WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Down In The Dumps

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update podcast, so thank you so much for being here.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the official one too. All right, yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>we can all verify it's us.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at Brooke and Alexis right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me something that no one else knows about you, Jose,

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure it's actually you. I I know I

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<v Speaker 1>only the real Hose can say that. And today I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just say that the couple that went out met in

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<v Speaker 1>the most unusual pleasant place ever, No, maybe least pleasant

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<v Speaker 1>of all time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I smell.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a wild story that I know you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy. Let's start with some comments though less. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this one's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Kobe said, you've got a listener in Thailand.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you guys so much. The t I crave

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<v Speaker 1>Daily is finally filmed. Awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that we get a little ty tea out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Saw what he call? That's how you say hello. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to trust you on that. Fact check it.

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<v Speaker 2>But can I come and visit? Will you put us

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<v Speaker 2>up in your house?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what I love? In Tie, you say

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<v Speaker 1>five is pronounced huh. So when something's funny in Tie,

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<v Speaker 1>people write five five five five five, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hey, thanks for being here, thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>let's get this second date started, so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like we hear this a lot from our

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<v Speaker 4>male listeners telling us about how hard it is to

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<v Speaker 4>be a dude on the dating apps because you can

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<v Speaker 4>match with forty women, send out forty messages and never

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<v Speaker 4>hear a word back from.

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<v Speaker 2>Any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how many times can you write suck girl

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody? That is so disappointing, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of letters to type, or do what

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And send a bunch of games to be super fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously it's easy to blame Brook for this because we

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<v Speaker 4>all know if she was still single and on the

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<v Speaker 4>dating apps, she'd be messaging back every dude who even

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<v Speaker 4>glanced at her profile.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been honest to God, would not have had time

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<v Speaker 1>for a full time job if the dating apps had

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<v Speaker 1>been around when I was single.

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<v Speaker 4>Because she is a charity dater and a generous that

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<v Speaker 4>is correct. Apparently there's another option out there for single

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<v Speaker 4>men to consider that's even better than the apps, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's where our listener Caleb is at right now.

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<v Speaker 2>So Caleb, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, like is as in it's a physical place?

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<v Speaker 2>Not really sure.

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<v Speaker 4>He just said he found another option, an alternative to

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<v Speaker 4>the dating apps that he likes even better. So, Caleb,

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<v Speaker 4>I really am interested to find out what you're doing

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<v Speaker 4>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, a little bit of backstory is I started

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<v Speaker 3>off on dating apps, and yeah, it is a real

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<v Speaker 3>challenge for guys. I heard like one percent of guys

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<v Speaker 3>maps with anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>What only one percent of men get matches?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, it's higher than I would have thought. So it's still.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty wild if it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Whether or not it is true, I have to that's

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<v Speaker 3>my experience. So I realized, Okay, I just got to

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<v Speaker 3>get out in the real world. Okay, So a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of weeks ago, I found this TV on craig List.

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<v Speaker 3>Looked like it was in a really good shape.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and I bought it and you bought a.

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<v Speaker 3>TV yep, needed to be cleaned up. Took it home.

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<v Speaker 3>Turned out it was an Arby's Digital Menuh.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen this happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what, I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>So, you know when they print like the when you

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<v Speaker 4>go into an Arby's, and the menu is on a

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<v Speaker 4>flat screen.

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<v Speaker 3>After like six years, they just sell them and they

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<v Speaker 3>get rid of them because they're old.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not actually TV screens. They're like they can only

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<v Speaker 1>show the RB's menus.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh they look like an RB's menu.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so no matter what you're watching, you can still

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<v Speaker 1>kind of see the outline of the.

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<v Speaker 4>Over the top of it, and you still smell the

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<v Speaker 4>RBS that seeped into the like electronic guy, I just

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<v Speaker 4>want to number two.

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<v Speaker 2>So bad right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Armies need screensavers, No, but most of us like J Box.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. So you actually now you're watching Arby's.

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<v Speaker 3>The heck I am. I tried to contacting the guy

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<v Speaker 3>again because I wanted to get my money back. He

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<v Speaker 3>completely blocked me. Of course. Yeah, so I was so

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<v Speaker 3>pissed I decided to take this thing. I didn't even

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<v Speaker 3>want to send it on the curb. Actually took it

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<v Speaker 3>to the dump what belonged?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, kay?

