WEBVTT - Ashley Iaconetti and Jared Haibon 0:00:01.040 --> 0:00:06.000 This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:10.440 Chris Harrison coming to you from the home office in Austin, 0:00:10.480 --> 0:00:14.720 Texas today. I am so excited for this particular episode 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:18.320 of the most dramatic podcast ever. Two very good friends 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.600 are coming on the show, Ashley Ikenetti and Jared Habn. 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:25.160 Obviously they are married, but we got to know them 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:29.720 first of all separately because ash was on Chris Soul's 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:33.000 season of The Bachelor, and then Jared was on the 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:35.720 next season of The Batcherette with Caitlin and Britt it 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.120 turned out to be Caitlin Bristow season. And then they 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.400 went on a couple of seasons of Paradise where we 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:43.760 fell in love with these two as they attempted to 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:46.960 fall in love, although it seemed like love was going 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:50.800 to elude them, especially Ashley I who was more known 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.840 for tears, more known for being in love with Jared, 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:55.960 but Jared was never going to reciprocate that. It just 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:59.040 seemed like this romantic comedy that was never going to 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:03.880 have that happy end, and yet it did, and it has. 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:07.240 They are married, they have a beautiful baby boy, Dawson. 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:11.080 They are expecting their second child in July, which is 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:16.039 unbelievably exciting. They're now living their lives, hosting podcasts and 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:20.200 running the coffee shop and lounge Audrey's up there in 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:23.160 Rhode Island, so a lot to catch up to today 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:28.040 with Ashley I and Jared. Ashley, Jared, good to see 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:32.319 you guys. And Ashley, you look beautiful. You're glowing, so 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.399 let's just get that out of the way. But Jared, 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.479 I caught a glimpse and you've lost some weight. You're 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:39.800 looking swelt, you're looking fit. Are you just trying to 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:40.720 piss your wife off? 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.760 Obviously it's annoying that I lose weight when she gains 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:45.600 it during pregnancy, even though it's not your fault. You're 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.200 growing another human being. If I put weight on, it's 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:50.760 nobody's fault of my own. You can blame number two 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:51.280 on this one. 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:54.280 There's the sympathy weight. Usually, usually that's what dads do, 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:58.040 is they go sympathy weight. It's like an extin to 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:00.440 eat you would. So when she was pregnant with Awesome, 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:01.120 you gain weight? 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:04.680 Yes, yeah for how Nick even said like, hey dude, yeah, 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:08.760 of course I. 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.600 I won't freaking Nick. So we go to see him 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:13.000 in La and this was right after Dawson was born 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:18.360 or whatever she was pregnant. And then Nick like literally 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.440 the third thing he says to me, he's like, huh 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.640 pull the wait on. Huh. I was like, dude, I 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.240 good to see you too. Go straight to hell. And 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:30.120 then he's like smiling and he's like no, no, no, you 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.280 look good. You look good, and it's Nick Way, I'm like, bro, 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:34.399 get out of my face. Why am I here? Why 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:34.880 am I here? 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:36.760 Tanner's like, welcome to the Zadbod life. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:37.160 I know. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:39.920 So honestly it was comments like that. I was like, 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.519 I gotta get out of here. I got I gotta 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:41.840 get it. 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.600 How much of zempic are you taking? What's going on? 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:45.000 No zempic? 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:45.760 Uh? 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:51.080 So I downloaded like four months ago, I was, you know, 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:54.240 going to the gym, and it's just like, tired of 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:56.600 just doing the same old thing, was to do something. 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.600 So then I signed up for a half marathon because 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.400 I was like, all right, I'm going to train for something. 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:05.120 I want to train for something, okay, And then I 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.720 decided I didn't like running, and so then I downloaded 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.720 this app called Fitbod, and I really I freaking love 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:13.680 this thing. Because it just gives me different routines. And 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.399 also it brings out the competitive side because it gives 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.720 you goals to hit, and if you don't hit those goals, 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:19.400 it alerts you. 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:21.680 This sounds like an ad but it's not. 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.880 That's why Lauren loves orange theory because it's competitive. She 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.440 says she's not competitive, but she is. It's a total lie. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.560 Don't ever let Lauren's ema get away with saying she's 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.280 not competitive. By the way, you guys, you do. You 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:38.040 both look great and congratulations. Baby number two is imminent. 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.760 Where where are we in the grand scale of things? 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:41.520 What's our due date? 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:45.120 So he's cooking at three seventy five right now, said 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:47.720 about thirty five minutes, So we're about twenty seven minutes 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:48.160 in now. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:52.920 I guess I think it's like exactly two months away 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.120 right now, Like if you were to look at the date, yeah, 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:55.960 it's like I would. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.640 So we're going to have an early or of July. Baby, 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:00.160 Is that right? 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.840 It's late. It's a late late mid July. 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.880 Maybe like around July twenty sixth? 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:07.600 Is that is that somebody's birthday? 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:08.960 That's that's my birthday? 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:11.600 And then uh, everybody wants me to have a baby 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:12.360 on their birthday. 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.800 But also, you know Trista had her first baby on 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:16.480 my birthday. 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:19.320 Well that is too saw. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.040 Wild is that the first Bachelor baby was born on 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:25.520 my birth It was really wild. So baby Brady we're 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:26.000 calling it. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:27.880 That's already Dawson's middle name. 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:30.880 But we can do baby Brady, Dawson Brady. Do we 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:35.080 know it's a boy. Yeah, obviously Dawson. Dawson came from Titanic. 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.440 Yeah, thank you for not thinking it's from Dawson's Creed. 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.520 No, no, but by the way, nothing's not by the way, 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.800 nothing wrong with James Vanderbeek also living in Austin right now. 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:44.520 Great guy. 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.600 Oh he seems super cool. I love following him. 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.160 He has forty seven kids. 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:48.720 Yeah. 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:51.200 I went to a soccer game recently and he was 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:54.159 there and we were in the same suite and he 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.960 and his wife his kids, by the way, are lovely, 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:59.440 but there it's like a circus. But he's in town. 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.480 I just saw him, his daughter actually saying at this 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:04.599 event we were at Okay, not from Dawson's Creek. It 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:08.359 was from obviously Titanic, one of the greatest movies that 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:11.880 Ashley thinks she ever saw and baby number two is 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.000 also going to be a boy Do we have a 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:17.120 name already? 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.919 We think we do? Okay, Yeah, we think so, but 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.760 we're not saying is it okay? 