WEBVTT - Ep58: Massage My Labia Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>Hi guys, We're back again, and I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>we're still standing strong together, but we are back. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl, Mandy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sitting next to see. Hi guys, UM, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just us. Y'all have been wanting this. UM. We

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<v Speaker 1>tried this last week and it didn't really work. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>but we promised not to fight. We have Alex here.

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<v Speaker 1>He is a don't you have a what do you

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<v Speaker 1>call a registered gun on? Or what do you call it? UM?

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<v Speaker 1>You know I told Alex. If Mandy acts that, pass

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<v Speaker 1>it around sounds good. UM. Anyway, we UM want to

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<v Speaker 1>start our episodes off a little bit different. So, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're a first time listener of Horrible Decisions, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a show where we interview people about their kinks. We

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<v Speaker 1>talk every single week. We try to educate you and

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<v Speaker 1>entertain you and talk about nasty ship, but the whole ship.

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<v Speaker 1>If you are an early listener of Horrible Decision, you

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<v Speaker 1>may remember a segment we had called Vanilla Ship where

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<v Speaker 1>it was still pretty dirty, but we would talk about

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<v Speaker 1>a hot topic or an article or a current event

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<v Speaker 1>that had to do with sex. And this week We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start off with some vanilla ship before a Kink

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<v Speaker 1>of the week, and it is about something called laby

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<v Speaker 1>a massage. And what I said, laby libo? What's a liberto?

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<v Speaker 1>It's libido? Oh you know, I just wanna say. Ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes ago, Andy was like, I graduated top of my class.

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<v Speaker 1>She did. I was at her high school graduation and

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<v Speaker 1>she did, what did you graduate? Top twenty right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Top ten? Bitch? Okay, well, bitch, top five, top five

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<v Speaker 1>you should have been maybe you would have got libido.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, we didn't learned about libidos and motherfuckering high school.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we did. That's why are we sitting here

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<v Speaker 1>giving a second so now because sex education is not

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<v Speaker 1>prevalent in high school. And well, bitch, love love what

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<v Speaker 1>you call libado liberdo gotta mean? So libido is like,

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<v Speaker 1>um so, let's yeah, it's like your sex drive, your testosterone,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's libido award at all. No, neither is bo

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<v Speaker 1>dada hope. Um So I want to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>guys about this lady a massage thing. So you may

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<v Speaker 1>have heard that I've been sucking this guy named Jeeves

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<v Speaker 1>and I call him Jeeves because he's super smart and

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's like asked Jeeves. So we're laying in

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<v Speaker 1>bed after we watched this movie called The Secretary, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you've never watched it, it's a movie that was

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<v Speaker 1>out before fifty Shades Gray and it's way kink here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about like total submission, like I mean, besides sex,

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<v Speaker 1>no sexual acts, no actual like penetration, just all full

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<v Speaker 1>on like I tell you what to do, I'm your master,

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. Super hot. So he's facing the TV

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<v Speaker 1>and he's laid my bed face and toward the TV

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<v Speaker 1>and not the opposite way I'm looking at it. My

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<v Speaker 1>legs are open and I had just got waxed, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to show it off. And that's really

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<v Speaker 1>why I was like that. And so he starts looking

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<v Speaker 1>at my pussy and he's like, you have a you

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<v Speaker 1>have a really beautiful pussy, Like what do you say

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<v Speaker 1>to me? I has a lot of substance to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm laughing. I'm like what, and he's like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. So he starts touching me and he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>not touching my clip, he's not fingers you real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how loud. That is yes, okay, love,

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<v Speaker 1>how finish? Because you Alice is over here eating like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god damn. I'm not trying to get no funked

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<v Speaker 1>up iTunes of you sound guy be trying. Okay, okay, finished, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm laying there. My pussy is like right in

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<v Speaker 1>front of his face. My legs are over his chest,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's like staring straight at it. He doesn't touch

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<v Speaker 1>my clip, he doesn't insert his fingers inside of me.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys have Patreon, I want to show you

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<v Speaker 1>guys what it looks like. I'm gonna show you my

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<v Speaker 1>three fingers. The middle fingers my clip, and the sides

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<v Speaker 1>right here are my lady at right, or the lips

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<v Speaker 1>are like the inner lips. He's rubbing here up and down,

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<v Speaker 1>like stroking them, getting all this increased blood flow. And

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<v Speaker 1>now it's stimulating my clip because my clip is in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of it. So instead of my clip being

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<v Speaker 1>stimulated with a fing her right, you still have all

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<v Speaker 1>these nerves in your clip, it's being stimulated by my labia,

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<v Speaker 1>so now there's nerves in your labia as well, So

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<v Speaker 1>now all of these are going on at the same

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<v Speaker 1>fucking time. My nigga. He starts doing it. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say about nineties seconds in, I lifted my head up

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, um, what are you doing and where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you learn how to do that? At nigga who talked

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<v Speaker 1>to you after gun? I was mind blown. So he's like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to make you come like this, b

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah. So like I'm trying to enjoy it, but

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, I'm like this niggas a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd be trying to play this whole cute. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>call the nigga home. He was too fucking good, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never had nobody fucking do that. I've had

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<v Speaker 1>niggas rubbed on my pussey and do it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you you know what's crazy. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>to guy. We talked with this with blog Zilla, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we said that why we gotta be

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<v Speaker 1>at home? Were good in bed and now because I

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<v Speaker 1>think a good in bed he gotta be. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because you see you don't keep the same energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm honest. That's like niggould be like, you a hole

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<v Speaker 1>because you thought this dick too good. You better just

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<v Speaker 1>smile and accept the whole. Now, I understand because I

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<v Speaker 1>never had nobody do that ship to me. I came

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<v Speaker 1>so fucking hard, so I come so hard. He's smiling,

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<v Speaker 1>He's like totally enjoying it. I'm like, dude, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fun did you just do to me? What the fun

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<v Speaker 1>is that? He's like, Oh, it's called the lady massage. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've honestly never done it anyone, but I looked it

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<v Speaker 1>up and I read about it. He's probably lying, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, I read about it and see, this is

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<v Speaker 1>why y'all need to be fucking with geek niggas. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you who is looking up how to fucking

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<v Speaker 1>funk with your pussy like that? Seriously, nigga who wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to pee on him? He gets he went through

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<v Speaker 1>full rounds of just watching porn videos and learning how

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<v Speaker 1>to make me squirt's on demand. So it's not even

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<v Speaker 1>geek niggas. It's a man who genuinely wants to please

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<v Speaker 1>a woman when she has sex. That's the only difference.

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<v Speaker 1>It ain't even geek niggas, Bro, it's niggas who takes

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<v Speaker 1>sex like it's a real art form. Like boy will

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<v Speaker 1>say that the reason I made the comment about with

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<v Speaker 1>geek niggas is because he's a geek nigga. We know

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<v Speaker 1>you call him no I us not even that he's

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<v Speaker 1>harder than that, but he um. I say that because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of lone of people will

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<v Speaker 1>put the time and effort into researching different things to

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<v Speaker 1>please other people are learning about the body right, like

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<v Speaker 1>or even knowing what a labia is. How many men

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<v Speaker 1>would know? Like how many men can we ask about

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<v Speaker 1>our different body parts? And as soon as you just

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<v Speaker 1>said the lips, they're gonna be like, oh, the lips,

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<v Speaker 1>got them things? You gotta lipsize, right, That's what it is. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just gotta route them things a little bit. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna read you guys the technique that I pulled up

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<v Speaker 1>on this article. But when he did it to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so into it that I said, I really

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<v Speaker 1>want you to teach me how to do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said absolutely, I always because I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>it to somebody else. And he said, okay. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want you to show me on somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want you to know you're starting way too

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<v Speaker 1>early with trying to introduce another bitch into the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just way too early, bro, how ship? Nope, Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want Yeah, well, maybe you should do the research.

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<v Speaker 1>He did watch them on YouTube on fucking porn hub.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that y'all are still so new, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you're trying to bring I think you're very judge

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Absolutely not. I'm not judging at all, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you why she's trying to help you out.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you out like this chicken ship. I'm sorry if

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<v Speaker 1>that was loud, but you've been saying I wasn't close

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<v Speaker 1>enough to the mike whatever, you haven't been Honestly, It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like I'm out here like looking for three some

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<v Speaker 1>bitches or anything like that. I'm not going to make

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<v Speaker 1>a tender profile, but so so fucking hot like I

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to learn, and I think it would really

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<v Speaker 1>get me off if I watched him do it another girl.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, here's um what I want to read you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I typed in laby a massage and I pulled up

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<v Speaker 1>orgasmic massage by a website called the Generous husband dot com. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you can massage her to orgasm if the massage in

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<v Speaker 1>the right place, in the right in the right way.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not a hand job, it's a sexual massage

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<v Speaker 1>resulting in climax. There will also have you plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure along the way, something you do to make her

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<v Speaker 1>feel loved and sexually pampered. Okay, um, I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to get here. So a lot of it is talking

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<v Speaker 1>about things like starting with brass, like kissing and touching,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a really it's a lot of four plates

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<v Speaker 1>are really intimate things. So here we go. Sit or

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<v Speaker 1>kneel between her legs. Do not hurry for her clitter is.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not about getting her to climax as fast

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. It's about giving an intense amount of pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even want to indirectly stimulate the clitter is

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<v Speaker 1>for at least the first five minutes. Start on the

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<v Speaker 1>inner thighs, using plenty of lube, whether it be spit

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever I added that in, and run your hands

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<v Speaker 1>up and down the inside of the legs from halfway

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<v Speaker 1>to the knee up. Initially, don't go past the crease

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<v Speaker 1>where her legs joined her body. Gradually start to trace decrease.

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<v Speaker 1>Move your hands um closer and closer to her vulba

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<v Speaker 1>until you're brushing her outer laby. Wait real quick, can

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about this and like plain terms the volvo?

