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Speaker 2: Chloe is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan.
Speaker 2: So in a little bit we'll call him and see
Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date if she still wants one. But first, Chloe,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Ethan?
Speaker 3: Oh? My gosh, it's been two weeks. And I, you know,
Speaker 3: I am just so nervous about it because I really
Speaker 3: liked him. He was such a great guy, and I
Speaker 3: I'm hoping I didn't overdo it, But I keep playing
Speaker 3: this in my head because everything went so well.
Speaker 2: You'll tell us about the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't expecting anything on this date, but Ethan
Speaker 3: came like a gentleman. He showed a lot of chivalry.
Speaker 3: He was just it was just like so refreshing because
Speaker 3: it was just like out of an indie movie. I mean,
Speaker 3: we went to a vintage bookstore and then I was like,
Speaker 3: oh good, he goes you know, he's very articulate. We
Speaker 3: grabbed some coffee and then we played cards in a
Speaker 3: quiet Park. I mean it was a dream. And then
Speaker 3: you know, we didn't even we didn't even finish the
Speaker 3: card game because we got a little distracted. Yeah, so
Speaker 3: basically we had a major makeout snashion under the tree
Speaker 3: and he was just like the best kisser ever. I mean, uh,
Speaker 3: it was just like we were made for each other.
Speaker 3: So this is why it's really confusing, because my god,
Speaker 3: it just felt so electrificing. And so that's why I'm
Speaker 3: super confused. I mean, he made me laugh, and he
Speaker 3: made me he was listening to me. I felt seen,
Speaker 3: I felt so respected, like he was just very polite
Speaker 3: but also very sexy and handsome, and I was in
Speaker 3: disbelief that this is a guy that I'm dating. But
Speaker 3: he was also into me at least that's what it
Speaker 3: felt like. And so I I have texted him like
Speaker 3: two or three times, you know, trying to spare it
Speaker 3: out because I don't want to be that girl who's
Speaker 3: constantly stocking him. But at the same time, it's been
Speaker 3: two weeks and I just don't know what's going on.
Speaker 3: I want to text him again. I'll admit that I
Speaker 3: text him this morning because he's like been on my
Speaker 3: brain and so when I see something funny, I want
Speaker 3: to like share it with him, and so I text
Speaker 3: him this mean because I knew he would like it.
Speaker 3: And so I just need a little help on like
Speaker 3: why or figuring out why I haven't hear from him.
Speaker 3: I'm assuming he's busy, but it's been two weeks and
Speaker 3: I don't think that he could be that busy. I'm hoping.
Speaker 3: I hope he's okay. That's the other thing. It's like,
Speaker 3: what if he got in an accident and he couldn't
Speaker 3: call me.
Speaker 4: I mean, I have been I tend to overanalyze a lot,
Speaker 4: and so I just want to like calm the nerves
Speaker 4: because oh my god, that would be so like it
Speaker 4: that I meet someone perfect and then something happened to him,
Speaker 4: and so.
Speaker 2: Wait, how did you leave it?
Speaker 3: Oh? He you know, he kissed me good night. It
Speaker 3: was almost like he didn't want to leave. And then
Speaker 3: he said, okay, we'll see you again, and so I
Speaker 3: took that as I'm going to see you again.
Speaker 2: And you never heard from him again after that.
Speaker 3: No, And so I'm thinking, did he lose his phone,
Speaker 3: did he break it, did he get an accident they
Speaker 3: did he not make it home?
Speaker 2: Did anything happen that you can think of that would
Speaker 2: be a reason to get ghosted or for him to
Speaker 2: ghost here.
Speaker 3: No, I mean I have been replaying this over and over.
Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, maybe he got turned off by I
Speaker 3: have a really big laugh and so, you know. I
Speaker 3: mean I I saw the first time he was taking
Speaker 3: aback and I, you know, try to rein it in.
Speaker 3: But other than that, I was thinking, well, he wouldn't
Speaker 3: have kissed me like he did if he didn't like me.
Speaker 3: I mean, what guy does that?
