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Speaker 1: Hey Weezy, Hey Mandy, it's me Key from Clee. I'll
Speaker 1: be on the towel halls and I've Metro at the
Speaker 1: Roots picnic. And here's my dilemma. I've had a guy
Speaker 1: that's been my fuck buddy since June of twenty twenty,
Speaker 1: and at first it was literally like a twenty four
Speaker 1: to seven type of guy.
Speaker 3: I would stop.
Speaker 2: At anything and come to him, or he'd come to me,
Speaker 2: and we would eat, smoke and fuck like clockwork. So
Speaker 2: back in August we had just got done fucking and
Speaker 2: he says, why you never thought to get a boyfriend?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, huh, because that I was so random
Speaker 2: to ask, and I'm like, well, I don't know, shit,
Speaker 2: just never felt like that since my ex and I
Speaker 2: have been so cool. I've been since my X and
Speaker 2: I I've been cool. So he's like, if I asked
Speaker 2: you on a date, would you go? So I say, yeah,
Speaker 2: why not? We ended up going to a winery and
Speaker 2: we had a great time. The following week he got
Speaker 2: a new job, so I'm like, hey, let me take
Speaker 2: you out for celibratory drinks. He said, cool.
Speaker 1: Okay. We've been moving and doing a little bit more
Speaker 1: than having sex and since then in more of a
Speaker 1: public eye. So my birthday's last month and he took
Speaker 1: me to a caves game damn near on the floor.
Speaker 1: We had an amazing time and even got caught kissing
Speaker 1: on the kissing camera. Oh that's cute. That is cute.
Speaker 1: So here's my dilemma.
Speaker 2: Would I be overstepping if I asked him why the
Speaker 2: change of heart so suddenly and asked him to be
Speaker 2: my man chrissy? Or should I just go with the
Speaker 2: flow and let him continue to date me instead of
Speaker 2: fuck me? Or is he simply just trying to hang
Speaker 2: out and set a fuck I don't know.
Speaker 1: Ooh ooh, okay, So I do like this one because
Speaker 1: a lot of times we get into casual fuck buddy
Speaker 1: relationships not expecting or wanting anything out of it, and
Speaker 1: it could be for you getting over a previous relationship.
Speaker 3: It could just be your mental health.
Speaker 1: It could be you're just not in a place where
Speaker 1: you want the responsibility of a relationship. For this though,
Speaker 1: and I think I want to say this to any
Speaker 1: woman listening to this in twenties twenty five, stop putting
Speaker 1: the ball in the man's court. So for this, she's like,
Speaker 1: should I just go with the flow? Should I ask
Speaker 1: him to be our man? Court?
Speaker 3: Well, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: The fact that she's saying no, no, going with the
Speaker 1: flow is absolutely putting in She said, should I ask him? Well,
Speaker 1: that's where I'm That's what I wanted to respond to.
Speaker 1: So the should I ask him to be my man?
Speaker 1: If you want him to be your man, those conversations
Speaker 1: need to be happening right now. You are going with
Speaker 1: the flow, You're going from the bedroom to now being
Speaker 1: out in public, and you seem to really be enjoying him.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a you ask a man to
Speaker 3: be your man.
Speaker 1: I think it's having an adult fucking conversation and saying, Yo,
Speaker 1: how do you feel about me?
Speaker 3: Where this is a new change of pace? What are
Speaker 3: we doing?
Speaker 1: Would you like something? What does a relationship with you
Speaker 1: look like? I think it's so communicating. Can I ask if?
Speaker 1: Can I ask him like why the change of heart?
Speaker 3: I don't like that question. I hate that question. You
Speaker 3: just said, though, No, no, no, no, what do you want?
Speaker 1: I'm talking about relationship wise, like what do you want
Speaker 1: in a relationship? Because if she clearly thinking I'm going
Speaker 1: to ask him to be my man, she wants a
Speaker 1: relationship probably with this person, right, so that other question
Speaker 1: of why the change of pace? No, I think you
Speaker 1: need to immediately go into Hey, I like what this
Speaker 1: feels like. Are you open to a relationship right now?
