Speaker 1: What's that. It's lip service.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm gg maguire, I'm Cella h oh, I'm here,
Speaker 2: and y'all no, no, it is, but I just thought that,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we go around. This is your friend, which is weird.
Speaker 3: You've never you are that's crazy. And if you first
Speaker 3: walked in, I'm like, did we have to never? Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's that's wild.
Speaker 4: And the funny part is like, from the very beginning,
Speaker 4: about twenty thirteen, maybe we're twenty ten, maybe my first
Speaker 4: like you were one of you were my first interview ever.
Speaker 4: I remember I was scared to come see you because
Speaker 4: lip Service, but.
Speaker 3: I didn't realize that was your first interview service, but
Speaker 3: the original like you were the first person you were.
Speaker 3: We were cool, you were cool with Joe, so I
Speaker 3: was just like, but I watched, and I'm like.
Speaker 1: This is going to be crazy. Hey, it did used
Speaker 1: to be crazy.
Speaker 3: It used to be No, it's so crazy, it's so
Speaker 3: fun used to be I got in trouble after that
Speaker 3: interview because we play have that And I remember the
Speaker 3: very first interview I ever did was lip service.
Speaker 1: Yeah me too.
Speaker 3: I was a yeah, so yeah, but you know that
Speaker 3: was the point of lip service. Right was to give
Speaker 3: women more of a voice. So it was women who
Speaker 3: will always be seen but not necessarily you know, heard,
Speaker 3: like we would see you on the stream and everything,
Speaker 3: but to sit down and do an interview for you
Speaker 3: to for people to understand like who you were, your personality.
Speaker 3: We kind of started off with women in magazines and
Speaker 3: videos and things like that that normally, like guys would
Speaker 3: look at you but not get to know who you
Speaker 3: were as a person. So it's just kind of to
Speaker 3: show us as three dimensional people with you know, and
Speaker 3: then have fun with conversations because it's educational for guys
Speaker 3: because there's a lot of things they don't understand about
Speaker 3: women that I feel like, you know, we're here to help.
Speaker 1: They think they know, but they have no idea to
Speaker 1: get everybody.
Speaker 5: I got a trouble.
Speaker 4: I got in trouble because we played the drinking game
Speaker 4: and I was way too honest.
Speaker 1: I always really honest.
Speaker 6: So she was like, drink, if you've never drink, if
Speaker 6: you ever drink, if you never drank, there's so much stuff.
Speaker 1: Get good.
Speaker 3: But it is sometimes hard to be honest because people
Speaker 3: can be very judgmental. But the point of and even
Speaker 3: like on this podcast. I now remember when we were
Speaker 3: first starting, it was hard for people to like be
Speaker 3: honest and want to say things. It makes you be
Speaker 3: more closed off and people start you judge, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: but then it be the same people that do way
Speaker 3: worship judging the shit you do, or.
Speaker 4: A person underneath like that in his mama's basement just
Speaker 4: being a troll and who cares?
Speaker 3: But you guys, denay and to hear it, y'all have
Speaker 3: a podcast, yeah, and I love that.
Speaker 1: So that is and the story of how y'all even
Speaker 1: linked up.
Speaker 3: It's interesting because it's not like y'all were friends from
Speaker 3: back in the day or anything.
Speaker 5: And on this woman for one year, a year, couple
Speaker 5: of months.
Speaker 4: But I remember running into her page on Exploring and
Speaker 4: I was like, oh from Harlem.
Speaker 1: I was all her page. She's a dancer.
Speaker 4: You know, I can't bust two moves if they paid me.
Speaker 4: So I was like ooh, and I was all in it.
Speaker 4: And then I hid you up and I said, Greg,
Speaker 4: I need I need someone I want to I want
Speaker 4: to have this idea, and he was like, I have
Speaker 4: a perfect person.
Speaker 1: And we met and we closed down the bar.
Speaker 4: Of course he was at the restaurant for eight hours,
Speaker 4: and it was kind of like we like we were
Speaker 4: just catching up, Like we knew some of the same people,
Speaker 4: we did some of the same things, we were different
Speaker 4: in some ways, and so we just connected and it
Speaker 4: was just perfect.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Literally, like we have the same jacket on, and I
Speaker 4: walked in like for real, Oh my god, it's kind
Speaker 4: of it's meant to be, and it's so weird.
Speaker 1: I walked in. I was like, so, you're wearing my
Speaker 1: jacket and she's like, oh, now, nay.
Speaker 3: How is it for you being in front of the
Speaker 3: camera and talking, Like, you know, people know you for
Speaker 3: your choreography, you're dancing and everything, but it's different to
Speaker 3: be revealing things about yourself.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's not easy.
Speaker 5: So it's very easy for me to talk. I think
Speaker 5: it's a little bit difficult for people to receive it
Speaker 5: because they've never heard me speak. But I'm such an
Speaker 5: open book, like I'm always talking, always, always, always, But
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: In front of them mic like yeah, on camera, camera
Speaker 4: doing some type of choreography.
Speaker 1: So when I watch her, so to me.
Speaker 4: Because watching a lot of the people on stage, of course,
Speaker 4: I wasn't paying attention to Denney, I'm like, okay, and
Speaker 4: then now my eyes, I'm always looking for Dennay like
Speaker 4: she's on tour.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is my girl, and so now to
Speaker 1: me is the opposite.
Speaker 4: I'm used to her being an open book, and for
Speaker 4: the world is like they get to see the other
Speaker 4: side of her.
Speaker 1: So it's pretty interesting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now to hear you, I did know this on
Speaker 3: the podcast. You said you would going through a breakup.
Speaker 3: Oh lord, that was that was?
Speaker 1: I remember? Okay, continue, it's youre fas true a false
Speaker 1: true true.
Speaker 4: I mean it was it was about we've been filming,
Speaker 4: so it was it was a couple months ago, almost
Speaker 4: a year or so. Oh really okay, yeah, but I was.
Speaker 4: But it was the aftermath of the breakup. Nobody ever
Speaker 4: tells you or speaks about the person who does the
Speaker 4: breaking up how much you hurt too, when you don't
Speaker 4: really want to break up but you have to. So
Speaker 4: I did the breaking up, and it wasn't like when
Speaker 4: somebody breaks up with you.
Speaker 1: Of course, you go through.
Speaker 4: The breakup and you deal with the pain or whatever,
Speaker 4: but when you're the one who who walks in and says, yo,
Speaker 4: this is done, you still kind of deal with people
Speaker 4: don't have cynathy for that person, but nobody but but
Speaker 4: nobody ever talks about it. Nobody ever talks about go
Speaker 4: through that whole grief process. Absolutely, and and it's hard
Speaker 4: sometimes because it's like, I know you're not the one for.
Speaker 1: Me, but God, like, I just care about you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I care, and I'm and it's sad that I'm
Speaker 4: kind of hurting you, not really because I have to
Speaker 4: look out for me. So I think, for the first
Speaker 4: time ever, instead of dragging something out, I realized that
Speaker 4: that person wasn't for me, that chose me, but I
Speaker 4: was hurting.
Speaker 1: It's like, right, I.
Speaker 6: Always break up first. If I feel like they break
Speaker 6: it up, I'm gonna do it first. This might yeah, toxic,
Speaker 6: but that's that's toxicity. But to me, like I've always
Speaker 6: done the breaking up. But younger to hear he was
Speaker 6: different at this big age.
Speaker 4: For some reason, this relationship that to me probably didn't
Speaker 4: even wasn't even.
Speaker 1: Supposed to be one taught me the most had it.
Speaker 1: So when you say it wasn't supposed to be, when.
Speaker 4: Haw i't look at them and say yeah, I'll be
Speaker 4: with you, I was like, boy, bye, boy, please, you
Speaker 4: ain't tall enough of this ride.
Speaker 1: I love that how it.
Speaker 4: Happen there, oh, you know, friendship, And I'm being persistent
Speaker 4: in a world where everybody so has a d D
Speaker 4: and everybody wants right now and everybody's moving around in circles.
Speaker 4: He was really let's just say, he was intentional when
Speaker 4: it came to me, and he had been around me before,
Speaker 4: he knew me, so he knew exactly you know what
Speaker 4: I mean. He was he was intentional when it came
Speaker 4: to like just getting at me, and I.
Speaker 1: I felt for that.
Speaker 6: You know, I think I want to sit down, like,
Speaker 6: let me just let me see if it's let me
Speaker 6: sit down.
Speaker 3: I've always felt like a lot of times relationships, a
Speaker 3: big part of it is timing, like it was you
Speaker 3: could have the right person, but it's not the right time,
Speaker 3: or you could have the wrong person, but it's the
Speaker 3: right time and it still could happen because you're like,
Speaker 3: I'm in.
Speaker 1: The frame of mind where I'm kind of ready to
Speaker 1: like you said.
Speaker 4: And that yeah, and sometimes it ain't even your favorite
Speaker 4: color and you're like, you know what, maybe I'm color blind,
Speaker 4: but I'll take it. Let's see if this this is
Speaker 4: a little different than what I usually go for let's
Speaker 4: see if this works.
Speaker 5: I always like that with my husband. Oh oh, because
Speaker 5: you have no I've known you. Y'all don't know, but
Speaker 5: I've known my husband since I was nine.
