Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Tea's in
Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.
Speaker 3: And Dolores Catania.
Speaker 2: Hello everyone, Hello, Hello, we're getting it started. We are
Speaker 2: going to recap Real Housewives of Atlanta. But before we
Speaker 2: do that, we have some fan questions and we also
Speaker 2: have some Housewives headlines. So I did a little Instagram
Speaker 2: poll this morning, and these are the top questions for you, Dolores,
Speaker 2: and I would love you to open, open up and
Speaker 2: answer them as freely and as openly as you can
Speaker 2: consider love authenticity.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, so the first one was.
Speaker 3: You probably already have the answers before you ask me
Speaker 3: if I know you, Teddy, but go ahead, I'm here. Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, let's with a funny one that you wouldn't expect.
Speaker 2: Who would you rather film with Danielle stob or Jackie G.
Speaker 3: Jackie?
Speaker 4: Who's Jackie G Golden?
Speaker 3: Oh Jackie Jackie. Do fucking kill me for not knowing
Speaker 3: that off the bat, Like, oh my god, this is
Speaker 3: so good. Yeah yeah, no, no, Jackie G. I mean
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of my you know what threw me off.
Speaker 3: Kim G. Remember Kim G.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, keep keep digging, keep on digging. Jackie ge okay,
Speaker 2: Jackie G Okay. What is your relationship with Teresa?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: Currently, it's good.
Speaker 3: I spoke to her the other day. We text. She's traveling.
Speaker 3: I was traveling. I actually spoke to her when I
Speaker 3: was in California.
Speaker 2: So speaking and spending time together two different things for me.
Speaker 2: So when was the last time you guys hung out?
Speaker 3: It was a few months ago. When was it? Uh,
Speaker 3: we have a friend group, so it was one of
Speaker 3: the girl's birthdays, So it was two months ago, and
Speaker 3: I'll be seeing her. We're celebrating her birthday. We have
Speaker 3: like this mad group chat with all the girls off
Speaker 3: the show, Like we have a whole group of girls
Speaker 3: we've been friends with for years high school.
Speaker 2: Oh and what is your So what's your astrological sign
Speaker 2: and what's hers?
Speaker 3: I'm a Capricorn and she is her birthday April? April?
Speaker 4: April is what's April? Matt, She's not a Virgo.
Speaker 3: No, No, that's September. That's all like August September. I
Speaker 3: know that because my kids are libras, which is after that.
Speaker 4: Well, I was just curious. Sometimes she gives me a
Speaker 4: little bit of virgo energy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she's a Taurus, which I don't know much about.
Speaker 2: But okay, so well, well true, it's a ball. The
Speaker 2: next question is have do you know know?
Speaker 3: Her birthdays May eighteenth? So why did I think it passed?
Speaker 3: Did I felt like I just posted for her?
Speaker 2: Listen, I'm not good with birthdays, so we could pretend
Speaker 2: I'm confused.
Speaker 3: Okay, So her birthdays May eighteenth, and will be going
Speaker 3: out for her birthday with the girls group soon.
Speaker 2: Perfect have Teresa and Joe her brother not her ex.
Speaker 4: Have they spoken since the show is not coming back?
Speaker 3: No, she vows to ever speak to him again.
Speaker 4: Do you think you could change that?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 3: And I think anyone who tries to change it is
Speaker 3: then going to be not spoken to at all. Oh
Speaker 3: like it's yeah, like don't like just don't if.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's got to be so tough.
Speaker 3: And we see each other at a vent events, so
Speaker 3: we'll we'll go to events or there's like I'm not
Speaker 3: like a person. If I'm invited, I try to make it,
Speaker 3: but like the dinners, like the double date stuff, you
Speaker 3: won't see me do too much of that, just for
Speaker 3: the fact that mine good starts l Yes, my time,
Speaker 3: my downtime is I like feed alone a little bit.
Speaker 4: Yeah, me too, me too.
Speaker 3: I'm always included. I'm always asked if I can go.
Speaker 3: I make it on both sides.
Speaker 2: Have Do you know any of the girls from the
Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Rhode Island?
Speaker 3: I do you do?
Speaker 2: What? Can you give us an idea of what the
Speaker 2: vibe of that show is going to be? But based
Speaker 2: on who you know?
Speaker 3: I feel like I don't want to say, like a
Speaker 3: lot of people are going old New Jersey, Old New Jersey.
Speaker 3: I don't think anything is old New Jersey. I think
Speaker 3: that nothing will compare to that. I'd like to see
Speaker 3: people because if you try to compare it to anything
Speaker 3: or anything you can, usually you'll get disappointed, like you're
Speaker 3: not like you don't put it up against anything. Let
Speaker 3: it be it's Let Rhode Island be its own thing.
Speaker 2: Because I kind of thought Rhode Island was gonna be
Speaker 2: like kind of summer housey vibes, because there's places in
Speaker 2: Rhode Island that are.
Speaker 4: Like super bougie, and but it's not going to be that.
Speaker 3: No, No, they have some uh the the people over there.
Speaker 3: You know, the streets are are painted in the Italian flag. Ooh,
Speaker 3: that's need I say anymore?
Speaker 4: What do I need to know about Italian men?
Speaker 3: They're tough, They're they're really Italian men. Are they make
Speaker 3: you feel like you're with a man. They're they're protective. Uh,
Speaker 3: not that easy to get along with. As far as
Speaker 3: they're stubborn. Italian men are stubborn.
