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So let's again this 20 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:37,919 Speaker 1: week's episode. So I'm super excited about this episode because 21 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: my guests will be sharing her story on being a 22 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: nine one one dispatcher. So, so, my guests, thank you 23 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: so much for being the being a part of the show. 24 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: How are you doing. I'm doing okay, Bax, I'm doing 25 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: real good. Long time, no talk to that. I know. 26 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: I know. She was actually one of my first friends 27 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: when I moved to New York like ten years ago. 28 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: I now long as right right, you know, it was 29 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: very hard for me to find somebody to um come 30 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: on the show to talk about this, Like I couldn't 31 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: find anybody. I mean, I guess you would have to 32 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: be in that world because if you had asked me, um, 33 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: like asked me about call takers or anybody in law enforcement. 34 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: I have a whole heat for your girl. I know 35 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: some I know some undercovered detectives. I definitely know some 36 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: police officers, and I definitely know not want one dispatchers. 37 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: I know E M T S and fire department, So 38 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: I mean generally, and I mean I feel like, honestly, 39 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: I kind of knew all those people even before I 40 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: went into the police academy myself. Oh wow, yeah, I 41 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: was shooting my shop at least like ten fifteen people, 42 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: and then I thought about you and I'm like, wait, 43 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: I think she was more there was and that's the 44 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: best part, honestly. Um. You can go a couple of 45 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: different ways like I started off. You do the academy, 46 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: you do the police academy, but it depends on what 47 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: division that you want to go in starting as so 48 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: I didn't want to start as a cadet like an 49 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: actual police officer. I went. I had originally applied for 50 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: a position called police Communications Technician, which shorthand is PCT. 51 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: And then you find out that that is just a 52 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: nice way of saying you are a nine one one 53 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: call taker and you know when you get into that 54 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 1: that I mean the training is already um, Monday through 55 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: Friday seven am to three pm. And I think the 56 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: training was either in Queens or if you were generally 57 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: closer closer in Brooklyn, you were downtown, uh downtown Brooklyn 58 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: like over on Flatish and Hillary m hmm, Now how 59 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: long were um? Ill that's the thing, Okay, So I 60 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: was your non When you start off as a none 61 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: one call taker, and you can do that's how you train. Uh, 62 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: They actually train you in that position and you stay 63 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: in that position for minimum Uh. Technically this supposed to 64 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: be a minimum one year twelve months. But what I 65 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: ended up doing was like I hit like my eleven 66 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: month mark, and I was like, can I start training 67 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: for dispatching because technically nine one call taking is one 68 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: element and then you graduate into a dispatcher. A little 69 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: bit is a little bit more money. Then Yeah, No, 70 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, when you start off, you start 71 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: off as a PCT, a police communications technician, even though 72 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: technically PCT you can do nine one call taking end 73 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: dispatch and you can do both. But if you are 74 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: dual trained, then you are much better off and you're 75 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: definitely gonna seem way more money. And then it also 76 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: depends on what your shift is. You have three shifts 77 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: with the police force. You have seven am to three 78 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 1: that's tier one, Tier two is three pm two eleven 79 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: pm that's tier two, and then tier three was me, 80 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: which is the highest paid tier. Because is I had 81 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 1: it like that well and not? Actually no, honestly not, 82 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: Diffuncial automatically makes you have the the higher pay because 83 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: you're sacrifice in your sleep. Essentially, I worked from eleven 84 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 1: I used to go into work for eleven PM and 85 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: I didn't get out until seven am Damn, Yeah, I 86 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: didn't mind. The only thing that sucks about working for 87 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: New York City Police Department is the mandatory over time. 88 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: They can hold you mandatorily for three out of your 89 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: five days of work for six double chefs. Oh my god, 90 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: So you enjoyed this job, hunt? I mean you do 91 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: when you I enjoyed it more definitely when I became 92 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: a dispatcher. I'm not gonna lie. The second that you 93 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: can become you can stop taking on on one calls. 94 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: Trust me, if you're in the position, you would I 95 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: think I have. I can always tell the people the 96 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: most memorable calls that make you no longer want to 97 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: be I on one call taker, and then some of 98 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: the just funny calls, like but when we're gonna get 99 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: into that, we don't get into that, no problem. So 100 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: what would you just say would be some good qualities 101 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: for this position? Oh, you have to be an active 102 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: listener and just a good listener period and a great communicator. Um, 103 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: they don't really train you on how to handle uh 104 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: certain situations. They just more so train you on your 105 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: communication skills. So then you take that your your communication 106 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: skills and apply it. So somebody that's super hysterical on 107 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: the phone. You need to be able to talk to 108 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: them and talk them down but then not sound condescending 109 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: or patronizing. And you also want to be empathetic but 110 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: not sound like you pity them. So you know, you 111 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: just gotta it's kind of like yeah, active listening and 112 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: effectively communicating in a way that you It's kind of 113 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 1: like it's like kind of like when you're just talking 114 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: to a man, like you know, you gotta asked the 115 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: right questions to get the right answers. So right, Yeah, 116 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: I love to say, I know niggas hate talking to 117 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: you man. Oh no, yeah, I definitely do that. And 118 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: the fact that I was a communications major in college 119 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: with I remember with the concentration and public relations, so 120 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: I thought I wanted to do some versions of like 121 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: many elements of like PR and publicity and you know community. 122 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: And I love that you are doing podcasts because I 123 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: feel like that's totally something that we probably talked about 124 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: because when it was when me, it was like me, 125 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: you did you? Was it? Also my friend Nevia, I 126 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: can't remember when years ago, but I feel like this 127 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: is it like a project that we were all like 128 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: we all met on or something. Yeah, but I do 129 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: remember you being uh, I do remember your major being communications, 130 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh wow, that's so crazy because it's 131 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: kind of like a full circle. I just didn't never 132 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: think that you'll be using your degree in this capacity. 133 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: But that's kind of dope though. I mean, honestly, it 134 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: is in theory. But I'm not gonna lie. It's it's 135 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: weird to say it, but you get tired of talking 136 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: no no live since I have a podcast, I've been 137 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: doing this for over three years. Yeah, thank you. I 138 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: get tired of talking you do. It's like it's weird too, 139 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: because it's like I can imagine in your case and 140 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: when you make it your job, I can imagine like 141 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: when you go on vacation, you probably like, for real, 142 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: put your phone down. But I guess in my capacity, 143 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: like even my job now, I kind of I'm still 144 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: more of a communicator because I work in calculations and 145 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: I build quotes for customers working on I work for 146 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: home people in corporate now, so that's a completely different job. 147 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: But this job, I would definitely say, call taken nine 148 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: more one call taken. You just have to have to 149 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,719 Speaker 1: write stomach for it as well. Because some of them 150 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: calls are not. Yeah, but before we get into the 151 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 1: type of calls, what inspire you to take this path? Oh? Well, 152 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: I've always been about community service. I love serving my community, 153 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: so I mean in any capacity that can be. I 154 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: remember I got off with my once I got out 155 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: of my first fear in college UM working with UM 156 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: people with special with special abilities or UM special needs, 157 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: because I don't know why, I had this kind of 158 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: fear almost or like this apprehension to work with them. 159 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: And I think after working with them and then my 160 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: school being I went to Virginia State, so we're very 161 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: organization based type of so I was really into community 162 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: service working with the youth. Once I got over my 163 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: special needs kind of apprehension, I ended up being a 164 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: coordinator for UM, you know, partnering my school with the 165 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: Special Olympics and coordinating events. So yeah, it was really dope. 166 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: I mean, and it was like definitely like kind of 167 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: one of those moments where you're like I really think 168 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: that this is a the dope, but I just put 169 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: together here like and then I also got over a 170 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: fear of whatever my fear was that I couldn't even 171 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: like actually put it into words. I just knew that 172 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: it was an apprehension that I had, UM between that 173 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: I love community service that way, and then I love 174 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: face to face interaction a lot of times. So I 175 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: did think that I wanted to do field work. So 176 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: when you start off with the police, UM, you do 177 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: do a couple of weeks of right along and on 178 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: the field work. So that's like patrolling UM on foot. 179 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: And then also like I think I was in the 180 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: seventh one or the seventh three. No, my actually my 181 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: precent of the seventh one, I actually visited the seven three. 