WEBVTT - Ep94: Role Play, Flewed Out and Blue Checks Feat Sarunas Jackson

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome. Before we start, we do want to

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<v Speaker 1>do some what church announcements is. That's kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>everybody call us, since you'd be wanting everybody want to

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<v Speaker 1>be like you want to be like all the other podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, that's just that's just came from I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even listen to that show. But anyways, y'all, I do

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<v Speaker 1>want to let y'all know we ain't gonna be arguing

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<v Speaker 1>in front of y'all, but we is on a tour.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh we might argue in the green you know. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>we will be in the d m V on January

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<v Speaker 1>the nineteenth. I do want to let you guys know

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<v Speaker 1>we have added a second show because y'all show us

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<v Speaker 1>so much mother fucking love. We sold out in four days,

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<v Speaker 1>so we do have two shows. Yeah, it's definitely no,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not. I don't know. Christmas niggas, can you wait

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<v Speaker 1>till I finished? We could do that in the intro.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn you always sucking shu up. Anyways, after that should

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<v Speaker 1>be announced. Anyways, we will be in Atlanta in February.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just throw that out there. I'm not gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>you all the date yet, but tickets should be up soon.

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<v Speaker 1>We will be in Toronto meet us in the sixth

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch March ninth. Um. I'm hoping Drake comes by. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he's gonna be in town. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try to get the little light skin got got us

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<v Speaker 1>there or whatever, and then we're gonna be in Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>on March thirtieth. We also went ahead and added a

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<v Speaker 1>second show for Chicago because y'all love us in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>Dates for Houston, l A, New York, and we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know we're doing Miami or Orlando yet, apparently because we're

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<v Speaker 1>not doing both. We're doing Miami. I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a thought. Okay, well, well I guess we're gonna do Miami,

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<v Speaker 1>not Orlando. We're working on the rest of those details,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're coming on tour anyways. Guys, welcome to yet

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of Horrible Decisions. Now you can say Merry Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>Off Mary, Christmas, Loving Light. I hope that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>buy your girlfriends, your boyfriends, your love us, your brother's,

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<v Speaker 1>your mother's some Horrible Decisions tickets. Come see us, come

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<v Speaker 1>fly out and see us. People do that ship all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, so stop telling us you ain't coming to

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<v Speaker 1>Detroit or Philly, yeah, or New Wanles. Hope your ass

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<v Speaker 1>on the fight. Not only that real quick, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a high. This is the horribles. You can come by yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>like there's tons of people that be hitting other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Just started a post on Patreon. If you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>any of the shows by yourself, come me a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>jump in the car. Um. I mean, you know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all about the hippies. Shipp you are, I'm not. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>Marry Christmas, y'all. Hose um. I know I'm getting were like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm getting old because I'm My Mom's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want for Christmas? And I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really thinking. I was really thinking, Wait more

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<v Speaker 1>adult than that. I was like, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>really need some new pots and pants, So I bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll ask for Christmas. And now I'm old. As if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are listening to this, I'm currently in Mexico

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<v Speaker 1>with my family. They're probably driving me crazy. They leave

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<v Speaker 1>on the twenties six and then I'm wiling out. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're there too, a lot of people have hit

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<v Speaker 1>me up. I didn't know Mexico was like a thing

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<v Speaker 1>for the holidays, but come kicking me in cancoon to

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<v Speaker 1>loom and ply a the carmen um letang. I love that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you know that's dope. You're just rich.

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<v Speaker 1>I will be wherever someone flies me out because these

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<v Speaker 1>tickets are too expensive. So I'm waiting. I gotta come.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you know my hotel is. That's how expec the

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<v Speaker 1>flight is discussing. So I'm like, people are like, where

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<v Speaker 1>are you going for the holidays? Wherever nigga fly me?

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<v Speaker 1>But you know my niggas be mayor he got kids,

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<v Speaker 1>So I gotta like wait till like the six so

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<v Speaker 1>as I don't know where I'm gonna be. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked one niggerd He was like, I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want some nice shoes. He's like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>when I shoes is. I don't like, fine, get me

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<v Speaker 1>a scar if I want a nice scarf, like an

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<v Speaker 1>expensive sea. We got no, no, no, you what you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna introduced? We was both wilding this week. I

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<v Speaker 1>got drunk and fucking asked scissors to move in with me.

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<v Speaker 1>On Instagram, you posted some niggas. First off, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you bringing this nigga up? First off, let me tell y'all. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell y'all real quick. I am single as

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck. Um. We were on the phone, so I'm bored.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the holidays. I bringing old niggas back to the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Work day, not going in this nineen though. So we

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<v Speaker 1>was on the phone. We was on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you got your holes. He was like, now,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no holes right now, I ain't talking

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<v Speaker 1>to nobody. And I was like, well, shoot, I got

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<v Speaker 1>my holes on lock. So I bet you if I

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<v Speaker 1>post a picture of you right now, your phone gonna

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<v Speaker 1>blow because I'm kind of hot right now. I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lit. And he was like, na, man, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>swear to god, that's what I said. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna post it with no caption. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't mean nothing if don't got a caption. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, fine, I'm gonna put egg plenty Moji

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<v Speaker 1>mine and that's what I did, and I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized after posting that I will never post my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend as as as long as we're doing this show.

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<v Speaker 1>First off, mom gonna hit me up like this is

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<v Speaker 1>how I have to find out. Then then his cousin

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<v Speaker 1>hit me up like, I'm so happy, welcome to the family,

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<v Speaker 1>cousin of law, you know, his cousin. Then then his

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<v Speaker 1>old teammate hit me up like, man, I knew you

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<v Speaker 1>were still working with that nigga. And I'm like, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>his old teammate, yeah, because what it is this? This

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<v Speaker 1>old teammate's Jordan? Because well, I said, but I said

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's name. I said Jordan's name on the podcast plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of times. I even told him he not special enough

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<v Speaker 1>to have a nickname. But then this is the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it's Jordan's first name. Basis, I'm gonna fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is the problem with this podcast, and you

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker's had he been a regular nigga. The fact that

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<v Speaker 1>y'all is this seven? Is this Laurya bay? Is? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this a nigga you pegged? Is this a niggaho? They

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<v Speaker 1>listed like four different niggas and it wasn't him. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>Now I know I did. I can't post my I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have her right. I just posted some pictures of us,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean we we dated years ago, so like

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<v Speaker 1>I figured, people, I didn't even believe that. Why I

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<v Speaker 1>got a head of girlfriend because I still don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you really beating pussy like that, but I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you do. You've seen it. I got sucked up

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and I was like taking videos and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, damn, who can I send this to that

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<v Speaker 1>I would appreciate it? Sharon has got one. Being with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, it was just like you know what it was?

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<v Speaker 1>It was I would never watch porn like girling girl,

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<v Speaker 1>that's me, but real like if I'm like if I

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<v Speaker 1>know you and ship or like you know, like some

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<v Speaker 1>real candy, real life stuff, not a production. I want

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<v Speaker 1>like real grny like you want amateur. Yeah, it's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I just a good one. Well, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just woke to the the girl this weekend in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not gonna lie. The whole time I was

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<v Speaker 1>with her, I was like, where's the dick? Like I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be penetrated so funk back. So she figured

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<v Speaker 1>the UK out of me and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that was cool. Yeah, I was like, damn, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted the three soome I was low key about

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<v Speaker 1>to be like did you ain't on Niggason fight over here?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? But I was like all right, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like two o'clock to me, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is my first time two o'clock in the morning. This

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<v Speaker 1>is my first time. If I get that at two

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock in the morning, we're talking, I'm waking my eyes

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<v Speaker 1>side like oh what okay, back yeah. But then by

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<v Speaker 1>the time he would have came, you know, it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the drunkness would have been gone and she would

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<v Speaker 1>like the looker was done. Let's ensow our guests they

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<v Speaker 1>don't find the voice because they're like, we can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to hear his voice. Oh yeah, okay. By the way, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>his teeth is better in person, So now I know

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't talking about it. There's a lot there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of you know, what's one of the best things

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever heard with your voice? And I think Joe

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<v Speaker 1>buddon podcast was talking about it. It was great. When

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<v Speaker 1>you said, that's what you're not gonna do is bring

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<v Speaker 1>up my wife. I was like, my pussyway, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>what my niggas be saying. Let me stop, let me stop. Anyways, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>we got how do you say your name? Because you've

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<v Speaker 1>got a weirdass name. What are you black? Panamanian. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say, y'all, we got drove from

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<v Speaker 1>insecure up in the building. I feel really bad. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I really don't want to have to like

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<v Speaker 1>say that. I don't care. I was gonna say it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna ask all the questions. You won't. So we

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<v Speaker 1>got the little light skinning it up in the building.

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<v Speaker 1>He bought six eight y'all, so you know, are you circumcised? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Look wait, can we wait? Wait? Wait? Okay, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get into Icebreakers. We started it so before,

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<v Speaker 1>so you we don't know if you've listened to a

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<v Speaker 1>full episode, but basically what we're gonna do is our icebreakers.

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<v Speaker 1>This time it is going to be from comments and

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<v Speaker 1>questions from our listeners. Um, you started replying to some

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram by your damn self, and I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>just one. You don't have to come for that girl's wig.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she came from our teeth. Now she could

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<v Speaker 1>handle that word here, she could change that, and now

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<v Speaker 1>she could cut her hair or whatever. You can change

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<v Speaker 1>takes time real quick. I don't know why you don't

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<v Speaker 1>think changing hair don't take time. I'll be in the

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<v Speaker 1>chair for like five hours when I get what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that? How long do you think? That's? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not every hairstyle. Let's just say if you decide

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<v Speaker 1>to chop it right now after moving forward and just

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<v Speaker 1>take a little trim, faith the size, and you're good.

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<v Speaker 1>You in that chair for about well okay, Well, anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get to icebreakers and she do you want

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to ask him again? Well the circumsctance, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we were gonna share. I'm good because I do not

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<v Speaker 1>like because everybody's asking what your dick looks like? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, you know, it's a good looking dick.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta, I gotta, I gotta. I gotta a beauty

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<v Speaker 1>mark on my shaft. I do, so we know when

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<v Speaker 1>the dick picked licks. We know hair, no nod, I

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<v Speaker 1>trim on shave, I trim girth. That was a big question, girth.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it thick or skinny? I think it's in between,

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<v Speaker 1>osh medium. Alright, alright, So we're gonna get into one

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<v Speaker 1>of the questions that someone asked um and this was

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<v Speaker 1>actually one of the main ones. So do you believe

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<v Speaker 1>in open relationships? The way your character drawing insecure? Does Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I would say yes, because I'm all about

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<v Speaker 1>doing what works for you. So if that's if that's

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<v Speaker 1>not you gotta think, like, because I'm thinking about all

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<v Speaker 1>the women being in my life, I know there would

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<v Speaker 1>be something that would not be down with that at all,

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<v Speaker 1>So I wouldn't do that with them, But then there'd

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<v Speaker 1>be something to be open to that then yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess all in all, yeah, because I'm all

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<v Speaker 1>about doing Would you bring that up as something that

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<v Speaker 1>you never so I've been in one, okay, and I

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<v Speaker 1>never brought up She always tell always tell Fellis, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always works out easier if the woman brings it up,

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<v Speaker 1>it just works out. How did you handle her dating

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<v Speaker 1>other men? I mean, I just don't know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what to be with that specific situation. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>telling of relationships, so we're just trying to hold onto

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<v Speaker 1>something that was gonna end anyways. So like, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to do whatever, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think about like they say, open relationships. Can't say,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think primarily that was the best we ever been,

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you that. And we were on and

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<v Speaker 1>off for years. The best we had ever been because

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, everybody automatically thinks about just sexual

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<v Speaker 1>relations with other people, and for us, what I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>what was better was the vulnerability and how honest and

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<v Speaker 1>open and the communication between it. And I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>communication about everything, but that's what I feel like open

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<v Speaker 1>relationships do. Like when you're when you're willing to be

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<v Speaker 1>vulnerable with someone and let them know your deepest desires,

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<v Speaker 1>like communication is like, but that's also the sexiest thing

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody. So it could have been that's what also