Speaker 2: Right? Well, yeah, yeah, it can't happen. I'm not trying
Speaker 2: to say that's what happened, but I mean, yeah, you
Speaker 2: think maybe it was your laugh?
Speaker 3: I mean I hope not. Because I really liked him.
Speaker 3: We had so much in common, Like I said, it
Speaker 3: was I have never kissed someone like that. He was
Speaker 3: so great, Like I just I just want to see
Speaker 3: him again, and I hate the fact that I already
Speaker 3: missed him. I've already missed you know, only gone on
Speaker 3: one date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a pretty fast connection. We'll see if we
Speaker 2: can figure it out for you. Okay, thank you, plays song,
Speaker 2: come back and then call him and see if he'll
Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting you and get you another
Speaker 2: date if you still want one.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, all right, Well play a.
Speaker 2: Song, come back and get your first day follow up Next.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Day follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Chloe is on the phone
Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another
Speaker 2: day if she still wants one. But first, Chloe, why
Speaker 2: do you catch us up on your date with Ethan?
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I haven't heard from Ethan and like two weeks.
Speaker 3: But which is really confusing because we had such a
Speaker 3: great time. I mean, I haven't been on a date
Speaker 3: like that in like forever, and I've gone on a
Speaker 3: number of dates. But he was such a gentleman, showed chivalry,
Speaker 3: was so kind, polite, listening, he made me laugh like
Speaker 3: I had him laughed before. And then you know, we
Speaker 3: went on this date that was like from an indie movie.
Speaker 3: We went to a vintage bookstore, grabbed some coffee, having
Speaker 3: great conversation and laughing. I couldn't. It was very surreal.
Speaker 3: And then he took me to a park and to
Speaker 3: play cards, and admittedly we didn't finish the game. We
Speaker 3: got a little distracted. And yeah, so we had this
Speaker 3: incredible makeout session, like I haven't kissed anyone like that.
Speaker 3: He's such a great kisser, and so, you know, when
Speaker 3: we left it, I just felt like, you know, we
Speaker 3: had such a great time. And you know, he gives
Speaker 3: me good night and said I'll see you soon. And
Speaker 3: when I thanked him for the date that night, he
Speaker 3: didn't text back, and so I thought, okay, well, hopefully
Speaker 3: he got home safe. And so I waited a few
Speaker 3: days and text him again. And admittedly he's been on
Speaker 3: my brain and I haven't heard from him, and so
Speaker 3: I'm just wondering what happened. Like, I hope he's okay.
Speaker 3: I did to overthink things. We just had such an
Speaker 3: incredible date and I don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3: Yes, I hope he's okay.
Speaker 5: Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Ethan. Please,
Speaker 5: I'm speaking Ethan.
Speaker 2: What's up? How are you? My name is Jewbel, I'm
Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi,
Speaker 2: I'm Mena. Also on the show, Hi, N's Victoria. How
Speaker 2: are you?
Speaker 6: I'm doing? Okay?
Speaker 2: We do a second went on our show called the
Speaker 2: First Date follow Up. What that is is if you
Speaker 2: go out with someone and they end up ghosting you,
Speaker 2: you can email us to get that person on the
Speaker 2: phone and ask why they're ghosting you. So you went
Speaker 2: on a date about two weeks ago with somebody named Chloe.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I definitely did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And Chloe emailed us and she told us all
Speaker 2: about your date. She thought, you guys really hit it off,
Speaker 2: but you haven't talked to her in two weeks and
Speaker 2: she was wondering if you would tell us why.
Speaker 6: Well, the day was really fun and I had a
Speaker 6: good time and Chloe has some good energy. Okay, And uh,
Speaker 6: it's the humming.
Speaker 2: She hummed, like what do you mean, like while she
Speaker 2: was just sitting there, or in conversation.
Speaker 6: She hummed like the whole time, like at the bookstore,
Speaker 6: during the card game, even when we were kissing, she
Speaker 6: hummed like a tune or just couldn't really tell what
Speaker 6: she was and just hunston humming you. Yeah, it was
Speaker 6: okay in the beginning, but every five seconds it would
Speaker 6: just continue to start, and then it started bothering me
Speaker 6: a little bit.