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<v Speaker 1>Where's that at again? I mean I can't point to it,

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<v Speaker 1>so nigger's gonna have to look it up. I'm reading it,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but you're reading it. But like to someone listening,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like if you're gonna say the labia, say the lips,

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<v Speaker 1>say the opening of the vagina, make it easier. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just because you the doctor. Right now, don't

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<v Speaker 1>nobody talk about sex like a doctor. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be helpful. Okay, all right, place a palm over the

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<v Speaker 1>entire volva, So over the entire pussy. Place your hands

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<v Speaker 1>right um, move in various ways, using the flesh of

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<v Speaker 1>her volva as you go, so, I guess using the

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<v Speaker 1>skin of her pussy, go back and forth. So take

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<v Speaker 1>your hand like kind of cover the pussy and like

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<v Speaker 1>rub on it. Don't grab it, but don't grab says,

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<v Speaker 1>take your time, go slow. Move to the inner labia.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know we have two lips. Right, move to

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<v Speaker 1>the inside of the lips. Yep, Well we got the

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<v Speaker 1>opening lips and then you have the labia, and right,

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<v Speaker 1>move to the inner labia, stroke and rub it not

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<v Speaker 1>too hard, but you go out and then downward when

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<v Speaker 1>you put your hands over entire volva or pussy one

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<v Speaker 1>after the other, go up and down for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>So like what you're doing in this point in time

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<v Speaker 1>is like that sounds now, this is like increasing all

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<v Speaker 1>that blood flow because it's so close right there. So

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<v Speaker 1>dry humping has like, uh, it's not skin to skin contact. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>place two fingers on either side of her clearing clitteris

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<v Speaker 1>far enough for it to be the outer labia. So

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<v Speaker 1>you press in and out around it so that the

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<v Speaker 1>clip is being stimulated by the lips or labia. So

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<v Speaker 1>you take your hands and you rub it on the

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<v Speaker 1>labia so that it's moving the clip up and down

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<v Speaker 1>like like do quotation marks with your hands. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do, UM, making small circles with it. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people are saying that you can't stick

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<v Speaker 1>your fingers inside of it, but I can't without hold

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<v Speaker 1>of that ship just from the fucking massages. UM. If

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<v Speaker 1>you do, it's saying, you start gradually with one finger

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like how Vic was telling us, slowly UM,

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<v Speaker 1>pushing it in and out, and then you press the

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<v Speaker 1>tip at the top of the vagina um. Once you're

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<v Speaker 1>inside with one hand, the other hand has to keep

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<v Speaker 1>on the labia up and down and you can hit

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<v Speaker 1>your g spot with the hand. Apparently women are squirting

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<v Speaker 1>going crazy. Um yeah, it's insane. Uh So I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to read that to you guys because I've never been

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<v Speaker 1>touched in that way. If you guys have congratulations, have

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<v Speaker 1>you when I squirted, like, that's what he does. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he'll press down like all of the stuff that no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have if you have all of I finished

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<v Speaker 1>all of the things that you just said. Is what

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not going to say his name, but the

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<v Speaker 1>guy who allowed me to piss on him, This is

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<v Speaker 1>the attention that he's done to my pussy. And remember

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<v Speaker 1>when I told you he came over and I just

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<v Speaker 1>got hit and he fingered me. This is what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>But except he did and like I like the insertion

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<v Speaker 1>of fingers in my pussy, like and he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>fitting three Well, his pinky nail was too long, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to like the niggas with the long pinky nail. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I thought it was for drugs. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to put his pinky nail and pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>So he just like stopped at three. But everything he

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<v Speaker 1>did before that is exactly what he did and it

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing because it was like I didn't want him

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<v Speaker 1>to suck. So I'm telling I want to watch that ship,

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<v Speaker 1>my nigga. Like so when me and Alex were in

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<v Speaker 1>the car on the way here, I was telling him

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<v Speaker 1>about it. He's like, how you doing that ship? Real quick?

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<v Speaker 1>So when I google it, all I can find is

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<v Speaker 1>videos of like the erotic It's like all around, are

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<v Speaker 1>you look? You can look it up our videos. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you need Joe Nigga to play with another bitch

0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:29.319
<v Speaker 1>pussy for you? Oh? I can't see if that good

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<v Speaker 1>in the video? And well maybe that's why I like

0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:34.000
<v Speaker 1>porn like gay porn, because they be zoomed in like

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<v Speaker 1>a bitch. I know everything. They be zoomed in like

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<v Speaker 1>a bit they do lord well. So the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>I also wanted to talk about Laby massage because it

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<v Speaker 1>brings me to the King of the week. Can't get

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<v Speaker 1>a week dging. So I don't know if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>get to got to hear the homemal episode. But in

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<v Speaker 1>the Homemale episode, I talked about. One of the sexiest

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<v Speaker 1>things that um I've been told that I do is

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<v Speaker 1>asking for permission to come, and recently I've been told no.

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<v Speaker 1>So that is pretty much edging. Every time I asked Daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>can I come, and he says not yet, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to fucking hold that ship. So edging is our kink

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<v Speaker 1>of the week. If you've never heard about it, we

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<v Speaker 1>may have talked about it on this show, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is definition. It's approaching the edge of sexual orgasm and withdrawing,

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<v Speaker 1>usually several times before achieving the orgasm meant to intensify,

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<v Speaker 1>and for men, it increases the volume of ejaculation or

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<v Speaker 1>can force it, so like goes further and a lot more. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>This applies to any sexual act and is not limited

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<v Speaker 1>to masturbation. Uh. This is a little uh clip from

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<v Speaker 1>Urban Dictionary. My girlfriend and I like to edge before

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<v Speaker 1>we fuck. She performs oral sex until I'm just about

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<v Speaker 1>to come, and then we stopped for a minute preventing orgasm,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we have intercourse. After edging like this, our

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<v Speaker 1>intercourse lasts longer and the orgasm is stronger. And then

0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:50.079
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was gonna punching in the face, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing, like like literally fucking me harder and harder,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to fucking hold the ship or taking me.

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<v Speaker 1>When I think of edging, I automatically think of a

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<v Speaker 1>man edging, not a female edging. Dude, I've done it

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<v Speaker 1>myself with masturbation. So when I was going to see

0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:09.319
<v Speaker 1>lover Boy in Europe page ringing it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to have really intense orgasms when I got there,

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<v Speaker 1>So right before I got to Italy, I was masturbating

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy and I'll stop, Oh yeah, no, I need

0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.800
<v Speaker 1>a bust. I need to know. That's like like that's

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<v Speaker 1>super dissipin. It's part of like the Tan Trick like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ship, like just like bring yourself closer and closer.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would peak and it would almost feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I would come, but I would just hold it. Bro

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<v Speaker 1>So you know what's crazy mentally, Um, it's so odd

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<v Speaker 1>because when I I literally would come like three times

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<v Speaker 1>before he comes and to me and to me being

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<v Speaker 1>with a man who could make me orgasm multiple times,

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<v Speaker 1>like he'll tell me bust that nut or or like

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<v Speaker 1>come like he wants me to orgasm, and so being

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<v Speaker 1>that I've been with so many men. Oh Jesus, that

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<v Speaker 1>just always sounds bad when I say that I been

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<v Speaker 1>with so many men, you know, But I've been with

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<v Speaker 1>so many men that didn't make me come at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So the idea of keeping like holding back from an

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<v Speaker 1>orgasm to me, I guess would have to be with

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<v Speaker 1>a partner, maybe for fun, or someone that you're only

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<v Speaker 1>exclusive with, Like I want. I want to say this

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<v Speaker 1>because I think maybe saying it. Here's the timeline of it. Daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>can I come? He might keep sucking me, pull his

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<v Speaker 1>dick out and make me suck on it and make

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<v Speaker 1>me taste myself, then put it back in, then allow

0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:31.280
<v Speaker 1>me to come. This might be a few minutes, spurts.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not like I gotta go out dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and he might know. And I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just to me, like I feel like if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to orgasm and you're about to make me orgasm,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get that orgasm because if you stop,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm scared. What if I don't orgasm? Like women, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have like the same button as men, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? The reason I think you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be scared is because you're already heightening. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's already up there, and you're not gonna stop fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just like holding it. Or they may do something

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<v Speaker 1>to like like when I was about to come and

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<v Speaker 1>he fucking stopped sucking me and like made me go down.

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<v Speaker 1>I was still turned on as fuck. He's still touching

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<v Speaker 1>my pussy was still sexy, and then he kept sucking

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<v Speaker 1>me and then gave me permission to come, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, now I'm building up and now finally

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask this. Would this be similar to fucking

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and to keep himself from coming either nutting

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<v Speaker 1>too fast, they pull out and then hold from the

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<v Speaker 1>nutcoming and then going back in and that So was

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<v Speaker 1>it similar to that? Because I've had guys that do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's similar, But we when we're doing that, we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like calm ourselves down there. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>come that, would you be comfortable? I want to put

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<v Speaker 1>some break room in here so we can cut this out.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you talk about the head that the girl gave

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<v Speaker 1>you the timeline? Okay, that's fine. So the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>edging kind of came up is because I was telling

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<v Speaker 1>Alex about what happened my jeeves and he was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>I had head ones and this is what was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she was he was talking about the best hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she was pretty much bringing him to edge. So

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't edging during sex, it was edging during heads.

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<v Speaker 1>So how does she how does she do it? So

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<v Speaker 1>I'll start off, it's the best head I've ever gotten,

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<v Speaker 1>the best head you've ever gotten. And you were grown

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<v Speaker 1>ass man, so go ahead and explain this the best

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<v Speaker 1>head you've ever gotten. So techniques set the scene. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just say because I wasn't studying what she was doing,

0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I was just feeling it. But I ain't take notes.

0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:28.920
<v Speaker 1>But she mastered the Karin stuff in the double hands,

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<v Speaker 1>so like this is a double hand, which it is

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<v Speaker 1>funny because I think that's we call it the salt

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<v Speaker 1>and pepper shaker do it. Well, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you call as black people do. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you call it dealing with white men like being able

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<v Speaker 1>to do the like twist in the top. But are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys sucking and doing that? Yes, Okay, okay, okay,

0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:56.879
<v Speaker 1>that's what we think. We ain't sucking a twisted the

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<v Speaker 1>fun You thought he was just black China, No, so

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<v Speaker 1>you do the hand motion and at the same time, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead. So prior to this, she was just telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that she likes to watch my face when she

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<v Speaker 1>does it, like she really goes off of like my

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<v Speaker 1>expressions or whatever that, whatever the case is, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she knows what to do to get me there, and

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<v Speaker 1>so she'll keep doing that, get me right to the

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<v Speaker 1>point and then chill and like she'll maybe go to

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<v Speaker 1>my balls or something like that, like you'll just like chill,

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<v Speaker 1>move away from the head altogether. She did that like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe six or seven times. Like I was, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>felt like you I thought, so you were about how

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<v Speaker 1>did she know you're resting? Did her? No words? She

0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:45.320
<v Speaker 1>was just like, you know what you can feel that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, do you know that when

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<v Speaker 1>you're about to come as a man especially, No, not

0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:52.320
<v Speaker 1>only does it get rock hard, it starts it starts

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<v Speaker 1>to like pulsate, So I feel it like and if

0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:58.359
<v Speaker 1>we're sucking you, we can actually feel your dick starts

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<v Speaker 1>to hide in our out And that's how we know.

0:19:01.440 --> 0:19:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Like before you say, who are we going to built

0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.280
<v Speaker 1>to bus? We already know because we feel it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>but before you the breathing to a little bit of

0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:11.159
<v Speaker 1>the brity. But yeah, we actually get your dick in

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<v Speaker 1>our mouth like start to kind of jump, like yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't question when she did it. When she stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she do when she stopped, Like she would

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<v Speaker 1>just moved to a less sensitive area, or she would

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<v Speaker 1>stop all together, maybe just spit on it and like

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<v Speaker 1>like slowly stroke it like barely like a feather stroke,

0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:34.520
<v Speaker 1>so it's not like a rill. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the feather stroke, I want to tell you ladies, like

0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:39.200
<v Speaker 1>one of the techniques for feather stroking is it is

0:19:39.280 --> 0:19:42.880
<v Speaker 1>the the tips of your fingers is a feather stroke.

