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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d. I'm Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 3: What's up.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here with us

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Speaker 3: once again. Once again, Robin Dixon in the howl. By

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Speaker 3: the way, I'm wearing quiet grind. What's that? This is

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Speaker 3: like a little brand.

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Speaker 1: Cute black owned, Okay, small business shout out, a little

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Speaker 1: shout out, and that's all I have to say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like this stuff. It's cute, very cute. Yes,

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Speaker 3: it looks very like regal. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Look white grind, Yeah, aristocratic And to grind quietly is

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Speaker 1: what you should.

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Speaker 3: Do, yes, because when you grind loudly.

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Speaker 1: No one cares yeah, and it takes away fro like

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Speaker 1: grind takes away from it.

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Speaker 3: People like actually want you to fail when you grind out.

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Speaker 3: They're like, please fail, so you stop talking, right.

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Speaker 1: It's like when like I've I know of so many

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Speaker 1: people who have, like say, a production company has reached

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Speaker 1: out to them to potentially be on a reality show,

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Speaker 1: and they tell.

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Speaker 3: Everybody, every body be on reality.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on this show. Yes, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: on a show. I'm gonna be on a show, and

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Speaker 1: to be on a show and then the show never happens,

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Speaker 1: like and that happens often than not. Like there's so

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Speaker 1: many shows that people, you know, production companies.

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Speaker 3: Try to make happen that never do.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, just keep it to yourself, keep it yourself,

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Speaker 2: find grind quietly. For the record, the first season of Potomac,

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Speaker 2: you know, my kids had the film and I told him.

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Speaker 2: I was like, don't tell any of your friends, like,

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Speaker 2: do not tell anybody at school. So and they literally didn't.

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Speaker 2: So when it came out, like all their friends.

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Speaker 3: Was like, why did you say something?

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Speaker 2: Yep, because they were told not to and they know

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Speaker 2: how to keep a secret, yep, exactly.

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Speaker 3: That was a test. They pasted fine colors. Yep, very good. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: I have a shady moment, all right, what happened?

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Speaker 2: Okay, But first before I my shady mom, and I

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Speaker 2: do want to say once again, it's February and February

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Speaker 2: tenth and twelfth, I'll be in Houston and New Orleans.

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Speaker 2: Get into it, get your tickets. I'm excited. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: super excited. So, and my mom's coming to the Houston show.

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Speaker 2: So my mother says, So, you know, obviously she knew

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Speaker 2: I was playing the show, and I was like, Ma,

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Speaker 2: saved the date. She was like, mmm, so do I

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Speaker 2: need to come to this? What she was like, is

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Speaker 2: it gonna be ratchet? Yes, Ma, it's gonna be semi ratchet.

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Speaker 2: It's me And I'm gonna send a card to your house.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna get in it and you're coming.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, lady. So she will be there with

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Speaker 3: her surprised.

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Speaker 1: She's not like she is, no mama's she is, but

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Speaker 1: that's just.

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Speaker 2: Her way of being like, oh my god, So like

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Speaker 2: you know what's gonna be happening.

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Speaker 3: You know, she's just being a mama. Yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, So and then New Orleans, which I'm very excited

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Speaker 2: about because you know, my blur in New Orleans is

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Speaker 2: February twelfth, So get your ticket come through, all right,

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Speaker 2: So and go to my webs I mean, go to

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Speaker 2: my social to find out all the information.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So listen, Whole Foods, I got a beef. What happened?

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Speaker 3: Have you been a Whole Foods lately?

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Speaker 1: No? Why it's like too far? Not not that it's

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Speaker 1: too far, but it's out of the way for me

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Speaker 1: to get to too. Okay, yeah, okay, So.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I use their bags, their paper bags,

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Speaker 2: because I don't know, I just do. Yeah, them paper

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Speaker 2: bags is the cheapest things I've ever seen.

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Speaker 3: So I just came from them.

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Speaker 2: I had two paper bags, and I picked it up

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Speaker 2: to put it in the cart to drive, I mean

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Speaker 2: it up the handle brakes. It wasn't even heavy. So

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Speaker 2: then I'm like carrying it and the bag.

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Speaker 3: Just rips apart.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, So whoever does the bag vendor, yeah, is

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Speaker 2: using some some materials from China. Like it's just not

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Speaker 2: right right. And so then the second bag, same thing happened.

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Speaker 1: Did anything break, Nothing broke fell out, nothing fell out,

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Speaker 1: But it's I had to hold it like I was

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Speaker 2: This never started, This never happened before. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: think it's something new. They're trying to like cut corners. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: don't cut corners on the bags.

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Speaker 3: On the bags.

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Speaker 1: They're using bamboo, I mean, you know, you know, they

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Speaker 1: make like toilet paper out of bamboo. They use the

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Speaker 1: paper machee. Okay, So Whole Foods, I got an issue

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Speaker 3: I got beef. Fix your bag, yes, fix the bags immediately.

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Speaker 1: Okay that's horrible. Yes, that sucks. Yeah, that's why I

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Speaker 1: always get plastic. Well, they don't even have plastic at

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Speaker 1: Whole food They do not have plastic at Whole Foods.

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Speaker 3: And normally I bring in my bags. Yeah right, but.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes even know, if you're running in real quick, you

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Speaker 1: can get your bags. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Nah, the paper mache. Paper bags don't work.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, get into it.

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Speaker 1: Get it together, Whole food all foods, get it together,

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Speaker 1: get it together. Yes, and I love Whole Foods, by

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Speaker 1: the way. I know, so this is my new thing.

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Speaker 1: But okay, I know it's your turn to give you

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Speaker 1: a shady moment. But like I've been cooking lately, what

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Speaker 1: I know what? Okay, So going to Whole Foods and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I.

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Speaker 2: Go to the fish section. Okay, they have all like

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Speaker 2: the fish laid down. I buy like a couple of filets,

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Speaker 2: like a bass or a like a sea bass or

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Speaker 2: maybe or no the brandsino, and I'll take it home

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Speaker 2: and I'll throw it in the oven.

