1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to another episode of Bachelor Happy Hour. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and we are. 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: So lucky to have me one and only Jesse Palmer 4 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: in the studio, even though we're not in the studio. Jesse, 5 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 1: how you doing, Welcome to the pod. 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 3: I'm doing awesome. I'm awesome. How are you guys? Congratulations? 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 4: First off, I know we were talking about it a 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 4: little bit before we got started, but the wedding in 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 4: Charleston looked absolutely amazing. 10 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: It was it was we're still we're still recovering. Also, 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: congratulations to you and Emily. Baby girl, baby girl on 12 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: the way. 13 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: Baby Girl on the way in January. 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: I know, all the feels amazing, Yeah, all. 15 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 3: The feels excited, freaked out. 16 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 5: Did you want like, did you have a strong feeling 17 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 5: boy or girl? 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 2: Like, did you have a prediction or one that you 19 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 2: were hoping for? 20 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 4: Well, the odds in Vegas had boy and it was 21 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 4: pretty It was pretty heavy in Vegas because in my 22 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 4: family it's Chiss boys, two brothers, I have four nephews, 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 4: Like don't make girls in our family. So that's why 24 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 4: I was really hoping it was going to be a 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 4: girl and when we found out it was a girl, 26 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 4: I was just so excited and then and then it 27 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 4: was kind of like right away, I thought, like, what 28 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: do I how do I do this? I don't have 29 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 4: a sister, and I don't know, I don't have any 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 4: experience being a girl dad. You know, I'm going to 31 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 4: have to figure this out on the fly. But I 32 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 4: am so thrilled, so thrilled. 33 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: You're going to be an amazing girl dad. 34 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 5: You're the girl dad of bachelination, the girl and boy 35 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 5: dad of bacheloration. 36 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 4: I'm like Uncle Jesse a bacheloration. Yeah, yes, yeah, I 37 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 4: know how to handle drama. At least I figured that out. 38 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 5: You know, way more about girl drama than most dads does. 39 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: Does Emily have any siblings. 40 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 4: She's got a sister and a brother, and she's got nieces. 41 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 4: Emily's so ready for this. She's locked and loaded, like like, 42 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 4: baby's going to be speaking Portuguese before she speaks English, 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 4: and I'm putting a tennis racket in her hand. By 44 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 4: the third Yeah, we got Yeah, so it's you know, 45 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 4: we got small parts of it I think figured out. 46 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 4: But I knew from the day I think I met Emily. 47 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 4: I knew she was going to be an amazing mom. 48 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 4: She just has that natural maternal instinct that you can 49 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 4: just sort of feel and see. Anytime there's a little 50 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 4: baby near us, Emily just takes over and it's just 51 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 4: it's amazing to watch. 52 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: So I was really hopeful. 53 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 4: When I met her that, you know, I wanted to 54 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 4: have a family one day, and it was important to 55 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 4: meet someone that I knew it was going to be 56 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 4: a great example to our children. 57 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 3: Emily's absolutely that. 58 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 4: I feel pressure now to live up to Emily and 59 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 4: kind of her standard. You know, you go through, like 60 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 4: I've thought about it so many times, insecurities and am 61 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 4: I going to be enough? 62 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 3: Am I going to know what to say? 63 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 4: The other day we just had like Emily and I 64 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 4: had these crazy conversations all the time. We're sitting at 65 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 4: the table and I'm like, you know, I think it's 66 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 4: really important that we teach our daughter about integrity. 67 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 3: And she's like, that sounds great. How do you do 68 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: that truly? 69 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 4: Well, integrity is like doing what you say you're going 70 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 4: to do, right. She's like, yeah, Like give an example, 71 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 4: and I'm like I'll get back, I'll get back. 72 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 3: Think about that. 73 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,839 Speaker 5: Just things that you would never think about until you're 74 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 5: in the position, like I can honestly say, I've never 75 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 5: thought about what it looks like to teach your child 76 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 5: about integrity. 77 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I don't know, it's you know it. 78 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 4: I think all I can do is, like, you know, 79 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 4: and Emily and I say this is, let's just love 80 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 4: our daughter as much as we can. 81 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: Let's just pour so much love on her and just 82 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 3: figure it out. 83 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 4: And obviously we have our own our own upbringing, and 84 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 4: you know, things my parents did and things her parents did, 85 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 4: and try to incorporate the stuff we love and leave 86 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 4: out the stuff you don't, and just you know, try 87 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 4: our best. But I just, you know, I'm just so 88 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 4: excited to love this little girl and and figure it out. 89 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 4: Make mistakes because I have zero idea what I'm doing, 90 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 4: Like zero idea. 91 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to make a lot of mistakes. I 92 00:03:55,640 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: feel that. I feel like Emily, well she'll she'll carry 93 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: the load on this one. 94 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 5: But well, as long as you love your daughter, which 95 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 5: you already do, you're going to be great parents and 96 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 5: she's going to be beautiful. 