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<v Speaker 1>You can put a lot of pressure, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>the tips, so it's not a grip. You're just taking

0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:52.800
<v Speaker 1>your hand and grazing. Okay, So telling you what that

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<v Speaker 1>edge and ship And you were right in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>like the intensity of the come, Like do you think

0:19:58.359 --> 0:20:01.520
<v Speaker 1>you had more come or you were shooting further both?

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<v Speaker 1>So where did you come? Bro? Yeah, that's what happened

0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:10.399
<v Speaker 1>to me last time. And I had to tell him.

0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:15.320
<v Speaker 1>He was like, boy, healthy, God damn it, Okay, you're helpy.

0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:19.280
<v Speaker 1>That's what happened when you said, he said, you're gonna bust.

0:20:19.720 --> 0:20:23.639
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I know you're gonna tell me niggas? Now, MO,

0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:29.480
<v Speaker 1>what tell me to bust a nut? Now he doesn't say,

0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:33.119
<v Speaker 1>I mean he tells me to like come, like make

0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:36.600
<v Speaker 1>that pussy cume, like we talk really dirty. You're a

0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:41.160
<v Speaker 1>bust nut. I hate that. I mean, I asked him

0:20:41.160 --> 0:20:42.920
<v Speaker 1>if he's gonna bust, like, I don't say, are you

0:20:42.960 --> 0:20:45.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna come? Are you gonna orgasm? You're gonna bust? But

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<v Speaker 1>let me know where you want to bust? Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>I I say, bust. Is that not a good term?

0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:54.080
<v Speaker 1>That is that too urban? Bust? An urban term? Like?

0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Do you tell a bit like where can I bust?

0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:57.919
<v Speaker 1>Or do you say where can I come? Where can

0:20:58.000 --> 0:21:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I nuts? Where can I say? Donna bust that nut? Okay?

0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:10.480
<v Speaker 1>By bad? Maybe I'm just what you like girl. The

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<v Speaker 1>last time we fucked and I felt some type of way,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told this on Live too. He got up

0:21:16.520 --> 0:21:19.720
<v Speaker 1>after we were just we were panting. He got up

0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and yelled, bang bros. And I'm like, was do we

0:21:24.240 --> 0:21:27.159
<v Speaker 1>fuck like porn stars that much? I'm like, there's no

0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:29.840
<v Speaker 1>bros in here, It's just me and you and so

0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:31.520
<v Speaker 1>then we had a whole talk about what his porn

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<v Speaker 1>star name would be, and it like we had a

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<v Speaker 1>whole cover after it. He would have said something no, no, no,

0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:39.399
<v Speaker 1>he hasn't said it anywhere else, but it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a funny aestatement. We just what would my porn

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<v Speaker 1>star name be? You know, I've never thought about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never thought about it. I don't I can't think

0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:49.480
<v Speaker 1>of it. I wanted to be like somebody Kiddy or

0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:54.399
<v Speaker 1>maybe Magic Mandy, Magic Mandy, Yeah, something like that. Just

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<v Speaker 1>some advice to the Fellers who listened to the show,

0:21:57.480 --> 0:22:02.080
<v Speaker 1>definitely tune into the lesbian episod so because it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>Wonders with how to I've been told. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on me. I'm not having sex, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying I've been told I'm the best, and I've heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I add the finger action and then now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do this whole laby a situation. I'm gonna it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even a fan of like oral like that

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<v Speaker 1>because there's so many men I feel like that just

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<v Speaker 1>aren't good at it. It's a waste of time. Take

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<v Speaker 1>it up? Do you waste my time. You waste my time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking up one of those points star name things

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<v Speaker 1>to see what ours would be like, Oh, like take

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<v Speaker 1>your month and that's no bro hell no, Um, well guys,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, what month are you running? No, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do this right now. That is what we're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do October. You were bosogas you see, you see

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<v Speaker 1>how stupid that is. Let me see, that's really stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>Weasy just be wasting time up in here with her

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<v Speaker 1>non orderly as. Anyway, people like it. Well, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do next, y'all is getting to our horrible decision for

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<v Speaker 1>the week. This is one that, um, we really stumbled across.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's a really good topic because it

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of get us into the kind of our

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<v Speaker 1>ideas of ship kind of sort of right. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>I I found this because I felt like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>having a lot of people ask me, um in my

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<v Speaker 1>personal life, not horrible decision, really like how do I

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<v Speaker 1>do this? How do I talk? How do I tell

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<v Speaker 1>my partner I want this? Like, what's the right thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do? So I googled this um in the car

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<v Speaker 1>on the way here, and I found an article by

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<v Speaker 1>Essence dot com. Five sex topics you and your partner

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<v Speaker 1>must discuss. The reason I really wanted to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it is because I actually don't agree with many of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like a lot of them. You you've read

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<v Speaker 1>me off before the show be four and I agreed

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<v Speaker 1>with the first four, So I don't I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>three of them. I think that a lot of these

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<v Speaker 1>are a little too much, and I think for the

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<v Speaker 1>listener base that we have, especially with modern day age

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<v Speaker 1>like situation ships, I think that it's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a very difficult time for people to read an article

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<v Speaker 1>like this and figure out when is the right time. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's go to number one. What's the so here?

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<v Speaker 1>Here's how they describe this though, Um, these are five

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<v Speaker 1>important topics to discuss with your man before taking your

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:13.200
<v Speaker 1>relationships to next level? Um? Are things heading there? Or

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:15.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe they've just been a bit underwhelming between the sheets.

0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.760
<v Speaker 1>When you and a partner become intimate, ultimately, great sex

0:24:18.880 --> 0:24:20.640
<v Speaker 1>is the goal. We get that. Here are a few

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:24.400
<v Speaker 1>topics you should cover together to minimize awkward moments in bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one, love it talk, fantasies, fetishes, and desires. I

0:24:30.160 --> 0:24:33.520
<v Speaker 1>think that's very important even when and I don't think

0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:37.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a first conversation thing to have, but when you

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<v Speaker 1>meet a guy, I think that this is super important

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm not gonna lie. It's it's gotten to the

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<v Speaker 1>point where, now at um the age that I am

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<v Speaker 1>and knowing what I like sexually and what turns me on,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to kind of see that a guy is

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<v Speaker 1>even just open. Let's I want to talk about this

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<v Speaker 1>really quick. Sorry to cut you off. Well, how students

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<v Speaker 1>too soon? What talking about fantasy fantasies ship either after

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<v Speaker 1>you had sex the first time or is it after

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<v Speaker 1>So that's a cool thing you're saying, yeah, Like, well no,

0:25:06.160 --> 0:25:08.760
<v Speaker 1>it could people for sex too, but it depends the relationship.

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Girl to this fantasies and kings. Before I tell guys

0:25:13.000 --> 0:25:15.080
<v Speaker 1>all that it depends, I want to hear what I

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<v Speaker 1>want everything. It is different with every situation. But a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women are worried about talking. This is why

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<v Speaker 1>we have the show, Dude. They're worried about talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the things they want in fear of judgment. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel, Let's just say it's a third date. Maybe

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you're having drinks and was first. That's what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>by the first even text couple of things. Let's assume

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<v Speaker 1>that no one's having first couple of text messages in no,

0:25:36.000 --> 0:25:38.320
<v Speaker 1>if you get into a conversation, especially with us having

0:25:38.359 --> 0:25:41.320
<v Speaker 1>this show like they see what we talk about. Most

0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:47.159
<v Speaker 1>people are a couple of people exactly, not within the

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<v Speaker 1>first message. Now with the first message, clearly, once the

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<v Speaker 1>first meat is setn start seeing because to me, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>sit here until you bring brought up subtly. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>being brought up just so I know, like, Okay, are

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<v Speaker 1>you a girl who's like willing to put out in

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<v Speaker 1>the first date or you're like hold on, Alex, but

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not even putting out. So to me, wait, how

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<v Speaker 1>is sex brought up before the first meet? What are

0:26:10.840 --> 0:26:14.320
<v Speaker 1>you saying then? Very subtly and what wait? Like all

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 1>different ways you could just se no, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's saying, I want to see if I'm going home,

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<v Speaker 1>like go ahead, like okay, I'll do it after we

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:24.760
<v Speaker 1>set the date to be like, oh, when's the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you've been on a date. Okay, so she'll talk

0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:31.119
<v Speaker 1>about the last time, oh, or I just got our relationship,

0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:33.840
<v Speaker 1>how long ago was that? And then it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>transition to oh, once the last time you were with someone? What, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not asking that, I'm not, And I as you

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<v Speaker 1>know what's crazy? You're you asked this to the last

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 1>person you've slept with, Yeah, before you met them. You

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:52.760
<v Speaker 1>gotta lie. I just want you to tell you the

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:56.480
<v Speaker 1>truth during Like during the first date, you asked her

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the last time she had sex on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>My nigga would the question. But you know what, see,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is my issue too. When I talk to

0:27:03.800 --> 0:27:07.200
<v Speaker 1>guys and we're talking about the fetishes or what you

0:27:07.200 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 1>would like to do or what you haven't done, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that it could still be brought up real nonchalantly

0:27:11.880 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 1>without feeling like he's trying to fuck you. But I

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 1>gauge the responses of these guys real quick, like when

0:27:18.320 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a nigga come off real like but you know, no

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:23.240
<v Speaker 1>gay ship or no, like when I feel like a

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>guy is just super hyper like the hyper maasterality in

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom and doing all that doing it for that together.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have no. No, I hear you, but

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly I would have Oh. Well, I mean to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think I've ever been asked like

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time you have never been asked that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I can't see how you brought it up,

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<v Speaker 1>and it because if we're talking about sex already, you

0:27:47.160 --> 0:27:49.639
<v Speaker 1>just say when's the last time you had it? And

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:51.760
<v Speaker 1>would you look at her any different? And she's like, well,

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>there's a nigga two days ago. But I'm just trying.

0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>But a lot of men would. You wouldn't. But they're

0:27:57.960 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 1>a guy that was trying to talk to me recently,

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<v Speaker 1>and I let him know that I wasn't looking for

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:03.560
<v Speaker 1>no one because he was trying to come over and

0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, listen, I'm not looking for that

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 1>right now, Like whatever you're offering your dick, whatever, I'm

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 1>not interested in because I kind of have somebody that

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.440
<v Speaker 1>has already taken. What are you looking for? I'm looking

0:28:12.480 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>for either a negative petties bills and a trick or

0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 1>negota be my boyfriend. But you're not gonna sit here

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:19.639
<v Speaker 1>and try straight up. But you're not gonna be my

0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:21.840
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend asking it. Just come over my crib like not.

