WEBVTT - | Ep 167 |  Let's Make a Match! 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d. I'm Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us

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<v Speaker 3>once again. Once again, Robin Dixon in the howl. By

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<v Speaker 3>the way, I'm wearing quiet grind. What's that? This is

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<v Speaker 3>like a little brand.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute black owned, Okay, small business shout out, a little

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<v Speaker 1>shout out, and that's all I have to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like this stuff. It's cute, very cute. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>it looks very like regal. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Look white grind, Yeah, aristocratic And to grind quietly is

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<v Speaker 1>what you should.

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<v Speaker 3>Do, yes, because when you grind loudly.

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<v Speaker 1>No one cares yeah, and it takes away fro like

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<v Speaker 1>grind takes away from it.

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<v Speaker 3>People like actually want you to fail when you grind out.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, please fail, so you stop talking, right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like when like I've I know of so many

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<v Speaker 1>people who have, like say, a production company has reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to them to potentially be on a reality show,

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<v Speaker 1>and they tell.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody, every body be on reality.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be on this show. Yes, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>on a show. I'm gonna be on a show, and

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<v Speaker 1>to be on a show and then the show never happens,

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<v Speaker 1>like and that happens often than not. Like there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many shows that people, you know, production companies.

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<v Speaker 3>Try to make happen that never do.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, just keep it to yourself, keep it yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>find grind quietly. For the record, the first season of Potomac,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, my kids had the film and I told him.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, don't tell any of your friends, like,

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<v Speaker 2>do not tell anybody at school. So and they literally didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So when it came out, like all their friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, why did you say something?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, because they were told not to and they know

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<v Speaker 2>how to keep a secret, yep, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a test. They pasted fine colors. Yep, very good. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>I have a shady moment, all right, what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, But first before I my shady mom, and I

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<v Speaker 2>do want to say once again, it's February and February

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<v Speaker 2>tenth and twelfth, I'll be in Houston and New Orleans.

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<v Speaker 2>Get into it, get your tickets. I'm excited. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>super excited. So, and my mom's coming to the Houston show.

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<v Speaker 2>So my mother says, So, you know, obviously she knew

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<v Speaker 2>I was playing the show, and I was like, Ma,

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<v Speaker 2>saved the date. She was like, mmm, so do I

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<v Speaker 2>need to come to this? What she was like, is

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<v Speaker 2>it gonna be ratchet? Yes, Ma, it's gonna be semi ratchet.

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<v Speaker 2>It's me And I'm gonna send a card to your house.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna get in it and you're coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, lady. So she will be there with

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<v Speaker 3>her surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not like she is, no mama's she is, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Her way of being like, oh my god, So like

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<v Speaker 2>you know what's gonna be happening.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, she's just being a mama. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, So and then New Orleans, which I'm very excited

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<v Speaker 2>about because you know, my blur in New Orleans is

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<v Speaker 2>February twelfth, So get your ticket come through, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>So and go to my webs I mean, go to

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<v Speaker 2>my social to find out all the information.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So listen, Whole Foods, I got a beef. What happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you been a Whole Foods lately?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Why it's like too far? Not not that it's

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<v Speaker 1>too far, but it's out of the way for me

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<v Speaker 1>to get to too. Okay, yeah, okay, So.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I use their bags, their paper bags,

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't know, I just do. Yeah, them paper

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<v Speaker 2>bags is the cheapest things I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just came from them.

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<v Speaker 2>I had two paper bags, and I picked it up

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<v Speaker 2>to put it in the cart to drive, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, take it to my car. I pick

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<v Speaker 2>it up the handle brakes. It wasn't even heavy. So

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<v Speaker 2>then I'm like carrying it and the bag.

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<v Speaker 3>Just rips apart.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, So whoever does the bag vendor, yeah, is

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<v Speaker 2>using some some materials from China. Like it's just not

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<v Speaker 2>right right. And so then the second bag, same thing happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Did anything break, Nothing broke fell out, nothing fell out,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's I had to hold it like I was

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<v Speaker 1>holding a baby, like I had. I had to carry

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<v Speaker 1>my bags like they change their bags.

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<v Speaker 2>This never started, This never happened before. Yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's something new. They're trying to like cut corners. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>don't cut corners on the bags.

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<v Speaker 3>On the bags.

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<v Speaker 1>They're using bamboo, I mean, you know, you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>make like toilet paper out of bamboo. They use the

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<v Speaker 1>paper machee. Okay, So Whole Foods, I got an issue

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<v Speaker 1>with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I got beef. Fix your bag, yes, fix the bags immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay that's horrible. Yes, that sucks. Yeah, that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>always get plastic. Well, they don't even have plastic at

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<v Speaker 1>Whole food They do not have plastic at Whole Foods.

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<v Speaker 3>And normally I bring in my bags. Yeah right, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes even know, if you're running in real quick, you

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<v Speaker 1>can get your bags. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Nah, the paper mache. Paper bags don't work.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, get into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it together, Whole food all foods, get it together,

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<v Speaker 1>get it together. Yes, and I love Whole Foods, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way. I know, so this is my new thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, I know it's your turn to give you

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<v Speaker 1>a shady moment. But like I've been cooking lately, what

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<v Speaker 1>I know what? Okay, So going to Whole Foods and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to the fish section. Okay, they have all like

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<v Speaker 2>the fish laid down. I buy like a couple of filets,

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<v Speaker 2>like a bass or a like a sea bass or

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<v Speaker 2>maybe or no the brandsino, and I'll take it home

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll throw it in the oven.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, put a little olive oil on it. It's amazing really. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>so that's what I've been doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been cooking now that your girls are gone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just cooking for yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, the empty nesting is getting good. Are you are there?

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<v Speaker 3>Are there like people.

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<v Speaker 1>Business or mind business? Ribbings?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe? How many filets are you buying?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean several some, but I don't. I don't do

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<v Speaker 2>any sides. It's just the I don't want anybody get

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<v Speaker 2>carried away. It's just a fish.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're not cooking for anybody. There's no man in there,

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<v Speaker 1>just for me because I feel like if I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really cook for me because they need.

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<v Speaker 3>To take me out.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's that, okay. I mean not not like a

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<v Speaker 1>broccoli like.