Speaker 1: What does a relationship look like for you? Would you
Speaker 1: like me to be your girlfriend? That's asking it hard
Speaker 1: to be his man. But I don't like the question
Speaker 1: of why the change of pace? I don't like a
Speaker 1: woman all because I'm not gonna lie it that question specifically,
Speaker 1: I didn't like why the change of pace? Almost this
Speaker 1: makes it seem like you're questioning why you deserve it.
Speaker 1: I actually disagree why I love that question.
Speaker 3: I think I hate that question.
Speaker 2: I think it is so direct in asking someone what
Speaker 2: about what you're looking for changed? Because I think that's
Speaker 2: a different question. No, like she said, can I ask
Speaker 2: him why a sudden change of heart. I've definitely asked
Speaker 2: that and it's worked in my favor.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Do you think there
Speaker 1: is a change of heart? She said, they've been fucked
Speaker 1: buddies since June of twenty twenty. It is yes, yes,
Speaker 1: you be reading and don't know what you be reading.
Speaker 1: They've been fucking since June of twenty twenty. So, Bro,
Speaker 1: five years of fucking a guy, him wanting to just
Speaker 1: go out with you may not be anything for real,
Speaker 1: for real, Okay, so I'm gonna be real, Bro, you've
Speaker 1: been fucking for five years, not saying that he's not interested.
Speaker 3: However, now that brings out at different point.
Speaker 2: I felt like this the whole time, and now that
Speaker 2: I know June twenty twenty, it solidifies it. I think
Speaker 2: that our fuck buddies from a cash standpoint, become a
Speaker 2: place of trust after a while, and so when there's
Speaker 2: someone that you need a little bit more intimacy or
Speaker 2: fun times with, it could fluctuate based on my rosters
Speaker 2: low et cetera. Sex and the City, y'all know, I'll
Speaker 2: talk about it all the time, but there's a Sex
Speaker 2: in the City episode called Fuck Buddy and Carrie has
Speaker 2: been fucking this nigga on and off for years and
Speaker 2: looks at him differently one day and it's like, should
Speaker 2: we go on a date?
Speaker 1: So he comes over and she tries to pitch the date.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I mean dinner's at a suit you know,
Speaker 2: reservations at a sushi restaurant. He looks at her pussy
Speaker 2: he goes, oh yeah. She's like no, like it's real,
Speaker 2: And Samantha's like, why would you do that?
Speaker 1: And like, don't date him, he's just for sex.
Speaker 3: Oh, And it ended up going poorly, of course.
Speaker 2: I really do think when you have a safe space
Speaker 2: for sex, don't ruin it.
Speaker 3: I wait, really, I'm shocked you said.
Speaker 1: So if you have a safe space for sex, which
Speaker 1: takes so many people so long to get to.
Speaker 3: Whether they're together or not.
Speaker 1: Bro, you're saying not to ruin that by potentially making
Speaker 1: this person a partner. What you're saying, how is it shocking? Bitch?
Speaker 3: Are you serious?
Speaker 1: Mandy? Whenever I stopped dating somebody, I got it there
Speaker 1: to hit up old hose.
Speaker 3: Okay, but that's because you're horny.
Speaker 2: Hold on, but what I started doing me Take it
Speaker 2: from me, sister. I lovey dovey bitch always end up
Speaker 2: wanting to kind of be boyfriend girl to these niggas, right,
Speaker 2: I start doing too much with the fuck buddies and
Speaker 2: then I lose them.
Speaker 3: I love that you just admitted that.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows that, and.
Speaker 2: So the problem is I should have just left them
Speaker 2: niggas to be dick. Now that you're interested, all it
Speaker 2: means to me is you don't have enough hosey.
Speaker 3: Y'all will say, though.
Speaker 1: This does see mutual. He took her to a Calvs game.
Speaker 1: She took him out to celebrate for his new job promotion.
Speaker 1: This does see mutual. However, like you said, it could
Speaker 1: just be maybe the bitch he was dating, maybe they
Speaker 1: fell out and he just wants somebody to go out with.
Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be with you,
Speaker 1: just because y'all are now going.
