1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 3: Amanda is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater. 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 3: She's been with her boyfriend named Elliott for two years 5 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 3: now and she thinks that he might be messing around, 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 3: So we'll see if we can help her out. Amanda, Sorry, 7 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 3: you're in this situation, but what's going on? Why do 8 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 3: you think Elliott might be cheating? 9 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? Thank you for having me. 10 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 4: Well, So I want to give a little bit of context. Basically, 11 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 4: this all kind of started because two months ago, my boyfriend, 12 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 4: Elliott decided he wanted to kind of. 13 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: Do something about his weight and just be healthier. 14 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 4: His mom kind of had a health scare recently, so 15 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 4: this kind of prompted a whole new like let's have. 16 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: Longevity in life sort of thing, you know what I mean. 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 4: So he looks into one of those ozepic type shots 18 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 4: and at this point he's been taking it for about 19 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 4: a month and a half, and honestly, I've been so 20 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 4: proud of him and like really trying to take control 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 4: of this hell and like following all the rules for 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 4: the shots and like getting back in the gym and 23 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 4: eating better, like he's doing it like it's been a 24 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 4: huge change, and truthfully, I'm going like totally out of 25 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 4: my way to make sure that he knows he's supported. 26 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 4: But it's just okay, just basically, I'm worried that there's 27 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 4: someone else that is his support system through this. 28 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: What makes you say that? 29 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 4: Well, okay, So since he has been losing weight, he's 30 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 4: also started to become a little bit more cocky and 31 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 4: not like a complete but like definitely catering on the 32 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 4: edge of kind of like confident, flash so lovely, yes, yes, 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 4: and like at times I'm like, oh, it's kind of 34 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 4: cute how pritty he can get, but like I don't know, 35 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 4: just like a whole new wardrobe, like whitening his teeth 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 4: and going to the gym and like kind of wanting 37 00:01:59,280 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 4: to show up. 38 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: But okay, So here's the thing. He's also been. 39 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 4: Posting more on Instagram, and previously I would have to 40 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 4: beg him to take selfies with me, but so like 41 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 4: now he's more confident, right, he's posting more, but none 42 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 4: with me, like at all, even if we do take 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 4: a selfie, he doesn't post any pictures with me, which. 44 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: Is a little bit of a red flag. 45 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 4: But like on a couple of these posts, his ex 46 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 4: comments on them and says things like, oh, someone's looking 47 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 4: hot lately, or there was one time she wrote on 48 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 4: the most recent one, you when you're the like officially 49 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 4: the one that got away. 50 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 5: Or. 51 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: I feel sloppyship. 52 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, Kelly knows full well that he's in a relationship 53 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 4: to a certain extent. I'm comfortable with the fact that 54 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 4: like this is happening only because from the things I've 55 00:02:56,120 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 4: heard and seen of Kelly, his ex, Elliott is definitely 56 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 4: dating up. 57 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: That's kind of all I'll say about that. 58 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 6: Anything to her, though, like on these comments. 59 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: Well so, and that's the thing. 60 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 4: I don't know what kind of dms are between them, 61 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 4: but he definitely liked all of her comments, like thank 62 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 4: you or you know. So. I mentioned this to Elliott, 63 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 4: not in a like jealous girlfriend kind of way, but 64 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 4: just like, oh my gosh, it's crazy Kelly's been commenting 65 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 4: a lot sort of thing. 66 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: And then Elliott got so freaking defensive and was like, you're. 67 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,119 Speaker 4: Being jealous and like it's not a good color on you. 68 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 4: And then he starts going on about his history with 69 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 4: Kelly and that like now he's finally looking how he wanted. 70 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: To look back then and. 71 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 4: Started saying that I'm not being supportive, which is bull 72 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 4: and like it's just it was like a full body 73 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 4: experience for me, and that like something was wrong, like 74 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 4: it felt really wrong. 75 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 7: It does feel super off too, especially because he's engaging 76 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 7: with her on social media. 77 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: He should just be leaving. 78 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, how it is, and then to be so defensive 79 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 7: about it. 80 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: All right, Well, you already told us what a grocery 81 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: store he's a rewards member at. So we'll play a 82 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 3: song come back, and then call him and pretend to 83 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 3: be from the grocery store and say that every single month, 84 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: we choose one random rewards member who gets free flowers 85 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he 86 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 3: sends those. 87 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 6: See you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, 88 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 6: we'll get you to catch. 89 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: A teeter right after this, right in the middle of 90 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 3: to catch a teeter and if you're just joining us. 91 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: Amanda is on the phone and she thinks that her 92 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,559 Speaker 3: boyfriend of two years named Elliott might be messing around. 93 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: So we're about to call him and pretend to be 94 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: from the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at. 95 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 3: And say that every single month, one of our Rewards 96 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: members gets a free gift and it's flowers delivered to 97 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 3: anybody that you want. And we'll see if he believes that, 98 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 3: and if he does, we'll see who he sends him to. 99 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,239 Speaker 3: We'll see if he sends him to his girlfriend, Amanda 100 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 3: or to somebody else. But before we do that, Amanda, 101 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 3: why don't you break down your situation one more time? 102 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 4: Real quick, long story is, my boyfriend's been on a 103 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 4: health journey, lost a lot of weight, been posting a 104 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 4: lot on social media, and his ex is like all 105 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 4: over his posts. And when I brought this up, he 106 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 4: got really defensive and said that I'm not supportive and 107 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 4: I'm jealous and it just feels all really gross and 108 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 4: I just don't want him to like have gone. 109 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 1: Back to her. 110 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 3: Right. 111 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: What's her name again? 