1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl XP and it's Sugarl 2 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: Dray and a cold and you. 3 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 2: Are tuned in to a bonus episode of One Down Wednesday. 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: Yes, we know we've been slacking on the boness. We 5 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: have laing on the episodes, but we're gonna get back on. Yes, 6 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: were about to get back on our sheets. 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: So we actually were supposed to talk about something totally different, 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: but we were sitting in the living room talking and 9 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 2: talking and running our mouths like we always do, and 10 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: we were like, you know what, let's finish this conversation 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: on air and record this for y'all because I don't 12 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: know when I tell y'all, wind Down Wednesday is real. 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: These are real conversations that me and dreans. 14 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 2: They are, like, It's like, we don't never just be 15 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: sitting around brainstorming trying to think about topics because we 16 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 2: literally always end up talking about sheep that we always 17 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: just have every day conversations about. Right, So today we 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: were talking about just like how things are in twenty 19 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 2: nineteen as far as having children. 20 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: You know, I feel like marriage is. 21 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 2: Not necessarily something that's important to most people nowadays, which 22 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: is so fun because I'm a person. I'm like, who 23 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: cares if I get married? 24 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: If I get I don't care if I don't, you 25 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: know whatever. Yeah, I mean I care. 26 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: I do want to get married one day, but if 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 2: I don't ever get married. 28 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: It's not like a deal break, it is not it. 29 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: So I guess we talked. We started talking. 30 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 2: About people's reasons now for having a kid because we 31 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: were talking about a situation where somebody that we know 32 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: is in a relationship and he wants to have a kid, 33 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 2: that she wants to get married, and it's just kind 34 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 2: of like a back and forth. It's a back and 35 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: forth thing for them. 36 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: Right. 37 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: It's like now she's kind of at the point to 38 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: where it's like should I have this baby? But it's like, 39 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: you can't have a baby if you're not ready for it. 40 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:57,919 Speaker 1: Right. 41 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: So but now we're going into people's reasons for having 42 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: a baby now, I said, personally, accidents do happen, you know, 43 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 2: like not everybody gets pregnant and has a baby on purpose. 44 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: But I say, if you have any other reason besides 45 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: loving someone and having a baby, I think it's corny. 46 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: Period. Yeah, I don't think. I don't know. 47 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: I mean, like I said, because I guess with the 48 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 2: whole accident thing, like, if something happens on accident, then 49 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 2: it's an accident. Right now, Accidents do happen, But this 50 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: is my argument, is not corny to have a baby 51 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: if it's an accident. Now, because there's certain situations, but 52 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 2: I'll say this going into women having children or sometimes 53 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 2: men trapping women as well, getting women pregnant and stuff 54 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 2: like that. So let me not just put this on women, 55 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: but I will say this, if there's a woman or 56 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: there's a man and he's dealing with two people or 57 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: she's dealing with two people, I feel like it's corny 58 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 2: if you get pregnant by somebody who necessarily don't have nothing, 59 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: and it's an accident and you don't have that baby. 60 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: And say you get pregnant by somebody who do have 61 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: something and you do have that baby, that's corner to 62 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 2: me because you not having that baby because you wanted 63 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: the baby. 64 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: Is it corny? 65 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,399 Speaker 2: If the person liked them though, and they like fuck 66 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: with each other and they don't care. Now, But what 67 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: I'm saying is is that's not the situation that's happening though, 68 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 2: But I'm asking what I mean if they if y'all 69 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: like each other, he wants to have the kid and 70 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: you want not to say he necessarily wants to, but 71 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 2: just say he didn't like he don't mind. 72 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: Like if you if you end up. 73 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: Being like, oh damn, I got pregnant. Right, well, you 74 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 2: got pregnant, and I mean it's gonna be our child, 75 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 2: like yeah, okay, we pregnant, and he like, oh I 76 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: right now. If he's like, cool with it, the cool 77 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: corny though, No, that's not love. 78 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: No. 79 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 2: But what I said is accidents happen. So if it's 80 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: an accident and you wasn't like, oh, girl, I'm gonna 81 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: try to have this nigga baby, because let's keep it. 82 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: Women talk like that. 83 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: It's a lot of people out here that do that, 84 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: Oh I'm gonna have this nigga baby, but I'm gonna 85 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: very corny. 86 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But this is also what 87 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 88 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 2: If you end up getting pregnant and a god straight 89 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: up tells you are a woman gets pregnant and she's 90 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: telling you I do not want this child, and you're 91 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: pressuring that person to have this child or have this 92 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: baby with you, that's corny to me. Why are we 93 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 2: doing this? Why are we creating? Y'all are having children 94 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: for checks? That's not it's not supposed to be. 95 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: With a nigga. It don't necessarily be a chick. 96 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: Niggas sometimes just be wanting certain beaches like to be 97 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 2: attached to them forever because it's a control thing. Yeah, 98 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 2: And I think that's just as corny. 99 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: That is just as corny. 100 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: Niggas onna be some like a lot of niggas who 101 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: will be wanting to impregnate certain women. It be for 102 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 2: their own personal game, right, And I think that's and 103 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: I think I think that's extreme corny. And I think 104 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: that's extremely corny for the woman to allow that just 105 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 2: because he has money. I feel like accidents do happen, 106 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: and sometimes there are situations where accidents happen and you're like, 107 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: you know what, I have to be an adult because 108 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I feel like, if 109 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: you're having if you're getting pregnant and pregnant and pregnant, 110 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: having an abortion is not a form of birth control. 111 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 2: Let me say that you always get pregnant, you need 112 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: to get on birth control or do something. And it's like, 113 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't necessarily. I don't agree with multiple, 114 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 2: multiple abortions after abortion, after abortion. Let me just say 115 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 2: that I don't agree with that. But like I said, 116 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: I don't agree with abortions this. I mean, I'm not 117 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 2: gonna say I don't agree with abortions. I luckily have 118 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: never had to have one, right, But I'm not gonna 119 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 2: say that I don't agree with him. But I definitely 120 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 2: have always kind of been like I would. 121 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: Never want to have to have one, right. I mean, 122 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: there are situations. 123 00:05:56,040 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 2: You know, people unfortunately get raped, you know, stuff like that. 124 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: Situations like that I have, okay, but I don't know. 125 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: I mean, in this situation where people have been dating here, 126 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 2: like say, me and my men have been together for 127 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: years and years and years and something happens my birth 128 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: control it didn't work, and we already got three kids, 129 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: and I get pregnantgain and we're just not ready for 130 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: another kid. Stuff like that does happen to people. You know, 131 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: some people choose to have the baby and some people don't. 132 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: Sometimes people can't find it. It's cheaper to have an 133 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 2: abortion to have a commitment for eighteen years. I mean, 134 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: I get it in again, because like I said, I'm 135 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 2: just all about people choosing to do what they want 136 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: to do. 137 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: So I hope that. 138 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: None of our listeners ever misconstrue what I'm about to say. 139 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 2: I don't feel like it's anything wrong with getting an abortion, 140 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 2: if you want to get one, pro choice whatever. 141 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if you just 142 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: out here getting abortions. 143 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 2: Because your asked is just being care carely and not responsible, 144 00:06:54,520 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: that she's stupid right out here getting abortions because niggas 145 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: just keep slipping up in nothing. 146 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: In you and you keep getting pregnant. 