97 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: We're so excited for you, guys. I hope she's feeling okay. 98 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 5: I know, like the first trimester can be tough, but 99 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 5: hopefully you guys want the more fun phase of prepe. 100 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, the golden trimester is the second trimester. Emily's been 101 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 4: a rockstar. Man, she's been She's been awesome. She's really 102 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: she's just you know, I'm kind of always like walking 103 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 4: on egg shelters around her, like is this the day? 104 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 3: Is this the day it's gonna you know? 105 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it hasn't. 106 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 3: It hasn't happened yet. 107 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 4: Emily has been I think that she still likes me, 108 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 4: so we're good. 109 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: That's great. 110 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: How say, how does she handle it? I mean, you've 111 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: got to be wildly busy now football started as well, 112 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: so you're constantly going, how's she dealing with that? 113 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's She's been great, Joe. From from the beginning 114 00:04:55,200 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 4: in our relationship, she's always been super understanding, which which 115 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 4: I appreciate so much. She has given me so much 116 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 4: space to focus and prioritize work, and one of the 117 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 4: things that I'm really excited about now is to put 118 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 4: that priority and focus on family and make more time. 119 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 4: Like I need to slow down. I just need to 120 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 4: do that. 121 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:15,239 Speaker 3: Anyway. 122 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 4: I'm not good at that. I'm go, go, go, It's 123 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 4: like a quarterback in a two minute drill. All the time. 124 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 3: I'm just constantly. 125 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: You're everywhere, You're everywhere, Like if there's an event, Jesse's there. 126 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: Jesse Paul is headlighting every event. 127 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 4: And that's going to have to stop. That's gonna have 128 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 4: to change and and and this is going to do it. 129 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 4: Like I really feel like now the focus can come 130 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 4: back to Emily and the baby and our family, and 131 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 4: I'm so excited about that. Emily is giving me all 132 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 4: the space in the world for the last five six 133 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 4: years to do anything I wanted to do work wise, 134 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 4: and now I'm just excited to kind of hone in 135 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 4: on this nice nice love this. 136 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 1: Oh I got one question for him that you wouldn't 137 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: ask the wrong podcast. Let's let's go National champion prediction 138 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: college football college football. 139 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 3: I'm going to go it's. 140 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 4: Gonna be like I'm gonna say, like just because we 141 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 4: always say Georgia, Alabama, Ohio State going off off the rail, 142 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 4: Florida State. 143 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 3: Michigan, Wow. And I'm gonna go Michigan this year, just 144 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 3: just for a different take. 145 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: You want to know what you want to know what 146 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: I think? Yes, I and I don't buy I don't 147 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: buy into all the noise, even though I am from 148 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: the Midwest. I'm gonna go Notre Dame. 149 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 3: I like it because because you guys can throw the ball. 150 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 4: This year sight Notre Dame for the first time in 151 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 4: a long time is really good, exciting to watch offensively 152 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 4: thrown it all over the yard. They have this quarterback 153 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 4: named Sam Hartman and is lighting it up. Joe's happy. 154 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 4: You're gonna make my brother happy. My brother played for 155 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 4: Notre Dame, so now so palmer House still inspired up. 156 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 5: Joe's I like it as much as much as I'm 157 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 5: sure all of our listeners are here to listen to 158 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 5: college foolfall predictions. 159 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna make a little pivot. 160 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 5: Let's before we get into all the exciting things coming 161 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 5: up in Bostriination, we have to talk about a quick 162 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 5: note on Charity's finale. 163 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: Jesse, Charity and Dotton. 164 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 5: We've got the two lovers out and about how did 165 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 5: that finale go for you? How do you feel about 166 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 5: Charity and Dotton? Are you excited? 167 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, it was great. 168 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 4: First off, it was great having you both there too, 169 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 4: and I'm sure you felt it. I mean, it just 170 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 4: felt like a positive night all night long. There was 171 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 4: just a lot of really good energy. 172 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 3: You know. It was just it felt like I felt 173 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 3: like Oprah. 174 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 4: We were like constantly giving people things and and it 175 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 4: was just a really good feeling. 176 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: It's nice the way, not us. Every time we're sitting there, 177 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm always like, come on, give me, let's go to. 178 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: Get like we have a hide and wool coming up, 179 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: We'll take a trip to Greece. 180 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: We want to free cruise. 181 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. 