1 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: I spent my birthday in the Dominican Republic. Everyone was 2 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: super nice. The food was delicious. You guys, I don't know. 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: I just had a great time. We don't get to 4 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: the room until four in the morning, mind you. We 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: had to be at the airport at six thirty. How 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 1: we did it? I have no idea how now I 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: can proudably say I'm thirty seven. I'm proud of what 8 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: I've accomplished in these years, what I've learned, how far 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: I've come. And I'm happy Happy Monday to everyone listening. 10 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm in a really great mood. If you can't tell 11 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: I celebrated my birthday, I am proudly now thirty seven 12 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: years old. I know I don't look it. I look 13 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: twenty seven. But anyways, if you didn't know, I am 14 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: a cancer So shout out to all my cancerrians out there. 15 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: My birthday was so much fun. Solp let's get into 16 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: this juicy episode of Cheeky's and Chill. Okay, guys, So 17 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: for those of you who don't follow me on social media, 18 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: shame on you. If you don't, just FYI I spent 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: my birthday in the Dominican Republic. My birthdays on June 20 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: twenty six. For those of you that didn't know, now 21 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: you know. It was amazing, life changing. I'm usually the 22 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: type of person that likes to travel in Mexico. Mento Mexico, 23 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: I love the food. I was a little nervous because 24 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: I had never been to the Dominican and I just 25 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: wasn't sure if I was going to like the food. 26 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I had heard certain things, but thank goodness, all of 27 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: those things that I heard were wrong. I had a 28 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: fabulous time you guys, and I want to go back. 29 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: So my friends and I got a house. I had 30 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: rented the house. I had booked the house like a 31 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: couple months ago. I've been wanting to go for a while. 32 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: I had booked actually my first trip to Dominican Republic 33 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: in two thousand and nine, and I wasn't able to 34 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: go because my stepdad had passed away. He was actually 35 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: in the hospital during my birthday and I just felt bad. 36 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I can't leave, Like my siblings are 37 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: going through a lot, Johnny and Jenica. So I had 38 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: to cancel. My friends went without me. They came back 39 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: and they were like, oh my gosh, it's fabulous. The 40 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: men are sexy. All this shit. So I was like, 41 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: damn it, I need to go so Samy. So for 42 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: my thirty seventh birthday, you guys, and what can I 43 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: tell you? I went with the mindset of I'm going 44 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: to just relax, not be on my phone as much. 45 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: So the first few days it was just myself and 46 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: a couple of friends, a few friends. It was four 47 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: of us. It was just girls. So the people that 48 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: joined me were my friend Helen Ochoa, who is also 49 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: a singer. We have a song together, you guys, if 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: you haven't heard it, it's called Las Estrampalaz. It's with 51 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: Helen Ochoa and Eli Kinto. So she's a really good 52 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: friend of mine. We became friends a couple of years ago. 53 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: The crazy thing is that we had beef that wasn't 54 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: even our beef, and then finally when we sat down 55 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: and talked, everything was just like what people had just 56 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: kind of put us against you each other for like 57 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: a ridiculous reason. One day, maybe we can get it 58 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: on the podcast and we'll talk about it. She's totally awesome. 59 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: The crazy thing is, if you guys know Helen, she's 60 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: always with her husband Jp. They just got married last year. 61 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: They just celebrated their first year anniversary in March, and 62 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: usually they're together. So my plan was, Okay, we'll do 63 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: girls first and then the guys can meet us later. 64 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: But JP had a work so he had to stay behind. 65 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: So this was like the first time that they were 66 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: separated for this long in fifteen years. You guys, they've 67 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: been together for fifteen years. I was nervous because I 68 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, Helen, are you going to be okay? 69 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: And she was. She was like, I miss him, but 70 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: I think this is good. I think we both need this. 71 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: He had to work. I'm vacation. I planned this a 72 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: couple months back, and he understands. So that was Helen 73 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: and it was amazing. Helen is funny, Helen is talented. 74 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: Helen has a big ass booty. Oh my god, maybe 75 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: I'll share some pictures on social media of her ass, 76 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: but it's enormous and it's beautiful. But anyways, that's Helen. 