Speaker 1: Oh wow.
Speaker 5: It was one of the counselors, like the s y
Speaker 5: P workers at my summer camp, and I knew he
Speaker 5: was going to be my man when you were nine.
Speaker 5: When I was nine. I looked at him. I was
Speaker 5: we're going to be.
Speaker 1: Fast forward the story because we want to make.
Speaker 5: We're five years at part, five years apart. But you know,
Speaker 5: like when you're a kid and you have a crush
Speaker 5: and always said that's going to be my man in
Speaker 5: the future, you think yes, So fast forward all these
Speaker 5: years later, like twenty one, we linked back up and
Speaker 5: I'm like, no, I don't. I still don't think you're
Speaker 5: you're the right person, but it's literally the wrong time.
Speaker 5: Fast forward to twenty nine. I run into him again.
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 3: For you see that because nine just sounds like a
Speaker 3: baby and right counselor. And you're fantasizing like that's gonna
Speaker 3: but it's gonna be crazy that you knew that I manifestation.
Speaker 5: I loved him so much. I gave my little brother
Speaker 5: his name. That's my brother's middle name. It is now
Speaker 5: my last name.
Speaker 1: That area I will know.
Speaker 3: Wow, you get like premonitions about things frequently.
Speaker 1: Yes, So how long were you guys together before you
Speaker 1: got married?
Speaker 5: The first wedding happened? What was that?
Speaker 1: I love her?
Speaker 5: Five years in? No, I'm lyon four years in the
Speaker 5: second one five years in. We had our son. One
Speaker 5: year in, maybe a couple months in.
Speaker 1: So why was your two weddings?
Speaker 5: The first one we were supposed to be elopen, but
Speaker 5: then all my friends crashed, so we ended up having
Speaker 5: like twenty five people at the first one.
Speaker 1: Okay, so they had a.
Speaker 5: Destination one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a great story.
Speaker 1: I love this story.
Speaker 3: Right being married, because I think you're the only one
Speaker 3: here who's married.
Speaker 1: She said, what is the challenges you would say about
Speaker 1: being married?
Speaker 5: Well, for me, it's, you know, finding the balance between
Speaker 5: traveling and working so much and showing up and being
Speaker 5: the best wife I can. I tell everybody, like, every
Speaker 5: time I go to work, that's my vacation. I come home,
Speaker 5: I clock the fucking sorry I clocked in because you
Speaker 5: gotta cook, you gotta clean.
Speaker 1: We have a baby.
Speaker 5: We have to find alone time. We have to find
Speaker 5: time to be friends. He worked at when we were
Speaker 5: like right before we got married, he was in law school,
Speaker 5: so we have to find a balance with his schedule.
Speaker 1: Like just oh, so he was in law school, so
Speaker 1: you were kind of supporting.
Speaker 5: No, he was still supporting.
Speaker 3: I told you about people who I know, like not
Speaker 3: like so focused on trying to pass the bar that
Speaker 3: they don't.
Speaker 5: Have a job, but just the balance that's really like
Speaker 5: the most in the communication, like making sure you're constantly
Speaker 5: checking in because road so much on, Like I'm gone
Speaker 5: all the time.
Speaker 1: Right, Look, that's tough, that's a lot. But it must
Speaker 1: be nice to come.
Speaker 5: It's so and they come to me too. Okay, So
Speaker 5: we get to travel, we get to see things. We
Speaker 5: have great time together most of the time.
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel guilty, Like I know when Jasmine
Speaker 3: brand is here, she she has a kid, and sometimes
Speaker 3: she feels so guilty when she's traveling, right, and like
Speaker 3: she's like, you know, because my I feel like guys
Speaker 3: are used to we're used to that in society, Like
Speaker 3: men travel, they do the thing with the kids.
Speaker 1: Yeah, many kids. I don't remember. I don't know me.
Speaker 4: I'm really big to be like, all right, these kids
Speaker 4: needs to be they need to be fed. Yeah, we're
Speaker 4: gonna be broken homeless, so we're gonna get fed and
Speaker 4: you're gonna be mad?
Speaker 1: Which one? Pick one?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a little for a little bit. But
Speaker 5: now that my son is able to communicate his feelings,
Speaker 5: we have great conversations and FaceTime. My god heras me up,
Speaker 5: he watches me, rehears I've been good job. Guys doing great.
Speaker 5: We all sit and tells us stories about his day.
Speaker 5: The mommy, I've passed it, but I did have a moment.
Speaker 1: Like and I feel like that's natural.
Speaker 3: Yeah, can if you can imagine now now that you're
Speaker 3: single to hear are you single?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 4: I haven't. Yeah, since that break up because it taught
Speaker 4: me so much. I was single and celibate. He long,
Speaker 4: oh my god, forever almost eleven months. So we broke
Speaker 4: up and let's say, I don't even remember child.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 4: January first, twenty twenty three is when I broke up
Speaker 4: with him.
Speaker 1: The ball dropped and I was like, I'm out of here.
Speaker 4: Talk about talk about a resolution for the year, because
Speaker 4: I knew that I wasn't going to enter my New
Speaker 4: Year with the ball dropped together and I woke up
Speaker 4: that morning and I was trying to be nice, although
Speaker 4: as the ball was dropping, he was beefing with me
Speaker 4: about me being on my phone because I was trying
Speaker 4: to get the New Year's kiss on it, and he
Speaker 4: was like.
Speaker 1: Why are you on your phone? I'm like, what do
Speaker 1: you mean? Kiss me? Like what do we talk? What
Speaker 1: are we arguing about it?
Speaker 4: And I was just like, somebody get him off the club,
Speaker 4: like you know, one of those. So it got crazy
Speaker 4: as the ball was dropping it we partied, we argued
Speaker 4: a little bit. I ignored him a whole lot, got
Speaker 4: got home together, woke up that morning. Was trying to
Speaker 4: nurture him, just kind of like because I know I
Speaker 4: could be a tough cookie. And he had been through
Speaker 4: a lot too. He had lost his mom, his dad
Speaker 4: throughout the last four years and best friends, so he
Speaker 4: was dealing a lot of grief as it was. So
Speaker 4: I was just trying. But then at some point, when
Speaker 4: does it stop? When do I stop becoming? When do
Speaker 4: you stop just lashing not on me for all the
Speaker 4: paint you have. So that morning I got up it
Speaker 4: was January first, and I hugged him, and he gave
Speaker 4: me issues, and I hugged him again. He had more
Speaker 4: issues and I was like, you know what, he said, Well,
Speaker 4: we're not going to just know, what we're not going
Speaker 4: to do is be together this year.
Speaker 1: And I packed him up last time your boss dropped. Wow,
Speaker 1: so was that was done?
Speaker 4: So after that I went, I, I you know, I
Speaker 4: didn't jump into anything.
Speaker 1: I didn't jump into anything. I jumped into work. I
Speaker 1: jumped It just takes some time, like to after a relationship,
Speaker 1: not all the time. So the celibacy was I'm at
Speaker 1: this big age. I'm really not.
Speaker 4: I don't really just want to share time space in
Speaker 4: bed with anyone.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: It's not key key and party and bullshit like I'm
Speaker 4: really it's everything is intentional. I needed to get my
Speaker 4: mind together because usually when a woman goes through a breakup,
Speaker 4: she's very vulnerable, vulnerable, and you think you're running around
Speaker 4: doing the right thing to numb that pain. But then
Speaker 4: you wake up on it and you a little bit
Speaker 4: better and you realize that you just caught a couple
Speaker 4: l's back there. And I think women when people say heal, heal,
Speaker 4: women are like, yeah, yeah, whatever, and then you just
Speaker 4: find ways to like numb that pain, whether it's alcohol, clubbing,
Speaker 4: dating other people, jumping into bed with them, whatever it
Speaker 4: is to take your mind away from that. But that
Speaker 4: day that you wake up and that you're like you
Speaker 4: surpassed that somewhat, you realize all the dumb stuff you've
Speaker 4: done right, and it just makes your life a lot.
Speaker 4: But it's more trauma, it's more more. It's going to
Speaker 4: be a larger therapist bill if you ain't got no medicaid,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So for me, I decided
Speaker 4: to make to stop finally say you know what, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna cut it out. I'm a I'm an fill my
Speaker 4: cup because I've been doing all the filling.
Speaker 1: Cup empty and he drained that cup.
Speaker 4: So I started filling out my cup. I had moved
Speaker 4: into a new place. I was fixing my home rather.
Speaker 1: Than to a new place. Is so important, and it was.
Speaker 4: Unintentional, by the way, but it just so happened during
Speaker 4: the breakup. Timing was perfect, and so I usually that
Speaker 4: moving in turns into let me pay the mover, let
Speaker 4: me pay the clean lady, let me play the organizer,
Speaker 4: let me let them organize me, let me go get
Speaker 4: this bag this time around, I shut all that down,
Speaker 4: and I wanted to be with self right right, and
Speaker 4: I wanted to I also wasn't a perfect person in
Speaker 4: that relationship, so I wanted to know what took me
Speaker 4: down that route, why him?
Speaker 1: What I did wrong in that really?
Speaker 6: Like, I wanted to really self assess so I wouldn't
Speaker 6: make those same mistakes.
