WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Him At The Gym 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.320 Welcome to the Second Day podcast. We're so glad you're here, 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:05.439 especially on a lovely Friday. 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:07.160 Happier than the other two girls that you're here. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:09.680 So you know, it's. 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:13.720 Definitely in computation, Jose, So you know, listen, I am 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:16.520 so curious to see if people think this hack that 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:19.280 one of our listeners had for meeting a guy who's 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.080 put together would. 0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:26.079 Work, would work? Yeah, it's logical, for sure. It doesn't work. 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:28.040 It does it work? Okay, you got to test it 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.520 out for us and let us know in the comments. 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:31.159 What do you see in that you're liking in the 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:32.440 comments right now? Alexis Yeah. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:35.880 Megan Weber said, I'm moving houses and classrooms right now. 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:37.960 These second dates have been my favorite while I pack 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:43.120 an unpacked Yeah, moving houses. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:44.760 Yeah, classrooms. I'm guessing she's a teacher. 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:48.760 Okay, I don't confuse the couch in the. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:53.200 Classroom, right, that'd be nice for the students. Actually, seriously, 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:54.560 we got wine cart bar. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:59.160 You gotta watch for that. That one could. All right, 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:00.760 here's your second day it starts now. 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:02.960 Second date up date. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:08.560 Meeting a good single guy is like finding an open 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:10.920 parking space at Costco on a Saturday. 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:13.560 They exist. 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:15.520 I don't know. I don't believe that you got to 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:16.680 be aggressive. 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.720 Yes, got to be aggressive and get kind of lucky 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:21.880 with it, or you could be like Brook and parking 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.920 the rear blocking the fire lane next to the road 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.840 of dumpsters and just call it a day. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:30.479 I didn't block the handicapped parking spot. So that's how. 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:31.759 Thoughtful point is. 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:35.440 Finding good men not easy, and that's why our listener 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:39.120 Laura says she had to find a strategy to help 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:42.360 her find a decent dude, and apparently she came up 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:44.640 with one. So Laura, welcome to the show. 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:45.679 Hi. 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:48.160 Is it bad that I'm hoping that your strategy also 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:49.760 helps me in the Costco parking. 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:52.240 Lot at all? 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.120 Tell us about this guy that you met and the 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.280 strategy that you used to find him. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.559 So first, let me start by saying, and I'm sure 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.160 everyone can relate to this, that I have met so 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:06.400 many people that were duds on both both on the 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.160 app and in person. Yeah. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.720 The problem is is we think we're catches. Us are awful. Yeah, 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:13.520 it's not true. 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:15.120 Just a dodge. 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:19.760 Yeah, okay, okay, So a while back, I was listening 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.600 to this podcast and this girl was giving some really 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:23.920 fabulous dating advice? 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:24.480 Oh my god? 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:29.280 Was it a Lexus on Our Brook and Jeffery? 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:31.960 Why what did she say? 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.360 Well, she said that women are in general having a 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:38.120 hard time finding a guy that's well put together. Like 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.880 you can meet a guy and he'll be great at first, 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:45.000 and then everything just goes south really really quickly, which 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:45.799 is different. 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.480 Than women who are perfect right away. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.840 No, no, no, no, no, it's a two way street. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.160 I'll admit it's a two way street. 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:54.440 Okay, okay, So what was the solution? 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:57.760 Okay, so you're gonna love this girl to go to 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:02.239 the gym at nine am on a Saturday, and the 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:07.640 reason being because most guys who are, let's just be 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.840 polite and say not put together would never be at 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.880 the gym at nine am on a Saturday because they 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.760 were probably out partying the night before. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.840 Yeah, not just on a Saturday early like ever, I'm 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:18.680 not going to the gym. 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:19.840 Yeah I'm done. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.600 But that's actually a decent strategy. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:22.440 But you don't agree. 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.680 No, I mean I get it. Yeah, sure, I get it. 