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Speaker 3: Yeah, we go around. This is your friend, which is weird.

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Speaker 3: You've never you are that's crazy. And if you first

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Speaker 4: like you were one of you were my first interview ever.

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Speaker 4: I remember I was scared to come see you because

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Speaker 4: lip Service, but.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be crazy. Hey, it did used

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Speaker 3: It used to be No, it's so crazy, it's so

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Speaker 3: very first interview I ever did was lip service.

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Speaker 1: Yeah me too.

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Speaker 3: I was a yeah, so yeah, but you know that

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Speaker 3: We kind of started off with women in magazines and

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Speaker 1: They think they know, but they have no idea to

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Speaker 5: I got a trouble.

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Speaker 4: I got in trouble because we played the drinking game

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Speaker 4: and I was way too honest.

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Speaker 6: So she was like, drink, if you've never drink, if

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Speaker 3: But it is sometimes hard to be honest because people

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Speaker 4: A person underneath like that in his mama's basement just

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Speaker 3: But you guys, denay and to hear it, y'all have

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Speaker 1: So that is and the story of how y'all even

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Speaker 3: It's interesting because it's not like y'all were friends from

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Speaker 4: But I remember running into her page on Exploring and

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Speaker 4: And then I hid you up and I said, Greg,

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Speaker 4: I'm used to her being an open book, and for

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Speaker 4: For some reason, this relationship that to me probably didn't

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Speaker 3: I've always felt like a lot of times relationships, a

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Speaker 5: I always like that with my husband. Oh oh, because

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Speaker 5: When I was nine. I looked at him. I was

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Speaker 5: We're five years at part, five years apart. But you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, no, I don't. I still don't think you're

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Speaker 5: you're the right person, but it's literally the wrong time.

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Speaker 5: Fast forward to twenty nine. I run into him again.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 3: For you see that because nine just sounds like a

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Speaker 5: I loved him so much. I gave my little brother

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Speaker 5: his name. That's my brother's middle name. It is now

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Speaker 5: my last name.

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Speaker 1: That area I will know.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you get like premonitions about things frequently.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So how long were you guys together before you

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Speaker 1: got married?

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Speaker 5: The first wedding happened? What was that?

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Speaker 1: I love her?

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Speaker 5: Five years in? No, I'm lyon four years in the

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Speaker 5: second one five years in. We had our son. One

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Speaker 5: year in, maybe a couple months in.

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Speaker 1: So why was your two weddings?

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Speaker 5: The first one we were supposed to be elopen, but

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Speaker 5: like twenty five people at the first one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so they had a.

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Speaker 5: Destination one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a great story.

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Speaker 1: I love this story.

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Speaker 3: Right being married, because I think you're the only one

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Speaker 5: Have a job, but just the balance that's really like

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Speaker 4: And I was just like, somebody get him off the club,

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Speaker 4: we're not going to just know, what we're not going

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Speaker 1: And I packed him up last time your boss dropped. Wow,

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Speaker 4: So after that I went, I, I you know, I

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Speaker 4: I don't really just want to share time space in

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Speaker 4: It's not key key and party and bullshit like I'm

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Speaker 4: But it's more trauma, it's more more. It's going to

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So for me, I decided

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Speaker 4: gonna cut it out. I'm a I'm an fill my

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Speaker 1: Cup empty and he drained that cup.

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Speaker 4: So I started filling out my cup. I had moved

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Speaker 4: into a new place. I was fixing my home rather.

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Speaker 1: Than to a new place. Is so important, and it was.

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Speaker 4: down that route, why him?

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Speaker 1: What I did wrong in that really?

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Speaker 6: Like, I wanted to really self assess so I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: So I dove in, So what did you feel like

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Speaker 4: I feel like I didn't know how to lead with love.

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Speaker 4: I'm like a dictator. I'm so used to being I'm

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Speaker 1: Being the provider that I just don't I lead.

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Speaker 3: And I said, and maybe you don't trust somebody to lead,

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Speaker 1: I didn't let him lead.

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Speaker 4: So I think that speaking life into a man is

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Speaker 6: As I didn't see him as an equal to begin with,

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Speaker 6: and I treated him that way, and that wasn't fair

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Speaker 6: Okay, so he caved in, But he caved in because

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Speaker 1: There was a lot of things I could have did different.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying that he would have worked out to

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Speaker 4: like you gonna calm the fuck down, you know who

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Speaker 4: by no longer ever want to be Okay, But.

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Speaker 3: There's a reason for everything that we go through things, right, Yes,

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: And I learn how to deal with thrief two.

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Speaker 4: That's another thing, because nobody could teach you that how

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Speaker 6: Yes, so I thought I was doing it. I mean,

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Speaker 6: just saying I could have did better in certain avenues

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Speaker 1: Did y'all have that conversation? Are you just?

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Speaker 4: I did apologize after I okay, somewhere in between that year,

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Speaker 4: I try to like.

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Speaker 1: Circle busting you with.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, you know what, maybe maybe not,

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Speaker 1: You have to sometimes journeys. Some journeys are to be

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Speaker 6: That situation, especially with grieving, Yeah, because they could just

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Speaker 4: And that was that's that's what was happening. There was

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Speaker 1: But they didn't even know how to because I can't relate.

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Speaker 4: So if you say I feel your pain, no you don't, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so what do I like?

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Speaker 1: It was just it was.

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Speaker 6: So it was just a lot that happened in the

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Speaker 3: You know what, I realized, how, what are some ways

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Speaker 3: you know a relationship is over. What are some indications

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Speaker 3: no sex or period or the passion isn't there that

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Speaker 3: you're used to having made facts?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that no sex is really no cooking.

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Speaker 5: I'm not cooking.

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Speaker 1: You ain't never been in a relationship with me.

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Speaker 5: Because you don't cook.

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Speaker 4: No, I cook if I'm in love, but it's not

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Speaker 4: a requirement, like I'm gonna cook three times afought. We

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Speaker 4: don't never expect me to cook seven days. I'm great

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Speaker 4: at ordering.

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Speaker 1: Me too, and I'm great at plating it and it

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Speaker 6: And when you start, I want to see other niggas

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Speaker 6: for me. Like it's like, if I fuck with you,

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Speaker 6: I'll fuck with you, but I know I don't want

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Speaker 6: to fuck with you.

447
00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:03,800
Speaker 7: If I'm trying.

448
00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:08,600
Speaker 4: To do, I'll be just messing with you and don't

449
00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,760
Speaker 4: see nobody else. Be like, but then once you see me,

450
00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I don't even like them that much.

451
00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:15,000
Speaker 1: That happens.

452
00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,199
Speaker 3: But the no sex thing, I'm so glad you said that,

453
00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:19,280
Speaker 3: because that is I feel like one of the first

454
00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:23,359
Speaker 3: indications is when that kind of stopped for sure, and

455
00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,520
Speaker 3: not saying that everything.

456
00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think I can't think of.

457
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,640
Speaker 3: A person who hasn't been through that, you know, because

458
00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,320
Speaker 3: especially when a guy is not really trying to have sex.

459
00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: With you either.

