Speaker 1: Bread and butter wines pair with the life moments you love,
Speaker 1: offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauvignon, a silky smooth
Speaker 1: piano now are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter
Speaker 1: wines are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in
Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date updates. We get a lot
Speaker 1: of requests for second date updates, and when we're trying
Speaker 1: to decide who to pick, yeah, that we should call,
Speaker 1: we usually look for something that stands out in the emails.
Speaker 1: Oh for sure. And we recently got a message from
Speaker 1: one woman who says she had two dinners in one.
Speaker 1: So I mean either she got ditched in the middle
Speaker 1: of it, or maybe she's a competitive eater, or she's
Speaker 1: just a hungry girl, Jeffrey, and that is okay, Well,
Speaker 1: let's find out which one it is. Her name's Kayla out,
Speaker 1: Kayla Hill. Guy, I can't wait to hear a first
Speaker 1: dinner or second dinner was better. Well, let's just say
Speaker 1: I think you got it right. I mean, I'm a
Speaker 1: hungry girl for lots of different things, which is different
Speaker 1: than a thirst girl. It is sore and thirsty. But yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So tell us about the guy that you want to
Speaker 1: call today. What's his name? Okay, yeah, so his name
Speaker 1: is Lucas and we met on an app and I'll
Speaker 1: just be totally honest, I thought he was really hot. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of like the basis of all apps, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, yeah, But I mean we chatted on
Speaker 1: the app for a little bit before agreeing to meet up,
Speaker 1: and he seems really cool. Um. He told me how
Speaker 1: much he was just really into like playing guitar, and
Speaker 1: he likes to go rock climbing and things like that,
Speaker 1: and I'm not necessarily into those things, but I would
Speaker 1: definitely like to climb him. I was like, anyway I
Speaker 1: can get him on a date, it would be great.
Speaker 1: Is that what you guys did when you went out? Well? No,
Speaker 1: So we actually went to dinner and it was just
Speaker 1: a terrible experience. He picked the restaurant, and honestly, the
Speaker 1: food was awful, the drinks were bad, the service was horrible.
Speaker 1: So I've actually been cooking a lot recently, and I
Speaker 1: will say I make some pretty amazing food, and in
Speaker 1: my head, I was just like, you know what, this
Speaker 1: is such a terrible experience. I think we should just leave,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to take him back to my place
Speaker 1: and cook him like a really nice it is unless
Speaker 1: he loved that restaurant. He's the one that picked it.
Speaker 1: Did he agree with you? I think he was a
Speaker 1: little shock and taking it back that I kind of
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, luck could just leave, but
Speaker 1: he didn't think like, well this is weird. And honestly,
Speaker 1: I totally made it worth it because he loved the
Speaker 1: dinner that I made him. What was it? I did,
Speaker 1: like this Moroccan style chicken tijeen type this like cook
Speaker 1: cous with look just like run home and whip that
Speaker 1: up real quick. Wife's material, broa wife material. I love
Speaker 1: you lacking food? Oh my god, let me pull out
Speaker 1: my te gene. I mean, honestly, it's really not that hard.
Speaker 1: I make it all the time. It's one of my
Speaker 1: favorite things. And he was really wowed by it. And
Speaker 1: I'm wow, just you saying it. I don't even know
Speaker 1: how to but I don't know what happened, but I
Speaker 1: was actually turned down that night, turned down? How down?