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:25.280 Yeah? But is it derived from sports? Or is it 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.760 derived from a movie? Or is it derived from a 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:29.320 boy band? Just give us that much. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.640 Nothing for the first name, but the middle name will 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:37.440 have an ode to pop culture of course. 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:42.840 Yeah, so it's a family name. It's the first name 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:46.440 is a family name. Ashley loves this name. It took 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:47.760 a while for me to come around, but. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:53.520 Yeah, it's it's no, but it's bizarre. The naming thing 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.880 was interesting when I went through it twice. The pressure 0:05:57.000 --> 0:06:00.240 of that, Yeah that's what you think? Okay, what going 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.080 to yell on the playground? What are they gonna yell 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:03.520 on the ball field? What are they gonna yell in 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:03.880 the theater? 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:04.120 You know? 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:07.360 Like, what are the different iterations of this name that 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:09.240 will turn into what? 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:10.200 You know? 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.440 It's funny the pressure. Did y'all think about that? 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:16.400 Oh? Yeah, I've thought about like what name would get 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:17.960 my kids ass kicked? 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:18.240 Yeah? 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.080 Like I don't want to name it that right, you know? 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.360 Like what what name was bullied when I was a kid, 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:25.719 the poor thing, because it's you don't think about that, 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:27.479 because I'm like, all right, I want to name my 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.520 kids something cool and unique and different, and I'm like, 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:33.400 but kids are cruel. I also don't want to be 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.960 made fun of for the first twelve years of his life. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.320 I think our generation is naming their kids weird things, 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:41.280 so it's like not even the thing anymore to make 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:42.200 fun of names. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:43.760 Like, We're not going to get on The Bachelor in 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.000 like thirty years and it won't be like you know, 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:49.120 the Lorens we went through, you know, the nine different Laurens, 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:53.279 Lauren M, Lauren L, Lauren Z. So what will that 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:55.120 will be the interesting thing to see, like what the 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.320 names are twenty years from now and all the reality 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:02.400 shows when the Chiron pops up Dawson's two Did he 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:03.240 just turned two? Right? 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:05.040 He turned to in January? 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:09.880 Okay? Wow, so he's walking talking. I've seen and heard 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:12.520 his singing and dancing routine. The guy is killing it. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.040 Yeah, we don't know. Well, I think he has rhythm 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:20.000 from Jared. Jared's really good at choreography. Jared's club dancing 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:22.800 skills will make meke Frinch as every girl will cringe 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:23.600 at her husband club. 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.720 Then I don't think I have good choreography, but Ashley's 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.640 just so bad that any rhythm that this kid has 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.200 he definitely got for me absolutely did not get it back. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:35.960 A possible boy band future, one can only hope, honestly 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:38.600 up Like, dude, if he I mean, I just want 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.720 obviously I want him to love sports. I won't force 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.400 him to do it. But that was a way that 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:48.200 my dad and I bonded. Yeah, And I like, he'll 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:51.760 appreciate this. So I was going through like an accidential 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.720 crisis the other night and just like thinking about fatherhood 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:57.560 and other night or just like like generally in my life, 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.080 he's going. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:07:59.840 Through a mid life crisis right now, dude. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:03.240 I youtubed the end of Field of Dreams while I 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.840 was given Dawson a bath and was watching. 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.040 It, Dad, do you want to have a catch? 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.400 You want to have a catch, And it was just like, 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:13.320 so I start crying by myself thinking about this moment 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.160 with Dawson many years from now, and then of course 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.920 thinking about this moment with my dad and just like 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.320 having this moment to myself in the bath for while 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.840 Dawson's in the bath and I'm in the bath room 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.840 giving him a bath. And then it was funny because 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.880 on the YouTube algorithm, it obviously gives you suggested next video. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:32.199 And the next video was an interview with Kevin Costner 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.880 when he was on Conan O'Brien, and it said Kevin 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:37.640 Costner asked why grown men cry at the end of 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.800 field of dreams? While I'm crying at the endfield dreams. 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:45.520 That gets me every time, and flashed forward. By the way, God, 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:49.480 what would that be eighteen years from now? Well, I 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:53.320 guess twenty years from now when Joshua is twenty two 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:57.040 years old now and just graduated from TCU, just graduated college. 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.400 And obviously you guys met Joshua back in twenty fifth teens. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.280 That was ten years ago. You guys met josh my 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.640 son oldest when he was twelve years old. So he 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:10.920 just graduated. Him finishing his last game, walking off the 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.000 field and going up to give him a hug. That 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.680 was that was my field of dreams moment. I cried 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:19.800 like a baby. It just gave crushed me. Those last 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:22.720 going to tournaments in high school, the last college game. 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:25.719 Lauren and I are moving him into his apartment. I'm 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:27.199 telling you. It will fly by. 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:32.280 It flew by for us, for you. I remember when 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.880 you moved him into his first year of college. It 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.400 feels like yesterday, right. 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:41.720 Dude, I remember you. This was we were in Ireland 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.800 with Caitlin. Yeah, it might have been Clarney or something 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:47.560 like that. But he was there, and then you were 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:50.880 You're kicking the soccer ball with him, and then us 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:54.760 guys were there too. But I remember all of us 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:58.400 were like, well, no, we're not. We're not disturbing Chris 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.680 with his son right now like you were. We're all 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:02.800 very scared to like, oh no, no, no, no, no, he 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:04.800 needs like you know, he's with his son right now. 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.040 Nobody go near nobody go near you. 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:08.880 That's funny. Those are what I do. I relish those 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:10.480 moments as I think back now, and I'm glad they 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:13.640 traveled with me so much, and and you know, they 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:15.960 met so many of you guys during your time on 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:19.800 the show, which is wild. You know, Andrew Firestone and 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:22.240 I because we were very similar in age. We have 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:24.680 these pictures and same thing with Bob Guiney, some of 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.360 our older bachelors that they met him when they were 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:30.960 born or just born, and it's crazy to me to 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:35.240 think how that because I had two sets of lives 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:39.000 going bachelor life and then my family and my kids 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.680 growing up, and those intersected a lot, which is and 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.920 they're kind of crossing over with all of you guys 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:45.320 as well. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:49.960 It was pretty wild, so sweet, yeah, and must to 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.960 you almost feel like you were living two lives. 