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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mine. That's that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna do the bar where a drunk mine

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Speaker 1: Why are you switching it up today.

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Speaker 3: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts?

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Speaker 1: Bookie? What's up? What's really nice? You do? You know what?

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Speaker 2: First of all, I really didn't. I just got on

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Speaker 2: a little concealer, a little. I just couldn't do it today.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't do a full face and makeup either. I

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Speaker 3: little brow.

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Speaker 1: The skin is skinning hunt looks good on you.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, obviously it's a solo episode. I know y'all

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Speaker 2: been waiting for this, And let me just give y'all

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Speaker 2: a warning right now. We've already been drinking a little bit,

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Speaker 2: so if things get a little out of hand, just

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Speaker 2: you know, been with us.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you.

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Speaker 2: I've been drunk for like the past two weeks.

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Speaker 1: What is going? Is everything okay? On facts? But you

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Speaker 1: know it's my birthday. Yeah, I'm not a lot going on.

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Speaker 3: Then I went out of town struggle with you around

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Speaker 3: my pussy beans, booty whole brown.

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Speaker 1: I can't concurr. You can confirm it a little button.

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Speaker 1: It's a little chocolate starfish. Chocolate starfish. It is so

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Speaker 1: other than what you been up to. Girl. I've been

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Speaker 1: stuggling with my round. Yeah, too many beechies. I've been

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Speaker 1: getting my coochie scratched. Oh, y'all this cool. She has

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Speaker 1: been getting scratched calf and a good way. What was me?

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Speaker 1: A bad way? You know? Because I don't want them

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Speaker 1: to think.

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Speaker 2: Like scratch like you know, I'm trying to get my

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Speaker 2: coochie scratched, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I've just had like life has just been great. Life

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Speaker 2: Therapy has been just going so well for me. I've

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 1: You got no job. I got a job. I'm doing

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Speaker 1: it right now. This is work. We are at work,

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Speaker 1: we are at wake. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's work, It's worked. So I just feel like, you know,

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Speaker 1: life has been good for y'all turned the new leaf,

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Speaker 1: God damn it. And yeah, I've been getting my couchie scratch.

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Speaker 3: What a nigga said, Yeah, yeah, I've been getting my

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Speaker 3: couchie scratched too.

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Speaker 1: At me your coachy scratch exactly. Don't be trying to

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Speaker 1: act like who Tomon for no reason? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: why don't you.

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Speaker 2: Bring up the most really, because when I said I

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Speaker 1: This ain't French nigga. What do you mean you use Simon? No?

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Speaker 1: I say you know you used Simone. No I didn't

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Speaker 1: for no reason.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I let off leg leg. I literally have videos to you,

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Speaker 3: and I swear to God, I put this on my daddy.

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Speaker 3: I will see one of them hosts, the hobbyers.

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Speaker 1: So he gets inserted.

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Speaker 3: So he inserted right here in the episode. Because I

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Speaker 1: I was doing that. I was mocking you because that's

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Speaker 2: I do not wake up like, oh my god, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: why I said a last time.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I do like moan.

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Speaker 2: Naturally, we talked about this before and when I started

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Speaker 1: Hi, oh yes you do, Yes, you do. You're a liar.

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Speaker 1: I'm not lying. It's the truth, the facts of the facts,

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Speaker 1: was imitating you. Points were made. That's where it came from. Okay, exactly,

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Speaker 1: We're supposed to be professional.

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Speaker 2: This is why people like the solo episodes because we

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Speaker 2: We ain't even drunk, that's the crazy part. We only

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Speaker 1: I have a today either. Well let's before we get

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Speaker 1: into these because I'm gonna sit this, drink and drink

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Speaker 1: our girl ta cut no what we drinking today, queen

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Speaker 1: that Michael was close.

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Speaker 5: Today we are drinking the LS Express. Okay, So I

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Speaker 5: us to the LS Cream liqueur so We've made an

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Speaker 1: So this is what you're drinking.

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Speaker 5: Lex This is the vodka that we chose for the day.

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Speaker 1: Your real cream and poopy mm. And then we've garnished

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Speaker 1: it with three espresso beans. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. No,

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Speaker 5: And Drea has the same thing as she has hers

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Speaker 1: Notes and stuff tasty. It's good. It's the least she's

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Speaker 1: all mine. The cream donut lord, Okay, I'm cutting up

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Speaker 1: the creamy starfee oh way a creamy star.

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Speaker 1: That's not like a move that I need to do

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Speaker 3: The importance of having a diverse group of friends. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I feel like my friend group ain't diverse.

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Speaker 1: It need to be those.

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Speaker 2: I think your friend group is diverse, though, because we

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Speaker 1: Now, when you say diverse, are you.

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Speaker 2: Meaning like actual like ethnicity and stuff, or like race,

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Speaker 3: I feel like my friends yep, everybody do something different.

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Speaker 1: M M. I think so Like when I think Jazz,

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Speaker 2: But when I think about like Jordan and Jazzmine, they're

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Speaker 1: You don't think you're not frame tribe, same tram. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So for me, I feel like I'm more interested in

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Speaker 2: people who do different things that have different opinions from

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like sometimes being that you know, i've

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Speaker 1: Or what about a girl boss? I'm allowed to said

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Speaker 2: What I think about like having a diverse group of

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's hard not to get sometimes it's hard like

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Speaker 6: Like I feel like in this space that you're in now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I feel like sometimes not that I lose

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Speaker 2: I really that's not what you told Kenny Burns last

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Speaker 1: What you said this is a multi million dollars it is.

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Speaker 2: I hope I didn't say that because babe, I still

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Speaker 2: So I think it's important to like have people in

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Speaker 2: So when I think of diverse, that's what I think

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Speaker 2: because you need people who have different opinions around you,

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Speaker 2: got to hire somebody assistant? No, what's it called affirmative action?

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Speaker 2: That's my little affirmative action, Lindsay, my affirmative action.

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Speaker 1: No, mix it up a little bit, that's anyways, bitch.

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Speaker 1: So are you Are you one of those people who

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Speaker 3: Every friend doesn't serve every purpose like you gotta have

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Speaker 2: But then when you put them in that category of everything,

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl XP and it's your

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like if you just want to get

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Speaker 1: And it's summertime, so I know y'all having pool parties, barbecue.

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Speaker 1: You heard me? What friend in mine?

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Speaker 2: You are the friends that I call like you and Lauren,

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Speaker 2: I definitely call with my man problems.

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Speaker 1: Like I told myself, I'm on my waw.

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Speaker 2: I don't be having a man no like when I

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Speaker 2: Because No, I feel like sometimes when I need to go.

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Speaker 1: Fu the blindly and the blind is what he's no.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like when I need to go like

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Speaker 1: I am hard on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like I call y'all when I need to

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Speaker 1: He loved me down, Like I talked to Killer about that.

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Speaker 6: You know, like I don't like the same person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she is me kill Lily the same person.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like when I want to talk about

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Speaker 1: He was like, is everything okay? You were like, so,

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Speaker 1: what's you mad at again? I was like, bitch my nigga?

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Speaker 1: And you were like, oh, well, you know what's that nigga?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what the fuck? You know what

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, it's just the last time I

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Speaker 2: call this. No, this is what I'm talking about. You

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Speaker 2: remember when somebody sent me flowers and I didn't know

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Speaker 2: which nigga it was, Oh yeah, And he was like

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Speaker 2: I had to block?

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Speaker 1: Was that the time I had to block you? Or

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Speaker 1: did you block me?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: I didn't block you. I've never blocked you. You did

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Speaker 1: block me. I've never blocked you.

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Speaker 3: Yes you did, because I text you and it did

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Speaker 3: not dot and your phone never did you one person.

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Speaker 1: I literally, are you kidding me? My phone is always well,

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Speaker 1: not for me, maybe just not when I call.

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Speaker 3: I told Lee in the other day, if I ever

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Speaker 1: If somebody had a gun. Somebody had it was like,

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Speaker 1: if you don't answer the phone, I'm gonna pop you.

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Speaker 1: I would call you because you answered Lee, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: die you. Nigga, I've been the hell three times already

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Speaker 1: because you don't ever answer the phone. I do. But anyways,

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Speaker 1: what was he saying before that? Get to the sis? Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so wait, so pause when we talk about diversity your friends, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what we were talking about, and you were saying

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Speaker 1: I asked you. I was like, oh, friend, am.

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Speaker 2: I so I'll say that. Let me tell the story.

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Speaker 2: Because I had got some flowers sent to me. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I was dealing you know, I was dealing with two

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Speaker 2: I wanted to add because Loki. I wanted to ask

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Speaker 2: Drea wasn't giving me the pettiness I needed her to give.

