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Speaker 1: we break the craziest true stories on earth to your

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Speaker 1: ear holes. I am John and Sophia. Yes, how should

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Speaker 1: ope break the news to this man?

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Speaker 2: The one night stand?

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Speaker 3: They send them a little cookie box and with agdona

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Speaker 2: That's cute.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm wearing this. I'm wearing this blanket.

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Speaker 1: Because been trying to so it's really cold.

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Speaker 4: I'm wearing two pairs of socks.

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Speaker 5: I'm wearing two pairs of socks too.

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Speaker 4: But we just got.

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Speaker 2: Every time we're like, nobody tells us another sweaters. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have.

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Speaker 4: Also, I have two sweaters on.

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Speaker 1: The The okop hit piece is going to come out

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Speaker 1: okop founder and head producers Slash Talent, slammed them for

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Speaker 1: cooling them to death.

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Speaker 4: Frozen.

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Speaker 5: Yes, under these conditions, but.

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Speaker 3: Now we're warm for the time being, until Sam says no,

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Speaker 3: since it's not yet, but we will be warm.

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Speaker 1: But speaking of of of warm. There is some some

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Speaker 4: No, there's no tea, No tea to be found, here to.

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Speaker 1: Be found, no t to be found. I think we

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Speaker 1: got some from throwaway our way, baby mama.

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Speaker 4: Throw away are ray, baby.

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Speaker 1: Mama, Baby mama. Let's see what you got To keep

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Speaker 1: it simple, My son's baby daddy was a one night stand.

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Speaker 2: There you have it.

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Speaker 1: He was a trucker who got snowed in. We met

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Speaker 4: Ain't that Catholic guilt at.

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Speaker 1: It ain't just well JK loved my kiddo and kept

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Speaker 1: Child support would help but we can get by without it.

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Speaker 1: I didn't expect to ever see the baby daddy again,

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Speaker 1: and I was okay with that. Kiddo has my last name,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know his stuff. I was fine with being

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Speaker 1: some of my friends have crap baby daddy's and they

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Speaker 1: But my friend who works at the gas station just

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Speaker 4: How did he How did they the friend know what

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Speaker 2: Like the baby like?

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Speaker 1: Did she describe the way or maybe that friend was

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Speaker 4: Wait? Where were they.

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Speaker 2: Working at the gas station?

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Speaker 1: They work at the gas station that OPI met the

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Speaker 5: We met the truck over at a bar so with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's it happened.

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Speaker 2: Oh, here we go.

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Speaker 1: She knows his name, Race saw his name on his ID,

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Speaker 4: That friend is putting in the.

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Speaker 1: Work, yo, for real, Like, I mean, at least get

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Speaker 1: that kind of good to have the option.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 3: I think it's always important to have a parent, even

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Speaker 4: Of medical history.

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Speaker 1: Medical history really important.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's just a good thing to happen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you can get it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, And it seemed like my understanding of where we're

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Speaker 2: It until this happened, Sance, until this moment.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm sure he is flattered by thinking is a

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Speaker 1: I can't claim innocence anymore, and I am forced to

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Speaker 2: So watching let me know what you think, Sophia big protein.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I think, well, I think it's completely like Opie's decision,

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Speaker 3: of course, because like you know, they it seems like

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Speaker 3: I think that, you know, I think maybe this guy

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And also he should pay child support with the kid. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like he needs to take some responsibility. But I also

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Speaker 1: May she doesn't know who this guy is, really doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: I understand the fear. I understand the fear.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, with Sophia, what do you.

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Speaker 2: Think I agree with Sophia.

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Speaker 1: We are all agreeing with Sophia, all in agreement. But

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Speaker 1: if you disagree, then fight. So in the comments, Okay,

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Speaker 1: is ready to go? I don't know. We got something.

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 2: If you give it to him, go easy.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, Yeah, come on, Okay. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I have heard so many baby daddy horror stories. It's

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Speaker 1: If I say something, this guy can sue for custody

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Speaker 2: And not being around.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you'd win it, though she could.

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Speaker 4: She could, I understand that like fear.

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Speaker 1: Hell, he can't even talk and couldn't tell me if

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Speaker 1: would be one thing if once he was older, I

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Speaker 1: But I can't possibly lie to him about that, And

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Speaker 4: Hey, you remember that one night stand?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, she meant texting the kid he said, he

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Speaker 3: Her dad took he's at the gas station right now.

