1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: Talking to Death is released weekly every Wednesday and brought 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: to you absolutely free. But if you want at free 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: listening and exclusive bonuses, subscribe to Tenderfoot Plus at tenderfootplus 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: dot com or on Apple Podcasts. 5 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 2: Talking to Death is a production of tenderfoot TV and 6 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 2: iHeart Podcasts. 7 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: Listener discretion is advised. Welcome back, mum. Well there he 8 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: is on a little MacBook screen. What are you doing 9 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: out there? Where are you? 10 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 2: I'm in the studio. 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: Where are you at? I'm in Alaska? Still? Oh? 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 2: What happened? 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: Well? I had to change our flights. It's a logistical 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: nightmare of folks. It's a thing. It takes a long 15 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: time to get here, so once you're already out here, 16 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: you kind of just got to make it work. I 17 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever needed a haircut as bad as 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: I do right now, and I'm just turning into this 19 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: Alaskan mountain man. I am just incapable of growing facial hair. 20 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: But if you can see it, which I hope you can't, 21 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: it's this weird stubble that kind of accumulates over time. 22 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: It's one of those like etching sketch kind of vibes 23 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: that can never complete a full beard. I'm thirty six 24 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: and I can't grow a beard. It's embarrassing. I hate it. 25 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: It's a little patch right here that just never wants 26 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 1: to complete. It's like someone put like tape right there 27 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: and it just refuses to grow. First world problems. But 28 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: we're out here in Alaska still Mike is not well. 29 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm in the office and it's dinner time, so I'm 30 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 2: waiting for dinner. Apparently it's noon there or something. 31 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: Guys looks like you just three zero pm. Okay, let's 32 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: talk about how fun your flight was yesterday. Though it 33 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: had to be a blast. 34 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: Oh, it's amazing. 35 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 2: Let me tell you about the second flight after I 36 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 2: flew what is it five hours from Anchorage to Seattle, 37 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: then five more hours from Seattle to Atlanta overnight, so 38 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 2: I landed. I got home at six twenty am, and 39 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: luckily I can't sleep on planes, so I'm very well rested. 40 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: So you're refreshed, You're good. 41 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: I feel great. 42 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've got to get a new man. I'm not 43 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: gonna lie. Ever since you've left, we've got a little 44 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: bit lonelier, a little bit more depressed. 45 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 2: You know, no one's cooking you breakfast. 46 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: You never cooked breakfast anyway. No, I think it's one 47 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: of those things where, honestly, the constant lack of daylight, 48 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: just always being dark, eventually starts to make you just 49 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: feel different. I wouldn't say it's necessarily a bad thing yet, 50 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: but I don't have any sort of rhythm or cycle 51 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: to my day right now. This is the brightest it 52 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: will get, and it's not that bright. It could be 53 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: any hour of the day. But hey, we're here and 54 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: today I have a really fun guest. His name is 55 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: Derek Hayes. This guy is pretty much a local Atlanta 56 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: hometown hero in my opinion. He's not originally from Atlanta, 57 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: but he moved here when he was a kid, and 58 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: this is a business genius that's making waves not only 59 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: in Atlanta but all over the country. He was from 60 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Philadelphia originally, and he brought quite possibly the best Philly 61 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: cheese steak to Atlanta that I've ever had. It's called 62 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: Big Dave's Cheese Steaks. And this guy has blown up 63 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: this business and is someone who I look up to 64 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: in terms of how to be an entrepreneur. This guy 65 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: has accomplished so much. He just was nominated for forty 66 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: under forty for Black Enterprise. The guy is a go. 67 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: He actually sent me a DM a few months ago 68 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: and said, hey, let's do a podcast. And this is 69 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: before Talking to Death was out. I just in the 70 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: back of my head was always thinking, man, this would 71 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: be such a fun guest. He came over to the 72 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: studio in Atlanta and we chopped it up for about 73 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: an hour or so, and then that night he invited 74 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: us out to this party he was throwing at Ponsanity 75 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: Market for him making the forty forty Black Enterprise list. 76 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: And I mean, I'm not gonna lie. We were just 77 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: straight vip in that bitch. It was a blast. It 78 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: was It was amazing. This guy really didn't have to 79 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: treat us with as much hospitality as he did, But 80 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: I was just flattered and I had a blast, and 81 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: I consider this guy my friend. Now, before you make 82 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 1: any assumptions about how cool a cheese steak business could be, 83 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: let me tell you that this is quite possibly the 84 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: fucking coolest. This guy is a mastermind and is taking 85 00:04:55,560 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: over the country with new franchises for the business. His wife, 86 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 1: Pinky Cole, has Slutty Vegan. If you've heard of that, 87 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: They are on the pulse of hip hop culture in 88 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: the black community. I had so many questions for this guy. 89 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: Was super honored that he was that he wanted to 90 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: talk to us at all. He is someone I think 91 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 1: is super fun. I look up to. I aspire to 92 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 1: have that. If I don't get that in my life, 93 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: it's fine, but man, it would be cool. Building a 94 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: business isn't easy. I've been doing it for seven years 95 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: plus with Tenderfoot. I admire his risk taking ability and 96 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 1: I think he's got I think he's got what it 97 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: takes to succeed and he's not afraid of failing, and 98 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: I think that is super important. And no matter what 99 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: you're doing, you got to have a little bit of 100 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: that in you to make it out here. And I 101 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: think you'll really enjoy this conversation here. It is dere 102 00:05:52,120 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: Kay's episode six. Well thanks for coming, man, No, man, 103 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: that's that's let's make this history. I uh just been 104 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 1: watching you on the internet and it seems like every 105 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: other day you're killing something else. What is like, how'd 106 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: you get here? And like for those who don't know 107 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: who you are and what you do and what you've done, 108 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: just give me a little little history. Lesson on what 109 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: you're up to. 110 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 3: Well, my name is Derek Ky's aka Big Dave. A 111 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 3: lot of people call me Big Dave. That's my dad. 112 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: I named my business at them. 113 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: He had Okay, I go. I asked you because, like, 114 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: your name isn't Dave? 115 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 116 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: Nah. 117 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 3: He passed away from lung cancer in two thousand and nine. 118 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 3: Oh wow, And I wanted to make his his. 119 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: Name live on. 120 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 3: I wanted to you know him in the right way. 121 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 3: So I wound up opening Big Dave Sea Steaks. You know, 122 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 3: I'm not a big guy, but he was a big guy, 123 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 3: So I represent the big name. 124 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: Naw. 125 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 3: But I'm a kid out of West Philly going and 126 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 3: raised just like you know. Will you know what I'm saying? 127 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 3: Sight out of West heard that before? 128 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you get tired of hearing that? 129 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 3: I'm used to it now. I'm used to it now. 130 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 3: But I was an inner city kid, you know what 131 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 3: I'm saying, just trying to figure life out on the grind. 132 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 3: Always was around my friends. I always was a hustler, though, 133 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 3: like when I iced to sell bean piles and newspapers 134 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 3: when I was a little kid on the corners shoveling 135 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 3: snow for like the richer neighborhoods. I always was, you know, 136 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 3: trying to go out there and make my own dollar. 137 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 3: But along the way, you know, just being in the 138 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 3: situations and the environments I was in, you know, I 139 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: wanted more. I wanted to you know, be somebody. I 140 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: wanted to represent something differently than the opportunities that was 141 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: in front of me. 142 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: Where'd that come from? Though? Why'd you feel that way? 143 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: I think because you know, at this certain it's like 144 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: it's like, at a certain amount of time of view 145 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 3: in a situation, if you want more out of life, 146 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 3: you'll get tired of it, you know. And I didn't 147 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 3: want to be procrastinated, Like I really wanted to make 148 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 3: something different than my life. So two thousand, I would say, 149 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: two thousand and two, Uh, my father and my mother 150 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 3: sent me to Athens, Georgia, my grandmother, I mean, and 151 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 3: my grandfather was already residing there, and I used to 152 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: go down in the summertime. So they was like, you know, 153 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: you're gonna go down there and finish high school because 154 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 3: high school was rough for me and Philly, I'm getting 155 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: in trouble and all that, and you're doing no just 156 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 3: being you know, in the environment you are. Like in 157 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: Philly when I was in school, just the way it worked, 158 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: Like your neighborhood might be going through with another neighborhood, 159 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 3: like on some beefing or yeah, beefing on some beef 160 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: and stuff, and like, really you got I walked to school, 161 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: you know, it ain't okay. 162 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: It's like, hell shit, don't get on the wrong street 163 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: for real. 164 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you gotta walk down the neighborhood. So it's 165 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 3: a lot of stuff that you know, what's happening at 166 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: that time. So you know, my parents thought that, you know, 167 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: it'd be good for me to just get another opportunity, 168 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: you know, you know, I shot at life, and when 169 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: I came to Athens, I'm like, oh man, what is 170 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: this Like, I never got a white people. Yeah, I 171 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 3: never went to school out. 172 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: Of the race. Also kill dogs, yeah, but not. 173 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: Needless to say, I had the funnest damn time my life. 174 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: The I mean, it's pretty hard to not have on there. 