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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Day podcast. We're so glad you're here,

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Speaker 1: especially on a lovely Friday.

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Speaker 2: Happier than the other two girls that you're here.

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Speaker 3: So you know, it's.

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Speaker 1: Definitely in computation, Jose, So you know, listen, I am

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Speaker 1: so curious to see if people think this hack that

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners had for meeting a guy who's

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Speaker 1: put together would.

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Speaker 3: Work, would work? Yeah, it's logical, for sure. It doesn't work.

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Speaker 3: It does it work? Okay, you got to test it

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Speaker 3: out for us and let us know in the comments.

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Speaker 3: What do you see in that you're liking in the

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Speaker 3: comments right now? Alexis Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Megan Weber said, I'm moving houses and classrooms right now.

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Speaker 4: These second dates have been my favorite while I pack

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Speaker 4: an unpacked Yeah, moving houses.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, classrooms. I'm guessing she's a teacher.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't confuse the couch in the.

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Speaker 4: Classroom, right, that'd be nice for the students. Actually, seriously,

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Speaker 4: we got wine cart bar.

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Speaker 3: You gotta watch for that. That one could. All right,

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Speaker 3: here's your second day it starts now.

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Speaker 5: Second date up date.

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Speaker 6: Meeting a good single guy is like finding an open

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Speaker 6: parking space at Costco on a Saturday.

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Speaker 5: They exist.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't believe that you got to

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Speaker 3: be aggressive.

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Speaker 6: Yes, got to be aggressive and get kind of lucky

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Speaker 6: with it, or you could be like Brook and parking

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Speaker 6: the rear blocking the fire lane next to the road

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Speaker 6: of dumpsters and just call it a day.

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Speaker 3: I didn't block the handicapped parking spot. So that's how.

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Speaker 5: Thoughtful point is.

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Speaker 6: Finding good men not easy, and that's why our listener

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Speaker 6: Laura says she had to find a strategy to help

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Speaker 6: her find a decent dude, and apparently she came up

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Speaker 6: with one. So Laura, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Is it bad that I'm hoping that your strategy also

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Speaker 1: helps me in the Costco parking.

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Speaker 8: Lot at all?

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Speaker 6: Tell us about this guy that you met and the

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Speaker 6: strategy that you used to find him.

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Speaker 8: So first, let me start by saying, and I'm sure

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Speaker 8: everyone can relate to this, that I have met so

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Speaker 8: many people that were duds on both both on the

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Speaker 8: app and in person. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The problem is is we think we're catches. Us are awful. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's not true.

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Speaker 3: Just a dodge.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, okay, So a while back, I was listening

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Speaker 8: to this podcast and this girl was giving some really

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Speaker 8: fabulous dating advice?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Was it a Lexus on Our Brook and Jeffery?

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Speaker 5: Why what did she say?

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Speaker 8: Well, she said that women are in general having a

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Speaker 8: hard time finding a guy that's well put together. Like

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Speaker 8: you can meet a guy and he'll be great at first,

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Speaker 8: and then everything just goes south really really quickly, which

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Speaker 5: Than women who are perfect right away.

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Speaker 8: No, no, no, no, no, it's a two way street.

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Speaker 8: I'll admit it's a two way street.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So what was the solution?

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Speaker 8: Okay, so you're gonna love this girl to go to

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Speaker 8: the gym at nine am on a Saturday, and the

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Speaker 8: reason being because most guys who are, let's just be

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Speaker 8: were probably out partying the night before.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, not just on a Saturday early like ever, I'm

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Speaker 5: Yeah I'm done.

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Speaker 2: But that's actually a decent strategy.

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Speaker 5: But you don't agree.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I get it. Yeah, sure, I get it.

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Speaker 3: But I think even earlier than that. Yeah, busy at

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Speaker 2: Have a body who literally works out to get rid

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Speaker 3: Sweat.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I get the idea, though, you want to go

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or if they are people who party, they can

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Speaker 4: manage it. You know, they still work out the day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's perseverance right there. What's the talent?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 5: At the gym at nine am on a.

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Speaker 8: Saturday, Shockingly, a lot of really cute, well put together

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Speaker 1: Putt okay, Yeah, So did you have your pick or

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Speaker 1: what I had my pick?