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Speaker 2: Just put like a funny gift with it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like putting gas into.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is there any kind of legal crap I should be

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Speaker 3: I think it seems like if he wants to tell

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Speaker 3: it's a good thing to do because at this point, again,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, at that point that was like a little bit too.

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Speaker 1: I know I am way overthinking, probably, but please, I

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Speaker 4: That is what we're doing.

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Speaker 2: Is the friend the a hole for now putting this

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Speaker 3: Op No, I don't think so. I think giving an

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I think hey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, also an agreeance. Yeah, we're just all agreeing with Sophia.

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Speaker 1: This is agree with Sophia day.

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Speaker 4: Agree with me today, agree with me today.

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Speaker 1: That's right, and every day and every day forward. Riley,

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Speaker 1: what do you what are you looking to scruntle.

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Speaker 5: That you don't.

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Speaker 1: Because every day is disagree with a day to you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, today, I'll give you this one onto some relevant comments.

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Speaker 1: Le God nineteen eighty nine says he's a stranger. If

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Speaker 1: it were me, I would not invite an opportunity to

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Speaker 1: have someone I don't know at all take my baby

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Speaker 1: half the time because he's technically the father who had

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Speaker 1: no choice in the decision to have the baby. Just

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Speaker 1: my personal opinion. Ope, that's my instinct. But I'm also

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Speaker 1: imagining having to justify to this keddo later when he

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's a good point. M it's a good point.

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Speaker 2: But we have an.

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Speaker 1: Update, an update. Get ready, I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: This is my first post.

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Speaker 1: It didn't get a lot of comments, but I wanted

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Speaker 1: to let you guys know how it turned out.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we always love that.

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Speaker 1: And also how long has it been since the first

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Speaker 1: So but we never know, We never know. Yeah, is

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Speaker 2: Hold on green green screen flag.

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Speaker 1: We learned that you guys can't It just ripples the

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are really struggling to understand why

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Speaker 2: I will use whatever words I want to, y'all can

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and whatever risk he might post to my son

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Speaker 1: None of that matters to me. What's best for my

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think that anyone who's saying that OP

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Speaker 5: This. This is like a door you go through and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, OPI is very aware or like very worried for their.

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Speaker 3: And it's totally valid to be like, this is a

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Speaker 1: That also to be clear like OP, like OPI kind

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Speaker 1: I should tell the father because a you know, the

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Speaker 1: in the future when my son is like, oh hey,

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Speaker 1: that Ultimately yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I feel like op did everything right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And it's just like I get it. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I get the ultimate decision to tell I

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Speaker 2: I agree, and I agree with that. Sophia.

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Speaker 5: I agree with you, and I so agree too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I agree with Sophia. Day continued, I'm becoming so powerful.

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Speaker 5: You agree with Sophia all the agreements.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Again, if you want to argue, I mean it

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Speaker 1: is agree with Sophia Day, but you know she's ready.

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Speaker 4: To fight and you didn't agree with me.

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Speaker 1: That's all right? Well, you know, drop comment below, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll see or drop a comment below if you agree,

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Speaker 1: especially drop a comment below if you agree.

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Speaker 2: So I feel But onto the updates. So this is

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Speaker 2: how much longer a way is this?

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Speaker 1: Producer Riley, It's a long weekend story.

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Speaker 2: It's October twenty eight to the eleventh. Let's dive in.

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Speaker 1: Okay, another month later, some people ask me for more

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Speaker 1: updates on the story. This update isn't a very exciting,

447
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,719
Speaker 1: But to be honest, I didn't expect any of this

448
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: to be very exciting to strangers outside of the handful

449
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 1: of people who originally gave me advice.

450
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:46,880
Speaker 4: I'm deeply invested.

451
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: We are all deeply invested.

452
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: OP. I will be posting updates from here from now

453
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: on until I don't feel like it anymore. Anyway, the

454
00:21:55,640 --> 00:22:03,199
Speaker 1: paternity test came back positive. What duh, op, he says,

455
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 1: and the baby daddy I should start calling him by

456
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: a fake name. I'm going to call him Steve from

457
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 1: now on because one person's comment made me laugh, immediately

458
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: flew to my place and showed up on my porch

459
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 1: with a dozen roses. A wait a second, he confessed

460
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: that he had never stopped thinking about me since our

461
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 1: first encounter. Oh my god, and I confess the same.