Speaker 4: But do they realize that they're stubborn.
Speaker 3: No, they don't know any other way. It's they kind
Speaker 3: of like in their DNA like it's just the way
Speaker 3: they are. The Italian guys. I know I'm speaking like,
Speaker 3: but I know a lot of Italians, but there's a
Speaker 3: soft side to them, and there's a charisma to them
Speaker 3: that's different. So next and Teddy, because I don't get
Speaker 3: to talk to you, and I wanted to know this,
Speaker 3: how's your treatment going?
Speaker 4: Treatment is going? Okay? You know the.
Speaker 2: I was supposed to have my last immune therapy last Wednesday,
Speaker 2: and I say last, which I have no idea if
Speaker 2: it's my last, but my final one of this phase
Speaker 2: was supposed to be last Wednesday. They wanted to kind
Speaker 2: of cram them together closer and then insurance wouldn't cover
Speaker 2: it because it was not three weeks out. So now
Speaker 2: my next immune therapy is on Wednesday, and that's when
Speaker 2: they do my cat scan, my pet scan, my everything
Speaker 2: and see how yeah everything.
Speaker 4: My dad's coming into town.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're kind of My dad's also being honored at something.
Speaker 2: I guess it's the Grammys, so he's being honored for something.
Speaker 2: He's playing a couple of songs. But it all kind
Speaker 2: of worked out that he would be here for it
Speaker 2: because the last set of things, I got good news
Speaker 2: that the tumors are shrinking. But now I haven't seen
Speaker 2: anybody for three weeks, so I have to kind of
Speaker 2: figure out where I am and then kind of go
Speaker 2: from there.
Speaker 3: Good news is coming, I hope, So I really hope
Speaker 3: so it is. I could feel it. It's gold good,
Speaker 3: it's all good. And you look beautiful. All I can
Speaker 3: think about every time I see is how does she
Speaker 3: do it? You're so pretty, and you're so your face
Speaker 3: is so beautiful, and you have a good body, like
Speaker 3: you just work out all the time. You make me
Speaker 3: a little bit mad, but yeah, like I hold it together,
Speaker 3: you hide together.
Speaker 2: But I think that I can hold it together because
Speaker 2: I can also be very honest.
Speaker 4: Like when I first, you know, I sat down.
Speaker 2: We have you know, film multiple pods in one day,
Speaker 2: and I have paid posts and all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 2: When I woke up this morning, I was like, today
Speaker 2: is an absolute no, like I can't do any of
Speaker 2: the things.
Speaker 4: But then I kind of just like, I'm like, you
Speaker 4: can do this. You can do it, and then I
Speaker 4: can be honest.
Speaker 2: Like I told our producers, I told you when we
Speaker 2: first got on the phone, I'm like, sorry, guys, if
Speaker 2: I'm not one hundred percent, it's just because I feel
Speaker 2: a little yucky.
Speaker 4: And once I say that, everything feels lighter.
Speaker 2: But if I just try to like Grin and Barrett
Speaker 2: and pretend I'm amazing, then I'm not.
Speaker 4: Then I'm well, I think that I.
Speaker 3: Think in life people should follow that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it.
Speaker 3: Was just a burden off you. Honestly, is just being
Speaker 3: honest and being forthright about things is just a burden.
Speaker 3: Like I have to have a conversation with someone today
Speaker 3: I'm not looking forward to and instead of me just
Speaker 3: not caring and just and like wait, you know, waking
Speaker 3: up to going, yeah, I'm going to have this conversation
Speaker 3: like you did, or I'm going to just do this.
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell everybody, but you know, I look
Speaker 3: to you for things I'm learning. You're teaching me a lot.
Speaker 3: Anything fun happened backstage at Wango Tango.
Speaker 4: I have to say the final part something did.
Speaker 2: Yes, the fun part that happened at Wango Tango was
Speaker 2: Megan Trainer is incredibly sweet and kind and loving, like
Speaker 2: came up, ran up to me and the kids gave
Speaker 2: them a big love that like went above and beyond.
Speaker 2: So that part was pretty cool. And then also as
Speaker 2: we're walking out after we.
Speaker 3: Well you're kind of a big deal too. I don't
Speaker 3: know if you know that, but okay.
Speaker 2: She's a purty big girl, and she was anybody that's
Speaker 2: nice in my kids her like anybody that's nice to
Speaker 2: my kids.
Speaker 4: But like after that.
Speaker 2: We went, you know, because we went on stage and
Speaker 2: we announced her and it was so fun. But as
Speaker 2: we're walking out, we see a crew Z is already
Speaker 2: like you know, he's already puffed up.
Speaker 4: It's like, Megan Frayer, get me a hug.
Speaker 3: All is good.
Speaker 2: And then this boy comes up to Cruz and I
Speaker 2: recognized my the corner of my eye and they're like bro, bro,
Speaker 2: and they're like hey, and.
Speaker 4: It's Gwen Stefani's son that they played football.
Speaker 3: To go out. Oh how cute.
Speaker 2: So they like had a moment and I was just like,
Speaker 2: this is such a fun way to celebrate Mother's Day
Speaker 2: with my kids, and like they all got to like
Speaker 2: it filled their cups and the fact that I could
Speaker 2: be there with my stepdaughter and her mom just shows
Speaker 2: how much growth we've had and how we could all
Speaker 2: kind of support each other and be there for each other.