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Speaker 1: She was like, well, girl, just wait, one of them

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Speaker 1: gonna say something and you gonna know. I was like, ah, bye, bye, bye,

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Speaker 1: bitch bye, and I hung up. I wasn't you wasn't

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Speaker 1: given petty. I wanted to be like, oh, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got some flowers. Did you send them? But why would

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Speaker 1: you trying to be petty though, because I wanted to.

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Speaker 1: I want people to hurt. I feel like you knew

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Speaker 1: who didn't send them, and I was right, No, you weren't.

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Speaker 1: Rocker Bay had sent them. Which one the only one?

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Speaker 1: The only one.

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Speaker 2: The fuck?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, that wasn't his knickname Jail Sorry okay, wait,

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Speaker 3: oh you is right he did send them. But see,

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Speaker 3: that's the thing. If you would have said something, then

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Speaker 3: you would have found out around.

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Speaker 6: The more you suck around, the more you're gonna find out.

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Speaker 2: mean did I send them?

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Speaker 1: Who else are you fucking with? Because for you to

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Speaker 1: not know who sent them?

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Speaker 6: Let me multiple people know your address and consistency there maybe.

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Speaker 1: No, this is my you know old spot. I thought,

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Speaker 1: feel like I was. I feel like I gave you.

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Speaker 1: You didn't give me good advice, but it wasn't given

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Speaker 1: being the LEO, I like drama. Let's bring the action. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what you wanted. You want me to be dramatic.

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Speaker 1: He wanted to be Oh yeah, bitch, sturd a pie,

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Speaker 1: start right up. It's a gumbo baby, and you wasn't

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Speaker 1: giving that. So I had to hang up. Boom bob

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Speaker 1: hung up in my face y'all. I was so fucking big.

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Speaker 1: Talk to you tomorrow. Okay, let's get into this next topic.

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Speaker 2: You'd hav dramas, grazy, over stupid, over the dumbest ship

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Speaker 2: people know what we fall about. They were like over

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Speaker 2: the dumbest looking. I was like this, should you hang

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Speaker 2: up on me? And I called it again?

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Speaker 4: I liked that.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, you into the l express you

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Speaker 1: my kuchi Okay.

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Speaker 2: Party in the first topic East your turn. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: topic too. We're gonna talk about relationship PTSD. Now on

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Speaker 2: a serious No, y'all know we've been playing, but this

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Speaker 2: is the.

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Speaker 1: Play about these two. You about to play, but I'm

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Speaker 1: not playing about this. It's something to get serious.

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Speaker 2: It's time to get sight. Okay, Litsten, come on. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So relationship PTSD is a real thing. Let me just

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Speaker 2: say that because a lot of people think that your

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Speaker 2: past issues with the person that you've been dating, they

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Speaker 2: feel like, Okay, this is a fresh start.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm okay.

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Speaker 2: No, Like, I honestly feel like my last relationship that

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Speaker 2: I was in last year traumatized the fuck out of me. Now,

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Speaker 2: mind you, I dealt with this man for a long time,

437
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 2: but the shit he put me through this past year

438
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 2: was just kind of like what the fuck? And so

439
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: my issue is when I'm going out and dating new

440
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: people and trying to meet new people, I just I'm

441
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 2: completely like shut off because I feel like if I

442
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: let my guard down, I'm gonna get it hurt. But

443
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: to me, being the leo that I am, I enjoy

444
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 2: dating with my guard down. It's fun for me, Like

445
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 2: I like to go all in, fuck it. If I

446
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 2: get my heart broken, it'll fix and I'm gonna go

447
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 2: do it again. But now I feel like he's kind

448
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 2: of messed that up for.

449
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: Me, like I don't date. You used to be that

450
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: personal and I'm not anymore.

451
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 2: And honestly, it hurts my feelings because I want to

452
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: feel that way again, like because it's fun, Like I

453
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: want to be like like, I know I've been joking

454
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 2: this episode, like oh my man, my me and my man,

455
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 2: but I really have not let my guard down like

456
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 2: I should, and I want to because this shit fucked

457
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 2: me up.

458
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: But dating like that is fun for me personally. So

459
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: I have a relationship.

460
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 2: PTSD, like I feel like if I call, like literally,

461
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 2: this is what happened the other day.

462
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: I texted somebody and.

463
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 2: They didn't respond in like twenty minutes, and you know,

464
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: y'all know what I did. As crazy as it sounds,

465
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 2: y'all know what I did. I went to my notes

466
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 2: and I drafted this text that I was gonna send him,

467
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what our communication has

468
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: been on, we can cut this off and ended. I

469
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 2: had fun, let's go our separate ways because I was

470
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 2: so used to dealing with that with my past situation.

471
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: And literally like he had texted me. He was like, hey, babe,

472
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: what you doing And he was like in.

473
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 2: Such a good mood. He was like, oh, yeah before

474
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: because I was gonna send it at midnight, That's what

475
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 2: I was decided. I was like, I'm gonna give him

476
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: like a couple of hours. I'm gonna send that me night.

477
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: I'm an overthinker.

478
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 1: But like I said, child, I've been ruined. I have

479
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 1: been ruined. Let me let me read the definition of relationship. Okay,

480
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: go ahead.

481
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 3: It's a trauma based a trauma related disorder linked to

482
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 3: an abusive or toxic relationship with a spouse or significant

483
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 3: other relationship. PTSD differs from other types of PTSD in

484
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 3: terms of symptoms and signs relationship. PTSD can be difficult

485
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 3: to live with, but treatments and support are available.

486
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: Do you need support? I need?

487
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 2: I need like shock therapy, bottomy. What we talked about

488
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: the other week, drilling this motherfucking Brian. Baby, don't be

489
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 2: trying to use that term because you were trying to

490
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 2: play me. No, you didn't believe me until I look

491
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 2: that ship up. I need a long bottom I have

492
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: I have relationship PTSD two though from from no, I'm

493
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 2: asking like from when in your lifetime, Like I'm not

494
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: a few years ago.

495
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so what happened in that relation?

496
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 3: I feel like I was like dating somebody that was

497
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 3: really controlling and manipulative, narcissistic, and you know, it was

498
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 3: kind of like hard to walk away from the situation

499
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 3: because of all of the stuff that they were doing

500
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 3: for me at the time, and I needed some of

501
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 3: those things.

502
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: Now, when you say doing for you, are you talking

503
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: about like physically emotionally, like materialistically? I would say I

504
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: would say physically and materially okay, okay, but not even materialistically.

505
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: It was like things that I really needed them to

506
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 2: do financially, okay, because I just like before the show

507
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 2: Popp taking off his stuff, okay, so yeah, so but

508
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: I just feel like the things I had to deal

509
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 2: with to get what I was getting it was just

510
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 2: like emotionally draining. And I feel like, you know this

511
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 2: stuff obviously, like it was like a very emotionally draining

512
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 2: time in my life.

513
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

514
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I was not even myself and I

515
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 3: feel like I don't I feel like still to this day,

516
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 3: I'm I'm more back to myself, but I'm still not

517
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 3: as like care free as I used to be. We

518
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 3: need some todating because I feel like I really always

519
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 3: been like a care free as beach, Like whatever.

520
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: I want to do, and I'm gonna do it, that's

521
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do.

522
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 3: I feel like after that, I have just been such

523
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 3: an overthinkre when it comes to my.

524
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: God, see that's how I am.

525
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: So you was laughing at me about the text, But

526
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: I was overthinking because I was dealing with a man

527
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: who felt made me feel like every time I expressed myself,

528
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 2: I was nagging.

529
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: I was getting on his nerves. And it's like, just

530
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: because somebody tells you how they feel, you need.

531
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: To receive that and try to be and try to understand,

532
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 2: because if you love this person and that's your partner,

533
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: receive that and understand.

534
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: Why they feel that way. You know.

535
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 2: And I saw something from when I saw something, I

536
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: had to talk with my therapist and she was saying

537
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: a lot of times when you're dealing with someone, the

538
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: reason that the conversation goes left is because you're saying, well,

539
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 2: you did this, you did this, and this is even

540
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: with friendships, like when you're trying to express to somebody

541
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 2: like say you hurt my feelings, I'll be like, well, Drea,

542
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: you said.

543
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: That you don't like the way this and that and that.

544
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: You know, but I need to be like, well, Drea,

545
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 2: when you said this x y Z it made me

546
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 2: feel I felt like, because when you say you you you,

547
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: that's automatically going to put somebody on the defense.

