Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome. Before we start, we do want to
Speaker 1: do some what church announcements is. That's kind of what
Speaker 1: everybody call us, since you'd be wanting everybody want to
Speaker 1: be like you want to be like all the other podcasts.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that's just that's just came from I don't
Speaker 1: even listen to that show. But anyways, y'all, I do
Speaker 1: want to let y'all know we ain't gonna be arguing
Speaker 1: in front of y'all, but we is on a tour.
Speaker 1: Uh we might argue in the green you know. Anyway,
Speaker 1: we will be in the d m V on January
Speaker 1: the nineteenth. I do want to let you guys know
Speaker 1: we have added a second show because y'all show us
Speaker 1: so much mother fucking love. We sold out in four days,
Speaker 1: so we do have two shows. Yeah, it's definitely no,
Speaker 1: maybe not. I don't know. Christmas niggas, can you wait
Speaker 1: till I finished? We could do that in the intro.
Speaker 1: Damn you always sucking shu up. Anyways, after that should
Speaker 1: be announced. Anyways, we will be in Atlanta in February.
Speaker 1: I'll just throw that out there. I'm not gonna give
Speaker 1: you all the date yet, but tickets should be up soon.
Speaker 1: We will be in Toronto meet us in the sixth
Speaker 1: Bitch March ninth. Um. I'm hoping Drake comes by. I
Speaker 1: don't know if he's gonna be in town. We're gonna
Speaker 1: try to get the little light skin got got us
Speaker 1: there or whatever, and then we're gonna be in Chicago
Speaker 1: on March thirtieth. We also went ahead and added a
Speaker 1: second show for Chicago because y'all love us in Chicago.
Speaker 1: Dates for Houston, l A, New York, and we don't
Speaker 1: know we're doing Miami or Orlando yet, apparently because we're
Speaker 1: not doing both. We're doing Miami. I want to be
Speaker 1: a thought. Okay, well, well I guess we're gonna do Miami,
Speaker 1: not Orlando. We're working on the rest of those details,
Speaker 1: but we're coming on tour anyways. Guys, welcome to yet
Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. Now you can say Merry Christmas,
Speaker 1: Off Mary, Christmas, Loving Light. I hope that you guys
Speaker 1: buy your girlfriends, your boyfriends, your love us, your brother's,
Speaker 1: your mother's some Horrible Decisions tickets. Come see us, come
Speaker 1: fly out and see us. People do that ship all
Speaker 1: the time, so stop telling us you ain't coming to
Speaker 1: Detroit or Philly, yeah, or New Wanles. Hope your ass
Speaker 1: on the fight. Not only that real quick, this is
Speaker 1: a high. This is the horribles. You can come by yourself,
Speaker 1: like there's tons of people that be hitting other people.
Speaker 1: Just started a post on Patreon. If you're going to
Speaker 1: any of the shows by yourself, come me a friend,
Speaker 1: jump in the car. Um. I mean, you know I'm
Speaker 1: all about the hippies. Shipp you are, I'm not. But anyways,
Speaker 1: Marry Christmas, y'all. Hose um. I know I'm getting were like,
Speaker 1: I know I'm getting old because I'm My Mom's like,
Speaker 1: what do you want for Christmas? And I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I was really thinking. I was really thinking, Wait more
Speaker 1: adult than that. I was like, you know what, I
Speaker 1: really need some new pots and pants, So I bitch,
Speaker 1: I'll ask for Christmas. And now I'm old. As if
Speaker 1: you guys are listening to this, I'm currently in Mexico
Speaker 1: with my family. They're probably driving me crazy. They leave
Speaker 1: on the twenties six and then I'm wiling out. So
Speaker 1: if you're there too, a lot of people have hit
Speaker 1: me up. I didn't know Mexico was like a thing
Speaker 1: for the holidays, but come kicking me in cancoon to
Speaker 1: loom and ply a the carmen um letang. I love that,
Speaker 1: and I think you know that's dope. You're just rich.
Speaker 1: I will be wherever someone flies me out because these
Speaker 1: tickets are too expensive. So I'm waiting. I gotta come.
Speaker 1: Maybe you know my hotel is. That's how expec the
Speaker 1: flight is discussing. So I'm like, people are like, where
Speaker 1: are you going for the holidays? Wherever nigga fly me?
Speaker 1: But you know my niggas be mayor he got kids,
Speaker 1: So I gotta like wait till like the six so
Speaker 1: as I don't know where I'm gonna be. You know,
Speaker 1: I asked one niggerd He was like, I said, I
Speaker 1: just want some nice shoes. He's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: when I shoes is. I don't like, fine, get me
Speaker 1: a scar if I want a nice scarf, like an
Speaker 1: expensive sea. We got no, no, no, you what you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna introduced? We was both wilding this week. I
Speaker 1: got drunk and fucking asked scissors to move in with me.
Speaker 1: On Instagram, you posted some niggas. First off, why are
Speaker 1: you bringing this nigga up? First off, let me tell y'all. Now,
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all real quick. I am single as
Speaker 1: the fuck. Um. We were on the phone, so I'm bored.
Speaker 1: It's the holidays. I bringing old niggas back to the world.
Speaker 1: Work day, not going in this nineen though. So we
Speaker 1: was on the phone. We was on the phone and
Speaker 1: I was like, you got your holes. He was like, now,
Speaker 1: I ain't got no holes right now, I ain't talking
Speaker 1: to nobody. And I was like, well, shoot, I got
Speaker 1: my holes on lock. So I bet you if I
Speaker 1: post a picture of you right now, your phone gonna
Speaker 1: blow because I'm kind of hot right now. I'm kind
Speaker 1: of lit. And he was like, na, man, no, I
Speaker 1: swear to god, that's what I said. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna post it with no caption. He was like,
Speaker 1: they don't mean nothing if don't got a caption. So
Speaker 1: I was like, fine, I'm gonna put egg plenty Moji
Speaker 1: mine and that's what I did, and I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I realized after posting that I will never post my
Speaker 1: boyfriend as as as long as we're doing this show.
Speaker 1: First off, mom gonna hit me up like this is
Speaker 1: how I have to find out. Then then his cousin
Speaker 1: hit me up like, I'm so happy, welcome to the family,
Speaker 1: cousin of law, you know, his cousin. Then then his
Speaker 1: old teammate hit me up like, man, I knew you
Speaker 1: were still working with that nigga. And I'm like, I said,
Speaker 1: his old teammate, yeah, because what it is this? This
Speaker 1: old teammate's Jordan? Because well, I said, but I said
Speaker 1: Jordan's name. I said Jordan's name on the podcast plenty
Speaker 1: of times. I even told him he not special enough
Speaker 1: to have a nickname. But then this is the problem.
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's Jordan's first name. Basis, I'm gonna fun,
Speaker 1: but this is the problem with this podcast, and you
Speaker 1: motherfucker's had he been a regular nigga. The fact that
Speaker 1: y'all is this seven? Is this Laurya bay? Is? Is
Speaker 1: this a nigga you pegged? Is this a niggaho? They
Speaker 1: listed like four different niggas and it wasn't him. Bro,
Speaker 1: Now I know I did. I can't post my I
Speaker 1: didn't have her right. I just posted some pictures of us,
Speaker 1: but I mean we we dated years ago, so like
Speaker 1: I figured, people, I didn't even believe that. Why I
Speaker 1: got a head of girlfriend because I still don't believe
Speaker 1: you really beating pussy like that, but I mean I
Speaker 1: guess you do. You've seen it. I got sucked up
Speaker 1: all right, and I was like taking videos and I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, who can I send this to that
Speaker 1: I would appreciate it? Sharon has got one. Being with
Speaker 1: a girl, it was just like you know what it was?
Speaker 1: It was I would never watch porn like girling girl,
Speaker 1: that's me, but real like if I'm like if I
Speaker 1: know you and ship or like you know, like some
Speaker 1: real candy, real life stuff, not a production. I want
Speaker 1: like real grny like you want amateur. Yeah, it's crazy
Speaker 1: and I just I just a good one. Well, and
Speaker 1: I just woke to the the girl this weekend in Atlanta,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. The whole time I was
Speaker 1: with her, I was like, where's the dick? Like I
Speaker 1: wanted to be penetrated so funk back. So she figured
Speaker 1: the UK out of me and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: that was cool. Yeah, I was like, damn, I wanted
Speaker 1: I wanted the three soome I was low key about
Speaker 1: to be like did you ain't on Niggason fight over here?
Speaker 1: What's up? But I was like all right, I know,
Speaker 1: but it was like two o'clock to me, and this
Speaker 1: is my first time two o'clock in the morning. This
Speaker 1: is my first time. If I get that at two
Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning, we're talking, I'm waking my eyes
Speaker 1: side like oh what okay, back yeah. But then by
Speaker 1: the time he would have came, you know, it didn't
Speaker 1: maybe the drunkness would have been gone and she would
Speaker 1: like the looker was done. Let's ensow our guests they
Speaker 1: don't find the voice because they're like, we can't wait
Speaker 1: to hear his voice. Oh yeah, okay. By the way, y'all,
Speaker 1: his teeth is better in person, So now I know
Speaker 1: I ain't talking about it. There's a lot there's a
Speaker 1: lot of you know, what's one of the best things
Speaker 1: I've ever heard with your voice? And I think Joe
Speaker 1: buddon podcast was talking about it. It was great. When
Speaker 1: you said, that's what you're not gonna do is bring
Speaker 1: up my wife. I was like, my pussyway, because that's
Speaker 1: what my niggas be saying. Let me stop, let me stop. Anyways, y'all,
Speaker 1: we got how do you say your name? Because you've
Speaker 1: got a weirdass name. What are you black? Panamanian. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, y'all, we got drove from
Speaker 1: insecure up in the building. I feel really bad. I
Speaker 1: was like, I really don't want to have to like
Speaker 1: say that. I don't care. I was gonna say it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask all the questions. You won't. So we
Speaker 1: got the little light skinning it up in the building.