175 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: I feel like culture shock. 176 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 3: I'm sure, no, it was, but it taught me a 177 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 3: lot of different things because then now from the other side, 178 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: I'm seeing a whole other side of life that I 179 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: never seen, you know, different was what like what was different, 180 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 3: just just the culture side of opportunity, you know, just 181 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 3: seeing like, you know, kids be able to take extracurriculum 182 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 3: activities and actually can afford the shit and stuff like that. 183 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: You know, it's like stuff like that. So I'm like, 184 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 3: you know, this is actually cool. If my friends or 185 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: if other people around in certain areas that I came 186 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 3: up and had these opportunities, man, a lot of people 187 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 3: would be you know, a lot more successful in being 188 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 3: able to help the world. 189 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 1: And I took that in and you wanted to be 190 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: able to do that for your family, your friends, like 191 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: what you were seeing around you, Yeah, I want that 192 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: were there. 193 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, But when I was living in it in the beginning, 194 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 3: I didn't know it was the opportunity because again, you 195 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: come from an environment and then you come to a 196 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 3: new environment and. 197 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: You're like, I don't belong here, Like what's going on? 198 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: So you felt like an outsider. Yeah, in the beginning, the. 199 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 3: Beginning, but I started to realize that, you know, I 200 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: do belong here. This is where God pit me, and 201 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 3: this is where I'm going to succeed at to change 202 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 3: my life. 203 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: And that's what I did. It's really you kind of 204 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: just adapted to Oh no, definitely adapted. 205 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: It wasn't the easier that it was, like me getting into, 206 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 3: you know, premature altercations with people. And I remember my 207 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: first day at school. Teacher I forgot her name. I 208 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 3: think her name is miss Sharp. I said to her 209 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 3: she said something to me, and she was like she 210 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 3: said something, and I was like yeah. She was like, 211 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 3: you mean yes, ma'am. And I'm saying to myself in 212 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 3: my head like yes ma'am, Like I don't call nobody that. 213 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 3: But again it's just so othern like polite shit. Yeah, 214 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 3: but it was a different upbringing. But then over time 215 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 3: I started to see, like it's certain little things of 216 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: life that I missed out on, even though I had 217 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 3: a good upbringing, but those type of principles and morals 218 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 3: that I've seen in the South. 219 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: So you kind of learned like, okay, I should say 220 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: yes ma'am, Like it's very simple exchange, but you're picking 221 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: up on these other ways people are operating es. 222 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 3: And then I'm looking at on the other side of it, 223 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 3: I'm meeting people and like I was an athlete, so 224 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 3: a lot of my athlete friends, they got weight benches 225 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: in their driveways, green grass and all that. I'm like, man, 226 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: you know, I'm from the hood. Like, ain't no green grass, 227 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 3: ain't no driveways, you know what I'm saying. Like that 228 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 3: was different from me. So all of these things was 229 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 3: a privilege. I'm like, y'all understand. And then they telling me, oh, 230 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 3: this high hood. I'm like this shi hood? You mean 231 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: this is like the suburbs, get nice hood? This is 232 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 3: niceod h, your way here? 233 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: Right? So you know, what was the first big step 234 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: that you took as an entrepreneur that got you set 235 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: on the journey that you're on now. Believing in myself? 236 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 3: You know, like you can wake up every morning and 237 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 3: you could be like you're going to do something when 238 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: you get out the bid, But if you already missed 239 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 3: that hour that you saw you was going to get up, 240 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 3: you already missed that opportunity. So I said, with this opportunity, 241 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 3: I was really going to take it. So I told myself, like, 242 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 3: I'm going to be a legal serial entrepreneur. And what 243 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: I mean by that is that I then might have 244 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 3: the education a lot of entrepreneurs had at that time, 245 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 3: But long as I had the first step of saying 246 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 3: I want to be it I'm going to be it 247 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 3: and I'm not going to. 248 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: Quit the bed. That's the approach I took. 249 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: And man, like all the roller coaster rides I've been in, 250 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 3: it taught me something like no professor could teach me 251 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 3: these things in the classroom, right, because like nobody could 252 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 3: teach you how to lose like a half a million 253 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 3: dollars in a month and not knowing what you're doing 254 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 3: in business, like you know, there's no class for that. 255 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 3: So these are the things that I learned along the way, 256 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: And now I could teach people through experience, like I'm 257 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: not telling people and nothing wrong with you know, people 258 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: that took the educational right or even professors, but I 259 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 3: lived it, so me living it like I now can 260 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 3: say like a student can be the listener of a 261 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 3: teacher to say, oh yeah, my teacher actually lived these 262 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: moments and actually lived it and these are the ways 263 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 3: that he did it with the roller coaster rise, and 264 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 3: I could tell you not to do so you don't 265 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 3: get in those jam ups, because in business, you can 266 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 3: have a million dollars two million dollars in a business account, 267 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 3: do it wrong. In thirty days you have a negative 268 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 3: one hundred thousand. You know how it go like so 269 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: like sure, yeah, So like what I'm saying is like, 270 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 3: you really got to know what you're doing. So when 271 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 3: I took the point in my life to understand, like, 272 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 3: okd you got to the point of popularity. You got 273 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 3: to the point of the growth of the business. Now 274 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 3: it's time to scale. What do you got to do 275 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: to scale? You got to go hire the experience that 276 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 3: you don't know. You got to be around people smarter 277 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 3: than you. 278 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: Also, you're recognizing the fact that maybe you're not the 279 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: best at this particular thing, and there's someone out there 280 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: that is. 281 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 3: There's always somebody listening. 282 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: You gonna be humble enough to do that too, right. 283 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 3: Yes, always listen. I tell people as good as I 284 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 3: am and everything that I've done in my career so 285 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 3: far as an entrepreneur, it's going to be somebody better 286 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 3: as something. But what you do with your power while 287 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 3: you got the ball is will make you a legendary, 288 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 3: will make you legend that can't be replaced. It's a 289 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 3: difference between somebody being good at something and somebody made 290 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 3: something legendary because is how many people you've brung up 291 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: in that situation. 292 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 1: To you what's being legendary? What's that mean to you? 293 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 3: What makes what makes a legend to me is knowing 294 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 3: that I can build locations and give thirty to forty 295 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:16,839 Speaker 3: new people jobs, career startups, opportunities at life that they 296 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 3: didn't have that they may have been stuck in life 297 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 3: like it's people in my company that didn't have resources 298 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 3: and opportunities that now have those resources and opportunities to 299 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 3: be able to spread their wings and grow inside my company. 300 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 3: So that's bigger than the dollar. That's bigger than the 301 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 3: actual self of the business, and that's bigger than me 302 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 3: because it's like a whole nest of help of every 303 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 3: time you go to a new city or a new neighborhood, 304 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 3: all of these people who probably America says that you 305 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: know that's in the way of what are they doing? 306 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 3: This gives at least a percentage, a good amount of 307 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 3: the percentage of those people to see that if somebody 308 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 3: looks just like them, even if they don't look like me, 309 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 3: a different culture can change mindsets. 310 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: Coming in a big day, says them. 311 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 3: That's the way I look at it. 312 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: Is that one of the things that I mean, because 313 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: it's really hard, I'm sure what you're doing is not easy, right, 314 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: and it's just always some new obstacle. But is that 315 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: one of the things that keeps your drive going Because 316 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: a certain point, you know, do you have to realign 317 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: why you were doing this at all. 318 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 3: So let me tell you you already achieve all of 319 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 3: the things that you set out to do. Yeah, so 320 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 3: I'm glad you asked that, right. It's interesting, right, Yeah, 321 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 3: that's real interesting. So I'm gonna tell you the part 322 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 3: that that's hard for me is keep leveling the experience 323 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 3: of the brand because you can't be looked upon as 324 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 3: last year as you is now. They have to see 325 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 3: the level and that comes through believing in your people. 