WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High School Holiday Hangout

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<v Speaker 1>Second day you're going back home for the holidays can

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<v Speaker 1>be really fun. Yeah, yeah, it's so exciting. It can

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<v Speaker 1>be great to reconnect with your siblings again, your grandparents,

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<v Speaker 1>relatives you haven't seen in a while, and if you're

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<v Speaker 1>really lucky, you might even see someone from your past

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<v Speaker 1>and have a little holiday hookups. Wait your family when

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<v Speaker 1>everybody goes out, exactly your old pe coach reconnect one

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<v Speaker 1>year and get the second base or something. No, he married.

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<v Speaker 1>I think one of my other friends. Too bad for you, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>mister Chance. But one of our listeners, Simone, reconnected with

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<v Speaker 1>someone recently. Not a next boyfriend. It was just a

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<v Speaker 1>guy from her high school. And I'm curious about how

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<v Speaker 1>it went down because she's on the phone right now, Simone.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was this a fellow student or a faculty member?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it was not a faculty member. Was

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<v Speaker 1>a student? Okay? Honestly I hooked up with more guys

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<v Speaker 1>from my high school way post high school than I

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<v Speaker 1>did in high school. I was too darky in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wanted to I try. It's not that I didn't try.

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<v Speaker 1>Some are late linked to skank and some bloomers. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Yeah, as long as you get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone who's this guy that you met up with?

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<v Speaker 1>So his name is Jack and we reconnected over Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>because I had posted that I was coming home and

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<v Speaker 1>I was really excited to spend time with my family

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<v Speaker 1>and friends like the holidays, and I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of give everybody heads up that I went to

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<v Speaker 1>school with so we could try to plan something and

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<v Speaker 1>all catch up. Yeah, it's like like a mini informal

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<v Speaker 1>reunion almost. Yeah. Yeah, And did you know that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to hook up with him immediately or did you

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<v Speaker 1>want to wait and see how it went? Well? So

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, is it? Like, this is a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that we've never dated. We were always kind of floating

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<v Speaker 1>around in like neighboring circles, but we were never super close. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and got it. He was one of the first people

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<v Speaker 1>to comment on this post. I was like, Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>would be great. We'd love to catch up. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like catch up, Like what do we have to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about? What's like we didn't you know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>some people who stay in the hometown that you're from. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe needs some outside influence everyone to watch ye let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you, I will not miss an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>show off my glow up. So okay, so what did

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<v Speaker 1>you and Jack do when you met up? Well, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the thing. So we were texting for a while

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<v Speaker 1>until I got back and trying to make plans, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was staying with my family, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we just make it easy. You can come

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<v Speaker 1>pick me up from my family's place and we'll go

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you want to go. Oh, so this feels more

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<v Speaker 1>like a date than a hangout if it's just you too, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so I think maybe I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>that was the intention, but things kind of ended up

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<v Speaker 1>taking a slight turn and it wasn't really anybody's fault.

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<v Speaker 1>But he came to pick me up when I was

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<v Speaker 1>I just finished dinner with my family, and my family

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know, why don't you come in

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<v Speaker 1>for a second, which I kind of gave him the

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<v Speaker 1>look of like you don't know how to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>But he was very cool and came in and we

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<v Speaker 1>all were just hanging. It was really sweet, like they

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<v Speaker 1>were all hanging out for a while, and like, because like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like he knew your family in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys weren't even really fair, high pressure situation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. If that happened to me, I would absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>not want to go inside there. I do not want

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<v Speaker 1>to spend my precious free time during the holidays meeting

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<v Speaker 1>some other person's family. Would I love meeting families, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but not people meeting mine? And parents always love me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we get it, Brook, You're amazing. Everybody think the best

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<v Speaker 1>person in the world, and everyone wants to their kids

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<v Speaker 1>don't like me, but they like me. Okay, So what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with Jack, Well, so we're all talking and we

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<v Speaker 1>ended up like playing some games and everybody good time.