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<v Speaker 1>brought you guys closer, because you didn't felt like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can be my full self absolutely, And then you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like and like when I say like your

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<v Speaker 1>communication improved in all areas, like I'm just talking on

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<v Speaker 1>from things like how we were feeling about certain things

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<v Speaker 1>or things in the house where we were living with

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<v Speaker 1>each other for a little bit, so things, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just from the little things like I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>would just start opening up and all right, well you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I really don't like this whole setup cause we

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, but I wouldn't have necessarily said that

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<v Speaker 1>before we started doing all that. So were you open

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<v Speaker 1>about asking for booty play. Are you into that? That's sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry that was the next question. Yet there was hair

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<v Speaker 1>up in there? Yeah, because so we a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people ask like if you're into like maybe ask like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a finger in the ask maybe more so we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about being done to you. Yet nigga, you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you? Because I'm thinking, like, you know, obviously I

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<v Speaker 1>could do that to ask you there was hair in

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<v Speaker 1>your asshole and you still conde asking you got hair

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<v Speaker 1>up in there? I thought the dick, I thought you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about you need to be more specific. Man, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>your booty hole, yeah, I mean it's it's light and there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I got a little light, but I trim

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Okay, so you trim up your booty hole

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Honestly, it's because it's easier wipe. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even thinking it's just like but not for me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>down with a lot. Don't with my boody, that's I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't like it, no boody, hopefully. So what if

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<v Speaker 1>they what if they just like what if they down

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<v Speaker 1>by the balls and just licking you're jumping or you're

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<v Speaker 1>not jumping. I'm jumping and my ex remember for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years. She was like trying to, like she

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<v Speaker 1>tried for years, like yeah, and I was like no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>so hard about no, I don't like that ship And

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<v Speaker 1>she'sa liked you never tried. I was like, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna like it though I know it. And

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<v Speaker 1>then so we was in the shower and she was like, baby, like,

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<v Speaker 1>just just let me a little bit, but you have

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<v Speaker 1>to now I'm in the shower, your fingers like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was, Oh, I was spreading as this week. You

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<v Speaker 1>just like give me on my back and get him.

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<v Speaker 1>I like the spreading. I spread for me to like

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<v Speaker 1>my spreading. No, I don't like necessarily squeezing, because when

0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you squeeze, that's gonna spread it and it's not gonna

0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:56.599
<v Speaker 1>you know what's really good about the squeeze, And a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't know, so like when squeezing it

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<v Speaker 1>gives you like a lot there's a lot of nerve

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<v Speaker 1>endings that you feel that you don't you completely spread,

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<v Speaker 1>like in your pussy. So if you could squeeze by

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<v Speaker 1>like the pussy opening, pretty gay now, um. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So she tried it in the in the shower and

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<v Speaker 1>when she was in there. Mean, I was like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be a trooper for her for like what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like three seconds in there. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I get out, get out, get out. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>because it was in your mind. It was more so

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<v Speaker 1>your mind. Yeah, you just relax, man. I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>how like it was. No, I don't that it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyable for me. That's what I'm saying. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like after it's kind of like after you bust your

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<v Speaker 1>nut and the girl starts specifically working with your penis head,

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<v Speaker 1>that ship's not fun for me. I pushed a girl off.

0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fun like as you come. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>after an like I understand, you know she's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>like finish it up and everything, and I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>she's going all the way down, but when she's specifically

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on my dickhead. The question that wasn't on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have like a coming routine? Like is there

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<v Speaker 1>something you say? Is there a place you like to come?

0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I let her know I'm about the bus. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>like where are you saying? We know you got a kid? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you know, but um, I guess it just

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<v Speaker 1>depends on the experience what's going on, like in who

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<v Speaker 1>it is and stuff like that. So like if she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't like if she has no booty, not no no booty.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically it's not enjoyable. And I want to ask this

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<v Speaker 1>while we're talking about sex. So I don't think we've

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<v Speaker 1>had a man your heights on our show yet. So

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<v Speaker 1>one of the big questions that we ask as a

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<v Speaker 1>tall man, are there sex positions that you prefer over

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<v Speaker 1>others because of your height? And like what is hard

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<v Speaker 1>for you during sex because of your height? Right? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so uh well, I mean when I'm if I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>sex with a taller woman, like a tall woman, then

0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.960
<v Speaker 1>I basically can do anything. But like, yeah, well I'm talking,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll be walking like six ten and I'm five

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<v Speaker 1>for one, so I don't yeah alright, So now, like

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<v Speaker 1>getting it from the back, I can't necessarily like do

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<v Speaker 1>it when if a girl's on all fours and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on the bed with her on my knees, like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get her from the back, that's difficult. I literally

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<v Speaker 1>have to punch over her with like and get a

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<v Speaker 1>hall for my damn. So so I usually have to

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<v Speaker 1>be because usually like you know, the beds tall, so

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<v Speaker 1>I get off the bed, stand up and then give

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<v Speaker 1>her from from the back. Damn should get a box

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<v Speaker 1>spring bed. I'm probably I have like I have like

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<v Speaker 1>the links. So it's like my bedest calm down beach

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<v Speaker 1>is I gotta hope, hope for a bit. I'm grown,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you, bitch. I got a grown girl bed.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's short, and so I know, I realized. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have a lot of hotel sex, so I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's like, you know, the beds be high what

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<v Speaker 1>they do, so it works out good in the hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>but in my house hotels in my house, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we should take this to the living room because

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta hide bad. I gotta hide. Yeah, so like

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that little ika Japanese bed. Shoot mine is

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<v Speaker 1>in my bad ikey or a Japanese It's just that's

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<v Speaker 1>the Japanese style. Yeah, just like that. I'll tell the

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<v Speaker 1>teller feels like if it's like that, then you just

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<v Speaker 1>you you you go on your knees on the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>put a pillow there and let her be on the

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<v Speaker 1>bed and you can still tall. You know what the

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<v Speaker 1>pillows normally for art woman that if you ever have

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<v Speaker 1>a partner that's like a little bit smaller in size

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to feel more, you need to put

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<v Speaker 1>the pillow underneath you, like right towards the groin, and

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<v Speaker 1>it'll lift your vagina up at an angle to it.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll feel it more. You can do that for I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>from my understanding women, I said that that no matter.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you want a deeper pit period, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying yeah. The only time I've had a pillow

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<v Speaker 1>under me was when I was on my back getting

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<v Speaker 1>anal sex because normally, yeah, a little bit like you're

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<v Speaker 1>not ready for anal sex. We'll be talking. You just

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<v Speaker 1>do the hit, so you still technically do it. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you. Somebody put fingers in my ass recently

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt it for the last two days, Like

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<v Speaker 1>not the last two fingers. I'm usually just thumb finger.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think he like pulled up while he was

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<v Speaker 1>working because I'm walking around and did it go in there?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you working? Inexperienced fingers? It sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>on top. It's not my thing like that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm not really good at it. But then

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<v Speaker 1>once I'm in there, I'm like, oh, shoot, about to

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<v Speaker 1>come on top. Yeah, that's a lot of art. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women don't know how to ride like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not great to cure about it because I don't really know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I work out a lot, and I'm still exhausted

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to be really good, like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be. We feel like when we on top pound daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be a yolar athletic. Yeah, well that's true,

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<v Speaker 1>but are shaking. I'm like, I'm still going your arms

0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.240
<v Speaker 1>shake after a while. Yeah, I mean I finally started

0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.040
<v Speaker 1>riding dick, and but I do, and I think I

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<v Speaker 1>do feelly. Well, I'm not even a lot of so

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<v Speaker 1>I love looking at me. I'm not even I don't

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<v Speaker 1>look in the mirror. I'd just be like, like the mirror,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if there is one, sure, But I mean, yeah, see,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the niggas be looking in the mirror. I

0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:11.399
<v Speaker 1>don't need to look at look at that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>looking at myself. I'm looking at well like I like

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<v Speaker 1>watching the sex, like I feel like I'm watching like

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<v Speaker 1>porn within me. So also, because so we'll go So

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<v Speaker 1>this was probably one of the other most popular questions. Um,

0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:26.119
<v Speaker 1>and we don't ask you because that's what the we do.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had a baby with your costar, so you

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<v Speaker 1>believe in having sex with your coworkers, because that, to

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<v Speaker 1>me is like a bad thing. So how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>She was written off the show by that point? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so she wasn't a coworker. So you she got fired?

0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:45.760
<v Speaker 1>Fire you, Patty? Okay, she was written off, got you okay?

0:18:45.840 --> 0:18:48.560
<v Speaker 1>So then you guys still just maintained a relationship. So

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<v Speaker 1>someone said, did you want to her after looking watching

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<v Speaker 1>her in the scene with Lawrence? Is that what made

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<v Speaker 1>you like? Oh, you know what's funny? I mean, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well the first time I saw that, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what's gonna be on the show yet

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<v Speaker 1>the audition season who wasn't even written yet? Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that, and I mean I was like, damn.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was so invested in the damned storylines and

0:19:07.520 --> 0:19:10.040
<v Speaker 1>characters that I wasn't necessarily looking at the hours let's

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<v Speaker 1>go like, you know, so I wasn't necessary like but

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<v Speaker 1>so but when that came about, when I got the

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<v Speaker 1>road and everything, um, I still wasn't we know what,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, we still wasn't even like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>looking at her thinking like I was gonna bag or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. Um, because we were just friends, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, like the whole time we've been friends, even

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<v Speaker 1>when we just I don't have my niggas have friends.

0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:37.560
<v Speaker 1>My nigs they't have no friends, talk about we just friends,

0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:40.520
<v Speaker 1>just friends and stuff, so you know, and then um,

0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:42.600
<v Speaker 1>we just happened to conceive and stuff. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're still friends now. And I do see that you.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that you're posting the baby. I like that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a good father. Looks like you're really I like

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<v Speaker 1>that you because niggas be hiding the baby. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>even show up for the baby shower. But something, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean something babies looking like girlfriend. I mean I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't the baby shot because it wasn't. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a whole another state, and I wasn't able to go working.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you working? I understand, But no, it does seem

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<v Speaker 1>like you're controversial. I want to bring up Shan Booty.

0:20:08.440 --> 0:20:11.080
<v Speaker 1>What else controversial about her? You said you love raw

0:20:11.160 --> 0:20:13.320
<v Speaker 1>sex on her show. You're like talking about how much

0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:16.159
<v Speaker 1>you loved it, so like I mean everybody does know.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I mean, I wrap. The majority of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying though, like my my main joint or

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<v Speaker 1>like who I'm working with forever for yeah, I'm going,

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<v Speaker 1>oh what, Yes, I love that. I mean yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you made it sound like like like I'm just raw

0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:36.760
<v Speaker 1>thinking no, no, no, no, that's not. But even when

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<v Speaker 1>I read like tweets and men talk about raw sex,

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<v Speaker 1>they act like they don't want to put on the colum,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want to have sex that they have to. Look,

0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I still even enjoy it, like especially when you know,

0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:48.440
<v Speaker 1>forget the nickname, but my nick is called it new beats.

0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:50.800
<v Speaker 1>When it's new beats, like, it's still enjoyable because I

0:20:50.920 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 1>never had or explore this girl before, So I'm put

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<v Speaker 1>on the com of regardless like I don't like, no,

0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:57.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying like, yeah, I guess I should have

0:20:57.760 --> 0:21:07.600
<v Speaker 1>clarify that. Looking back at it didn't at all because

0:21:07.680 --> 0:21:10.359
<v Speaker 1>even like Eve even like having a child, but with her,

0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:12.919
<v Speaker 1>like you know, that was like, no, I didn't mean

0:21:13.359 --> 0:21:16.280
<v Speaker 1>the only time the way you said it just sounded like, well,

0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:18.719
<v Speaker 1>I really like, Um, we're gonna go ahead and segue

0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:21.960
<v Speaker 1>into our vanilla ship. Um, it's something that we actually

0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:23.440
<v Speaker 1>brought up do you want to talk about this show?