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:27.400 But I think even earlier than that. Yeah, busy at 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:28.160 nine you. 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.400 Have a body who literally works out to get rid 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:31.080 of his hangover. 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:31.720 Sweat. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:37.040 Okay, I get the idea, though, you want to go 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.680 at a time when like all the party guys are 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.040 supposedly it's too early for them. 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:45.520 Yeah, or if they are people who party, they can 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.480 manage it. You know, they still work out the day. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.880 Yeah, that's perseverance right there. What's the talent? 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:51.120 Like? 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.600 At the gym at nine am on a. 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:57.000 Saturday, Shockingly, a lot of really cute, well put together 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:59.800 meg okay, Jack. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.480 Putt okay, Yeah, So did you have your pick or 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.360 what I had my pick? 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.320 I got like all decked out and I put on 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:09.680 my favorite Lululemons and I got like all up in there. 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:11.800 Okay. So who did you meet? 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:14.880 I met a guy named Franklin. 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:15.720 Franklin. 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:20.719 Yeah, and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.320 legit set myself as bait. 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:24.240 How Yah, what did you do? 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.039 Well? Like I said, I got all decked out, and 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.000 you know, I kind of like alluded to the fact 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:33.880 that I didn't know what I was doing, and so yeah, 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.200 I'm ashamed to say it, but I did. And he 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:39.040 came over and kind of helped me figure out how 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:42.880 to use the machine that I was working on. Yeah, 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.359 it worked out We had a nice little conversation and 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:49.440 eventually he asked me out, oh it works. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.719 Yeah, I'm still picturing you guys at the machine, like 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:53.800 did he come up behind you and like help you 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.200 push the levers? 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:56.000 All? 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:58.440 This is not porn, hob take it easy over there. 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:02.320 That picture more like ghosts like with the pottery. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:03.320 Go ahead. 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.520 Yeah. No, I just kind of was like, I can't 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:08.080 lift these giant plates. Can you help mecha? 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.440 I need a big strong man to help me rescue me. 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.000 So was the gym your date or did you guys 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:15.040 like go out for real? 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:15.400 No? 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.520 We went out. He took me to dinner at Nobu. 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:21.520 Whoa I know, I know, and. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.600 I had never been there, so I was really excited 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.520 he suggested it and I was like, wow, you know 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:26.599 that's a little expensive. 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.040 But did you say that Like. 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.479 Yeah, I was like, whoa Nobu? Okay, first date, that's 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:33.080 like setting your bar really high. 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:34.400 Yeah, totally. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:35.880 So how was it? 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:39.440 It was amazing. We had a really good time. We 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:43.160 really connected. We tried some new sushi together, which is 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.679 always an interesting conversation piece at least. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:47.600 Had before. 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:50.920 Yeah, did you play the damsel in distress again and 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.280 be like, oh, I don't know how to use these chopsticks. 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:55.240 I wish a big strong man could come over here 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:55.840 and show me that. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:59.320 I actually had a friend that was Japanese who told 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:01.279 me that they don't use chopsticks, that they actually use 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.520 their fingers. So when I eat sushi, I eat my hands. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:05.479 That's a look. 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:07.320 I don't know if that's true or not, but I 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:09.680 think it's really funny if your friend was truly new. 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:13.920 An idiot, just double fisted and sushi on the table. 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.760 All right, so you had some hand sushi. That's nice 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:17.560 hand sushi. 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:17.880 Yeah. 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:19.960 And then I mean they call them hand rolls, right, yeah? 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:21.120 Yeah. 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.719 What about the connection with Franklin? 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.919 No, we really did connect and we were talking like future, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:31.320 which was was kind of like I was kind of like, yeah, 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:33.599 like we were talking about like traveling together and like 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.880 going skydiving, and you're on the. 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.480 Phone with us. There has to be something bad that 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:40.520 happened in the night. 