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Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison coming to you from the home office in Austin,

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Speaker 1: Texas today. I am so excited for this particular episode

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Speaker 1: of the most dramatic podcast ever. Two very good friends

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Speaker 1: are coming on the show, Ashley Ikenetti and Jared Habn.

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Speaker 1: Obviously they are married, but we got to know them

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Speaker 1: first of all separately because ash was on Chris Soul's

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Speaker 1: season of The Bachelor, and then Jared was on the

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Speaker 1: next season of The Batcherette with Caitlin and Britt it

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Speaker 1: turned out to be Caitlin Bristow season. And then they

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Speaker 1: went on a couple of seasons of Paradise where we

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Speaker 1: fell in love with these two as they attempted to

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Speaker 1: fall in love, although it seemed like love was going

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Speaker 1: to elude them, especially Ashley I who was more known

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Speaker 1: for tears, more known for being in love with Jared,

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Speaker 1: but Jared was never going to reciprocate that. It just

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Speaker 1: seemed like this romantic comedy that was never going to

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Speaker 1: have that happy end, and yet it did, and it has.

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Speaker 1: They are married, they have a beautiful baby boy, Dawson.

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Speaker 1: They are expecting their second child in July, which is

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Speaker 1: unbelievably exciting. They're now living their lives, hosting podcasts and

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Speaker 1: running the coffee shop and lounge Audrey's up there in

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Speaker 1: Rhode Island, so a lot to catch up to today

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Speaker 1: with Ashley I and Jared. Ashley, Jared, good to see

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Speaker 1: you guys. And Ashley, you look beautiful. You're glowing, so

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Speaker 1: let's just get that out of the way. But Jared,

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Speaker 1: I caught a glimpse and you've lost some weight. You're

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Speaker 1: looking swelt, you're looking fit. Are you just trying to

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Speaker 1: piss your wife off?

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Speaker 2: Obviously it's annoying that I lose weight when she gains

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Speaker 2: it during pregnancy, even though it's not your fault. You're

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Speaker 2: growing another human being. If I put weight on, it's

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Speaker 2: nobody's fault of my own. You can blame number two

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Speaker 2: on this one.

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Speaker 1: There's the sympathy weight. Usually, usually that's what dads do,

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Speaker 1: is they go sympathy weight. It's like an extin to

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Speaker 1: eat you would. So when she was pregnant with Awesome,

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Speaker 1: you gain weight?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah for how Nick even said like, hey dude, yeah,

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Speaker 3: of course I.

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Speaker 2: I won't freaking Nick. So we go to see him

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Speaker 2: in La and this was right after Dawson was born

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Speaker 2: or whatever she was pregnant. And then Nick like literally

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Speaker 2: the third thing he says to me, he's like, huh

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Speaker 2: pull the wait on. Huh. I was like, dude, I

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Speaker 2: good to see you too. Go straight to hell. And

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Speaker 2: then he's like smiling and he's like no, no, no, you

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Speaker 2: look good. You look good, and it's Nick Way, I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 2: get out of my face. Why am I here? Why

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Speaker 2: am I here?

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Speaker 3: Tanner's like, welcome to the Zadbod life.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: So honestly it was comments like that. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I gotta get out of here. I got I gotta

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Speaker 2: get it.

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Speaker 1: How much of zempic are you taking? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: No zempic?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: So I downloaded like four months ago, I was, you know,

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Speaker 2: going to the gym, and it's just like, tired of

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Speaker 2: just doing the same old thing, was to do something.

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Speaker 2: So then I signed up for a half marathon because

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Speaker 2: I was like, all right, I'm going to train for something.

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Speaker 2: I want to train for something, okay, And then I

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Speaker 2: decided I didn't like running, and so then I downloaded

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Speaker 2: this app called Fitbod, and I really I freaking love

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Speaker 2: this thing. Because it just gives me different routines. And

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Speaker 2: also it brings out the competitive side because it gives

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Speaker 2: you goals to hit, and if you don't hit those goals,

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Speaker 3: This sounds like an ad but it's not.

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Speaker 1: That's why Lauren loves orange theory because it's competitive. She

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Speaker 1: says she's not competitive, but she is. It's a total lie.

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Speaker 1: Don't ever let Lauren's ema get away with saying she's

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Speaker 1: not competitive. By the way, you guys, you do. You

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Speaker 1: both look great and congratulations. Baby number two is imminent.

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Speaker 1: Where where are we in the grand scale of things?

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Speaker 1: What's our due date?

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Speaker 2: So he's cooking at three seventy five right now, said

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Speaker 2: about thirty five minutes, So we're about twenty seven minutes

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Speaker 2: in now.

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Speaker 3: I guess I think it's like exactly two months away

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Speaker 3: right now, Like if you were to look at the date, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's like I would.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to have an early or of July. Baby,

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Speaker 1: Is that right?

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Speaker 3: It's late. It's a late late mid July.

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Speaker 1: Maybe like around July twenty sixth?

