1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Ever been laughed of waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Paul, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: How are you Hey? 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 2: Good morning? You could hear from you. 5 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: So, what's going on with Easy? Because I want to 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: try and help you out here. You feel like maybe 7 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: you've been ghosted by Easy? How did you meet? Tell 8 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: us about any dates you've been on and what's going 9 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: on now? 10 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I met Izzy originally on a dating app, 11 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: but from the second I saw her, I just I 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 2: knew she had a good vibe. So we ended up 13 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: meeting up for drinks and it was a good time. 14 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: I felt like personally, I felt like we were meant 15 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: to meet. Like I said, like she kind of seemed 16 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: to like a good match both spiritually and emotionally. So yeah, 17 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: I'm hoping to hoping to find her and see what happened. 18 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like 19 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps. 20 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 3: I feel like it's more like i'd hit it. 21 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start 22 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: and then we you know, hopefully you from there. But 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe from her yeah. 24 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 2: I felt like we were connected and more than just 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: the physical. 26 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 3: That is fantastic. 27 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: Okay, well, then I can understand why you you would 28 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 1: like to hear from her again, but you have it. 29 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna call, We're 30 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call Easy. You'll 31 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: be on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on 32 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: your behalf. At some point you're welcome to jump in 33 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: on the call. And you know, we're always trying to 34 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: make this work and set you guys up on another 35 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: date to pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome, 36 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call Easy. 37 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: You guys met on a dating app and you like 38 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this. 39 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual 40 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's 41 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: what you were feeling. 42 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 3: Oh definitely. 43 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, let's call Easy and see if 44 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: we can connect with her ourselves, and hopefully we can 45 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: straighten this out and set you guys up on another 46 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: day that we pay for Okay, thank you, so much. 47 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is this easy? 48 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 4: Yes? 49 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Is he high? 50 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: Good morning? My name is Fred. 51 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show, 52 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 53 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 54 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: to continue. 55 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: Can we chat for just a second, would you mind? 56 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 4: Okay, I guess what's what's going on? 57 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 3: Well, thank you very much, so much, super into it. 58 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Paul, who 59 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: I guess you you matched with on a dating app 60 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: and you you went out recently. Do you remember meeting 61 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,399 Speaker 1: this this gentleman. 62 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 4: Yes, I mean I'm a pretty buckly person. But the 63 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 4: second we sat down, he started shushing me. I know him. 64 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on, hold on. 65 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: So you you obviously remember this guy. You go on 66 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: a date, you sit down, and he said he was 67 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: shushing you. What do you mean like you start talking 68 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 1: and he'd go no, no, wait, no more me or 69 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: like what do we what do you mean? 70 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? He literally told me hold on, let's sit in 71 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 4: silence toward each other for a second, just to get 72 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 4: to know each other. 73 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 2: Super odd. 74 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 4: I mean he just told me he wanted to feel 75 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 4: my aura for a second and put his finger up 76 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 4: to my mouth and it just kind. 77 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: Of just kind of shocks, like like he was like 78 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: like the shish included the fingers and like your lips 79 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't move. 80 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he wanted to feel. 81 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: Came to break the silence. But through the rest of 82 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 4: the night he kept telling me to stop talking so 83 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 4: we could feel each other energetically. 84 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura. I'm 85 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: always trying to get the aura. I gotta I gotta 86 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: feel your aura. I've been saying that forever. 87 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 3: Wow. 88 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted 89 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: to get the vibes. And how long did this go on? 90 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: I mean probably least another hour or so. 91 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: I mean I knew I wasn't going to see. 92 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 4: Him again, so I just pretend to get drunk in 93 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: the front out. 94 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 3: Wow. 95 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: So not a lot of words, just a whole lot 96 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: of vibes, right, all right, But let me I forgot 97 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: to mention that Paul is here. I guess he's vibing 98 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let 99 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: her talk. 100 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know this this is just helping me, see 101 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: you know, this is what's wrong with our. 102 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: Society, you know, with all of society violence all. 103 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't 104 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 2: sit in it. So I feel like, I feel like 105 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: if we all just gave it a chance, you know, 106 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 2: we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing 107 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 2: to be silent right now, if we all just kind 108 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 2: of sit here in silence. 109 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 3: And yeah, let's let's try it for just a second. 110 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 3: Let's try it. Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes 111 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: right now. I feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy 112 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: in your aura. 113 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: It's it's just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah. 114 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: But is it normal, Paul, would you say to go 115 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: on a date and then not speak? I mean, I 116 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: think that's not really that's that's sort of strange for 117 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people. 118 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 3: And I get that that people. 119 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable 120 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: being a loner in silence. But like, you're on a 121 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: date to get to know someone communicatively. That and of 122 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: course the vibe is part of that. But most people 123 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: talk on a date. I understand, and talking is something 124 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 1: I'm okay with. But I just think to start to 125 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: kind of just understand each other in our purest sense. 126 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 2: We just sit in silence and look at each other. 127 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: That's you know, we're going to get so much more 128 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: on that. 129 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: Is that what that nine inch Nail song is about? 130 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 3: Is that? Is it just about vibes? Is that song 131 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 3: about Paul? Is that what? I think? That? Is that? 132 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 3: What he is? Are you not familiar with that work 133 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 3: of art? 134 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 2: I'm not familiar. 135 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: You're not familiar with him? 136 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: Okay, that's all right because he's you know, mostly silent. 137 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 3: I guess. So this is extremely strange. 138 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: I mean I can see why you would, you know, 139 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: you go on a date expecting to have some light 140 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: conversation and drink and whatever, and maybe you get to 141 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: the whole ViBe's part. But like I don't know, I 142 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: can see why. 143 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 3: Don't shush me. Okay, well that's that's another thing. Yeah, 144 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: don't be shushing Piers away from my lips. Don't shush me. 145 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 3: You can't silence me. Are you there? 146 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: Is he? 147 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 148 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 4: I'm here? 149 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: Oh, did you have any thoughts on that? Or you 150 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: can talk to us? Yeah? Right, a lot of silence, 151 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: but like this is a safe place to speak. Actually, 152 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: I'm not shushing you at all. Yeah, my hands are 153 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: nowhere near your mouth. I'll take my hands away from 154 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: your mouth. I'm sorry, I don't know. 155 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 4: This is I mean, the whole situation was just really 156 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 4: really strange. It just felt really controlling, and I was 157 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 4: just like immediately no. 158 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, that for just a moment, she slipped back into 159 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: the trauva of not being able to speak. No, it's okay, 160 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: you can talk to you all right. Look, i'll ask 161 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: the question. I know the answer. But would you like 162 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 1: to go out with Paul again? You can speak and 163 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. 164 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 4: No, I'm okay, all. 165 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: Right, Paul, Paul, I'll give you the final word if 166 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: you have any words, or if you just like to, 167 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: you know, meditate. 168 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 4: No. 169 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but 170 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 2: I think that if you're embraced it, it 171 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: Would make Yeah, I mean, typically silence in our business 172 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: is not great.