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<v Speaker 3>While it was there, it turns out there's this lovely

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<v Speaker 3>young woman right there who is well shut out.

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<v Speaker 1>Your big hack is to meet women at the dock.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at you can't argue with results?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, it's a good dating hack.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess meeting women. I'm assuming she's just visiting the dump,

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<v Speaker 4>but she doesn't live there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's a order.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she was quite lovely, good Okay, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>strike up a conversation with her?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Nice garbage?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, she asked me, why are you throwing away his

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<v Speaker 3>brand new television?

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<v Speaker 2>Flats dud?

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<v Speaker 1>When my mom goes to the dump, she often brings

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<v Speaker 1>stuff home.

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<v Speaker 3>For all. People love it.

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<v Speaker 2>People like literally go her and good free stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you like gave her your old TV.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, I wasn't gonna let anybody have that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Once she asked about it, that was my opening to

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<v Speaker 3>tell her the story. Yes, she thought was just completely hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did you love a woman who will laugh at

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<v Speaker 1>your pain?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>She also needed some help, so then I started helping

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<v Speaker 3>her at theater trucks and we ended up just really connected.

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<v Speaker 3>So I got her number.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm the only date because then you were being used.

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<v Speaker 5>Date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, not at all. No, No, I've got her

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<v Speaker 3>number and I called her after So that would have been.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny, would be?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? If we went to Arby's, ilda known exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you go.

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<v Speaker 3>We went out to pour a couple of drinks and

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<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh, she is so cool. Uh yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 3>no basically the first person I met in real life

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<v Speaker 3>and like the last decade.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, you mean that you can go out

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<v Speaker 4>with like you've come in contact with other humans.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like you have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Roomful of dolls and so you had time.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh we did. Oh my goodness, she cleaned up so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I will say, if you're attracted to a

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<v Speaker 1>woman in her dump attire, you're gonna find her hot,

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<v Speaker 1>like hot hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it sounds like it's the first woman that he's

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<v Speaker 4>like spoken to in ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>So it does.

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<v Speaker 1>Sound like the hermit that it's a pretty low.

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<v Speaker 3>Bar you can say. Oh you want. All I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>say is I was at the dump getting rid of

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<v Speaker 3>something and I managed to get a cute woman's phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you thought that there would be another hangout

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<v Speaker 1>when you guys were done with drinks and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I really thought. So, I mean, it's not like the

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<v Speaker 3>craiglist guy who just completely blocked me. You know, she's

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<v Speaker 3>still responding. I just need you guys to help me

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<v Speaker 3>out and seeing if she's willing to go out with

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<v Speaker 3>me again. It doesn't seem like it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, yeah, we want to step in and help

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<v Speaker 4>you out.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll come back.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna call this garbage gal and see if we

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<v Speaker 4>can get her to agree Landscale Queen, whatever it is, well,

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<v Speaker 4>hopefully get her to answer and get you a second

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<v Speaker 4>date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this thank.

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<v Speaker 6>You date update, you know, Caleb was just on with

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<v Speaker 6>us telling us how hard of a time he's been

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<v Speaker 6>having matching online with women in his area and if the.

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<v Speaker 4>Call doesn't go well today, I do have an alternative

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<v Speaker 4>option for him. Oh you do, because I saw a

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<v Speaker 4>news article where South Korea is offering foreign men thirty

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<v Speaker 4>six thousand dollars cash to move there and marry a

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<v Speaker 4>local woman.

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<v Speaker 1>The money, do you only get the money after the.

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<v Speaker 4>Marriage or well the money plus they'll give you all

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<v Speaker 4>the used RBTV screens that you can handle. And dude,

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<v Speaker 4>South Korean Arby's are the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually believe that barbecue. Yeah, oh my god, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds so good.

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<v Speaker 4>But before Caleb considers moving continents, he did meet a

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<v Speaker 4>woman here in real life, and Brookie, you're probably the

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<v Speaker 4>best person to say how it happened since your parents

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<v Speaker 4>conceived you at the dump?

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<v Speaker 2>So tell his story.

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<v Speaker 1>Did we call that the do for where I'm from?

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<v Speaker 1>Its lie? No, they met at the dump. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the end of the story there. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to add to it?