147 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 2: Right, I get, I can say, because that's very careless 148 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: and it's very like it's it's it's not inconsiderate as well, 149 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: it's reckless on your body. 150 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: But then it's also just inconsiderate. 151 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I know a baby is not technically a 152 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: life for like with the first two months or so, 153 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: or maybe three months, but it's just like babies gonna 154 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: be asking to be here. 155 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: I just be feeling like it's kind of it is 156 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: kind of you're being reckless with it. 157 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: It is kind of a slap in the face to 158 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 2: a woman who necessarily can't have kids, right, But like 159 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: I said, there are I'm very I'm very pro choice, 160 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: but I feel like some people can get reckless with it. 161 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: But we're off topic again. 162 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I said, I feel like not all 163 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: babies are made out of love. 164 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: No, some things happen. I wasn't made out of love. 165 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: That's why. 166 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: That's why I always say, like, I don't ever judge 167 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 2: the reasons. But why do you want to have babies? 168 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 2: Because I just feel but I like, you shouldn't have 169 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 2: motives to have a child unless it's you want to 170 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 2: be a mother. I don't feel like you should have 171 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: motives neither. But it's like, Okay, for example, from what 172 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: you said earlier, you was like, Okay, two people are 173 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 2: together and they don't have a baby out of love. 174 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: Any reason to have a baby outside of being in 175 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 2: love is corny. 176 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: I don't agree with you. 177 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 2: No I'm saying any other Okay, let me let me 178 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: clear what I was saying, because me and we both 179 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 2: be like cool with each other other, okay with having 180 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: a babby, and I agree with that. So what I'm 181 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: saying is y'all not necessarily in love. But I bet 182 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: you y'all got love for each other. I'm not saying 183 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 2: you gotta be in love, but you care about this 184 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 2: person or nothing. You're okay with bringing somebody in this 185 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: world who if they were exactly like the father of 186 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 2: your child, you are okay with that? 187 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You gotta look at people 188 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: who you're creating. You're bringing a life into this world. 189 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 2: Are you okay with bringing another person like this man 190 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: into the world. But just because you have a baby 191 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 2: with a certain man, that doesn't mean it. 192 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: But it could happen. It could, but it could not. 193 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, are you okay with that? 194 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 2: If that chance does happen, are you okay with? And 195 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: that's what a lot of these people aren't realized. I 196 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: don't feel like a lot of people who who end 197 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: up having kids and they kids end up growing up 198 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: to be fucked up people. 199 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that people be okay with it. 200 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: I just think it's something that happens with anybody could 201 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 2: have a baby with an amazing man and your child 202 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: and feeling a murderer. 203 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: I definitely agree with that. 204 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is why people aren't even thinking 205 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 2: twice about who they're laying with. They just see they 206 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: just see a check or they see an opportunity to 207 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 2: do something, or to get in somewhere, to blackmail somebody, 208 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 2: or to get back at somebody, other. 209 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: Than the reasons of wanting to love a child. 210 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: But how do you know that they don't want to 211 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 2: love a child and that other reason might just be whatever? 212 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: I mean? I guess because we know. How do we know? 213 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: But do we know these people? Do we know that 214 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: they did not want another kids? You get what I'm saying. 215 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: I met people who have had babies for chicks. I 216 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: know people. I've seen people talk about it online. It's 217 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: not don't I don't. I'm not gonna lie. 218 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: I don't personally know people like they're like, not personally 219 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 2: common knowledge that women have babies for chicks. I'm not 220 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 2: saying that it's not common knowledge. I said, I personally 221 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 2: do not know. I personally don't surround myself with people 222 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: like that. 223 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: I don't. 224 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: But I don't have any friends anybody that's close to 225 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 2: me that have never done something like that. 226 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: Like you, it's not happening. You can't. 227 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 2: I'm not acting like it's not happening. But at the 228 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: end of the day, to me, sometimes I feel like 229 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: what other people be choosing to do that's what they 230 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 2: choose to do. We can what they choose to do. 231 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 2: But we're talking about a topic. 232 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: No, we are. 233 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 2: But I'm just saying that it's not that we care. 234 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 2: We're just giving our opinions on that. I'm not saying 235 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 2: because I really don't care at the end of the day. 236 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I think that it's corny. Besides, 237 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 2: if you have a reason, if you're reason for having 238 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: the kids outside of oh, because I know people that, like, 239 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: you know what, I want to be a mother to 240 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 2: a lot of kids. I want to be a father 241 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 2: to a lot. I have a god friend, but I 242 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 2: know he has like I want to say, four kids. 243 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: Four or five kids, and he wants some more. 244 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 2: He actually asked me to have his baby, and I'm like, no, 245 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 2: but he wants a lot of kids, Like that's what 246 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 2: he wants Like some people. 247 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: He uh, he makes a lot of money. He's well off. 248 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: You met him, I have yeah. Is he cute? He fine, 249 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: he's super fun. Yeah. 250 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 2: But I mean I wasn't just I don't want to 251 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 2: say you was gonna be his sixth baby, mom, I 252 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: don't know what number. Honestly, you said he got five kids? 253 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 2: Got four or five. Oh, but that doesn't mean that 254 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 2: he got four or five. Yeah, so I don't know, honestly, 255 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 2: I really don't. But I'm just like I wasn't interested, Like, 256 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: of course I would have known there would have been 257 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: money involved in this and that, but but I don't 258 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 2: want I don't want to be a mother. And two 259 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 2: it's like I just that's not in my plan to 260 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 2: be like, oh girl, this is an easy check. 261 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: Like no, well, I don't think that you should never 262 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: have a baby with a nigga for a chick, right, 263 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. 264 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 2: However, it's a plus if you end up getting you 265 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: a nigga who got some money and he wants you 266 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 2: to have his baby, that's different. He got a chick, 267 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: that's different. But what did you just say he wants 268 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 2: you to have his baby. Yeah, I've only ever had 269 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 2: niggas come to me about having their kids. 270 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: I have never ever in my life sat around and 271 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: like what what was fucking with a nigga with some. 272 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: Money, and sat around with my friends or blotting like bitch, 273 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 2: this nigga got some money, even talked to my friends 274 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 2: about considering having a baby for somebody was when they 275 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 2: asked me to have their child. I started talking to 276 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: me about having a child, and it just so happened 277 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: to be a plus that the person had money. But 278 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 2: it wasn't a situation where I went into it like 279 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I went into it definitely still for my 280 00:12:56,640 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 2: own reasons personal gains, yes, but it wasn't for a 281 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 2: baby though. A baby was never in mind in the beginning, 282 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 2: and it never starts becoming a thing that I thought 283 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: until he. 284 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: Brought it up. 285 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 2: But like I said, that situation is different because that's 286 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 2: not what I'm talking about. I mean, because that's also 287 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: not your ideal situation. Every bitch, unfortunately, don't end up 288 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: being in situations like that with niggas who got money. 289 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 2: That's why they be feeling like they have to trap 290 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 2: a niggas because them type of niggas don't be wanting. 