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<v Speaker 4>Second Date Update. All right, let's do a hypothetical here.

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<v Speaker 2>I always love those, and Brooke, we're gonna.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretend that you're single, okay, singing you. I know she's

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<v Speaker 4>faked up.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love my husband.

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<v Speaker 4>But let's say for a long time you're hanging out

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<v Speaker 4>at the bar, you're the same age that you are

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<v Speaker 4>right now. I don't want to say it out Loud's

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<v Speaker 4>just just keep that in mind. But again, you're single

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<v Speaker 4>and you see a cute guy cross the room, very attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you approach him or do you try to get

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<v Speaker 4>him to notice you so that he walks over.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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<v Speaker 4>And what do you do? What do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, maybe buy him a drink extra?

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<v Speaker 3>You're just like Hi and Brooke. I think you're cute

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<v Speaker 3>and dreams.

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<v Speaker 4>You flash a bunch of money in his face and

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<v Speaker 4>try to win him over like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've told many guys at bars when I was single,

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<v Speaker 1>you're hot.

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<v Speaker 3>We love that.

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<v Speaker 4>We would girls will finally tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>I told you I don't have much shame or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, not really, but it works because I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you it works.

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<v Speaker 4>I do think you forgot I said, you're still your

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<v Speaker 4>same age as now, but I'm gonna let you get

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<v Speaker 4>away with that one.

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<v Speaker 1>So I still say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Desperate at my age. But I bring it up because

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<v Speaker 4>one of our listeners says that he got approached by

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<v Speaker 4>not just one, but two different women, and he thinks

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<v Speaker 4>he knows the secret on how that happened. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 4>let's talk to him. Tony. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, how are you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Were two twins at the bar? Is that what.

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<v Speaker 4>She means lookalikes? Not the other classic she's accident, I know,

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<v Speaker 4>apologized for brook, but I know you went on a

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<v Speaker 4>date recently. Who is it with?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Jemma. We actually met on a dating APPE.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, somebody you at the bar? You met it on

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<v Speaker 2>a dating map.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I know. Sorry, that might have been a

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<v Speaker 5>little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and

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<v Speaker 5>they have these like giant long shared table things.

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<v Speaker 2>Like community seating.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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<v Speaker 5>like that, and it's kind of social, you know, people

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<v Speaker 5>are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought

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<v Speaker 5>that I was being pretty clear to the rest of

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<v Speaker 5>the restaurant that me and jem are are not brother

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<v Speaker 5>and sister. We were there on a date together.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you guys look alike?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh No, I don't think so. But it was more

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<v Speaker 5>like the way we got treated, I guess because we

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<v Speaker 5>were I mean, we were flirting, we were doing the

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<v Speaker 5>whole date thing, and the two girls were kind of

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<v Speaker 5>across from us, and like I said, it was a

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<v Speaker 5>social thing. And Jemmy at one point got up and

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<v Speaker 5>she went to the bathroom and during that time, and

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<v Speaker 5>these two girls came over and sat on either side

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<v Speaker 5>of me and just kind of inserted themselves into the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Asking about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you know, I could see like two girls that

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<v Speaker 1>are out together. They're like, oh, look at there on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. Let's go mess, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>She thinks it's going bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I don't know, I don't know what it was.

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<v Speaker 5>But when Jemma came back to the table, she kind

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<v Speaker 5>of sat not in the seat that they were in,

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<v Speaker 5>but a little away from me, like across from me. Almost.

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<v Speaker 1>The women were still there when she came back from

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying

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<v Speaker 5>attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to say and stuff like that. So

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<v Speaker 5>it was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it that maybe she saw that they like and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nothing if they're like making it a joke, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're including her, and it feels like a group thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But this sounds like she was really left out out.

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<v Speaker 5>It probably hurt. Yeah, but I was trying to do

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<v Speaker 5>everything I could to show her non verbally that I

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<v Speaker 5>am not interested in them. I mean, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 5>play foot you with her. I'm trying to engage with

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<v Speaker 5>her and let her know, like, hey, I didn't have

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<v Speaker 5>these girls to come over here. They just did it

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<v Speaker 5>on their own. It's got nothing to do with me.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't move And one time I pretended to fall

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<v Speaker 4>asleep during a date to get the message across that

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't interesting. I kissed one of them. What do

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<v Speaker 4>you like in your mind? What do you think was

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<v Speaker 4>happening there?

