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Speaker 1: Hi guys, We're back again, and I don't know how

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Speaker 1: we're still standing strong together, but we are back. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sitting next to see. Hi guys, UM, and

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Speaker 1: it's just us. Y'all have been wanting this. UM. We

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Speaker 1: tried this last week and it didn't really work. UM,

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Speaker 1: but we promised not to fight. We have Alex here.

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Speaker 1: He is a don't you have a what do you

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Speaker 1: call a registered gun on? Or what do you call it? UM?

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Speaker 1: You know I told Alex. If Mandy acts that, pass

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Speaker 1: it around sounds good. UM. Anyway, we UM want to

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Speaker 1: start our episodes off a little bit different. So, if

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Speaker 1: you're a first time listener of Horrible Decisions, this is

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Speaker 1: a show where we interview people about their kinks. We

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Speaker 1: talk every single week. We try to educate you and

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Speaker 1: entertain you and talk about nasty ship, but the whole ship.

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Speaker 1: If you are an early listener of Horrible Decision, you

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Speaker 1: may remember a segment we had called Vanilla Ship where

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Speaker 1: it was still pretty dirty, but we would talk about

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Speaker 1: a hot topic or an article or a current event

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Speaker 1: that had to do with sex. And this week We're

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Speaker 1: gonna start off with some vanilla ship before a Kink

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Speaker 1: of the week, and it is about something called laby

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Speaker 1: a massage. And what I said, laby libo? What's a liberto?

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Speaker 1: It's libido? Oh you know, I just wanna say. Ten

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Speaker 1: minutes ago, Andy was like, I graduated top of my class.

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Speaker 1: She did. I was at her high school graduation and

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Speaker 1: she did, what did you graduate? Top twenty right now?

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Speaker 1: Top ten? Bitch? Okay, well, bitch, top five, top five

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Speaker 1: you should have been maybe you would have got libido.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, we didn't learned about libidos and motherfuckering high school.

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Speaker 1: That's why we did. That's why are we sitting here

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Speaker 1: giving a second so now because sex education is not

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Speaker 1: prevalent in high school. And well, bitch, love love what

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Speaker 1: you call libado liberdo gotta mean? So libido is like,

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Speaker 1: um so, let's yeah, it's like your sex drive, your testosterone,

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Speaker 1: but it's libido award at all. No, neither is bo

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Speaker 1: dada hope. Um So I want to talk to you

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Speaker 1: guys about this lady a massage thing. So you may

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Speaker 1: have heard that I've been sucking this guy named Jeeves

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Speaker 1: and I call him Jeeves because he's super smart and

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Speaker 1: I think he's like asked Jeeves. So we're laying in

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Speaker 1: bed after we watched this movie called The Secretary, and

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Speaker 1: if you've never watched it, it's a movie that was

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Speaker 1: out before fifty Shades Gray and it's way kink here.

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Speaker 1: It's about like total submission, like I mean, besides sex,

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Speaker 1: no sexual acts, no actual like penetration, just all full

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Speaker 1: on like I tell you what to do, I'm your master,

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Super hot. So he's facing the TV

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Speaker 1: and he's laid my bed face and toward the TV

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Speaker 1: and not the opposite way I'm looking at it. My

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Speaker 1: legs are open and I had just got waxed, so

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Speaker 1: I was trying to show it off. And that's really

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Speaker 1: why I was like that. And so he starts looking

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Speaker 1: at my pussy and he's like, you have a you

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Speaker 1: have a really beautiful pussy, Like what do you say

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Speaker 1: to me? I has a lot of substance to it.

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Speaker 1: So I'm laughing. I'm like what, and he's like I

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Speaker 1: don't know. So he starts touching me and he's he's

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Speaker 1: not touching my clip, he's not fingers you real quick,

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Speaker 1: do you know how loud. That is yes, okay, love,

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Speaker 1: how finish? Because you Alice is over here eating like,

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Speaker 1: oh god damn. I'm not trying to get no funked

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Speaker 1: up iTunes of you sound guy be trying. Okay, okay, finished, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I'm laying there. My pussy is like right in

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Speaker 1: so he's like staring straight at it. He doesn't touch

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Speaker 1: If you guys have Patreon, I want to show you

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Speaker 1: guys what it looks like. I'm gonna show you my

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Speaker 1: three fingers. The middle fingers my clip, and the sides

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Speaker 1: are like the inner lips. He's rubbing here up and down,

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Speaker 1: like stroking them, getting all this increased blood flow. And

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Speaker 1: now it's stimulating my clip because my clip is in

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Speaker 1: say about nineties seconds in, I lifted my head up

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Speaker 1: and I said, um, what are you doing and where'd

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Speaker 1: you learn how to do that? At nigga who talked

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Speaker 1: He'd be trying to play this whole cute. You gotta

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Speaker 1: I ain't never had nobody fucking do that. I've had

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Speaker 1: niggas rubbed on my pussey and do it like that.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you you know what's crazy. I swear

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Speaker 1: to guy. We talked with this with blog Zilla, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like we said that why we gotta be

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Speaker 1: it's because you see you don't keep the same energy.

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Speaker 1: I'm honest. That's like niggould be like, you a hole

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Speaker 1: because you thought this dick too good. You better just

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Speaker 1: smile and accept the whole. Now, I understand because I

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Speaker 1: never had nobody do that ship to me. I came

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Speaker 1: so fucking hard, so I come so hard. He's smiling,

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Speaker 1: He's like totally enjoying it. I'm like, dude, what the

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Speaker 1: fun did you just do to me? What the fun

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Speaker 1: is that? He's like, Oh, it's called the lady massage. Like,

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Speaker 1: I've honestly never done it anyone, but I looked it

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Speaker 1: up and I read about it. He's probably lying, but

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Speaker 1: why y'all need to be fucking with geek niggas. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you who is looking up how to fucking

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Speaker 1: funk with your pussy like that? Seriously, nigga who wanted

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Speaker 1: me to pee on him? He gets he went through

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Speaker 1: full rounds of just watching porn videos and learning how

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Speaker 1: to make me squirt's on demand. So it's not even

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Speaker 1: geek niggas. It's a man who genuinely wants to please

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Speaker 1: It ain't even geek niggas, Bro, it's niggas who takes

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Speaker 1: you call him no I us not even that he's

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Speaker 1: please other people are learning about the body right, like

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Speaker 1: said the lips, they're gonna be like, oh, the lips,

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Speaker 1: got them things? You gotta lipsize, right, That's what it is. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I just gotta route them things a little bit. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna read you guys the technique that I pulled up

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Speaker 1: on this article. But when he did it to me,

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Speaker 1: I was so into it that I said, I really

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Speaker 1: want you to teach me how to do that, and

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Speaker 1: he said absolutely, I always because I want to do

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Speaker 1: it to somebody else. And he said, okay. I said,

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Speaker 1: but I want you to show me on somebody else.

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Speaker 1: And I want you to know you're starting way too

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Speaker 1: Let me just way too early, bro, how ship? Nope, Nope,

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Speaker 1: I really want Yeah, well, maybe you should do the research.

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Speaker 1: He did watch them on YouTube on fucking porn hub.

