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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Gabrielle is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude that named Orlando.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: and see if we can get him on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask him why he's ghosting her. But first we

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Speaker 2: need to talk about the date. Gabrielle, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Orlando?

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Speaker 3: Their last communication was about three days ago. I've talked

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Speaker 3: to him about four times and nothing, so.

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Speaker 4: Three days may not be officially ghosting, but it's the

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Speaker 4: attempt at they're reaching out that makes her feel that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it does. I get that. Well, why don't you

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Speaker 5: tell us about the date and how you met? Orlando?

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Speaker 3: So we met on hinge and bonded over karaoke songs

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Speaker 3: and decided to hit a holiday themed karaoke bar for

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Speaker 3: our date. We ended up having some holiday drinks like

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Speaker 3: spiked pepperminthawk coco, and mulled wine.

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Speaker 5: I love those places and we.

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Speaker 3: Were kind of like each other's cheerleaders as we performed

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Speaker 3: each song.

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Speaker 5: Fun Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Afterwards we grabbed another round and found a table in

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Speaker 3: the back of the bar and we just talked and

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Speaker 3: it was under some lights by a fire. It was

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Speaker 3: really romantic and cozy.

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Speaker 4: So then, what do you think could have gone wrong

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Speaker 4: on the day? What did you guys talk about?

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Speaker 3: Well, we were really comfortable with each other, and I

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Speaker 3: think it might have been because I started crying. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I started talking about being cheated on and it triggered

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Speaker 3: me because my ex fiance cheated on me right before

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Speaker 3: our wedding and two years ago. But I didn't really

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Speaker 3: expect to cry that Maybe that's why.

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Speaker 5: How did he react while you were while you were crying?

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Speaker 3: I mean he was sympathetic. He seemed really nice. I

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Speaker 3: just don't know what went wrong.

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Speaker 2: What intensity level are we talking about with the cry?

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Speaker 2: Was it like tearing up or was is it full

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Speaker 2: on balling on the floor?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I needed some tissue. Like I said,

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Speaker 3: I really didn't expect to cry. I think it was

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Speaker 3: decided too much to drink. I can get a little

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Speaker 3: emotional when.

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Speaker 5: I drink, understandable.

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Speaker 4: I just am trying to picture like him, like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: this reaction, because they could have gone like you know,

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Speaker 4: he made you feel comfortable in that space?

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I mean I thought he was. He was

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Speaker 3: fairly nice. Yeah, considering what we were talking about.

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Speaker 6: Did he give you like a hug or.

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Speaker 3: He put his arm around me?

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Speaker 5: Okay? So then what happened after? Did you guys recover

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Speaker 5: from that and have fun again?

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Speaker 3: Or yeah? I mean the rest Yeah, the rest of

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Speaker 3: the date was great.

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Speaker 5: How did the date end a hug? Okay?

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Speaker 6: How long did the whole in exchange about that?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 6: How long did that take?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 6: Was it a quick thing or you know, was it

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Speaker 6: like an hour of crying?

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Speaker 3: It was pretty quick? All right?

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Speaker 2: Cool, we'll play a song come back, and then we'll

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Speaker 2: call him and we'll see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, thank you. Your first Day follow up Next.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's First Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Gabrielle is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Orlando that she really liked. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, why don't you refresh everybody's memory,

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Speaker 2: Gabrielle on your situation.

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Speaker 3: So we had a really great date. It was kind

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Speaker 3: of holiday themed, and I started crying, and I think

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Speaker 3: that might be the reason, but I'm not really sure.

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Speaker 2: And you were crying about your ex, right, yeah, because

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Speaker 2: he cheated on you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's done two years now though.

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Speaker 5: So Victoria's looking at me like I sounded insensive?

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Speaker 6: Did I sound like?

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Speaker 3: I was not insensitive, but almost like one of the

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Speaker 3: ones where you're.

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Speaker 5: Like, damn, jubal, don't bring it up.

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Speaker 4: But he.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to make sure, you know, okay good. I wanted

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna call him right now. Are you ready, Gabrielle, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, is this Orlando?

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Speaker 2: This is he?

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Speaker 7: How can I help?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel and I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi Orlando. Hi, my name is Nina. I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Oh hey, I'm listening to you guys all the time.

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Speaker 6: Look up, Oh you do?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I love your show. So why do you guys call him?

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Speaker 6: Did you have? Are you ghosting somebody?