Speaker 1: He bought six eight y'all, so you know, are you circumcised? Wait?
Speaker 1: Look wait, can we wait? Wait? Wait? Okay, okay, So
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into Icebreakers. We started it so before,
Speaker 1: so you we don't know if you've listened to a
Speaker 1: full episode, but basically what we're gonna do is our icebreakers.
Speaker 1: This time it is going to be from comments and
Speaker 1: questions from our listeners. Um, you started replying to some
Speaker 1: on Instagram by your damn self, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: just one. You don't have to come for that girl's wig.
Speaker 1: You know, she came from our teeth. Now she could
Speaker 1: handle that word here, she could change that, and now
Speaker 1: she could cut her hair or whatever. You can change
Speaker 1: takes time real quick. I don't know why you don't
Speaker 1: think changing hair don't take time. I'll be in the
Speaker 1: chair for like five hours when I get what do
Speaker 1: you think that? How long do you think? That's? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's not every hairstyle. Let's just say if you decide
Speaker 1: to chop it right now after moving forward and just
Speaker 1: take a little trim, faith the size, and you're good.
Speaker 1: You in that chair for about well okay, Well, anyways,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to icebreakers and she do you want
Speaker 1: do you want to ask him again? Well the circumsctance, Yes,
Speaker 1: we were gonna share. I'm good because I do not
Speaker 1: like because everybody's asking what your dick looks like? All right,
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, it's a good looking dick.
Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta, I gotta. I gotta a beauty
Speaker 1: mark on my shaft. I do, so we know when
Speaker 1: the dick picked licks. We know hair, no nod, I
Speaker 1: trim on shave, I trim girth. That was a big question, girth.
Speaker 1: Is it thick or skinny? I think it's in between,
Speaker 1: osh medium. Alright, alright, So we're gonna get into one
Speaker 1: of the questions that someone asked um and this was
Speaker 1: actually one of the main ones. So do you believe
Speaker 1: in open relationships? The way your character drawing insecure? Does Um,
Speaker 1: I guess I would say yes, because I'm all about
Speaker 1: doing what works for you. So if that's if that's
Speaker 1: not you gotta think, like, because I'm thinking about all
Speaker 1: the women being in my life, I know there would
Speaker 1: be something that would not be down with that at all,
Speaker 1: So I wouldn't do that with them, But then there'd
Speaker 1: be something to be open to that then yeah, Like
Speaker 1: so I guess all in all, yeah, because I'm all
Speaker 1: about doing Would you bring that up as something that
Speaker 1: you never so I've been in one, okay, and I
Speaker 1: never brought up She always tell always tell Fellis, it's
Speaker 1: always works out easier if the woman brings it up,
Speaker 1: it just works out. How did you handle her dating
Speaker 1: other men? I mean, I just don't know, you know
Speaker 1: what to be with that specific situation. We had a
Speaker 1: telling of relationships, so we're just trying to hold onto
Speaker 1: something that was gonna end anyways. So like, I guess
Speaker 1: I was just trying to do whatever, you know, and
Speaker 1: I didn't think about like they say, open relationships. Can't say,
Speaker 1: but I think primarily that was the best we ever been,
Speaker 1: I will tell you that. And we were on and
Speaker 1: off for years. The best we had ever been because
Speaker 1: I think, you know, everybody automatically thinks about just sexual
Speaker 1: relations with other people, and for us, what I noticed
Speaker 1: what was better was the vulnerability and how honest and
Speaker 1: open and the communication between it. And I'm talking about
Speaker 1: communication about everything, but that's what I feel like open
Speaker 1: relationships do. Like when you're when you're willing to be
Speaker 1: vulnerable with someone and let them know your deepest desires,
Speaker 1: like communication is like, but that's also the sexiest thing
Speaker 1: about somebody. So it could have been that's what also
Speaker 1: brought you guys closer, because you didn't felt like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I can be my full self absolutely, And then you're
Speaker 1: talking about like and like when I say like your
Speaker 1: communication improved in all areas, like I'm just talking on
Speaker 1: from things like how we were feeling about certain things
Speaker 1: or things in the house where we were living with
Speaker 1: each other for a little bit, so things, um, you know,
Speaker 1: just from the little things like I don't know, I
Speaker 1: would just start opening up and all right, well you know,
Speaker 1: like I really don't like this whole setup cause we
Speaker 1: like you know, but I wouldn't have necessarily said that
Speaker 1: before we started doing all that. So were you open
Speaker 1: about asking for booty play. Are you into that? That's sorry?
Speaker 1: Sorry that was the next question. Yet there was hair
Speaker 1: up in there? Yeah, because so we a lot of
Speaker 1: people ask like if you're into like maybe ask like
Speaker 1: maybe a finger in the ask maybe more so we
Speaker 1: talked about being done to you. Yet nigga, you talking
Speaker 1: about you? Because I'm thinking, like, you know, obviously I
Speaker 1: could do that to ask you there was hair in
Speaker 1: your asshole and you still conde asking you got hair
Speaker 1: up in there? I thought the dick, I thought you're
Speaker 1: talking about you need to be more specific. Man, Okay,
Speaker 1: your booty hole, yeah, I mean it's it's light and there.
Speaker 1: You know, I got a little light, but I trim
Speaker 1: it up. Okay, so you trim up your booty hole
Speaker 1: for me. Honestly, it's because it's easier wipe. I'm not
Speaker 1: even thinking it's just like but not for me. I'm
Speaker 1: down with a lot. Don't with my boody, that's I
Speaker 1: just don't like it, no boody, hopefully. So what if
Speaker 1: they what if they just like what if they down
Speaker 1: by the balls and just licking you're jumping or you're
Speaker 1: not jumping. I'm jumping and my ex remember for a
Speaker 1: couple of years. She was like trying to, like she
Speaker 1: tried for years, like yeah, and I was like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: so hard about no, I don't like that ship And
Speaker 1: she'sa liked you never tried. I was like, I know,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like it though I know it. And
Speaker 1: then so we was in the shower and she was like, baby, like,
Speaker 1: just just let me a little bit, but you have
Speaker 1: to now I'm in the shower, your fingers like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was, Oh, I was spreading as this week. You
Speaker 1: just like give me on my back and get him.
Speaker 1: I like the spreading. I spread for me to like
Speaker 1: my spreading. No, I don't like necessarily squeezing, because when
Speaker 1: you squeeze, that's gonna spread it and it's not gonna
Speaker 1: you know what's really good about the squeeze, And a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know, so like when squeezing it
Speaker 1: gives you like a lot there's a lot of nerve
Speaker 1: endings that you feel that you don't you completely spread,
Speaker 1: like in your pussy. So if you could squeeze by
Speaker 1: like the pussy opening, pretty gay now, um. But yeah,
Speaker 1: So she tried it in the in the shower and
Speaker 1: when she was in there. Mean, I was like trying
Speaker 1: to be a trooper for her for like what it was.
Speaker 1: She was like three seconds in there. I was like,
Speaker 1: I get out, get out, get out. But it was
Speaker 1: because it was in your mind. It was more so
Speaker 1: your mind. Yeah, you just relax, man. I didn't like
Speaker 1: how like it was. No, I don't that it wasn't
Speaker 1: enjoyable for me. That's what I'm saying. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like after it's kind of like after you bust your
Speaker 1: nut and the girl starts specifically working with your penis head,
Speaker 1: that ship's not fun for me. I pushed a girl off.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fun like as you come. Yeah,
Speaker 1: after an like I understand, you know she's trying to
Speaker 1: like finish it up and everything, and I don't mind
Speaker 1: she's going all the way down, but when she's specifically
Speaker 1: focusing on my dickhead. The question that wasn't on it.
Speaker 1: Do you have like a coming routine? Like is there
Speaker 1: something you say? Is there a place you like to come?
Speaker 1: I let her know I'm about the bus. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: like where are you saying? We know you got a kid? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you know, but um, I guess it just
Speaker 1: depends on the experience what's going on, like in who
Speaker 1: it is and stuff like that. So like if she
Speaker 1: hasn't like if she has no booty, not no no booty.
Speaker 1: Basically it's not enjoyable. And I want to ask this
Speaker 1: while we're talking about sex. So I don't think we've
Speaker 1: had a man your heights on our show yet. So
Speaker 1: one of the big questions that we ask as a
Speaker 1: tall man, are there sex positions that you prefer over
Speaker 1: others because of your height? And like what is hard
Speaker 1: for you during sex because of your height? Right? Okay,
Speaker 1: so uh well, I mean when I'm if I'm having
Speaker 1: sex with a taller woman, like a tall woman, then
Speaker 1: I basically can do anything. But like, yeah, well I'm talking,
Speaker 1: so I'll be walking like six ten and I'm five
Speaker 1: for one, so I don't yeah alright, So now, like
Speaker 1: getting it from the back, I can't necessarily like do
Speaker 1: it when if a girl's on all fours and I'm
Speaker 1: on the bed with her on my knees, like trying
Speaker 1: to get her from the back, that's difficult. I literally
Speaker 1: have to punch over her with like and get a
Speaker 1: hall for my damn. So so I usually have to
Speaker 1: be because usually like you know, the beds tall, so
Speaker 1: I get off the bed, stand up and then give
Speaker 1: her from from the back. Damn should get a box
Speaker 1: spring bed. I'm probably I have like I have like
Speaker 1: the links. So it's like my bedest calm down beach
Speaker 1: is I gotta hope, hope for a bit. I'm grown,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, bitch. I got a grown girl bed.