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.600 Already. Sound someone that's this put together. 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:45.560 That's it's getting weird now. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:49.000 It's like serial killer. Nobody's this charming and put anything. 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.280 I know. I know. 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.520 Wow, all right, so how did you end it? 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.920 We ended the night with a hug and I assumed 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.200 that we'd go out again, of course, because we had 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:04.960 such a great time. And I haven't heard from him 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:06.760 in like two weeks. He just disappeared. 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.000 Have you reached out to him or have you going 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:09.680 to the gym? 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.720 Okay? So I reached out to him just one time. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.800 I didn't want to see Meaty, and no, I never 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.600 went back to the gym on the Saturday morning. So 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.160 I'm actually thinking it could be that because maybe he 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.240 thinks that I just went to the gym, like I 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:22.960 set my own trap, you know what I mean. 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:25.840 I don't think that guys put that much thought into 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:26.480 where they made. 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:27.120 They care. 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.080 I don't know if they care. 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.280 H No, I'm not even gonna put very much thought 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:32.720 into leaving this break. So let's come back and call 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:35.120 this guy and do your second date update right after. 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:40.679 This next second date update. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:46.520 Who knew nine am on Saturday was prime time for 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:49.640 available hobbies at the gym? 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:51.840 Everybody knows. No, it's going to be slimmed. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.560 Our listener Laura knew because she heard about it on 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:57.680 a podcast, So she went to check it out, and 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:02.600 that's where she met Hunky and respect Franklin. He showed 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:06.080 her how to lift a five pound dumbbell. She showed 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:08.920 him how to eat sushi with your hands at NOBU. 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:11.120 It is the traditional way. 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:15.200 Jem apparently seemed like a match made in heaven. But 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:18.640 Franklin has now gone two weeks without setting up another date. 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:23.480 So either that finger sushi hit real wrong or something 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.840 else is going on, so do not call. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.040 It finger sushi. 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:30.440 Sushi hit good. 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:31.640 I don't know. 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:33.720 I just see the chip of a thumb or something. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:34.400 It's hitting a. 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:36.240 Brook. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.559 What do you think is going on? 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:41.040 I know, I mean dating's just so hard, and people 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.240 have so many options, and life is so busy. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:45.200 It's just it could not be you. 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.000 At all, could be literally anything. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:51.040 Yes, I mean everything you describe sounded perfect, okay, but 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:51.839 hand sushi. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.040 Did you explain why you were eating with your hands? 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.280 You know, just do it? 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:57.920 Yeah, of course, all right. 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.760 Alexis thinks that the issue is the hand sushi thing. 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:01.600 That is kind of gross. 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.880 If someone, just Alexis, doesn't know how to eat sushi. 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.440 And you weren't feeding each other sushi with your hands, right, 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:11.920 it was your own hands. 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:13.120 I think that sounds fun. 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:18.679 That's how you get banned from nob forever. But let's 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:24.560 call Franklin. Here, Let's call Franklin and see if he 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:25.720 has some answers for us. 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:27.000 Hopefully he picks up and I'm. 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:28.840 Downing it right now, thank you? 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:29.559 All right? 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:40.040 Hold on, hello, Hey, is this Franklin? 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:42.920 Uh yeah, who's speaking? 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:45.880 Man? I knew he didn't answer and be put together 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:46.320 right now? 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:47.480 He does not put together. 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:51.360 My name is jeff and you're actually on a radio 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:55.319 show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Morning. 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:58.800 Why am I on a radio show right now? What's 0:09:58.800 --> 0:09:59.199 going on? 0:09:59.440 --> 0:09:59.680 Well? 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.040 One of our listeners asked us to reach out to 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:06.040 you because she had a great time getting sushi the 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:06.560 other day. 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:07.760 Her name is Laura. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:11.840 Oh god, Laura. She is. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:15.480 Such a fun show. 