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Speaker 5: Right now?

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Speaker 8: I wouldn't call it ghosting, but I mean, if this

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Speaker 8: is what I think it is, like I'm not responding

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Speaker 8: to I guess that's the definition of ghosting man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Okay, this is a first day follow up

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Speaker 2: where if you go somebody, they have us get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone to ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 6: We got an email about you from Gabrielle.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I remember Gabrielle.

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Speaker 5: Why are you non respondent?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 8: So I don't want to be gross or nothing, right,

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Speaker 8: but like I'm just being real about this. It was

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Speaker 8: a great date up until a moment when she started crying.

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Speaker 8: You know, like that that probably is not bad. You know,

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Speaker 8: she had a rough you know, last boyfriend or I

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Speaker 8: think it was her fiance or something like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: like kid on her, So I get being emotional about that.

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Speaker 6: She told us a little bit about that.

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Speaker 2: She said that she thinks that that might be the

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Speaker 8: So it kind of is not really I don't mind

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Speaker 8: the fact that she was crying, but like, I don't

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Speaker 8: know if you can say this on the radio, but like.

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Speaker 7: She was digging into her panties for tissues.

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Speaker 5: Oh what what are.

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Speaker 6: Are you being literal with that? How do you do?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: She had tissues in her underwear?

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Speaker 5: Why do you have tissues in there? I thought.

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Speaker 3: I was wearing a skirt with built in shorts and

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Speaker 6: Wait what?

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Speaker 5: I love that? Actually?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh, Orlando, Yeah, if you've listened to these before, that's Gabrielle.

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Speaker 2: She's been listening to this whole conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was wearing shorts do it with pockets?

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Speaker 7: Oh hey, gabriel how you doing girl?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so just to recap, Orlando, you have been ghosting

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Speaker 4: Gabrielle because she was digging into her panty.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, like, look not for nothing, you know,

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Speaker 8: Like I I at first, you know, I didn't know

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Speaker 8: or crying or what. But like that was that was weird,

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Speaker 8: you know, And like there was one point when like

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Speaker 7: It was weird that you were going.

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Speaker 8: You know, again, I don't mind you being open with me.

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Speaker 8: It's a real compliment that you can feel that comfortable

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Speaker 8: around me. I just thought what you I guess thought

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Speaker 8: you were a recent someplace weird in public and that.

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Speaker 7: That's rough for our first day, right, Like? Am I

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Speaker 4: It's just funny to think about. Yeah, I'm sorry. So, Gabrielle,

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Speaker 4: weren't digging in your panties?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 8: Definitely not so like how I mean like you were

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Speaker 7: How you dress is how you dressed, and you were

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Speaker 7: looking good. But I really doesn't look.

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Speaker 8: Right in public, or at least give me a heads

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Speaker 3: You know, they were just really short and really tight short.

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Speaker 7: Definitely didn't look like that.

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Speaker 8: But if that's the case, my apologies. I just didn't

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Speaker 7: At least, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, you could have asked me about it.

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Speaker 8: How am I gonna ask a grown woman in public

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Speaker 7: Or the sundown?

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Speaker 5: Because where from? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What else you gotten there? What a great misunderstanding? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it seems like a big misunderstanding. Orlando, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go out on another date? With Gabrielle. We'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 8: I mean, sure, you know this time though, everyone's wearing jeans,

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Speaker 8: A good idea.

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Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, Gabrielle, you got another date and a very

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Speaker 2: awkward question for Orlando got cleared up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean, if you still want to go

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Speaker 4: we're not judging.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thanks everyone, and thanks to Orlando for giving

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Speaker 7: O heay, no worries.

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Speaker 8: I'm glad we got to clear this up, and I'm

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Speaker 8: glad for what it's worth.

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Speaker 7: I'm glad you guys called. I wasn't going to respond

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Speaker 7: to the text messages.

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Speaker 3: But.

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Speaker 5: I was going to ask you, but I wasn't going

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Speaker 5: to respond.

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Speaker 8: Hey, gab real I just want to say, you know,

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Speaker 8: the first day was fantastic for what it's worth, and

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Speaker 8: you know, I am really excited to see you again.

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Speaker 8: I'm just glad to know that, you know, there's a

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Speaker 8: little bit more decorum between us than when I first thought.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm excited too, Orlando.

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Speaker 2: When you show up on the date handkerchief out of

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Speaker 2: your underwear, I'll be doing magic tricks.

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