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Speaker 3: Okay, put a little olive oil on it. It's amazing really. Yes,

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Speaker 3: so that's what I've been doing.

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Speaker 1: I've been cooking now that your girls are gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're just cooking for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yes, the empty nesting is getting good. Are you are there?

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Speaker 3: Are there like people.

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Speaker 1: Business or mind business? Ribbings?

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Speaker 3: Maybe? How many filets are you buying?

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Speaker 2: I mean several some, but I don't. I don't do

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Speaker 2: any sides. It's just the I don't want anybody get

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Speaker 2: carried away. It's just a fish.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're not cooking for anybody. There's no man in there,

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Speaker 1: just for me because I feel like if I don't

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Speaker 1: really cook for me because they need.

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Speaker 3: To take me out.

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Speaker 1: So there's that, okay. I mean not not like a

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Speaker 3: Ain't no sides.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes what I do get is the I do like

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Speaker 2: the sad like you can get the salad in the bag. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do get that sometimes. Okay, So I have look

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Speaker 2: at little greens. But yeah, I'm not cooking all almost

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Speaker 2: all them sides. Okay, you don't have to cook all

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Speaker 2: them sides. That's when cooking goes It gets into like

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Speaker 2: a job and a chore. Yes, but I do love

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Speaker 2: all of my fish.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is good. I should buy some bronzie and cook.

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Speaker 1: I love bronzio.

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Speaker 3: Yes, just throw it in the oven booth. And it's

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Speaker 3: like not even hard. No, no, right, and it's so crazy,

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Speaker 3: right it's not hard.

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Speaker 1: And then you think about how much you pay in

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Speaker 2: And so sometimes I'll go in and they'll have the

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, all right, what's your shady moment

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Speaker 1: boyard out?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I was in the kitchen and I had

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Speaker 1: you know, you can buy like boiled eggs already made,

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Speaker 1: like they're in a bag. You just pop, take them

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Speaker 1: out the bag and eat them, right, What a hard

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Speaker 1: boiled egg? Yeah, that's in a bag? Yeah, where's that

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Speaker 3: Never seen that? What ever? Okay? Okay, so that's so

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Speaker 3: that's the thing, right, okay, so that's a new thing.

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Speaker 3: No show you how much I go to the grocery store. Okay.

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Speaker 1: No, So, like you know, when you want a quick

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Speaker 1: like waiting for your boiled eggs to cook like you know,

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Speaker 1: I just grab them, grab three whatever, make some toast whatever. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So they're I leave them in they're kept in the refrigerator.

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Speaker 1: I think I was putting some in a salad. So

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Speaker 1: I had a salad and I was gonna put some

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Speaker 3: I love that. So I took my.

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Speaker 1: So it comes out of the microwave and I'm ready

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Speaker 3: So I put the knife in. What the egg? It's

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Speaker 3: like a bomb exploded in my face? What you had

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Speaker 3: an egg bomb? As soon as the knife went into

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Speaker 3: that egg. It's just exploded in my face all over

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Speaker 1: You had egg on your fast egg on my face? Lies, yes,

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like in the kitchen, I'm just like, it's.

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Speaker 3: All in my eyes. What what did I do? Oh?

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Speaker 3: My god? Okay, first of all, why did this happen.

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Speaker 3: Let's start there. I guess I've cooked them.

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Speaker 1: I guess I cooked them too high, too long, and

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Speaker 3: Don't know, is that like a normal thing. So they will,

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Speaker 3: so they will explode.

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Speaker 1: I've seen them explode in the microwave, right, Like if

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Speaker 1: on too long or too high, they explode.

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Speaker 3: But I thought I didn't put them on too long

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Speaker 3: or too high.

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Speaker 1: When it came out, they were perfectly intact, like they

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Speaker 1: hadn't started. You know, you'll see when the eggs start

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Speaker 1: to kind of like split open. And Nope, none of

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Speaker 1: that happened.

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Speaker 3: Man, did it stink? That must have been shipped everywhere.

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Speaker 1: It was everywhere, like all across my kitchen. It didn't

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Speaker 1: really stink. The act well the waight did one come

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Speaker 1: in and say, what does that smell? He might actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I think when he came in you.

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Speaker 3: Could smell it.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, this is what it feels like

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Speaker 1: to like have a bomb explode.

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Speaker 3: Like, okay, are you comparing this to wars? You know,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to do that. I'm I don't know.

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Speaker 3: There was not a war.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but imagine this what a bomb like I totally terrible.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Like you know, you watch movies and

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Speaker 3: Like it was so crazy.

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Speaker 1: So, yes, I had egg, harbled egg all over my face,

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Speaker 3: Have you ever put a egg in your hair, raw

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Speaker 3: egg in your hair? No, I have maraise.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's great for hair, but that sounds terrible. For

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Speaker 2: the record, But speaking of things on TV, I forgot

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Speaker 3: Tell you this. It's season three.

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Speaker 2: I know everybody's gonna be like, justell shut up. It's

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Speaker 2: season three of Dubai Blank.

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Speaker 3: On Netflix.

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Speaker 1: You like you've so you've been watching that? Yes, So,

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Speaker 1: speaking of Dubai Blink, someone told me about this young

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Speaker 3: Yes, I've never seen that. I saw the preview or whatever.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen it, I think because I'm just like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I can only take so much, but Dubai Blink. Because

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Speaker 2: I've been watching Dubai Bling, I have to continue. So

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Speaker 2: it's it's reality TV nonsense at its finest. Okay, So,

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Speaker 2: and the people all kind of know each other. They

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Speaker 3: They just looked phenomenal, so get into it. Dubai blank.

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Speaker 1: So why is Dubai Bling successful and the Dubai Housewives

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I can I can break that down. So

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Speaker 2: these people in Dubai Bling actually have money, and.