Speaker 2: Out someone to eat smoking fuck when you're single, Like seriously,
Speaker 2: like that is a gift, bitch.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not gonna lie that was an issue like
Speaker 1: with my last relationship, because you want to keep breaking
Speaker 1: up with me, nigga. I got niggas that I actually
Speaker 1: enjoy being around that I would never be with that.
Speaker 1: I can call, and I think all women have that.
Speaker 1: All women have that person unless you're a me and
Speaker 1: you fucking start dating niggas or it's gonna be a
Speaker 1: you bitch. Oh yeah, no, Now if you really are
Speaker 1: interested in me, well, she said, and she looked at
Speaker 1: him as a twenty four cents it's too far, it's
Speaker 1: too far gone. Just fucking do it. I don't think
Speaker 1: the change what part is too far gone? She already
Speaker 1: is into them. I can't go back, so I would ask.
Speaker 2: I don't think, Amandy. I don't think it's a bad
Speaker 2: question to say, why the change of heart? They've been
Speaker 2: fucking for years and it's like, all right, well why
Speaker 2: are we going on dates?
Speaker 1: Now? What do you look?
Speaker 3: So then you know what.
Speaker 1: My advice for you then will be to be ready
Speaker 1: to accept. He just wanted to go to a cash game.
Speaker 1: He just wanted to go out. And it means nothing
Speaker 1: if if one of your questions was should I just
Speaker 1: ask him doing my man? I do want you to
Speaker 1: prepare yourself for the possible rejection that he's actually not
Speaker 1: looking for anything with you, that he just has found
Speaker 1: someone that he enjoys being around, he enjoys fucking and
Speaker 1: sucking and that's it. And I think that that's where
Speaker 1: she has to prepare herself, because that could seem like
Speaker 1: such a low blow that you may, like weezy, end
Speaker 1: up ruining your goddamn five years the change.
Speaker 2: The reason I like that question is it because it
Speaker 2: doesn't expose her as I'm into him. It's just like,
Speaker 2: why are you changing this up?
Speaker 3: My problem is though we know that she's clearly into him.
Speaker 1: Now we know that. That's why, girl, you have to
Speaker 1: prepare yourself for his answer to be Oh, I ain't
Speaker 1: looking enough, boy said to me once, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I wish women knew this. He had a fuck buddy.
Speaker 2: And he's like, damn, I hate this shit is switching
Speaker 2: up with her. And I was like, well, how do
Speaker 2: you know what is going on? He's like, I could
Speaker 2: tell from the way that she texts me this shit
Speaker 2: is switching up.
Speaker 3: Oh, because she's starting to like him.
Speaker 1: He's like, she wants to include me in random irritations
Speaker 1: at work. She's fucking telling me about shit that don't
Speaker 1: matter that I don't like some boyfriend shit. He's like,
Speaker 1: it's changing, he said.
Speaker 2: Every time a girl does this, I know they really
Speaker 2: fucking with a nigga. And I was like wow, because
Speaker 2: generally speaking, if we're fucking somebody, we just start doing
Speaker 2: that right right. But he's like, I know the second
Speaker 2: a girl's on me, he's like also coordinated too. He's like,
Speaker 2: when I call them, if they don't pick up, He's like,
Speaker 2: a girl, that's all my dick, it's gonna tell me
Speaker 2: why she can't answer, he said.
Speaker 1: Any other girl is just gonna be like.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm gonna look at the phone. Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: He said that bit would call me back later, he said,
Speaker 2: or with no answer. He said, when a girl's really
Speaker 2: into me, she for some reason feels the need to
Speaker 2: tell me why she didn't answer.
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's the responsibility of a relationship, yup, and it wants
Speaker 1: you to have and he may not want that.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: Some other questions to pose from this that I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about. So when I was.
Speaker 2: Listening to this or reading, excuse me, I wanted to
Speaker 2: ask you, do you look at grand gestures as a
Speaker 2: sign of heavy interest, because to me, when she goes
Speaker 2: we were damn near on the floor, that is a
Speaker 2: grand gesture.
Speaker 1: Not if he has money agree. Like, So if he
Speaker 1: spent a lot of money and doesn't be doesn't seem
Speaker 1: to be in that tax bracket, then yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: big gesture. If he has the money and that's how
Speaker 1: he enjoys the game, I don't view it as a
Speaker 1: big gesture.