0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:24.840
<v Speaker 1>And then we got some questions to you about it

0:21:24.840 --> 0:21:27.200
<v Speaker 1>because it has to do with sex and movie. This

0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:29.680
<v Speaker 1>movie is old and actually I posted it because I

0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:31.000
<v Speaker 1>just I didn't even get to finish it yet, but

0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you already like I didn't like it. So it's called

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<v Speaker 1>love right, um, if you want to look it up

0:21:36.200 --> 0:21:39.320
<v Speaker 1>on Netflix by guests bar No. It has Zoe Prabvit's

0:21:39.320 --> 0:21:41.240
<v Speaker 1>fiance in it, and if you've seen My Braids, obviously

0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:45.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm into Zoe right now. And the movie starts and

0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:48.199
<v Speaker 1>it's two people like touching each other, which I love

0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:50.480
<v Speaker 1>because I love masturbating together. And I was already into it,

0:21:50.760 --> 0:21:56.359
<v Speaker 1>and when I was tired, like I love Yeah. So

0:21:56.520 --> 0:21:59.880
<v Speaker 1>he came writing on this girl's maybe in her mouth

0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:03.640
<v Speaker 1>a hand and she's like, wait, they showed the dick.

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Come you don't understand. So it's the most sexually explicit movie.

0:22:06.600 --> 0:22:10.520
<v Speaker 1>That's everyone on Netflix Somiac. Well, they said it's not

0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 1>as much as Inphomaniac. And then I think Blue is

0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:14.520
<v Speaker 1>the warm Colors, the lesbian one. But he also did

0:22:14.560 --> 0:22:17.159
<v Speaker 1>that one, so I can see it that come on Netflix.

0:22:17.480 --> 0:22:20.639
<v Speaker 1>It's real. It's so I looked it up and I

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:23.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, is this real sex? Like, what's going on? So,

0:22:23.160 --> 0:22:25.680
<v Speaker 1>he says. The guy who made the film says he

0:22:25.800 --> 0:22:29.680
<v Speaker 1>wanted to have real people, not porn actors, create real sex.

0:22:31.080 --> 0:22:34.680
<v Speaker 1>They edited the faces on the porn bodies. He said

0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:38.280
<v Speaker 1>that he um, really yeah, so this was just compained

0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.760
<v Speaker 1>a prosthetic penis and on the train, I heard about that,

0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:42.440
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't know if that was real. He says

0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:45.280
<v Speaker 1>that with Karl Gesman, who's always fiance one of the

0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:48.639
<v Speaker 1>main characters, that he didn't see his dick before, but

0:22:48.720 --> 0:22:50.680
<v Speaker 1>he knew a girl that he fucked and he heard

0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:53.800
<v Speaker 1>he was gifted. It's crazy to even hear this because

0:22:53.960 --> 0:22:57.200
<v Speaker 1>from what I've heard with even really big actors, when

0:22:57.200 --> 0:22:59.159
<v Speaker 1>they have to do maybe when the director wants a

0:22:59.280 --> 0:23:01.920
<v Speaker 1>nude scene or these type of sex scenes, they asked

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:05.480
<v Speaker 1>for more money sometimes to perform these ways. So to

0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:07.920
<v Speaker 1>know that the whole guy to look, yeah, so to

0:23:08.040 --> 0:23:11.719
<v Speaker 1>know that like the whole head and wait, is there

0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:15.879
<v Speaker 1>a pain? He is he black? What is he? I

0:23:15.960 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like he might have a little bit. Yeah, I

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.520
<v Speaker 1>think he's a person, he's a he's a boy of color.

0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:24.720
<v Speaker 1>But the threesome scene, oh, my god, it was so real.

0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I was so turned on. I said it to scissors.

0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you always gonna so I want to

0:23:28.760 --> 0:23:30.760
<v Speaker 1>ask you then? Um, and this is why I like,

0:23:30.800 --> 0:23:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a great segway to even like

0:23:32.680 --> 0:23:36.280
<v Speaker 1>ask you because someone asked on our Instagram, how awkward

0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:38.560
<v Speaker 1>is it acting like you're having sex on Insecure when

0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you're not? Oh, man, like have you got to do

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:46.880
<v Speaker 1>multiple scenes? Right? Someone that is as like, I didn't

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:49.960
<v Speaker 1>know Ivan doesn't curse and personal life or anything like that.

0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Who is so look he's laying Oh yeah, I guess not. Yeah,

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:56.359
<v Speaker 1>she's substitute word sometimes once mighty but usually no. But

0:23:56.400 --> 0:23:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean she's a version of her life. So that

0:23:57.960 --> 0:24:00.399
<v Speaker 1>whole comedy show. I went to see it like nothing,

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 1>And I didn't realize that until we were sitting at

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:05.160
<v Speaker 1>the table talking about it. Um, but like if someone

0:24:05.240 --> 0:24:08.080
<v Speaker 1>so que unquote Vanilla, I guess and how is that? Yeah?

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:10.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, it was crazy about it. She was the

0:24:10.040 --> 0:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>one that had to come from me about that because

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I've never done it, and she has a whole season

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:15.600
<v Speaker 1>under her belt, you know what I'm saying, So, like,

0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, getting my TV Cherry Pop version was interesting

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was just like, actually, um die one of

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 1>our one of our costumes designers. She or she's in

0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:31.840
<v Speaker 1>the roldrobe department. She was the one that made me

0:24:31.880 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 1>feel real comfortable, cause I was like nervous. I was like, man,

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:36.200
<v Speaker 1>because like you're cool. You think you're cool with it,

0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:38.879
<v Speaker 1>and then the day comes and I'm going on my

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:42.359
<v Speaker 1>trailing as see from my wardrobe is a robe and

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 1>a cock sock, right, yeah, you know, so that's what

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:47.280
<v Speaker 1>you have to put over the stuff and not just

0:24:47.359 --> 0:24:49.199
<v Speaker 1>you gotta put your balls in it too, and then

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>you tighten it up. It's like it's kind of like

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you know what those little sacks like where the sunglass? Yeah,

0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:57.760
<v Speaker 1>so you type that gives you like, you know, you

0:24:57.800 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>could tighten it. And then um so did you feel

0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:03.879
<v Speaker 1>like insecure? Like it made you look too small? I

0:25:03.960 --> 0:25:06.159
<v Speaker 1>mean that's what I was going to ask. Did you

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:10.119
<v Speaker 1>get hard? We'll get to all that hold on. So

0:25:10.400 --> 0:25:14.440
<v Speaker 1>um um she the lady I was in the wardrobe department,

0:25:14.520 --> 0:25:17.280
<v Speaker 1>she was like, um she, I was sitting down. She

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:19.320
<v Speaker 1>was like, look over there and she points over. So

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Ivan Ivan was like talking to some of the writers

0:25:21.280 --> 0:25:23.520
<v Speaker 1>or like the hair people, and She's like you know whatever,

0:25:23.600 --> 0:25:26.359
<v Speaker 1>being normal and laughing or something, and she was like,

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 1>are you see how comfortable and cool she is? And

0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I was like yeah. She was like and she's a version.

0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:34.480
<v Speaker 1>She's like, you do this in her life, right in

0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:37.720
<v Speaker 1>real life. And then it was like, you know, you

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:39.480
<v Speaker 1>know how she is, Like if this was like something

0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:43.600
<v Speaker 1>that uncomfortable, she would be like, no, okay, cool, Yeah,

0:25:43.600 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>you're right, you're right. So that made me feel a

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 1>little better. I also talked to some of the fellas

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:50.480
<v Speaker 1>like j in the line um and got some of

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.280
<v Speaker 1>their like, you know, advice on it. And you know,

0:25:52.440 --> 0:25:54.399
<v Speaker 1>there was just one thing where like because there is

0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:57.239
<v Speaker 1>this thing when you're doing in the studio, like when

0:25:57.280 --> 0:25:59.640
<v Speaker 1>you take off that road, there is a vulnerable like breeze,

0:25:59.680 --> 0:26:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I just at your cheeks people, what you got, your

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:08.879
<v Speaker 1>camera operators, you're sounding deep and director. It depends on

0:26:08.960 --> 0:26:11.960
<v Speaker 1>it varies per set because I mean, because if I'm sucking,

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:14.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm watching that, if I'm Will Smith or George Clote,

0:26:14.680 --> 0:26:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I could be like, only want one person in here,

0:26:16.080 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 1>and that's gonna happen. But so give me a couple

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:27.119
<v Speaker 1>of years. But so now, but so they have they

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:29.080
<v Speaker 1>close a set down they'll shut down the monitors and

0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 1>other department, other sections and just half theirs depending on

0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>who it is and um and and then they'll have

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 1>who whoever is absolutely necessary for the scenes to work

0:26:38.920 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 1>in there. Um And that was fine, but I'll tell

0:26:42.040 --> 0:26:43.840
<v Speaker 1>you what, even like, I'm doing a new show right

0:26:43.880 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>now and I had a sex scene in there, and

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 1>it was even more. I was more nervous doing that

0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 1>because it was as close as you could get, like

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean we both because Evan, when we're

0:26:55.520 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 1>doing it, she's not naked, she's covered up. You know,

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:00.280
<v Speaker 1>it's I'm the one, so like that's one thing. But

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:02.880
<v Speaker 1>when we both are naked, like the girl, like there's

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:04.600
<v Speaker 1>this thing like for the for the pussy they just

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:07.359
<v Speaker 1>have like this strip, you know, and then just for

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:09.080
<v Speaker 1>the nipples that cover up. Like so, I mean she's

0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 1>naked in front of me, I'm naked, and then like

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:14.679
<v Speaker 1>there's a certain position we're doing. I was just like, man,

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:17.159
<v Speaker 1>this is graphic. I was like, wow, all right. So

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I was nervous doing that because it's one thing, like

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:22.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, because there's one part where she kind of

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>has to start like you know, going down on me,

0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm standing up, so before we cut to the bed,

0:27:27.920 --> 0:27:30.399
<v Speaker 1>she's like right here, and then she's like kissing on me,

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 1>kissing down and she's like gonna go down on me,

0:27:32.840 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 1>and obviously it cuts, but like they stop it. But

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>like when she did that, I just remember one, particularly

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:41.159
<v Speaker 1>the last one. Actually she started going down and I

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 1>looked up and I looked right into the eyes of

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:47.359
<v Speaker 1>the sound guy and he was just like I was like, man,

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 1>this is weird. Like when people be like you almost

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>got hard and then just like, well, like nothing, I

0:27:54.080 --> 0:27:56.159
<v Speaker 1>even almost got hard. It's just like I'm experienced, so

0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:57.720
<v Speaker 1>it's not like I'm gonna get hard so easy like that,

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:02.680
<v Speaker 1>but like right, like the sexual attention, like when you

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:05.800
<v Speaker 1>know you're working with someone attractive and like finally to

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:07.720
<v Speaker 1>see them like that, That's what I was thinking about.

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:09.200
<v Speaker 1>That's why I thought you would get trying on. You

0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 1>would think, so she's beautiful, but how like that's like okay,

0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>that's like you know, let's just say right now with

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:16.639
<v Speaker 1>okay boom, we're about to shoot this right now, right,

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:18.399
<v Speaker 1>But then we got these niggers looking at us, and

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:19.840
<v Speaker 1>then we've got some other people here in the corner.

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>Like audiences aren't even gonna hold just be down for

0:28:22.240 --> 0:28:29.679
<v Speaker 1>that ship will be how many times have you seen them? Now?

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:32.120
<v Speaker 1>It would be weird, right, No, bitch, I'll be asking

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 1>all my friends to watch people that's your friends. But

0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about like a chubby bearded white guy. You

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. Like, it's not necessarily audience. You

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:41.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted have been the sex clubs too, though, And I

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 1>ain't like everybody. I like everybody in that bit. I

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I can still watch it, but that's

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>a sex club. That's my greatest fear about when we

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 1>take that sex trip. Like I'm like, like I have sex,

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm sucking nigga dick on the beach right in front

0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>of everybody. Does Like, no, I could do the beach sitting,

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>but like, don't put me in. So I've been there,

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 1>there's canopies, there's um oh, I've been there before. Yeah,

0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>so this will this will be fun. But I went

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:10.360
<v Speaker 1>with my home girls last time. I didn't go. What

0:29:10.440 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 1>a dude? So mind you the dude that I want

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 1>to bring, I'm just I'm waiting. I'm waiting because I'm

0:29:15.120 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>like Nick, if I have a boyfriend by then, you

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:20.800
<v Speaker 1>can't come anymore. Right, So I've been telling scissors right

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>because she's like I don't really want to suck some

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 1>random dude. I'm like, cool, we're gonna bring the Dickt's cool.