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<v Speaker 3>Ain't no sides.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes what I do get is the I do like

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<v Speaker 2>the sad like you can get the salad in the bag. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do get that sometimes. Okay, So I have look

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<v Speaker 2>at little greens. But yeah, I'm not cooking all almost

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<v Speaker 2>all them sides. Okay, you don't have to cook all

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<v Speaker 2>them sides. That's when cooking goes It gets into like

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<v Speaker 2>a job and a chore. Yes, but I do love

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<v Speaker 2>all of my fish.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that is good. I should buy some bronzie and cook.

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<v Speaker 1>I love bronzio.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, just throw it in the oven booth. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>like not even hard. No, no, right, and it's so crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>right it's not hard.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you think about how much you pay in

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, right for something that's not hard.

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<v Speaker 2>And so sometimes I'll go in and they'll have the

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<v Speaker 2>whole fish and that wholesale off.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, all right, all right, what's your shady moment

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<v Speaker 1>boyard out?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I was in the kitchen and I had

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can buy like boiled eggs already made,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're in a bag. You just pop, take them

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<v Speaker 1>out the bag and eat them, right, What a hard

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<v Speaker 1>boiled egg? Yeah, that's in a bag? Yeah, where's that

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<v Speaker 1>in the grocery store, like in the egg section?

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<v Speaker 3>Never seen that? What ever? Okay? Okay, so that's so

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<v Speaker 3>that's the thing, right, okay, so that's a new thing.

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<v Speaker 3>No show you how much I go to the grocery store. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>No, So, like you know, when you want a quick

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<v Speaker 1>snack or quick breakfast, you don't whatever, you don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like waiting for your boiled eggs to cook like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just grab them, grab three whatever, make some toast whatever. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So they're I leave them in they're kept in the refrigerator.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was putting some in a salad. So

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<v Speaker 1>I had a salad and I was gonna put some

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<v Speaker 1>eggs in my salad.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that. So I took my.

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<v Speaker 1>Eggs out of the bag and I put them in

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<v Speaker 1>the microwave to heat them up. This wouldn't be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a little a little warm, right, not not hot, but

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<v Speaker 1>wonder warm up? Didn't went cold eggs? Yes, this is

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<v Speaker 1>getting good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's getting good.

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<v Speaker 1>So it comes out of the microwave and I'm ready

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<v Speaker 1>to like, you know, chop it up, put it in

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<v Speaker 1>my salad.

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<v Speaker 3>So I put the knife in. What the egg? It's

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<v Speaker 3>like a bomb exploded in my face? What you had

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<v Speaker 3>an egg bomb? As soon as the knife went into

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<v Speaker 3>that egg. It's just exploded in my face all over

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<v Speaker 3>the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>You had egg on your fast egg on my face? Lies, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like in the kitchen, I'm just like, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>All in my eyes. What what did I do? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>My god? Okay, first of all, why did this happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's start there. I guess I've cooked them.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I cooked them too high, too long, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that heat inside of that, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know, is that like a normal thing. So they will,

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<v Speaker 3>so they will explode.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen them explode in the microwave, right, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you put them in a microwave and you put them

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<v Speaker 1>on too long or too high, they explode.

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<v Speaker 3>But I thought I didn't put them on too long

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<v Speaker 3>or too high.

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<v Speaker 1>When it came out, they were perfectly intact, like they

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't started. You know, you'll see when the eggs start

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of like split open. And Nope, none of

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<v Speaker 1>that happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, did it stink? That must have been shipped everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>It was everywhere, like all across my kitchen. It didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really stink. The act well the waight did one come

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<v Speaker 1>in and say, what does that smell? He might actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think when he came in you.

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<v Speaker 3>Could smell it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, this is what it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>to like have a bomb explode.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, okay, are you comparing this to wars? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do that. I'm I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>There was not a war.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but imagine this what a bomb like I totally terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Like you know, you watch movies and

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<v Speaker 1>they put a bomb in a bag and right like

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<v Speaker 1>open the bag and a bomb just exploded.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it was so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So, yes, I had egg, harbled egg all over my face,

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<v Speaker 1>all over my clothes, all over my kitchen.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever put a egg in your hair, raw

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<v Speaker 3>egg in your hair? No, I have maraise.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's great for hair, but that sounds terrible. For

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<v Speaker 2>the record, But speaking of things on TV, I forgot

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell you this. It's season three.

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<v Speaker 2>I know everybody's gonna be like, justell shut up. It's

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<v Speaker 2>season three of Dubai Blank.

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<v Speaker 3>On Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>You like you've so you've been watching that? Yes, So,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of Dubai Blink, someone told me about this young

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<v Speaker 1>rich in African show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I've never seen that. I saw the preview or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen it, I think because I'm just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I can only take so much, but Dubai Blink. Because

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<v Speaker 2>I've been watching Dubai Bling, I have to continue. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's reality TV nonsense at its finest. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 2>and the people all kind of know each other. They

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<v Speaker 2>all have a ridiculous amount of money, and the lifestyle

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<v Speaker 2>of it is like, I'm just waiting for the girls

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<v Speaker 2>to like get dressed and come to the event.

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<v Speaker 3>They just looked phenomenal, so get into it. Dubai blank.

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<v Speaker 1>So why is Dubai Bling successful and the Dubai Housewives

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<v Speaker 1>was not?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, I can I can break that down. So

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<v Speaker 2>these people in Dubai Bling actually have money, and.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the end of the conversation. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>The people know they don't have money. On No, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Roal House was a Dubai I can't speak

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<v Speaker 2>on their money. But Dubai Bling, I feel like they are.

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<v Speaker 3>A part of the culture. Okay, So so they're more

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<v Speaker 3>native kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know who's native to Dubai right

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<v Speaker 2>because you guys just like this made up place. But

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like they're more they're more into the culture,

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<v Speaker 2>They're more arab there. Yes, there was a Saudi girl

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<v Speaker 2>that that showed up. She was in a couple of episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a model beautiful, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, and they had the light.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't have real house wise to Dubai did not

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<v Speaker 2>have the lifestyle that these people have. And and we

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<v Speaker 2>always say this for a cast, it's about the chemistry.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that real House was of Dubai. This

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<v Speaker 2>is my opinion. Had chemistry amongst the cast, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>think that was a secret to our success, Potomac success,

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<v Speaker 2>because we all kind of knew each other a little

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<v Speaker 2>right before we started, so we had that chemistry.