Speaker 1: But it's short, and so I know, I realized. I mean,
Speaker 1: but I have a lot of hotel sex, so I
Speaker 1: guess that's like, you know, the beds be high what
Speaker 1: they do, so it works out good in the hotel,
Speaker 1: but in my house hotels in my house, I'm like,
Speaker 1: maybe we should take this to the living room because
Speaker 1: I gotta hide bad. I gotta hide. Yeah, so like
Speaker 1: I hate that little ika Japanese bed. Shoot mine is
Speaker 1: in my bad ikey or a Japanese It's just that's
Speaker 1: the Japanese style. Yeah, just like that. I'll tell the
Speaker 1: teller feels like if it's like that, then you just
Speaker 1: you you you go on your knees on the ground,
Speaker 1: put a pillow there and let her be on the
Speaker 1: bed and you can still tall. You know what the
Speaker 1: pillows normally for art woman that if you ever have
Speaker 1: a partner that's like a little bit smaller in size
Speaker 1: and you want to feel more, you need to put
Speaker 1: the pillow underneath you, like right towards the groin, and
Speaker 1: it'll lift your vagina up at an angle to it.
Speaker 1: You'll feel it more. You can do that for I mean,
Speaker 1: from my understanding women, I said that that no matter.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you want a deeper pit period, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm saying yeah. The only time I've had a pillow
Speaker 1: under me was when I was on my back getting
Speaker 1: anal sex because normally, yeah, a little bit like you're
Speaker 1: not ready for anal sex. We'll be talking. You just
Speaker 1: do the hit, so you still technically do it. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you. Somebody put fingers in my ass recently
Speaker 1: and I felt it for the last two days, Like
Speaker 1: not the last two fingers. I'm usually just thumb finger.
Speaker 1: But I think he like pulled up while he was
Speaker 1: working because I'm walking around and did it go in there?
Speaker 1: Are you working? Inexperienced fingers? It sounds like it was
Speaker 1: on top. It's not my thing like that. I just
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not really good at it. But then
Speaker 1: once I'm in there, I'm like, oh, shoot, about to
Speaker 1: come on top. Yeah, that's a lot of art. A
Speaker 1: lot of women don't know how to ride like that.
Speaker 1: Not great to cure about it because I don't really know,
Speaker 1: Like I work out a lot, and I'm still exhausted
Speaker 1: and I wanted to be really good, like I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be. We feel like when we on top pound daughter,
Speaker 1: you might be a yolar athletic. Yeah, well that's true,
Speaker 1: but are shaking. I'm like, I'm still going your arms
Speaker 1: shake after a while. Yeah, I mean I finally started
Speaker 1: riding dick, and but I do, and I think I
Speaker 1: do feelly. Well, I'm not even a lot of so
Speaker 1: I love looking at me. I'm not even I don't
Speaker 1: look in the mirror. I'd just be like, like the mirror,
Speaker 1: I mean, if there is one, sure, But I mean, yeah, see,
Speaker 1: I mean the niggas be looking in the mirror. I
Speaker 1: don't need to look at look at that. I'm not
Speaker 1: looking at myself. I'm looking at well like I like
Speaker 1: watching the sex, like I feel like I'm watching like
Speaker 1: porn within me. So also, because so we'll go So
Speaker 1: this was probably one of the other most popular questions. Um,
Speaker 1: and we don't ask you because that's what the we do.
Speaker 1: So you had a baby with your costar, so you
Speaker 1: believe in having sex with your coworkers, because that, to
Speaker 1: me is like a bad thing. So how did that happen?
Speaker 1: She was written off the show by that point? Oh
Speaker 1: so she wasn't a coworker. So you she got fired?
Speaker 1: Fire you, Patty? Okay, she was written off, got you okay?
Speaker 1: So then you guys still just maintained a relationship. So
Speaker 1: someone said, did you want to her after looking watching
Speaker 1: her in the scene with Lawrence? Is that what made
Speaker 1: you like? Oh, you know what's funny? I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: well the first time I saw that, I mean I
Speaker 1: had no idea what's gonna be on the show yet
Speaker 1: the audition season who wasn't even written yet? Okay, So
Speaker 1: I saw that, and I mean I was like, damn.
Speaker 1: But I was so invested in the damned storylines and
Speaker 1: characters that I wasn't necessarily looking at the hours let's
Speaker 1: go like, you know, so I wasn't necessary like but
Speaker 1: so but when that came about, when I got the
Speaker 1: road and everything, um, I still wasn't we know what,
Speaker 1: to be honest, we still wasn't even like I wasn't
Speaker 1: looking at her thinking like I was gonna bag or
Speaker 1: anything like that. Um, because we were just friends, to
Speaker 1: be honest, like the whole time we've been friends, even
Speaker 1: when we just I don't have my niggas have friends.
Speaker 1: My nigs they't have no friends, talk about we just friends,
Speaker 1: just friends and stuff, so you know, and then um,
Speaker 1: we just happened to conceive and stuff. But I mean,
Speaker 1: like we're still friends now. And I do see that you.
Speaker 1: I like that you're posting the baby. I like that
Speaker 1: you're a good father. Looks like you're really I like
Speaker 1: that you because niggas be hiding the baby. They don't
Speaker 1: even show up for the baby shower. But something, I
Speaker 1: mean something babies looking like girlfriend. I mean I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't the baby shot because it wasn't. It was
Speaker 1: a whole another state, and I wasn't able to go working.
Speaker 1: Were you working? I understand, But no, it does seem
Speaker 1: like you're controversial. I want to bring up Shan Booty.
Speaker 1: What else controversial about her? You said you love raw
Speaker 1: sex on her show. You're like talking about how much
Speaker 1: you loved it, so like I mean everybody does know.
Speaker 1: I like, I mean, I wrap. The majority of the time,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying though, like my my main joint or
Speaker 1: like who I'm working with forever for yeah, I'm going,
Speaker 1: oh what, Yes, I love that. I mean yeah, but
Speaker 1: you made it sound like like like I'm just raw
Speaker 1: thinking no, no, no, no, that's not. But even when
Speaker 1: I read like tweets and men talk about raw sex,
Speaker 1: they act like they don't want to put on the colum,
Speaker 1: they don't want to have sex that they have to. Look,
Speaker 1: I still even enjoy it, like especially when you know,
Speaker 1: forget the nickname, but my nick is called it new beats.
Speaker 1: When it's new beats, like, it's still enjoyable because I
Speaker 1: never had or explore this girl before, So I'm put
Speaker 1: on the com of regardless like I don't like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like, yeah, I guess I should have
Speaker 1: clarify that. Looking back at it didn't at all because
Speaker 1: even like Eve even like having a child, but with her,
Speaker 1: like you know, that was like, no, I didn't mean
Speaker 1: the only time the way you said it just sounded like, well,
Speaker 1: I really like, Um, we're gonna go ahead and segue
Speaker 1: into our vanilla ship. Um, it's something that we actually
Speaker 1: brought up do you want to talk about this show?
Speaker 1: And then we got some questions to you about it
Speaker 1: because it has to do with sex and movie. This
Speaker 1: movie is old and actually I posted it because I
Speaker 1: just I didn't even get to finish it yet, but
Speaker 1: you already like I didn't like it. So it's called
Speaker 1: love right, um, if you want to look it up
Speaker 1: on Netflix by guests bar No. It has Zoe Prabvit's
Speaker 1: fiance in it, and if you've seen My Braids, obviously
Speaker 1: I'm into Zoe right now. And the movie starts and
Speaker 1: it's two people like touching each other, which I love
Speaker 1: because I love masturbating together. And I was already into it,
Speaker 1: and when I was tired, like I love Yeah. So
Speaker 1: he came writing on this girl's maybe in her mouth
Speaker 1: a hand and she's like, wait, they showed the dick.
Speaker 1: Come you don't understand. So it's the most sexually explicit movie.
Speaker 1: That's everyone on Netflix Somiac. Well, they said it's not
Speaker 1: as much as Inphomaniac. And then I think Blue is
Speaker 1: the warm Colors, the lesbian one. But he also did
Speaker 1: that one, so I can see it that come on Netflix.
Speaker 1: It's real. It's so I looked it up and I
Speaker 1: was like, is this real sex? Like, what's going on? So,
Speaker 1: he says. The guy who made the film says he
Speaker 1: wanted to have real people, not porn actors, create real sex.
Speaker 1: They edited the faces on the porn bodies. He said
Speaker 1: that he um, really yeah, so this was just compained
Speaker 1: a prosthetic penis and on the train, I heard about that,
Speaker 1: but I didn't know if that was real. He says
Speaker 1: that with Karl Gesman, who's always fiance one of the
Speaker 1: main characters, that he didn't see his dick before, but
Speaker 1: he knew a girl that he fucked and he heard
Speaker 1: he was gifted. It's crazy to even hear this because
Speaker 1: from what I've heard with even really big actors, when
Speaker 1: they have to do maybe when the director wants a
Speaker 1: nude scene or these type of sex scenes, they asked
Speaker 1: for more money sometimes to perform these ways. So to
Speaker 1: know that the whole guy to look, yeah, so to
Speaker 1: know that like the whole head and wait, is there
Speaker 1: a pain? He is he black? What is he? I
Speaker 1: feel like he might have a little bit. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think he's a person, he's a he's a boy of color.
Speaker 1: But the threesome scene, oh, my god, it was so real.
Speaker 1: I was so turned on. I said it to scissors.