0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>So the only thing is like I'm wondering, like are

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 1>we all somebody else? What were well? And that's the thing,

0:29:33.080 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 1>like don't we like like do we like have to

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:38.120
<v Speaker 1>like time it out? We all three in one room

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 1>where we be like, yo, I'm bringing this bitch back,

0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:41.200
<v Speaker 1>like are you in or you're not? Like? Well, see,

0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 1>this can actually lead into our kink of the week

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 1>because I have a way that maybe I can help

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you guys with this um um. So kink of the

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Week is sexual roleplay. It also goes with you are

0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>a actor. Hello, So I thought it just made sense bitch,

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 1>fuck you because I know that's not a cheesy hole.

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 1>This is very actually, this is very common. I don't

0:30:03.440 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>know if we've done this before, but I want to

0:30:04.800 --> 0:30:07.080
<v Speaker 1>get into it. So, sexual role play is role play

0:30:07.120 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 1>or more people who act out roles in a sexual

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 1>fantasy and maybe a form of for play and be

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual for play as a

0:30:17.960 --> 0:30:20.480
<v Speaker 1>means of overcoming sexual inhibition. So if you're nervous, I

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 1>already know. So it may take place in the real

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 1>world or via an Internet forum, chat room, video game,

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:30.240
<v Speaker 1>or email, allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interest

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>to be enacted. So real quick, we propone to get

0:30:33.880 --> 0:30:45.760
<v Speaker 1>a day. Wait, you want to be a pedophile? Okay?

0:30:45.800 --> 0:30:48.160
<v Speaker 1>So here, So I wanted to give some examples before

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:51.760
<v Speaker 1>we get into our role playing fantasies. So um, here's

0:30:51.760 --> 0:30:53.640
<v Speaker 1>six examples for any of you who are interested in

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 1>role playing with your partners. So you have good cop,

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 1>really good coup. So this is you're waiting in the

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>blankets here gation room with a couple of really bad

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:04.240
<v Speaker 1>coffee when who walks in but the sexiest detective on

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>the force. But you'll never talk no matter what his

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>copper has up this sleep and then you get into it.

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:12.560
<v Speaker 1>This one. So this role play, right, that's this is

0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:16.280
<v Speaker 1>why people ship. This role play scenario has power dynamics,

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 1>some coercent and manipulation. Another one is a fun ride,

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 1>so you could be a hitchhiker getting picked up. That

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 1>one you picked somebody and she's like ok. You know,

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 1>and then you gotta start with roll hey road, Hey

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:43.280
<v Speaker 1>got that point of a good day? You know, family

0:31:43.440 --> 0:31:46.960
<v Speaker 1>l a reference, right, it was real until I was

0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:52.280
<v Speaker 1>recently like the real place in the car with Erica.

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.160
<v Speaker 1>We were just talking about her. That played an insecure

0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>to shout out to Erica Dickerson and Church Bay. I'm like,

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 1>bitch like the name. So another one, this is actually

0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:09.440
<v Speaker 1>one I've had a fantasy of. So teacher and pupil.

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna I used to love the motherfucking basketball

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 1>coaches bitch well clearly, but they would have pe teachers

0:32:16.600 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>soon and now if you wouldn't know, they made man

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>bitch ye right, I didn't even go right in private school?

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 1>Please thirty five? I think he said high in private school. Okay,

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 1>they might make six figures? Is that Marty day one?

0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:36.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'm sure probably even like like the big

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 1>schools that they are good with basketball, like Okaill and Ship. Yeah,

0:32:43.480 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>don't act ever, trist a girl. I know what is

0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:57.440
<v Speaker 1>ever Hooper? Every season? What the is that? Yo? Chill? Chill?

0:32:58.360 --> 0:33:01.280
<v Speaker 1>So I used to have a sport It's blog first off,

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:13.840
<v Speaker 1>credentialed media with the NBA for two seasons. Yes, let's us. Also,

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:15.720
<v Speaker 1>I was a very very huge growing up. I was

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>a very huge Mellow fan. So yeah, yeah, so I

0:33:18.960 --> 0:33:22.320
<v Speaker 1>mean it just makes sense. And then seriously I had

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I did, and I had a Syracuse jersey. I was

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 1>in love with him. Um. So another one is the

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Boston assistant. Of course, go figure French maid. I could

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 1>see what he's doing that I don't know, you clean,

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:36.360
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna be down submissive ships. I could see him

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:42.680
<v Speaker 1>the maid helt finish it. And I a lot at

0:33:43.320 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 1>another one doctors and nurses. I think that's basic. Um.

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>And then this one, I really like expecting a package

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>home delivery bitch the home. Yes, so I put this

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>in a lot of ports that I watched. It's the plumber.

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather be. I'd rather have it could be the

0:33:57.880 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>it could be right. So I was gonna go the

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 1>handymail the plumber or direct TV Nigga who ficky fixy okay,

0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 1>will WiFi day WiFi. So this leaves this leads me

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>into asking you. First off, I'm curious has anyone yet

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:19.440
<v Speaker 1>asked you to be drove from insecure in the bedroom.

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean I've had requests. What do you seriously, but

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:25.839
<v Speaker 1>not in my real life, not in your real life

0:34:26.160 --> 0:34:28.080
<v Speaker 1>on Twitter. And I feel like, first of all, for

0:34:28.160 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 1>someone to ask that, I mean, they don't have to

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:31.759
<v Speaker 1>be someone that doesn't know me at all, because I

0:34:31.800 --> 0:34:33.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like if you know me and to ask that

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna lie, maybe drove better than you, maybe dropped

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:42.920
<v Speaker 1>out a more swagging, And I mean, you'll be real

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>confident on the show nigger. You might have not had

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 1>that confident that married Nigga and it's like, oh, you're

0:34:48.520 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna suck me while your wife is like because you know,

0:34:52.760 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>what's the wife daving Candice. So I want to ask you, guys.

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I guess this is where we'll get into. So if

0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 1>you could have a role fantasy, what would your ideal

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 1>role place scenario be. Guess we'll start with the guys. Well,

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:10.279
<v Speaker 1>we know you're someone for sure, babysitter. They come home

0:35:10.440 --> 0:35:13.399
<v Speaker 1>and like mom and dad, yeah yeah, and like even

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:15.320
<v Speaker 1>though there's no kid in the house, because I'm already

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:16.920
<v Speaker 1>really thinking I'm gonna do especially when you get to

0:35:16.920 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>a sex because they got theme nights they do oh yeah,

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:24.359
<v Speaker 1>so there's toga night, there's lingerie night, there's like he's

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>already like, oh my god, you're gonna wear the school

0:35:25.960 --> 0:35:28.400
<v Speaker 1>girls skirt. I'm like down, but babysitter even like fun

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.600
<v Speaker 1>really quiet because I love to have to be quiet

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:35.160
<v Speaker 1>where there's like a hand okay, and then I kind

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>of want the dad to suck me first and then

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.960
<v Speaker 1>like them in and it's like, oh my god, I'm sorry,

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I have to eat. I have an awful one. So

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:48.080
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go to you. Mine is awful? What is it? No?

0:35:48.160 --> 0:35:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Because mine really bad? Go lie like so and I'm

0:35:51.960 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>not gonna say the name of the person, but I

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:58.120
<v Speaker 1>have like this fantasy of being sucked by a guy

0:35:58.200 --> 0:36:00.759
<v Speaker 1>and his dad, like a fine dad, this is not

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:05.439
<v Speaker 1>you said yeah, but you didn't. We can role play

0:36:05.680 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>like maybe you got an older friend. I don't know,

0:36:07.920 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 1>but like your daddy nigga older friends like nine years

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:15.560
<v Speaker 1>older than him. I think, don't have baby the time,

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:19.920
<v Speaker 1>y'all suit out spark brothers or something. I mean, I've

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 1>done that, but like step step they were step they

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:27.160
<v Speaker 1>were the same dad. They didn't have the same she

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:34.080
<v Speaker 1>was like basically friends death not real brothers. Um so

0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:36.200
<v Speaker 1>that would be kind of mine, Like I would want

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.279
<v Speaker 1>to kind of like, you know, be on some ship

0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:39.719
<v Speaker 1>like that. I don't know, maybe we're all playing cards

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:41.560
<v Speaker 1>or something that's I'm not gonna lie to you. I

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:43.600
<v Speaker 1>literally just sat here with the porns that we had

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 1>on n A K about how disgusting the fucking incess

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 1>porn was. And that really is that it's absolutely into

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 1>step brothers, like a dad and the son. That's like

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 1>mother daughter. Oh is mother? Oh it is? But they

0:36:57.239 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>got the same. But you gotta ask me like a

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, if if a mother and daughter and

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 1>they both was bad as he and they both wanted

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:07.960
<v Speaker 1>to me, I'm not caring about thinking of that story.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 1>Remember he sucked a mother and he did podcast and

0:37:11.719 --> 0:37:14.320
<v Speaker 1>this guy told us a story. Shout out to Premium.

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:17.319
<v Speaker 1>Pete heard that story and yeah, so so we went

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:20.920
<v Speaker 1>back to you now, Joe, Um, sorry, what is your

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:25.319
<v Speaker 1>fancy because I mean I've done, I've done like I've

0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>done some of these stuff. Share share maybe an experience

0:37:28.719 --> 0:37:30.320
<v Speaker 1>of when you role played. I would like to hear that,

0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>UM I did one like okay, well some start. I

0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:37.040
<v Speaker 1>mean the first time I did it was like something

0:37:37.080 --> 0:37:39.279
<v Speaker 1>easy to cut, like use my way into it. It

0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:42.560
<v Speaker 1>was like going to um this girl was was going

0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:44.680
<v Speaker 1>to a party that she invited me to, but then

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:46.399
<v Speaker 1>like the whole thing was to act like we didn't

0:37:46.400 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 1>know each other at all, and like what she actually

0:37:50.000 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 1>went with. A dude was trying to funk with her,

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:55.960
<v Speaker 1>but it's to his expense, like she was, like she

0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:57.840
<v Speaker 1>went with him, but like the hope it was to

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 1>feed into the whole thing of me that's from here.

0:38:02.040 --> 0:38:05.239
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I always say. If I ever have

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:08.440
<v Speaker 1>a threesome with two men, it's mainly because I want

0:38:08.440 --> 0:38:10.320
<v Speaker 1>to have my man there and then like float with

0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 1>the bartender or some ship haven't sucked me, and then

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 1>get punished fucked because I was bad. Yeah, that sounds

0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:16.880
<v Speaker 1>but that's not necessarily trained. That's like a train with

0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:21.239
<v Speaker 1>a transfer. You feeling train that I'm sad. It's not

0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:24.080
<v Speaker 1>a police just like you know you gotta you gotta

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:26.800
<v Speaker 1>get off, and you know what we don't have No no, no, no,

0:38:26.960 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 1>I do agree, no no no, but I do agree.