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<v Speaker 3>These people they know.

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<v Speaker 2>Each other, they know each other, yes, so it's great.

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<v Speaker 2>And then this is Ibraham, Abraham whatever his name is.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like wild.

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<v Speaker 2>He got a wife that we don't see. He's all

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<v Speaker 2>over the place. He dresses impeccably and you cannot say

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<v Speaker 2>anything wild to him at all, right, because he's taking

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<v Speaker 2>it to the nth degree, like he's he's gonna hate

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<v Speaker 2>you for life. Like him and his him and his

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<v Speaker 2>girlfriend like their besties. Start a cafe. She said something

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<v Speaker 2>to him sideways.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I'm closing the cafe, like it was so crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's wild, but it's good. Check it out now

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<v Speaker 3>we have to check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny, all right. So, like how many cast members

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<v Speaker 1>do they have? They have they have male and female

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<v Speaker 1>like a mix. It's male and female most of them

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<v Speaker 1>are all I think all of them are married.

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<v Speaker 3>They have maybe ten wow. Yeah. So it's like Vanderpump

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<v Speaker 3>kind of ish ish ish but mature. Yeah yeah, these

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<v Speaker 3>people are mature. Oh that's interesting. Okay, so this is

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<v Speaker 3>for me. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It says that if you leave parties without saying goodbye, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm famous for that too. Yeah you do. You

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<v Speaker 3>can save two days per year.

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<v Speaker 2>So irish goodbyes give you two days per year because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when you start saying goodbye, you gotta say

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<v Speaker 2>about everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you and then and then more conversations. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>to pop off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we're like, oh I forgot to tell you this

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<v Speaker 2>and blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, you're like, okay, it might be eight o'clock and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving, and then you really leave at ten?

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<v Speaker 3>Right no?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, So I all for like just

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<v Speaker 1>buy piecing out, no, just walking out the door.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So Ashley always like knows that I do this, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's like people are always like, where's out.

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<v Speaker 3>And actually like, don't y'all know she down? She been gone? Right? Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I am famous for just and then for me, I

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<v Speaker 3>do find an annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like when you come, when you go to a

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<v Speaker 1>party or go to an event, you say hi to everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>you give everyone a hug.

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<v Speaker 3>Right yeah. And I was like one and done. One

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<v Speaker 3>is enough, Like okay, next. You know what I'm saying, like,

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<v Speaker 3>why do we have to do this? Rob what a

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<v Speaker 3>hug ration? She's rashing out water.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to hug to say hi and say bye

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<v Speaker 1>because it's the it's the courteous thing to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>And people are so excited when they say you. But

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<v Speaker 2>you don't irish goodbye like I do, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>You know you, I'm you. You're out, Like you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I'm saving at least five days yeah, out of

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<v Speaker 2>the entire year. Yeah yeah, but you will go back

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<v Speaker 2>and say bye. And then when you go back and

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<v Speaker 2>say bye, you linger.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I'll talk. Yeah yeah, that's you're a linger. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So then so then when that starts happening, I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just out. Yeah, I'm done. I'm not I'm done.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm done.

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<v Speaker 2>I was telling actually I was talking to one of

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<v Speaker 2>my kids and she was going to a party and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yo, leave, yeah, like, don't talk about anybody,

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<v Speaker 2>Just walk out the door.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, well, that's weird, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, it's so funny that happened. It was

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was like Christmas or whatever, Thanksgiving. Wan's

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<v Speaker 1>family was here and people had left, and his brother

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<v Speaker 1>and his brother's girlfriend were still here. And we go

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<v Speaker 1>from the couch and you know, they're like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>were about to leave. So we start to like walk

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<v Speaker 1>them out of the door to the front door.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. We spent thirty minutes at the front door. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>talking nah, Like it was so crazy. I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 3>do we end up here for thirty more?

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<v Speaker 2>Why didn't you say whatever you want to say? When

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<v Speaker 2>he was on the couch, It just you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, it's just talking.

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<v Speaker 3>Something happened and we just start talking. I'm like, yeah, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we should have just sat on the couch and

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<v Speaker 1>be like all right, buye y'all and let them go.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're like in a minus.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like in a negative two days crazy, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the last thing so Japan has, cause

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I always feel like Japan is always on

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<v Speaker 2>the cutting edge. They are always like light years past

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<v Speaker 2>us dumb Americans. Yes, okay, So Japan has an electric

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<v Speaker 2>salt spoon, which tricks your taste buzzs into enjoying salty

0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:51.840
<v Speaker 2>flavors without any salt. So think about people with like

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<v Speaker 2>high blood pressure. They don't need any sodium. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this is amazing. Wow, I need this. You need it

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<v Speaker 2>right for my fish? So we got to get this, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I so, so, I haven't I looked it up. I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen it on the market. But I need the

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<v Speaker 2>Japanese electric salt spoon.

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<v Speaker 3>How did they make that? I need? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>My mother needs that, true, true, true, true. Yes, So

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully somebody will send me that or it'll be on

0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.680
<v Speaker 2>the market in the United States. Yes, yes, because I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be purchasing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I like that. So I have a question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I know your answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think saying thanks is rude? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, am I talking to somebody? Is it an email?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it as any all of the above?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Maybe in an email?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's rude. What I think it's rude? Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's so like short and curt and cold,

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<v Speaker 1>just thanks, like hey, thanks, like like you gave me something.

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<v Speaker 3>I say thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>So it depends on how you say it like, so

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<v Speaker 1>if you have that inflection in your voice, right, then okay,

0:18:04.880 --> 0:18:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I have to write Robin, and I won't write you,

0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:10.200
<v Speaker 1>know how like your phone like starts auto first writing

0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:12.240
<v Speaker 1>words out for you. And if it says thanks, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like no, thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, no thank you? First of all? When when I

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<v Speaker 3>when when we send?

0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:20.000
<v Speaker 2>When Robinson's emails, if you don't send her email with

0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:23.120
<v Speaker 2>like a proper greeting, a proper size, We've talked about

0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:25.520
<v Speaker 2>this before, and a proper ending, then it's rude.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's exactly say thank you. I can't say thanks. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>thanks is like nice. No I say thanks all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>It's rude. It's short. It's short and curt and cold.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you say to wan?

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<v Speaker 1>We're very respectful to each other, like we we don't

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're yes, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't say thanks?

