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Speaker 3: You've got decisions?

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Speaker 1: Back at it again, You've got decisions on a Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: This girl, her letter wasn't really that much tea, but

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Speaker 2: I felt like we could bring in a few topics

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Speaker 1: Dating, and what do I do? It's like bitch a

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Speaker 1: Wasn't that? We're easy, as said, We're gonna have them

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Speaker 1: gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: Look at us?

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Speaker 1: Are you reading the letter this week? Let's get to

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Speaker 1: Hey Weezy, Hey Mandy, it's me Key from Clee. I'll

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Speaker 1: be on the towel halls and I've Metro at the

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Speaker 1: Roots picnic. And here's my dilemma. I've had a guy

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Speaker 1: that's been my fuck buddy since June of twenty twenty,

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Speaker 2: At anything and come to him, or he'd come to me,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, huh, because that I was so random

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Speaker 1: So here's my dilemma.

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Speaker 2: Would I be overstepping if I asked him why the

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Speaker 2: And Samantha's like, why would you do that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, but that's because you're horny.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, but what I started doing me Take it

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Speaker 2: So the problem is I should have just left them

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Speaker 3: Y'all will say, though.

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Speaker 1: This does see mutual. He took her to a Calvs game.

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Speaker 1: This does see mutual. However, like you said, it could

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Speaker 3: My problem is though we know that she's clearly into him.

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Speaker 1: Now we know that. That's why, girl, you have to

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Speaker 3: Because I want to just tell you easy tell them

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Speaker 2: Was going to say, like dating intentions, right, oh so

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Speaker 1: Da da.

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Speaker 2: He would just start wanting to know more about my

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Speaker 2: And this is where I would say, we got to

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Speaker 1: Okay, to me, this is when fuck parties happen.

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Speaker 2: You go on the first date, there's a vibe, so

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my fuck buddies kind of don't start with dates.

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Speaker 2: You meet someone, I'm saying, whatever, okay, the second date,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of just like, all right, well, it's nothing

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Speaker 1: You're good looking enough for us to fuck. We have

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Speaker 2: To me, the fuck buddy relationship starts when by the

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Speaker 2: next time you have sex there was nothing pre planned.

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Speaker 1: It's just sex. I'm talking about you go over his career.

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Speaker 1: The NIGG don't even cook like it is just just sex.

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Speaker 2: Y'all have both now confirmed this is going to be

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Speaker 1: I don't think you could pivot back.

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Speaker 1: because now you set the tone, and I don't think

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Speaker 1: you're fuck buddy. Asking you who else you're talking to

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Speaker 3: A lot of men are insecure.

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Speaker 1: A lot of men also want to keep in their mind, Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is just a fuck buddy, I know she fucking

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Speaker 1: other people. She oh like. Men also just want to

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Speaker 1: make sure they keep you in that fuck buddy lane

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Speaker 1: as well. They want to know that you're seeing other

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Speaker 1: niggas so they know that, oh, I ain't got to

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Speaker 2: Niggas just want to be the only one period. That

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Speaker 2: doesn't even mean they like you, No, it doesn't. They

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 2: My nigga says something that that bothered me so much

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Speaker 1: Like, who cares and I'm like, no, nigga, because you

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Speaker 1: sucked the couple, bitch, he was, oh, let me see

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Speaker 1: if he looked like a doctor. Well, well, bitch, I

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Speaker 1: love adopted it. Don't look like a doctor. He doesn't.

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Speaker 3: He just said. They just said. He just said, they

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Speaker 1: So with blue eyes, he's black. Don't do that. I

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Speaker 1: guess he's fucking black, you ass I know he does

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Speaker 1: look kind of Dominican. No, he looks like that nigga

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Speaker 1: that she was talking to him. Family. I hate man

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Speaker 1: with better hair than me, such gorgeous hair, which happens

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm ball heads. So all the niggas got better

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Speaker 1: Do?

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Speaker 3: You have more?

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Speaker 1: You like a little Chico?

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Speaker 3: He not Chico. Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: He is not Chico. You love Chico? Ho exactly, don't

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Speaker 1: do that? We black home.