462
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 1: You huh, I'm reading the actual sentence.

463
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 2: Riley is traumatized by me yanking his chage, thinking the

464
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: story is not the story.

465
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 4: This makes me happy.

466
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 2: There we go.

467
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 1: We immediately want to go make another baby. They make

468
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 1: you wait. Wait, he then proposed marriage, and we are

469
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 1: planning our wedding and honeymoon and ars.

470
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 2: What okay, let's think.

471
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 5: Fake or something.

472
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, but then while we were at

473
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 1: the store picking out a wedding cake, a team of

474
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: assassins attacked the bakery and we had to flee. It

475
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: turns out that he is a billionaire in the mafia

476
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: and he was only pretending to be a trucker as

477
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: the enemy. Now we are on the run and I

478
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: am pregnant with our next baby named Steve Junior. It

479
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 1: really sucks to be pregnant on the run. I gotta

480
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: stop and pee all the time, and assassins keep popping

481
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 1: up at the gas stations. JKJK, I knew, Okay, stop, sorry,

482
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: it was just amusing to me that people are invested

483
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 1: in my life.

484
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: I couldn't resist the drama.

485
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 4: You're so silly, Wow.

486
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: So silly, op, silly Okay, here is the real off date,

487
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: real question.

488
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 4: So they didn't get married.

489
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,239
Speaker 1: No, no they did.

490
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 4: Why neither of them confess their love?

491
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: Dude, You should have let us go down that crazy

492
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: rabbit hole of like, should they be getting engaged immediately?

493
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 4: Yeah?

494
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 7: Yeah?

495
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 4: Wow.

496
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 2: So the paternity test did come back positive.

497
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 1: Okay, and Steve and I have been texting back and

498
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: forth and talking on the phone. We still need to

499
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: figure out a good time to meet up. So that

500
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: hasn't happened yet, and I don't know when it will.

501
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Apparently Steve passes by my town a lot,

502
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: but not always a convenient time to stop for a visit. Anyways,

503
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: I found out a little bit more about him as

504
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: a person and told him more about me just getting

505
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: to know each other. I've always sent him every picture

506
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: of kiddo. I'm still gonna call my son kiddo since

507
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: I don't actually call him that.

508
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 6: I r L.

509
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 2: If you don't like it, deal with it.

510
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: Oh. I send him all the photos I could find

511
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: and pretty much told him the entire story of Kiddo's

512
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: life up to that point, down to every mundane detail.

513
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 4: Ah.

514
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: It's cute.

515
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: Steve has been pretty mellow about everything so far and

516
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 1: doesn't seem either upset or excited about anything. I guess

517
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: since he figured out what happened a while ago, he

518
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: doesn't have much reason to be shocked.

519
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: I'm nervous, but also excited.

520
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: Obviously, if everything works out, I'm going to be thrilled

521
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: that the kiddo gets to have a dad. Yeah. I

522
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: don't really have any specific concerns that things won't work out.

523
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 1: I'm just nervous in general because I don't know what's

524
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 1: going to happen, and becoming a mom made me a

525
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 1: paranoid wreck. Here are a few miscellaneous things that I'd

526
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: like to mention. Steve says that he doesn't have any

527
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: other kids to his knowledge, but he usually uses protection.

528
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: That was an out of character, reckless moment for both

529
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: of us, so seems like he most likely doesn't. Steve

530
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: asked me, frankly, if I was intentionally trying to get

531
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 1: pregnant that night, whoa it might It might have seen

532
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: that way because I told him that I had protection

533
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: and then I couldn't find one. But no, I legit

534
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: just forgot where they were, and in the heat of

535
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: the moment, we were both drunk and stupid and have

536
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: to carry on anyway rather than put the clothes back

537
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: on and go out to try to buy some Yeah,

538
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 1: I found out Steve's sorry that Oh that's crazy thing

539
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: to ask. Yeah, yeah, it's kind of wild. I found

540
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 1: out Steve's ethnicity. To put it simply, he's mixed. I'm

541
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: not going to tell you his ethnicity is because that

542
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: would start to get too specific. He speaks the language

543
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: of one of his ethnicities as a second language, and

544
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: he sent me some YouTube channels that have some children's

545
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: songs in that language so kiddo can be exposed to it.