326 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: Right. 327 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 3: So the upside of what I'm doing that don't feel 328 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 3: like the job is I love motivating people. That's easy 329 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 3: for me. That's a layup, you know what I'm saying. 330 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 3: I love giving people inspiration. I love seeing somebody who 331 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: may have been down, but my I have listened to me, 332 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: had a conversation with me, or watched me say I 333 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 3: got the ball back, my battery is charged again. I'm 334 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 3: gonna get through these hard times. That feels better than anything. 335 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 3: So that part to me is not even work. That's 336 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 3: like what God gave me, the ability for people to 337 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 3: believe in the missions that I'm driven It does. 338 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: That charge you doing that? Yeah? Hell yah? 339 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 3: Charge me. Like if I'm not doing that, I'm stagnant. 340 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: And if I'm stagnant, I'm like quick saying like it's 341 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 3: like sometimes you know, I'm like a little kid that 342 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 3: got like a lot of sugar, and I'm like, I 343 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: can't sit still when it comes to wasteless time and 344 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 3: hours of a day. I have to go out there 345 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 3: and chase and go get it. Like, if I feel 346 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 3: like I'm sitting stagnant, I feel like I'm losing the 347 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 3: moments that God has given me right now to be 348 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 3: able to grow because everybody don't have the opportunity that 349 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 3: I'm having right now. 350 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: So who motivates you? 351 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 3: The people? 352 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: So you get your motivation from your own motivation. 353 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like people look at the biggest people 354 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 3: in the world and be like, oh man, that person 355 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 3: motivates me. Not to say that they don't motivate me, 356 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 3: because a lot of the big dogs motivate me out 357 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 3: in the world right now. That's in the industries and 358 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 3: not an industry that I'm in. But I get motivated 359 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 3: off of looking at the kid on Instagram who may 360 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:16,719 Speaker 3: have a bowtie company or a little kid that's you know, 361 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 3: they got the little they got the water boys in Atlanta. 362 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 3: You know, I've seen them, you know, transition that into 363 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 3: a company, which is inspiring. You know, Like those things 364 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 3: inspire me. Even when people don't know that I'm watching, 365 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: when they just think that I'm pouring out, they pouring 366 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 3: into me too, to be given me, to be able 367 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: to have the strength, to be able to go out 368 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 3: there every single day and be this person that I 369 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 3: am right now in as well, because it ain't easy 370 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 3: when distractions come your way. I wake up every day 371 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,919 Speaker 3: with a distraction. You know, every single day is a 372 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 3: different thing. Whether it's somebody need opportunity in a certain 373 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 3: way or it's somebody that's not getting the opportunity in 374 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 3: a certain way. Those are the things that you have 375 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 3: to develop and when it comes to growth, because you're 376 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 3: gonna lose friends along the way, you know what I mean. 377 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 1: You can't please everybody. 378 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 3: But what I'm learning this, I'm trying to do the 379 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 3: right thing for me to be able to help people 380 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: develop into what I built. 381 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: For those who don't know. The water boys in Atlanta 382 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: are like the kids who sell bottle waters at like 383 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 1: the stop Frinds and stuff. How much are you buying 384 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: those waters for? 385 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 3: Let me tell you how much I bought into them 386 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 3: waters before it became a company. I actually hired the 387 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 3: water boys and brung them inside the big days. I 388 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 3: actually gave them jobs. 389 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 1: It was on the news. 390 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 3: I took them up there just to work at the 391 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 3: restaurant or what. Yeah. I wanted to give them opportunity 392 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 3: because listen again, if you go rewind back what I said, 393 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 3: I sold bean piles and newspapers on a corner. 394 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: You were doing that same thing. 395 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 3: So when I drove past them, I was like, man, listen, 396 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 3: it's people out here that won't go get a job, 397 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 3: that actually break the law. These kids out. 398 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: Here on the corner doing things. 399 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 3: Now, you know, granted it might have been some stuff 400 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 3: that happened in between of what's going on, but that's 401 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 3: just like anything else in the world. You have, right, 402 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 3: you're going to have the good seeds and the bad seats, 403 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 3: and you can't paint that out for them to be 404 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 3: a bad seat as a whole. I've seen them dumb 405 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 3: boys out there, you know, you know, selling waters. You 406 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 3: know they wasn't you know, even if they wasn't selling 407 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 3: the water, they were entrepreneurs. So let me tell you 408 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: why when somebody can make you give up money without 409 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 3: getting a part. Yeah, well, they like, you sold me 410 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 3: something and I didn't get my product. You're good, you're 411 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 3: a salesman. You are entrepreneurs. 412 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 1: They won't recently gave I gave them twenty bucks for it, yeah, 413 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: on cash app. But then this boy came up and 414 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: was like, YO about me. I'm like, let's put it 415 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 1: with your boy. 416 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 3: But yes, but they got there, like no he got yo, 417 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 3: like hit your boy up on that one. But they 418 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,719 Speaker 3: got Yeah, but they got they hustle. But what I 419 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: appreciate out of all of that is when you really 420 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 3: because like, I'm in a different stage in my life 421 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 3: right now, so I'm looking at the mirror differently than 422 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 3: they looking at it right now. But they don't even 423 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 3: realize inside themselves that they're hell of a salesman to 424 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,640 Speaker 3: be able to get money for Curtsey. You appreciate that, Yeah, 425 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 3: you appreciate it later on to say I was actually 426 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 3: able to get these things without even actually giving you 427 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 3: the product. That's like, that's like the best car salesman 428 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 3: in the world. 429 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 1: Right, you win, Yeah, you win, you got me and 430 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: I just did it willingly exactly. 431 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: So I think those are the things when I mean 432 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 3: creating opportunity. So just like you just said with those 433 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 3: water boys, just imagine right now, it's a millions and 434 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 3: millions and millions of water boys out there that if 435 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 3: they just was in the right moments of life, you know, 436 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 3: they would have the opportunities to be able to show 437 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 3: people who they really are as human beings. That's how 438 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 3: we look at everything when it comes to the community 439 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 3: driven give back of the society that we live in. 440 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 3: Because if you look at all the four walls around 441 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 3: the United States right now, all of it is broken 442 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 3: down into basically stages. When it comes to your net worth, 443 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 3: what do you mean your environment is around what your 444 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 3: household income is. And I think those things when you 445 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 3: be able to take a kid outside of a lower 446 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 3: class income neighborhood, right and you put them in a 447 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 3: just say, if you put them in an average income 448 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 3: neighborhood of one hundred and fifty thousand, two hundred thousand dollars, 449 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 3: that leap of a jump will be able to give him. 450 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 3: It is like an aliu to a slam dunk, because 451 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,719 Speaker 3: that's like taking a kid that was in a two 452 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 3: hundred and fifty thousand dout of a medium income neighborhood 453 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 3: to living in a two million to five million dollar 454 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 3: medium income neighborhood. You know what I'm saying, The level 455 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 3: of opportunity changes. And now I think what I'm doing 456 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: and what I'm going to do is keep giving those 457 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 3: level of opportunities to be able to help the brand. 458 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 3: And that's why I'm franchising right now, which is. 459 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 1: An amazing idea. Also applaud you for doing that. I 460 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: thinks it's really cool and it's exciting to say it 461 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: all coming together. How important has it been for you 462 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: to infuse black culture into your businesses and just even 463 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: from a you know, branding standpoint to a lifestyle to 464 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: everything or like involving the community, because that's how I 465 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: look at it, and it seems like you're doing it 466 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: the best way possible. I mean, how important is it 467 00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: to you? 468 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 3: Is really because if you look at the way I 469 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 3: built the Big Dave's brand, you got food, but everything 470 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 3: outside that food is corridors to something else, like you 471 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 3: got the culture in rap music, you got the culture 472 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 3: in sports, you got the culture in business, you got 473 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 3: the culture in philanthropy, you got the culture in speaking. 