182 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean bulletproof vest. Yeah, before you leave, you gotta 183 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: they give you a bulletproof vest. They try on a 184 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: couple of different ones, make sure that it fits you. Um, 185 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: you had to be in playing clothes. So I actually 186 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: felt worse in playing clothes because when you're in playing clothes, 187 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: it's like I just look like everybody else and riding 188 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: in the backseat of a patrol car, UM everywhere with 189 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: the other two officers and answering calls, and UM, your 190 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 1: training has to come into play because then you'll hear 191 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: the dispatcher come over the radio like, oh, we gotta 192 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: fifty two d at you know so and so street 193 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: fifty two means dispute um or like a fighter argument, 194 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: and then a D just means dispute. But like let's 195 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 1: say if it was like a fifty two K, fifty 196 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: two K means knife, meaning that there isn't there is 197 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: a weapon in and then yeah, I think my calls 198 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: were mostly like what was it the I think everybody 199 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: knows that McDonald's on full tin and troop, like across 200 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: from station. He's like right in front by the train station. 201 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: It's kind of a couple of variant schools around the neighborhood, 202 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: so a lot of kids loiter there. And I am 203 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 1: five five ft maybe five ft one, and I am 204 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: also very youthful looking, so trying to break up a 205 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 1: group of kids that look like just like you and 206 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: I are taller than you because these new kids are 207 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: a gragragan so so you know, it was definitely like actually, 208 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: people come up to me and be like you're an officer, 209 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 1: you're a police officer, and like their cameras are in 210 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: my face. Um, they're following me on the street and 211 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: they're like, you're a police officer. Like she's so cute, 212 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: she's so little, like what can she do? And I 213 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: was just like, I can arrest you for harassments, but 214 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: I can't wait. So we wanted to do a follow 215 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: up episode because so what you're pretty much saying is 216 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: you started off as you start off. As you start 217 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: when you join the police academy, you do all of 218 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: the training, you get all of the training training is 219 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 1: mostly book training, book training, and you have to learn 220 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: earned like over a hundred codes, um be able, you 221 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: get tested on them. You have to listen to phone calls, 222 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 1: be able to assess them, um be able to disposition them, Uh, 223 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: find out if it's if it's a situation where you 224 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: can't locate the custom like locate the person or they 225 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: can't tell you where they are some of them times 226 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: that they're whispering. Just like pretty much assess every single call. 227 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: That's one part of it. Based on the notes that 228 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: you're the bookwork that you actually learned, but then you 229 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: actually have to put that into action so that they 230 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: also tell you, Okay, now you gotta do field work, 231 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: you gotta do foot patrol, you gotta be um with 232 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: other police officers while they're listening. And it was funny 233 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 1: because as I'm listening to the calls come in from 234 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: the dispatcher, I'm like, oh, I know who that is 235 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: because because like I know the people in the actual 236 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: dispatching office. And Brooklyn had as Brooklyn was the hub 237 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: for before the Bronx location open, Brooklyn was the hub 238 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: for all the Borrows. Even though you're in Brooklyn, I 239 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: can be you're dispatching in Staten Island, you're dispatching Queens, 240 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: you're dispatching in the Bronx everywhere. So we when you're 241 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: done with this, But when you got done with this position, 242 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: if you became when you got done with this position, 243 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: did that mean that you became a police officer or 244 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: where you already police officer? I was, I'm a police 245 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: communication technician. So they take you out on those trips 246 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: so that you can complete your training. Pretty much, you 247 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: want to make sure that you have you know every aspect, 248 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: so pretty much before you become a police officer, police 249 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: officers have to come to us and they have to 250 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: do training with us as well. So they have to 251 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: sit there with the with the headphones on their ears 252 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: and listen to our calls and then be and stuff 253 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: like that. So it kind of goes both ways. If 254 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: you're doing a position, you gotta be trained in this position. 255 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: If you're doing on that job, job, you gotta be 256 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: training this. You gotta know every aspect of every angle 257 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: of the job so that you can I don't know, 258 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: it's just I think it definitely gives you a better 259 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: perspect and then you can also just gauge and understand 260 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: each person's position better and so you can know how 261 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: to handle it. So I definitely understand that, and it 262 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: just gives you an experience of really knowing what is 263 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: this that you want to do. Do you want to 264 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: work in the precinct. Do you want to work out 265 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: on the field. Do you want to work in an 266 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 1: office setting? So all of those elements for you to 267 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: determine it yourself, because I'm not gonna lie, of course, 268 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: I'd still while I was still working for m IPD, 269 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: I took the police. I took a police officer test 270 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: and I passed that too with flying colors. Okay, okay, 271 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: we like a passer test with flying colors, now exactly. 272 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I do like to pass the test now 273 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 1: that that is my thing. I was like, I ain't 274 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: graduate with honors and for nothing, you know, listen, boy, 275 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: would you would you want to become a police officer 276 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: press in New York? No, that in like I'm staying 277 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: Georgia now, and Georgia they pay more, they have a 278 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: much there's their system, they're like ynamic for law enforcement 279 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: is a lot more broken up. It's by the county 280 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: so and things like that. So like I feel like 281 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: everywhere but New York, everybody gets actually paid gets paid 282 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: a much higher tax bracket. Yeah. Why is it though? 283 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: Because you would think that, um, doing law enforcements all 284 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: and then with everything that we got going on, you 285 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 1: would think that we would. But surprisingly I'm not too sure. 286 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: Um why other states? Honestly the highest state like if 287 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: you want to get you can almost touch Yeah, you 288 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: can almost touch six digits in Cali. Oh wow yeah yeah, 289 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: my friend is in she is I think she want 290 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: to say, she's in Los Angeles. She's in California. Yeah, 291 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: and she started she did. I mean, there's they were 292 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: starting at if New York starts at um, which is 293 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: trash um, but really and truly, I think New York 294 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: you don't are seeing real good money until like year three. 295 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: I think after one it's like one, three and five 296 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: are the increments Um, but in like other any other state, 297 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: you can start at like seventy seventy k m hmmm. 298 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, New York wasn't isn't the greatest. But after 299 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: you work with New York in New York for a 300 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: period of time, those evaluations, those raises, and then those 301 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: different tiers of your experience, they do add up because 302 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: I know people who are there now who have been 303 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:37,160 Speaker 1: there before me and are going to be there long 304 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: time after me, or got there when I or came 305 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: right after me, and are still there because the benefit. 