460
00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,080
Speaker 6: Well, this is my first time going through the no

461
00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:42,160
Speaker 6: sex thing. So in this situation, the no sex thing,

462
00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,800
Speaker 6: well I can't say too much because I ain't even

463
00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,960
Speaker 6: made the announcement at home, but the no sex thing,

464
00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,040
Speaker 6: when niggas, they'll still be wanting the fuck. You know

465
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,840
Speaker 6: what I'm saying for me, Yeah, they don't care about that.

466
00:18:56,160 --> 00:19:00,200
Speaker 6: They don't be like the arguments from when they He's

467
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,920
Speaker 6: just sad, I don't want to fuck you definitely don't

468
00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:03,240
Speaker 6: want me.

469
00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:04,800
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he offended?

470
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,040
Speaker 4: I just went through that like I was trying to

471
00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:12,200
Speaker 4: break my celibacy to somebody. I was like, you chosen

472
00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:15,320
Speaker 4: come here somebody that you know I have history with,

473
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,720
Speaker 4: and he's great. So I'm like, if I'm going to

474
00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 4: break it, yeah, am I ready?

475
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 1: And I prayed to the Jesus before apocalypse? What is it?

476
00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 1: What's happening not to zombies like this? So I'm like,

477
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,680
Speaker 1: all right, God, it's coming. The clips is coming.

478
00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,600
Speaker 4: So, and he was going through his changes and he

479
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,639
Speaker 4: had just had some ship going on at home and

480
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 4: we sit for dinner. He says, Yo, let's go have dinner.

481
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 4: In my head, I was like, dinner right, dinner.

482
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,920
Speaker 1: I was talking deserved. I was like on the phone,

483
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 1: I was like, you want to talk talk about I

484
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,240
Speaker 1: want to talk.

485
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,119
Speaker 4: In so right, because mentally, if I thought about it

486
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,000
Speaker 4: too much, I wouldn't break the celibacy because I've been

487
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,280
Speaker 4: going I'm on a street like I'm going straight a year.

488
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 4: He invites me to a restaurant.

489
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,879
Speaker 6: We sit down and he's talking about how he's working now,

490
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 6: he's not drinking, and how he's not dating anybody, how

491
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 6: he's not having sex in order.

492
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 1: I was like, screw, I went off? Did that? You

493
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 1: were like, well, I gotta go. I don't think so well.

494
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,879
Speaker 4: I was like what he was like, but he was

495
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 4: going through what I think he was in the beginning

496
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 4: of what I had just went through the cleanse. Okay,

497
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 4: you know at the time, all the timing was off,

498
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 4: but I never got to know from him and I

499
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 4: really but I never really picked up the phone and

500
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,199
Speaker 4: was like, and then I realized, way I was just

501
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 4: always available for him, and it's one time that I'm

502
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 4: chying that I needed to be choked up and thrown

503
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 4: up against the wall and not call the cops on

504
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 4: the ex. Oh no, so the cell CEB, the celibacy

505
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 4: lives on, It lives on.

506
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,479
Speaker 1: You're gonna hit that year mark? No, no, no, no, no.

507
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna figure this out. We can't do that.

508
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,880
Speaker 7: Well one, my one, My moan thing bad because it's

509
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:54,640
Speaker 7: been eleven months.

510
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 1: You see it, right, it's cool that phone would have

511
00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 1: been playing answer to that. Should we see what he wants?

512
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 3: Don't say nothing crazy, We at work, We're working.

513
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: Oh. I was just reading that. Hey, main O, Hi,

514
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 1: I just saw in Atlanta. He told you, Yeah, how

515
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 1: are you? Hello? What up? Pull up? Go be scandalous.

516
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,159
Speaker 1: All right, we're going to talk.

517
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,399
Speaker 3: About that right now in honor review, in honor of Maino.

518
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 3: All right, thanks Mana. We needed that, all right. He

519
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 3: really called to tell me how disappointed he was.

520
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 1: I was just reading that.

521
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 5: Song about relationships coming to a pause, right.

522
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 3: You know, the relationships with your homegirls, your besties. Sometimes

523
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 3: that could be more heartbreaking than any man when you

524
00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:58,479
Speaker 3: break up.

525
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 1: Yes, I've been through that. Yeah, so I think that

526
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: nobody talks about friendship break ups.

527
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 4: So I don't know what it is the older I get,

528
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 4: the more I'm feeling and connected, and the more I

529
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 4: would hate to lose people. And then I realize I

530
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 4: have a betterment issues Like so many losses. You want

531
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 4: to keep the people that you love around you.

532
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 3: But sometimes you have to, Like I think that we

533
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 3: could be loyal to a fault where you're loyal to

534
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 3: the wrong person. And it's like, just because I've known

535
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 3: you for X amount of years does not mean that

536
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 3: I owe you anything or that you actually if you

537
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 3: keep on doing things that are destructed to like our

538
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,400
Speaker 3: friendship and thinking that it's cool, it's just like being

539
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 3: in a relationship, like you can't just treat me any

540
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 3: way and do anything and think I must still be

541
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 3: here for you.

542
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,679
Speaker 6: And sometimes the people that help you when you're going

543
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 6: through something are not the people who've been in your

544
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 6: circle for a minute.

545
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: It's always it might be that person that you just

546
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: met and it's.

547
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 6: Weird and you're like, yo, but I've been around you

548
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 6: for so long a year.

549
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 3: I don't agree with the no new friends things that

550
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 3: people be right because new friends are so important, Like

551
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 3: some of my friends that I've had for not as

552
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: long as like my oldest friends are way more like

553
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 3: I'm getting face supported Jesus, I'm not going to answer it.

554
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 3: Everybody's getting faced like, guys, we're working. Why do people

555
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 3: FaceTime with no notice?

556
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 5: I love it?

557
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 1: That's me.

558
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 5: I'm a face time.

559
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 4: I would say, I only care about the notice when

560
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 4: you FaceTime if I don't really like you, and that's

561
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: to a man.

562
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: But if I like you, like you, I'm picking.

563
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 5: Up I need a little.

564
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

565
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 3: I only complain when I'm like, why isn't it you

566
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 3: won't I never just pick up the phone and FaceTime anybody.

567
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 3: I tell y'all all do that. I really don't FaceTime people.

568
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 3: I barely call anyone.

569
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 5: Text it is the best thing ever I'll be calling.

570
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 5: I'm like, because things is so misconstrued. Yeah, sometimes like

571
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 5: you feel like yelling at.

572
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: You you have the l O L. But a happy

573
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 1: face will.

574
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 4: Be like, I'm not beefa so sure I am.

575
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: People like what you're trying to say? You be like, oh, nothing,

576
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: How long have you been married?

577
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 5: We have been married three years.

578
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: Now.

579
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: Have you gone through periods which your husband of no sex? No?

580
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 5: She said, man, we haven't hit that mark yet. Year eight?

581
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, Yeah.

582
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 5: Unless I'm like away and then we be so creative.

583
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,479
Speaker 4: Well, I guess every time you come home it's kind

584
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 4: of like a little honeymoon on a low or just

585
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 4: like recapping and things get serious because you're like going,

586
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 4: so it just keeps a spark going. Right now, if

587
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 4: they had the monotony of every day to day relationship,

588
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 4: that probably would they probably would have hit that mark

589
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 4: like I'm tired of you.

590
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 7: I don't know.

591
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 5: We're so excited like we we have for the most part.

592
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 5: And he just started drinking.

593
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: Just started drinking.

594
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, he just.