Speaker 1: I was like, you always gonna so I want to
Speaker 1: ask you then? Um, and this is why I like,
Speaker 1: I thought it was a great segway to even like
Speaker 1: ask you because someone asked on our Instagram, how awkward
Speaker 1: is it acting like you're having sex on Insecure when
Speaker 1: you're not? Oh, man, like have you got to do
Speaker 1: multiple scenes? Right? Someone that is as like, I didn't
Speaker 1: know Ivan doesn't curse and personal life or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Who is so look he's laying Oh yeah, I guess not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's substitute word sometimes once mighty but usually no. But
Speaker 1: I mean she's a version of her life. So that
Speaker 1: whole comedy show. I went to see it like nothing,
Speaker 1: And I didn't realize that until we were sitting at
Speaker 1: the table talking about it. Um, but like if someone
Speaker 1: so que unquote Vanilla, I guess and how is that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know, it was crazy about it. She was the
Speaker 1: one that had to come from me about that because
Speaker 1: I've never done it, and she has a whole season
Speaker 1: under her belt, you know what I'm saying, So, like,
Speaker 1: you know, getting my TV Cherry Pop version was interesting
Speaker 1: and I was just like, actually, um die one of
Speaker 1: our one of our costumes designers. She or she's in
Speaker 1: the roldrobe department. She was the one that made me
Speaker 1: feel real comfortable, cause I was like nervous. I was like, man,
Speaker 1: because like you're cool. You think you're cool with it,
Speaker 1: and then the day comes and I'm going on my
Speaker 1: trailing as see from my wardrobe is a robe and
Speaker 1: a cock sock, right, yeah, you know, so that's what
Speaker 1: you have to put over the stuff and not just
Speaker 1: you gotta put your balls in it too, and then
Speaker 1: you tighten it up. It's like it's kind of like
Speaker 1: you know what those little sacks like where the sunglass? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you type that gives you like, you know, you
Speaker 1: could tighten it. And then um so did you feel
Speaker 1: like insecure? Like it made you look too small? I
Speaker 1: mean that's what I was going to ask. Did you
Speaker 1: get hard? We'll get to all that hold on. So
Speaker 1: um um she the lady I was in the wardrobe department,
Speaker 1: she was like, um she, I was sitting down. She
Speaker 1: was like, look over there and she points over. So
Speaker 1: Ivan Ivan was like talking to some of the writers
Speaker 1: or like the hair people, and She's like you know whatever,
Speaker 1: being normal and laughing or something, and she was like,
Speaker 1: are you see how comfortable and cool she is? And
Speaker 1: I was like yeah. She was like and she's a version.
Speaker 1: She's like, you do this in her life, right in
Speaker 1: real life. And then it was like, you know, you
Speaker 1: know how she is, Like if this was like something
Speaker 1: that uncomfortable, she would be like, no, okay, cool, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. So that made me feel a
Speaker 1: little better. I also talked to some of the fellas
Speaker 1: like j in the line um and got some of
Speaker 1: their like, you know, advice on it. And you know,
Speaker 1: there was just one thing where like because there is
Speaker 1: this thing when you're doing in the studio, like when
Speaker 1: you take off that road, there is a vulnerable like breeze,
Speaker 1: I just at your cheeks people, what you got, your
Speaker 1: camera operators, you're sounding deep and director. It depends on
Speaker 1: it varies per set because I mean, because if I'm sucking,
Speaker 1: I'm watching that, if I'm Will Smith or George Clote,
Speaker 1: I could be like, only want one person in here,
Speaker 1: and that's gonna happen. But so give me a couple
Speaker 1: of years. But so now, but so they have they
Speaker 1: close a set down they'll shut down the monitors and
Speaker 1: other department, other sections and just half theirs depending on
Speaker 1: who it is and um and and then they'll have
Speaker 1: who whoever is absolutely necessary for the scenes to work
Speaker 1: in there. Um And that was fine, but I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what, even like, I'm doing a new show right
Speaker 1: now and I had a sex scene in there, and
Speaker 1: it was even more. I was more nervous doing that
Speaker 1: because it was as close as you could get, like
Speaker 1: you know, I mean we both because Evan, when we're
Speaker 1: doing it, she's not naked, she's covered up. You know,
Speaker 1: it's I'm the one, so like that's one thing. But
Speaker 1: when we both are naked, like the girl, like there's
Speaker 1: this thing like for the for the pussy they just
Speaker 1: have like this strip, you know, and then just for
Speaker 1: the nipples that cover up. Like so, I mean she's
Speaker 1: naked in front of me, I'm naked, and then like
Speaker 1: there's a certain position we're doing. I was just like, man,
Speaker 1: this is graphic. I was like, wow, all right. So
Speaker 1: I was nervous doing that because it's one thing, like
Speaker 1: you know, because there's one part where she kind of
Speaker 1: has to start like you know, going down on me,
Speaker 1: and I'm standing up, so before we cut to the bed,
Speaker 1: she's like right here, and then she's like kissing on me,
Speaker 1: kissing down and she's like gonna go down on me,
Speaker 1: and obviously it cuts, but like they stop it. But
Speaker 1: like when she did that, I just remember one, particularly
Speaker 1: the last one. Actually she started going down and I
Speaker 1: looked up and I looked right into the eyes of
Speaker 1: the sound guy and he was just like I was like, man,
Speaker 1: this is weird. Like when people be like you almost
Speaker 1: got hard and then just like, well, like nothing, I
Speaker 1: even almost got hard. It's just like I'm experienced, so
Speaker 1: it's not like I'm gonna get hard so easy like that,
Speaker 1: but like right, like the sexual attention, like when you
Speaker 1: know you're working with someone attractive and like finally to
Speaker 1: see them like that, That's what I was thinking about.
Speaker 1: That's why I thought you would get trying on. You
Speaker 1: would think, so she's beautiful, but how like that's like okay,
Speaker 1: that's like you know, let's just say right now with
Speaker 1: okay boom, we're about to shoot this right now, right,
Speaker 1: But then we got these niggers looking at us, and
Speaker 1: then we've got some other people here in the corner.
Speaker 1: Like audiences aren't even gonna hold just be down for
Speaker 1: that ship will be how many times have you seen them? Now?
Speaker 1: It would be weird, right, No, bitch, I'll be asking
Speaker 1: all my friends to watch people that's your friends. But
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like a chubby bearded white guy. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like, it's not necessarily audience. You
Speaker 1: wanted have been the sex clubs too, though, And I
Speaker 1: ain't like everybody. I like everybody in that bit. I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I can still watch it, but that's
Speaker 1: a sex club. That's my greatest fear about when we
Speaker 1: take that sex trip. Like I'm like, like I have sex,
Speaker 1: I'm sucking nigga dick on the beach right in front
Speaker 1: of everybody. Does Like, no, I could do the beach sitting,
Speaker 1: but like, don't put me in. So I've been there,
Speaker 1: there's canopies, there's um oh, I've been there before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so this will this will be fun. But I went
Speaker 1: with my home girls last time. I didn't go. What
Speaker 1: a dude? So mind you the dude that I want
Speaker 1: to bring, I'm just I'm waiting. I'm waiting because I'm
Speaker 1: like Nick, if I have a boyfriend by then, you
Speaker 1: can't come anymore. Right, So I've been telling scissors right
Speaker 1: because she's like I don't really want to suck some
Speaker 1: random dude. I'm like, cool, we're gonna bring the Dickt's cool.
Speaker 1: So the only thing is like I'm wondering, like are
Speaker 1: we all somebody else? What were well? And that's the thing,
Speaker 1: like don't we like like do we like have to
Speaker 1: like time it out? We all three in one room
Speaker 1: where we be like, yo, I'm bringing this bitch back,
Speaker 1: like are you in or you're not? Like? Well, see,
Speaker 1: this can actually lead into our kink of the week
Speaker 1: because I have a way that maybe I can help
Speaker 1: you guys with this um um. So kink of the
Speaker 1: Week is sexual roleplay. It also goes with you are
Speaker 1: a actor. Hello, So I thought it just made sense bitch,
Speaker 1: fuck you because I know that's not a cheesy hole.
Speaker 1: This is very actually, this is very common. I don't
Speaker 1: know if we've done this before, but I want to
Speaker 1: get into it. So, sexual role play is role play
Speaker 1: that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two
Speaker 1: or more people who act out roles in a sexual
Speaker 1: fantasy and maybe a form of for play and be
Speaker 1: sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual for play as a
Speaker 1: means of overcoming sexual inhibition. So if you're nervous, I
Speaker 1: already know. So it may take place in the real
Speaker 1: world or via an Internet forum, chat room, video game,
Speaker 1: or email, allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interest
Speaker 1: to be enacted. So real quick, we propone to get
Speaker 1: a day. Wait, you want to be a pedophile? Okay?
Speaker 1: So here, So I wanted to give some examples before
Speaker 1: we get into our role playing fantasies. So um, here's
Speaker 1: six examples for any of you who are interested in
Speaker 1: role playing with your partners. So you have good cop,
Speaker 1: really good coup. So this is you're waiting in the
Speaker 1: blankets here gation room with a couple of really bad
Speaker 1: coffee when who walks in but the sexiest detective on
Speaker 1: the force. But you'll never talk no matter what his
Speaker 1: copper has up this sleep and then you get into it.
Speaker 1: This one. So this role play, right, that's this is
Speaker 1: why people ship. This role play scenario has power dynamics,
Speaker 1: some coercent and manipulation. Another one is a fun ride,
Speaker 1: so you could be a hitchhiker getting picked up. That
Speaker 1: one you picked somebody and she's like ok. You know,
Speaker 1: and then you gotta start with roll hey road, Hey
Speaker 1: got that point of a good day? You know, family
Speaker 1: l a reference, right, it was real until I was
Speaker 1: recently like the real place in the car with Erica.
Speaker 1: We were just talking about her. That played an insecure
Speaker 1: to shout out to Erica Dickerson and Church Bay. I'm like,
Speaker 1: bitch like the name. So another one, this is actually
Speaker 1: one I've had a fantasy of. So teacher and pupil.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna I used to love the motherfucking basketball
Speaker 1: coaches bitch well clearly, but they would have pe teachers
Speaker 1: soon and now if you wouldn't know, they made man
Speaker 1: bitch ye right, I didn't even go right in private school?
Speaker 1: Please thirty five? I think he said high in private school. Okay,
Speaker 1: they might make six figures? Is that Marty day one?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm sure probably even like like the big
Speaker 1: schools that they are good with basketball, like Okaill and Ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't act ever, trist a girl. I know what is
Speaker 1: ever Hooper? Every season? What the is that? Yo? Chill? Chill?
Speaker 1: So I used to have a sport It's blog first off,
Speaker 1: credentialed media with the NBA for two seasons. Yes, let's us. Also,
Speaker 1: I was a very very huge growing up. I was
Speaker 1: a very huge Mellow fan. So yeah, yeah, so I
Speaker 1: mean it just makes sense. And then seriously I had
Speaker 1: I did, and I had a Syracuse jersey. I was
Speaker 1: in love with him. Um. So another one is the
Speaker 1: Boston assistant. Of course, go figure French maid. I could
Speaker 1: see what he's doing that I don't know, you clean,
Speaker 1: She's gonna be down submissive ships. I could see him
Speaker 1: the maid helt finish it. And I a lot at
Speaker 1: another one doctors and nurses. I think that's basic. Um.