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<v Speaker 2>No, So if wine gives you an egg that has

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<v Speaker 2>not exploded, do you say thanks?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I say thank you. I can't stand me. What

0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:58.800
<v Speaker 3>about your kids? They're like thanks? Oh? Thanks? Mom My

0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:02.919
<v Speaker 3>kids say thanks to me all the time. Let me

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<v Speaker 3>get back to you on that.

0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:08.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, they probably I swear I like that word thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>just like it's.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. You don't like things. I don't like it, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I just think it's rude, like just say thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't like the P word. We've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>that before. Please no some other P word. All right,

0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:25.880
<v Speaker 1>we're moving on. We're talking, okay, yes, down below, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that word.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah, it's a shift. That was a huge shift.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't but I mean I've never liked that word. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and weird. But isn't it weird how certain words

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<v Speaker 1>just sound dirty?

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, you know what I'm saying. It's like, why

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<v Speaker 3>does that sound dirty? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? Okay, so the word is p U S s Y.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it. Yeah, yeah, I agree.

0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:54.280
<v Speaker 1>I I like Cucci true, Yeah, yeah that sounds better

0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:56.320
<v Speaker 1>for JJ sounds better.

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<v Speaker 3>Hot pocket. But you like penis sounds I like penis.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like penis. I love Penis. I like penis

0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:10.320
<v Speaker 3>better than Dick. True, Dick sounds rude. Dick sound's rude.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like penis or like, you have a name,

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<v Speaker 3>but they need like a better name for it. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>it depends on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you guys make up names for the people.

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<v Speaker 1>We've asked guys just before, do they make up names

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<v Speaker 1>for their penises? M I don't think so. Okay, well

0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure somebody does. Yes, you know there's no name

0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:31.920
<v Speaker 1>in this to meet? Yeah, what's to say?

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<v Speaker 3>He pulled Ralph out? Okay, Ralphi need to put him back.

0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:40.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think. Has any man ever referred No? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't. I don't think. So. Hey, anybody out there,

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<v Speaker 3>if you name your penis, let us know the name.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you've told women about or men about the name,

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<v Speaker 2>how did they react?

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<v Speaker 3>They react? Yeah, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We got to get to our speaking of

0:20:57.320 --> 0:20:59.920
<v Speaker 2>penises and sex and all that good stuff. We matchmake

0:21:00.200 --> 0:21:02.520
<v Speaker 2>one oh one is what Robin and I are doing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So we told you guys that we're matching yep, people,

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<v Speaker 2>and you guys have sent us some names and pictures

0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:14.080
<v Speaker 2>and your your references and your social Security number, like

0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:16.960
<v Speaker 2>you didn't need all of that. Okay, but this, but

0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:19.080
<v Speaker 2>we want to let you all know because we're getting

0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:21.280
<v Speaker 2>a lot from women, So we want to let you

0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:23.480
<v Speaker 2>guys out there know or ladies.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's who is ready to be matched? Okay, So this

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<v Speaker 3>is where we're closing. The submissions.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, the end of February February twenty eighth, So between

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<v Speaker 1>now and February twenty eighth, everybody send us your emails

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<v Speaker 1>if you want us to hook you up with another

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably shady listener. Yeah, you know, because that's what y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have in common and find love. So yes, as Justelle said,

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<v Speaker 1>if you all know a you guys like, send this

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<v Speaker 1>to them, please.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>And if let's say, let's say it's a woman and

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<v Speaker 2>you have like a Bessie that's a man, send the

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<v Speaker 2>shit in.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't need to know. Just send his stuff in.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye, or you know, your father, your brother, whatever, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to send it for someone on their behalf, send it.

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<v Speaker 3>Do it because I can tell you you know I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a dating show and some of the guys

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<v Speaker 2>were referred by women that they just put their information

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<v Speaker 2>forward and the guys started getting phone calls and they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, what the hell is this? So yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes we got to like because you know, guys don't

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<v Speaker 2>really put themselves out like that, right, so we got

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<v Speaker 2>to do it for them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I like that. Yeah, because guys are like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do I send an email?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean? What do you mean we're not

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<v Speaker 3>going to be a meeting? I mean, what's going on

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<v Speaker 3>with these ladies? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And so it's time comes, it's time goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll like give you all more information on how we're

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<v Speaker 1>actually doing this. Yes, you know how this is working,

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<v Speaker 1>but we wanted to just give y'all a little snippet

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<v Speaker 1>some of the wonderful people who have written in.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to say, you all are very attractive people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, we have not gotten any duds. No duds here, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and which is nice because we have very attractive listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I love that we do. Yes, pretty people stick together. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So this is from Tammy Boyd. She says, high friends.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Tammy Boyd and I live in Nashville, Tennessee, Okaysville.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been divorced for over twelve years. I have my

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<v Speaker 2>own house. Okay, Lady, I am an empty nester. So

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<v Speaker 2>who's super sad and lonely? I don't want her to

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<v Speaker 2>be sad and lonely. Now I have one son who's

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<v Speaker 2>who's the light of my life. I get sick of

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<v Speaker 2>talking to guys telling me they are broke. I'm fifty

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<v Speaker 2>six and I don't think I look too bad. No,

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<v Speaker 2>she's so cute. Can see her very beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>She has a holly berry ish look. Well she has

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<v Speaker 3>like a little holly berry here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she's very pretty nice smile. Yes, she has

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<v Speaker 1>her so so like she's she's a queen. She has

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<v Speaker 1>her own house. She's an empty nester. She's living her

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<v Speaker 1>best life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so get into that. This is from Micah's This

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<v Speaker 2>a guy. Yes, okay, Micah is a guy. Oh maybe

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<v Speaker 2>they would be good.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh he's twenty one. Oh okay, Michae's twenty one. She's

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<v Speaker 3>fifty six. Right, that'd be good for me. Never mind, okay. Hi,

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<v Speaker 3>Jisella Robbins. This is Michael Mitchell.

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<v Speaker 2>Before I start, I would like to state that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a huge fan of Reasonably Shady podcasts Every Monday. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys are the first thing I listened to, which makes

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<v Speaker 2>my Mondays so much better.