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<v Speaker 1>So the time. Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>for that to happen, and it just kind of did.

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<v Speaker 1>Playing the piano, singing carols together. He was into it though, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was. And I will say this, my dad was

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<v Speaker 1>a little tipsy, which around the holidays is not a surprise. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He was kind of ribbing them a little bit, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are your intentions with my daughter? I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>let me go to the laundry room and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>show you. Is that not how your guys family holidays? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I never had to take take my dad into the

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<v Speaker 1>laundering room. Yeah, just a pe teacher. I know how

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<v Speaker 1>to jack handle the ribbing. He just kind of laughed

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<v Speaker 1>it off, and finally I kind of pulled him aside

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like, hey, listen, we can get out

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<v Speaker 1>of here whenever you need to, Like we already were

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<v Speaker 1>here a lot longer than I thought. And he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got a text from more my friends and

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<v Speaker 1>they really need me, so I actually I have to

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<v Speaker 1>get going. Yeah, and he's like, well, we'll we'll catch

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<v Speaker 1>up in a few days. And of course, in my head,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, did he really get a text from his

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<v Speaker 1>friend or I think that maybe he didn't. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe he thought you guys were just going out

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<v Speaker 1>as friends, and then your dad is assuming that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a couple. Like it just it feels like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of weirdness. Yeah, I agree. And the way we left

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<v Speaker 1>it was we'll make more plans, we'll text him, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out, and then just never heard back from him. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>complete ghost. It's not like he's stalling, no, no, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I just he just went radio silent and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened. Are you crushing on him still? Like

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<v Speaker 1>you still like him began. I mean, especially to like

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<v Speaker 1>seeing how cool he was with hanging out with my

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<v Speaker 1>family for a little bit. That's impressive. Now, I did

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<v Speaker 1>have a weird thought, though, like, while he was bonding

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<v Speaker 1>with your family, do you have any um single siblings

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<v Speaker 1>or single hot ants that maybe like could have swooped in. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the only girl of two brothers. Maybe that's an

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<v Speaker 1>option for him though. Yeah, I mean there's a chance

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<v Speaker 1>that someone could have like taken him from you, right

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<v Speaker 1>from under your nose family dynamics. If that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>it's called the holidays. But let's find out what really

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<v Speaker 1>happened when we play a song. Come back, call him

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? All right. Hold on. One of the main

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<v Speaker 1>rules of dating, and I think everybody knows this is

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<v Speaker 1>if you really like someone, you do not introduce them

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<v Speaker 1>to your family for at least three to four years

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent sure they won't be scared off. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say probably even pop out a few kids

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<v Speaker 1>with them before they meet the family, just to be safe.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you could end up like Simone who was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with an old high school friend named

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<v Speaker 1>Jack till her family invited him inside during the holidays,

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<v Speaker 1>and look what happened. I mean, he ran away. Hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been heard from since that night. I should have heard

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<v Speaker 1>your advice first year. Yeah, are we blaming the drunk dad?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that where we're blaming? Or no, we don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who to blame. That's where I'm leaning. Even that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a joke, it's still very intimidating to know your dad

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<v Speaker 1>is even thinking that. It's such an old cliche joke,

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<v Speaker 1>like order your intention. I'm gonna a polish my gun. Yeah, simone,

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<v Speaker 1>do you wish that you hadn't let him come inside

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<v Speaker 1>that house that night? I mean, yeah, we know where

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<v Speaker 1>to send it up. Yeah, absolutely true answer. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, or do you wish that your dad was funnier?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he thinks it's funny, which is way worse. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we're gonna try and get you a second chance. Here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Jack and find out which member of

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<v Speaker 1>your family is the one to blame. Or maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was something that was totally unrelated. We think it has

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<v Speaker 1>to be the fam. I mean, come on, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the holiday edition of Clue. Oh yeah, is it

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<v Speaker 1>the mom in the kitchen with the butcher knife for