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:31.320
<v Speaker 1>If you're just letting one funk you, then you the

0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:35.240
<v Speaker 1>next person. That's a train like maybe because when everyone's together,

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>well to me, well train is one two at the

0:38:38.160 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 1>same time, right, No, that's a threesome. You guys, are

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:41.640
<v Speaker 1>you guys are one of those you guysn't like that

0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>or one of those you're not gonna asking, I'm asking

0:38:46.600 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>you replaces. If two women was like we ran a

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>train on Sharona's, I'd be like, they show fucking did

0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 1>What the fun is? Like, oh my god, we have

0:38:56.120 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 1>got three to everything. Neative they show did? They showed it,

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 1>but the women, but you would the one with the

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 1>least amount of clothes on in here? How the fun

0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>you are? Anyways, we're gonna go ahead down, We're going

0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:17.720
<v Speaker 1>to get into anything. But I will say though, anything

0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:19.399
<v Speaker 1>that has to do in a profession sending or desk

0:39:19.480 --> 0:39:21.799
<v Speaker 1>for some reason, that's like the whole like I always said,

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 1>like the teacher thing or like a corporate type of thing,

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 1>like where it's like a like a meeting or I

0:39:27.160 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 1>gotta go like talking to you. I don't know, I

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 1>haven't like like yeah, absolutely so it's like even stuff

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:36.839
<v Speaker 1>like that, or like now that I'm an actor, I'm

0:39:36.880 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>like but not like no, not that I'm like that

0:39:41.440 --> 0:39:44.320
<v Speaker 1>I would do this, Not that I would do this

0:39:44.360 --> 0:39:47.600
<v Speaker 1>because I'm extremely professional, but like I would for show

0:39:47.719 --> 0:39:50.320
<v Speaker 1>fucking my trailer if like I was reckless if I

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>wasn't asked, profession are you allowed to invite girls on

0:39:52.640 --> 0:39:55.000
<v Speaker 1>set at all? I mean you care, But I'm just like,

0:39:55.880 --> 0:39:57.759
<v Speaker 1>like I said, I'm a professional, so I wouldn't know,

0:39:58.040 --> 0:39:59.800
<v Speaker 1>but not I wouldn't want to invite. It'd be like

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:02.440
<v Speaker 1>it would be the fantasy is like to play this

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 1>out is like you know, like like another somebody on

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 1>the set. And then even if even if it's a

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:12.719
<v Speaker 1>girl that's like you know, doing like you know, camera

0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 1>work or something like that, or like the sound chick

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.319
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, Like even if it's like that, and then

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:18.640
<v Speaker 1>there's this thing where you know, we're kind of signaling

0:40:18.680 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>it and go to the trailer. I wished me and

0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:22.359
<v Speaker 1>my work husband were sexually attracted to each other, because

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:24.560
<v Speaker 1>that would work so great. I can tell you this

0:40:24.719 --> 0:40:27.440
<v Speaker 1>studio right now where a Gotham podcast studio. By the way,

0:40:27.480 --> 0:40:30.399
<v Speaker 1>all the bathroom I looked around. There's no cameras over there,

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:33.600
<v Speaker 1>and I always thought about sucking in that bathroom, but

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 1>like there's no Yeah, you know, maybe that's a hint.

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>Can kill me? And wait, so like you, I'm telling you.

0:40:51.080 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 1>When I tell you, I tell you you're in a relationship.

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw the post. Okay, all right, there's rules, there's rules.

0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:05.879
<v Speaker 1>What are these rules? If she's niggas, She's like, she's

0:41:06.000 --> 0:41:09.439
<v Speaker 1>letting you two niggas exactly, and and what and what else?

0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 1>What's the main thing I said that makes you in

0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>a relationship and she can't with another baby? Holo, hold on,

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 1>hold on. This is a very pivotal moment for her

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and I because, like I said, we dated years ago,

0:41:20.640 --> 0:41:23.400
<v Speaker 1>right and like ground, this might be a little different now.

0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Like she's never had a threesome. I'm not saying I've

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:28.879
<v Speaker 1>had a million of them, but so write a lot,

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot. I love three I feel like you're

0:41:33.600 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>the most connected to people like that, Like three sions

0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 1>are sacred to me. Bro, Like I love that ship.

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:40.960
<v Speaker 1>I would not waste my time sucking like some dude

0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:43.520
<v Speaker 1>just because he's cute, Like if we're we go, Yeah,

0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:46.759
<v Speaker 1>I like I like three stones. It's weird. It's like

0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I like Threeesons, but I don't. But like I only

0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:51.800
<v Speaker 1>like the thing, Like you're gonna bring a bit I

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:54.320
<v Speaker 1>get so dry, Like, don't ask me, like I just

0:41:54.400 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 1>wanted to kind of happen. Thank you for saying that.

0:41:57.320 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll try to tell him I might look like it's

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:02.680
<v Speaker 1>always best when you're not as a man, not forcing

0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:06.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta let don't even bring it up, be the

0:42:06.280 --> 0:42:08.239
<v Speaker 1>fucking passenger, and then when it's time to go, be

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:12.520
<v Speaker 1>the captain. But that's the thing, Well, these niggas know

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:14.480
<v Speaker 1>that I'm into women, so I think that that's why

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:18.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh yeah, you like women, so yeah, like that.

0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 1>But my thing is, i'd rather like, instead of being

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:22.239
<v Speaker 1>so direct, I'd rather allude to ship like you know,

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:25.359
<v Speaker 1>or like you know, I knew, like I remember talking

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:27.880
<v Speaker 1>to this one check. I knew she she was more

0:42:27.960 --> 0:42:29.680
<v Speaker 1>gay than she was. Sure, I'll tell you that much, like,

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.440
<v Speaker 1>like literally it would only be me ever so often

0:42:32.640 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 1>if she was feeling like in that mood, she'd be

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 1>like bad she was like, um, yeah, she's ever so

0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 1>often she hit me up for that. But like I

0:42:40.040 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>might just be like, um, what do you think about

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.280
<v Speaker 1>this girl? Whatever? You know, if I'm just on Instagram

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:45.839
<v Speaker 1>or something like that, or she'll talk about girl fine,

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.319
<v Speaker 1>I hate, and then we'll start kind of talking about chicks,

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:50.319
<v Speaker 1>and then it kind of will go into like when

0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:53.080
<v Speaker 1>she sucked her, would we fuck her? You know what

0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying happening is great because we never did that.

0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 1>I would talk about before and she was get super jealous.

0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 1>So right now I sent her a dude that I

0:43:00.320 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 1>fucked and she's like, h he you like yeah, you

0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:08.719
<v Speaker 1>And now we're working like that. So like I've sent

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>her to and I'm like, listen, he's gonna be our

0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:16.120
<v Speaker 1>threesome possibilities. Okay, both the niggas don't live here, so

0:43:16.160 --> 0:43:18.879
<v Speaker 1>we're pretty much does she So I gotta like pray

0:43:18.960 --> 0:43:20.680
<v Speaker 1>to God that they're both on a plane at the

0:43:20.719 --> 0:43:22.880
<v Speaker 1>same time coming to New York. There's a lot of work, bro.

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:25.920
<v Speaker 1>That sounds that sounds too, too complicated, but but I

0:43:25.960 --> 0:43:28.479
<v Speaker 1>don't want to waste my time. Just actually, why don't

0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:30.359
<v Speaker 1>you just that nigga better have bread if he's getting

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 1>a threesome, tellers, that's fly. Both y'all holds out. Put

0:43:33.040 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 1>y'all up nice since you just hand out threesoms, bitch,

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:39.760
<v Speaker 1>get a trip out of it. It's not you out beach,

0:43:39.840 --> 0:43:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I got pussy and at out. You know, she gotta

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:45.440
<v Speaker 1>a paper. We gotta warm her up. You know she

0:43:45.520 --> 0:43:47.200
<v Speaker 1>had up for drinks and then I'll tell you a

0:43:47.239 --> 0:43:49.520
<v Speaker 1>free trip. Always warm a bit up. I used to

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 1>get home. Listen, my nigg is gonna flies out. You

0:43:53.560 --> 0:43:56.400
<v Speaker 1>can get room service girl, whatever you want. Baby, I

0:43:56.440 --> 0:43:59.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know what is it about me, like unless like you,

0:44:00.400 --> 0:44:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is about me, but for

0:44:02.040 --> 0:44:06.160
<v Speaker 1>some reason, I'm like, I just feel disrespected. If like

0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I gotta like fly bitch out because he's full of himself,

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, bitch, you gotta like because me. I know,

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:17.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm a with a girl who has something to lose,

0:44:17.440 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 1>who's doing well for herself, right, you know, trying to

0:44:20.880 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 1>take off good for you. Now, here's what I do.

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I would go half if I'm if I'm the one like,

0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:32.959
<v Speaker 1>hold on half, you're splitting flights on age bo. Yeah,

0:44:33.280 --> 0:44:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm up. Yeah, well I'm flashed too, bitch. If you

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:38.759
<v Speaker 1>want me to fly you out, you're gonna get soft

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:40.840
<v Speaker 1>dick then because I'm not, don't turn me on. I'm like,

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.120
<v Speaker 1>why do I gotta you know why? I'll tell you why.

0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:45.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't like I don't like this like the way

0:44:45.800 --> 0:44:50.359
<v Speaker 1>that's like the way now to me, like it's such

0:44:50.400 --> 0:44:54.600
<v Speaker 1>a like it's such a nasty ass rapper type fucking

0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 1>with these weak but just type ship. Like to me,

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>that's what it's for. Like, to me, if you want

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:00.320
<v Speaker 1>to fun with me, cool, because my thing is this,

0:45:00.440 --> 0:45:02.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm always going around, right, I'm always going to place.

0:45:02.840 --> 0:45:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm always going whatever. It's like, if you want to come,

0:45:05.200 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're the one pressing it, I'm like, would I

0:45:10.040 --> 0:45:14.040
<v Speaker 1>fly you out? The girl lives in I don't know, Minneapolis,

0:45:14.200 --> 0:45:16.920
<v Speaker 1>you live in l A. If she lived in l A,

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:19.000
<v Speaker 1>you would have taken her on some dates right before

0:45:19.080 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 1>you sucked her. You would have taken her out. You

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:24.759
<v Speaker 1>would have been chivalrous. Uh, probably, who knows. I don't know.

0:45:25.160 --> 0:45:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I definitely have had sex plenty of times without having

0:45:28.280 --> 0:45:30.839
<v Speaker 1>But like I'm just saying, like I don't really see

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:32.680
<v Speaker 1>what's I don't know. To me, I'm not gonna lie

0:45:32.880 --> 0:45:35.919
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to me with booking flights. The only

0:45:36.320 --> 0:45:39.480
<v Speaker 1>the only way I'm either booking my own flight or

0:45:39.560 --> 0:45:46.640
<v Speaker 1>considering going half is I'm with that person. Like that's it, okay.

0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:48.680
<v Speaker 1>But see that different to me, I don't want to

0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:53.920
<v Speaker 1>give I don't want to give relationship benefits. Let me no,

0:45:54.040 --> 0:45:56.840
<v Speaker 1>let me finish, because to me, a relationship in that

0:45:57.040 --> 0:46:00.759
<v Speaker 1>sense is like like it's an investment. I like I'm

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:03.640
<v Speaker 1>investing into this relationship. Yeah, but no, I see I

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:05.880
<v Speaker 1>think obviously I'm not just I'm not flying myself to

0:46:05.960 --> 0:46:07.920
<v Speaker 1>just go get dick. Do you know how fucking how

0:46:08.000 --> 0:46:11.440
<v Speaker 1>much dick there is available? Why I'm a nig We're

0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:12.880
<v Speaker 1>not You're not just gonna get We're gonna do some

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:15.440
<v Speaker 1>fun ship so you know, I'll pay for that stuff

0:46:15.480 --> 0:46:17.360
<v Speaker 1>once you here, but I'm not gonna fly you friendship.

0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:23.040
<v Speaker 1>But here's what I'm saying. What are you talking about, nigga.

0:46:23.120 --> 0:46:30.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm hooked up nigga, so anywayn and soda for free.

0:46:30.840 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>And what I'm saying, here's what I'm saying Here, I say,

0:46:32.960 --> 0:46:34.960
<v Speaker 1>I gotta really funk with you to put money to it,

0:46:35.040 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Like I really fun with you. That's fine, But I

0:46:36.920 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 1>don't want to give like for a girl like you know,

0:46:39.280 --> 0:46:41.160
<v Speaker 1>if you're just gonna come out, we know what it

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>is like whatever, Like, I'm not about to give you

0:46:43.560 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 1>some relationship type benefits, you know what I'm saying, Like

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:48.960
<v Speaker 1>if you're just like a random chick like on some

0:46:49.040 --> 0:46:50.880
<v Speaker 1>ship like that. And on top of that, girls are

0:46:50.960 --> 0:46:53.640
<v Speaker 1>so fucking whack these days with these the cloud chasing

0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 1>screenshots exposing Niggs. I'm not about to give you nothing

0:46:56.560 --> 0:46:57.880
<v Speaker 1>for you to be like that's why you flew me

0:46:57.880 --> 0:47:00.040
<v Speaker 1>out and blah blah blah, bitch, no you're not. Do

0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:01.840
<v Speaker 1>you feel like flying a girl, I'll make you more

0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:05.560
<v Speaker 1>obligated to her time, that's the only thing. Yeah, if out,

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:09.600
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like like to me, well, also, also, here's

0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:11.080
<v Speaker 1>what I'm thinking. If I'm flying he out, she's most

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.200
<v Speaker 1>likely staying with me. That's what I'm thinking. I don't

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:18.279
<v Speaker 1>own doing her own things. I paid for my own flight.