548
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

549
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times we also, I

550
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 2: always say, this is not about what you say, it's

551
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 2: how you say it. So one thing I'm learning is

552
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 2: how to properly communicate but also not blaming myself.

553
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 3: Well, and then two I was gonna say with me,

554
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 3: the reason that I feel like I have like relationship

555
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 3: PTSD is because anytime, because I felt like that situation

556
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 3: was so.

557
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 6: Manipulative and controlling.

558
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 3: Anytime and he could give me a sign, he could

559
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: like just suggest one little thing and I'll be like,

560
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 3: you're trying to control me.

561
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: He'd be like, you want to go to see Little Mermaid?

562
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: Hold on, nigga, I don't even like what if.

563
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 6: I want to go see Creed?

564
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: No, it's that giving that I can agree with that. No,

565
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: that's me. Yeah, yeah, I know I'm agreeing with you. Yes,

566
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: I'm really like that.

567
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 6: Like, it's like it could be the you could suggest

568
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 6: the smallest things like.

569
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: Hold on, please cream my donut?

570
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 3: Sorry, and that I know I probably should have asked

571
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 3: these prior to us recording.

572
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: Can we order food? Oh lord, have mercy?

573
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: Go ahead, go ahead with your statement by cream donat.

574
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: Changed, but keep going, keep going?

575
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: But no, for real, it could be like, oh, you know,

576
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: friendships look good on you? What I think you should try?

577
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 2: Like red, you're trying to control me?

578
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: Why right?

579
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: Why do you want me to wear red? I feel like,

580
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 3: will you ever seen me wear red? Like I'm real combative?

581
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

582
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that that makes sense though, So how do

583
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 2: you think we can heal ourselves?

584
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: Because, like I said, that's what we're going.

585
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: Yes, and I think I also have if we're also

586
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 3: being fair, I know this was specifically pertaining to.

587
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: Your significant others.

588
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 3: Possible, I feel like I also have like relationship PTSD

589
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 3: from like friendships.

590
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: No, well yeah, but I wouldn't even think about them.

591
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 2: Most I was thinking about I was thinking about family.

592
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: Sheit okay?

593
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 3: And I feel like you can have relationship PTSD too

594
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: from like family trauma and trauma bonds and like family

595
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 3: evens and stuff, and so I just feel like a

596
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 3: lot of the time, I feel like I've said this

597
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 3: before on the show, I feel like because of the

598
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 3: relationship that I have, like with my biological mom, it

599
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 3: like kind of translates in over to my dating life.

600
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: Hmm. How so though I don't trust.

601
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 3: People, I'm always mission, I'm always I'm a skeptic. Yeah,

602
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 3: I don't trust nobody, but you know that about me.

603
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 3: I mean I do, But I'm trying to feel like,

604
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 3: but I feel like you shouldn't go into relationships feeling

605
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: that way.

606
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 6: The reason I don't trust people is because I don't

607
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 6: trust her.

608
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: But this is okay, now, we get right. But I

609
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: feel like, but how could you not trust her? Because,

610
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: like you told people before, like she was young, she

611
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 2: didn't know what to do, So why do you feel

612
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: like you can't trust her, Like because she didn't do anything.

613
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: She was just doing with the adult. She was just

614
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: doing what the adults in the situation had told her. Yeah,

615
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: but but she but she was an adolescent for way

616
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 2: less time of my life than she's been an adult.

617
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 2: She's been an adult most of my life, right, But

618
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 2: at the same time, you still have your parents that

619
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 2: raised you, so she couldn't go and do it, I

620
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: think being And I really would love to get somebody

621
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: on a show like I don't know, maybe like a.

622
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: Therapist or well you got me for now? Well no, no,

623
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: no no.

624
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 3: What I was about to say is I would love

625
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 3: to get a therapist, maybe on the show who bro

626
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 3: who is an adoptee? Like, I don't really like to

627
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 3: get somebody else on the show that's adopted because I

628
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 3: feel like it's a difficult conversation to have, and I

629
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: think most people don't really understand like how your mind

630
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 3: works in that type of situation, Like I feel like

631
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 3: it really kind of fuck you up.

632
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: So it's like to you, she ain't doing nothing.

633
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 2: To me, she did a lot of fun, right, right,

634
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: I mean, because I know the things like yeah, and

635
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: you talk about I play too much. Because I was

636
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 2: gonna say, I've been adopted by these streets. I've been

637
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: outside for a minute now, fake, so I know how

638
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: it is. I ain't supposed to be here, nigga, but

639
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: I'm here. You're not supposed to be where here, nigga.

640
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: I was adopted by the street, this street mentality, it's

641
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: in my mind. So with that being said, I'm.

642
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 2: Glad you said that, though I feel like I've told

643
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 2: you this off camera before though.

644
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you have, but I want the the people to

645
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: hear it.

646
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 3: So yes, I feel like, yeah when it comes in.

647
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel like you self sabotaged relationships?

648
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm about to. I always feel like this. I'm

649
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 1: a fun this ship up.

650
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: I always feel like that's gonna be so funny to

651
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 3: me whenever, like people always be asking us while we single.

652
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: And street because I'll be up. I be fucking up too.

653
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: But see the thing about me, the difference between me

654
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 3: and you, the difference between me and you.

655
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: Is that I will never love, but I will never trust.

656
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: Bro Okay here today, Okay, go ahead. The difference little

657
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: park salt something, that's what we need. We need a

658
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: parcace realm. Not these people don think we do drugs.

659
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: Why would you say that if we are a drug

660
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: free Speak for yourself. I'm just playing. I'm just playing.

661
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: I have never had a percocet realm. But that's actually

662
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: a good idea. And why would I call it park salt?

663
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: That's that's a good idea. But anyways, the difference between

664
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: me and you is what.

665
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 3: Oh the difference between me and you, though, is that

666
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 3: I'll be fucking up, but I'm a bounce for you

667
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 3: could bounce for me.

668
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm gonna stay. And you're gonna say I

669
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: love begging for my man. Why you had to say that?

670
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: Because that's what that man said to you. I'm a

671
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 1: dip on ania. He could dip on me up. No, okay,

672
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: And I don't know what that's like. It's not I'm

673
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: not gonna lie to you. It's one man that I

674
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: have been like, oh my gosh, and I think you

675
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: know you know who that is?

676
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: Like, it is the man I've been dealing with with

677
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 2: the longest. I'll be bouncing on niggas too, but I'll cry.

678
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 1: I was about to say a whole you used to

679
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: be fucking bro. They always think we say anything that

680
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: we that's who she fucking bitch I don't want but no,

681
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: I feel the same way that.

682
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: But I honestly, sometimes I feel like due to this

683
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: is another relationship to no, another relationship PTSD thing is

684
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: I feel like I'd be looking for characteristics of my

685
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: ex and other people, so if they don't have that.

686
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: But hmm, I'm going back home, bitch, I go back home.

687
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: You do one thing. I'm going back home. Got terrible, character, terrible,

688
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: and I love it there because we're horrible together. I

689
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: had that nigga in the headlocked. Sorry, I ain't know

690
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: what to do, but anyways.

691
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 2: I have never thought a nigga oh I shook before,

692
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 2: though I'm a fighter.

693
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: That's the glass that a nigga head. Well, say you

694
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: get serious. We weren't serious having a nigga and a headlock.

695
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,439
Speaker 1: Not serious and not do it again. But we weren't

696
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: really trying to heart.

697
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 3: But I missed on purpose. I was just trying to

698
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 3: scare on my thig. I knew it was gonna heat

699
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 3: over there, but I want to shoot it.

700
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: Out next time. I ain't gonna miss right right right.

701
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: But now I will say this, Now, we're not condoning violence,

702
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: because that's what this sounds like. I'm not condoning that.

703
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I feel like my last

704
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 2: relationship was very toxic. It was very toxic. So but

705
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: my problem is I got comfortable in that toxic situation,

706
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: so I would be looking for that in my new

707
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 2: situations because I felt like, oh, you're not acting like XYZ,

708
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: you're not blowing my phone up, then that means you

709
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 2: don't care about me. And that's not the case. You

710
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So yeah, what's the case is

711
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: a man can care about you, but he doesn't have

712
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 2: to blow up your phone. He doesn't have to pop

713
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 2: up on you, he doesn't have to act crazy, he

714
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: don't have to curse you out. He can literally talk

715
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: to you calmly like I'm not even a person that

716
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: really raises my voice like that and gets no, I'm

717
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 2: serious when I'm mad, I don't. When you ask all

718
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: the men I've dealt with in my life besides him,

719
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: I yelled.