306 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: It's a full time job, it's dependable, it's like it's 307 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: just it is a good job to have. And I 308 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: know a lot of the women that worked there, uh 309 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: for sure, had like kids, got kids, got benefits, work 310 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 1: live on their own like they're doing a dag on 311 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: thing because they know that they want to maintain a lifestyle, 312 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: a certain lifestyle, and after a certain point of time, Yeah, 313 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 1: you can pay for a good lifestyle by yourself. So 314 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 1: what were some challenges you faced well in this position, 315 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: just the mostly the phone calls, I would say, Um, 316 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 1: that and a couple of power trips. Obviously you already 317 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: when you're working with law enforcement, you can imagine people 318 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: who have UM, people who are in a certain tier 319 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: of like a principle or a captain or something like that, 320 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: like who are on certain tears. They have a certain 321 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: kind of cloud around them that make or an ear 322 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: about them that seems like you can't say anything to 323 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 1: them or or anything like that, or you can't address things, 324 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: or they can't be wrong. So that kind of arrogance 325 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: did a little bit around the office, UM, which is 326 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: not like it doesn't really affect your work, but it 327 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 1: in certain moments. Like a majority of that job was females, 328 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: So I would say that being that it's kind of 329 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: set set like that is just a lot of talk, 330 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: a lot of chatter, but nothing like Hi, nothing high school. 331 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,360 Speaker 1: I guess it was just always this kind of like 332 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 1: you're always just wondering to some extent, like kind of 333 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: like can I address this with this person? Or should not? 334 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: Should I not even bother talking to this person about 335 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: this or that. That's why they ended up having something 336 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: called like e a U, which is like employee Assistance unit, 337 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 1: where like you can literally go and talk privately, confidentially 338 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: and get me get things handled if you need to. UM. 339 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 1: The only thing for me more personally, that was difficult 340 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 1: was definitely the phone calls. I think my worst phone 341 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: call was um uh little white girls. You could tell 342 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: she was just white. Sometimes you could just tell by 343 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 1: their voice. Um. She couldn't catch her breath, she was like, 344 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: and I was just kind of like, alright, sweetie, we've 345 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: been on this phone. Because you're trying, you honestly, on 346 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: a call, you need to get like their contact information, 347 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: try to get the contact of information under a minute, 348 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 1: like within like the first dirty seconds of the phone call, 349 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: because I mean, obviously, the first thing that you say 350 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: on a phone call is not, um, you know, not 351 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 1: one one? You know, where's the emergency? We're actually asking 352 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 1: where is the emergency? For you to respond back with 353 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: an address, you know? Um. But she wasn't um. I 354 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 1: did not. I saw the based on her track and 355 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 1: information that she was in I believe, like Staten Island 356 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: or Staten Island, I think, and she just would not 357 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: catch her breath. I eventually kind of found out that 358 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: it wasn't like she had was having difficulty breathing, because 359 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: that's what I thought it was at first, is that 360 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: she was crying. You know, when you cried so hard 361 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: that you, yeah, kind of hyperventilate. So that was probably 362 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: my first worst call because I really had no clue 363 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 1: and what was going on. But I was trying to 364 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 1: calm her down, trying to be more of an active listener, 365 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: trying to see if I can hear anything in her background, 366 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 1: trying to track her information because she was calling me 367 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: from UM I found out found I found out afterwards 368 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 1: she was calling me from my house phone, thank god, 369 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: so therefore I had her landline, so I did. I 370 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: was just started to go and confirm information that I 371 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 1: could put in the job. But like imagine going from 372 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: putting in a job just thinking that this is just 373 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: a general call for help. And I didn't dispatch any 374 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 1: uh E, M S or anybody because I didn't know 375 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: what was going on. So finally she catches her breath 376 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 1: and then I find out that she is crying. She 377 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 1: tarts to tell me that she just got home from school, 378 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 1: so that kind of helped me range how old she 379 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: is so that I can know how to talk to 380 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: her a certain kind of way. And then um horrible 381 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: news was that she just got home from school. Her 382 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 1: brother also came home I guess was also home from school, 383 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: but her brother the Unfortunately, she found her brother hanging 384 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: from a ceiling fan in Oh my god. She was 385 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 1: crying so bad, bad because she couldn't get him down, 386 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 1: was trying so bad. And then soon as she said that, 387 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 1: I'm like, type it so fast to dispatch E M 388 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: S to get there. Um, I'm asking her how old 389 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: she is? So that, um I think I asked her 390 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: how old she is just for half a second, just 391 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: to know how old she was, And so I can 392 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: know because she was saying it was her younger brother. 393 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking if she's like fourteen, I'm like, right, like, 394 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: we got like this little kid and apparently he had 395 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: left him. I dispatched E M S. I got e 396 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: MS on the line. She was so distraught though that 397 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: usually when we dispatched them to E M S but we 398 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 1: we should hang up the phone call and then just 399 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: let them talk to a mess. But I knew how 400 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 1: she was taking so long to say everything that once 401 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: I transferred her over, I stayed on the line. I 402 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: gave them all the information. She tried to confirm some 403 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: of it, but she barely did. Some good thing. I 404 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: did stay on the line because leven E M S 405 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: is asking her questions like what color is he? And 406 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: she's like he's purple, He's purple, And I'm just kind 407 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,199 Speaker 1: of like, oh my god. At some point I was 408 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 1: I was like I was like, E M S. Do 409 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:31,199 Speaker 1: y'all ask all these questions? Right? Right? But I know 410 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like that's how people 411 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: feel about used to feel about novel. One call take 412 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: is not that people are like, why are you'all so 413 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: asking me us questions? Um, why I'm not coming And 414 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: it's like, I'm not coming anywhere. I'm not coming to you. 415 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: I am here dispatching, making sure that the people who 416 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: are on their way know what's going on when once 417 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: they reached there, right, you know, So that was always 418 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: kind of hard for people to wrap their head around. 419 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: People get very frustrated obviously in emergency these situations. So 420 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: you know, I don't that's the thing. You can't take 421 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: their emotions for It's kind of like you don't want to, uh, 422 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to dash away the emotions, 423 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: but you can't. I can't fully like be offended or 424 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: take it personal or anything like that because you're the 425 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: one that's destroy I'm the one that's here to help you, 426 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 1: and I'm just going You can cuss me out all 427 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: your want, but I need to ask all these questions 428 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: and I need to get all this information because my 429 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: second worst call. Oh, just the ending of that, the 430 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: ending of that situation was, um, she was not able 431 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: to get him down. The m s did get there, 432 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: They were able to get him down. Unfortunately, he did 433 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: not make it. And apparently he was being bullied at 434 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 1: school and his father and his father found the note 435 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: that he left and then read it on Facebook. How 436 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: old was he? I think the boy was like, I 437 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: want to say, maybe it was ten eleven. How old 438 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 1: you when you're like at the sixth grade? Yeah, oh 439 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: my god, that's so sad. Yeah, he was being And 440 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: the thing is what's crazy is that it was actually 441 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: I remember going on the news, and I remember that 442 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: situation ended up being posted on the news somewhere because 443 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 1: I would end up being on a faith because the 444 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: father ended up reading the note on a Facebook live 445 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 1: and the situation was that he was being willied at school. 