474 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 3: You know, all of those elements of power comes into 475 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 3: that one element of the empire, food And I was 476 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 3: able to take all of those things and make people 477 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 3: fall in love with all of those areas. And that's 478 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 3: how I built the brand. I made the culture understand 479 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 3: that this is a business that sells sandwiches, but it's 480 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 3: bigger than that. Right Because I was a kid that 481 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 3: you know, America could have looked at to say, you know, 482 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 3: maybe didn't see those expectations for me, or maybe did 483 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 3: I see them, didn't see them for myself. But when 484 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 3: you get in certain opportunity levels, you able to say, okay, 485 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 3: wait a minute, I was getting tricked out of my spot. 486 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 3: I know that I can do this. And that's what 487 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 3: it did for me early on and in ninth grade, 488 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 3: going to add deaths, see how life works. If I 489 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 3: never seen that, I might not never believe that what 490 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 3: I'm doing all the way right now because I don't 491 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 3: know that it's possible. That's why I said the level 492 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 3: opportunity always beats disbelief. 493 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 1: Do you ever feel pressure to my pressure? Man, that's 494 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: a response. 495 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I feel pressure, And I'm gonna tell 496 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 3: you why. Because so I got one hundred and forty 497 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 3: four lives in my hands, right, and that's my people, 498 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 3: my livelihoods. Yes, like, so outside of Big Daves, I've 499 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:43,959 Speaker 3: built my life to be able to sustain everything that 500 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,400 Speaker 3: I've got going on far as like I get paid 501 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 3: to speak, I got you know, real estate. You know, 502 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 3: I'm in a good position without my business, right, but 503 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 3: I worry about the livelihood of every single member under 504 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 3: any of my roof and my brand and outside my roofs, 505 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 3: and meaning to that. You don't never know how the economy, 506 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 3: you know, it hits, it goes up and down like 507 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 3: roller coasters. So there's a lot that's out of your control, right, Yeah, 508 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 3: So I take my best practice and being a good businessman, 509 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 3: a great CEO, and you know, making sure that my 510 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 3: business and my books and everything is in order so 511 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 3: that I survived the months where business might be slower. 512 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 3: Because listen, it's the difference between you got one location 513 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 3: and you're having a bad money if you got a 514 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 3: bad money on seven different things, man. 515 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I didn't know what that is, Like, Yeah, 516 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: it's doing the math here, So I guess you're just 517 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 1: timsing it by seven. Yeah, so it's like loss or 518 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: a big win, right, Yeah, you can have a big 519 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: loss of a big win. 520 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 3: But thankfully, you know, I've been having a lot of 521 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,199 Speaker 3: big wins and this has been my winning season and 522 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 3: I'm going into my storm. Twenty twenty four is gonna 523 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 3: be my storm. 524 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: What's the storm? 525 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 3: The storm is going to be me franchising. The storm 526 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 3: is going to be more big daves getting built corporately. 527 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 3: The storm is going to be they see that the 528 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 3: brand just up get to the you know, a higher 529 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 3: level of what I've been doing through the year to 530 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 3: year and now this year, they actually going to see 531 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 3: that it's getting the roses that it always deserves. Because 532 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 3: sometimes you can have something really good and have it 533 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 3: too good too fast, and you gotta pivot right. And 534 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 3: I got a lot of popularity, you know, real fast 535 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,439 Speaker 3: after you know a certain amount of time, and so 536 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 3: what do you do with that? 537 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: Because you feel like, hey, I gotta make sure I 538 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: make this ship work now and just celebrate too much 539 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: or what. 540 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 3: My passion, My passion was getting me through a lot 541 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 3: of years. Passion is not going to be the only 542 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 3: thing to get me to the top, right, It's going 543 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 3: to be understanding between wants and needs and the principles 544 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 3: of that. Because like I can, I can be sitting 545 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 3: here talking to you and my passion can be driven 546 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 3: so much at a high expectation level. But if I 547 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 3: don't go out and get the things and the tools 548 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 3: I need to get that's inside that passion that I 549 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 3: got built up, I still can't make. 550 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: The dream work. Then you're all talk. 551 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,360 Speaker 3: I'm all talk, because then you're just a person that's 552 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 3: a dreamer. You ever heard somebody say maybe it's a 553 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:12,679 Speaker 3: big dreamer. 554 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know some dreamers exactly a lot of people. 555 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 3: I think every single American or outside of America is 556 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 3: a dreamer. But what I'm saying is, like, how many 557 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 3: people are going to actually put the dream and drive. 558 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: So for you? How do you do that? Because everyone 559 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: always says, you know, stuff like believe in yourself and 560 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, But like, how do you actually take 561 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: that into an action? 562 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 3: I never said this publicly, and I'm gonna say to you. 563 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna drop it to you, all right, This is 564 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 3: how I really feel about that question. I feel like 565 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 3: God didn't give me breath inside my body to waste time. 566 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 3: He bring me here to create, to create environments, opportunity 567 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 3: and everything that he built. As a student, I'm going 568 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 3: to become a teacher. 569 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: So you feel obligated with your life that you're given 570 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 1: to do this stuff. Yeah, I mean listen, well you're 571 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: blowing it no how you feel, right, yeah, because like 572 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: this is the whole thing. This is the whole thing, right, 573 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: So I was My friend just said this to me 574 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: last week, and it was very interesting. Some people think 575 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: about the next generation. Some people think about right now. 576 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: Some people are hustling for the next three hundred years. 577 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 3: I want to hustle for the next three hundred years 578 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 3: because if I hustle for the next three hundred years, 579 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,159 Speaker 3: then my kids kids' kids are good. Do you know 580 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:28,640 Speaker 3: what I'm saying? 581 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: You think about you thinking about the generation of your family, 582 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: and yes, your entire legacy essentially, right, So I. 583 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,479 Speaker 3: Built So put it this way, just like you your parents 584 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 3: now built the generation that brung you in. Now you 585 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 3: carry the torch. It's like a baton like running track, 586 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 3: like you have to pass that to the next generation. 587 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 3: And then if you don't do that, that's when the 588 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 3: generational wealth gap happens and it comes into a disaster 589 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,479 Speaker 3: of the generation because all of us may not know. 590 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 3: We may have came from generations hundred years ago that 591 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,640 Speaker 3: actually was wealthy, right, you actually, and it just passed 592 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 3: to the wrong hand. It might have went to the 593 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,199 Speaker 3: wrong hand. You just never know. 594 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: But if they did exactly how to create it. 595 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 3: So now that you created it, now that you know 596 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 3: these things, you know that shit. Honestly, maybe your kids 597 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 3: ain't as strong as you and be able to build 598 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 3: the same legacy you built, right, But if you teach 599 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 3: them how to carry that legacy, it's easier. 600 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 1: Listen. 601 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 3: I tell people this all the time. It's harder to 602 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 3: build an engine than it is to start a car. 603 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 1: So, yeah, do you know what I'm saying. I do. Yeah. 604 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 3: So if I can go ahead and start a car 605 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 3: and build that engine, I'm built it. I built the engine. 606 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 3: All you do is start the car and you and 607 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 3: you work on the next model coming out, because that 608 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 3: might have been built for you in front of you 609 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 3: and showed you the next legacy where you're supposed to chase. Now, 610 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 3: if I show you nothing. You got to start from scratch, 611 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 3: and I might not have made you strong enough to 612 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 3: do that, but I know I was. 613 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: Describe one of the hardest times in your career when 614 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: you were start out, busting your ass, grinding long hours, 615 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: probably not a lot of sleep, trying to make Dave's work, 616 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 1: Like what was that like? Trying to remember back when? 617 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: Like because also I think the mentality is probably different 618 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: back then, because in that grind mode, when you've not 619 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: achieved that level of success like you have, I feel 620 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: like there's a in some ways, it's the mindset is 621 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: easier because you have almost nothing to lose. But now 622 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: you have something to lose because you've built so much. 623 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: Like but now you just have to like elevate and evolve. 624 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: But like, take me back to that time when you're like, 625 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: let's make this shit go. 626 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 3: So it's two different size to the coin it is, right, 627 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 3: So I'm a better entrepreneur and a better businessman than 628 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 3: I was then because I want those mistakes, because I 629 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 3: want to those experiences that you're talking about, that those 630 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 3: were the ugly truths of learning know how to actually 631 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 3: operate a business. Now I moved off of a lot 632 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 3: of panic back then, what do you mean there's something 633 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 3: go wrong? I gotta you know, like I'm all over 634 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: the place instead of just taking my time, Like the 635 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 3: route to a problem is understanding the solution of the problem. 