Speaker 2: I want to be very clear, it was very hard
Speaker 2: work to get to the part where me and Bella's
Speaker 2: mother could one million percent connect the way that we have.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were talking about this at the table, not
Speaker 3: you and Bella's mom, but you know, trouble with former women, Yeah,
Speaker 3: and that were involved. I think it's easy to be
Speaker 3: around us and where we come from, what we have
Speaker 3: going on, or even just the way you look. You know,
Speaker 3: it can't be easy for another woman always.
Speaker 2: Or but if you work on it and you talk
Speaker 2: about it, then it's such an amazing feeling.
Speaker 3: But it does take work.
Speaker 4: It's not just effortless. And so if you're going through it,
Speaker 4: shouldn't force or if you.
Speaker 2: Have step kids or if you have whatever, just make
Speaker 2: you know, Like we're a couple of years into this
Speaker 2: now where like she is one of my closest friends
Speaker 2: and I'm so lucky for that because you know, Bell
Speaker 2: is sixteen years old. We're going through a lot, and
Speaker 2: like I needed her. I needed her at that event
Speaker 2: and she was there for me, and it really meant
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: It does because essentially that's family. Yeah, when you love
Speaker 3: a child, when you're with someone and they have a
Speaker 3: child and you love that kid, the mother is a
Speaker 3: part of that kid, and it should all work.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: I'm an advocate of that, a huge advocate of everybody
Speaker 3: coming together, and the same thing for Michelle and Jesse
Speaker 3: at this point. Leave it behind before things get so
Speaker 3: bad you can't come back from it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and don't say things.
Speaker 3: Don't say things. And she's not wrong when she says
Speaker 3: I'm the mother of your child, Like there's something to
Speaker 3: be said for that. So you know, let's all let's
Speaker 3: all get along, let's learn from that. Yeah, life, it
Speaker 3: doesn't need to be that hard. And yeah, but you
Speaker 3: know there's another question I have, What are you coming
Speaker 3: back to Beverly Hills next season.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I have no idea. I have no idea,
Speaker 4: no que I don't know.
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I think they could use you.
Speaker 4: I mean, I really don't know. I plead the fifth.
Speaker 3: Teddy timing is everything you do, know that, and I
Speaker 3: think it's your time.
Speaker 4: Well, I am just so boring and I am all
Speaker 4: not though you're not.
Speaker 3: But you're not.
Speaker 4: That thing's going on with me, So I have no
Speaker 4: idea what I would be talking.
Speaker 3: About, I know, but like, yeah, yeah, well maybe if
Speaker 3: you're lucky, something will happen that'll be worth talking about.
Speaker 2: If maybe if I'm lucky, more of what's happening right
Speaker 2: now can happen to me, and then you know, you
Speaker 2: guys can all see a play out.
Speaker 4: But truly, I have no idea.
Speaker 2: But before I have to watch it, i'd really like
Speaker 2: for you to be on well then, and I'd like
Speaker 2: you to recap me.
Speaker 4: If that was the case, please please, and thank you.
Speaker 3: Oh you've had your you've had your share with recapping me,
Speaker 3: so you know, it's hard.
Speaker 4: To give you the share recap though, it's very hard.
Speaker 2: But before we get into any other headlines, Bravocon announced
Speaker 2: that they are returning. Bravocon says Las Vegas return in
Speaker 2: November with one hundred and fifty stars Andy Cohen hosting
Speaker 2: five live shows.
Speaker 4: This is according to Variety, there's going to be huge.
Speaker 2: Legendary Bravo celebrity interactions, intimate VIP experiences, mind blowing panel mashups,
Speaker 2: all new immersive activations, and more photo ops than ever.
Speaker 2: I do think that Bravocn's going to come back bigger
Speaker 2: and better than ever, and I'm excited for this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I don't have an invitation yet. Let me
Speaker 3: know how it goes.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: The good news for you is even when you don't
Speaker 2: have invitations and you can still comfort to teas in
Speaker 2: a pod.
Speaker 3: I have tickets. I know, we get two tickets and
Speaker 3: we can we can.
Speaker 2: Recap, we can do some of the interviews from Bravo
Speaker 2: Con Live like we did before, which is so fun.
Speaker 4: I think you actually came and did an interview with us.
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 4: Me and Tarama always have a suite set up there
Speaker 4: and we do interviews. So we'll do that again.
Speaker 3: Oh thanks for including me. You know what, I have
Speaker 3: to get there some way.
Speaker 4: I got to keep the couple Bravo friends. That I
Speaker 4: got after these recaps.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so now let's get into real Housewives of Atlanta.
Speaker 2: So I don't think that i've recapped Atlanta with you before,
Speaker 2: So I don't know who your favorites are and who
Speaker 2: you kind of have the well, you know.
Speaker 3: It's hard because each episode is very different. Like they
Speaker 3: do take turns being the wrong one here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they do, they do.
Speaker 3: I mean, and I, like I said, and I say
Speaker 3: it all the time. I my opinion can change with information.
Speaker 3: You're only as good as your last episode.
Speaker 4: Sorry, truth, that's true. It's very very true.
Speaker 3: So I don't have any favorites and I don't have
Speaker 3: any dislikes. But this was This was a good episode
Speaker 3: as far as clearing Drew. But we'll get to that.
Speaker 4: They talk about sex a lot in this. There's a
Speaker 4: lot of sex talk in Atlanta.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of talk period, Like sometimes I have
Speaker 3: to google the word.