446 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 1: They the parents had already addressed it with the school 447 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,439 Speaker 1: and they technically the school didn't do anything about it. 448 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: Technically they actually actually suggested that the boy takes some 449 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:34,120 Speaker 1: days off from school or something like that. I can't remember. Um, 450 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 1: so yeah, that's probably some of the most difficult ends 451 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: of the job are just dealing with those calls. I 452 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 1: think my second and I think after that call I took, 453 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: like and then like if you have to imagine like 454 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 1: somebody coming up to you and being like, okay, you 455 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: had a bad call. Take ten minutes. Take take, and 456 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 1: they'd be like, I'm trying to take the day, like 457 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 1: forget this, I'm trying to be done, Like I don't 458 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: even want to be here no more, Like well, I'm 459 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 1: gonna ask you laying on about how do you cope 460 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: with that? But um, and I also feel like you 461 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 1: have to be a good multime t asker. Well yeah, 462 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 1: you definitely do. Then that entire job is talking and 463 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: typing and also putting your phone on mute to be 464 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 1: like at your desk and you're like, hey, um, supervisor, 465 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 1: that we gotta we gotta like this person. And this 466 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 1: is like especially if their kids in their own age 467 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 1: and then like there's no parents, Um, it was it 468 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: would be a couple of situations. I think the last 469 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: time I had like a really bad situation was a 470 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: woman whispering, and she was on a cell phone, and 471 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: she was in the bathroom. So technically I had to 472 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,719 Speaker 1: call a supervisor because I had to UM, I had 473 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 1: to ultimately track her track her phone. UM, I had 474 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: to get them to track her phone number. UM. Usually 475 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 1: when you track a phone number, that usually helps you. 476 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 1: That's only in emergency cases and as you honestly, sometimes 477 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 1: unless you are like very very close to a cell 478 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: tower that pings. Honestly, I only got a five block 479 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: radius on you. M M, maybe three blocks, um. And 480 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: please don't be in an apartment building, because then I 481 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,120 Speaker 1: am fucked. Okay, because if you're an apartment building, tracking 482 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: does not come with apartment numbers. Okay, So I don't 483 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: know what floor you on. By the time we knock 484 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 1: on every door, you might be out right. I'm like, 485 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: whatever the situation may be. In this situation, it was 486 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 1: kind of like that they were I think they were 487 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 1: in a house of some sort. But the sister was 488 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:44,439 Speaker 1: the one that was um whispering in the bathroom. She 489 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 1: had left, she had locked herself in the bathroom because 490 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,440 Speaker 1: she was calling on behalf of her sister. So yeah, 491 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,239 Speaker 1: it was it was a sister she was calling on 492 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: behalf of her sister. Who's how home she was at. Um, 493 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: the sister was pregnant and being beaten up by and 494 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 1: being like walked by her um by her baby father, 495 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 1: her boyfriend or whatever. So because she was being beaten Um, 496 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 1: that was a domestic violence situation. The sister tried to 497 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: get the guy, get the boyfriend to stop. Then he 498 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 1: started whooping her. So then she runs away from being 499 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: whooped into the bathroom and then she's whispering because she 500 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: doesn't want enough. She wants to call the police while 501 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,120 Speaker 1: he's while he's still here, so that he can get 502 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: locked up. And she I guess the way that she 503 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: was talking, it was just very very hard to hear her. 504 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: She didn't actually know the address of her own sister's house. Um, 505 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: oh my god. Oh that was the tracking part. But 506 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: luckily it was a house and not an apartment. Um. 507 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: She gave us a full description of the guy, so 508 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: she let us know what he looked like and what 509 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: he was currently wearing. Um. We we even asked like, 510 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: do you know the condition of the baby? Do you 511 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: know a condition of your sister, like you know, was 512 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: she bleeding or you know, where was he hitting her 513 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: or anything, whether any whether any um, whether any weapons 514 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,239 Speaker 1: involved or anything like that. So you gotta ask all 515 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: these questions. So and it sucks to act. They'll ask 516 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 1: all these questions. Why somebody's trying to hide in the back. 517 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, you just made you just 518 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: made me think of a good question because I didn't 519 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: know that it's difficult for you to locate somebody if 520 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: they're in the apartment. So what are some dudes and 521 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: don't when somebody's calling they need assistance because I don't 522 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 1: think mybody really know that if you can, honestly, if 523 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: you can touch, if you can pick up I mean, 524 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people don't have landlines anymore, 525 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: but if you can call an emergency from a landline, 526 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: we know exactly where you are. That phone number is 527 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: attached to the is attached to the apartment number. Oh okay, 528 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: I know that you are at you know, one nine 529 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: five four apartment two D Great, I know that. And 530 00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: then once you get into the and the only thing 531 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: that sucks is that I said I would say, um, 532 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: definitely tips be next to a landline, uh, and me 533 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: if you can, no matter what the situation is, as 534 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: soon as we say, now on one, where is the emergency? 535 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: Very clearly say the numbers numerically say don't say nineteen 536 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: fifty four, say one, nine five four remsen Avenue, like 537 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: say it and even if that's all you say, and 538 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: then bang it on us. I that's a call for help. 539 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 1: That's a ten. We don't know the priority of the call, 540 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: but priority of the call if it's um. I think 541 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: our priorities go from zero to three, and I think 542 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: zero is a zero priority is actually the highest priority. 543 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,719 Speaker 1: I think, I think, I think I remember that, not 544 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: even sure about to say somebody if then whenever, whenever 545 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: you hear this, somebody and I want dispassion will come 546 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 1: for me. But it's okay, you're riding in the comments. 547 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: They'll be like no girls the other way around priorities, 548 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: and I'll be like, I appreciate you, but yeah. I 549 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: think the main tips are don't set yourself up for situation, 550 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 1: for situations period. But at the same time, like I 551 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: can't even say have a have another person with you 552 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 1: at all times or anything, because you never know how 553 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: the situation is actually going to unfold. Your best bet 554 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: is and I just saw the other day that they 555 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: just took out the last UH phone booth for New York, 556 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 1: so I guess you can't run up. You can't run 557 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: up to the phone. Wow. But they do have those 558 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: No One one stations like those new station things everywhere 559 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 1: for the most part, on most blocks in Brooklyn or 560 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: New York altogether where you should be able to push 561 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: your button the definite in the hood. Yeah, they have that, 562 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna we used to get a lot 563 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: of those calls. We definitely got a lot of those 564 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 1: calls from what are those UM fire department, Those tall 565 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: red department was also called on on one too, So 566 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: I would say, definitely identify all of those UM emergency 567 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: areas in your neighborhood every time. Because your phone, your 568 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 1: cell phone is we can track your cell phone. But 569 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: the first thing that they do is check where it 570 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: pings first, and then it pings. If it pings close enough, great, 571 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 1: If it doesn't, then we just know generally you're what 572 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: area you're in. Otherwise, if your phone is on and 573 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: you have iPhone, thank god, because whether you're thing is 574 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 1: on or off, I think as long as your phone 575 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: is on, I believe that we can track it through iPhone, 576 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 1: track my phone on my phone or whatever like that. 577 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: We've also used that as well. Other than that, that's 578 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 1: pretty much, honestly, I don't I can't think of any 579 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 1: any better advice, like just perfectly be next one landline 580 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: and always always clearly say your address. That will save 581 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: your life. Yeah. Do you feel like the media does 582 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: a good job with depicting the roles and responsibilities of 583 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: your job? I believe, honestly, I think when it comes 584 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: to dispatching and not on one call taking, yes, because 585 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: I've seen on social media a few little posts even 586 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: like on the Shade room or and I've even read 587 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: and seeing other people that I know comments on for 588 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 1: dispatching and call taking. The only thing that we ever 589 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: get that's like slightly like like slightly considered negative or 590 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 1: backlash is why do not want one call takers? Act 591 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: so many questions? It's because we're not coming, We're not 592 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: leaving this desk also save you. I don't know what 593 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: I feel as though people who are in the midst 594 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 1: of an emergency don't realize that the same people you're 595 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: talking to are not the same people that's coming to you. 596 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: And just because we are asking you a number of 597 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: questions does not mean that we haven't sent anybody already 598 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: on the way. That's why we actually are trained to say, 599 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: um like a certain line right after I don't want 600 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 1: to say it because I can't actually remember verbatim, but 601 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 1: there's like a specific line that we say, like right 602 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: after we get your address and confirm everything that we say, 603 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: like let you know, like they're on their way, like 604 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: the services on the way, and then right after that, 605 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: that's when we start the questions. But apparently, you know, 606 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: people are still are an emergency situation, so you have 607 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 1: selective hearing, and they just skip but they skip over 608 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: at and then they just hear the questions we're asking 609 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: and then they start getting hysterical, like why are you 610 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: still asking me questions? I'm telling you that my brother 611 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: is not breathing. Ye have already sent the mt UM. 612 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: We understand that there's having difficulty breathing there, and like 613 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: there's literally there's like it's kind of like a checklist. 