1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: And welcome back to Coast to Coast George Norri with you, 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: Back with Robert Moss. Robert has been a dream traveler 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: since doctors pronounced him clinically dead in a hospital in Hobart, 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: Tasmania when he was three years old. From his experiences 6 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: in many worlds, he created his School of Active Dreaming, 7 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: his original synthesis of modern dream work in ancient shamanic 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: and mystical practices for journeying to realms beyond the physical 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 2: and growing creative imagination. He has led popular workshops all 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 2: over the planet, including a three year training for teachers 11 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: of Active Dreaming and online courses as well. His website 12 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: linked up at Coast tocoastam dot com. His latest book 13 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: is called Growing Big Dreams and Robert. Welcome back to 14 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 2: the dream world, my friend. 15 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 3: Good to be dreaming with you. George. 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: How have you been. 17 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: I'm absolutely fine. I'm actually doing very well. I don't 18 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 3: travel with much physically as I used to, but as 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 3: a dream trap where I'm out there all the time. 20 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 2: Excellent. Lots to talk with you about it. How you've 21 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 2: changed your life and your pattern. But tell us about 22 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 2: this episode when you were three. What happened? 23 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 3: Well, I had pneumonia. I was my great aunt, the 24 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: opera singer friend of Dame Nellie Melbury, had seen it 25 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 3: in the tea lead. She was that kind of psychic medium. 26 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 3: She seen me dying, hadn't seen me coming back. So 27 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 3: the doctor's pronounced me clinically dead. And when I come back, 28 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 3: they say, with some embarrassment to my parents, oh you 29 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 3: poor boy. He died and he came back back, didn't he. 30 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: I don't remember much from that episode, George, but when 31 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: I was nine it happened again. I'm an operating room 32 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: under the surgeon's knife for an emergency appendectomy, and I 33 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 3: find myself floating under the ceiling looking down at the scene, 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 3: not enjoying the sight of my open body with a 35 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 3: blood or listening to the nurses. So I drift out 36 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: the door and there's my mother grieving, and I don't 37 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: want to feel guilt for her. I'm an only kid, 38 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: and she's worried I'm going to die. I want to 39 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: do something. I look out the window of the hospital 40 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: forgetting the body on the bed, and I look over 41 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 3: the coast of Melbourne, Austrader. That's where I am now. 42 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 3: And I remember there's a theme park down there, Lunar Park, 43 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 3: just for fun, they used to say in the ads. 44 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 3: And I think, I'm a nine year old kid. I 45 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 3: want to go on the rides, look at the girls 46 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 3: and their summer dresses. So I've drift down, float down, 47 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 3: fly down to the theme park, go through the big 48 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 3: moon round face of the gate. I'm going to go 49 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 3: on the ghost train, I guess, And suddenly wish I'm 50 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 3: in another world, and I'm greeted by people who are 51 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 3: very tall and pale and beautiful. They receive me as 52 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 3: one of their own, and they raised me, and I 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 3: forget about the body on the bed, and I seem 54 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 3: to live a whole life George amongst these different pale, 55 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 3: slender people, until that life and that body had done, 56 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: and I expect, I think to go to another star. 57 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 3: But suddenly, bang, after nine minutes of part time and 58 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 3: one hundred years somewhere else, I'm back in the body 59 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 3: of a frightened kid in a bed in an operating room. 60 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 3: And we didn't have Ray Moody's phrase near death experience 61 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: back then. It was die and come back. That's the 62 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,399 Speaker 3: way I was talked about, and we didn't have sympathetic 63 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 3: people in the add out community to listen to my stories. 64 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: Our poor kid, it must be the medication. He's hallucinating. 65 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 3: The first person who could validate and confirm what I 66 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: had been through was an Aboriginal kid, and we weren't 67 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 3: supposed to hang out with them back then, in that 68 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 3: era in Australia. But the Aboriginal kid said, oh yeah, 69 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 3: we do that. We get sick, we go and live 70 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 3: with the spirits. We've come back. Sometimes we're the same 71 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 3: and sometimes we're not well. So I had to look 72 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: lay quiet about that for a while. I came from 73 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 3: a conservative military family. You didn't talk about dreams and visions. 