Speaker 1: So I dove in, So what did you feel like
Speaker 1: you did wrong? A lot?
Speaker 4: I feel like I didn't know how to lead with love.
Speaker 4: I'm like a dictator. I'm so used to being I'm
Speaker 4: so used to.
Speaker 1: Being the provider that I just don't I lead.
Speaker 3: And I said, and maybe you don't trust somebody to lead,
Speaker 3: and I don't know how to just drop everything in
Speaker 3: your hands and trust you to do. That is a
Speaker 3: truest thing, though, because I think that women who are powerful,
Speaker 3: who are so used to doing things for themselves, it's
Speaker 3: like the highest form of knowing that you care about
Speaker 3: somebody when you let them handle.
Speaker 1: I didn't let him lead.
Speaker 4: So I think that speaking life into a man is
Speaker 4: important as well. I think that automatic. I think I
Speaker 4: saw him.
Speaker 6: As I didn't see him as an equal to begin with,
Speaker 6: and I treated him that way, and that wasn't fair
Speaker 6: to him, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I didn't allow him the space to show me what
Speaker 1: he can do.
Speaker 6: Okay, so he caved in, But he caved in because
Speaker 6: I was already walking in with that like that that vibe,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: There was a lot of things I could have did different.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that he would have worked out to
Speaker 4: begin with, right, because a man's a man's a man,
Speaker 4: and a man can also be like start and be
Speaker 4: like you gonna calm the fuck down, you know who
Speaker 4: I am. But I will say that I learned so
Speaker 4: much and that person that I was in a relationship
Speaker 4: by no longer ever want to be Okay, But.
Speaker 3: There's a reason for everything that we go through things, right, Yes,
Speaker 3: and whatever what they say doesn't kill us makes this stronger.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: And I learn how to deal with thrief two.
Speaker 4: That's another thing, because nobody could teach you that how
Speaker 4: to deal with other people's pain.
Speaker 6: Yes, so I thought I was doing it. I mean,
Speaker 6: I did the best that I could. But now I
Speaker 6: look at certain things and I know that I could
Speaker 6: have been better at some things. So of course I'm
Speaker 6: just saying I could have did better in certain avenues
Speaker 6: in that relationship.
Speaker 1: Did y'all have that conversation? Are you just?
Speaker 4: I did apologize after I okay, somewhere in between that year,
Speaker 4: I try to like.
Speaker 1: Circle busting you with.
Speaker 4: And I was like, you know what, maybe maybe not,
Speaker 4: And I did my apologizing. But it's safe to say
Speaker 4: when somebody's going through a lot of pain.
Speaker 1: You have to sometimes journeys. Some journeys are to be
Speaker 1: walked along. Yeah, sometimes it's really hard to be in
Speaker 1: that in.
Speaker 6: That situation, especially with grieving, Yeah, because they could just
Speaker 6: destroy you.
Speaker 4: And that was that's that's what was happening. There was
Speaker 4: no time type of inspo at home. There was nothing
Speaker 4: happening period and then you're just screaming and losing it
Speaker 4: for every other second and I'm just over here trying
Speaker 4: to pick up the pieces.
Speaker 1: But they didn't even know how to because I can't relate.
Speaker 4: So if you say I feel your pain, no you don't, Okay,
Speaker 4: so what do I like?
Speaker 1: It was just it was.
Speaker 6: So it was just a lot that happened in the
Speaker 6: year that I decided to just throw in the towel.
Speaker 3: You know what, I realized, how, what are some ways
Speaker 3: you know a relationship is over. What are some indications
Speaker 3: no sex or period or the passion isn't there that
Speaker 3: you're used to having made facts?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that no sex is really no cooking.
Speaker 5: I'm not cooking.
Speaker 1: You ain't never been in a relationship with me.
Speaker 5: Because you don't cook.
Speaker 4: No, I cook if I'm in love, but it's not
Speaker 4: a requirement, like I'm gonna cook three times afought. We
Speaker 4: don't never expect me to cook seven days. I'm great
Speaker 4: at ordering.
Speaker 1: Me too, and I'm great at plating it and it
Speaker 1: looks good. But I could cook.
Speaker 6: And when you start, I want to see other niggas
Speaker 6: for me. Like it's like, if I fuck with you,
Speaker 6: I'll fuck with you, but I know I don't want
Speaker 6: to fuck with you.
Speaker 7: If I'm trying.
Speaker 4: To do, I'll be just messing with you and don't
Speaker 4: see nobody else. Be like, but then once you see me,
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I don't even like them that much.
Speaker 1: That happens.
Speaker 3: But the no sex thing, I'm so glad you said that,
Speaker 3: because that is I feel like one of the first
Speaker 3: indications is when that kind of stopped for sure, and
Speaker 3: not saying that everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think I can't think of.
Speaker 3: A person who hasn't been through that, you know, because
Speaker 3: especially when a guy is not really trying to have sex.
Speaker 1: With you either.
Speaker 6: Well, this is my first time going through the no
Speaker 6: sex thing. So in this situation, the no sex thing,
Speaker 6: well I can't say too much because I ain't even
Speaker 6: made the announcement at home, but the no sex thing,
Speaker 6: when niggas, they'll still be wanting the fuck. You know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying for me, Yeah, they don't care about that.
Speaker 6: They don't be like the arguments from when they He's
Speaker 6: just sad, I don't want to fuck you definitely don't
Speaker 6: want me.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he offended?
Speaker 4: I just went through that like I was trying to
Speaker 4: break my celibacy to somebody. I was like, you chosen
Speaker 4: come here somebody that you know I have history with,
Speaker 4: and he's great. So I'm like, if I'm going to
Speaker 4: break it, yeah, am I ready?
Speaker 1: And I prayed to the Jesus before apocalypse? What is it?
Speaker 1: What's happening not to zombies like this? So I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, God, it's coming. The clips is coming.
Speaker 4: So, and he was going through his changes and he
Speaker 4: had just had some ship going on at home and
Speaker 4: we sit for dinner. He says, Yo, let's go have dinner.
Speaker 4: In my head, I was like, dinner right, dinner.
Speaker 1: I was talking deserved. I was like on the phone,
Speaker 1: I was like, you want to talk talk about I
Speaker 1: want to talk.
Speaker 4: In so right, because mentally, if I thought about it
Speaker 4: too much, I wouldn't break the celibacy because I've been
Speaker 4: going I'm on a street like I'm going straight a year.
Speaker 4: He invites me to a restaurant.
Speaker 6: We sit down and he's talking about how he's working now,
Speaker 6: he's not drinking, and how he's not dating anybody, how
Speaker 6: he's not having sex in order.
Speaker 1: I was like, screw, I went off? Did that? You
Speaker 1: were like, well, I gotta go. I don't think so well.
Speaker 4: I was like what he was like, but he was
Speaker 4: going through what I think he was in the beginning
Speaker 4: of what I had just went through the cleanse. Okay,
Speaker 4: you know at the time, all the timing was off,
Speaker 4: but I never got to know from him and I
Speaker 4: really but I never really picked up the phone and
Speaker 4: was like, and then I realized, way I was just
Speaker 4: always available for him, and it's one time that I'm
Speaker 4: chying that I needed to be choked up and thrown
Speaker 4: up against the wall and not call the cops on
Speaker 4: the ex. Oh no, so the cell CEB, the celibacy
Speaker 4: lives on, It lives on.
Speaker 1: You're gonna hit that year mark? No, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna figure this out. We can't do that.
Speaker 7: Well one, my one, My moan thing bad because it's
Speaker 7: been eleven months.
Speaker 1: You see it, right, it's cool that phone would have
Speaker 1: been playing answer to that. Should we see what he wants?
Speaker 3: Don't say nothing crazy, We at work, We're working.
Speaker 1: Oh. I was just reading that. Hey, main O, Hi,
Speaker 1: I just saw in Atlanta. He told you, Yeah, how
Speaker 1: are you? Hello? What up? Pull up? Go be scandalous.
Speaker 1: All right, we're going to talk.
Speaker 3: About that right now in honor review, in honor of Maino.
Speaker 3: All right, thanks Mana. We needed that, all right. He
Speaker 3: really called to tell me how disappointed he was.
Speaker 1: I was just reading that.
Speaker 5: Song about relationships coming to a pause, right.
Speaker 3: You know, the relationships with your homegirls, your besties. Sometimes
Speaker 3: that could be more heartbreaking than any man when you
Speaker 3: break up.
Speaker 1: Yes, I've been through that. Yeah, so I think that
Speaker 1: nobody talks about friendship break ups.
Speaker 4: So I don't know what it is the older I get,
Speaker 4: the more I'm feeling and connected, and the more I
Speaker 4: would hate to lose people. And then I realize I
Speaker 4: have a betterment issues Like so many losses. You want
Speaker 4: to keep the people that you love around you.
Speaker 3: But sometimes you have to, Like I think that we
Speaker 3: could be loyal to a fault where you're loyal to
Speaker 3: the wrong person. And it's like, just because I've known
Speaker 3: you for X amount of years does not mean that
Speaker 3: I owe you anything or that you actually if you
Speaker 3: keep on doing things that are destructed to like our
Speaker 3: friendship and thinking that it's cool, it's just like being
Speaker 3: in a relationship, like you can't just treat me any
Speaker 3: way and do anything and think I must still be
Speaker 3: here for you.