546
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: So we've been listening to those. That's cute. That's cute.

547
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: I think it's super cool. Some of my friends' kids

548
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: who I babysit are now super into it as well.

549
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: Maybe they'll all grow up to be bilingual in the

550
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: language in the middle of insert name of mostly white

551
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: small town in a mostly white state here.

552
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 2: Love that. Yeah, what do we guess Minnesota. I'm gonna guess.

553
00:26:52,720 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 1: Trucker stop like like like like Oklahoma, Okay, yeah, yeah, Oklahoma,

554
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: Riley has beef, Oklahoma beans, Oklahomians.

555
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 5: Actually, I would like a.

556
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: Great music comments right now.

557
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 5: I got some stuff. I want to talk to you.

558
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 5: I will meet you in.

559
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 2: The comments, will respond, will be there at him.

560
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: Okay. Some people have pointed out that it's going to

561
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: be important for kiddo to have some other people in

562
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: his life that are connected to his culture on his

563
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: father's side.

564
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 2: Great point.

565
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: I will admit this isn't something I had given a

566
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 1: lot of thought to, and you're not wrong. Something that

567
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: kind of hit me was all the comments about how

568
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: unusual it is to see an Asian trucker. To be honest,

569
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: I never thought of that. Yeah, I hear the word trucker,

570
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: I do always imagine a fat white guy, which, to

571
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: be honest, Yeah, so it is your boy. I don't

572
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: meet that in an offensive way. But I didn't really

573
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: think of meeting an Asian trucker, or I didn't think

574
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: of it that way. Seeing all the comments made me think, like,

575
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: what if my son wants to grow up to be

576
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: a trucker or something like that, Are people gonna say

577
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: it's weird because he's Asian. That's not right. He should

578
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: be able to pick whatever he wants to do without

579
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: people thinking it's weird.

580
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 2: There we go.

581
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: I don't care if he wants to be a trucker, mechanic, ballerina,

582
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: pro athlete, cop waiter, none of the above.

583
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 2: All of the above.

584
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: Like, I know, the comments weren't poorly intentioned, but the

585
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 1: idea of my son ever hearing that it's weird for

586
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 1: him to do something because his Asian kind of broke me.

587
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know it's not the same, but I

588
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: grew up hearing that. I was weird to do things

589
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: I loved because I was a girl. I already decided

590
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 1: long ago my son can be as masculine or feminine

591
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: as he wants, And if anyone has any crap to

592
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: say about it, they gotta go through me.

593
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 3: They're gonna go meet Opie in the comments. He's gonna

594
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 3: beat you up around him.

595
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I feel like I feel like Opie is

596
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: a real one. Yeah, But then there's this whole other

597
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: angle I've never considered that he will probably experience, and

598
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about it. So yeah, I am

599
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: glad that he's gonna have his dad in his life,

600
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: and really just more family in general. Steve hasn't told

601
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: them about kiddo yet, so Steve's family, but he says

602
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: he's not worried that they'll be disapproving or anything.

603
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 2: He's just waiting for the right time to break the news.

604
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: My family is totally disapproving, and I've pretty much stopped

605
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: talking to my parents since they're mad. I refuse to

606
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: give ketto up to adoption to my AUNTI uncle whoa what?

607
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: That's whoa classic crazy reddit?

608
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 4: Yeah? Give you? How dare you?

609
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: What?

610
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 7: Is these family members? The state I'm thinking that God

611
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 7: was your state again.

612
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 5: Oklahoma, I forgot.

613
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: I forgot the babe.

614
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 2: How can I forget Minnesota?

615
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said, Minnesota said, but now we're brainwashing you

616
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: in Oklahoma and you want to fight, So.

617
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, just give him what he wants, y'all. Just give

618
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 2: him the fight fight now.

619
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: I am totally rambling now, but I guess the other

620
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: thing people commented about was child support. Turns out Steve

621
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: isn't doing very great financially right now, and his family

622
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: is going through some serious hardships that he's been helping with,

623
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: so he asked if he can backpay child support later.