74 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: But I knew, I mean I knew completely from age nine. 75 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 3: Because of that their wills beyond the physical. I knew 76 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: to pick up on your last guest. But consciousness precedes 77 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 3: to one body, and it survived soul. Consciousness survives the 78 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 3: death of one body. I knew it's not weird to 79 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 3: talk to people who we might consider dead. I'm the 80 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: ancestors and so on. So that's where I start from 81 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: as a dreamer. These are things I've known through experience 82 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: since I was nine years old. 83 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: And Robert Day, what was your midlife career before you 84 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: became the dream teacher. 85 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 3: Well, I've been a successful journalist. I was a best 86 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 3: selling thriller writer. I had four spy novels on the 87 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 3: New York Times First seller List. And I don't know. 88 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 3: I was bored. It looks like somebody else's dream. But 89 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: I moved to a farm in upstate New York, trying 90 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 3: to put down some roots, I guess in my adopted country. 91 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 3: I moved because of an oak tree behind the farmhouse 92 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 3: and a red tailed hawk that dropped the feather between 93 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: my legs. And on that land, I started dreaming of 94 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 3: the ancestors of the land, of an Irishman who came 95 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 3: to the American colonies in the eighteenth century, with whom 96 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: I have a distant genealogical connection, and other connections. I 97 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: started dreaming of the first peoples. I started dreaming of 98 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 3: a wise woman of long ago who insisted in speaking 99 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 3: to me in her own language. It turned out to 100 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 3: be an archaic form of the Mohawk Indian language with 101 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: some Huron spiritual vote dicagory from her birth people and 102 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: I through synchronicity and through hard work and through scholarship 103 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 3: and research, I began to understand what she was telling 104 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 3: me she would never translate. I understood, for example, that 105 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 3: a funny word she kept using it sounded like this 106 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 3: ontnunk had a meaning. It meant the secret wish of 107 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 3: the soul, especially as revealed in dreams. And I understood 108 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 3: that in her tradition of dreaming and healing, what we 109 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 3: need to do is listen carefully, tenderly to dreamers, see 110 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: what their soul, what their greatest self, if you like, 111 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 3: is saying to them in the dream, and help them 112 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 3: act on that guidance or else they're going to go wrong. 113 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 3: I also learned from her tradition learnt again the dreaming 114 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 3: is about survival because the Mohawk were not pantsies. I mean, 115 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 3: they were very fierce warriors. They held their own with 116 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 3: very small numbers against many enemies, and they used their 117 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: dreamers as their scouts, as their reconnaissance people to warn 118 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 3: them about where the enemy was hiding an ambush and 119 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: get through. So I learned from this contact within digital 120 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 3: this tradition. Of course, I met people living today who 121 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 3: help you with the language and the customs has understood. Today, 122 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 3: I learned two vital things about dreaming known I think 123 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 3: to all our ancestors. But it's about soul. And yes, 124 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: it will tell us that soul has an origin before 125 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: this life and has a destiny beyond this life. That's 126 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 3: a rather important thing to know. That you're connected to 127 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: other lives, you have a larger purpose. And that dreaming 128 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 3: is also about survival in the sense that it will 129 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 3: show you the possible future to pick up your on 130 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: your previous guest again, our dreams show us not only 131 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: what is going to happen, they show us what might 132 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 3: or might not happen, depending on how you work with 133 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 3: the information and apply it. Those are very important things 134 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 3: to know, and our understanding of these things was atrified 135 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 3: Western society. So I've devoted myself to bringing back that 136 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 3: kind of knowledge because it works. It puts us in 137 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 3: touch with a deeper source. It puts us in touch, 138 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 3: if you like, with the god we can talk to, 139 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 3: or the spirits of nature, or the ancestors, and it 140 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 3: puts us out on the right trail. 141 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: Good for you, Robert. I have used dreams to manifest 142 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 2: things that I want to happen in my life, and 143 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: I've used it all the time. When I sometimes wanted 144 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 2: a job in my earlier days, I'd concentrate on the 145 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: individual who did the hiring and I'd go to sleep, 146 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: and sure enough, within a day or two, that person 147 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 2: would call me and go, George, we're looking for this 148 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: per producer or this or that, and I'd get the job. 149 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: What did I do right? 