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Speaker 2: Is that is that somebody's birthday?

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Speaker 1: That's that's my birthday?

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Speaker 3: And then uh, everybody wants me to have a baby

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Speaker 3: on their birthday.

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Speaker 1: But also, you know Trista had her first baby on

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Speaker 1: my birthday.

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Speaker 3: Well that is too saw.

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Speaker 1: Wild is that the first Bachelor baby was born on

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Speaker 1: my birth It was really wild. So baby Brady we're

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Speaker 1: calling it.

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Speaker 3: That's already Dawson's middle name.

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Speaker 1: But we can do baby Brady, Dawson Brady. Do we

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Speaker 1: know it's a boy. Yeah, obviously Dawson. Dawson came from Titanic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for not thinking it's from Dawson's Creed.

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Speaker 1: No, no, but by the way, nothing's not by the way,

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with James Vanderbeek also living in Austin right now.

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Speaker 1: Great guy.

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Speaker 3: Oh he seems super cool. I love following him.

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Speaker 1: He has forty seven kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I went to a soccer game recently and he was

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Speaker 1: there and we were in the same suite and he

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Speaker 1: and his wife his kids, by the way, are lovely,

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Speaker 1: but there it's like a circus. But he's in town.

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Speaker 1: I just saw him, his daughter actually saying at this

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Speaker 1: event we were at Okay, not from Dawson's Creek. It

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Speaker 1: was from obviously Titanic, one of the greatest movies that

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Speaker 1: Ashley thinks she ever saw and baby number two is

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Speaker 1: also going to be a boy Do we have a

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Speaker 3: We think we do? Okay, Yeah, we think so, but

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Speaker 3: we're not saying is it okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? But is it derived from sports? Or is it

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Speaker 1: derived from a movie? Or is it derived from a

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Speaker 1: boy band? Just give us that much.

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Speaker 3: Nothing for the first name, but the middle name will

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Speaker 3: have an ode to pop culture of course.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's a family name. It's the first name

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Speaker 2: is a family name. Ashley loves this name. It took

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's no, but it's bizarre. The naming thing

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Speaker 1: was interesting when I went through it twice. The pressure

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Speaker 1: of that, Yeah that's what you think? Okay, what going

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: Like, what are the different iterations of this name that

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Speaker 1: will turn into what?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: It's funny the pressure. Did y'all think about that?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I've thought about like what name would get

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Speaker 2: my kids ass kicked?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like I don't want to name it that right, you know?

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Speaker 2: Like what what name was bullied when I was a kid,

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Speaker 2: the poor thing, because it's you don't think about that,

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, all right, I want to name my

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Speaker 2: but kids are cruel. I also don't want to be

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Speaker 2: made fun of for the first twelve years of his life.

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Speaker 3: I think our generation is naming their kids weird things,

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Speaker 3: so it's like not even the thing anymore to make

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Speaker 1: Like, We're not going to get on The Bachelor in

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Speaker 1: like thirty years and it won't be like you know,

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Speaker 1: the Lorens we went through, you know, the nine different Laurens,

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Speaker 1: Lauren M, Lauren L, Lauren Z. So what will that

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Speaker 1: shows when the Chiron pops up Dawson's two Did he

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Speaker 1: just turned two? Right?

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Speaker 3: He turned to in January?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Wow, so he's walking talking. I've seen and heard

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Speaker 1: his singing and dancing routine. The guy is killing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know. Well, I think he has rhythm

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Speaker 3: from Jared. Jared's really good at choreography. Jared's club dancing

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Speaker 3: skills will make meke Frinch as every girl will cringe

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Speaker 3: at her husband club.

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Speaker 2: Then I don't think I have good choreography, but Ashley's

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Speaker 2: just so bad that any rhythm that this kid has

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Speaker 2: he definitely got for me absolutely did not get it back.

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Speaker 2: A possible boy band future, one can only hope, honestly

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Speaker 2: up Like, dude, if he I mean, I just want

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Speaker 2: obviously I want him to love sports. I won't force

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Speaker 2: my dad and I bonded. Yeah, And I like, he'll

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Speaker 2: appreciate this. So I was going through like an accidential

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Speaker 1: Through a mid life crisis right now, dude.

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Speaker 2: I youtubed the end of Field of Dreams while I

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Speaker 1: It, Dad, do you want to have a catch?

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Speaker 2: You want to have a catch, And it was just like,

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Speaker 2: giving him a bath. And then it was funny because

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Speaker 2: on the YouTube algorithm, it obviously gives you suggested next video.

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Speaker 2: And the next video was an interview with Kevin Costner

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Speaker 2: when he was on Conan O'Brien, and it said Kevin

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Speaker 2: Costner asked why grown men cry at the end of

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Speaker 2: field of dreams? While I'm crying at the endfield dreams.

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Speaker 1: That gets me every time, and flashed forward. By the way, God,

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Speaker 1: what would that be eighteen years from now? Well, I

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Speaker 1: And obviously you guys met Joshua back in twenty fifth teens.