182 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 3: I know. 183 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 4: You know it was like for Charity and I know 184 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 4: how excited they were for that day to finally come 185 00:07:58,680 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: and to be able to walk out there, to get 186 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 4: as a couple and not keep it a secret anymore. 187 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 4: I remember when we were filming Mentel all Charity and 188 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 4: I were backstage, and you know, I was looking at 189 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 4: her and I'm like, you hanging in any gas left 190 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 4: in the tank? I mean, there's still a few weeks ago. 191 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 4: This is like the hardest time. And she said, I 192 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 4: just cannot wait for after the final rows to walk 193 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 4: out there with my man and just live my life 194 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 4: with them, and she would have our families there. So 195 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 4: I think that celebration of their relationship and their love 196 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 4: and having all those people. Having people like you there, 197 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 4: I think made it so special from the beginning to end. 198 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 4: When I think back to their journey together, anytime I 199 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 4: spoke to Charity off camera and you mentioned the name Dotton, 200 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 4: face just lit up, like you're kind of like, Okay, 201 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 4: well it could be this person or this person, but really, 202 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 4: like deep down inside, when I saw her visceral reaction 203 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 4: to just saying his name, I thought, in the beginning, 204 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 4: I thought, I think it's I think it's not who. 205 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 4: From the beginning really kind of got off to a 206 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 4: slower start than some of the other guys. Didn't have 207 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 4: a one on one day early early, it was you know, 208 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: it was kind of a something that progressed and happened later. 209 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 4: But they're just so right for each other. They're just 210 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 4: their their story I think is magical. I could not 211 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 4: be happier for her to see her dreams come true 212 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 4: like that, and to meet such a wonderful guy, and 213 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 4: to celebrate that all together with so many people of 214 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 4: bacheloration in the audience like yourselves. 215 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 3: For me, it was really special. I thought it was great. 216 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, they're such a beautiful couple, and I think 217 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 5: you hit the nail on the head, Like it was 218 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 5: just such a positive night, like everyone was so happy, 219 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 5: so excited for them, and also so excited for our 220 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 5: new bachelor Joey who I think you start filming the 221 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 5: season soon, right, Yeah. 222 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 4: That's to Joe's point earlier, that is coming up very 223 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 4: very quickly. It's right around the corner and super thrilled, 224 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 4: you know. I remember seeing him a few weeks ago 225 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 4: as well, like right before AFR, and you know, kind 226 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 4: of saying to him, hey, man, like are you you 227 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 4: know he had just found out, like are you are 228 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 4: you ready to be the Bachelor? Like your life's going 229 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 4: to change, and he was like, man, I'm just trying 230 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 4: to come up for Ayer right now and everything that's 231 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 4: just happened with Charity, Like I'm just getting back home 232 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 4: all the stuff that the show's on TV. Like, I 233 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 4: think his world was like just going like a thousand 234 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 4: miles a minute. But at least since I've been hosting 235 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 4: for the last two years, I don't think there's ever 236 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 4: been from a fan standpoint or Bachelor Nation standpoint, a 237 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 4: more unanimous choice to the Bachelor. 238 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 1: I just told Serena that before the podcast. 239 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, it feels like that, right, it's like 240 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 4: in the past, it's like ten percent want this person, 241 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 4: twenty percent that one, thirteen percent that one, and so 242 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 4: you never really make everybody happy based on whoever you pick. 243 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 4: I feel like this is like a grand slam. 244 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 3: Sure. 245 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he's a great dude, like he deserves it. 246 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 4: He you know, great guy. I think he has all 247 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 4: the characteristics and the qualities you're looking for. He was 248 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:59,599 Speaker 4: heartbroken after that goodbye and feed you with Charity. He 249 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 4: really he had fallen in love with her and he 250 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: was really hoping that was going to be it. 251 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 3: That was the one. 252 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 4: I know it took him time to get past that, 253 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 4: but you know, hopefully he has had some time to 254 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 4: kind of settle down and just collect himself emotionally. I 255 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 4: think is the most important thing, because because it's it's 256 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 4: all about to take off. I seldomly get dms on 257 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 4: social media from people wanting to be on someone's show. 258 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,599 Speaker 4: I am getting flooded by women that saw him be 259 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 4: chosen as the Bachelor and are now like, I got 260 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 4: to get on. I've submitted my application. Is there any 261 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 4: way I can go to the front of the line. 262 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 4: Can you get me in front of a producer, which 263 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 4: of course, I can't like that. It's a conflict of interest. 264 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 4: I can't like I have no That's one of the 265 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 4: biggest misconceptions about this is that I get to choose 266 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 4: a who the bachelor is, who goes to Paradise, and 267 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 4: who could come on the show. 268 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 3: That's way about. 