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<v Speaker 3>Awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so nice. So for more about me. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Micah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, Michael, I'm twenty one years old Colvine student

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<v Speaker 2>from Lansing, Michigan. My race is Black African American, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gay as well. In twenty twenty six, it'll be

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<v Speaker 2>ten years since I came out and I still haven't

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<v Speaker 2>had a relationship since then.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh this makes me sad.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, I need your help. A few fun things

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<v Speaker 2>to know about me are I'm a middle child, a

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<v Speaker 2>huge Beyonce fan.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay me hi? Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I have an obsession with Fraggle Rock. I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what that is. Oh my gosh, you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>Fragle Rock. No, that's an interesting obsession. That was like

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<v Speaker 2>a show on so like HBO years ago. They're like

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<v Speaker 2>little muppets.

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<v Speaker 1>And I used to always say in season one in

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<v Speaker 1>my head that Karen Huger looked like a Fragle.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know what you were gonna say for damn sure,

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<v Speaker 2>didn't they think you were gonna say that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so they're like little puppets, little muppet puppets. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like the Muppets, but they're called Fraggle Rock.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So, Micah, let us know whether you thought about

0:25:34.680 --> 0:25:37.119
<v Speaker 2>Karen at any point. Let me know if you think

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<v Speaker 2>I'm right, Yes about frag season one.

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<v Speaker 3>Karen, not season eight, Karen season one? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So it's an obsession with Fraggle Loves he loves dancing, drawing,

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<v Speaker 2>and weightlifting. And I live for a good reality show.

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<v Speaker 2>Wink wink, Oh, thank you so much. With love Michah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so I like Micah. We gotta find you a boot,

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<v Speaker 2>We gotta find you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we'll read one more.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Joyce gotten guten gen Giten.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Zara Zarayah Zariah and I am chronically single.

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<v Speaker 2>So please hook a sister up, please and thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see what y'all can do. She's twenty nine, soon

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<v Speaker 2>to be thirty in cancer season. What's cancer cancer is?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that May ish? Maybe late April May? No, that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's tourists. Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>She lives in Providence, Rhode Island, Boston. Oh, I might

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<v Speaker 2>know somebody. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Her preference

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:42.160
<v Speaker 2>is looking good and ed looking. Her preference looking for

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<v Speaker 2>a good educated man, any race.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have somebody for her, really I do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>off my dating show. Oh yeah, what's the age here?

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<v Speaker 3>The ages? She's thirty okay, and then what's the age

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<v Speaker 3>of the person you have? Maybe who cares? Did she said? Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>Age is nothing but number? Okay, yes, this is great. Okay, So, Joyce,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I got somebody for you. Let me do

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<v Speaker 2>some work.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna see him soon, the guy that I think. So,

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<v Speaker 3>do we have better pictures of her? All of that

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<v Speaker 3>is her? I don't know. I don't think. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's just one picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Joyce, Joyce, I'm putting my she's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, she's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, Joyce, not that another you live in Beantown

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<v Speaker 2>because I didn't Boston, Rhode Island, that whole area. It's

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<v Speaker 2>funny because I didn't think black people lived there, and

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<v Speaker 2>so there was a couple of people that I met

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<v Speaker 2>from there.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, apparently there's like a Nigerian community there and everything. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>So all right, Joyce, let me let me.

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<v Speaker 3>Do some research. I'm getting excited. Yes, I'm about to

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<v Speaker 3>be cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Pet I'm about to roll back my bone and let

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<v Speaker 2>somebody know. All right, So continue to sit in your stuff, like,

0:27:57.160 --> 0:28:00.480
<v Speaker 2>like we said, we need some guys, and and.

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<v Speaker 1>You have what thirty days? You have twelve days February

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 1>twenty eighth. Yes, we're cutting them up, cutting all the

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>submissions off Everruy twenty eighth. So we can get through everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean we have received some guys, but just

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<v Speaker 1>not enough, not enough, not enough. Okay, all right, so

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<v Speaker 1>let's get into some emails that we've received from you all. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>this is from one of our favorites, Shamion, with a

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I thought?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're needing our thoughts on this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>The last time Sha Marion sent us something, she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not me, it's my friend. But it was her,

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<v Speaker 2>right right, So is this gonna be another one?

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is more random. I think this is

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<v Speaker 1>like a hypothetical type of situation. Okay, yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 1>sends us in So this says, bro, I'm not petty,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just being real. I got paid on Friday. I

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<v Speaker 1>gave my wife two hundred and fifty dollars for groceries,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told her I wanted a nice, home cooked

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<v Speaker 1>meal for Sunday dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>She agreed.

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<v Speaker 1>I got off from work and walked into the house

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<v Speaker 1>to some mother effing tacos. What's wrong with tacos? It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't Tuesday, it was Sunday, Sunday tacos on a Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>after I requested chicken, mac and cheese, green beans, greens.

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<v Speaker 3>It ain't Thanksgiving playing right. She bought the food. It's

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<v Speaker 3>in the refrigerator. She had a house full.

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<v Speaker 1>Once I showered and came out and looked at her,

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<v Speaker 1>and within twenty minutes they all left. Her only excuse

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<v Speaker 1>was that her kids didn't want chicken. They wanted tacos.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't think it would be a big deal effort

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<v Speaker 1>them m efforts to eat what she cooks. I took

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<v Speaker 1>her credit card. If you can't cook what I asked,

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<v Speaker 1>and I paid the bills, you can't spend my money.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm the bad guy. Using my credit card is

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<v Speaker 1>a privilege. All this over some tacos? Did I mishandle

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<v Speaker 1>the situation? Yes?

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 3>You did? Okay? Who is this person? This writer?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a hypothetical situation.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a mess. Okay, this is the man is

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<v Speaker 3>a man? Right, this is a man. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He gave his wife his credit card to go buy

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<v Speaker 1>groceries as he should, because she gives you the P word, right,

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<v Speaker 1>yes words us s y yes, okay. Scare of your kids,

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<v Speaker 1>of your kids, so that's not They don't have kids,

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 1>he said, her, well, I think he said, her kids.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is the thing, like, you don't get a

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<v Speaker 2>gold star for taking care of the household sir, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what you're supposed.

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<v Speaker 3>To be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I see it both ways, though, I understand the frustration, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because he.

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<v Speaker 3>He I understand the frustration.