Speaker 1: And then this one, I really like expecting a package
Speaker 1: home delivery bitch the home. Yes, so I put this
Speaker 1: in a lot of ports that I watched. It's the plumber.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be. I'd rather have it could be the
Speaker 1: it could be right. So I was gonna go the
Speaker 1: handymail the plumber or direct TV Nigga who ficky fixy okay,
Speaker 1: will WiFi day WiFi. So this leaves this leads me
Speaker 1: into asking you. First off, I'm curious has anyone yet
Speaker 1: asked you to be drove from insecure in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: I mean I've had requests. What do you seriously, but
Speaker 1: not in my real life, not in your real life
Speaker 1: on Twitter. And I feel like, first of all, for
Speaker 1: someone to ask that, I mean, they don't have to
Speaker 1: be someone that doesn't know me at all, because I
Speaker 1: feel like if you know me and to ask that
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie, maybe drove better than you, maybe dropped
Speaker 1: out a more swagging, And I mean, you'll be real
Speaker 1: confident on the show nigger. You might have not had
Speaker 1: that confident that married Nigga and it's like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: gonna suck me while your wife is like because you know,
Speaker 1: what's the wife daving Candice. So I want to ask you, guys.
Speaker 1: I guess this is where we'll get into. So if
Speaker 1: you could have a role fantasy, what would your ideal
Speaker 1: role place scenario be. Guess we'll start with the guys. Well,
Speaker 1: we know you're someone for sure, babysitter. They come home
Speaker 1: and like mom and dad, yeah yeah, and like even
Speaker 1: though there's no kid in the house, because I'm already
Speaker 1: really thinking I'm gonna do especially when you get to
Speaker 1: a sex because they got theme nights they do oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so there's toga night, there's lingerie night, there's like he's
Speaker 1: already like, oh my god, you're gonna wear the school
Speaker 1: girls skirt. I'm like down, but babysitter even like fun
Speaker 1: really quiet because I love to have to be quiet
Speaker 1: where there's like a hand okay, and then I kind
Speaker 1: of want the dad to suck me first and then
Speaker 1: like them in and it's like, oh my god, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I have to eat. I have an awful one. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to you. Mine is awful? What is it? No?
Speaker 1: Because mine really bad? Go lie like so and I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say the name of the person, but I
Speaker 1: have like this fantasy of being sucked by a guy
Speaker 1: and his dad, like a fine dad, this is not
Speaker 1: you said yeah, but you didn't. We can role play
Speaker 1: like maybe you got an older friend. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but like your daddy nigga older friends like nine years
Speaker 1: older than him. I think, don't have baby the time,
Speaker 1: y'all suit out spark brothers or something. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: done that, but like step step they were step they
Speaker 1: were the same dad. They didn't have the same she
Speaker 1: was like basically friends death not real brothers. Um so
Speaker 1: that would be kind of mine, Like I would want
Speaker 1: to kind of like, you know, be on some ship
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know, maybe we're all playing cards
Speaker 1: or something that's I'm not gonna lie to you. I
Speaker 1: literally just sat here with the porns that we had
Speaker 1: on n A K about how disgusting the fucking incess
Speaker 1: porn was. And that really is that it's absolutely into
Speaker 1: step brothers, like a dad and the son. That's like
Speaker 1: mother daughter. Oh is mother? Oh it is? But they
Speaker 1: got the same. But you gotta ask me like a
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, if if a mother and daughter and
Speaker 1: they both was bad as he and they both wanted
Speaker 1: to me, I'm not caring about thinking of that story.
Speaker 1: Remember he sucked a mother and he did podcast and
Speaker 1: this guy told us a story. Shout out to Premium.
Speaker 1: Pete heard that story and yeah, so so we went
Speaker 1: back to you now, Joe, Um, sorry, what is your
Speaker 1: fancy because I mean I've done, I've done like I've
Speaker 1: done some of these stuff. Share share maybe an experience
Speaker 1: of when you role played. I would like to hear that,
Speaker 1: UM I did one like okay, well some start. I
Speaker 1: mean the first time I did it was like something
Speaker 1: easy to cut, like use my way into it. It
Speaker 1: was like going to um this girl was was going
Speaker 1: to a party that she invited me to, but then
Speaker 1: like the whole thing was to act like we didn't
Speaker 1: know each other at all, and like what she actually
Speaker 1: went with. A dude was trying to funk with her,
Speaker 1: but it's to his expense, like she was, like she
Speaker 1: went with him, but like the hope it was to
Speaker 1: feed into the whole thing of me that's from here.
Speaker 1: And that's what I always say. If I ever have
Speaker 1: a threesome with two men, it's mainly because I want
Speaker 1: to have my man there and then like float with
Speaker 1: the bartender or some ship haven't sucked me, and then
Speaker 1: get punished fucked because I was bad. Yeah, that sounds
Speaker 1: but that's not necessarily trained. That's like a train with
Speaker 1: a transfer. You feeling train that I'm sad. It's not
Speaker 1: a police just like you know you gotta you gotta
Speaker 1: get off, and you know what we don't have No no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I do agree, no no no, but I do agree.
Speaker 1: If you're just letting one funk you, then you the
Speaker 1: next person. That's a train like maybe because when everyone's together,
Speaker 1: well to me, well train is one two at the
Speaker 1: same time, right, No, that's a threesome. You guys, are
Speaker 1: you guys are one of those you guysn't like that
Speaker 1: or one of those you're not gonna asking, I'm asking
Speaker 1: you replaces. If two women was like we ran a
Speaker 1: train on Sharona's, I'd be like, they show fucking did
Speaker 1: What the fun is? Like, oh my god, we have
Speaker 1: got three to everything. Neative they show did? They showed it,
Speaker 1: but the women, but you would the one with the
Speaker 1: least amount of clothes on in here? How the fun
Speaker 1: you are? Anyways, we're gonna go ahead down, We're going
Speaker 1: to get into anything. But I will say though, anything
Speaker 1: that has to do in a profession sending or desk
Speaker 1: for some reason, that's like the whole like I always said,
Speaker 1: like the teacher thing or like a corporate type of thing,
Speaker 1: like where it's like a like a meeting or I
Speaker 1: gotta go like talking to you. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: haven't like like yeah, absolutely so it's like even stuff
Speaker 1: like that, or like now that I'm an actor, I'm
Speaker 1: like but not like no, not that I'm like that
Speaker 1: I would do this, Not that I would do this
Speaker 1: because I'm extremely professional, but like I would for show
Speaker 1: fucking my trailer if like I was reckless if I
Speaker 1: wasn't asked, profession are you allowed to invite girls on
Speaker 1: set at all? I mean you care, But I'm just like,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a professional, so I wouldn't know,
Speaker 1: but not I wouldn't want to invite. It'd be like
Speaker 1: it would be the fantasy is like to play this
Speaker 1: out is like you know, like like another somebody on
Speaker 1: the set. And then even if even if it's a
Speaker 1: girl that's like you know, doing like you know, camera
Speaker 1: work or something like that, or like the sound chick
Speaker 1: or whatever, Like even if it's like that, and then
Speaker 1: there's this thing where you know, we're kind of signaling
Speaker 1: it and go to the trailer. I wished me and
Speaker 1: my work husband were sexually attracted to each other, because
Speaker 1: that would work so great. I can tell you this
Speaker 1: studio right now where a Gotham podcast studio. By the way,
Speaker 1: all the bathroom I looked around. There's no cameras over there,
Speaker 1: and I always thought about sucking in that bathroom, but
Speaker 1: like there's no Yeah, you know, maybe that's a hint.
Speaker 1: Can kill me? And wait, so like you, I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: When I tell you, I tell you you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I saw the post. Okay, all right, there's rules, there's rules.
Speaker 1: What are these rules? If she's niggas, She's like, she's
Speaker 1: letting you two niggas exactly, and and what and what else?
Speaker 1: What's the main thing I said that makes you in
Speaker 1: a relationship and she can't with another baby? Holo, hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on. This is a very pivotal moment for her
Speaker 1: and I because, like I said, we dated years ago,
Speaker 1: right and like ground, this might be a little different now.
Speaker 1: Like she's never had a threesome. I'm not saying I've
Speaker 1: had a million of them, but so write a lot,
Speaker 1: a whole lot. I love three I feel like you're
Speaker 1: the most connected to people like that, Like three sions
Speaker 1: are sacred to me. Bro, Like I love that ship.
Speaker 1: I would not waste my time sucking like some dude
Speaker 1: just because he's cute, Like if we're we go, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like I like three stones. It's weird. It's like
Speaker 1: I like Threeesons, but I don't. But like I only
Speaker 1: like the thing, Like you're gonna bring a bit I
Speaker 1: get so dry, Like, don't ask me, like I just
Speaker 1: wanted to kind of happen. Thank you for saying that.
Speaker 1: I'll try to tell him I might look like it's
Speaker 1: always best when you're not as a man, not forcing
Speaker 1: you gotta let don't even bring it up, be the
Speaker 1: fucking passenger, and then when it's time to go, be
Speaker 1: the captain. But that's the thing, Well, these niggas know
Speaker 1: that I'm into women, so I think that that's why
Speaker 1: it's like, oh yeah, you like women, so yeah, like that.