150 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 3: So you belong to the school of Mark Twain? Remember 151 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,239 Speaker 3: Mark Twain. Mark Twain was the world class prema. People 152 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 3: don't know enough about him. He practiced what he called 153 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: mental telegraphy. Today we might call it mental texting or 154 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 3: something like that. He would set his mind on someone 155 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 3: that he wanted to be in contact with, and actually 156 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 3: he would write a letter, but never send the letter, 157 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 3: but he'd focus on that person that way. I'd wait 158 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 3: for results, wait for a response. So I think you're 159 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 3: doing something that smart dreamers have always known how to do, 160 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 3: because a telepathy is a real phenomenon that there was 161 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 3: given that name by very interesting Victorian psychic researcher called 162 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 3: Fred Myers. We sometimes forget talking about science that there've 163 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 3: been ways and waves of scientific attention to this stuff. 164 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 3: One of the great waves of scientific attention was in 165 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 3: the Victorian era when the first professor of anthropology at 166 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 3: Oxford University, who used the racist colonial language of his time, said, actually, 167 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: these savages, you know, these savages, they knew things we 168 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: don't know anymore. We have fallen from the high level 169 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 3: of savage knowledge because they knew, because of dreams, that 170 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: the soul survives physical death and has and has an 171 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 3: origin before physical life. We've fallen from that high knowledge 172 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 3: of savage tradition. So you know, you did something right 173 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 3: that smart dreamers have always known about. And that's I 174 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 3: suppose partly why you're leading a dream life, George. 175 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: I love it. 176 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 2: There are so many different kinds of dreams. We'll talk 177 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 2: about all of them tonight. Robert Moss our special guest. 178 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 2: He's got a number of books out, including his latest 179 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 2: one that he wrote a couple of years ago, called 180 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: Growing Big Dreams. His website is linked up at coastocostam 181 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: dot com. How many people do not pay attention to 182 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 2: the messages in their dreams, Robert, Well, we have. 183 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 3: To consider all the people who are not in touch 184 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 3: at all in the sense they make no time, no 185 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 3: room to catch their dreams or record them or look 186 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 3: at what's going on. And indeed, we'll find quite a 187 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 3: number of heart to say I don't dream. When you 188 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 3: say that, you're just saying I don't remember, because you know, 189 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 3: the people who analyze brainways and sleep rabs, labs and 190 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 3: so on will say you dream on average for X 191 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 3: number of hours a night at least to say three hours. 192 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 3: Maybe we're dreaming all the time. So but a lot 193 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 3: of people who don't know how to look at the 194 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 3: material and don't have a way of talking about it. 195 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 3: That's something I've tried to correct. I came up with 196 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: a very simple way by which we can tell our 197 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 3: stories to someone else who doesn't have to be an expert, 198 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 3: doesn't have to have a certificate on the wall, just 199 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 3: needs to be well intentioned and ready to, you know, 200 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 3: go where the flow takes you. When you say to 201 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 3: each other, okay, if it were my dream, I think 202 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: about such and such and okay, then we have a conversation. 203 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 3: We don't leave it hanging in mid air as a 204 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: sterile set of words. We want some action. What are 205 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 3: you going to do to apply this material? If you 206 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 3: think the car accident could be next Tuesday, in front 207 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 3: of that shopping mall. What are you going to do 208 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 3: to avoid it? Maybe there's something worth researching in your 209 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: dream that phrase from a different language, that city that 210 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 3: you might or might not visit in the future. Do 211 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 3: some research, you know, ask Auntie Google to translate that 212 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: phrase for you. Check out what might go on in 213 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,599 Speaker 3: that city. And one thing that you can learn to 214 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 3: do with your dreams if you're catching them and recording them, 215 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 3: and a journal becomes essential, writing these things down becomes 216 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 3: vitally important. You get good at dreaming. This