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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome. Before we start, we do want to

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Speaker 1: do some what church announcements is. That's kind of what

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Speaker 1: be like you want to be like all the other podcasts.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, that's just that's just came from I don't

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Speaker 1: even listen to that show. But anyways, y'all, I do

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Speaker 1: want to let y'all know we ain't gonna be arguing

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Speaker 1: in front of y'all, but we is on a tour.

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Speaker 1: Uh we might argue in the green you know. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we will be in the d m V on January

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Speaker 1: the nineteenth. I do want to let you guys know

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Speaker 1: we have added a second show because y'all show us

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Speaker 1: so much mother fucking love. We sold out in four days,

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Speaker 1: so we do have two shows. Yeah, it's definitely no,

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Speaker 1: maybe not. I don't know. Christmas niggas, can you wait

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Speaker 1: till I finished? We could do that in the intro.

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Speaker 1: Damn you always sucking shu up. Anyways, after that should

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Speaker 1: We will be in Toronto meet us in the sixth

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Speaker 1: on March thirtieth. We also went ahead and added a

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Speaker 1: not doing both. We're doing Miami. I want to be

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Speaker 1: a thought. Okay, well, well I guess we're gonna do Miami,

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Speaker 1: not Orlando. We're working on the rest of those details,

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Speaker 1: but we're coming on tour anyways. Guys, welcome to yet

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Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. Now you can say Merry Christmas,

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Speaker 1: Off Mary, Christmas, Loving Light. I hope that you guys

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Speaker 1: buy your girlfriends, your boyfriends, your love us, your brother's,

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Speaker 1: your mother's some Horrible Decisions tickets. Come see us, come

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Speaker 1: fly out and see us. People do that ship all

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Speaker 1: the time, so stop telling us you ain't coming to

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Speaker 1: Detroit or Philly, yeah, or New Wanles. Hope your ass

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Speaker 1: on the fight. Not only that real quick, this is

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Speaker 1: a high. This is the horribles. You can come by yourself,

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Speaker 1: like there's tons of people that be hitting other people.

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Speaker 1: Just started a post on Patreon. If you're going to

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Speaker 1: any of the shows by yourself, come me a friend,

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Speaker 1: jump in the car. Um. I mean, you know I'm

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Speaker 1: all about the hippies. Shipp you are, I'm not. But anyways,

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Speaker 1: Marry Christmas, y'all. Hose um. I know I'm getting were like,

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Speaker 1: I know I'm getting old because I'm My Mom's like,

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Speaker 1: I was really thinking. I was really thinking, Wait more

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Speaker 1: I'll ask for Christmas. And now I'm old. As if

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Speaker 1: you guys are listening to this, I'm currently in Mexico

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Speaker 1: with my family. They're probably driving me crazy. They leave

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Speaker 1: and I think you know that's dope. You're just rich.

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Speaker 1: But you know my niggas be mayor he got kids,

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Speaker 1: just want some nice shoes. He's like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: I realized after posting that I will never post my

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Speaker 1: First off, mom gonna hit me up like this is

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Speaker 1: his old teammate, yeah, because what it is this? This

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it's Jordan's first name. Basis, I'm gonna fun,

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Speaker 1: but this is the problem with this podcast, and you

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Speaker 1: He bought six eight y'all, so you know, are you circumcised? Wait?

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Speaker 1: that's not every hairstyle. Let's just say if you decide

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get to icebreakers and she do you want

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Speaker 1: do you want to ask him again? Well the circumsctance, Yes,

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Speaker 1: like because everybody's asking what your dick looks like? All right,

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Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, it's a good looking dick.

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Speaker 1: trim on shave, I trim girth. That was a big question, girth.

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Speaker 1: so she wasn't a coworker. So you she got fired?

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Speaker 1: So then you guys still just maintained a relationship. So

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Speaker 1: like we're still friends now. And I do see that you.

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00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 1: I like that you're posting the baby. I like that

421
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,440
Speaker 1: you're a good father. Looks like you're really I like

422
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,560
Speaker 1: that you because niggas be hiding the baby. They don't

423
00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 1: even show up for the baby shower. But something, I

424
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 1: mean something babies looking like girlfriend. I mean I wasn't.

425
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't the baby shot because it wasn't. It was

426
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,360
Speaker 1: a whole another state, and I wasn't able to go working.

427
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,720
Speaker 1: Were you working? I understand, But no, it does seem

428
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 1: like you're controversial. I want to bring up Shan Booty.

429
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,080
Speaker 1: What else controversial about her? You said you love raw

430
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 1: sex on her show. You're like talking about how much

431
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,159
Speaker 1: you loved it, so like I mean everybody does know.

432
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 1: I like, I mean, I wrap. The majority of the time,

433
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm just saying though, like my my main joint or

434
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 1: like who I'm working with forever for yeah, I'm going,

435
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 1: oh what, Yes, I love that. I mean yeah, but

436
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 1: you made it sound like like like I'm just raw

437
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 1: thinking no, no, no, no, that's not. But even when

438
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 1: I read like tweets and men talk about raw sex,

439
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 1: they act like they don't want to put on the colum,

440
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 1: they don't want to have sex that they have to. Look,

441
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 1: I still even enjoy it, like especially when you know,

442
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: forget the nickname, but my nick is called it new beats.

443
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 1: When it's new beats, like, it's still enjoyable because I

444
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 1: never had or explore this girl before, So I'm put

445
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 1: on the com of regardless like I don't like, no,

446
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like, yeah, I guess I should have

447
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 1: clarify that. Looking back at it didn't at all because

448
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 1: even like Eve even like having a child, but with her,

449
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 1: like you know, that was like, no, I didn't mean

450
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: the only time the way you said it just sounded like, well,

451
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,719
Speaker 1: I really like, Um, we're gonna go ahead and segue

452
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: into our vanilla ship. Um, it's something that we actually

453
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 1: brought up do you want to talk about this show?

454
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: And then we got some questions to you about it

455
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 1: because it has to do with sex and movie. This

456
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,680
Speaker 1: movie is old and actually I posted it because I

457
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 1: just I didn't even get to finish it yet, but

458
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 1: you already like I didn't like it. So it's called

459
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,159
Speaker 1: love right, um, if you want to look it up

460
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 1: on Netflix by guests bar No. It has Zoe Prabvit's

461
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 1: fiance in it, and if you've seen My Braids, obviously

462
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 1: I'm into Zoe right now. And the movie starts and

463
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:48,199
Speaker 1: it's two people like touching each other, which I love

464
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 1: because I love masturbating together. And I was already into it,

465
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 1: and when I was tired, like I love Yeah. So

466
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,880
Speaker 1: he came writing on this girl's maybe in her mouth

467
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 1: a hand and she's like, wait, they showed the dick.

468
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: Come you don't understand. So it's the most sexually explicit movie.

469
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: That's everyone on Netflix Somiac. Well, they said it's not

470
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 1: as much as Inphomaniac. And then I think Blue is

471
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 1: the warm Colors, the lesbian one. But he also did

472
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 1: that one, so I can see it that come on Netflix.

473
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 1: It's real. It's so I looked it up and I

474
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 1: was like, is this real sex? Like, what's going on? So,

475
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 1: he says. The guy who made the film says he

476
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 1: wanted to have real people, not porn actors, create real sex.