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<v Speaker 2>You mean you romanticized it so well, Brooke? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean she was hauling stuff, he was

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<v Speaker 1>hauling stuff. They're both throwing things into the big pile.

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<v Speaker 4>The bottom line is he was able to turn that

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<v Speaker 4>meat up into a first date officially, but after that

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<v Speaker 4>she's been kind of avoidant.

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<v Speaker 2>And Caleb, did we miss anything?

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<v Speaker 3>There?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that romantic enough for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like it was a little more romantic, but

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<v Speaker 3>yeah you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you reach over and take the smudge dirt off

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<v Speaker 1>of her face?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a second, that's not dirt. Oh no, this is

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<v Speaker 2>getting more romantic. Yeah, let's just call Rebecca for you

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<v Speaker 2>keep going. Yeah, because we could go all day with this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm is going to dial your.

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<v Speaker 3>Number right now, thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, shut up and let me talk. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>is this Rebecca?

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<v Speaker 7>I yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, my name is jeff from a radio show called

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<v Speaker 4>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it done there.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I don't know, but that sounds okay. I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's exactly the best description of.

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<v Speaker 1>OCCA the whole show.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning. We've all been wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I just don't like to be on public radio.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know this isn't public radio. Brook listens to

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<v Speaker 4>that trash.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely commercial radio.

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<v Speaker 7>Yea.

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<v Speaker 4>We're doing a segment here, Rebecca is called a second

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<v Speaker 4>Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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<v Speaker 4>our listeners reconnect with you after you've gone out once before.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Caleb.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh Caleb, Yes, Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dying to hear your like meet cute story.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm pretty sure we know the story, Brooke, because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know we know the story, but I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>what she thought when she saw him and the dump,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's so unexpected.

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<v Speaker 7>I actually really liked him. He seems so interesting and.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay when you're at the Dumper, when you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>at drinks, he was so interesting.

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<v Speaker 8>Like both places at the dump me, he seems interesting

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<v Speaker 8>and I was like, I don't really go out with

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<v Speaker 8>men that I meet at the dump.

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<v Speaker 7>Sit.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's refreshing, Thank god. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet there's a lot of them though.

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<v Speaker 4>But let's let's just back things up for you, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 4>because here's what we know from Caleb. He told us

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<v Speaker 4>the story and said, you two met at the dump,

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<v Speaker 4>you had a connection there, talked about use TVs and whatnot,

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<v Speaker 4>and then he ended up asking you out and you

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<v Speaker 4>went out for drinks and had a nice time together.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah we did, okay, He.

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<v Speaker 1>Said he was so impressed with how cool you were. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was a really nice compliment.

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<v Speaker 7>That is really nice, and like I was like that

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<v Speaker 7>at first too. I totally was.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So clearly something has changed, at least on your

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<v Speaker 4>end since your meetup. Could you maybe help us understand

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<v Speaker 4>what that would be so we could pass the information

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<v Speaker 4>to him because he's totally confused.

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<v Speaker 7>So after my date was Caleb the next day and

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<v Speaker 7>went on the dating app and guess who I see?

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<v Speaker 7>I see Caleb?

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<v Speaker 2>Guess oh, okay, his profile came up.

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<v Speaker 1>What that's weird? I feel like you just matched and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, hey.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if anything, it could be a sign that he popped.

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<v Speaker 2>Up for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the algorithm wants you to be together, right, true?

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<v Speaker 7>Guys, Yeah, I thought It was so great because then

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<v Speaker 7>I would be able to find out more about him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I just kept on reading about him and reading more

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<v Speaker 7>and moren't And the more I read about him, it's

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<v Speaker 7>just like the more boring he seems like. He just doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Boring answers, you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, the branded answers like I go to the gym

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<v Speaker 7>I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Think, like, why would that matter?

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<v Speaker 4>I said, You've already gone out with him. You know

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<v Speaker 4>what he's like in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>So and it also explains why he was having such

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<v Speaker 1>a hard time on the dating apps. He has a

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<v Speaker 1>terrible profile. Yeah, I don't watch anyone that's serious answers.

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<v Speaker 3>My profile is not horrible.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, Well Caleb was supposed to wait, but I

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<v Speaker 4>guess I need to tell you, Rebecca that that's Caleb

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<v Speaker 4>on the other line.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>What a not boring thing to do?