720
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: At that nigga. I've never yelled at any other man.

721
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: They'd be like, let's raise her voice. That's what you

722
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: ain't care. Though I've only had a few, I've only

723
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 1: had twosd I did care because I'm yelling. I've only

724
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 1: had two niggas. I knew I was I knew I

725
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: was down bad when I chased a creamed on the

726
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: couch hoppy here just because I'm but see that's the PTSD.

727
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 1: Just because I'm yelling. I don't know if y'all realized

728
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: Lex is like a kid. If you laugh, she's gonna

729
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: do it again. No, I'm not. I here keep laughing.

730
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: That's like he's saying this shit. Anyways.

731
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: That's that's I knew because just because I'm yelling does

732
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 2: not mean I care.

733
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: I knew I was down bad. I knew I was

734
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: down bad when I ran down on this nigga in Miami.

735
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: That was the most down bad time of my life.

736
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: Was I was because that ain't even me. I am

737
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: too playing. I'm a tool player for that type of ship,

738
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: but that nigga took me all the way. That's why

739
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: I said that nigga, I lost all my player point.

740
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: It's every other nigga they'd.

741
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 3: Be like, man, but I feel like that's why I

742
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 3: got PCSD, Like I just don't be trusting megas, like

743
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 3: I just be like what you want, Yeah, and I'm

744
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 3: gonna like stop fucking with.

745
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 6: You before you can like hurt me or like put

746
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 6: me back in now.

747
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: See that's my problem.

748
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: I stay like I'll like a nigga will hurt me

749
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 2: one time, but I won't say nothing because I think

750
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 2: if I say something you're gonna think I'm annoying, I'm

751
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: nagging instead of me expressing myself exactly.

752
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: That's my PCSD.

753
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: And then the second time you fuck me up or

754
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 2: you hurt me, I'll be like, hey, I'm cool on you,

755
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: and so you thinking I don't care, but I'm the

756
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: whole time, I'm like at home like oh damn, and

757
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: I'm crying and I'm sad. So that's my problem now

758
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: because it's like, don't get me wrong, like, yeah, I've

759
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 2: got my feelings hurts, but one I don't express myself

760
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 2: and two like I enjoy dating with my guard down

761
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: and I'm just not doing that anymore. And yeah, but

762
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 2: I really want to see.

763
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: I feel like I never dated with my guard now.

764
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 6: I just ain't never gave a fuzz.

765
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 3: Yeah that's men always mean, like I just be having fun. Yeah,

766
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: like I never take it's nobody up. Every dated that

767
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 3: I took serio except for maybe like currently.

768
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've never taken nobody serious.

769
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 3: Yeah I can agree because I'm even that person that

770
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 3: I'm talking about with the PTSD that I got PTSD

771
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 3: from them. I feel like I got PTSD from them

772
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 3: because I let my guard down a little bad, but.

773
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: You didn't take it seriously. I didn't think y'all was

774
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: going to be like.

775
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: No, I didn't want to be with that nigga. Yeah,

776
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 3: I never wanted to be with that nigga to the

777
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 3: point that you used to be like you don't want

778
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 3: to be You used to say, he used to be

779
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: like dre Bro.

780
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: No, you do not even like this nigga.

781
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 2: And that's okay, And let's talk about that real quick

782
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 2: before we move on women. And we don't even got

783
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 2: to talk about it. Ladies, please listen up. Y'all be

784
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 2: heartbroken over a man, y'all being y'all feeling it.

785
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: Be your ego. You don't even like this nigga.

786
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 2: You're just mad because he's not acting like what you

787
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 2: think you deserve. You're trying to prove a point to

788
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: your Yeah, as a you don't even like this man.

789
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: You freaking out over a man you don't even like.

790
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: You just trying to prove a point that you that

791
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 2: bitch or you that girl.

792
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: You don't like this nigga.

793
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 2: So once he starts acting like you want him to, like,

794
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 2: guess what you're finna do. Move around because you just

795
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: wanted to prove a point, and once we realize that,

796
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: you'll just I don't give a fuck.

797
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. It's some niggas that'd be like, yeah,

798
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: I left lex cool. I don't care.

799
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: If that's what you want to think. Cool, I'll give

800
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 2: you that because I don't care. I learned now I'm

801
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 2: learning how to let go of my ego because a

802
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 2: lot of times it was just like I was trying

803
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 2: to prove a point, like oh, you're messing with this girl,

804
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: or oh, you're not acting right with me. Let me

805
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 2: go hard, and then I go hard and then he

806
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 2: finally start acting right, and then I'm like, damn, my bad.

807
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,399
Speaker 6: And love hurting ego hurt is two different things.

808
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 3: You gotta learning different facts when you get hurt by

809
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 3: somebody that when you get hurt by somebody that you

810
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 3: really love, that shit really is like debilitating. When you

811
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 3: get hurt by debilitating, Hey, like you got a little

812
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 3: bottom me, you never gonna stop using little bud of me?

813
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 3: Now you know thatn't a big word.

814
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: And I'm just happy.

815
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: When you get hurt by somebody that you love that

816
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: she's debilitating. When it's show ego, you could tell like

817
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: I used to be enraged. I used to be very upset,

818
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 3: very angry, but not because I was really heartbroken.

819
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: Because I was like, yo, you trying to play on

820
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: my time, right, thank you? And that's why you say

821
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 1: you you play me be fucking for real. But that's

822
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: how I feel. That's how I know. I love my friends.

823
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: Like Jilla got mad at me one time a few

824
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: weeks and I.

825
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 2: Was just like, oh my god, I'm about to lose

826
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 2: my fucking mind of my friend on answer the phone,

827
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: like you know, me.

828
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,479
Speaker 1: And you we got a little fight at the beginning

829
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: year and I was like, oh my, I'd be so sad.

830
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: I was awfully like my sister be ya. I probably

831
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 3: seen it in the episode cause I used to be like, bro, I.

832
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna not see Now you just admitted another be

833
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: like got your bad.

834
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck like y'all don't have fucking problems.

835
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 3: That's one thing I hate about people. We're on a show,

836
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 3: so sometimes things gonna play.

837
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: I happened if I eat this coffee bean. Okay, I'm

838
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: rolling on a bean.

839
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 6: I don't know.

840
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 3: However, people just one thing that frustrates me sometimes about

841
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 3: the show is like we have to live our lives

842
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 3: in front of.

843
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 6: People, so then they be judging it.

844
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 3: It's like you been shoot, be heaving you and your

845
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 3: friend ain't talking all of a sudden, dumb she could

846
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 3: she owe you three dollars?

847
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: I didn't say you. You ain't never owe me three dollars.

848
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 3: One thing I say about Lick she was always if

849
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 3: she exploit it was like three hundred.

850
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: Three dollars. I'm gonna ask for it all, Ben, because

851
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: I think.

852
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 2: That's crazy when people ask for like three dollars dollars

853
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: because I'm twenty tomorrow, I know.

854
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 1: But I told you, we said I'm gonna ask for honey.

855
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask and I'm not even I'm gonna ask

856
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: for twenty from ten different people.

857
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: Nigga, I'm up and I'm stuck because you're not getting that.

858
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 3: You have always said that if I'm gonna XK some money, though,

859
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just flat out x for a lot of

860
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 3: money because number one, I know I'm gonna need some

861
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 3: more tomorrow, and number two, I know I'm not.

862
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: Gonna pay you big. I know you're not getting this shit,

863
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: big yo. Okay, now what you were saying, finish your thought?

864
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,959
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you don't remember, so let us know about

865
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 1: y'all's relationship PTST. So now we gonna get into the

866
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,399
Speaker 1: bag a little bit. Bow, I remember what? Okay?

867
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: You know, I just feel like people be like trying

868
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 3: to judge us a base off of the stuff we say, yeah,

869
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 3: or like it's.

870
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: Not getting along all the time. I feel we do

871
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: a great job of not showing. Let me tell you something.

872
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 3: But even still, because it's real today, everybody get into

873
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 3: it with their friends and we're not gonna tell you

874
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 3: why we getting into it or why were not talking

875
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 3: or while we not on good terms, because that's not

876
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 3: your busneys right ever, everybody gets into it.

877
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: With the imagine loving somebody and y'all don't fight. That's unrealistic. Yeah,

878
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. We do way better than

879
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: a lot of other people that are in business into

880
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: it though, No, we really don't. That's what I'm saying.

881
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying these.

882
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: Other people that have businesses together friendships. That's one thing

883
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 2: I love about poor minds because you could really see

884
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 2: two black women that really have love for each.