Speaker 3: M you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Or maybe his company gave him those tickets. I'll be
Speaker 1: like this when the last time you went to the game.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? I don't. I don't know
Speaker 3: if I view big gestures. That's the thing.
Speaker 1: Big gestures are subjective again to tax brackets and what
Speaker 1: they do. On the norm. Thoughtful gestures will make me
Speaker 1: think and is interested. So to me, the gesture of
Speaker 1: buying tickets are coming to one of our live shows.
Speaker 3: That support. Support means a lot.
Speaker 1: If you're interested, you want to support what I'm doing
Speaker 1: in life. I do think birthdays and holidays those are
Speaker 1: thoughtful gestures because those are times where.
Speaker 3: It means them.
Speaker 1: Okay, so he was being but grand gestures.
Speaker 3: That's subjective.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a really good answer.
Speaker 2: Now, what are ways in the beginning of a fuck
Speaker 2: buddy that you can express express intentions?
Speaker 3: Because I want to just tell you easy tell them
Speaker 3: to leave.
Speaker 1: After no, no, no, I.
Speaker 2: Was going to say, like dating intentions, right, oh so
Speaker 2: our wee buddy that would acquire just like hers, why
Speaker 2: you ain't got a boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Da da.
Speaker 2: He would just start wanting to know more about my
Speaker 2: life period and your life or who you think. So
Speaker 2: when he started to ask those questions, it really confused me.
Speaker 2: And this is where I would say, we got to
Speaker 2: go back to the beginning of the fuck buddy relationship.
Speaker 2: So this is for people that are just starting out
Speaker 2: a fuck buddy relationship.
Speaker 1: Okay, to me, this is when fuck parties happen.
Speaker 2: You go on the first date, there's a vibe, so
Speaker 2: you see each other again the second day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my fuck buddies kind of don't start with dates.
Speaker 1: They start with dick.
Speaker 2: You meet someone, I'm saying, whatever, okay, the second date,
Speaker 2: it's kind of just like, all right, well, it's nothing
Speaker 2: really that deep, but you're good enough.
Speaker 1: You're good looking enough for us to fuck. We have
Speaker 1: a sexual chemistry.
Speaker 2: To me, the fuck buddy relationship starts when by the
Speaker 2: next time you have sex there was nothing pre planned.
Speaker 1: It's just sex. I'm talking about you go over his career.
Speaker 1: The NIGG don't even cook like it is just just sex.
Speaker 2: Y'all have both now confirmed this is going to be
Speaker 2: a sexual relationship.
Speaker 1: I don't think you could pivot back.
Speaker 2: I think when you are looking to date somebody, that
Speaker 2: shit has to be before the sex premeditated.
Speaker 1: It can't just be a pull up. You're fucked after that,
Speaker 1: because now you set the tone, and I don't think
Speaker 1: you're fuck buddy. Asking you who else you're talking to
Speaker 1: or dating or why you're single even means they're interested either.
Speaker 3: A lot of men are insecure.
Speaker 1: A lot of men also want to keep in their mind, Oh,
Speaker 1: this is just a fuck buddy, I know she fucking
Speaker 1: other people. She oh like. Men also just want to
Speaker 1: make sure they keep you in that fuck buddy lane
Speaker 1: as well. They want to know that you're seeing other
Speaker 1: niggas so they know that, oh, I ain't got to
Speaker 1: do nothing because she got someone else's going to.
Speaker 2: Niggas just want to be the only one period. That
Speaker 2: doesn't even mean they like you, No, it doesn't. They
Speaker 2: are so fit.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: My nigga says something that that bothered me so much
Speaker 2: one time, and I know he was laughing about it
Speaker 2: because he's.