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>He gave her money to go buy groceries and let's

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<v Speaker 1>and you put in a request. Yes, yes, he put

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<v Speaker 1>the requests and let's cook a good meal. But then

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:47.840
<v Speaker 1>he saw that the kids with the kids wanted trumped

0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 1>what he wanted. Yes, So I feel like the issue

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<v Speaker 1>is more so like not that you didn't cook what

0:30:54.560 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I wanted, but it's like you cooked what they wanted, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I, you know, and I gave you the money

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<v Speaker 1>to I put in the request, and I gave you

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 1>money to get what I request.

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<v Speaker 3>My question is are you fed? Player? You're fed? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>You you have something to eat, just speak. You can

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:13.920
<v Speaker 2>have chicken tomorrow, okay. But this is what I don't

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 2>like this.

0:31:14.400 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 3>I don't like you. You're taking the credit card.

0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:22.600
<v Speaker 1>So you're now punishing me right for feeding my children.

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:26.479
<v Speaker 3>Right. It's see, there's another issue there.

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:29.840
<v Speaker 1>It's the whole money situation, because like some couples, it's like, Okay,

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:34.080
<v Speaker 1>your your money is our money. But clearly in this situation, Okay,

0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:37.520
<v Speaker 1>his money is his money and her money is her money.

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:42.200
<v Speaker 2>But I just want all women to know if you're

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 2>with a man and he makes more money, his money

0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 2>is y'all's money. Right, Your money is your money, right, Okay.

0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:48.560
<v Speaker 2>I just want to put that out there for the

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<v Speaker 2>women and any man that every thinks is gonna date me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right, okay, right right.

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 1>So so I feel like that is like part of

0:31:57.120 --> 0:32:00.719
<v Speaker 1>that's that's that's the wrong that's the real issue. Like okay,

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>like why are you stripping over the fact that you

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 1>gave her money to get groceries?

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 3>Like you should be doing that.

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, that's that's a requirement, right Yeah. So so for me,

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>it's like not as much about the money. It's more

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:16.320
<v Speaker 1>about you requested chicken and waffles or chicken and greens. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and she made tacos because the kids want to tacos.

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:22.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's more like, you know, are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>are you cooking for the husband or are you cooking

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<v Speaker 1>for the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>You're cook Okay, So do you have that problem in

0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 2>this household? Because I could see because like that would.

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<v Speaker 1>Never I don't you don't have the kind yeah, yeah,

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>so it's funny. I actually do lean more towards cooking

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:45.920
<v Speaker 1>what the kids want, yes, than cooking what wal wants.

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 3>Why, just curious, I don't know.

0:32:52.920 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, because the kids should eat whatever you give them, right, yeah, but.

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:06.440
<v Speaker 3>Like, but don't husbands come and go, but kids are fav.

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying I think it's more about like you

0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 4>you want them to eat, yeah, right, and you know, yes,

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:18.400
<v Speaker 4>your kids should eat whatever you give them, but a

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.000
<v Speaker 4>lot of times they don't, right.

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's kids that refuse or they don't eat

0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:24.840
<v Speaker 1>as much or whatever, and so you just want to

0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:27.400
<v Speaker 1>make your life easier and everyone around you by cooking

0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 1>what the kids want.

0:33:28.480 --> 0:33:33.680
<v Speaker 2>And when my question is like there was when I

0:33:33.720 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 2>was growing up there we had no option. Yeah, you

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:38.959
<v Speaker 2>ate what was cooked, what was cooked, and that included

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:43.040
<v Speaker 2>my father, right, he ate whatever my mom cooked, right,

0:33:43.560 --> 0:33:46.840
<v Speaker 2>So there was no like gone should be the day

0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 2>where we're like all trying to this is not a restaurant. Yeah,

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:52.280
<v Speaker 2>we can't be like I want chicken and I want

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:54.440
<v Speaker 2>fish and I want no Right.

0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>Whatever Ryben cooks, you eat it, Yeah, so sir, whatever

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>your wife cooks, eat it right, suck it up.

0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then she could have made it the next day. Yeah. Like,

0:34:03.880 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 3>but you're gonna take a credit card take it back.

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:34:07.120 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 3>He acted a fool, So you shady for that. So

0:34:09.760 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 3>if you're asking us, this is shady, it's shady. Okay, Okay,

0:34:12.520 --> 0:34:15.400
<v Speaker 3>all right, he acted a fool. Yeah, he was a baby.

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 3>He didn't get his way. He didn't get his ways.

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 3>And guess what, you're not gonna get sex for a month. Yeah.

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I want to talk about crumble Cookie because

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 1>this is a follow up.

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay.

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:28.880
<v Speaker 2>Crumble Cookie reportedly explores a two billion dollars sale with

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 2>a bee I'm gonna say it again. Billion dollar sale.

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:32.960
<v Speaker 3>Wow.

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 2>So apparently they're they're looking to sell the company and

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 2>their estimated value.

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 3>Is two be wow. Two billion. Wow.

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I have given them at least how many fifty million?

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.879
<v Speaker 3>I mean, but I've contributed. I've contributed.

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 2>So I'm in last week, I was in Hampton, Yeah

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:58.319
<v Speaker 2>with the door, and we went somewhere to eat and

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 2>she was like, can we go get crumbled? She shows me,

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:03.680
<v Speaker 2>because you know they changed it weekly. She shows me

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 2>what the week had and I wasn't excited about any

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 2>of it. She goes in there. I wasn't paying attention

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 2>to what she got. She told her, like, get stuff

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:14.319
<v Speaker 2>for her roommates, I mean her floor. So she gets

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:18.040
<v Speaker 2>like a bunch whatever. I happened to be talking to

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 2>Grace the next day. I'm still in Hampton, and Grace says, oh,

0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 2>I gotta go. I gotta go get the waffle cookie

0:35:23.680 --> 0:35:24.280
<v Speaker 2>from Crumble.

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 3>I said to who who? So she said the waffle cookie.

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 2>So I went back onto the site and I scrolled

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 2>all the way down to the bottom. Your door did

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 2>not do and I saw for the week they had

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 2>a waffle cookie. I said, what the hell is this?

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.160
<v Speaker 2>So I got so excited, picked up a door. We

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 2>went something to eat. I said, we're going back to Crumble.

0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:47.160
<v Speaker 2>So she was like, for what, mommy, I said, the

0:35:47.239 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 2>waffle She was like what she said? I didn't think

0:35:49.920 --> 0:35:50.560
<v Speaker 2>you would like that?