269 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 2: People really think you're like running everything, Jesse. 270 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 3: Like, literally, I walk in the room it's the final 271 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 3: ROAs tonight, and I walk out. That's all I do. 272 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 3: That's all I have to do. 273 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 5: Everyone's like, see Palmer must be the head of casting 274 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 5: as well. 275 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 3: I got no power. 276 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like Joey's Joey was the right choice, 277 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: and it's gonna be it's gonna be pretty smooth for you. 278 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: I mean they really threw you in the wall stand 279 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: with Clayton or right away, and then then following it 280 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: up with Gabby and Rachel. I mean you had a wild, 281 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: a wild beginning. 282 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 3: It was good. Yeah. 283 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta just kind of get into the fire, 284 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 4: and all three of them were awesome, you know, and 285 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 4: it was just you know, but when you watch the 286 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 4: show on TV and then you finally get you know, 287 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 4: you get out there and kind. 288 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 3: Of you do it. There were some memorable and some 289 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 3: obviously wild moments. So you know, we'll see how it 290 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 3: goes with Joey. 291 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 5: I meaneah, sure there'll be no shortage of chaos with 292 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 5: Joey either. 293 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: All Right, So you've been doing this now, you've been 294 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: now that we're going on two years, and now there's 295 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: a brand new show, The Golden Bachelor, that you just 296 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: you guys just filmed. Yeah, and it's now about to air. 297 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: How how was that? Was it what you expected? Like, yeah, 298 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: let's give it a little bit of. 299 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 3: A Yeah, it's like it's funny. I didn't really know 300 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 3: what to expect. We had. 301 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 4: I had a lot of questions and like like like 302 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 4: execution questions, like not even big picture things, but more like, hey, 303 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 4: like on the first night, which is the longest night 304 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 4: in TV, at that first row ceremony, we've all been there, 305 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 4: starts at seven ends at eight am, like with a 306 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 4: seventy two year old guy, like are we gonna take naps? 307 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 4: Are we gonna are we gonna get? Is this thing 308 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 4: gonna be over by like MIDNIGHTE? How amazing would that be? 309 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: Are there going to be fantasy sweets? 310 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 5: Like? 311 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 4: Is there gonna be intimacy? Is that like gonna happen, 312 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 4: Like do I have to have that. 313 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 3: Talk with them? 314 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 4: Like, are Gary and I gonna break it down? How 315 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 4: awkward is that going to be? It's like talking to 316 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 4: your dad when you're a kid, like about the birds 317 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 4: and the beat. It's like all the things. 318 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: That already see right already, right right now, it's slow 319 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 1: hanging through, it's right there. Yeah, so it was. 320 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 4: But I got to say, I think we were all 321 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 4: kind of learning as we were going throughout throughout filming. 322 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 4: The most important part and the magic behind all of it. 323 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 4: I know you got you. We all know this is. 324 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 4: It's the people. And Gary's a rock star. Gary's amazing. 325 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 4: He's such a sweet guy. He's had this incredible life. 326 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 4: He's lived so much. He's got so much knowledge. He's 327 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 4: one of He's so emotionally intelligent. He's so good with 328 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 4: his words. He's the best I've ever seen since I've 329 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 4: been hosting at walking in the room before a Rose 330 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 4: ceremony and addressing the ladies. Just the things he says, 331 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: it's eloquent, it's it just hits the nail on the head. 332 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 3: He's he was, he was just so ready for this. 333 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 4: He's experienced unbelievable tragedy and loss in his life, and 334 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 4: he's ready for this opportunity to find his person. The 335 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 4: women were amazing. The women are amazing, and you're going 336 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 4: to see that Night one. I knew right away. As 337 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 4: soon as these women got out of the limo. I 338 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 4: was like, this is this is a home run. These 339 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 4: women are awesome. Every other show, every Bachelor show I've hosted, 340 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 4: I watched or Bachelorette. I watch people get out of 341 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 4: the limo Night one, they get to the mansion. They're 342 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 4: freaking out rightfully. So there's cameras everywhere. You know, you've 343 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 4: never been in that environment. You forget what you're gonna 344 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 4: say when you walk up to the person, you forget 345 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 4: your name. You do that, you might have to do 346 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 4: it again. Take another, take all this stuff. Every single 347 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 4: one of these women came out of a limo guys, 348 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 4: and they blushed it so confident, so confident, like they 349 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 4: were rolling up. They had their spiel, they had their stick, 350 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 4: they said what they wanted to say. They were flirty, 351 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 4: they were whatever they were doing. It was like one 352 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 4: after another after another after another, and I was just 353 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 4: standing there thinking, this is incredible, Like it's just it was. 354 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 4: It was wild just to kind of see that different 355 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 4: dynamic in front of the mansion and a familiar setting 356 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 4: that we've seen over and over and over again. But 357 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 4: I think the cast is what's really going to make 358 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 4: this season so special and unique because they everybody was amazing. 