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:19.040 So you liked her? It sounds I like it. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:20.360 I like, let's let's sake that. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:21.880 God. 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:25.800 Yeah, Laura, Is that how you meant it? Franklin? 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:30.600 No, no, no, I normally don't misread people. 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:35.200 Okay, that is so crazy, Like what a disconnect between 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:38.400 how she described you and your reaction. 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:39.880 She loved the date? 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.080 All right? Yeah, So is that is that all you 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:43.360 need to ask me about? Well? 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:46.920 No, we uh so there's more to this. 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.680 We're doing a segment called the second date update, because 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:53.600 Laura really wants to hang out again with you, and 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:57.000 she's a little bit confused about why that hasn't happened 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.720 in the two weeks since you went to Nobu together. 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.680 Oh. Yeah, I don't I don't know, man, I'm I'm 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.439 not sure if I'm really capable of dating her. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:09.199 Why. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.480 Okay, what does that mean? What do you mean? 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:12.600 Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if I can 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:17.840 keep up with her lifestyle because she seems high maintenance, 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:19.160 you know what I mean. 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:22.240 I thought you were kind of a high maintenance one 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.959 taking trying to get on your roster. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:30.080 Even so, hold on, slow, slow down, guys, we're that 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:31.559 was her idea, not mine. 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:36.120 What she told us, it was your idea, and she 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.280 was like, no, let's not do that. 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:39.359 It's too expensive. 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.360 No, no, no. We were kind of tossing ideas back 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:45.000 and forth about where to go, and I think she's 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:46.880 the one that actually suggested no, but not me. 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:50.560 But all right, but you. 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:53.120 Agreed to it, I mean different place. 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:55.800 Yeah. I didn't want to seem too difficult, so I 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.280 just kind of went with it, and I honestly didn't 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.480 realize what I was getting it too. No. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:03.000 Oh, God, you didn't You didn't know. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:03.760 You didn't know. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.920 Nobody's like this high end, super expensive restaurant. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.559 No, no, no, I'm a Chick fil a kind of guy. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:17.240 Like, well, I mean what one tier below? It's pretty close. 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:19.880 The only time I've been is with my agent, Like. 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:27.480 Right, okay, yeah, so did you pay the bit? Like 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:29.160 how much? Can we ask how much? 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:29.720 Was yeah? 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:30.000 Yeah? 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.120 Instead of a nice little Chick fil a forty dollars day, 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:33.680 being like four hundred dollars. 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:39.960 Oh no, I feel bad for you, dude. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.280 I think she knew okay, but honestly, like she thought 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.560 that you were up for it, like she thought she 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:47.679 played it as your choice. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:49.720 She was impressed because you were in it together. 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.400 Yeah, not quite. It was definitely her suggestion, and that 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:57.800 gives me that whole idea that she's expecting this pretty frequently. 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:02.360 And then she started talking about expensive things like skydiving 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:06.400 and hang gliding and had my head spinning. There's no 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:09.920 way I can afford this girl, Okay, Can. 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.400 People talk about fun things that are expensively? 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:13.040 Yeah? 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:14.920 I feel like this has been a little bit of 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:18.960 a miscommunication, a misunderstanding because we didn't get that impression 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:22.440 from her and you can actually ask her yourself, Franklin, 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:25.000 because Laura has been waiting on the other line wanting 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:25.560 to talk to you. 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.680 Oh gosh, you got to set up. Thank you. 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.560 It's international phone call charging. 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.640 The good news is usually really wealthy people don't call 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:35.040 our show. 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:37.840 Yeah, yeah, you know stands. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.760 Anyway, Laura talked to Franklin. 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.720 Hey, Franklin, Laura, what are you? 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:46.160 What are you doing put me on this radio show? Like, 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:47.760 what's going on? You putting on blast? 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.679 What are you doing being a typical jerk and disappearing 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.680 and not texting me back and letting me know what's 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:53.120 going on? 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.959 What the heck? Where did that come from? 