1396 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:27,040 Speaker 3: a mannequan man. 1397 01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I can't do that. But people like, look, look, if 1398 01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:32,960 Speaker 1: you make let's just say, for the sake of argument, 1399 01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:35,120 Speaker 1: you make one hundred million dollars, we're gonna take fifty 1400 01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 1: away for taxes, and just let's say, for the sake 1401 01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:41,000 Speaker 1: of argument, with your financial people and your agent, they 1402 01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 1: take two to three percent, So that's five percent total 1403 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:46,320 Speaker 1: after that, So that's another two and a half million dollars. 1404 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,519 Speaker 1: And let's just say you took care of mom, dad 1405 01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: and your family, and that's another fifteen. If you can't 1406 01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,120 Speaker 1: survive our thirty five million dollars up after you're done, 1407 01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:56,320 Speaker 1: you got a bigger issue. You could have made two 1408 01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,599 Speaker 1: hundred million and you still would have been broke. 1409 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:04,120 Speaker 3: And then another thing, when y'all having y'all kids like 1410 01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:06,479 Speaker 3: mons be having hell of kids. 1411 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:07,639 Speaker 1: But it's like. 1412 01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:16,680 Speaker 3: That it's court system kids, like you can't have court excuse. 1413 01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,639 Speaker 1: Me, oh no, court system kids. 1414 01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:22,240 Speaker 3: Where it's like, while you're playing that BM is just 1415 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:25,000 Speaker 3: draining your account per month, but you're not even seeing 1416 01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:26,200 Speaker 3: or feeling it because you're playing. 1417 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:26,720 Speaker 1: Till you've playing. 1418 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:29,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, the moment you stop, you're gonna start feeling it. 1419 01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you may. Yeah, I mean, twenty thousand and 1420 01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:35,439 Speaker 1: thirty fives in a month ain't nothing. If you're making 1421 01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,479 Speaker 1: forty million, you not making forty million, and they taking 1422 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,920 Speaker 1: twenty thirty thousand a month and you still got to 1423 01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:44,559 Speaker 1: pray private tu issue, which is another fifteen twenty twenty 1424 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 1: five a month, and you got I. 1425 01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:50,639 Speaker 3: Do numbers though, Yeah, yeah, really, well it's always been. 1426 01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 3: It's wild because even like I did see that quote, 1427 01:11:56,720 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 3: but it's just like he was trying to basically, I 1428 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:01,320 Speaker 3: don't think he was saying. 1429 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:03,120 Speaker 1: He ain't saying himself. 1430 01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just saying he can understand how people mess up. 1431 01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:07,760 Speaker 3: And I think the one thing he just didn't talk 1432 01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:11,400 Speaker 3: about it's the kids, bro. Yeah, that's the real wrinkle. 1433 01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:14,160 Speaker 3: Like you can honestly live as good as you on 1434 01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,719 Speaker 3: out here, bro, once you start having them kids while 1435 01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:23,000 Speaker 3: you're playing and somebody is taking that and then afterwards 1436 01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:25,320 Speaker 3: you gotta deal with that, and it gets it might 1437 01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:28,040 Speaker 3: get reslotted because you're not making as much anymore. 1438 01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,280 Speaker 1: But it's like it hit more now that it's leaving. 1439 01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:32,200 Speaker 1: You know, you gotta pay for the tourneys because you 1440 01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:33,800 Speaker 1: gotta pay for yours and hers. 1441 01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 3: Yeah yo, yeah, oh yeah both oh yo. And she 1442 01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:40,240 Speaker 3: gonna get a she gonna get a nights with two. 1443 01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:42,400 Speaker 3: But it's like, that's what I'm saying. It's all the 1444 01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:43,880 Speaker 3: all the things involved. 1445 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 1: It's just like and in the house, sure, I mean 1446 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,200 Speaker 1: you shouldn't buy your Listen, you love your mom, you 1447 01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:51,320 Speaker 1: love your dad, but don't go buy them No three 1448 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:53,599 Speaker 1: million dollar house. That's too much upkeep. 1449 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 3: I mean my mama got a got all. 1450 01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:03,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm saying, get some We got something. We 1451 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:07,480 Speaker 1: got something that my sister and them can clean themselves. 1452 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,240 Speaker 1: That my sister cut the graph. But if you gotta 1453 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,599 Speaker 1: pay for a cleaning service to come in once twice 1454 01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:14,759 Speaker 1: a week, you gotta pay for a lawn care service 1455 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,960 Speaker 1: to come in. Bro, when you done, like I said, 1456 01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:20,840 Speaker 1: when you making that kind of money, you don't miss it. 1457 01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:25,000 Speaker 1: But when money is going out, it ain't none coming in. 1458 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:29,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, Just keep pouring this out and 1459 01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:31,040 Speaker 1: don't put nothing back in there and see how fast 1460 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:34,720 Speaker 1: to go. And I don't think and I don't think 1461 01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:38,080 Speaker 1: people realize that, you know, flying your boy, we're on 1462 