477
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 1: They edited the faces on the porn bodies. He said

478
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: that he um, really yeah, so this was just compained

479
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 1: a prosthetic penis and on the train, I heard about that,

480
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 1: but I didn't know if that was real. He says

481
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: that with Karl Gesman, who's always fiance one of the

482
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 1: main characters, that he didn't see his dick before, but

483
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: he knew a girl that he fucked and he heard

484
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: he was gifted. It's crazy to even hear this because

485
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 1: from what I've heard with even really big actors, when

486
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: they have to do maybe when the director wants a

487
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 1: nude scene or these type of sex scenes, they asked

488
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: for more money sometimes to perform these ways. So to

489
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: know that the whole guy to look, yeah, so to

490
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:11,719
Speaker 1: know that like the whole head and wait, is there

491
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 1: a pain? He is he black? What is he? I

492
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: feel like he might have a little bit. Yeah, I

493
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: think he's a person, he's a he's a boy of color.

494
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: But the threesome scene, oh, my god, it was so real.

495
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: I was so turned on. I said it to scissors.

496
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: I was like, you always gonna so I want to

497
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: ask you then? Um, and this is why I like,

498
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 1: I thought it was a great segway to even like

499
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: ask you because someone asked on our Instagram, how awkward

500
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: is it acting like you're having sex on Insecure when

501
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 1: you're not? Oh, man, like have you got to do

502
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: multiple scenes? Right? Someone that is as like, I didn't

503
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: know Ivan doesn't curse and personal life or anything like that.

504
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: Who is so look he's laying Oh yeah, I guess not. Yeah,

505
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: she's substitute word sometimes once mighty but usually no. But

506
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: I mean she's a version of her life. So that

507
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: whole comedy show. I went to see it like nothing,

508
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: And I didn't realize that until we were sitting at

509
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: the table talking about it. Um, but like if someone

510
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 1: so que unquote Vanilla, I guess and how is that? Yeah?

511
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: You know, it was crazy about it. She was the

512
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 1: one that had to come from me about that because

513
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 1: I've never done it, and she has a whole season

514
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: under her belt, you know what I'm saying, So, like,

515
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: you know, getting my TV Cherry Pop version was interesting

516
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: and I was just like, actually, um die one of

517
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: our one of our costumes designers. She or she's in

518
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: the roldrobe department. She was the one that made me

519
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: feel real comfortable, cause I was like nervous. I was like, man,

520
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: because like you're cool. You think you're cool with it,

521
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: and then the day comes and I'm going on my

522
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 1: trailing as see from my wardrobe is a robe and

523
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 1: a cock sock, right, yeah, you know, so that's what

524
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: you have to put over the stuff and not just

525
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: you gotta put your balls in it too, and then

526
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: you tighten it up. It's like it's kind of like

527
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: you know what those little sacks like where the sunglass? Yeah,

528
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: so you type that gives you like, you know, you

529
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: could tighten it. And then um so did you feel

530
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: like insecure? Like it made you look too small? I

531
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 1: mean that's what I was going to ask. Did you

532
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: get hard? We'll get to all that hold on. So

533
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: um um she the lady I was in the wardrobe department,

534
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: she was like, um she, I was sitting down. She

535
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: was like, look over there and she points over. So

536
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: Ivan Ivan was like talking to some of the writers

537
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: or like the hair people, and She's like you know whatever,

538
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: being normal and laughing or something, and she was like,

539
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: are you see how comfortable and cool she is? And

540
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 1: I was like yeah. She was like and she's a version.

541
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: She's like, you do this in her life, right in

542
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: real life. And then it was like, you know, you

543
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: know how she is, Like if this was like something

544
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: that uncomfortable, she would be like, no, okay, cool, Yeah,

545
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. So that made me feel a

546
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 1: little better. I also talked to some of the fellas

547
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: like j in the line um and got some of

548
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: their like, you know, advice on it. And you know,

549
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: there was just one thing where like because there is

550
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,239
Speaker 1: this thing when you're doing in the studio, like when

551
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: you take off that road, there is a vulnerable like breeze,

552
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: I just at your cheeks people, what you got, your

553
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: camera operators, you're sounding deep and director. It depends on

554
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: it varies per set because I mean, because if I'm sucking,

555
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm watching that, if I'm Will Smith or George Clote,

556
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: I could be like, only want one person in here,

557
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: and that's gonna happen. But so give me a couple

558
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: of years. But so now, but so they have they

559
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: close a set down they'll shut down the monitors and

560
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: other department, other sections and just half theirs depending on

561
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: who it is and um and and then they'll have

562
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: who whoever is absolutely necessary for the scenes to work

563
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: in there. Um And that was fine, but I'll tell

564
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: you what, even like, I'm doing a new show right

565
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: now and I had a sex scene in there, and

566
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: it was even more. I was more nervous doing that

567
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: because it was as close as you could get, like

568
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 1: you know, I mean we both because Evan, when we're

569
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: doing it, she's not naked, she's covered up. You know,

570
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: it's I'm the one, so like that's one thing. But

571
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 1: when we both are naked, like the girl, like there's

572
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: this thing like for the for the pussy they just

573
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: have like this strip, you know, and then just for

574
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: the nipples that cover up. Like so, I mean she's

575
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: naked in front of me, I'm naked, and then like

576
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: there's a certain position we're doing. I was just like, man,

577
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: this is graphic. I was like, wow, all right. So

578
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: I was nervous doing that because it's one thing, like

579
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: you know, because there's one part where she kind of

580
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: has to start like you know, going down on me,

581
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: and I'm standing up, so before we cut to the bed,

582
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: she's like right here, and then she's like kissing on me,

583
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: kissing down and she's like gonna go down on me,

584
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: and obviously it cuts, but like they stop it. But

585
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: like when she did that, I just remember one, particularly

586
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: the last one. Actually she started going down and I

587
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: looked up and I looked right into the eyes of

588
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: the sound guy and he was just like I was like, man,

589
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: this is weird. Like when people be like you almost

590
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: got hard and then just like, well, like nothing, I

591
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: even almost got hard. It's just like I'm experienced, so

592
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: it's not like I'm gonna get hard so easy like that,

593
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: but like right, like the sexual attention, like when you

594
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: know you're working with someone attractive and like finally to

595
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: see them like that, That's what I was thinking about.

596
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: That's why I thought you would get trying on. You

597
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: would think, so she's beautiful, but how like that's like okay,

598
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: that's like you know, let's just say right now with

599
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: okay boom, we're about to shoot this right now, right,

600
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 1: But then we got these niggers looking at us, and

601
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: then we've got some other people here in the corner.

602
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: Like audiences aren't even gonna hold just be down for

603
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: that ship will be how many times have you seen them? Now?

604
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: It would be weird, right, No, bitch, I'll be asking

605
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: all my friends to watch people that's your friends. But

606
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like a chubby bearded white guy. You

607
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like, it's not necessarily audience. You

608
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: wanted have been the sex clubs too, though, And I

609
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: ain't like everybody. I like everybody in that bit. I

610
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I can still watch it, but that's

611
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: a sex club. That's my greatest fear about when we

612
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: take that sex trip. Like I'm like, like I have sex,

613
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: I'm sucking nigga dick on the beach right in front

614
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: of everybody. Does Like, no, I could do the beach sitting,

615
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: but like, don't put me in. So I've been there,

616
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: there's canopies, there's um oh, I've been there before. Yeah,

617
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: so this will this will be fun. But I went

618
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: with my home girls last time. I didn't go. What

619
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: a dude? So mind you the dude that I want

620
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: to bring, I'm just I'm waiting. I'm waiting because I'm

621
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: like Nick, if I have a boyfriend by then, you

622
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: can't come anymore. Right, So I've been telling scissors right

623
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: because she's like I don't really want to suck some

624
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: random dude. I'm like, cool, we're gonna bring the Dickt's cool.