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Speaker 1: The fact that y'all are still so new, I think

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Speaker 1: right now. Absolutely not. I'm not judging at all, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why she's trying to help you out.

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Speaker 1: Thank you out like this chicken ship. I'm sorry if

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Speaker 1: that was loud, but you've been saying I wasn't close

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Speaker 1: enough to the mike whatever, you haven't been Honestly, It's

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Speaker 1: not like I'm out here like looking for three some

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Speaker 1: bitches or anything like that. I'm not going to make

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Speaker 1: So anyway, here's um what I want to read you guys.

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Speaker 1: I typed in laby a massage and I pulled up

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Speaker 1: orgasmic massage by a website called the Generous husband dot com. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you can massage her to orgasm if the massage in

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Speaker 1: the right place, in the right in the right way.

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Speaker 1: This is not a hand job, it's a sexual massage

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Speaker 1: resulting in climax. There will also have you plenty of

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Speaker 1: This is not about getting her to climax as fast

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Speaker 1: You don't even want to indirectly stimulate the clitter is

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Speaker 1: until you're brushing her outer laby. Wait real quick, can

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Speaker 1: you talk about this and like plain terms the volvo?

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Speaker 1: so nigger's gonna have to look it up. I'm reading it,

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Speaker 1: I know, but you're reading it. But like to someone listening,

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Speaker 1: it's like if you're gonna say the labia, say the lips,

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Speaker 1: say the opening of the vagina, make it easier. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like it's just because you the doctor. Right now, don't

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Speaker 1: be helpful. Okay, all right, place a palm over the

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Speaker 1: entire volva, So over the entire pussy. Place your hands

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Speaker 1: right um, move in various ways, using the flesh of

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Speaker 1: skin of her pussy, go back and forth. So take

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Speaker 1: the inside of the lips. Yep, Well we got the

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Speaker 1: opening lips and then you have the labia, and right,

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Speaker 1: move to the inner labia, stroke and rub it not

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Speaker 1: after the other, go up and down for a while.

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Speaker 1: So like what you're doing in this point in time

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Speaker 1: dry humping has like, uh, it's not skin to skin contact. Now,

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Speaker 1: place two fingers on either side of her clearing clitteris

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Speaker 1: You can put a lot of pressure, but it's just

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Speaker 1: So where did you come? Bro? Yeah, that's what happened

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Speaker 1: He was like, boy, healthy, God damn it, Okay, you're helpy.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened when you said, he said, you're gonna bust.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I know you're gonna tell me niggas? Now, MO,

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Speaker 1: I mean he tells me to like come, like make

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Speaker 1: Or do you say where can I come? Where can

425
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Speaker 1: I nuts? Where can I say? Donna bust that nut? Okay?

426
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Speaker 1: By bad? Maybe I'm just what you like girl. The

427
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Speaker 1: last time we fucked and I felt some type of way,

428
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Speaker 1: and I told this on Live too. He got up

429
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Speaker 1: after we were just we were panting. He got up

430
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Speaker 1: and yelled, bang bros. And I'm like, was do we

431
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Speaker 1: fuck like porn stars that much? I'm like, there's no

432
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Speaker 1: bros in here, It's just me and you and so

433
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Speaker 1: then we had a whole talk about what his porn

434
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Speaker 1: star name would be, and it like we had a

435
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Speaker 1: whole cover after it. He would have said something no, no, no,

436
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Speaker 1: he hasn't said it anywhere else, but it was. It

437
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Speaker 1: was a funny aestatement. We just what would my porn

438
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Speaker 1: star name be? You know, I've never thought about that.

439
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Speaker 1: I've never thought about it. I don't I can't think

440
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Speaker 1: of it. I wanted to be like somebody Kiddy or

441
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Speaker 1: maybe Magic Mandy, Magic Mandy, Yeah, something like that. Just

442
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: some advice to the Fellers who listened to the show,

443
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: definitely tune into the lesbian episod so because it worked.

444
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:06,919
Speaker 1: Wonders with how to I've been told. I mean, I'm

445
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 1: focusing on me. I'm not having sex, but I'm just

446
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 1: saying I've been told I'm the best, and I've heard that.

447
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 1: But I add the finger action and then now I'm

448
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 1: gonna do this whole laby a situation. I'm gonna it's crazy.

449
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm not even a fan of like oral like that

450
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: because there's so many men I feel like that just

451
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: aren't good at it. It's a waste of time. Take

452
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 1: it up? Do you waste my time. You waste my time.

453
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Speaker 1: I'm looking up one of those points star name things

454
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Speaker 1: to see what ours would be like, Oh, like take

455
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Speaker 1: your month and that's no bro hell no, Um, well guys,

456
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Speaker 1: all right, what month are you running? No, we're not

457
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 1: gonna do this right now. That is what we're not

458
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Speaker 1: gonna do October. You were bosogas you see, you see

459
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Speaker 1: how stupid that is. Let me see, that's really stupid.

460
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Speaker 1: Weasy just be wasting time up in here with her

461
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Speaker 1: non orderly as. Anyway, people like it. Well, we're gonna

462
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: do next, y'all is getting to our horrible decision for

463
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: the week. This is one that, um, we really stumbled across.

464
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: And I think it's a really good topic because it

465
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Speaker 1: can kind of get us into the kind of our

466
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Speaker 1: ideas of ship kind of sort of right. Um. So

467
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,919
Speaker 1: I I found this because I felt like I've been

468
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 1: having a lot of people ask me, um in my

469
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: personal life, not horrible decision, really like how do I

470
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 1: do this? How do I talk? How do I tell

471
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: my partner I want this? Like, what's the right thing

472
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: to do? So I googled this um in the car

473
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: on the way here, and I found an article by

474
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Speaker 1: Essence dot com. Five sex topics you and your partner

475
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: must discuss. The reason I really wanted to talk about

476
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Speaker 1: it is because I actually don't agree with many of them.

477
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Speaker 1: I don't like a lot of them. You you've read

478
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Speaker 1: me off before the show be four and I agreed

479
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Speaker 1: with the first four, So I don't I agree with

480
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: three of them. I think that a lot of these

481
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: are a little too much, and I think for the

482
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: listener base that we have, especially with modern day age

483
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: like situation ships, I think that it's going to be

484
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: a very difficult time for people to read an article

485
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 1: like this and figure out when is the right time. Um,

486
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: so let's go to number one. What's the so here?

487
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: Here's how they describe this though, Um, these are five

488
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 1: important topics to discuss with your man before taking your

489
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: relationships to next level? Um? Are things heading there? Or

490
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: maybe they've just been a bit underwhelming between the sheets.

491
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: When you and a partner become intimate, ultimately, great sex

492
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 1: is the goal. We get that. Here are a few

493
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: topics you should cover together to minimize awkward moments in bed.