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<v Speaker 1>Colonel Father. Yea, let's get to the bottom of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a Dallas number right now here we go Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>And there was brushing the microphone. Hey is this Jack? Uh? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is he. You are waiting and ready? I like Jack.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you see Jack. You're you're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Uh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I seem alert because I entered business calls are day.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh this is kind of a business call. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>your business. Yeah, your personal business with an old friend

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<v Speaker 1>of yours name Simone. Wait, what is this about? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? This is about a segment we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called a second Date Update, and our our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners will reach out to us sometimes and ask us

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<v Speaker 1>to help them reconnect with an old fling or an

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<v Speaker 1>old date that they went out with that they haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from in a while. Okay, but I'm not old.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an old person. Old people. You answered a

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<v Speaker 1>phone number that you didn't recognize. That is old. Oh, Jack,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you're regretting it right now. I was just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I thought maybe something was wrong with my

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<v Speaker 1>car's extended warranty. It's okay. Yeah, Look, we all make mistakes,

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<v Speaker 1>and your mistake was answering this call. But we do

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<v Speaker 1>want to get some answers because Simone told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hung out the other night, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt you, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>know I don't think I want to do this, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is it because it wasn't supposed to be a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Simone. Is supposed to just be more like of

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<v Speaker 1>a friend hang out like no, no, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no, I'm definitely interested in Simone. Well, well I

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<v Speaker 1>was interested was I mean, look, I know you're hesitant

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<v Speaker 1>on talking about it, and I understand that, but can

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<v Speaker 1>you put yourself in Simone's shoes here? Because she was

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<v Speaker 1>really looking forward to spending time with you and reconnecting.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean she had no intention of the night

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<v Speaker 1>going the way that it did, where you were invited

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<v Speaker 1>into her family's house. Yeah, I mean she thought you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, maybe she read it wrong. The only reason

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<v Speaker 1>you guys stayed there was because she thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time hanging out with her family and

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<v Speaker 1>playing board games. Whoa you guys know a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, like like date detectives. Yeah, yeah, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird. What we talked. We talked. She told us

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<v Speaker 1>about what happened that night, and we were wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>something happened while you were in the house with her

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<v Speaker 1>family that made you No, No, it was just well

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't It was just an uncomfortable such a she

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<v Speaker 1>feels bad for that. Yeah, well no, but just no,

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<v Speaker 1>not not going in and talking to her family. Her

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<v Speaker 1>family was great, nice and so great that maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up with one of them. What. Okay, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a theory that I had, and I'm glad that we

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<v Speaker 1>can squash it right now. But yeah, so he can.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely was the text that you got the emergency text?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that real or was that fake? Uh? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no it was not real. I did not emergency, but

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<v Speaker 1>she knew that. So don't feel bad admitting that. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was pretty obvious what made you run

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<v Speaker 1>from the house. So what made what made me need

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<v Speaker 1>to leave is um I was having a nice chat

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<v Speaker 1>with her mom and as as we're talking, I look

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<v Speaker 1>over and I see some Christmas cards and I see

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<v Speaker 1>one from Simone with a another guy and they're both

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<v Speaker 1>like uggled up together, and it was like a looked

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<v Speaker 1>like a you know, a couple had sent a card

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<v Speaker 1>and it was Simone and this dude. Well obviously, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't mention anything about an ex boyfriend, but obviously

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<v Speaker 1>the card could have been sent out long before. And

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<v Speaker 1>then they broke up, Like, really do you send Christmas card?