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Speaker 1: just graduated. Him finishing his last game, walking off the

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Speaker 1: field and going up to give him a hug. That

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Speaker 1: was that was my field of dreams moment. I cried

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Speaker 1: like a baby. It just gave crushed me. Those last

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Speaker 1: going to tournaments in high school, the last college game.

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Speaker 1: Lauren and I are moving him into his apartment. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you. It will fly by.

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Speaker 3: It flew by for us, for you. I remember when

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Speaker 3: you moved him into his first year of college. It

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Speaker 3: feels like yesterday, right.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I remember you. This was we were in Ireland

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Speaker 2: with Caitlin. Yeah, it might have been Clarney or something

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Speaker 2: like that. But he was there, and then you were

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Speaker 2: You're kicking the soccer ball with him, and then us

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Speaker 2: were like, well, no, we're not. We're not disturbing Chris

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Speaker 2: with his son right now like you were. We're all

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Speaker 1: Well, it was the first time we could all, honestly,

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Speaker 3: Right, Yes, I'm thinking about my season. You definitely got

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Speaker 3: Within Bachelor Nation, we had Caitlyn's engagement, Jade's engagement, Carly's engagement.

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Speaker 1: you did you remember did you vote for Kaitlin or Britt?

440
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,359
Speaker 2: Dude? Vote? I voted for Britta and Caitlyn still to

441
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 2: this day will never let me live it down, which

442
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 2: I can't blame.

443
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,639
Speaker 1: I mean, the fix was in. We were never going

444
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,919
Speaker 1: to let Britt win. The other producers had the fix in,

445
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 1: the scales of justice were not even in that vote,

446
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 1: and Caitlyn became the best. I didn't. So you you

447
00:20:59,240 --> 00:20:59,880
Speaker 1: voted for Britt.

448
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 2: That's funny, Yeah, but I I also it was terrible

449
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 2: because I had this two incredibly good looking women who

450
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 2: were funny, personable, way out of my league, and I'm like, oh,

451
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 2: I have to choose which one I want to date.

452
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: This is the stupidest night of my life.

453
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah. But Britt was so your original type. Yeah, I agree,

454
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 3: And then Caitlin was the type that you became to

455
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 3: you started to like, yeah.

456
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, once you went to your boy band phase. And

457
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: but that season was good because we traveled, Like you said,

458
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 1: we ended up in Ireland. We had different travel planned,

459
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: but things were so good in Ireland. We decided to

460
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 1: stay because we were gonna leave. I think we were

461
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 1: going somewhere in Asia. Maybe I forget where we were deaf.

462
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that your theory? Is that how it happened

463
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 3: in your memory, Chris, because Jared has a different memory.

464
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: Oh, what's the memory?

465
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 2: I got screwed out of a hometown? That's my memory

466
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 2: because I was fourth and we were supposed to go

467
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 2: from From what I'm understanding, we're supposed to go from

468
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 2: Ireland to back to hometowns and then go I don't

469
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 2: know the location, but like somewhere for fantasy suites, yes,

470
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: and then fancy suites. Something happened.

471
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 3: The Nick sex happened.

472
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 2: No, that's the story they gave us.

473
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: No, that's that's true. Though, that's true.

474
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 2: You're telling me that I got screwed out of a

475
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 2: hotel hometown because Nick and Caitlyn had sex.

476
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: Essentially, Yes, that's the Nick just.

477
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: Talking. I was like two months ago.

478
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 2: Oh I thought it was actually know, I don't like

479
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: the sex.

480
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 3: We had to like kind of change up the storyline.

481
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, who told you that? Yeah, No, it's true. Well me,

482
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,199
Speaker 1: Caitlyn didn't have anything to do with it. Well, I

483
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 1: guess she kind of did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was.

484
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 2: I hope she's aware of everything was.

485
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: Going according to plan. And then obviously Nick and Caitlin

486
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: the infamous uh sex in the hotel there in Ireland,

487
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: and then we didn't want it because when we leave

488
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 1: you stop filming, right because you know, we have dark

489
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: days with the with the crew and we had to

490
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: shut down for a day then we all travel and

491
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: so we were just going to let the steam out

492
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,439
Speaker 1: of the balloon there and and it was just going

493
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: to lose the storyline and lose the momentum of what

494
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: was going on, because really what it came down to

495
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: was obviously Sean and Nick and the craziness that was

496
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 1: going on, and we just didn't want to lose that,

497
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: so we kept it going and so we kind of

498
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: just blew up the rest of it and then we

499
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 1: ended up going That's why we went from like Doublin Trellie,

500
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 1: but then we just went up north to locker Urn

501
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: up in northern Ireland to that resort, which is a

502
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: good golf course as well, by the way, which is

503
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: really what I cared.

504
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 2: About obviously the most important.

505
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's that's what happened. Your season was blown

506
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: up because of that.

507
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 3: I can't imagine. I would actually love to see Caitlin

508
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 3: and meet your family Warwick, Rhode Island. That would be hilarious.