614 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,279 Speaker 1: It's like where you at? Okay, cool, now we know 615 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 1: where we're going. All right, what's going on now? I 616 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 1: can disposition this job to say that this is at 617 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,879 Speaker 1: fifty four? Is any kind of emergency UM ambulatory job 618 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,400 Speaker 1: like with an r O. R OW is like for 619 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: E M S dispatch, So then you know, like, okay, 620 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 1: what's going on, Oh, difficulty breathing. We it's like a checkbox. 621 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, and this person is having diffic knows 622 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: to come with extra oxygen and then they're right exactly. 623 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 1: So that's the only things that's like. But honestly, UM 624 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 1: police officers have it worse than we do. Just there 625 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: obviously UM out on the field, and I mean, I 626 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: would definitely say that unfortunately, there are some bad there's 627 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 1: there are some bad officers out there, some bad apples 628 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: out there, and then they make the rest of everybody 629 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: who's actually there to do their job because I didn't 630 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 1: have what to family members in the police force UM 631 00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: up to like sergeants and lieutenants and everything like that, 632 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: and they're the best people. They're like the entire purpose 633 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 1: of being in that position and that job is to 634 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 1: create structure and to help that community and everything. But 635 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: if you're just going there because you just want to 636 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 1: have a gun on one side and the baton on 637 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: this side, and just you know, have that cloud of 638 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 1: being an authority like person and think that nobody could 639 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: tell you can tell you anything. Then unfortunately you can't. 640 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 1: There's no way, there's no way to tell that this 641 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: this officer from this officer until you actually until one 642 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: of them actually does something wrong right, and the ones 643 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: that are wrong, I mean, I wish that there was 644 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: like a tiny little picker I could just be like 645 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: you out you out, you out, you out, you out 646 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: you out. I definitely think that those bad apples, they 647 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 1: really make it hard for people to trust with the ones. Oh, 648 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: they definitely do, But I don't think luckily. I feel 649 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: like you can't have a bad apple in dispatching. You 650 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 1: can't have a bad apple in not on call taking one. 651 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,480 Speaker 1: All of our calls are recorded, um every single every 652 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 1: single one. And I've actually had to hear myself talk 653 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 1: back because I think I got written up once. Did 654 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: I get written up? I think I did, but I 655 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 1: think it was a lot of people got written us. 656 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: It was like a big, huge fire in queens and 657 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 1: in like an apartment building, and I got written up 658 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 1: because I took too long to send them to the 659 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 1: fire to dispatch them stay send them straight to the 660 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 1: fire department line because it was a multiple imagine like 661 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: fifty lemon calls coming in from all the from the 662 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: same building, from the same fire, but all based on 663 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,839 Speaker 1: the notes that I was looking at. I think I 664 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 1: thought I was doing my due diligence by asking one 665 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: extra question, because the person was time to tell me information. 666 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: Tell me that, Hey, this handicap neighbor of mine is 667 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 1: in a wheelchair. She I did not see her come 668 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,840 Speaker 1: out as yet, and I'm afraid that she might and 669 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if she's home, but she might be 670 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 1: in her apartment. So I took down the name of 671 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 1: the number, the apartment number, and just started writing that 672 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: information because if that person is stuck in there, I 673 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 1: would want that note to be in there to possibly check. Rightly, 674 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: I took too long. As soon as the person said fire. Technically, 675 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 1: according to your training, when that person says confirms the 676 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: address and tells you that it's a fire, you're supposed 677 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: to send them straight to the f D. And I 678 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: did not do that. So I got rand up for that. 679 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: That was it. So I mean, I take and I 680 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 1: take that too, because I listened to it. And then 681 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 1: they were like, what were you supposed to do? And 682 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: I was just like, I was supposed to transfer im 683 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: straight over to f D. But then it's so crazy 684 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 1: because you're thinking that you're going the extra MoU but 685 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: you actually got reprimanded. Yeah, because um, one thing about 686 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: one thing about NYPD, it is about structure. It is 687 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 1: about it in this very procedural So yeah, you gotta 688 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 1: follow things by the book, even though you might have 689 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,800 Speaker 1: a moment where you're you think that you're being you're being, 690 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: you're doing you're doing your due diligence. But sometimes when 691 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,879 Speaker 1: you're doing that, you're falling out of line. M hmm. 692 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: So what do you do when you receive a call 693 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 1: that's not an emergency because I know NIGGA is like 694 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 1: the prank call. Oh yeah, oh um, prank calls. It 695 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 1: depends on how they prank call, because some of them 696 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: prank call and they are really genuinely just playing with 697 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 1: you on the phone. But the ones that prank call, 698 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: unfortunately and they're like oh and then they hang up. Unfortunately, 699 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: we still have to that's we still have to call 700 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 1: that a tent tent for let's call a tent tent 701 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,839 Speaker 1: because it's just a calls for help and we don't 702 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: know what the issue is. And then sometimes also we 703 00:39:55,200 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: don't know where you are, so that I definite only 704 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 1: want to say is especially if we're definitely I'm on, 705 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,720 Speaker 1: um we're doing this now. People who make prank calls 706 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: are selfish. Yeah, they are extremely selfish. In my opinion, 707 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 1: Do not call an emergency line if you do not 708 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: have an emergency because all of the other people it's 709 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 1: only but so many police officers that are patrolling in 710 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 1: one in in an evening, you have many up to 711 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: like I'm an Adam, you see, I think you can 712 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,960 Speaker 1: have from Adam to like George, like a to G 713 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: squads um out um outside uh like actual police squad 714 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: cars out and that's two police officers person uh per car. 715 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: So unfortunately, when they get that tent tents call for help, 716 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:51,560 Speaker 1: it may not be a priority. But imagining two people 717 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 1: go you know, to patrol cars decided to end up 718 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,800 Speaker 1: answering that calls for help and then find out that 719 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: next minute we had like a fire or domestic by 720 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: island situation, or somebody just got mugged or something on 721 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: the street like probably fift twenty blocks or in the 722 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 1: same burrow, but in that's in that area. Both of 723 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 1: the units went to that call for help, and or 724 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,360 Speaker 1: one went to the to that call of help, and 725 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,760 Speaker 1: then one came to back up that one justin case 726 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: now he's mad. Now them two are over there to 727 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: the left, and emergency just happened to the right. But 728 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 1: they wasted their time going to the left because of 729 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:32,399 Speaker 1: your plank call. So what happens when when you find 730 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,240 Speaker 1: out it's a prank call? Like, do they get in trouble? 731 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 1: I mean, if we can, if we can catch them. 732 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: Some people, I've actually the only one I remember A 733 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 1: few times. I remember it was like a person was 734 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,440 Speaker 1: calling from their landline. Oh, if you're calling from me 735 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: a landline, Oh, I'm sending the police to you. It's 736 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 1: not a call for help. It's not a call for help. 737 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 1: I'm sending the police to you. I'm gonna be like, oh, 738 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 1: this call came from this number, this apartment on this floor, 739 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,959 Speaker 1: and every thing. The only time that the person doesn't 740 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 1: get in trouble is if it's generally a building and 741 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: the police cannot gain access into the building, like you know, 742 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 1: they press the buttons or they press the thing a 743 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 1: colde and they can't actually gain that like a gate 744 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: or a front door or multiple doors to get through. 