595
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 5: Started doing a lot of things. So everything money, it

596
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 5: was just sober, sadly, he has a newborn.

597
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: What is he drinking?

598
00:24:52,040 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 5: Okay, bear with me. He's drinking like sweet red wine.

599
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: Think about think about it, Angela. I know you've done

600
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: the deal before. Yeah, and you stopped drinking for a

601
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: couple of.

602
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 6: Right, and this is gonna hit you different because you

603
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 6: please imagine somebody who never drank drink some sweet wine

604
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 6: and he's tipsy.

605
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 5: I got him on that and we just got him

606
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 5: to do some margarita.

607
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: Ok.

608
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, come out.

609
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: You might get putting it one more time.

610
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 3: One morning, Againe, because you date somebody who doesn't drink.

611
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I just started drinking remember myself, years ago.

612
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: And I put it down. You gotta relax, and yeah,

613
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: I love you. She just start drinking years ago in

614
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: her straight liquor on the rocks. Chaser, I like that.

615
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: Who know?

616
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, no Chaser, no ice, none of it. Anybody who

617
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 7: know me. No, I've never drank.

618
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 6: Some people still be like you laying and I can't drinking.

619
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 6: Nineteen is too strange. Straight out, I drank a whole bottle.

620
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I stopped doing that after the last time you

621
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:10,719
Speaker 3: drank a bottle.

622
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 7: No, I said I was gonna stop.

623
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie.

624
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 7: I probably drank every day this month. It's fun and I.

625
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 6: Feel like I feel like we have to have like

626
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 6: yay after that to that.

627
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 3: Okay, So yeah, before this, because Mano just called and

628
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: he was like, he's very upset about this Young Miami

629
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 3: and JT Beef. But I feel like people were kind

630
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 3: of seeing that was were speculating. They were speculating, but

631
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: we didn't know it was going to explode like this.

632
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 3: But to be clear, both of them going through a lot.

633
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 4: Yeah you know, wait wait, wait, wait stop, it's okay.

634
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 4: The couch I'm with it, I'm with the ships. I

635
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 4: love y'all. Y'all can put me anywhere. Tell me what

636
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 4: JT is going through because I know what I know what.

637
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: Young Miami is going through.

638
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,719
Speaker 4: And I've seen how they break up must have happened,

639
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 4: because it was a lot happening.

640
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 3: But they did end it and said I love you,

641
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 3: I love you more. So it was kind of like,

642
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: why does it have.

643
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: To be online? Though?

644
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: Like if I be with the nay, I don't want

645
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 4: it to be online.

646
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: And that's what I was going to ask you guys,

647
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 3: because me and Gigi have been doing this podcast since

648
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 3: the beginning.

649
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: How long has it been. It'll be ten years in

650
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: September Jesus.

651
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, ten years. And we I don't think we've never

652
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 3: had an argument. Yeah, we've never had an argument. We

653
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 3: never got it. And honestly, there was only one time

654
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: it wasn't an argument, but there was only one time

655
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 3: she had to like low key scold me like, Okay,

656
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 3: we're not gonna talk about that, like you did something

657
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 3: that you should not have talked about and we're not

658
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: gonna talk about in what I was like, okay, done,

659
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 3: I'll mention it again.

660
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: And in ten years.

661
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 6: So that's what communication is the key, Yes, understanding communicated.

662
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 7: I don't understand right communication and I understanding.

663
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 3: So I want to talk about that because you guys

664
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 3: are starting something new together and people could be really close,

665
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 3: but that like when you start working together. Because we've

666
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 3: seen some podcasts for yeah, fall the part going through it.

667
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 3: So when you think about that, like, are there some

668
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 3: guidelines that you're gonna have, because I also feel like

669
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 3: I would hate for the way that I am if

670
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 3: I fall out with somebody, I'm not gonna like publicly.

671
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that talk about them or

672
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 3: talk shit or reveal any of their secrets to the

673
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 3: public or things like that, or lie about anything like.

674
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 3: That's my own rule for myself. And even if you

675
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 3: come at me, I just don't really respond. I don't

676
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: really respond because I think that makes things a lot

677
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 3: bigger than it has to be. Others watch and I

678
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 3: know it's really interesting for people when you do that,

679
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 3: but I also like for my own piece, you know,

680
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 3: because the worst thing is when you do something and

681
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 3: then the internet blows up with it and your notifications

682
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 3: are going crazy and you're like, I shouldn't even say shit.

683
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: Because now everybody's like, because you're never going.

684
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 5: To win everybody, that's the best advice. Everybody has all

685
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 5: the answers.

686
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 3: So when you think about that, because this is still

687
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 3: fairly new, right, how many episodes in are you guys.

688
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 5: Now like tomorrow will be number four?

689
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: Right or yeah we've been Yeah, you.

690
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 3: Know, so do you have you come up with like

691
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 3: some plans because this is kind of like a marriage too,

692
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 3: working together just to make sure that, like we got

693
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 3: to communicate if something is misunderstood and misconstrued.

694
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 6: We have we have a really good support team. We

695
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 6: also have been watching what's been happening around us and

696
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 6: before us.

697
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 4: We also really really like each other. We're not saying

698
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 4: that we haven't even had disagreements.

699
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: Disagreements are fine.

700
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 4: But we've had like we've had we've had a spat

701
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 4: and then we regrouped and we apologized and we moved on.

702
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: What was this bad about? Uh? Just I think it

703
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: was it was what I don't even know.

704
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 5: I think the I think our both of our energies

705
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 5: were high. It was like the launch day and we

706
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 5: were nervous, super It was all nerves. It really was

707
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 5: about nothing right, It was nerves and just energy.

708
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 4: We both got loud, and then Greg grabbed Anna and

709
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 4: then they had a conversation and then I'm like, we're

710
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 4: the nay. And then I was like, you want a

711
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: shot and then she was like yeah, and we took

712
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 4: a shot and we walked in.

713
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: You know, it was literally it was literally the energy.

714
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was literally the energy of he's about to

715
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 4: walk into like a soul, the beginning of your life.

716
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 4: And we were both nervous, okay, but we do have

717
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 4: a strong support team. So even after that, we regrouped,

718
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 4: we talked about it, and we just assigned hats that,

719
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 4: like you know what I mean, would keep us from

720
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: even having that traction because we are both.

721
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: To sit on it, like in other words, let g

722
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: do what.

723
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 4: She does and me and then they do what we do,

724
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 4: and if we have any issues, we come in as

725
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 4: a family and we have the buffer in between, so

726
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 4: nothing to get misconstrued.

727
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and to communicate with each other absolutely, because I

728
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 3: also feel like as important as it is like to

729
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: work together, it's also important to know that when you

730
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 3: don't get along, you need to figure out about how

731
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 3: do you work through it?

732
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: Right? And then you know, we're also getting to know

733
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: each other.

734
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 4: So I might walk in with my own stuff from

735
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 4: outside and not wanted to affect do my job and

736
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 4: come in, but my energy is a little different than

737
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 4: it was last Monday, and I was hype. So like

738
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 4: I remember looking at her one time saying, hey, I'm

739
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 4: going through this this, this has got nothing to do

740
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 4: with you anybody here. I'm just going through assist. So

741
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 4: it's important for me to communicate, like you don't know me,

742
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 4: and you might think this is about you. That might

743
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 4: not help to say nothing, but look, I'm being transparent right, this, this, this, this, this,

744
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 4: let's get this shit going, and I just want to

745
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 4: be better. And then she opened up about something and

746
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 4: then we were like, let's have drinks, and it was

747
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 4: kind of like, you know, we're getting to know each

748
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 4: other in a different space.