885
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: Other, and really, this ain't.

886
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: No throwing drinks at each other's face sitting on here

887
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: arguing it were not.

888
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: For the drama, we're for the betterment of black women.

889
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,720
Speaker 2: Well, I don't care what y'all think about this platform.

890
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 2: We love each other and we've said that since day one.

891
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: Three steps.

892
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: We're not gonna get along all the time. But I

893
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: say this, I don't even get along with my blood sister. Literally,

894
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: I came out.

895
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: The way we got the same thing. Yeah, like so

896
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: my mom and her have the same birthday. My mom

897
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: was my best friend. We used to argue all the time.

898
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: That don't mean I even love her everybody. My mom

899
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 2: was my best friend. So of course me and Drey

900
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 2: and not gonna get along every day. But it's like

901
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 2: literally genuine love there. So they go back to the

902
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: point of you saying it's a difference from your feelings

903
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 2: getting hurt from heartbreak versus your ego, because I know

904
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: how I feel when my friends hurt my feelings and

905
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 2: a man that I love hurt my feelings versus somebody

906
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 2: that's like an ego thing.

907
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: It's like yet to play with me.

908
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna get you back for that, but no,

909
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 3: oh no, but you know you always say that about me.

910
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: This a tour. Oh, Drea, don't forget shit. Literally it

911
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: could be six years ago. Yeah, bitch, you remember that

912
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 1: time you liked my ex picture and thought you was

913
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: hurting me that and I always give my leak bag psychopath.

914
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all's your girl?

915
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 2: Lex P and I have a very special announcement. Well

916
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 2: I already announced it, but I'm gonna let y'all know again.

917
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: We are going on tour. It's starting in June. Y'all. Look,

918
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: we announced it extra early, so y'all got time to

919
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:57,720
Speaker 1: get your tickets. No excuses. We got La Philly, Chicago, Atlanta, Houston.

920
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: Now listen to me because I know how y'all get.

921
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: We are still adding dates. I repeat, we are still

922
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: adding dates. But if you see your city right now,

923
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: go ahead and get your tickets. If you don't see

924
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: your city, don't worry. We're still coming, Okay, So make

925
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: sure y'all go to w w W dot poor minds

926
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: dot com and get y'all be pe meat and grease

927
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Speaker 1: we on. Sorry. Ohio, Columbus, Ohio Palace, Columbus, Columbus, the

928
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: what was it the pop highest called palace. I thought

929
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: it was the Palatine in the pope, We're going to

930
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: the palace. Seat up made one at first, not playing hoyo,

931
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Come on now I gonna

932
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 1: be up. Yeah, and we're going to job in the Eastland.

933
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: Mall No, Captain, I'm going then, don't when you find out. Okay,

934
00:46:56,080 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: y'all you gonna up. Ain't gonna all the way? Get

935
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: your tickets nowo palace did remember that?

936
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 4: The camera all the way?

937
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: Get your tickets. Okay. So now we're gonna get into

938
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: the bed. Oh b bow bow bow bow. So to

939
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 1: that make a song? I was ready to freestyle. So

940
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: today we're gonna talk about how to get better at sex.

941
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: Sex is a skill.

942
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 2: I was listening to this sex therapist and she was

943
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 2: talking about how, like literally, sex is a skill that has.

944
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: To be learned, just like how you learn to walk

945
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: and talk. People learn how to play football, they learn

946
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: how to play. These are skills that you learn. So

947
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: you got a honing in on your craft. You got

948
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:58,959
Speaker 1: a hone in on your craft.

949
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 2: So do you feel like like, like, for example, we

950
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 2: can never be good at football like ever, but I

951
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: could be good at fucking.

952
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: That's not where I was going, Not where I was going.

953
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, we'll never be good at football because

954
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 2: that's just not our skills. So do you feel like

955
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: some people will just never be good at sex, like

956
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 2: it's just a skill that they don't have, Or do

957
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 2: you feel like if you just keep going at something,

958
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 2: like you'll.

959
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: Eventually get good at it.

960
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: Like if you feel like we practiced football for like

961
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 2: four years, ten hours a day, we would get good

962
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 2: at it.

963
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: No, we too old. I feel like you have to

964
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: cultivate certain talents.

965
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 2: And so you're telling me a virgin, she's like a

966
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 2: man or a woman. They are a virgin at thirty three.

967
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 2: They've never had sex, they can never not gonna.

968
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 1: Be good at it? Never? No, never, You started too late,

969
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 1: started too late.

970
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 3: And I'm not advocating for starting early because I started.

971
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 4: Real.

972
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't know though, I'll say this.

973
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 6: Oh, oh, I'm gonna get a lot of badlash for this.

974
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh. I just feel like you gotta practice anything to

975
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: be good at it. That's true. That's true. And if

976
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: you only ever, like if you're a thirty three year

977
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: old virgin.

978
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 3: Not that it's anything wrong with this, amen, amen, Okay,

979
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 3: nothing wrong with this.

980
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 4: Not, But.

981
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 3: How you gonna be good at it if you if

982
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 3: you never did it, and then when you do do it,

983
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 3: you only did it.

984
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna keep going, You're gonna keep practicing. But who

985
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: said you good? Who is the barameter this one nigga?

986
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe y'all break up and you and you've

987
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 2: decided to have more partners, or maybe this person is

988
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 2: okay and they want to teach you.

989
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: But now who're gonna tell you good at it? You

990
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: only did it with this one person, So I guess

991
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: you good to that person. I'm not gon you see

992
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I get what you're saying, But.

993
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 3: I just like, what's the parameter of being good? Because

994
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 3: if you had one partner, who can who can vouch

995
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 3: you that?

996
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 4: Right?

997
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,919
Speaker 1: So I disagree. I feel like I really care about

998
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: being good at six though? Why like for your partner? No,

999
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: you don't care?

1000
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna say, I don't really care if

1001
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 2: like people say that, Yeah, I don't care. If people

1002
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 2: say I care for me as people think.

1003
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: That, yeah, I don't care, like like I always have.

1004
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: I always say this on the show. It's probably a

1005
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: nigga out there to be like, let's talk and all

1006
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: that shit, that pussy trash. I don't give a fuck.

1007
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 2: And see i'd always say I always back door and

1008
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 2: say I disagree with you.

1009
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: What no nigga is saying my pussy trash? I don't

1010
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: but I see, I don't care why it's but.

1011
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 3: It's not about carry. Why do you think niggas be

1012
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 3: saying your pussy trash?

1013
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: Honestly? To be real, do I really feel that way? Hell? No,

1014
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: Garfield is the gripple.

1015
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 2: Okay, but everybody in a room left and because everybody's

1016
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 2: seen it, but see what the prince?

1017
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: Oh?

1018
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 2: Anyways, I feel like this though, I do feel like

1019
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 2: any skill can be learned.

1020
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: I honestly feel that.

1021
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 2: I feel like if I went on the football field

1022
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 2: for ten hours or even five hours a day at

1023
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 2: thirty three, at thirty three, I'm going to I'm not

1024
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 2: gonna be fucking Tom Brady, but I'm ana nay, I'm

1025
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 2: gonna throw a touchdown or two.

1026
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: The fuck.

1027
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 2: When you practice a skill, you're gonna get good at it.

1028
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: Like I really feel that with me.

1029
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 6: What do you feel like makes one good at this?

1030
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: Now? This is what I now.

1031
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 2: This is where I differ at when it comes to

1032
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 2: like getting good at sex because I feel like one

1033
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,399
Speaker 2: thing about me I like about sex with my sex

1034
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 2: is that I'm very open minded.

1035
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,760
Speaker 1: So if I really like you, I'm gonna be willing

1036
00:51:55,920 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: to try anything with you. And that's not necessarily a skill,

1037
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: but that's just something you can't teach. So because some

1038
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: people are open minded, some people are not.

1039
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 2: But as far as like little stuff like that, you

1040
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 2: just know, a virgin is not gonna know it's important

1041
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 2: to arch your bag while you're getting hit for the bag.

1042
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 1: A virgin I gonna know, yeah, deep.

1043
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: Throat that dick because it's gonna get that good thick

1044
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 2: spit and it's gonna make it feel real good.

1045
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: They don't know that. But if you sucking dick seven

1046
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: days a week, you're gonna learn that. It's a skill.

1047
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: So I feel like if you are actively trying to

1048
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 2: get better at it, you're gonna learn how to get

1049
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: better at it.

1050
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: No.

1051
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 3: No, I feel like hos, there's a lot of holes

1052
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 3: that been fucking for a long time and they still

1053
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 3: art trash.