625
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: So the only thing is like I'm wondering, like are

626
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: we all somebody else? What were well? And that's the thing,

627
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: like don't we like like do we like have to

628
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: like time it out? We all three in one room

629
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: where we be like, yo, I'm bringing this bitch back,

630
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: like are you in or you're not? Like? Well, see,

631
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: this can actually lead into our kink of the week

632
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: because I have a way that maybe I can help

633
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: you guys with this um um. So kink of the

634
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: Week is sexual roleplay. It also goes with you are

635
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: a actor. Hello, So I thought it just made sense bitch,

636
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: fuck you because I know that's not a cheesy hole.

637
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: This is very actually, this is very common. I don't

638
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: know if we've done this before, but I want to

639
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 1: get into it. So, sexual role play is role play

640
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two

641
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: or more people who act out roles in a sexual

642
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: fantasy and maybe a form of for play and be

643
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual for play as a

644
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: means of overcoming sexual inhibition. So if you're nervous, I

645
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: already know. So it may take place in the real

646
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: world or via an Internet forum, chat room, video game,

647
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: or email, allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interest

648
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: to be enacted. So real quick, we propone to get

649
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: a day. Wait, you want to be a pedophile? Okay?

650
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: So here, So I wanted to give some examples before

651
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: we get into our role playing fantasies. So um, here's

652
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: six examples for any of you who are interested in

653
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: role playing with your partners. So you have good cop,

654
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: really good coup. So this is you're waiting in the

655
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: blankets here gation room with a couple of really bad

656
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: coffee when who walks in but the sexiest detective on

657
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: the force. But you'll never talk no matter what his

658
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: copper has up this sleep and then you get into it.

659
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: This one. So this role play, right, that's this is

660
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: why people ship. This role play scenario has power dynamics,

661
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: some coercent and manipulation. Another one is a fun ride,

662
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: so you could be a hitchhiker getting picked up. That

663
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: one you picked somebody and she's like ok. You know,

664
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: and then you gotta start with roll hey road, Hey

665
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: got that point of a good day? You know, family

666
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: l a reference, right, it was real until I was

667
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: recently like the real place in the car with Erica.

668
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: We were just talking about her. That played an insecure

669
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: to shout out to Erica Dickerson and Church Bay. I'm like,

670
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: bitch like the name. So another one, this is actually

671
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: one I've had a fantasy of. So teacher and pupil.

672
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna I used to love the motherfucking basketball

673
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: coaches bitch well clearly, but they would have pe teachers

674
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: soon and now if you wouldn't know, they made man

675
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: bitch ye right, I didn't even go right in private school?

676
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: Please thirty five? I think he said high in private school. Okay,

677
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: they might make six figures? Is that Marty day one?

678
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm sure probably even like like the big

679
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: schools that they are good with basketball, like Okaill and Ship. Yeah,

680
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: don't act ever, trist a girl. I know what is

681
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: ever Hooper? Every season? What the is that? Yo? Chill? Chill?

682
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: So I used to have a sport It's blog first off,

683
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: credentialed media with the NBA for two seasons. Yes, let's us. Also,

684
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: I was a very very huge growing up. I was

685
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: a very huge Mellow fan. So yeah, yeah, so I

686
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: mean it just makes sense. And then seriously I had

687
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: I did, and I had a Syracuse jersey. I was

688
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: in love with him. Um. So another one is the

689
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: Boston assistant. Of course, go figure French maid. I could

690
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: see what he's doing that I don't know, you clean,

691
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: She's gonna be down submissive ships. I could see him

692
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: the maid helt finish it. And I a lot at

693
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: another one doctors and nurses. I think that's basic. Um.

694
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: And then this one, I really like expecting a package

695
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: home delivery bitch the home. Yes, so I put this

696
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: in a lot of ports that I watched. It's the plumber.

697
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: I'd rather be. I'd rather have it could be the

698
00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: it could be right. So I was gonna go the

699
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: handymail the plumber or direct TV Nigga who ficky fixy okay,

700
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: will WiFi day WiFi. So this leaves this leads me

701
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: into asking you. First off, I'm curious has anyone yet

702
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: asked you to be drove from insecure in the bedroom.

703
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: I mean I've had requests. What do you seriously, but

704
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 1: not in my real life, not in your real life

705
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: on Twitter. And I feel like, first of all, for

706
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: someone to ask that, I mean, they don't have to

707
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: be someone that doesn't know me at all, because I

708
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: feel like if you know me and to ask that

709
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie, maybe drove better than you, maybe dropped

710
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: out a more swagging, And I mean, you'll be real

711
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: confident on the show nigger. You might have not had

712
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: that confident that married Nigga and it's like, oh, you're

713
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: gonna suck me while your wife is like because you know,

714
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: what's the wife daving Candice. So I want to ask you, guys.

715
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: I guess this is where we'll get into. So if

716
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: you could have a role fantasy, what would your ideal

717
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: role place scenario be. Guess we'll start with the guys. Well,

718
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: we know you're someone for sure, babysitter. They come home

719
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 1: and like mom and dad, yeah yeah, and like even

720
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: though there's no kid in the house, because I'm already

721
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: really thinking I'm gonna do especially when you get to

722
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: a sex because they got theme nights they do oh yeah,

723
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: so there's toga night, there's lingerie night, there's like he's

724
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: already like, oh my god, you're gonna wear the school

725
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: girls skirt. I'm like down, but babysitter even like fun

726
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: really quiet because I love to have to be quiet

727
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: where there's like a hand okay, and then I kind

728
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: of want the dad to suck me first and then

729
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: like them in and it's like, oh my god, I'm sorry,

730
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: I have to eat. I have an awful one. So

731
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to you. Mine is awful? What is it? No?

732
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: Because mine really bad? Go lie like so and I'm

733
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: not gonna say the name of the person, but I

734
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: have like this fantasy of being sucked by a guy

735
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 1: and his dad, like a fine dad, this is not

736
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,439
Speaker 1: you said yeah, but you didn't. We can role play

737
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: like maybe you got an older friend. I don't know,

738
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: but like your daddy nigga older friends like nine years

739
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: older than him. I think, don't have baby the time,

740
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: y'all suit out spark brothers or something. I mean, I've

741
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: done that, but like step step they were step they

742
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: were the same dad. They didn't have the same she

743
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: was like basically friends death not real brothers. Um so

744
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: that would be kind of mine, Like I would want

745
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: to kind of like, you know, be on some ship

746
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know, maybe we're all playing cards

747
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: or something that's I'm not gonna lie to you. I

748
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: literally just sat here with the porns that we had

749
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: on n A K about how disgusting the fucking incess

750
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: porn was. And that really is that it's absolutely into

751
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: step brothers, like a dad and the son. That's like

752
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: mother daughter. Oh is mother? Oh it is? But they

753
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: got the same. But you gotta ask me like a

754
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, if if a mother and daughter and

755
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: they both was bad as he and they both wanted

756
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: to me, I'm not caring about thinking of that story.

757
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 1: Remember he sucked a mother and he did podcast and

758
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: this guy told us a story. Shout out to Premium.