Speaker 4: But yeah, well it starts out there at Kelly's house.
Speaker 2: Kelly has a great relationship with the father of her
Speaker 2: eldest daughter, which confuses me because earlier she was wondering
Speaker 2: if her recent accession is going to adopt her.
Speaker 3: Was confused about that. That really threw me off.
Speaker 4: So that, I mean I noticed those little nuances and
Speaker 4: I'm like.
Speaker 3: That's not little. There was a whole scene on that,
Speaker 3: a whole scene.
Speaker 4: So then I'm like, are you just looking for things
Speaker 4: to talk about?
Speaker 3: Sitting in the backyard and the kid was sitting on
Speaker 3: the on the other little stupid and I mean I
Speaker 3: remember it clear as day. So yeah, that threw me off.
Speaker 4: It threw me off.
Speaker 2: But then Kelly's looking for a new house. She's been
Speaker 2: in a townhouse since. Sort of a horse. That can
Speaker 2: be tricky.
Speaker 4: But then they panned to what her house looked like before, a.
Speaker 3: Thousand square feet. She has like a castle. Her house
Speaker 3: is beautiful.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so who has the biggest house? Angela?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think Shamia of all the housewives period.
Speaker 2: Well, then Shamia isn't messing around because she's got big
Speaker 2: house energy.
Speaker 3: She gets dinner with Ralph see whoa. That was a
Speaker 3: little bit like hip below the belt.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree. And then to have Porsche show up,
Speaker 4: that was like, yeah, well, hey listen, good TV.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well Ralph pitches a podcast idea which I wish she
Speaker 2: would have left not pitching because.
Speaker 4: It family feud meets battle. The second queens. Yeah, couldn't
Speaker 4: even pretend that it was a good idea.
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, well you know, keep me bus she said, yeah, no,
Speaker 3: no she did. She said, well you can like make
Speaker 3: money on that, and it's all about making money.
Speaker 2: But you're kind of pigeon holding yourself. But also, why
Speaker 2: would you call it what was the name supposed to be?
Speaker 3: King? Shit?
Speaker 4: But King and Queens. But you're in the middle of
Speaker 4: a divorce. Quit trying to involve Drew.
Speaker 2: When you're getting a divorced, like, call it something fresh.
Speaker 2: It's not King and Queens anymore. You're not the king
Speaker 2: of her castle.
Speaker 3: Apparently he had a podcast with Shmia at one time
Speaker 3: that Drew another thing Red Flag didn't know about. So
Speaker 3: he also he also spoke about their very fast and
Speaker 3: furious relationship. Now how do you feel on Like, you know,
Speaker 3: he met her, four.
Speaker 5: Months later, they're they're engaged married, Yeah, so's he's ad
Speaker 5: three months later, proposed, then engaged, then married, then have
Speaker 5: a baby.
Speaker 2: I think she's pregnant after eight months. I think it's
Speaker 2: really hard to get to know somebody to that level,
Speaker 2: to know that you could live with them.
Speaker 3: I'm not mean about rushing into things.
Speaker 2: Divorced twice, so I'm not sure I'm the best at
Speaker 2: relationship advice, but I know you would.
Speaker 3: Be because you've made your mistakes.
Speaker 2: But even with either one of those, I didn't rush
Speaker 2: into it, and I had a pretty good run, you know,
Speaker 2: like Edwin and I had a pretty good run.
Speaker 4: You know, sixteen years together, that's a good run.
Speaker 3: That's a really good run. And I think there's that
Speaker 3: someone who's been through two divorces can definitely speak. I
Speaker 3: don't want to really talk to someone who's been married
Speaker 3: for thirty years and dating since high school about relationship advice.
Speaker 3: I don't think you tell me what it's like to date.
Speaker 2: No, I don't want to hear it. I want to
Speaker 2: hear the truth. I want to hear the good and
Speaker 2: the bad and the ugly. I want to hear about
Speaker 2: how hard it is to date. I want to hear
Speaker 2: about the perks.
Speaker 3: I want to hear.
Speaker 2: About what the status of people are that get back together.
Speaker 2: Because I think there's a point this is. Ralph and
Speaker 2: Drew are a little bit like Jesse and Michelle. To me,
Speaker 2: they care a lot at the other person.
Speaker 3: And they're they're too mad at each other. There's no
Speaker 3: reason to still be mad like that.
Speaker 2: But they're in the thick of it, and I think
Speaker 2: there's financial stuff involved, which leads me to question, I'm confused,
Speaker 2: who has the money, Ralph or Drew or are they
Speaker 2: even because they were talking about poops paying the exterminator,
Speaker 2: but like.
Speaker 3: One hundred dollars one hundred and fifty dollars and he
Speaker 3: got mad. See here's his.
Speaker 4: Basement fancier looking than her main part of the house.
Speaker 3: I know, but here's the thing when you're getting divorced
Speaker 3: and you're leaving for the weekend, so that he could
Speaker 3: come out of the basement and hang around the house,
Speaker 3: which is dumbest shit I ever fucking saw. They got
Speaker 3: your mom waiting in the car because she's got to
Speaker 3: go too. Yeah, mom has got to go.
Speaker 4: Wow, what was the mom doing?
Speaker 3: I think she lives there. She got to go too.
Speaker 4: Oh, she's get out of the house because.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So it's just like come on, enough guys.