Speaker 1: For what? Turned down? I'm asking the question because it
Speaker 1: begged to be asked right there. I mean, I was
Speaker 1: kind of expecting and sort of hoping that we would
Speaker 1: get down and dirty, and she turned me down. And
Speaker 1: it was so mortifying because I was kind of like
Speaker 1: making it very clear that that was going to be
Speaker 1: sort of the next step. Okay, wait, walk us through
Speaker 1: that moment real quick, like what did you say? What
Speaker 1: did he say? What? I mean, I think that's true
Speaker 1: for most women. Yeah, you're right, this play out. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: it got down to the end of the night and
Speaker 1: I said, you know, I was gonna get into my pj's,
Speaker 1: but it was not something a little more fifty than that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I kind of said, like, well, you want to
Speaker 1: send the night, right, like if you want to send
Speaker 1: the night, and then he just said no, and he
Speaker 1: just abruptly kind of left like that, leaving me like
Speaker 1: I felt so uncomfortable, And let me tell you, I
Speaker 1: not to do my own word or anything. But I've
Speaker 1: never been turned out like that. Yeah, and a lot
Speaker 1: of I mean a lot of people in general don't
Speaker 1: feel comfortable staying over on the first night. I mean,
Speaker 1: you don't know, maybe he just got out of a
Speaker 1: big relationship, a disease, Okay, I mean, I honestly can't
Speaker 1: figure it out. I can't figure out why I wore
Speaker 1: my hottest dress the whole night and then I changed
Speaker 1: into some neg day And I mean, I don't know
Speaker 1: what it could be. I don't know if he didn't
Speaker 1: like the cooking, which I can't really imagine. That's kind
Speaker 1: of what I'm thinking, is that Moroccan chicken. I've never
Speaker 1: had it before, but it sounds like something that would
Speaker 1: be really spicy and kind of heavy. And if he's
Speaker 1: not used to that, maybe he was having a weird
Speaker 1: reaction and didn't feel safe spending the night. You know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but has he called you at all? No, it's been
Speaker 1: radio silent. It's really bad. Yeah, I mean, I think
Speaker 1: there's something else going on there. I mean, maybe you
Speaker 1: came across and I don't mean I think that you
Speaker 1: sound like a confident woman, but maybe you came across
Speaker 1: as like two braggadocious or like, yeah, I just wanted
Speaker 1: us to have a good time. That was really where
Speaker 1: I was coming from, you know, I just I don't
Speaker 1: know if there was another girl. I don't know, he
Speaker 1: didn't like my apartment, Like, was there something in my
Speaker 1: apartment that he saw? You know, men in their interior design.
Speaker 1: I do love though, how like women who aren't used
Speaker 1: to being rejected, they just go through every possible so
Speaker 1: they're like you not like this, and you know like this,
Speaker 1: how's that possible? So let's you know what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: Let's play a song, come back, call Lucas for you,
Speaker 1: and then we'll try and get you a second date. Update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm very curious. How curious? Okay, hold on if you're
Speaker 1: just tuning in for the second eight update, we're on
Speaker 1: the phone with Kayla and Kayla it's pretty much the unicorn.
Speaker 1: You know, she's very attractive, she cooks incredible food, she
Speaker 1: loves guys with guitars. Yeah, well, I mean that makes
Speaker 1: her no different than any other ye She's down to
Speaker 1: do stuff on the first night. I mean, she's the
Speaker 1: perfect woman. It sounds like every other woman out there,
Speaker 1: But I like that. I think what kind of idiot
Speaker 1: would turn that down? Apparently a guy named Lucas would,
Speaker 1: because that's good, Jeffrey, you're in her corner. I am.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why, because after Kayla cooked
Speaker 1: him some homemade Moroccan chicken and slipped into some Negla
Speaker 1: Jane and invited him to stay the night. Lucas apparently
Speaker 1: looked at her and said, no, thanks. I'm Kayla. I
Speaker 1: feel for you here, but look, we have a whole
Speaker 1: text board filled with dude and even some women who
Speaker 1: would love to take you out. If this doesn't work,
Speaker 1: well that would be nice. But I am really curious
Speaker 1: what he has to say. And I mean, I didn't
Speaker 1: really get a sense. Are you really excited about Lucas
Speaker 1: or are you just kind of pissed that he turned
Speaker 1: you down? Oh? No, I had a great time with him,
Speaker 1: and I honestly, if I didn't, I probably would have
Speaker 1: just left the restaurant right then and there, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. All Right, Okay, well, let's call this
Speaker 1: moron and say, okay, I'm sorry. Let's call this a
Speaker 1: nice person and see what he has to say for himself.