Speaker 6: And sometimes the people that help you when you're going
Speaker 6: through something are not the people who've been in your
Speaker 6: circle for a minute.
Speaker 1: It's always it might be that person that you just
Speaker 1: met and it's.
Speaker 6: Weird and you're like, yo, but I've been around you
Speaker 6: for so long a year.
Speaker 3: I don't agree with the no new friends things that
Speaker 3: people be right because new friends are so important, Like
Speaker 3: some of my friends that I've had for not as
Speaker 3: long as like my oldest friends are way more like
Speaker 3: I'm getting face supported Jesus, I'm not going to answer it.
Speaker 3: Everybody's getting faced like, guys, we're working. Why do people
Speaker 3: FaceTime with no notice?
Speaker 5: I love it?
Speaker 1: That's me.
Speaker 5: I'm a face time.
Speaker 4: I would say, I only care about the notice when
Speaker 4: you FaceTime if I don't really like you, and that's
Speaker 4: to a man.
Speaker 1: But if I like you, like you, I'm picking.
Speaker 5: Up I need a little.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I only complain when I'm like, why isn't it you
Speaker 3: won't I never just pick up the phone and FaceTime anybody.
Speaker 3: I tell y'all all do that. I really don't FaceTime people.
Speaker 3: I barely call anyone.
Speaker 5: Text it is the best thing ever I'll be calling.
Speaker 5: I'm like, because things is so misconstrued. Yeah, sometimes like
Speaker 5: you feel like yelling at.
Speaker 1: You you have the l O L. But a happy
Speaker 1: face will.
Speaker 4: Be like, I'm not beefa so sure I am.
Speaker 1: People like what you're trying to say? You be like, oh, nothing,
Speaker 1: How long have you been married?
Speaker 5: We have been married three years.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: Have you gone through periods which your husband of no sex? No?
Speaker 5: She said, man, we haven't hit that mark yet. Year eight?
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, Yeah.
Speaker 5: Unless I'm like away and then we be so creative.
Speaker 4: Well, I guess every time you come home it's kind
Speaker 4: of like a little honeymoon on a low or just
Speaker 4: like recapping and things get serious because you're like going,
Speaker 4: so it just keeps a spark going. Right now, if
Speaker 4: they had the monotony of every day to day relationship,
Speaker 4: that probably would they probably would have hit that mark
Speaker 4: like I'm tired of you.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 5: We're so excited like we we have for the most part.
Speaker 5: And he just started drinking.
Speaker 1: Just started drinking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he just.
Speaker 5: Started doing a lot of things. So everything money, it
Speaker 5: was just sober, sadly, he has a newborn.
Speaker 1: What is he drinking?
Speaker 5: Okay, bear with me. He's drinking like sweet red wine.
Speaker 1: Think about think about it, Angela. I know you've done
Speaker 1: the deal before. Yeah, and you stopped drinking for a
Speaker 1: couple of.
Speaker 6: Right, and this is gonna hit you different because you
Speaker 6: please imagine somebody who never drank drink some sweet wine
Speaker 6: and he's tipsy.
Speaker 5: I got him on that and we just got him
Speaker 5: to do some margarita.
Speaker 1: Ok.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, come out.
Speaker 1: You might get putting it one more time.
Speaker 3: One morning, Againe, because you date somebody who doesn't drink.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I just started drinking remember myself, years ago.
Speaker 1: And I put it down. You gotta relax, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I love you. She just start drinking years ago in
Speaker 1: her straight liquor on the rocks. Chaser, I like that.
Speaker 1: Who know?
Speaker 7: Yeah, no Chaser, no ice, none of it. Anybody who
Speaker 7: know me. No, I've never drank.
Speaker 6: Some people still be like you laying and I can't drinking.
Speaker 6: Nineteen is too strange. Straight out, I drank a whole bottle.
Speaker 3: Okay, I stopped doing that after the last time you
Speaker 3: drank a bottle.
Speaker 7: No, I said I was gonna stop.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 7: I probably drank every day this month. It's fun and I.
Speaker 6: Feel like I feel like we have to have like
Speaker 6: yay after that to that.
Speaker 3: Okay, So yeah, before this, because Mano just called and
Speaker 3: he was like, he's very upset about this Young Miami
Speaker 3: and JT Beef. But I feel like people were kind
Speaker 3: of seeing that was were speculating. They were speculating, but
Speaker 3: we didn't know it was going to explode like this.
Speaker 3: But to be clear, both of them going through a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah you know, wait wait, wait, wait stop, it's okay.
Speaker 4: The couch I'm with it, I'm with the ships. I
Speaker 4: love y'all. Y'all can put me anywhere. Tell me what
Speaker 4: JT is going through because I know what I know what.
Speaker 1: Young Miami is going through.
Speaker 4: And I've seen how they break up must have happened,
Speaker 4: because it was a lot happening.
Speaker 3: But they did end it and said I love you,
Speaker 3: I love you more. So it was kind of like,
Speaker 3: why does it have.
Speaker 1: To be online? Though?
Speaker 4: Like if I be with the nay, I don't want
Speaker 4: it to be online.
Speaker 3: And that's what I was going to ask you guys,
Speaker 3: because me and Gigi have been doing this podcast since
Speaker 3: the beginning.
Speaker 1: How long has it been. It'll be ten years in
Speaker 1: September Jesus.
Speaker 3: Yeah, ten years. And we I don't think we've never
Speaker 3: had an argument. Yeah, we've never had an argument. We
Speaker 3: never got it. And honestly, there was only one time
Speaker 3: it wasn't an argument, but there was only one time
Speaker 3: she had to like low key scold me like, Okay,
Speaker 3: we're not gonna talk about that, like you did something
Speaker 3: that you should not have talked about and we're not
Speaker 3: gonna talk about in what I was like, okay, done,
Speaker 3: I'll mention it again.
Speaker 1: And in ten years.
Speaker 6: So that's what communication is the key, Yes, understanding communicated.
Speaker 7: I don't understand right communication and I understanding.
Speaker 3: So I want to talk about that because you guys
Speaker 3: are starting something new together and people could be really close,
Speaker 3: but that like when you start working together. Because we've
Speaker 3: seen some podcasts for yeah, fall the part going through it.
Speaker 3: So when you think about that, like, are there some
Speaker 3: guidelines that you're gonna have, because I also feel like
Speaker 3: I would hate for the way that I am if
Speaker 3: I fall out with somebody, I'm not gonna like publicly.
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that talk about them or
Speaker 3: talk shit or reveal any of their secrets to the
Speaker 3: public or things like that, or lie about anything like.
Speaker 3: That's my own rule for myself. And even if you
Speaker 3: come at me, I just don't really respond. I don't
Speaker 3: really respond because I think that makes things a lot
Speaker 3: bigger than it has to be. Others watch and I
Speaker 3: know it's really interesting for people when you do that,
Speaker 3: but I also like for my own piece, you know,
Speaker 3: because the worst thing is when you do something and
Speaker 3: then the internet blows up with it and your notifications
Speaker 3: are going crazy and you're like, I shouldn't even say shit.
Speaker 1: Because now everybody's like, because you're never going.
Speaker 5: To win everybody, that's the best advice. Everybody has all
Speaker 5: the answers.
Speaker 3: So when you think about that, because this is still
Speaker 3: fairly new, right, how many episodes in are you guys.
Speaker 5: Now like tomorrow will be number four?
Speaker 1: Right or yeah we've been Yeah, you.
Speaker 3: Know, so do you have you come up with like
Speaker 3: some plans because this is kind of like a marriage too,
Speaker 3: working together just to make sure that, like we got
Speaker 3: to communicate if something is misunderstood and misconstrued.
Speaker 6: We have we have a really good support team. We
Speaker 6: also have been watching what's been happening around us and
Speaker 6: before us.
Speaker 4: We also really really like each other. We're not saying
Speaker 4: that we haven't even had disagreements.
Speaker 1: Disagreements are fine.
Speaker 4: But we've had like we've had we've had a spat
Speaker 4: and then we regrouped and we apologized and we moved on.
Speaker 1: What was this bad about? Uh? Just I think it
Speaker 1: was it was what I don't even know.
Speaker 5: I think the I think our both of our energies
Speaker 5: were high. It was like the launch day and we
Speaker 5: were nervous, super It was all nerves. It really was
Speaker 5: about nothing right, It was nerves and just energy.
Speaker 4: We both got loud, and then Greg grabbed Anna and
Speaker 4: then they had a conversation and then I'm like, we're
Speaker 4: the nay. And then I was like, you want a
Speaker 4: shot and then she was like yeah, and we took
Speaker 4: a shot and we walked in.
Speaker 1: You know, it was literally it was literally the energy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was literally the energy of he's about to
Speaker 4: walk into like a soul, the beginning of your life.
Speaker 4: And we were both nervous, okay, but we do have
Speaker 4: a strong support team. So even after that, we regrouped,
Speaker 4: we talked about it, and we just assigned hats that,
Speaker 4: like you know what I mean, would keep us from
Speaker 4: even having that traction because we are both.
Speaker 1: To sit on it, like in other words, let g
Speaker 1: do what.