749
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: We're communicating. That's good. See.

750
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 3: I like that because really me and g have gotten

751
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 3: along like from the you know, we met through her

752
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 3: even before the service, yeah, even before I live service.

753
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: Me and Teller also mm hm and tell I understand

754
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 3: she'd be like Angela, if you don't pick up your

755
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 3: God damn right was wrong because I'm the worst, Like

756
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 3: I'd be busy doing stuff.

757
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm not a good friend. Me too. Yeah, I'm

758
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: gonna be honest.

759
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 6: Me too, and sometimes that, and then I would text

760
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 6: some stuff that sound crazy, like we need to do better,

761
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 6: like I did today in the group chat, and I

762
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 6: was like, I'm not beefing with y'all, but I wish

763
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 6: I could say some things.

764
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: But I'm driving.

765
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get an angela, and so I'm not

766
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 4: a I'm a very much straight to the point that

767
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 4: i'd be like, guys, I'm sorry, I'm pretty in pink,

768
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 4: give me a second. I didn't have time to communicate that.

769
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't look at it like that.

770
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 6: I look at it it's like, you just be busy,

771
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 6: you know, sometimes you be needing yourself time to cake

772
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 6: and ship like that. So don't take that, ok you know,

773
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 6: like's that's from where where you get cake from?

774
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: I'm use it now.

775
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 7: Really, it's okay.

776
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: You finna be cake. You're gonna manifested. So I don't

777
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: take it like that. I'd be like, I just be time. Yeah,

778
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,479
Speaker 1: that's all crazy, that's all great. I'm gonna get my

779
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: cake cake with all these cakes.

780
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: I saw on money of episodes you were talking about

781
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 3: like being with your husband, but also knowing that, like

782
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 3: you had a wild twenties.

783
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 5: Oh my god. He while I mean like I had

784
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 5: a schedule. He was on part of the schedule. That's

785
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 5: when I knew I couldn't be with him. I'm like,

786
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 5: it's not the right time. He was like my Wednesday

787
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 5: Thursday guy, Like I had a Monday, Tuesday was Thursday, Friday, Saturday.

788
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 5: I wasn't even sleeping with everybody, but I was just

789
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 5: kicking it here, lunch there, let's go to the park,

790
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 5: let's walk, let's go color like just color yeah, between

791
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 5: them line, I had a wild as I lived a great,

792
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 5: a great life. I think I'm so cool being where

793
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 5: I am now because joys my twenties.

794
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: Is there anybody in the world like Monday was competing?

795
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 5: Well, everybody was competing because everybody really wanted me real bad.

796
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 5: He wanted me real bad.

797
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: But isn't the weekend the best slot? According to.

798
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 5: It's not the best slot because all today south on

799
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 5: the weekend.

800
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: But that's better. But don't you want to be free

801
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: with whoever you wind up with.

802
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 4: I want to be I want to be in control.

803
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 4: I want to seven day man is the person who wins.

804
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 5: That's the lord and the lords.

805
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: And now when you're honest with him, like you know,

806
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: I'm talking to other guy.

807
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, everybody, that's good.

808
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 4: I don't know that because I was born, I mean

809
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 4: I was born and raised and in a family who

810
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 4: was like, if you lose your virginity, he's your husband.

811
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 4: Don't lose it. Don't have any kids. We don't fit

812
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 4: in here. If you have section gonna you're gonna get cancer.

813
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 6: The more you my mom used to be like, the

814
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 6: more you rub on that, the more you're gonna die.

815
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: And she had three girls in the house. She was

816
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: a single mom.

817
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 4: She's like, y'all not coming over here with kids. So

818
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 4: I so the dating thing, I was like, is that

819
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 4: some white people ship? That's what I really thought, because

820
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 4: you always see it in movies, like they're dating. And

821
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,439
Speaker 4: I used to be like, if I if I get

822
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 4: into anything, you can't even use my bathroom because my

823
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 4: mom don't want you in the house unless I tell

824
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 4: my mom this is it.

825
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: She only want to that this is.

826
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 4: It guy, Okay, And you know, I wish she would

827
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 4: have told me that.

828
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 5: And my mom knew everybody, everybody was covering for you.

829
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 5: My mom is cool. You want to play, you want

830
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 5: to play.

831
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm playing with nobody. That's so funny because your mom

832
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: may have no loyalty to none of them.

833
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 5: Like my loyalty is to you. Mom.

834
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 4: You're gonna be ruled to everybody, like he can't lose

835
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 4: my bathroom.

836
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: I don't see.

837
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 3: But you know what, it's so funny because I think

838
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 3: about guys you didd and their moms knew that they

839
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 3: were cheating on you, and it.

840
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: Was smiling, be like his smile.

841
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 3: You thought you really mattered right and nice to her,

842
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: and you know all his friends. That's the worst. And

843
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:45,959
Speaker 3: a man cheats on.

844
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 4: You and them and everybody knows, and everybody know the

845
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 4: chick and she also around and they covered for him.

846
00:35:53,080 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: And no family get beat up, Harry. He just got

847
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: a cheat just in case. Now, that's my sister says that.

848
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 4: My middle sister says, Lexi says, Lexi says, listen to

849
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 4: a sister says, she's like, yo, you need to you

850
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 4: need to find you somebody every six months because when

851
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,280
Speaker 4: the honeymoon stage is over and you want to play

852
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 4: with the gold play and I'm like what She's like,

853
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 4: let's just we're gonna all cheat.

854
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: Oh my, I how to put yourself first.

855
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 6: That's not just worry about all these rules and ship

856
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 6: if you ain't married.

857
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 3: See, I feel like I can't do ship and I

858
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 3: wouldn't do s. I don't even think about it, like

859
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 3: I really be in terms of what caken, Well, you're.

860
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: Good right now. I mean I have my man. I

861
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: don't do nothing. You shouldn't. I don't be doing nothing

862
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: either though, even when I'm single, Like.

863
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 6: I don't even got the energy to do it, Like

864
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 6: I really want the real thing, I really look mm hmm.

865
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: I mean everybody do.

866
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 4: But until then, with what we're doing outside.

867
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: You ain't doing ship, are you. I'm outside okay right

868
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: and like I'm minding my business.

869
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 6: I want to be outside with like purpose. It's like

870
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 6: partying with a purpose like.

871
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:17,439
Speaker 3: Nonprofits profit profit yeah, outside on getting back inside yeah yeah, yeah,

872
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 3: like intentional, like I don't really I don't really care, Like.

873
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't care about a lot of things anymore.

874
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 3: Do you think you have sex differently as you get older? Yep,

875
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 3: then they tell us, since you said it so fast,

876
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 3: I think.

877
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 5: So in tune with what you want, what you need,

878
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 5: what you like, you're open to trying more things, like

879
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 5: you know what you are, you know your body, what

880
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 5: you want, you know how to do stuff. Now you're

881
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 5: not like just licking the tip like you're going, I.

882
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: Go for my bad.