01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,080 Speaker 1: a private jet, well private other one. 1463 01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:44,000 Speaker 3: That's another one, these private flights. I know all the 1464 01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:48,679 Speaker 3: Instagram girls taking videos and pictures of it. That be honestly, 1465 01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:50,960 Speaker 3: when you get a private jet, like I used to 1466 01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:53,680 Speaker 3: be telling man, it's like, hey, man, taking pictures and 1467 01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,360 Speaker 3: take pictures. Now, if I ever get a private jet, 1468 01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:03,040 Speaker 3: y'all better take pictures, videos, do cartwheels, take a blanket home, 1469 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,120 Speaker 3: drink all of the power that you better use. The 1470 01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,320 Speaker 3: ship out this because I don't do private jet all 1471 01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:11,680 Speaker 3: the time. I'm not big on private jet because I'm 1472 01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:16,080 Speaker 3: very much so I kind of like how the airport 1473 01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:18,840 Speaker 3: goes for me. I get there for forty five minutes, 1474 01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 3: drop my bag. You know what I'm saying. I don't 1475 01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:24,439 Speaker 3: like to do like the greeters and everything, Like I 1476 01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,280 Speaker 3: don't really like a lot of people to talk to me. 1477 01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,360 Speaker 3: But if I keep a straight face hoodie on, I 1478 01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,559 Speaker 3: could just go and by the time I sit down, 1479 01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be sleep at New York. 1480 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:35,720 Speaker 1: It's Atlanta, Atlanta. Well, all you gotta do is take 1481 01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:39,760 Speaker 1: down to one. What they'll take you around. You don't 1482 01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,240 Speaker 1: even go into you go a no, see that's too much. No, 1483 01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:44,760 Speaker 1: but check this out too much they put They pull 1484 01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:47,960 Speaker 1: you up to the side of the plane. Get into 1485 01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:49,040 Speaker 1: it with the other passenger. 1486 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:51,719 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna get he gonna run into that passage 1487 01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 3: like what makes him so good? No? Who is he 1488 01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:57,519 Speaker 3: supposed to be your paper? The service? 1489 01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,719 Speaker 1: That's your ba. 1490 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:04,200 Speaker 3: Still coming in for shut it, look at it. 1491 01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:08,599 Speaker 1: Let me get that. But look, I've never been at 1492 01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:12,640 Speaker 1: some point in time. I don't need fifteen cars. I 1493 01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:14,840 Speaker 1: don't I don't need the house in Miami. I don't 1494 01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:15,640 Speaker 1: need a house. 1495 01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:19,599 Speaker 3: In La I got car God dang, sure I tried. 1496 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,040 Speaker 3: And my problem is I'm like redoing them. 1497 01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 1: Oh you got restal cars, old schools. 1498 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:27,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, sooner or later I'm gonna start selling them. But 1499 01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,599 Speaker 3: I'll be pulling up. Like when I pull up, people 1500 01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:30,320 Speaker 3: be like will you. 1501 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,680 Speaker 1: Then I'll be like, no, this one just got finished up. 1502 01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:39,720 Speaker 1: It got finished. Listen that you talked, What did you 1503 01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,799 Speaker 1: What have you learned about money that you didn't previously. 1504 01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:49,799 Speaker 3: Know my favorite thing that money do just make somebody 1505 01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:54,599 Speaker 3: shut them up. I never knew money to do that. 1506 01:15:56,640 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 3: And in a lot of ways, like not on something 1507 01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:02,200 Speaker 3: like you talking and I throw some money and it's 1508 01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:04,320 Speaker 3: like I won't say anything ever again. 1509 01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:13,320 Speaker 1: But it's like money is like, uh, like I had to. 1510 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:17,760 Speaker 3: I had his friend that was like complaining about some 1511 01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 3: shit he had going on. It was some shit he 1512 01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 3: had going on, and it was valid, but I was 1513 01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:29,280 Speaker 3: in the middle of watching something, so it he came 1514 01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 3: an annoyance that you're telling your story about whatever this 1515 01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:34,680 Speaker 3: is and how you needed this money and it was 1516 01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,479 Speaker 3: supposed to come through. And well I sent him that 1517 01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 3: money and he shut the up just like I wanted 1518 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:45,200 Speaker 3: and we finished watching the show that we was watching. 1519 01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:48,519 Speaker 3: But he literally because because it really was a problem 1520 01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:51,400 Speaker 3: that a rose right. But I'm like with me, people 1521 01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:55,639 Speaker 3: always say money ain't everything, right, You hear that growing 1522 01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:58,320 Speaker 3: up because they trying to humble you. 1523 01:16:58,400 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 1: Money ain't everything. 1524 01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:05,720 Speaker 3: But then in all situations in your life, all of 1525 01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 3: it take money. Can't live in your house without money, 1526 01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 3: can't eat, can't take care of nobody, So you damn 1527 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,559 Speaker 3: sure can't be a man. You're a boy at this point, 1528 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:23,600 Speaker 3: you ain't got no money, your boy, transportation, education, sh 1529 01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:26,080 Speaker 3: it is all money. So it's like when they say 1530 01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:29,559 Speaker 3: money ain't everything, I just be looking like I think 1531 01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,720 Speaker 3: that's what I learned about money. It'll tell me to 1532 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,799 Speaker 3: shut the up, and it really is everything. 