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Speaker 3: That's the end of the conversation. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

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Speaker 2: The people know they don't have money. On No, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. Roal House was a Dubai I can't speak

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Speaker 3: A part of the culture. Okay, So so they're more

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know who's native to Dubai right

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Speaker 2: I feel like they're more they're more into the culture,

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Speaker 2: They're more arab there. Yes, there was a Saudi girl

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Speaker 2: They don't have real house wise to Dubai did not

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Speaker 2: I don't think that real House was of Dubai. This

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Speaker 2: think that was a secret to our success, Potomac success,

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Speaker 2: because we all kind of knew each other a little

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Speaker 3: These people they know.

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Speaker 2: Each other, they know each other, yes, so it's great.

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Speaker 2: And then this is Ibraham, Abraham whatever his name is.

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Speaker 3: He's like wild.

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Speaker 2: He got a wife that we don't see. He's all

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Speaker 2: over the place. He dresses impeccably and you cannot say

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Speaker 2: anything wild to him at all, right, because he's taking

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Speaker 2: you for life. Like him and his him and his

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Speaker 1: He said, I'm closing the cafe, like it was so crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's wild, but it's good. Check it out now

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Speaker 3: we have to check it out.

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Speaker 1: That's funny, all right. So, like how many cast members

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Speaker 1: do they have? They have they have male and female

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Speaker 1: are all I think all of them are married.

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Speaker 3: They have maybe ten wow. Yeah. So it's like Vanderpump

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Speaker 3: kind of ish ish ish but mature. Yeah yeah, these

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Speaker 3: people are mature. Oh that's interesting. Okay, so this is

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Speaker 1: It says that if you leave parties without saying goodbye, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do that all the time.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm famous for that too. Yeah you do. You

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Speaker 2: So irish goodbyes give you two days per year because

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Speaker 2: you know, when you start saying goodbye, you gotta say

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Speaker 3: And then you and then and then more conversations. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yes, we're like, oh I forgot to tell you this

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Speaker 1: Right, you're like, okay, it might be eight o'clock and

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Speaker 1: I'm leaving, and then you really leave at ten?

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Speaker 3: Right no?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, So I all for like just

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Speaker 1: buy piecing out, no, just walking out the door.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So Ashley always like knows that I do this, and

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Speaker 3: And actually like, don't y'all know she down? She been gone? Right? Yes,

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Speaker 3: I am famous for just and then for me, I

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Speaker 1: It's like when you come, when you go to a

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Speaker 3: Right yeah. And I was like one and done. One

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Speaker 3: is enough, Like okay, next. You know what I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 3: why do we have to do this? Rob what a

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Speaker 1: We have to hug to say hi and say bye

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Speaker 1: because it's the it's the courteous thing to do.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 2: And people are so excited when they say you. But

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Speaker 2: you don't irish goodbye like I do, Like.

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Speaker 3: You know you, I'm you. You're out, Like you're.

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Speaker 2: Like, I'm saving at least five days yeah, out of

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Speaker 2: the entire year. Yeah yeah, but you will go back

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Speaker 2: and say bye. And then when you go back and

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Speaker 2: say bye, you linger.

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Speaker 3: Then I'll talk. Yeah yeah, that's you're a linger. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So then so then when that starts happening, I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm just out. Yeah, I'm done. I'm not I'm done.

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Speaker 3: I'm done.

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Speaker 2: I was telling actually I was talking to one of

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Speaker 2: I was like, yo, leave, yeah, like, don't talk about anybody,

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Speaker 2: Just walk out the door.

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Speaker 3: She was like, well, that's weird, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's so funny that happened. It was

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Speaker 1: I think it was like Christmas or whatever, Thanksgiving. Wan's

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Speaker 1: and his brother's girlfriend were still here. And we go

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Speaker 1: from the couch and you know, they're like, all right,

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Speaker 1: were about to leave. So we start to like walk

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Speaker 3: Right. We spent thirty minutes at the front door. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: talking nah, Like it was so crazy. I'm like, how

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you say whatever you want to say? When

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Speaker 2: he was on the couch, It just you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, it's just talking.

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Speaker 3: Something happened and we just start talking. I'm like, yeah, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Should we should have just sat on the couch and

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Speaker 1: be like all right, buye y'all and let them go.

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Speaker 3: So you're like in a minus.

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Speaker 2: You're like in a negative two days crazy, all right,

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Speaker 2: So this is the last thing so Japan has, cause

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Speaker 2: you know, I always feel like Japan is always on

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Speaker 2: the cutting edge. They are always like light years past

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Speaker 2: us dumb Americans. Yes, okay, So Japan has an electric

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Speaker 2: salt spoon, which tricks your taste buzzs into enjoying salty

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Speaker 2: flavors without any salt. So think about people with like

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Speaker 2: high blood pressure. They don't need any sodium. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is amazing. Wow, I need this. You need it

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Speaker 2: right for my fish? So we got to get this, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I so, so, I haven't I looked it up. I

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Speaker 2: haven't seen it on the market. But I need the

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Speaker 2: Japanese electric salt spoon.

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Speaker 3: How did they make that? I need? Yes?

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Speaker 2: My mother needs that, true, true, true, true. Yes, So

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Speaker 2: hopefully somebody will send me that or it'll be on

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Speaker 2: the market in the United States. Yes, yes, because I'll

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Speaker 2: be purchasing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I like that. So I have a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I know your answer.

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Speaker 3: Do you think saying thanks is rude? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay, am I talking to somebody? Is it an email?

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Speaker 2: Is it as any all of the above?

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Speaker 3: No? Maybe in an email?

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Speaker 1: I think it's rude. What I think it's rude? Like

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Speaker 1: it's just it's so like short and curt and cold,

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Speaker 1: just thanks, like hey, thanks, like like you gave me something.

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Speaker 3: I say thanks.

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Speaker 1: So it depends on how you say it like, so

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Speaker 1: if you have that inflection in your voice, right, then okay,

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Speaker 1: I have to write Robin, and I won't write you,

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Speaker 1: know how like your phone like starts auto first writing

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Speaker 1: words out for you. And if it says thanks, I'm

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Speaker 1: like no, thank you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, no thank you? First of all? When when I

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Speaker 3: when when we send?