Speaker 1: Like, who cares and I'm like, no, nigga, because you
Speaker 1: like this a little bit. So, oh, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: I told I told Doc. If you guys are not
Speaker 1: on Patreon, there's some new introduction names. So me and
Speaker 1: Doc have been talking a lot. He's like, clearly this
Speaker 1: isn't just like a one time thing, and so I've
Speaker 1: said okay, So I like had to kind of let
Speaker 1: him know while I I'm talking to two other people
Speaker 1: that I actually have interest in right now, because it's
Speaker 1: gotten to where he's like, I'm not gonna go fly
Speaker 1: and see this other woman because I like kind of
Speaker 1: what this is like. And I know if I go
Speaker 1: see that other woman there's intent there. But I'm planning
Speaker 1: on coming to Atlanta. So and I'm just like I
Speaker 1: had to let him know. And he said, Okay, I
Speaker 1: understand that we just met and we're just clearly both
Speaker 1: immediate interests, immediate sex chemistry, and but I like these
Speaker 1: other two guys, and so he said, if you can
Speaker 1: just let me know if you have sex with them,
Speaker 1: and I said, okay, well he's if he's coming here.
Speaker 1: We both like he's very big with getting tested after
Speaker 1: every partner and stuff, and he just got tested after
Speaker 1: we had sex, and I'm about to get tested. But
Speaker 1: on Monday, sup protected absolutely Okay, Oh bitch, when I
Speaker 1: sucked the couple, bitch, he was, oh, let me see
Speaker 1: if he looked like a doctor. Well, well, bitch, I
Speaker 1: love adopted it. Don't look like a doctor. He doesn't.
Speaker 3: He just said. They just said. He just said, they
Speaker 3: made him tuck his chain in at the hospital.
Speaker 1: So with blue eyes, he's black. Don't do that. I
Speaker 1: guess he's fucking black, you ass I know he does
Speaker 1: look kind of Dominican. No, he looks like that nigga
Speaker 1: that she was talking to him. Family. I hate man
Speaker 1: with better hair than me, such gorgeous hair, which happens
Speaker 1: every time.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm ball heads. So all the niggas got better
Speaker 3: head than I.
Speaker 1: Do?
Speaker 3: You have more?
Speaker 1: You like a little Chico?
Speaker 3: He not Chico. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: He is not Chico. You love Chico? Ho exactly, don't
Speaker 1: do that? We black home.
Speaker 2: No, So, no, he looks like I think I could
Speaker 2: see the doctor. But but you did just show me
Speaker 2: that PHOTOSO.
Speaker 3: Yeah, showed you his goddamn graduation.
Speaker 2: But so I was gonna say, uh, I'm actually gonna
Speaker 2: save my little tea for another time with me and
Speaker 2: my nigga. But as far as being the only one,
Speaker 2: it's very interesting how men like to put that, oh,
Speaker 2: let me know, let me know, because I'll take.
Speaker 1: Not even a let me know if you fucked the
Speaker 1: first time, because of the interest and how we text
Speaker 1: after he actually said that, the way we've been texting
Speaker 1: lets me know that that wasn't gonna be a one
Speaker 1: nice Fand so he came to me, he was like, so,
Speaker 1: what are you looking.
Speaker 2: For, because clearly let me know if you have sex
Speaker 2: with someone else.
Speaker 1: Oh how I feel about that?
Speaker 2: Okay, in the reverse world, I feel like if a
Speaker 2: woman said that to a man she just slept with
Speaker 2: a week ago, it's like, tell you when.
Speaker 1: I'm hoving sex with someone else. What.
Speaker 2: However, there's something about when men do it that feels like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, like we have to be earnest. And
Speaker 2: I think it's mainly because no, no, no, no, no, Jimio,
Speaker 2: that women have to give this up because for some reason,
Speaker 2: we're the ones who aren't supposed to be dating multiple people,
Speaker 2: are having sex with multiple people, and we expect it
Speaker 2: so much with men that we rarely say or make
Speaker 2: comments like let me know when you fuck someone else
Speaker 2: after the first time, which, by the way, you need
Speaker 2: to join patreons so you could hear about Manny's first
Speaker 2: time having sex up with.
Speaker 1: Someone, but yeah, let me know. Did you tell to
Speaker 1: let you know?
Speaker 3: So that's something that I don't care about.
Speaker 1: But I do even have like my other boom uh,
Speaker 1: and he like likes to know when I do anything
Speaker 1: with anybody. I don't know what I'm not gonna say,
Speaker 1: don't even birthday, yes, my birthday president or I think
Speaker 1: it is maybe a king for him.