624
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: I just told him not to worry about it. I

625
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: don't really need back pay. I don't really need child

626
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: support at all. I don't want to wrangle any money

627
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 1: from him, and any money he gives me for the

628
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: kiddo it should be because he wants to. I give

629
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: kiddo stuff because I love him and want to take

630
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: care of him. If Dad gives him anything, it should

631
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: be for the same reason, not because he has to.

632
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: I also told him, just in case, if he doesn't

633
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: want to be kiddo's dad, he can walk away right

634
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: now and never contact me again. I won't go after

635
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: him in court or anything. I don't want to introduce

636
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: kiddo to any father who thinks of him as a

637
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: burden or an obligation. He assured me he genuinely does

638
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: want to meet him and be a part of his life.

639
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: So that's good.

640
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Yes. Anyways, Yeah, that's the update for now. I will

641
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: post again when Steve gets a chance to meet the kiddo.

642
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: By the way, on my last update, I think I

643
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: got a little carried away arguing with people who apparently

644
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: didn't even read my post. This time, I'm going to

645
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 1: try and make an effort not to do that. I

646
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,959
Speaker 1: was caught a little off guard. But now I'm prepared,

647
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: in any case of these updates to get a lot

648
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: more comments again. And I think I'm more mentally prepared

649
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: to just let people be stupid without.

650
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 2: It getting to me.

651
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

652
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, we've gotten used to that too. Yeah,

653
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: people can't be stupid.

654
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 4: People say things that's right all the time.

655
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: Basically, what I mean is I'm no longer to be

656
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: replying people who say I hate men, because I don't.

657
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: If I hated men, why would I have a son,

658
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: or why would I hide my son from his father

659
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: for a year, or anyone accusing me of anything else

660
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: that I don't do. Yes, there we go. So in

661
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: this next update, I'm guessing there's more.

662
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 2: Oh, there's more.

663
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: This is one fat story, one fat story. Now, how

664
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: do we guess the meeting with the child goes. I

665
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: want to hear everyone's comments if you have any theories.

666
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: But what do you think's gonna happen.

667
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 3: I think it's gonna go so well, and everyone's gonna

668
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 3: be happy, and everyone's gonna frolic in the sun.

669
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 5: I agree.

670
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: I know this is agree with Sophia Day, don't.

671
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: I could see worlds where I could see I'm not

672
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: saying I see the world, but I could. I could

673
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: see a world where Steve meets his kid and he's

674
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: like kind of like we read one recently where the

675
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: wife said, you know, oh, I'm okay with you seeing

676
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: other people on a break, and then afterwards after it happened,

677
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: was like, oh that hurts. Maybe Steve is like I

678
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: kinda kind of want custody.

679
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 4: Oh I hope not Steve.

680
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 2: I could see that happen.

681
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: Oh, Steve, I could see that happening.

682
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 3: But Steve isn't not like a like a what's the

683
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 3: word like living like he doesn't have the proper living situation.

684
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: For that's right, But does that stop him from potentially

685
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: wanting custody?

686
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 4: Do that? Steve? Steve wouldn't do that to.

687
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: Us, would he would?

688
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 5: Steve's a good guy. Real name Brian Sea.

689
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: Call him Brian, Steve Brian Steve Brian. Well, let's see

690
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 1: what Steve Brian does. It's Wednesday, the sixth, He's going

691
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: to leave Saturday. We had a few low key activities

692
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: that we might do depending on the weather, and then

693
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: Steve will try to stop by briefly and visit as

694
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: often as he can when he passes by. But he

695
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: wants to have more time to get to know the

696
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: kiddo for the first time that he's meeting him, So

697
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: he ended up getting a few days off of work.

698
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, pretty exciting, and I'm kind of nervous for

699
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: no particular the reason. I'll post about how it goes afterwards.

700
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: In other words, it's been snowing and has been the

701
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: cutest thing ever to see the kiddo's reaction to it,

702
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: him waddling around through the snow in his little snow booties.

703
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: Oh that is so adorable.

704
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 4: Thank you.

705
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: He also loves sweet potatoes apparently, and then this update

706
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: within the update titled the visit went well.

707
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 4: Yay.

708
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: Hello to all my friends and haters. Here's another updates.

709
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: It's pretty late because I've had a lot going on

710
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: and haven't felt like writing. And to be honest, the

711
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: amount of haters in the comments have been a bit overwhelming,

712
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: and I know I'm most likely going to get more.