1054
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: Well, that's different we're not talking about because you know

1055
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: what your sex game.

1056
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: Listen, listen, listen. No, because I have talked to him

1057
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 1: one of my old guy friends. We're not phrased.

1058
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:51,959
Speaker 3: I'm got to really like I feel like, you gotta

1059
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 3: really like somebody to like learn how to have get sick.

1060
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that. But this is a man that I

1061
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: talked to. He was a very wealthy man.

1062
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: I will fucking him, but he was he used to

1063
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 2: buy pussy all the time, and he could say he

1064
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: was like, I can tell the difference between somebody who's

1065
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 2: good at sex as somebody who has good pussy, Because

1066
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 2: you can have sex with somebody who's good at sex,

1067
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 2: but they're pussy not that great.

1068
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: You still gonn nut because they're good at having sex,

1069
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 1: but they pussy not good.

1070
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,720
Speaker 2: And then you can have somebody who got the greatest pussy,

1071
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 2: but they're not good at sex.

1072
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. So we're talking about getting

1073
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: better at sex. The act you can get better at.

1074
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: You can't do nothing about your pussy. Your pussy gonna

1075
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: feel good or it's not. You can't do nothing about that.

1076
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you.

1077
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 2: Do things, and if you start having sex at thirty

1078
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 2: three years old and you have sex a lot with

1079
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 2: a partner, you're gonna get good at it.

1080
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna start to learn what men like.

1081
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: Honestly, a man, a man likes, and then if you

1082
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: have sex with another man, you're gonna learn what that

1083
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: man likes, and then you can kind of be like, Okay,

1084
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 2: niggas usually like this. Niggas usually like they balls played with.

1085
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 2: It's very rare you come across a nigga who don't

1086
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 2: like his little balls tickle like that.

1087
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1088
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: So if you have sex with three guys and you

1089
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 2: don't put it in your notes that hey, niggas like

1090
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 2: they balls play with, you know what I'm saying, that's

1091
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 2: a skill that you can learn.

1092
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 1: I feel like you can learn to be bitter at sick.

1093
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: Yes see. But the kuchie is the kuchie though we're

1094
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: not talking about how good the kouchie feels. That's what

1095
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: I feel like.

1096
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 3: Though, if your kouchie is not good, then niggas is

1097
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 3: not gonna say you good at tiggs.

1098
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: But they will though I don't. You can have a

1099
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: girl who can toss her and do tricks and.

1100
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 2: The pussy it's like, it's all right, but they not

1101
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 2: about to be like, yeah, I'll fucked.

1102
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: They beat you and she was doing tricks. But the

1103
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: pussy was treshed like they gonna be like the pussy

1104
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: all right, but yeah, she know what she's doing. You

1105
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: know what she doing? I don't know.

1106
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 6: We not never in room, you know what. I'm always

1107
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 6: very interested to find out.

1108
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 3: I wonder what kind of conversations niggas really have when

1109
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 3: bitches ain't around, because I feel like that's what this

1110
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 3: show is.

1111
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, these conversations bitches have. We're putting y'all on too much.

1112
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 3: To I mean, niggas do be around, we just be

1113
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 3: acting like they're not here. But I really do wonder

1114
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 3: because even with me, I've always been a person who've

1115
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 3: had like a lot of male friends, Like I've always

1116
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 3: been cool with a lot of niggas platonic friendships. I

1117
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 3: ain't fucked them. We don't have a romantic relationship, none

1118
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 3: of that shit. He's just my finnans, right, And I

1119
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 3: feel like, because I'm that type of girl, niggas talk

1120
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 3: about a lot of shit around me that they probably

1121
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 3: wouldn't typically talk about around other women.

1122
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 1: But I still know you ain't all.

1123
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 3: The way keeping a lot of steal a girl. So

1124
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 3: I wonder what the fuck niggas be saying when we

1125
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 3: really ain't around. Sometimes I think they say shit just

1126
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 3: to appease us, because I disagree with that shit.

1127
00:55:59,040 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1128
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,959
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. How many tricks the niggas turning?

1129
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 3: If your dick is trash or is trashed.

1130
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: But men are different.

1131
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 6: They keep falling out, keep falling out.

1132
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas are different. Though with sex? What am I

1133
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: gonna do with it? You either got good maybe that

1134
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: is I don't know. Right, you're right, because I feel

1135
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: like you either got good dick? Are you done? Yes? Yes, absolutely?

1136
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 1: But honestly, you know what I realized too, that clip that.

1137
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 3: We had that were many tricks you turned in that

1138
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 3: two minutes don't mean nothing because why you always letting

1139
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 3: into me?

1140
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 2: But listen though, Yeah, but that's different because remember that

1141
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 2: clip that we had we was like, oh, whenever you

1142
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 2: eat pussy, you supposed to finger her.

1143
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 1: I didn't realize, like that's what we like. All that

1144
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: clip got like four hundred, But the women in.

1145
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 2: The comments, no, but the women in the comments were like,

1146
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 2: don't finger me, don't touch me. But they were talking

1147
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 2: about how men's hands be nasty.

1148
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: I don't sleep in man tis over there getting outraged,

1149
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 1: She said what.

1150
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 2: Yes, But the women were talking about oh yeah, because

1151
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,839
Speaker 2: don't know where nigga hands then being if you don't

1152
00:56:57,840 --> 00:56:58,919
Speaker 2: know where a nigga hands them.

1153
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: Been, you don't know, you let him pussy.

1154
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: So that's what was blowing me about the comments. So

1155
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 2: I say all that to say, different women like different things.

1156
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: But I do feel like dick is different because it

1157
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 2: is a little different. Why because like I like a

1158
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 2: girthy you know, like a little girth and you can't

1159
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 2: do nothing about that.

1160
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 1: But that's what makes dick good to you.

1161
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you got what make dick good to you,

1162
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,959
Speaker 3: just like niggas got what make pussy.

1163
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: Good to them.

1164
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 3: I feel like it's just dependent on the person. It's circumstantial.

1165
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: But you know what, let me say, one nigga might

1166
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: like one.

1167
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 3: Nigga might like a squirter. One nigga might like a creamer.

1168
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 3: One nigga might be girthy. So to him, your pussy

1169
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 3: a little loose, but he's tight because he's girthy.

1170
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: Really had something to say, and I almost said it,

1171
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: but we're gonna talk about Oh my god, I can't.

1172
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say one nigga might have a

1173
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 2: little less dig He might think.

1174
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: You with your deck little yeah, yo dick, small little

1175
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: deck ass, nigga, you there by damn this pussy tied.

1176
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: You'd be like, okay, all right.

1177
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, Bookie, And that's the point that I

1178
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 3: make it like it'd be different strokes literally for different folks.

1179
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,919
Speaker 2: You're right, But I do feel like men are stuck

1180
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 2: in their ways with sex. I feel like a lot

1181
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 2: of women don't orgasm with sex. So that's why we

1182
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: are willing to be open minded and try different things.

1183
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 2: Niggas know exactly what makes them nuts, so they're gonna

1184
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: do that regardless with kind of every woman. You know

1185
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So that's why I said, with men,

1186
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 2: it's a little different. You either got good dick or

1187
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 2: you don't. To me, So if you like fucking this

1188
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 2: type of way, because this is the way that makes

1189
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 2: you nut, but I don't like that, I'm gonna have

1190
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 2: sex with you and I and think, Okay, he got

1191
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 2: wag dick. But you may have sex with the next

1192
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 2: girl and she may be like, oh, this is some

1193
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 2: fire dick like cause the way you come makes her come,

1194
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So men don't really veer out. Women,

1195
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 2: we're always trying to find out how to come. Men

1196
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 2: already know what makes them. We're always trying to discover

1197
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 2: new things.

1198
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: How can I come when I tell you like I

1199
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: recently was tied up for the first time. I was

1200
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: recently tied up for and things got too wild. But

1201
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that I liked that shit. I

1202
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: didn't know, you know what I'm saying.

1203
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 2: So it's like, I feel like I'm still discovering things

1204
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 2: that make me orgasm.

1205
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: Men know would make them come. They pretty much know.

1206
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 6: They got really mad at this means what when he

1207
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 6: was talking about squirting.

1208
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm a squirter hunt shout out to my men.

1209
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: It was World War three and now really fall about

1210
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: I think yachts nigga m period. So let us know,

1211
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: do y'all think sex is feel that you can get

1212
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: better at and that you can learn.

1213
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 2: Okay, bitch, we're gonna move on to the bop Hey dubop,

1214
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 2: oh dubo about about about bow about.

1215
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't like how you don't sing with me no more?