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 1>The main reason why I do it is because this

0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>online dating is so confusing. You have some people that

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:29.400
<v Speaker 1>just look look at it and then you have people

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>are looking for their next meet like, I would prefer

0:28:32.400 --> 0:28:35.440
<v Speaker 1>the question be posed as like, what are you looking for?

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Then I'm gonna be honest with even someone saying, when's

0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 1>the last time you went on a date? I'm thinking

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 1>of the last first day that went on, maybe the

0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>last two one of them would love a girl, And

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 1>even with Jeeves, if they would have said that to me,

0:28:48.400 --> 0:28:50.480
<v Speaker 1>it would have completely sucked me up. When the last

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>time you went on a date? Like? Um? No, I mean,

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 1>I like the what are you looking for? But what

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>do you all ask me when the last time I

0:28:57.080 --> 0:28:59.480
<v Speaker 1>had sex? When the last time? Not? It's not I'm

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:01.680
<v Speaker 1>not jumping out the gate with that. We're already talking

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 1>about sex. Or how would you feel if the girl

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 1>asked you that completely open, when is the last time

0:29:07.560 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>you had sex on the first date? And I'm gonna

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 1>tell her? With my ex many many months ago, I

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 1>guess for you to because you got a whole ex

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 1>and the whole what was me? I just reship? But

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 1>when I'm sitting here just sucking a nigga. Oh he

0:29:21.360 --> 0:29:23.720
<v Speaker 1>put me on a uber two days ago? What's up? Um?

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you don't think that her asking that question sincerely

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 1>to you on the first date is a bit doing

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:31.360
<v Speaker 1>too much and getting in your business to us if

0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about I'm not jumping out the gate. Even

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:36.360
<v Speaker 1>if you're talking about sex. To ask your timeline of

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:38.640
<v Speaker 1>what you've personally been doing recently. Why do you have

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:43.920
<v Speaker 1>anything to hide? If if you're going to have anything, Yo,

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 1>we don't go out to the next one. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even recording because I could go off for you a

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<v Speaker 1>little moment. All was number two? Um number two, hate

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 1>this one, but let me read into it a little bit. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Number two is discuss your sexual history and future plans.

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>Remember in high school when sex sex clad, when a

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 1>teacher warned you that if you have sex with someone,

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.280
<v Speaker 1>you're having sex with anyone they've ever had sex with.

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 1>As discussing it was this is what happens when you

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<v Speaker 1>read the read normal so that people can understand what

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>the funk you're saying? What am I com doing it? Uh?

0:30:18.000 --> 0:30:22.600
<v Speaker 1>Could like? Do you want me to well talk to

0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 1>where people can understand you? Bro? This is why you

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>don't read the wholemail or just give a gist of it.

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:30.000
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to read right. But if you're gonna

0:30:30.040 --> 0:30:32.160
<v Speaker 1>read verbatim, read it so that we could understand you.

0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 1>We sit and right in front of you, Kate fucking

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:35.960
<v Speaker 1>understand what the fun you're saying. Yeah, I couldn't understand

0:30:35.960 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 1>what you sing. Thank you, Alex, I would like you

0:30:40.360 --> 0:30:44.720
<v Speaker 1>to shut the funk up For three. You need to

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 1>know a person's sexual history upfront, diseases, genders of partners,

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 1>and testing history. If someone has not cleared STD testing

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 1>within the past six months or results are not current,

0:30:55.000 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 1>don't leave it up to your partner to look out

0:30:56.800 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 1>for your best interest. It's okay to start fresh together

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 1>and get have one together, but a blah um you

0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:03.240
<v Speaker 1>two can go together. It can be awkwardly a fun adventure.

0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 1>It's certainly ones that ends about you both feeling great.

0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Family planning is also an important part of any pre

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:12.400
<v Speaker 1>sex discussion. So when it said scientists discussion, listen when

0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:14.840
<v Speaker 1>it said sexual history and future plans, I had no

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 1>idea they were talking about kids. Family planning is important.

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:21.800
<v Speaker 1>For example, you talked to your partner about birth controls, bro,

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:24.800
<v Speaker 1>unless you raw dogging a bit upfront, like no, nothing

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:28.960
<v Speaker 1>more uncomfortable than dealing with an unplanned pregnancy before either

0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>of you know what you truly want. Well, why are

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:33.000
<v Speaker 1>you sucking a nigga raw on the first time? Anyway?

0:31:33.120 --> 0:31:36.640
<v Speaker 1>No one saying it could be raw? Condoms are what? Okay?

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>And then the condom break? All right? You both better

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:41.200
<v Speaker 1>be rich enough to have fifty dollars and go to walk, right.

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Not everybody is taking a Plan B, Bro. I'm gonna

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. It sucks your body up a lot.

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of against plan being what it does in

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 1>my hormones. I would check a calendar to see when

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:54.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm operating first energy out there. But right, I'm cool

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:55.960
<v Speaker 1>with Plan B. I'm cool with it too, but like

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:58.360
<v Speaker 1>research it before you just popping planing bs A. I

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 1>mean you got to pop them all the time. You

0:32:00.680 --> 0:32:04.920
<v Speaker 1>know your body. And because what if you're with somebody

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 1>who's pro life, Now, that's a good that is a

0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 1>good point. So that's a good point because that could

0:32:11.520 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 1>be to where if there is a mistake and you're

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:17.160
<v Speaker 1>dealing with a pro life and pro choice person, which

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:19.720
<v Speaker 1>clearly bitch on pro choice. But I'm just I just

0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:23.719
<v Speaker 1>want y'all to know we're gonna were well, I mean,

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 1>you got fine, honey, I'm going right up to the

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:28.560
<v Speaker 1>clinic and we're gonna cut the little thing out. But

0:32:29.480 --> 0:32:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, but Jesus has risen and so have

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 1>them abortion fees. No, but that is a good point

0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>that I didn't think of as dealing with a partner

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.800
<v Speaker 1>who maybe pro life, which I know a lot of

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>women that are, and I've I've heard of this situation

0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 1>really happen. But you know a lot of pro life.

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know a lot of bad abortion to

0:32:55.720 --> 0:32:58.520
<v Speaker 1>but I do know that as you know someone that's like,

0:32:58.640 --> 0:33:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I do know someone who's pro li who literally only

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 1>had the baby because her whole family was against girl.

0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:06.920
<v Speaker 1>You don't know where we had our five year gap

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 1>and you don't know where. And I'm not going to

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 1>tell your name. Yeah, but she has her baby. But

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 1>that kind of like a death, you know, I'm not

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:17.960
<v Speaker 1>but to be honest, like holes are all stop. I'm serious.

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not meaning that we all are like minded. People

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:23.240
<v Speaker 1>were doing the show like it really surprises me to

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:26.280
<v Speaker 1>know that you're knowing your personality that someone who was

0:33:26.360 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>like I hang with a lot of different people, but

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't, right, and it's you hang with that nigga

0:33:32.200 --> 0:33:34.320
<v Speaker 1>every day pro life. That means you don't believe in

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 1>abortion life, right, so you don't want no babys his life.

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 1>So it's a really conservative you like, very few women

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:44.200
<v Speaker 1>are still like not yeah, but when so I'm just well,

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>when a woman is with a close knit family who

0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 1>believes in having babies and raising families and it's a

0:33:50.480 --> 0:33:53.840
<v Speaker 1>religious value like a lot, Well, no, she had the

0:33:53.880 --> 0:33:56.400
<v Speaker 1>baby with the nigga is because her like, her family

0:33:56.440 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>would have just owned her for having an abortion. When

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:01.920
<v Speaker 1>you bro like, let's keep it a hundred, how do

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:03.640
<v Speaker 1>they know? How would they have known? How would they

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>have known an abortion? A lot of people go through

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:09.160
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that and they don't want to just hold

0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>that ship in. Maybe that's something I could keep me.

0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:13.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, like to be disowned or to have

0:34:13.840 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 1>a baby. I mean, maybe she was in really right,

0:34:15.560 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, but when you're close with your family, you

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 1>don't like you share ship with them. I hear you,

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 1>but it's still something very private. I don't share with

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 1>my family every time I have sex, and I don't

0:34:23.160 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 1>know if I would be giving all money details of

0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:27.319
<v Speaker 1>my body right, she damn near. I mean, the whole

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:29.359
<v Speaker 1>the whole world knows every time you have sex. I'm

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 1>just saying, like, I don't think that women should feel

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>like it needs to be something that's told. If you

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:34.840
<v Speaker 1>want to keep that private as a private moment of

0:34:34.880 --> 0:34:36.520
<v Speaker 1>your life, you have every right to it's your body.

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:41.359
<v Speaker 1>I will say that, Well, no, that's it's fine. Okay. Well,

0:34:41.360 --> 0:34:44.400
<v Speaker 1>aside from that, we'll talking about sex. Let's talk about that,

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:46.560
<v Speaker 1>talking about the genders of people you've had sex with,

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:47.960
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff. How do you guys feel about that?

0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>Because I I thought I found that very um I

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.839
<v Speaker 1>will agree on and I will say that because when

0:34:55.880 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I was dealing with Q, I'll say that we got

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:00.719
<v Speaker 1>to bleep that out. When I was link with this guy,

0:35:01.040 --> 0:35:04.319
<v Speaker 1>I was super, super super he probably would have had

0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:06.440
<v Speaker 1>his baby back and then well, were you guys having

0:35:06.480 --> 0:35:10.400
<v Speaker 1>sex and protected? Let me ask that, No, this is

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 1>this was he knew I liked women, And when we

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:16.239
<v Speaker 1>were talking about to the point where I was going

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:18.640
<v Speaker 1>to move in with him, and we were talking on

0:35:18.760 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 1>that level, we had a whole argument slash conversation about

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:26.960
<v Speaker 1>him not wanting me to deal with women because he

0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't want he didn't want to feel like he wasn't

0:35:31.280 --> 0:35:33.480
<v Speaker 1>doing everything that he needed to do or feeling like

0:35:33.600 --> 0:35:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I would need to go deal with someone else to

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:36.840
<v Speaker 1>be happy. What does it have to do with the

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:39.279
<v Speaker 1>he didn't want me dealing with other partners? No? No, no,

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:41.360
<v Speaker 1>no no. So this sexual this isn't part of this.

0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:43.839
<v Speaker 1>This is sexual history and sexual history. So if I'm

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:46.640
<v Speaker 1>dealing with Jenny, because to me, this is this whole

0:35:46.840 --> 0:35:50.759
<v Speaker 1>This whole article is about what the risk of the conversation. Well, no,

0:35:51.920 --> 0:35:54.600
<v Speaker 1>it's the conversations you have before you take a relationship

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:57.719
<v Speaker 1>to the next step, which is what I'm saying is

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 1>under There's another segment of that that's talking about what

0:36:02.280 --> 0:36:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about, but the sexual history portion is strictly

0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:08.120
<v Speaker 1>because of STDs. Right, Okay, well I was talking about

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:10.880
<v Speaker 1>still my sexual history deals with that. I've dealt with

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 1>women before, and so I'm going to discuss that with

0:36:14.000 --> 0:36:17.320
<v Speaker 1>a partner. Sexual history. We already said that at the

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:19.880
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, if it's curable and I had it,

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>what you need to know about a fol I had

0:36:21.560 --> 0:36:27.520
<v Speaker 1>committee one time, it's gone. If I to know, um,

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:31.480
<v Speaker 1>my sexual history as far as like people like especially

0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:33.839
<v Speaker 1>too early on and once we go unprotected, then that's fine.