759
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: Pete heard that story and yeah, so so we went

760
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: back to you now, Joe, Um, sorry, what is your

761
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: fancy because I mean I've done, I've done like I've

762
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: done some of these stuff. Share share maybe an experience

763
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 1: of when you role played. I would like to hear that,

764
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: UM I did one like okay, well some start. I

765
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: mean the first time I did it was like something

766
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: easy to cut, like use my way into it. It

767
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: was like going to um this girl was was going

768
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: to a party that she invited me to, but then

769
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 1: like the whole thing was to act like we didn't

770
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 1: know each other at all, and like what she actually

771
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: went with. A dude was trying to funk with her,

772
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: but it's to his expense, like she was, like she

773
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: went with him, but like the hope it was to

774
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: feed into the whole thing of me that's from here.

775
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: And that's what I always say. If I ever have

776
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: a threesome with two men, it's mainly because I want

777
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: to have my man there and then like float with

778
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: the bartender or some ship haven't sucked me, and then

779
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: get punished fucked because I was bad. Yeah, that sounds

780
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: but that's not necessarily trained. That's like a train with

781
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: a transfer. You feeling train that I'm sad. It's not

782
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: a police just like you know you gotta you gotta

783
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: get off, and you know what we don't have No no, no, no,

784
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: I do agree, no no no, but I do agree.

785
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 1: If you're just letting one funk you, then you the

786
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 1: next person. That's a train like maybe because when everyone's together,

787
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: well to me, well train is one two at the

788
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: same time, right, No, that's a threesome. You guys, are

789
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: you guys are one of those you guysn't like that

790
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: or one of those you're not gonna asking, I'm asking

791
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: you replaces. If two women was like we ran a

792
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: train on Sharona's, I'd be like, they show fucking did

793
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: What the fun is? Like, oh my god, we have

794
00:38:56,120 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: got three to everything. Neative they show did? They showed it,

795
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 1: but the women, but you would the one with the

796
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: least amount of clothes on in here? How the fun

797
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: you are? Anyways, we're gonna go ahead down, We're going

798
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 1: to get into anything. But I will say though, anything

799
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 1: that has to do in a profession sending or desk

800
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: for some reason, that's like the whole like I always said,

801
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: like the teacher thing or like a corporate type of thing,

802
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: like where it's like a like a meeting or I

803
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: gotta go like talking to you. I don't know, I

804
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: haven't like like yeah, absolutely so it's like even stuff

805
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: like that, or like now that I'm an actor, I'm

806
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 1: like but not like no, not that I'm like that

807
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 1: I would do this, Not that I would do this

808
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: because I'm extremely professional, but like I would for show

809
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,320
Speaker 1: fucking my trailer if like I was reckless if I

810
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: wasn't asked, profession are you allowed to invite girls on

811
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: set at all? I mean you care, But I'm just like,

812
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a professional, so I wouldn't know,

813
00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 1: but not I wouldn't want to invite. It'd be like

814
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: it would be the fantasy is like to play this

815
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: out is like you know, like like another somebody on

816
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: the set. And then even if even if it's a

817
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: girl that's like you know, doing like you know, camera

818
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: work or something like that, or like the sound chick

819
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: or whatever, Like even if it's like that, and then

820
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: there's this thing where you know, we're kind of signaling

821
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: it and go to the trailer. I wished me and

822
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: my work husband were sexually attracted to each other, because

823
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: that would work so great. I can tell you this

824
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: studio right now where a Gotham podcast studio. By the way,

825
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 1: all the bathroom I looked around. There's no cameras over there,

826
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: and I always thought about sucking in that bathroom, but

827
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: like there's no Yeah, you know, maybe that's a hint.

828
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: Can kill me? And wait, so like you, I'm telling you.

829
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: When I tell you, I tell you you're in a relationship.

830
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: I saw the post. Okay, all right, there's rules, there's rules.

831
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: What are these rules? If she's niggas, She's like, she's

832
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,439
Speaker 1: letting you two niggas exactly, and and what and what else?

833
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: What's the main thing I said that makes you in

834
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: a relationship and she can't with another baby? Holo, hold on,

835
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: hold on. This is a very pivotal moment for her

836
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: and I because, like I said, we dated years ago,

837
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: right and like ground, this might be a little different now.

838
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: Like she's never had a threesome. I'm not saying I've

839
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: had a million of them, but so write a lot,

840
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: a whole lot. I love three I feel like you're

841
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: the most connected to people like that, Like three sions

842
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: are sacred to me. Bro, Like I love that ship.

843
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: I would not waste my time sucking like some dude

844
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: just because he's cute, Like if we're we go, Yeah,

845
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: I like I like three stones. It's weird. It's like

846
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: I like Threeesons, but I don't. But like I only

847
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,800
Speaker 1: like the thing, Like you're gonna bring a bit I

848
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: get so dry, Like, don't ask me, like I just

849
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: wanted to kind of happen. Thank you for saying that.

850
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: I'll try to tell him I might look like it's

851
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: always best when you're not as a man, not forcing

852
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: you gotta let don't even bring it up, be the

853
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: fucking passenger, and then when it's time to go, be

854
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: the captain. But that's the thing, Well, these niggas know

855
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: that I'm into women, so I think that that's why

856
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: it's like, oh yeah, you like women, so yeah, like that.

857
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: But my thing is, i'd rather like, instead of being

858
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: so direct, I'd rather allude to ship like you know,

859
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 1: or like you know, I knew, like I remember talking

860
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: to this one check. I knew she she was more

861
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: gay than she was. Sure, I'll tell you that much, like,

862
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: like literally it would only be me ever so often

863
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 1: if she was feeling like in that mood, she'd be

864
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: like bad she was like, um, yeah, she's ever so

865
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: often she hit me up for that. But like I

866
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: might just be like, um, what do you think about

867
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 1: this girl? Whatever? You know, if I'm just on Instagram

868
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: or something like that, or she'll talk about girl fine,

869
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: I hate, and then we'll start kind of talking about chicks,

870
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: and then it kind of will go into like when

871
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: she sucked her, would we fuck her? You know what

872
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying happening is great because we never did that.

873
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: I would talk about before and she was get super jealous.

874
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: So right now I sent her a dude that I

875
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: fucked and she's like, h he you like yeah, you

876
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: And now we're working like that. So like I've sent

877
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: her to and I'm like, listen, he's gonna be our

878
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: threesome possibilities. Okay, both the niggas don't live here, so

879
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,879
Speaker 1: we're pretty much does she So I gotta like pray

880
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: to God that they're both on a plane at the

881
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 1: same time coming to New York. There's a lot of work, bro.

882
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: That sounds that sounds too, too complicated, but but I

883
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,479
Speaker 1: don't want to waste my time. Just actually, why don't

884
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: you just that nigga better have bread if he's getting

885
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: a threesome, tellers, that's fly. Both y'all holds out. Put

886
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: y'all up nice since you just hand out threesoms, bitch,

887
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 1: get a trip out of it. It's not you out beach,

888
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: I got pussy and at out. You know, she gotta

889
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 1: a paper. We gotta warm her up. You know she

890
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: had up for drinks and then I'll tell you a

891
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: free trip. Always warm a bit up. I used to

892
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: get home. Listen, my nigg is gonna flies out. You

893
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: can get room service girl, whatever you want. Baby, I

894
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: don't know what is it about me, like unless like you,

895
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is about me, but for

896
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: some reason, I'm like, I just feel disrespected. If like

897
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: I gotta like fly bitch out because he's full of himself,

898
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, you gotta like because me. I know,

899
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,399
Speaker 1: I'm a with a girl who has something to lose,

900
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: who's doing well for herself, right, you know, trying to

901
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: take off good for you. Now, here's what I do.