636 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 3: You have to like if I now go to the 637 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 3: find the root of the problem right now, I have 638 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 3: to put a policy in place that fixed that problem. 639 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 3: Back then, I was fixing problems, and when I'm paying policy, 640 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 3: I was just fixing, like fix, fixed, fixed, fix. Now 641 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 3: I'm fixing and paying policy so that don't happen again, 642 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 3: so that the company can grow, it can elevate, it 643 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 3: can turn into something else, because if I don't do 644 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 3: those things, then it becomes a popular disaster. And I 645 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 3: don't want to tell a popular story. I want to 646 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: tell a legendary story when I'm dead and gone. I 647 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 3: may I may not outlive this name of this brand, right, 648 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 3: but what I want is I want this brand to 649 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 3: live while I'm dead. 650 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: Why do you want that so badly? 651 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 3: Because I know that if kids read a story about 652 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 3: something that was just like them, even if there was 653 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 3: one percent of them that read it or believed it, 654 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 3: it's just like I was telling you before, it's something 655 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 3: that I'm painting a picture so that they can believe 656 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 3: like I would do for my kids. If I'm passing 657 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 3: generational up to them. 658 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: You're looking at it like the other you out there. Yeah, 659 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: there's a lot of other means out there. 660 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 3: As soon as they get the resource and the opportunities, 661 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 3: they're gonna be able to show who they are. And 662 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 3: even if I never give them a dom I gave 663 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 3: them a resource by looking at me saying that they 664 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 3: can do it too. So a lot of people miss 665 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 3: that aspect of what are you doing for people? If 666 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 3: people can look at a reflection their view, and if 667 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 3: you're out there doing something where I'm gonna tell you 668 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 3: shit half the time, I might want to be living 669 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 3: like a regular Americans. Sometimes I want to go out 670 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 3: there and you know, just like my old dies. But 671 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 3: I have to, you know, make sure that you know 672 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 3: it's kids looking at me now, there's people looking at 673 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: me now. I have to make sure that I am 674 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 3: being the picture that I painted to them to give 675 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 3: them that motivation. Now, I'm not perfect. I'm going to 676 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 3: have my imperfections. I ain't painting that picture. I ain't 677 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 3: painting a precture that I'm just perfect dude. But what 678 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 3: I am painting is that I got my stuff together, 679 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 3: and if you believe that, you will have your stuff together. 680 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: Too, and you're taking that responsibility seriously. 681 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 3: I take it very seriously because I know how important 682 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 3: it is to be in a trap. And what I 683 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 3: mean is the trap is if every day that we 684 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 3: wake up, me and you can't inspire each other, we 685 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 3: in the trap. You have to see something to get inspired. 686 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 3: We're people and if you can't get inspired off of anything, 687 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 3: you around nothing every day. I want people to see 688 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 3: what what's out here? It's more life out here. It's 689 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 3: a lot of life out here that we never seen. 690 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 3: And me believing in this Chief State Company has made 691 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 3: me see so many different cities, so many different states, 692 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 3: so many different countries, meet so many different people, different 693 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 3: ethnic groups, backgrounds, everything off of believing in this sandwich 694 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 3: helped me understand that it's a lot more life to 695 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 3: live out here. 696 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: Right. So will be your advice to someone who maybe 697 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: doesn't have that inspiration motivation in their life. 698 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 3: Go hang around it, Hang around it. 699 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to Where do you look for that? 700 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: Where do you find that? 701 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 3: I don't care if you go listen, you can go 702 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 3: go to a Starbucks, go I don't care where you go, 703 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 3: just go around something that's not what you've been around 704 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 3: and see if that can give you a spark. It's 705 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 3: like being in a bad relationship every day. Whether it's 706 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 3: a personal or business matter, don't matter. If that relationship 707 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 3: isn't leveling you up. You in a wrong relationship. You 708 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 3: see what I'm saying, Because you ain't supposed to be 709 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 3: the man you was last year. You're supposed to be 710 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 3: a better man. 711 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: Now. 712 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 3: You might have went through way more shit than you 713 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 3: went through a year to year, but it's up for 714 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 3: you to understand psychologically what you prepare for it, because 715 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 3: now you have to understand that life is going to 716 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 3: be life. But you got to move on from those 717 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 3: things because you've been through those environments and those systems already. 718 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 3: So you can't go backwards and say, oh, man, I'm 719 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 3: gonna let this person get to me that's said this 720 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 3: about me or did this. You're always gonna get talked about, 721 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,080 Speaker 3: whether it's gonna be good or bad. My grandfather I 722 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 3: always told me this. He said, they're gonna talk about you, 723 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 3: whether it's good or bad. So do it any damn way. 724 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 1: They're gonna talk shit either way. 725 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. And the thing is when you had that mindset, 726 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 3: you don't worry about Look, I used to be that 727 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 3: guy that used to be like, hey, I gotta ask 728 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,399 Speaker 3: a couple of my friends, like, what do you think 729 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 3: about this? Should I do it? No? I'm doing it 730 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 3: now off of my gut. 731 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: Why were you asking that? Why were you pulling the 732 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 1: room like that? You can have. 733 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 3: It's not a confidence thing. It's more so that you 734 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 3: want to make a validation, right, But the only validation 735 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 3: that you have is your gut in your life. 736 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: But you've changed that. You're saying that you used to 737 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: do that, but now you don't. 738 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 3: It's no like I still know what I mean? Is 739 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 3: I still know I do more so I live off 740 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: of the validation of what I believe in. But I 741 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 3: have a structure to my validation now, so it makes sense. 742 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 3: So it's not just like I'm jumping off the cliff 743 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 3: for every single thing. But like, okay, for example, if 744 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,800 Speaker 3: I got to spend seven hundred thousand dollars to build 745 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 3: the location, I don't want to just go off of 746 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,959 Speaker 3: with people validate. I have to feel it. I don't 747 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 3: feel it. It ain't getting built there. I don't care 748 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 3: how the validation is because I have to understand that 749 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 3: I feel good about the thing that I always been 750 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 3: believing in, and it's his brand and the way I've 751 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 3: been building it. Because you ever heard that that they 752 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,879 Speaker 3: say the if it ain't if it ain't broke, don't 753 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 3: fix it, right, So my my psychological logic to that is, 754 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 3: if it ain't broke, don't fix it, but polish if 755 00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 3: it ain't even broke. I think my homegirl just says 756 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 3: something like that, Milano, she have a clothing company, and 757 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 3: you always got to work on something every single time. 758 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,919 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like you to make it better, 759 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,439 Speaker 1: like even it's a small nuanced thing. 760 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 3: But yeah, because think about it, if I come on 761 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 3: your show again in two years, it's the same exact thing. 762 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 3: I didn't see. 763 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: Growth from this here talking the same Yeah. 764 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 3: If I come on there to even richer, yeah yeah, 765 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: And now I can talk to you and we having 766 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 3: a same conversation. But I can tell the level A 767 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 3: of your brand, right, I could feel it. I'd want 768 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 3: you to hopefully see that in me. Yeah, hopefully I 769 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 3: prest Yeah because guess what, because guess what I might 770 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 3: have came on your podcast at that time and my 771 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,439 Speaker 3: battery just ain't charged and happen. 772 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:25,399 Speaker 1: I might have. 773 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 3: Walked in and said, damn man, two years ago, I 774 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 3: remember coming into your podcast, and now you got a 775 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 3: whole big, damn building. You're doing these things. But you 776 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 3: get what I'm saying. So now I'm saying to myself, like, yo, man, 777 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 3: like that's inspiring. I actually was on his podcast and 778 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,280 Speaker 3: I've seen him grow, Like that's what I mean by growth. 779 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you want to see people around you doing 780 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: that too. Yeah, And that's where it comes back to 781 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: you being sort of the natural motivator, right, Yeah. 782 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 3: Like it takes a lot of juice to be to 783 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 3: be me every day. But just the thing, I'm not 784 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,760 Speaker 3: doing this for your likelihood, right, I'm doing this because 785 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 3: it makes me feel good when I wake up in 786 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 3: the morning. So it's not your opinion is not stopping 787 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 3: me or making me move forward on what I want 788 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 3: to be out of my life. 789 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: Got any haters out there. 790 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 3: I mean, everybody got hated. The hardest thing when it 791 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,440 Speaker 3: comes to the whole hating environment is that people just 792 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,879 Speaker 3: don't understand how you did it. How did you make it. 793 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 3: Why did God pick you? So they're jealous or confused. 