77 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: Shout out to Helen. And then there's Judy Seppela. She 78 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: has an online boutique, you guys. It's called Victoria's Boutique 79 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: and she started in twenty twelve. It's actually in her 80 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: handle Victoria's boutique twenty twelve, So she started in twenty 81 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: twelve and I met her in twoenty twelve, so we've 82 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: been friends for a hot minute now. And she's a 83 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: very hard worker. She's a single mother. Is Viendra Cara 84 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 1: ya Mia. She had also been saving and she was 85 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: really excited because she hadn't taken a vacation like this, 86 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: and none of us had gone to the Dominican Republic. 87 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: So we were just super excited about it. And the 88 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 1: great thing is is like all my friends, we were 89 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: all on the same page. We're like we're going to 90 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: split everything, and it was awesome. It was awesome. And 91 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 1: then Vanessa. If you guys don't know who Vanessa is 92 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: Venessa Sanchez. She has a CBD line via CBD. She 93 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: also went Damindra. Her man is deployed right now. He's 94 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: in Jordan, so he actually gets back on July fifteenth, 95 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 1: so she wanted to have a vacation before her husband 96 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: came back. It was just like we were just all 97 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: like super focused and we were like every day we 98 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: would like send messages okay, we were like x amount 99 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: days away and blah blah blah. Even Judy was like, okay, 100 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get my extensions done or my nails 101 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: done for a little bit. I'm gonna be saving money 102 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: for our trip. I'm putting it in my vacation fund. 103 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: All of us were just like super excited, kind of 104 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: nervous because I've never left anywhere for that long. I thought, 105 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna want to come back early because for me, 106 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: four or five days max, and then I get homesick. 107 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: But I did not. You guys, like I didn't get 108 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: tired of my friends. I was like, oh my god, 109 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: we're cool because I think we're grown. And each of 110 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: us would just go into our room if we needed space, 111 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: and it wasn't like we needed to be on top 112 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: of each other. Sometimes we were just laying out at 113 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: the pool reading or on the phone working because we 114 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: all like worked while we were out there. Like they 115 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: were doing their things online. Helen had her interviews. I 116 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: was doing things for be Flawless and stuff like that. 117 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: Sometimes wouldn't even talk for hours, but we were laying 118 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: in the pool area. So it's just it's just different, 119 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: Like I feel like, I don't know, I love the 120 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: group of friends that I have right now. So anyways, 121 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: that's who went from the twenty third, twenty fourth, and 122 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: then on the twenty fifth, that's when Amdia got there. 123 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: Amid it's my boyfriend and Jenica and val Val is 124 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: Jenica's best friend. So that's when they got there. And 125 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 1: Emilia was the only boy on the trip. You guys, 126 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 1: My whole plan was for the boys to get there later, 127 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 1: but everyone was busy, so Emilio just ended up going. 128 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: And you know, he was supposed to get there on 129 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: my birthday on the twenty six, but he's like, no, 130 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: I want to make sure that I'm there when the clock, 131 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: you know, strikes twelve. So he made sure to get 132 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: there on the twenty fifth, and it was awesome. As 133 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: soon as he got there, I swear to you, this guy, 134 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: he got a drink in his hand, he got buzzed, 135 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 1: he took off his clothes and jumped in the pool. 136 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: I think he was just so tired from like traveling. 137 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: But anyways, I left La on the twenty second. When 138 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: you go to Dominican Republic, you have to stop in 139 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: Miami or New York, no matter what, right, So we 140 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: stopped in Miami. So I said, okay, cool, we'll spend 141 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: that night in Miami So that night, on the twenty second, 142 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: we celebrated my birthday. Vanessa, Judy and I with a 143 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: friend of mine Lulise. Her name is Louise that lives 144 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: in Miami. So we went out that night. Oh my god, 145 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: I got so buzzed. So she took me to this 146 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: place called Il Santo in Miami. I had a freaking blast. Okay. 147 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 1: I'm usually the one that I'll just go to my 148 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: room and I'll go to sleep, but I was like, 149 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm celebrating my birthday. We landed at like 150 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:20,119 Speaker 1: nine thirty PM in Miami, went to the room real quick, 151 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: freshened up, and we were out the door by ten thirty. 