is your 217 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 3: log book. If you're catching your dreams and recording them, 218 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: something you can learn to do is to go back 219 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 3: inside them and go on with them. This is a key. 220 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 3: I need a royal road to lucid dreaming. Suppose you've 221 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 3: been scared by something, and maybe you run away from it, 222 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 3: and maybe that's why you're trying not to listen to 223 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: your dreams. You can learn to go back into the 224 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 3: place where you encountered the fear in dream land, face 225 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 3: the fear and go beyond it. Deal with that giant 226 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 3: bear who came into your bedroom, as I had to 227 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: do when I first met went to Upstate New York, 228 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 3: and I found that the bear was an ally waiting 229 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: for me. Once I got beyond my fear, you might 230 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 3: want to go back into the dream to clarify that information. 231 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 3: Is that car crash a literal car crash, or is 232 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 3: the symbolic of the state of your marriage, the state 233 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 3: of your job or whatever. 234 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: Or your life or your life or your life exactly. 235 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 3: I mean maybe your life is it is a train 236 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 3: wreck or a car crash. I mean, you can look 237 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 3: at it that way. How do you know, Well, you'll 238 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 3: know if you spend more time with your dream, maybe 239 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 3: just having interesting time in your dream, having a romantic adventure. 240 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 3: You can go back, go on with it, not pay 241 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 3: for the plane ticket, not have to wait wait for 242 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 3: your bags. So that's the core technique of what I 243 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 3: give people we call a dream re entry. You've got 244 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 3: an airmage. It might be a dream, it might be 245 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 3: something else that's got some juice for you. As maybe 246 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 3: the juice is fear or mystery or romance. You can 247 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 3: go on with it. You can go back into it. 248 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 3: And when you do that, as I say, you are 249 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 3: on one of the royal roads to becoming a lucid dreamer. 250 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: What about some people, Robert, who just can't remember their dreams. 251 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: They have a really difficult time grasping that. 252 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 1: Well. 253 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 3: One thing that I find works very well is, okay, 254 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 3: let's say you can't don't have anything. First of all, 255 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 3: if you're going to play the game, keep recording materials 256 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 3: close to when you wake up. Write something down. You 257 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 3: don't have a dream, Okay, write down whatever passes through 258 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,719 Speaker 3: your mind, and maybe you'll actually notice you have a 259 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 3: fragment from a dream. But the other thing that works 260 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: really well is learn to look at the world around 261 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 3: you as a dream. I mean this is a very 262 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 3: indigenous attitude in Australia. The first people, the Aborigines of 263 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 3: my native country, say we live in the speaking land. 264 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 3: Everything is speaking. The mountain is speaking, the lizard is speaking, 265 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 3: the toyota is speaking. They'll pay attention to the signs 266 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 3: and symbols that are popping up around you. You've got 267 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 3: a question on your mind, you play the game this way. 268 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 3: You say I'd like guidance on such as I'd like 269 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,359 Speaker 3: guidance on the job interview, I'd a guidance on my marriage. 270 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 3: Then the game is you go out into the world, 271 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 3: walk around the block to take ten minutes off during 272 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 3: your lunch break and look at the first unusual, maybe 273 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 3: wacky thing that enters your field of perception as a 274 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 3: message for you, like a dream symbol. What is the 275 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: world saying to you? It's funny how when you start 276 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 3: paying attention to synchronicity, that's what this is about. To 277 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 3: borrow Jung's word, your dream figot opens. Can I tell 278 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 3: you a story about how that works? 279 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 2: Please, we've got some time. Go ahead. 280 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 3: So when I was doing a seri but one of 281 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 3: my very first evening series of dream workshops over several weeks, 282 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 3: we had a lady of a kind you're describing who 283 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,599 Speaker 3: wasn't remembering her dreams. She used to she had some 284 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 3: self awareness. She said, I think I'm not receiving my 285 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 3: dreams because I'm worried about what they're telling me, which 286 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 3: whether my job is faith. Okay, I said, you've got 287 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 3: no dreams, do this write down an attention for guidance. 