0:47:18.360 --> 0:47:19.880
<v Speaker 1>I thought you were going to say if I'm not

0:47:19.960 --> 0:47:22.760
<v Speaker 1>staying with you because to me, but the dude flies

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:25.839
<v Speaker 1>me out, I'm with him. But but well that too.

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:27.719
<v Speaker 1>But this is my problem to like. I don't know,

0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:29.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's the ego thing, but when I fly my

0:47:29.800 --> 0:47:32.920
<v Speaker 1>like for all that, every time I go on a trip,

0:47:33.320 --> 0:47:36.359
<v Speaker 1>like say Atlanta or Chicago or any of these cities

0:47:36.400 --> 0:47:39.279
<v Speaker 1>that I've been too recently, fucking Baltimore, Like, any time

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I fly myself out and nigga's hit me, I'm like,

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:44.279
<v Speaker 1>you ain't bring me here, fuck you, And I don't

0:47:44.280 --> 0:47:46.440
<v Speaker 1>feel obligated to meet up with no nigga, no, no, no,

0:47:46.800 --> 0:47:49.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, pussy, none of that, because I'm here on

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:50.799
<v Speaker 1>my own time. I'm gonna move on my own time.

0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 1>And then I feel like, wait, you didn't you didn't go.

0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:56.520
<v Speaker 1>But to me, I feel like you didn't go out

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 1>of your way to bring me to see you didn't

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:01.000
<v Speaker 1>go out of your way to bring yourself to me. Therefore,

0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 1>just because I'm in your city, I don't believe in

0:48:03.200 --> 0:48:06.520
<v Speaker 1>that whole I'm in town. What's up? Like? No, No,

0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't you do. I don't like ya, niggas like

0:48:12.880 --> 0:48:15.959
<v Speaker 1>enjoy the city. Enjoy the city, niggas. I feel guilt

0:48:16.239 --> 0:48:20.839
<v Speaker 1>because al right, anyway, let's go. We're gonna get into

0:48:20.840 --> 0:48:22.960
<v Speaker 1>the horrible decision because while we're actually talking about this,

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it actually to our horrible decisions. So, um, I like

0:48:26.320 --> 0:48:29.920
<v Speaker 1>the title of it. It's called blue checked boxes because

0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:32.920
<v Speaker 1>he's out a blue check on what uh So it's

0:48:32.920 --> 0:48:35.400
<v Speaker 1>called blue check boxes. So I wanted to talk about

0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.879
<v Speaker 1>the check boxes we have in our mind in terms

0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:42.520
<v Speaker 1>of dating. So, like, for me, I know, I like

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:44.920
<v Speaker 1>tall men, so they have to be tall, they have

0:48:45.000 --> 0:48:47.840
<v Speaker 1>to have X amount of money they make. I'm getting

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:50.000
<v Speaker 1>weary on the kid thing right now, just because I'm

0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 1>getting older. But so there's certain things that when we

0:48:52.840 --> 0:48:55.280
<v Speaker 1>date we sit here and say this is a deal breaker,

0:48:55.440 --> 0:48:57.279
<v Speaker 1>this is what I want. So I wanted to talk

0:48:57.320 --> 0:49:00.600
<v Speaker 1>about how many of the check boxes does someone have

0:49:00.719 --> 0:49:02.440
<v Speaker 1>to have for you to make them your girlfriend? Are

0:49:02.440 --> 0:49:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you their boyfriend? And then kind of what are the

0:49:04.960 --> 0:49:08.279
<v Speaker 1>deal breakers? And you making someone not your boyfriend or

0:49:08.320 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend feel so guilty when you say kids, I think

0:49:11.680 --> 0:49:14.399
<v Speaker 1>I can't deal with a woman with kids A woman, Yeah,

0:49:14.560 --> 0:49:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I could either. I feel really guilty

0:49:17.680 --> 0:49:19.680
<v Speaker 1>to say it. I really do, because my friend for

0:49:19.719 --> 0:49:24.680
<v Speaker 1>a long time, obviously until the timing, like it's hard.

0:49:25.160 --> 0:49:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Dudes with kids generally don't have an old time bullshit.

0:49:30.200 --> 0:49:32.480
<v Speaker 1>So my my thing is I'm getting older now I don't.

0:49:32.520 --> 0:49:34.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you have them five days a week,

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 1>as long as it's two where we can kick it fine.

0:49:36.840 --> 0:49:38.960
<v Speaker 1>But with women you're saying they don't have them, like

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like dating a mother it's a lot more

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:50.319
<v Speaker 1>strenuous something I would because like you can out wet,

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you have to really commit to that ship. So it

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:55.440
<v Speaker 1>would be. And I think the reason people straight from

0:49:55.480 --> 0:49:58.680
<v Speaker 1>that is because or even men, I know that if

0:49:58.719 --> 0:50:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I started dating a woman with kids, it's like if

0:50:00.600 --> 0:50:02.479
<v Speaker 1>I start caring about you, then I have to fully

0:50:02.560 --> 0:50:05.480
<v Speaker 1>invest in that kids. I'm telling you you got to

0:50:05.480 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 1>wait for mommy time for you to get anything. Yeah,

0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:11.160
<v Speaker 1>but with a man, I feel like without a child,

0:50:11.320 --> 0:50:13.080
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, you're good. I don't care if I'm telling

0:50:13.080 --> 0:50:15.719
<v Speaker 1>you afford whatever. But I know, like I know like

0:50:15.800 --> 0:50:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Ale who basically have like they go like Thursday to Thursday. Yeah,

0:50:19.480 --> 0:50:22.680
<v Speaker 1>there's different. Different. I was about to say I was

0:50:22.760 --> 0:50:25.040
<v Speaker 1>dating a guy who had like his kids like three

0:50:25.120 --> 0:50:28.560
<v Speaker 1>days a week, and to me, like, I'm not gonna lie,

0:50:28.640 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 1>like this is probably why I don't want kids. I'm

0:50:31.280 --> 0:50:35.359
<v Speaker 1>such a selfish person, so I like, I'm not gonna lie.

0:50:35.440 --> 0:50:38.640
<v Speaker 1>So to me also with dating, like I want someone

0:50:38.719 --> 0:50:41.560
<v Speaker 1>invested in me. And in real life, if you if

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:44.040
<v Speaker 1>you have children, I feel like now I'm maybe the

0:50:44.160 --> 0:50:46.399
<v Speaker 1>third or fourth woman in your life because you're gonna

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:48.200
<v Speaker 1>have your kids before me. Your mom is going to

0:50:48.280 --> 0:50:50.200
<v Speaker 1>be before me, and I'm not gonna lie. In more

0:50:50.280 --> 0:50:53.320
<v Speaker 1>times than not, the baby mom does like kind of

0:50:53.920 --> 0:50:56.440
<v Speaker 1>in a lot of situations, maybe not all because a

0:50:56.480 --> 0:50:59.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of niggas, but that is the mother of their child,

0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:01.719
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of men go back to their baby

0:51:01.800 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 1>moms for whatever connection that they have, and so with

0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:07.640
<v Speaker 1>me with dating men with kids, it's more so like

0:51:07.760 --> 0:51:09.680
<v Speaker 1>damn I have to sit here. No, I'm never going

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:12.160
<v Speaker 1>to be number one. I can never be number one,

0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I mean that's kind of success relationships Serena

0:51:15.560 --> 0:51:18.080
<v Speaker 1>and Alan, like they have a blended family. They don't

0:51:18.080 --> 0:51:19.400
<v Speaker 1>have kids to get there for they're gonna get a

0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:21.920
<v Speaker 1>ten years. I mean, well there are there are there

0:51:21.960 --> 0:51:25.120
<v Speaker 1>are blended families that do work. No, there's not. There's

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:26.920
<v Speaker 1>not Like I don't know, I haven't said that. I

0:51:26.960 --> 0:51:29.399
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen success with at least my male friends with kids,

0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:32.359
<v Speaker 1>like they love their girls. Like I mean, a real

0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:34.279
<v Speaker 1>man is going to make it work between the two

0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:35.840
<v Speaker 1>of you. I a dude, but a kid, and he

0:51:35.880 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>made it very What I say about that, like I

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 1>never understood the whole, Like, like you know, there's always

0:51:42.480 --> 0:51:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it seems like to be this priority list, right obviously

0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Zen that's my daughter's name for the ones who don't

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 1>know that. But Zen is going to be of course,

0:51:52.440 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But at the same time,

0:51:54.600 --> 0:51:57.000
<v Speaker 1>the woman I'm in love with is also going to

0:51:57.160 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 1>be very It's just different range of course, Like my

0:52:00.600 --> 0:52:02.080
<v Speaker 1>mother is going to be up high to as well,

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be like, oh that's before like I'm

0:52:04.560 --> 0:52:07.160
<v Speaker 1>never gonna have this you versus that that's never because

0:52:07.160 --> 0:52:08.799
<v Speaker 1>to me, you create that in a sense when you're

0:52:08.800 --> 0:52:10.640
<v Speaker 1>always like, well, you know, you get an argument here,

0:52:10.640 --> 0:52:12.719
<v Speaker 1>your nigg is like, you're never gonna be come before

0:52:12.760 --> 0:52:15.799
<v Speaker 1>my mama, before my daughter. And that's what I'm saying.

0:52:15.840 --> 0:52:17.279
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of men will will do that. And

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:19.560
<v Speaker 1>that's where I feel like it's not even women doing that.

0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:21.799
<v Speaker 1>But when you get into arguments, those are the things

0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:25.000
<v Speaker 1>that come up. Or say a mother doesn't like the

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:27.560
<v Speaker 1>girl you're dating, then that becomes a power guy. And

0:52:28.000 --> 0:52:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a funk about that. Say I'm a

0:52:29.360 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 1>grown man, so my mom could be like my mom

0:52:31.800 --> 0:52:34.319
<v Speaker 1>y no no no no no no no the mother

0:52:34.960 --> 0:52:36.719
<v Speaker 1>man that's not a man with a kid, no no, no,

0:52:36.840 --> 0:52:39.680
<v Speaker 1>no no no. But said she's saying she relationship that

0:52:39.760 --> 0:52:41.480
<v Speaker 1>holds weight. Yeah, Like if mom says I don't like,

0:52:41.560 --> 0:52:43.440
<v Speaker 1>then the guy kind of gets some guys do me.

0:52:43.480 --> 0:52:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't give a funk. I would like, okay, mom,

0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:57.080
<v Speaker 1>yeah no, I'm just Jesus, why then are you going right?

0:52:57.680 --> 0:52:59.920
<v Speaker 1>So okay, So it looks like we would all be down,

0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:02.360
<v Speaker 1>like we're okay, if you have kids, it's not a

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:04.279
<v Speaker 1>deal breaker. So I want to ask you if I

0:53:04.400 --> 0:53:06.440
<v Speaker 1>dated to do with a kid and it got real serious,

0:53:06.560 --> 0:53:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I may not have a kid if they don't want

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:10.759
<v Speaker 1>one like that, that's my thing. I don't want kids.

0:53:10.840 --> 0:53:12.840
<v Speaker 1>So now that's why I feel like I'm more accepting

0:53:12.880 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 1>of men who have them, because I don't want to

0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:16.719
<v Speaker 1>sit here and say I don't want kids and then

0:53:16.760 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 1>tell him I ain't gonna have no kids with you.