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.559 Well, when people say what's your favorite season, what's your 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:58.439 favorite thing, and I'm like, it's going to be boring, 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:00.760 You're not going to like it. It's when my was 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.280 swinging on the Eiffel Tower when we were in France, 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:07.240 and it's when my son kept asking for chocolate tacos 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.000 which were crapes, you know, when we were looking at 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.600 the Eiffel Tower, and you know, eating gelato on the 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:15.000 steps in Italy, and you know, those are the moments 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:17.240 I remember. It's I mean, obviously, if you want to 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:20.480 talk about the show, you know it's Ashley crying. But 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:25.600 if it's and then they would say which time? 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:30.240 Too many times she's still everybody asked me that, Like 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.080 the amount of times I get asked, does Ashley cry 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:33.600 that much? 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:37.280 I'm like, who do you think cries more? Now? I mean, 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.680 obviously you have a lot of hormones kicking, so you're emotional. 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:43.400 But I could see Jarrett almost crying more now, as 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.480 have the roles reversed with this midlife crisis you're going through. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:50.199 No, I just internalized every time a few times through 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:54.520 the midlife crisis. Yeah, definitely. Oh dude, she cries. 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:55.760 Yeah. 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:58.880 I literally can't have a serious conversation without crying, which 0:11:58.920 --> 0:11:59.560 really sucks. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:01.520 What we were watching the other day was it The 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:03.320 Land before Time? We were showing done. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.520 Oh, it was Home We're Abound, And I wasn't actually 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:06.760 about to cry during that. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.959 There was a different movie than then you started crying out. 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.920 I can't remember. But we're showing Oh, we're watching. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.320 That full House episode for Uncle Jesse's. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.520 Yeah, we're showing Dawson full House and there's an episode 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:20.440 where there's a grandfather that dies in the episode, and Ashley, 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:24.079 I look over as Dawson's watching, and oh, please, you 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:28.440 always say that. He always says that, like, oh, I'm 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.320 not crying, even though there is water in her eyes. 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:33.280 That is crying. 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.679 Speaking of crying, Ashley and I were texting the other 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:42.760 day and I said, did Jared watch the Tom Brady 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:46.400 Roast on Netflix? It was the funniest thing that I 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.280 have ever seen. It was genius. And I'm not the 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.520 biggest Tom Brady fan. I know you are, but I said, 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:54.959 tom Brady isn't the hero we asked for, but he's 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:57.840 the hero we needed right now to step up and 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:01.480 to allow himself to be roasted. It's something that the 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:04.440 whole world just needed to rally around of, like, okay, 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.880 we can laugh again. And so I was texting with 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:10.200 Ash and I said, Hey, what did Jared think? Knowing 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:12.960 full well you watched it and we're obsessed with this. 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.560 I couldn't believe her answer when she said, Jared has 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:19.680 not and maybe will not watch the Roast of Tom Brady. 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:22.120 It's not that I will not, it's the fact that 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.960 it's three hours long. So I watched. I also have 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:28.400 never enjoyed roast because I just like, I get it right. 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.040 It's like bit after bit after bit, new comedian, bit 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:35.480 after bit afterbit, new comedian. And so I watched clips 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.520 of it and then, like, you know, so many of 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.560 my friends are like, can you believe Belichick said this? 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.840 Or Belichick said that? And it's just like like I 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:46.960 saw the clips of Belichick and it's very clear that 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.040 a comedian wrote those jokes and he's saying them now. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.440 Don't get me wrong, I'll give him props for saying it, 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:53.040 but it's like. 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:57.280 Well, of course Belichick didn't write a comedy bit. But 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.560 the point I mean, but to hear to hear Drew 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:03.560 Blood and Gronk and those guys just do it and 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:07.120 allow and Brady to sit there and take it was brilliant. 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.880 And the fact that they got they got Robert Kraft 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.360 and Belichick and Brady on the same stage and they 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:15.400 did a shot together. I told Lauren, I go, you 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.560 don't understand how crazy this is, and like, what a 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:21.960 big sports moment this is. It was wild to see. 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:23.960 And I will say, if you're if you don't want 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:28.040 to watch the whole thing fast forward, uh watch Jeff 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.080 Ross because he kicked the whole thing off. But go 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:30.920 to Nicky Glazier. 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.000 I saw the Nicky Glazer. 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:35.480 I will say, the Gronk jok wher is like I 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:36.360 know that fake. 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:40.680 Money even I know that, and then kill Tony crushed 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.800 it towards the end. Those are the two. But it 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.240 was I I was like, Jared's got to be dying 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:49.360 loving this because it was maybe the best performance Tom 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.920 Brady ever gave. It's the performance we needed from him. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.840 This world needed to be brought together to laugh at ourselves. 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:59.480 So you should relish in the fact that your hero 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:01.960 rose once again to save the world. 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:05.360 Oh trust me, I relished in every second where people. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.800 I can't believe it became the pop culture phenomenon that 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.720 it is. Like I was like always doing a roastar 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:13.640 you know, people will like it, and then it just 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:19.600 became the topic of every every podcast, every talk show, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:21.280 Like everywhere I had looked, they'd be talking about the 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:24.640 Tom Brady roast and like, I cannot believe how big 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:25.320 this thing was. 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.720 Well, it was the first time we could all, honestly, 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:30.760 the first time comedians really let loose in a public 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:33.400 forum without locking up our phones. And you know, because 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.320 it was live on Netflix, they let it loose. And 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:37.840 it was the first time we all just laughed in 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:41.840 unison because there was someone Because there was someone so big. 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:46.520 It took Tom Brady. It took someone so untouchable, unapproachable, 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:51.200 so big that he was above reproach. That's what you needed. 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.640 You needed that mount rushmore of a human to go 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:56.720 bring it on. I'll be the guy. If it was 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.240 anybody else, it would have fallen on deaf ears. 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.920 And it's good that it's Brady that you know, he 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:06.360 was just so successful and good looking and he's got 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:10.640 it all. And it's like it's there's people that like 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:14.560 they're like, we need we don't mind tearing that guy 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.080 down because we know he's fine. 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:18.160 Well, it's like when I host an event, you know, 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.240 it's easy. It's like I just did an event the 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.440 other day and Tim Tebow was in the audience, and 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.680 I'm like, yeah, you just picked the biggest, most famous, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.160 safe guy. You make fun of him because we can 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:30.240 all laugh at that because there's nothing to laugh at 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:32.800 with Tebo. The guy's perfect and he's this like wonderful 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.040 human being, and so you make fun of it, and 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.320 that's like everyone can rally around that. It's like you 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:38.840 don't want to pick on the smallest guy. You pick 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:39.600 on the biggest guy. 