152 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: I usually like staying at the East And in Miami, 153 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: and upstairs they have this place called Sugar and it's 154 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: a cool bar. They have good food, awesome drinks. So 155 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: we're like, okay, let's pregame there. So we pregame there, 156 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: got a little buzzed. Then she's like, let's go to 157 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: El Santo and I was like, okay, I'm not dressed 158 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: to go to Xantho. She's like, no, no, no, it's chill, 159 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: it's totally your vibe. I'm like okay, cool. We were 160 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: all in tennis shoes, like I didn't want to be 161 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: in high hills or anything. She was, of course, Louise 162 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: is very like you know, her dress and her cute 163 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: little like heels and everything. She looked really cute. But 164 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: my friends and I we were just in chill ass clothes. 165 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: But oh my god, we had so much fun. We 166 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: smoked tuka and I think that's what gave me a 167 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: headache because I didn't have a hangoverund usually hangovers. But 168 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: the next day, dude, way, anyways, we go to Toyi Santo. 169 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: We don't get to the room until four in the morning. 170 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: Mind you, we had to be at the airport at 171 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: six thirty. How we did it, I have no idea. 172 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: My friend Judy was still buzzed. I had to wake 173 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: her up, literally drag her out of bed. I was like, 174 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: we gotta go. She'said, no, no, no, leave me here. I'll 175 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: meet you there. I was like, absolutely not. I don't 176 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: leave a soldier behind. Get up. So I put on 177 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: her shoes, I put on her that. I was like, 178 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: literally potosita. I had to like drag her out. Thank 179 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: goodness for the driver that was there. We made it 180 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: to the airport. And then when we get to the airport, 181 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: the lines, Oh my god, we're crazy. I went to 182 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: five different checkpoints until finally, I don't know if you 183 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: guys have ever heard of clear, but if you don't 184 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: use it, it's amazing to use it when you travel. 185 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: So Vanessa went through her her way, and then Judy 186 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: and I went another week. She doesn't have TSA. Finally 187 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: we get through. Thank God for clear. We get through 188 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: and we make it. Oh my god, bro jagamos. I 189 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,599 Speaker 1: don't think I was hungover. I had headache. It was 190 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: more because of the Hukah, because I smoked a lot 191 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 1: of hookah that night, and I think I just overdid it. 192 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: But anyways, we made it to the Dominican Republic and 193 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: that was like the pre birthday. So we land in Puntakana. 194 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: The first few days that we got there, well, we 195 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: went skinny dipping. I told the girls, I said, you guys, 196 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: I want a skinny dip. So I made them all 197 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: get naked and I'm on maas and they were very shy. 198 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm not that shy. I wish I was a little 199 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: bit more shy, but I'm usually like okay, I'll take 200 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: off my clothes. It could be a good and a 201 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: bad thing. But anyways, I made my friends get naked 202 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: and the house was private, so we did have a 203 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: chef and we had a butler, and it was really 204 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: cool because I told myself, if you guys know me, 205 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: you guys know that I love to throw parties. So 206 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: usually I'm one to like throw big, extravagant parties. But 207 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 1: I realized that I want to spend my money on experiences, 208 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: so I want to travel more. So that's why I 209 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, if I'm going to go on vacation, 210 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: what was be like the ideal situation for me? I 211 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: was like, okay, I want a house. I don't want 212 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: to worry about cooking. I don't want to worry about 213 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: picking up after myself. So that's why I was like, 214 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna work really hard and save this money. My 215 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: friends and I were saving for months. For a couple months. Actually, 216 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,439 Speaker 1: well that's the way we were able to experience that. 217 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: So I said, you know what, I need to do 218 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: this at least twice a year. So it was just 219 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: it was amazing. Anyway, so we went skinny dipping. What 220 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 1: else did we do? We went out that night, I 221 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: think that Friday. It was awesome. We went to this place. 222 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,839 Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys have heard of Coco Bongo. They 223 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: have it in like Ganguon and places like that where 224 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: they have one in Dominican Republic. But we went to 225 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: the bar called Gongo, so it's right on the side. 226 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: So that was cool. And then that was like a 227 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 1: little bit more tourists, you know, like there were a 228 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 1: lot of tourists there. So I was like, I told 229 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: the driver, I was like, I want to go to 230 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: somewhere more local. So we went to this place called 231 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: El Gan, nothing but locals. The music was about chata, 232 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: like we were just having a freaking blast. And the 233 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: crazy thing is is like I didn't get recognized, so 234 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: I was just chilling, you know what I mean, like 235 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: having fun. Like everyone was super nice. The food was delicious, 236 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: you guys. I don't know. I just had a