Speaker 2: Did you say anything to her about it, like, oh,
Speaker 2: just really got that song stuck in your head?
Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah.
Speaker 6: So at one point I asked her, I used to
Speaker 6: humming Sabrina Carpenter's latest song, and she said, oh, I
Speaker 6: didn't even realize.
Speaker 2: I was, ah, some people do that. My grandma used
Speaker 2: to do that. H or maybe she was nervous, Like I.
Speaker 6: Did have a good time with her. It just it
Speaker 6: just struck me as odd that, like we couldn't acknowledge
Speaker 6: that there was a lot of umbing going on.
Speaker 2: It's like sensory overload. It was weird.
Speaker 6: Like at the beginning, I was like, what's going on?
Speaker 6: Is it her? Then I started thinking, it can't be
Speaker 6: humming this long? You know, this as fairly long date.
Speaker 6: I started looking around for a humming bird and there
Speaker 6: wasn't humbird anywhere. It was just the girl I was
Speaker 6: out there with, you know, just I'm in a song
Speaker 6: like a mumble rapper. I started thinking about it and
Speaker 6: I was just like not sure, Like I'm a sensitive
Speaker 6: sleeper and I really don't like the idea of humming
Speaker 6: his white noise when I go to bed, Like just
Speaker 6: thinking of the idea us sucking up and just humming
Speaker 6: the whole time.
Speaker 2: That's definitely that would be weird, all right, that would Yeah,
Speaker 2: that would throw me off a little bit. Well, thank
Speaker 2: you for being honest with us now, Ethan, I'll let
Speaker 2: you know that Chloe is actually on the phone listening
Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Oh I, Oh my god, Ethan, I'm so sorry. I
Speaker 3: didn't even realize I was humming that much. Was I
Speaker 3: humming that much?
Speaker 6: Yeah? You pretty much hummed since the moment you walked
Speaker 6: into the room, you know, right into that bookstore, it
Speaker 6: was humming. And even when we were making out, it
Speaker 6: was humming. I got a little bit, everything was okay,
Speaker 6: I was humming. Yeah, yeah, it was a bit distracting
Speaker 6: of something on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I totally get it. I'm so embarrassed that that.
Speaker 3: I just you know, you just made me really nervous
Speaker 3: because I really liked you and I and I didn't
Speaker 3: think anything of it. Like I said, when you asked
Speaker 3: me in the car, I didn't realize I was humming, Like,
Speaker 3: I don't even know that I'm doing it, and obviously
Speaker 3: I was super nervous if I was humming that much.
Speaker 3: But I'm mortified. But you know, and if you just
Speaker 3: tell me, because I've had friends tell me and I
Speaker 3: do recognize it's the problem that I'm humming again, like
Speaker 3: they one of my friends even said I could never
Speaker 3: be in Ninja because they would know that I'm humming.
Speaker 3: I can definitely turn it off because my friends have
Speaker 3: told me this.
Speaker 2: So you're saying, if Ethan were to tell you that
Speaker 2: you're humming, then you could stop it.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I would be able to stop it because
Speaker 3: I really do want to go out on a date
Speaker 3: with you, and that would be on my conscious don't hum,
Speaker 3: Make sure I don't hum, make sure I don't hem.
Speaker 2: Well, we're making it, Ethan, would you like to go
Speaker 2: on another date with Chloe? Will pay for it? She
Speaker 2: says that she can stop the hum.
Speaker 6: Can I make a request for while your homming?
Speaker 3: Absolutely? I will pick requests from you.
Speaker 6: All right, it's kind of cute. Now that you said
Speaker 6: that you're nervous. That makes a little bit more of
Speaker 6: a cute thing, and then we can acknowledge instead of
Speaker 6: it being healthy. So yeah, i'm in, I'm in.
Speaker 2: I went from Chris cute real fast. Congratulations, Chloe, you
Speaker 2: got another date.
Speaker 3: Oh thank you.
Speaker 2: Jubile's first date fallow up