902
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: I would go half if I'm if I'm the one like,

903
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:32,959
Speaker 1: hold on half, you're splitting flights on age bo. Yeah,

904
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: I'm up. Yeah, well I'm flashed too, bitch. If you

905
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: want me to fly you out, you're gonna get soft

906
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: dick then because I'm not, don't turn me on. I'm like,

907
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: why do I gotta you know why? I'll tell you why.

908
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: I don't like I don't like this like the way

909
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: that's like the way now to me, like it's such

910
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: a like it's such a nasty ass rapper type fucking

911
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 1: with these weak but just type ship. Like to me,

912
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: that's what it's for. Like, to me, if you want

913
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: to fun with me, cool, because my thing is this,

914
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: I'm always going around, right, I'm always going to place.

915
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: I'm always going whatever. It's like, if you want to come,

916
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: if you're the one pressing it, I'm like, would I

917
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: fly you out? The girl lives in I don't know, Minneapolis,

918
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: you live in l A. If she lived in l A,

919
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: you would have taken her on some dates right before

920
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: you sucked her. You would have taken her out. You

921
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: would have been chivalrous. Uh, probably, who knows. I don't know.

922
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: I definitely have had sex plenty of times without having

923
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: But like I'm just saying, like I don't really see

924
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: what's I don't know. To me, I'm not gonna lie

925
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 1: when it comes to me with booking flights. The only

926
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: the only way I'm either booking my own flight or

927
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: considering going half is I'm with that person. Like that's it, okay.

928
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: But see that different to me, I don't want to

929
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: give I don't want to give relationship benefits. Let me no,

930
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: let me finish, because to me, a relationship in that

931
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: sense is like like it's an investment. I like I'm

932
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: investing into this relationship. Yeah, but no, I see I

933
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: think obviously I'm not just I'm not flying myself to

934
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: just go get dick. Do you know how fucking how

935
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: much dick there is available? Why I'm a nig We're

936
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: not You're not just gonna get We're gonna do some

937
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: fun ship so you know, I'll pay for that stuff

938
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: once you here, but I'm not gonna fly you friendship.

939
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: But here's what I'm saying. What are you talking about, nigga.

940
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: I'm hooked up nigga, so anywayn and soda for free.

941
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: And what I'm saying, here's what I'm saying Here, I say,

942
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: I gotta really funk with you to put money to it,

943
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: Like I really fun with you. That's fine, But I

944
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: don't want to give like for a girl like you know,

945
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: if you're just gonna come out, we know what it

946
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: is like whatever, Like, I'm not about to give you

947
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: some relationship type benefits, you know what I'm saying, Like

948
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: if you're just like a random chick like on some

949
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: ship like that. And on top of that, girls are

950
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: so fucking whack these days with these the cloud chasing

951
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: screenshots exposing Niggs. I'm not about to give you nothing

952
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 1: for you to be like that's why you flew me

953
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 1: out and blah blah blah, bitch, no you're not. Do

954
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: you feel like flying a girl, I'll make you more

955
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: obligated to her time, that's the only thing. Yeah, if out,

956
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: because I'm like like to me, well, also, also, here's

957
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking. If I'm flying he out, she's most

958
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: likely staying with me. That's what I'm thinking. I don't

959
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 1: own doing her own things. I paid for my own flight.

960
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say if I'm not

961
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,760
Speaker 1: staying with you because to me, but the dude flies

962
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 1: me out, I'm with him. But but well that too.

963
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: But this is my problem to like. I don't know,

964
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: maybe it's the ego thing, but when I fly my

965
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: like for all that, every time I go on a trip,

966
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: like say Atlanta or Chicago or any of these cities

967
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: that I've been too recently, fucking Baltimore, Like, any time

968
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: I fly myself out and nigga's hit me, I'm like,

969
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: you ain't bring me here, fuck you, And I don't

970
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: feel obligated to meet up with no nigga, no, no, no,

971
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: you know, pussy, none of that, because I'm here on

972
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: my own time. I'm gonna move on my own time.

973
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: And then I feel like, wait, you didn't you didn't go.

974
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: But to me, I feel like you didn't go out

975
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: of your way to bring me to see you didn't

976
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: go out of your way to bring yourself to me. Therefore,

977
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: just because I'm in your city, I don't believe in

978
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: that whole I'm in town. What's up? Like? No, No,

979
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't you do. I don't like ya, niggas like

980
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,959
Speaker 1: enjoy the city. Enjoy the city, niggas. I feel guilt

981
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: because al right, anyway, let's go. We're gonna get into

982
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: the horrible decision because while we're actually talking about this,

983
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: it actually to our horrible decisions. So, um, I like

984
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: the title of it. It's called blue checked boxes because

985
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: he's out a blue check on what uh So it's

986
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: called blue check boxes. So I wanted to talk about

987
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,879
Speaker 1: the check boxes we have in our mind in terms

988
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: of dating. So, like, for me, I know, I like

989
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 1: tall men, so they have to be tall, they have

990
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: to have X amount of money they make. I'm getting

991
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: weary on the kid thing right now, just because I'm

992
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: getting older. But so there's certain things that when we

993
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 1: date we sit here and say this is a deal breaker,

994
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: this is what I want. So I wanted to talk

995
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: about how many of the check boxes does someone have

996
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: to have for you to make them your girlfriend? Are

997
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: you their boyfriend? And then kind of what are the

998
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: deal breakers? And you making someone not your boyfriend or

999
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend feel so guilty when you say kids, I think

1000
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 1: I can't deal with a woman with kids A woman, Yeah,

1001
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't think I could either. I feel really guilty

1002
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: to say it. I really do, because my friend for

1003
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: a long time, obviously until the timing, like it's hard.

1004
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: Dudes with kids generally don't have an old time bullshit.

1005
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: So my my thing is I'm getting older now I don't.

1006
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: I don't care if you have them five days a week,

1007
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: as long as it's two where we can kick it fine.

1008
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: But with women you're saying they don't have them, like

1009
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: I feel like dating a mother it's a lot more

1010
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 1: strenuous something I would because like you can out wet,

1011
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: you have to really commit to that ship. So it

1012
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: would be. And I think the reason people straight from

1013
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: that is because or even men, I know that if

1014
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I started dating a woman with kids, it's like if

1015
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,479
Speaker 1: I start caring about you, then I have to fully

1016
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: invest in that kids. I'm telling you you got to

1017
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: wait for mommy time for you to get anything. Yeah,

1018
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: but with a man, I feel like without a child,

1019
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, you're good. I don't care if I'm telling

1020
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: you afford whatever. But I know, like I know like

1021
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: Ale who basically have like they go like Thursday to Thursday. Yeah,

1022
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: there's different. Different. I was about to say I was

1023
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: dating a guy who had like his kids like three

1024
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: days a week, and to me, like, I'm not gonna lie,

1025
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: like this is probably why I don't want kids. I'm

1026
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 1: such a selfish person, so I like, I'm not gonna lie.