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.920 But yeah, what I didn't like was after that. I'm 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:47.160 sure you saw the headlines were Brady, because obviously I 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:49.240 love Brady, but it's like when he said that he 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:51.200 regretted doing it, don't say. 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.480 Well that was Look, my guess is that it was 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:56.280 just one off com and I didn't. I never even 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:58.520 saw where the comment came from. He said, yeah, my 0:16:58.680 --> 0:16:59.560 kids didn't love it. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:00.200 Me. 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:03.360 Look Gizelleizell. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:08.240 She'll got angry text afterward and was like, what are 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:08.760 you doing? 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.199 There's no pun intended when I say Gizelle really took 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:14.919 it on the chin there, but she really did. And 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:18.879 her jiu jitsu teacher. I mean it was the jokes 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.960 did right themselves. They were pretty good, but I was 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:24.040 shocked to hear and I just I think it'll be 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.240 cathartic for you man, sit down and watch the show. 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:41.320 I was looking back over the both of you and 0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:44.399 going over because it's funny. How when I become friends 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.760 with somebody, and I've been friends with you guys for 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:51.440 ten years now, as I think ash you started twenty 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:53.000 twenty fifteen. 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:55.560 Right September is when I met. 0:17:55.640 --> 0:17:59.360 Our ten year anniversary is coming up? Is that diamond anniversary? 0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:00.679 What do I get you? Is that? 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:00.920 Right? 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:02.480 Wow? 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:05.440 Yes, that's the ring upgrade. 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:07.560 But so I've known you guys for the better part 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:09.399 of ten years, which is wild to me, and so 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:13.479 I kind of forget sometimes where y'all came from. I mean, 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:15.000 I know you're on the show, but I'm like, I 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:17.439 kind of lose the specific site. I went back and 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:20.880 I'm like, okay, so Ash was on Chris Soul's season, 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:23.760 and now I started looking about who else came off 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:27.480 that season, and a lot, a lot, a lot of 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:31.600 stars came off that season. Whitney won it, so to speak. 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:36.119 They didn't stay together, but there was Becca who was 0:18:36.440 --> 0:18:40.000 runner up, who was a huge star. Didn't Jade wasn't 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:40.840 Jade on that season? 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.880 Yep, Jade was fourth, and then Caitlyn was there. 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:46.680 Yeah, and Britt, by the way, I forgot Britt was 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:48.720 even on that season. And that's where Caitlyn and Brett 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:52.199 came from, which is wild to me as well. And 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:54.359 what I never put the two and two together of 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.719 you and Jade were on the season together and then 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:01.720 Jared and Tanner were on Caitlyn and brit season together. 0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:07.680 Right, Yes, I'm thinking about my season. You definitely got 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:12.439 probably the most engagement from the girls on my season collectively, 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:15.520 because I'm thinking about Caitlyn twice. 0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:17.080 Chasler. 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:22.880 Within Bachelor Nation, we had Caitlyn's engagement, Jade's engagement, Carly's engagement. 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:25.440 What are you talking about Instagram, like what going. 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:29.280 Yeah, Carly out of Paradise as well? I forgot about Yeah, 0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:30.880 Carly Wedell was on that season. 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:36.879 Chris and then yeah yeah and you and then you 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.240 forget Jane Tanner are really the only success stories. 0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:44.919 To make it out well ten years ten years, uh, 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.000 and Tanner did. 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:50.040 Tanner made it on Kaitlyn season. He was like eighth 0:19:50.160 --> 0:19:51.840 or ninth or something like that, and it was so 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.440 funny because he was very self aware and he's like, honestly, 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:57.879 I'm just not screwing up. I'm just coasting, like I 0:19:57.960 --> 0:20:00.119 want to see how far I can get without I 0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:02.480 don't really have a good connection with Kaitlyn. And then 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:04.359 we were just joking about how he was going to be. 0:20:04.840 --> 0:20:06.240 It was gonna be like him and shot in the 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:09.480 final two and Andrew shows up all disheveled, hasn't showered, 0:20:09.560 --> 0:20:12.520 shaved or anything like that, being like, Kaitlyn, please send 0:20:12.560 --> 0:20:14.800 me home, and then she gives him her final rose 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:15.800 and he's like, you gotta be. 0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:20.840 Kidding men, you guys. So in your season started with 0:20:20.960 --> 0:20:24.480 the debacle of the two bachelorettes that we were voting on, 0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.160 and then we swore we would never do that again. 0:20:28.520 --> 0:20:29.000 And they did. 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:29.960 And then fast forward. 0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:32.359 Yeah, it was a lot different the second. 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:38.400 Not any better, but just different. And then so did 0:20:38.440 --> 0:20:41.520 you did you remember did you vote for Kaitlin or Britt? 0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:44.359 Dude? Vote? I voted for Britta and Caitlyn still to 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:46.600 this day will never let me live it down, which 0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:47.080 I can't blame. 0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:48.639 I mean, the fix was in. We were never going 0:20:48.720 --> 0:20:50.919 to let Britt win. The other producers had the fix in, 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:56.080 the scales of justice were not even in that vote, 0:20:56.960 --> 0:20:59.159 and Caitlyn became the best. I didn't. So you you 0:20:59.240 --> 0:20:59.880 voted for Britt. 0:20:59.880 --> 0:21:04.440 That's funny, Yeah, but I I also it was terrible 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:08.560 because I had this two incredibly good looking women who 0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:12.040 were funny, personable, way out of my league, and I'm like, oh, 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:14.160 I have to choose which one I want to date. 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:16.000 This is the stupidest night of my life. 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:19.040 Yeah. But Britt was so your original type. Yeah, I agree, 0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:21.840 And then Caitlin was the type that you became to 0:21:22.119 --> 0:21:27.040 you started to like, yeah. 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:29.320 Yeah, once you went to your boy band phase. And 0:21:29.400 --> 0:21:31.560 but that season was good because we traveled, Like you said, 0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:35.440 we ended up in Ireland. We had different travel planned, 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.480 but things were so good in Ireland. We decided to 0:21:39.480 --> 0:21:41.320 stay because we were gonna leave. I think we were 0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:44.160 going somewhere in Asia. Maybe I forget where we were deaf. 0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:47.080 Yeah, is that your theory? Is that how it happened 0:21:47.080 --> 0:21:49.359 in your memory, Chris, because Jared has a different memory. 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:50.280 Oh, what's the memory? 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:53.040 I got screwed out of a hometown? That's my memory 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:54.960 because I was fourth and we were supposed to go 0:21:55.080 --> 0:21:57.840 from From what I'm understanding, we're supposed to go from 0:21:57.880 --> 0:22:03.480 Ireland to back to hometowns and then go I don't 0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:06.480 know the location, but like somewhere for fantasy suites, yes, 0:22:06.560 --> 0:22:09.080 and then fancy suites. Something happened. 0:22:09.440 --> 0:22:10.720 The Nick sex happened. 0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:12.640 No, that's the story they gave us. 0:22:13.000 --> 0:22:16.720 No, that's that's true. Though, that's true. 0:22:17.040 --> 0:22:18.480 You're telling me that I got screwed out of a 0:22:18.520 --> 0:22:20.920 hotel hometown because Nick and Caitlyn had sex. 0:22:21.160 --> 0:22:23.320 Essentially, Yes, that's the Nick just. 0:22:25.160 --> 0:22:27.000 Talking. I was like two months ago. 0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:30.120 Oh I thought it was actually know, I don't like 0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:31.000 the sex. 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:33.000 We had to like kind of change up the storyline. 