1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Buckle up 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here 8 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you for your subject. He 9 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: jumped in feet first. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty 10 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: eight year old woman and I've been having bad luck 11 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: on the dating scene. Finally I met someone and I 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: thought he was great emotionally. He fulfilled my needs and 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: he planned the best date. We formed a bond over 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: the fact that we were both tired of dating and 15 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: being disappointed. After dating for a couple of months, we 16 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: decided to take things to the next level and we 17 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: had sex. It was amazing at first. Then he stopped 18 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: right in the middle of the act and asked me 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: to put my stiletto heels back on. I did it 20 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: and thought it was something new and fun. But as 21 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: we continued to do the do he focused more on 22 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: my feet and my shoes than he did on other 23 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: essential parts of my body. The next time we were intimate, 24 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: he asked me to take off my socks, and then 25 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: he grabbed my foot and interlocked his fingers between my toes. 26 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: The third time we were intimate, he grabbed my foot 27 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: and smacked himself across the face with it. Now that 28 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: freaked me out, and I've never been so mortified, but 29 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. I decided to take a break 30 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: from us having sex, and it was fine with him 31 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: because I soon figured out it was my feet that 32 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: got him aroused, not me. Recently, we were chilling and 33 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: watching TV and he took off He took my socks 34 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: off and started licking the bottom of my feet. I 35 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: tried to pull away, but he had a vice grip hold, 36 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: and I could see that he was very aroused. It 37 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: was time to have the conversation about his foot fetish. 38 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: He admitted that he was very attracted to me when 39 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: we first met, primarily because of my feet and the 40 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: white toenail polish. I told him he was weird, and 41 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: he said he'd get back in counseling if I promise 42 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: not to break up with him. Foot count what should 43 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: I give him a chance to change or break up 44 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: with him. I don't know about this guy. You said 45 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: it it's weird, and it is a foot fetish, and 46 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: I guess the foot fetish is like the most common 47 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: of all the fetishes out there. What he's doing does 48 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: sound freaky and a little bit crazy, especially the part 49 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: about him having a vice grip on your toe and 50 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: you're not being able to get away. That was, you know, 51 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: kind of weird. Um, But I guess it all depends 52 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: on what you're used to, or in this case, what 53 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: you're not used to, and guess what it is okay 54 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: to feel the way you feel. If you don't like 55 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: something or if something is uncomfortable for you and to you, 56 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: then uh, you got to tell him. I mean, you 57 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: got to let him know what you don't like and 58 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: that you don't like this and to stop it immediately 59 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: because it's freaking you out. That's how you explained it 60 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 1: to us in the letter. And I'm sure he's heard 61 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: this before because he you said, he's been in counseling, 62 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: So it was no surprise to him that you know, 63 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: it was a bit much for you. It was no 64 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: surprise he would he would get back into counseling. Um, 65 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: if you promise not to break up with him, So 66 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: you know, you got to decide is this too much 67 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: for you? Is this too freaky for you? It sounds 68 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: like it is. It doesn't sound like you like it 69 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: very much. And it does sound like he's locked in 70 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: on your feet and and it doesn't sound like you're 71 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: interested in that. So if you need to break up 72 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: with him, I mean, that's what you gotta do, because 73 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: it can only get worse from this point. I mean, 74 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: there's no telling what might happen the next time. You know, 75 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: you guys are intimate, So maybe you need to stop 76 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: while you're behind and while you're ahead, because you never 77 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: know what what might happen with this freaky guy. Steve, 78 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: it seems like this is a progressive thing. Yeah, and 79 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I mean by this. You know 80 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: you're twenty eight. Finally met him man. Both of y'all said, 81 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: y'all was tired of dating and wanted to find something real. 82 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: After y'all dated for two months, everything was going y'all 83 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: decided to go to the next level. Okay, to hear way, 84 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: we change. We had sex. It was amazing at first 85 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 1: then he stopped writing the middle of the asked me 86 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: to put on my stiletto. Put my stiletto heels back on. 87 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: I didn't thought it was something new and for I 88 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: ain't got no problem with it. I liked to let him. 89 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: I like toe pointing. I like all that heels up, 90 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: an'tkle holy all that all that is progressive stalls. You know, 91 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: I'm just working through some things with y'all. So you 92 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: put the heels back on. It was good. I wouldn't 93 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: let you take them off. Let's just start right there. 94 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: You wouldn't have had to go get them back home 95 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: because I'd have stopped you from taking them off. That 96 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it's levels to this. And then he 97 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: focused more on your feet and your shoes than the 98 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: rest of your body. Okay, that's what you see. The 99 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: next time we was in emitting that, this one he 100 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: asked me to take off my socks. He grabbed my foot. 101 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: He interlocked his fingers between my toes. Waight up, damn 102 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: minute Nokay, if you care, your big ass hands down, 103 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: tweet each one of my toes. Let me strain something teeth. 104 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: My toes has never been apart before ever, ever they friends. 105 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: They are package. My toes are always touching at all times. 106 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: A lady grabbed my big toe one time, giving me 107 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: a pedoicute, and put her hand, her whole hands on 108 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: my big toe and separated it from the other. Foe couldn't. 109 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: I was hyperventilating. I couldn't even breathe up. So plush, 110 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: you gonna lock your fingers in between my damn toe 111 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: and you got big ass hand. We're gonna break up 112 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: by this. Hold up, hold up, Okay, you're not. We'll 113 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: have for two. See's response coming up at twenty three 114 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. The subject he jumped in feet first. 115 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening, 116 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: I step. Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject 117 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: he jumped in feet first. He well this. Later to 118 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: met this man. They finally started dating and both decided 119 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: they needed something real. He was amazing, the amazing dates 120 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: and everything. After two months, they sided to go to 121 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: the next level. They're having sex, and in the middle 122 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: of it, he stopped to ask her to put these 123 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: toilettos on once again. Nobody got no problem with that. 124 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: That's fun, you know, I like all that too, you know. 125 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: So anyway, then you know what? But she noticed she 126 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,119 Speaker 1: started paying more attention to the shoes and her feet 127 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: than the rest of the body parts. They ain't no problem. 128 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: So they went on the has sex again, because sex 129 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: was amazing, she said. Then they did it again. She 130 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 1: thought it was new and fun, and then he here. 131 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: The next time we were intimate, he asked me to 132 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: take off my sock. Now why he had to ask 133 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: you take your damn socks off? It's beyond me. Don't 134 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: nobody want to make love with your socks off? That 135 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: ain't cute? Okay, So now he got to ask you 136 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: to take your socks off. Don't be country, Now take 137 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: your damn socks. Y'all ain't in the barn or where 138 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: y'all ain't out in the field, in the house, take 139 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: your damn socks off. She was scared. But when she 140 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: did take them socks off, this damn food grabbed her 141 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: foot and interlocked his fingers tween her toes. What boy, 142 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: do you know what the hell would have happened if 143 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: you do that to me? Because, like I said, my 144 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: feet is a buddet package. They've friends, they've never really 145 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: been separated. They've been in gaiters before. They even my sandals. 146 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: My feet still touch. It's no point. Well, I don't 147 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: care if I'm jumping where all my toes spread out 148 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: look like a hand. My feet always look like feet. 149 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: They don't ever opened up. They don't have ability to 150 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: grab stuff, pick up quarters and stuff off the ground. 151 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: Thee ain't mocket feet. I can't hang from a tree 152 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: by my foot, none of that. I can't write with 153 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: my foot. You know people can write with their feet. 154 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: I can't do that, all right, and that kind of 155 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: hurts you. The third time we was into it, the 156 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 1: hiss An, the one that's a little shocking, he grabbed 157 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: my foot and he smacked himself across the face with it. 158 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: That freaked me out. That would have freaked me out too, 159 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: But I bet he wouldn't grab it no more. I 160 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 1: would have kicked his ass so hard with motifoot in 161 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: his face outd have dislocated his damn jaw. I bet 162 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: you won't grab my big guy. I want thirteen. If 163 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: you slap myself, If you slap yourself with this foot 164 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: I got, you're gonna knock your mark ass out about 165 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 1: you take this big ass thirteen and run across your face. 166 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put your ass to sleep. That's what you 167 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: should have did. You should have if you got tired 168 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: of it freaked you out. You should have said, Oh, 169 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: and y'all, bump just kicked him dead in the jaw, 170 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: and you've never been so mortified. But I didn't say anything. 171 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: I decided to take a break from having sex with 172 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: this guy because I figured I was my feet of 173 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 1: more arousement. Well, they was chilling and watching TV. He 174 00:09:56,240 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: took my socks off and started licking the bottom of 175 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: my feet. I'd have seen some fine women. I've never 176 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: met nobody, so damn fun. Well, I'm just licking the bottom. 177 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: Walked into the bathroom and came back in here. I'll 178 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: be damned if I sit up here and run the 179 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: risk of getting pine solid lights all over. I got 180 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: a little tied the bowl on the bottom or your foot, 181 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: so now I'm tripping. Then you tried to pull away, 182 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 1: but he had a vice grip hold, and I could 183 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: see that he was very aroused. Now this is crazy. 184 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: Now he didn't grab your foot so hard you couldn't 185 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: jerk away from it. Oh, this dude got damn problem 186 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: and he arrives. Now he's standing down with your foot 187 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 1: in his hand. It's just a lot going on to 188 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: stay away from that steal. Yes, it was time we 189 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: had a conversation about this foot fetish. He admitted that 190 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: he was very attracted to me when we first met, 191 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 1: primarily because of my feet and white tonail. Pilot need 192 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: to switch that to black immediately. I told him that 193 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: white polos to black immediately, like something on your foot. Yeah, 194 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: maybe he might have a different reaction or something right here. 195 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: You got to get that white off your immediately, because 196 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: he looked at the bottom of your toes and everything. Y'all, y'all, 197 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: I know you thought that french manque was cute, but 198 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: you got to kill that. You gotta go Jezebel red 199 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: or something. You gotta I don't know what you're gonna do. 200 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: You gotta try something. You gotta get white off. I 201 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: told him he was weird, and he said he'd get 202 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: back in counseling if I promise not to break up 203 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: with whoa you don't get back income. So now you're 204 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: asking vendor counsel. This haven't been a problem with the 205 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: pol You're just scared one of them. When it's so bad. 206 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: She didn't have your ass committed, so you had already 207 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: been to counseling. Lady listened to me, if he can 208 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: go to counsel then fix his problem. You might have 209 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: a good relationship, but they didn't have bad. I don't 210 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: know what you need to do. It's I don't know 211 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: what you need to remove your toe nails. I don't 212 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: know what you're gonna have to do. I don't know 213 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: what you got to do to make them. Start making 214 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: them look like they eight feet or something. You know, 215 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: rings on your toes, make them like a hand, Put 216 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: some change around your foot, put some change around your 217 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: foot and make it look like a neck. You gotta 218 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: throw his ass off some kind of with so they 219 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: see their feet. He was here, rabbit ignorant show, all right? 220 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: Coming up next a girl from the Talk Cheryl Underwood, 221 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: and forty six minutes after right after this, you're listening 222 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: to the same Harvey Morning Show.