1027
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: So to me also with dating, like I want someone

1028
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: invested in me. And in real life, if you if

1029
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: you have children, I feel like now I'm maybe the

1030
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 1: third or fourth woman in your life because you're gonna

1031
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: have your kids before me. Your mom is going to

1032
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: be before me, and I'm not gonna lie. In more

1033
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 1: times than not, the baby mom does like kind of

1034
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: in a lot of situations, maybe not all because a

1035
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: lot of niggas, but that is the mother of their child,

1036
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: and a lot of men go back to their baby

1037
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: moms for whatever connection that they have, and so with

1038
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: me with dating men with kids, it's more so like

1039
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: damn I have to sit here. No, I'm never going

1040
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: to be number one. I can never be number one,

1041
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean that's kind of success relationships Serena

1042
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: and Alan, like they have a blended family. They don't

1043
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 1: have kids to get there for they're gonna get a

1044
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: ten years. I mean, well there are there are there

1045
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: are blended families that do work. No, there's not. There's

1046
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 1: not Like I don't know, I haven't said that. I

1047
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 1: haven't seen success with at least my male friends with kids,

1048
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,359
Speaker 1: like they love their girls. Like I mean, a real

1049
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: man is going to make it work between the two

1050
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: of you. I a dude, but a kid, and he

1051
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: made it very What I say about that, like I

1052
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: never understood the whole, Like, like you know, there's always

1053
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: it seems like to be this priority list, right obviously

1054
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 1: Zen that's my daughter's name for the ones who don't

1055
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: know that. But Zen is going to be of course,

1056
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But at the same time,

1057
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: the woman I'm in love with is also going to

1058
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: be very It's just different range of course, Like my

1059
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: mother is going to be up high to as well,

1060
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like, oh that's before like I'm

1061
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: never gonna have this you versus that that's never because

1062
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 1: to me, you create that in a sense when you're

1063
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: always like, well, you know, you get an argument here,

1064
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: your nigg is like, you're never gonna be come before

1065
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: my mama, before my daughter. And that's what I'm saying.

1066
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: So a lot of men will will do that. And

1067
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: that's where I feel like it's not even women doing that.

1068
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 1: But when you get into arguments, those are the things

1069
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: that come up. Or say a mother doesn't like the

1070
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 1: girl you're dating, then that becomes a power guy. And

1071
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about that. Say I'm a

1072
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: grown man, so my mom could be like my mom

1073
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: y no no no no no no no the mother

1074
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: man that's not a man with a kid, no no, no,

1075
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: no no no. But said she's saying she relationship that

1076
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: holds weight. Yeah, Like if mom says I don't like,

1077
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: then the guy kind of gets some guys do me.

1078
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't give a funk. I would like, okay, mom,

1079
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: yeah no, I'm just Jesus, why then are you going right?

1080
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: So okay, So it looks like we would all be down,

1081
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 1: like we're okay, if you have kids, it's not a

1082
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: deal breaker. So I want to ask you if I

1083
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: dated to do with a kid and it got real serious,

1084
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: I may not have a kid if they don't want

1085
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: one like that, that's my thing. I don't want kids.

1086
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: So now that's why I feel like I'm more accepting

1087
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: of men who have them, because I don't want to

1088
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: sit here and say I don't want kids and then

1089
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: tell him I ain't gonna have no kids with you.

1090
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: So a lot of times men who have kids already

1091
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 1: they've reached the point where they're like, well, I really

1092
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: don't want anyone. At first I thought I wanted my

1093
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: own baby. Now I realized I just enjoy having a

1094
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: kid in my life, whether it's a close friend. I

1095
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:34,439
Speaker 1: don't want a dog. I don't want to do you okay,

1096
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 1: we'll go. You're like, I can do this. This one's adorable.

1097
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: So what are deal breakers for you and dating? Well,

1098
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: as far as I checking, um, I'm very spiritually led

1099
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: in a way, so like I'm always just drawn to

1100
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,320
Speaker 1: a certain type of energy, and sometimes I like I

1101
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: don't necessarily have the words to say what that necessarily is.

1102
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: But I do know like the way I am, I've

1103
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: worked on myself, you know, and I tracked a certain

1104
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: type of people, and I just know I get along

1105
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: with everybody I tracked in my life at this point. Um,

1106
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: that's not necessarily everybody I meet, I'm cool because I'll

1107
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: read them and I'm like, I'm not for me right,

1108
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: But like, so I do like spiritually drawn women. I'm

1109
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: not honestly okay, so I'm not religious, So like a

1110
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 1: girl that's like mad religious, because we're gonna we're gonna

1111
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: just we're gonna disconnect and just have so many disagreements.

1112
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: God's first on someone's like God in a bio. I

1113
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: freak out. I'm not gonna lie. I was just with

1114
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: a guy. He took me out on Saturday. Like, but

1115
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: it's also weird because it's not like it's not in

1116
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:41,759
Speaker 1: my life. So like I just went out with this

1117
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: guy on Saturday, and the only reason I went back

1118
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: to his house because I was throwing up. You gotta

1119
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: be so fucking drunk. It was so bad. So we

1120
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 1: ended up like I slept with him, but we didn't

1121
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: do anything. I was I was ship faced. Woke up

1122
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: the next morning. He was getting dressed and I was like,

1123
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 1: it's Sunday, find you, but it was like it was

1124
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: alread like ten forty five. So I'm like he's like, oh,

1125
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: I can make the eleven o'clock service. And I was like, oh, well,

1126
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home and go back to sleep. And

1127
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 1: I was just like I felt like this, probably you're

1128
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: really about to get up and go to church. And

1129
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: I think it's not so much about the guy talk,

1130
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 1: Like I could talk about God or a high energy

1131
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: all the type. It's like specific energy Jesus or like

1132
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: when they it's like specifically because you know that that's

1133
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: a specific thing, like the tithing and the money. I'll

1134
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: tell you this. All of the friends that I have

1135
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: in my life right now, Like I just realized I

1136
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: was drunk on a plane yesterday. My friends were texting

1137
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: me love you or goodbye or whatever. Any friend that

1138
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 1: calls me says that when they hang up, any friend

1139
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: hugs me, touches my face like they show me they

1140
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: care about me and they're affectionate. When I meet men

1141
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,360
Speaker 1: like my friends, total turn off for me because I

1142
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: know that they're also passionate people. And that's really all

1143
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: it is, and that's that could be an energy thing too,

1144
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: right when you're on that same frequency, Like that's really

1145
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: what it is, and it doesn't take you a long

1146
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 1: time to even notice when you meet someone. For me,

1147
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 1: it's that first interaction, like I feel like I've been

1148
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: blessed with like an intuition and a self awareness where

1149
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 1: I could kind of just like I know, like I

1150
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 1: haven't been wrong so far in this past couple of years,

1151
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: like when I'm like, okay, I can continue on in

1152
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 1: my life with a connectional communication with this person, and

1153
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 1: so far, like none of them are disappointed me or

1154
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: anything I've been. I've been blessed with a big dig radar.

1155
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 1: So I would like to I would like to think

1156
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: that's a blessing in itself. But I really don't have problems.

1157
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 1: But I know people will me good, okay, nice, all right.

1158
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: So I wanted I wanted to ask you guys now

1159
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: with these preferences, maybe because y'all know I got a

1160
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: hype preference, which I know, we got fifteen we got

1161
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes and it will do what I got this.

1162
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: I know you think, you know this. This is what

1163
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: I do, Thank you very much. What then do you

1164
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,359
Speaker 1: think I'm just saying I got this. I've already been

1165
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: checking her alt I mean should know, but I got this.