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<v Speaker 1>Who brings a guy over to your house with your

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<v Speaker 1>family if you're dating someone else to a point where

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<v Speaker 1>you're sending Christmas cards together, Like, why wouldn't you just

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<v Speaker 1>ask Simone? Then? Why wouldn't you ask her? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like, in order to not just escalate things,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to I just you know, I mean, well

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<v Speaker 1>you just wanted to jump to conclusions. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>just took pictures recently. She obviously probably I know you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to have that awkward conversation with her, but

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of do right now because she's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to be asked an awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>escalating question. What Simon, I'm yeah, Hi, Hi, You've been

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<v Speaker 1>listening this whole time. This is like, this is so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm sorry. I mean, it's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That you went to these lengths to try to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of me. But I just, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just this is just really bizarre. So who is the guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, tell me? Are you seeing? Are you in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship? Because like, okay, well hold on, Jack, you're

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<v Speaker 1>asking like five different questions. Let's just let's do one

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<v Speaker 1>question at a time. Who's the guy? Oh? I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start what kind of sweater are you wearing right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that I might ease his tension a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card.

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm so mad at my mom right now? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you dating that guy? Not technically? Oh dude, what your

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<v Speaker 1>parents are? Wing? Wing? Manny your side piece? No, so listen, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest. That guy's is a guy that I

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<v Speaker 1>dated for a while, and we always did these stupid

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas cards And we're not exclusive. We are not together.

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<v Speaker 1>We hook up every once in a while, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>not there. Okay, but you promise you're not exclusive with him? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not exclusive and you send Christmas cards out together?

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<v Speaker 1>That seems yeah. Yeah, it was more of a joke

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<v Speaker 1>because we would do it every year, so we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just kept up with the tradition because we both

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want our families hackling us at the holidays for

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<v Speaker 1>being single. So we were like, we should just do

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<v Speaker 1>a Christmas card anyway, and that backfired, Sonny. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm actually, I mean, Simone, I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with somebody that's emotionally available and not you know, still,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's not like you know, you're not exclusive,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still seeing him. I just I'm just comfortable being

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody who's seeing other people. So I just, uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, is like I had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with you, and I really want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know you better. And I am not invested in

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<v Speaker 1>the sky. Like I said, it's somebody that I dated,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just I didn't have anybody else I

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<v Speaker 1>was interested in, and it was just, you know, i'll

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<v Speaker 1>call him later today and tell him that we can't

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<v Speaker 1>see each other anymore. Really, Jack, is that something that

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be into, because if you're willing to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll pay for that date. Yeah, I have one question.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hook up with him over the holidays? Would

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<v Speaker 1>be honest here, Simone. Did it happen and what sweater

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<v Speaker 1>were you wearing at the time. It didn't happen over

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<v Speaker 1>the holidays, but it has happened recently a last night Jack,

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<v Speaker 1>I need an answer from you. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>one more date was simoned? We'll pay for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so. Why it's a healthier Why? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you could have told me that you were getting

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<v Speaker 1>out of a relationship, and I just I can't get Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the holidays. Everybody's sad. We understand, thank you and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning, I was thinking, does that ever

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<v Speaker 1>work on our show? After the person says no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested, and they throw out one last ditch plea like, hey, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I break up with the other guy? Will

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<v Speaker 1>you go out with me? Then it's like a hail Mary?

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<v Speaker 1>Or what if I get a butt lift? Yeah? Or

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<v Speaker 1>hey what if I put my dog down because you're allergic?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, it's always n You made the boyfriend sound

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<v Speaker 1>like the best option. I just can't think of a

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<v Speaker 1>time where that strategy has ever worked, and she definitely

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<v Speaker 1>gave it a try. God, I just have this feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that the guy on the cards your boy doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that they're not exclusive. Yeah, does anyone else feels always

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<v Speaker 1>like the other one is always like wide, Wait I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you were my girlfriend? Yeah, I'm sent out Christmas cards? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how does it get more intimate than that? But clearly

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<v Speaker 1>we're not going to be doing any update with that

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<v Speaker 1>couple anytime soon. But remember you can always listen to

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<v Speaker 1>any one of our second dates on YouTube because we've

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<v Speaker 1>got hundreds of them, yeah up right now, so a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are actually choosing to listen to our

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<v Speaker 1>show that way. And remember you can always reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to us if you have a date that you want

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<v Speaker 1>us to get a hold of Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,