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<v Speaker 2>He's a.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, you know, sorry, I'm still I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you worried about my profile when we went

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<v Speaker 3>out on like one and a half each. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>make any sense. I don't I'm not sure I understand

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 7>Your boring profile. It just stuck with me.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the most boring part of it?

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<v Speaker 2>We probably shouldn't recap it. I don't think we want

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<v Speaker 2>to bring it back up.

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<v Speaker 7>Kid, so branded, it was like the same thing, like

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<v Speaker 7>that guy's the week, Oh I go to the gym.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think that's like the generic thing that

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<v Speaker 4>people just want to like be mass appeal.

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<v Speaker 3>Just hot. Hey guys, I'm still here. Everyone's talking about

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<v Speaker 3>my crappy profile.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't think you should take offense to it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like my husband has, like this one really cute guy

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<v Speaker 1>friend and his dating profile makes him look like a

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<v Speaker 1>total loser, but in real life he's awesome, And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I've heard of people like not wanting to

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<v Speaker 4>go out before the date because of a burn profile,

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<v Speaker 4>but not after. You should know him by this point, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 4>Like you've hung out with him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you bored when you hung out? No, that's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>you see what that's funny?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you see the disconnect, right, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just the last thing that stuck with me.

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<v Speaker 4>It really, it's burned in like the RB's menu on

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<v Speaker 4>that TV screen.

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<v Speaker 2>Just can't get rid of it. You're perfect for each

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<v Speaker 2>other if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't even know it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I mean we need to step back where I

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<v Speaker 4>think we're jumping in too much. Let's re establish the

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<v Speaker 4>connection that you two had with each other. Caleb talked

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<v Speaker 4>to Rebecca and light that spark back up.

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<v Speaker 3>Rebecca, this is so backwards for the way this kind

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<v Speaker 3>of thing always happened. We met in person, we were together,

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<v Speaker 3>we had a great time together both times that we

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<v Speaker 3>saw each other, and then the last thing you did

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<v Speaker 3>was see my profile and decide you don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>see me. Come on, sweetie, come one.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh God, did you say sweetie a lot inside of

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<v Speaker 4>your profile. I'm looking for my sweetie side. All right,

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<v Speaker 4>we're running out of time here, so at this point

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<v Speaker 4>I just have to offer Rebecca, we'll send you out

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<v Speaker 4>one more time with Caleb and we'll pay for the date.

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<v Speaker 1>God, I'm having such a hard time.

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<v Speaker 4>Just don't look at his profile before you answer. Just

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<v Speaker 4>go off of what's in your heart right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I can't get over it. I just can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>Is so funny?

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<v Speaker 3>The dating apps screw me. I didn't even meet you

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<v Speaker 3>want the dating app?

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<v Speaker 5>You need to go delete that profile the dump from now,

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<v Speaker 5>But don't forget south Korea wants you six thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 5>start a family over there.

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<v Speaker 1>Tag us in your pictures of Arby's in South Korea

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to see what they have on the menu.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I know you guys are joking, but I

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<v Speaker 3>am seriously considering it.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey in the morning, how many people do you think

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<v Speaker 4>heard this and went right onto their dating profiles and

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<v Speaker 4>started making alterations to sound less boring?

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<v Speaker 1>Caused it took it all.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how you make it sound sexier. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't work out. I'm a professional calorie and sineraidor.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, that would be more attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>I already said that on my bio. It's called foodies.

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<v Speaker 2>I do know say big foodie.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, who would have thought to me, cute at

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<v Speaker 4>a city dump would not work out?

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<v Speaker 1>I actually did. I actually thought that this was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a home run.

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<v Speaker 9>Really yeah, dump, But now I want to go, oh fun,

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<v Speaker 9>but the smell is overwhelmed? Why yeah, You're never gonna

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<v Speaker 9>know what that person smells like until you get it

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<v Speaker 9>out of that.

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<v Speaker 4>That could work to your benefit, though. Maybe do like

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<v Speaker 4>a little speed dating event at a city dump. Alexis

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<v Speaker 4>organized walk you, I'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Just take a trunk of my car.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I get it. The dating world can feel

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<v Speaker 4>like you're in a dump. So if you want some

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<v Speaker 4>help getting pulled out of it, email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>And Jeffrey in the Morning,