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:57.880 She's mad? 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:01.520 Well two weeks I thought we had a really good time. 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.840 And by the way, guys, nobu was not my suggestion. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.480 It was his he it was yours. 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:09.640 He didn't even know what it was. How could he 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:10.440 suggest it? 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:14.400 Like, yeah, maybe maybe I brought it up, but he 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:18.720 agreed to it. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.320 It was well, Franklin, you did mess up there, so y'at. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.400 Admit that or I didn't want to be difficult or anything, 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.440 all right. I just kind of went with the idea 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:29.000 and I thought sure, And I had never been to Nobu, 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:30.960 so I had I had no idea what was going on. 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.480 He didn't know he was signing up. 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.240 I mean, do you feel like some empathy towards him? 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:40.880 Now? He probably he probably googled a coupon for Nobu 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:41.640 before we went. 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:45.080 Out, now that I'm hearing all this, Listen, I looked 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:48.640 for a coupon, but doesn't mean you did. 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:50.040 That's okay. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:53.000 Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with going to on a 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:55.120 first date. Sorry, agreed, No. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.680 But you hear what he's saying, right, Like he thinks 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:02.720 that you are like probably wanting too much money out 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:03.480 of him, and like. 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:05.560 I'm not looking to take his money. I make money too. 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:08.960 It's not about that. There's nothing wrong with living extravagantly. 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.480 Totally. I think Jeffrey explained it wrong. He just thinks 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:12.760 that maybe. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.160 Your lifestyle and his lifestyle don't meet up in the 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:15.960 budget world. 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.840 Yeah, you know, I mean I didn't. I didn't realize 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.480 he was just cheap. I mean the theater. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:25.000 What'd you say? 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.920 I said? I realized he was this cheap. He probably 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:29.920 brings his own popcorn to the dollar theater. 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.720 Oh wow, a dollar theater. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:35.440 Okay, all right. 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:37.800 Well, now we're getting I didn't know you were this rude. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:40.960 The theory turn off every time you start talking. 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:46.480 Oh, I didn't even get it. It's not about rude. 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:48.200 If we were just talking about the future and I 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:49.840 thought you were on board, it seems like you were 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:51.920 agreeing with everything with me, So obviously you're not being 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:55.200 your authentic stuff on dates. Wow, Okay, you probably asked 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:57.320 charity if they have a happy hour special or something. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:05.440 God, no, wonder you were single. 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:11.920 Franklin, he's gone, he's gone. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:14.600 He growed you too, all right. 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.680 Frank all right, Well Franklin decided he didn't want to 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:18.320 be a part of this. 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:22.680 Anymorehill poor guy. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:23.400 Literally. 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:24.560 Oh man, Just for. 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:26.760 The record, it's not bad to bring your own popcorn 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:27.680 into a movie theater. 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:29.120 It's I've definitely been there. 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:31.960 I think we all agree with that. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:33.680 But the fact that it's a dollar theater, I mean, 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:35.200 how expensive could the popcorn be? 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.920 Honestly, it's not that it's expensive. It's usually just stale. 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:40.840 But that's beside the point. 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.000 Okay, all right, popcorn? 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:48.680 Well, I guess no more gym at nine am. 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:51.760 Huh yeah, no, all right, Well we don't even get 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:53.000 a chance to ask for another day. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:54.880 But yeah, you scared him off pretty quickly. 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:57.400 You should find a more exclusive Jim Richard. 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:00.240 Maybe I can go a date with one of you. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.360 Hey, I'm always instinkly. 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:04.000 I thought you wanted somebody who was rich. 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:07.800 Yeah, oh yeah, no, Jeffrey. 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:10.159 In the morning, there's a lot of texts coming in 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.120 at seven eight, five, nine two from our listeners asking. 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:16.679 What is Nobu? Oh yeah, misspelled multiple ways. 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.240 That does that hurt your little privileged heart? Yeah? 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:23.119 Those are listeners, but that's why we love them. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.440 By the way, if you don't know, google Nobu n 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.719