883
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 5: You know, but you're doing it like, Yeah, it's more passionate,

884
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 5: even if you're not really married or whatever, like you

885
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 5: want them to want real bad.

886
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 6: I haven't had it chill out before a quarter next

887
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 6: get in trouble tonight.

888
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 5: So definitely, I think it's better get better.

889
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 3: Now, Like what are the things that you do to

890
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 3: turn it up and make it make it spicy?

891
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: I feel like they're so new into their well y'all

892
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: have been together eight years.

893
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 6: You told me, you told me you want me to

894
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,280
Speaker 6: tell them to keep it to ourselves.

895
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: What I told you were wearing the same jackets. Now

896
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: you can tell.

897
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 4: It's gonna be wearing different wigs and stuff because you

898
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 4: know what I mean, playing like you role play. He

899
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 4: was like he wanted a blonde. I became a blonde

900
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 4: whoever you need me to be?

901
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: She told me. I was like, oh, I think I

902
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: want a husband.

903
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 5: And.

904
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we was.

905
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 4: We was at the hook allowed just me, you and

906
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 4: divine and you was like, yeah, you know, because I mean,

907
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 4: you know, we be role playing and then y'all got

908
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 4: the stories and I was like, pop please popcorn.

909
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 5: She hung up.

910
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, role playing? So what is he does he role play?

911
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 5: No, he just be there watching the show. You be

912
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 5: into it, he be into ITV.

913
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 3: I got the love of woman who could do choreography,

914
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 3: who could be like, yeah, gig you know, because then

915
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 3: you can do like your your whole thing or your

916
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 3: whole little sexy feeling.

917
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 5: I'll be making videos and I'll be editing them. I'd

918
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 5: be sending it like a pre pre show tailor.

919
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:30,879
Speaker 1: Yes, come on, is real? You know, show you something

920
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 1: I could do misirl video? Yeah, telor you got some videos?

921
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: Do you know? Tell her doing nineteen forty two?

922
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 6: When that when you have no videos, you better set

923
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 6: that trip up and get No, I don't do that

924
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 6: because that might make it like I'm kind of stick

925
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 6: when people are watching.

926
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: That's why I couldn't have a strip. Did you just

927
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: do that ro Yeah exactly, were taking like everybody watching.

928
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 1: So we have a tripod.

929
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 6: We got this kind of like flow with in the

930
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 6: bathroom and put the camera phone by like the sink

931
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 6: and ship like like.

932
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: What I got. This clamp thing you clamp on my

933
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: videos sounds like somebody.

934
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 7: Else clamp it. And then you just click it right

935
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 7: there and just put the.

936
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: Phone they got now they got the little suction.

937
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 5: You got.

938
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not that suction, but that's such a you

939
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: put up in the mirror.

940
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 7: And yeah, I don't know nothing about it.

941
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 5: I don't not making videos. I just put my angle

942
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 5: it up.

943
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: To hear you are the videos that you that guys

944
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: have like for sure? I mean I've been, I've been.

945
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 4: I started off at King magazine, right, it was the

946
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 4: last cover ever, I believe it was me and we

947
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 4: had a double cover from I've done everything from King,

948
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 4: Black Men and any urban magazine that you could think

949
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 4: of in print that my mom didn't understand.

950
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: She be like, why are people stopping me?

951
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 4: And I was on every train station and a little

952
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 4: optimals where you could buy magazines.

953
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,760
Speaker 1: You got social media, and then you got only fans.

954
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 4: So of course of course you see my cheeks in

955
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 4: places that you know what I mean? No, but I

956
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 4: said videos like the yeah, like like you and know

957
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 4: no face no case, okay, okay, I think there's only

958
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 4: one in the faces.

959
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right. I think there's only one individual my

960
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 6: whole life that.

961
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 4: Could ever be like, if anything ever leaks I know

962
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,720
Speaker 4: from you, I would know exactly, no face, no case.

963
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 3: Okay, so there's stuff, it's just not your face in it. Uh,

964
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 3: there's definitely stuff that you send the man. You'd be

965
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 3: like and you'll be like you said, it's some chance,

966
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 3: but you ain't.

967
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 6: I'm not.

968
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 4: I'm not busting it wide open for no real ninja.

969
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 4: But this is one person that I don't know why

970
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 4: I feel so free and maybe he just brought that

971
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 4: out of me and and you know, and in our

972
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 4: situation ship that he might have got some incriminating evidence

973
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 4: and it better be in the safe.

974
00:41:58,640 --> 00:41:59,479
Speaker 1: That's why you just got.

975
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 4: To do it on your phone, right, Well, you don't

976
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 4: have any but sometimes especially when you're when you're dating somebody,

977
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 4: you're dating somebody and y'all long distance, Like how do

978
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: y'all entertain each other? It's not like he can come

979
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 4: downstairs and be like, yo, I'm outside, let's go to movies.

980
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 4: It's like I have to travel too, So sometimes you

981
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 4: gotta keep them entertained on a Monday through Wednesday, but

982
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 4: till Friday.

983
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 3: Now, how important is it when you're dating somebody to

984
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 3: tell them, like about your past and people you've been with,

985
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 3: things you've done, especially when you're Google.

986
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: Look at your face. You don't even know how to

987
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: your Facebee saying everything?

988
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 5: Why she makes.

989
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how important is it?

990
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 5: Tell everything I've done a book? Okay, that's also it's

991
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 5: like a gift and a curse, Like I really tell everything.

992
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: Does it ever get brought back up?

993
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 5: Yes? Then they want to talk about it. They want

994
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 5: to dig deep. It's not that deep.

995
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 1: That's why it's not that you don't.

996
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 6: Even like he just want to know what might affect

997
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 6: the other than that. Yeah, because I feel like guys

998
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 6: don't want to know. No, I've had meant to be

999
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 6: down and say so like weird stuff, like so tell

1000
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 6: me what you did with him, and you're like, oh,

1001
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,240
Speaker 6: you're more details.

1002
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: See if I was with a guy and he did that,

1003
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: I would feel weird. It's weird. I don't think he's

1004
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: for me. He's weird.

1005
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 3: If he was like asking me, like grilling me about something.

1006
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, it's one thing and they're like,

1007
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 3: as you use yeah, you know that's it. But like

1008
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 3: grilling you like. I think that's a lot. It's weird

1009
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 3: because I wouldn't do that.

1010
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 6: It depends on a gay too, Like for me, it

1011
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 6: depends on like, say, contest the number one. I'm gonna

1012
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 6: tell you whatever I think I want you to know.

1013
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 6: It might not even be real. I'll tell you some

1014
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 6: shit and you just be like, oh the whole time,

1015
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 6: I'm just making some shit up. If it's later, I

1016
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 6: don't because this is what I do.

1017
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: Not doing it for a minute, so you know.

1018
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 6: But and it ain't that often. It ain't like every

1019
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 6: week I'm just making up. But I don't think you

1020
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 6: should just go in just telling every single thing.

1021
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, right, Yeah, I feel like

1022
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 3: because also I think about if things don't work out

1023
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 3: now that now you everything, yeah, and that can be

1024
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 3: weaponized against you.

1025
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: That I feel the same way.

1026
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 4: I feel like it depends on what place that person

1027
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 4: holds in your life. It depends on how you feel

1028
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 4: about the person too. And I think when you allow

1029
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 4: a man to speak, he'll tell you so much about

1030
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 4: himself and how he feels about.