291 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: But that's also I don't know. They also goes into 292 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,239 Speaker 2: missus be dating outside they league, but it's all anak. 293 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 2: You can't if somebody really out your league, if they're. 294 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: Fucking yeah, how because I'll tell you one thing, nigga's 295 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: not fucking me if the league is niggas won't fuck anything, 296 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: not saying that you anything because you're a bad bay. 297 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: Okay, but I've never I've never had a nigga fuck 298 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 2: would fuck me and not fuck with me. 299 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: That's you. We ain't talking about. 300 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 2: You because you ain't everybody, but I definitely think that's 301 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: happening all over the world. No, I say no, all 302 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 2: over the glose are women and not fucking with them. 303 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 2: But that's not Obviously you're not out that league. Yes, 304 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: you can't steal a nigga can't still fuck you, and 305 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 2: you'll be out of his league because just because a 306 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 2: nigga fuck you don't mean he fucking with you. No, 307 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: but that period, But that means you're enough of his type. 308 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 2: So y'all in the same league. I got access to you. 309 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: But it's okay when I say out of a nigga league. 310 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: Okay. So I said, let's cool, let's break this ship down. 311 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: Break this ship down. Okay. 312 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 2: So for example, mm hmmm, say that you are out 313 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: on the swear about to set the tone for y'all, 314 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: Say that you out on a Saturday night, Saturday night, okay, 315 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 2: and you at. 316 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: The clue, am all looking good? You look real good? Okay. Okay, 317 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: so you're looking real good. Uh you at a you 318 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: at the club, You at the club, am I at 319 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: the local Medusa? Well you could be at the local 320 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: mad you at the local Medusa. 321 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: And you at the bar. Even though we know this 322 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: would never happen. We just for ships and sometimes I'm 323 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: like the cruise bottle bar on a popping nii. Okay, 324 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 2: So say you at the bar. You know you got 325 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: your little tight dress on your heels, your hair done, 326 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 2: nails done too, looking okay, okay, like you looking cute, 327 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: and a nigga, big bawling. 328 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: Ass nigga in a section. Okay, he see you at 329 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: the bar, He like, oh damn, who is shoddy? Oh shit? 330 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: He say, hey, a shody, all right, come over to 331 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: come over to my section. I'm gonna get you a 332 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 2: bottle of as Oh y'all know I love right, So 333 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 2: he brings you over to the section. Okay, you u 334 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 2: in the section chilling. Let's say you're with a homegirl. 335 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 2: So he bring you in your homegirl to the seat. 336 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: Y'all, both two bottles of eight ship, two of one 337 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: for you, one for hook. You know, sharing this. 338 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 2: This is my type of poor exactly. So y'all in 339 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: the section turning up. You know, before the end of 340 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: the night, y'all exchange numbers. He hits you up, y'all 341 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: start kicking me. Y'all gone a few days, y'all end 342 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: up for say, y'all fucking for like three four months 343 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 2: and you really like him and he really liked you. 344 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: But y'all still using protection? Right, say, two moments pass now, 345 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 2: y'all been fucking for six months, y'all still use a protection. 346 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 2: He ain't never said nothing to you about taking the 347 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: cundum off nothing. I feel like he don't want to 348 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 2: fuck you with I know, undo because he don't want. 349 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: To risk getting you pregnant. 350 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 2: And that's fine, But that's also because I feel like 351 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: you ain't really in his league. That was the stupid 352 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: and ship I have ever heard, I. 353 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: Know. 354 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: I feel like it's certain girls niggas will fuck we 355 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 2: and that want to be in a relationship with them 356 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 2: and want to fuck with them for real and fuck 357 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 2: with them long term and in it. Certain girls they 358 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 2: just be fucking it. Don't matter how long I've been 359 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 2: with you. You said this, nigga, y'all don't went on 360 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 2: a few days. If I'm off your league while you 361 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 2: taking me in public. Well, let me not say a 362 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 2: few days. Let me say, y'all been fucking for six months? 363 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 2: Cause you're right, I take that shit back, say y'all 364 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 2: been fucking for six months. 365 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm painting the picture in my head already. Why I'm 366 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: fucking changing it bitch you with my fantasy, damn it. 367 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Well let me say this, but yeah, y'all say 368 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: y'all just been in the day. If you fucking somebody 369 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 2: for six months, obviously you've been in my space and 370 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: I've been in yours. 371 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: He feels like that pussy good and that's cool. But 372 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm not off your league now. 373 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 2: If you fuck me one night, if you fuck me 374 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: one night and you go about y'all waight, and I 375 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 2: never hear from you again. That could have been on 376 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 2: some drunk, horny shit. But if you fuck it with 377 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 2: somebody for six months, I know where you live. 378 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily bitch please. 379 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 2: You saying bitch please, and I'm not when I speak 380 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: about this situation I speak, I'm talking about this. I'm 381 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: just painting a picture. This has never happened to me, 382 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 2: and I don't think it has ever happened to you. 383 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: But at the end, of the day. 384 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: It do be bitches. You're crazy. 385 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 2: It's tell a few thinks it ain't bitches out here 386 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: who been fucking with niggas for six months and don't know. 387 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: Where a nigga live. You crazy as hell. I swear 388 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 1: to God Brod. 389 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 2: I refuse to believe my queens are out there doing 390 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 2: that to themselves. We ain't talking about the queens, were 391 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: talking about the peasies, No way. 392 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Okay, fucking with somebody for six 393 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: months and you don't believe it. 394 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 2: I know bitchies who have been fucking with niggas for 395 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 2: like six months. 396 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: You're never been to a nigga house. I put that 397 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: on everything I love. So where did they suck at 398 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: her house? Okay? You ain't. 399 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 2: You ain't never heard enough situations from none of your 400 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 2: friends where one of your friends was fucking. 401 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: With a nigga and that nigga just used to come 402 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: to her house. She ain't never go to his house? 403 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 2: Now, well, I've had situations where like, rather than come 404 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: to my house, Yeah but you but you But I'm 405 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 2: assuming from what you're telling me, you still always probably 406 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: ended up going to his house. Yeah, but I'm talking 407 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 2: about being in a situation where a nigga just strictly 408 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: comes to your house or y'all go out of town 409 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 2: together like bitches. Be in situations like that, you crazy, 410 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 2: especially when it comes out okay, and especially when it 411 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 2: comes to rich niggas, you crazy as tell if you 412 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: think rich ass niggas is letting every bitch they fucking 413 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 2: come to their house. 414 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: I knew a nigga. They had a condo, let's not forget, 415 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: but he also let a lot of people go to 416 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: his house. He did, but he did, but he also 417 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: had a condo. 418 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: Who I'm sure it was certain bitches who only went 419 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 2: to the condo, But to be funny, it was probably certain, 420 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 2: but it was a lot of people going to the cribs. 421 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: That's true. I'm not denying that fact. 422 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, but I'm sure it's certain bitches who 423 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 2: did not never get to go to the house. 424 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: But it wasn't a badger honor. 425 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 2: I'm not saying it so, but I was just I'm 426 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 2: not saying that it's that's That's not the point that 427 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 2: I'm making. The point that I'm making is it's definitely 428 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 2: bitious who a nigga have fucks who have never been. 429 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: To their house to they actual residents. 430 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, if that's happening out here in my ladies, 431 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 2: please please stop this ship. This is not okay because 432 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: if you fucking with somebody for that long and you 433 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 2: haven't even been in their presence of they're not letting 434 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 2: you in their world. 435 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: What do you hear? What if he got you thinking 436 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: that his apartment is his house old exactly, egg exactly. 437 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: I don't think I think you would know. How would 438 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: you know? Because you can tell? How can you tell 439 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 1: if it's fully pernished? Shift? But I mean, you can 440 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:40,400 Speaker 1: just tell. 441 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: You're gonna have his whole closet over there, like you 442 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: can peep around rich nigga got closed everywhere? 