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Speaker 1: My adopted mom disowned me. I'm pregnant and don't want

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Speaker 1: to tell her about the baby, So my biological mom

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Speaker 1: thinks I'm an a hole.

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Speaker 2: Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm Samuel daughter and I'm John

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Speaker 2: Fry and we tell the funniest stories on the internet.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, John heralding from the Kingdom of Okop. How's

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Speaker 2: a story for all us peasants, peasants, peasants.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Sia, I have come to interpain the peasants today.

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Speaker 2: What stories about your adventures are you going to tell

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Speaker 2: us about, Sir John, when I have foe told?

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Speaker 3: You know? It not means what? Don't it means?

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Speaker 2: Siah?

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Speaker 1: This is what it means. My adopted mom disowned me.

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and don't want to tell her about the baby,

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Speaker 1: so my biological mom thinks I'm an a hole.

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Speaker 2: When biological moms and adopted mom's fight, that's like a

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Speaker 2: cage match.

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Speaker 3: And like rare. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: You don't see that every day. I was adopted. When

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Speaker 1: I was a couple of weeks old. My adopted mom

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Speaker 1: did not want me. She has a very traditional way

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Speaker 1: of thinking, and she gave my adopted dad two boys.

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Speaker 1: Adopted dad put his foot down and they ended up

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Speaker 1: raising me. I've always known I was adopted and have

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Speaker 1: a good relationship with my birth family. I visited them

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Speaker 1: every year, call my birth mom every week, so she's

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Speaker 1: close with them. The reason why I was disowned, well,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you. My adopted mother believes that I

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Speaker 1: chose my adopted brother's ex wife over them.

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Speaker 3: At least that's what she tells everyone.

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Speaker 1: My brother and is now ex let's call her GEN,

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Speaker 1: finalized a divorce in twenty nineteen. During that divorce, we

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Speaker 1: remained neutral because not our divorce and not our business.

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Speaker 1: I maintained a cordial relationship with Gen because we knew

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Speaker 1: that she would get the kids and if we wanted

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Speaker 1: to see my nephews, we couldn't be a holes towards

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Speaker 1: her divorce finalized, and it happened. She got the kids

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Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time.

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Speaker 3: Pretty high.

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Speaker 1: Now, the reason for the divorce my brother is lazy

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Speaker 1: and worthless man.

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Speaker 2: Why are these ladies just calling out significant other man

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Speaker 2: lazy and worthless?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is OPI calling her brother lazy, yes, but

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Speaker 3: still example.

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Speaker 1: They started a business together until one day my brother

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Speaker 1: decided he didn't want to do it anymore. He told

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Speaker 1: Jen to deal with it herself, who was eight months

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Speaker 1: pregnant with my nephew, while he did nothing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe maybe I spoke too soon.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's not so great. This guy's looking uh now.

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Speaker 1: When the divorce finalized, Jen called and asked to bring

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Speaker 1: the kids to visit us, since we hadn't seen her

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Speaker 1: and her oldest son since the divorce proceedings. Note she

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Speaker 1: had a son before she married my brother. My brother

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Speaker 1: adopted him but never treated him as his own child.

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Speaker 3: Ouchie. I could see how OPI wouldn't like that being

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Speaker 3: adopted herself. Now.

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Speaker 1: Of course we said yes, but there's something brewing in

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Speaker 1: the watch. Oh no, my adopted mother found out and

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Speaker 1: got pissed.

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Speaker 2: Oh jeez.

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Speaker 3: He said.

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Speaker 1: Everyone makes our own choices, and you made yours, meaning

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Speaker 1: I I chose to be with Jen and not with

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Speaker 1: her side of the family.

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Speaker 3: She just kept corporal with her.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's a cutting off worthy transgression.

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Speaker 1: That was the last time I spoke to my adopted mother.

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Speaker 1: I've still reached out to my adopted dad and tried

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Speaker 1: to talk to him many times. The last time I

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Speaker 1: reached out was Father's Day twenty nineteen, but sadly.

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Speaker 2: No no response.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: No response on Father's Day too. That's like the perfectly

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Speaker 2: timed reach out.

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Speaker 3: Truly, truly like hey, you know what you're you know?