0:36:33.920 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>But like talking in terms of like body count, because

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:39.919
<v Speaker 1>it was saying like how many engenders Like, I don't

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>think body count is relevant and I think it's private,

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>and if I want to share that with you, I will,

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:46.080
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think I totally disagree with this article.

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't given how well we need to know each other.

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 1>And I'll be real with you, Nick, I don't know.

0:36:49.440 --> 0:36:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you want to go through it together, a

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:53.680
<v Speaker 1>body count for the last six months, we can get there.

0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 1>But if you really want to know the entire sex

0:36:57.000 --> 0:36:59.320
<v Speaker 1>in the city, I don't say how many people have

0:36:59.400 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>you had sex with this year? Right? But it's not

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:04.800
<v Speaker 1>like I'm saying my body count is high or anything

0:37:04.840 --> 0:37:07.359
<v Speaker 1>like that, but I I am. And so I mean,

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know if it's high. I

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know the number. Ship might not be saying you

0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:13.239
<v Speaker 1>don't know the number. To me, that's high enough. You

0:37:13.280 --> 0:37:14.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know the number. It's high. I don't know if

0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:16.399
<v Speaker 1>I can name ten niggers right now. To be honest

0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:18.800
<v Speaker 1>with you, I'm gonna name the last few. And so

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>the first episode we went through ten and you you

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>left names off the list, and this was like episode five.

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:29.279
<v Speaker 1>And that's only because as women we forget you made

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 1>a list, we delete bodies. It happens. I'm just saying

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm single digits. Um. And so another number I've been

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:41.920
<v Speaker 1>told that I eat the best pussy about whom I

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:46.680
<v Speaker 1>slept with. Okay, So another one that they said is

0:37:47.040 --> 0:37:52.480
<v Speaker 1>swap calendars. This is interesting. It says that, Um, no,

0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:54.359
<v Speaker 1>I didn't skip one. Yeah, I didn't want to talk

0:37:54.360 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 1>about that one right now because I think that was stupid.

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 1>You can talk about that one last like it's still

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:02.359
<v Speaker 1>swap calendars. This one I just feel like we ain't

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk much about because it don't make no sense

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:06.280
<v Speaker 1>to me. So it says you like it in the morning,

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>but you're more of a night owl. You're comfortable having

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 1>sex three times a week, but your partners more like

0:38:11.080 --> 0:38:13.840
<v Speaker 1>a three times a month guy. Um, I've seen a

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:16.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of things talking about like how much sex is

0:38:16.360 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>too much, or if you're in a relationship, what's a

0:38:18.280 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 1>good number, what's a good amount of times to have sex?

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:23.320
<v Speaker 1>So I think that this is a good thing. And actually, like,

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:24.800
<v Speaker 1>I think this is great and I think I just

0:38:24.920 --> 0:38:29.879
<v Speaker 1>posted something actually on our Horrible Decisions page. Yeah, because

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I have some ship to say. Nig so I just

0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:33.920
<v Speaker 1>posted something on the Horrible Decisions page. You could do

0:38:34.000 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>that one anyway. Fuck no, but y'all, so I actually said, um.

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:43.160
<v Speaker 1>One of the posts that I put it said, guys

0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:45.680
<v Speaker 1>think they want a lot of sex until they get

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:47.840
<v Speaker 1>a woman who wants a lot of sex. And the

0:38:47.960 --> 0:38:50.279
<v Speaker 1>comments under here, if you guys want something good to read,

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:54.319
<v Speaker 1>it's about seventy two comments of people who wrote kind

0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 1>of what they thought about that. And I think it's

0:38:57.000 --> 0:39:00.360
<v Speaker 1>funny because there are women who want to go rounds.

0:39:00.680 --> 0:39:02.239
<v Speaker 1>And if you get with a guy who's like a

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:04.000
<v Speaker 1>one and done, and after he busts that nut, he

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:05.320
<v Speaker 1>can't get back up and he don't want to go

0:39:05.400 --> 0:39:09.240
<v Speaker 1>back up, you're gonna be unfulfilled. So when you're dealing

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 1>with a partner, even this might even be before looking

0:39:12.239 --> 0:39:14.959
<v Speaker 1>into a real relationship, even if you're dealing with a nigga,

0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:16.840
<v Speaker 1>and he might just be the only nigga you fucking

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 1>just a fuck if he's not on the same I

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:23.680
<v Speaker 1>guess plain as you. If you like morning sex but

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 1>he don't want to roll over and deal with your

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:27.600
<v Speaker 1>morning breath, you're gonna be unhappy because now you can't

0:39:27.640 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 1>get your morning dick. So I think that this is

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.279
<v Speaker 1>actually really good and pertains to a topic. I like

0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:34.839
<v Speaker 1>that too, because um, I used to I was dating

0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:37.080
<v Speaker 1>someone maybe like two years ago that I would love

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:38.920
<v Speaker 1>morning sex and he thought I would enjoy it. He

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.399
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you like, were you up with this morning?

0:39:41.480 --> 0:39:45.320
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, i'vena wake me up with. You

0:39:45.400 --> 0:39:49.520
<v Speaker 1>spent the night for a reason, so I'm like, I like,

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:51.880
<v Speaker 1>you should have went home. Like I like it on

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.560
<v Speaker 1>them one off things when there's a nigga over, Like, yeah,

0:39:54.560 --> 0:39:56.239
<v Speaker 1>I wanted as much as I can because I really

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>have niggas over. But in a relationship, no, I don't

0:39:59.800 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 1>like when we're waking up together and like it's just

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:05.600
<v Speaker 1>like I got do You're living a guy, so I

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 1>guess that's just different. I've never lived with a guy,

0:40:07.520 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>don't do you hear me though? Like, bro, I'm gonna

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:12.239
<v Speaker 1>get up at seven am to get to work now,

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I got to set the alarm at six thirty to

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:17.200
<v Speaker 1>get some dick. I want to. But when I have niggas,

0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 1>because clearly I have niggas come over, I go over there.

0:40:19.640 --> 0:40:22.239
<v Speaker 1>Like if I spend the night, it's because I wanted

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:26.439
<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Otherwise, yeah, like one of those don't

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:28.040
<v Speaker 1>count you funk as much as you can know twelve

0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>hours you have that person. And so anyone listening, because

0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:33.360
<v Speaker 1>y'all niggas don't know, this is the rule. If you

0:40:33.440 --> 0:40:35.040
<v Speaker 1>spend the night with a bit, she need dick in

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 1>the morning. If you don't plan on giving her dick

0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:39.320
<v Speaker 1>in the morning, take your ass home. I like that.

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Like that. I know I'm talking to you. What you

0:40:44.400 --> 0:40:47.040
<v Speaker 1>have a camera if you stay the night, nigga, I

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:50.279
<v Speaker 1>need that dick in the morning. Wait, wait, but just

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:53.319
<v Speaker 1>before you move on to the next one, um, your

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:56.479
<v Speaker 1>topic that you said about dudes thinking they want sex

0:40:56.600 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 1>until they're were the woman who wants. I just want

0:40:59.600 --> 0:41:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to So I've noticed with the five women I've had

0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:06.759
<v Speaker 1>sex with, five body count number out there, Yeah you

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:10.560
<v Speaker 1>know one by the way, of so five women in

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Q one, Oh is a Q one? We actually in

0:41:13.640 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Q two. By the way, April Fool's pregnant. So I've noticed.

0:41:22.080 --> 0:41:25.480
<v Speaker 1>It's about your sexual chemistry as well for sure. So

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:28.080
<v Speaker 1>like you said, I don't know if you mentioned on

0:41:28.160 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 1>the pot, but let's just say, if you're with somebody

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 1>and you get off multiple times before they have their

0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:40.360
<v Speaker 1>first nut. When I've been in situations like that the

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:43.320
<v Speaker 1>woman doesn't want sex. Funny, I don't be one and

0:41:43.400 --> 0:41:46.080
<v Speaker 1>sex after and normally I'll be with a nigket and

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, can we go another round? Can we

0:41:47.840 --> 0:41:54.360
<v Speaker 1>go another round? I'll be like that was great. Definitely

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:57.200
<v Speaker 1>a difference, but it's funny too because I also said

0:41:57.280 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 1>this on Instagram. I think a lot of men need

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 1>to know the difference between liking sex, being a nympho,

0:42:05.360 --> 0:42:08.040
<v Speaker 1>and being a freak. And I say that to say

0:42:08.080 --> 0:42:09.440
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like a lot of men when they

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:11.239
<v Speaker 1>meet a woman, they'll be like, yeah, baby, I'm a freak.

0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:13.719
<v Speaker 1>You just liking the act of sex does not make

0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>you a nympho, and you being a nympho does not

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:17.640
<v Speaker 1>make you a freak, because once I bring up the pagan,

0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:19.480
<v Speaker 1>oh you ain't that freaking. See. I don't know if

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you guys have ever or if you really understand what

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.520
<v Speaker 1>entails people are getting, Like they're out there, like getting headaches,

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:31.399
<v Speaker 1>getting frustrated, getting panic attacks, like just frustration and anxiety

0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:35.120
<v Speaker 1>without having sex, Like that nympho ship is fucking really no,

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:37.359
<v Speaker 1>it's real. Yeah, but there's not many nymphos out there,

0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, like real ones like, well, I think that

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't I agree with you, but I think that

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:44.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe all of us at one point in our lives

0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:47.360
<v Speaker 1>have maybe gone through was a spurt of being an inpho.

0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I have. I was like masturbating at work like crazy.

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've had moments where well, I'm probably it's

0:42:54.600 --> 0:42:57.600
<v Speaker 1>not taking it's not taking over your life. Though that's

0:42:57.600 --> 0:42:59.640
<v Speaker 1>not an inmpho. I would consider myself and coming in

0:42:59.719 --> 0:43:02.120
<v Speaker 1>and not thinking off is not the same as like

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 1>craving sex. So this is sucking up your livelihood, like

0:43:08.040 --> 0:43:10.399
<v Speaker 1>you can't go through like daily activities, or you're thinking

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 1>about sucking like me sipping this water bottle in the shape,

0:43:13.280 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about a dick like I'm gonna what's crazy

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:17.880
<v Speaker 1>is So I'm in a sex class right now, and

0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:22.400
<v Speaker 1>they actually used to diagnose nymphomania as a mental disorder

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 1>and would put women in there, like it's a book

0:43:29.320 --> 0:43:33.760
<v Speaker 1>that categorizes all. Yeah, I just feel like there's a difference.