Speaker 3: So so anyway, they're still fighting, like there she's leaving
Speaker 3: the courthouse going, you're a big jerk, you're a big
Speaker 3: jerk off. I don't know what the hell she said
Speaker 3: to him, like come on, Oh, it was Shemiah asked
Speaker 3: why you filed for a divorce, and he said, because
Speaker 3: she allegedly cheated with Tie.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, and he didn't use the word alleged,
Speaker 4: but we have to.
Speaker 3: We have to. But then they flashed back to her saying, well,
Speaker 3: she listens to me, she's nice to me, she makes
Speaker 3: me laugh, she makes.
Speaker 2: Me feel good, she's there for me. And I mean,
Speaker 2: I've spent a good amount of time with Ralph, and
Speaker 2: you have because Drew did helped fill in for the
Speaker 2: podcast a couple of times, and we went to Vegas together.
Speaker 3: Oh you're adding.
Speaker 2: So I like both of them, but I could tell
Speaker 2: they were still together when this was happening. But I
Speaker 2: could immediately tell this relationship isn't going to last like
Speaker 2: I thought.
Speaker 4: But separately they were amazing, but I was like, this
Speaker 4: is not going to work out.
Speaker 3: You know, there's so much turmoil amongst couples in the
Speaker 3: Bravo world right now, or just what we're seeing you're
Speaker 3: looking at, you know, this relationship Michelle and Jesse, Brittany
Speaker 3: and Jack's I mean it goes on, of course.
Speaker 2: Well, I think, but I think divorce has now become
Speaker 2: something that people talk about. Remember, for a while, people
Speaker 2: wouldn't talk about miscarriages, or people wouldn't talk about if
Speaker 2: they couldn't get pregnant, and then now that's been more common,
Speaker 2: talk like more open. I think that people struggling in
Speaker 2: their marriage has also become more open because it's so common.
Speaker 2: But somebody didn't interview and I'm not even going to
Speaker 2: mention her name, but she talked about how she blamed
Speaker 2: reality television on why certain people have gotten divorced, and
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 4: I think sometimes it can be a cause.
Speaker 2: But I think Ralph and Drew or myself and Edwin
Speaker 2: wouldn't have worked out in the end regardless if we
Speaker 2: were ever on television shows.
Speaker 3: Correct. Yeah, I mean I agree with that. We can
Speaker 3: only blame so much on Bravo and NBC.
Speaker 4: I yeah, you can't.
Speaker 3: I mean I don't like blaming where it doesn't belong.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I choose to do the show. And
Speaker 2: I also think if you're choosing to do the show,
Speaker 2: if you're choosing to put your life on reality television,
Speaker 2: something is missing in your life and you're wanting to
Speaker 2: fill that void with either financial or the attention.
Speaker 4: There is something that crazy enough to do.
Speaker 3: People want to be famous. Sometimes yeah, you know, but yeah,
Speaker 3: but either way.
Speaker 2: Then Portie walks in. They are so excited that they
Speaker 2: know this meal is covered, and then they all are
Speaker 2: kind of talking. At this point, I realized, Ralph, stop
Speaker 2: being such a starfucker. Stop it, well, stop it right now.
Speaker 2: But then you, for a living, I guess he's going
Speaker 2: to be a podcaster.
Speaker 3: It's not very manly to me. I thought he was.
Speaker 3: And then wanna be heard of what she's doing. And
Speaker 3: that's how Porscha felt, rightfully. So about what's his name?
Speaker 4: Dennis?
Speaker 3: Dennis?
Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, and Dennis is still doing the same thing.
Speaker 2: Dennis sent a Portia text and said I told Drew
Speaker 2: I wouldn't f her. Dennis was trying to clarify that
Speaker 2: he was only asking Drew to run him his money.
Speaker 2: Ralph thinks Drew is seeing someone else. Ralph says he
Speaker 2: filed for divorce because of the cheating. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: Sameyaa thinks it's ludicrous that Portion and Angela made up,
Speaker 2: but she and Angela haven't.
Speaker 3: I agree with Shamia.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: Why is Angela and I I typically stick up for Angela.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like I like Angela.
Speaker 3: I think she's a lady. I like the way she
Speaker 3: carries herself. I think she's screwed with those fucking houses
Speaker 3: big time.
Speaker 4: Big time in that closet.
Speaker 3: I think the way I know, I think the way
Speaker 3: that she handles things when it happens and a very
Speaker 3: like they've come for her. She's had to hold her
Speaker 3: own with not a lot of help, Like I've never
Speaker 3: seen Drew come to the rescue when she's even fighting
Speaker 3: for her or sticking up for her. So Angela, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, what I appreciated about Angela is she lets
Speaker 2: it marinade and lets the fight happen and then gives
Speaker 2: us the truth. So even as we're watching Atlanta and
Speaker 2: we hear that, you know, Portia says that she's gonna,
Speaker 2: you know, she should cook up with fuck her husband,
Speaker 2: or that there's a child that we don't know about,
Speaker 2: that Angela and the moment doesn't just scream out the information.
Speaker 2: She waits until it's a one on one scene and
Speaker 2: then she provides it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, listen, that takes maturity, intelligence, and I'm I'm
Speaker 3: I'm in favor of that. I'm able to do that.
Speaker 3: A lot of people are not.
Speaker 2: You're lucky that you're able to do that, because I
Speaker 2: really appreciate it. Because then we got the full story
Speaker 2: about Wendy Williams's husband.
Speaker 3: And people had listen.