745 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:23,359 Speaker 1: Police do not have a secret code. The police are 746 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 1: not the mail or not the mailman. They don't have 747 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 1: a they don't have a universal key. That's what's gonna 748 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: get them into every building on the block. You gotta 749 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,959 Speaker 1: tell them, oh, the gate code is this, or will 750 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 1: be outside or will really be on the first floor something, 751 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 1: or well you know, or when they pull up they 752 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: I mean. And later on that's when that's when I 753 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,439 Speaker 1: found out. I was like, let me do dispatching, because 754 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 1: as soon as I could get off of non one 755 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: call taking, I did that for eleven months, even though 756 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: your technique is supposed to do it for a year. Um. 757 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: I found out after like my loving Mark, I was 758 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,920 Speaker 1: able to train for dispatching, and then I was switched 759 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,840 Speaker 1: over to dispatching. Dispatching is essentially you're being called central 760 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,799 Speaker 1: because when police officers walk with that walkie talking on 761 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 1: their shoulder, that's who they're talking to. That I am 762 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 1: the person that they're They're constantly like, like, that's who 763 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm talking Like, I'll be like, I'm gonna go send 764 00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 1: you to someone so on the street, this is what's 765 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: going on, blah blah blah blah blah. And then they 766 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 1: have to talk to me all day long, right right, 767 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,799 Speaker 1: you gotta be like, hey, I made be four, which 768 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: means I arrived or I'm on the way or And 769 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 1: then that's why we have to learn a couple more. 770 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: Like you think you learned a whole bunch of codes, 771 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 1: and in this back in the nine one one call taking, 772 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: you have to take those same codes and now apply 773 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:50,399 Speaker 1: them to uh dispatching, because now like after they put 774 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: in the call phenomen one, I have to dispatch a 775 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: unit to that call. That's what this are. So we 776 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 1: take with the nomen one call takers input and then 777 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 1: dispatch a unit to go to that and figure out 778 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 1: what that is and then disposition it and let us 779 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 1: know what's going on, Like do you need more assistance? 780 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 1: Do you need backup? Is it some bullshit? Let me 781 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 1: know what's going on when you get there? Oh you 782 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 1: you go to you good? All? Now you need a 783 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,840 Speaker 1: super you need a supervisor to come through. Oh, this 784 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,839 Speaker 1: is a d O A on site. Damn, that's the worst. 785 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie. I always feel bad. But 786 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: a police officer who arrives and there's a body on site, 787 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,319 Speaker 1: and it's like because they actually have to stay there 788 00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:36,720 Speaker 1: all night. M you have to stay there like hours 789 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,000 Speaker 1: upon hours, like wait for everybody to come. You gotta 790 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 1: wait for you and lieutenant to come. You gotta wait 791 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 1: for the coroners to come, like them to do all 792 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 1: the reporting. And I think it's just I think that's 793 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 1: like the most paperwork. Yeah, I mean, yeah, I can 794 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 1: only imagine I would think like that, and like, I 795 00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:02,320 Speaker 1: think the most interesting and intriguing jobs are the ones where, um, 796 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,880 Speaker 1: there's a chase. I'm not gonna lie those are the worst, 797 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 1: but fun like because I would say that's the only 798 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: time I was like, I think you're typing a mile 799 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: a minute and talking because there's a mic right here 800 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,399 Speaker 1: in front of you. And then you're typing like this 801 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:22,760 Speaker 1: because your keyboard is right here and there's a pedal 802 00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 1: on the floor that when you hit the pedal, it 803 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: makes me it uh, it allows me for them to 804 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 1: hear me on the mic. So I hit on the 805 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 1: thing and I'm like, what's going on? You know, lifted up, 806 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,560 Speaker 1: they're coming through. They're like, we're chasing, and like it's 807 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:43,760 Speaker 1: just kind of running. So it's like you are being tested, Yes, yeah, 808 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: listening skills are being tested. My typing skills. How much 809 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,759 Speaker 1: information that I'm typing And as you're typing, you don't 810 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: want to type a whole bunch, like a whole paragraph 811 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: and then press into No, you want to type and 812 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 1: type and like because I'm like, I want to get 813 00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:03,280 Speaker 1: this information over right, because I'm like, Oh, we're chasing 814 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,720 Speaker 1: the black male. He's doing the orange t blue jeans. 815 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: Not he just went left on someone. So he just 816 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: went south on someone. So he's still going down the street. 817 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,840 Speaker 1: We got this unit already following him. This unit. Where's 818 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 1: this unit at where y'all like, y'all see him? Right? 819 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: It's a lot right, Oh, he took off the range. 820 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 1: Short man is now topless, running with jeans on south ground. 821 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,959 Speaker 1: On the f d R, we had people running down 822 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:36,160 Speaker 1: the median medians of like, what do you call it? 823 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,440 Speaker 1: Was it not the f DR? Um? No, it's the 824 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: FDR for like the FDR is on the other side. Yeah. Wait, 825 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,279 Speaker 1: So is there ever a time when it's appropriate to 826 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:50,879 Speaker 1: hang up on callers? Technically? No, you can terminate a call. 827 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 1: Technically when you terminate a call is if they are 828 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 1: not if they're calling, Like we get people from the 829 00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 1: cycle this um, this psych word in Brooklyn, or and 830 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:04,919 Speaker 1: there's onnother one in the Bronx Yes, yes, park then 831 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 1: and whatever. Um. We will get calls either from the 832 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 1: Bronx psych Ward or from that one in Brooklyn. And 833 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: some of them are calling and saying really depressing things. 834 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 1: They're like some of them are just like, Hey, I'm 835 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,080 Speaker 1: just calling because I just want to talk to somebody. 836 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,720 Speaker 1: I haven't talked to somebody so long. And some times 837 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: you entertain it because you don't know what their situation is. 838 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 1: You don't know if they're on suicide watch what. So 839 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, what you want to talk about? Like 840 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,839 Speaker 1: it is everything okay with you? Like you've been feeling okay, 841 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 1: reading any new good books like ertain like a spot 842 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,359 Speaker 1: of you just want to pretty much make sure that 843 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,520 Speaker 1: evaluate the call to a certain extent that you know 844 00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 1: that the person is not gonna harm themselves or others. Right, So, 845 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 1: what did you think about? A No, that was it? 846 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,279 Speaker 1: That was I was gonna say, Oh I was gonna say. 847 00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 1: What do you think about? What was your thoughts? On 848 00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,760 Speaker 1: the nine one one dispatcher hang up on a caller 849 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:05,320 Speaker 1: during the Buffalo shooting. Oh I don't even I would 850 00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 1: hope Buffalo. Oh wait, that was recent, isn't that? Yeah? 851 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,799 Speaker 1: I was yeah, okay, um, no, one didn't even hear 852 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: about that. They hung up on They hung up on 853 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: a caller. Yeah, the caller was there doing a shooting, 854 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 1: trying to cost nine on one for help, and that 855 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 1: dispatcher hung up. I'm guessing then. Unfortunately they have that recorded, 856 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:30,360 Speaker 1: so that dispatcher probably got fired. Yeah she did. Yeah, 857 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: because that's kind of up, that's kind of sucked up. Yeah, 858 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 1: we don't. You technically are never supposed to terminate a 859 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:45,320 Speaker 1: call unless there is no sound, and honestly, you we 860 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 1: we still send out calls on calls that where they 861 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 1: said nothing. If they called nine on one and they're 862 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: saying absolutely nothing and you just hear like breathing in 863 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 1: the background, that person could have been stabbed shot and 864 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: could barely talk and can't catch their breath. Right, Yeah, 865 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna send somebody your way. So it's yeah, no, 866 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,280 Speaker 1: that really fucked up. If you hang up on anybody 867 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,920 Speaker 1: that calls for emergency services. Yes, we Unfortunately there are 868 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: some parts, there's some you know, pranksters out there that 869 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,719 Speaker 1: don't understand the levity of an emergency line. Like that. 870 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: But no, never hang up on somebody, because you would 871 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: never want somebody to hang up on you. But everybody's 872 00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: feel different, you know. And honestly, I think as soon 873 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 1: as she hung up that call or hung up on 874 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,720 Speaker 1: that person, I think she knew she was gonna be fired. Yeah. Yeah, 875 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,880 Speaker 1: And also there's just no way for you not to 876 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 1: think that you funked up in that moment, right, They 877 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: don't want on the news. Probably she probably saw it 878 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: later on on the news and then absolutely knew she 879 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: was gonna be fired. Right. And I also feel like 880 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: this is not a job where you can just relax 881 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: on because I was doing research for this and for 882 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 1: this conversation, and I saw that it was a Houston 883 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 1: nine one one dispatcher and she spent ten day is 884 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: in jail and she got eighteen months of probation because 885 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:09,680 Speaker 1: she was hanging up on thousands of colors. Really, honestly, 886 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 1: I mean I would hope that she they would have 887 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:17,720 Speaker 1: some level of reprimand because those are so many lives. Yeah, 888 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,000 Speaker 1: it was crazy that could have that probably ended that 889 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: could have been like either the scenarios could have ended 890 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,720 Speaker 1: up so much different if they actually got help in time. 891 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: Or you know, the police were there or somebody was 892 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 1: there to save them those scenarios that's kind of messed up. 893 00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: And then I mean that's why I feel like, I 894 00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,759 Speaker 1: don't think that they're bad apples in this