0:43:35.560 --> 0:43:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm on dictionary dot com and it says uncontrolled, clable

0:43:39.719 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 1>or excessive sexual desire in a woman. Yeah, it's it's

0:43:43.600 --> 0:43:46.080
<v Speaker 1>attached to a woman. And they would put these women

0:43:46.120 --> 0:43:50.000
<v Speaker 1>in from men. No, No, it's saying in a woman like,

0:43:51.080 --> 0:43:54.000
<v Speaker 1>it's not saying anything about a person. Only women can

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:58.000
<v Speaker 1>be nymphomaniacs, which is so fucking sexist because any time

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:03.200
<v Speaker 1>to get a fun now, I'm a nimpho. God forbid,

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask for some ship now, I'm a

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:09.800
<v Speaker 1>fucking ninfo on dictionary dot com this is so fucking bullshit.

0:44:09.960 --> 0:44:12.399
<v Speaker 1>I can't even believe they're not describing it as anybody else. Wow,

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:15.840
<v Speaker 1>even on Urban Dictionary. Is a woman yes, not to

0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:19.920
<v Speaker 1>be confused with slut or skank to where one sexual

0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:23.839
<v Speaker 1>dignity and pathetically love. I am who has a woman? Wow?

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Another one a woman who has abnormally excessive and uncontrollable section.

0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:29.520
<v Speaker 1>You know what I want us to go on to

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the next topic. Well, I guess I thought it was no, no, no, no,

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm closed. I'm probably like a nimpho. This

0:44:39.239 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 1>is I don't like that one, and you wait on

0:44:43.080 --> 0:44:45.719
<v Speaker 1>it until you get it like that's not nympho, Like,

0:44:45.840 --> 0:44:48.719
<v Speaker 1>oh but okay, but that's no. But I will sit

0:44:48.760 --> 0:44:52.200
<v Speaker 1>here and say that that is recent because a bit

0:44:52.320 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 1>had a rotating door one time, and it was literally

0:44:55.719 --> 0:45:00.800
<v Speaker 1>right now, right now with the amount of sex that

0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I well, right now, I'm also extremely busy, which is

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:06.000
<v Speaker 1>crazy because when I feel like I have more free

0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:07.960
<v Speaker 1>time is when I have an itch to just be

0:45:08.040 --> 0:45:09.960
<v Speaker 1>a hope. I didn't even go a lie like I have.

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. You're not really an info because

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:16.879
<v Speaker 1>like somebody bipolar can't just turn that shirt off because

0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:25.040
<v Speaker 1>they're busy. I'll agree with that as well. Let me

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:28.720
<v Speaker 1>get to the fourth one. So Mandy skipped this one, sod,

0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>but I actually think this is a very interesting one.

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:35.960
<v Speaker 1>The headline is make sure you're exclusive, which I was like, no,

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:39.480
<v Speaker 1>But here's what it says underneath. Could your lover have

0:45:39.680 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>another like it or not? Not? Everyone's definition of commitment

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:48.839
<v Speaker 1>that is the same. Um uh oh. The person that's

0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:52.080
<v Speaker 1>writing this article cautions women to never assume exclusivity in

0:45:52.120 --> 0:45:55.799
<v Speaker 1>a sexual relationship. She suggests being upfront and asking your

0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:59.080
<v Speaker 1>partner if they're dating, um or involved with someone else.

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:03.839
<v Speaker 1>Having straightforward conversations about whether or not someone else. Having

0:46:03.880 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 1>straightforward conversations about whether or not your sexual exclusive does

0:46:06.800 --> 0:46:09.880
<v Speaker 1>reduce confusion. Now here's where I want to stop you,

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:11.640
<v Speaker 1>because I know you said the first day you think

0:46:11.680 --> 0:46:13.640
<v Speaker 1>this is stupid. I think this is really really good.

0:46:13.880 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I think it's one of the most I don't think

0:46:16.960 --> 0:46:19.120
<v Speaker 1>want something to talk about before you have sex. But yeah,

0:46:19.280 --> 0:46:21.120
<v Speaker 1>this is not before you have sex. Do you remember

0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:24.239
<v Speaker 1>the titles about that this is about having sexual conversations

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:26.920
<v Speaker 1>with a partner for you go into a relationship. Yet, right,

0:46:27.360 --> 0:46:32.600
<v Speaker 1>that is so fucking important, because my nigga, if you're

0:46:33.120 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>you're sucking my ass and I'm eating yours, you're not

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 1>allowed to have anybody else, says the non monogamous. I'm

0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:44.080
<v Speaker 1>she's so contradicted. I'm teasing, but like, no, I mean seriously, though,

0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:46.480
<v Speaker 1>there's there's things that these women and are giving of

0:46:46.560 --> 0:46:49.520
<v Speaker 1>themselves that feel like they're doing a lot and or

0:46:49.600 --> 0:46:52.399
<v Speaker 1>whether it's exploring new ships sexually or maybe trying something

0:46:52.520 --> 0:46:54.960
<v Speaker 1>in hopes for more, or thinking that you know, this

0:46:55.080 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 1>is their only partner and to find out that you ain't.

0:46:57.239 --> 0:46:59.360
<v Speaker 1>But you know what's why I kind of disagree with

0:46:59.440 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>waiting into so you're ready to take it to the

0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:03.920
<v Speaker 1>next step. I feel like this should be a conversation

0:47:04.560 --> 0:47:07.200
<v Speaker 1>on a first or second day. This shouldn't be something

0:47:07.280 --> 0:47:09.120
<v Speaker 1>that you spring up on a nigga six months into

0:47:09.200 --> 0:47:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Now you really like him, and then he tells you

0:47:10.680 --> 0:47:15.560
<v Speaker 1>by the way pomory before you don't know before making

0:47:15.640 --> 0:47:21.279
<v Speaker 1>a relationship moving. This article is five important topics to

0:47:21.520 --> 0:47:25.560
<v Speaker 1>discuss with your man before taking your relationship to the

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 1>next level. It doesn't describe what the next level you

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 1>asked to early. No, well, I asked so far at

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:34.920
<v Speaker 1>all four of these things before having sex. I'm actually

0:47:34.920 --> 0:47:36.479
<v Speaker 1>interested to know what y'all think it is now, because

0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.080
<v Speaker 1>both of you are saying and talking about this stuff. Earlier,

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I would talk about that I've been I met Jeeves

0:47:41.000 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 1>the week before Valentine's Day? What is April? First, I

0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 1>do not ask him about if he's sleeping with anyone

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:49.040
<v Speaker 1>else right now. I don't think it's my business. You

0:47:49.160 --> 0:47:51.319
<v Speaker 1>just don't want to be hurt. No, right, I think

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:53.080
<v Speaker 1>that that's just more. I don't think that is I

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:54.520
<v Speaker 1>don't think it's more for me at all. I think

0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:58.400
<v Speaker 1>that we're too, absolutely I do. But I still feel like,

0:47:58.560 --> 0:48:01.080
<v Speaker 1>right now, if he's sucking somebody else who's sucking better,

0:48:01.600 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 1>you're not better. But I'm just saying right now, he's

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:10.919
<v Speaker 1>with it right now. But I think it also gives

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:16.080
<v Speaker 1>her this how you feel right now he's having sex

0:48:16.200 --> 0:48:18.920
<v Speaker 1>right now with somebody else, how you feel. I don't

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:22.200
<v Speaker 1>know if I'm exactly um I'll feel I feel like

0:48:22.280 --> 0:48:24.839
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of jealous, but I don't know if

0:48:24.880 --> 0:48:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I necessarily feel like he shouldn't be I don't. I

0:48:27.520 --> 0:48:30.520
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like he owes me that I'm not lying.

0:48:30.560 --> 0:48:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm being really honest with you seriously, because I don't

0:48:33.600 --> 0:48:35.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like I shouldn't be sleeping with other people right

0:48:35.560 --> 0:48:37.839
<v Speaker 1>now either. I don't owe him anything. We're spending two

0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>or three times a week together. Like I don't feel

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.400
<v Speaker 1>like he just did the Labia massage and she's like,

0:48:42.480 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 1>who the hell you learn that? Listen, I would be

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:46.239
<v Speaker 1>a little jealous because that was just with him a

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:48.919
<v Speaker 1>night ago. But I swear to you, I'm not lying.

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Why should you be any jealous? Shouldn't you be zero jealous?

0:48:51.960 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 1>I know I should, but I can't help that. Like

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:54.799
<v Speaker 1>that's the way I feel. I would be a little

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:56.600
<v Speaker 1>bit jealous, but it wouldn't keep me from talking to

0:48:56.640 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 1>It would make me question it more like I would

0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:01.279
<v Speaker 1>not be would forced me to stop talking to him,

0:49:01.320 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 1>would make I think it's the feeling of being monogamous

0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:05.759
<v Speaker 1>that you like. Because you mentioned this. In the last

0:49:05.840 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 1>recording that we did, you said, well, I like him

0:49:08.239 --> 0:49:11.160
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like we're I feel like we're exclusive

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 1>to each other. I feel like we're the only one thing.

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:14.480
<v Speaker 1>So you you were saying that, Um, I know you.

0:49:14.719 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>You said that's a lover girl, and I don't remember

0:49:16.719 --> 0:49:18.960
<v Speaker 1>saying that. I remember. I really don't think those were

0:49:19.000 --> 0:49:21.239
<v Speaker 1>my words. I think what I said was, she's not

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 1>saying that. I don't. I don't. I don't recall everything.

0:49:23.760 --> 0:49:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't. It's I don't. I didn't say anything like

0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we're a monogamous to each other, because

0:49:27.200 --> 0:49:29.359
<v Speaker 1>that's not important for me right now. I remember saying

0:49:29.400 --> 0:49:32.279
<v Speaker 1>to you, though, which I think you're confusing. When we

0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 1>talked about one or the other, I said, she has

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 1>a primarian he doesn't, so I feel like I'm anogamous

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:40.319
<v Speaker 1>with that. I didn't say that. I said we're both

0:49:41.000 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>single right now, I'll clip in what she said. I

0:49:45.760 --> 0:49:49.360
<v Speaker 1>really don't. It's like he's single and I'm single, so

0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 1>like we can do our own thing. She has another partner.

0:49:53.280 --> 0:49:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Do you want anything more with him, like when you

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:58.440
<v Speaker 1>have this conversation with him at any point. I don't know.

0:49:58.480 --> 0:50:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of thinking about it, because like when I'm

0:50:00.760 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 1>gone for work in Texas for this new job I got,

0:50:03.120 --> 0:50:04.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's two weeks if you see him to

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:07.880
<v Speaker 1>three times a week. He got somebody else he com

0:50:07.960 --> 0:50:09.320
<v Speaker 1>and wanted to bring him there. That's no, no, no,

0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:11.680
<v Speaker 1>he's coming. It's like locked and sealed, Like he's like,

0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 1>you're gone two weeks. Like he's flying there for the

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:18.879
<v Speaker 1>weekend those two days and to me, oh my god,

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:22.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not love, it's you are not she's away for

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>just two weeks. You're trying to say, right now, you

0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:28.680
<v Speaker 1>just friends with benefits, maybe a little bit more. You

0:50:28.800 --> 0:50:32.520
<v Speaker 1>can't go two weeks without seeing this persona you just

0:50:32.680 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>friends with benefits. Going a flight to Dallas is like

0:50:35.400 --> 0:50:37.719
<v Speaker 1>sucking a hundred fifty And I got to spend a role.