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Speaker 2: When Robinson's emails, if you don't send her email with

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Speaker 2: like a proper greeting, a proper size, We've talked about

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Speaker 2: this before, and a proper ending, then it's rude.

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Speaker 3: Now it's exactly say thank you. I can't say thanks. Yes,

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Speaker 3: thanks is like nice. No I say thanks all the time.

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Speaker 3: It's rude. It's short. It's short and curt and cold.

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Speaker 3: What do you say to wan?

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Speaker 1: We're very respectful to each other, like we we don't

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Speaker 1: you know, we're yes, thank you.

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Speaker 3: You don't say thanks?

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Speaker 2: No, So if wine gives you an egg that has

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Speaker 2: not exploded, do you say thanks?

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Speaker 3: No? I say thank you. I can't stand me. What

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Speaker 3: about your kids? They're like thanks? Oh? Thanks? Mom My

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Speaker 3: kids say thanks to me all the time. Let me

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Speaker 3: get back to you on that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they probably I swear I like that word thanks,

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Speaker 1: just like it's.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You don't like things. I don't like it, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I just think it's rude, like just say thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like the P word. We've talked about

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Speaker 1: that before. Please no some other P word. All right,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on. We're talking, okay, yes, down below, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't like that word.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, it's a shift. That was a huge shift.

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Speaker 3: I don't but I mean I've never liked that word. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and weird. But isn't it weird how certain words

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Speaker 1: just sound dirty?

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Speaker 3: And yeah, you know what I'm saying. It's like, why

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Speaker 3: does that sound dirty? Right?

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Speaker 2: Like? Okay, so the word is p U S s Y.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it. Yeah, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I I like Cucci true, Yeah, yeah that sounds better

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Speaker 1: for JJ sounds better.

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Speaker 3: Hot pocket. But you like penis sounds I like penis.

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Speaker 3: I don't like penis. I love Penis. I like penis

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Speaker 3: better than Dick. True, Dick sounds rude. Dick sound's rude.

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Speaker 3: So it's like penis or like, you have a name,

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Speaker 3: but they need like a better name for it. Well,

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Speaker 3: it depends on that.

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Speaker 1: Like do you guys make up names for the people.

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Speaker 1: We've asked guys just before, do they make up names

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Speaker 1: for their penises? M I don't think so. Okay, well

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Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody does. Yes, you know there's no name

439
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Speaker 1: in this to meet? Yeah, what's to say?

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Speaker 3: He pulled Ralph out? Okay, Ralphi need to put him back.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to think. Has any man ever referred No? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't think. So. Hey, anybody out there,

443
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Speaker 3: if you name your penis, let us know the name.

444
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Speaker 2: And when you've told women about or men about the name,

445
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Speaker 2: how did they react?

446
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Speaker 3: They react? Yeah, that's a good question.

447
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Speaker 2: All right, We got to get to our speaking of

448
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Speaker 2: penises and sex and all that good stuff. We matchmake

449
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Speaker 2: one oh one is what Robin and I are doing. Okay,

450
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Speaker 2: So we told you guys that we're matching yep, people,

451
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Speaker 2: and you guys have sent us some names and pictures

452
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Speaker 2: and your your references and your social Security number, like

453
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Speaker 2: you didn't need all of that. Okay, but this, but

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Speaker 2: we want to let you all know because we're getting

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Speaker 2: a lot from women, So we want to let you

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Speaker 2: guys out there know or ladies.

457
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Speaker 3: Who's who is ready to be matched? Okay, So this

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Speaker 3: is where we're closing. The submissions.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the end of February February twenty eighth, So between

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Speaker 1: now and February twenty eighth, everybody send us your emails

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Speaker 1: if you want us to hook you up with another

462
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Speaker 1: reasonably shady listener. Yeah, you know, because that's what y'all

463
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Speaker 1: have in common and find love. So yes, as Justelle said,

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Speaker 1: if you all know a you guys like, send this

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Speaker 1: to them, please.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: And if let's say, let's say it's a woman and

468
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Speaker 2: you have like a Bessie that's a man, send the

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Speaker 2: shit in.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't need to know. Just send his stuff in.

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Speaker 1: Ye, or you know, your father, your brother, whatever, you

472
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Speaker 1: want to send it for someone on their behalf, send it.

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Speaker 3: Do it because I can tell you you know I did.

474
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Speaker 2: I did a dating show and some of the guys

475
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Speaker 2: were referred by women that they just put their information

476
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Speaker 2: forward and the guys started getting phone calls and they

477
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Speaker 2: were like, what the hell is this? So yeah, so

478
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 2: sometimes we got to like because you know, guys don't

479
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Speaker 2: really put themselves out like that, right, so we got

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Speaker 2: to do it for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I like that. Yeah, because guys are like,

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Speaker 1: how do I send an email?

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Speaker 3: What do you mean? What do you mean we're not

484
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Speaker 3: going to be a meeting? I mean, what's going on

485
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Speaker 3: with these ladies? Yeah?

486
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And so it's time comes, it's time goes on.

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Speaker 1: We'll like give you all more information on how we're

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Speaker 1: actually doing this. Yes, you know how this is working,

489
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Speaker 1: but we wanted to just give y'all a little snippet

490
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Speaker 1: some of the wonderful people who have written in.

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Speaker 3: I want to say, you all are very attractive people.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we have not gotten any duds. No duds here, okay,

493
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Speaker 2: and which is nice because we have very attractive listeners.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love that we do. Yes, pretty people stick together. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So this is from Tammy Boyd. She says, high friends.

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Speaker 2: My name is Tammy Boyd and I live in Nashville, Tennessee, Okaysville.

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Speaker 2: I've been divorced for over twelve years. I have my

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Speaker 2: own house. Okay, Lady, I am an empty nester. So

499
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Speaker 2: who's super sad and lonely? I don't want her to

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Speaker 2: be sad and lonely. Now I have one son who's

501
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Speaker 2: who's the light of my life. I get sick of

502
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Speaker 2: talking to guys telling me they are broke. I'm fifty

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Speaker 2: six and I don't think I look too bad. No,

504
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Speaker 2: she's so cute. Can see her very beautiful.

