1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Well, guys, when you're married or in a romantic relationship, 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: money can be and often is a hot button topic. 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Have you have you, guys, ever secretly calculated how much 4 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: your partner spends on stuff you'd spend zero on. 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: Uh, first of all, let's do that question. 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: Have you ever calculated, like added up what your partner 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: spends on stuff and why you would never spend any 8 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: money on that? 9 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 3: No, I've calculated and had to go lay down. 10 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: I don't buy calculator. 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 3: Didn't hear, well, I can't calculate it. I've never seen 12 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 3: it come in Amazon packages with a name on it. 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: Can't open them. What do you spend a lot of 14 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 2: money on? 15 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 3: Suits? 16 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 4: Trees and shrub for my backyard? She said, if you 17 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 4: buy another tree, we don't have problem. Don't buy nothing else. 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 4: Don't go down to that nursery getting nothing else. That's 19 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 4: my problem, steady, just creating a beautiful backyard. 20 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, you just had to throw that in. 21 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: Huh yeahs waiting on the h o A stee. What 22 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: about you? 23 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 5: You have a lot of money, He'll buy a watch 24 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 5: and shock all of us. 25 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 6: I've been a long time since I bought a watch, though, 26 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 6: really long time we have a different arrangement now. 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 3: To be honest with you, our arrangement is so much better. 28 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 6: When I first got married, I was still shocked from 29 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 6: I had baggage from my previous relationship, and so I 30 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 6: guarded the money differently because I was afraid what happened 31 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 6: to me before would happened again. And then I had 32 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 6: to learn that I had a real partner. I wasn't 33 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 6: trying to hurt me, that was really trying to help 34 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 6: me get over the top. And so then I was 35 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 6: able to relax about it. Well, I didn't loosen the range. 36 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 6: I just quit count. It is not really a person 37 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 6: you can like put the reins on. I mean, I'd 38 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 6: like to see you going there and saddle hub you know, bridle, 39 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 6: get a bridle and try to hook it on the 40 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 6: mouth and ask hert he quiet? 41 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 2: That ain't that? 42 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 3: Ain't who I'm married? 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 2: It does not have that. 44 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: Well, here's the other question. How does your spending compare 45 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: with your spouse? Is does your spouse spend more or 46 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: do you spend more? 47 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 3: Oh, it ain't even close. It ain't I spend more. 48 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 2: You spend more. 49 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 3: I spend more than my wife. 50 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, Wow, I have been more Rea, Yeah. 51 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 3: It's here. Well, if I spend more, we wouldn't have 52 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: Nothing coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, 53 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: we'll check your voicemailed Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, 54 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: right after this man, you're listening hard morning show