great time. 237 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: And going back to the food, you guys, because it's 238 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: important because someone had just told me they're like, oh 239 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: my god, well good luck. Because I didn't like the food. 240 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, well what do you mean and they're like yeah, 241 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: Like I had a burger and it was so gross, 242 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: like I didn't know what to eat, and I'm like, 243 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, I started getting nervous because it's like 244 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 1: I like to eat. That's one of the my favorite 245 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: things to do when I travel is like try foods 246 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: and like enjoy it, you know, which is why I 247 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: love usually traveling in Mexico. But let me tell you, 248 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: the chef was awesome. Dude. The entire staff from the 249 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: house was so They were so nice. It was crazy. 250 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: I had never experienced where like literally I wake up, 251 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: we go downstairs, food is ready, you don't even have 252 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: to do anything, and then right when you're done, like 253 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: with breakfast, you go back upstairs to get in your 254 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: bikini to go to the like to the pool, and 255 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: the bed's already made, the windows are open. Like I 256 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: was just like what like every day and then before 257 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 1: like going to sleep, they would just set your bed 258 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: ready for you to just get in and they would 259 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 1: turn on the air conditioner like at the perfect temperature, 260 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: close the blinds. I was just like, oh my god, 261 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm in heaven. Like I was like, this is what 262 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: I want to do, Like I want to cause usually 263 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: like I don't have anyone that helps me here at 264 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: the house. But besides on me, of course, you know, 265 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: but I don't have like a you know, a lady 266 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: Quinando like I have it for a long time. So 267 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: I was like, this is the perfect way to like vacation. 268 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: It was just perfect and the chef was top notch. 269 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 1: I was just like, okay, I don't want to eat 270 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: any steaura though any pig. Other than that, we're all 271 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: open to everything. So breakfast, lunch, and dinner and snacks 272 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: were taken care of, like if we wanted to go 273 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: to the store. We brought some stuff like snacks before 274 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: getting to the house after the airport, so we had 275 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: like chips and little things like that go get as 276 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: you know, like Peppino co and tahen Because you know, 277 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: I had to take my that haen. I sure did 278 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: pack my that heen and Valentina I sure did. I 279 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: was like, I had my friend Helen take some, and 280 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: then I had Emilio. I was like, just in case 281 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: we run out, because I need that heen for my 282 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: drinks for my fruit. So we had dahin at the 283 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: pool in the house. It was crazy. They were like 284 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: thinking we were crazy. So yes, he made Abicholas. I think 285 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: this is real. They called like the like red beans 286 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: were so good, and the white rice, Oh my gosh, 287 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: they made mofongo, I believe it's cold, and then mangou 288 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: in the morning and the chef I once asked him 289 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: and he got a little upset at me. I was like, 290 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: can you make that chicken that you made yesterday? He's like, okay, 291 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 1: Mira situki kayotaga nakoma. I was like okay. I was 292 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: like oh, I was like, well, I want the chicken. 293 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 1: So he made it once. We only had seconds once. 294 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: Other than that, everything was like new. Every day was 295 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: something a surprise, and at dinner we had like he 296 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: would make a special posta for us every dinner. But anyways, 297 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: so right now, with like the new lifestyle that I 298 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: want to live, I'm trying not to I'm not drinking 299 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: any beer. No beer, no soda, not even diet soda, 300 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: you guys, and believe me, it's been hard. And if 301 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to drink alcohol, I'm trying not to drink 302 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: that much because you know, the old me would drink 303 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: ten shots of tequila without a freaking problem and I'd 304 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: still be standing like a g But now I'm like, okay, 305 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 1: let's cut it to four, maybe five, So I was 306 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 1: drinking nothing but tequila over there. Was kind of hard 307 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: to find thikila because they drink a lot of rum 308 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: out there. My old drink was rum with diet coke. 309 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: That's what I used to drink. Now it's just a 310 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: tequila shot on the rocks with a splash of Figa 311 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: juice thatchen on the rim and lime. Dude. That was 312 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: like all we were drinking. And my friends were like, 313 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to see any freaking pineapple juice for 314 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: like months, because no staskamoo pineapple juice. But it just 315 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: it tastes so good, the pineapple with a tequila. Oh 316 