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Speaker 3: She has a holly berry ish look. Well she has

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Speaker 3: like a little holly berry here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's very pretty nice smile. Yes, she has

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Speaker 1: her so so like she's she's a queen. She has

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Speaker 1: her own house. She's an empty nester. She's living her

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Speaker 1: best life.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so get into that. This is from Micah's This

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Speaker 2: a guy. Yes, okay, Micah is a guy. Oh maybe

514
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Speaker 2: they would be good.

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Speaker 3: Uh he's twenty one. Oh okay, Michae's twenty one. She's

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Speaker 3: fifty six. Right, that'd be good for me. Never mind, okay. Hi,

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Speaker 3: Jisella Robbins. This is Michael Mitchell.

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Speaker 2: Before I start, I would like to state that I'm

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Speaker 2: a huge fan of Reasonably Shady podcasts Every Monday. You

520
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 2: guys are the first thing I listened to, which makes

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Speaker 2: my Mondays so much better.

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Speaker 3: Awesome.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so nice. So for more about me. My

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Speaker 1: name is Micah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Michael, I'm twenty one years old Colvine student

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Speaker 2: from Lansing, Michigan. My race is Black African American, and

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Speaker 2: I'm gay as well. In twenty twenty six, it'll be

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Speaker 2: ten years since I came out and I still haven't

529
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Speaker 2: had a relationship since then.

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Speaker 3: Oh this makes me sad.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, I need your help. A few fun things

532
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Speaker 2: to know about me are I'm a middle child, a

533
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Speaker 2: huge Beyonce fan.

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Speaker 3: Okay me hi? Okay.

535
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Speaker 2: I have an obsession with Fraggle Rock. I don't even

536
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Speaker 2: know what that is. Oh my gosh, you don't know

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Speaker 2: Fragle Rock. No, that's an interesting obsession. That was like

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Speaker 2: a show on so like HBO years ago. They're like

539
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Speaker 2: little muppets.

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Speaker 1: And I used to always say in season one in

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Speaker 1: my head that Karen Huger looked like a Fragle.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what you were gonna say for damn sure,

543
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Speaker 2: didn't they think you were gonna say that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so they're like little puppets, little muppet puppets. They're

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Speaker 1: like the Muppets, but they're called Fraggle Rock.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, Micah, let us know whether you thought about

547
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Speaker 2: Karen at any point. Let me know if you think

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Speaker 2: I'm right, Yes about frag season one.

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Speaker 3: Karen, not season eight, Karen season one? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So it's an obsession with Fraggle Loves he loves dancing, drawing,

551
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Speaker 2: and weightlifting. And I live for a good reality show.

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Speaker 2: Wink wink, Oh, thank you so much. With love Michah. Okay,

553
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 2: so I like Micah. We gotta find you a boot,

554
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Speaker 2: We gotta find you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll read one more.

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Speaker 1: This is Joyce gotten guten gen Giten.

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Speaker 3: Hi, ladies.

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Speaker 2: My name is Zara Zarayah Zariah and I am chronically single.

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00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,719
Speaker 2: So please hook a sister up, please and thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let's see what y'all can do. She's twenty nine, soon

561
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Speaker 2: to be thirty in cancer season. What's cancer cancer is?

562
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Speaker 2: Is that May ish? Maybe late April May? No, that's

563
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Speaker 2: that's tourists. Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: She lives in Providence, Rhode Island, Boston. Oh, I might

566
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Speaker 2: know somebody. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Her preference

567
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Speaker 2: is looking good and ed looking. Her preference looking for

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Speaker 2: a good educated man, any race.

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Speaker 1: I think I have somebody for her, really I do. Okay,

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Speaker 1: off my dating show. Oh yeah, what's the age here?

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Speaker 3: The ages? She's thirty okay, and then what's the age

572
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Speaker 3: of the person you have? Maybe who cares? Did she said? Okay,

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Speaker 3: she didn't have.

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Speaker 2: Age is nothing but number? Okay, yes, this is great. Okay, So, Joyce,

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Speaker 2: I think I got somebody for you. Let me do

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Speaker 2: some work.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna see him soon, the guy that I think. So,

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Speaker 3: do we have better pictures of her? All of that

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Speaker 3: is her? I don't know. I don't think. I think

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Speaker 3: it's just one picture.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Joyce, Joyce, I'm putting my she's cute.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's cute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Joyce, not that another you live in Beantown

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Speaker 2: because I didn't Boston, Rhode Island, that whole area. It's

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Speaker 2: funny because I didn't think black people lived there, and

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00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: so there was a couple of people that I met

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Speaker 2: from there.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, who knows?

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00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, apparently there's like a Nigerian community there and everything. Yes,

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Speaker 2: So all right, Joyce, let me let me.

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Speaker 3: Do some research. I'm getting excited. Yes, I'm about to

592
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Speaker 3: be cute.

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Speaker 2: Pet I'm about to roll back my bone and let

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Speaker 2: somebody know. All right, So continue to sit in your stuff, like,

595
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: like we said, we need some guys, and and.

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Speaker 1: You have what thirty days? You have twelve days February

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Speaker 1: twenty eighth. Yes, we're cutting them up, cutting all the

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Speaker 1: submissions off Everruy twenty eighth. So we can get through everything.

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Speaker 1: But I mean we have received some guys, but just

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Speaker 1: not enough, not enough, not enough. Okay, all right, so

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Speaker 1: let's get into some emails that we've received from you all. Yep,

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Speaker 1: this is from one of our favorites, Shamion, with a

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Speaker 1: what would you do?

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Speaker 3: Or I thought?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're needing our thoughts on this situation.

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00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: The last time Sha Marion sent us something, she was like,

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Speaker 2: it's not me, it's my friend. But it was her,

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Speaker 2: right right, So is this gonna be another one?