1166
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 1: We'll do thirty minutes. I got this, So we got

1167
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes left. So I wanted you all of all

1168
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: of the time. Special we fight on this episode with

1169
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: you even really weird? Um, So I guess this is

1170
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: a question that was asked by a listener before we

1171
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: wrap up the horrible decision I was getting there. Um,

1172
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: what happens when someone doesn't check the boxes for a

1173
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: relationship but you still want them around? How do you

1174
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 1: handle casual sex with someone who wants more? So it's

1175
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: a two part questions. So you have someone that doesn't

1176
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: necessarily check the boxes of a relationship, but you still

1177
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: want that person around. Okay, but like, so but does

1178
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: that are they talking about? Does a person want a

1179
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: relationship still? So that's where the second part comes from,

1180
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 1: when yes, So, what happens when someone doesn't check the

1181
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: boxes for a relationship but you still want to be

1182
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: around them? Around them? And what? So, Like, I'm not

1183
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: gonna lie, there's people who I like to funck who

1184
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: I probably would never see myself being with. So the

1185
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: the sex part is that the first part first? And

1186
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: then so I would say the first part is in,

1187
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: then you just continue on like that. If as long

1188
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: as you're honest about don't take no choice away from somebody,

1189
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: then just continue on like that. If that's not okay

1190
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: with the other person, then you just gotta get out

1191
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: your selfish ways and let that person do them. So

1192
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: that's where the second part comes in, because I'm not

1193
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I feel like this isn't something that's often communicated,

1194
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: like a guy will sit here and still be and

1195
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: maybe give a boyfriend experience or you're maybe now fucking raw,

1196
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 1: but you don't want to be with that person. So

1197
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: the second part, and this is actually one of the

1198
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: questions from Instagram, how do you handle casual sex with

1199
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: someone who wants more? So now you're maybe in this

1200
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: situation right, Okay, you're shaking your head. So how does

1201
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 1: that work? Cause I'm sure you've you've been like we've

1202
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: been sucking three minutes more. No, this is this is

1203
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 1: just um from the thing. We got one one homel

1204
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: that's it. I've been. I've been there, So to do that,

1205
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: to be honest, um, you don't continue that because in

1206
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: my selfish ways in the past, I had continued it,

1207
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: and I kind of it was like, even though I

1208
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: was verbally because Nigga's we shamefully do this a lot,

1209
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: I was verbally telling her what I meant, but my

1210
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: actions weren't always being the same as that, Right, So

1211
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: I was bullshit and in a way where like I

1212
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: was kind of dangling the carrot in front of her,

1213
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:24,479
Speaker 1: like we like to call it. So I was dangling

1214
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: the care in front of her to continue the sexual relationship,

1215
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: right and so, and I know she wanted more, so

1216
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: I would kind of give her enough to keep coming back.

1217
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: Right now, you gott understand at this point, I was

1218
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: immature in my life. I was this is so manipulated

1219
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: sitting the custom, right, but there is a little lot

1220
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: of guys do that. This is why I like, because

1221
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: you seem like you can actually speak. Well, we don't

1222
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: have many straatement on here that actually can get through

1223
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: that makes sense. So, like, I really want you to

1224
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: explain this because I feel like a lot of us

1225
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: women get into these situations from the male person. By

1226
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 1: then why then y'all do this ship? Yeah? So, because well,

1227
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, commitment is like fucking you know.

1228
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 1: One of the scariest things, you know what I'm saying,

1229
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: monogamous commitment. At least I could be committed to someone,

1230
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: but I don't have to be monogaous if we agree

1231
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: on that. I always I don't like when people be like, oh,

1232
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: you can't be in a committed relationship. I can be monogamous.

1233
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: Part when they they're like, oh, if you want to

1234
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: someone else, Like, look, sexual desires don't necessarily mean anything

1235
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: else within finding a partner, Like I could want to

1236
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: fund other people but want you for the rest of

1237
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: the exactly exactly. But to go back to it, like

1238
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: I was subconsciously doing this at that time, like I

1239
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: wasn't quite I was lying to myself in a way

1240
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: to the point like you lie to yourself so much

1241
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 1: you start convincing yourself. I think we've all done this

1242
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: in certain parts of our lives. You know, whether it's like, well,

1243
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: the job pays well, but you hate it you want

1244
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: to leave, or something like that. You know, so you

1245
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: lie to yourself to convince you, like, oh, I'm staying

1246
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: there for like more years I should but like six.

1247
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: So I feel it so um when I was doing

1248
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: that and that It came to a point where I

1249
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 1: was doing some self realization where I was just like,

1250
01:00:58,480 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: you know, I don't like what would it be like

1251
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 1: not lie to myself at all? Right? And I was

1252
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Speaker 1: like sitting down having this conversation with myself really, and

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Speaker 1: I was realizing, I've done that to one where my damn,

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Speaker 1: I give them enough. I give them enough affection, I

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Speaker 1: give them good dick, might I add, and then I

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Speaker 1: take them out like yeah, until their subjection they agree,

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Speaker 1: so then and then I take them out. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm cool with their friends. I make everybody laugh

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Speaker 1: and make them laugh, you know. I treat them well.

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Speaker 1: I respect them as human beings. I respect them. I'm

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Speaker 1: not disrespectful. And I realized I'm doing that, but then

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Speaker 1: I'm not. There's like certain steps to the next level

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Speaker 1: stuff that I'm not doing that, you know, so like

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Speaker 1: I won't be as consistent in their life because I

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Speaker 1: know consistency will run into that conversation of commitment and relationship.

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Speaker 1: And um. When I was realized I was doing that,

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Speaker 1: I was like the parents, that was one of the

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Speaker 1: insecure like bringing bringing some family like when I have parents,

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh want he want he wants me

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Speaker 1: and her little me and her little brother. Wood was

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Speaker 1: cool out the rip, like yeah, like I knew that

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Speaker 1: I met my first girlfriend, his parents and whole family

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Speaker 1: and her little sister. Be kind of came someone I

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Speaker 1: was cool with for a while before me and her

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Speaker 1: like broke up and stuff. So like that stuff, like

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Speaker 1: all that stuff, like yeah, that's but I would like

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Speaker 1: I would put a wall right there, you know, and

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Speaker 1: like to avoid that stuff and just give her all

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Speaker 1: the how do we read this wall? I think to me,

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Speaker 1: I mean you gotta ask yourself, okay, like how consistent

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Speaker 1: is he in your life? You know what I'm saying? Right,

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Speaker 1: And then if you were wanting a relationship to the

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01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: women out there, if you want to relationship, there's questions

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Speaker 1: that you're that um that you're going to have to

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01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: ask him, right, ask those questions. How is he answering

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01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: those questions? He running around? It is he direct? And

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Speaker 1: he's like I told you, I don't want nothing from

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Speaker 1: the beginning. You know what makes it? Because every time

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's classic. But it always works, and

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Speaker 1: it generally works because it'll push you away from a

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01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: nigger that you need to be with. But when you

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Speaker 1: stop being on a dick, like even when I'm consistently trying,

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01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: like you know what, I see this is going on

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01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: where I'm done suddenly bam, that's the ego thing. But

1295
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Speaker 1: being when if an ego things some men, then real

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01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: life and now you know what, I don't want you

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Speaker 1: out of my life. And it's like, oh, I'm already, well,

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01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 1: let's go ahead, let's rush, let's let's we gotta hurry up.

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Speaker 1: He said, Oh my god, we gotta go. We're gonna

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01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: do we just do the questions we got you. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get into our homemail. Um it's called Deprived

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Speaker 1: of Life's Pleasures. Hey, ladies, love the show. Thanks for

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01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: being the pick me up I need during my morning

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01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: commute or in the office at my desk. Our listeners

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01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: have jobs. Just needs you to know. I've been in

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01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 1: a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now. I

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01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: love him to death. He's literally my best friend. We

1308
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: don't argue. He's borderline perfect. The sex was great, so

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01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: for personal health reasons, he just hasn't been in the

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01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,000
Speaker 1: mood for sex and quite some time. I'm talking three

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01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: to four months. We just haven't been fucking I'm trying

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01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: to be under the understanding girlfriend, but your girl is frustrated.