0:22:33.040 --> 0:22:37.200 Yeah, who told you that? Yeah, No, it's true. Well me, 0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:39.199 Caitlyn didn't have anything to do with it. Well, I 0:22:39.200 --> 0:22:42.600 guess she kind of did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was. 0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:44.560 I hope she's aware of everything was. 0:22:44.520 --> 0:22:47.320 Going according to plan. And then obviously Nick and Caitlin 0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:51.080 the infamous uh sex in the hotel there in Ireland, 0:22:51.400 --> 0:22:53.520 and then we didn't want it because when we leave 0:22:54.000 --> 0:22:56.120 you stop filming, right because you know, we have dark 0:22:56.200 --> 0:22:59.000 days with the with the crew and we had to 0:22:59.000 --> 0:23:01.520 shut down for a day then we all travel and 0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:03.120 so we were just going to let the steam out 0:23:03.119 --> 0:23:05.439 of the balloon there and and it was just going 0:23:05.480 --> 0:23:07.720 to lose the storyline and lose the momentum of what 0:23:07.760 --> 0:23:09.480 was going on, because really what it came down to 0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:12.240 was obviously Sean and Nick and the craziness that was 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:14.639 going on, and we just didn't want to lose that, 0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:16.760 so we kept it going and so we kind of 0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:18.240 just blew up the rest of it and then we 0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:21.320 ended up going That's why we went from like Doublin Trellie, 0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:23.520 but then we just went up north to locker Urn 0:23:24.000 --> 0:23:26.720 up in northern Ireland to that resort, which is a 0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:29.600 good golf course as well, by the way, which is 0:23:29.640 --> 0:23:30.560 really what I cared. 0:23:30.320 --> 0:23:32.280 About obviously the most important. 0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:34.720 Yeah, but that's that's what happened. Your season was blown 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:35.920 up because of that. 0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:39.919 I can't imagine. I would actually love to see Caitlin 0:23:39.960 --> 0:23:47.280 and meet your family Warwick, Rhode Island. That would be hilarious. 0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:48.720 But I'm just glad you didn't go to Fantasy. 0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:51.840 And then so both and then Ash came on Winter Games, 0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:58.280 which was an absolute blast. I had the I had 0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:01.040 the best. So it was funny because Bachelor Winter Games 0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:03.600 is something it was an experiment we tried because the 0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:06.320 Winter Olympics were going on and they obviously they weren't 0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:09.240 on ABC, and ABC's like we got to counter program 0:24:09.520 --> 0:24:12.680 something against the Olympics because no one's going to watch 0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:14.639 ABC and no one cares, so just we just just 0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:16.960 create something. So we were like, oh, we'll go to 0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:20.040 Vermont and we'll shoot Bachelor Winter Games, our own Winter Olympics. 0:24:20.400 --> 0:24:23.879 And we were so burnt out. I forget whose season 0:24:23.880 --> 0:24:25.920 we came off, but we just we had just come 0:24:25.960 --> 0:24:28.840 off a bender of a season. We most of us 0:24:28.880 --> 0:24:31.119 didn't even go home. I went home, changed suitcases and 0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:33.600 went to Vermont for like three weeks and lived in 0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:37.639 this snowy house and it was so we were all 0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:41.800 a little fried, but it turned out to be really fun. 0:24:42.080 --> 0:24:43.879 Did you remember it as fun ash or was it 0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:45.000 just a disaster for you? 0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:48.240 It wasn't It was fun. Yeah. It was definitely like 0:24:48.280 --> 0:24:49.239 the easiest of all these. 0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:52.840 Yeah, the pressure was yeah, it was. I mean, u 0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:53.640 key was there for. 0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:59.879 Jared feels awkward? I love thee an Okay, yeah, no, 0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:01.640 it was definitely easy breezy. 0:25:02.000 --> 0:25:04.280 And then we went to Winter Games and then we 0:25:04.320 --> 0:25:06.040 went to Paradise twice. 0:25:06.240 --> 0:25:10.040 Right, well, yeah, we went to Paradise twice before Winter Games, before. 0:25:09.880 --> 0:25:12.400 The cap Okay, so that was so we went. Yeah, 0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:15.600 Winter Games was like fifteen sixteen, and then. 0:25:15.920 --> 0:25:18.280 It was Winter Games was seventeen. 0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:21.200 Fifteen sixteen, and then yeah, yeah win Winter Games. 0:25:21.640 --> 0:25:23.159 Yeah, like the end of sixteen seventeen. 0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:23.440 Yeah. 0:25:23.880 --> 0:25:26.160 Yeah, you and I got together in the winter of eighteen. 0:25:26.359 --> 0:25:29.400 And then I went to Bachelor in Paradise, Australia. Yeah, 0:25:29.440 --> 0:25:32.040 which was stupid. I made it, okay. 0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:33.680 You also was easy breezy. 0:25:33.800 --> 0:25:35.720 I don't remember you doing that. You went to Bachelor 0:25:35.720 --> 0:25:37.399 of Paradise Australia. 0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:40.800 Because I was on the phone with I won't say 0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:42.639 producers names, but I was on the phone with the 0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:45.760 producer who was inquiring about Winter Games, and then they 0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:48.080 were like, hey, listen, you're not gonna be on Winter Games. 0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:49.840 We have to choose Ashley over it. 0:25:49.920 --> 0:25:51.440 Obviously, it was probably like they were like, we don't 0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:53.920 want Ashley Jared to be on the same season again, and. 0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:55.240 Then America can't take this. 0:25:56.000 --> 0:26:01.479 Yeah, it's just like, guys, we're bored. So then they 0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:04.000 were like, would you want to do Bachelor in paradish Australia. 0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:07.720 They're doing Americans and Grant was down there and Daniel 0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:11.520 McGuire the Canadian. Yeah, And so I was like, yeah, 0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:13.480 I'll do it. And then I made it through five 0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:15.880 Row ceremonies didn't kiss anybody while I was there. 0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:20.440 They didn't kiss anyone. It was also came home befoorrid 0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:22.560 that back to me and I was like, cool, well, 0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:24.919 I'm leaving in two days for my show. I'll probably 0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:29.639 kiss someone. And it all worked out well for you. 0:26:29.720 --> 0:26:34.080 It's so funny man, that. Yeah. Anyway, different life is it? 0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:35.800 I mean, it really is. When you guys think about it. 0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:39.159 Now you're about to be a parent of two, and 0:26:39.200 --> 0:26:42.320 when you think of all the the hijinks and shenanigans 0:26:42.359 --> 0:26:44.600 and the craziness that went on it, it's it's got 0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:48.240 to kind of blow you away and in a good way, though. 0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:51.000 Oh yeah, totally. It's so crazy when people come up 0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:52.919 to us still and they're like, I'm so glad it 0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:56.360 happened for you, and I'm like, we have been together 0:26:56.640 --> 0:27:00.439 twice as long now as we were ever not together. 0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:01.000 Yeah. 0:27:01.040 --> 0:27:03.280 Yeah, but the show kind of got I mean, people 0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:05.440 got to know you guys so well, or at least 0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:07.760 they feel like they did obviously going through these journeys 0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:11.200 with you. I'm sure that you still get if there's 0:27:11.240 --> 0:27:13.639 a couple like even like you run into Shawn and 0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:16.920 Catherine or Ryan and Trista, easy to root for, easy 0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:19.199 to like. But I don't know if anybody went on 0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:21.200 a journey like we went on with the two of you, 0:27:21.720 --> 0:27:23.960 like together, are they not? Are they together? We want 0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:27.280 them together? So it really was this rom com between 0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:29.520 the two of you, unlike any of our other seasons 0:27:29.520 --> 0:27:30.080 and couples. 0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:34.480 Yes, thank you, my dream come true. 0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:38.280 Rom com like Jayde and Tanner are boring is like 0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:41.040 come on, we Yeah, they went off and had their 0:27:41.080 --> 0:27:43.560 own show and like just they came back. It was 0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:45.680 like the couple that like showed up day one of 0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:47.280 school and then you didn't see him again. They showed 0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:49.760 up a graduation. We're like, have y' all been here 0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:50.400 the whole time? 0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:52.880 Yeah? With three kids at graduation? 0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:55.840 Yeah? Oh wow yeah nice and don't happy quick? 0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:57.840 No getting flying. 0:27:57.600 --> 0:27:59.840 Through that, y'all. S y'all are living in Rhode Island, 0:27:59.880 --> 0:28:00.200 right know? 0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:02.160 Yeah, Ashley hates it. 0:28:02.359 --> 0:28:02.920 I do. 0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:05.800 Well. 0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:08.919 Her biggest argument will know how to settle it, to 0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:09.760 be honest, I. 0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:13.400 Will figure it out. Yeah. She wants to be home 0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:16.000 closer to fam, which makes sense. I love Rhode Island, 0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:19.359 So just kind of figuring it out right now. 0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:21.560 Like, well, you're you're having babies in Virginia. Is that 0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:22.520 like a home turf thing? 0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:27.879 I know. Well, so my dad's a doctor. My dad's annologist, 0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:31.800 So I like to be at the hospital in which 0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:33.560 my dad is ancycologist. 