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Speaker 1: I think this is more random. I think this is

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Speaker 1: like a hypothetical type of situation. Okay, yeah, so she

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Speaker 1: sends us in So this says, bro, I'm not petty,

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Speaker 1: I'm just being real. I got paid on Friday. I

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Speaker 1: gave my wife two hundred and fifty dollars for groceries,

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Speaker 1: and I told her I wanted a nice, home cooked

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Speaker 1: meal for Sunday dinner.

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Speaker 3: She agreed.

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Speaker 1: I got off from work and walked into the house

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Speaker 1: to some mother effing tacos. What's wrong with tacos? It

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Speaker 1: wasn't Tuesday, it was Sunday, Sunday tacos on a Sunday,

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Speaker 1: after I requested chicken, mac and cheese, green beans, greens.

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Speaker 3: It ain't Thanksgiving playing right. She bought the food. It's

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Speaker 3: in the refrigerator. She had a house full.

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Speaker 1: Once I showered and came out and looked at her,

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Speaker 1: and within twenty minutes they all left. Her only excuse

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Speaker 1: was that her kids didn't want chicken. They wanted tacos.

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Speaker 1: She didn't think it would be a big deal effort

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Speaker 1: them m efforts to eat what she cooks. I took

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Speaker 1: her credit card. If you can't cook what I asked,

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Speaker 1: and I paid the bills, you can't spend my money.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm the bad guy. Using my credit card is

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Speaker 1: a privilege. All this over some tacos? Did I mishandle

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Speaker 1: the situation? Yes?

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Speaker 3: You did? Okay? Who is this person? This writer?

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Speaker 1: This is a hypothetical situation.

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Speaker 3: This is a mess. Okay, this is the man is

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Speaker 3: a man? Right, this is a man. Okay.

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Speaker 1: He gave his wife his credit card to go buy

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Speaker 1: groceries as he should, because she gives you the P word, right,

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Speaker 1: yes words us s y yes, okay. Scare of your kids,

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Speaker 1: of your kids, so that's not They don't have kids,

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Speaker 1: he said, her, well, I think he said, her kids.

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Speaker 2: But this is the thing, like, you don't get a

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Speaker 2: gold star for taking care of the household sir, that's

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Speaker 2: what you're supposed.

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Speaker 3: To be doing.

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Speaker 1: I see it both ways, though, I understand the frustration, right,

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Speaker 1: because he.

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Speaker 3: He I understand the frustration.

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Speaker 1: He gave her money to go buy groceries and let's

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Speaker 1: and you put in a request. Yes, yes, he put

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Speaker 1: the requests and let's cook a good meal. But then

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Speaker 1: he saw that the kids with the kids wanted trumped

654
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Speaker 1: what he wanted. Yes, So I feel like the issue

655
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:54,479
Speaker 1: is more so like not that you didn't cook what

656
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: I wanted, but it's like you cooked what they wanted, right,

657
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: And I, you know, and I gave you the money

658
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: to I put in the request, and I gave you

659
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: money to get what I request.

660
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: My question is are you fed? Player? You're fed? Right?

661
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 2: You you have something to eat, just speak. You can

662
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: have chicken tomorrow, okay. But this is what I don't

663
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 2: like this.

664
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 3: I don't like you. You're taking the credit card.

665
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: So you're now punishing me right for feeding my children.

666
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,479
Speaker 3: Right. It's see, there's another issue there.

667
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: It's the whole money situation, because like some couples, it's like, Okay,

668
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: your your money is our money. But clearly in this situation, Okay,

669
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: his money is his money and her money is her money.

670
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 3: Okay.

671
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: But I just want all women to know if you're

672
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: with a man and he makes more money, his money

673
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 2: is y'all's money. Right, Your money is your money, right, Okay.

674
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: I just want to put that out there for the

675
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 2: women and any man that every thinks is gonna date me.

676
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: Okay, right, okay, right right.

677
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: So so I feel like that is like part of

678
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,719
Speaker 1: that's that's that's the wrong that's the real issue. Like okay,

679
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: like why are you stripping over the fact that you

680
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: gave her money to get groceries?

681
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 3: Like you should be doing that.

682
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: Anyway, that's that's a requirement, right Yeah. So so for me,

683
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: it's like not as much about the money. It's more

684
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: about you requested chicken and waffles or chicken and greens. Yes,

685
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: and she made tacos because the kids want to tacos.

686
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: So it's more like, you know, are you going to

687
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: are you cooking for the husband or are you cooking

688
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: for the kids.

689
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 2: You're cook Okay, So do you have that problem in

690
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 2: this household? Because I could see because like that would.

691
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,479
Speaker 1: Never I don't you don't have the kind yeah, yeah,

692
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: so it's funny. I actually do lean more towards cooking

693
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: what the kids want, yes, than cooking what wal wants.

694
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 3: Why, just curious, I don't know.

695
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: I mean, because the kids should eat whatever you give them, right, yeah, but.

696
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 3: Like, but don't husbands come and go, but kids are fav.

697
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 4: I'm just saying I think it's more about like you

698
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 4: you want them to eat, yeah, right, and you know, yes,

699
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 4: your kids should eat whatever you give them, but a

700
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 4: lot of times they don't, right.

701
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: You know, there's kids that refuse or they don't eat

702
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: as much or whatever, and so you just want to

703
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: make your life easier and everyone around you by cooking

704
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: what the kids want.

705
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 2: And when my question is like there was when I

706
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: was growing up there we had no option. Yeah, you

707
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,959
Speaker 2: ate what was cooked, what was cooked, and that included

708
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 2: my father, right, he ate whatever my mom cooked, right,

709
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 2: So there was no like gone should be the day

710
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 2: where we're like all trying to this is not a restaurant. Yeah,

711
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: we can't be like I want chicken and I want

712
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 2: fish and I want no Right.

713
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: Whatever Ryben cooks, you eat it, Yeah, so sir, whatever

714
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: your wife cooks, eat it right, suck it up.

715
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then she could have made it the next day. Yeah. Like,

716
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 3: but you're gonna take a credit card take it back.