Speaker 4: She does and me and then they do what we do,
Speaker 4: and if we have any issues, we come in as
Speaker 4: a family and we have the buffer in between, so
Speaker 4: nothing to get misconstrued.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and to communicate with each other absolutely, because I
Speaker 3: also feel like as important as it is like to
Speaker 3: work together, it's also important to know that when you
Speaker 3: don't get along, you need to figure out about how
Speaker 3: do you work through it?
Speaker 1: Right? And then you know, we're also getting to know
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 4: So I might walk in with my own stuff from
Speaker 4: outside and not wanted to affect do my job and
Speaker 4: come in, but my energy is a little different than
Speaker 4: it was last Monday, and I was hype. So like
Speaker 4: I remember looking at her one time saying, hey, I'm
Speaker 4: going through this this, this has got nothing to do
Speaker 4: with you anybody here. I'm just going through assist. So
Speaker 4: it's important for me to communicate, like you don't know me,
Speaker 4: and you might think this is about you. That might
Speaker 4: not help to say nothing, but look, I'm being transparent right, this, this, this, this, this,
Speaker 4: let's get this shit going, and I just want to
Speaker 4: be better. And then she opened up about something and
Speaker 4: then we were like, let's have drinks, and it was
Speaker 4: kind of like, you know, we're getting to know each
Speaker 4: other in a different space.
Speaker 1: We're communicating. That's good. See.
Speaker 3: I like that because really me and g have gotten
Speaker 3: along like from the you know, we met through her
Speaker 3: even before the service, yeah, even before I live service.
Speaker 3: Me and Teller also mm hm and tell I understand
Speaker 3: she'd be like Angela, if you don't pick up your
Speaker 3: God damn right was wrong because I'm the worst, Like
Speaker 3: I'd be busy doing stuff.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm not a good friend. Me too. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be honest.
Speaker 6: Me too, and sometimes that, and then I would text
Speaker 6: some stuff that sound crazy, like we need to do better,
Speaker 6: like I did today in the group chat, and I
Speaker 6: was like, I'm not beefing with y'all, but I wish
Speaker 6: I could say some things.
Speaker 1: But I'm driving.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get an angela, and so I'm not
Speaker 4: a I'm a very much straight to the point that
Speaker 4: i'd be like, guys, I'm sorry, I'm pretty in pink,
Speaker 4: give me a second. I didn't have time to communicate that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't look at it like that.
Speaker 6: I look at it it's like, you just be busy,
Speaker 6: you know, sometimes you be needing yourself time to cake
Speaker 6: and ship like that. So don't take that, ok you know,
Speaker 6: like's that's from where where you get cake from?
Speaker 1: I'm use it now.
Speaker 7: Really, it's okay.
Speaker 1: You finna be cake. You're gonna manifested. So I don't
Speaker 1: take it like that. I'd be like, I just be time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's all crazy, that's all great. I'm gonna get my
Speaker 1: cake cake with all these cakes.
Speaker 3: I saw on money of episodes you were talking about
Speaker 3: like being with your husband, but also knowing that, like
Speaker 3: you had a wild twenties.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. He while I mean like I had
Speaker 5: a schedule. He was on part of the schedule. That's
Speaker 5: when I knew I couldn't be with him. I'm like,
Speaker 5: it's not the right time. He was like my Wednesday
Speaker 5: Thursday guy, Like I had a Monday, Tuesday was Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
Speaker 5: I wasn't even sleeping with everybody, but I was just
Speaker 5: kicking it here, lunch there, let's go to the park,
Speaker 5: let's walk, let's go color like just color yeah, between
Speaker 5: them line, I had a wild as I lived a great,
Speaker 5: a great life. I think I'm so cool being where
Speaker 5: I am now because joys my twenties.
Speaker 1: Is there anybody in the world like Monday was competing?
Speaker 5: Well, everybody was competing because everybody really wanted me real bad.
Speaker 5: He wanted me real bad.
Speaker 1: But isn't the weekend the best slot? According to.
Speaker 5: It's not the best slot because all today south on
Speaker 5: the weekend.
Speaker 1: But that's better. But don't you want to be free
Speaker 1: with whoever you wind up with.
Speaker 4: I want to be I want to be in control.
Speaker 4: I want to seven day man is the person who wins.
Speaker 5: That's the lord and the lords.
Speaker 1: And now when you're honest with him, like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm talking to other guy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, everybody, that's good.
Speaker 4: I don't know that because I was born, I mean
Speaker 4: I was born and raised and in a family who
Speaker 4: was like, if you lose your virginity, he's your husband.
Speaker 4: Don't lose it. Don't have any kids. We don't fit
Speaker 4: in here. If you have section gonna you're gonna get cancer.
Speaker 6: The more you my mom used to be like, the
Speaker 6: more you rub on that, the more you're gonna die.
Speaker 1: And she had three girls in the house. She was
Speaker 1: a single mom.
Speaker 4: She's like, y'all not coming over here with kids. So
Speaker 4: I so the dating thing, I was like, is that
Speaker 4: some white people ship? That's what I really thought, because
Speaker 4: you always see it in movies, like they're dating. And
Speaker 4: I used to be like, if I if I get
Speaker 4: into anything, you can't even use my bathroom because my
Speaker 4: mom don't want you in the house unless I tell
Speaker 4: my mom this is it.
Speaker 1: She only want to that this is.
Speaker 4: It guy, Okay, And you know, I wish she would
Speaker 4: have told me that.
Speaker 5: And my mom knew everybody, everybody was covering for you.
Speaker 5: My mom is cool. You want to play, you want
Speaker 5: to play.
Speaker 1: I'm playing with nobody. That's so funny because your mom
Speaker 1: may have no loyalty to none of them.
Speaker 5: Like my loyalty is to you. Mom.
Speaker 4: You're gonna be ruled to everybody, like he can't lose
Speaker 4: my bathroom.
Speaker 1: I don't see.
Speaker 3: But you know what, it's so funny because I think
Speaker 3: about guys you didd and their moms knew that they
Speaker 3: were cheating on you, and it.
Speaker 1: Was smiling, be like his smile.
Speaker 3: You thought you really mattered right and nice to her,
Speaker 3: and you know all his friends. That's the worst. And
Speaker 3: a man cheats on.
Speaker 4: You and them and everybody knows, and everybody know the
Speaker 4: chick and she also around and they covered for him.
Speaker 1: And no family get beat up, Harry. He just got
Speaker 1: a cheat just in case. Now, that's my sister says that.
Speaker 4: My middle sister says, Lexi says, Lexi says, listen to
Speaker 4: a sister says, she's like, yo, you need to you
Speaker 4: need to find you somebody every six months because when
Speaker 4: the honeymoon stage is over and you want to play
Speaker 4: with the gold play and I'm like what She's like,
Speaker 4: let's just we're gonna all cheat.
Speaker 1: Oh my, I how to put yourself first.
Speaker 6: That's not just worry about all these rules and ship
Speaker 6: if you ain't married.
Speaker 3: See, I feel like I can't do ship and I
Speaker 3: wouldn't do s. I don't even think about it, like
Speaker 3: I really be in terms of what caken, Well, you're.
Speaker 1: Good right now. I mean I have my man. I
Speaker 1: don't do nothing. You shouldn't. I don't be doing nothing
Speaker 1: either though, even when I'm single, Like.
Speaker 6: I don't even got the energy to do it, Like
Speaker 6: I really want the real thing, I really look mm hmm.
Speaker 1: I mean everybody do.
Speaker 4: But until then, with what we're doing outside.
Speaker 1: You ain't doing ship, are you. I'm outside okay right
Speaker 1: and like I'm minding my business.
Speaker 6: I want to be outside with like purpose. It's like
Speaker 6: partying with a purpose like.
Speaker 3: Nonprofits profit profit yeah, outside on getting back inside yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: like intentional, like I don't really I don't really care, Like.
Speaker 1: I don't care about a lot of things anymore.
Speaker 3: Do you think you have sex differently as you get older? Yep,
Speaker 3: then they tell us, since you said it so fast,
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 5: So in tune with what you want, what you need,
Speaker 5: what you like, you're open to trying more things, like
Speaker 5: you know what you are, you know your body, what
Speaker 5: you want, you know how to do stuff. Now you're
Speaker 5: not like just licking the tip like you're going, I.
Speaker 1: Go for my bad.
Speaker 5: You know, but you're doing it like, Yeah, it's more passionate,
Speaker 5: even if you're not really married or whatever, like you
Speaker 5: want them to want real bad.
Speaker 6: I haven't had it chill out before a quarter next
Speaker 6: get in trouble tonight.
Speaker 5: So definitely, I think it's better get better.
Speaker 3: Now, Like what are the things that you do to
Speaker 3: turn it up and make it make it spicy?
Speaker 1: I feel like they're so new into their well y'all
Speaker 1: have been together eight years.
Speaker 6: You told me, you told me you want me to
Speaker 6: tell them to keep it to ourselves.
Speaker 1: What I told you were wearing the same jackets. Now
Speaker 1: you can tell.
Speaker 4: It's gonna be wearing different wigs and stuff because you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, playing like you role play. He
Speaker 4: was like he wanted a blonde. I became a blonde
Speaker 4: whoever you need me to be?