494
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: Number one, love it talk, fantasies, fetishes, and desires. I

495
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: think that's very important even when and I don't think

496
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: it's a first conversation thing to have, but when you

497
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: meet a guy, I think that this is super important

498
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna lie. It's it's gotten to the

499
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: point where, now at um the age that I am

500
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: and knowing what I like sexually and what turns me on,

501
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: I want to kind of see that a guy is

502
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: even just open. Let's I want to talk about this

503
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: really quick. Sorry to cut you off. Well, how students

504
00:24:54,000 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: too soon? What talking about fantasy fantasies ship either after

505
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: you had sex the first time or is it after

506
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: So that's a cool thing you're saying, yeah, Like, well no,

507
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: it could people for sex too, but it depends the relationship.

508
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: Girl to this fantasies and kings. Before I tell guys

509
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Speaker 1: all that it depends, I want to hear what I

510
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: want everything. It is different with every situation. But a

511
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,640
Speaker 1: lot of women are worried about talking. This is why

512
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: we have the show, Dude. They're worried about talking about

513
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: the things they want in fear of judgment. How do

514
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 1: you feel, Let's just say it's a third date. Maybe

515
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: you're having drinks and was first. That's what I'm saying

516
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Speaker 1: by the first even text couple of things. Let's assume

517
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: that no one's having first couple of text messages in no,

518
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: if you get into a conversation, especially with us having

519
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: this show like they see what we talk about. Most

520
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: people are a couple of people exactly, not within the

521
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Speaker 1: first message. Now with the first message, clearly, once the

522
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Speaker 1: first meat is setn start seeing because to me, I'll

523
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: sit here until you bring brought up subtly. But it's

524
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: being brought up just so I know, like, Okay, are

525
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: you a girl who's like willing to put out in

526
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: the first date or you're like hold on, Alex, but

527
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: it's not even putting out. So to me, wait, how

528
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: is sex brought up before the first meet? What are

529
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: you saying then? Very subtly and what wait? Like all

530
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: different ways you could just se no, no, no, no no,

531
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: because he's saying, I want to see if I'm going home,

532
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: like go ahead, like okay, I'll do it after we

533
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: set the date to be like, oh, when's the last

534
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 1: time you've been on a date. Okay, so she'll talk

535
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: about the last time, oh, or I just got our relationship,

536
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: how long ago was that? And then it's like you

537
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: transition to oh, once the last time you were with someone? What, bro,

538
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm not asking that, I'm not, And I as you

539
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: know what's crazy? You're you asked this to the last

540
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: person you've slept with, Yeah, before you met them. You

541
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: gotta lie. I just want you to tell you the

542
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: truth during Like during the first date, you asked her

543
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: the last time she had sex on the first date.

544
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 1: My nigga would the question. But you know what, see,

545
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: And this is my issue too. When I talk to

546
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: guys and we're talking about the fetishes or what you

547
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: would like to do or what you haven't done, I

548
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: think that it could still be brought up real nonchalantly

549
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: without feeling like he's trying to fuck you. But I

550
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: gauge the responses of these guys real quick, like when

551
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: a nigga come off real like but you know, no

552
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: gay ship or no, like when I feel like a

553
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: guy is just super hyper like the hyper maasterality in

554
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: the bedroom and doing all that doing it for that together.

555
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 1: I want to have no. No, I hear you, but

556
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: I honestly I would have Oh. Well, I mean to me,

557
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think I've ever been asked like

558
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: when's the last time you have never been asked that.

559
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 1: That's why I can't see how you brought it up,

560
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: and it because if we're talking about sex already, you

561
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 1: just say when's the last time you had it? And

562
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: would you look at her any different? And she's like, well,

563
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: there's a nigga two days ago. But I'm just trying.

564
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: But a lot of men would. You wouldn't. But they're

565
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: a guy that was trying to talk to me recently,

566
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: and I let him know that I wasn't looking for

567
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: no one because he was trying to come over and

568
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: I was like, well, listen, I'm not looking for that

569
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: right now, Like whatever you're offering your dick, whatever, I'm

570
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: not interested in because I kind of have somebody that

571
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: has already taken. What are you looking for? I'm looking

572
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: for either a negative petties bills and a trick or

573
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: negota be my boyfriend. But you're not gonna sit here

574
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: and try straight up. But you're not gonna be my

575
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: boyfriend asking it. Just come over my crib like not.

576
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: The main reason why I do it is because this

577
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: online dating is so confusing. You have some people that

578
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 1: just look look at it and then you have people

579
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: are looking for their next meet like, I would prefer

580
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: the question be posed as like, what are you looking for?

581
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna be honest with even someone saying, when's

582
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: the last time you went on a date? I'm thinking

583
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: of the last first day that went on, maybe the

584
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: last two one of them would love a girl, And

585
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: even with Jeeves, if they would have said that to me,

586
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: it would have completely sucked me up. When the last

587
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: time you went on a date? Like? Um? No, I mean,

588
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: I like the what are you looking for? But what

589
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: do you all ask me when the last time I

590
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: had sex? When the last time? Not? It's not I'm

591
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: not jumping out the gate with that. We're already talking

592
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: about sex. Or how would you feel if the girl

593
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: asked you that completely open, when is the last time

594
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: you had sex on the first date? And I'm gonna

595
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: tell her? With my ex many many months ago, I

596
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: guess for you to because you got a whole ex

597
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: and the whole what was me? I just reship? But

598
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: when I'm sitting here just sucking a nigga. Oh he

599
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: put me on a uber two days ago? What's up? Um?

600
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: Do you don't think that her asking that question sincerely

601
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: to you on the first date is a bit doing

602
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: too much and getting in your business to us if

603
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: we're talking about I'm not jumping out the gate. Even

604
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: if you're talking about sex. To ask your timeline of

605
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: what you've personally been doing recently. Why do you have

606
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: anything to hide? If if you're going to have anything, Yo,

607
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: we don't go out to the next one. I don't

608
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: even recording because I could go off for you a

609
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: little moment. All was number two? Um number two, hate

610
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: this one, but let me read into it a little bit. Okay.

611
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: Number two is discuss your sexual history and future plans.

612
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: Remember in high school when sex sex clad, when a

613
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: teacher warned you that if you have sex with someone,

614
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: you're having sex with anyone they've ever had sex with.

615
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: As discussing it was this is what happens when you

616
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: read the read normal so that people can understand what

617
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: the funk you're saying? What am I com doing it? Uh?

618
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: Could like? Do you want me to well talk to

619
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: where people can understand you? Bro? This is why you

620
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: don't read the wholemail or just give a gist of it.

621
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: You don't have to read right. But if you're gonna

622
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: read verbatim, read it so that we could understand you.

623
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: We sit and right in front of you, Kate fucking

624
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: understand what the fun you're saying. Yeah, I couldn't understand

625
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: what you sing. Thank you, Alex, I would like you

626
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: to shut the funk up For three. You need to

627
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: know a person's sexual history upfront, diseases, genders of partners,

628
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: and testing history. If someone has not cleared STD testing

629
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: within the past six months or results are not current,

630
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: don't leave it up to your partner to look out

631
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: for your best interest. It's okay to start fresh together

632
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: and get have one together, but a blah um you

633
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: two can go together. It can be awkwardly a fun adventure.

634
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: It's certainly ones that ends about you both feeling great.

635
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: Family planning is also an important part of any pre

636
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: sex discussion. So when it said scientists discussion, listen when

637
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: it said sexual history and future plans, I had no

638
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: idea they were talking about kids. Family planning is important.