359 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: Was there ever a moment during the season where you 360 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: kind of just like looked looked onto the group of 361 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: women and thought like, this is so similar, but what 362 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: the fuck is he like this? 363 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, like you know, yes, it was the first it 364 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 4: was the first date card drop off, So it's the 365 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 4: morning after the very first row ceremony. You're going in 366 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 4: and it was like that giant couch full of grand 367 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 4: like your grandma's that talk a lot, Yeah, and it's 368 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 4: like you're Italian, No, no, who's just sitting there and 369 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 4: she's like telling you all this stuff and she's like, like, 370 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 4: first off, walking in the house, the kitchen smelled amazing. 371 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 4: It was the best the kitchen you have, legendary, Like 372 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 4: these women were cooking up a feast. They were all 373 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 4: in there and it was like Thunday sauce and they're 374 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 4: doing all their like and they're all helping each other 375 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 4: and plaiting. It was like you go in on the 376 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 4: bachelorette first night, all the dudes are in there, like hungover, 377 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 4: and it smells like burnt eggs and like Mimosa's, it's brutal. 378 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: This was it smelt way better. 379 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 4: But then getting there and seeing them all and you 380 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 4: like ask them one question and you're you're just going 381 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 4: to get an answer from this woman. And then like 382 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 4: seventeen of them get a turn and they're taking it off. 383 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 3: And they're asking me questions and where did you grow up? Yeah, 384 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 3: you look like you have a nice mom. I bet you, 385 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 3: I bet you have a nice Yeah. 386 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, are you getting any Oh, Jesse, 387 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: you're such a cute boy, like any of that. 388 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, squeezing the cheese and little they're such a good kid. 389 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 3: Really, you got a very you got a very nice voice. 390 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 3: That boy, Jesse, he's got a nice voice. He's real. 391 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: You're walking out, You're like, what's this. It was a 392 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 3: completely different vibe to it. It's just very loving and 393 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 3: nurturing women who who have kids, a lot of them 394 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 3: have grandkids. I mean they're just that's just who they are, 395 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 3: and they're just very they're just very loving people, and 396 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 3: so it was really nice to be in that kind 397 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 3: of environment. 398 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:56,239 Speaker 2: I'm so excited to get to meet some of them. 399 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we got to see some drama, right, I mean, 400 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: they some of them, even though they're they're probably wonderful, 401 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: just just great women. They some of them got to 402 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: be ready to roll. 403 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 4: I agree, But yeah, so like that, that was one 404 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 4: of the things I was wondering too, Jog. I was like, Okay, well, 405 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 4: surely like a seventy year old woman's not going to 406 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 4: fall for the same stuff that a twenty two year 407 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 4: old does on the show, like that, they're they've got 408 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 4: more emotional uh stamina to deal with this, and sure not, 409 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 4: like sure enough for a few days. 410 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 6: It all, you know, all put a bunch of women 411 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 6: in a bunch of bunk beds in the house, you know, 412 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 6: and all of a sudden, you know, it's just some 413 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 6: stuff happens, and some of it get gets brought to 414 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 6: Gary's attention and he's kind of. 415 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 4: Like like, what are do I have to moderate this? 416 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 3: Like how how are we handling all this? And he 417 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 3: did a phenomenal job. 418 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 4: But you know that there'll be some themes that I 419 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 4: think people at home will be very, very very familiar 420 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 4: with when they're watching. 421 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, I'm excited to see like the parallels 422 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 5: between Like it's the same format, it's the same show, 423 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 5: like it's The Bachelor, just with a different generation of cast. Yeah, 424 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 5: so like the things that are like like you said, 425 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 5: like coming in for the first date card and they're 426 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 5: all sitting on the couch and like seeing those similarities, 427 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 5: but then also how it unfolds differently because of the 428 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 5: differences in the cast. Is there anything that you learn 429 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 5: from doing The Golden Bachelor that maybe you're going to 430 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 5: take in to your time on The Bachelor and The 431 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 5: Bachelorette moving forward. 432 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I don't know, it's interesting, Like it's 433 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:34,719 Speaker 4: always one of those things. I feel like, you know, 434 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 4: you get done shooting it and then you kind of 435 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 4: think back on it a little bit. The show will 436 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 4: come out on there, you'll sort of watch yourself back 437 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 4: and see all the things that happened. 438 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 439 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 4: I don't know for me personally if there would be 440 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 4: like a stylistic change in anything that I do moving forward. 