Speaker 1: But my thing is, i'd rather like, instead of being
Speaker 1: so direct, I'd rather allude to ship like you know,
Speaker 1: or like you know, I knew, like I remember talking
Speaker 1: to this one check. I knew she she was more
Speaker 1: gay than she was. Sure, I'll tell you that much, like,
Speaker 1: like literally it would only be me ever so often
Speaker 1: if she was feeling like in that mood, she'd be
Speaker 1: like bad she was like, um, yeah, she's ever so
Speaker 1: often she hit me up for that. But like I
Speaker 1: might just be like, um, what do you think about
Speaker 1: this girl? Whatever? You know, if I'm just on Instagram
Speaker 1: or something like that, or she'll talk about girl fine,
Speaker 1: I hate, and then we'll start kind of talking about chicks,
Speaker 1: and then it kind of will go into like when
Speaker 1: she sucked her, would we fuck her? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying happening is great because we never did that.
Speaker 1: I would talk about before and she was get super jealous.
Speaker 1: So right now I sent her a dude that I
Speaker 1: fucked and she's like, h he you like yeah, you
Speaker 1: And now we're working like that. So like I've sent
Speaker 1: her to and I'm like, listen, he's gonna be our
Speaker 1: threesome possibilities. Okay, both the niggas don't live here, so
Speaker 1: we're pretty much does she So I gotta like pray
Speaker 1: to God that they're both on a plane at the
Speaker 1: same time coming to New York. There's a lot of work, bro.
Speaker 1: That sounds that sounds too, too complicated, but but I
Speaker 1: don't want to waste my time. Just actually, why don't
Speaker 1: you just that nigga better have bread if he's getting
Speaker 1: a threesome, tellers, that's fly. Both y'all holds out. Put
Speaker 1: y'all up nice since you just hand out threesoms, bitch,
Speaker 1: get a trip out of it. It's not you out beach,
Speaker 1: I got pussy and at out. You know, she gotta
Speaker 1: a paper. We gotta warm her up. You know she
Speaker 1: had up for drinks and then I'll tell you a
Speaker 1: free trip. Always warm a bit up. I used to
Speaker 1: get home. Listen, my nigg is gonna flies out. You
Speaker 1: can get room service girl, whatever you want. Baby, I
Speaker 1: don't know what is it about me, like unless like you,
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is about me, but for
Speaker 1: some reason, I'm like, I just feel disrespected. If like
Speaker 1: I gotta like fly bitch out because he's full of himself,
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, you gotta like because me. I know,
Speaker 1: I'm a with a girl who has something to lose,
Speaker 1: who's doing well for herself, right, you know, trying to
Speaker 1: take off good for you. Now, here's what I do.
Speaker 1: I would go half if I'm if I'm the one like,
Speaker 1: hold on half, you're splitting flights on age bo. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm up. Yeah, well I'm flashed too, bitch. If you
Speaker 1: want me to fly you out, you're gonna get soft
Speaker 1: dick then because I'm not, don't turn me on. I'm like,
Speaker 1: why do I gotta you know why? I'll tell you why.
Speaker 1: I don't like I don't like this like the way
Speaker 1: that's like the way now to me, like it's such
Speaker 1: a like it's such a nasty ass rapper type fucking
Speaker 1: with these weak but just type ship. Like to me,
Speaker 1: that's what it's for. Like, to me, if you want
Speaker 1: to fun with me, cool, because my thing is this,
Speaker 1: I'm always going around, right, I'm always going to place.
Speaker 1: I'm always going whatever. It's like, if you want to come,
Speaker 1: if you're the one pressing it, I'm like, would I
Speaker 1: fly you out? The girl lives in I don't know, Minneapolis,
Speaker 1: you live in l A. If she lived in l A,
Speaker 1: you would have taken her on some dates right before
Speaker 1: you sucked her. You would have taken her out. You
Speaker 1: would have been chivalrous. Uh, probably, who knows. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I definitely have had sex plenty of times without having
Speaker 1: But like I'm just saying, like I don't really see
Speaker 1: what's I don't know. To me, I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 1: when it comes to me with booking flights. The only
Speaker 1: the only way I'm either booking my own flight or
Speaker 1: considering going half is I'm with that person. Like that's it, okay.
Speaker 1: But see that different to me, I don't want to
Speaker 1: give I don't want to give relationship benefits. Let me no,
Speaker 1: let me finish, because to me, a relationship in that
Speaker 1: sense is like like it's an investment. I like I'm
Speaker 1: investing into this relationship. Yeah, but no, I see I
Speaker 1: think obviously I'm not just I'm not flying myself to
Speaker 1: just go get dick. Do you know how fucking how
Speaker 1: much dick there is available? Why I'm a nig We're
Speaker 1: not You're not just gonna get We're gonna do some
Speaker 1: fun ship so you know, I'll pay for that stuff
Speaker 1: once you here, but I'm not gonna fly you friendship.
Speaker 1: But here's what I'm saying. What are you talking about, nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm hooked up nigga, so anywayn and soda for free.
Speaker 1: And what I'm saying, here's what I'm saying Here, I say,
Speaker 1: I gotta really funk with you to put money to it,
Speaker 1: Like I really fun with you. That's fine, But I
Speaker 1: don't want to give like for a girl like you know,
Speaker 1: if you're just gonna come out, we know what it
Speaker 1: is like whatever, Like, I'm not about to give you
Speaker 1: some relationship type benefits, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: if you're just like a random chick like on some
Speaker 1: ship like that. And on top of that, girls are
Speaker 1: so fucking whack these days with these the cloud chasing
Speaker 1: screenshots exposing Niggs. I'm not about to give you nothing
Speaker 1: for you to be like that's why you flew me
Speaker 1: out and blah blah blah, bitch, no you're not. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like flying a girl, I'll make you more
Speaker 1: obligated to her time, that's the only thing. Yeah, if out,
Speaker 1: because I'm like like to me, well, also, also, here's
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking. If I'm flying he out, she's most
Speaker 1: likely staying with me. That's what I'm thinking. I don't
Speaker 1: own doing her own things. I paid for my own flight.
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say if I'm not
Speaker 1: staying with you because to me, but the dude flies
Speaker 1: me out, I'm with him. But but well that too.
Speaker 1: But this is my problem to like. I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe it's the ego thing, but when I fly my
Speaker 1: like for all that, every time I go on a trip,
Speaker 1: like say Atlanta or Chicago or any of these cities
Speaker 1: that I've been too recently, fucking Baltimore, Like, any time
Speaker 1: I fly myself out and nigga's hit me, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you ain't bring me here, fuck you, And I don't
Speaker 1: feel obligated to meet up with no nigga, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you know, pussy, none of that, because I'm here on
Speaker 1: my own time. I'm gonna move on my own time.
Speaker 1: And then I feel like, wait, you didn't you didn't go.
Speaker 1: But to me, I feel like you didn't go out
Speaker 1: of your way to bring me to see you didn't
Speaker 1: go out of your way to bring yourself to me. Therefore,
Speaker 1: just because I'm in your city, I don't believe in
Speaker 1: that whole I'm in town. What's up? Like? No, No,
Speaker 1: I don't you do. I don't like ya, niggas like
Speaker 1: enjoy the city. Enjoy the city, niggas. I feel guilt
Speaker 1: because al right, anyway, let's go. We're gonna get into
Speaker 1: the horrible decision because while we're actually talking about this,
Speaker 1: it actually to our horrible decisions. So, um, I like
Speaker 1: the title of it. It's called blue checked boxes because
Speaker 1: he's out a blue check on what uh So it's
Speaker 1: called blue check boxes. So I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: the check boxes we have in our mind in terms
Speaker 1: of dating. So, like, for me, I know, I like
Speaker 1: tall men, so they have to be tall, they have
Speaker 1: to have X amount of money they make. I'm getting
Speaker 1: weary on the kid thing right now, just because I'm
Speaker 1: getting older. But so there's certain things that when we
Speaker 1: date we sit here and say this is a deal breaker,
Speaker 1: this is what I want. So I wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about how many of the check boxes does someone have
Speaker 1: to have for you to make them your girlfriend? Are
Speaker 1: you their boyfriend? And then kind of what are the
Speaker 1: deal breakers? And you making someone not your boyfriend or
Speaker 1: girlfriend feel so guilty when you say kids, I think
Speaker 1: I can't deal with a woman with kids A woman, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think I could either. I feel really guilty
Speaker 1: to say it. I really do, because my friend for
Speaker 1: a long time, obviously until the timing, like it's hard.
Speaker 1: Dudes with kids generally don't have an old time bullshit.
Speaker 1: So my my thing is I'm getting older now I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't care if you have them five days a week,
Speaker 1: as long as it's two where we can kick it fine.
Speaker 1: But with women you're saying they don't have them, like
Speaker 1: I feel like dating a mother it's a lot more
Speaker 1: strenuous something I would because like you can out wet,
Speaker 1: you have to really commit to that ship. So it
Speaker 1: would be. And I think the reason people straight from
Speaker 1: that is because or even men, I know that if
Speaker 1: I started dating a woman with kids, it's like if
Speaker 1: I start caring about you, then I have to fully
Speaker 1: invest in that kids. I'm telling you you got to
Speaker 1: wait for mommy time for you to get anything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but with a man, I feel like without a child,
Speaker 1: So yeah, you're good. I don't care if I'm telling
Speaker 1: you afford whatever. But I know, like I know like
Speaker 1: Ale who basically have like they go like Thursday to Thursday. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's different. Different. I was about to say I was
Speaker 1: dating a guy who had like his kids like three
Speaker 1: days a week, and to me, like, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: like this is probably why I don't want kids. I'm
Speaker 1: such a selfish person, so I like, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: So to me also with dating, like I want someone
Speaker 1: invested in me. And in real life, if you if
Speaker 1: you have children, I feel like now I'm maybe the
Speaker 1: third or fourth woman in your life because you're gonna
Speaker 1: have your kids before me. Your mom is going to
Speaker 1: be before me, and I'm not gonna lie. In more
Speaker 1: times than not, the baby mom does like kind of
Speaker 1: in a lot of situations, maybe not all because a
Speaker 1: lot of niggas, but that is the mother of their child,
Speaker 1: and a lot of men go back to their baby
Speaker 1: moms for whatever connection that they have, and so with
Speaker 1: me with dating men with kids, it's more so like
Speaker 1: damn I have to sit here. No, I'm never going
Speaker 1: to be number one. I can never be number one,
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean that's kind of success relationships Serena
Speaker 1: and Alan, like they have a blended family. They don't
Speaker 1: have kids to get there for they're gonna get a
Speaker 1: ten years. I mean, well there are there are there
Speaker 1: are blended families that do work. No, there's not. There's
Speaker 1: not Like I don't know, I haven't said that. I
Speaker 1: haven't seen success with at least my male friends with kids,
Speaker 1: like they love their girls. Like I mean, a real
Speaker 1: man is going to make it work between the two
Speaker 1: of you. I a dude, but a kid, and he
Speaker 1: made it very What I say about that, like I
Speaker 1: never understood the whole, Like, like you know, there's always
Speaker 1: it seems like to be this priority list, right obviously
Speaker 1: Zen that's my daughter's name for the ones who don't
Speaker 1: know that. But Zen is going to be of course,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: the woman I'm in love with is also going to
Speaker 1: be very It's just different range of course, Like my
Speaker 1: mother is going to be up high to as well,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like, oh that's before like I'm
Speaker 1: never gonna have this you versus that that's never because
Speaker 1: to me, you create that in a sense when you're
Speaker 1: always like, well, you know, you get an argument here,
Speaker 1: your nigg is like, you're never gonna be come before
Speaker 1: my mama, before my daughter. And that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So a lot of men will will do that. And
Speaker 1: that's where I feel like it's not even women doing that.