Speaker 1: She told me. I was like, oh, I think I
Speaker 1: want a husband.
Speaker 5: And.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we was.
Speaker 4: We was at the hook allowed just me, you and
Speaker 4: divine and you was like, yeah, you know, because I mean,
Speaker 4: you know, we be role playing and then y'all got
Speaker 4: the stories and I was like, pop please popcorn.
Speaker 5: She hung up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, role playing? So what is he does he role play?
Speaker 5: No, he just be there watching the show. You be
Speaker 5: into it, he be into ITV.
Speaker 3: I got the love of woman who could do choreography,
Speaker 3: who could be like, yeah, gig you know, because then
Speaker 3: you can do like your your whole thing or your
Speaker 3: whole little sexy feeling.
Speaker 5: I'll be making videos and I'll be editing them. I'd
Speaker 5: be sending it like a pre pre show tailor.
Speaker 1: Yes, come on, is real? You know, show you something
Speaker 1: I could do misirl video? Yeah, telor you got some videos?
Speaker 1: Do you know? Tell her doing nineteen forty two?
Speaker 6: When that when you have no videos, you better set
Speaker 6: that trip up and get No, I don't do that
Speaker 6: because that might make it like I'm kind of stick
Speaker 6: when people are watching.
Speaker 1: That's why I couldn't have a strip. Did you just
Speaker 1: do that ro Yeah exactly, were taking like everybody watching.
Speaker 1: So we have a tripod.
Speaker 6: We got this kind of like flow with in the
Speaker 6: bathroom and put the camera phone by like the sink
Speaker 6: and ship like like.
Speaker 1: What I got. This clamp thing you clamp on my
Speaker 1: videos sounds like somebody.
Speaker 7: Else clamp it. And then you just click it right
Speaker 7: there and just put the.
Speaker 1: Phone they got now they got the little suction.
Speaker 5: You got.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not that suction, but that's such a you
Speaker 1: put up in the mirror.
Speaker 7: And yeah, I don't know nothing about it.
Speaker 5: I don't not making videos. I just put my angle
Speaker 5: it up.
Speaker 1: To hear you are the videos that you that guys
Speaker 1: have like for sure? I mean I've been, I've been.
Speaker 4: I started off at King magazine, right, it was the
Speaker 4: last cover ever, I believe it was me and we
Speaker 4: had a double cover from I've done everything from King,
Speaker 4: Black Men and any urban magazine that you could think
Speaker 4: of in print that my mom didn't understand.
Speaker 1: She be like, why are people stopping me?
Speaker 4: And I was on every train station and a little
Speaker 4: optimals where you could buy magazines.
Speaker 1: You got social media, and then you got only fans.
Speaker 4: So of course of course you see my cheeks in
Speaker 4: places that you know what I mean? No, but I
Speaker 4: said videos like the yeah, like like you and know
Speaker 4: no face no case, okay, okay, I think there's only
Speaker 4: one in the faces.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right. I think there's only one individual my
Speaker 6: whole life that.
Speaker 4: Could ever be like, if anything ever leaks I know
Speaker 4: from you, I would know exactly, no face, no case.
Speaker 3: Okay, so there's stuff, it's just not your face in it. Uh,
Speaker 3: there's definitely stuff that you send the man. You'd be
Speaker 3: like and you'll be like you said, it's some chance,
Speaker 3: but you ain't.
Speaker 6: I'm not.
Speaker 4: I'm not busting it wide open for no real ninja.
Speaker 4: But this is one person that I don't know why
Speaker 4: I feel so free and maybe he just brought that
Speaker 4: out of me and and you know, and in our
Speaker 4: situation ship that he might have got some incriminating evidence
Speaker 4: and it better be in the safe.
Speaker 1: That's why you just got.
Speaker 4: To do it on your phone, right, Well, you don't
Speaker 4: have any but sometimes especially when you're when you're dating somebody,
Speaker 4: you're dating somebody and y'all long distance, Like how do
Speaker 4: y'all entertain each other? It's not like he can come
Speaker 4: downstairs and be like, yo, I'm outside, let's go to movies.
Speaker 4: It's like I have to travel too, So sometimes you
Speaker 4: gotta keep them entertained on a Monday through Wednesday, but
Speaker 4: till Friday.
Speaker 3: Now, how important is it when you're dating somebody to
Speaker 3: tell them, like about your past and people you've been with,
Speaker 3: things you've done, especially when you're Google.
Speaker 1: Look at your face. You don't even know how to
Speaker 1: your Facebee saying everything?
Speaker 5: Why she makes.
Speaker 1: I don't know how important is it?
Speaker 5: Tell everything I've done a book? Okay, that's also it's
Speaker 5: like a gift and a curse, Like I really tell everything.
Speaker 1: Does it ever get brought back up?
Speaker 5: Yes? Then they want to talk about it. They want
Speaker 5: to dig deep. It's not that deep.
Speaker 1: That's why it's not that you don't.
Speaker 6: Even like he just want to know what might affect
Speaker 6: the other than that. Yeah, because I feel like guys
Speaker 6: don't want to know. No, I've had meant to be
Speaker 6: down and say so like weird stuff, like so tell
Speaker 6: me what you did with him, and you're like, oh,
Speaker 6: you're more details.
Speaker 1: See if I was with a guy and he did that,
Speaker 1: I would feel weird. It's weird. I don't think he's
Speaker 1: for me. He's weird.
Speaker 3: If he was like asking me, like grilling me about something.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, it's one thing and they're like,
Speaker 3: as you use yeah, you know that's it. But like
Speaker 3: grilling you like. I think that's a lot. It's weird
Speaker 3: because I wouldn't do that.
Speaker 6: It depends on a gay too, Like for me, it
Speaker 6: depends on like, say, contest the number one. I'm gonna
Speaker 6: tell you whatever I think I want you to know.
Speaker 6: It might not even be real. I'll tell you some
Speaker 6: shit and you just be like, oh the whole time,
Speaker 6: I'm just making some shit up. If it's later, I
Speaker 6: don't because this is what I do.
Speaker 1: Not doing it for a minute, so you know.
Speaker 6: But and it ain't that often. It ain't like every
Speaker 6: week I'm just making up. But I don't think you
Speaker 6: should just go in just telling every single thing.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, right, Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 3: because also I think about if things don't work out
Speaker 3: now that now you everything, yeah, and that can be
Speaker 3: weaponized against you.
Speaker 1: That I feel the same way.
Speaker 4: I feel like it depends on what place that person
Speaker 4: holds in your life. It depends on how you feel
Speaker 4: about the person too. And I think when you allow
Speaker 4: a man to speak, he'll tell you so much about
Speaker 4: himself and how he feels about.
Speaker 1: Women in general.
Speaker 4: So I've been on dates where he starts just dragging people.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't be honest with right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm also in my mid forties, so like, I've
Speaker 4: been through some stuff, right, But I've also been in
Speaker 4: relationships where I want him. I want to be naked
Speaker 4: and not like I am to the world. I want
Speaker 4: to be like fully, like vulnerable in front of this person.
Speaker 4: I also want to protect them because we're in a
Speaker 4: space where if you walk in somewhere you see someone,
Speaker 4: I want him to have the heads up and know
Speaker 4: that I dated, not because he cares, but just so
Speaker 4: he could know that, yeah, you talk to such and
Speaker 4: such so nobody has something.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So so that comes with that person being your person.
Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm really big on how long are
Speaker 4: you going to be around and why should you be
Speaker 4: another person with my because anybody could say anything about me.
Speaker 4: Once I out of my mouth, the horse's mouth, say something,
Speaker 4: then that makes it official. And I don't need you
Speaker 4: to have AMMO to shoot.
Speaker 1: Me, try to use against me.
Speaker 6: Right, So I so if I care about you, my
Speaker 6: job is to protect you.
Speaker 1: Other than that, then it is what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Because also think guys could be insecure.
Speaker 3: And if they know, like, oh you talk to this
Speaker 3: person or this person did that it could make them.
Speaker 1: Feel really like, yeah, it.
Speaker 3: Could be unnecessarily like giving somebody some things where they're
Speaker 3: like thinking about it intimidated. Yeah, but that's their problem.
Speaker 3: I learned a long time ago by telling something. And
Speaker 3: it was the same way you said, like, I wouldn't
Speaker 3: want I would want you to know for me, I
Speaker 3: would want and want somebody else to tell you, or
Speaker 3: you'd be blindsided by finding out, you know, from a
Speaker 3: different source that I had some with this person.
Speaker 1: But no, it depends on a person. It was Angela
Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about it. But yes, I heard
Speaker 1: about that for years.
Speaker 4: But here's the thing though, But then that goes to
Speaker 4: show you like I can sleep at night good because
Speaker 4: I'm trying to be real with you and if you
Speaker 4: can and if you can't handle it, and I'm not
Speaker 4: the person for.
Speaker 3: You, yeah, yeah, listen now listen I loven hip hop.
Speaker 3: It's been streaming again.
Speaker 1: Yes, I saw, Yes, I didn't.
Speaker 4: I didn't realize until I was getting text messages and
Speaker 4: I walked into so Far and my person there was
Speaker 4: like like.
Speaker 1: I love you, and I was like, yeah, I come
Speaker 1: see you all.