288 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 3: I'd like Johns and my own guidance and my job. 289 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 3: She decided, go out into the street and see what 290 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 3: the world says to you. So she's leaving an evening program. 291 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 3: She goes out into the streets. She knows the area perfectly, well. 292 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 3: When she comes back the following week, she tells us 293 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 3: what happens. She finds herself driving the wrong way down 294 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 3: a one way street and doesn't realize what's happening until 295 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 3: a big truck puts on its high beams and its 296 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: air horns, and seems the airhorn seems ready to brush 297 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 3: her off the road. Did you get the message? I say, yes, 298 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 3: the job is blown. But Robert, what happened when I 299 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 3: realized that is I remembered my dreams. I've got a few. 300 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 3: Oh to give us one. Oh yeah, Well, I'm living 301 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 3: somewhere else, maybe Washington, d C. I'm organizing conference on transportation. 302 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 3: I said, could you go to Washington, d C. Yes, 303 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 3: I've got a friend there. Do you know think about 304 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 3: conferences on transportation? All I know about transportation is driving 305 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 3: the wrong way down a one way seat, one way street. 306 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: But she says, but my work essentially consists of organizing conferences. 307 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: She goes to Washington, d C. Stays with the friend, 308 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 3: checks out the job market. Six months later, she got 309 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 3: a new job. It's relocated to DC. Is organizing the 310 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 3: conference on transportation that she dreamed six months before, which 311 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 3: is very good news because her job in state government 312 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 3: department no longer exists, So there you are. That's a 313 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 3: story about the practicality. It's also a story about how 314 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 3: if you start looking at the world around you as 315 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 3: a set of dream signs and dream symbols, maybe you'll 316 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 3: encourage your dream producers to talk to you a bit 317 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: more directly. 318 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 2: You mentioned a car crash. If somebody has a dream, 319 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 2: let's say, of a friend getting into a car crash, 320 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 2: is it our obligation to tell that friend we had 321 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 2: that kind. 322 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: Of a dream. 323 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 3: Well not unless you are able to check out the 324 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 3: information and get specific detail. If you just say, guess what, 325 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 3: I'm terribly sorry, I saw you in a car crash, 326 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 3: you're projecting, and you might, because we're suggestible, you might 327 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 3: even producing, even be producing the psychology that will let 328 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 3: the car cress. You might be implanting fear if you're 329 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 3: if you have specific information, on the other hand, because 330 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: they look I think if I were you, I would 331 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 3: be careful, you know what, driving in Minneapolis, because on 332 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 3: this particular part of town I saw a truck run 333 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 3: a red light and the weather was like such. If 334 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 3: you've got information like that and you have good relations 335 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 3: with that person, I would be in favorite passing it 336 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 3: onto them, but not as some generalized, vague, muddy kind 337 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 3: of fearful thing. 338 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 2: Interesting take, you're you're right, because you could be manifesting 339 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 2: it yourself just by bringing it up. 340 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: Yes, you say you've got you've got to just work 341 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: on your own dream? Is that you've got to ask? Example, 342 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: is this about me? I think it's about my friend, 343 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: but really is my friend like me in some way? 344 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 3: Do we behave like each other under some circumstances? I mean, 345 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 3: you can't rule out that the dream is about you. 346 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 3: That Freud didn't understand and the most famous dream that 347 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 3: he ever interpreted of the dream might be about him 348 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 3: rather than one of his patients, because he couldn't understand 349 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 3: that he missed in it a long term advisory who 350 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 3: would have alerted him to the oral cancer that killed 351 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 3: him twenty eight years later. Is a tragic story, one 352 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 3: that isn't well enough and well enough known. And I 353 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 3: write about my book The Secret History of Dreaming, So 354 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 3: we always have to pause and say, actually, this is 355 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 3: about me. And we've also got to pause, as we 356 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 3: said earlier, and say, actually, is this more literal or symbolic? 357 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 3: Is this a literal car crash or is it a 358 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 3: symbolic car crash. If we feel it's a literal car crash, 359 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 3: then we've got to get the facts of the dream 360 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 3: as clear as possible. 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