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Speaker 8: I got like all decked out and I put on

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Speaker 5: Okay. So who did you meet?

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Speaker 8: I met a guy named Franklin.

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Speaker 3: Franklin.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 8: legit set myself as bait.

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Speaker 5: How Yah, what did you do?

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Speaker 8: Well? Like I said, I got all decked out, and

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Speaker 8: you know, I kind of like alluded to the fact

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Speaker 8: I'm ashamed to say it, but I did. And he

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Speaker 8: to use the machine that I was working on. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: it worked out We had a nice little conversation and

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Speaker 8: eventually he asked me out, oh it works.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm still picturing you guys at the machine, like

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Speaker 6: did he come up behind you and like help you

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Speaker 7: All?

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Speaker 8: This is not porn, hob take it easy over there.

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Speaker 5: That picture more like ghosts like with the pottery.

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Speaker 7: Go ahead.

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Speaker 8: Yeah. No, I just kind of was like, I can't

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Speaker 3: I need a big strong man to help me rescue me.

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Speaker 5: So was the gym your date or did you guys

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: We went out. He took me to dinner at Nobu.

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Speaker 5: Whoa I know, I know, and.

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Speaker 8: I had never been there, so I was really excited

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Speaker 3: But did you say that Like.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I was like, whoa Nobu? Okay, first date, that's

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Speaker 8: like setting your bar really high.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 5: So how was it?

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Speaker 8: It was amazing. We had a really good time. We

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Speaker 8: really connected. We tried some new sushi together, which is

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Speaker 8: always an interesting conversation piece at least.

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Speaker 2: Had before.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, did you play the damsel in distress again and

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Speaker 6: be like, oh, I don't know how to use these chopsticks.

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Speaker 5: I wish a big strong man could come over here

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Speaker 8: I actually had a friend that was Japanese who told

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Speaker 8: me that they don't use chopsticks, that they actually use

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Speaker 8: their fingers. So when I eat sushi, I eat my hands.

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Speaker 5: That's a look.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true or not, but I

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Speaker 1: think it's really funny if your friend was truly new.

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Speaker 2: An idiot, just double fisted and sushi on the table.

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Speaker 5: All right, so you had some hand sushi. That's nice

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Speaker 5: hand sushi.

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Speaker 8: And then I mean they call them hand rolls, right, yeah?

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Speaker 5: What about the connection with Franklin?

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Speaker 8: No, we really did connect and we were talking like future,

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Speaker 8: which was was kind of like I was kind of like, yeah,

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Speaker 8: like we were talking about like traveling together and like

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Speaker 3: Phone with us. There has to be something bad that

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Speaker 3: happened in the night.

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Speaker 5: Already. Sound someone that's this put together.

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Speaker 4: That's it's getting weird now.

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Speaker 5: It's like serial killer. Nobody's this charming and put anything.

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Speaker 7: I know. I know.

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Speaker 5: Wow, all right, so how did you end it?

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Speaker 8: We ended the night with a hug and I assumed

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Speaker 8: that we'd go out again, of course, because we had

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Speaker 8: such a great time. And I haven't heard from him

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Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him or have you going

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Speaker 8: Okay? So I reached out to him just one time.

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Speaker 8: I didn't want to see Meaty, and no, I never

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Speaker 8: I'm actually thinking it could be that because maybe he

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Speaker 3: I don't think that guys put that much thought into

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Speaker 7: They care.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if they care.

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Speaker 6: H No, I'm not even gonna put very much thought

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Speaker 6: into leaving this break. So let's come back and call

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Speaker 6: this guy and do your second date update right after.

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Speaker 5: This next second date update.

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Speaker 6: Who knew nine am on Saturday was prime time for

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Speaker 3: Everybody knows. No, it's going to be slimmed.

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Speaker 6: Our listener Laura knew because she heard about it on

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Speaker 6: a podcast, So she went to check it out, and

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Speaker 6: that's where she met Hunky and respect Franklin. He showed

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Speaker 6: her how to lift a five pound dumbbell. She showed

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Speaker 6: him how to eat sushi with your hands at NOBU.

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Speaker 2: It is the traditional way.

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Speaker 6: Jem apparently seemed like a match made in heaven. But

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Speaker 6: Franklin has now gone two weeks without setting up another date.