0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:33.840 Yeah. 0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:35.040 I like it. 0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:37.359 I like home field advantage. 0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:39.880 Field advantages the exact way of putting it, like, you 0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:44.000 could not have it, couldn't have a better. 0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:47.880 Yeah, the hospital. Everybody knows who she is, not only 0:28:47.880 --> 0:28:51.680 because like a little princess, Yeah, because of her dad 0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.440 and she's very much taken care of and Fairfax is 0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:57.320 such an incredible hospital. It's just a no brain. 0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.200 Also, not sponsoring the show. 0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:01.320 If they want to. 0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:04.640 Okay, So of all the things you guys fight about, 0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.480 you do fight about where you're going to live. That's 0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:08.040 a big thing. 0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:10.440 Yeah, yeah, it's a big thing. 0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:12.240 We don't like fight about it. Like it's not like 0:29:12.240 --> 0:29:14.760 an we don't fight about it, but like it's like 0:29:14.800 --> 0:29:18.880 a constant like always there. Where will you know if 0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:20.640 you talk about the future and you're like, oh, is 0:29:20.960 --> 0:29:22.760 that where we will be in the future, will he 0:29:22.840 --> 0:29:24.760 be playing softball on this field? 0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:29.120 Yeah? When I like, that's funny you think Dawson's going 0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:32.440 to play baseball there because he'd been playing baseball about oh, 0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:34.040 at least a thousand miles away. 0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:35.080 It's not a thousand. 0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:48.920 Here's the thing. I just I find it interesting because 0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:51.360 that's something that couples like Lauren and I went through 0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:53.200 it and when we started dating, and I said, Hey, 0:29:53.920 --> 0:29:56.600 this train is going to end up in Texas, so 0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:58.800 don't get on. Don't get on this train at all 0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.560 if you don't want to go on this trip with me. 0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:03.800 Because I'm I knew I was going to boomerang back. 0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:05.480 I was already even towards the end of the Batchel 0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:07.640 I was already looking at homes here in Austin, I 0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:10.480 knew I wanted to move back here between here in Dallas, 0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:15.480 and when Lauren and I really fell in love and decided, 0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:18.520 you know, to do life together, I was like, look, 0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:21.800 you know we're going to work. I'm taking off to Austin. 0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.160 Let's do this. And we chose Austin because neither one 0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:26.240 of us have ever lived here. We could build a 0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:29.320 life together and do it together and do something kind 0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:31.760 of different. Like I grew up in Dallas, he was 0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:34.719 in Chicago. Let's do something where we are kind of 0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:36.840 on neutral ground and we can kind of build it together. 0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:41.200 Have y'all, where would that be for you? Guys? Where's 0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:42.080 the dream for you? 0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:43.400 Maybe? 0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:44.000 Cranston? 0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:49.760 I think like just for me, I would just want 0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:51.520 to be back in Virginia, which is like something I 0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:57.000 never expected myself wanting until we had a kid. I 0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.840 always was the girl that was like, I'm happy to 0:30:59.880 --> 0:31:02.560 move back to Rorde Island. I don't care I'm anywhere. 0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:05.600 I'm gonna be happy. I love the ocean. I love Newport. 0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:07.680 I do love the ocean. Yeah, I do love Newport. 0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:10.720 But it's like that's not going to suffice when it's 0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:13.240 just so nice to like sit around just with Dawson 0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:15.320 in like a playroom with my mom and my sister. 0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:17.840 And yeah, yeah, it's definitely like the I think the 0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.960 biggest I don't want to say issue, but it's more 0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.800 it's just like there, it's always there because I can 0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:28.120 see it. You know that she's very clearly much happier 0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:31.760 anytime she's in Virginia. And not that you're sad here, 0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:34.840 but you're just you're always with your mom, You're always 0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:36.880 with your sister. Yeah, you know that's where you want 0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:39.680 to be, which totally makes sense, you love because then 0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:41.920 when you're there with Dawson, it's like Dawson is not 0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:45.560 just hanging out with you, Yeah, it's like a he's 0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:48.160 hanging out with three or four people at once. So 0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:52.720 and then I'm like, you, Chris, when we first got together, 0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:56.640 this this train is going to Rhode Island. And then 0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:58.880 she was totally fine with that and there's no issues. 0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:00.160 But obviously, you. 0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:03.280 Know, things have changed, kids changed that you can change that. 0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:05.560 You know, So, I mean, we'll figure it out. I'm 0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:07.600 not concerned about it. It's not like she's. 0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:09.960 I'm not like every day I'm like, I can't believe 0:32:10.000 --> 0:32:11.920 I'm here. I'm so sad. You know, it's just like 0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:12.760 it's kind of more. 0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:16.040 Of like a and it's not la a place across 0:32:16.040 --> 0:32:17.960 the country, you know, yeah, literally an hour flight. 0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:21.800 Yeah, it sounds like y'all are about to have two places. 0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:23.040 I say that I would like to have, you know, 0:32:23.120 --> 0:32:25.160 I said, And in the dream world, we'd have like 0:32:25.240 --> 0:32:26.440 the beach house here. 0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:29.920 Yeah you know, I mean it's place place. 0:32:30.440 --> 0:32:33.880 Yeah exactly, and you can like AIRBNBA or college students 0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:35.960 live in the beach town and. 0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:39.080 So yeah, the Escape Patch just really need to figure 0:32:39.080 --> 0:32:40.760 out a way to get more free flights. That's what's 0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:42.280 I can just buy. 0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.560 I am such a huge Southwest pand here's another shout 0:32:45.560 --> 0:32:47.800 out or something I'm not paid for. But their companion 0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:49.920 pass is the most brilliant. 0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:56.400 So you guys will determine this later. But this is crazy, 0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:59.520 But Jared, I didn't know you owned a lounge in 0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:00.440 coffee shop. 0:33:01.360 --> 0:33:02.400 Yeah you didn't know. 0:33:02.560 --> 0:33:05.600 I swear to god, I didn't know. I didn't know. 0:33:06.560 --> 0:33:06.920 I had no. 0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:08.600 I don't know why I didn't know. 0:33:08.960 --> 0:33:10.840 Well, you're not supposed to know. It's like it's not 0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:11.720 that's not true. 0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:13.880 I think I should know. That's that's information I should know, 0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:14.600 I felt really bad. 0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:16.040 We should definitely have shared that. 0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:18.920 Yeah, it's probably because Ben Higgins is too busy talking 0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:20.640 about his crappy coffee all the time. 0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:25.640 I know it's very good coffee. 0:33:25.680 --> 0:33:27.520 No, I'm just kidding. Shout out to Ben Higgins and 0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:28.400 his coffee company. 0:33:28.600 --> 0:33:31.200 Yeah, it was funny. When I first opened, Ben reached 0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:33.640 out was like, you know, would you want to carry 0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.680 generous and I was going to reach out anyway. I think, 0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:38.680 you know, it's a perfect fit. So yeah, we opened 0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:41.320 Audrey's Coffee House in Lounge. It's in South Kingston, Rhode Island, 0:33:41.320 --> 0:33:44.920 in December of twenty twenty one. Audrey is her mom, 0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:49.920 So you know, I wanted to name it a family name, 0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:52.800 something meaningful to us because it was a family business. 