717
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

718
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: He acted a fool, So you shady for that. So

719
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 3: if you're asking us, this is shady, it's shady. Okay, Okay,

720
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 3: all right, he acted a fool. Yeah, he was a baby.

721
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 3: He didn't get his way. He didn't get his ways.

722
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 3: And guess what, you're not gonna get sex for a month. Yeah.

723
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to talk about crumble Cookie because

724
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: this is a follow up.

725
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: Okay, okay.

726
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 2: Crumble Cookie reportedly explores a two billion dollars sale with

727
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: a bee I'm gonna say it again. Billion dollar sale.

728
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 3: Wow.

729
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 2: So apparently they're they're looking to sell the company and

730
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: their estimated value.

731
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 3: Is two be wow. Two billion. Wow.

732
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: I have given them at least how many fifty million?

733
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 3: I mean, but I've contributed. I've contributed.

734
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 2: So I'm in last week, I was in Hampton, Yeah

735
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 2: with the door, and we went somewhere to eat and

736
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: she was like, can we go get crumbled? She shows me,

737
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: because you know they changed it weekly. She shows me

738
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 2: what the week had and I wasn't excited about any

739
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: of it. She goes in there. I wasn't paying attention

740
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: to what she got. She told her, like, get stuff

741
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 2: for her roommates, I mean her floor. So she gets

742
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 2: like a bunch whatever. I happened to be talking to

743
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: Grace the next day. I'm still in Hampton, and Grace says, oh,

744
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: I gotta go. I gotta go get the waffle cookie

745
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:24,280
Speaker 2: from Crumble.

746
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 3: I said to who who? So she said the waffle cookie.

747
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 2: So I went back onto the site and I scrolled

748
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: all the way down to the bottom. Your door did

749
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 2: not do and I saw for the week they had

750
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 2: a waffle cookie. I said, what the hell is this?

751
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 2: So I got so excited, picked up a door. We

752
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: went something to eat. I said, we're going back to Crumble.

753
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: So she was like, for what, mommy, I said, the

754
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 2: waffle She was like what she said? I didn't think

755
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 2: you would like that?

756
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 1: What girl?

757
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 3: So that crazy stuff? I got like three so so.

758
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 1: And a door was like, yeah, you had one for

759
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: breakfast tomorrow. I said, yes, sounds good. Listen the waffle

760
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: the waffle cookie at.

761
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: Crumbles a cookie there there has like a little dopple

762
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 2: if that's a word of like a buttery type frosting.

763
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 3: And then they give you maple syrup to drizzle on top.

764
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 3: And it was hot. But it's not a there's so

765
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 3: there's no waffle. It's it's a cookie that looks kind

766
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 3: of waffle.

767
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 2: It looks like okay, and it has like that battery

768
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 2: tastes to That thing was worth two billions billions out

769
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: that what's God? And every time every time I have

770
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 2: a cookie from Crumble that I like, I say, to

771
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: hell with every black person that trash is a crumble

772
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: because the whole black community didn't trash Crumb.

773
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 3: They're not getting the right one. They're not getting the

774
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 3: right ones. You just gotta wait your turn.

775
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: Okay, because the waffle, the black community would love the waffle.

776
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: I haven't been back since the pies, so I need

777
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: to like really try a real cookie house.

778
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: Ever, I was gonna text you about the waffle.

779
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it's too late, so wait wait wait, oh,

780
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: I'm not done with the rest of the story.

781
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 3: So it just happened. The next day, I'm talking to

782
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 3: Angel and she was like something something something. I think

783
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: we're just gonna.

784
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 2: Stay in but yeah, she has like a a brother,

785
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 2: like a Morehouse brother.

786
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 3: His name is Will. I talked about Will before on

787
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 3: the show.

788
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: I think anyway, shout out to his mother is a listener,

789
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 2: So shout out to his mom.

790
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 3: Okay.

791
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: So she was like, yeah, I'm gonna ask Will to

792
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: go get me some, but you know he'd be acting funny.

793
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 1: So I said, okay, say let's I sent her a

794
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: dozen on the waffle, okay, because you know, because I

795
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 1: want her to you know, or maybe a half it does,

796
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I sent her a bunch and so

797
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: I was like, you don't need to wait on no, Will, Yo,

798
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: mama sent you some, right, I got you.

799
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 3: So they was in there tearing up the waffle.

800
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: The waffle is a thing because you get the it's

801
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 2: the maple syrup on the side.

802
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yes, okay.

803
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 2: And that was that was a total pis say so

804
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 2: excited black people.

805
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 3: Give it another chance.

806
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they're just getting the wrong one. I'm gonna

807
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give it another chance because I never really

808
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: fully experienced it. I did keep seeing these posts though,

809
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: but they have all these like poisonous ingredients and stuff

810
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 1: like what.

811
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 3: I don't know. It was just saying how sugar eggs,

812
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 3: like what, I don't believe it. I keep seeing it.

813
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 3: I don't know. I've had two billion dollars wow, two

814
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 3: billion wow.

815
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: And let's just think about the concept. The concept is

816
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: you gotta switch it up. Yeah, that's the concept.

817
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: And they come up with like some creative things. So

818
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at at all.

819
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 3: We're gonna check it out. Okay, let's do we have

820
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 3: one more to read?

821
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 2: Okay, But but before we read it, I just wanted

822
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: to say one more thing because I'm on.

823
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 3: A roll, okay, and when I get on a roll,

824
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 3: watch out. Okay.

825
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: So I want to tell you this because this applies

826
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: to me and you. Okay, So this is exclusive.

827
00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 2: So the worlds there's a man and he is like

828
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 2: self proclaimed, like the world's smartest man, and he believes

829
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: that a higher i Q, the higher your i Q,

830
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 2: the greater your need for gossip.

831
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 3: And I said, exactly, is that right? He said, that's right.

832
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 3: I said, that's the story of my life. Really, yes,

833
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 3: that's what it is. Super smart. But I need a

834
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 3: little gossip every now, balance balance that out.

835
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I need and YouTube you too, because because

836
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: when I call you and I give you the tea.