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Letting go for a weekend, and you gonna be there,

0:50:39.840 --> 0:50:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Come meet you there. They both live here. He can't

0:50:42.280 --> 0:50:44.400
<v Speaker 1>just wait until she's back. Well, why not, let's go.

0:50:44.560 --> 0:50:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Let's why are they my company paying from my hotel.

0:50:47.880 --> 0:50:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would say friends with benefits

0:50:49.480 --> 0:50:51.520
<v Speaker 1>where we're definitely dating, and even if he is dating

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:53.759
<v Speaker 1>someone else, like I might start dating someone else. I

0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:56.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know I'm seeing another girl right but right now

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:58.120
<v Speaker 1>I like him a lot. He likes me too. If

0:50:58.120 --> 0:50:59.520
<v Speaker 1>he was on for two weeks, I might suggest the

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:03.160
<v Speaker 1>same thing. You believe, only bringing up this conversation of

0:51:03.280 --> 0:51:06.640
<v Speaker 1>exclusivity when you want to take it to the next level.

0:51:06.680 --> 0:51:09.040
<v Speaker 1>You think me and Alex bringing it up in the beginning.

0:51:09.120 --> 0:51:10.880
<v Speaker 1>We have no other level right now. So like, I

0:51:11.040 --> 0:51:12.759
<v Speaker 1>just went through a breakup, and so did he. Um

0:51:12.840 --> 0:51:14.719
<v Speaker 1>he We'll know he was with someone for three years.

0:51:14.760 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 1>It's been about ten months since he's been separated from

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:18.920
<v Speaker 1>like or whatever. Right he moved to New York. It's over.

0:51:19.000 --> 0:51:21.880
<v Speaker 1>They spit together. I feel like he just moved to

0:51:21.960 --> 0:51:24.240
<v Speaker 1>New York. I feel like he's going to be exploring

0:51:24.320 --> 0:51:26.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot and Ninka got a dick hung like a

0:51:26.520 --> 0:51:29.520
<v Speaker 1>horse like. I don't see why he wouldn't. I know

0:51:29.680 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 1>he likes me. I know he's spending a lot of

0:51:31.040 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 1>time with me, but I don't want to be silly

0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:34.919
<v Speaker 1>to think that he's not going to be exploring other people.

0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:37.680
<v Speaker 1>I also know how intense our chemistry is, which is

0:51:37.719 --> 0:51:39.360
<v Speaker 1>why he is coming to see me in Dallas. And

0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not surprised, which is why we spent so much

0:51:41.040 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 1>time together. But I'm not going to sit here and

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:44.600
<v Speaker 1>say that I would be shocked if he was seeing

0:51:44.640 --> 0:51:46.640
<v Speaker 1>someone else. And I doubt don't think that takes away

0:51:46.680 --> 0:51:48.799
<v Speaker 1>from how he feels about me. I like him too,

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:52.080
<v Speaker 1>but I still fun love he girl, don't I why.

0:51:52.560 --> 0:51:55.320
<v Speaker 1>It's just we're both single, So I don't think that

0:51:55.400 --> 0:52:00.200
<v Speaker 1>it's right. Do we have a topic, Okay, if now

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:03.960
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get into homemade, I don't think so. The

0:52:04.000 --> 0:52:06.640
<v Speaker 1>fifth one is be open about your sexual secrets, which

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I think we kind of touched and oh this one

0:52:11.200 --> 0:52:15.480
<v Speaker 1>is kind of talking about Uh, it was fine, this

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:18.120
<v Speaker 1>is it? So I was talking about touchy subjects, um.

0:52:18.280 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 1>And I think this has to do with like like

0:52:20.400 --> 0:52:22.800
<v Speaker 1>the safe words and ship. I think I think that.

0:52:22.960 --> 0:52:26.000
<v Speaker 1>And I also think maybe um awkwardness with things like hey,

0:52:26.080 --> 0:52:28.320
<v Speaker 1>maybe like I don't like you to call me bitch

0:52:28.480 --> 0:52:31.360
<v Speaker 1>or I don't want you to call me yet in

0:52:31.440 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. Through the Actually, i've heard a lot of

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.279
<v Speaker 1>men tell me that women don't like they I like

0:52:36.400 --> 0:52:38.200
<v Speaker 1>my pussy spit on, And I had guys tell me

0:52:38.239 --> 0:52:40.640
<v Speaker 1>like women thought that she was rude, like just spit

0:52:40.680 --> 0:52:42.320
<v Speaker 1>on your pussy when you like about to well, not

0:52:42.440 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 1>only that, I think it just goes more so with

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:47.359
<v Speaker 1>also knowing your partner because so like the nigga who

0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:49.759
<v Speaker 1>who used to want me to piss on him or whatever,

0:52:50.160 --> 0:52:53.920
<v Speaker 1>he was really into being a sub for me, so

0:52:54.160 --> 0:52:56.440
<v Speaker 1>he would say he wants to be my bitch. I

0:52:56.520 --> 0:52:59.120
<v Speaker 1>can't go around telling nigga's in the bed, let me

0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:01.480
<v Speaker 1>make you my bitch, like because to a man who's

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:04.200
<v Speaker 1>a dumb he's not gonna like. And I think even

0:53:04.239 --> 0:53:06.680
<v Speaker 1>when you deal with a certain yeah, there's certain things

0:53:06.719 --> 0:53:09.840
<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom as far as lingo that's used, or

0:53:09.920 --> 0:53:13.440
<v Speaker 1>even though like let's talk make me not like you

0:53:13.640 --> 0:53:17.040
<v Speaker 1>to ask like I would rather someone talk to me before.

0:53:17.360 --> 0:53:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Actually Jeeves asked for permission to eat it, which I

0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:22.279
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it because I was just like I would be like, whoa,

0:53:22.400 --> 0:53:24.840
<v Speaker 1>you're just going right there like you there, Yeah, I

0:53:24.920 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 1>like the talking. So just knowing your boundaries, knowing what

0:53:27.719 --> 0:53:29.920
<v Speaker 1>you do and do not like, I think that that's

0:53:30.040 --> 0:53:32.480
<v Speaker 1>very important. I think that that's actually something to discuss

0:53:32.600 --> 0:53:35.200
<v Speaker 1>if you're even just having sex with someone, not if

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:36.920
<v Speaker 1>you're looking to move to the next level. I think

0:53:36.960 --> 0:53:38.600
<v Speaker 1>that that's something that needs to be discussed if you're

0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 1>sucking somebody, even if they don't even want them, is

0:53:41.600 --> 0:53:44.080
<v Speaker 1>anything more. And it's funny that we talk about this

0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:47.680
<v Speaker 1>because the next topic, our girl had a question. So,

0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:50.759
<v Speaker 1>as you guys know, we have homemeo um, and this

0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 1>week we have a really good one from a home

0:53:53.040 --> 0:53:55.960
<v Speaker 1>girl out in central Florida. Shout out to the seven. No,

0:53:56.120 --> 0:53:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know her, actually, I mean because all you

0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:02.239
<v Speaker 1>all listening is our home girl. I wanted. I just asked,

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to see what the dude look like a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, damn, so if you're listening whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>I don't let's not put her name out there, but um,

0:54:10.480 --> 0:54:14.560
<v Speaker 1>just send it in the instant story. I want to

0:54:14.600 --> 0:54:17.600
<v Speaker 1>know what looks like. Nobody knows who you talk? Okay,

0:54:17.640 --> 0:54:19.759
<v Speaker 1>well let me go so basically, so basically this is

0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:25.520
<v Speaker 1>my office. So basically, guys, what we do every week

0:54:25.760 --> 0:54:28.920
<v Speaker 1>is we read some letters from you guys. Um, and

0:54:29.040 --> 0:54:30.680
<v Speaker 1>you guys can let us know how awesome we are,

0:54:30.760 --> 0:54:33.200
<v Speaker 1>how horrible we are, or let us know your horrible

0:54:33.239 --> 0:54:36.360
<v Speaker 1>decisions that you're making. So this lady wrote me on

0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Instagram and she said, hey girl, I absolutely love the

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:44.040
<v Speaker 1>show and have literally listened to every single episode. Thanks bope,

0:54:44.640 --> 0:54:47.720
<v Speaker 1>let me just get right into it. Help me peg

0:54:48.160 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>my personal trainer? What was it? What was an innocent

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:01.400
<v Speaker 1>client slash trainer relationship has turned into the best sex

0:55:01.560 --> 0:55:05.800
<v Speaker 1>of my life. Dildo's anal, beads callers, you name it,

0:55:06.320 --> 0:55:09.360
<v Speaker 1>it goes down. After listening to one of your episodes,

0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:12.279
<v Speaker 1>I thought, why not let me see if he's down.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only did he agree, but also proceeded to send

0:55:15.800 --> 0:55:18.480
<v Speaker 1>me pictures of him bent over and said if he

0:55:18.680 --> 0:55:24.000
<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it, he would let me. Why why because I'm

0:55:24.080 --> 0:55:26.400
<v Speaker 1>just gonna sit there and take this and listen to

0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 1>the story. He said, uh, if he would let me

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and a friend tag team him. By the way, she's

0:55:35.000 --> 0:55:39.719
<v Speaker 1>talking about pegging guys, she said, she's totally down for it.

0:55:40.120 --> 0:55:43.760
<v Speaker 1>So my question is she has two questions. What type

0:55:43.800 --> 0:55:47.080
<v Speaker 1>of toy slash dildo do I use in the pegging?

0:55:47.960 --> 0:55:50.239
<v Speaker 1>And how do I get him ready for some good

0:55:50.280 --> 0:55:55.000
<v Speaker 1>old as fucking thank you ps. I live in central

0:55:55.000 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Florida and would love for you girls to do a

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:59.040
<v Speaker 1>live show in Orlando soon. Everybody would look like to

0:55:59.120 --> 0:56:02.680
<v Speaker 1>motherfucker come to or She said. One more thing. I'm

0:56:02.800 --> 0:56:07.040
<v Speaker 1>five ft and he's six three two pounds. What's the

0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:10.600
<v Speaker 1>best position since I'm so short? Is this the brown?

0:56:12.080 --> 0:56:14.480
<v Speaker 1>That's what it sounds like. But to ninety, that's a chopster.