509
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 3: But I'm just glad you didn't go to Fantasy.

510
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: And then so both and then Ash came on Winter Games,

511
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: which was an absolute blast. I had the I had

512
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: the best. So it was funny because Bachelor Winter Games

513
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: is something it was an experiment we tried because the

514
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: Winter Olympics were going on and they obviously they weren't

515
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: on ABC, and ABC's like we got to counter program

516
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: something against the Olympics because no one's going to watch

517
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 1: ABC and no one cares, so just we just just

518
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: create something. So we were like, oh, we'll go to

519
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: Vermont and we'll shoot Bachelor Winter Games, our own Winter Olympics.

520
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: And we were so burnt out. I forget whose season

521
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: we came off, but we just we had just come

522
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: off a bender of a season. We most of us

523
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: didn't even go home. I went home, changed suitcases and

524
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: went to Vermont for like three weeks and lived in

525
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 1: this snowy house and it was so we were all

526
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: a little fried, but it turned out to be really fun.

527
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: Did you remember it as fun ash or was it

528
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: just a disaster for you?

529
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 3: It wasn't It was fun. Yeah. It was definitely like

530
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 3: the easiest of all these.

531
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, the pressure was yeah, it was. I mean, u

532
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: key was there for.

533
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 3: Jared feels awkward? I love thee an Okay, yeah, no,

534
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 3: it was definitely easy breezy.

535
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: And then we went to Winter Games and then we

536
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: went to Paradise twice.

537
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 3: Right, well, yeah, we went to Paradise twice before Winter Games, before.

538
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 1: The cap Okay, so that was so we went. Yeah,

539
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: Winter Games was like fifteen sixteen, and then.

540
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: It was Winter Games was seventeen.

541
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: Fifteen sixteen, and then yeah, yeah win Winter Games.

542
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, like the end of sixteen seventeen.

543
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

544
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you and I got together in the winter of eighteen.

545
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 2: And then I went to Bachelor in Paradise, Australia. Yeah,

546
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 2: which was stupid. I made it, okay.

547
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 3: You also was easy breezy.

548
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: I don't remember you doing that. You went to Bachelor

549
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: of Paradise Australia.

550
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 2: Because I was on the phone with I won't say

551
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 2: producers names, but I was on the phone with the

552
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 2: producer who was inquiring about Winter Games, and then they

553
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: were like, hey, listen, you're not gonna be on Winter Games.

554
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 3: We have to choose Ashley over it.

555
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 2: Obviously, it was probably like they were like, we don't

556
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 2: want Ashley Jared to be on the same season again, and.

557
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: Then America can't take this.

558
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:01,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like, guys, we're bored. So then they

559
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: were like, would you want to do Bachelor in paradish Australia.

560
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: They're doing Americans and Grant was down there and Daniel

561
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: McGuire the Canadian. Yeah, And so I was like, yeah,

562
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 2: I'll do it. And then I made it through five

563
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 2: Row ceremonies didn't kiss anybody while I was there.

564
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 3: They didn't kiss anyone. It was also came home befoorrid

565
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 3: that back to me and I was like, cool, well,

566
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 3: I'm leaving in two days for my show. I'll probably

567
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 3: kiss someone. And it all worked out well for you.

568
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: It's so funny man, that. Yeah. Anyway, different life is it?

569
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it really is. When you guys think about it.

570
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: Now you're about to be a parent of two, and

571
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: when you think of all the the hijinks and shenanigans

572
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: and the craziness that went on it, it's it's got

573
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: to kind of blow you away and in a good way, though.

574
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, totally. It's so crazy when people come up

575
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 3: to us still and they're like, I'm so glad it

576
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 3: happened for you, and I'm like, we have been together

577
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 3: twice as long now as we were ever not together.

578
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

579
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the show kind of got I mean, people

580
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: got to know you guys so well, or at least

581
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: they feel like they did obviously going through these journeys

582
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: with you. I'm sure that you still get if there's

583
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: a couple like even like you run into Shawn and

584
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: Catherine or Ryan and Trista, easy to root for, easy

585
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,199
Speaker 1: to like. But I don't know if anybody went on

586
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: a journey like we went on with the two of you,

587
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: like together, are they not? Are they together? We want

588
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: them together? So it really was this rom com between

589
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: the two of you, unlike any of our other seasons

590
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: and couples.

591
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, my dream come true.

592
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: Rom com like Jayde and Tanner are boring is like

593
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: come on, we Yeah, they went off and had their

594
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: own show and like just they came back. It was

595
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 1: like the couple that like showed up day one of

596
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: school and then you didn't see him again. They showed

597
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: up a graduation. We're like, have y' all been here

598
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: the whole time?

599
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? With three kids at graduation?

600
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh wow yeah nice and don't happy quick?

601
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 2: No getting flying.

602
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: Through that, y'all. S y'all are living in Rhode Island,

603
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 1: right know?

604
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Ashley hates it.

605
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 3: I do.

606
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: Well.