794 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 3: They don't even understand what they are. They just know 795 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 3: it feels better when they's a person that get the 796 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 3: success they don't know. 797 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:33,799 Speaker 1: I would put it that way. 798 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 3: If they don't know that person, it feels better because 799 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 3: then you can congratulate them, right, But if you knew 800 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 3: them more so likely your haters are going to be 801 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 3: the people that watched you get to the bag or 802 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,240 Speaker 3: watch you get to the success because they can't figure 803 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 3: out their once and their needs. But if they had 804 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 3: took the likelihood to say, you know what, I'm gonna 805 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 3: jump on this thing that's working and let's build together 806 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 3: so they listen. Everybody want their egos stroked, Everybody want 807 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 3: to feel good. But the only thing that's going to 808 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 3: happen is. 809 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 1: Your hard work. 810 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 3: Why do people think that you're You're the person that's 811 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 3: supposed to get these things to happen for you, And 812 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 3: that's showing who you are as a person. If you 813 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 3: just think that these things are going to fall in 814 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 3: your lap, it's not. You can wake up every day. 815 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 3: Everybody thinks they're special. You know, we tell ourselves that 816 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,759 Speaker 3: all day, But you're not special to the world. You 817 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 3: might be special to yourself, but what makes you special 818 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 3: to the world is when they can feel with type 819 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 3: of heart you are, what type of human you are, 820 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:30,799 Speaker 3: what type of special is that you're putting into the 821 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 3: world to make the world better. That's what makes people 822 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,359 Speaker 3: pour into you. And when people are not doing that, 823 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,920 Speaker 3: they wonder why, you know, things aren't happening for them. 824 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 3: And even when people are doing those things, I think 825 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 3: everything is time. And like you know, I've been doing 826 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 3: these things for years and years and years, and a 827 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,440 Speaker 3: lot of times I wasn't getting hand claps, but I 828 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 3: wasn't doing it for the hand clap, right, I was 829 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 3: doing it because I wanted to do it and it 830 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:51,920 Speaker 3: felt good. 831 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna do it no matter if you made it 832 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: or not. 833 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, because this is the thing I knew that I've 834 00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 3: seen other lives like I seen like I've seen lives 835 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 3: change through my business. I've seen people come to me 836 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 3: publicly and say, listen, you made me want to be 837 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 3: a better me. You made me get out the streets, 838 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 3: you made me stop selling drugs, like you made me 839 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 3: want to get an LLC. Like these things is we're 840 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 3: pouring to. 841 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:19,720 Speaker 1: Me Yeah, that, like I would imagine, gets you through 842 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:21,320 Speaker 1: the hard times that you have to. 843 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes I'm pouring into them and I'm having a 844 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 3: hard time. Right, No, No, for real, Like I got, 845 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 3: I got, I got rich people problems like I got, 846 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 3: like need a million dollars tomorrow. 847 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 1: What's a rich person problem you have? 848 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 3: You can say the richest the richest person problem I 849 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 3: probably had was man ship everything just building, like you 850 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 3: just spending millions of dollars a year, you know, building 851 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 3: these locations. I mean you you know, I see millions 852 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 3: go and come and go and come, and you know, 853 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 3: and I know I'm building a massive empire. So that 854 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 3: feels good. But you know, the way I look at 855 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:00,959 Speaker 3: a million dollars might not be the somebody else looks 856 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 3: at a million dollars, you know. And growing up as 857 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 3: a kid, I used to wish to God to say, God, 858 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 3: I just need a million dollars and I'm gonna be 859 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 3: rich forever, right my bills, you know, Like you know, 860 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 3: so I'm looking at that like, you know, the spending, 861 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 3: this is a million dollars. So like when you're looking 862 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 3: at it that way, you know that you have grown 863 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,879 Speaker 3: so many levels in life that you got other people 864 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,839 Speaker 3: problems now, you know, and I've grown to have those 865 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 3: people problems and it's a gift in the case. But 866 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 3: what I could say is I'm the one percent that 867 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 3: made it and then believe that I can get that far. 868 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,960 Speaker 3: And that's what feels good right now. And I'm gonna 869 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,919 Speaker 3: give myself those flowers every single time. 870 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:39,240 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you did it feel weird or 871 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: validating whenever you seem to start getting your flowers from people, 872 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,800 Speaker 1: this actualized success in the eyes of peers and fans 873 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:50,400 Speaker 1: or the internet. 874 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 3: No, because you know why, if I keep dripping thirty 875 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 3: a game, you go eventually give me a scoring title, right, 876 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,719 Speaker 3: I said, if I keep driving thirty a game, they 877 00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,319 Speaker 3: go eventually recognize and see what I'm doing. So it's 878 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 3: nothing different in basketball, you know, it's a sport. Entrepreneurship 879 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,840 Speaker 3: is a sport, you know, Like just like I just 880 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 3: made forty under forty two days ago, Black Enterprise. Thank 881 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 3: you for that honorable recognition. Yeah, thank you. And I 882 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:19,320 Speaker 3: just got called Colonel Sanders by Forbes a week or 883 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,800 Speaker 3: two before that, you know, So these things are like, which. 884 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,600 Speaker 1: I actually love that title. You like that I love. 885 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 3: That title because you know, no, it's no. It shows 886 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 3: it shows the level of where people see, you know, 887 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 3: when it comes to like those recognitions, it lets me 888 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,439 Speaker 3: know that people are recognizing the brand at a high level. 889 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 3: They see where I'm going in the brand, and that 890 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 3: lets me know that I've been doing the right thing 891 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 3: even when the collapse wasn't happening for me. People are watching, 892 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 3: and that's what people understand. Like every time that someone 893 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 3: or you do something great, someone isn't going to clap 894 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 3: like right now, I can call my mind right now, 895 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, mom, I just did this. She's so used 896 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 3: to my accomplishments now she's just like, oh, that's good, 897 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 3: you know. But I'm like, no, man, this is a 898 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 3: real big more important than it. It's like way bigger. 899 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,439 Speaker 1: She's like that's great. Yeah. 900 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 3: So it's like, you know, that lets me know that 901 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,399 Speaker 3: I'm doing things in the world right now. That's even 902 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 3: inspiring the person that came out of Yeah, because they're 903 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 3: so used to accomplishments. It's like, yeah, like you so 904 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, you still you know, honestly, like 905 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 3: I still get up every morning and look at Google 906 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 3: and see what stories I got out right, Yeah, And 907 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 3: to be honest, some of the storylines I'd be like, oh, this, 908 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 3: this is like crazy. But but yeah, yeah, But some 909 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,800 Speaker 3: of the stuff that I beat, some of the stuff 910 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 3: that I make, I'm actually like, I used to read 911 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 3: these papers as kids, and these things like, it's not 912 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 3: too many outlets right now that exist. I haven't been 913 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,320 Speaker 3: in off of a cheese steak, you know what I'm saying. 914 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: Which is wild to think of. 915 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 3: Yes, and and that's what I mean. When you come 916 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 3: to like the one percent, the ones that's not going 917 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 3: to give up, the ones that's going to keep going, 918 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 3: let me tell you something. You can look at this 919 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,360 Speaker 3: and say, this is the room. If you get to 920 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,120 Speaker 3: the room, he gets to the room, he gets to 921 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 3: the room. I'm in the room. No matter how each 922 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,680 Speaker 3: of us got to that room, we made. 923 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 1: It to that room. 924 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 3: If you played golf, he played soccer, he cooked, and 925 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 3: I was a dishwasher. I became a famous dishwasher. I 926 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 3: made it up to that room. 927 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:11,359 Speaker 1: Yep. 928 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 3: Guess what you're successful. That's how I look at you. 929 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 1: Yep. 930 00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 3: All I'm looking at right now. 931 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 1: Is you're just knucking the back door. You still got 932 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,880 Speaker 1: here exactly. 933 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,280 Speaker 3: Don't matter even if I was a fly on the wall. 934 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 3: I'm in that room even if I didn't have a 935 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 3: seat at the table. Y'all closed the door and allowed 936 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,240 Speaker 3: me to be in that room. That's how appreciative I am. 937 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 3: But if you let me in the room, I'm gonna 938 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,239 Speaker 3: make my own table and I'm gonna get a chair 939 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 3: to that table every single time because I'm always going. 940 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:40,799 Speaker 1: To be me. Where does this what's the end game? 941 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 1: The game? Where does it or does it end? What's 942 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,959 Speaker 1: the what's the final goal? Man? 943 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 3: Like, it's even harder now because you know, I'm married 944 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 3: to another entrepreneur. 