job, but 895 00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: they're probably definitely are people who are who have been 896 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:48,399 Speaker 1: who have been doing the job too long that they're 897 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,920 Speaker 1: almost over it, that they no longer have that empathy 898 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,760 Speaker 1: in them anymore. Because I can totally see that because 899 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,759 Speaker 1: this job can suck a lot of the like out 900 00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:00,239 Speaker 1: of you. I've seen multiple co workers who who have 901 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: had strokes on the job um who definitely feel slided 902 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:12,400 Speaker 1: or slided by just the actual New York City Police 903 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,359 Speaker 1: Department and like their pay and their schedule and things 904 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: like that, and they probably take it out take it 905 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 1: out on their work. You know, it's not I mean, 906 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: I would hope that it's never like just being like 907 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 1: careless to whom you're speaking to, because at the end 908 00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,640 Speaker 1: of the day, every single person that's calling is obviously 909 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 1: calling for something, for some assistance, for something, for some 910 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:37,360 Speaker 1: type of aid, and that's literally what your job is. 911 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,640 Speaker 1: Hence why you said, like, why do people get into 912 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,400 Speaker 1: jobs like this? Because you want to help people. So 913 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: if you don't want to help people, you don't need 914 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: to have his job. But in some some aspect of 915 00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: you needs to needs to have some care for others 916 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,000 Speaker 1: to be in this job, because if you don't give 917 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,279 Speaker 1: a funk about others and you're that, you're one of 918 00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: those type of people who was like I could care less. 919 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure honestly most people like that. They slowly doindle. 920 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,719 Speaker 1: Like if I came in with twenty five people, um, 921 00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 1: after the by the end of the academy, it was 922 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 1: like fifteen of us. They fall out, like they fall 923 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,840 Speaker 1: like flies to the wayside, honey, Like, as you're learning 924 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,880 Speaker 1: the job. My home girl she's still my homegirl to 925 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:29,279 Speaker 1: this day. But after training she quit after like week one, 926 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 1: week two. When you're actually on the job, Yeah, So 927 00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 1: in what place does this job effect you mentally? Um, 928 00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 1: definitely taught me just how to handle certain situations and 929 00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:49,359 Speaker 1: how not to set myself up. Also, Um, I would 930 00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 1: say that mentally, it makes you just appreciate life, girl, 931 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,919 Speaker 1: It makes you appreciate life and a lot of scenarios 932 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:03,799 Speaker 1: that you joke about, even my jokes, Like I know, 933 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,640 Speaker 1: I joke all day and a lot of people. My 934 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,600 Speaker 1: friends know me that I can talk while ship and 935 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: I got jokes for days. But um, certain situations you 936 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:20,120 Speaker 1: can't even joke about. You can't can't joke about domestic violence, Um, 937 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,240 Speaker 1: domestic violence, or just any kind of fighting, like because 938 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 1: I mean any version of fighting. I've never personally been 939 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:28,880 Speaker 1: in the fight. And I used to tell people this 940 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 1: all the time. I was just like, I never actually 941 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 1: have actually been in a physical fight, because apparently I 942 00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 1: must have such great friends around me that every time 943 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 1: I was about to be attacked one of them swooped 944 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: in already person for me. But I was just kind 945 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 1: of like, but scenarios like just randomly getting stabbed on 946 00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 1: the street, or people running you down on the street 947 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,400 Speaker 1: to attack you, like that boy. Like I was on 948 00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 1: the job when that boy in the Bronx, that's bad. 949 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 1: I a whole bunch of people. Yes, I was sitting 950 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,399 Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. I was sitting in Brooklyn Dispatch and when 951 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,960 Speaker 1: I was heartbreaking, Oh my god, a few of my 952 00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 1: coworkers in the Bronx got that call. And then when 953 00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:18,440 Speaker 1: you actually see it, it's like, I don't even know 954 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 1: how to explain. So and then the phone calls that 955 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 1: you've gotten before. So I remember a person that said 956 00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 1: that they were bleeding out and had no idea where 957 00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 1: they were. But when they look up into the sky, 958 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:36,759 Speaker 1: it's dark, it's mad bushes, and there they were making. 959 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,239 Speaker 1: They were also saying that if they looked across into 960 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 1: the other bush, they can see like these glowing eyes 961 00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:45,919 Speaker 1: looking back at them. Girl. I was like, I did 962 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 1: so much tracking. I was like, this person has got 963 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 1: to be at the Botanical Zoo, like at the zoo, 964 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,919 Speaker 1: at the Bronx Zoo or something like, must have fell 965 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,400 Speaker 1: over into the thing, into a pit or something. Because 966 00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,680 Speaker 1: they were making it sounds like they got shot also, 967 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 1: So I was just like, I don't know down so 968 00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,919 Speaker 1: just the fights, the let out of parties. I worked 969 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:14,239 Speaker 1: eleven pm to seven am in New York. Yeah, so 970 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,879 Speaker 1: the let out for parties, the letoff for parties, Oh 971 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,200 Speaker 1: my god, let off for parties in any neighborhood that 972 00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 1: was heavily Hispanic. Yeah, it was corona bottles and fights everywhere. 973 00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 1: It was just it was like it was pure alcoholism. 974 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:36,200 Speaker 1: It was it was people who didn't takeing UBA's home 975 00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,520 Speaker 1: and didn't want to get out the ubas. It was 976 00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:41,400 Speaker 1: Uba drivers calling us and saying that the passengers passed 977 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 1: out in the back seat and refusing to leave. It's 978 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 1: a whole bunch of stuff, Like I just know, based 979 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 1: on those scenarios, how not to set myself up for 980 00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,719 Speaker 1: any of those situations. And then also how this kind 981 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,279 Speaker 1: of safeguard a lot of my friends around me to 982 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,359 Speaker 1: make sure that they don't end up in those situations. 983 00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:03,439 Speaker 1: My friends had they tracking on, yeah, yeah, you better 984 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:05,959 Speaker 1: text me when you get there, when you got there, 985 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,319 Speaker 1: when you're leaving there. And I mean, if they're a 986 00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:12,840 Speaker 1: real one in your day one, then honestly, anywhere that 987 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:17,520 Speaker 1: y'all go together, y'all should be leaving together anyway. Right right, 988 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: So after a long day, how did you own wine? 989 00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 1: Like what did your self care look like? Because just 990 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,439 Speaker 1: to hear some I mean the story with a little 991 00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,719 Speaker 1: girl was just a lot with her brother, Like what 992 00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:33,160 Speaker 1: did you do? I took longer than ten minutes um 993 00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:34,600 Speaker 1: that they try to give me. They were like, oh, 994 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: go take a ten fifteen minute break, and I was like, no, 995 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:39,319 Speaker 1: I can't just go home after this, Like this was 996 00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:43,080 Speaker 1: tumultuous and emotionally draining, and wait, not for nothing if 997 00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,440 Speaker 1: you're taking ten or fifteen minutes. I can only imagine 998 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: how these sensitized that can make a person. Yeah, you're 999 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,440 Speaker 1: only taking ten fifteen minutes because I mean unless you 1000 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,640 Speaker 1: want to formally take a break or take a lunch 1001 00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:59,879 Speaker 1: or do something early like, No, you are taking ten 1002 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes ago because use a bottle of water something, 1003 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,160 Speaker 1: walk around for like two seconds and go to fall 1004 00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: and then you won't get right back into that room 1005 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 1: and get right back on the calls, and and then 1006 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:13,440 Speaker 1: I think the worst thing to ever happen is if 1007 00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,240 Speaker 1: you're haven't already feeling like you're having a long day. 1008 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 1: The one thing that everybody, I would imagine hates at 1009 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:24,360 Speaker 1: working for New York City Police Department, where the mandatory holds. 1010 00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 1: The mandatory holds, like I told you earlier, came three 1011 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:32,120 Speaker 1: times a week, could come three times a week. So 1012 00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 1: imagine if I'm thinking I'm just about to get off 1013 00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 1: at six thirty in the morning, I'm like, oh that 1014 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 1: thirty moment, especially out of here. And then at six 1015 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,200 Speaker 1: forty five, somebody comes up to your desk and puts 1016 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 1: a paper on your desk telling you that you stay 1017 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: in handtil three pm. And it's like, oh, my God. 1018 00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:55,040 Speaker 1: It was kind of when those moments was like how 1019 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 1: much sick time do I have? Like it was kind 1020 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,200 Speaker 1: of like one of those moments. It was kind of 1021 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,760 Speaker 1: like the only way that you can get out of 1022 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 1: something mandatory was like if you had fm l A, 1023 00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:09,200 Speaker 1: which I didn't have, and um, because I didn't care 1024 00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 1: for any I wasn't caring for anybody. Um Like I 1025 00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,880 Speaker 1: eventually like I was later on towards the end with 1026 00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 1: my mother and yeah, sick time. Yeah. And honestly, if 1027 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,280 Speaker 1: you didn't want to use your sick time, then obviously 1028 00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 1: you would stick. You would stay there, you would be 1029 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,400 Speaker 1: sitting there, and luckily, so many people would come in 1030 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:35,120 Speaker 1: for the next shift from seven to from seven to three, 1031 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,920 Speaker 1: or from UM or from Earl, or people would come 1032 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,600 Speaker 1: early from the three to eleven shift. That luckily, magically, 1033 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,000 Speaker 1: at some point in the day, like you know, you've 1034 00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,320 Speaker 1: got a glimmer of hope and that maybe at eleven am, 1035 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,840 Speaker 1: four hours later, somebody's like, oh, you can go home. 1036 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:56,280 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. And this was like, did I just do 1037 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 1: twelve hours? I did? I sure did just do twelve hours. 