1533 01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:36,519 Speaker 1: I love the access that it allows you to have 1534 01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:39,439 Speaker 1: the thing that I can do for other people, like 1535 01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:41,599 Speaker 1: my family can take care of my family. I mean, 1536 01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:43,800 Speaker 1: I don't really buy myself a whole lot of stuff. Yeah, 1537 01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 1: out you run out, you run out. 1538 01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:49,280 Speaker 3: Of yes, and some after you've had a Ferrari or 1539 01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:53,320 Speaker 3: Lambord Roads or Bentley or Range or no Ferrari. You 1540 01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:54,080 Speaker 3: fit in Ferrari. 1541 01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did not long time ago long my hipston 1542 01:17:57,640 --> 01:17:59,479 Speaker 1: got too bad. That's too long on the ground, that's 1543 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:03,400 Speaker 1: too long. That was that was ninety ninety three. 1544 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:08,639 Speaker 5: What you were getting a custom like like, nah, how 1545 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:12,759 Speaker 5: y'all asking it? I'm uncomfortable sometime driving my McLaren. Sometimes 1546 01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 5: I'll be having to like get I ain't big as shock. 1547 01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:17,240 Speaker 5: I know, shot can't get it. You gotta show you 1548 01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:19,719 Speaker 5: a football player you got yeah, Yeah, but I fit 1549 01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:21,040 Speaker 5: because I wanted to fit. 1550 01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:25,559 Speaker 1: You dropped the top of that. It was hard talk 1551 01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:28,479 Speaker 1: hard time. You remember the one Jordan had to fight 1552 01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:29,080 Speaker 1: the black one? 1553 01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:30,519 Speaker 3: All right, if it Mike had it, I get it 1554 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,519 Speaker 3: while you got it. Yeah, that black dude. Dang that 1555 01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:35,599 Speaker 3: that five twelfy. Y'all had to get it. I had 1556 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,720 Speaker 3: to get out too. You had to you got out. No, 1557 01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,960 Speaker 3: my brother, I can't go hat. It was just you know, 1558 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:41,720 Speaker 3: you had to have it. 1559 01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:44,160 Speaker 1: There's certain things, you know, watching Miami Advice growing up, 1560 01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:47,599 Speaker 1: I said, I've ever got some money, I want a Rolex, 1561 01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:50,920 Speaker 1: I want a Maasachi silk shirt and some linen pants. 1562 01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:54,479 Speaker 1: And I wanted a Ferrari ord. I want a Ferrari. 1563 01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:55,560 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 1564 01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:58,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. I always wanted to what your god? I wanted 1565 01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:00,479 Speaker 3: to watch. I wanted it to be man make one? 1566 01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:03,120 Speaker 3: Yet what I want to make a watch? 1567 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:06,559 Speaker 1: Oh? You want to make your own watch? Uh? I 1568 01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:08,160 Speaker 1: forgot what watch one? Dad? 1569 01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:11,280 Speaker 3: My dad had this watch that somebody gave him. He 1570 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:15,760 Speaker 3: didn't want it, and I was annoying the ship out 1571 01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:16,080 Speaker 3: of him. 1572 01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:18,840 Speaker 1: My daddy. 1573 01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 3: I'm asking him about his wife, talking about the other watch, 1574 01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:25,519 Speaker 3: and then talking about the flaws of the watch and 1575 01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:27,680 Speaker 3: how and he was like, well, why don't you just 1576 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:28,160 Speaker 3: make one? 1577 01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't wear that one. Yeah, and that ship kind 1578 01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:31,680 Speaker 1: of just stuck with me. 1579 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:35,000 Speaker 3: It was like all the things that I had coming 1580 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:36,280 Speaker 3: when I first got in the league. 1581 01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:37,759 Speaker 1: That's what I used to buy watches. 1582 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was like it took me a while 1583 01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:41,960 Speaker 3: to even realize that that's where it came from. 1584 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:43,040 Speaker 1: But I love watches. 1585 01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:45,680 Speaker 3: I don't know why, and they don't got to do 1586 01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:47,439 Speaker 3: much Like sometimes it could just be. 1587 01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:49,720 Speaker 1: A plain Jane, watch what you got on right now? 1588 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,400 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, that's why I see it, not this one, 1589 01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:54,320 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Because this one is a 1590 01:19:54,360 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 3: shut the fuck wat talking to me, Ga says, yeah, 1591 01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:03,240 Speaker 3: I'll walk through the bag. I definitely walked through the kitchen. 1592 01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:07,719 Speaker 1: Here. This concludes the first half of my conversation. Part 1593 01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:09,840 Speaker 1: two is also posted and you can access it to 1594 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 1: whichever podcast platform you just listen to part one on. 1595 01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:16,400 Speaker 1: Just simply go back to Club Shay profile and I'll 1596 01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:17,000 Speaker 1: see you there.