1031
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: Women in general.

1032
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 4: So I've been on dates where he starts just dragging people.

1033
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't be honest with right.

1034
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm also in my mid forties, so like, I've

1035
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 4: been through some stuff, right, But I've also been in

1036
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 4: relationships where I want him. I want to be naked

1037
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 4: and not like I am to the world. I want

1038
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 4: to be like fully, like vulnerable in front of this person.

1039
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 4: I also want to protect them because we're in a

1040
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 4: space where if you walk in somewhere you see someone,

1041
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 4: I want him to have the heads up and know

1042
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 4: that I dated, not because he cares, but just so

1043
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 4: he could know that, yeah, you talk to such and

1044
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 4: such so nobody has something.

1045
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1046
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 4: So so that comes with that person being your person.

1047
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 4: Other than that, I'm really big on how long are

1048
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 4: you going to be around and why should you be

1049
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 4: another person with my because anybody could say anything about me.

1050
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 4: Once I out of my mouth, the horse's mouth, say something,

1051
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 4: then that makes it official. And I don't need you

1052
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 4: to have AMMO to shoot.

1053
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: Me, try to use against me.

1054
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 6: Right, So I so if I care about you, my

1055
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 6: job is to protect you.

1056
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: Other than that, then it is what it is. Yeah,

1057
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: Because also think guys could be insecure.

1058
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 3: And if they know, like, oh you talk to this

1059
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 3: person or this person did that it could make them.

1060
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: Feel really like, yeah, it.

1061
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 3: Could be unnecessarily like giving somebody some things where they're

1062
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 3: like thinking about it intimidated. Yeah, but that's their problem.

1063
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: I learned a long time ago by telling something. And

1064
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 3: it was the same way you said, like, I wouldn't

1065
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 3: want I would want you to know for me, I

1066
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: would want and want somebody else to tell you, or

1067
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 3: you'd be blindsided by finding out, you know, from a

1068
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 3: different source that I had some with this person.

1069
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:07,320
Speaker 1: But no, it depends on a person. It was Angela

1070
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about it. But yes, I heard

1071
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: about that for years.

1072
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 4: But here's the thing though, But then that goes to

1073
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 4: show you like I can sleep at night good because

1074
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 4: I'm trying to be real with you and if you

1075
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 4: can and if you can't handle it, and I'm not

1076
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 4: the person for.

1077
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 3: You, yeah, yeah, listen now listen I loven hip hop.

1078
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: It's been streaming again.

1079
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I saw, Yes, I didn't.

1080
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 4: I didn't realize until I was getting text messages and

1081
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 4: I walked into so Far and my person there was

1082
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 4: like like.

1083
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: I love you, and I was like, yeah, I come

1084
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: see you all.

1085
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 4: He was like no, You're so good, and I was like,

1086
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 4: what's happening and she was like your story and I

1087
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 4: was like, oh snap. And then my mom sent me

1088
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 4: a text message like your face is on Netflix and

1089
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 4: I was like, great, we.

1090
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: Don't get paid for it. That's another thing too.

1091
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: Imagine that right now, this is like syndication on streaming services.

1092
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: You got paid for it back then.

1093
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 4: Contractually we signed that contract, So I'm not at this

1094
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 4: point I think cry over spilled milk. I could just

1095
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 4: look at it in a positive light, which is what

1096
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 4: I'm trying to do now at the big age, I

1097
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 4: look at everything and find a silver lining. Am I

1098
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 4: happy that I signed the contract and that I feel

1099
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 4: like we've been exploited and then we did so much

1100
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 4: on TV and that we didn't really we signed the contract.

1101
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 4: So it is what it is. It was a platform.

1102
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 4: I've reached a lot of benefits from it. Now it's

1103
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 4: on Netflix, so I have to look at it as rebirth.

1104
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 4: You know, I just launched a podcast at the same

1105
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 4: time it was on Netflix, so it's like, why work

1106
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 4: against it when I could work with it?

1107
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's streaming services weren't around back then.

1108
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 4: At all, and the kids now and I'm talking about

1109
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 4: the young kids, not the kids that be on my

1110
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 4: dms because they watched me with their mamas.

1111
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the young kids right now.

1112
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 4: I could watch and like they get to see a chance,

1113
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 4: like they get to see why. Like kids be like

1114
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 4: my mom loves you, but don't understand.

1115
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 3: Why, but not thinking why do you watch Stash show now?

1116
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: Like I haven't. But I'm not saying I'm not. I

1117
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: just haven't been.

1118
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 4: I haven't watched it. I did see that there were

1119
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 4: only there was a season.

1120
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: The season is on.

1121
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 4: I'm not on there yet, but my picture promoted for

1122
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 4: some reason, myself and Joey's I didn't see. I saw

1123
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 4: like season, like the first couple of seasons and we

1124
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,439
Speaker 4: come on a three or four or something like that.

1125
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: Either way, would I watch, Yes, I probably would.

1126
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 4: One day that I'm having drinks and I want to

1127
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 4: watch myself cry and cry with myself.

1128
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: Is weird because I can feel that pain.

1129
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 3: They had some moment. I don't lave proposal. That's like

1130
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 3: a forever you know.

1131
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 4: The funny thing about the proposal is that when they

1132
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 4: say top things that happened on Reality TV, I would

1133
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 4: think that we would make the top ten, and we

1134
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 4: don't and people.

1135
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,359
Speaker 1: Might have forgot about it. It was one of the

1136
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: biggest things ever.

1137
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 3: I mean it was wild back then, but I was like,

1138
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 3: I get ready. Yeah, it was like kind of in

1139
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: the early early like reality TV. I don't know, because

1140
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 3: you guys, like even with streaming and everything, what was

1141
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,720
Speaker 3: that streaming service that you were on first before?

1142
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: Was it? Ut? We were on U stream that you too? Yeah,

1143
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: before everybody it was.

1144
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: And I used to do U stream for my show

1145
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 3: all the time, and it was.

1146
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,439
Speaker 1: U stream was almost twenty years ago.

1147
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 6: It was Soldier and then Joe it was us yeah

1148
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 6: you yeah, it was a few of us on there.

1149
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:09,479
Speaker 1: Using that ship. Boy.

1150
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 3: People was getting mad because I you seen people with

1151
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 3: even comments while things were happening. I remember I was

1152
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 3: doing an interview and somebody walked out of the interview

1153
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 3: because people were talking crazy about him on the U

1154
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 3: stream and I didn't know what happened. Like I was

1155
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 3: interviewing him, I had the U stream up. All of

1156
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 3: a sudden, he was reading.

1157
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 4: He just got up and left, and I was like, wow,

1158
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 4: I mean, I wonder how that person's doing now with

1159
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 4: all that's happening in front of our faces, because I

1160
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 4: feel like we get bullied regardless, like anytime you put

1161
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 4: something up you recomments, you might want to die.

1162
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: You know what, how was that for you now, Tony?

1163
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 3: Because I know that from coming from behind the scenes

1164
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 3: almost to now to.

1165
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 5: People like you are you're at your I do I

1166
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 5: read all the comments?

1167
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: Don't do it. I don't tell you right now, don't don't.

1168
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 5: They've been great?

