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<v Speaker 1>of requests for second date updates, and when we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to decide who to pick, yeah, that we should call,

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<v Speaker 1>we usually look for something that stands out in the emails.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for sure. And we recently got a message from

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<v Speaker 1>one woman who says she had two dinners in one.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean either she got ditched in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of it, or maybe she's a competitive eater, or she's

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<v Speaker 1>just a hungry girl, Jeffrey, and that is okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's find out which one it is. Her name's Kayla out,

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<v Speaker 1>Kayla Hill. Guy, I can't wait to hear a first

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<v Speaker 1>dinner or second dinner was better. Well, let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>I think you got it right. I mean, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>hungry girl for lots of different things, which is different

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<v Speaker 1>than a thirst girl. It is sore and thirsty. But yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the guy that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call today. What's his name? Okay, yeah, so his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Lucas and we met on an app and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just be totally honest, I thought he was really hot. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's kind of like the basis of all apps, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, yeah, But I mean we chatted on

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<v Speaker 1>the app for a little bit before agreeing to meet up,

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<v Speaker 1>and he seems really cool. Um. He told me how

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<v Speaker 1>much he was just really into like playing guitar, and

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<v Speaker 1>he likes to go rock climbing and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not necessarily into those things, but I would

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<v Speaker 1>definitely like to climb him. I was like, anyway I

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<v Speaker 1>can get him on a date, it would be great.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you guys did when you went out? Well? No,

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<v Speaker 1>So we actually went to dinner and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible experience. He picked the restaurant, and honestly, the

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<v Speaker 1>food was awful, the drinks were bad, the service was horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've actually been cooking a lot recently, and I

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<v Speaker 1>will say I make some pretty amazing food, and in

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<v Speaker 1>my head, I was just like, you know what, this

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<v Speaker 1>is such a terrible experience. I think we should just leave,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to take him back to my place

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<v Speaker 1>and cook him like a really nice it is unless

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<v Speaker 1>he loved that restaurant. He's the one that picked it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he agree with you? I think he was a

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<v Speaker 1>little shock and taking it back that I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, luck could just leave, but

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't think like, well this is weird. And honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally made it worth it because he loved the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner that I made him. What was it? I did,

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<v Speaker 1>like this Moroccan style chicken tijeen type this like cook

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<v Speaker 1>cous with look just like run home and whip that

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<v Speaker 1>up real quick. Wife's material, broa wife material. I love

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<v Speaker 1>you lacking food? Oh my god, let me pull out

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<v Speaker 1>my te gene. I mean, honestly, it's really not that hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I make it all the time. It's one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite things. And he was really wowed by it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wow, just you saying it. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>how to but I don't know what happened, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually turned down that night, turned down? How down?

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<v Speaker 1>For what? Turned down? I'm asking the question because it

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<v Speaker 1>begged to be asked right there. I mean, I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of expecting and sort of hoping that we would

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<v Speaker 1>get down and dirty, and she turned me down. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was so mortifying because I was kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>making it very clear that that was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>sort of the next step. Okay, wait, walk us through

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<v Speaker 1>that moment real quick, like what did you say? What

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<v Speaker 1>did he say? What? I mean, I think that's true

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<v Speaker 1>for most women. Yeah, you're right, this play out. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it got down to the end of the night and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you know, I was gonna get into my pj's,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was not something a little more fifty than that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I kind of said, like, well, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>send the night, right, like if you want to send

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and then he just said no, and he

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<v Speaker 1>just abruptly kind of left like that, leaving me like

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so uncomfortable, And let me tell you, I

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<v Speaker 1>not to do my own word or anything. But I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been turned out like that. Yeah, and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of I mean a lot of people in general don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable staying over on the first night. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know, maybe he just got out of a

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<v Speaker 1>big relationship, a disease, Okay, I mean, I honestly can't

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out. I can't figure out why I wore

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<v Speaker 1>my hottest dress the whole night and then I changed

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<v Speaker 1>into some neg day And I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it could be. I don't know if he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like the cooking, which I can't really imagine. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what I'm thinking, is that Moroccan chicken. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>had it before, but it sounds like something that would

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<v Speaker 1>be really spicy and kind of heavy. And if he's

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<v Speaker 1>not used to that, maybe he was having a weird

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<v Speaker 1>reaction and didn't feel safe spending the night. You know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but has he called you at all? No, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>radio silent. It's really bad. Yeah, I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's something else going on there. I mean, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>came across and I don't mean I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a confident woman, but maybe you came across

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<v Speaker 1>as like two braggadocious or like, yeah, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to have a good time. That was really where

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<v Speaker 1>I was coming from, you know, I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if there was another girl. I don't know, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like my apartment, Like, was there something in my

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<v Speaker 1>apartment that he saw? You know, men in their interior design.