0:33:52.880 --> 0:33:55.200 I love the name Audrey reminds me of Audrey's half Burnt, 0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:57.560 Audrey Halfburn, and so I just always felt like, oh, 0:33:57.600 --> 0:34:00.000 let's get a coffee at Audrey's. It's gotta drink at Audrey's. 0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:03.040 It felt right. And so it actually used to be 0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:04.960 a different coffee shop that I went to when I 0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:07.240 was in college, and so I was very familiar with 0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:10.080 the area and just working restaurants all my life. I 0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:11.960 always wanted to own and operate my own place and 0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:15.880 felt like I could. It's obviously so stressful, the margins 0:34:15.880 --> 0:34:19.840 are so small, but I love I do love owning 0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.560 the place. Like as much as I bitch about it 0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:24.520 and complain and it tires me out and it takes 0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:26.520 up so much of my time and effort. There is 0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:30.920 this feeling of pride that I get from from being 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:34.400 there and being in the midst of the chaos with 0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:38.480 you know, other employees that work there, and you know, 0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:42.640 they're an attachment of my family now, and it's it's nice. 0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:46.360 There's something to be said about the camaradity that a 0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:48.839 brick and mortar business brings, especially a small one. 0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:51.640 It's something that's lost today, isn't it. I Mean, there's 0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:55.080 so many businesses and things that just are generated and 0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:57.720 you're not really getting your you know, your hands dirty, 0:34:57.760 --> 0:35:00.120 so to speak. And yeah, I think this generation and 0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:01.960 I feel bad that they will miss out on that 0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:04.360 brick and mortar experience of what it's like to go 0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:07.840 to a building and to have to keep it clean 0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:09.839 and to work on it and to stock it and 0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:13.279 to grind there and it becomes this place that means 0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:13.920 a lot to you. 0:35:15.120 --> 0:35:17.160 Oh, one hundred percent. It means so much to me 0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:20.520 because Ashley and I another you know point. 0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:22.799 Of these are the two points of contention that. 0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:27.080 You have Pien on is how much time it takes 0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:27.960 me there. 0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:30.360 But he likes it, like he doesn't really want to 0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:30.879 change that. 0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:31.640 It's a passion. 0:35:31.760 --> 0:35:34.279 It is a passion. And because so many times I've 0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:36.240 told her I will change, I will change, I will change, 0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:39.760 and I've I've tried, and I've definitely gotten so much better. 0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:43.640 You know, the first six months, you couldn't get worse. 0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:47.080 He was there for like we counted one hundred hours 0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.359 one week, but it was when we didn't have. 0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:53.360 A kid, and we did have a kid. Oh, Dawson 0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:55.440 was born in January, a month after reopened. 0:35:55.960 --> 0:36:03.080 Yeah, so it was like a he's watch TV all 0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:03.640 day with him. 0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:05.080 He's a throw rug at that point. 0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:10.600 Yeah, he's fine, but yeah, it's just I it is 0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:12.719 another kid to me, Like I care about it so 0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:16.040 much and just like being there, there's nothing, there's not 0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:18.680 a better feeling than when someone comes in and sees 0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:22.200 me like washing dishes or whatever. 0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.960 I need literally unplugged, unclogging toilets. 0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.720 Unclogging toilets, but most of the time that's very rare. Yeah, 0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:32.160 thank god. Yes, but obviously washing dishes, making drinks, making food, 0:36:32.200 --> 0:36:35.520 doing whatever I need to do. And it's always nice 0:36:35.520 --> 0:36:37.239 when someone who's a fan of the show comes in. 0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:39.319 They're like, I can't believe you actually work. 0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:43.799 If there's any fans listening, you're in Rhode Island, go 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:48.360 to Audrey's. Yeah, stop by and order a nice piping 0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:50.920 hot cup of generous coffee compliments of Bin. 0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:53.719 Yeah, that coffee is so expensive. 0:36:56.239 --> 0:36:59.960 It goes to a good cause, Yes, nonprofit, which is great. 0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:03.120 I wanted to thank you for coming on. But before 0:37:03.120 --> 0:37:05.640 we go, there is something that seems to be happening 0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:07.400 every time I have someone from the show on. It 0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:09.480 may not it may not be the case with you too, 0:37:10.080 --> 0:37:12.879 But I just had bread Walmeck on it happened, and 0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:15.360 I had Jason Tartick on and it happened. I'm like, Okay, 0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:17.120 I'm just gonna make this a thing when I have 0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:20.640 Bacheler's and Bacheorettes on. What is the one thing you 0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:23.279 wanted to ask me? What's that question? You're like, I 0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:29.120 want to know the truth about this. Is there anything 0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:30.880 that's a good question? 0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:35.399 Because we've become so much more comfortable with you over 0:37:35.440 --> 0:37:36.600 the past few years. 0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:40.439 Say we're intimidated as we're on the show, I would 0:37:40.480 --> 0:37:42.520 be so scared. I was so scared to talk to. 0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:45.120 You, which is so funny because I really tried so 0:37:45.360 --> 0:37:49.000 hard to ingratiate myself to the cast and to get 0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:51.160 to know most of it, but not everybody. But like 0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:52.359 I try, you You're so. 0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:55.480 Nice and like so social around us and like open 0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:58.000 and welcoming. But I was still like that as a 0:37:58.080 --> 0:37:59.600 celebrity in the room, like I can't. 0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:02.120 Oh yeah, yeah. I remember one night at Paradise, we 0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:04.040 were waiting for something like Rosa mourn or whatever, and 0:38:04.080 --> 0:38:05.879 we were just talking sports, and I remember you said 0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:08.160 something like you were busting my balls, and I was like, dude, 0:38:08.239 --> 0:38:10.359 Chris Harrison's bust my balls? Do I bust his balls back? 0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:13.280 Are you gonna get offended if I say something. 0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:15.239 We're probably talking about the Patriots. 0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:18.880 Oh, you were talking about the Cowboys. It's gonna make 0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:20.120 like a Cowboys. 0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:21.320 It's easy to make fun. 0:38:21.160 --> 0:38:23.160 Of Quincy Carter joke or something. 0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:25.480 You could just make a Dak Prescott joke. 0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:29.640 Yeah, I know, man, what something I've always wanted to 0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:32.960 ask you. So, how about this at Rose ceremonies, Right, 0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:37.440 you show up at like, I don't know, two in 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:39.560 the morning sometimes like that's the first time, like we 0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:41.680 see you when you intro and then you come back 0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:43.480 at two in the morning. What do you do in between? 0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:44.160 Do you sleep? 0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.240 I used to so back in the day, I would 0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:50.200 stay up, you know, because I was young and you know, 0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:52.799 vibrant and could do that. It would be nothing. I'd 0:38:52.840 --> 0:38:55.680 get there like probably run ten thirty or eleven or whatever, 0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:57.479 have dinner, and I'd sit in the control room because 0:38:57.480 --> 0:38:59.680 I needed to listen to what was going on and 0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:02.279 see the storylines that were being pushed and to talk, 0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:04.239 you know with the producers and all that. So I'd 0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:06.520 come hang and then you know we would do uh 0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:10.640 tink tank and then you know, break for Rose ceremony. 0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:14.239 Then it got to the point where you know, I 0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:18.080 had so Chris Sole season still they was probably still 0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:20.320 I was sleeping in the closet, you know, and the 0:39:20.480 --> 0:39:24.239 so in the Bachler in the bachelor mansion, in the 0:39:24.320 --> 0:39:27.960 master bedroom and master bathroom, there's that walk in closet 0:39:28.440 --> 0:39:31.320 and that's where Carrie Fetman, my stylist and the stylist 0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:33.400 for the show. We would keep all the clothes, and 0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:36.600 so they that's the one place in the house there 0:39:36.640 --> 0:39:38.960 was no cameras, no lights, no nothing. We would go 0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:41.280 in there and that's I would make a makeshift little 0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:44.520 bed and we would just sit in there and I 0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:46.840 would lay down and go to sleep in the closet. 