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Speaker 2: No, So, no, he looks like I think I could

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Speaker 3: Yeah, showed you his goddamn graduation.

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Speaker 2: But so I was gonna say, uh, I'm actually gonna

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Speaker 2: my nigga. But as far as being the only one,

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Speaker 2: it's very interesting how men like to put that, oh,

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Speaker 2: let me know, let me know, because I'll take.

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Speaker 2: For, because clearly let me know if you have sex

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Speaker 1: Oh how I feel about that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, in the reverse world, I feel like if a

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Speaker 2: However, there's something about when men do it that feels like,

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Speaker 1: Someone, but yeah, let me know. Did you tell to

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Speaker 3: So that's something that I don't care about.

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Speaker 3: And a lot of my guys are that way.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind that talking about it's because of my results.

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Speaker 1: I don't know already told him I have feelings for

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Speaker 3: Well, you just met him and I did so, and

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Speaker 3: I let him know. But I also really like you.

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Speaker 3: So we just got to see, it's hunger games for

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Speaker 3: me right now. All of these niggas could.

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Speaker 2: In a very like one of my home girls text us.

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Speaker 2: when you got none?

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Speaker 1: Why is there drought? Well? Now active bab being around

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Speaker 1: for a while, we're just now getting a little bit more.

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Speaker 2: That kiss needs to happen immediately. Well he'll be in

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Speaker 2: Vegas ves Oh my god, I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 2: ready for that shot.

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Speaker 1: Why not? I don't know. Another couple.

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Speaker 2: My girl who's doing my makeup, Mia, so fuse put

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Speaker 2: them up at the fountain Blue. I was like, bring

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Speaker 2: your niggas, so might be saying no, that'll be cute.

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Speaker 2: We'll all be in the same hotel. No, I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying at the mountain, oh you're not okay, But I

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Speaker 2: think it's great to like, uh, I like to do

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Speaker 2: double dates, and I'll tell you why, not saying we

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Speaker 2: have to do it. But this is really for anyone

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Speaker 2: will do a double date episode. I love seeing how

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Speaker 2: a man acts around the friends. And also something I've

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Speaker 2: always peeped from double dates. Tell me if you notice this.

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Speaker 1: I ain't been on a double day ger Okay.

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Speaker 2: A lot of double dates the couple start to get

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Speaker 2: competitive and they be like, oh, he is this, or

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Speaker 2: he does this, or it gets into this teasing thing

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Speaker 2: where like oh, you know she'd be doing this ha,

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Speaker 2: and it kind of like they put you down in

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Speaker 2: front of other people.

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Speaker 1: I've seen so many different double date ways.

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Speaker 3: That doesn't sound like fun to me, but it's.

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Speaker 2: Very interesting and telling to see how your partner acts

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Speaker 2: in front of another couple while in a couple, how.

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Speaker 1: They treat you.

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Speaker 2: It's just a very cool dynamic that a lot of

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Speaker 2: people don't get to see firsthand. Also, you get to

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Speaker 2: experience and sometimes if you've never been on a double date,

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Speaker 2: when you're out at a bar, and you talk to

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Speaker 2: another couple. Just being around other people, how does he

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Speaker 2: treat you when you're like in that space. I love

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Speaker 2: to see that, genuinely, Like, it's very interesting to me

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Speaker 2: to see the dynamics of someone when we're around other people.

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Speaker 3: Okay, test it out.

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Speaker 1: I mean I did it with my ex, but more

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Speaker 1: with like uh Luis and morgana like the sex club group,

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Speaker 1: and we were all friends, so it didn't feel like

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Speaker 1: a double day. It's like he was just hanging out.

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Speaker 1: The advice is, don't start a fuck buddy relationship if

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Speaker 1: you might want to be with him, because it's really

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Speaker 1: hard to switch up.

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Speaker 3: That's just what it is, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: Decisions Pod at gmail dot com. Send us your questions

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Speaker 1: in and we'll see you next week.

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Speaker 3: That's why.

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Speaker 1: By y'all,