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<v Speaker 1>I do love though, how like women who aren't used

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<v Speaker 1>to being rejected, they just go through every possible so

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<v Speaker 1>they're like you not like this, and you know like this,

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<v Speaker 1>how's that possible? So let's you know what we're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's play a song, come back, call Lucas for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll try and get you a second date. Update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very curious. How curious? Okay, hold on if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for the second eight update, we're on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with Kayla and Kayla it's pretty much the unicorn.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's very attractive, she cooks incredible food, she

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<v Speaker 1>loves guys with guitars. Yeah, well, I mean that makes

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<v Speaker 1>her no different than any other ye She's down to

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<v Speaker 1>do stuff on the first night. I mean, she's the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect woman. It sounds like every other woman out there,

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<v Speaker 1>But I like that. I think what kind of idiot

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<v Speaker 1>would turn that down? Apparently a guy named Lucas would,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's good, Jeffrey, you're in her corner. I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to figure out why, because after Kayla cooked

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<v Speaker 1>him some homemade Moroccan chicken and slipped into some Negla

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<v Speaker 1>Jane and invited him to stay the night. Lucas apparently

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<v Speaker 1>looked at her and said, no, thanks. I'm Kayla. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel for you here, but look, we have a whole

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<v Speaker 1>text board filled with dude and even some women who

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<v Speaker 1>would love to take you out. If this doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 1>well that would be nice. But I am really curious

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<v Speaker 1>what he has to say. And I mean, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really get a sense. Are you really excited about Lucas

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<v Speaker 1>or are you just kind of pissed that he turned

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<v Speaker 1>you down? Oh? No, I had a great time with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I honestly, if I didn't, I probably would have

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<v Speaker 1>just left the restaurant right then and there, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. All Right, Okay, well, let's call this

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<v Speaker 1>moron and say, okay, I'm sorry. Let's call this a

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<v Speaker 1>nice person and see what he has to say for himself.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you're ready to do this, Kayla, Yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Lucas please? Lucas. Hey, Lucas, my name's Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a something to talk? Well, what is

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<v Speaker 1>this about? This is about a segment we do called

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update. Have you ever heard of that before? Yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good start. Yeah, awesome, Hi Lucas, that's Brooke. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Hi. I mean that was the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>had to I thought you had more. No, you can

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<v Speaker 1>move on. I thought you were going to explain what

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update was. So the way a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update works, you obviously know. But if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email our show and we'll try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the reason why. So do you know who I

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<v Speaker 1>might be calling about? I think so. I have an idea, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know. Why don't you show me in?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, the woman that emailed us. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Kayla. Oh okay, Rocking Chicken Kayla. Yes, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>horrible nickname. It is. It's very sexy. Is it is

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<v Speaker 1>that the woman that you were thinking? Um, I wasn't sure. Actually, hey, okay, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a man that plays guitar. You know, he has

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of options on dating apps. Absolutely, So here's

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<v Speaker 1>the deal. Kayla told us about your date and going

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<v Speaker 1>out to the restaurant, and then she made some chicken

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<v Speaker 1>for you at her place. And she said that the

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<v Speaker 1>night kind of ended on a strange note. Uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you could say that, well, she's she's not sure

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<v Speaker 1>what went wrong and why you wouldn't want to end

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<v Speaker 1>up staying the night with her, which is totally fine

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<v Speaker 1>if you felt like that was too fast on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Like, no judgment here, I think that that

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to judge you, but definitely a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of judgment. But maybe there's a good explanation. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was a it was a weird night.

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<v Speaker 1>We went out to eat and Kila didn't really like

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<v Speaker 1>the food, and uh, is that the problem? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>because you felt like less than a man because she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like the restaurant? What? That was a big Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to read on at all. I was

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<v Speaker 1>cool with leaving, you know, the food was kind of whack,

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<v Speaker 1>and she ended up taking me to their place and

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<v Speaker 1>making this like amazing meal. You know. Uh yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>she said she was a good cook, and you love

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<v Speaker 1>the food, right, Yeah, she's an amazing cook. She was great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that's not how It's just I don't know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird, but well, she's really confused Lucas because,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, she felt like everything was going really

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<v Speaker 1>really well up until the very end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>and she can't figure out the reason why you would

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<v Speaker 1>turn her down. Here's the thing. I'm hanging out at

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<v Speaker 1>her place and on the wall, she's got all these

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<v Speaker 1>pictures with like John Mayer. She's gotten like fangirl photos

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<v Speaker 1>on the wall like a poster. These aren't like photos

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<v Speaker 1>were like she's at a show and she got like

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<v Speaker 1>a selfie with him or something. You know, Like she's