0:53:18.840 --> 0:53:21.200
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of times men who have kids already

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:23.319
<v Speaker 1>they've reached the point where they're like, well, I really

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:26.279
<v Speaker 1>don't want anyone. At first I thought I wanted my

0:53:26.360 --> 0:53:28.400
<v Speaker 1>own baby. Now I realized I just enjoy having a

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.120
<v Speaker 1>kid in my life, whether it's a close friend. I

0:53:30.160 --> 0:53:34.439
<v Speaker 1>don't want a dog. I don't want to do you okay,

0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:39.400
<v Speaker 1>we'll go. You're like, I can do this. This one's adorable.

0:53:41.360 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 1>So what are deal breakers for you and dating? Well,

0:53:44.320 --> 0:53:50.319
<v Speaker 1>as far as I checking, um, I'm very spiritually led

0:53:50.520 --> 0:53:53.360
<v Speaker 1>in a way, so like I'm always just drawn to

0:53:53.440 --> 0:53:56.320
<v Speaker 1>a certain type of energy, and sometimes I like I

0:53:56.360 --> 0:53:59.200
<v Speaker 1>don't necessarily have the words to say what that necessarily is.

0:53:59.320 --> 0:54:01.120
<v Speaker 1>But I do know like the way I am, I've

0:54:01.120 --> 0:54:04.120
<v Speaker 1>worked on myself, you know, and I tracked a certain

0:54:04.160 --> 0:54:05.680
<v Speaker 1>type of people, and I just know I get along

0:54:05.719 --> 0:54:08.160
<v Speaker 1>with everybody I tracked in my life at this point. Um,

0:54:08.880 --> 0:54:11.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not necessarily everybody I meet, I'm cool because I'll

0:54:11.600 --> 0:54:13.319
<v Speaker 1>read them and I'm like, I'm not for me right,

0:54:13.840 --> 0:54:16.960
<v Speaker 1>But like, so I do like spiritually drawn women. I'm

0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:19.840
<v Speaker 1>not honestly okay, so I'm not religious, So like a

0:54:20.040 --> 0:54:24.399
<v Speaker 1>girl that's like mad religious, because we're gonna we're gonna

0:54:24.400 --> 0:54:26.719
<v Speaker 1>just we're gonna disconnect and just have so many disagreements.

0:54:27.080 --> 0:54:29.680
<v Speaker 1>God's first on someone's like God in a bio. I

0:54:29.800 --> 0:54:31.600
<v Speaker 1>freak out. I'm not gonna lie. I was just with

0:54:31.680 --> 0:54:37.759
<v Speaker 1>a guy. He took me out on Saturday. Like, but

0:54:37.800 --> 0:54:40.239
<v Speaker 1>it's also weird because it's not like it's not in

0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:41.759
<v Speaker 1>my life. So like I just went out with this

0:54:41.840 --> 0:54:43.600
<v Speaker 1>guy on Saturday, and the only reason I went back

0:54:43.600 --> 0:54:45.239
<v Speaker 1>to his house because I was throwing up. You gotta

0:54:45.239 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>be so fucking drunk. It was so bad. So we

0:54:47.239 --> 0:54:48.879
<v Speaker 1>ended up like I slept with him, but we didn't

0:54:48.920 --> 0:54:51.920
<v Speaker 1>do anything. I was I was ship faced. Woke up

0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 1>the next morning. He was getting dressed and I was like,

0:54:55.640 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 1>it's Sunday, find you, but it was like it was

0:54:59.719 --> 0:55:02.520
<v Speaker 1>alread like ten forty five. So I'm like he's like, oh,

0:55:02.600 --> 0:55:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I can make the eleven o'clock service. And I was like, oh, well,

0:55:06.080 --> 0:55:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go home and go back to sleep. And

0:55:08.160 --> 0:55:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I was just like I felt like this, probably you're

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:15.920
<v Speaker 1>really about to get up and go to church. And

0:55:16.440 --> 0:55:18.120
<v Speaker 1>I think it's not so much about the guy talk,

0:55:18.200 --> 0:55:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I could talk about God or a high energy

0:55:19.719 --> 0:55:22.680
<v Speaker 1>all the type. It's like specific energy Jesus or like

0:55:22.800 --> 0:55:25.120
<v Speaker 1>when they it's like specifically because you know that that's

0:55:25.120 --> 0:55:28.120
<v Speaker 1>a specific thing, like the tithing and the money. I'll

0:55:28.120 --> 0:55:30.040
<v Speaker 1>tell you this. All of the friends that I have

0:55:30.160 --> 0:55:32.520
<v Speaker 1>in my life right now, Like I just realized I

0:55:32.600 --> 0:55:34.840
<v Speaker 1>was drunk on a plane yesterday. My friends were texting

0:55:34.880 --> 0:55:37.400
<v Speaker 1>me love you or goodbye or whatever. Any friend that

0:55:37.480 --> 0:55:39.399
<v Speaker 1>calls me says that when they hang up, any friend

0:55:39.480 --> 0:55:42.600
<v Speaker 1>hugs me, touches my face like they show me they

0:55:42.680 --> 0:55:44.640
<v Speaker 1>care about me and they're affectionate. When I meet men

0:55:44.880 --> 0:55:47.360
<v Speaker 1>like my friends, total turn off for me because I

0:55:47.440 --> 0:55:50.359
<v Speaker 1>know that they're also passionate people. And that's really all

0:55:50.400 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 1>it is, and that's that could be an energy thing too,

0:55:52.280 --> 0:55:54.319
<v Speaker 1>right when you're on that same frequency, Like that's really

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:56.040
<v Speaker 1>what it is, and it doesn't take you a long

0:55:56.120 --> 0:55:58.320
<v Speaker 1>time to even notice when you meet someone. For me,

0:55:58.400 --> 0:56:01.399
<v Speaker 1>it's that first interaction, like I feel like I've been

0:56:02.280 --> 0:56:05.160
<v Speaker 1>blessed with like an intuition and a self awareness where

0:56:05.200 --> 0:56:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I could kind of just like I know, like I

0:56:07.520 --> 0:56:09.399
<v Speaker 1>haven't been wrong so far in this past couple of years,

0:56:09.400 --> 0:56:11.239
<v Speaker 1>like when I'm like, okay, I can continue on in

0:56:11.320 --> 0:56:14.440
<v Speaker 1>my life with a connectional communication with this person, and

0:56:14.520 --> 0:56:16.320
<v Speaker 1>so far, like none of them are disappointed me or

0:56:16.320 --> 0:56:18.560
<v Speaker 1>anything I've been. I've been blessed with a big dig radar.

0:56:18.680 --> 0:56:20.359
<v Speaker 1>So I would like to I would like to think

0:56:20.400 --> 0:56:23.200
<v Speaker 1>that's a blessing in itself. But I really don't have problems.

0:56:24.400 --> 0:56:27.359
<v Speaker 1>But I know people will me good, okay, nice, all right.

0:56:27.719 --> 0:56:30.200
<v Speaker 1>So I wanted I wanted to ask you guys now

0:56:30.800 --> 0:56:33.120
<v Speaker 1>with these preferences, maybe because y'all know I got a

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:35.000
<v Speaker 1>hype preference, which I know, we got fifteen we got

0:56:35.040 --> 0:56:37.400
<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes and it will do what I got this.

0:56:38.520 --> 0:56:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I know you think, you know this. This is what

0:56:40.520 --> 0:56:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I do, Thank you very much. What then do you

0:56:42.160 --> 0:56:44.359
<v Speaker 1>think I'm just saying I got this. I've already been

0:56:44.400 --> 0:56:47.640
<v Speaker 1>checking her alt I mean should know, but I got this.

0:56:47.719 --> 0:56:49.319
<v Speaker 1>We'll do thirty minutes. I got this, So we got

0:56:49.360 --> 0:56:59.120
<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes left. So I wanted you all of all

0:56:59.200 --> 0:57:03.239
<v Speaker 1>of the time. Special we fight on this episode with

0:57:03.320 --> 0:57:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you even really weird? Um, So I guess this is

0:57:07.719 --> 0:57:09.719
<v Speaker 1>a question that was asked by a listener before we

0:57:09.800 --> 0:57:16.720
<v Speaker 1>wrap up the horrible decision I was getting there. Um,

0:57:17.000 --> 0:57:19.680
<v Speaker 1>what happens when someone doesn't check the boxes for a

0:57:19.760 --> 0:57:23.000
<v Speaker 1>relationship but you still want them around? How do you

0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:26.080
<v Speaker 1>handle casual sex with someone who wants more? So it's

0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:29.160
<v Speaker 1>a two part questions. So you have someone that doesn't

0:57:29.160 --> 0:57:32.080
<v Speaker 1>necessarily check the boxes of a relationship, but you still

0:57:32.120 --> 0:57:35.200
<v Speaker 1>want that person around. Okay, but like, so but does

0:57:35.240 --> 0:57:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that are they talking about? Does a person want a

0:57:37.240 --> 0:57:40.840
<v Speaker 1>relationship still? So that's where the second part comes from,

0:57:41.120 --> 0:57:47.640
<v Speaker 1>when yes, So, what happens when someone doesn't check the

0:57:47.720 --> 0:57:49.880
<v Speaker 1>boxes for a relationship but you still want to be

0:57:49.960 --> 0:57:52.280
<v Speaker 1>around them? Around them? And what? So, Like, I'm not

0:57:52.320 --> 0:57:54.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie, there's people who I like to funck who

0:57:54.560 --> 0:57:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I probably would never see myself being with. So the

0:58:00.280 --> 0:58:02.000
<v Speaker 1>the sex part is that the first part first? And

0:58:02.120 --> 0:58:03.760
<v Speaker 1>then so I would say the first part is in,

0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:06.120
<v Speaker 1>then you just continue on like that. If as long

0:58:06.120 --> 0:58:08.240
<v Speaker 1>as you're honest about don't take no choice away from somebody,

0:58:08.360 --> 0:58:11.680
<v Speaker 1>then just continue on like that. If that's not okay

0:58:11.760 --> 0:58:14.360
<v Speaker 1>with the other person, then you just gotta get out

0:58:14.400 --> 0:58:16.960
<v Speaker 1>your selfish ways and let that person do them. So

0:58:17.240 --> 0:58:18.920
<v Speaker 1>that's where the second part comes in, because I'm not

0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:21.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. I feel like this isn't something that's often communicated,

0:58:22.120 --> 0:58:24.040
<v Speaker 1>like a guy will sit here and still be and

0:58:24.360 --> 0:58:28.080
<v Speaker 1>maybe give a boyfriend experience or you're maybe now fucking raw,

0:58:28.480 --> 0:58:30.320
<v Speaker 1>but you don't want to be with that person. So

0:58:30.480 --> 0:58:32.240
<v Speaker 1>the second part, and this is actually one of the

0:58:32.320 --> 0:58:35.000
<v Speaker 1>questions from Instagram, how do you handle casual sex with

0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:37.920
<v Speaker 1>someone who wants more? So now you're maybe in this

0:58:38.040 --> 0:58:41.200
<v Speaker 1>situation right, Okay, you're shaking your head. So how does

0:58:41.240 --> 0:58:42.880
<v Speaker 1>that work? Cause I'm sure you've you've been like we've

0:58:42.920 --> 0:58:46.040
<v Speaker 1>been sucking three minutes more. No, this is this is

0:58:46.160 --> 0:58:48.240
<v Speaker 1>just um from the thing. We got one one homel

0:58:48.360 --> 0:58:52.880
<v Speaker 1>that's it. I've been. I've been there, So to do that,

0:58:53.080 --> 0:58:58.520
<v Speaker 1>to be honest, um, you don't continue that because in

0:58:58.640 --> 0:59:02.600
<v Speaker 1>my selfish ways in the past, I had continued it,

0:59:02.800 --> 0:59:05.560
<v Speaker 1>and I kind of it was like, even though I

0:59:05.760 --> 0:59:09.560
<v Speaker 1>was verbally because Nigga's we shamefully do this a lot,

0:59:09.640 --> 0:59:14.360
<v Speaker 1>I was verbally telling her what I meant, but my

0:59:14.520 --> 0:59:17.440
<v Speaker 1>actions weren't always being the same as that, Right, So

0:59:18.320 --> 0:59:20.760
<v Speaker 1>I was bullshit and in a way where like I

0:59:20.880 --> 0:59:22.520
<v Speaker 1>was kind of dangling the carrot in front of her,

0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:24.479
<v Speaker 1>like we like to call it. So I was dangling

0:59:24.560 --> 0:59:27.600
<v Speaker 1>the care in front of her to continue the sexual relationship,

0:59:27.840 --> 0:59:31.840
<v Speaker 1>right and so, and I know she wanted more, so

0:59:32.040 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I would kind of give her enough to keep coming back.