112 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: Kelly? 113 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 6: Kelly? Okay, are you ready? Where's the column? 114 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 5: Oh? 115 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 1: I was so ready when I emailed you all, but 116 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,799 Speaker 1: now I'm like feeling nervous. But yes, I'm ready. 117 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 6: We're here, Here we go. Hello. 118 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 3: Hey, this is Corbett calling from I was looking for 119 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 3: our Rewards card member named Ellie. 120 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 6: Of Speaking. 121 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 4: Hi. 122 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,799 Speaker 3: Elliott, Please don't hang up This is not a marketing 123 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 3: phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations. You're 124 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: this month's winner, winner of what maybe you don't know. 125 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member who 126 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 3: gets a free gift from us just for being such 127 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 3: a loyal customer. And this month it's free flowers delivered 128 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,239 Speaker 3: to anybody that you want from our four apartment, absolutely free. 129 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: So you won thirty six longsm red roses, a box 130 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered 131 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: to anybody that you want. 132 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 6: Wow, opregending to Yeah that sounds pretty good. Actually, how awesome. 133 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 3: First thing I will need is the first and last 134 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: name of the person you want to send them to. 135 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: Then we'll get anything on a card, and then the address. 136 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 5: Okay, it's please make it out to Kelly. 137 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 6: And is there anything you want to put on a 138 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 6: card to Kelly? Yeah? 139 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, say you always. 140 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 5: Know how to keep me motivated and something that never changed. 141 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 6: Great. 142 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 3: And at this point I'll let you know this is 143 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: actually a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. 144 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. Hi, I'm Nina Victorian. 145 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 3: And my name is Jubal and we do a segment 146 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 3: called to Catch a Cheater where if you think your 147 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 3: significant other might be messing around, you see who they 148 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 3: send flowers too. And your girlfriend Amanda, who is not Kelly, 149 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: is on the phone and might have some questions for you. 150 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I'll get what the hell is going on? 151 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 6: You don't even know what you mean going about it? 152 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: Were you having on a radio show? 153 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 5: You think I'm cheating on you. 154 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: I one hundred percent know you're cheating on me. 155 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 5: I'm not eating eating on its. It's hard for doing 156 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 5: something nice for my acts. She's been really helpful. She's 157 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 5: been giving me great advice, helping me to lose a 158 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 5: lot of weight and stay in shape. 159 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: I mean she is a trainer. Like, I don't like 160 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: what the problem this is. 161 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 4: Also, this is bull because Kelly is not a trainer, okay, Like, 162 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 4: in fact, one of the reasons Elliott started taking less 163 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 4: and less care of himself is because of Kelly. 164 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: She's a slob and a mess. She is not a trainer. 165 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 6: Is that true, Elliott? 166 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: No, you have no idea. 167 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, she has a license, that doesn't mean she's not 168 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 5: a trainer. And she knows exactly how to keep me motivated, 169 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 5: keep me. I mean, she's great at what she does. 170 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 6: Shouldn't you be getting your motivation from your girlfriend? 171 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 2: Thought the up? 172 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 5: Shouldn't you be minding your own business? 173 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god, not a trainer. 174 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: She's supporting you, has been. 175 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: By your side this entire time. I put up with 176 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: your freaking mood swings when. 177 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 4: You're getting used to these new eating habits, Like I'm 178 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 4: willing to believe all these comments Kelly was putting on 179 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 4: your posts meant nothing to you, okay. 180 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: Like, stop with the bulls, stop lying? How long have 181 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: you been cheating on me for and not cheating on it? Look? 182 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: You you haven't. It's all. You haven't been happy with 183 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: the results. 184 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 5: You say you love the way I look, But beyondest, 185 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 5: you've been mean, Like you've been mean about this whole 186 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 5: weight loss thing. 187 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 188 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 5: It's kind of like living with a drill sergeant, honestly, 189 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 5: like you are you know you're you're not very nice 190 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 5: about it, And I told you right anytimes that, Like, 191 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 5: I don't need you to be haranguing me and harping 192 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 5: on me and nagging me, so yeah, you know a 193 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 5: lot more. 194 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 8: Sorry, Instead of being a respectful adult who's in a 195 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 8: committed relationship and having a conversation with me about that 196 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 8: you decided to go back to your action and cheat 197 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 8: on me. 198 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: We have spent two years together, but that. 199 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 4: Doesn't mean anything, okay, like if you're sleeping with Kelly 200 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 4: or not. Like I can't keep taking this this crap, 201 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 4: like I have done everything in my power to be supportive, 202 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 4: not a drill sergeant like you said, are you cheating? 203 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 2: Elliott? 204 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 5: No, I'm not cheating. 205 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 4: You know what? 206 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: Fine, I SUTs with Kelly. 207 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 6: You know what, all right? 208 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 5: You know she sees a real potential I have and 209 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 5: all you see, like you said, you call me a swab. 210 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 5: You know, I'm figuring it. I'm done and it's over. 211 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 6: He hung up. Amanda. I'm so sorry. 212 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 4: Good Wow, I can't I mean I can't and I 213 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 4: can believe it at the same. 214 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: Time, Like I'm surprised. 215 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 4: He just admitted that, but like obviously, obviously I knew 216 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 4: this and that's why I I'm sorry. 217 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, they were so sloppy about it too, Like that 218 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 7: just was like, in your face, beyond disrespectful exactly, Jewbil 219 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 7: so disrespectful. 220 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 4: Well, he's a freaking monster and it's now Kelly's problem. 221 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: So they deserve each other. 222 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: And you can feel real good about. 223 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 7: When he stops taking that medication, he's gonna gain all 224 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 7: that way right back what he deserves it. 225 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 1: The Jebel shows to catch a cheater.