Speaker 4: He was like no, You're so good, and I was like,
Speaker 4: what's happening and she was like your story and I
Speaker 4: was like, oh snap. And then my mom sent me
Speaker 4: a text message like your face is on Netflix and
Speaker 4: I was like, great, we.
Speaker 1: Don't get paid for it. That's another thing too.
Speaker 3: Imagine that right now, this is like syndication on streaming services.
Speaker 1: You got paid for it back then.
Speaker 4: Contractually we signed that contract, So I'm not at this
Speaker 4: point I think cry over spilled milk. I could just
Speaker 4: look at it in a positive light, which is what
Speaker 4: I'm trying to do now at the big age, I
Speaker 4: look at everything and find a silver lining. Am I
Speaker 4: happy that I signed the contract and that I feel
Speaker 4: like we've been exploited and then we did so much
Speaker 4: on TV and that we didn't really we signed the contract.
Speaker 4: So it is what it is. It was a platform.
Speaker 4: I've reached a lot of benefits from it. Now it's
Speaker 4: on Netflix, so I have to look at it as rebirth.
Speaker 4: You know, I just launched a podcast at the same
Speaker 4: time it was on Netflix, so it's like, why work
Speaker 4: against it when I could work with it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's streaming services weren't around back then.
Speaker 4: At all, and the kids now and I'm talking about
Speaker 4: the young kids, not the kids that be on my
Speaker 4: dms because they watched me with their mamas.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the young kids right now.
Speaker 4: I could watch and like they get to see a chance,
Speaker 4: like they get to see why. Like kids be like
Speaker 4: my mom loves you, but don't understand.
Speaker 3: Why, but not thinking why do you watch Stash show now?
Speaker 1: Like I haven't. But I'm not saying I'm not. I
Speaker 1: just haven't been.
Speaker 4: I haven't watched it. I did see that there were
Speaker 4: only there was a season.
Speaker 1: The season is on.
Speaker 4: I'm not on there yet, but my picture promoted for
Speaker 4: some reason, myself and Joey's I didn't see. I saw
Speaker 4: like season, like the first couple of seasons and we
Speaker 4: come on a three or four or something like that.
Speaker 1: Either way, would I watch, Yes, I probably would.
Speaker 4: One day that I'm having drinks and I want to
Speaker 4: watch myself cry and cry with myself.
Speaker 1: Is weird because I can feel that pain.
Speaker 3: They had some moment. I don't lave proposal. That's like
Speaker 3: a forever you know.
Speaker 4: The funny thing about the proposal is that when they
Speaker 4: say top things that happened on Reality TV, I would
Speaker 4: think that we would make the top ten, and we
Speaker 4: don't and people.
Speaker 1: Might have forgot about it. It was one of the
Speaker 1: biggest things ever.
Speaker 3: I mean it was wild back then, but I was like,
Speaker 3: I get ready. Yeah, it was like kind of in
Speaker 3: the early early like reality TV. I don't know, because
Speaker 3: you guys, like even with streaming and everything, what was
Speaker 3: that streaming service that you were on first before?
Speaker 1: Was it? Ut? We were on U stream that you too? Yeah,
Speaker 1: before everybody it was.
Speaker 3: And I used to do U stream for my show
Speaker 3: all the time, and it was.
Speaker 1: U stream was almost twenty years ago.
Speaker 6: It was Soldier and then Joe it was us yeah
Speaker 6: you yeah, it was a few of us on there.
Speaker 1: Using that ship. Boy.
Speaker 3: People was getting mad because I you seen people with
Speaker 3: even comments while things were happening. I remember I was
Speaker 3: doing an interview and somebody walked out of the interview
Speaker 3: because people were talking crazy about him on the U
Speaker 3: stream and I didn't know what happened. Like I was
Speaker 3: interviewing him, I had the U stream up. All of
Speaker 3: a sudden, he was reading.
Speaker 4: He just got up and left, and I was like, wow,
Speaker 4: I mean, I wonder how that person's doing now with
Speaker 4: all that's happening in front of our faces, because I
Speaker 4: feel like we get bullied regardless, like anytime you put
Speaker 4: something up you recomments, you might want to die.
Speaker 1: You know what, how was that for you now, Tony?
Speaker 3: Because I know that from coming from behind the scenes
Speaker 3: almost to now to.
Speaker 5: People like you are you're at your I do I
Speaker 5: read all the comments?
Speaker 1: Don't do it. I don't tell you right now, don't don't.
Speaker 5: They've been great?
Speaker 1: Don't you think you are so kind? Oh yeah, right now,
Speaker 1: so nice for now until they disagree with it.
Speaker 5: Until they disagree and I haven't gotten.
Speaker 1: They're like all this, they were sous. I used to
Speaker 1: read all of us. I don't. I'm not reading. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't read. I used to write.
Speaker 7: You said that I read them to.
Speaker 1: I tell you not to. I don't. I'll be trying.
Speaker 4: I don't read a few the other day and I
Speaker 4: was like, let's get into it, and then I called
Speaker 4: you like girl group and he was like, you're always like,
Speaker 4: let's do a live.
Speaker 1: But then I remember, doesn't really matter. I read it.
Speaker 6: I read comments, and I mean, I don't be giving fuck.
Speaker 6: Sometimes I might like how y'all was saying, don't go
Speaker 6: back and forth. I probably will go back and forth,
Speaker 6: maybe like one out of twenty okay, depending on what
Speaker 6: will say it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but.
Speaker 3: And sometimes I think you also have to respond to
Speaker 3: the positive comments.
Speaker 1: Sure, just the.
Speaker 3: Bad ones, but it's actually really nice when you show
Speaker 3: love to people who are showing because like, read those
Speaker 3: through and somebody, one person said, you'd be like what, I.
Speaker 4: Had a fantom like period, disregard them, like talk to us,
Speaker 4: we you And I was like, yeah, you're right, you're right,
Speaker 4: but we get caught up, especially when you wake up
Speaker 4: on the other side of the bed and you read
Speaker 4: some ship that you're.
Speaker 1: Like, did you just call me your what? Now?
Speaker 3: Listen now reality TV? You also did was it couples therapy?
Speaker 1: Yes? I did.
Speaker 3: Okay, So now looking back on that and looking at
Speaker 3: it from this space in today, what do you think
Speaker 3: Because there was a lot of people on both sides, right.
Speaker 6: I want to say that I think it was very
Speaker 6: miss It was very misinterpret And also the edits are
Speaker 6: like amazing because what was happening behind the scenes, you guys,
Speaker 6: like the world gets to see about seconds of what happened,
Speaker 6: but we're taping from seven am to twelve am, and
Speaker 6: it's going to have no phones, and yes, and then
Speaker 6: I don't know that that situation was crazy because every
Speaker 6: time I spoke up, I was speaking up or defending
Speaker 6: myself because there was stuff happening behind the scenes, so I.
Speaker 1: Would just saying it was.
Speaker 4: The reason why I think the podcast was so important
Speaker 4: is because there was a space for people to get
Speaker 4: to know me, me me, not what other people get
Speaker 4: to edit edited version. Another thing is that Bado and
Speaker 4: I went into that show as a friendship, like a
Speaker 4: friendship who he was trying to take this relationship to
Speaker 4: another level because he was interested and I wasn't sure
Speaker 4: if he kind of was ready for a woman like me.
Speaker 1: And that's how we walked in on that show, and everybody.
Speaker 6: Thought, because it's called a couple's therapy, everybody in here
Speaker 6: as a couple.
Speaker 1: We weren't a couple.
Speaker 4: We were trying to figure out could if we'd be
Speaker 4: a couple because at this point, after all these years,
Speaker 4: are you on my back and I'm just your friend,
Speaker 4: Let's see if we could take it there, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean. So there was a lot of you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, a lot of things that really
Speaker 4: weren't how people took it.
Speaker 1: But it's for everybody's interpretation. I guess what did you
Speaker 1: learn from that?
Speaker 3: Because you know, the whole point of the show is
Speaker 3: it is supposed to help you, oh a lot in
Speaker 3: your life in general.
Speaker 1: So do you think that it was helpful for you?
Speaker 4: Yes, because it's an actual program that they run with
Speaker 4: actual real judge and a real therapist. It's a real thing.
Speaker 4: It's a program for real. I learned a lot about
Speaker 4: me as a whole. It was so long ago, but
Speaker 4: it was really it was. It was I went through
Speaker 4: all the emotions.
Speaker 1: I locked in.
Speaker 4: I didn't speak to anybody on the outside, So yeah,
Speaker 4: it was it was everything about my traumas, about my
Speaker 4: domestic violent situation. I was taken back by why he
Speaker 4: would react a certain way, although I did throw the apples,
Speaker 4: so I'm not you know, I'm not fond of that moment.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 4: So I did learn that I had some things to
Speaker 4: deal with that if I don't address my traumas, my
Speaker 4: traumas will address me, right, And they were addressing me
Speaker 4: in front of the world, right, that's you know what
Speaker 4: I mean. So it is tough, but I've chosen to
Speaker 4: do so. Yeah, and so I learned so much by.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know how hard it's going to be
Speaker 1: till you do it. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I watched my pain on National TV that had not
Speaker 4: much to do with everybody else but just me, So
Speaker 4: it was I mean, I can't wait to find another
Speaker 4: boyfriend to go in that house again.