441 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 3: I think more than anything, I'm. 442 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 4: Just going to really appreciate sort of the moments that 443 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 4: I had and the advice I got. You know, normally 444 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 4: I'm the one giving people some advice I think you 445 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 4: should do in a situation, or you know, if I 446 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 4: ever have a little remedy from something that happened in 447 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 4: a past relationship. For me, I had nothing I could 448 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 4: tell Gary or any of these women on love, on intimacy, 449 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 4: on anything like that. 450 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: I tell you, Jesse, Jesse, say that line, Jesse, you 451 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: could do so much better. 452 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 3: Really feel it, feel it, Please say you're goodbyes. 453 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: Always is Jesse constantly breaking down at it. 454 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 3: I was like, Hi, I had so much confidence going 455 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 3: into the season. It's so true. 456 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 4: It's like they they just they were giving me advice. 457 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 4: And Gary had me on the edge of my seat 458 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 4: talking about love and relationships, and you know, I want 459 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 4: to have the love with Emily that Gary had with 460 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 4: Tony for decades. You know, he found that he had that, 461 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 4: and he would he would he would tell me, you know, 462 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 4: I'd ask him while we were on camera too, sometimes 463 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 4: just say hey, man, like what do I have to 464 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 4: do to find that? Literally had me on the edge 465 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 4: of my seat. And so I think, more than anything, 466 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 4: just be appreciative of some of the wisdom that was 467 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 4: imparted from from from everybody. 468 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 3: From the men and the women. You know, they told 469 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: me very early. 470 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 4: I don't know if it'll be on camera, but like 471 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 4: on that first day, the day card drop off, they 472 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 4: were like, we can tell we can teach you a 473 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 4: lot of stuff, you know, like we know you just 474 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 4: got married, like you should you should be asking me questions. 475 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, you're right, probably should. 476 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's so fun. 477 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: Okay, so we have the Bachelor, the Bachelor at the 478 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor, and now Bachelor in Paradise. This is correct 479 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong, this is your second Paradise. 480 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 3: Second Paradise, second Paradise. 481 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: All right, So how was it? 482 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 3: How to go? 483 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 2: Uh? 484 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 3: Man? It was? You know, it was wild and crazy. 485 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 4: You're both paradise experts, obviously, you know all about it. 486 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 4: The thing I've learned second time around year two, and 487 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 4: this is becoming a theme, is on the first day 488 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 4: when I'm at the steps and everybody's showing up and 489 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 4: you talk to you greet them, and you send them 490 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 4: down the stairs. What I always am finding now is 491 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 4: that everybody has it figured out when they show up 492 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 4: to paradise. Like I feel like people sort of People 493 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 4: kind of sometimes get this preconceived idea of I know 494 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 4: who's going to be there, I know who I'm going 495 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 4: to meet, this is the person I'll be interested in, 496 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 4: this is the person I need to date, and then 497 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna you know, we'll get engaged at the 498 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 4: end if it goes well for me, and if not, 499 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 4: you know, obviously I'm going home. And what I've learned 500 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 4: is is more often than not, things don't paradise the 501 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 4: way you think it's going to happen. 502 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 5: And I always say that's the biggest mistake that people 503 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 5: can do. And I think maybe it's just because we 504 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 5: are an example of how like, you know that doesn't work, 505 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 5: because we went down with like not knowing each other 506 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 5: is going to be there, and different expectations. But I 507 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 5: just feel like anytime you see people you watch them 508 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 5: go down with very specific plans and expectations and thinking 509 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 5: they know how things are going to go, it's just 510 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 5: like you want to shake them and be like, it's 511 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 5: not gonna go like that. 512 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. That's why I think 513 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: our season was so successful as far as relationships and 514 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: coming off of it, because there was that break right 515 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: there was that COVID break, So you had a full 516 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: year where we didn't have paradise. So even if you 517 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: went in there with the plan, you had to be cautious, 518 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: like who's going to be there? Or they dropped me 519 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: down there? No one had any clue I was even alive, 520 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: you know, Like it's just but like that's that's the thing, 521 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: like when you go in the paradise, in my opinion, 522 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: when you go into paradise with a strong plan, that is. 523 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 5: Like when people are at the top of the steps 524 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 5: looking super confident on what's about to happen for them, 525 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 5: it just makes me so nervous. 