0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:53.240
<v Speaker 1>What girl?

0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:58.320
<v Speaker 3>So that crazy stuff? I got like three so so.

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:00.480
<v Speaker 1>And a door was like, yeah, you had one for

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:05.320
<v Speaker 1>breakfast tomorrow. I said, yes, sounds good. Listen the waffle

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 1>the waffle cookie at.

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Crumbles a cookie there there has like a little dopple

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 2>if that's a word of like a buttery type frosting.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:19.399
<v Speaker 3>And then they give you maple syrup to drizzle on top.

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 3>And it was hot. But it's not a there's so

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:27.319
<v Speaker 3>there's no waffle. It's it's a cookie that looks kind

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:27.680
<v Speaker 3>of waffle.

0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 2>It looks like okay, and it has like that battery

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:35.920
<v Speaker 2>tastes to That thing was worth two billions billions out

0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 2>that what's God? And every time every time I have

0:36:40.760 --> 0:36:43.920
<v Speaker 2>a cookie from Crumble that I like, I say, to

0:36:44.000 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 2>hell with every black person that trash is a crumble

0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 2>because the whole black community didn't trash Crumb.

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:52.320
<v Speaker 3>They're not getting the right one. They're not getting the

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:53.759
<v Speaker 3>right ones. You just gotta wait your turn.

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:57.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because the waffle, the black community would love the waffle.

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I haven't been back since the pies, so I need

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:02.400
<v Speaker 1>to like really try a real cookie house.

0:37:02.440 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 3>Ever, I was gonna text you about the waffle.

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, it's too late, so wait wait wait, oh,

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:08.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not done with the rest of the story.

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 3>So it just happened. The next day, I'm talking to

0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 3>Angel and she was like something something something. I think

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 3>we're just gonna.

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Stay in but yeah, she has like a a brother,

0:37:20.800 --> 0:37:21.759
<v Speaker 2>like a Morehouse brother.

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 3>His name is Will. I talked about Will before on

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:24.439
<v Speaker 3>the show.

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I think anyway, shout out to his mother is a listener,

0:37:26.840 --> 0:37:27.919
<v Speaker 2>So shout out to his mom.

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:37:28.760 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 1>So she was like, yeah, I'm gonna ask Will to

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 1>go get me some, but you know he'd be acting funny.

0:37:33.600 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 1>So I said, okay, say let's I sent her a

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>dozen on the waffle, okay, because you know, because I

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:42.359
<v Speaker 1>want her to you know, or maybe a half it does,

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember. I sent her a bunch and so

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:46.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you don't need to wait on no, Will, Yo,

0:37:46.840 --> 0:37:50.080
<v Speaker 1>mama sent you some, right, I got you.

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:52.800
<v Speaker 3>So they was in there tearing up the waffle.

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 2>The waffle is a thing because you get the it's

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 2>the maple syrup on the side.

0:37:56.800 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, yes, okay.

0:37:58.480 --> 0:38:00.360
<v Speaker 2>And that was that was a total pis say so

0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 2>excited black people.

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 3>Give it another chance.

0:38:03.640 --> 0:38:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe they're just getting the wrong one. I'm gonna

0:38:05.160 --> 0:38:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give it another chance because I never really

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:11.640
<v Speaker 1>fully experienced it. I did keep seeing these posts though,

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 1>but they have all these like poisonous ingredients and stuff

0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:14.919
<v Speaker 1>like what.

0:38:15.719 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It was just saying how sugar eggs,

0:38:20.520 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 3>like what, I don't believe it. I keep seeing it.

0:38:23.280 --> 0:38:25.879
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I've had two billion dollars wow, two

0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:27.720
<v Speaker 3>billion wow.

0:38:28.160 --> 0:38:30.480
<v Speaker 1>And let's just think about the concept. The concept is

0:38:31.320 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta switch it up. Yeah, that's the concept.

0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:36.440
<v Speaker 2>And they come up with like some creative things. So

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm not mad at at all.

0:38:39.320 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 3>We're gonna check it out. Okay, let's do we have

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 3>one more to read?

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:44.319
<v Speaker 2>Okay, But but before we read it, I just wanted

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.560
<v Speaker 2>to say one more thing because I'm on.

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:48.759
<v Speaker 3>A roll, okay, and when I get on a roll,

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 3>watch out. Okay.

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:53.920
<v Speaker 1>So I want to tell you this because this applies

0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 1>to me and you. Okay, So this is exclusive.

0:38:57.080 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 2>So the worlds there's a man and he is like

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 2>self proclaimed, like the world's smartest man, and he believes

0:39:05.640 --> 0:39:09.160
<v Speaker 2>that a higher i Q, the higher your i Q,

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:11.960
<v Speaker 2>the greater your need for gossip.

0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:17.359
<v Speaker 3>And I said, exactly, is that right? He said, that's right.

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 3>I said, that's the story of my life. Really, yes,

0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 3>that's what it is. Super smart. But I need a

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 3>little gossip every now, balance balance that out.

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, I need and YouTube you too, because because

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 1>when I call you and I give you the tea.

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:35.680
<v Speaker 3>You're not like, just it off the phone. I take it.

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 3>I drink it, Yes, you drink it? What else? And

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:41.520
<v Speaker 3>so so listen.

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:44.040
<v Speaker 2>It just shows you all that we are smart girls

0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:46.879
<v Speaker 2>because we need a little gospel every now and again.

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, balance, this is what I like. But there's

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:52.359
<v Speaker 1>a science.

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.400
<v Speaker 2>To gossip, like it has to be true. Like I

0:39:54.480 --> 0:39:58.480
<v Speaker 2>hate like made up gossip. Yeah, yeah, I can't take

0:39:58.520 --> 0:39:58.920
<v Speaker 2>the lines.

0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 1>That's like, like I don't get my information from media takeout?

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:04.240
<v Speaker 3>Do they still exists?

0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 1>Think so child media take out? Just be clear, it's

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:12.080
<v Speaker 1>a lie, TMC. It's the truth, the truth, yes, TMC.