Speaker 1: All right, you're ready to do this, Kayla, Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, can I
Speaker 1: speak to Lucas please? Lucas. Hey, Lucas, my name's Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Do you have a something to talk? Well, what is
Speaker 1: this about? This is about a segment we do called
Speaker 1: the second date update. Have you ever heard of that before? Yes? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a good start. Yeah, awesome, Hi Lucas, that's Brooke. Hi,
Speaker 1: Hi Hi. I mean that was the only thing I
Speaker 1: had to I thought you had more. No, you can
Speaker 1: move on. I thought you were going to explain what
Speaker 1: a second date update was. So the way a second
Speaker 1: date update works, you obviously know. But if you go
Speaker 1: out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can email our show and we'll try and figure
Speaker 1: out the reason why. So do you know who I
Speaker 1: might be calling about? I think so. I have an idea, okay,
Speaker 1: but I don't know. Why don't you show me in?
Speaker 1: All right? Well, the woman that emailed us. Her name
Speaker 1: is Kayla. Oh okay, Rocking Chicken Kayla. Yes, it's a
Speaker 1: horrible nickname. It is. It's very sexy. Is it is
Speaker 1: that the woman that you were thinking? Um, I wasn't sure. Actually, hey, okay, Oh,
Speaker 1: he's a man that plays guitar. You know, he has
Speaker 1: a lot of options on dating apps. Absolutely, So here's
Speaker 1: the deal. Kayla told us about your date and going
Speaker 1: out to the restaurant, and then she made some chicken
Speaker 1: for you at her place. And she said that the
Speaker 1: night kind of ended on a strange note. Uh, I
Speaker 1: guess you could say that, well, she's she's not sure
Speaker 1: what went wrong and why you wouldn't want to end
Speaker 1: up staying the night with her, which is totally fine
Speaker 1: if you felt like that was too fast on a
Speaker 1: first date. Like, no judgment here, I think that that
Speaker 1: this is going to judge you, but definitely a little
Speaker 1: bit of judgment. But maybe there's a good explanation. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, it was a it was a weird night.
Speaker 1: We went out to eat and Kila didn't really like
Speaker 1: the food, and uh, is that the problem? Is it
Speaker 1: because you felt like less than a man because she
Speaker 1: didn't like the restaurant? What? That was a big Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to read on at all. I was
Speaker 1: cool with leaving, you know, the food was kind of whack,
Speaker 1: and she ended up taking me to their place and
Speaker 1: making this like amazing meal. You know. Uh yeah, she
Speaker 1: she said she was a good cook, and you love
Speaker 1: the food, right, Yeah, she's an amazing cook. She was great.
Speaker 1: It's that's not how It's just I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: kind of weird, but well, she's really confused Lucas because,
Speaker 1: like you said, she felt like everything was going really
Speaker 1: really well up until the very end of the night,
Speaker 1: and she can't figure out the reason why you would
Speaker 1: turn her down. Here's the thing. I'm hanging out at
Speaker 1: her place and on the wall, she's got all these
Speaker 1: pictures with like John Mayer. She's gotten like fangirl photos
Speaker 1: on the wall like a poster. These aren't like photos
Speaker 1: were like she's at a show and she got like
Speaker 1: a selfie with him or something. You know, Like she's
Speaker 1: like in a room with John Mayer hanging out, you know,
Speaker 1: and I know John Mayer's reputation, you know, like it
Speaker 1: doesn't exactly like pick up dog, more of a cap
Speaker 1: I don't know that we'd do, Zach. But yeah, he's
Speaker 1: good with the ladies, is what you're saying. He's good
Speaker 1: with the ladies. And I'm just saying, if you're in
Speaker 1: a room with John Mayer, like it's probably gone down,
Speaker 1: so who cares. But you've never had I mean, even
Speaker 1: if that is true, Like why would that matter. I mean,
Speaker 1: if her bar is John Mayer high, I mean that's terrifying.
Speaker 1: So you're saying, if she if she would have been
Speaker 1: hanging out with like Chad Kroger from Nickelback. You would
Speaker 1: have been fine with that, but you feel insecure because
Speaker 1: it's John Mayer. Hey, you know what, I could deal
Speaker 1: with Chad. You could deal with Chad, Okay, but that's
Speaker 1: on you, man. She obviously was interested in you. She
Speaker 1: cooked for you, she changed into lingerie for you. Like,
Speaker 1: can't you see that? Those are your own securities? Insecurity insecurities,
Speaker 1: those are the ones. Yeah, but I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: it doesn't change the way that I felt, and my
Speaker 1: entire body will just kind of like not a wonderland
Speaker 1: anic mode, not in wonderland, right. I could see this,
Speaker 1: to be honest, if I knew a girl hooked up
Speaker 1: with like Tom Brady, I'd be like, like like, I'm barely
Speaker 1: throwing football. Let I'm not rich. I would have been like, yeah, now, okay,
Speaker 1: you don't want to get what John Mayer's had. Well,
Speaker 1: we're speculating a lot here. We don't even know if
Speaker 1: anything actually went down with John Mayer. So you know what, Lucas,
Speaker 1: why don't we just pull her up and ask her
Speaker 1: because I need to tell you she's on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you. What what
Speaker 1: are you talking about. That's how the second date works.