443 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, they do, but you can tell the difference. Okay. 444 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not trying to be funny, but I'm 445 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: just speaking. I'm just speaking for them bitches. I'm just 446 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 2: trying to But let me speak from my experience. I 447 00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 2: had a situation. I was dating a guy in New York. 448 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 2: This my boyfriend. I me and him are still cool 449 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 2: to this boy friend. Me and him are still cool 450 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: to this day. We're platon and friends. It's nothing like 451 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 2: that we dated, We fucked everything. I've never been to 452 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 2: his house, never been in his house. 453 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: He took me to pair. He never been to my 454 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: house either, But we just are you have been in 455 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 1: a situation where you're fucking with somebody you never been. 456 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he fucked with me like we we would 457 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 2: just always be going on vacations to meet up with 458 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:25,719 Speaker 2: each other. 459 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: That's what I just said Earlier, I said it be 460 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 1: situations for a girl. He fucks with. 461 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 2: Me, It ain't like he don't fuck with me, And 462 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: maybe he is not out of my league and I'm 463 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 2: not out of his. 464 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: But you said a nigga, didn't debunk You didn't not 465 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: because that's your situation. 466 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: I said, you a nigga can fuck you and you 467 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 2: be out of his lead or he be out of 468 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 2: your league. Okay, So let me finish you defined it 469 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 2: by saying, if you ain't ever been to his house, 470 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 2: are y'all just be going to see each other out oftown? 471 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 2: That was exactly my situation. And he is not out 472 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 2: of my league, So that's not the case. I'm not 473 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: saying that he out of your league. But how you 474 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 2: know he really fucked with you like that? I just 475 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 2: like no, like you can tell when somebody fuck with you. 476 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: Trust me when I tell you this nigga fucks with me, 477 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: like I'm alway, I know I'm just saying, but I 478 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: believe you know, I mean, I don't. I just don't define. 479 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: And I feel like if I ain't, that's just me. 480 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 2: I feel like, if you ain't never been to a 481 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 2: nigga house, like to his residies, I don't feel like 482 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 2: he fuck with you like that, that's just me, though 483 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 2: you just I mean, I understand that that's your perspective 484 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 2: on it. 485 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm speaking every nigga I've ever. 486 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 2: Fucked with, like talking about it, like for real, rocking week, 487 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 2: been to the house, I mean all the time. But 488 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 2: I'm okay, perfect example. Oh boy, I'm not gonna. 489 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: Say his name. You can't remember. I hate the one 490 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: that helped me moving mom apartment. You know his friend? 491 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: You know his friend. Okay, I've never been to his house, 492 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 1: he's never been to mine, but we've Oh okay, I'm sorry, y'all. 493 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I don't find why because you never fucked him. 494 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,919 Speaker 1: Y'all, wasn't fucking with each other like that? We messed around. 495 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter as sexual on his end, not on yours. 496 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 2: You was not fucking with that nigga like that. You 497 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 2: was not fucking with him like that, So let's not 498 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 2: even use that she as a fucking example. Were talking 499 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 2: about people, somebody that you really fucking weed friend that 500 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 2: you never been to. 501 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 1: He never been to mine. 502 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 2: I was in Houston, he was in New York. And 503 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 2: maybe why he had never been to your house. Why 504 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 2: why I was staying with my sister at the time, 505 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: but I alway had company over there. 506 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 1: I'm grown, I understand it. 507 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is it just makes sense to 508 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 2: me from from your perspective and his perspective as a male, 509 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: because sometimes just because you okay with having company over 510 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 2: niggas don't be okay with necessarily coming around y'all feeling 511 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 2: like why are. 512 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: You looking at me? Like they're like, I ain't h 513 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: no motherfucking point beach. But I'm just okay. 514 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,679 Speaker 2: Now I do agree with you with that, okay, So 515 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 2: you know, so it makes sense why he hadn't been 516 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 2: to your house. But I and I'm not gonna lie 517 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 2: like when we would. I didn't want to just go 518 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 2: to New York and go around. I wanted to go 519 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: somewhere because he always traveling. Why do I want to 520 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 2: go to New York to sit at your house when 521 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 2: you be in Bali and Tahiti and this in Paris 522 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 2: and London. 523 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: I ain't want to go to those places. I want 524 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 1: to go to New York to sit in your living room. 525 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 2: I respected I do so you in your definition, and 526 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 2: he don't fuck with me then, not as much as 527 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 2: you probably thought he'd be. In my opinion, I just 528 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 2: feel like, if a nigga's not a no, it don't. 529 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and you fucking I'm fucking and sucking you, 530 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 2: and I'm baking you enough to call you my man. 531 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,120 Speaker 1: I'll fuck with you enough to call you my man. 532 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,120 Speaker 2: And I don't know what the fucking inbody of your 533 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 2: fucking house looks like. I feel what you're saying, But listen, 534 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 2: what Why would you spend fifteen hundred dollars on a 535 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 2: round trip flight to Paris on. 536 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: Somebody you don't fuck with? Pussy? Pussy, pussy, that's fine, 537 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 1: after you got the pussy? How was your girlfriend? 538 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 2: Why are you taking me to Miami and we going 539 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 2: to all these parts you spending We're going. 540 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: To four hundred dollars dinners and this and that. My pussy, pussy, 541 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: it's my pussy. Ain't that good? Yes, I got some medio. 542 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: Apparently it is medio grass pussy. Apparently it is. Apparently 543 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: it is. He want to take me to grease right now? 544 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: Be more pussy. Pussy is not that good? I swear 545 00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: to God it is. Now. 546 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:06,719 Speaker 2: I want to simple got there take the recent still still, 547 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I feel like when he liked 548 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 2: ass was like, but but my thing. Anyways, getting back 549 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 2: to the point, how don't we get from babies to this? 550 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 2: How do we ever get off topic like this? 551 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 1: Okay? 552 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 2: So point is I feel like it just depends on 553 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 2: the situation. If you're living in the same town, if 554 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 2: you ain't seen the inside of a nigga house, you 555 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 2: wilin now. 556 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 1: If y'all in the same city, that's the different. That's different. 557 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 2: That's completely and totally different. But I feel like long 558 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 2: distance situations, like if you got a nigga that travels, like, 559 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 2: I don't care to see your house anyway, Let's go 560 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 2: out the country, bitch, I don't give a fuck. 561 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to travel. 562 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 2: We can go off the country after I come to 563 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 2: New York why and have my layovers to the airport. 564 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: I want to see where you. 565 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 2: I don't give you let me take out something. Our 566 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 2: first date wasn't about this all the time. I don't 567 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: even go on another first day of Paris. You niggas 568 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 2: is slacking because I've been talking about this shit for 569 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 2: two years. 570 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: I'm ready to get on a new story. Better step, 571 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 1: y'all game up. I'm ready for another trip. 572 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 2: So anyways, Yeah, so I feel like that's not necessarily true. 573 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 2: If you ain't seen it, you know what I'm saying. 574 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: But you know y'all know me and Lex love to 575 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 1: agree to disagree. So that's all I have to say. 576 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: This is the episode. We're not gonna get too rambly 577 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 1: on you. 578 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, at the end of this conversation, I'm gonna 579 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 2: say this, if you have a baby for a nigga 580 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,400 Speaker 2: outside of y'all really fucking with each other and y'all 581 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 2: both want a baby or y'all being in love, you 582 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 2: corny and a nigga can fuck with you. 583 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: If you've never seen his house, he cannot first of all, 584 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: give your summary. I just I mean, I'm not gonna lie. 585 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 2: I feel like you know, if you out here trying 586 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 2: to trap niggas for babies, because it is a lot 587 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: of girls who be out here like fucking niggas and 588 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 2: they soul purpose and like fucking with a nigga, fucking 589 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,400 Speaker 2: him with no coun andies, like hoping that they. 590 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: Get pregnant and all that type of shit. I think 591 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: that's hill of corny. 