0:40:12.360 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>We uh we stand by TMZ. Yes, yeah, I'll be

0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:18.959
<v Speaker 1>waiting to see what they say TMZ. And the court

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:22.319
<v Speaker 1>records and the court yes, the pup. The case search, yes,

0:40:22.520 --> 0:40:25.600
<v Speaker 1>case search, don't do a good case yes, totally. Okay,

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:28.040
<v Speaker 1>we got we got one more. I need some advice,

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:29.440
<v Speaker 1>so this is real advice she needs. I have a

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:31.720
<v Speaker 1>best friend who has a baby who is my god

0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 1>daughter by a childhood friend who I grew up with.

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:36.920
<v Speaker 1>So in the beginning when they were dating before the

0:40:37.000 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 1>child everything was great, and then she found out when

0:40:39.480 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 1>she found out she was pregnant things took a turn.

0:40:41.880 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 1>He started disappearing, he started doing all the weird things

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.960
<v Speaker 1>men do you know. So fast forward, he came to

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:50.360
<v Speaker 1>the ginger of gender reveal. But he missed the baby

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:52.880
<v Speaker 1>shower and the baby's birth. So my best friend was

0:40:52.920 --> 0:40:55.800
<v Speaker 1>like Kim and she wanted nothing to do with him.

0:40:56.160 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 3>He missed the birth of the child.

0:40:58.600 --> 0:41:01.239
<v Speaker 1>Yep, oh wow, missed the baby shower and the birth

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:01.800
<v Speaker 1>of the child.

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Damn.

0:41:02.480 --> 0:41:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So now the friend is like she wants nothing

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>to do with the father of her child.

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:06.240
<v Speaker 3>Good.

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:09.200
<v Speaker 1>So he recently reached out to me to try to

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:12.799
<v Speaker 1>get back in the baby's life before it's too late. Now,

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:14.960
<v Speaker 1>mind you, the baby is two years old. So I

0:41:15.000 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 1>texted my friend and let her know he was reaching out,

0:41:17.080 --> 0:41:20.279
<v Speaker 1>which I already knew she wasn't having it. But I

0:41:20.320 --> 0:41:23.120
<v Speaker 1>also ignored his message, and he messaged me again and

0:41:23.239 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 1>asked if he could go through me to get the

0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:28.160
<v Speaker 1>baby stuff. So this is where I need advice.

0:41:28.239 --> 0:41:30.240
<v Speaker 3>Wait me and get the baby stuff like close around.

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So he like wants to be in the

0:41:32.440 --> 0:41:35.359
<v Speaker 1>baby's life and give the baby stuff. Should I let

0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:37.719
<v Speaker 1>him get the baby things and say they are from me?

0:41:38.360 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Or should I tell him to just give it up

0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:42.239
<v Speaker 1>because my best friend doesn't want anything.

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 3>To do with them.

0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:47.759
<v Speaker 2>No, you should tell your best friend what's going on,

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:49.960
<v Speaker 2>because this is actually the father of the child. Yeah,

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:53.319
<v Speaker 2>and allow him to buy whatever the hell he wants.

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:54.719
<v Speaker 3>He could buy whatever he wants for his child.

0:41:54.880 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and it comes from him, It don't come you

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 2>never gonna pass these gifts off to a third part

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:01.440
<v Speaker 2>already to pretend.

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:03.560
<v Speaker 3>Like, because then what's the point? Yeah, what's the point.

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>But also I feel like I understand the mother's anger

0:42:09.719 --> 0:42:12.040
<v Speaker 1>and frustration towards him, like he wasn't there when she

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:16.600
<v Speaker 1>needed him to be. But I don't think anyone should

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:20.600
<v Speaker 1>ever cut a parent out of a child's life. Fact,

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 1>it's never too late for that person to, you know,

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>regret what they did and try to make things better.

0:42:28.000 --> 0:42:29.920
<v Speaker 1>So just because you're angry at that person for their

0:42:29.960 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 1>behavior or your relationship isn't where you want it to be,

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:36.600
<v Speaker 1>you should never keep that person out of their child's life.

0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 3>I hate it when people do that. Hate it.

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:42.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it's because like you're using the child, right, Yeah,

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:44.760
<v Speaker 1>as like a kind of like a weapon. Yeah yeah, yeah,

0:42:44.800 --> 0:42:48.359
<v Speaker 1>Like you have to find a way to now. Now,

0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:51.319
<v Speaker 1>if that other parent is like totally irresponsible a thing. Yeah,

0:42:51.320 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>But if this parent wants to be in that child's life,

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:57.120
<v Speaker 1>regardless of how you feel about him, what your relationship is,

0:42:57.160 --> 0:42:59.600
<v Speaker 1>what he did in the past to you, or whatever,

0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:04.319
<v Speaker 1>you cannot prevent him from being in his child's life.

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:07.120
<v Speaker 1>So MEMI, you just gotta tell him and this goes.

0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:09.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean, this happens a lot. So this, this scenario

0:43:09.800 --> 0:43:12.399
<v Speaker 1>that med Me presented all the time, is not unique, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's not something that even in like a divorce. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, a divorce. I mean I see it like

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<v Speaker 1>one of Wan's cousins is going through it, like he's

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<v Speaker 1>has a child in the In the the mother uses

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<v Speaker 1>the child as like a I don't know, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a punishment or something. Yeah, it's like a pawn and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like like, damn, like come.

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<v Speaker 3>On stop it. Yeah, I hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>I always say, you got to love your child more

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<v Speaker 2>than you hate that person.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, in the best ins of.

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<v Speaker 2>The child, especially a two year old, they should know

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<v Speaker 2>both of their parents and if the guy wants to,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, they thank all the guys that don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be around right now, this dude wants to be around,

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<v Speaker 2>let him be around. I mean, yeah, he affed up

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<v Speaker 2>and he knows that. But yeah, you got it. You

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<v Speaker 2>can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, so please, you know, me and me try

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her and say, like, listen, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>let him in the baby's life. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not fair, it's really not.

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<v Speaker 2>But they need to They do need to have a

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<v Speaker 2>conversation because it needs to be said. Like what we're

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<v Speaker 2>not doing is like in and out of the kaids,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you're going to be here, player, you got

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<v Speaker 2>to be here. Yeah, so we need to put y'all

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<v Speaker 2>decided to do an adult thing called have a child,

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<v Speaker 2>So let's have adult conversations.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think this is all can work out. I agree. Boom,

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<v Speaker 3>Is that all right? Yeah? That wasn't shady.

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<v Speaker 1>She just wanted advice. Okay, Okay, we know how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything doesn't have to be I know, but I you know,

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