Speaker 3: And a lot of my guys are that way.
Speaker 1: So to me. Even the fact that before we even fucked,
Speaker 1: I let him know I have condoms and test results
Speaker 1: for him, I think I just met someone who's open
Speaker 1: with talking about what our sex fives look like outside
Speaker 1: of each other. He doesn't want to know what you both.
Speaker 1: I don't mind that talking about it's because of my results.
Speaker 1: I don't know already told him I have feelings for
Speaker 1: two other men that I'm dating right now.
Speaker 3: Well, you just met him and I did so, and
Speaker 3: I let him know. But I also really like you.
Speaker 1: So he's got to put some work.
Speaker 3: So we just got to see, it's hunger games for
Speaker 3: me right now. All of these niggas could.
Speaker 1: Be my man, but none of them are are.
Speaker 2: In a very like one of my home girls text us.
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm in my dark fan era. She's like,
Speaker 2: last week I was upset over a nigga, and she's
Speaker 2: like this week, one ex coming back talking about he
Speaker 2: loved me, another one saying what do you want for
Speaker 2: your birthday? Another one saying, oh it's cold, we should
Speaker 2: go take a trip. She's like, what the fuck just happened?
Speaker 2: I'm telling you what is it about? Someone tell me
Speaker 2: the science? Ask science, babe? Why is it when you
Speaker 2: got a nigga? You got one, two, three, four? Come
Speaker 2: when you got none?
Speaker 1: Why is there drought? Well? Now active bab being around
Speaker 1: for a while, we're just now getting a little bit more.
Speaker 2: That kiss needs to happen immediately. Well he'll be in
Speaker 2: Vegas ves Oh my god, I don't know if I'm
Speaker 2: ready for that shot.
Speaker 1: Why not? I don't know. Another couple.
Speaker 2: My girl who's doing my makeup, Mia, so fuse put
Speaker 2: them up at the fountain Blue. I was like, bring
Speaker 2: your niggas, so might be saying no, that'll be cute.
Speaker 2: We'll all be in the same hotel. No, I'm not
Speaker 2: saying at the mountain, oh you're not okay, But I
Speaker 2: think it's great to like, uh, I like to do
Speaker 2: double dates, and I'll tell you why, not saying we
Speaker 2: have to do it. But this is really for anyone
Speaker 2: will do a double date episode. I love seeing how
Speaker 2: a man acts around the friends. And also something I've
Speaker 2: always peeped from double dates. Tell me if you notice this.
Speaker 1: I ain't been on a double day ger Okay.
Speaker 2: A lot of double dates the couple start to get
Speaker 2: competitive and they be like, oh, he is this, or
Speaker 2: he does this, or it gets into this teasing thing
Speaker 2: where like oh, you know she'd be doing this ha,
Speaker 2: and it kind of like they put you down in
Speaker 2: front of other people.
Speaker 1: I've seen so many different double date ways.
Speaker 3: That doesn't sound like fun to me, but it's.
Speaker 2: Very interesting and telling to see how your partner acts
Speaker 2: in front of another couple while in a couple, how.
Speaker 1: They treat you.
Speaker 2: It's just a very cool dynamic that a lot of
Speaker 2: people don't get to see firsthand. Also, you get to
Speaker 2: experience and sometimes if you've never been on a double date,
Speaker 2: when you're out at a bar, and you talk to
Speaker 2: another couple. Just being around other people, how does he
Speaker 2: treat you when you're like in that space. I love
Speaker 2: to see that, genuinely, Like, it's very interesting to me
Speaker 2: to see the dynamics of someone when we're around other people.
Speaker 3: Okay, test it out.
Speaker 1: I mean I did it with my ex, but more
Speaker 1: with like uh Luis and morgana like the sex club group,
Speaker 1: and we were all friends, so it didn't feel like
Speaker 1: a double day. It's like he was just hanging out.
Speaker 1: The advice is, don't start a fuck buddy relationship if
Speaker 1: you might want to be with him, because it's really
Speaker 1: hard to switch up.
Speaker 3: That's just what it is, and that's it.
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