Speaker 1: Different, I'm different. Now we're going I'm not throwing apples.
Speaker 3: But yeah, didn't they Could you see yourself doing something
Speaker 3: like that?
Speaker 5: Yeah, because my husband's in therapy. I'm in therapy. We
Speaker 5: tried relationship counts therapy or whatever a couple of years ago.
Speaker 1: But yeah, what made you guys decide to do that?
Speaker 5: Because we were having like disagreements, like having we had
Speaker 5: a little moment where it was like we just were
Speaker 5: not getting along. Like he has this cat, so sick
Speaker 5: of the cat, Like the cat is our biggest, biggest problem,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, we can get.
Speaker 1: A new cat.
Speaker 5: The cat is a cat he shared with his ex.
Speaker 1: I can't. That's how.
Speaker 5: I didn't ask to be with the cat. I won't
Speaker 5: be with you. And if we all have to live
Speaker 5: in this house and the cat, you can contribute to
Speaker 5: the rent.
Speaker 1: With the cat. Why did you say the cat can't come?
Speaker 5: I did, And at the time he was co parenting
Speaker 5: the cat. So that's also why we have such a
Speaker 5: huge issue and like we need to go get a
Speaker 5: third opinion on like, let's as he has the cat
Speaker 5: full time. Now, that was the compromise. You can't call
Speaker 5: parent the cat anymore. You have to keep the cat.
Speaker 1: So the cat doesn't like you.
Speaker 5: The cat doesn't like me. The cat is jealous of
Speaker 5: my son. So that was our biggest issue.
Speaker 1: Your cats are a little bit.
Speaker 5: Because baby like, because they're warm, so we'll come in.
Speaker 5: Sometimes he's cuddled up with my.
Speaker 1: Son and we're not doing that.
Speaker 5: He's wiping feet from under the couch. I'm like, bro,
Speaker 5: this cat gotta go. So we went to therapy for
Speaker 5: about the cat to help us. So I opened to
Speaker 5: all situations DK kkt Okay that's.
Speaker 3: DK. So yeah, okay, that's so interesting.
Speaker 5: Whatever the therapist thinks he should get rid of the cat. Really, yes,
Speaker 5: did you pay him on another table?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 5: In this lady, I did not like this therapist.
Speaker 1: I don't like nobody.
Speaker 5: He chose the therapist him choose. Okay, except where we going,
Speaker 5: who's doing it, who's leading the conversation?
Speaker 1: Now, like you said, you let him choose?
Speaker 3: No, Now you know what the next question is do
Speaker 3: y'all ever venture to add people to your relationship.
Speaker 5: He's not into that, but you would be, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 5: I would be, and I've asked, I've offered. He's like, no,
Speaker 5: you're all I need baby that sweetie.
Speaker 1: Okay, sweets.
Speaker 3: I don't quite often hear that side.
Speaker 5: He's not into it. You don't like the fact that
Speaker 5: I'm attracted to women.
Speaker 1: You don't.
Speaker 5: He's like, no, I don't need none of that. I
Speaker 5: don't want to explore that with you. It's just me
Speaker 5: and you to the will's fall off, and you're okay
Speaker 5: with that. I'm all right, cool because I don't really
Speaker 5: need nobody either. We have a blast. I make sure
Speaker 5: we have a blast to Harry.
Speaker 1: Are you open to that? Huh? I am not saying no.
Speaker 4: I am gonna say he's getta hot, it's getting hotter here. No, Nelly,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say that. I'm never gonna say no, because
Speaker 4: because certain people bring out.
Speaker 1: Some parts, some different things about you. Like I've been
Speaker 1: with a person I'm like, oh my god, what are
Speaker 1: you doing. I'm not ready for this?
Speaker 4: And I've been with somebody with I'm like over here
Speaker 4: like a cougar. With these cows. So I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: say that, right, I'm not going to say that I never,
Speaker 4: I will never be bring someone in. I just feel
Speaker 4: like whoever I am doing that with, we will have
Speaker 4: to be incredibly bonded together and like this is about us,
Speaker 4: which is pretty hard because I've heard horrible stories when
Speaker 4: it comes to, you know, couples going into that opening
Speaker 4: Pandora's box and then they start cheating on each other
Speaker 4: and they wind up with the person that they met,
Speaker 4: and so.
Speaker 1: I've heard that.
Speaker 4: So I don't really play around like that. But if
Speaker 4: I was to ever, I'm not going to say never.
Speaker 4: If even if it's not my husband, if I really
Speaker 4: f like, fuck with somebody and we tight like that
Speaker 4: and we out on the island, we all dressed in white,
Speaker 4: I might just consider some things we're dressed.
Speaker 1: And weex. It goes and we're just in white and
Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie looking.
Speaker 4: At us books by and I'm like, why maybe I might.
Speaker 4: I don't know, and you gotta pick. That's the whole thing.
Speaker 4: But I would like to have his input, like because
Speaker 4: I'm not into women, okay, but I could be.
Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah. Twenty twenty four yeah, Mom, don't believe us. Okay,
Speaker 1: it is who you guys are kind of opposites. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it works. Yeah, but it works. I love it. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well listen, I appreciate y'all both so much for coming do.
Speaker 3: I cannot believe at this big age this is your
Speaker 3: first time.
Speaker 6: I know, you know this is horrible. I feel like
Speaker 6: we have to do better as friends. Definitely, Yeah, we
Speaker 6: do that.
Speaker 3: You know, we were just saying this, like I don't
Speaker 3: really be outside like that, and clearly neither do you.
Speaker 1: Not. No more you be in Jersey, though.
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't even be outside outside unless
Speaker 4: I'm getting paid to be outside.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like the same thing. We don't really Yes,
Speaker 3: New York night life make the same as it.
Speaker 1: You even think there is? There isn't. It doesn't cop
Speaker 1: You know what.
Speaker 3: We like lounges and likes and jazz, and I like
Speaker 3: comedy clubs.
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, well you have always been into.
Speaker 3: We love a good comedy club, all right, so we
Speaker 3: can do fun things like that. I like to be home,
Speaker 3: like around midnight, me too. You know that's a good
Speaker 3: time for me.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: You know what I was trying to figure out, is
Speaker 3: it that the clubs aren't anymore?
Speaker 1: Or is it that I'm not lit New York specifically?
Speaker 1: Is the clubs right?
Speaker 3: Because I'm like, we used to have so many places
Speaker 3: to go to and I don't know if this is
Speaker 3: still going on, and I just don't know there are
Speaker 3: some clubs going on. This happen, Yeah, there's just but
Speaker 3: it's not the same. Is it not like it was?
Speaker 3: Or am I not like I was?
Speaker 4: I don't know because I could say it's not like
Speaker 4: it was, and it's not you because back then we
Speaker 4: used to have certain places where not everybody can get in.
Speaker 1: That's true, where you like the Who's Who. We had
Speaker 1: the Greenhouse. We had a certain places Greenhouse days. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just that.
Speaker 7: We're not it.
Speaker 1: But I just saw a photographer the other day. He
Speaker 1: was like, remember me from Greenhouse. I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's.
Speaker 6: We ended up in one or we have there's so
Speaker 6: many other places club Hollywood back in the day, like
Speaker 6: there were so many places.
Speaker 1: Now they might be so re sponsored.
Speaker 6: We don't know about, right, but I'd have been out
Speaker 6: in New York and I'm just looking around.
Speaker 5: Like they don't have listen anymore. Everybody could go everywhere
Speaker 5: that New York.
Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments and let us if
Speaker 1: we're not we want to be. I want to be
Speaker 1: lit tell I'm gonna take you out. I have the option.
Speaker 6: Let's go see Chicago still lie.
Speaker 3: I went the last day that I was in the
Speaker 3: breakfast club. I left after work and went to Chicago
Speaker 3: and ended up being out till like five in the morning.
Speaker 1: We had a turn Tella.
Speaker 3: You left a little early because you had to go
Speaker 3: do something. I ended up Oh yeah, Oh, we left
Speaker 3: the same time and.
Speaker 1: I had to fight, had a fight.
Speaker 6: I A I fell asleep. He had my location on
Speaker 6: because other than that, I won't even woke up.
Speaker 1: That's now.
Speaker 3: I was so drunk that night. I was celebrating for
Speaker 3: I went to Chicago and celebrate.
Speaker 1: You're go out because I'm coming.
Speaker 6: I'm not looking badge, you heard me, Dominican page, hold
Speaker 6: his badge till I get like.
Speaker 1: This all right outside. I love to see it all right.
Speaker 3: Well anyway, well, thank y'all so much for coming through,
Speaker 3: And make sure you guys tune into at this big
Speaker 3: AGEI has some really fun conversations. Y'll have different points
Speaker 3: of view, but you expressed it both so well, So
Speaker 3: sometimes I agree with her, but I kind of agree
Speaker 3: with her. But there's certain things I'm like when it
Speaker 3: comes to infidelity and other topics that you guys have
Speaker 3: that I think will be really relatable for people, But
Speaker 3: coming from two different points of view and two different
Speaker 3: life experiences, I think it'll be really enjoyable.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for hanging us.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, just look at you hutting your jacket off.
Speaker 1: It's lift service. Thank you. M