639
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: For example, you talked to your partner about birth controls, bro,

640
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: unless you raw dogging a bit upfront, like no, nothing

641
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: more uncomfortable than dealing with an unplanned pregnancy before either

642
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: of you know what you truly want. Well, why are

643
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: you sucking a nigga raw on the first time? Anyway?

644
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: No one saying it could be raw? Condoms are what? Okay?

645
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: And then the condom break? All right? You both better

646
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: be rich enough to have fifty dollars and go to walk, right.

647
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: Not everybody is taking a Plan B, Bro. I'm gonna

648
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: be honest with you. It sucks your body up a lot.

649
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm kind of against plan being what it does in

650
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: my hormones. I would check a calendar to see when

651
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm operating first energy out there. But right, I'm cool

652
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: with Plan B. I'm cool with it too, but like

653
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: research it before you just popping planing bs A. I

654
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: mean you got to pop them all the time. You

655
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: know your body. And because what if you're with somebody

656
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: who's pro life, Now, that's a good that is a

657
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: good point. So that's a good point because that could

658
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: be to where if there is a mistake and you're

659
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: dealing with a pro life and pro choice person, which

660
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: clearly bitch on pro choice. But I'm just I just

661
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,719
Speaker 1: want y'all to know we're gonna were well, I mean,

662
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: you got fine, honey, I'm going right up to the

663
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: clinic and we're gonna cut the little thing out. But

664
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, but Jesus has risen and so have

665
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: them abortion fees. No, but that is a good point

666
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: that I didn't think of as dealing with a partner

667
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: who maybe pro life, which I know a lot of

668
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: women that are, and I've I've heard of this situation

669
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: really happen. But you know a lot of pro life.

670
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I know a lot of bad abortion to

671
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: but I do know that as you know someone that's like,

672
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: I do know someone who's pro li who literally only

673
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: had the baby because her whole family was against girl.

674
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: You don't know where we had our five year gap

675
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: and you don't know where. And I'm not going to

676
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: tell your name. Yeah, but she has her baby. But

677
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: that kind of like a death, you know, I'm not

678
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: but to be honest, like holes are all stop. I'm serious.

679
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: I'm not meaning that we all are like minded. People

680
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 1: were doing the show like it really surprises me to

681
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: know that you're knowing your personality that someone who was

682
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: like I hang with a lot of different people, but

683
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: I don't, right, and it's you hang with that nigga

684
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: every day pro life. That means you don't believe in

685
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: abortion life, right, so you don't want no babys his life.

686
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: So it's a really conservative you like, very few women

687
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: are still like not yeah, but when so I'm just well,

688
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: when a woman is with a close knit family who

689
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: believes in having babies and raising families and it's a

690
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: religious value like a lot, Well, no, she had the

691
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: baby with the nigga is because her like, her family

692
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: would have just owned her for having an abortion. When

693
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: you bro like, let's keep it a hundred, how do

694
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: they know? How would they have known? How would they

695
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: have known an abortion? A lot of people go through

696
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: stuff like that and they don't want to just hold

697
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: that ship in. Maybe that's something I could keep me.

698
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like to be disowned or to have

699
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: a baby. I mean, maybe she was in really right,

700
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean, but when you're close with your family, you

701
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: don't like you share ship with them. I hear you,

702
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: but it's still something very private. I don't share with

703
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: my family every time I have sex, and I don't

704
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: know if I would be giving all money details of

705
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: my body right, she damn near. I mean, the whole

706
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 1: the whole world knows every time you have sex. I'm

707
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: just saying, like, I don't think that women should feel

708
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: like it needs to be something that's told. If you

709
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 1: want to keep that private as a private moment of

710
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: your life, you have every right to it's your body.

711
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 1: I will say that, Well, no, that's it's fine. Okay. Well,

712
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: aside from that, we'll talking about sex. Let's talk about that,

713
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: talking about the genders of people you've had sex with,

714
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: all this stuff. How do you guys feel about that?

715
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: Because I I thought I found that very um I

716
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 1: will agree on and I will say that because when

717
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: I was dealing with Q, I'll say that we got

718
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: to bleep that out. When I was link with this guy,

719
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: I was super, super super he probably would have had

720
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: his baby back and then well, were you guys having

721
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: sex and protected? Let me ask that, No, this is

722
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: this was he knew I liked women, And when we

723
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: were talking about to the point where I was going

724
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: to move in with him, and we were talking on

725
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: that level, we had a whole argument slash conversation about

726
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: him not wanting me to deal with women because he

727
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: didn't want he didn't want to feel like he wasn't

728
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: doing everything that he needed to do or feeling like

729
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: I would need to go deal with someone else to

730
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: be happy. What does it have to do with the

731
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: he didn't want me dealing with other partners? No? No, no,

732
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: no no. So this sexual this isn't part of this.

733
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: This is sexual history and sexual history. So if I'm

734
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: dealing with Jenny, because to me, this is this whole

735
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: This whole article is about what the risk of the conversation. Well, no,

736
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: it's the conversations you have before you take a relationship

737
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: to the next step, which is what I'm saying is

738
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: under There's another segment of that that's talking about what

739
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 1: you're talking about, but the sexual history portion is strictly

740
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: because of STDs. Right, Okay, well I was talking about

741
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: still my sexual history deals with that. I've dealt with

742
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: women before, and so I'm going to discuss that with

743
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: a partner. Sexual history. We already said that at the

744
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: end of the day, if it's curable and I had it,

745
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: what you need to know about a fol I had

746
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: committee one time, it's gone. If I to know, um,

747
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: my sexual history as far as like people like especially

748
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 1: too early on and once we go unprotected, then that's fine.

749
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: But like talking in terms of like body count, because

750
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,919
Speaker 1: it was saying like how many engenders Like, I don't

751
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: think body count is relevant and I think it's private,

752
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: and if I want to share that with you, I will,

753
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: But I don't think I totally disagree with this article.

754
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: I don't given how well we need to know each other.

755
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: And I'll be real with you, Nick, I don't know.

756
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you want to go through it together, a

757
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: body count for the last six months, we can get there.

758
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: But if you really want to know the entire sex

759
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 1: in the city, I don't say how many people have

760
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: you had sex with this year? Right? But it's not

761
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,800
Speaker 1: like I'm saying my body count is high or anything

762
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: like that, but I I am. And so I mean,

763
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if it's high. I

764
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: don't know the number. Ship might not be saying you

765
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: don't know the number. To me, that's high enough. You

766
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: don't know the number. It's high. I don't know if

767
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,399
Speaker 1: I can name ten niggers right now. To be honest

768
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: with you, I'm gonna name the last few. And so

769
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: the first episode we went through ten and you you

770
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: left names off the list, and this was like episode five.

771
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: And that's only because as women we forget you made

772
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: a list, we delete bodies. It happens. I'm just saying

773
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: I'm single digits. Um. And so another number I've been

774
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: told that I eat the best pussy about whom I

775
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: slept with. Okay, So another one that they said is

776
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: swap calendars. This is interesting. It says that, Um, no,

777
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 1: I didn't skip one. Yeah, I didn't want to talk

778
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: about that one right now because I think that was stupid.