592 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 2: If you just out here trying to get pregnant for 593 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: a nigga, for a chick and an nigga, don't fuck 594 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: with you like that, Like you corny. 595 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 1: Bitch, your lame. 596 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 2: It's fan to keep a nigga right, and to keep 597 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 2: a nigga also you lame. But I feel like accidents happy. 598 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 2: So I feel like, you know, if you necessarily have 599 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 2: a baby with somebody and y'all are not in love, 600 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: I don't think you corny. 601 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 1: For that cause accidents, because accidents happening. 602 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: Like I said, unfortunately, we all were not born on 603 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 2: the premise of two people who. 604 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: Love each other. I mean, and that's awesome that you came. 605 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: But some of us can, I because let me be clean, 606 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: but some of us can. I So, I mean some 607 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: of us can. 608 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 2: I So, I mean I've never totally been against it. 609 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 2: That's why again, like even with earlier when we were 610 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 2: talking about about abortions, that's why I'm not one hundred 611 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: percent on board with abortions because I just be looking 612 00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: at it from my own personal person. 613 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: My mom would a head and abortion. So anyways, what Honestly, no, 614 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: I'm just saying like, okay, world would have been a 615 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: better place. I'm know what to do with God before 616 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: before we sign out? Can you tell us, since you 617 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: want to put us on so much game, tell us 618 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: how we know if a man is fucking with us? 619 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: How do we know if a nigga is fucking with us? 620 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: Because obviously I don't know. Hmmm. I feel like it's 621 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: just something that you just kind of know, like you 622 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: just know when a nigga really fuck with you. But 623 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: I feel like it's certain key clues, Like I. 624 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: Feel like when a nigga really fuck with you, he 625 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 2: wants you involved in every aspect of his life. 626 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: Okay, and I mean to me, his home being one 627 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: of them. 628 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 2: But I'm not trying to be funny, but like if 629 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 2: you fucking with somebody who travels a lot, in their 630 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 2: home is not a big building like some people just 631 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 2: don't look at some people just be on the go 632 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 2: a lot. And to me, if traveling is your life, 633 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 2: well we're not. But that's not what we I mean, 634 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 2: we're not talking about that though. 635 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: All I said was that. 636 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 2: To me, that's one of the things that I feel like, Yes, 637 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 2: if a nigga's fucking with you, he wants you to 638 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 2: be involved in every aspect of his life. 639 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: His home. 640 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: Your home is where you lay your head at that 641 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 2: show sanctuary love to call it for me. So to me, 642 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 2: I do feel like if a man it's really fucking 643 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 2: with you, he wants you to be I mean, he 644 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 2: gonna introduce you to people that he's not. That's my thing, 645 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 2: I know, because I feel like every nigga I've ever 646 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 2: fu would have introduced me to people. 647 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: Who were important to the right. 648 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 2: If you're meeting his like family, close friends, super close 649 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 2: friends and family like that. 650 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: Maybe workers, it depends, I guess what they do for 651 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: a living, Yeah, I. 652 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: Mean your boss, stuff like that. I feel like, for example, 653 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 2: if a nigga go to his if a nigga goes 654 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 2: to his company Christmas. 655 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: Party, Oh okay, now let's see what you're saying. Yeah, 656 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: he's gonna bring you. 657 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 2: But he's not gonna bring you if he don't fuck 658 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 2: with you like that because he don't want you meeting 659 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 2: those people. Yeah, that's true because his personal I went 660 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 2: to an event with a nigga when I was dressed, 661 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 2: I felt important. I should have because niggas ain't about 662 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,239 Speaker 2: to just bring you every Yes, I'll say that's more 663 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 2: important to me. Like if you're not introducing me to 664 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 2: nobody in your life whenever you go to work or 665 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 2: whenever you're doing something, if I can't come along or 666 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 2: you have events, or and you're not bringing me nowhere, 667 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 2: like if you're trying to keep if every time we 668 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 2: chill we in private. 669 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: That's how I know you're not really fucking me. 670 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if you're not trying to like not necessarily 671 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: show me off. 672 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: But if I haven't met nobody important. 673 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 2: If agg you let me let you know something. If 674 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 2: he fuck with you for real, he gonna he he 675 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 2: want everybody to know that. He wants everybody to know 676 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 2: that you're fuck with each other. He's gonna bring you 677 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: around all his homeboys because he wanted to break especially 678 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 2: if he know that he's home boys low key probably 679 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: think you fine. He be seeing him on the ground, 680 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 2: liking your pictures and ship like niggas gonna want to 681 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 2: bring you around they niggas. Okay, so let us know 682 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,680 Speaker 2: how y'all feel about Like, how can you tell if 683 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 2: a dude fuck with you? Do you feel like it 684 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 2: matters if he brings you to his house? Do you 685 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 2: care about meeting his friends? Plus, I just need to 686 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: know where you do. 687 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: I just need to know where you stay. I just 688 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: need to know why because you might not be you 689 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: might be capping. I need to know. But I'm not 690 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: gonna lie on my last relationship. I did a little 691 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: drive by. I did a drive by, like I had 692 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 1: to see if he was home. 693 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 2: But how did Obviously he didn't care about you knowing 694 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 2: where he stayed because he gave you his the dreads 695 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 2: for you to do a drive by. Yeah, but I'm 696 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 2: just saying so because I was saying different, No, But 697 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 2: I was looking at you crazy like why But I 698 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: was like, oh, let me take that back and not 699 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: judge you because I did a drive by before. Yeah, 700 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 2: I need to know where you say, yeah, cause niggas 701 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 2: be capping all the time, you mean, like, and plus 702 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 2: I need to make sure you don't got a wife. 703 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: That's the whole other topic. 704 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 2: Thought, Oh, maybe we'll talk about that on Wednesday, because 705 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 2: I got some ship to say. Yeah, because I feel like, 706 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 2: if you don't want to invite me, that's my thing. 707 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 2: If a nigga don't want me to know where he stay, 708 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 2: I want me to come to his house. Why you 709 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 2: don't want me to know where you stay? You got 710 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 2: some shit going on it. 711 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 1: I need to know that. I don't know about it. 712 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 2: But let me say this, because you know the nigga 713 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 2: I was talking with m right, I wouldn't see his 714 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 2: house one time. Yeah, one nigga, This is one dude 715 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 2: that I was fucking with at one point. But I 716 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 2: would see his house one time. 717 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: But we know why. 718 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 2: Yes, but I did know where he stayed, by the way, 719 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 2: but I only was his house once and it was 720 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 2: for a reason. I will say this now. We do 721 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 2: say I feel like a man fucks with you. She 722 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 2: I don't feel that way, but she does feel like 723 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: a man fucks with you if. 724 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: He allows you on his home. But at the same time, 725 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: extent I didn't know, it did make me feel like 726 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: he fussed with me a little bit just because he 727 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: led me. 728 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 2: Right, But at the end of the day, let me 729 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 2: say this, don't at the same time, just because you 730 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 2: are allowed in the man's home, don't think that that 731 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 2: means that he does fuck with you. 732 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: Because some of these niggas don't care. It ain't no 733 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: badge of honor to be in their house. 