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of And I told her this too. I

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<v Speaker 5>think the only reason that they were even interested in

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<v Speaker 5>me to begin with was because I was out with

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<v Speaker 5>a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that

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<v Speaker 5>that ever happened to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Did Emma like that reason?

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<v Speaker 5>Not at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you able to salvage the date at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>How long were they there?

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<v Speaker 5>They were there for the rest of the date, but

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<v Speaker 5>we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and

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<v Speaker 5>she wasn't really talking to me at the end and uh,

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<v Speaker 5>no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>hugged and uh.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though about like,

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<v Speaker 4>sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interested.

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<v Speaker 1>He told her the whole reason he thought they were

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<v Speaker 1>doing that after the date are.

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<v Speaker 5>During Yeah, well, the girls were right there, so it

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<v Speaker 5>was hard for me to address it at the table.

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<v Speaker 5>I just waited till we were in the car and

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<v Speaker 5>I apologized for their behavior and said, look, I had

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<v Speaker 5>nothing to do with me. I'm sorry. It was weird.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, ye dang, dude, what do you wish you would

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<v Speaker 1>have done differently?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>It was a weird social situation, So I mean, I

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<v Speaker 5>guess I should have asked for a private table, but

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<v Speaker 5>that was kind of the whole experience of the spot

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<v Speaker 5>was to do that with other people.

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<v Speaker 3>Weird. I I wonder where her side is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yell, we'll get that from her when we reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to her. But at least next time, probably need to

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<v Speaker 4>avoid the shared long tables.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just accepting attention from other women.

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<v Speaker 2>Women is probably what you need to avoid.

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<v Speaker 4>When you're with a girl Kerr Brother Chicks, we learned

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<v Speaker 4>and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to Gemma for you and come back. Try to get

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<v Speaker 4>your second date update. Right after this second date update,

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<v Speaker 4>one of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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<v Speaker 4>on one date that suddenly turned into a three on

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<v Speaker 4>one date boy, and the person who got excluded was Jemma,

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<v Speaker 4>the woman that he actually came to the restaurant with,

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<v Speaker 4>because two random girls got up and sat down right

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<v Speaker 4>next to Tony as soon as Gemma went off to

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<v Speaker 4>the bathroom, so when she came back to the table,

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<v Speaker 4>she was forced to sit across from everybody else and

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<v Speaker 4>the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>From there, he tried to play foot seaes.

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<v Speaker 4>Just show Jemma that I'm actually interested in you. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't really care about these two new girls, so she

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<v Speaker 4>was gone out of reach.

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<v Speaker 6>I think she was.

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<v Speaker 7>It's probably just a table leg and Tony's thoughts on

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<v Speaker 7>why this happened was actually pretty flattering towards Gemma, saying

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<v Speaker 7>that she was so attractive that these other ladies must

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<v Speaker 7>have been paying him attention, thinking, oh wow, this guy's

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<v Speaker 7>with this gorgeous woman.

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<v Speaker 4>He must have something pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs,

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<v Speaker 4>who knows. At least that's Tony's thoughts on the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>We need to get Jemma's thoughts and see if we

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<v Speaker 4>can recover.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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<v Speaker 5>A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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<v Speaker 5>knowing what to expect, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're feeling downstairs?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, nerves going everywhere?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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<v Speaker 4>It went from three women to zero now giving Tony attention.

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<v Speaker 4>So hopefully you didn't get their numbers. Well, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't ask No, absolutely this yeast clear we're asking for

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<v Speaker 4>their numbers in front of her.

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<v Speaker 3>But okay, well, good luck out there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's call Gemma. We'll see if she picks up,

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<v Speaker 4>and hopefully we'll figure out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>let's do it. Hello, Hi, we're looking to talk to Jemma.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Gemma.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, well, we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Not sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying

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<v Speaker 4>to help out one of our listeners get a hold

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<v Speaker 4>of you after you went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 4>him recently, guy named Tony.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, did you just get?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what? I?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, like a cough.

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<v Speaker 6>Throat, listen, I don't know what this guy told you,

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<v Speaker 6>but it was a very very awkward and incredibly weird.

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<v Speaker 2>He actually told us something similar.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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<v Speaker 4>that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls

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<v Speaker 4>coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table

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<v Speaker 4>while you went off to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Gemma,

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<v Speaker 1>because that means that you were disappointed, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you liked him,

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<v Speaker 1>because if he didn't like him, you might come back

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<v Speaker 1>like they got.