Speaker 1: She's been on the other line. I thought you've heard
Speaker 1: these Yeah, okay, yeah she's there man, Kayla, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: Hi am I am I on yep? Yeah, hey okay,
Speaker 1: this is this Hi Lucas, hi. Um. This is the
Speaker 1: last thing I would have ever thought. I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: you got so weirded out by that picture. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's kind of old, it's been there for a little bit.
Speaker 1: I didn't even think about it, honestly. Wait, Kayla, is
Speaker 1: that a picture of your ex John Mayer? I mean no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you guys weren't official, but didn't think no happen. I
Speaker 1: was supposed to believe you're in a room with John
Speaker 1: Mayer and like you guys didn't do dirty. I mean,
Speaker 1: so that's nobody's concerned right now. Yes, you shouldn't even
Speaker 1: be worrying about it. I am on a date with you,
Speaker 1: and it doesn't even matter at that point. You know,
Speaker 1: did he like play guitar for you too? Did he
Speaker 1: do like a one on one thing for you? I
Speaker 1: don't even know if I want to answer that. I
Speaker 1: don't even think you seem like really in your feelings
Speaker 1: about this, like, I don't want to Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: want to depress you in even more. I mean, that's
Speaker 1: the thing, Kayla, Like Lucas, these aren't questions you actually
Speaker 1: want the answer to. If you're already feeling this way
Speaker 1: right right, that's kind of what I'm feeling. Like did
Speaker 1: he have really soft hands? Ye? Good? Yes? Is he working?
Speaker 1: Is he working with a six string guitar or a
Speaker 1: twelve string? Maybe he's got a ukulele and he's just
Speaker 1: really good with it. You know, Sometimes it's about the
Speaker 1: music that the instrument makes, not necessarily the instrument itself. Okay,
Speaker 1: am I right? Klein? Yes, but I also don't think
Speaker 1: that assumptions need to be made here. But yes, okay, lookies,
Speaker 1: are you hearing her? She is saying you're enough, You're awesome.
Speaker 1: She likes you like you know what. Actually, I don't
Speaker 1: really know if I think that anymore. It seems like
Speaker 1: he's already moved on and really insecure about himself in
Speaker 1: a way. And I didn't I don't know. I didn't
Speaker 1: give him any of that impression. And honestly, a real
Speaker 1: man would have just said something to me right then
Speaker 1: and there instead of ghosting me like he did when
Speaker 1: he doesn't even know the situation, and it's just making
Speaker 1: an assumption. Yet a real man like John Mayer would
Speaker 1: have said that you would have known the gravity of
Speaker 1: this situation. I that song, I say, I did a
Speaker 1: good song. I mean I think Lucas needs to take
Speaker 1: some time to maybe instead of putting time into dates,
Speaker 1: maybe has some more guitar lessons, because he really seems
Speaker 1: very insecure about his guitar playing. I guess okay, I
Speaker 1: mean she's right, but like also, like, dude, you're didn't
Speaker 1: even you didn't ask me, You just made an assumption. Right,
Speaker 1: You're in a room with John Mayer. It didn't look
Speaker 1: like anybody was around, Like I know you slept with him.
Speaker 1: Just admit it. Get you know what, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: anything about what Johnny and I did or didn't do
Speaker 1: John here that I think, Well, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 1: we need to ask Lucas would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on one more date with Kayla? No, you know,
Speaker 1: please don't ask him, please, I think I'm done. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my answer like I got the answer, And for what
Speaker 1: it's worth, I'm not taking that picture down, all right.
Speaker 1: Not everybody has Johnny's Confidence or Johnny's Guitar moving ninety
Speaker 1: two point five