734 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 2: Because a lot of a lot of them niggas be 735 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 2: having revolving fucking doors, so being inside their house ain't 736 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,720 Speaker 2: no badge of honor sys So you gotta tread lightly 737 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 2: with that as well. And I'm not trying to be 738 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 2: funny even with me too, Like I don't know. This 739 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 2: man may just be bringing a bunch of bitches on vacation. 740 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 2: That just mean something that does I feel like if 741 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 2: to know if somebody fucks with you, it depends on 742 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 2: that person and what they do if you if they're 743 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 2: doing things with you out of the ordinary for them, 744 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 2: then that's something to take heat of. 745 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 746 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 2: But you don't never really know what's out of the 747 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 2: ordinary for a nigga to be doing with you because 748 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 2: you don't necessarily know beaches that he fucked me before. 749 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 1: You however you care. 750 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 2: No, I was just gonna say to me it's just 751 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,359 Speaker 2: a woman's intuition. Like, you know, when a nigga fuck 752 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 2: with you. I've always not when a nigga fucked with me, right, 753 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 2: just but also just because a nigga fuck with me, 754 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 2: they don't mean that he dude, some fucked up shit 755 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 2: stilled don't trust me. So and that's a whole other topic. 756 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 2: But I have always not when a nigga fuck with me. Yeah, 757 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 2: you want me around you all the time. You make 758 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 2: it a point for you to make sure, like out 759 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 2: of all the beaches you could be hanging with and 760 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 2: kicking it with and spending time with, you make me 761 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 2: a priority. 762 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:19,919 Speaker 1: But I think that goes into what we talked about 763 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 1: a little bit. 764 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 2: And this is getting off topic once again, but you know, 765 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 2: I feel like Texas women have a different type of 766 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 2: swag about us, Like women. 767 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:30,280 Speaker 1: Really be chilled. 768 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 2: Like like only time I pop off or go off 769 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 2: start going off on like people that I deal with 770 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 2: is if I feel disrespected, but whatever, if I really 771 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 2: love you, right, But it's like whatever you do, I 772 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 2: never do something that's gonna make you be like, oh 773 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 2: hell no, this bitch crazy. I ain't never had a 774 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 2: nigga just be like, oh, Lexus fucking me either, because 775 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 2: we be chill. I feel like that's something about like 776 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 2: just how Texas women are. We don't care to pop off. 777 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 2: We're not doing all that shit. We just gonna chill 778 00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 2: and move on to the next. But that's why I 779 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 2: feel like every nigga I ever fucked with, I always 780 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 2: like I don't have no bad blood with nobody. 781 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: I ever fused with, maybe except for one nigga me, 782 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: you know, but I don't have no bad blood with 783 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: no niggas I ever fuck with because I'm just too 784 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 1: playing and I'm too real. 785 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,280 Speaker 2: Like niggas just fuck with me because I like, if anything, 786 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: niggas be wanting me to be way more emotionally invested in, 787 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 2: to show my feelings way more than I do, because 788 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna never even let you have it now when. 789 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 1: I'm like that. 790 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 2: But I'm also opposite because I live more emotional than Yeah, 791 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 2: I'm emotional, but I let you know how I feel. 792 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 1: But once I'm like done with it, I'm like, hey, 793 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: we don't got to go back and forth. I'm just 794 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: cool on because when you be done with situations, I'll 795 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: be done. And it ain't no arguing in yelling coming 796 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:49,320 Speaker 1: from me. 797 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,840 Speaker 2: I'm just like, hey, my nigga, and see with me, 798 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 2: I'm the type of person I could really love you 799 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 2: and like fuck with you for real, but you do 800 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,320 Speaker 2: some shits to hurt me or to betray me, and 801 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,840 Speaker 2: I feel like you would have never did know she 802 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 2: like that to me. I'm gonna just cut you off 803 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 2: and you ain't and it's gonna eat you up because 804 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 2: you're gonna be like, damn, I thought she sucked with me, 805 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 2: Like I thought she was gonna trip over to she. 806 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: But you ain't gonna never hear nothing from me, right right? 807 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 1: And I feel like, like I said, I just feel 808 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: like kind of a lot of bitches go off. They 809 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: popping up at the house, they trying to window. I 810 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,760 Speaker 1: ain't algy, I ain't. 811 00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 2: Doing I'm not gonna lie. I have destroyed some property 812 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: in my day, me too. But like I said, I mean, 813 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep it real with y'all. I've let it 814 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 2: be known that I'm not the most faithful person. 815 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 1: Oh stop saying it. 816 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 2: I'm not, but I say it all the time. There's 817 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 2: been one what if your soul? He probably is, but 818 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,360 Speaker 2: he knows who he is. You think your phone main 819 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 2: gonna be a cheat or too. 820 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: No, No, he's not. He Okay, I do believe all 821 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: men are cheaters to a certain extent. But he, he's 822 00:37:54,719 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 1: he's very weird. Like you know your soul mate, you 823 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: know who my soul mate is. I've been dealing with 824 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,839 Speaker 1: the same nigga on and off from ho loot y'all 825 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: got I feel like at the end of the day, 826 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 1: like I mean, we chill, we know what it is, 827 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: and it's just it is what it is. So I 828 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: want to talk about soulmates on Nicks. So yeah, we'll 829 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 1: talk about that little neck. We'll talk about that next time. 830 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 2: We'll talk about soulmates and Texas women and get any 831 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 2: other good. 832 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, So let us know what y'all feel. How do 833 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: y'll feel? 834 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like now that we've added another topic, 835 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,879 Speaker 2: let us know about the babies, let us know about 836 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 2: how a man fucks with you, and let us know, 837 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 2: like do y'all feel as texts? 838 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 1: Do Texas women have a different swag? I definitely think 839 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: we do. 840 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 2: And I'm really not being biased because I've been living 841 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 2: in Atlanta far almost three years in these houses. 842 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a little time. We got a little time. 843 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: We got a little time. 844 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 2: I did not mean to get into another topic, guys, 845 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,360 Speaker 2: but I do want to talk about this little bit 846 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 2: Atlanta women and I don't and I don't want this 847 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 2: to be a woman bashing session for me because I 848 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 2: am a feminist. 849 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: But I'm a feminist. Let's go. 850 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 2: But I'm not the I'm not ast. 851 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm a I'm I'm 852 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 1: with my women. I stand for my women. But y'all 853 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 1: be doing something and I always be cool with calling 854 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 1: and I agree with that. 855 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 2: So let me say this, these women, whether they are transplants, 856 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 2: that y'all are the most cloud chasing, capping, fronting right. 857 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 1: As people I have ever I think you wanted to say, 858 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna say it for you as bitches. But 859 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm not excusing the niggas because you niggas is the 860 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:58,360 Speaker 1: same everybody out here capping. Everybody out here cappin Alanta 861 00:39:58,440 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: the cap. 862 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 2: I ain't never said I don't want and been like, 863 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 2: oh I got a bunch of Gucci bags. 864 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 1: I got this first of all. Baby, I live within 865 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:05,479 Speaker 1: my means. 866 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 2: But I'm very happy do I And I you know 867 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Everybody wants to seem like they balling. 868 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: Everybody wants to say like I'm always doing this, I'm 869 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: always doing that. I now, if you have somebody who. 870 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,399 Speaker 2: Fucks with you, male or female, that's giving you money 871 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,880 Speaker 2: and taking care of you, that's cool. But I just 872 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,799 Speaker 2: want people to start putting pride and doing your own 873 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 2: work and getting your own bag and getting your own shit. 874 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 2: The thing that people care about about out here is, girl, 875 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 2: this nigga bought me a Gucci bag, or oh shit, 876 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 2: I got this bitch to give me some Gucci shoes. 