607
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 3: Her biggest argument will know how to settle it, to

608
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: be honest, I.

609
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 2: Will figure it out. Yeah. She wants to be home

610
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: closer to fam, which makes sense. I love Rhode Island,

611
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: So just kind of figuring it out right now.

612
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: Like, well, you're you're having babies in Virginia. Is that

613
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: like a home turf thing?

614
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 3: I know. Well, so my dad's a doctor. My dad's annologist,

615
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 3: So I like to be at the hospital in which

616
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 3: my dad is ancycologist.

617
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

618
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: I like it.

619
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: I like home field advantage.

620
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 3: Field advantages the exact way of putting it, like, you

621
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: could not have it, couldn't have a better.

622
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, the hospital. Everybody knows who she is, not only

623
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: because like a little princess, Yeah, because of her dad

624
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 2: and she's very much taken care of and Fairfax is

625
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: such an incredible hospital. It's just a no brain.

626
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: Also, not sponsoring the show.

627
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 2: If they want to.

628
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So of all the things you guys fight about,

629
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: you do fight about where you're going to live. That's

630
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: a big thing.

631
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's a big thing.

632
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: We don't like fight about it. Like it's not like

633
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: an we don't fight about it, but like it's like

634
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: a constant like always there. Where will you know if

635
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 3: you talk about the future and you're like, oh, is

636
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 3: that where we will be in the future, will he

637
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 3: be playing softball on this field?

638
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? When I like, that's funny you think Dawson's going

639
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: to play baseball there because he'd been playing baseball about oh,

640
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: at least a thousand miles away.

641
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 3: It's not a thousand.

642
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I just I find it interesting because

643
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: that's something that couples like Lauren and I went through

644
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: it and when we started dating, and I said, Hey,

645
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: this train is going to end up in Texas, so

646
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: don't get on. Don't get on this train at all

647
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: if you don't want to go on this trip with me.

648
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: Because I'm I knew I was going to boomerang back.

649
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: I was already even towards the end of the Batchel

650
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: I was already looking at homes here in Austin, I

651
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: knew I wanted to move back here between here in Dallas,

652
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: and when Lauren and I really fell in love and decided,

653
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: you know, to do life together, I was like, look,

654
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: you know we're going to work. I'm taking off to Austin.

655
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: Let's do this. And we chose Austin because neither one

656
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: of us have ever lived here. We could build a

657
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: life together and do it together and do something kind

658
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: of different. Like I grew up in Dallas, he was

659
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,719
Speaker 1: in Chicago. Let's do something where we are kind of

660
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: on neutral ground and we can kind of build it together.

661
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: Have y'all, where would that be for you? Guys? Where's

662
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: the dream for you?

663
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 3: Maybe?

664
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 2: Cranston?

665
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 3: I think like just for me, I would just want

666
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 3: to be back in Virginia, which is like something I

667
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: never expected myself wanting until we had a kid. I

668
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 3: always was the girl that was like, I'm happy to

669
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 3: move back to Rorde Island. I don't care I'm anywhere.

670
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be happy. I love the ocean. I love Newport.

671
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 3: I do love the ocean. Yeah, I do love Newport.

672
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 3: But it's like that's not going to suffice when it's

673
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 3: just so nice to like sit around just with Dawson

674
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: in like a playroom with my mom and my sister.

675
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, it's definitely like the I think the

676
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 2: biggest I don't want to say issue, but it's more

677
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: it's just like there, it's always there because I can

678
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 2: see it. You know that she's very clearly much happier

679
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: anytime she's in Virginia. And not that you're sad here,

680
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: but you're just you're always with your mom, You're always

681
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: with your sister. Yeah, you know that's where you want

682
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: to be, which totally makes sense, you love because then

683
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 2: when you're there with Dawson, it's like Dawson is not

684
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: just hanging out with you, Yeah, it's like a he's

685
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 2: hanging out with three or four people at once. So

686
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: and then I'm like, you, Chris, when we first got together,

687
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: this this train is going to Rhode Island. And then

688
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: she was totally fine with that and there's no issues.

689
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: But obviously, you.

690
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: Know, things have changed, kids changed that you can change that.

691
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: You know, So, I mean, we'll figure it out. I'm

692
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 2: not concerned about it. It's not like she's.

693
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 3: I'm not like every day I'm like, I can't believe

694
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: I'm here. I'm so sad. You know, it's just like

695
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: it's kind of more.

696
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 2: Of like a and it's not la a place across

697
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: the country, you know, yeah, literally an hour flight.

698
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like y'all are about to have two places.

699
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 3: I say that I would like to have, you know,

700
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 3: I said, And in the dream world, we'd have like

701
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: the beach house here.

702
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, I mean it's place place.

703
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, and you can like AIRBNBA or college students

704
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 3: live in the beach town and.

705
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, the Escape Patch just really need to figure

706
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: out a way to get more free flights. That's what's

707
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: I can just buy.