1169
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 1: Don't you think you are so kind? Oh yeah, right now,

1170
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: so nice for now until they disagree with it.

1171
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 5: Until they disagree and I haven't gotten.

1172
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 1: They're like all this, they were sous. I used to

1173
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: read all of us. I don't. I'm not reading. Yeah, yeah,

1174
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: you don't read. I used to write.

1175
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 7: You said that I read them to.

1176
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: I tell you not to. I don't. I'll be trying.

1177
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 4: I don't read a few the other day and I

1178
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,399
Speaker 4: was like, let's get into it, and then I called

1179
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 4: you like girl group and he was like, you're always like,

1180
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 4: let's do a live.

1181
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: But then I remember, doesn't really matter. I read it.

1182
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,479
Speaker 6: I read comments, and I mean, I don't be giving fuck.

1183
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 6: Sometimes I might like how y'all was saying, don't go

1184
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 6: back and forth. I probably will go back and forth,

1185
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 6: maybe like one out of twenty okay, depending on what

1186
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 6: will say it.

1187
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but.

1188
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: And sometimes I think you also have to respond to

1189
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 3: the positive comments.

1190
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: Sure, just the.

1191
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 3: Bad ones, but it's actually really nice when you show

1192
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 3: love to people who are showing because like, read those

1193
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 3: through and somebody, one person said, you'd be like what, I.

1194
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 4: Had a fantom like period, disregard them, like talk to us,

1195
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 4: we you And I was like, yeah, you're right, you're right,

1196
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 4: but we get caught up, especially when you wake up

1197
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 4: on the other side of the bed and you read

1198
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 4: some ship that you're.

1199
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: Like, did you just call me your what? Now?

1200
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 3: Listen now reality TV? You also did was it couples therapy?

1201
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: Yes? I did.

1202
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 3: Okay, So now looking back on that and looking at

1203
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 3: it from this space in today, what do you think

1204
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 3: Because there was a lot of people on both sides, right.

1205
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 6: I want to say that I think it was very

1206
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 6: miss It was very misinterpret And also the edits are

1207
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 6: like amazing because what was happening behind the scenes, you guys,

1208
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 6: like the world gets to see about seconds of what happened,

1209
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 6: but we're taping from seven am to twelve am, and

1210
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 6: it's going to have no phones, and yes, and then

1211
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 6: I don't know that that situation was crazy because every

1212
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 6: time I spoke up, I was speaking up or defending

1213
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 6: myself because there was stuff happening behind the scenes, so I.

1214
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: Would just saying it was.

1215
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 4: The reason why I think the podcast was so important

1216
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 4: is because there was a space for people to get

1217
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 4: to know me, me me, not what other people get

1218
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 4: to edit edited version. Another thing is that Bado and

1219
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 4: I went into that show as a friendship, like a

1220
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 4: friendship who he was trying to take this relationship to

1221
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 4: another level because he was interested and I wasn't sure

1222
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 4: if he kind of was ready for a woman like me.

1223
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 1: And that's how we walked in on that show, and everybody.

1224
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 6: Thought, because it's called a couple's therapy, everybody in here

1225
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 6: as a couple.

1226
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 1: We weren't a couple.

1227
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 4: We were trying to figure out could if we'd be

1228
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 4: a couple because at this point, after all these years,

1229
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 4: are you on my back and I'm just your friend,

1230
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 4: Let's see if we could take it there, you know

1231
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 4: what I mean. So there was a lot of you

1232
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 4: know what I mean, a lot of things that really

1233
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 4: weren't how people took it.

1234
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: But it's for everybody's interpretation. I guess what did you

1235
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: learn from that?

1236
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 3: Because you know, the whole point of the show is

1237
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 3: it is supposed to help you, oh a lot in

1238
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 3: your life in general.

1239
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: So do you think that it was helpful for you?

1240
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 4: Yes, because it's an actual program that they run with

1241
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 4: actual real judge and a real therapist. It's a real thing.

1242
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 4: It's a program for real. I learned a lot about

1243
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 4: me as a whole. It was so long ago, but

1244
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 4: it was really it was. It was I went through

1245
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:01,720
Speaker 4: all the emotions.

1246
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: I locked in.

1247
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 4: I didn't speak to anybody on the outside, So yeah,

1248
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 4: it was it was everything about my traumas, about my

1249
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 4: domestic violent situation. I was taken back by why he

1250
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 4: would react a certain way, although I did throw the apples,

1251
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 4: so I'm not you know, I'm not fond of that moment.

1252
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: Uh.

1253
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 4: So I did learn that I had some things to

1254
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 4: deal with that if I don't address my traumas, my

1255
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 4: traumas will address me, right, And they were addressing me

1256
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 4: in front of the world, right, that's you know what

1257
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 4: I mean. So it is tough, but I've chosen to

1258
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 4: do so. Yeah, and so I learned so much by.

1259
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know how hard it's going to be

1260
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: till you do it. Yeah.

1261
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 4: I watched my pain on National TV that had not

1262
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 4: much to do with everybody else but just me, So

1263
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 4: it was I mean, I can't wait to find another

1264
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 4: boyfriend to go in that house again.

1265
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: Different, I'm different. Now we're going I'm not throwing apples.

1266
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 3: But yeah, didn't they Could you see yourself doing something

1267
00:53:58,440 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 3: like that?

1268
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, because my husband's in therapy. I'm in therapy. We

1269
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 5: tried relationship counts therapy or whatever a couple of years ago.

1270
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, what made you guys decide to do that?

1271
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 5: Because we were having like disagreements, like having we had

1272
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 5: a little moment where it was like we just were

1273
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 5: not getting along. Like he has this cat, so sick

1274
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 5: of the cat, Like the cat is our biggest, biggest problem,

1275
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 5: and I'm like, we can get.

1276
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: A new cat.

1277
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 5: The cat is a cat he shared with his ex.

1278
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: I can't. That's how.

1279
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 5: I didn't ask to be with the cat. I won't

1280
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 5: be with you. And if we all have to live

1281
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 5: in this house and the cat, you can contribute to

1282
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 5: the rent.

1283
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: With the cat. Why did you say the cat can't come?

1284
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 5: I did, And at the time he was co parenting

1285
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 5: the cat. So that's also why we have such a

1286
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 5: huge issue and like we need to go get a

1287
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:57,919
Speaker 5: third opinion on like, let's as he has the cat

1288
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 5: full time. Now, that was the compromise. You can't call

1289
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 5: parent the cat anymore. You have to keep the cat.

1290
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: So the cat doesn't like you.

1291
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 5: The cat doesn't like me. The cat is jealous of

1292
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 5: my son. So that was our biggest issue.

1293
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: Your cats are a little bit.

1294
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 5: Because baby like, because they're warm, so we'll come in.

1295
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 5: Sometimes he's cuddled up with my.

1296
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: Son and we're not doing that.

1297
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 5: He's wiping feet from under the couch. I'm like, bro,

1298
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 5: this cat gotta go. So we went to therapy for

1299
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 5: about the cat to help us. So I opened to

1300
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 5: all situations DK kkt Okay that's.

1301
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 3: DK. So yeah, okay, that's so interesting.

1302
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 5: Whatever the therapist thinks he should get rid of the cat. Really, yes,

1303
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 5: did you pay him on another table?

1304
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 7: No?

1305
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 5: In this lady, I did not like this therapist.