Speaker 2: Then, Yeah, how Wendy Williams husband had an affair that
Speaker 2: produced a child. Angela commiserated about having gone through the
Speaker 2: same situation. So they just assumed it was her current relationship,
Speaker 2: but it wasn't. And then Wendy Williams went on the
Speaker 2: air and talked about it, and so all of these
Speaker 2: things had happened, but she just let it kind of
Speaker 2: flow through and then she gave the information. And then
Speaker 2: they still pushed at her and said, but isn't your
Speaker 2: husband a cheater? And she's like, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: lie to you guys, Like we have had ups and
Speaker 2: downs in our.
Speaker 3: Relations I'm married a player. I know what I signed
Speaker 3: up for. Yeah, and you know, honest, that's you.
Speaker 2: You like that.
Speaker 3: I liked it.
Speaker 2: It made me love her and I pretty much everything
Speaker 2: she's shown us, in my opinion, is that she is honest.
Speaker 2: Like she's showing us these houses and she's like, shit,
Speaker 2: I got to get these on TV because I got
Speaker 2: to try to sell them.
Speaker 4: But like, let's just try to be nice about. Be
Speaker 4: that small little area as a closet, and this is
Speaker 4: three million dollars.
Speaker 3: Can you look up?
Speaker 4: Why we're on this. Have any of these homes sold?
Speaker 3: Listen, she's got her hands full over there. I don't
Speaker 3: know how Charles is to live with. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I know he doesn't get along with her family. I
Speaker 3: think it might be a little bit on the fault
Speaker 3: of her family, by the way the family treated the
Speaker 3: daughter that one time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, which is the daughter they were referring to, not
Speaker 4: his blood daughter?
Speaker 3: No, they were talking to. Oh, is that who it was?
Speaker 4: I think so, No one said.
Speaker 3: I didn't even think he was the blood daughter. I
Speaker 3: think she's much older than as long as they've been.
Speaker 2: But that's who they're talking about. I believe the one
Speaker 2: that got married without telling anybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I don't think that's who they're talking about.
Speaker 4: I think it might be she's.
Speaker 3: Older than her saying how long?
Speaker 4: I know, But that's why I'm saying such a ludicrous story.
Speaker 3: No, I think this is like a love child. From a.
Speaker 2: Stand I thought, well, maybe one of her daughter. It's
Speaker 2: one of her daughters. She yes, it's not one of his.
Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't know, but this is where
Speaker 2: we need to get deeper down the rabbit hole. But
Speaker 2: I think it's one of her daughters. I don't know
Speaker 2: if it's the one we saw, but that's what I
Speaker 2: think she was saying. Because Angela clarifies, Oh, when it
Speaker 2: happened to me with her daughter's father, not with Charles. Right.
Speaker 4: Oh, oh, you're right saying, yes, that's her daughter.
Speaker 3: But the daughter's father had a child with someone else,
Speaker 3: So now her daughter from another man has a half
Speaker 3: sister from an affair.
Speaker 2: Okay, See, this is why I need you, because you're
Speaker 2: gonna help me stay on track because I got a
Speaker 2: little lost there. Okay, no confused, it's like confusing. There's
Speaker 2: a lot of kids, a lot of kids. So according
Speaker 2: to online, we can't find anything about the houses. We
Speaker 2: can't find if they're for sales. Still, we can't find
Speaker 2: if they're sold, so I don't know if they weren't
Speaker 2: fully well.
Speaker 3: I wish her luck with that, because that is stress. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that'll put wrinkles around your mouth.
Speaker 4: Then we get more civil smoking.
Speaker 2: Then Drew still can't tell her kids that she and
Speaker 2: Ralph are divorcing. I've never heard of this that you
Speaker 2: go to court, and that a court can tell you
Speaker 2: that you can't tell your kids that you're getting into
Speaker 2: if you're getting a divorce.
Speaker 3: I didn't know a lot. I don't think that a
Speaker 3: court should tell you, as long as it's not bad
Speaker 3: mouthing the other parent, how to handle the situation with your.
Speaker 2: Children, especially when one person is living in the basement
Speaker 2: and the other is living upstairs, and then they rotate
Speaker 2: in and out of the house.
Speaker 3: It's something like that young Well my kids.
Speaker 2: I mean I'm in the middle of granted now everything's
Speaker 2: on a stop, but like we nest, which is similar
Speaker 2: to what they're doing, except Edwin's not living in a basement.
Speaker 2: Edwin has another house and he comes. When he comes
Speaker 2: here to be with the kids, I leave, and it's
Speaker 2: so the kids can stay. Yeah, it's a new thing.
Speaker 2: So the kids can stay in a constant house. Or
Speaker 2: if I feel like it, I stay because this is
Speaker 2: my room, and you know, I stay here, and it
Speaker 2: is what it is. But there's no animosity and we're
Speaker 2: not fighting, so because of that doesn't make it weird.
Speaker 2: But no court and no lawyer or no anyone has
Speaker 2: told us what we can and can't say to our children.
Speaker 4: I've never heard of that.
Speaker 3: Nothing against Drew, but a lot of things just don't
Speaker 3: always add up with the two of them. Yeah, that's sad.
Speaker 1: But I.
Speaker 3: I remember going through a divorce and I mean, you know,
Speaker 3: Frank was a divorce attorney, and the thing was and
Speaker 3: I remember somebody said to us, you can all be together.