708
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 3: I am such a huge Southwest pand here's another shout

709
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 3: out or something I'm not paid for. But their companion

710
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 3: pass is the most brilliant.

711
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: So you guys will determine this later. But this is crazy,

712
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: But Jared, I didn't know you owned a lounge in

713
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: coffee shop.

714
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: Yeah you didn't know.

715
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I didn't know. I didn't know.

716
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: I had no.

717
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't know.

718
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: Well, you're not supposed to know. It's like it's not

719
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 2: that's not true.

720
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: I think I should know. That's that's information I should know,

721
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: I felt really bad.

722
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 3: We should definitely have shared that.

723
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably because Ben Higgins is too busy talking

724
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: about his crappy coffee all the time.

725
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: I know it's very good coffee.

726
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm just kidding. Shout out to Ben Higgins and

727
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: his coffee company.

728
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was funny. When I first opened, Ben reached

729
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 2: out was like, you know, would you want to carry

730
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: generous and I was going to reach out anyway. I think,

731
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 2: you know, it's a perfect fit. So yeah, we opened

732
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: Audrey's Coffee House in Lounge. It's in South Kingston, Rhode Island,

733
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 2: in December of twenty twenty one. Audrey is her mom,

734
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: So you know, I wanted to name it a family name,

735
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: something meaningful to us because it was a family business.

736
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: I love the name Audrey reminds me of Audrey's half Burnt,

737
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 2: Audrey Halfburn, and so I just always felt like, oh,

738
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: let's get a coffee at Audrey's. It's gotta drink at Audrey's.

739
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 2: It felt right. And so it actually used to be

740
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: a different coffee shop that I went to when I

741
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 2: was in college, and so I was very familiar with

742
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 2: the area and just working restaurants all my life. I

743
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: always wanted to own and operate my own place and

744
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 2: felt like I could. It's obviously so stressful, the margins

745
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 2: are so small, but I love I do love owning

746
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: the place. Like as much as I bitch about it

747
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 2: and complain and it tires me out and it takes

748
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 2: up so much of my time and effort. There is

749
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 2: this feeling of pride that I get from from being

750
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: there and being in the midst of the chaos with

751
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: you know, other employees that work there, and you know,

752
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: they're an attachment of my family now, and it's it's nice.

753
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 2: There's something to be said about the camaradity that a

754
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 2: brick and mortar business brings, especially a small one.

755
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: It's something that's lost today, isn't it. I Mean, there's

756
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: so many businesses and things that just are generated and

757
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,720
Speaker 1: you're not really getting your you know, your hands dirty,

758
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: so to speak. And yeah, I think this generation and

759
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: I feel bad that they will miss out on that

760
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: brick and mortar experience of what it's like to go

761
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: to a building and to have to keep it clean

762
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 1: and to work on it and to stock it and

763
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: to grind there and it becomes this place that means

764
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: a lot to you.

765
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 2: Oh, one hundred percent. It means so much to me

766
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: because Ashley and I another you know point.

767
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 3: Of these are the two points of contention that.

768
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: You have Pien on is how much time it takes

769
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 2: me there.

770
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 3: But he likes it, like he doesn't really want to

771
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 3: change that.

772
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: It's a passion.

773
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 2: It is a passion. And because so many times I've

774
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 2: told her I will change, I will change, I will change,

775
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 2: and I've I've tried, and I've definitely gotten so much better.

776
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: You know, the first six months, you couldn't get worse.

777
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: He was there for like we counted one hundred hours

778
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 3: one week, but it was when we didn't have.

779
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 2: A kid, and we did have a kid. Oh, Dawson

780
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 2: was born in January, a month after reopened.

781
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it was like a he's watch TV all

782
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: day with him.

783
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: He's a throw rug at that point.

784
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's fine, but yeah, it's just I it is

785
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 2: another kid to me, Like I care about it so

786
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: much and just like being there, there's nothing, there's not

787
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: a better feeling than when someone comes in and sees

788
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 2: me like washing dishes or whatever.

789
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 3: I need literally unplugged, unclogging toilets.

790
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 2: Unclogging toilets, but most of the time that's very rare. Yeah,

791
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 2: thank god. Yes, but obviously washing dishes, making drinks, making food,

792
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: doing whatever I need to do. And it's always nice

793
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 2: when someone who's a fan of the show comes in.

794
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: They're like, I can't believe you actually work.

795
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: If there's any fans listening, you're in Rhode Island, go

796
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: to Audrey's. Yeah, stop by and order a nice piping

797
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: hot cup of generous coffee compliments of Bin.

798
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, that coffee is so expensive.

799
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: It goes to a good cause, Yes, nonprofit, which is great.

800
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to thank you for coming on. But before

801
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: we go, there is something that seems to be happening

802
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 1: every time I have someone from the show on. It

803
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: may not it may not be the case with you too,

804
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 1: But I just had bread Walmeck on it happened, and

805
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: I had Jason Tartick on and it happened. I'm like, Okay,

806
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna make this a thing when I have

807
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: Bacheler's and Bacheorettes on. What is the one thing you

808
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: wanted to ask me? What's that question? You're like, I

809
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: want to know the truth about this. Is there anything

810
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: that's a good question?