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<v Speaker 6>That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, well, Tony says that he felt really bad

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<v Speaker 4>about how it all went down. We're curious how you

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<v Speaker 4>felt about the situation.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm sure he did, honestly, Like at first I

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<v Speaker 6>came back and I was like what, And then I

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<v Speaker 6>saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable, So

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<v Speaker 6>I was kind of I was kind of laughing, like inside, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>that's such a relief.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think their intentions were?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I know what their intentions were. I'm pretty I'm

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<v Speaker 6>pretty sure Tony by the way of a really good

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<v Speaker 6>looking guy, and they like they swarmed in like locusts

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<v Speaker 6>or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. Okay, yeah, but you said that you

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<v Speaker 4>didn't blame that on him.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think he invited just necessarily. But I started

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<v Speaker 6>to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, get the hint, ladies.

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<v Speaker 5>He's with me.

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<v Speaker 6>So Tony was so like flummoxed or whatever that he

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<v Speaker 6>didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, try it. Attempted to bribe the waiter.

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<v Speaker 6>Still falsa on girl, did he do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Did the waiter do it?

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<v Speaker 1>How much money does something like that costs?

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<v Speaker 2>The waiters? Probably annoyed at them too, if they're this

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<v Speaker 2>type of person.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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<v Speaker 6>I waved a twenty at him, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.

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<v Speaker 1>I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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<v Speaker 1>are you mad at him?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you go?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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<v Speaker 6>but by the end this went on for so long

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<v Speaker 6>he should have done more.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think he feels that way too.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about the

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<v Speaker 4>whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of leeway

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<v Speaker 4>on it. But we can maybe fix this. Because I

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<v Speaker 4>do have to let you know, Tony is currently listening

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<v Speaker 4>to this conversation on the other line, waiting to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's a joke, and that's the only women.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I am here.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's very forrrimal Tony.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, Well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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<v Speaker 8>what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.

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<v Speaker 8>Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know

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<v Speaker 8>what to do, to be honest with He was a

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<v Speaker 8>weird awkward to like, just it was our first date.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know these people at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that was that was good, Tony. You can let

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<v Speaker 4>her respond to that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I ken't. And I appreciate the apology, Tony,

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<v Speaker 6>but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not hearing anything new.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,

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<v Speaker 1>like he's not like you need to own up to

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<v Speaker 1>like your own non action a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother?

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<v Speaker 5>Like No, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why it was a tough position too.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that hot for you, jem.

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I don't want to guys like punching people

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<v Speaker 6>in the face, but like you, guys be a little

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<v Speaker 6>more forceful.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, yeah, I think he was just trying to

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<v Speaker 4>be as respectful as he could.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>get where he's coming from.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you saying, Brooke, Oh, He'm trying to put

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<v Speaker 4>me in a corner right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Did I just break Jeff?

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<v Speaker 4>Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Jemma.

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<v Speaker 4>Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't want to do communal tables.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and he's like, I will reserve a table for two.

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<v Speaker 4>So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and

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<v Speaker 4>even pay for it if you're willing to give him

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<v Speaker 4>another shot.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you think, Jemma appreciate that offer. But I

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<v Speaker 6>have just made a decision since this incident that I

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<v Speaker 6>just I don't want this to be my life going forward.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to be going out and fighting off

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<v Speaker 6>girl raping themselves all over my date. So I've made

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<v Speaker 6>a couple of adjustments.

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<v Speaker 5>Does that mean, well, I'm going to date down what.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just going to date the guys that you find

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<v Speaker 1>less attractive?

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<v Speaker 4>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Competition?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to go after music, the you know,

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<v Speaker 6>the hottest guy and the dating profile because I just

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<v Speaker 6>don't need this kind of headache. I mean, I like you, Tony,

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<v Speaker 6>but you're just too attractive for what I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 6>right now.

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<v Speaker 5>I have not the competition.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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<v Speaker 4>second date update before dating.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting

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<v Speaker 5>that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she

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<v Speaker 4>thinks you are.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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<v Speaker 5>never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends,

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<v Speaker 5>no girls are approaching me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm usually repulse women.

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<v Speaker 2>Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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<v Speaker 6>But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repelled them.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, great, so he hasn't convinced you that he's ugly enough.

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<v Speaker 6>I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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<v Speaker 6>he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, tony, you started with one woman on a date,

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<v Speaker 4>landed two more, and now you've ended up with zero

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<v Speaker 4>because you're too attractive.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that's boy

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<v Speaker 1>Maticulous brooking Jeffrey in the morning,