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<v Speaker 1>like in a room with John Mayer hanging out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know John Mayer's reputation, you know, like it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't exactly like pick up dog, more of a cap

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that we'd do, Zach. But yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>good with the ladies, is what you're saying. He's good

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<v Speaker 1>with the ladies. And I'm just saying, if you're in

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<v Speaker 1>a room with John Mayer, like it's probably gone down,

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<v Speaker 1>so who cares. But you've never had I mean, even

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<v Speaker 1>if that is true, Like why would that matter. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if her bar is John Mayer high, I mean that's terrifying.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying, if she if she would have been

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with like Chad Kroger from Nickelback. You would

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<v Speaker 1>have been fine with that, but you feel insecure because

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<v Speaker 1>it's John Mayer. Hey, you know what, I could deal

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<v Speaker 1>with Chad. You could deal with Chad, Okay, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>on you, man. She obviously was interested in you. She

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<v Speaker 1>cooked for you, she changed into lingerie for you. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can't you see that? Those are your own securities? Insecurity insecurities,

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<v Speaker 1>those are the ones. Yeah, but I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't change the way that I felt, and my

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<v Speaker 1>entire body will just kind of like not a wonderland

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<v Speaker 1>anic mode, not in wonderland, right. I could see this,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, if I knew a girl hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>with like Tom Brady, I'd be like, like like, I'm barely

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<v Speaker 1>throwing football. Let I'm not rich. I would have been like, yeah, now, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to get what John Mayer's had. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're speculating a lot here. We don't even know if

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<v Speaker 1>anything actually went down with John Mayer. So you know what, Lucas,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we just pull her up and ask her

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you she's on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening and wants to talk to you. What what

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about. That's how the second date works.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been on the other line. I thought you've heard

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<v Speaker 1>these Yeah, okay, yeah she's there man, Kayla, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi am I am I on yep? Yeah, hey okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this Hi Lucas, hi. Um. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing I would have ever thought. I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>you got so weirded out by that picture. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of old, it's been there for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even think about it, honestly. Wait, Kayla, is

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<v Speaker 1>that a picture of your ex John Mayer? I mean no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys weren't official, but didn't think no happen. I

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to believe you're in a room with John

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<v Speaker 1>Mayer and like you guys didn't do dirty. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's nobody's concerned right now. Yes, you shouldn't even

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<v Speaker 1>be worrying about it. I am on a date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't even matter at that point. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>did he like play guitar for you too? Did he

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<v Speaker 1>do like a one on one thing for you? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know if I want to answer that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even think you seem like really in your feelings

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<v Speaker 1>about this, like, I don't want to Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to depress you in even more. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, Kayla, Like Lucas, these aren't questions you actually

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<v Speaker 1>want the answer to. If you're already feeling this way

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<v Speaker 1>right right, that's kind of what I'm feeling. Like did

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<v Speaker 1>he have really soft hands? Ye? Good? Yes? Is he working?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he working with a six string guitar or a

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<v Speaker 1>twelve string? Maybe he's got a ukulele and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>really good with it. You know, Sometimes it's about the

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<v Speaker 1>music that the instrument makes, not necessarily the instrument itself. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>am I right? Klein? Yes, but I also don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that assumptions need to be made here. But yes, okay, lookies,

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<v Speaker 1>are you hearing her? She is saying you're enough, You're awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>She likes you like you know what. Actually, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know if I think that anymore. It seems like

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<v Speaker 1>he's already moved on and really insecure about himself in

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<v Speaker 1>a way. And I didn't I don't know. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give him any of that impression. And honestly, a real

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<v Speaker 1>man would have just said something to me right then

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<v Speaker 1>and there instead of ghosting me like he did when

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't even know the situation, and it's just making

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<v Speaker 1>an assumption. Yet a real man like John Mayer would

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<v Speaker 1>have said that you would have known the gravity of

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<v Speaker 1>this situation. I that song, I say, I did a

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<v Speaker 1>good song. I mean I think Lucas needs to take

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<v Speaker 1>some time to maybe instead of putting time into dates,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe has some more guitar lessons, because he really seems

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<v Speaker 1>very insecure about his guitar playing. I guess okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she's right, but like also, like, dude, you're didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even you didn't ask me, You just made an assumption. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're in a room with John Mayer. It didn't look

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<v Speaker 1>like anybody was around, Like I know you slept with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Just admit it. Get you know what, I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>anything about what Johnny and I did or didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>John here that I think, Well, hold on, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to ask Lucas would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on one more date with Kayla? No, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't ask him, please, I think I'm done. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my answer like I got the answer, And for what

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<v Speaker 1>it's worth, I'm not taking that picture down, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Not everybody has Johnny's Confidence or Johnny's Guitar moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five