0:56:15.000 --> 0:56:17.680
<v Speaker 1>That's a little too big for me at six three girl,

0:56:17.719 --> 0:56:20.839
<v Speaker 1>when I deal with six soken wed, Yes, my nigga

0:56:20.880 --> 0:56:27.040
<v Speaker 1>is barely hit two. Yeah, like you can't say cock

0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:31.440
<v Speaker 1>but chupster, I'm just saying um. So for her, I

0:56:31.520 --> 0:56:35.840
<v Speaker 1>did write her back because I had the whole so

0:56:36.040 --> 0:56:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I had to let her know first off that I

0:56:38.000 --> 0:56:41.200
<v Speaker 1>was jealous as fuck because I was like, damn, I

0:56:41.760 --> 0:56:43.799
<v Speaker 1>was just telling Wheezy, that's literally kind of what I'm

0:56:43.840 --> 0:56:47.759
<v Speaker 1>looking for right now in my sex sexual life. Right now,

0:56:48.000 --> 0:56:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm being I'm being dominated. So if I were to

0:56:51.560 --> 0:56:53.959
<v Speaker 1>be fucking somebody else, I need to be the dog

0:56:54.080 --> 0:56:56.480
<v Speaker 1>and I would want to submissive guy. So I told

0:56:56.520 --> 0:56:58.400
<v Speaker 1>her I was super jealous that she has a nigga

0:56:58.480 --> 0:57:00.640
<v Speaker 1>that not only wants to get pegged, but wants to

0:57:00.680 --> 0:57:04.960
<v Speaker 1>be ran a train on five like this that is

0:57:05.280 --> 0:57:07.239
<v Speaker 1>fucking that's actually a fantasy and we might have to

0:57:07.280 --> 0:57:12.200
<v Speaker 1>talk about that on an episode of fantasies. But shut up.

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:16.160
<v Speaker 1>So I guess I'll start from the last question. She asked,

0:57:16.520 --> 0:57:20.200
<v Speaker 1>when you have a size difference. UM, so clearly, guys.

0:57:20.280 --> 0:57:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm five one, five two maybe if I'm lucky, yes, UM,

0:57:25.520 --> 0:57:28.160
<v Speaker 1>and so the guy I don't want to say guys,

0:57:28.560 --> 0:57:31.200
<v Speaker 1>but the one guy in particular that I successfully pegged,

0:57:31.480 --> 0:57:34.840
<v Speaker 1>he was six ten and I am five ft one,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I would I would. I would suggest if

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:43.960
<v Speaker 1>you're going to peg a guy who's much bigger than you,

0:57:44.360 --> 0:57:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to definitely start off in missionary position, because I'm not

0:57:47.480 --> 0:57:49.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. We did try to start off doggy style,

0:57:50.320 --> 0:57:52.760
<v Speaker 1>but his legs was so long. I couldn't funk him

0:57:52.760 --> 0:57:54.640
<v Speaker 1>while being on my knees because I'm short, so I

0:57:54.680 --> 0:57:57.000
<v Speaker 1>had to stand up and do like a froggy style.

0:57:57.120 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 1>It just wasn't as conducive to what I was trying

0:58:00.440 --> 0:58:03.480
<v Speaker 1>to do. So I would definitely lay him down missionary. UM.

0:58:03.920 --> 0:58:06.120
<v Speaker 1>You definitely talked about this before, but I love revamping

0:58:06.160 --> 0:58:10.680
<v Speaker 1>it everything else. It's crazy that so many men are

0:58:10.760 --> 0:58:15.040
<v Speaker 1>out here UM trying to UM, and so I would

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:19.640
<v Speaker 1>definitely recommend you to do missionary style. The other question

0:58:19.840 --> 0:58:23.200
<v Speaker 1>was what type of toy slash dildo should she use? UM?

0:58:23.640 --> 0:58:27.160
<v Speaker 1>So in this I ended up actually purchasing a prostate

0:58:27.240 --> 0:58:30.200
<v Speaker 1>dildo which was curved, and also asked him like, um,

0:58:30.920 --> 0:58:34.080
<v Speaker 1>his comfortability with like sizing and stuff. Well, yeah, there's

0:58:34.120 --> 0:58:37.520
<v Speaker 1>that they're already using anal plugs and antal beads. Okay,

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:42.080
<v Speaker 1>so I would assume the leaders are really slim anyway, though,

0:58:43.040 --> 0:58:44.920
<v Speaker 1>can you not sigh over there? There is no kin

0:58:45.000 --> 0:58:47.760
<v Speaker 1>shaming allouding you know where real jetty thirty years from now,

0:58:47.920 --> 0:58:50.440
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be so bored that bright ahead of your

0:58:50.520 --> 0:58:52.360
<v Speaker 1>life is gonna be boring as you're gonna be edging

0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:53.720
<v Speaker 1>and edge and edging like you know, I just suck

0:58:53.760 --> 0:58:58.320
<v Speaker 1>my house. Yeah, you're gonna be asking to be anyways,

0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:01.920
<v Speaker 1>So I would definitely, um not only look at the

0:59:02.360 --> 0:59:05.720
<v Speaker 1>prostate dildos, but I was told by one of my

0:59:06.120 --> 0:59:09.840
<v Speaker 1>my guy friends who's bisexual, Um, when he uses toys

0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:13.800
<v Speaker 1>with girls, he actually likes the more um realistic feeling,

0:59:13.920 --> 0:59:16.480
<v Speaker 1>clearly because he takes real dick too, so he doesn't

0:59:16.520 --> 0:59:18.920
<v Speaker 1>want it to be as hard, So make sure that

0:59:19.000 --> 0:59:23.120
<v Speaker 1>it's jelly or silicone. Um. And then the second question

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:25.920
<v Speaker 1>is how do I get him to be ready for

0:59:26.080 --> 0:59:29.440
<v Speaker 1>some good old ask fucking definitely lube girl. I think

0:59:29.480 --> 0:59:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I've eat so much lube, not only but well eating

0:59:32.680 --> 0:59:34.560
<v Speaker 1>it and like getting him turned on is gonna loosen

0:59:34.640 --> 0:59:37.520
<v Speaker 1>the spincter mustill. So that's the thing about ask fucking

0:59:37.680 --> 0:59:41.120
<v Speaker 1>is how relaxed are you It's going to be how

0:59:41.240 --> 0:59:44.280
<v Speaker 1>enjoyable it is one pent So I mean, you don't

0:59:44.320 --> 0:59:47.640
<v Speaker 1>necessarily have to eat it, but if he feels relaxed,

0:59:47.920 --> 0:59:49.840
<v Speaker 1>then he's going to be able to take more of

0:59:50.000 --> 0:59:55.160
<v Speaker 1>your I mean, okay, that's not the dick, but you know,

0:59:55.400 --> 0:59:58.120
<v Speaker 1>the man man. And also getting him ready for the

0:59:58.320 --> 1:00:00.360
<v Speaker 1>like full on ask bucking, Like, don't just start with

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<v Speaker 1>a pegging like use the things that you've been using before, right,

1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:06.800
<v Speaker 1>make sure it's sloppy and like kind of already opened up.

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<v Speaker 1>This is funnycause I really don't get my ass bucked,

1:00:09.760 --> 1:00:11.480
<v Speaker 1>but I at least know what I need to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Start with the smaller toys and then gradually working way up.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't just sit out there or I actually saw this,

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<v Speaker 1>um this video, um, and I sent it to a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of the listeners. Um. It was a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>looked amazing getting pegged. But what he did is they

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<v Speaker 1>went through the whole act of her getting fucked first,

1:00:29.040 --> 1:00:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and while they were fucking, he had a butt plug

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<v Speaker 1>in his ass, so he was he actually had his

1:00:35.720 --> 1:00:38.400
<v Speaker 1>ass like the muscles and everything contry. You know, it

1:00:38.560 --> 1:00:41.320
<v Speaker 1>was already getting loose for for the pegging. So I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely think you need to have a huge conversation with him.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're having the best sex of sex

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<v Speaker 1>of your life now. So at least you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with each other, because this honestly cannot be done

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<v Speaker 1>unless you two are comfortable and trust each someone else

1:00:56.800 --> 1:00:59.440
<v Speaker 1>into it. Bringing someone else into it, you guys might

1:00:59.520 --> 1:01:01.280
<v Speaker 1>want to even go get a couple of drinks first, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to make sure he's open to her, because

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<v Speaker 1>if he's not comfortable in that booty hole, clinch up, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna be able to gang bange that nigga booty holes.

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<v Speaker 1>And you want to make sure that this is not

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who's like a fucking amateur. No, yes, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's I didn't even think of that, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Like, let's just say you get a girl

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<v Speaker 1>who's like, oh, yeah, that's girl, So go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>drop your number, let me know, I'll let you know

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<v Speaker 1>want to come into I'm just saying, no, I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to tap to a nigga that fun. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to one of our listeners like the

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<v Speaker 1>thing for me. I don't want to funk one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners. Um okay. I never used the word fan

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it's tacky. I think so like I

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<v Speaker 1>think it puts you seriously, I think it puts you

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<v Speaker 1>on this pedestal of like I have fans of Mo Bluss.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like to say that, but I will say

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<v Speaker 1>I want to a fan. That's why do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to suck a fan? I would love to know that

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<v Speaker 1>someone's listened to all of me. Right, you're smiling because

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<v Speaker 1>you hear me, Like, bro, I'm not famous, but when

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<v Speaker 1>I hear these stories about like people talking about sucking groupies,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to fuck a girl or a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that like listens to me, knows all about me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it like really likes me and like all that you

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<v Speaker 1>and I have different And then you're like, yeah, now

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've been like I mean, I'm not famous,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've been out in the eye for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>like even back from my model days to where I

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<v Speaker 1>have people that they can sit here and tell me

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<v Speaker 1>all my friends that I've cut off like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>too no. She she don't listen. She just doesn't listen.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like a child, like a two year old. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know that, bro. All of that

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<v Speaker 1>is all in the mic, bro, But we're gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and sign up to moment. She just want to

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<v Speaker 1>show Popeyes like they're paying us all air. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to show Popeyes like Popeyes. But let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something. I was so fucked up last night.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a fucking hole spend class with Alex. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>barely made it here. I didn't want to cancel because

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<v Speaker 1>me and you already been fighting, so I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>be empathetic to the fact that prothetic to the fact.

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<v Speaker 1>So instead you just come in and ruin the sound

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<v Speaker 1>of our audio. When they started, this was just more

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<v Speaker 1>of your arena anyway, and I took it as an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity for red beans, and instead of eating your red

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<v Speaker 1>beans all right, you still chomped in with your mouthful

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<v Speaker 1>every two seconds that you could. I mean, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying anyway, Rob, anyway, we're gonna go ahead and wrap

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<v Speaker 1>this up. This has been yet another episode. Please come

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<v Speaker 1>and see us in Atlanta. If you haven't, the link

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<v Speaker 1>is in all of our bios Horrible Decisions, Um full

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<v Speaker 1>Click the link bio tickets, come out, come, see us,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, go ahead and hollow at us. This has

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<v Speaker 1>been Yeah, another episode of horrible Decisions by Oh