945 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,839 Speaker 1: Let's talk about her. Actually, if you don't mind, she's 946 00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,400 Speaker 1: also a legend. Yeah. 947 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 3: So like even just being beside my wife every single day, the. 948 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,840 Speaker 1: Level hard with her also so damn successful. No, I 949 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: think it's a blessing for me. You know a lot 950 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:07,799 Speaker 1: of people. 951 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like my wife is on the time 952 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 3: one hundred. Like now they give me a level of say, 953 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,920 Speaker 3: you know, even if I never get that, you know, 954 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,360 Speaker 3: I know that the person that I'm spending enough the 955 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 3: rest of my life with has accomplished that. So we 956 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 3: did it together. Like it's a lot of these things 957 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,719 Speaker 3: that whether she get the handclap or I get it, 958 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,799 Speaker 3: we get it together, So I take share that, which 959 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 3: is cool. Yeah, that moment, Like do you know, like 960 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 3: even at the Time one hundred events that we went 961 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 3: to that she was getting under that I'm sitting at 962 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 3: the table with the editors of Time one hundred, I 963 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,799 Speaker 3: get the chance to talk to them. Yeah, you know, 964 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 3: moments of opportunity. Again, that's the resource that provided that opportunity. 965 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, I take all these things in 966 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 3: there as a blessing, you know, even the things that 967 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 3: I got coming in that she could do the same thing. 968 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 3: So we able to like watch each other back man, 969 00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 3: and it's a good feeling. It's like a level of 970 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 3: motivation because sometimes in weeks I go through downsides where 971 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 3: you know, I might have some level of not even dismotivation, 972 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 3: just like you know, it can be like you know, Rocky, 973 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 3: you're getting punched around. You got to just keep getting 974 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 3: back up. Tough spot, Yeah, tough spot. And the motivation 975 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,680 Speaker 3: from her, the encouragement of words and the same thing 976 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 3: I do for her every single time. So I think 977 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,279 Speaker 3: that's the blessing of being at a high level that 978 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 3: we at right now, because you can take the best entrepreneurs, 979 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 3: some of the best entrepreneurs in the world right now, 980 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 3: and stick them in our businesses and our lives for 981 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 3: a month. They will fold under pressure. Because it all 982 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 3: looks good. There's a lot of handclaps that come with it. 983 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 3: But it takes endless hours of meetings, endless hours of traveling, 984 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 3: endless hours of being on zooms, endless hours of coming 985 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 3: up planning. Some days me and her only getting Honestly, 986 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 3: this is no cap. Some days we getting probably six 987 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,560 Speaker 3: or seven hours. Is just real time between sleep and 988 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 3: family time. Sure, just just sometimes we're looking at the 989 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,840 Speaker 3: whiteboard for man eight nine hours up to twelve hours 990 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 3: sometimes planning on what the next year look like and 991 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 3: what we're actually planning for twenty twenty six right now. 992 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:12,320 Speaker 1: Damn you get what I'm saying. 993 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 3: So we already have our twenty twenty four planned out, 994 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five, twenty twenty six now is going into planning. 995 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 3: We already know what what what uh magazines that covers 996 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:26,600 Speaker 3: that we went already accomplishments that we want to achieve. 997 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 3: Because even if it seemed too big for you, now 998 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 3: those are the things that you have to look forward 999 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 3: to in. 1000 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 1: Your like you have to markers and you know ghosts. 1001 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 3: I hope GQ watches this. 1002 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 1: I know one day I'm gonna be on the cover 1003 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:40,919 Speaker 1: and we gotta both be on there at the same time. 1004 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to be on the cover of GQ. 1005 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,640 Speaker 1: Like every tight that would be a bucket, Yeah it would, 1006 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:47,200 Speaker 1: it would. 1007 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,600 Speaker 3: But those are the things that like I say to 1008 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 3: put in the universe that I believe me. 1009 00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something about me. 1010 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 3: Everything that I put out in the universe happened. 1011 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: Why is that, you think? 1012 00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 3: Because I believe it and there's no human in this 1013 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 3: world gonna stop me doing it. 1014 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,359 Speaker 1: So you put it out there to make it real. 1015 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,319 Speaker 3: I put it out there because I believed it, to 1016 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 3: make it real when I believed it, so I already 1017 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 3: lived it already. Now it's time to make it happen 1018 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:08,960 Speaker 3: in real life. 1019 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: You're letting yourself down if you don't listen. Get it. 1020 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 3: Everything Everything that I dreamed, from that moment of that 1021 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 3: gas station to now, I've dreamed. It may not have 1022 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 3: been the moments of the moment, but I've dreamed the 1023 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:28,359 Speaker 3: level of success. I've dreamed the level of popularity. I 1024 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,960 Speaker 3: actually even dreamed the level of just giving people that 1025 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 3: inspiration through me. I dreamed of all these things when 1026 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 3: I was just in a little gas station on the 1027 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 3: broken fry and a broken grill. I believed it now. 1028 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,800 Speaker 3: I always knew it was up for just the people 1029 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 3: to see who I was as a person and believe that. 1030 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,720 Speaker 3: But I already dreamed it. Like when you dream something 1031 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 3: you don't want to dream and say, oh man, that 1032 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 3: was a wild dream. 1033 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:50,880 Speaker 1: What if that happened. 1034 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 3: I dreamed it and I said I needed to happen. 1035 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 3: I'm going to make it happen because that dream felt 1036 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 3: too good. 1037 00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: Right, I have to think about this and not I 1038 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: cannot live. That's why to live. 1039 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,200 Speaker 3: Thus, Yes, I cannot live day to day of my 1040 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 3: life in this world not trying to be able to 1041 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,640 Speaker 3: make this dream happen, because it drove me crazy. That 1042 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,400 Speaker 3: dream of minds drove me crazy, and it drove me 1043 00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 3: crazy every single day still today, of level of levels 1044 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:15,959 Speaker 3: that I'm trying to get. 1045 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:16,319 Speaker 1: To in life. 1046 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 3: It drives me nuts. Really, because I love the dream 1047 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 3: I'm in right now. Yeah, And when I dream, I 1048 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 3: dream more. I dream more and dream more. It's not 1049 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 3: saying that, oh, God give you enough. You should be happy. No, 1050 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 3: it's not that. It's the addiction to the dream of 1051 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 3: seeing this massive empire actually be something that you thought 1052 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 3: it could be from a little gas station. 1053 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,560 Speaker 1: So it's quite easy for people to look at your 1054 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: life career and success and say, Okay, like he's sort 1055 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 1: of here and now he's made it to here, he's 1056 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 1: made it. But do you look at where you're at 1057 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 1: right now as like an early chapter in a very 1058 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:54,920 Speaker 1: big book, where you have so much more and bigger 1059 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,879 Speaker 1: places to go, and not just hey, this is it. 1060 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 3: If this was an encyclopedia, I'm just in the beginning, right, 1061 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 3: You know, you're in the interest. You know, people people 1062 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 3: see this this empire that I'm building right now with 1063 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 3: the brand, but what they gonna know me for in 1064 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 3: the end may not be what they know me for 1065 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,920 Speaker 3: in the beginning, right, And that's just the real reality 1066 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 3: of it. I think I'll always be looked upon as 1067 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 3: a serial entrepreneur and I'm going to build a big 1068 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,120 Speaker 3: dave to a massive, massive company which is already headed 1069 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 3: forward too. 1070 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 1: I want you to make Shark take special guess right, Yeah, 1071 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,400 Speaker 1: I gotta be a'd be tight, I gotta be a 1072 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,800 Speaker 1: judge on there it'd be awesome. 1073 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 3: But all of these things that I've already accomplished, it 1074 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 3: feels good. But I think if I sit in these accomplishments, 1075 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 3: it makes you staggerant. It makes you, you know, feel 1076 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:52,359 Speaker 3: like you already won. 1077 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 1: How do you balance that? How do you give yourself 1078 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,799 Speaker 1: like kudos a little bit? 1079 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, I'm not saying that. I'm happy 1080 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 3: as hell, So how do you balance Like I take 1081 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,439 Speaker 3: my vacations, I party, I have fun. I ain't saying 1082 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 3: that I'm a fun entrepreneur. 1083 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,560 Speaker 1: Sink I'm high right now. 1084 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,399 Speaker 3: I'm a fun entrepreneur. But the thing is is that 1085 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 3: I think when it comes to people being stagnant is 1086 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,879 Speaker 3: because they feel like they've made it. Your ego being 1087 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 3: stroked so much. You got money in the bank, you 1088 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 3: can wake up and do what the hell you want. 1089 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 3: But that's not That's not how I see making it. 1090 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 3: I see the level of making it when one day 1091 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna wake up in the morning and one of 1092 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:40,399 Speaker 3: my sons is gonna come to me and may say that, 1093 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 3: what do you think about sitting down and me becoming 1094 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 3: the CEO and you just enjoying the rest of your days? 1095 00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 1: You take mom. 1096 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,120 Speaker 3: Y'all go travel south of south of France, whatever you 1097 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,840 Speaker 3: want to do. And I see that as making it. 1098 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell you why, Because if I can 1099 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,439 Speaker 3: give my son first job as a CEO. 1100 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,359 Speaker 1: I mean it'd be pretty first. Yeah, but you give 1101 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 1: it him if you complete that loop. 1102 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's like Lebron he's gonna and I believe this, 1103 00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 3: he's going to be the first guy that plays in 1104 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 3: the league with the son. 1105 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got to do it, all right. 