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: my god. Oh but I tried not to drink too much, 317 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: but I did get a little bus We did a 318 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: whole yacht thing for my birthday. The actual day of 319 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: my birthday, we got on a yacht and it was 320 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: a really good price. It's that it wasn't actually it 321 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: wasn't like an actual yacht. It was more of it. 322 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: They call it the Kataran. It's like not as big 323 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: as a yacht, but like it was a good size. 324 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: And we just partied there and got off and got 325 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: in the ocean and everyone was buzzing. It was so 326 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: much fun. And you know, even though Emilio was the 327 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: only guy there, he's so fucking chill, you guys, like 328 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: he's such a dope ass guy, and not just because 329 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: he's my boyfriend, but he's really chill. He let us 330 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: do our thing. He never once told me I feel 331 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: weird that I'm the only guy. I had already kind 332 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: of mentally prepared him. I'm like, hey, of course I 333 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: want you to come. It's my birthday. I want to 334 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: celebrate my birthday with you, but I also want to 335 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: be with my girls. So he already knew. That's the 336 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: thing in relationships, you guys, something that we don't do 337 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: often or enough of is communicate before the issue happened. 338 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: So I made sure, Hey, this is what I'm planning, 339 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: this is what I want to do. He also communicated 340 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: with me. We were on the same pageos ching Onisimo. 341 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: Because the friends that went, I know them and I 342 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: trust them so much. It wasn't like I was worried 343 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: in any moment. Is he looking at them because they 344 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: were all in bikinis. They're showing their ass. They were 345 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: in thongs, you know what I mean. And they all 346 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: have big ass butts, you know, so I didn't think like, oh, 347 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: I didn't get jealous or anything, because he's so respectful 348 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: as well, and my friends I trust them so much, 349 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: so it was just such a fucking cool ass vibe. 350 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: And he catered to us. He took care of us, 351 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: like he made sure that we you know, we went 352 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: to the club and he took care of us, and 353 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: he made sure we got into the car safely. It 354 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: was great having him and no one felt weird. And 355 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: now like my friends like love him even more. Like Vanessa, 356 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: like who doesn't like anybody? She was just like, oh 357 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: my god, she told me like five times, I really 358 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: like Emilio for you, like I see how he takes 359 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: care of you, like he's such a good guy, Like 360 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: I like him booon. You know, I don't like anybody. 361 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, I know. And of course Judy and 362 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: my other friends, she's been around Emilio a few times. 363 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: But you just when you're on vacation with someone like 364 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: you get to know them on a different level. I 365 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: feel like people that you vacation with is super important, 366 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: Like you have to be able to deal with him, 367 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, because you gotta know. 368 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: So now I feel like I found my vacation crew 369 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: and Emilio's a part of it. So it's cool. Now 370 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: we're trying to plan Greece. Oh my god, I'm excited. 371 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: I want to go to Grace soa bad. I've never been, 372 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: you guys, So I mean I went to Greece. I 373 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: went to Athens, but I didn't go like to the 374 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: Miko Nos and Santorini, like I want to do all that. 375 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: So Greece is the next one. And I know a 376 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: lot of you want to know how I pack, because 377 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 1: I've been asked that before. You guys see on Instagram 378 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, Cheek's you have so 379 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: many luggages. Well, yes, when I go to work, I overpack. 380 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: When I go on vacation, I really overpack because I think, well, 381 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: what if I want to stayd nextra day? Well what 382 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: if I go out twice a day? What if I 383 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 1: want to change three times? So I took a ridiculous 384 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: amount of bikinis. I bought them last minute because this 385 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: last time that I cleaned out my closet, I threw 386 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: out all my bikinis, which is crazy. And I was like, okay, 387 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: I think I have bikinis. I guess I had forgot. 