877 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: Nobody want to get their own bag and brag about 878 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 1: your own accomplishment. Well, let me say this. 879 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 2: I me because my mentality and my mentality have always 880 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 2: been like this, even before I move towelling it. 881 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's nothing wrong with fuck. I 882 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: didn't say it wasn't. 883 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 2: No, I'm not saying you saying nothing wrong with it. 884 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I don't think nothing is wrong with 885 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 2: fucking with a nigga or wanting to fuck with niggas 886 00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 2: who take care of you or who gonna do shit 887 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 2: for you. At the end of the day, I have 888 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 2: you giving a niggas some pussy and that's what you 889 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 2: hold the value of your vagina too, or what you 890 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 2: feel like a nigga supposed to do for you by 891 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,919 Speaker 2: all means do you Nobody can tell you that you're 892 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,800 Speaker 2: wrong for feeling like a nigga gotta do X, Y 893 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 2: and Z to get your pussy or the fuck with you? 894 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: Cool? 895 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 2: But the issue is, I feel like bitches be placing 896 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 2: more value on getting material things. 897 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 1: Then to have a business? Are then to have are 898 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 1: then to have a living situation secured? Are they just 899 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 1: like a job? Y? Yeah? I feel like bitches care. 900 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 2: I know bitches out here who be having Gucci bag, 901 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 2: Chanel bag. But yes, I know bitches who be having 902 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 2: all the fucking designer ship you could think of, but 903 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 2: don't be having but be getting evicted from their apartments, 904 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 2: don't be having no car like have it, don't have 905 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 2: no business be hopping from club to club, being a 906 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 2: fucking bottle girl. And it's like, okay, whatever, if that's 907 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 2: how you want to live your life, that's cool, But 908 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 2: how you gonna be the same bitch? You living like 909 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 2: that in real life? But you're trying to cap on 910 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 2: social media, have on social media off of a nigga 911 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 2: off of what a nigga did for you. And if 912 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 2: you really had your game tight, you would have YO, 913 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 2: you would have a spot secure, like you would have 914 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 2: your home secure, you would have your car secure. I 915 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 2: guess I just feel like those are the type of 916 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 2: things and let me just say this, those are the 917 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 2: type of things I care about, right, And I care 918 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 2: about where I'm laying my head, and I care about 919 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:34,760 Speaker 2: making sure I got a louse. 920 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: There's nothing a card now it's cool to get stuff 921 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 1: out of a nigga. 922 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 2: Like you're a man that should want to. If a 923 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 2: man is fucking with you, he's supposed to always make 924 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 2: sure you straight. Always if you need him, he should 925 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,040 Speaker 2: be there. I always believe that I agree with you 926 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,759 Speaker 2: on that. But to brag about the materialistic things that 927 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 2: you have, that's not okay. 928 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 1: You fucking with a nigga. You gave him suplicy and 929 00:42:57,840 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 1: he got you a bag. 930 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,880 Speaker 2: How is that in a comp He got you a 931 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 2: five thousand dollar bag, which you ain't even got five 932 00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 2: bands in your bank account, throat. 933 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: And that's and and I guess I'm not like, no, 934 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: but that's not hey, No, That's what I'm saying I'm 935 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: just talking from because I know people probably gonna listen 936 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,400 Speaker 1: to this and get offended, so from what because they 937 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,920 Speaker 1: broke and they got But that's why what. 938 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,720 Speaker 2: I'm saying is I just felt like, always have ambition 939 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,760 Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, anything could happen 940 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 2: if people could stop fucking with you. 941 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, all you really 942 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 1: got is yourself. 943 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 2: And your people that really that really really fuck with 944 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:31,439 Speaker 2: you outside of the materialistic things, have goals in life, 945 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,200 Speaker 2: want to do something, want to be somebody, and a 946 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:35,920 Speaker 2: bitch and at the end of the day too, a 947 00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 2: beach could say you hating, like a beach could be like, oh, 948 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,120 Speaker 2: Lex was say anything the snow on wine down Wednesday 949 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 2: and she was hating. You got she that you could like, 950 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,799 Speaker 2: if you really wanted to just keeping it one honey, 951 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 2: you got she in your house that you could and 952 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 2: if you really wanted to go pond there shit just 953 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 2: so you could get you a Chanel bag or get 954 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 2: you a Gucci bag, you could do that. 955 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: But I ain't. I'm not gonna lie to you. My 956 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 1: nigga right now had text me was like, which Gucci 957 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,200 Speaker 1: shoes you want? 958 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 2: I said, I don't want nothing. I said, you can 959 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 2: give me computers. So he's about to give me a 960 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,280 Speaker 2: computer because I need a computer. 961 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: I just I'm just different. I don't want That's not 962 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm different, like not saying Okay, let me not say 963 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 1: oh yeah I'm different. Yeah I'm different. I mean it 964 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:16,759 Speaker 1: like that. 965 00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, whenever I get to the point 966 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 2: to where, Okay, Gucci, I'm gonna give me a little 967 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 2: Gucci shoes and Gucci bag, that means everything else is set. 968 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,439 Speaker 1: Yep, I'm not set right now. I'm comfortable, but I'm 969 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:33,400 Speaker 1: not set right now. So therefore I don't want no 970 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: Chanel bag. I don't want no Gucci bag. I don't 971 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: want no red bottoms. I don't want this. It helped 972 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,759 Speaker 1: me with my businesses, help me with my blog, help 973 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,800 Speaker 1: me with help me with some ship to wear. I 974 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,439 Speaker 1: could double my income. Then I could buy myself all 975 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,640 Speaker 1: the shit that I want. You. And this is what 976 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm getting back to saying, this is what I'm on 977 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: the same page when he comes to that. 978 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 2: The reason I said this about like Texas women and 979 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,359 Speaker 2: even Texas men, I'll say no, I feel like all 980 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 2: men kept a certain point, but I feel like in Atlanta. Now, 981 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, Atlanta has inspired me in so 982 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 2: many ways because there are actually people out here getting money, 983 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 2: black people, black women out here getting bank Okay, it's 984 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: black women out here in the beauty industry, in the 985 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 2: tech industry, there's black women, writers, actresses. It's so many 986 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,399 Speaker 2: people out here getting money. But these are the people 987 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 2: who are trying to you know, they're not They're not 988 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 2: posting their bags. They're they're posting their work, they're posting 989 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 2: their accomplishments, they're working towards things. 990 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 1: It be the main people out here being like, I 991 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 1: don't want to know Gucci. If a nigga give me Gucci, 992 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,800 Speaker 1: he cheap, I want a Chanel. Like that's corny, that's corny. 993 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 1: What do you what are you talking? 994 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 2: Especially when you ain't ever, when you ain't got enough 995 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,000 Speaker 2: money to buy yourself y'all own Chanel? 996 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: Thank you? It's like, what is that? What is what 997 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: is this? 998 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,359 Speaker 2: What does this Chanelle back mean? If I can't, if 999 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,200 Speaker 2: I don't have enough money to in my personal account 1000 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 2: to get whatever I want, I just feel like Atlanta 1001 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 2: as a and a lot of people on Instagram period. 1002 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 2: I want people to stop getting on Instagram and looking 1003 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 2: at other people's lives and thinking this. And I learned 1004 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 2: this from Drea personally, because I was at a point 1005 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,280 Speaker 2: when I first moved out here, I didn't have shit. 1006 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 2: I was fucking lost. I was like, I didn't know 1007 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 2: what to do with myself, and I just kept getting 1008 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 2: on Instagram and I kept looking at this girl and 1009 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 2: looking at this girl, and Dre was like, bro, you 1010 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 2: got to stop that. 1011 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: Then I started meeting these people. 1012 00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 2: Then I started seeing how these people was living, and 1013 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 2: then I started looking at my situation. 1014 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I sat down on my knees and 1015 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: I prayed. 1016 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 2: I said, Lord, thank you, thank you for everything that 1017 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 2: you've done, and thank you for my talents, and thank 1018 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,800 Speaker 2: you for making me a person who has sense, and 1019 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,320 Speaker 2: thank you for blessing me to be around people with 1020 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 2: common sense. Because I'm more baby, trust me. I look 1021 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 2: good and I like to have sex just like the 1022 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,239 Speaker 2: next person. But I'm more than that, and the world 1023 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 2: is gonna see more than that. 1024 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 1: So that's what I just want. Maybe let me live. 1025 00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: Ch'all know something. 