Speaker 1: But when you get into arguments, those are the things
Speaker 1: that come up. Or say a mother doesn't like the
Speaker 1: girl you're dating, then that becomes a power guy. And
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about that. Say I'm a
Speaker 1: grown man, so my mom could be like my mom
Speaker 1: y no no no no no no no the mother
Speaker 1: man that's not a man with a kid, no no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no. But said she's saying she relationship that
Speaker 1: holds weight. Yeah, Like if mom says I don't like,
Speaker 1: then the guy kind of gets some guys do me.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give a funk. I would like, okay, mom,
Speaker 1: yeah no, I'm just Jesus, why then are you going right?
Speaker 1: So okay, So it looks like we would all be down,
Speaker 1: like we're okay, if you have kids, it's not a
Speaker 1: deal breaker. So I want to ask you if I
Speaker 1: dated to do with a kid and it got real serious,
Speaker 1: I may not have a kid if they don't want
Speaker 1: one like that, that's my thing. I don't want kids.
Speaker 1: So now that's why I feel like I'm more accepting
Speaker 1: of men who have them, because I don't want to
Speaker 1: sit here and say I don't want kids and then
Speaker 1: tell him I ain't gonna have no kids with you.
Speaker 1: So a lot of times men who have kids already
Speaker 1: they've reached the point where they're like, well, I really
Speaker 1: don't want anyone. At first I thought I wanted my
Speaker 1: own baby. Now I realized I just enjoy having a
Speaker 1: kid in my life, whether it's a close friend. I
Speaker 1: don't want a dog. I don't want to do you okay,
Speaker 1: we'll go. You're like, I can do this. This one's adorable.
Speaker 1: So what are deal breakers for you and dating? Well,
Speaker 1: as far as I checking, um, I'm very spiritually led
Speaker 1: in a way, so like I'm always just drawn to
Speaker 1: a certain type of energy, and sometimes I like I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily have the words to say what that necessarily is.
Speaker 1: But I do know like the way I am, I've
Speaker 1: worked on myself, you know, and I tracked a certain
Speaker 1: type of people, and I just know I get along
Speaker 1: with everybody I tracked in my life at this point. Um,
Speaker 1: that's not necessarily everybody I meet, I'm cool because I'll
Speaker 1: read them and I'm like, I'm not for me right,
Speaker 1: But like, so I do like spiritually drawn women. I'm
Speaker 1: not honestly okay, so I'm not religious, So like a
Speaker 1: girl that's like mad religious, because we're gonna we're gonna
Speaker 1: just we're gonna disconnect and just have so many disagreements.
Speaker 1: God's first on someone's like God in a bio. I
Speaker 1: freak out. I'm not gonna lie. I was just with
Speaker 1: a guy. He took me out on Saturday. Like, but
Speaker 1: it's also weird because it's not like it's not in
Speaker 1: my life. So like I just went out with this
Speaker 1: guy on Saturday, and the only reason I went back
Speaker 1: to his house because I was throwing up. You gotta
Speaker 1: be so fucking drunk. It was so bad. So we
Speaker 1: ended up like I slept with him, but we didn't
Speaker 1: do anything. I was I was ship faced. Woke up
Speaker 1: the next morning. He was getting dressed and I was like,
Speaker 1: it's Sunday, find you, but it was like it was
Speaker 1: alread like ten forty five. So I'm like he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can make the eleven o'clock service. And I was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home and go back to sleep. And
Speaker 1: I was just like I felt like this, probably you're
Speaker 1: really about to get up and go to church. And
Speaker 1: I think it's not so much about the guy talk,
Speaker 1: Like I could talk about God or a high energy
Speaker 1: all the type. It's like specific energy Jesus or like
Speaker 1: when they it's like specifically because you know that that's
Speaker 1: a specific thing, like the tithing and the money. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you this. All of the friends that I have
Speaker 1: in my life right now, Like I just realized I
Speaker 1: was drunk on a plane yesterday. My friends were texting
Speaker 1: me love you or goodbye or whatever. Any friend that
Speaker 1: calls me says that when they hang up, any friend
Speaker 1: hugs me, touches my face like they show me they
Speaker 1: care about me and they're affectionate. When I meet men
Speaker 1: like my friends, total turn off for me because I
Speaker 1: know that they're also passionate people. And that's really all
Speaker 1: it is, and that's that could be an energy thing too,
Speaker 1: right when you're on that same frequency, Like that's really
Speaker 1: what it is, and it doesn't take you a long
Speaker 1: time to even notice when you meet someone. For me,
Speaker 1: it's that first interaction, like I feel like I've been
Speaker 1: blessed with like an intuition and a self awareness where
Speaker 1: I could kind of just like I know, like I
Speaker 1: haven't been wrong so far in this past couple of years,
Speaker 1: like when I'm like, okay, I can continue on in
Speaker 1: my life with a connectional communication with this person, and
Speaker 1: so far, like none of them are disappointed me or
Speaker 1: anything I've been. I've been blessed with a big dig radar.
Speaker 1: So I would like to I would like to think
Speaker 1: that's a blessing in itself. But I really don't have problems.
Speaker 1: But I know people will me good, okay, nice, all right.
Speaker 1: So I wanted I wanted to ask you guys now
Speaker 1: with these preferences, maybe because y'all know I got a
Speaker 1: hype preference, which I know, we got fifteen we got
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes and it will do what I got this.
Speaker 1: I know you think, you know this. This is what
Speaker 1: I do, Thank you very much. What then do you
Speaker 1: think I'm just saying I got this. I've already been
Speaker 1: checking her alt I mean should know, but I got this.
Speaker 1: We'll do thirty minutes. I got this, So we got
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes left. So I wanted you all of all
Speaker 1: of the time. Special we fight on this episode with
Speaker 1: you even really weird? Um, So I guess this is
Speaker 1: a question that was asked by a listener before we
Speaker 1: wrap up the horrible decision I was getting there. Um,
Speaker 1: what happens when someone doesn't check the boxes for a
Speaker 1: relationship but you still want them around? How do you
Speaker 1: handle casual sex with someone who wants more? So it's
Speaker 1: a two part questions. So you have someone that doesn't
Speaker 1: necessarily check the boxes of a relationship, but you still
Speaker 1: want that person around. Okay, but like, so but does
Speaker 1: that are they talking about? Does a person want a
Speaker 1: relationship still? So that's where the second part comes from,
Speaker 1: when yes, So, what happens when someone doesn't check the
Speaker 1: boxes for a relationship but you still want to be
Speaker 1: around them? Around them? And what? So, Like, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie, there's people who I like to funck who
Speaker 1: I probably would never see myself being with. So the
Speaker 1: the sex part is that the first part first? And
Speaker 1: then so I would say the first part is in,
Speaker 1: then you just continue on like that. If as long
Speaker 1: as you're honest about don't take no choice away from somebody,
Speaker 1: then just continue on like that. If that's not okay
Speaker 1: with the other person, then you just gotta get out
Speaker 1: your selfish ways and let that person do them. So
Speaker 1: that's where the second part comes in, because I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I feel like this isn't something that's often communicated,
Speaker 1: like a guy will sit here and still be and
Speaker 1: maybe give a boyfriend experience or you're maybe now fucking raw,
Speaker 1: but you don't want to be with that person. So
Speaker 1: the second part, and this is actually one of the
Speaker 1: questions from Instagram, how do you handle casual sex with
Speaker 1: someone who wants more? So now you're maybe in this
Speaker 1: situation right, Okay, you're shaking your head. So how does
Speaker 1: that work? Cause I'm sure you've you've been like we've
Speaker 1: been sucking three minutes more. No, this is this is
Speaker 1: just um from the thing. We got one one homel
Speaker 1: that's it. I've been. I've been there, So to do that,
Speaker 1: to be honest, um, you don't continue that because in
Speaker 1: my selfish ways in the past, I had continued it,
Speaker 1: and I kind of it was like, even though I
Speaker 1: was verbally because Nigga's we shamefully do this a lot,
Speaker 1: I was verbally telling her what I meant, but my
Speaker 1: actions weren't always being the same as that, Right, So
Speaker 1: I was bullshit and in a way where like I
Speaker 1: was kind of dangling the carrot in front of her,
Speaker 1: like we like to call it. So I was dangling
Speaker 1: the care in front of her to continue the sexual relationship,
Speaker 1: right and so, and I know she wanted more, so
Speaker 1: I would kind of give her enough to keep coming back.