0:59:35.320 --> 0:59:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Right now, you gott understand at this point, I was

0:59:37.400 --> 0:59:40.560
<v Speaker 1>immature in my life. I was this is so manipulated

0:59:40.560 --> 0:59:43.920
<v Speaker 1>sitting the custom, right, but there is a little lot

0:59:43.920 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>of guys do that. This is why I like, because

0:59:46.880 --> 0:59:49.280
<v Speaker 1>you seem like you can actually speak. Well, we don't

0:59:49.280 --> 0:59:51.360
<v Speaker 1>have many straatement on here that actually can get through

0:59:52.760 --> 0:59:54.960
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. So, like, I really want you to

0:59:55.040 --> 0:59:56.440
<v Speaker 1>explain this because I feel like a lot of us

0:59:56.480 --> 0:59:59.920
<v Speaker 1>women get into these situations from the male person. By

1:00:00.040 --> 1:00:02.440
<v Speaker 1>then why then y'all do this ship? Yeah? So, because well,

1:00:02.680 --> 1:00:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, first of all, commitment is like fucking you know.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the scariest things, you know what I'm saying,

1:00:07.720 --> 1:00:10.280
<v Speaker 1>monogamous commitment. At least I could be committed to someone,

1:00:10.360 --> 1:00:12.320
<v Speaker 1>but I don't have to be monogaous if we agree

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<v Speaker 1>on that. I always I don't like when people be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't be in a committed relationship. I can be monogamous.

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<v Speaker 1>Part when they they're like, oh, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>someone else, Like, look, sexual desires don't necessarily mean anything

1:00:24.680 --> 1:00:26.480
<v Speaker 1>else within finding a partner, Like I could want to

1:00:26.480 --> 1:00:28.040
<v Speaker 1>fund other people but want you for the rest of

1:00:28.040 --> 1:00:31.400
<v Speaker 1>the exactly exactly. But to go back to it, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was subconsciously doing this at that time, like I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't quite I was lying to myself in a way

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<v Speaker 1>to the point like you lie to yourself so much

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<v Speaker 1>you start convincing yourself. I think we've all done this

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<v Speaker 1>in certain parts of our lives. You know, whether it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>the job pays well, but you hate it you want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave, or something like that. You know, so you

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<v Speaker 1>lie to yourself to convince you, like, oh, I'm staying

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<v Speaker 1>there for like more years I should but like six.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel it so um when I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>that and that It came to a point where I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing some self realization where I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't like what would it be like

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<v Speaker 1>not lie to myself at all? Right? And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like sitting down having this conversation with myself really, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was realizing, I've done that to one where my damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I give them enough. I give them enough affection, I

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<v Speaker 1>give them good dick, might I add, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>take them out like yeah, until their subjection they agree,

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<v Speaker 1>so then and then I take them out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm cool with their friends. I make everybody laugh

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<v Speaker 1>and make them laugh, you know. I treat them well.

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<v Speaker 1>I respect them as human beings. I respect them. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not disrespectful. And I realized I'm doing that, but then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. There's like certain steps to the next level

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that I'm not doing that, you know, so like

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<v Speaker 1>I won't be as consistent in their life because I

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<v Speaker 1>know consistency will run into that conversation of commitment and relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And um. When I was realized I was doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like the parents, that was one of the

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<v Speaker 1>insecure like bringing bringing some family like when I have parents,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh want he want he wants me

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<v Speaker 1>and her little me and her little brother. Wood was

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<v Speaker 1>cool out the rip, like yeah, like I knew that

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<v Speaker 1>I met my first girlfriend, his parents and whole family

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<v Speaker 1>and her little sister. Be kind of came someone I

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<v Speaker 1>was cool with for a while before me and her

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<v Speaker 1>like broke up and stuff. So like that stuff, like

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff, like yeah, that's but I would like

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<v Speaker 1>I would put a wall right there, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>like to avoid that stuff and just give her all

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<v Speaker 1>the how do we read this wall? I think to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you gotta ask yourself, okay, like how consistent

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<v Speaker 1>is he in your life? You know what I'm saying? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>And then if you were wanting a relationship to the

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<v Speaker 1>women out there, if you want to relationship, there's questions

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<v Speaker 1>that you're that um that you're going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask him, right, ask those questions. How is he answering

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<v Speaker 1>those questions? He running around? It is he direct? And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like I told you, I don't want nothing from

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning. You know what makes it? Because every time

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's classic. But it always works, and

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<v Speaker 1>it generally works because it'll push you away from a

1:02:45.680 --> 1:02:47.560
<v Speaker 1>nigger that you need to be with. But when you

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<v Speaker 1>stop being on a dick, like even when I'm consistently trying,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know what, I see this is going on

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm done suddenly bam, that's the ego thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>being when if an ego things some men, then real

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<v Speaker 1>life and now you know what, I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>out of my life. And it's like, oh, I'm already, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go ahead, let's rush, let's let's we gotta hurry up.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Oh my god, we gotta go. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do we just do the questions we got you. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get into our homemail. Um it's called Deprived

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<v Speaker 1>of Life's Pleasures. Hey, ladies, love the show. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>being the pick me up I need during my morning

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<v Speaker 1>commute or in the office at my desk. Our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>have jobs. Just needs you to know. I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now. I

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<v Speaker 1>love him to death. He's literally my best friend. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't argue. He's borderline perfect. The sex was great, so

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<v Speaker 1>for personal health reasons, he just hasn't been in the

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<v Speaker 1>mood for sex and quite some time. I'm talking three

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<v Speaker 1>to four months. We just haven't been fucking I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be under the understanding girlfriend, but your girl is frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>My sex drive has always been on a hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>listening to the podcast plus watching porn has been wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to try a new or at least keep doing the

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<v Speaker 1>old things. Something. He just ain't feeling it. All the

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<v Speaker 1>toys in the world can't sum up to the real thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just find myself super tense and grumpy over

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<v Speaker 1>little ship. I don't know what to do because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the type to step out and find it elsewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never do that to him, but a bitch

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<v Speaker 1>is bored in bed s OS send help, signed d

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<v Speaker 1>on E. I thought I thought that was cute, right right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you listener for knowing how to spell and not

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<v Speaker 1>have any triple over words. And no, we do have some.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd be like, what's right, and I can't. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even So what would you, I guess, both of you,

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<v Speaker 1>What would you, guys advise her to do? In this

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<v Speaker 1>scenario where she said health reasons, I'm hoping you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a breakout. Three months is a long break. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a long I don't think breakout like oh no, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold hold and She's right. If you if

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<v Speaker 1>a man gets HPV and they end up getting general awards,

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<v Speaker 1>they could last. This is what it is. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, so what is it? So? So personal

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<v Speaker 1>health reasons? Why would a guy be in a sex

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<v Speaker 1>drout to where he no longer wants to man? The problem?

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing the problem with this is like I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I knew what it was. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can actually give her my thoughts as clear

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<v Speaker 1>as right. Did she say that they talked about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that she did. I don't think wrote them.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like a simple answer to four months

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<v Speaker 1>he knows why everybody everybody in the room. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to sit here and lady cheating. But I mean that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sorry cheating. I mean if he does, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if he does, and she's but like I mean, so

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<v Speaker 1>health reasons, I will say I want to bring it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably want to bring it into maybe a mental health.

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<v Speaker 1>So there is a guy um that I know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I brought him up before, very very close um with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a good friend of mine and he's having the

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<v Speaker 1>issue right now between wondering if he's still sexually attracted

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<v Speaker 1>two women because he now had with trans women. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what he got. No, so he's been liking trans women,

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<v Speaker 1>and so the guests and so the conversation of to

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<v Speaker 1>where he now only can watch trans women porn, he

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<v Speaker 1>like reaches and talks to them, so where he now

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know if you have a girlfriend, though he did well,

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<v Speaker 1>but now that's why it's just like he's like now

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know if women is really what arouses

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<v Speaker 1>me more because I get so aroused. Okay, so from

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<v Speaker 1>all the speculators transom herpes we're making, here's what I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell her. I'll say, um, for whatever, whatever the health

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<v Speaker 1>problem is, do as much research as you can about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Find out what you can on your like you would depression, whatever, whatever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, like I would do as much research

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<v Speaker 1>about that and kind of learn about as much as

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<v Speaker 1>possible to see how you can cope with it, not

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<v Speaker 1>only how he could cope with it, how you could

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<v Speaker 1>cope with it, how you guys can cope with it together.

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<v Speaker 1>What if it's just skem like, how do y'all get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of that? Do you know what that is? It's

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<v Speaker 1>like code? Like you know, you probably don't hash magma

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like cheese. Is that like when you pull

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<v Speaker 1>the skin back and there and stuff in it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why I said, you probably don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>about it. You know, it's still like word. Well we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to whatever podcast. But I guess, Okay, so the

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<v Speaker 1>communicate with him and do she stay bringing people? Gives

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<v Speaker 1>I just really sorry, wait, wait you have something? Oh bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was what is this? I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>go hold you because she brought like Andrew Schaltz and Charlottagne.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this? You gotta read it? It's a coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Her face is, don't even like you like that? And

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta look at you use this for your daily coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>So you see my face every day? Said that every

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<v Speaker 1>guy day. We barely make it twice a month. Goddamnit. No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is cute. So we went to like this. She

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<v Speaker 1>used to be she makes like calendars and guys. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>well she did this one a black guy. She corny

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<v Speaker 1>is I had to black man when I went to

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<v Speaker 1>La and then beer bash. You do them on a

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<v Speaker 1>new way, you do, you know? Yes? You know? I

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<v Speaker 1>guess anyways, I guess, but I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>heard that last part for the listener, I'm sorry, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>communicate with him after you've done your researching whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do, then talk to him thoroughly. She about

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<v Speaker 1>a d M you for advice? Mean something, y'all y'all

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<v Speaker 1>like the way heat down? Um, go ahead and let

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners know where they can find you if y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of y'all are hopping also in our dams

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<v Speaker 1>and emails about how to bag a blue check. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here you go, slide in this Nico DM, what's your

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<v Speaker 1>What's is that our actual question? So it is everyone

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<v Speaker 1>they asked me question? Yeah it is. It's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. So where can our listeners find you? Because

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<v Speaker 1>gotta go, We gotta record another episode. But uh Ron

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<v Speaker 1>j R O N E j A E. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>my Instagram and Twitter because that's all I have. And

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I will say, ladies, he needs to

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<v Speaker 1>get a check from invisible line because you you look

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<v Speaker 1>you look a great bad I think, yeah, because I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't wearing I could tell you wasn't. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>say let's stop playing anyway, y'all know y'all can follow us.

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<v Speaker 1>You know we don't. We're going on to our guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope to see you guys soon. Have patron by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are the reason that we even started this

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<v Speaker 1>toward Frankly, that's the reason we can afford it. Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we put down all our down payments and ship

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<v Speaker 1>we paid babies and phone in my nigga because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't even doing deposits. We're like, oh, we could

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<v Speaker 1>give you the whole the whole check, Okay, a projector

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<v Speaker 1>that's an extra three hundred. I was like, bitch, I asked,

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<v Speaker 1>she lines, just don't want to spa a hunted all

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<v Speaker 1>on three bikes and I said, bitch, we need mart

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<v Speaker 1>wireless mike do you like to get up with? But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are if you want to hear some more of Sharona's

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<v Speaker 1>he is going to be interviewing us on a Patreon

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<v Speaker 1>ask us all the questions. You'll send us some questions

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<v Speaker 1>and uh so he said, he said he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do a podcast, so if you'll want to hear more

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and become a patron. Anyways, guys, this has

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<v Speaker 1>been yet another episode of horrible decisions by