526 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 4: You're right, I feel the same way and I could 527 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 4: feel it too, And you know, you just you sort 528 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 4: of ask the questions you hope it is down there, 529 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 4: who do you want to meet? And they just have it. 530 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 4: They had the answers, And you're right. I think the 531 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 4: more open minded you're able to be and more willing 532 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 4: to have conversations and spend time with people, from what 533 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 4: I've seen two years now hosting it is those are 534 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 4: generally the relationships. 535 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 3: That work out. 536 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 4: One thing I would tease for people at home this season, 537 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 4: the couples that are going to be there together at 538 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 4: the end are probably not on your Bengo card going 539 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 4: into this this season. But that's that's probably why they're 540 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 4: successful too. People were the people were willing to open 541 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 4: open their eyes, give people, give people chances, take their 542 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 4: time through it without going in. You know, it's it's 543 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,119 Speaker 4: a round peg. It's going to fit in a round 544 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 4: toll and that's the only way this is going to 545 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 4: work for me. Yeah, because Paradise is very unpredictable, as 546 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 4: as we all know. 547 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: From the original cast the season. Who are who are 548 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: you personally most excited. 549 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 3: To see Rachel? For one? 550 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 4: And the reason why is because obviously, you know, having 551 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 4: having been there on a season with Gabby and on 552 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 4: our season with Clayton, like, Rachel's been through a lot 553 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 4: of stuff on the show that there's been some some 554 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 4: the moments that she's experienced that I think are probably 555 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 4: pretty traumatic. There's the Row Ceremony from Hell in Iceland. 556 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 4: She went through the Row ceremony as a bachelortt where 557 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 4: she was offered people roses and getting rejected. So, you know, 558 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 4: Rachel's been through a lot and now she's coming She's 559 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 4: coming back in right. I think a lot of people 560 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 4: Joe feel the same way. And I could kind of 561 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 4: tell when Rachel was walking down the steps there was 562 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 4: a little bit of trepidation, like like. 563 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 3: I'm going back into this again, you know, and I 564 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 3: have these experiences and what's going to happen. 565 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 4: Rachel is such a rock star and she I really 566 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 4: feel like I saw the Rachel that we saw in 567 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 4: the beginning of Clayton season, you know, just when she 568 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: was just open and she was hopeful, and it was 569 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,479 Speaker 4: it was so great great seeing that side of her 570 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 4: because I get it she went through some really really 571 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 4: tough things that would scar anybody emotionally. And the fact 572 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 4: that she was even will to like show up on 573 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 4: the beach again, I thought was so brave. So I 574 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 4: was really really happy to see her another person who 575 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 4: I'm really happy to see. 576 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 3: And I know people have mixed feelings on this, but 577 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 3: band Paradise is built. Yes, yeah, Like Sena is this 578 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: not his wheelhouse? 579 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 2: It absolutely is. When he was a time. 580 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: See maker, like you do you need you need a braid? 581 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, you need a brain and you need a quirky, 582 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 5: out there personality. 583 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 2: Someone would know Felter. 584 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 5: He's a major flirt like Paradise was made for brain 585 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 5: And once the minute we realized it was never going 586 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 5: to work out with him and Charity, we were like, 587 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 5: it's fine, we'll see him in Paradise. 588 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 4: He's the first ye suitcase full of ear rings, like 589 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 4: he's so ready. He's got the scarves, he's got the hats. 590 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 4: I remember, uh, you know I spoke to them in 591 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,439 Speaker 4: the palapa, you know that first time we gather everybody 592 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 4: up here in the plata, it's like, hey, here are 593 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 4: the rules of Paradise. Now go check out your bunk 594 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 4: beds or it's like and everybody kind of runs to 595 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 4: their rooms and everyone's on the beach and they're kind 596 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 4: of all walking. Braden's like twenty yards out in front 597 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 4: of everybody, like literally frolicking in the sand like he 598 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 4: was like skipping and like like just like splashing, kicking 599 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 4: like the waves of his feet. He was in his 600 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 4: happy place, no doubt, and probably pretty pretty predictable. You 601 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 4: knew he was going to be thriving down there on 602 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 4: the beach, seeing. 603 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,640 Speaker 1: See going uh, focusing a little bit on you real 604 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: quick because I know we're running out of time here, 605 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: but seeing you live like you're you're so good, like 606 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: you never like watching you hosts, like you never have 607 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: to like you really never have to resay anything, like 608 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 1: you're just you are so good. Do you ever get 609 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: nervous on any of these shows? Is or ever a moment? 610 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: Because I was just thinking when you mentioned like walking 611 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 1: in and talking to everyone for the first time in 612 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: the plapa, Like, is there ever a moment on any 613 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: of these shows that you get a little flustered? 614 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 3: Every every time I talk to anybody, I'm nervous. 