837
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 3: You're not like, just it off the phone. I take it.

838
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 3: I drink it, Yes, you drink it? What else? And

839
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 3: so so listen.

840
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 2: It just shows you all that we are smart girls

841
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 2: because we need a little gospel every now and again.

842
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, balance, this is what I like. But there's

843
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: a science.

844
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: To gossip, like it has to be true. Like I

845
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 2: hate like made up gossip. Yeah, yeah, I can't take

846
00:39:58,520 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 2: the lines.

847
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: That's like, like I don't get my information from media takeout?

848
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,240
Speaker 3: Do they still exists?

849
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: Think so child media take out? Just be clear, it's

850
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: a lie, TMC. It's the truth, the truth, yes, TMC.

851
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: We uh we stand by TMZ. Yes, yeah, I'll be

852
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 1: waiting to see what they say TMZ. And the court

853
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: records and the court yes, the pup. The case search, yes,

854
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: case search, don't do a good case yes, totally. Okay,

855
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: we got we got one more. I need some advice,

856
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: so this is real advice she needs. I have a

857
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,720
Speaker 1: best friend who has a baby who is my god

858
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: daughter by a childhood friend who I grew up with.

859
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: So in the beginning when they were dating before the

860
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: child everything was great, and then she found out when

861
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: she found out she was pregnant things took a turn.

862
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: He started disappearing, he started doing all the weird things

863
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: men do you know. So fast forward, he came to

864
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: the ginger of gender reveal. But he missed the baby

865
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: shower and the baby's birth. So my best friend was

866
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 1: like Kim and she wanted nothing to do with him.

867
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 3: He missed the birth of the child.

868
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: Yep, oh wow, missed the baby shower and the birth

869
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: of the child.

870
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 3: Damn.

871
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So now the friend is like she wants nothing

872
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: to do with the father of her child.

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Speaker 3: Good.

874
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: So he recently reached out to me to try to

875
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: get back in the baby's life before it's too late. Now,

876
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: mind you, the baby is two years old. So I

877
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: texted my friend and let her know he was reaching out,

878
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: which I already knew she wasn't having it. But I

879
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: also ignored his message, and he messaged me again and

880
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: asked if he could go through me to get the

881
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: baby stuff. So this is where I need advice.

882
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,240
Speaker 3: Wait me and get the baby stuff like close around.

883
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So he like wants to be in the

884
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: baby's life and give the baby stuff. Should I let

885
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: him get the baby things and say they are from me?

886
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: Or should I tell him to just give it up

887
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: because my best friend doesn't want anything.

888
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 3: To do with them.

889
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: No, you should tell your best friend what's going on,

890
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: because this is actually the father of the child. Yeah,

891
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 2: and allow him to buy whatever the hell he wants.

892
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 3: He could buy whatever he wants for his child.

893
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 2: Yes, and it comes from him, It don't come you

894
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: never gonna pass these gifts off to a third part

895
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 2: already to pretend.

896
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 3: Like, because then what's the point? Yeah, what's the point.

897
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: But also I feel like I understand the mother's anger

898
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: and frustration towards him, like he wasn't there when she

899
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: needed him to be. But I don't think anyone should

900
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: ever cut a parent out of a child's life. Fact,

901
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: it's never too late for that person to, you know,

902
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: regret what they did and try to make things better.

903
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: So just because you're angry at that person for their

904
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: behavior or your relationship isn't where you want it to be,

905
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: you should never keep that person out of their child's life.

906
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: I hate it when people do that. Hate it.

907
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: I think it's because like you're using the child, right, Yeah,

908
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,760
Speaker 1: as like a kind of like a weapon. Yeah yeah, yeah,

909
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,359
Speaker 1: Like you have to find a way to now. Now,

910
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: if that other parent is like totally irresponsible a thing. Yeah,

911
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: But if this parent wants to be in that child's life,

912
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: regardless of how you feel about him, what your relationship is,

913
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: what he did in the past to you, or whatever,

914
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: you cannot prevent him from being in his child's life.

915
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: So MEMI, you just gotta tell him and this goes.

916
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: I mean, this happens a lot. So this, this scenario

917
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 1: that med Me presented all the time, is not unique, right,

918
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: It's not something that even in like a divorce. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

919
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: oh yeah, a divorce. I mean I see it like

920
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: one of Wan's cousins is going through it, like he's

921
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: has a child in the In the the mother uses

922
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: the child as like a I don't know, it's like

923
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: a punishment or something. Yeah, it's like a pawn and

924
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: it's like like, damn, like come.

925
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: On stop it. Yeah, I hate that.

926
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: I always say, you got to love your child more

927
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 2: than you hate that person.

928
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 3: So you know, in the best ins of.

929
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: The child, especially a two year old, they should know

930
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 2: both of their parents and if the guy wants to,

931
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: I mean, they thank all the guys that don't want

932
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: to be around right now, this dude wants to be around,

933
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: let him be around. I mean, yeah, he affed up

934
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 2: and he knows that. But yeah, you got it. You

935
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: can't do that.

936
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so please, you know, me and me try

937
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: to talk to her and say, like, listen, you gotta

938
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: let him in the baby's life. Yeah.

939
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 3: It's not fair, it's really not.

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00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 2: But they need to They do need to have a

941
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,919
Speaker 2: conversation because it needs to be said. Like what we're

942
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 2: not doing is like in and out of the kaids,

943
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: Like if you're going to be here, player, you got

944
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 2: to be here. Yeah, so we need to put y'all

945
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 2: decided to do an adult thing called have a child,

946
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:18,959
Speaker 2: So let's have adult conversations.

947
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,959
Speaker 3: And I think this is all can work out. I agree. Boom,

948
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 3: Is that all right? Yeah? That wasn't shady.

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Speaker 1: She just wanted advice. Okay, Okay, we know how to

950
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: do that. Okay, all right.

951
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Speaker 3: Everything doesn't have to be I know, but I you know,

952
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 3: I love to get my shady in anyway. We love y'all.

953
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954
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