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Speaker 6: So either that finger sushi hit real wrong or something

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Speaker 3: It finger sushi.

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Speaker 2: Sushi hit good.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just see the chip of a thumb or something.

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Speaker 3: It's hitting a.

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Speaker 7: Brook.

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Speaker 5: What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 1: I know, I mean dating's just so hard, and people

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Speaker 1: have so many options, and life is so busy.

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Speaker 3: It's just it could not be you.

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Speaker 2: At all, could be literally anything.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I mean everything you describe sounded perfect, okay, but

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Speaker 1: hand sushi.

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Speaker 3: Did you explain why you were eating with your hands?

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Speaker 5: You know, just do it?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, of course, all right.

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Speaker 5: Alexis thinks that the issue is the hand sushi thing.

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Speaker 5: That is kind of gross.

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Speaker 3: If someone, just Alexis, doesn't know how to eat sushi.

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Speaker 6: And you weren't feeding each other sushi with your hands, right,

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Speaker 6: it was your own hands.

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Speaker 3: I think that sounds fun.

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Speaker 6: That's how you get banned from nob forever. But let's

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Speaker 6: call Franklin. Here, Let's call Franklin and see if he

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Speaker 6: has some answers for us.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully he picks up and I'm.

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Speaker 8: Downing it right now, thank you?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 5: Hold on, hello, Hey, is this Franklin?

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Speaker 3: Man? I knew he didn't answer and be put together

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Speaker 5: He does not put together.

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Speaker 6: My name is jeff and you're actually on a radio

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Speaker 7: Why am I on a radio show right now? What's

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 6: One of our listeners asked us to reach out to

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Speaker 5: Her name is Laura.

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Speaker 7: Oh god, Laura. She is.

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Speaker 8: Such a fun show.

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Speaker 5: So you liked her? It sounds I like it.

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Speaker 3: I like, let's let's sake that.

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Speaker 7: God.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Laura, Is that how you meant it? Franklin?

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, I normally don't misread people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is so crazy, Like what a disconnect between

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Speaker 2: She loved the date?

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Speaker 7: All right? Yeah, So is that is that all you

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Speaker 5: No, we uh so there's more to this.

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Speaker 6: We're doing a segment called the second date update, because

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Speaker 7: Oh. Yeah, I don't I don't know, man, I'm I'm

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Speaker 3: Why.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what does that mean? What do you mean?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if I can

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Speaker 2: I thought you were kind of a high maintenance one

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Speaker 7: Even so, hold on, slow, slow down, guys, we're that

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Speaker 1: What she told us, it was your idea, and she

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Speaker 3: It's too expensive.

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Speaker 7: No, no, no. We were kind of tossing ideas back

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Speaker 5: But all right, but you.

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Speaker 3: Agreed to it, I mean different place.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I didn't want to seem too difficult, so I

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Speaker 5: Oh, God, you didn't You didn't know.

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Speaker 3: You didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's like this high end, super expensive restaurant.

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Speaker 7: No, no, no, I'm a Chick fil a kind of guy.

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Speaker 3: The only time I've been is with my agent, Like.

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Speaker 5: Right, okay, yeah, so did you pay the bit? Like

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Speaker 7: Was yeah?

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Speaker 7: Instead of a nice little Chick fil a forty dollars day,

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I feel bad for you, dude.

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Speaker 1: I think she knew okay, but honestly, like she thought

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Speaker 1: played it as your choice.

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Speaker 5: She was impressed because you were in it together.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, not quite. It was definitely her suggestion, and that

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Speaker 7: And then she started talking about expensive things like skydiving

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Speaker 3: People talk about fun things that are expensively?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I feel like this has been a little bit of

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Speaker 6: from her and you can actually ask her yourself, Franklin,

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Speaker 6: because Laura has been waiting on the other line wanting

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Speaker 7: Oh gosh, you got to set up. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's international phone call charging.

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Speaker 1: The good news is usually really wealthy people don't call

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know stands.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, Laura talked to Franklin.

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Speaker 8: Hey, Franklin, Laura, what are you?

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Speaker 7: What are you doing put me on this radio show? Like,

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Speaker 8: What are you doing being a typical jerk and disappearing

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Speaker 2: What the heck? Where did that come from?