615 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 4: Really, it's like when I played Yeah, it's like when 616 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 4: I played football. But it makes me feel good because 617 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 4: I care. And if I didn't care, I would't I 618 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 4: wouldn't be nervous. 619 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 2: Right, That's exactly what Well said us about our level, 620 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: about our vows. 621 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 5: Yeah, He's like, I try to reframe nerves as like that. 622 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 5: If I'm nervous, I really care about something and it's 623 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 5: important to me, and that's a good thing. 624 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's like I feel like I feel ready, 625 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 4: I feel prepared, you know. I I I take it. 626 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 4: I take it really seriously. I love my job. I 627 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 4: love my job, but being out there, the energy of 628 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 4: live shows with an audience is awesome. You know, it's 629 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 4: former as former, Like as a former athlete, we're always 630 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 4: struggling to find the thing that's going to give us 631 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 4: the rush that we had when we were on the 632 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 4: field in a stadium and and sort of in that rush, 633 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 4: and it's so hard for us to do anything in 634 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 4: our careers afterwards to define that again. Live TV delivers 635 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 4: that for me one thousand percent. But it helps me 636 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 4: so much when I get to see people like you, 637 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 4: and you see familiar faces in the audience and ambachtor 638 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 4: nation like fans that care about it. Everyone's there, you know, 639 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 4: to to kind of witness what's going to happen, and 640 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 4: everyone's invested in it. And so for me, like I'm 641 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 4: always nervous, I'm nervous when I'm talking to cast. I'm 642 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 4: nervous all the time. But it's just just because it 643 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 4: matters to me, and and I want to be good 644 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 4: at it, and but and I want to serve everybody, 645 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 4: like I want people at home and people in the 646 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 4: audience and the cast to feel like, you know, they're 647 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 4: getting a great effort and they're and because they deserve that. 648 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: I think, well, you better put that effort into your daughter. 649 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 5: That's all I, oh my god, Yeah, I have one 650 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 5: more cast I want to ask him about really quickly. 651 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 2: Eliza. 652 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 5: We were personally very surprised to see her return to 653 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 5: Paradise after her experience on last season. You know, she 654 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 5: was kind of in that messy love triangle. The reunion 655 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 5: was definitely a tough spot for her to be in. 656 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 5: Were you surprised to see her coming back? 657 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 3: Yes, And I exactly what you just said. 658 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 4: I asked her when I saw at the top of 659 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 4: the steps again kind of another you know, have you 660 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 4: had time to recover from that? You know, where's your 661 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 4: headspace coming into this. Not not a lot of people 662 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 4: would do what you're doing right now, considering everything that's happened. 663 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 4: But Eliza trust the process and she was hoping that 664 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 4: she could meet someone and she wanted to come back 665 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 4: and give them their shot. I give her credit for that. 666 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not an easy thing to do, so I 667 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 5: hope it works up for her second time around. You know, 668 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 5: you never know worked out for you second time around. 669 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: I did look at this, look at this. Yeah, I 670 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 1: totally forgot about her. Yeah, because I remember I remember 671 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: her at the reunion show for Paradise, and I was like, 672 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: this is rough. Yeah, this one's rough. 673 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 4: Well and to your point too, It's like I remember 674 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 4: talking to people, Hey, who are you excited to see here? 675 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 4: You didn't hear Eliza's name come up a lot, not 676 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 4: because people didn't want to meet her, because I don't 677 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 4: think a lot of people expected her to. 678 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 3: Be there, totally sure, you know what I mean. 679 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:54,959 Speaker 4: And so I think when she hit the beach, like, 680 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 4: there were you know, Eliza's obviously a very you know, 681 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 4: she's very beautiful. There were a lot of guys like 682 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 4: as soon as she walked down, dude's eyes were like 683 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 4: lighting up. 684 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, excited that she was there. Yeah, I've that nice. 685 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: Well, I can't wait to watch. 686 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 5: We're very excited. We've got two very exciting seasons coming 687 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 5: our way, followed by The Bachelor. No shortage of Bachelor 688 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 5: Nation content ever, No. 689 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: It's great, Jesse, Thank you so much for taking the time. 690 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. Can't wait to watch everything you're doing. 691 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: And you know I'm going to watch you game day 692 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: and all the football. Thank you so much to all 693 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: our listeners. Thank you guys for tuning in to Happy Hour. 694 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: Make sure to watch The Golden Bachelor and Bachelor in 695 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,479 Speaker 1: Paradise September twenty eighth. We can't wait. Thank you guys, 696 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 1: and make sure to subscribe. 697 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 2: Yep. 698 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 5: We'll be dropping at new episodes with exclusive interviews just 699 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 5: like this one every single week and we will see 700 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 5: you soon. 701 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 2: Thanks again, Jesse, bye. 702 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,719 Speaker 3: Nice guys. Thanks