1038 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,720 Speaker 1: Stopped for me to take my ass home, But mind, 1039 00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:04,439 Speaker 1: you still got to come back by eleven pm that night. Right, 1040 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 1: So I know that you left this position because your 1041 00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,520 Speaker 1: mom had a stroke. So do you think that she 1042 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:14,720 Speaker 1: would still be doing this if she didn't have her stroke? Um? 1043 00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 1: Probably not, Honestly. I took the police officer test, like 1044 00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 1: I said earlier, and I did pass that, and they 1045 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:29,000 Speaker 1: were by the time. UM, I was in really in 1046 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 1: the midst of taking care of my mom. Because my 1047 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,000 Speaker 1: mom had to stroke out in Denver, we had to 1048 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,640 Speaker 1: fly her back. Um, we had to fly her back 1049 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: to New York. And then when and that she's I 1050 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 1: was the only one that was living in New York. 1051 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,560 Speaker 1: My sister lived in Georgia. My mom is divorced from 1052 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,760 Speaker 1: my father. My brother doesn't live with us anymore, so 1053 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 1: that was the only person living in New York. So 1054 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: bringing my mom home to New York, UM to take 1055 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:57,040 Speaker 1: care of her was not ready for it all by myself. Um. 1056 00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,680 Speaker 1: And then we didn't have like aids or anything like 1057 00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 1: all the of finances and medical stuff set up yet, 1058 01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 1: so a lot of it was on me by myself. 1059 01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 1: So that was a lot and I definitely that's how 1060 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,200 Speaker 1: I ended up getting at f M l A. And UM, 1061 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:17,919 Speaker 1: I would say you can see a question towards the end. 1062 01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,760 Speaker 1: I don't think I would have been doing dispatching or 1063 01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,520 Speaker 1: not on one call taking because because I passed the test, 1064 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 1: I had gotten the memo to start police academy for 1065 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 1: being a police officer, but I decided not to do it. 1066 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. And one more question because I think this 1067 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,439 Speaker 1: is the question just because if anybody's situation they don't 1068 01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:42,240 Speaker 1: know how to communicate, Um, what are some other ways 1069 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 1: somebody can communicate without making a lot of noise? Communicate 1070 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 1: without making a lot of noise in what way? What 1071 01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: do you mean? Because I was reading something about the 1072 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 1: nine one one solid call procedure, Well, I'm not even 1073 01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:01,640 Speaker 1: that might be something more updated because we anything that 1074 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,120 Speaker 1: was a silent call we would handle as a ten 1075 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 1: ten calls for help because it depends on one if 1076 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,040 Speaker 1: we are able to track the call what we're hearing 1077 01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:13,840 Speaker 1: on the line, because even after a call, we can 1078 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:17,720 Speaker 1: play back the call to see if maybe miss something 1079 01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,040 Speaker 1: so that we can add additional information like oh, you 1080 01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 1: know what towards this, you know, two minutes and thirty 1081 01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,560 Speaker 1: seconds into the call, I did hear like a siren 1082 01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 1: or some type of railroad tracks in the background like 1083 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: or like a door open, because let's say we'll have 1084 01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,040 Speaker 1: a lot of those site calls, and and those cite calls, 1085 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,880 Speaker 1: a lot of them are just there listening to us talk. 1086 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,640 Speaker 1: And we used to have some regulars. Actually there was 1087 01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 1: all I think her name was like Bonnie or Donna 1088 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:54,440 Speaker 1: or something. She always called and cussed everybody out. Everybody out, y'all, 1089 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:59,840 Speaker 1: fucker's don't know ship and ship is this? And I 1090 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:03,040 Speaker 1: used to set dick back in the day, and I 1091 01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 1: used to do this and that and the third on 1092 01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:08,720 Speaker 1: the black and like, yo, she's just just cuss. It's 1093 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,920 Speaker 1: just it was like nasty talking custom that's all she did. 1094 01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:17,160 Speaker 1: She used to be like, hi, girl, thank you for calling. 1095 01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 1: You know, this is an emergency line. Don't do this again. 1096 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,439 Speaker 1: Now you don't wanna have to send nobody to you. 1097 01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 1: Fuck you send her mother, you wanna send like it's 1098 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 1: like and I was like, alright, girl. It was just 1099 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 1: and then sometimes it'd be like like you could hear 1100 01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 1: the like like a whole bunch of like, uh, what 1101 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 1: do you call it? Like shuffling for a second. Two 1102 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,720 Speaker 1: seconds later it's like her nurse, It's like I'm sorry, 1103 01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, let me go through this every day. It's 1104 01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: like much alright like us, So like you know, sometimes 1105 01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 1: you'll hear it or sometimes it will be like some 1106 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 1: people they'll be like, my nurse, my nurse is, um, 1107 01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,280 Speaker 1: my nurse is abusing me, and so they're like if 1108 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:02,800 Speaker 1: they actually say words that sound like they're in needs, 1109 01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,640 Speaker 1: it's like, yes, of course a nurse. Nurses aren't a 1110 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:10,800 Speaker 1: percent saints. So nurses, you know, treat people badly as 1111 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:13,240 Speaker 1: well to a certain extent. So yeah, we gotta go 1112 01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 1: and find out if that person's claim is true or 1113 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 1: maybe that nurses not even in the room. You never know. 1114 01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:29,480 Speaker 1: But um, anything that's quiet sign completely silent. Um. I 1115 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:33,280 Speaker 1: do know. Before I left, because this is like between 1116 01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 1: like almost two three years ago. Before I left, Um, 1117 01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 1: they were doing this new nine one one text They 1118 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 1: were testing out that that was a new division where 1119 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 1: people can text messages, phone calls, audios and things of 1120 01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:52,240 Speaker 1: that nature, to see if that was going to be 1121 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,480 Speaker 1: a new method of emergency services. But no, there is 1122 01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,960 Speaker 1: silent something that you just said. No, I've never heard 1123 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:03,040 Speaker 1: of it. Well, I think this was very informative. UM, 1124 01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: I really do appreciate you taking a time out to 1125 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,040 Speaker 1: speak with me. I feel like this is gonna help 1126 01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 1: a lot of people because I love interviewing professionals, especially 1127 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,560 Speaker 1: those professionals they don't get the recognition that y'all deserved 1128 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,920 Speaker 1: because y'all are definitely the y y'all we I mean, 1129 01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:21,240 Speaker 1: I think if you have to have definitely have to 1130 01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:25,280 Speaker 1: have a heart for these jobs, and you have to 1131 01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:28,439 Speaker 1: have a sense of self for these jobs, and then 1132 01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 1: you also have to also remember to put yourself I 1133 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,800 Speaker 1: also kind of it's not like knowing yourself, but also 1134 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,960 Speaker 1: being able to put yourself to the side for others 1135 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:42,480 Speaker 1: because a lot of people will either check you, knock 1136 01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:46,080 Speaker 1: you down, or question you, and you need to know, 1137 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 1: like I know my job, I know what I was doing, 1138 01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:54,080 Speaker 1: I know the procedure from top to bottom. Like you 1139 01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,160 Speaker 1: just have like it feels like it's almost kind of 1140 01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:58,720 Speaker 1: like you are, Like you can feel like you are 1141 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,400 Speaker 1: an authority figure and you know every aspect of your job. 1142 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 1: But with the second that one thing goes wrong, everybody 1143 01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,800 Speaker 1: is going to either blame you, question you something. So 1144 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,720 Speaker 1: you need to know yourself. You need to have your confidence, 1145 01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: you have to be a good communicator everything, and just 1146 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:19,280 Speaker 1: also just have a heart because I can. I feel 1147 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,640 Speaker 1: like the people who hanging hanging up on people. You 1148 01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,080 Speaker 1: must have no heart because you must be soul less 1149 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:28,919 Speaker 1: or I don't care if you're having a bad day. 1150 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 1: That's why you have to have a sense of self, 1151 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 1: because you have to leave you a bad day at 1152 01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,919 Speaker 1: the door before you enter into that building. So it's 1153 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: not about you. Once you put on an uniform, is 1154 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 1: not about you. That's why I feel like police officers, 1155 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:45,760 Speaker 1: those bad Apple police officers. It's not about your son. 1156 01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 1: It's not about how you feel about this black person, 1157 01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 1: or how you feel about this race or this ethnicity. 1158 01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:52,920 Speaker 1: That's not your part of your job. Your part of 1159 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:56,640 Speaker 1: your job is to protect and serve all of us 1160 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:05,080 Speaker 1: all all right, Like, Hi, everybody, everybody, THEMN And on 1161 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:09,000 Speaker 1: that note, if y'all have any questions, comment, with concerns, 1162 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:10,920 Speaker 1: please make sure to email me a hello at the 1163 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:15,560 Speaker 1: PhD podcast dot com. And until next time, everyone, Later, 1164 01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,120 Speaker 1: you're not gonna say bye. Oh, it's for me to 1165 01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 1: say bye too. Hi, bye, and everybody