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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: We're just starting it right now. He just walked in. Wait,

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Speaker 2: can I just have to give one more hug?

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Speaker 3: Sorry one second?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you don't even understand the what Sarah

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Speaker 2: is going through right now. I mean she I facetimed

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Speaker 2: her last night, she didn't sleep.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, I'm glad to be here.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Okay for everyone who doesn't know right now,

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Speaker 2: because obviously you can't. You can only hear, you can't see. Tyler.

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Speaker 2: Henry is in the wind Down studio right now. So

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Speaker 2: I don't think you'll remember because you read a million people,

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Speaker 2: but you read me in Nashville. Gosh, it was two

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Speaker 2: years ago. I remember, you do remember.

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Speaker 4: Brought through your friend's mother. Oh my goodness, grandfather?

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Speaker 2: Yes, but okay, so I just have to tell you this.

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Speaker 2: So I almost canceled that reading because sorry, baby, the

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Speaker 2: day before we had our reading, I found out about

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Speaker 2: my husband's affairs and we separated, and so I was

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Speaker 2: just like, I can't, I can't go, Like I can't,

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Speaker 2: I can't go. And you know what if he like

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Speaker 2: sees this stuff and then it's nothing's public right now,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on. So that's why I

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Speaker 2: brought all my girlfriends, was because I just I needed

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Speaker 2: like my girls behind me. I needed my girls to

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Speaker 2: support me. So and I think, do you think one

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Speaker 2: of the reasons why maybe you couldn't read me as

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Speaker 2: well as maybe others because I was so closed off

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Speaker 2: because I was terrified of even like letting you in.

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Speaker 4: Definitely, I think the intentions that a client brings to

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Speaker 4: a reading can definitely affect it. And I always say

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Speaker 4: that people kind of hear what they're needing to hear usually,

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Speaker 4: so it's interesting that I kind of ended up going

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Speaker 4: in a different direction.

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Speaker 2: But then you said that, you know, my husband, now

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Speaker 2: we're gonna have another baby, and at that point I

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Speaker 2: was like, that is not gonna happen. But we had

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Speaker 2: another baby.

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Speaker 3: You were right.

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Speaker 2: We we mended our our pa and you know, we

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Speaker 2: ended up having another baby. So you would definitely right

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Speaker 2: on that. But I was talking about that because Sarah

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Speaker 2: is kind of having an interesting moment right now because

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Speaker 2: you know, she's been trying to reach her grandma and

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Speaker 2: she's she's I mean, I'll let you.

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Speaker 1: I basically, so I know how Jana has expressed it,

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Speaker 1: like she talks to her grandpa and she sees him

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Speaker 1: and she's very well connected with him, and so I

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Speaker 1: was just kind of trying to pick her brain because

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Speaker 1: I I guess like my question is like, what advice

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Speaker 1: do you have to for someone who is I'm like,

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Speaker 1: how how do I be open?

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Speaker 2: I mean you were on your bathroom floor, I mean,

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Speaker 2: like grandma, please.

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Speaker 1: So I had like a moment where I was like,

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Speaker 1: I've been looking for her, but it's kind of like

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Speaker 1: one of those things that it's like, am I looking

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 4: And you know, yeah, no, absolutely. It's the same way

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Speaker 4: with readings too. For me, like sometimes it's it's hard

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Speaker 4: for me to interpret information. I don't want to overanalyze

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Speaker 4: it or project meaning where there isn't. I would say

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Speaker 4: for people who want to connect with their loved ones,

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Speaker 4: the number one way to do that is through synchronicity.

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Speaker 4: So synchronicity is really just coincidences with a meaning or

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Speaker 4: with a reason behind it. And I think when we

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Speaker 4: can notice these synchronicities, then we can get that validation.

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Speaker 4: But I think people are so busy with their schedules

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Speaker 4: and their lives and the beeps and the buzzes of

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Speaker 4: their phones. They're very rarely present enough to really notice

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Speaker 4: co instances when they do happen.

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Speaker 2: So that's I mean, I literally I'm like your biggest fans.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think no, because it's just to me, it's

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Speaker 1: it's such a gift what you have that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's so it's so crazy, Like I don't even I

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Speaker 1: can't even begin to understand, Like how do you just

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Speaker 1: like turn it on and off? Or like how is

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Speaker 1: it like right now, are you just like overwhelmed with things,

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Speaker 1: or how do you even go about your day?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, I always have kind of found

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Speaker 4: as Jenna saw when we did the ractual reading, there's

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Speaker 4: when I start scribbling, and it really is very illogical.

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Speaker 4: I kind of go into a much more subconscious state

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Speaker 4: where I'm then focused on interpreting the information. So creating

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Speaker 4: that kind of on and offness has helped me navigate

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Speaker 4: life for sure.

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Speaker 2: As someone who's kind of a skeptic. My husband he's no, no,

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Speaker 2: it's just he's he's it's not that you're I mean us,

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Speaker 2: you're a skeptic, but it's is it because you don't

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Speaker 2: understand it or is it something where you're just like

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Speaker 2: someone can easily find a grandpa that's been gone, or.

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Speaker 6: It's not that I'm a non believer, I am skeptical.

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Speaker 6: I'm skeptical just in life in general, these kind of things.

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Speaker 6: I just feel like there's so many people out there

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Speaker 6: hold on to. Where it's like, just from my experience

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Speaker 6: witnessing things, I feel like people steer them in a direction,

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Speaker 6: Like you know, that's just my perception of it. Where

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Speaker 6: it's like, well, what do you know You're giving them

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Speaker 6: all the information exactly. So I don't. That's just my

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Speaker 6: bit more. No, that's just still my point of view.

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Speaker 6: I'm just a little bit more. Do you feel that

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Speaker 4: I'm actually very skeptical myself. If I didn't do this

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Speaker 4: it even exists, right, honest. It's one of those things.

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Speaker 4: I'm the kind of person and I'm like, well show

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Speaker 4: it right. So I totally get that, and I think

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Speaker 4: that's really why I personally put such an emphasis on

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Speaker 4: validation in these readings. It's really making sure someone hears

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Speaker 4: information that's specific and detailed, or information that may not

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Speaker 4: And it's those things that substantiate that connection.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say only because I've seen like every

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Speaker 1: I don't see dead people, like that's not how I work,

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, absolutely, well, I think one of the biggest

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Speaker 4: it's actually not that way at all. That'd be pretty cool,

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Speaker 4: But if anything, I really just sit with a person

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Speaker 4: when I do that, I basically just start noticing any

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Speaker 4: So I might have a vision kind of like a

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Speaker 4: sensation that corresponds with how someone died. I might hear

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Speaker 4: interpretational aspect to it that can simes be a challenge.

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Speaker 4: So it's really just kind of a process and as

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Speaker 6: And is that where you start to kind of go

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Speaker 6: fishing a little bit where you're, like you said, you

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Speaker 4: I would say, if anything, it's more of an attempt

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Speaker 4: I'll verbalize what I'm feeling, and then I'll continue verbalizing

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Speaker 4: any additional pieces of information that comes through. It's kind

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Speaker 4: of like a sentence. If you look at a sentence,

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Speaker 6: On mind, how much of this is like you compared

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Speaker 6: in a sense of when you have these sensations, is

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Speaker 6: there like a study or a book or education that

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Speaker 6: you go to it's like this means this or is

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Speaker 6: it all? It's different, Like a taste or something that

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Speaker 4: That's amazing question. I've done a lot of interviews, it's

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Speaker 4: I'd say it's actually different for every medium. Every medium

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Speaker 4: So it's based on symbols, being able to identify a

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Speaker 1: Interesting, is there ever a time where you see something

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Speaker 4: Well, There's definitely been times where I have not wanted

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Speaker 4: But yeah, in those situations, I usually find if there's

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Speaker 4: it's usually because there's a lot of pain there or

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Speaker 4: difficult position because I sometimes have to deliver bad news

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Speaker 4: and you know it all is ultimately for the betterment

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Speaker 2: So Sarah was telling me that she was watching was

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Speaker 2: it the interview with obviously Chloe tradash In Well, I

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Speaker 2: was watching on Daily Pop yesterday, Oh shure them anyway,

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Speaker 2: And she was saying how you You were like, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: You were like, I'm not taking credit for the whole

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Speaker 1: Jordan thing, but they were like you kind of did,

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Speaker 1: and you were like, well, I saw it, but I

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Speaker 2: Like, so you saw that Chloe and trists and weren't

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Speaker 2: going to end up together, but you didn't.

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Speaker 4: Say it correct. Yes, I was, if anything, more, giving

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Speaker 4: Chloe a general idea what to look out for. Look,

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Speaker 4: I'll say this, I don't believe the future set in stone.

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Speaker 4: I think any psychic that sits in front of you

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Speaker 4: and is like this is going to happen on this date,

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Speaker 2: How old were you again when you felt these.

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Speaker 6: That, like a sensation like that, where that is a

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Speaker 2: Do you even say it at all?

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Speaker 1: I like literally, I mean we knew him, Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: I sat with Alan. He was a total skeptic. He

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Speaker 2: I'm certain he literally said it.

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Speaker 4: Like repeatedly, like I kept repeating myself and he laughed.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, do you do you feel anything of anyone?

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Speaker 6: How does that affect you when something like that, when

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Speaker 2: I mean, gosh, that I just have chilled, Like, if

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Speaker 4: Well, I think all kids, for the most part, do

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Speaker 4: who have What about O. J.

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Speaker 2: Simpson?

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Speaker 6: O J.

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Speaker 4: Simpson, Well, that'd be an interesting one.

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Speaker 2: That'd be great well because when you said who he

441
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Speaker 2: wouldn't read, you know, because it's a speculator murder. I'd

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Speaker 2: be very curious to see what you would see or

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Speaker 2: what who would come up for you.

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Speaker 4: I doubt he would do it. And then even if

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Speaker 4: he would do it, I don't know if I would

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Speaker 4: want it on the show because that's so of like

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Speaker 4: gross and exploits. So I think that would want to

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Speaker 4: do that privately, But then there's nothing to gain privately

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Speaker 4: if you're reading ojas though.

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Speaker 6: Do you think that's a good topic though? Do you

451
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Speaker 6: think there's something to be said about kind of the

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Speaker 6: skill set that you have and crossing that over with

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Speaker 6: some kind of law enforcement. Do you think have you

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Speaker 6: ever been reached out by any kind of law enforcement,

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Speaker 6: assist anything.

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Speaker 4: So there have been people, families of missing people who've

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Speaker 4: reached out with the curiosity of what comes through or

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Speaker 4: what do you feel? And right before I got the shows,

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Speaker 4: contacted in my hometown by a woman who I had

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Speaker 4: read and her niece went missing and she'd been gone

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Speaker 4: and I remember it was over like Messenger, and I

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Speaker 4: was just like seeing a parking garage and I think

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Speaker 4: she's still alive, and I just feel like, next twenty

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Speaker 4: four hours and it ended up that her niece was

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Speaker 4: found safe. She'd ran away with her boyfriend. She was

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Speaker 4: found in a parking garage. So wow, those things it

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Speaker 4: hasn't happened. It's something I want to kind of refine

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Speaker 4: and do more. And I think this time goes on,

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Speaker 4: there'll be more opportunities to kind of take part in

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Speaker 4: missing persons cases.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like anything would help. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 6: if I was a parent of a I would do anything.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean I would go to every reading

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Speaker 2: until I yeah.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: And actually I just recently filmed something for auction called

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Speaker 4: Smiley Faced Killers Hunt for Justice, and it was actually

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Speaker 4: it's a whole series that focuses on these drowned young

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Speaker 4: men between the ages of around eighteen and twenty five

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Speaker 4: that've been found across the United States, and these two

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Speaker 4: investigators believe that they could have been actually murdered, and

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Speaker 4: so they contacted these families to try to dig up

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Speaker 4: these old cases and see whether they were murdered or not.

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Speaker 4: And I met with the mother of one of these

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Speaker 4: children who had died, and I just wasn't getting a

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Speaker 4: homicidal feeling around it at that time, and if anything

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Speaker 4: indicated more of an accident or more of just kind

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Speaker 4: of a situation happening. So if anything, sometimes not knowing

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Speaker 4: what didn't happen it's just as valuable as knowing.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say.

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Speaker 1: I feel like for a lot of people just close,

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Speaker 1: like for me, I know, it would just be like

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Speaker 1: a closure thing, which I feel like, grief is so hard.

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Speaker 1: There's no book, you know what I mean, Like, we

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Speaker 1: don't know how it's we're not taught how to grieve.

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Speaker 1: And I think that it's obviously different for everyone, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like the common concise it's like we just

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Speaker 1: want closure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, totally absolutely, and there's no.

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Speaker 2: And what a gift that you're giving you too for that,

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Speaker 2: thank you, I mean, that's that's incredible. I mean you're

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Speaker 2: using your I guess powers in a sense for people's closure.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think that's that's truly like such a

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Speaker 2: gift that you're giving people.

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Speaker 4: Thank you at the very least. I just hope it

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Speaker 4: helps people have a conversation around grief and self awareness

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Speaker 4: and loss, because we're all going to experience that and

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Speaker 4: go through that experience and we may as well be

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Speaker 4: open about it and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not feel free to talk about. I mean, what

511
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Speaker 2: you did for my best friend Leslie, I mean that

512
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Speaker 2: was I could never thank you enough for that. I

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Speaker 2: mean just that she had her closure from her mom

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Speaker 2: and knowing that she's in a better place and that

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Speaker 2: she's there watching her. I mean that's something. I think

516
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Speaker 2: that's incredible what you do. So thank you for you know,

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Speaker 2: helping others and using it in a positive way and

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Speaker 2: not in a you know, scaring you. No where can

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Speaker 2: our listeners find you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm all over Instagram at Tyler Henry Medium.

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Speaker 4: I don't use Twitter as much, but that's ty Henry medium.

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Speaker 2: Can people get readings from you?

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Speaker 4: They can? So there is a waiting list at the moment.

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Speaker 2: For ten years for a little while.

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Speaker 4: Yep, but I actually how long is there? Literally one

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Speaker 4: hundred and seventy five thousand.

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Speaker 2: I'm on there like five times.

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Speaker 4: I've email, we'll get you up. We'll bump to reading

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Speaker 4: a week. It really varies. It totally depends because I

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Speaker 4: do a lot of skype readings and I do charity reading.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was what I was going to ask. So

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Speaker 1: you don't have to physically be in front of someone.

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Speaker 4: Correct, Yes, it can be done over the telephone.

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Speaker 2: Crazy because she she was researching others because she's like,

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Speaker 2: there's no way talers and be able to do me.

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Speaker 4: So we'll hook up after that. Well, I'll give you contact.

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Speaker 1: Because I was like, she was like, you can call,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, but can people do that over the phone?

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Speaker 1: And step I figured it was.

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Speaker 2: Like a vibe. So it's not like a vibe thing.

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Speaker 4: You don't need to like I mean, it is, but

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Speaker 4: it doesn't require just it doesn't work physicality doesn't.

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Speaker 2: That's interesting.

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Speaker 6: Wow, I would want to physically be in front of

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Speaker 6: That's just how I would too.

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Speaker 2: But like we'll take what we can get, Like if

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Speaker 2: I need to like people. She answered real bad, So

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Speaker 2: well if we can just get her bumped up because

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Speaker 2: she needs to know something after Okay, perfect, Tyler, thank

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Speaker 2: you so much for coming on our show. We really preach.

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Speaker 4: Appreciated.

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Speaker 2: So what I'm just now kind of getting into is stocks.

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Speaker 2: What I have recently started using to help with that

554
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Speaker 2: is robin Hood because other brokerages charge up to ten

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Speaker 2: dollars for every trade, and Robinhood doesn't charge any commission fees,

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Speaker 2: so you can trade stocks to keep all your profits.

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Speaker 2: You can do stocks, you can do ETFs, options, cryptos,

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Speaker 2: all commission free. Plus there's no account minimum deposit needed

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Speaker 2: level you want, even if it's one penny, so it's

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Speaker 2: a simple way to do that. You easy to understand

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Speaker 2: charts and market data and place a trade in just

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Speaker 2: I just see what I've everyone else is doing. With Robinhood,

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Speaker 2: at windown dot robinhood dot com. All right, well, first

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Speaker 2: and first first thing. First, Sarah had to leave. She's

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Speaker 2: going to go find her ring and tried all sad

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Speaker 2: and then no, she's going to go channel her grandma. No,

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Speaker 2: But honestly, she she left because she wanted to follow

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Speaker 2: Tyler Henry out.

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Speaker 6: She's a super fan, super fan.

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Speaker 2: I had no idea, I mean super fan.

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Speaker 6: I don't know people like Tyler had super fans.

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Speaker 2: Oh he's a huge I you.

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Speaker 6: Know, I don't follow any of that, but I knew,

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Speaker 6: I knew him. I knew he's a huge deal. But still,

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Speaker 6: I just didn't think people followed mediums like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think because he's on E and Sarah's literally

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Speaker 2: obsessed with me, And when I told her that Tyler

588
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Speaker 2: Haddon was coming on, and I knew that, you're kind

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Speaker 2: of a skepticism. Skepticism, you're a skeptic. Skeptic, your a skeptic.

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Speaker 2: So that's why. I was like, well, I need sarah

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Speaker 2: On to be my.

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Speaker 6: Someone to be enthused and interested, and I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like you were interested that.

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Speaker 6: No, I always am. I'm very interested because I just

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Speaker 6: don't understand.

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Speaker 2: What don't you understand just.

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Speaker 6: How people have that ability?

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Speaker 2: It's crazy? But do you believe the ability or do

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Speaker 2: you believe just.

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Speaker 6: To an extent? I mean, I believe in intuition.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how crazy about the Alan Thick thing.

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Speaker 6: That's insane. I mean that's nuts. That's nuts, And I mean, how.

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Speaker 2: Can you not believe when he's when it's something like

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Speaker 2: check your heart, check your heart, and he freaking die?

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Speaker 6: Well, I think plain Devil's advocate in those situations is okay,

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Speaker 6: you know he had that feeling about his grandma, right,

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Speaker 6: and then he also had the Allen think thing. Then

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Speaker 6: it's did he have any of those feelings with other people?

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Speaker 6: And they just didn't happen? And he's not talking about them,

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Speaker 6: like did you have feelings of death with somebody else?

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Speaker 6: And he's like, I'm not gonna mention those ones because

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Speaker 6: they didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying, I mean, and that's why you're

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Speaker 2: a skeptic.

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Speaker 6: Right, It's Okay, this is a question, but I liked him.

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Speaker 2: We have another huge guest though coming here though, I

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Speaker 2: mean ginormous. I grew up with this dude.

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Speaker 6: He probably gets called his character's name more than his.

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Speaker 2: Actual which is why I'm not going to do that.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to call him his name. I'm not even

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Speaker 2: going to bring up FH.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I bet you do well.

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Speaker 2: I just have to say it. Danny Tanyner, full House. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Danny Tanyner, Danny Tanyner, Danny Tayner, Danny, Danny Tanner. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna say it before he comes in.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Danny Tanner, you're probably gonna.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got it out all right. So I never

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Speaker 2: knew that I wasn't brushing my teeth long enough basically

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Speaker 2: that and then also you're supposed to change out your

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Speaker 2: toothbrush every three months. Had no idea, but that's what

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Speaker 2: you're supposed to do. So I've learned that with Quip.

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Speaker 2: So Quip is a toothbrush. It has sonic vibrations. So

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Speaker 2: for me, I do have really sensitive gums and I

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Speaker 2: was honestly scared to use Quip because of that. But

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Speaker 2: it's gentle enough on your sensitive gums. People actually brush

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Speaker 2: too hard, and some electric toothbrushes are just too abrasive.

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Speaker 2: But there is a built in timer which is two

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Speaker 2: minutes that's the recommended and then every thirty seconds to

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Speaker 2: remind you to switch sides. Up to ninety percent of

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Speaker 2: us don't brush for a full two minutes. I know

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Speaker 2: I haven't, but with Quip, I do because it tells

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Speaker 2: me how long do. By the way, two minutes is

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Speaker 2: actually a very long time if you think about it,

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Speaker 2: so it's nice to have something to remind you. The

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Speaker 2: great thing about Quip, though, is that three months goes

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Speaker 2: by fast, so throwing away your toothbrush every three months

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Speaker 2: just seems like a lot. But here's the deal. Quip

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Speaker 2: sends you the top of the bristles every three months,

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Speaker 2: so again crazy super good brusheads are automatically delivered on

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Speaker 2: a dentist recommended schedule of three months for just five dollars.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I love Quip, and they're backed by

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Speaker 2: over twenty thousand dental professionals. Quip starts at just twenty

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Speaker 2: five dollars and if you go to get quip dot

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Speaker 3: I've been thirty years of radio, so I know where

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Speaker 3: the cough button is.

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Speaker 2: You did radio just being on it all the time, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I've never I didn't see that on

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Speaker 2: your on the breakdown my bio. No, god knows where

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Speaker 2: did we start?

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Speaker 6: Got sure?

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Speaker 3: I've been asked that by many people matter, But I'm

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Speaker 3: married now, so I don't get asked right. It's not censored,

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Speaker 3: are we right now?

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Speaker 2: Pardon me?

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Speaker 3: How censored do we have to be?

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Speaker 2: You don't have to be censored at all?

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Speaker 5: Really, that's all we got there. I don't want to

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Speaker 5: get bleeped.

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Speaker 3: I mean the new video show I'm saying, I get

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Speaker 3: to say penis. I'm pretty excited.

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Speaker 2: Why can't you say penis? That's like a part. You

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Speaker 2: have a penis? I have a vagina, You have a penis.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Your husband asks a question?

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Speaker 5: You do you you have fill in.

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Speaker 2: The blank guys, Bob Sagon, Yeah, let's be over excited.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm I'm excited. You grew up watching me.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't even going to talk about the assumption.

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Speaker 5: You watched the show and you watched Full House? Am

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Speaker 5: I accurate?

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Speaker 2: I was not actually going to even say one thing

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Speaker 2: about Full House because you get it all the time.

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Speaker 2: So I was just gonna not say anything.

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Speaker 5: I'm like in a big bird suit. You know people,

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Speaker 5: Danny Tanner.

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Speaker 2: See, I just was not going to I want my

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Speaker 2: inside like little girls, but I was not going away.

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Speaker 3: It's it's still you know, we have one more season,

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Speaker 3: which is amazing. They're doing eighteen shows.

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Speaker 2: And for Netflix, right yep.

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Speaker 3: And then it's a fifth season, so that's final one.

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Speaker 3: They say it's a final one.

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Speaker 5: My kids are twelve at nine and they're obsessed with

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Speaker 5: full and Fuller, so it's really nice. I love them both.

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Speaker 3: That's you know. It makes us all feel that we

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Speaker 3: all love you each other.

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Speaker 2: Well, since you brought it up, can I ask a

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Speaker 2: couple of questions because I.

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Speaker 3: Was a real and I do have a Dustbuster now

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Speaker 3: and John Stamos is hot. Yes, David is just like Joey.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. I loved him because I'm from Michigan.

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Speaker 2: So Red Wings was my team. I mean I used

741
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Speaker 2: to Detroit.

742
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Speaker 3: The horrible tragedy happened in Detroit with a couple of

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Speaker 3: Red Wings that lost their lives in a limo. Dave

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Speaker 3: John and I out there. We went there and he

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Speaker 3: didn't fly because it was awful A good it was horrific,

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Speaker 3: and we did a giant benefit and we did a

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Speaker 3: celebrity I actually was a coach. I don't know anything

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Speaker 3: about hockey, but it was so meaningful and so beautiful,

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Speaker 3: and Dave is just one of my best.

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Speaker 2: Friends, very very Do you genuinely liked the uncles?

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Speaker 3: Well, I've known Dave since Dave was nineteen and I

752
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 3: was twenty one, so we met ten years before we

753
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Speaker 3: got the show, but he had the show before I did.

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Speaker 3: They got rid of a guy.

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Speaker 2: To put it, that's the question, because Johnny Post John wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't understand it.

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Speaker 2: But so he was casted originally as Danny Tanner.

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Speaker 3: They wanted me originally, but I had a show on

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Speaker 3: CBS called The Morning Program, the Early Morning TV against

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Speaker 3: Good Morning America Today's show, and then they found out

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00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 3: that I was being fired from that show awesome, because

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Speaker 5: Apparently I didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: The host was married Hartley, and she said, are you

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Speaker 3: a type a personality? And I said yes, but I'm

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Speaker 3: working on my anus and she said, go to your room.

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Speaker 3: And I went to my room and they didn't. It

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Speaker 3: was a real room. I mean it was like you

769
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Speaker 3: upstairs and it's a flat. There's nothing there. And I

770
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Speaker 3: stood there for ten minutes during waiting for commercials and

771
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Speaker 3: it was sad, but it was really happy because then

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Speaker 3: I came back to LA and did full House.

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Speaker 2: So did you So are you still friends with the

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Speaker 2: other guybody everybody else? No, I mean like the guy

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Speaker 2: that you took his part.

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Speaker 3: Oh I never met him.

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Speaker 2: Oh you never met him.

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Speaker 3: No feel for him. And I probably own about a

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Speaker 3: thousand dinners.

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Speaker 2: But you know it's right though. That's the world of acting.

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Speaker 2: But also the.

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Speaker 3: Producers of the show Miller Boyett were had had many

783
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Speaker 3: shows that they replaced their leads in. If a pilot

784
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Speaker 3: doesn't work, it's known in show biz to recast, and

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Speaker 3: they do it just because they think it'll be a

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Speaker 3: better fit. It's not that he's not good, because he

787
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Speaker 3: was good. I watched it and I hate that they

788
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Speaker 3: put it on a DVD box, but let's not talk

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Speaker 3: about it. Yeah, I got a dirty video show coming up.

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Speaker 5: House question, No, I have.

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Speaker 2: One moretful house question when you read, because you're not

792
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Speaker 2: like Danny Tanner.

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Speaker 3: I'm an actor, I know, but that's a median and

794
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: an actor and a director. I got a movie come

795
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 3: out in April and I directed and acted in with

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Speaker 3: Funny People. What It's called Benjamin Rob Cordrey and Ken

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Speaker 3: Pollack and CHERRYO Terry and Dave Foley and Max Brookholder

798
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Speaker 3: from Parenthood and Clara Mammott. But I don't know the

799
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Speaker 3: cast off hand, and I'm trying to think about the

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Speaker 3: other people. Oh, Perry Gilpin and Marilyn Rice cub it's

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Speaker 3: a it's a you know, it's an independent comedy.

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00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: So when you read though full House, were you.

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Speaker 3: Let me get that plug in the Full House?

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00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 5: You can cut it out.

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00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 2: If you Oh, there you go when you read the

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Speaker 2: script for Full House and you saw that shirt, Yes,

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Speaker 2: I know you did, but were you did? You almost

808
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: because you got so typecasted in that well, but.

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Speaker 3: You don't know what type casting is until you go, well,

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Speaker 3: why am I not? I mean comic got Dog got

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Speaker 3: air Bud and Stayless was mad because comic got a

812
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Speaker 3: movie and he didn't. So, you know, it's just show business.

813
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 3: But at that time, you couldn't host a video show

814
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Speaker 3: or be on a sitcom where you're playing a sappy

815
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Speaker 3: character and necessarily get a movie career out of it.

816
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Speaker 3: And it still doesn't happen for a lot of people

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Speaker 3: that depending on the.

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Speaker 5: Kind of work they do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, was after dark, then your idea to kind of

820
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Speaker 2: go a little bit more crazy.

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Speaker 3: See, this is what happened. I had no intention of

822
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Speaker 3: ever doing a video show. Again, everybody's done him great.

823
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Speaker 3: Daniel Tosh, Joel McHale's a good friend. He was doing

824
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Speaker 3: Talk Soup and Rob Dirdick on MTV and I've been

825
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 3: asked to. I did two of those shows.

826
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Speaker 2: But the one on ABC that well.

827
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Speaker 3: The America's Funny some videos has been on for it

828
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Speaker 3: just got the highest rate and it's gotten in like

829
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Speaker 3: five years. But when I said it was number one,

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Speaker 3: and uh, and it's been number one on ABC. It's

831
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Speaker 3: a staple, you know, but it's it's done the way

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Speaker 3: kind of like I used to do it, you know,

833
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Speaker 3: except ours was bigger produced. We were We were on

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Speaker 3: for eight years with me and people didn't have the

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Speaker 3: Internet so they couldn't go look up a video. And

836
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Speaker 3: now all some of those videos, a few of them

837
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Speaker 3: are on this new show. But what happened was a

838
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 3: guy named Rob Mills at ABC who's the head of Alternative.

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Speaker 3: Very smart guy and is a big fan of mine,

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Speaker 3: which I then I questioned his intelligence because but that's

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Speaker 3: self def I was gonna say defecating. That's not good.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna poop on myself. But which is self

843
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Speaker 3: deprecating if you are self deficating. But but Rob Mills

844
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Speaker 3: had a meeting with Vin Dea Bona and Vin's you

845
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Speaker 3: know that show the video shows never was af HV.

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Speaker 3: When I did it America's Funniest Home Videos, I took

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Speaker 3: out the h and at AFV, my joke is that

848
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Speaker 3: people just lost their home, so they took out the age.

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Speaker 6: But it was a rough time.

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Speaker 2: It's right, I can quite the room.

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Speaker 3: But what happened was what happened, seriously, was is that

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Speaker 3: is Rob Mills five thanks, We rate them by we

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Speaker 3: need a dry race bar. When I'm on things of

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Speaker 3: what's good and what's not, then we cross off two

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00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 3: things and we're done. But what happened was Rob Mills said,

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Speaker 3: you got the show. You've been sitting on it for

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Speaker 3: thirty years. You all the videos you could not air.

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Speaker 2: Because there were two runchies.

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Speaker 6: What's the line though, Like, what really categorized?

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Speaker 3: The line is nudity, The line is a kid flipping

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Speaker 3: the bird. The line is cursing. But you can't run

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00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 3: that a day at night. I was hosting it at

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Speaker 3: seven o'clock and eight o'clock on Sunday nights.

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00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 5: That's church day.

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Speaker 3: You want to sit around the TV, and that's why

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Speaker 3: it was so successful. You want to sit around the

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Speaker 3: TV with your family and be able to watch something.

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Speaker 3: And I always thought there was validity and doing family television,

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Speaker 3: which meant why can't I do what else I want

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Speaker 3: to do as well? So I'd been dirty in a

871
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 3: movie at Richard prior movie. I got to know and

872
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 3: be friends and work with Richard for many years just

873
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 3: because they kne him from the Comedy Store. But also

874
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 3: I was in this movie. Critical condition in my comedy

875
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 3: was always off the rails and got weirder as I

876
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 3: got older.

877
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 2: And runcher because I've seen you at stands up and

878
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 2: you're I'm like, Danny Tanner is raunchy.

879
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 3: Well, it's it's Bob Saggett plays Danny Tanner.

880
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

881
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 3: But my sense of humors, I started at nine with

882
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 3: that sense of humor and it was all based on

883
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 3: Gallows humor because we had a lot of death in

884
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:21,720
Speaker 3: our family, so my dad.

885
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 5: Would just help us get through it with Philip.

886
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:24,760
Speaker 3: I don't know why.

887
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 5: It was just till the nine year old son dirty stuff,

888
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 5: so it works.

889
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 2: They were and with death in your family, everybody what.

890
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 3: I lost two sisters and my father loves four brothers.

891
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: Oh, your sister had one of them, had Scleoredermo. So

892
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,479
Speaker 2: I saw that movie, yeah for hope with my gosh,

893
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 2: that movie was incredible.

894
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: She was amazing and it and the whole past was.

895
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: Oh, that was amazing.

896
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 3: Tried to put Sclore Drum on the map. And we're

897
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 3: doing another benefit April twenty fifth in Los Angeles at

898
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: the Beverly Hills Beverly Hills Hotel. No yeah, no, sorry,

899
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 3: the Beverly Wilshire, Beverly will Shore and we have amazing comedians.

900
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 3: I can't say who they are because it's top secret,

901
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 3: but it's like it's a big event. It's eight hundred people.

902
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 2: I mean that's because I remember watching that and I

903
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 2: didn't know what it was. It's like she cannot move

904
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: and your key throughsinned.

905
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 3: But mainly the things that you're most upset about is

906
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 3: your esophagus deteriorates, the flap and you have too much collagen.

907
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 3: But it makes you taught, makes your skin more taught.

908
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 3: And then people that lose their lives is the pulmonary hypertension,

909
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 3: which is your failing of your lungs. And so the

910
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 3: video show is really fun. But anyway, I like that,

911
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 3: and I like that you brought it up. It means

912
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: a lot to me. I've been doing it for twenty

913
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 3: eight years. I hosted it before she was even sick.

914
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: This benefit and we say the name again of what is.

915
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: Scleroderma Research Foundation, and the website is brand new. We

916
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 3: just put up this giant, wonderful website which is inventing

917
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 3: a lot of new things. S r F cure dot org. Okay,

918
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 3: and it is. It really is showing what we're accomplishing.

919
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 3: We have raised through these comedy betters fits and Robin

920
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 3: Williams bless him, did seven of them. So we've always

921
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: had the biggest comedians that exist. I can tease you

922
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 3: by telling you that Ken John and Ray Romano will

923
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 3: be performing able to and you can get tickets for

924
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 3: that on our website.

925
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 2: Okay, let's go. He's obsessed with comedy.

926
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 3: There's another website, which is the ticket website, which is

927
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: s r F c c HC dot org. But s

928
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 3: r F cure dot org is also probably easy, but

929
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,959
Speaker 3: that'll be able twenty fifth here in Hills. I would

930
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 3: love it.

931
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: I would love he loves comedy and you know, and

932
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: then we're supporting an amazing cause and we.

933
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 3: Have a couple of special guests that we can't say

934
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 3: because there's a special we can't tell nobody. But we've

935
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 3: raised over forty eight million dollars. Wow, and we've all

936
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: the money's going to research.

937
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 2: And then how many people are diagnosed? Do you know?

938
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 5: No one knows.

939
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: It's hundreds of thousands, is kind of what we we say.

940
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 3: But it's sometimes some people get combos like they have

941
00:39:55,880 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 3: cancer and scleroderma, and other people just gets scoredderma, not

942
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: just I mean it's it's a horrific disease when you

943
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 3: see kids with it.

944
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 2: I mean that movie was in the nineties, wasn't it.

945
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 3: The movie was ninety six.

946
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, she died.

947
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: I mean I remember watching that and just being I

948
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: mean I was I was born in eighty three, so

949
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 2: I was thirteen. I'm terrible at math, but I just

950
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 2: remember watching that. I mean, that was an That was

951
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: an amazing movie. And I didn't know you directed that and.

952
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 3: Exec produced it with my friend Brad Gray and Bernie

953
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 3: Berlstein and.

954
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: It was powerful. I mean, I just remember being at

955
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: that even at that age too, you know.

956
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 3: And we had a great writer, Susan Rice, and a

957
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 3: great producer Karen Moore, and it really made a difference.

958
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 3: And we beat ratings that night for everybody. For ABC.

959
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 3: We beat all the other networks, but there weren't all

960
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 3: the cable options.

961
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: What do you like doing the best directing them all?

962
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: I mean, this movie's coming out in the next couple

963
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 3: of months and I love I'm actually loving Videos after Dark. Yeah,

964
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 3: very very much, because it's I'm free.

965
00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 6: You know.

966
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 3: I got a call five onnths ago, Vincent. I'll say

967
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 3: it every day, but no, you got to pick your spots.

968
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 3: You got to pick your spotting. But I then said, look,

969
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 3: I want you to do your stand up. I really

970
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,760
Speaker 3: want you to do it, be Bob, within reason, of course,

971
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 3: because you're not going to come out and drop f

972
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 3: bombs and stuff. And I'm doing that less of my

973
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 3: stand up. I'm on a big tour around the United

974
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 3: States and Canada also all year, so I'm stupidly busy.

975
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 3: And it's like writing that show while we've been on

976
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 3: doing stand up has been challenging. But we I wrote

977
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 3: the voiceover. So I'm doing voiceovers again. That's one thing

978
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 3: that no one, even Tash is great I do, but

979
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 3: I do Oh look out, you know, like when I

980
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: did the old Video show, it was like look out oh,

981
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,280
Speaker 3: and people would get hit the nuts and oh, nothing

982
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 3: could happen to me, you know it like but it

983
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: was like doing like the guy that did Bugs Bunny

984
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 3: and Sylvester mel Blank and did all the great Warner

985
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 3: Brothers cartoons. I just copied him. But I'm not great

986
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 3: at it. But I have a low voice, so that,

987
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 3: you know, because I narrated How I Met your Mother

988
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: because they wanted to make Josh Radner seem as though

989
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 3: he smoked a lot of cigars and drank for twenty years,

990
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 3: so I had to narrate it post date it.