1216
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: But it's okay.

1217
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 2: Drunk, Yes, I think it's a mixture of So the

1218
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 2: next episode, I can't do espresso too too much. Am

1219
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 2: I up or am I down? I'm facing down up?

1220
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 2: Oh you sat up and down?

1221
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: I just gone ahead. So my pop of the week.

1222
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 2: I actually made this my bop of the week a

1223
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 2: very long time ago. I feel like this is my

1224
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 2: bop of the week when whenever we were in the

1225
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 2: studio with Maran. But I listened to this song again

1226
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 2: the other day and I was like, Wow, this is

1227
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 2: an amazing song. And now that we have a bigger audience,

1228
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 2: I really want you to get hips to her. I

1229
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 2: hope I'm saying her name right. Her name is Tanriel. Oh,

1230
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: I hope I'm saying that right. She has a song

1231
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 2: called Nothing Without You.

1232
01:00:55,640 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: I think it's tenoral Tannerrell Tannerrell Tanrel. I don't know.

1233
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you spell it t A N E

1234
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: R E L l E.

1235
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 2: First of all, she's beautiful as hell, like a beautiful,

1236
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 2: gorgeous girl. I love to look at the beautiful girls

1237
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:14,959
Speaker 2: that can sing just like me. She has a song

1238
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: called Nothing Without You, and this song came out probably

1239
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 2: like three years ago, and it's just I told y'all,

1240
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 2: I love R and B, like, let's be in love

1241
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 2: and she's just basically talking about how she's nothing without

1242
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 2: her nigga, she's know without her man, and it's just

1243
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 2: beautifully written.

1244
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: Her voice is so soft, but she has a deep voice.

1245
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 1: I love a deep voice, girl. And yeah, that's my

1246
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: bop of the week. It's fire y'all, please go listen

1247
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: to it. And I actually liked the fact that she

1248
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: was talking about how she got.

1249
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 2: Like eighty two million streams on Spotify or something, but

1250
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 2: they don't really pay out because like people have been

1251
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 2: talking about, Yeah.

1252
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 1: She was like, I still gotta sell these t shirts.

1253
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 2: I still gotta, you know, make sure I sell tickets,

1254
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 2: just to make sure you know I'm making money because

1255
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 2: you know, a lot of times people see artists that

1256
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 2: have all these streams that are selling out these shows

1257
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 2: and they think they're making a lot of money. But

1258
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 2: when I tell y'all, these streaming services are fucked up,

1259
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: I mean we know it just from you know, the

1260
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: platform and stuff. So yeah, shout out to her, y'all.

1261
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all go support streamer music, period.

1262
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 3: What you got a little Drea, reap me out the plastic.

1263
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 3: I've been acting brand new.

1264
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 1: Bit Lotto. I love Lotto, me too. And I love

1265
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: this song.

1266
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 3: Okay, put it on the floor. Put it on the floor,

1267
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 3: put it on the floor. It say floor, but I

1268
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 3: know how she said put it flow, and I'm from

1269
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 3: Texas we say flows.

1270
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 1: You know what I like about this?

1271
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 2: She switched up her flow on it though it was

1272
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 2: you think, so yeah, she was really like it sounds.

1273
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 2: I hate to say this because I know people say

1274
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 2: that they're dating.

1275
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1276
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 2: I don't care if they're dating not. But it was

1277
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 2: given like a twenty one savage type of.

1278
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: Flow with it, and I really liked it.

1279
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 2: But either way, this girl can really fucking rap, and

1280
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 2: I want people to stop playing hard top y'all may

1281
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 2: not like her for whatever reason, but the girl can raping.

1282
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: The hate so childish, This girl can rap.

1283
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 2: Everybody captioned this whole week and rip me out the plastic.

1284
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: I' been acting brand new, bit it ain't that much

1285
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: plastic in the world, and they mad. Ain't y'all not acting.

1286
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 2: Brand news show, not because you're still fucking that old

1287
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 2: nigga can't relate because I'm not.

1288
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 3: If you bring I need we need a counter for

1289
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 3: how many times Les brought through me good my old

1290
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 3: one on my new one, the new one.

1291
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 6: You ain't never brought your old up this many times ever.

1292
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: It's that it's that cream donut, all right. So that's

1293
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: our box of the week.

1294
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 2: I love big lott Oh, shout out to and I

1295
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 2: want to say that she did an amazing job at

1296
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 2: Coachella too, like I feel like she's taking her craft

1297
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: seriously and really trying to become a performer. Everybody is

1298
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 2: wrapping now, everybody's you know, in the spotlight. Shout out

1299
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 2: to Lotto for taking her crafty or so and it

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Speaker 2: shows in her proprietor and her music.

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Speaker 1: So amen.

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Speaker 6: So now it's time to get into the item of

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Speaker 6: the week.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I love me some reread some Fency beauty Fency

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01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 3: beauty products. I do not wear makeup for real, which

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01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 3: is crazy because I would used to be a.

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Speaker 1: Makeup we both did know we did.

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Speaker 6: I actually wanted to learn fun facts.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to learn how to do my makeup after

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Speaker 3: I became cool with lex because she would always do

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Speaker 3: her own makeup all the time, and whenever I used

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Speaker 3: to want to get my makeup done when we met,

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01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 3: when we worked at the club, I would always have

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Speaker 3: to pay to get a makeup artist to do it.

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01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 3: That shit one hundred and fifty dollars. It lasts one day.

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01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 3: I said, you know what, I'm about to get my

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01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 3: bitch ass on YouTube. So I learned her to do

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Speaker 3: my own makeup. And for a minute I was obsessed

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Speaker 3: with doing makeup. But now I barely wear it, but

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Speaker 3: I love it's it's a skin. It's like a skin

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01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 3: glow all over glow enhancer, yes, droplet, yes.

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Speaker 6: Look at this, Look at this.

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Speaker 1: Oh so it's sheer. It's sheer and it's shimmery.

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Speaker 3: So if you don't want to wear any makeup, especially

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Speaker 3: for the summertime, for the spring time, especially for the

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Speaker 3: summer in a spring.

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Speaker 1: All that ice that is blinding, Okay, I like this.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so it's good for the summer look. And

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Speaker 3: look it stays like glowy too. It doesn't dry down

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Speaker 3: mad and I love it. So whenever I want to

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01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,800
Speaker 3: do like a more full I've never been a full

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Speaker 3: coverage girl for real, but whenever I want to do

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Speaker 3: something a little more full coverage, I mix this with

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Speaker 3: my Dior show.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 3: And then when I just want like kind of a

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Speaker 3: glass skin look and I'm trying to do the no

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01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 3: makeup if at least look I put a little bit

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01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 3: of this on all over my face, a little bronze aer,

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01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,920
Speaker 3: a little conciller and some highlighters.

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Speaker 1: I like that and I'll be ready to go. And

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 3: And it does not dryer skin out. It's not steky. Yeah,

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01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 3: it's not super steky.

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01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 2: It's I mean it has a little tech what is

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01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 2: it called, a little tag, but not much but not much.

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Speaker 3: And I just love this product. I think this is

1348
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 3: a really great product. It comes in very skin tone ranges.

1349
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 3: Anybody can find one and it's good for their skin

1350
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 3: skin tone.

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01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: And that's bronze jasper because I know they're gonna ask

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01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: a period it is so yeah.

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01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 6: So this is my item of the week.

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Speaker 3: And again it's already been a little wild. It doesn't

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01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 3: dried down even a little more, but it's still like

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01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 3: look at the difference.

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Speaker 1: Wow can differ?

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01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 4: Wow?

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01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:56,440
Speaker 1: I like you all right now, it's not for our favorite.

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01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 1: Please get.

1361
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 2: If you want to get your question answered the show,

1362
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 2: make sure you email us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com.

1363
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 2: If you're a Patreon, remember make sure you put that

1364
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 2: in the subject line. Make sure y'all sign up for

1365
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 2: our Patreon. We drop fire episodes and we'll be talking

1366
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 2: about all the hot topics and we're doing a little

1367
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 2: a little one two for the Patreon for tour. So

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01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 2: who got questioning? Oh you got a question number one? Okay,

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01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: so question number one. Let's go, Little Drea.

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Speaker 3: Hmm, Hey, lex Andrea, I'm twenty three and I'm from

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01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 3: Indianapolis at a tour date. By the way, please, really

1372
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 3: this is for both of you, and it's not a question.

1373
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 3: I was just scrawling on Instagram and I seen lexus

1374
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 3: Ig post to her mom for her birthday and it

1375
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 3: touched me.