0:39:47.719 --> 0:39:50.160 If we walked into the closet and just like Chris 0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:53.640 Harrison's sleeping dur a cocktail party, amaze. 0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:56.239 And then they got me finally because it wasn't because 0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:58.960 they were nice, because lord knows that's not the case. 0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:02.360 But they got me at trailer and down by production 0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:05.680 and I would come in, make sure I knew what 0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:08.680 was going on, get dressed, and you know, sometimes you 0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:10.680 stay awake through tink tink, but there was it just 0:40:10.719 --> 0:40:13.000 went so long. I would go to sleep and then 0:40:13.040 --> 0:40:15.960 Paullie would come wake me up. Big Polly if you 0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:18.440 guys don't remember who Polly was, the guy who the 0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:21.360 big guy that usually would either kick people out, not 0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:23.520 you guys, but people listening, would you know, come get 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:26.879 the suitcases. And that was Polly. And so he would 0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:29.120 come wake me up and they drag me back up 0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:31.440 for the road ceremony at four, five, six in the morning. 0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:34.719 And you know, because I did, I didn't have the 0:40:34.880 --> 0:40:39.400 union issues. So what would happen is if your camera, audio, whatever, 0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:42.120 you would shoot all night. You shoot your eight hours, 0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:44.440 ten hours, whatever it was. We always went into overtime. 0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:46.880 But then that crew would go home at six or 0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:50.600 seven in the morning, Me and Gina and Carrie make 0:40:50.680 --> 0:40:53.840 up wardrobe and myself. We would then turn around and 0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:56.560 have to do the date card like two hours. You know, 0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:59.439 as y'all remember, we'd get to bed at six thirty 0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:01.200 seven in the morning, and then at nine o'clock in 0:41:01.239 --> 0:41:02.560 the morning we had to do a date card to 0:41:02.560 --> 0:41:04.799 set up the dates for that day. And so I 0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:07.000 was the only one that had to turn around and 0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.839 do that because all the rest of the crews would 0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:12.279 change over. And so I would go home for like 0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.600 an hour. Sometimes it was really depressing. I'd come home 0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:18.840 and the kids would be leaving for school, and I 0:41:18.840 --> 0:41:20.839 would like hug the kids. I would go lay down 0:41:20.840 --> 0:41:23.279 in bed for an hour, shower, shave, and go back 0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:24.120 up to the mansion. 0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:27.200 It was really wild, and then could you sleep after that? 0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:29.520 And then I would sleep that afternoon. Usually I wasn't 0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:31.200 on that date. I'd make sure I wasn't on that 0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:33.719 date that day, so I would sleep that day so 0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:35.239 I had to pick the kids up from school at 0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:37.400 like two thirty. But you're just a zombie. 0:41:37.600 --> 0:41:37.759 Now. 0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:38.440 I have a question. 0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:40.440 Yeah, what is tink tink? 0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:41.239 Oh? 0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:43.000 That's where I would come in. And that's what we 0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:46.359 called the tink tink, like the call the tink tink. 0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:48.800 Sorry to break this up, but it's time for the 0:41:48.840 --> 0:41:49.560 roads ceremony. 0:41:51.680 --> 0:41:52.439 I have one more question. 0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:54.239 There's even a little glass. We would set it on 0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:57.000 the washer and dryer, and you know Pollie would fill 0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.640 it up because you know, Polly was the floor director 0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:02.000 and he's in charge of everything going on on the floor, 0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:03.920 so he would like, have my little butter knife, and 0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:06.880 then it would say, do not touch tink tink. 0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:13.480 It was I they I know. I don't even know 0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:16.120 if you can answer this. If you if they ever 0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:18.239 asked you to be a part of the franchise again 0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:20.279 in any capacity, would you be open to it. 0:42:22.080 --> 0:42:24.200 I would never say never, you know, I like my 0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.279 mom taught me well enough to say never say never. 0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:29.319 I can't see a world in which I would want that, 0:42:29.480 --> 0:42:31.640 or which in which I would think it would be 0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:34.680 healthy or good for me. We have the project going 0:42:34.719 --> 0:42:37.520 at Merritt Street Media now with Doctor Phil, which is 0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:42.560 going to be awesome, and you know, that ship is sailed. 0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:45.080 In my life, it was so wonderful and I'm so 0:42:45.200 --> 0:42:50.000 grateful for it. It brought me so many blessings. Two of 0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:51.600 them are right here in front of me, like the 0:42:51.680 --> 0:42:53.799 friends I never thought I was going to meet and 0:42:53.840 --> 0:42:55.920 have in my life. So I always look at it 0:42:55.920 --> 0:42:58.120 as a blessing. But I think things happen in your 0:42:58.160 --> 0:43:00.640 life for a reason, but also for a season, and 0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:02.759 that season of my life I think has passed and 0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:07.120 I'm excited for the next one. So but it's not 0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:09.399 because of like any bitterness of like screw those guys 0:43:09.480 --> 0:43:09.800 or whatever. 0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:12.440 What's your relationship with Like with doctor Phil. 0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:15.239 Really bizarrely close now he is. 0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:17.000 He want to know, like what you guys look like 0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:18.160 if you're having a beer at the bar. 0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:20.200 Yeah, he's it's more of an I It's it's more 0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:22.359 of an iced teeth thing. He's a big iced tea guy. 0:43:22.840 --> 0:43:22.960 Uh. 0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:24.759 When you go into his office after his show, he 0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:25.680 always has iced tea. 0:43:26.160 --> 0:43:26.440 Uh. 0:43:26.480 --> 0:43:28.480 He does have a sweet tooth and you know, the 0:43:28.520 --> 0:43:30.360 first one of our first meetings, we sat there and 0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.840 we almost emptied out a box of Girl Scout cookies. 0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:39.239 But he is such a thoughtful, smart human being. And 0:43:39.480 --> 0:43:41.399 he's one of those guys I always say, you run 0:43:41.440 --> 0:43:42.840 into a text and he can, you know, because he 0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:46.400 has that slow drawl. People like that can be easily 0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:49.320 underestimated in life because oh he's he's a redneck, or 0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:52.160 he's I dare you to underestimate someone like that. He 0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:56.680 is unbelievably smart, brilliant, gets the gets the business, which 0:43:56.719 --> 0:43:59.080 is really fun. It's it's been really fun to get 0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:01.640 to know him and become friends with him and Robin 0:44:01.640 --> 0:44:04.480 and the family, and he's really taken Lauren and I 0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:07.040 under his wing and just a sweetheart of a guy. 0:44:08.400 --> 0:44:08.960 That's so great. 0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:10.000 We're so happy for you, guys. 0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:12.000 We're seriously so excited for you. 0:44:12.040 --> 0:44:12.239 Guys. 0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:14.879 Will find your way on. I'm sure we would love 0:44:14.920 --> 0:44:18.680 that you and you said, Dawson and Little Brady, Little 0:44:18.680 --> 0:44:21.040 Brady Tom Tom Yeah. 0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:27.719 Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Karate Kid three 0:44:27.800 --> 0:44:31.920 Ninches John John John John, Yeah, there we go. 0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:32.959 That would make sense. 0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:34.919 You want to mention John Paul Jones to me today 0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:37.399 because his name is John Paul. Yeah, John Paul Jones 0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:39.480 is my favorite because my name is John Paul. I 0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:41.040 was like, cool, bro, that's a throwback. 0:44:41.800 --> 0:44:45.480 Christopher, Chris, Chris. Maybe you know Harrison. Those are good 0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:49.240 middle names, those are strong, those are strong presidential names. 0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:51.239 Yeah, Harrison is a very. 0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:53.120 Yeah. 0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.880 I know you guys have to go, but I just 0:44:56.920 --> 0:45:00.000 wanted to say thank you for the support the Friends show. 0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.000 You guys have always been so wonderful. Lauren and I 0:45:02.040 --> 0:45:05.000 love you guys to death, and if we don't talk 0:45:05.040 --> 0:45:07.120 for some reason between now and two months from now, 0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:09.080 I wish you guys all the blessings in the world. 0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.240 On a healthy, beautiful baby boy. 0:45:12.080 --> 0:45:13.839 Oh, thank you, thank you. 0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.399 Our ten year anniversary coming up. 0:45:16.320 --> 0:45:18.720 Ash, I can't wait to see the diamond. 0:45:20.160 --> 0:45:23.560 Bye, guys, thanks for listening. 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