Speaker 1: Right now, you gott understand at this point, I was
Speaker 1: immature in my life. I was this is so manipulated
Speaker 1: sitting the custom, right, but there is a little lot
Speaker 1: of guys do that. This is why I like, because
Speaker 1: you seem like you can actually speak. Well, we don't
Speaker 1: have many straatement on here that actually can get through
Speaker 1: that makes sense. So, like, I really want you to
Speaker 1: explain this because I feel like a lot of us
Speaker 1: women get into these situations from the male person. By
Speaker 1: then why then y'all do this ship? Yeah? So, because well,
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, commitment is like fucking you know.
Speaker 1: One of the scariest things, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: monogamous commitment. At least I could be committed to someone,
Speaker 1: but I don't have to be monogaous if we agree
Speaker 1: on that. I always I don't like when people be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you can't be in a committed relationship. I can be monogamous.
Speaker 1: Part when they they're like, oh, if you want to
Speaker 1: someone else, Like, look, sexual desires don't necessarily mean anything
Speaker 1: else within finding a partner, Like I could want to
Speaker 1: fund other people but want you for the rest of
Speaker 1: the exactly exactly. But to go back to it, like
Speaker 1: I was subconsciously doing this at that time, like I
Speaker 1: wasn't quite I was lying to myself in a way
Speaker 1: to the point like you lie to yourself so much
Speaker 1: you start convincing yourself. I think we've all done this
Speaker 1: in certain parts of our lives. You know, whether it's like, well,
Speaker 1: the job pays well, but you hate it you want
Speaker 1: to leave, or something like that. You know, so you
Speaker 1: lie to yourself to convince you, like, oh, I'm staying
Speaker 1: there for like more years I should but like six.
Speaker 1: So I feel it so um when I was doing
Speaker 1: that and that It came to a point where I
Speaker 1: was doing some self realization where I was just like,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't like what would it be like
Speaker 1: not lie to myself at all? Right? And I was
Speaker 1: like sitting down having this conversation with myself really, and
Speaker 1: I was realizing, I've done that to one where my damn,
Speaker 1: I give them enough. I give them enough affection, I
Speaker 1: give them good dick, might I add, and then I
Speaker 1: take them out like yeah, until their subjection they agree,
Speaker 1: so then and then I take them out. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm cool with their friends. I make everybody laugh
Speaker 1: and make them laugh, you know. I treat them well.
Speaker 1: I respect them as human beings. I respect them. I'm
Speaker 1: not disrespectful. And I realized I'm doing that, but then
Speaker 1: I'm not. There's like certain steps to the next level
Speaker 1: stuff that I'm not doing that, you know, so like
Speaker 1: I won't be as consistent in their life because I
Speaker 1: know consistency will run into that conversation of commitment and relationship.
Speaker 1: And um. When I was realized I was doing that,
Speaker 1: I was like the parents, that was one of the
Speaker 1: insecure like bringing bringing some family like when I have parents,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh want he want he wants me
Speaker 1: and her little me and her little brother. Wood was
Speaker 1: cool out the rip, like yeah, like I knew that
Speaker 1: I met my first girlfriend, his parents and whole family
Speaker 1: and her little sister. Be kind of came someone I
Speaker 1: was cool with for a while before me and her
Speaker 1: like broke up and stuff. So like that stuff, like
Speaker 1: all that stuff, like yeah, that's but I would like
Speaker 1: I would put a wall right there, you know, and
Speaker 1: like to avoid that stuff and just give her all
Speaker 1: the how do we read this wall? I think to me,
Speaker 1: I mean you gotta ask yourself, okay, like how consistent
Speaker 1: is he in your life? You know what I'm saying? Right,
Speaker 1: And then if you were wanting a relationship to the
Speaker 1: women out there, if you want to relationship, there's questions
Speaker 1: that you're that um that you're going to have to
Speaker 1: ask him, right, ask those questions. How is he answering
Speaker 1: those questions? He running around? It is he direct? And
Speaker 1: he's like I told you, I don't want nothing from
Speaker 1: the beginning. You know what makes it? Because every time
Speaker 1: I feel like it's classic. But it always works, and
Speaker 1: it generally works because it'll push you away from a
Speaker 1: nigger that you need to be with. But when you
Speaker 1: stop being on a dick, like even when I'm consistently trying,
Speaker 1: like you know what, I see this is going on
Speaker 1: where I'm done suddenly bam, that's the ego thing. But
Speaker 1: being when if an ego things some men, then real
Speaker 1: life and now you know what, I don't want you
Speaker 1: out of my life. And it's like, oh, I'm already, well,
Speaker 1: let's go ahead, let's rush, let's let's we gotta hurry up.
Speaker 1: He said, Oh my god, we gotta go. We're gonna
Speaker 1: do we just do the questions we got you. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into our homemail. Um it's called Deprived
Speaker 1: of Life's Pleasures. Hey, ladies, love the show. Thanks for
Speaker 1: being the pick me up I need during my morning
Speaker 1: commute or in the office at my desk. Our listeners
Speaker 1: have jobs. Just needs you to know. I've been in
Speaker 1: a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now. I
Speaker 1: love him to death. He's literally my best friend. We
Speaker 1: don't argue. He's borderline perfect. The sex was great, so
Speaker 1: for personal health reasons, he just hasn't been in the
Speaker 1: mood for sex and quite some time. I'm talking three
Speaker 1: to four months. We just haven't been fucking I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be under the understanding girlfriend, but your girl is frustrated.
Speaker 1: My sex drive has always been on a hundred and
Speaker 1: listening to the podcast plus watching porn has been wanting
Speaker 1: to try a new or at least keep doing the
Speaker 1: old things. Something. He just ain't feeling it. All the
Speaker 1: toys in the world can't sum up to the real thing,
Speaker 1: and I just find myself super tense and grumpy over
Speaker 1: little ship. I don't know what to do because I'm
Speaker 1: not the type to step out and find it elsewhere.
Speaker 1: I would never do that to him, but a bitch
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Speaker 1: on E. I thought I thought that was cute, right right,
Speaker 1: thank you listener for knowing how to spell and not
Speaker 1: have any triple over words. And no, we do have some.
Speaker 1: And I'd be like, what's right, and I can't. I
Speaker 1: can't even So what would you, I guess, both of you,
Speaker 1: What would you, guys advise her to do? In this
Speaker 1: scenario where she said health reasons, I'm hoping you don't
Speaker 1: have a breakout. Three months is a long break. That's
Speaker 1: a long I don't think breakout like oh no, wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold hold and She's right. If you if
Speaker 1: a man gets HPV and they end up getting general awards,
Speaker 1: they could last. This is what it is. It's not
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so what is it? So? So personal
Speaker 1: health reasons? Why would a guy be in a sex
Speaker 1: drout to where he no longer wants to man? The problem?
Speaker 1: The only thing the problem with this is like I
Speaker 1: wish I knew what it was. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: so I can actually give her my thoughts as clear
Speaker 1: as right. Did she say that they talked about it.
Speaker 1: I don't think that she did. I don't think wrote them.
Speaker 1: I just feel like a simple answer to four months
Speaker 1: he knows why everybody everybody in the room. I don't
Speaker 1: want to sit here and lady cheating. But I mean that,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry cheating. I mean if he does, yeah,
Speaker 1: if he does, and she's but like I mean, so
Speaker 1: health reasons, I will say I want to bring it, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I probably want to bring it into maybe a mental health.
Speaker 1: So there is a guy um that I know, and
Speaker 1: I brought him up before, very very close um with him.
Speaker 1: He's a good friend of mine and he's having the
Speaker 1: issue right now between wondering if he's still sexually attracted
Speaker 1: two women because he now had with trans women. That's
Speaker 1: what he got. No, so he's been liking trans women,
Speaker 1: and so the guests and so the conversation of to
Speaker 1: where he now only can watch trans women porn, he
Speaker 1: like reaches and talks to them, so where he now
Speaker 1: doesn't know if you have a girlfriend, though he did well,
Speaker 1: but now that's why it's just like he's like now
Speaker 1: like I don't know if women is really what arouses
Speaker 1: me more because I get so aroused. Okay, so from
Speaker 1: all the speculators transom herpes we're making, here's what I'll
Speaker 1: tell her. I'll say, um, for whatever, whatever the health
Speaker 1: problem is, do as much research as you can about that.
Speaker 1: Find out what you can on your like you would depression, whatever, whatever, Yeah,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, like I would do as much research
Speaker 1: about that and kind of learn about as much as
Speaker 1: possible to see how you can cope with it, not
Speaker 1: only how he could cope with it, how you could
Speaker 1: cope with it, how you guys can cope with it together.
Speaker 1: What if it's just skem like, how do y'all get
Speaker 1: rid of that? Do you know what that is? It's
Speaker 1: like code? Like you know, you probably don't hash magma
Speaker 1: because it's like cheese. Is that like when you pull
Speaker 1: the skin back and there and stuff in it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's why I said, you probably don't even know
Speaker 1: about it. You know, it's still like word. Well we're
Speaker 1: going to whatever podcast. But I guess, Okay, so the
Speaker 1: communicate with him and do she stay bringing people? Gives
Speaker 1: I just really sorry, wait, wait you have something? Oh bitch?
Speaker 1: I thought it was what is this? I didn't even
Speaker 1: go hold you because she brought like Andrew Schaltz and Charlottagne.
Speaker 1: What is this? You gotta read it? It's a coffee.
Speaker 1: Her face is, don't even like you like that? And
Speaker 1: I gotta look at you use this for your daily coffee?
Speaker 1: So you see my face every day? Said that every
Speaker 1: guy day. We barely make it twice a month. Goddamnit. No,
Speaker 1: this is cute. So we went to like this. She
Speaker 1: used to be she makes like calendars and guys. Right,
Speaker 1: well she did this one a black guy. She corny
Speaker 1: is I had to black man when I went to
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Speaker 1: new way, you do, you know? Yes? You know? I
Speaker 1: guess anyways, I guess, but I don't know if you
Speaker 1: heard that last part for the listener, I'm sorry, but like,
Speaker 1: communicate with him after you've done your researching whatever you
Speaker 1: have to do, then talk to him thoroughly. She about
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