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01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 6: I know you have experienced the loss of a parent,

1377
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 6: is will Drea.

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01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 3: And the reason I'm writing is because I lost my

1379
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 3: mom three years ago and coincidentally, you guys are going

1380
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 3: through and navigating. The loss has really motiv motivated me

1381
01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 3: to push forward. And it's super harding a young adult

1382
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 3: without a mom, but seeing y'all be great really encourages

1383
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 3: me to do better. I love y'all and I've been

1384
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 3: watching since the first time y'all was on eighty five South.

1385
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 6: Y'all are my sisters.

1386
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 3: Also because of y'all, as soon as my business money starts.

1387
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: To pop, I will be on bitter help. I've been

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01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:18,919
Speaker 1: one and two so bad period.

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01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 2: I think the thing about grief, though, people gotta realize

1390
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: you have to go through stages of grief wave like yes,

1391
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 2: cause like at first you're gonna, I don't say at first,

1392
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 2: Like for me, I was confused, then I was mad,

1393
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 2: Then I was mad at myself, like you're gonna go

1394
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 2: through all these different emotions, and then it's like at

1395
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 2: one point I got mad at myself for crying all

1396
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 2: the time. And it's like once I realized, like it's

1397
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 2: okay to cry, cause you're never gonna stop crying. And literally,

1398
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 2: like I was talking to my aunt, my mom's sister,

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01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 2: and my grandmother.

1400
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: Died like literally like years ago. She still be crying

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01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: over and she's like in her fifties. You know what

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01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 6: My mom is like this, who my grandma?

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01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I feel like one thing that you have

1405
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 2: to know is that like you're gonna you're gonna feel better,

1406
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 2: of course, but the tears never stopp and that's okay.

1407
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 2: So I think we need to everybody like if you're

1408
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 2: grieving somebody, you need to understand that there's stages of

1409
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 2: grief and that you're gonna go through it, but never

1410
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 2: be mad at yourself for feeling.

1411
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 1: How you feel.

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01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 6: You know what I mean, and know that you're not alone.

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01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 6: It's a natural part of life.

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01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 3: Like everybody has been through it, or if they haven't

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01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,600
Speaker 3: been through yet, they gonna go through it because we

1416
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 3: can't escape one thing, the only thing that is inevitable

1417
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:33,040
Speaker 3: about life, we all gonna die. Sorry, hopefully they don't

1418
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 3: sound depressing, but for real though.

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01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so question number two. Hi alex Andrea. My

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01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 2: name is Anaya. I was in a relationship for a year.

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01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 2: It started off as.

1422
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:47,040
Speaker 1: Friends, then fuck buddies.

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01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 2: I had sex with a guy before him, and on

1424
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 2: the same day after that, and on the same day

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01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 2: after that fuck he became my boyfriend. We have been

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01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,639
Speaker 2: on and off the entire year. He was twenty three

1427
01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 2: and I was eighteen when I met. He has put

1428
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 2: me through the ringer, leaving me and coming back now

1429
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 2: I know, love bombing me.

1430
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: He didn't have a lot of money. We split everything.

1431
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 2: I even gave him my old phone, which now I

1432
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 2: found out he was texting women at our.

1433
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: Job and then was sending nudes to him.

1434
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 2: He denied it and continued to lie when I showed

1435
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 2: him the evidence and he laughed in my face. He

1436
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 2: gave me BV twice and a yeast infection and blamed

1437
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 2: it on me. I was tricking so much on him,

1438
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 2: it was crazy. One of the girls he fucked came

1439
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 2: to my house and told me the truth. He kept

1440
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 2: lying to the end and I told him fuck him

1441
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 2: and to die, and he blocked me. Now, I want

1442
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 2: to pull up to that job and two piece him.

1443
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 2: Gray should left when he gave you BV the first time.

1444
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:49,240
Speaker 2: If y'all continue to fucking nigga after he gave you something,

1445
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 2: you asking for it.

1446
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: Bitch, you're asking for it.

1447
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 2: And I don't mean to shame, because sometimes a nigga

1448
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 2: give me something the first time and it's horrible. God

1449
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 2: literally gave you a pibble and was like, Okay, this

1450
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 2: is not the one, and you steady want to do

1451
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 2: it until you gotta throw that boulder on your ass

1452
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 2: and that shit really gonna hurt.

1453
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: How many times are you gonna see that? You done

1454
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:13,639
Speaker 1: gave me sixteen reasons why to not fuck with this nigga,

1455
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: and you didn't give me one why you should He

1456
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: broke his dick. Stink. He gotta use your old phone.

1457
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 1: The girl send the nudes to your old phone, and

1458
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: then she pulled the girl.

1459
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 6: I wish a bitch would like a kitchen cab nigga.

1460
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 1: Mm yeah, girl, you don't want up to my house.

1461
01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: It's crazy. You don't need advice. You don't need advice.

1462
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,720
Speaker 1: You know what to do. Don't even pull up to

1463
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 1: his job. Let that situation go. It's toxic. Are you

1464
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 1: gonna be having relationship PTSD and you're gonna be fucked up?

1465
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 1: Let that shit go. You a little down bed?

1466
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 2: Yeah you now, not a little you were like cause

1467
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 2: if he gave you bb twice and a yeast, am

1468
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 2: a YEASTI you.

1469
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 1: Was baking bread. He was over there bacon that brioche

1470
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 1: with the French toast. Girl, girl, you need to leave

1471
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: me to fuck gover No.

1472
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 2: I'm trying to preach to her so she'll know with

1473
01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 2: the French brioche with the French toast is wild.

1474
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 1: Okay, that's given Panini exactly. You praise you walking around

1475
01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: smelling like a bakery in this bitch. Yeah, I don't

1476
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:26,639
Speaker 1: like you, girl, that don't smell like a bakery. Mm.

1477
01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, and I am.

1478
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 2: Move on.

1479
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 1: So if you want your question to answering the show,

1480
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: and make sure you email us at as gmail dot com.

1481
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 2: Do we have a voicemail today? So we got a voicemail.

1482
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 2: Make sure no, y'all listen. The voicemail is not for advice,

1483
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 2: you know, you just get things off your chest. Please

1484
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 2: leave it to like forty five thirty second. It's not

1485
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:50,120
Speaker 2: nothing too long, okay, so we're gonna put the number below.

1486
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:52,679
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all call us and just get some things

1487
01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 2: off your chest.

1488
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 1: All right? What we got today that.

1489
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:03,719
Speaker 4: Hello, Jerria and Lix. Thank you both for the amazing content.

1490
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 4: Much love to you and your team for always being

1491
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 4: on point with the uploads. The show looks it sounds amazing.

1492
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 4: Thank you Tidy for the wonderful drinks. I enjoy tipsing

1493
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 4: to create them like you do every time. Prayers for

1494
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 4: continued success. Blessings from your down South bredger and New

1495
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:25,759
Speaker 4: Wallans Louisiana and also quick signing them. Let us beautiful,

1496
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 4: all the signs live, I'm a cancer and my loving

1497
01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 4: and existences much appreciated on this Eggert. Thank you all.

1498
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:34,840
Speaker 4: You have a nice one.

1499
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: M I thought he was gonna say he was from

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01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 1: New York. He kind of sound like the New York.

1501
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 1: He did sound like New York now, oh he said

1502
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 1: New Orleans.

1503
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, shout out to you, Boie, Thank you

1504
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 2: for the love. Make sure y'all get y'all tour tickets.

1505
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all go to poor Minds dot com.

1506
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 1: H what else you gotta add? Little dre anything else?

1507
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Speaker 2: N'sy you know, poor minds dot com. Make sure that

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01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 2: use your towards Sea kids. I got some T shirts

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Speaker 2: that's out and my lip Blaws music collection dot com

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Speaker 2: and the T shirts on there.

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01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 1: Who I'm gonna write this time? All right, y'all, it's

1512
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:14,559
Speaker 1: time for karaoke. Let's do this shit.

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Speaker 2: A first of all, let me say you can't accuse

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Speaker 1: I don't. Boy, I can't continue to do this from you.

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Speaker 7: I might as well have cheated on you as much

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Speaker 7: as you accuse me of cheating, not as well have.

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Speaker 1: As much as you accuse me of lying.

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Speaker 1: I was out with somebody. Hey, you lost.

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Speaker 2: First of all, we ain't even gotta finish this shit

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Speaker 2: because fuck that I should have cheated it.

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Speaker 1: Fuck you niggas has to be blaming shit on me

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Speaker 1: because I'm gona cheat anyway, per might as well. That's

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Speaker 1: what Keisha said.