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Speaker 3: She's mad?

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Speaker 8: Well two weeks I thought we had a really good time.

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Speaker 8: And by the way, guys, nobu was not my suggestion.

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Speaker 8: It was his he it was yours.

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Speaker 3: He didn't even know what it was. How could he

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Speaker 8: Like, yeah, maybe maybe I brought it up, but he

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Speaker 5: It was well, Franklin, you did mess up there, so y'at.

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Speaker 7: Admit that or I didn't want to be difficult or anything,

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Speaker 2: He didn't know he was signing up.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you feel like some empathy towards him?

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Speaker 8: Now? He probably he probably googled a coupon for Nobu

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Speaker 7: Out, now that I'm hearing all this, Listen, I looked

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Speaker 3: That's okay.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with going to on a

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Speaker 6: But you hear what he's saying, right, Like he thinks

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Speaker 8: I'm not looking to take his money. I make money too.

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Speaker 8: It's not about that. There's nothing wrong with living extravagantly.

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Speaker 3: Totally. I think Jeffrey explained it wrong. He just thinks

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Speaker 1: Your lifestyle and his lifestyle don't meet up in the

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, I mean I didn't. I didn't realize

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Speaker 5: What'd you say?

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Speaker 8: I said? I realized he was this cheap. He probably

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, a dollar theater.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 7: Well, now we're getting I didn't know you were this rude.

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Speaker 7: The theory turn off every time you start talking.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I didn't even get it. It's not about rude.

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Speaker 8: If we were just talking about the future and I

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Speaker 8: agreeing with everything with me, So obviously you're not being

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Speaker 8: your authentic stuff on dates. Wow, Okay, you probably asked

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Speaker 8: charity if they have a happy hour special or something.

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Speaker 7: God, no, wonder you were single.

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Speaker 5: Franklin, he's gone, he's gone.

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Speaker 8: He growed you too, all right.

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Speaker 6: Frank all right, Well Franklin decided he didn't want to

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Speaker 5: Anymorehill poor guy.

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Speaker 2: Literally.

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Speaker 5: Oh man, Just for.

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Speaker 1: The record, it's not bad to bring your own popcorn

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Speaker 8: It's I've definitely been there.

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Speaker 5: I think we all agree with that.

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Speaker 6: But the fact that it's a dollar theater, I mean,

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Speaker 8: Honestly, it's not that it's expensive. It's usually just stale.

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Speaker 8: But that's beside the point.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, popcorn?

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess no more gym at nine am.

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Speaker 6: Huh yeah, no, all right, Well we don't even get

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Speaker 6: a chance to ask for another day.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, you scared him off pretty quickly.

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Speaker 4: You should find a more exclusive Jim Richard.

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Speaker 8: Maybe I can go a date with one of you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm always instinkly.

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Speaker 3: I thought you wanted somebody who was rich.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, no, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 6: In the morning, there's a lot of texts coming in

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Speaker 5: What is Nobu? Oh yeah, misspelled multiple ways.

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Speaker 3: That does that hurt your little privileged heart? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Those are listeners, but that's why we love them.

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Speaker 6: By the way, if you don't know, google Nobu n

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Speaker 1: It's actually a chain though, which is a funny to me,

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Speaker 1: but it is like so expensive.

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Speaker 2: And sushi for people that want to pay triple. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I've never been there, but I know.

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Speaker 6: Brookes sends pictures of herself dining there to her sponsored

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Speaker 5: And Dari, I met Nobu again, third time this week.

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Speaker 5: Sorry to hear your dad lost his fishing job and

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Speaker 5: has to go back to the cannery. I'll text you

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Speaker 5: next week.

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Speaker 1: All right, Broke starting to believe that this stuff is

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Speaker 3: Josh, Yeah, he.

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Speaker 6: May s have some class a little bit. Brooke, we

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Speaker 6: even played the most evil woman in the world. So

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Speaker 6: unsuccessful second date, we are going to try again tomorrow,

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Speaker 6: though with a new couple. Make sure you email the

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Speaker 6: show if you want some help with your love life.

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Speaker 6: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and

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Speaker 6: go check out all of our second dates wherever you

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Speaker 6: get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey