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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Josh is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

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Speaker 2: Meredith that he recently went on a date with. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna call her pretty soon and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him. But first, Josh, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Meredith.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's been about a week.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's usually a sign. So how did you

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Speaker 1: meet Meredith? Can you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, we met at a club.

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Speaker 3: She was with her friends and I saw her coming

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Speaker 3: off the dance floor and I just knew I wanted

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Speaker 3: to talk to her. You know, Yeah, she was just

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Speaker 3: you know, she was absolutely gorgeous, and you know, she

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Speaker 3: was with some of her friends. I was with some

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Speaker 3: of my friends and we ended up just sitting at

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Speaker 3: the bar and talking all night.

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Speaker 5: It was great.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. Okay, So was that the date?

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Speaker 3: And no, I mean we actually, you know, we we

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Speaker 3: were my friends left and we were leaving the club

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Speaker 3: and she said she lived close by, so you know,

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Speaker 3: I actually I went home with her and we had

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Speaker 3: a super great night.

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Speaker 4: Oh so that part was so did you guys like

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Speaker 4: look up what I don't know what base did you

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Speaker 4: get to?

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Speaker 5: It's funny, Yeah, I mean we you know, we we did.

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Speaker 3: We were we were kissing and and it just it

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Speaker 3: just happened and it was just a great night.

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Speaker 1: Okay, obvious you don't want to spill too many of

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Speaker 1: the deeds, which is respectable. But could that have been

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Speaker 1: all she was looking for, just like a quick hookup?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I hope not. You know, I thought

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Speaker 3: we had a really good connection, you know. I mean

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Speaker 3: she was, you know, obviously gorgeous, like model hot, and

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Speaker 3: I just thought we had a great conversation, and you know,

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Speaker 3: she was one of those people that kind of knows

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Speaker 3: everything about everything, and that just you know, kind of

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Speaker 3: turned me on even more.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, all right, So why why do you

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Speaker 2: think she might be ghosting it?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 3: You know, honestly, I think it might be because we

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Speaker 3: slept together so quickly, you know, and maybe she did

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Speaker 3: just want a one night stand and that was it.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've had a few of those, and they

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Speaker 3: are what they are, but she was just more than

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Speaker 3: that to me. So I don't like that I'm getting ghosted.

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Speaker 1: Did you feel like she was into it too?

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Speaker 4: Like, was there ever a moment where you started to

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Speaker 4: feel like maybe she was pulling away?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think so. I thought we had

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Speaker 3: a great night, you know, And I think the fact

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Speaker 3: that she hooked up with me, I mean I was

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Speaker 3: feeling like everything was.

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Speaker 1: Going well, and maybe she thought you were only interested

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Speaker 1: in one. I said, maybe it just wasn't good. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: First time you're always off there for people, so it's

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Speaker 4: not it's not a testament to yourself.

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Speaker 1: Usually not that good, right.

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Speaker 5: I'm obviously hoping it's not that. Yeah, you know, could

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Speaker 5: it be?

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Speaker 2: That's why I know how, no matter how long I'm

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Speaker 2: with someone, I was like, let's pretend like it's our

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Speaker 2: first time, so that if it's I can be like

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Speaker 2: it was our first time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what a time we were pretyding to be as

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Speaker 1: our first time. That's why. All right, Josh, we'll see

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Speaker 1: what we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Plus I'll come back and then call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right?

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 5: So much, guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up, next

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Speaker 2: of the first date follow up, and if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us, Josh is on the phone and he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by Meredith. We're about to call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Josh, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch everybody up on your date with Meredith.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean it was a great day. I met her

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Speaker 3: at the club, we talked at the bar all night,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we actually ended up hooking up. And

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Speaker 3: I think that actually might be why she's ghosting me,

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Speaker 3: is because we hooked up so quickly. But I had

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Speaker 3: a great night, and then it's been over a week.

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Speaker 3: So I'm really hoping you guys can figure this out.

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Speaker 1: Ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Meredith please.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Meredith, how are you. My name is Jubel. I'm

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Speaker 1: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show

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Speaker 1: him Meredith. The whole show is here.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 5: My name is Nina no Way.

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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know you guys sweet.

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Speaker 1: We did get an email about you from a guy

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Speaker 1: named Josh. Oh. Okay, so you know.

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Speaker 2: We do the first day follow up where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with someone and then you

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Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can have us get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Josh says, he's

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Speaker 2: been trying to get a hold of you for like

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Speaker 2: a week and you haven't gotten back to him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you mind telling us why?

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Speaker 5: So that night that we met, it was pretty good.

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Speaker 4: You know, he seemed really nice and he actually listened

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Speaker 4: instead of just like waiting to talk, you know, next thing,

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Speaker 4: you know, and and he's really hot, and so you know,

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Speaker 4: I kind of just decided that I wanted to take

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Speaker 5: I don't do that a whole.

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Speaker 4: Lot, but it just seemed kind of right, Like we

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Speaker 4: just we clicked really well. And when we were walking home,

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Speaker 4: just I wanted to get him home, you know what

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Speaker 4: I mean. Okay, it's hot, and you know when we

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Speaker 4: got right to it, you know, and but you know,

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Speaker 4: as soon as my clothes were off, you know, I

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Speaker 4: I was just dancing all night and I felt you know, gross,

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Speaker 4: so I just, you know, I wanted to shower first.

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Speaker 3: Really quickly.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: He said that didn't matter, and suggested I didn't shower

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Speaker 4: so okay, I went and showered, and after I got out,

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Speaker 4: you know, we got to it and it was great.

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Speaker 4: Every second of it was great. But then, you know,

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Speaker 4: we talked for a bit after and I mentioned that

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Speaker 4: so I went to the bathroom really quickly before he left,

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Speaker 4: you know, while he was getting dressed, and then I

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Speaker 4: let him out. And after he left, I was picking

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Speaker 4: up around my place and I could not find my panties.

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Speaker 4: I knew they should have been there because there was there.

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Speaker 1: Was a whole thing.

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Speaker 5: It was just a thing.

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Speaker 4: It was a thing with him, and you know they

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Speaker 4: a lot of smelling involved. He smelled them, you know,

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Speaker 4: in the moment was it was hot. But you know,

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Speaker 4: I don't ever want to king shame anyone.

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Speaker 5: That's not the problem.

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Speaker 4: The problem is that I know he took them and

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Speaker 4: he didn't ask me. That is growth and weird and violating.

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Speaker 1: But had he asked you, would you have been okay

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I probably would have. You know, I may have

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Speaker 4: doesn't really matter because he didn't ask.

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Speaker 2: So okay, Well, thank you for being honest, Meredith. I

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I forgot about that part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Josh's still there.

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Speaker 5: H Hey Meredith.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Well, I didn't take them, and I definitely don't

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Speaker 3: remember being that creepy and smelling you.

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Speaker 5: So I don't know why you're saying that.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe you, and it's kind of messed up

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Speaker 4: if that's your thing, Like you took my underwear without

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Speaker 5: On another date.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you because I did

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Speaker 3: not take your underwear, and I'm really sorry. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I want a second date, but I didn't take them.

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Speaker 1: Try that.

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Speaker 3: You can trust me, and you know if I ever

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Speaker 4: It's it's just a little weird to me that you

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Speaker 4: then all of a sudden.

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Speaker 5: They were gone.

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Speaker 3: Well, they've they've got to be somewhere in your house.

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Speaker 3: I promised I didn't take them. I mean, they've they've

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Speaker 3: got to be somewhere that you just have in checked

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: I don't have them.

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Speaker 4: I mean I've looked everywhere I can imagine, and I

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Speaker 3: Well. Is there anyone at your house that could have

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Speaker 3: taken over or did anyone come over? I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: not accusing you of hooking up with someone, but I mean,

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Speaker 3: could someone else have taken them in the last week?

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Speaker 4: No, I haven't had anyone else come over that would

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Speaker 4: take my underwear.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a pet?

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't have any pets.

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Speaker 5: I grew up with dogs.

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Speaker 4: I know that's something to do, but I don't have

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Speaker 4: any pets right now.

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Speaker 1: Josh, were you promised you did not take her underwear?

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Speaker 5: I promised I did not take her underwear.

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Speaker 1: So if we sent the underwear to your house, they

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Speaker 1: wouldn't find anything. We have their number.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think the underwear police would find anything.

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Speaker 5: Meredith.

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Speaker 3: You can come over to my place right now. You

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Speaker 3: can check the underwear I'm wearing. You can check every drawer,

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Speaker 3: every cabinet. I promise you I do not have them.

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Speaker 3: I just want a second date, Meredith.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go with Josh again on another date?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I really want to, Josh.

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Speaker 4: I just don't know how you would prove to me

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Speaker 4: that you didn't take them.

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Speaker 5: Well, can I just buy you some new ones?

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Speaker 1: Yes, you get free panties, we'll pay for it, and

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Speaker 1: free underwear.

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Speaker 4: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, I'll we'll give it another try.

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Speaker 4: And just you know, don't take any of the other

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Speaker 4: don't take any of my other underwear.

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Speaker 1: Josh underwear for the wind. Do you agree to keep

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Speaker 1: your any mits off of her underly?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I definitely agree.

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Speaker 3: I'm just so excited.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Congratulations, Josh, you got another date. Jubile's first

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Speaker 1: date follow up