991
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 2: But so your way of kind of dealing with pain

992
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: is covering it with laughter. Then it's not covering. It's

993
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: actually I'm not therapy therapy, yeah, yeah, yeah.

994
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 3: I mean it used to be covering. I used to

995
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 3: talk really fast in my stand up. You know. My

996
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 3: first joke was like, I have the brain of a

997
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 3: German shepherd and the body of a sixteen year old boy,

998
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 3: and they're both in my car and I want you

999
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,760
Speaker 3: to see them, and I's like what. And I remember

1000
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 3: reading meeting Robin Williams the first time. I was twenty one.

1001
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 3: I was at the comedy store and he had just

1002
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 3: watched me, which is obviously a nice sign, and a

1003
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 3: bunch of the comedians started watching. My first host was

1004
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 3: Letterman at the comedy store and Robin. Because I'm one

1005
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 3: hundred and twelve, but Robin said, oh, so your mother

1006
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 3: was gummy and your father was poking.

1007
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 5: Okay, you know, it's like, this is what you're gonna do.

1008
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 3: This is your comedy.

1009
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,720
Speaker 5: This is different.

1010
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 3: And then I people like Billy Crystal befriended me, and

1011
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 3: just Jay Leno had a bit about incest I thought

1012
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: was funny and he says, yeah, yeah, you're the one

1013
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,720
Speaker 3: with the sick mind that would find that funny.

1014
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 6: Your inspirations, like, as you're kind of growing in that.

1015
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 3: Comedy, it would be Richard Pryor was kind of the

1016
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 3: king of it. And I think the closest we have

1017
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 3: besides Chris Rock is Dave Chappelle, Who's who really does

1018
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 3: speak and is There's something about honesty, and there's something

1019
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 3: about giving your opinions about what's going on and not

1020
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 3: being afraid, afraid to give them but yet still find

1021
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: the humor and still be kind through it. And there

1022
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 3: aren't a lot of people. Bill Burr's a good friend,

1023
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 3: and he's sensational. I mean, the way he dive bombs

1024
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 3: into something you just don't want to hit that area.

1025
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: And what do you want to talk about more? Is

1026
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 2: there anything that you're kind of afraid to talk about,

1027
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 2: like politics or.

1028
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 3: I don't love talking about politics or religion because I

1029
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 3: have beliefs that probably deep down those people's share. But

1030
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: I also have conflicts because I'm not sure someone's going

1031
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 3: to get but hurt over there.

1032
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but isn't that what a comment? Because that's what

1033
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 2: I like. That's why I like comedy shows though, because

1034
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: there's no you don't have to be politically correct, and

1035
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 2: that's why I love Milling don't.

1036
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 3: But you do have to be different. I mean, I've

1037
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 3: been doing a lot of gigs and we're about to

1038
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 3: go out with my friend Mike Young is also a

1039
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 3: writer on the video show who wrote for Entourage. That's

1040
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 3: how long I've known and because I used to do

1041
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 3: that a bunch, and it's you really want if you're

1042
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 3: going to do stuff that's misogynistic or has a pedophilic.

1043
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 5: Joke in it.

1044
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 3: I mean, it's like you don't want to do it,

1045
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 3: but you watch the news and it's in our consciousness,

1046
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 3: but it makes everyone so sad because it's so wrong, and.

1047
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 5: The hapeople it shouldn't be.

1048
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 3: They shouldn't even be on there.

1049
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 6: You find, do you find that there is a changing

1050
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:38,959
Speaker 6: of the guard kind of in what you can touch

1051
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 6: because of the sensitivity of just society in general, where

1052
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 6: I like, I don't even want to touch that because

1053
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 6: someone's gonna cry.

1054
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 3: I did a show in London and there was one

1055
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 3: song I do like some of my shows music, but

1056
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,720
Speaker 3: I guess anywhere from twenty minutes to forty minutes, depending

1057
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 3: on how long I said I'm doing. And I played

1058
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 3: this great Leicester Square theater there and there was one

1059
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 3: song I shouldn't have done. And I didn't know there

1060
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 3: was more senseivity to it there then and now I realize,

1061
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 3: just cut it, just cut it. Don't do anything that's

1062
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 3: so sensitive. That's if you find it funny, you're laughing

1063
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 3: out of some racial uncomfortableness. It's not. It wasn't racial.

1064
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 3: It was more sexual in nature. It was had more

1065
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 3: of a transgender type of but it was like a

1066
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 3: love song to a transgender individual, and it wasn't interpreted

1067
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 3: that way. And I don't want it to be misinterpreted.

1068
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 3: I want it to be very clear. I'd rather say

1069
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 3: something horrible and people know that I mean. Well, and

1070
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 3: that's what I'm not kidding. This video is after dark.

1071
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 3: You guys are gonna like it. I promise you. It's

1072
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 3: on Tuesday.

1073
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've got it.

1074
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 3: It's on Tuesday. It's on well, it's just this Tuesday.

1075
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,959
Speaker 3: It's a sneak peek. It's a first look, and it's

1076
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 3: on after the Bachelor finale. And if you look at

1077
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 3: my Twitter feed, Colton had said that if he ever

1078
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 3: went the other way, I'd be the guy, you know, because.

1079
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 5: He's a vergent. Okay, yeah, but I think he's r

1080
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 5: but I don't don't want her.

1081
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 3: I think he's got a fastball.

1082
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 6: It's gonna hurt.

1083
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 5: You know, he's a ball.

1084
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 2: All right, Bob, thanks for coming on our show. We

1085
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 2: really appreciate it. We know you have to wrap it up,

1086
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 2: so I don't want to. I know I don't either,

1087
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: but I got the signal from your lady.

1088
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 5: So, but we can wait.

1089
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 3: We can wait two more minutes because I want to

1090
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 3: talk about the video show for one more second. It's

1091
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 3: a big deal because it is not huge because well,

1092
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 3: it's never happened before. It's not like the other video

1093
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 3: shows that people wanted to be.

1094
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 5: Time is ten o'clock. Okay, So it has a disclaimer

1095
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 5: at the front. It's like a girl's gone a love.