1106 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you same example I'm making. That's the 1107 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:24,520 Speaker 3: level of I made it. I'm talking about. 1108 00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, for real, it is because you actually. 1109 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 3: Get to see what you love and what you put 1110 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 3: into the world fell in love with through your love, 1111 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,120 Speaker 3: to be able to do the same thing that you love, 1112 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,400 Speaker 3: that is making it. That's called I trained the kid 1113 00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,399 Speaker 3: the right way to understand how we keep this legacy going. 1114 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's that's badass. Tell me about the future 1115 00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:50,960 Speaker 1: of Dave's and the franchise situation. What's the you know, 1116 00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,240 Speaker 1: what's the big picture here? What's the idea? 1117 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:58,240 Speaker 3: One hundred locations in the next twelve to twenty four months. 1118 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: That sounds like a lot, It does but I mean, 1119 00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:02,279 Speaker 1: like in a good way. But I'm like, how do 1120 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 1: you actually do that? 1121 00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:05,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you. 1122 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes we all get one. 1123 00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta take five, that's the thing. You gotta 1124 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,360 Speaker 3: take five. So right now we're not doing singles. You 1125 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:16,719 Speaker 3: gotta take five. 1126 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,800 Speaker 1: In Why is that? Is that? Because it's just easier 1127 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 1: to get skin in the game kind of thing too. 1128 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 3: I'm still a new franchise company, and I want to 1129 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 3: make sure that I professionally get in bed with the 1130 00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,800 Speaker 3: right people, get operators, people that I want to see scale. 1131 00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 3: Like if you start with your five, I want to 1132 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 3: take you personally to one hundred. 1133 00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:34,799 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 1134 00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 3: If I take if I take right now all these 1135 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 3: people to one hundred locations, and that's just you know, 1136 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,800 Speaker 3: hypothetically me speaking, it's easier to get to a thousand 1137 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 3: that way to be able because what they can do 1138 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 3: is like say, right now, if you said to me 1139 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,920 Speaker 3: you want to hold Texas right, and I say, okay, 1140 00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,960 Speaker 3: I give you the whole Texas, but under your umbrella, 1141 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:59,080 Speaker 3: you could bring up so many entrepreneurs to give their 1142 00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 3: own locations to your umbrella and y and that's what 1143 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,760 Speaker 3: I care about. I care about. Who can I invest 1144 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,280 Speaker 3: in just like me to bring in other people bigger 1145 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 3: swings here, Yeah, because listen, I get the bigger swing 1146 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 3: with the person that understands me as a captain that 1147 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 3: can bring in the soldiers versus I can get the. 1148 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 1: Soldiers like hiring other little captains, right. 1149 00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 3: Because like, yeah, but but that's what the soldier, that's 1150 00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:21,200 Speaker 3: what That's what the captain is gonna do. The captain 1151 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 3: is going to be the person to say, okay that 1152 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 3: I look upon and say, oh, you think like me, 1153 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,840 Speaker 3: and you carry business like me, and I know that 1154 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:31,880 Speaker 3: the culture of the brand wouldn't change, and I know 1155 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 3: that you recruit, you would recruit that way. Also because 1156 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 3: we're like minded, we're on the same mission. So that 1157 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 3: mission driven is going to help us get to the 1158 00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,080 Speaker 3: bigger figure in the end with the same type of 1159 00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 3: people that see the vision in the brand. 1160 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 1: I'm with the pivot question. Here, come on, here's your 1161 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 1: favorite basketball player right now? 1162 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:52,360 Speaker 3: My favorite right now? I'm gonna say, uh, I'm gonna say, 1163 00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say Lebron, And I'm gonna tell you why. 1164 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,400 Speaker 3: For so many reasons, Lebron is my favorite on and 1165 00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 3: off the court. He's my favorite on the court because 1166 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,879 Speaker 3: you've never seen Lebron paying any game he didn't make 1167 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 3: somebody better. That's the way I look at my entrepreneur game, 1168 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 3: like I make people better around me. Outside of basketball, 1169 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: he's a businessman. He's made smart decisions. He's been able 1170 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,280 Speaker 3: to create the level of massive success through his empire, 1171 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 3: not just in the NBA, but through investments, and I 1172 00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,279 Speaker 3: think it takes genius level of mindset to do that. 1173 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 3: I mean, you got to think about it. He was 1174 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,960 Speaker 3: already at eighteen years old with a multi million dollar 1175 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 3: Nike contract. So if you give a kid that young, 1176 00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 3: already level of access, anyone can fuck that up exactly, 1177 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. So like, I think for him, 1178 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,720 Speaker 3: he's a goat for that because out of his whole career, 1179 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:50,320 Speaker 3: you've seen Lebron every year go level to level the level, 1180 00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,719 Speaker 3: and now he's at a level now where he's a 1181 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:57,359 Speaker 3: billionaire playing basketball and that's not which is by the way, man, 1182 00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 3: next time I come, you better have some mic coldess, 1183 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 3: just Mike Hovey and shit like I'm up here switching. 1184 00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 1: And I think it's that forty milimeter on that. Actually 1185 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 1: I don't know you said my wrists size that damn thing. 1186 00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 1: But yeah, man, this has been a blast, dude, and. 1187 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 3: I wanted to say this. I want to get your flowers. 1188 00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 3: Like you know, I was looking at you from afire, 1189 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,480 Speaker 3: you know, just being on social media, and you know, 1190 00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,840 Speaker 3: even when I was growing a brand, I just I 1191 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,719 Speaker 3: liked your content. I thought you guys were funny as hell. 1192 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 3: A lot of stuff you dice, but these guys crazy shit. 1193 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:27,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1194 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:29,360 Speaker 3: But it used to just, you know, it used to 1195 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 3: give me that level of like they live life. They 1196 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 3: don't care how people think of them. They just want 1197 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 3: to be themselves, to be able to be the best 1198 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:38,360 Speaker 3: they can be for the universe. 1199 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm glad you That's how I looked at Yah. I 1200 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,480 Speaker 1: did get that. I got to appreciate that because that's 1201 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 1: really kind of yeah, I see the same in you 1202 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: out here doing my thing, man, yeah, and is what 1203 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:49,200 Speaker 1: it is. But like, yeah, I was humble that you 1204 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: reached out. 1205 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,160 Speaker 3: And and by the way, I don't I don't do that. 1206 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, at this time, you know. 1207 00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:55,480 Speaker 1: Not Almos like, oh yeah, what did you reach out? 1208 00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,439 Speaker 1: I was like, what's his right? 1209 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,719 Speaker 3: Because the was for me to do even just you 1210 00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:06,239 Speaker 3: know us linking up was for me to understand who 1211 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 3: you were outside of social media because you drew my interests. 1212 00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying as a person, So I'm like, 1213 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,799 Speaker 3: I want to meet like minded people, whether you're white, black, 1214 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 3: no matter. I want to meet like minded people so 1215 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:22,000 Speaker 3: that the connection. Listen, I tell people this, your network 1216 00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:25,480 Speaker 3: is definitely a network, right, but your resource is your 1217 00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 3: next goal. You know what I'm saying. I know the 1218 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,799 Speaker 3: more people I build with that inspired me in some 1219 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,680 Speaker 3: type of way, I get to my next goal, you know. 1220 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 3: So it's a stepping ladder. So if I'm looking at 1221 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,279 Speaker 3: you and I'm saying your content online and I'm saying 1222 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,279 Speaker 3: how you carry yourself, I want to meet you. I'm 1223 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,040 Speaker 3: in the stage now with my life where i can 1224 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:46,920 Speaker 3: jump out the box and say it's cool for me 1225 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 3: to say, hey. 1226 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 1: Yo, you inspired me. Afraid of. 1227 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 3: No, because I'm me, because I know I'm the ship 1228 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 3: without doing you know what I'm saying. So I have 1229 00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:59,520 Speaker 3: that level of myself. You know, some people Listen, I 1230 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 3: meet Selectason be like, oh yeah, yeah, a little bit 1231 00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:04,279 Speaker 3: about now you know a lot about it, bro, I'm 1232 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 3: everything smoking Yeah, man, you are look at it earlier. Yeah, 1233 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 3: so like, I don't want to be that person. I'm 1234 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 3: gonna give your flowers in front of you. I was 1235 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:13,840 Speaker 3: left precureing that you inspired me. 1236 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 2: You know. 1237 00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:16,800 Speaker 1: So you're just going through your roll decks, You're like, man, 1238 00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:18,960 Speaker 1: I just need like a bleached haired white guy in 1239 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 1: my right. I need to like spice it up in here, 1240 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:27,160 Speaker 1: love it. I was tumbled that you reached out. And 1241 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 1: we're fans of what you guys do, and we go 1242 00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 1: to eat your food too, So we're honored that we're here. 1243 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,360 Speaker 3: And listen tonight, if y'all not doing nothing, I'm to 1244 00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:36,400 Speaker 3: buy a vegan. 1245 00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 1: Celebrate my I'm a thousand percent. 1246 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 3: I'm listening, I'm taking shots. I'm getting getting. 1247 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: Okay, let me let me see. Let me see how 1248 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: this guy gets. It's been a blast, dude, Yeah awesome. 1249 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,480 Speaker 2: Talking to Death is a production of Tenderfoot TV and 1250 00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:55,360 Speaker 2: iHeart podcast created and hosted by Paint Lindsay. 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