388 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if they were misplaced. I literally had 389 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: one bikini when I was packing to go to Dominican, 390 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: so I had to hurry up and buy a bunch 391 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: of stuff. Thank goodness, you guys for beach bunny dot com, 392 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 1: because they saved my life. I literally went on I 393 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: did Priority Express shipping because I'm telling you, I only 394 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: had one bikini. That's like my favorite brand right now. 395 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 1: They're so comfortable and like, you know, I have big boobs, guys, 396 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: so I needed like something that was gonna actually fit. 397 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: And yes, I didn't have any nip slips, well maybe once, 398 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 1: but other than that, everything fit really nicely. And so 399 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: I just I took everything. I overpecked everything. It was awesome, 400 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: you guys. It was like a life changing experience. And 401 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: I was talking to my friend Judy who also went, 402 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: and she said that she just came back different. We 403 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: were all like in the morning, we would pray and 404 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: we had our moment in the morning, like we would 405 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: meditate and do our thing, like, not together, just everyone 406 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 1: in their rooms because the house was huge, everyone had 407 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: their own room, so we were just like all on 408 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: the same frequency, you know, of like we want to relax. 409 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: We're not trying to be crazy, you know what I mean, 410 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: Like we just literally relaxed, and I just feel like 411 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: my soul needed that. I don't know. I came back 412 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: just grateful and ready to work, and I'm like, okay, 413 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna work harder again so that I can 414 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: have another vacation at the end of the year next year. 415 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: It's so important to really have this time. And it 416 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: doesn't even have to be anywhere crazy like Dominican Republic 417 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: or even Rosato and Tanata. Like we're so lucky, you guys, 418 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 1: to be able to just cross the border to Tijuana 419 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: if you can, you know, obviously, you know, but it's 420 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: so close. We have beaches, We like people that live 421 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,479 Speaker 1: in California. We're blessed, you guys. They're like, there's the desert, 422 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: there's everything everywhere. So even if it's just a weekend 423 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: thing to do and just say okay, I'm going to disconnect, 424 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: it helps so much and say okay, I'm gonna put 425 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: some money aside from every check into an account so 426 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: that I can call it like my vacation account or whatever. 427 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 1: You know. I hadn't done that in a while. This 428 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: is the first time I did it for this trip. 429 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: Because the flights were crazy. I mean obviously right now, 430 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 1: like fuel is going up, so it was it was pricey, 431 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: but like we planned it very nicely. My friends and 432 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 1: I we all split everything, so it was it was great. 433 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, guys, that's that. And yes, now I'm thirty seven. 434 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: I am proud to say that I'm thirty seven. For 435 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: a long time, like I think a lot of women, 436 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: you feel like, oh, you know, I don't want to 437 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 1: tell my age, Like I get it. I was like 438 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: that for a little bit. But now I can proudly 439 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: say I'm thirty seven. I'm proud of what I've accomplished 440 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: in these years. I'm proud of what I've learned, how 441 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: far I've come, despite some setbacks, despite some adversities, and 442 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: I'm happy. I'm happy to say I'm thirty seven, but 443 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: I look twenty seven. You know, that's awesome. I think 444 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: now more than ever, I just want to take care 445 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: of my mind, body, and soul. For me, on a 446 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: personal level, it's important for me to pray and meditate 447 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: every morning, and it just sets the tone for the 448 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: rest of my day and I'm really trying to live 449 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: in the present. I'm not trying to put any pressure 450 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: on myself or overextend myself. It's just what am I 451 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,880 Speaker 1: doing today? What can I get done today? And if 452 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: I can't get it done today, it's okay. If God medalisensia, 453 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: Cibio's ma be that, but Ramayana, I'll do it tomorrow. 454 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: But now I'm going to do this, and it takes 455 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: off so much pressure, so much stress for myself. Like 456 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes we stress ourselves out with wanting 457 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 1: to do too much and not know how to delegate. 458 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: And I've learned to just kind of let go and 459 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: not try to control every situation. And she'd be like, Okay, 460 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: it is what it is, and I'm ready, like I 461 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: wrote on my birthday post on Instagram with you guys 462 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: don't follow me on Instagram. It's Chicky's just Chiquis And anyways, 463 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: my birthday post I put there that I'm ready, I'm 464 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,479 Speaker 1: ready to conquer, I'm ready to execute. Like I just 465 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 1: I feel like, Okay, I had a good vacation. I'm grateful, 466 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: thank you God, and now I'm here. I want to work. 467 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: I want to accomplish more. I'm already. It's crazy. Yesterday 468 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: I was sitting in the car and while we were driving, 469 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: and I wasn't driving, they were driving. I was on 470 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: my phone writing in my notes. I love writing in 471 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: my notes, by the way, And I was just like 472 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: planning my next album, planning the next businesses that I 473 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: want to get into. Like I don't know, I just 474 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: feel so different and it's crazy, Like I'm almost close 475 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 1: to forty, you guys. I can't even I swear to you, 476 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: I can't even believe it. Like I'm like, explain massa 477 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: yakke baka. I'm closer to forty, you guys. And it's okay. 478 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 1: I want to be fabulous in my forties. So right now, 479 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: it's I want to look good. I want to lose weight. 