811
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 2: Because we've become so much more comfortable with you over

812
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: the past few years.

813
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,439
Speaker 3: Say we're intimidated as we're on the show, I would

814
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: be so scared. I was so scared to talk to.

815
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: You, which is so funny because I really tried so

816
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: hard to ingratiate myself to the cast and to get

817
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: to know most of it, but not everybody. But like

818
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: I try, you You're so.

819
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: Nice and like so social around us and like open

820
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: and welcoming. But I was still like that as a

821
00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 3: celebrity in the room, like I can't.

822
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah. I remember one night at Paradise, we

823
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: were waiting for something like Rosa mourn or whatever, and

824
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 2: we were just talking sports, and I remember you said

825
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 2: something like you were busting my balls, and I was like, dude,

826
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 2: Chris Harrison's bust my balls? Do I bust his balls back?

827
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: Are you gonna get offended if I say something.

828
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: We're probably talking about the Patriots.

829
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 2: Oh, you were talking about the Cowboys. It's gonna make

830
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: like a Cowboys.

831
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 1: It's easy to make fun.

832
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: Of Quincy Carter joke or something.

833
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: You could just make a Dak Prescott joke.

834
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, man, what something I've always wanted to

835
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: ask you. So, how about this at Rose ceremonies, Right,

836
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: you show up at like, I don't know, two in

837
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: the morning sometimes like that's the first time, like we

838
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: see you when you intro and then you come back

839
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 2: at two in the morning. What do you do in between?

840
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: Do you sleep?

841
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 1: I used to so back in the day, I would

842
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: stay up, you know, because I was young and you know,

843
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: vibrant and could do that. It would be nothing. I'd

844
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: get there like probably run ten thirty or eleven or whatever,

845
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:57,479
Speaker 1: have dinner, and I'd sit in the control room because

846
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: I needed to listen to what was going on and

847
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: see the storylines that were being pushed and to talk,

848
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: you know with the producers and all that. So I'd

849
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: come hang and then you know we would do uh

850
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: tink tank and then you know, break for Rose ceremony.

851
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: Then it got to the point where you know, I

852
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: had so Chris Sole season still they was probably still

853
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: I was sleeping in the closet, you know, and the

854
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: so in the Bachler in the bachelor mansion, in the

855
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: master bedroom and master bathroom, there's that walk in closet

856
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: and that's where Carrie Fetman, my stylist and the stylist

857
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: for the show. We would keep all the clothes, and

858
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: so they that's the one place in the house there

859
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: was no cameras, no lights, no nothing. We would go

860
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 1: in there and that's I would make a makeshift little

861
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: bed and we would just sit in there and I

862
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: would lay down and go to sleep in the closet.

863
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 3: If we walked into the closet and just like Chris

864
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 3: Harrison's sleeping dur a cocktail party, amaze.

865
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 1: And then they got me finally because it wasn't because

866
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: they were nice, because lord knows that's not the case.

867
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: But they got me at trailer and down by production

868
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: and I would come in, make sure I knew what

869
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: was going on, get dressed, and you know, sometimes you

870
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: stay awake through tink tink, but there was it just

871
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: went so long. I would go to sleep and then

872
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: Paullie would come wake me up. Big Polly if you

873
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: guys don't remember who Polly was, the guy who the

874
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: big guy that usually would either kick people out, not

875
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: you guys, but people listening, would you know, come get

876
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Speaker 1: the suitcases. And that was Polly. And so he would

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Speaker 1: come wake me up and they drag me back up

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Speaker 1: for the road ceremony at four, five, six in the morning.

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Speaker 1: And you know, because I did, I didn't have the

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Speaker 1: union issues. So what would happen is if your camera, audio, whatever,

881
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Speaker 1: you would shoot all night. You shoot your eight hours,

882
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Speaker 1: ten hours, whatever it was. We always went into overtime.

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Speaker 1: But then that crew would go home at six or

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Speaker 1: seven in the morning, Me and Gina and Carrie make

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Speaker 1: up wardrobe and myself. We would then turn around and

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Speaker 1: have to do the date card like two hours. You know,

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Speaker 1: as y'all remember, we'd get to bed at six thirty

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Speaker 1: seven in the morning, and then at nine o'clock in

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Speaker 1: the morning we had to do a date card to

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00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: set up the dates for that day. And so I

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00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: was the only one that had to turn around and

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00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 1: do that because all the rest of the crews would

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Speaker 1: change over. And so I would go home for like

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00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: an hour. Sometimes it was really depressing. I'd come home

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00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: and the kids would be leaving for school, and I

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00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 1: would like hug the kids. I would go lay down

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Speaker 1: in bed for an hour, shower, shave, and go back

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Speaker 1: up to the mansion.

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Speaker 3: It was really wild, and then could you sleep after that?