713
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: I don't know.

714
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: It's weird, but I feel like this mix of excitement

715
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: and dread about posting, and I consider not posting, but honestly,

716
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: I like the attention. So the excitement went out and

717
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: here's my post. Anyways, it went well. We are going

718
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: all in on this co parenting thing. We have made

719
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: a plan and everything. We are going to stick to

720
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: you occasional visits and frequent facetimes for now, then revisit

721
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: other options later when the kiddo is a little older.

722
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: Maybe Steve's situation will have changed by then and he

723
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: will have a permanent residence somewhere to take kiddo for

724
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: longer visits. But for a while, it'll just be short

725
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: visits when he comes over here. Highlight reel of the experience.

726
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: When Steve saw the kiddo in person for the first time,

727
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: he broke out in.

728
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 2: The brightest smile so cute.

729
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: It was heartwarming and really assuring. Kiddo took to him

730
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: right away. Imagine if he was like just crying. He

731
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: is really interested in people in general, so I thought

732
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: he probably would be. But yeah, I don't know. I

733
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: had been worried that Steve wasn't really interested and just

734
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 1: felt like he was obligated to be in the kiddo's life.

735
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: I think I thought that because he didn't really express

736
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: much emotion about finding out, But now I think that

737
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: that might just be how his personality is fair enough. Anyways,

738
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: that smile was so bright and earnest that all of

739
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: my worries melted away in that moment. I think he

740
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: even looked a little watery eyed when he held him,

741
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:16,720
Speaker 1: which I mean, I mean.

742
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,240
Speaker 2: I would be bob, I would be a wrecked child.

743
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 1: He brought Hiddo seven stuffies, mostly teddy bears from different

744
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: states that he had passed through sense finding.

745
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: Out about him.

746
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's cute. A different teddy from every state.

747
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 2: I love that. And he could probably collect like all fifty.

748
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe that's annoying.

749
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: I don't know.

750
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: Forty eight, forty eight fair enough.

751
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 5: Unless he's a real one, he'd get probably forty nine.

752
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: But fifty yeah, yeah, Alaska.

753
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I sure truggers.

754
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: Dude, we should get him on that show and make

755
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: him famous, get him on this show.

756
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: I sure truckers. Oh you guys do I sure truckers.

757
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know what you're talking about.

758
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 7: I'm just why they're gonna be on my our show,

759
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 7: on the show Ice Road Truggers the History Channel.

760
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: Probably just do it.

761
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 6: Like what if he's like a non ice road trucker

762
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 6: and you get him on the show and you and

763
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 6: you basically sendence him to death.

764
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 5: That's what I think is gonna happen if you try

765
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 5: to do that.

766
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 2: So they disagree with John Day.

767
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: There's a reality show about ice road truckers who truck

768
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 1: through Alaska. It's just chronicling their adventures trucking through a

769
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:25,720
Speaker 1: lot of guys.

770
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 4: Interesting.

771
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 2: It is kind of a hilarious premise that you think about.

772
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: It, but they really, like you know, how they make

773
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,439
Speaker 1: like show trailers. They really make it seem like, oh,

774
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 1: this is life or death.

775
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: It is, which scenarios are or death.

776
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: You are totally right.

777
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 6: There's things are warming up and you think, oh, this

778
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 6: river will hold me so but I'm not gonna hold.

779
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, imagine old truck dude that's read some

780
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 1: of those stories.

781
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, where are those stories?

782
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 2: Steve? Submit your trucking stories to us, preferably Ice road

783
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: ones if you have them.

784
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: He's someday that he's going to collect a stuffy from

785
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: every state for him, a.

786
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:05,959
Speaker 5: Truck every state.

787
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 4: He'll figure it out.

788
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: He'll figure it believe in life after Love. Okay. Kiddo's

789
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: favorite is a stuffed octopus from California.

790
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 4: Kid.

791
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

792
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: Steve says that he's going to bring the kiddo key

793
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: chains for the next visit since Kiddo kept grabbing at

794
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: Steve's keys.

795
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. She's intentional. He sees the small details.

796
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 2: He wants. He wants to be a trucker like daddy.

797
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 4: That's that's cute.