779
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: You can talk about that one last like it's still

780
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: swap calendars. This one I just feel like we ain't

781
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: gonna talk much about because it don't make no sense

782
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 1: to me. So it says you like it in the morning,

783
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: but you're more of a night owl. You're comfortable having

784
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: sex three times a week, but your partners more like

785
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 1: a three times a month guy. Um, I've seen a

786
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: lot of things talking about like how much sex is

787
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: too much, or if you're in a relationship, what's a

788
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: good number, what's a good amount of times to have sex?

789
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: So I think that this is a good thing. And actually, like,

790
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 1: I think this is great and I think I just

791
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 1: posted something actually on our Horrible Decisions page. Yeah, because

792
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: I have some ship to say. Nig so I just

793
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: posted something on the Horrible Decisions page. You could do

794
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: that one anyway. Fuck no, but y'all, so I actually said, um.

795
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: One of the posts that I put it said, guys

796
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: think they want a lot of sex until they get

797
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 1: a woman who wants a lot of sex. And the

798
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: comments under here, if you guys want something good to read,

799
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 1: it's about seventy two comments of people who wrote kind

800
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: of what they thought about that. And I think it's

801
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: funny because there are women who want to go rounds.

802
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: And if you get with a guy who's like a

803
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: one and done, and after he busts that nut, he

804
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 1: can't get back up and he don't want to go

805
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: back up, you're gonna be unfulfilled. So when you're dealing

806
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: with a partner, even this might even be before looking

807
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,959
Speaker 1: into a real relationship, even if you're dealing with a nigga,

808
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: and he might just be the only nigga you fucking

809
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: just a fuck if he's not on the same I

810
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: guess plain as you. If you like morning sex but

811
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: he don't want to roll over and deal with your

812
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: morning breath, you're gonna be unhappy because now you can't

813
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: get your morning dick. So I think that this is

814
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: actually really good and pertains to a topic. I like

815
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 1: that too, because um, I used to I was dating

816
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: someone maybe like two years ago that I would love

817
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: morning sex and he thought I would enjoy it. He

818
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you like, were you up with this morning?

819
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 1: And I was like, i'vena wake me up with. You

820
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: spent the night for a reason, so I'm like, I like,

821
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 1: you should have went home. Like I like it on

822
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: them one off things when there's a nigga over, Like, yeah,

823
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 1: I wanted as much as I can because I really

824
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: have niggas over. But in a relationship, no, I don't

825
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: like when we're waking up together and like it's just

826
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: like I got do You're living a guy, so I

827
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: guess that's just different. I've never lived with a guy,

828
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: don't do you hear me though? Like, bro, I'm gonna

829
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: get up at seven am to get to work now,

830
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: I got to set the alarm at six thirty to

831
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: get some dick. I want to. But when I have niggas,

832
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: because clearly I have niggas come over, I go over there.

833
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: Like if I spend the night, it's because I wanted

834
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: in the morning. Otherwise, yeah, like one of those don't

835
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: count you funk as much as you can know twelve

836
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: hours you have that person. And so anyone listening, because

837
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: y'all niggas don't know, this is the rule. If you

838
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: spend the night with a bit, she need dick in

839
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: the morning. If you don't plan on giving her dick

840
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 1: in the morning, take your ass home. I like that.

841
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: Like that. I know I'm talking to you. What you

842
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: have a camera if you stay the night, nigga, I

843
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: need that dick in the morning. Wait, wait, but just

844
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: before you move on to the next one, um, your

845
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,479
Speaker 1: topic that you said about dudes thinking they want sex

846
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: until they're were the woman who wants. I just want

847
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: to So I've noticed with the five women I've had

848
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: sex with, five body count number out there, Yeah you

849
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: know one by the way, of so five women in

850
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: Q one, Oh is a Q one? We actually in

851
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: Q two. By the way, April Fool's pregnant. So I've noticed.

852
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: It's about your sexual chemistry as well for sure. So

853
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: like you said, I don't know if you mentioned on

854
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: the pot, but let's just say, if you're with somebody

855
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: and you get off multiple times before they have their

856
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: first nut. When I've been in situations like that the

857
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 1: woman doesn't want sex. Funny, I don't be one and

858
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: sex after and normally I'll be with a nigket and

859
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: I'll be like, can we go another round? Can we

860
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: go another round? I'll be like that was great. Definitely

861
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: a difference, but it's funny too because I also said

862
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: this on Instagram. I think a lot of men need

863
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: to know the difference between liking sex, being a nympho,

864
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: and being a freak. And I say that to say

865
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of men when they

866
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: meet a woman, they'll be like, yeah, baby, I'm a freak.

867
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: You just liking the act of sex does not make

868
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: you a nympho, and you being a nympho does not

869
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: make you a freak, because once I bring up the pagan,

870
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: oh you ain't that freaking. See. I don't know if

871
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: you guys have ever or if you really understand what

872
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: entails people are getting, Like they're out there, like getting headaches,

873
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: getting frustrated, getting panic attacks, like just frustration and anxiety

874
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: without having sex, Like that nympho ship is fucking really no,

875
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: it's real. Yeah, but there's not many nymphos out there,

876
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: you know, like real ones like, well, I think that

877
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't I agree with you, but I think that

878
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: maybe all of us at one point in our lives

879
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: have maybe gone through was a spurt of being an inpho.

880
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: I have. I was like masturbating at work like crazy.

881
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I've had moments where well, I'm probably it's

882
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: not taking it's not taking over your life. Though that's

883
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: not an inmpho. I would consider myself and coming in

884
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: and not thinking off is not the same as like

885
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: craving sex. So this is sucking up your livelihood, like

886
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,399
Speaker 1: you can't go through like daily activities, or you're thinking

887
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: about sucking like me sipping this water bottle in the shape,

888
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: you're thinking about a dick like I'm gonna what's crazy

889
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: is So I'm in a sex class right now, and

890
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 1: they actually used to diagnose nymphomania as a mental disorder

891
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: and would put women in there, like it's a book

892
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 1: that categorizes all. Yeah, I just feel like there's a difference.

893
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm on dictionary dot com and it says uncontrolled, clable

894
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: or excessive sexual desire in a woman. Yeah, it's it's

895
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: attached to a woman. And they would put these women

896
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: in from men. No, No, it's saying in a woman like,

897
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: it's not saying anything about a person. Only women can

898
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: be nymphomaniacs, which is so fucking sexist because any time

899
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: to get a fun now, I'm a nimpho. God forbid,

900
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: I want to ask for some ship now, I'm a

901
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: fucking ninfo on dictionary dot com this is so fucking bullshit.

902
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: I can't even believe they're not describing it as anybody else. Wow,

903
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: even on Urban Dictionary. Is a woman yes, not to

904
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: be confused with slut or skank to where one sexual

905
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 1: dignity and pathetically love. I am who has a woman? Wow?

906
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 1: Another one a woman who has abnormally excessive and uncontrollable section.