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01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: My sex drive has always been on a hundred and

1314
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: listening to the podcast plus watching porn has been wanting

1315
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 1: to try a new or at least keep doing the

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Speaker 1: old things. Something. He just ain't feeling it. All the

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Speaker 1: toys in the world can't sum up to the real thing,

1318
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,960
Speaker 1: and I just find myself super tense and grumpy over

1319
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: little ship. I don't know what to do because I'm

1320
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: not the type to step out and find it elsewhere.

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Speaker 1: I would never do that to him, but a bitch

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Speaker 1: is bored in bed s OS send help, signed d

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Speaker 1: on E. I thought I thought that was cute, right right,

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01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: thank you listener for knowing how to spell and not

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Speaker 1: have any triple over words. And no, we do have some.

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Speaker 1: And I'd be like, what's right, and I can't. I

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Speaker 1: can't even So what would you, I guess, both of you,

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01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 1: What would you, guys advise her to do? In this

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01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:46,240
Speaker 1: scenario where she said health reasons, I'm hoping you don't

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Speaker 1: have a breakout. Three months is a long break. That's

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01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: a long I don't think breakout like oh no, wait,

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01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 1: hold on, hold hold and She's right. If you if

1333
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: a man gets HPV and they end up getting general awards,

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01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: they could last. This is what it is. It's not

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so what is it? So? So personal

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01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: health reasons? Why would a guy be in a sex

1337
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: drout to where he no longer wants to man? The problem?

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01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 1: The only thing the problem with this is like I

1339
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: wish I knew what it was. You know what I'm saying,

1340
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: so I can actually give her my thoughts as clear

1341
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: as right. Did she say that they talked about it.

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01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that she did. I don't think wrote them.

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01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: I just feel like a simple answer to four months

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: he knows why everybody everybody in the room. I don't

1345
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,120
Speaker 1: want to sit here and lady cheating. But I mean that,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry cheating. I mean if he does, yeah,

1347
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: if he does, and she's but like I mean, so

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Speaker 1: health reasons, I will say I want to bring it, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I probably want to bring it into maybe a mental health.

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01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: So there is a guy um that I know, and

1351
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: I brought him up before, very very close um with him.

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01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 1: He's a good friend of mine and he's having the

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01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: issue right now between wondering if he's still sexually attracted

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01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: two women because he now had with trans women. That's

1355
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: what he got. No, so he's been liking trans women,

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01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: and so the guests and so the conversation of to

1357
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 1: where he now only can watch trans women porn, he

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01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: like reaches and talks to them, so where he now

1359
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: doesn't know if you have a girlfriend, though he did well,

1360
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: but now that's why it's just like he's like now

1361
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: like I don't know if women is really what arouses

1362
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: me more because I get so aroused. Okay, so from

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01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: all the speculators transom herpes we're making, here's what I'll

1364
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 1: tell her. I'll say, um, for whatever, whatever the health

1365
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 1: problem is, do as much research as you can about that.

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01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: Find out what you can on your like you would depression, whatever, whatever, Yeah,

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01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: whatever it is, like I would do as much research

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01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 1: about that and kind of learn about as much as

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Speaker 1: possible to see how you can cope with it, not

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01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: only how he could cope with it, how you could

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:58,919
Speaker 1: cope with it, how you guys can cope with it together.

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Speaker 1: What if it's just skem like, how do y'all get

1373
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 1: rid of that? Do you know what that is? It's

1374
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: like code? Like you know, you probably don't hash magma

1375
01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: because it's like cheese. Is that like when you pull

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01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: the skin back and there and stuff in it? Yeah,

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01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 1: so that's why I said, you probably don't even know

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01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: about it. You know, it's still like word. Well we're

1379
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Speaker 1: going to whatever podcast. But I guess, Okay, so the

1380
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Speaker 1: communicate with him and do she stay bringing people? Gives

1381
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 1: I just really sorry, wait, wait you have something? Oh bitch?

1382
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: I thought it was what is this? I didn't even

1383
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: go hold you because she brought like Andrew Schaltz and Charlottagne.

1384
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: What is this? You gotta read it? It's a coffee.

1385
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: Her face is, don't even like you like that? And

1386
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 1: I gotta look at you use this for your daily coffee?

1387
01:07:57,040 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 1: So you see my face every day? Said that every

1388
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: guy day. We barely make it twice a month. Goddamnit. No,

1389
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Speaker 1: this is cute. So we went to like this. She

1390
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 1: used to be she makes like calendars and guys. Right,

1391
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 1: well she did this one a black guy. She corny

1392
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Speaker 1: is I had to black man when I went to

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Speaker 1: La and then beer bash. You do them on a

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Speaker 1: new way, you do, you know? Yes? You know? I

1395
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: guess anyways, I guess, but I don't know if you

1396
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 1: heard that last part for the listener, I'm sorry, but like,

1397
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Speaker 1: communicate with him after you've done your researching whatever you

1398
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 1: have to do, then talk to him thoroughly. She about

1399
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Speaker 1: a d M you for advice? Mean something, y'all y'all

1400
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 1: like the way heat down? Um, go ahead and let

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01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 1: our listeners know where they can find you if y'all.

1402
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: A lot of y'all are hopping also in our dams

1403
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: and emails about how to bag a blue check. Well,

1404
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Speaker 1: here you go, slide in this Nico DM, what's your

1405
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: What's is that our actual question? So it is everyone

1406
01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: they asked me question? Yeah it is. It's like it's

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01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: a thing. So where can our listeners find you? Because

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Speaker 1: gotta go, We gotta record another episode. But uh Ron

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Speaker 1: j R O N E j A E. And that's

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Speaker 1: my Instagram and Twitter because that's all I have. And

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Speaker 1: at this point, I will say, ladies, he needs to

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Speaker 1: get a check from invisible line because you you look

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Speaker 1: you look a great bad I think, yeah, because I

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Speaker 1: wasn't wearing I could tell you wasn't. And I'm just

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Speaker 1: say let's stop playing anyway, y'all know y'all can follow us.

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Speaker 1: You know we don't. We're going on to our guys.

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Speaker 1: Hope to see you guys soon. Have patron by the way,

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Speaker 1: and the show is sold out. We do have tickets

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Speaker 1: we're holding in each city for all of our patrons.

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Speaker 1: You guys are the reason that we even started this

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Speaker 1: toward Frankly, that's the reason we can afford it. Seriously,

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Speaker 1: Like we put down all our down payments and ship

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Speaker 1: we paid babies and phone in my nigga because yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't even doing deposits. We're like, oh, we could

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Speaker 1: give you the whole the whole check, Okay, a projector

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Speaker 1: that's an extra three hundred. I was like, bitch, I asked,

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Speaker 1: she lines, just don't want to spa a hunted all

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Speaker 1: on three bikes and I said, bitch, we need mart

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Speaker 1: wireless mike do you like to get up with? But yeah,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and become a patron. That's um Patreon dot

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Speaker 1: com back slash horrible decisions. Thank you guys. If you

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Speaker 1: are if you want to hear some more of Sharona's

1433
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: he is going to be interviewing us on a Patreon

1434
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:20,759
Speaker 1: ask us all the questions. You'll send us some questions

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Speaker 1: and uh so he said, he said he wanted to

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Speaker 1: do a podcast, so if you'll want to hear more

1437
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: of this voice, because clearly he should be a sexphone operator. Um,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and become a patron. Anyways, guys, this has

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Speaker 1: been yet another episode of horrible decisions by