1306
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't like nobody.

1307
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 5: He chose the therapist him choose. Okay, except where we going,

1308
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 5: who's doing it, who's leading the conversation?

1309
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: Now, like you said, you let him choose?

1310
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 3: No, Now you know what the next question is do

1311
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 3: y'all ever venture to add people to your relationship.

1312
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 5: He's not into that, but you would be, okay, Yeah,

1313
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 5: I would be, and I've asked, I've offered. He's like, no,

1314
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 5: you're all I need baby that sweetie.

1315
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: Okay, sweets.

1316
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 3: I don't quite often hear that side.

1317
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 5: He's not into it. You don't like the fact that

1318
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 5: I'm attracted to women.

1319
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: You don't.

1320
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 5: He's like, no, I don't need none of that. I

1321
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 5: don't want to explore that with you. It's just me

1322
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 5: and you to the will's fall off, and you're okay

1323
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 5: with that. I'm all right, cool because I don't really

1324
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 5: need nobody either. We have a blast. I make sure

1325
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:46,720
Speaker 5: we have a blast to Harry.

1326
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 1: Are you open to that? Huh? I am not saying no.

1327
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 4: I am gonna say he's getta hot, it's getting hotter here. No, Nelly,

1328
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say that. I'm never gonna say no, because

1329
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 4: because certain people bring out.

1330
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 1: Some parts, some different things about you. Like I've been

1331
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: with a person I'm like, oh my god, what are

1332
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: you doing. I'm not ready for this?

1333
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:08,879
Speaker 4: And I've been with somebody with I'm like over here

1334
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 4: like a cougar. With these cows. So I'm not gonna

1335
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 4: say that, right, I'm not going to say that I never,

1336
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 4: I will never be bring someone in. I just feel

1337
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 4: like whoever I am doing that with, we will have

1338
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 4: to be incredibly bonded together and like this is about us,

1339
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 4: which is pretty hard because I've heard horrible stories when

1340
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 4: it comes to, you know, couples going into that opening

1341
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 4: Pandora's box and then they start cheating on each other

1342
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 4: and they wind up with the person that they met,

1343
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 4: and so.

1344
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: I've heard that.

1345
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 4: So I don't really play around like that. But if

1346
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 4: I was to ever, I'm not going to say never.

1347
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 4: If even if it's not my husband, if I really

1348
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 4: f like, fuck with somebody and we tight like that

1349
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 4: and we out on the island, we all dressed in white,

1350
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 4: I might just consider some things we're dressed.

1351
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: And weex. It goes and we're just in white and

1352
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie looking.

1353
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 4: At us books by and I'm like, why maybe I might.

1354
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 4: I don't know, and you gotta pick. That's the whole thing.

1355
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 4: But I would like to have his input, like because

1356
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 4: I'm not into women, okay, but I could be.

1357
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah. Twenty twenty four yeah, Mom, don't believe us. Okay,

1358
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 1: it is who you guys are kind of opposites. Yeah,

1359
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: but it works. Yeah, but it works. I love it. Yeah.

1360
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 3: Well listen, I appreciate y'all both so much for coming do.

1361
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 3: I cannot believe at this big age this is your

1362
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 3: first time.

1363
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 6: I know, you know this is horrible. I feel like

1364
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 6: we have to do better as friends. Definitely, Yeah, we

1365
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 6: do that.

1366
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 3: You know, we were just saying this, like I don't

1367
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 3: really be outside like that, and clearly neither do you.

1368
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 1: Not. No more you be in Jersey, though.

1369
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't even be outside outside unless

1370
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 4: I'm getting paid to be outside.

1371
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like the same thing. We don't really Yes,

1372
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 3: New York night life make the same as it.

1373
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: You even think there is? There isn't. It doesn't cop

1374
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: You know what.

1375
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 3: We like lounges and likes and jazz, and I like

1376
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 3: comedy clubs.

1377
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, well you have always been into.

1378
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 3: We love a good comedy club, all right, so we

1379
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 3: can do fun things like that. I like to be home,

1380
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 3: like around midnight, me too. You know that's a good

1381
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 3: time for me.

1382
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: Now.

1383
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 3: You know what I was trying to figure out, is

1384
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 3: it that the clubs aren't anymore?

1385
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: Or is it that I'm not lit New York specifically?

1386
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: Is the clubs right?

1387
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 3: Because I'm like, we used to have so many places

1388
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 3: to go to and I don't know if this is

1389
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 3: still going on, and I just don't know there are

1390
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 3: some clubs going on. This happen, Yeah, there's just but

1391
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 3: it's not the same. Is it not like it was?

1392
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 3: Or am I not like I was?

1393
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 4: I don't know because I could say it's not like

1394
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 4: it was, and it's not you because back then we

1395
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 4: used to have certain places where not everybody can get in.

1396
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: That's true, where you like the Who's Who. We had

1397
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: the Greenhouse. We had a certain places Greenhouse days. So

1398
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just that.

1399
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 7: We're not it.

1400
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: But I just saw a photographer the other day. He

1401
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: was like, remember me from Greenhouse. I was like, oh

1402
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: my god, that's.

1403
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 6: We ended up in one or we have there's so

1404
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 6: many other places club Hollywood back in the day, like

1405
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 6: there were so many places.

1406
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: Now they might be so re sponsored.

1407
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 6: We don't know about, right, but I'd have been out

1408
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 6: in New York and I'm just looking around.

1409
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 5: Like they don't have listen anymore. Everybody could go everywhere

1410
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 5: that New York.

1411
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments and let us if

1412
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: we're not we want to be. I want to be

1413
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: lit tell I'm gonna take you out. I have the option.

1414
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,360
Speaker 6: Let's go see Chicago still lie.

1415
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 3: I went the last day that I was in the

1416
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 3: breakfast club. I left after work and went to Chicago

1417
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 3: and ended up being out till like five in the morning.

1418
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:39,919
Speaker 1: We had a turn Tella.

1419
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 3: You left a little early because you had to go

1420
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 3: do something. I ended up Oh yeah, Oh, we left

1421
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 3: the same time and.

1422
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: I had to fight, had a fight.

1423
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 6: I A I fell asleep. He had my location on

1424
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 6: because other than that, I won't even woke up.

1425
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: That's now.

1426
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 3: I was so drunk that night. I was celebrating for

1427
01:00:58,720 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 3: I went to Chicago and celebrate.

1428
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: You're go out because I'm coming.

1429
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 6: I'm not looking badge, you heard me, Dominican page, hold

1430
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 6: his badge till I get like.

1431
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: This all right outside. I love to see it all right.

1432
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 3: Well anyway, well, thank y'all so much for coming through,

1433
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 3: And make sure you guys tune into at this big

1434
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 3: AGEI has some really fun conversations. Y'll have different points

1435
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 3: of view, but you expressed it both so well, So

1436
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 3: sometimes I agree with her, but I kind of agree

1437
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 3: with her. But there's certain things I'm like when it

1438
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 3: comes to infidelity and other topics that you guys have

1439
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 3: that I think will be really relatable for people, But

1440
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 3: coming from two different points of view and two different

1441
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 3: life experiences, I think it'll be really enjoyable.

1442
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for hanging us.

1443
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, just look at you hutting your jacket off.

1444
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: It's lift service. Thank you. M