907
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: You know what I want us to go on to

908
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: the next topic. Well, I guess I thought it was no, no, no, no,

909
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: I mean I'm closed. I'm probably like a nimpho. This

910
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: is I don't like that one, and you wait on

911
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: it until you get it like that's not nympho, Like,

912
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: oh but okay, but that's no. But I will sit

913
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: here and say that that is recent because a bit

914
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: had a rotating door one time, and it was literally

915
00:44:55,719 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 1: right now, right now with the amount of sex that

916
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: I well, right now, I'm also extremely busy, which is

917
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: crazy because when I feel like I have more free

918
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: time is when I have an itch to just be

919
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: a hope. I didn't even go a lie like I have.

920
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You're not really an info because

921
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 1: like somebody bipolar can't just turn that shirt off because

922
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: they're busy. I'll agree with that as well. Let me

923
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 1: get to the fourth one. So Mandy skipped this one, sod,

924
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: but I actually think this is a very interesting one.

925
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: The headline is make sure you're exclusive, which I was like, no,

926
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: But here's what it says underneath. Could your lover have

927
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: another like it or not? Not? Everyone's definition of commitment

928
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 1: that is the same. Um uh oh. The person that's

929
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: writing this article cautions women to never assume exclusivity in

930
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: a sexual relationship. She suggests being upfront and asking your

931
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: partner if they're dating, um or involved with someone else.

932
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: Having straightforward conversations about whether or not someone else. Having

933
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: straightforward conversations about whether or not your sexual exclusive does

934
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: reduce confusion. Now here's where I want to stop you,

935
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: because I know you said the first day you think

936
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: this is stupid. I think this is really really good.

937
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: I think it's one of the most I don't think

938
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: want something to talk about before you have sex. But yeah,

939
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: this is not before you have sex. Do you remember

940
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: the titles about that this is about having sexual conversations

941
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: with a partner for you go into a relationship. Yet, right,

942
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: that is so fucking important, because my nigga, if you're

943
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: you're sucking my ass and I'm eating yours, you're not

944
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: allowed to have anybody else, says the non monogamous. I'm

945
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: she's so contradicted. I'm teasing, but like, no, I mean seriously, though,

946
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 1: there's there's things that these women and are giving of

947
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: themselves that feel like they're doing a lot and or

948
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 1: whether it's exploring new ships sexually or maybe trying something

949
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: in hopes for more, or thinking that you know, this

950
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: is their only partner and to find out that you ain't.

951
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 1: But you know what's why I kind of disagree with

952
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: waiting into so you're ready to take it to the

953
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: next step. I feel like this should be a conversation

954
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: on a first or second day. This shouldn't be something

955
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: that you spring up on a nigga six months into

956
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: Now you really like him, and then he tells you

957
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: by the way pomory before you don't know before making

958
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: a relationship moving. This article is five important topics to

959
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: discuss with your man before taking your relationship to the

960
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: next level. It doesn't describe what the next level you

961
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: asked to early. No, well, I asked so far at

962
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: all four of these things before having sex. I'm actually

963
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,479
Speaker 1: interested to know what y'all think it is now, because

964
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: both of you are saying and talking about this stuff. Earlier,

965
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: I would talk about that I've been I met Jeeves

966
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: the week before Valentine's Day? What is April? First, I

967
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: do not ask him about if he's sleeping with anyone

968
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: else right now. I don't think it's my business. You

969
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 1: just don't want to be hurt. No, right, I think

970
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: that that's just more. I don't think that is I

971
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: don't think it's more for me at all. I think

972
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: that we're too, absolutely I do. But I still feel like,

973
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: right now, if he's sucking somebody else who's sucking better,

974
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: you're not better. But I'm just saying right now, he's

975
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 1: with it right now. But I think it also gives

976
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: her this how you feel right now he's having sex

977
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: right now with somebody else, how you feel. I don't

978
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: know if I'm exactly um I'll feel I feel like

979
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: a little bit of jealous, but I don't know if

980
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: I necessarily feel like he shouldn't be I don't. I

981
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: don't feel like he owes me that I'm not lying.

982
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: I'm being really honest with you seriously, because I don't

983
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: feel like I shouldn't be sleeping with other people right

984
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 1: now either. I don't owe him anything. We're spending two

985
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: or three times a week together. Like I don't feel

986
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: like he just did the Labia massage and she's like,

987
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: who the hell you learn that? Listen, I would be

988
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: a little jealous because that was just with him a

989
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,919
Speaker 1: night ago. But I swear to you, I'm not lying.

990
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: Why should you be any jealous? Shouldn't you be zero jealous?

991
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: I know I should, but I can't help that. Like

992
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: that's the way I feel. I would be a little

993
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: bit jealous, but it wouldn't keep me from talking to

994
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: It would make me question it more like I would

995
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: not be would forced me to stop talking to him,

996
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: would make I think it's the feeling of being monogamous

997
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: that you like. Because you mentioned this. In the last

998
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: recording that we did, you said, well, I like him

999
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: because I feel like we're I feel like we're exclusive

1000
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: to each other. I feel like we're the only one thing.

1001
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: So you you were saying that, Um, I know you.

1002
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: You said that's a lover girl, and I don't remember

1003
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: saying that. I remember. I really don't think those were

1004
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: my words. I think what I said was, she's not

1005
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: saying that. I don't. I don't. I don't recall everything.

1006
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: I don't. It's I don't. I didn't say anything like

1007
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 1: I feel like we're a monogamous to each other, because

1008
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: that's not important for me right now. I remember saying

1009
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: to you, though, which I think you're confusing. When we

1010
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: talked about one or the other, I said, she has

1011
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: a primarian he doesn't, so I feel like I'm anogamous

1012
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: with that. I didn't say that. I said we're both

1013
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: single right now, I'll clip in what she said. I

1014
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: really don't. It's like he's single and I'm single, so

1015
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: like we can do our own thing. She has another partner.

1016
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 1: Do you want anything more with him, like when you

1017
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: have this conversation with him at any point. I don't know.

1018
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm kind of thinking about it, because like when I'm

1019
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: gone for work in Texas for this new job I got,

1020
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's two weeks if you see him to

1021
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: three times a week. He got somebody else he com

1022
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 1: and wanted to bring him there. That's no, no, no,

1023
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: he's coming. It's like locked and sealed, Like he's like,

1024
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: you're gone two weeks. Like he's flying there for the

1025
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:18,879
Speaker 1: weekend those two days and to me, oh my god,

1026
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: it's not love, it's you are not she's away for

1027
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: just two weeks. You're trying to say, right now, you

1028
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: just friends with benefits, maybe a little bit more. You

1029
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: can't go two weeks without seeing this persona you just

1030
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: friends with benefits. Going a flight to Dallas is like

1031
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: sucking a hundred fifty And I got to spend a role.

1032
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: Letting go for a weekend, and you gonna be there,

1033
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: Come meet you there. They both live here. He can't

1034
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: just wait until she's back. Well, why not, let's go.

1035
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: Let's why are they my company paying from my hotel.