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Speaker 1: And then I would sleep that afternoon. Usually I wasn't

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00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: on that date. I'd make sure I wasn't on that

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00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: date that day, so I would sleep that day so

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Speaker 1: I had to pick the kids up from school at

904
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: like two thirty. But you're just a zombie.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I have a question.

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00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is tink tink?

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00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: Oh?

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00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 1: That's where I would come in. And that's what we

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00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: called the tink tink, like the call the tink tink.

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00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: Sorry to break this up, but it's time for the

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Speaker 1: roads ceremony.

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Speaker 2: I have one more question.

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Speaker 1: There's even a little glass. We would set it on

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Speaker 1: the washer and dryer, and you know Pollie would fill

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Speaker 1: it up because you know, Polly was the floor director

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Speaker 1: and he's in charge of everything going on on the floor,

918
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Speaker 1: so he would like, have my little butter knife, and

919
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: then it would say, do not touch tink tink.

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Speaker 2: It was I they I know. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: if you can answer this. If you if they ever

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00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 2: asked you to be a part of the franchise again

923
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 2: in any capacity, would you be open to it.

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00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: I would never say never, you know, I like my

925
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: mom taught me well enough to say never say never.

926
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Speaker 1: I can't see a world in which I would want that,

927
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: or which in which I would think it would be

928
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Speaker 1: healthy or good for me. We have the project going

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Speaker 1: at Merritt Street Media now with Doctor Phil, which is

930
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: going to be awesome, and you know, that ship is sailed.

931
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: In my life, it was so wonderful and I'm so

932
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: grateful for it. It brought me so many blessings. Two of

933
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Speaker 1: them are right here in front of me, like the

934
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Speaker 1: friends I never thought I was going to meet and

935
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Speaker 1: have in my life. So I always look at it

936
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Speaker 1: as a blessing. But I think things happen in your

937
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: life for a reason, but also for a season, and

938
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Speaker 1: that season of my life I think has passed and

939
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Speaker 1: I'm excited for the next one. So but it's not

940
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 1: because of like any bitterness of like screw those guys

941
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: or whatever.

942
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 3: What's your relationship with Like with doctor Phil.

943
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: Really bizarrely close now he is.

944
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 3: He want to know, like what you guys look like

945
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 3: if you're having a beer at the bar.

946
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's it's more of an I It's it's more

947
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Speaker 1: of an iced teeth thing. He's a big iced tea guy.

948
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Speaker 2: Uh.

949
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Speaker 1: When you go into his office after his show, he

950
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: always has iced tea.

951
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: Uh.

952
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: He does have a sweet tooth and you know, the

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00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: first one of our first meetings, we sat there and

954
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Speaker 1: we almost emptied out a box of Girl Scout cookies.

955
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: But he is such a thoughtful, smart human being. And

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Speaker 1: he's one of those guys I always say, you run

957
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: into a text and he can, you know, because he

958
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: has that slow drawl. People like that can be easily

959
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: underestimated in life because oh he's he's a redneck, or

960
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: he's I dare you to underestimate someone like that. He

961
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: is unbelievably smart, brilliant, gets the gets the business, which

962
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: is really fun. It's it's been really fun to get

963
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: to know him and become friends with him and Robin

964
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Speaker 1: and the family, and he's really taken Lauren and I

965
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Speaker 1: under his wing and just a sweetheart of a guy.

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Speaker 3: That's so great.

967
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Speaker 2: We're so happy for you, guys.

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Speaker 3: We're seriously so excited for you.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 1: Will find your way on. I'm sure we would love

971
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Speaker 1: that you and you said, Dawson and Little Brady, Little

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Speaker 1: Brady Tom Tom Yeah.

973
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Speaker 2: Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Tom Karate Kid three

974
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Speaker 2: Ninches John John John John, Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 3: That would make sense.

976
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Speaker 2: You want to mention John Paul Jones to me today

977
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Speaker 2: because his name is John Paul. Yeah, John Paul Jones

978
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Speaker 2: is my favorite because my name is John Paul. I

979
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Speaker 2: was like, cool, bro, that's a throwback.

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Speaker 1: Christopher, Chris, Chris. Maybe you know Harrison. Those are good

981
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Speaker 1: middle names, those are strong, those are strong presidential names.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Harrison is a very.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know you guys have to go, but I just

985
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Speaker 1: wanted to say thank you for the support the Friends show.

986
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Speaker 1: You guys have always been so wonderful. Lauren and I

987
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: love you guys to death, and if we don't talk

988
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Speaker 1: for some reason between now and two months from now,

989
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Speaker 1: I wish you guys all the blessings in the world.

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Speaker 1: On a healthy, beautiful baby boy.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, thank you.

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00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 1: Our ten year anniversary coming up.

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Speaker 3: Ash, I can't wait to see the diamond.

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Speaker 1: Bye, guys, thanks for listening. Follow us on Instagram at

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Speaker 1: the most dramatic pod ever, and make sure to write

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Speaker 1: us a review and leave us five stars. I'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you next time.