1026 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 2: I know a lot of people and a lot of people, 1027 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 2: and I ain't gonna ever thought nobody names out there 1028 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 2: because I ain't that type of person, but have. 1029 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: These people who no matter where you live. 1030 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 2: Because I got a friend who live in Houston who 1031 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 2: was telling me about a girl that she know they live. 1032 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 2: I heard that I used to be cool with, and 1033 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,799 Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I used to always be looking 1034 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 2: at her Instagram and she used to be fly as 1035 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 2: fucking She would be DNC and that these. 1036 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 1: Holes don't be living. How y'all think they living? That's 1037 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: all I'm gonna tell y'all. 1038 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just leave it at there, like these girls 1039 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 2: do not be living, how y'all think they living? These 1040 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 2: niggas do not be getting money, how y'all think they 1041 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 2: getting much? I used to fuck with a nigga who 1042 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 2: bitches me thinking got a lot of money. He is 1043 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 2: as camera like it's. 1044 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 1: Okay, mommy, But it's okay though, you know what I mean. 1045 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: But it's just like these people. Everything on social media 1046 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 1: ain't always what it seems right. So it's like, don't 1047 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 1: be getting called up in there. 1048 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 2: Don't be thinking that all because I don't have what 1049 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 2: this person have, or I'm not living how this person 1050 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:55,240 Speaker 2: is living. 1051 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 1: Don't don't be thinking that you any listing? 1052 00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 2: Are you not doing what you're supposed to do, like no, 1053 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 2: and a lot of these holes will be having the 1054 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,880 Speaker 2: shit they be having they be selling pussy. 1055 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: So unless you're willing to sell some pussy, and it 1056 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,240 Speaker 1: ain't not wrong with selling pussy, but just stop thinking 1057 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,520 Speaker 1: it ain't. No, it's not. 1058 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with if that's what you choose to do. 1059 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: It's a business pussies selling pussies, old, but stop acting 1060 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,800 Speaker 2: like you're not and stop acting like you're a buve. 1061 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, don't you right? 1062 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,880 Speaker 2: It's not nothing wrong with selling hoossy, But don't be 1063 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 2: trying to act like you don't sell a pussy when 1064 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 2: you see a bus and then like looking down on 1065 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 2: people and being like, oh you don't have this and 1066 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 2: you down because get trust me, one hundred percent of 1067 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 2: women would have all the things that you would have 1068 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 2: if we all wanted to sell a pussy. If it 1069 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 2: be so many holes I hear who be talking down 1070 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 2: on like bottle girls and bars talking down on I 1071 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 2: have a nine to five, talk down on people having 1072 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:46,080 Speaker 2: a nine to five. 1073 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 1: But but you sell pussy though, And the thing is 1074 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 1: you talking down on me? 1075 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 2: Or are you talking down on other beaches because they 1076 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:56,280 Speaker 2: bartend or they do bottle service at the club every weekend. 1077 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,440 Speaker 1: But you at the club every weekend for free. Are 1078 00:48:58,480 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 1: you trying to find a nigga with somebody trying to 1079 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 1: so you at work too. But at the end of 1080 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: the day, I just feel like this. 1081 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with selling pussy, there's nothing wrong with 1082 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 2: what you do for a living. But I just think 1083 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,160 Speaker 2: people should stop capping and stop looking down on people. 1084 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,319 Speaker 2: Everybody has a different path in life, but I feel 1085 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 2: like we need to stop being on Instagram trying to 1086 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 2: flaunt materialistic things because none of. 1087 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 1: That shit matters. 1088 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 2: And y'all also gotta stop living y'all life for other people. 1089 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 2: I feel like so many people be unhappy because they 1090 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 2: be living their life for other people. Like even with 1091 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,040 Speaker 2: if you looking at other people life and you thinking, oh, 1092 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 2: I'm not where I'm supposed to be, or oh I'm 1093 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,279 Speaker 2: unhappy these persons are living better than me, you really 1094 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 2: only be feeling that way because you be thinking about 1095 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:38,799 Speaker 2: how the other people around. 1096 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: You perceive it as well. 1097 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,439 Speaker 2: Right, exactly, like maybe other people around me think I'm 1098 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,759 Speaker 2: not like, oh my sheet don't got my shit together 1099 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 2: because I'm not living like these persons who give a fuck, 1100 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 2: live y'all, life. 1101 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: For you a fuck? 1102 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:55,399 Speaker 2: So now who we don't march, we don't. We done 1103 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 2: got off topic, y'all. We were supposed to come over 1104 00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 2: here and talk about reasons for having babies. 1105 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 1: So let us know. Let's go down the list. Let 1106 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,959 Speaker 1: us know what y'all think about for the reasons people 1107 00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 1: have children. What was the second one? How do you 1108 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,440 Speaker 1: can tell if niggas fucking with you? How you can 1109 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,840 Speaker 1: tell if fucking what you wanna? Texas women and then. 1110 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 2: Cap ass andle and cap ass Atlanta women and men, 1111 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 2: both of them. 1112 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 1: So let me no, No, it is the men. 1113 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 2: But like I said, coming from a woman, I feel 1114 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 2: like a lot of times women look at other women 1115 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 2: and this and that. But like I said, you can 1116 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,239 Speaker 2: be sexy, you can be fine, but you could also 1117 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 2: be educated and smart and dude and want more things 1118 00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:39,719 Speaker 2: for yourself. Sell y'all pussy and doing this and go 1119 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 2: to y'all nine to five. But if you are in 1120 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 2: a nine to five, don't be looking down on sex workers. 1121 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 2: If you're a sex worker, don't be looking down on 1122 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,400 Speaker 2: people from nine to five. We all just need to 1123 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 2: stay in our lane. Behlright and stop fucking capping, period. 1124 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 1: That's all. 1125 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to stop with the stop with the cap 1126 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 2: and stop looking down on each other because we all 1127 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,520 Speaker 2: out here and just trying to make it, trying to 1128 00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,279 Speaker 2: grind and doing what we're good at. 1129 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: Period. Amen. So you got anything you want to add? 1130 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 1: I do not. I don't think so. 1131 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 2: I don't think I have anything I want to add 1132 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 2: right now. We do have an exciting announcement coming here 1133 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,240 Speaker 2: y'all week, So not this Wednesday, but next Wednesday. 1134 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 1: Y'all. 1135 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 2: We got a huge We're not huge, Yeah, it's a 1136 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 2: big announcement. So it's a pretty big announced week, y'all. 1137 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 1: Just hang in there, y'all. Think we're coming back with 1138 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 1: the YouTube coming back shortly. 1139 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 2: I told y'all, I broke my camera but it's getting fixed, 1140 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 2: so uh, YouTube will be back. 1141 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 1: We got a big. 1142 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 2: Announcement next week. Love lexp Oh LOVELEXP is officially launched 1143 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 2: my blog www dot lovelexp dot com. I'm posting blogs 1144 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 2: two to three times a week. I want to say, Monday, 1145 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 2: Wednesday and Friday. I'm gonna try to keep on that schedule. 1146 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 1: The merches up. You can go shop. 1147 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:52,839 Speaker 2: I got coffee, mugs, t shirts, hoodies, so check all 1148 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,240 Speaker 2: that out and shout out to whoever about the movie. 1149 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I sold some mugs, so shout out to y'all. Y'all, 1150 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 1: go buy you share, aint gonna buy your little mup, 1151 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: put a little wine in and listen to wind Down 1152 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:04,799 Speaker 1: Wednesday while y'all at work. 1153 00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 2: Yes we love y'all, and yes, like my blog. My 1154 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 2: blog will be launching very soon as will, so y'all 1155 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 2: stay tuned for that. And yeah, we're just super excited 1156 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 2: because we got so many exciting things coming up for you. 1157 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 1: A lot of coming up. 1158 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,439 Speaker 2: So yeah, so it's been a bonus episode of wind 1159 00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,840 Speaker 2: Down Wednesday. And this is amazing because y'all get this 1160 00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 2: ship tonight and then we'll be right back on Wednesday. 1161 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,360 Speaker 1: So it's your girl nex pay and it's your girls 1162 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,239 Speaker 1: right in the car. I will see y'all Wednesday, By y'all,