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Speaker 2: Bye, God bye God my dad. Let you know, reach

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Speaker 2: out on Father's Day but no wows.

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Speaker 1: Now fast forward to the end of twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 1: I am pregnant. I told my birth mom, and the

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Speaker 1: first thing that she said to me was, are you

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Speaker 1: going to tell your adopted mom?

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Speaker 2: I should the adopted von cutter out of her life?

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Speaker 1: You're on track, Oh, he says, no, Why would I?

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Speaker 1: After two years, she's made it very clear that I

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Speaker 1: am dead to her. My birth mom says that I'm

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Speaker 1: being stubborn and an ahole. I asked her if she

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Speaker 1: believes that I did anything wrong. I asked her if

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Speaker 1: it was wrong of me to choose my nephews and

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Speaker 1: in turn maintain the relationship with my brother's ex. My

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Speaker 1: birth mom said, no, I didn't do anything wrong and

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Speaker 1: it was my adopted mom's mistake. But she's the elder,

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Speaker 1: so I need to respect her. Don't know if I

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Speaker 1: agree with that. Yeah, I don't think so. I said,

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Speaker 1: just because she's an elder does not mean she gets

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Speaker 1: to treat me like ish.

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Speaker 2: She says, I'm straight, stick up for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yes, right OPI.

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Speaker 1: She says, I'm going to cause issues in their relationship

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Speaker 1: when my relationship with my adopted parents gets better, I said,

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Speaker 1: after two and a half years, why would I want

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Speaker 1: any kind of relationship with her? I never said she

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Speaker 1: couldn't talk to my adopted mom. I know my adopted

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Speaker 1: mom will find out eventually, and if she asked my

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Speaker 1: birth mom, she can say yes. And if she asked

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Speaker 1: my birth mom, I'd be fine with her saying yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, but respect my wishes to not call my

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Speaker 2: We'll be right back after the break.

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Speaker 1: So Sam and I recently converted this podcast to anchor,

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Speaker 1: and it was so easy. I mean, Sam, I wish

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Speaker 1: all conversions with it easy, even spiritual ones.

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Speaker 2: So John, I actually called up the Church of Scientology

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Speaker 2: and asked.

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Speaker 1: How can I convert Scientology Information Center?

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Speaker 2: How can I help you? Hello? I saw many of

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Speaker 2: your pamphlets and I was wondering if I could get

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Speaker 2: more information about like like doing some kind of like

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Speaker 2: converting or joining the group.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how do you check out our website?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I have, and I was wondering, like, how how

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Speaker 2: easy is it to like attend one of these events.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at this point you should read a book

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Speaker 2: or something like that you can find out what it

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Speaker 2: is that sounds like a little difficult. I wish it

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Speaker 2: was like kind of easier, like converting to Anchor. It's

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Speaker 2: free and you can use it from your phone or computer,

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Speaker 2: and it's the easiest way to make a podcast. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: do you have a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of time to waste?

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Speaker 2: No? Actually, but it's creation tools allow you to record

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Speaker 2: and edit your podcast, so it sounds great and they'll

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Speaker 2: dis tribute it everywhere the podcast can be heard. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so I think that you have a lot of time

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Speaker 2: on your hands and you can make money from it too.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. But honestly, she didn't seem too thrilled with

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Speaker 2: my line of questioning. But you know what should get

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Speaker 2: you thrilled The Anchor app. You can download the Anchor

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Speaker 2: up or visit anchor dot fm to get started. Now

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Speaker 2: back to the podcast, So, especially after she was like

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Speaker 2: ignored for so long exactly, that's why why would she

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Speaker 2: want to continue reaching out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like does that make any sense?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, You've been spat in the face so many times?

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Speaker 2: Like what the heck?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I no to answer your question.

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Speaker 2: Not the ahole?

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Speaker 1: Goodness, what am I doing? I have a shirt for

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Speaker 1: this very Go get the merch, get the march everyone.

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Speaker 1: Let let everyone know that OP is not the a

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Speaker 1: hole by supporting your boys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what else you can do to

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Speaker 1: Karen crusade crusader she has been. She is on a

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Speaker 1: mission to crusade against all the Karens and I think

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Speaker 1: see you next time.

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Speaker 3: That's right,