Speaker 3: You could go on vacations together, you can have your
Speaker 3: visitation together, whatever it is, as long as you don't
Speaker 3: fight in front of them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to fight in front of them,
Speaker 2: And I think that's what destroys kids. Fighting, but also
Speaker 2: seeing a fight, seeing a fight start and not seeing
Speaker 2: a resolution that too.
Speaker 3: I mean, we're all human. We're going to fight in
Speaker 3: front of the kids, but they need to end with
Speaker 3: it being okay. So is Edwin dating?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think that we're both in a
Speaker 2: place where we know that you know, we will always
Speaker 2: have love for getting back Yeah yeah, we're not getting
Speaker 2: back together.
Speaker 4: He's you know, with somebody I'm dating. Like it is
Speaker 4: what it is.
Speaker 2: It's not our massive priority at this moment. Our main
Speaker 2: priority is making sure that our kids are happy and
Speaker 2: that we're healthy.
Speaker 4: But like, no, there's no.
Speaker 2: There's no fighting in front of the kids, and the
Speaker 2: kids are all very aware of what's going on.
Speaker 4: What's the age appropriate.
Speaker 3: Right, like they need to kids. Here's the thing. Kids
Speaker 3: are smarter than we think they are, and they know
Speaker 3: more than we want them to know. I've been through
Speaker 3: divorced with kids, so you know I've been through all this. Yeah,
Speaker 3: kids know more than we're telling them. So instead of
Speaker 3: making them come to their own conclusions about things and
Speaker 3: make them think you never know what's going on in
Speaker 3: their head, sit down with them and ask them if
Speaker 3: they have any questions for you. And they're very honest.
Speaker 4: They're very honest, and they're thrilled to do it.
Speaker 2: Like my kids are like does it hurt our feelings
Speaker 2: if we talk to you about And I'm like, absolutely not,
Speaker 2: it doesn't hurt my feelings and you shouldn't. I don't
Speaker 2: ask certain questions because I don't want to make you
Speaker 2: feel uncomfortable or make you feel like you can't share
Speaker 2: with me. But I'm here for whatever you want to
Speaker 2: share with it and if you have any questions for
Speaker 2: me too, ask and I'm happy to tell you you know.
Speaker 4: And I think that's what makes it work.
Speaker 2: And I think that's what the problem is with Drew
Speaker 2: and Ralph and pretty much all of these divorces in here.
Speaker 4: There's so much secrecy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's animosity, and that's the animosity. But here's the
Speaker 3: thing that I see, and I learned this when I
Speaker 3: was going through my divorce. Everyone is still emotional and
Speaker 3: emotions do not travel in rational channels. So why while
Speaker 3: people are emotional, they are also very irrational. So there's
Speaker 3: not a lot that's going to get done. And that's why,
Speaker 3: even when filming Teddy, I would wait for things to
Speaker 3: calm down. I wouldn't try to make a scene or
Speaker 3: get into a fight. I'd break it up or whatever.
Speaker 3: But when things are calm, I'll sit with you and
Speaker 3: talk to you about anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, chaos, it's but not during the chaos.
Speaker 3: Not while somebody's angry. I don't need to have the
Speaker 3: last word, because no one's hearing your last word when
Speaker 3: they're upset.
Speaker 2: That's so before we even get to the event, which
Speaker 2: we have to talk about, because that event that paid
Speaker 2: post event was a lot but Porsche meets Angela at
Speaker 2: a rental property. Angela says she didn't invite Porscha to
Speaker 2: her home because Porsa said she would f Charles. But
Speaker 2: at this point, this is where we get to, like
Speaker 2: we've kind of already talked about all the other things.
Speaker 2: But Angela asked Porsche if there are any issues friendship
Speaker 2: with Shemia, and she says Shamia doesn't want to be
Speaker 2: Porsha's lap dog. Angela also says Shamia told her Porscha
Speaker 2: didn't want Shamia on the show, and you visibly see
Speaker 2: Porscha get upset at this moment.
Speaker 3: Told Angela because I saw Porsche cry with the fan
Speaker 3: on her face. Samia told Angela that Porscha didn't want
Speaker 3: to Where did Shamiaz say this?
Speaker 2: She said this at the rental property. Well, Shemiah said this.
Speaker 2: We didn't hear her say that.
Speaker 3: We didn't hear her see this because I don't remember.
Speaker 4: But I think it's clear.
Speaker 2: But also it's not up to Porsche who comes on
Speaker 2: the show and who doesn't come on the show. She's
Speaker 2: referred to mea multiple times.
Speaker 4: I believe.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: We know, first of all, we know nobody can get
Speaker 3: you really off the show, can they they want off?
Speaker 2: But I don't think nobody can really get you on either.
Speaker 2: You still gid no, they can if they want you,
Speaker 2: they want you, they want you. But I think she
Speaker 2: feels like Shmia feels like she always has Porsche's back
Speaker 2: and Porsche doesn't have hers, and this visibly upsets Porsche.
Speaker 2: Porsche's hurt by this, And I feel like there's going
Speaker 2: to be more to come on this because then we
Speaker 2: zip right on in to their event.
Speaker 3: I heard they're not friends anymore. I saw on Instagram
Speaker 3: somewhere you did, and you know everything on Instagram's true. Yeah, well,
Speaker 3: this week on Instagram, apparently Pull bought some girl at
Speaker 3: twenty five thousand dollars your bag.
Speaker 4: I wanted to know what it looks like.
