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Speaker 1: And there was brushing the microphone. Hey is this Jack? Uh? Yes,

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Speaker 1: what happened, like like date detectives. Yeah, yeah, it's kind

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Speaker 1: asking like five different questions. Let's just let's do one

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Speaker 1: First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card.

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Speaker 1: you dating that guy? Not technically? Oh dude, what your

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Speaker 1: parents are? Wing? Wing? Manny your side piece? No, so listen, Okay,

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