1036
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say friends with benefits

1037
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: where we're definitely dating, and even if he is dating

1038
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: someone else, like I might start dating someone else. I

1039
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: don't know I'm seeing another girl right but right now

1040
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: I like him a lot. He likes me too. If

1041
00:50:58,120 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: he was on for two weeks, I might suggest the

1042
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: same thing. You believe, only bringing up this conversation of

1043
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: exclusivity when you want to take it to the next level.

1044
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: You think me and Alex bringing it up in the beginning.

1045
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 1: We have no other level right now. So like, I

1046
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 1: just went through a breakup, and so did he. Um

1047
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: he We'll know he was with someone for three years.

1048
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: It's been about ten months since he's been separated from

1049
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: like or whatever. Right he moved to New York. It's over.

1050
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: They spit together. I feel like he just moved to

1051
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 1: New York. I feel like he's going to be exploring

1052
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: a lot and Ninka got a dick hung like a

1053
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: horse like. I don't see why he wouldn't. I know

1054
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: he likes me. I know he's spending a lot of

1055
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: time with me, but I don't want to be silly

1056
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,919
Speaker 1: to think that he's not going to be exploring other people.

1057
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: I also know how intense our chemistry is, which is

1058
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: why he is coming to see me in Dallas. And

1059
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised, which is why we spent so much

1060
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: time together. But I'm not going to sit here and

1061
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: say that I would be shocked if he was seeing

1062
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: someone else. And I doubt don't think that takes away

1063
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 1: from how he feels about me. I like him too,

1064
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: but I still fun love he girl, don't I why.

1065
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 1: It's just we're both single, So I don't think that

1066
00:51:55,400 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: it's right. Do we have a topic, Okay, if now

1067
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into homemade, I don't think so. The

1068
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: fifth one is be open about your sexual secrets, which

1069
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: I think we kind of touched and oh this one

1070
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: is kind of talking about Uh, it was fine, this

1071
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: is it? So I was talking about touchy subjects, um.

1072
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: And I think this has to do with like like

1073
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 1: the safe words and ship. I think I think that.

1074
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: And I also think maybe um awkwardness with things like hey,

1075
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 1: maybe like I don't like you to call me bitch

1076
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: or I don't want you to call me yet in

1077
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Through the Actually, i've heard a lot of

1078
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: men tell me that women don't like they I like

1079
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: my pussy spit on, And I had guys tell me

1080
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: like women thought that she was rude, like just spit

1081
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 1: on your pussy when you like about to well, not

1082
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: only that, I think it just goes more so with

1083
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: also knowing your partner because so like the nigga who

1084
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: who used to want me to piss on him or whatever,

1085
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: he was really into being a sub for me, so

1086
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: he would say he wants to be my bitch. I

1087
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: can't go around telling nigga's in the bed, let me

1088
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: make you my bitch, like because to a man who's

1089
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: a dumb he's not gonna like. And I think even

1090
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: when you deal with a certain yeah, there's certain things

1091
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: in the bedroom as far as lingo that's used, or

1092
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: even though like let's talk make me not like you

1093
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 1: to ask like I would rather someone talk to me before.

1094
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: Actually Jeeves asked for permission to eat it, which I

1095
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 1: appreciate it because I was just like I would be like, whoa,

1096
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: you're just going right there like you there, Yeah, I

1097
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: like the talking. So just knowing your boundaries, knowing what

1098
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: you do and do not like, I think that that's

1099
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: very important. I think that that's actually something to discuss

1100
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: if you're even just having sex with someone, not if

1101
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: you're looking to move to the next level. I think

1102
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: that that's something that needs to be discussed if you're

1103
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: sucking somebody, even if they don't even want them, is

1104
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: anything more. And it's funny that we talk about this

1105
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: because the next topic, our girl had a question. So,

1106
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: as you guys know, we have homemeo um, and this

1107
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: week we have a really good one from a home

1108
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: girl out in central Florida. Shout out to the seven. No,

1109
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: I don't know her, actually, I mean because all you

1110
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: all listening is our home girl. I wanted. I just asked,

1111
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: I want to see what the dude look like a girl.

1112
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, so if you're listening whatever you

1113
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: I don't let's not put her name out there, but um,

1114
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: just send it in the instant story. I want to

1115
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: know what looks like. Nobody knows who you talk? Okay,

1116
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: well let me go so basically, so basically this is

1117
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: my office. So basically, guys, what we do every week

1118
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: is we read some letters from you guys. Um, and

1119
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: you guys can let us know how awesome we are,

1120
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: how horrible we are, or let us know your horrible

1121
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: decisions that you're making. So this lady wrote me on

1122
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: Instagram and she said, hey girl, I absolutely love the

1123
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: show and have literally listened to every single episode. Thanks bope,

1124
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 1: let me just get right into it. Help me peg

1125
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: my personal trainer? What was it? What was an innocent

1126
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: client slash trainer relationship has turned into the best sex

1127
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: of my life. Dildo's anal, beads callers, you name it,

1128
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 1: it goes down. After listening to one of your episodes,

1129
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 1: I thought, why not let me see if he's down.

1130
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 1: Not only did he agree, but also proceeded to send

1131
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: me pictures of him bent over and said if he

1132
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: enjoyed it, he would let me. Why why because I'm

1133
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 1: just gonna sit there and take this and listen to

1134
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: the story. He said, uh, if he would let me

1135
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: and a friend tag team him. By the way, she's

1136
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: talking about pegging guys, she said, she's totally down for it.

1137
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 1: So my question is she has two questions. What type

1138
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 1: of toy slash dildo do I use in the pegging?

1139
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: And how do I get him ready for some good

1140
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: old as fucking thank you ps. I live in central

1141
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: Florida and would love for you girls to do a

1142
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: live show in Orlando soon. Everybody would look like to

1143
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: motherfucker come to or She said. One more thing. I'm

1144
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: five ft and he's six three two pounds. What's the

1145
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: best position since I'm so short? Is this the brown?

1146
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: That's what it sounds like. But to ninety, that's a chopster.

1147
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: That's a little too big for me at six three girl,

1148
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 1: when I deal with six soken wed, Yes, my nigga

1149
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: is barely hit two. Yeah, like you can't say cock

1150
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 1: but chupster, I'm just saying um. So for her, I

1151
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 1: did write her back because I had the whole so

1152
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 1: I had to let her know first off that I

1153
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: was jealous as fuck because I was like, damn, I

1154
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: was just telling Wheezy, that's literally kind of what I'm

1155
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 1: looking for right now in my sex sexual life. Right now,

1156
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm being I'm being dominated. So if I were to

1157
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,959
Speaker 1: be fucking somebody else, I need to be the dog

1158
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: and I would want to submissive guy. So I told

1159
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 1: her I was super jealous that she has a nigga

1160
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: that not only wants to get pegged, but wants to

1161
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: be ran a train on five like this that is

1162
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: fucking that's actually a fantasy and we might have to

1163
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: talk about that on an episode of fantasies. But shut up.

1164
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: So I guess I'll start from the last question. She asked,

1165
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: when you have a size difference. UM, so clearly, guys.