Speaker 3: I mean, oh, and the fact that I saw it
Speaker 3: and I was arguing with him at a restaurant, and
Speaker 3: what else did they say? There's this one cool what
Speaker 3: that's right next to me holding a sonogram picture because
Speaker 3: I'm pregnant.
Speaker 4: Are you having a boy or girl?
Speaker 3: I'll let you know. It's too early to tell, but I.
Speaker 4: Don't want to.
Speaker 3: I just it's hysterical because there's this one account that's
Speaker 3: absolutely a fucking looney bin. So yeah, I'll send it
Speaker 3: to you. It's Sarah, send it to me. But so
Speaker 3: we don't always laughing so hard.
Speaker 2: But according to the instagrams of the world Wide Web,
Speaker 2: they're not friends anymore. But during this event, it's the
Speaker 2: sister circle. Angela appreciates making up with Porscha. Kelly Admiresma
Speaker 2: and Porsche's friendship and wants them to have a conversation.
Speaker 2: Shamia says she has never spoken about Porscha behind her
Speaker 2: back and always shuts things down when things come up
Speaker 2: about Porscha. However, Shamia doesn't think Porscha does the same.
Speaker 2: Angela claims she feels like things have been bothering Shamia,
Speaker 2: and Porscha clarifies that she attended this is what I
Speaker 2: was confused. He's wedding in Atlanta, but not the one
Speaker 2: in can And.
Speaker 3: Then P's like, well, you know, Kenya is not an
Speaker 3: easy ride. That's like an eighteen hour plane.
Speaker 2: Ride, and especially if you're not zipping on over on
Speaker 2: jets or however, then the girls all start to get
Speaker 2: a little petty, like is this photo not petty?
Speaker 3: I mean, but I saw, like, oh, oh, way to
Speaker 3: go paid photo shoot. Like sometimes I feel there's a
Speaker 3: little jealousy, yeah, because because why wouldn't I want to
Speaker 3: help out my friend with their products, like.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't care, like if I saw arap and you
Speaker 2: held up some but they did do good editing, like
Speaker 2: there's no real picture of what they're promoting.
Speaker 4: And then at the end it's like she they it
Speaker 4: looks like she like sneaks in the bag, but.
Speaker 2: They're saying Drew isn't cool with her, So why would
Speaker 2: Drew be okay doing it?
Speaker 4: Because you're all in sure.
Speaker 3: Like heard, Wait, first of all, I feel like like
Speaker 3: this is on the heels of Drew finding out they
Speaker 3: filmed with Ralph and she had a bug up her ass.
Speaker 3: That's why she was saying it. Because if she's trying
Speaker 3: to make up with Porsche after all this time, which
Speaker 3: Porsche had the right to be upset with her, yeah
Speaker 3: she did, then I have to say, like, you know, Drew,
Speaker 3: here's your chance. Drop it, drop it, drop it and
Speaker 3: be excited. Get the sheets, put the sheets on the bed,
Speaker 3: lay on the bed in your boudoir outfit and your
Speaker 3: lingerie and just be like, yeah, I'm gonna support her.
Speaker 3: Women should support women. But that doesn't happen much.
Speaker 4: In this This doesn't happen much.
Speaker 2: But this is it ends with it looks like Porsche's
Speaker 2: kind of tricking them into doing this paid post thing.
Speaker 2: But let me be clear, no matter what you are slanging,
Speaker 2: if you invited me, even if you didn't tell me
Speaker 2: you were slanging a product, I would happily hold it
Speaker 2: because I carried it on you. I would put it
Speaker 2: on I would wear it. I don't care what it
Speaker 2: looked like, if I loved it, if I used it,
Speaker 2: if it was for you and you're somebody I care about,
Speaker 2: even if I was mad at you, I would still
Speaker 2: do it right.
Speaker 3: No, me too, me too? And you know I have
Speaker 3: to say, uh, Jersey's pretty good with that. I'm saying
Speaker 3: most of the people that I know, you Tamra people,
Speaker 3: you know, the older cast. I think newer people coming
Speaker 3: in are more like.
Speaker 2: Business y yeah, which I think is harder for the show.
Speaker 2: But also you have an option. You could do one
Speaker 2: or two things. If you want to promote a product,
Speaker 2: you can either have it be on the show and
Speaker 2: good for Portia that it got on the show. The
Speaker 2: amount of times I gave people stuff and it never
Speaker 2: actually aired was a lot. But you could also send
Speaker 2: people product and then they're going to post about it.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you my beauty box soon, so you know.
Speaker 4: I've been waiting for it.
Speaker 2: But you, guys, thanks for tuning in to another episode
Speaker 2: of Tootoos and a feel free to send me product
Speaker 2: and I will post about it for free.
Speaker 3: If I love free product, me too.
Speaker 2: And I just did a reorganization of all of my things,
Speaker 2: so I feel ready go right a lot of stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I purged. I donated a bunch of stuff.
Speaker 3: Everyone's purging right now.
Speaker 4: It's a purge time, all right.
Speaker 3: Well this was great. I had a great afternoon with you.
Speaker 3: It's raining here and New Jersey weather stocks. But what
Speaker 3: are you doing for the rest of the day.
Speaker 2: Well, in two days, I have my immune therapy, but
Speaker 2: I've got to watch The Valley because you and I
Speaker 2: are recapping that tomorrow.
Speaker 3: Oh got it.
Speaker 4: But thanks guys for tuning in and we'll talk to
Speaker 4: you soon.
Speaker 3: Bye too, Bye,