480 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 1: I'm eating better, I'm drinking more water, I'm drinking less coffee, 481 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,239 Speaker 1: more macha. I have my macha here with me. I'm 482 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: really in tamacha right now, you guys. The iced macha 483 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 1: with oat milk is like my shit. So I want 484 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: to drink more green tea. I'm not eating pig. I 485 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 1: don't know. That's just my personal thing. Like I'm just 486 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: like making little changes that just make me feel good 487 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: and healthier. I'm wearing my nightguard and I know that 488 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: sounds like a jahita thing, but whatever, you guys, grinding 489 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: your teeth is so bad. I notice the difference when 490 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: I wear my nightguard. Okay, call me yakitas and yora vibes, 491 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: whatever you want to call me, I don't care. But 492 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: now I'm like, I need to wear my nightguard. Brush 493 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,479 Speaker 1: my teeth feel good and I wake up with like 494 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: better energize, Like my head doesn't hurt, my neck doesn't hurt. 495 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: So I'm just making little things like that, little changes 496 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: that are gonna make a big difference in my life. 497 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: And let me tell you, they really have big time again. 498 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: More water less coffee, and I'm eating smaller portions, way 499 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,640 Speaker 1: smaller portions. Everything is importance. I'm kind of eating right 500 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: now everything that I want to eat, but just a 501 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: lot smaller and more frequently, and doing my my masks. 502 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: I just feel like I just want to This is 503 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: like I want to take care of myself. I want 504 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: to feed my mind, body and soul. Like that's all 505 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 1: I hear right now for my thirty seventh year of 506 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: life is just mind, body, and soul rejuvenation, like taking 507 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: care of myself, balancing everything. It's kind of always the 508 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: way I've been, but now I'm like, no, like I 509 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 1: need to do that, Like it's so important to me, 510 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 1: Like I'm going to make it a priority. And I'm 511 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: going to tell you something. I truly think that thirties 512 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,199 Speaker 1: is the new twenties for sure. I feel like in 513 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 1: my twenties, yes, I was a little tighter. My skin 514 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: was a little tighter. Not my vagina. My vagian has 515 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: always been tight, but I'm talking about my skin. Okay, 516 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 1: maybe yes, my skin looked a little bit tighter. But 517 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 1: I feel like, mentally, in our thirties, we know what 518 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 1: we want and estamos in lo mechore, and I can't 519 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: even imagine what my forties are going to be. Like 520 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: I I want to be like a sexy ass forty 521 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 1: year old woman. I'm already you. I guess you can 522 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 1: call me a cougar, but not really right because I'm 523 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: not that old. But eman, my boyfriend is seven years 524 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: younger than me, So I got to keep up. I 525 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: gotta look cute so all the time. So I'm gonna 526 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: make sure I take care of myself. But definitely thirties 527 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 1: are the new twenties, and for sure forties are the 528 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 1: new thirties. Alrighty, guys, Well that's how my birthday went, 529 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: and I feel so blessed to celebrate another year of life, 530 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: another trip around the sun. As they say, my life 531 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: hasn't been the easiest, but I feel really good about 532 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: where I am right now. I really do. So. I 533 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: want to send a huge thank you to my friend's 534 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 1: family and all my fans, my boss Be's los Amo. 535 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for the flowers, for the post, for 536 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: the cards, for the comments, for the dms that you 537 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,959 Speaker 1: guys sent me saying happy birthday. I love you guys all. 538 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: And now let's cue the music for today's motivational quote. 539 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: It has to do with ending a chapter and beginning 540 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: a new one. So here's the quote. There comes a 541 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 1: day when you realize turning the page is the best 542 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: feeling in the world, because you realize there is so 543 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: much more to the book than the page you were 544 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: stuck on. That's the quote, you, guys, As always, thank 545 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 1: you so much, Thank you for listening, Thank you for 546 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: being here with me. Every Monday or whatever day you 547 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 1: choose to listen to my podcast, but thank you Los Muco. 548 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: See you next Monday. Do you need advice on love, relationships, 549 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: health emails? 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