1166
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: I'm five one, five two maybe if I'm lucky, yes, UM,

1167
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: and so the guy I don't want to say guys,

1168
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: but the one guy in particular that I successfully pegged,

1169
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: he was six ten and I am five ft one,

1170
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: and so I would I would. I would suggest if

1171
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: you're going to peg a guy who's much bigger than you,

1172
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 1: to definitely start off in missionary position, because I'm not

1173
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 1: gonna lie. We did try to start off doggy style,

1174
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: but his legs was so long. I couldn't funk him

1175
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: while being on my knees because I'm short, so I

1176
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: had to stand up and do like a froggy style.

1177
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: It just wasn't as conducive to what I was trying

1178
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: to do. So I would definitely lay him down missionary. UM.

1179
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: You definitely talked about this before, but I love revamping

1180
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: it everything else. It's crazy that so many men are

1181
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: out here UM trying to UM, and so I would

1182
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: definitely recommend you to do missionary style. The other question

1183
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: was what type of toy slash dildo should she use? UM?

1184
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: So in this I ended up actually purchasing a prostate

1185
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: dildo which was curved, and also asked him like, um,

1186
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: his comfortability with like sizing and stuff. Well, yeah, there's

1187
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: that they're already using anal plugs and antal beads. Okay,

1188
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 1: so I would assume the leaders are really slim anyway, though,

1189
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,920
Speaker 1: can you not sigh over there? There is no kin

1190
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: shaming allouding you know where real jetty thirty years from now,

1191
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: you're gonna be so bored that bright ahead of your

1192
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: life is gonna be boring as you're gonna be edging

1193
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: and edge and edging like you know, I just suck

1194
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: my house. Yeah, you're gonna be asking to be anyways,

1195
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 1: So I would definitely, um not only look at the

1196
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: prostate dildos, but I was told by one of my

1197
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 1: my guy friends who's bisexual, Um, when he uses toys

1198
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: with girls, he actually likes the more um realistic feeling,

1199
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: clearly because he takes real dick too, so he doesn't

1200
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: want it to be as hard, So make sure that

1201
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: it's jelly or silicone. Um. And then the second question

1202
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 1: is how do I get him to be ready for

1203
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 1: some good old ask fucking definitely lube girl. I think

1204
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: I've eat so much lube, not only but well eating

1205
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: it and like getting him turned on is gonna loosen

1206
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: the spincter mustill. So that's the thing about ask fucking

1207
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: is how relaxed are you It's going to be how

1208
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: enjoyable it is one pent So I mean, you don't

1209
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: necessarily have to eat it, but if he feels relaxed,

1210
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: then he's going to be able to take more of

1211
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: your I mean, okay, that's not the dick, but you know,

1212
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: the man man. And also getting him ready for the

1213
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: like full on ask bucking, Like, don't just start with

1214
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: a pegging like use the things that you've been using before, right,

1215
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: make sure it's sloppy and like kind of already opened up.

1216
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:09,439
Speaker 1: This is funnycause I really don't get my ass bucked,

1217
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: but I at least know what I need to do.

1218
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: Start with the smaller toys and then gradually working way up.

1219
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 1: Don't just sit out there or I actually saw this,

1220
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: um this video, um, and I sent it to a

1221
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 1: couple of the listeners. Um. It was a guy who

1222
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: looked amazing getting pegged. But what he did is they

1223
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: went through the whole act of her getting fucked first,

1224
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: and while they were fucking, he had a butt plug

1225
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: in his ass, so he was he actually had his

1226
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: ass like the muscles and everything contry. You know, it

1227
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: was already getting loose for for the pegging. So I

1228
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 1: definitely think you need to have a huge conversation with him.

1229
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,959
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're having the best sex of sex

1230
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 1: of your life now. So at least you guys are

1231
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: comfortable with each other, because this honestly cannot be done

1232
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: unless you two are comfortable and trust each someone else

1233
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: into it. Bringing someone else into it, you guys might

1234
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: want to even go get a couple of drinks first, Like,

1235
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: you want to make sure he's open to her, because

1236
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: if he's not comfortable in that booty hole, clinch up, y'all,

1237
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to gang bange that nigga booty holes.

1238
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: And you want to make sure that this is not

1239
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: a girl who's like a fucking amateur. No, yes, that's

1240
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 1: that's I didn't even think of that, you know what

1241
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, let's just say you get a girl

1242
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 1: who's like, oh, yeah, that's girl, So go ahead and

1243
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: drop your number, let me know, I'll let you know

1244
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: want to come into I'm just saying, no, I would

1245
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: like to tap to a nigga that fun. My god,

1246
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to one of our listeners like the

1247
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: thing for me. I don't want to funk one of

1248
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 1: our listeners. Um okay. I never used the word fan

1249
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: because I think it's tacky. I think so like I

1250
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: think it puts you seriously, I think it puts you

1251
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,919
Speaker 1: on this pedestal of like I have fans of Mo Bluss.

1252
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: I don't like to say that, but I will say

1253
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: I want to a fan. That's why do you want

1254
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: to suck a fan? I would love to know that

1255
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: someone's listened to all of me. Right, you're smiling because

1256
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 1: you hear me, Like, bro, I'm not famous, but when

1257
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 1: I hear these stories about like people talking about sucking groupies,

1258
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: I would love to fuck a girl or a guy

1259
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: that like listens to me, knows all about me, and

1260
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: it like really likes me and like all that you

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Speaker 1: and I have different And then you're like, yeah, now

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been like I mean, I'm not famous,

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Speaker 1: but I've been out in the eye for a long time,

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Speaker 1: like even back from my model days to where I

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Speaker 1: have people that they can sit here and tell me

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Speaker 1: all my friends that I've cut off like it's just

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Speaker 1: too no. She she don't listen. She just doesn't listen.

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Speaker 1: She's like a child, like a two year old. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you know that, bro. All of that

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Speaker 1: is all in the mic, bro, But we're gonna go

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Speaker 1: ahead and sign up to moment. She just want to

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Speaker 1: show Popeyes like they're paying us all air. And I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to show Popeyes like Popeyes. But let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something. I was so fucked up last night.

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Speaker 1: I did a fucking hole spend class with Alex. I'm

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Speaker 1: barely made it here. I didn't want to cancel because

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Speaker 1: me and you already been fighting, so I tried to

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Speaker 1: be empathetic to the fact that prothetic to the fact.

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Speaker 1: So instead you just come in and ruin the sound

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Speaker 1: of our audio. When they started, this was just more

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Speaker 1: of your arena anyway, and I took it as an

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Speaker 1: opportunity for red beans, and instead of eating your red

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Speaker 1: beans all right, you still chomped in with your mouthful

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Speaker 1: every two seconds that you could. I mean, I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying anyway, Rob, anyway, we're gonna go ahead and wrap

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Speaker 1: this up. This has been yet another episode. Please come

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Speaker 1: and see us in Atlanta. If you haven't, the link

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Speaker 1: is in all of our bios Horrible Decisions, Um full

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Speaker 1: court pums, wheezy, WTF get getting all of our bios?

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Speaker 1: Click the link bio tickets, come out, come, see us,

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Speaker 1: come have fun. We got be Samone hosting and she lit,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, go ahead and hollow at us. This has

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Speaker 1: been Yeah, another episode of horrible Decisions by Oh