798
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 1: I don't think Kiddo exactly understands that Steve is his

799
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: dad yet, which is fair. I introduced him as dad,

800
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: but he hasn't called him that yet. But he doesn't

801
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: say any words.

802
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: Yet, so I wasn't expecting.

803
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: He kind of just acted like he'd act around any

804
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: other friend of mine, as in happy to see him, okay,

805
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: to be held or to sit with him for a bit,

806
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: but after a while he wants to go back to me.

807
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: That's normal, I guess, Yes, he doesn't know him just yet.

808
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: But it does make me feel kind of sad that

809
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: his dad is a stranger and kind of makes me

810
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: wonder what things would have been like if I had

811
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: just asked for Steve's number in the first place.

812
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 4: What if that's just mouth goes Sometimes that.

813
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: Is true life. Life is life, and that's it. But

814
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: I know it will eventually be okay, and kiddo will

815
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: get to know and love his dad. Just take a

816
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: little time, Yeah, take sometime. We mostly stayed at my

817
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: place and relaxed, but we went to the park in

818
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: the lake a few times, and we went to the zoo.

819
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: It was the kiddo's first time going, which has to

820
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: be so like wild for a baby, like, what are

821
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: these giant hairy.

822
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 4: What are these animals? They don't even know what animals are?

823
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: Crazy the zoo. I wish I could explain the look

824
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: on his face because it was so adorable. He is

825
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: at such a cute age where he's totally fascinated by

826
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: basically everything. Every new animal he would look at, would

827
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: point at it again and again and then look at

828
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: back at me like, holy crap, Mom, are you seeing this?

829
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: It's so cute. Yeah, kiddo and I are going to

830
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: meet some of Steve's relatives over FaceTime. They all seem

831
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: super chill, warm and nice people and are super welcoming.

832
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: They're going through some serious stuff right now, but they

833
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: are super positive and kind. Anyways, that's green.

834
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 2: Flag, green green screen flag, green.

835
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 4: Screen flag flag.

836
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm so glad kiddo is gonna have relatives in his life.

837
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: I'm keeping most of my family at an arms links

838
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: right now for the sake of me and my kidd

839
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: of sanity. But I am so happy that he's going

840
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: to have aunts. Ankles, ankles, ankle.

841
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 2: Got a lot of ankles ankles in there.

842
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: Try that again, aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. Yes, Christian.

843
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: The child support thing I think is resolved. Steve is

844
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: going to give me two hundred dollars cash, which Riley,

845
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: could you once again for us look up the minimum

846
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 1: child support in Oklahoma if you could for us, and

847
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: he will give more. When he is in a better position,

848
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: I can definitely find a good use for whatever he

849
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: can afford to give. I asked if he wanted to

850
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: go to court and work out some official agreement like

851
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: actually making him the legal father, but he was like, no,

852
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: this is fine. I trust you to handle things between ourselves.

853
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: Another great sign for him. So it looks like that's

854
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: what we're going to do. He'll give whatever he can

855
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: and when he can give it. Nice did we did?

856
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: We get an answer?

857
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 6: Right?

858
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: Twenty oh must be paid until the eighteenth birthday. Interesting,

859
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: the easiest Oklahoma child child.

860
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: State.

861
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 5: How much is a trucker mag.

862
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: I feel like they actually make pretty decent income, like

863
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: relatively speaking, like sucker oh, but.

864
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 3: It seems like it couldn't have it couldn't be like

865
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 3: a top earner. Yeah, he's living out of the truck.

866
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 6: Maybe six five k month he makes Yeah, the other parent,

867
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 6: so if he's making like five K month, he should

868
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 6: be paying like six fifty.

869
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, but he's probably not making that.

870
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: It was overnight span And also it sounds like he's

871
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 1: giving a lot of money to his family right now.

872
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.

873
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: So probably up maybe of that five thousand that he

874
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: could be earning. What if he's giving like two or

875
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,760
Speaker 1: three grand of it a month? Yea to his family

876
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: right now?

877
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 5: Or I mean, yeah, crap, arm Oh you have six kids,

878
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 5: you're not doing so hot.

879
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: Wait six kids is only thirty one two hundred and

880
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,919
Speaker 1: sixty five dollars a month. That seems so low. Oh

881
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: but your numbers of overnights yeah yeah, yeah, bring it.

882
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 5: To zero, so it goes below for ever ANNs er

883
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 5: like around forty five, it goes.

884
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: Oh so if you're caring for the kid like more

885
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: than like one hundred and eighty days or something more

886
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 1: than one hundred eighty three one hundred and eighty three,

887
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: you don't have to pay anything. You're already like you're feeding,

888
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: you're driving, you know, you don't have to pay for childcare. Yeah,

889
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: that makes sense. He's not going to be able to

890
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: visit for Christmas, but he's going to come by some

891
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: time before Christmas in New Year's and we'll have a

892
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: small celebration. It's not like the kiddo knows when Christmas

893
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 1: is actually supposed to be, so it works out for him,

894
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: right honestly. Okay, now here's the thing that some of

895
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,240
Speaker 1: you are probably going to judge me for but Steve

896
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: and I actually did end up hooking up again.

897
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 4: I'm not judging that's I'm happy.

898
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: But he did use protecting this time.

899
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: Pause ooh. In my defense, i haven't done it in

900
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: like two years, and I'm never again going to hook

901
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 1: up with a random stranger or hook up without using protection,

902
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 1: And just to be extra safe, I'm going to try

903
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 1: to go on birth control too. But I don't want

904
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 1: to get up sex forever just because I'm a mom now,

905
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: So whatever, judge away, I.

906
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 4: Do not judge. Hook up with whoever you want. And

907
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 4: I hope this stuff with you and Steve works out.

908
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 2: Get that, d queen, get it.

909
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: The only thing I'm worried about is if things end

910
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: up affecting the kiddo somehow, because where things stand, it

911
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: looks like Steve and I are just going to be

912
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: friends with benefits and not get into an actual relationship.

913
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: Maybe that will change someday, but for now, that's what

914
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: we both want. I know people whose parents were married, divorced,

915
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: never married, whatever, and in every category I know, some

916
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 1: of them turned out fine and some didn't. I don't

917
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: think there's any one situation that's best for every family. Yeah,

918
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: I agree, but I've never actually met someone whose parents

919
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: were friends with benefits or met anyone in a friends

920
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: with benefits relationship who is co parenting with them, which

921
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: I feel like is probably pretty common.

922
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like this's got to be This is

923
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 3: all sorts of relationships out there.

924
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think that it's a very common situation.

925
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 2: Maybe in poly relationships.

926
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: It's more common. I don't know any poly couples in

927
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: real life, though, so that doesn't change much. Anyways. I

928
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: don't know why it would be a bad thing for

929
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: kiddo really, but maybe I'm overlooking something. I mean, I

930
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: guess if one of us wanted to end things, it

931
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 1: could get messy. Maybe I'm not the drama queen type

932
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: and he doesn't seem like it either, and that could

933
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: affect the kiddo. But that happens to actual couples too,

934
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: and probably even worse. Anyways, that is basically everything.

935
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 5: So pretty much.

936
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that juicy pregnant story pregnant with juicy details, juicy details,

937
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 1: and it was just delivered to our ear holes everyone

938
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: watching Sophie or Riley. Now that we have the full perspective,

939
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 1: how did Ope handle this situation, I think excellently.

940
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think ten out of ten stars.

941
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 5: Yes, yep, she protected her child, Yep, she looked through everything,

942
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 5: took it very slow. Seems like Steve is a good guy.

943
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: Seems like Steve for every checkpoint he's like past.

944
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, evy trick stops.

945
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 5: But I was afraid for this one. But this one's

946
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 5: pretty wholesome.

947
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 4: Pretty happy and wholesome.

948
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 6: Happy, and we're still working out. I'd like to see

949
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 6: what happens in like a year or two. Yeah, another update.

950
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like they could easily end

951
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: up being together.

952
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, let me see there is another update, because this.

953
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:39,720
Speaker 1: Was probably over a shoo month ish span that they're

954
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: just now getting to know each other again.

955
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think just to give it time. Yeah, could

956
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 4: could become happy.

957
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: Anything anything more? Riley Nope, Nope, that is all she wrote. Literally,

958
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: But Sophia little Birdie told me that we have one

959
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,760
Speaker 1: tiny little story, tiny bit story, tiny baby story, tiny

960
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 1: baby story.

961
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 4: Yes, I think we do.

962
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 1: Let's give birth to it.

963
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 4: Let's read it.