1096
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 5: I love it. It says, can't do this, can't say this,

1097
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 5: and I.

1098
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 3: Really do think. I wrote the theme song and I

1099
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: sing it, and we recorded at the Capitol Records building

1100
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,760
Speaker 3: in Studio May, which were Sinatra and Nat King Cola

1101
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 3: used their mic I wrote the damn thing and it's

1102
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 3: it's really that's really cool.

1103
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's neat, and you can't that happen.

1104
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 2: You can't get in trouble for that. Because if our daughter,

1105
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 2: you know, she's three, if she's up at ten, that's

1106
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 2: a problem with us that we were not putting her.

1107
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 3: Well, she's going to see little kids saying words that

1108
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 3: are bleedd and she's going to say what she's saying.

1109
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,240
Speaker 2: Well, she's she's not going to be up at ten o'clock.

1110
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 2: As I'm saying, you know how old she's three? We

1111
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 2: have a three year old, and then we have a

1112
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 2: three month old.

1113
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 3: Congratulations, you must not be sleeping, not at all.

1114
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 2: We are.

1115
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 5: He just was s it's almost like a press stour.

1116
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I've had three daughters myself that I'm old

1117
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 3: down there. That was the best wife, that was, Yeah, yeah,

1118
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 3: my first. I only had two in my life. Yeah,

1119
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 3: and I had twenty years off to have relationships and

1120
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 3: not be So you just got remarried though, I did,

1121
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 3: just I think it's four months ago legally, you know, okay,

1122
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 3: and she's wonderful. She's just increable.

1123
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 2: What happened with the like, what was the break of that?

1124
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 3: Well that was not to be personal, but the main

1125
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 3: thing was what would it be? You know, it's like

1126
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 3: Tom Cruise, who we all trust for knowledge, uh said

1127
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 3: and Jerry maguire. Everything has a time. Every relationship has

1128
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 3: the beginning and an end. It can be an hour,

1129
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 3: it can be a year, it can be a week,

1130
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 3: it can be ten years. And we were married fourteen years.

1131
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 3: We had three amazing kids. We've raised them. You know,

1132
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 3: everybody says three are you an active? You know, did

1133
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: you ever see your kids? What are you talking about.

1134
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 3: You know, you go to hades because I was an

1135
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 3: very active father and and then I would you know,

1136
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 3: they'd be with their mom half the time, half of me.

1137
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 3: And then when I was working a lot, I went

1138
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 3: and directed a movie or two, and then I was

1139
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 3: not available, and so they would come. I was shooting

1140
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 3: this movie Dirty Work once with.

1141
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 6: Norm MacDonald and classic.

1142
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 5: We want to make a sequel. Norm wants to make

1143
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 5: the sequels.

1144
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 2: Please can you be an extra because his dream is

1145
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 2: to be an extra to.

1146
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 5: Toronto or wherever?

1147
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 6: The bodyguard Norms.

1148
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 3: He's a good friend and he's being out through a

1149
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 3: hard time and we love him. And Norms said that

1150
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 3: the movies should be called Dirty Work to keep already alive,

1151
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 3: like it was a very special time for me and

1152
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 3: in a movie. But we were getting divorced and we

1153
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 3: have raised the most amazing daughters that are not DJ

1154
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 3: Steph Michelle. There these are these this these this version

1155
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 3: is thirty two, twenty nine and twenty so they were three,

1156
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 3: seven and nine back in the day. And it just

1157
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 3: it just I tried to make it work and she

1158
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 3: wanted to make it work, and it just life does

1159
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 3: what it does. It throws you, and I was like

1160
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 3: alone at the beach depressed. You know, la guy living

1161
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 3: in a beach house that he ran it and went

1162
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,800
Speaker 3: off to direct the movie in Toronto, just lonely?

1163
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 5: Is it?

1164
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: This sad opposite of what people think. They think you

1165
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:27,280
Speaker 3: just go out and be a player.

1166
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 2: But let me look at you. Now.

1167
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 5: You know best person?

1168
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 3: And she is. Her name is Kelly and she's just

1169
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:40,720
Speaker 3: wonderful and my kids love her and she's just perfect.

1170
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 3: She's an influencer. She's as a thing called each Travel

1171
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 3: Rock and and she's developing a thing. A lot of

1172
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 3: people are into it right now. She's going to be

1173
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 3: on She's going to be a correspondent on a thing

1174
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 3: on Extra. So I think I'll be in it with

1175
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 3: John Stamos. That's kind of the idea. I love it

1176
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 3: because I love him. He's junk Jesse. So anyway, the

1177
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 3: show will be on Tuesday.

1178
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 6: That's that's what I And what's your one Last Pie? Like,

1179
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 6: what's the difference between videos after Dark and the Tosh

1180
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 6: pornos and the ridiculousness?

1181
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,439
Speaker 3: It's nothing like it because I'm not doing sketches. I'm

1182
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 3: doing this straight stand up and I'm not pushing because

1183
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 3: I'm twice the age of Tosh. So no, no, I

1184
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 3: look two thirds but one third I don't know. But

1185
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 3: I'm twice the age I was when I did America's

1186
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 3: Funny Some videos. And it's just real. It's just more real,

1187
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,959
Speaker 3: and I'm ad living and I'm talking to the people.

1188
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 3: It's I'm being myself and it's it's but you're still

1189
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 3: reading teleprompter. But you go off, Bob and thank you.

1190
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 3: It's the plan and it's more of me. If the

1191
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 3: public likes, then the old show because the videos are

1192
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 3: Once you go into these videos, you can't believe what

1193
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 3: you're looking at. It's just insane each other with shock

1194
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 3: things and just horrible competitions, so excited and people from

1195
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,720
Speaker 3: the South just lighting each other on fire accidents.

1196
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 2: Send one you want to you're.

1197
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 5: Gonna want to do and you get five hundred bucks.

1198
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 3: If you upload it. Oh yeah, that'll be on the

1199
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 3: show Tuesday night. I'll tell people how to upload their

1200
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 3: tapes or I'm an out of tapes. Their data right

1201
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 3: there moving from their camera, and uh, there's just stuff

1202
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 3: you can't There's a guy sliding down a hill and

1203
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 3: he's in a bathing suit and the hill is covered

1204
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 3: in ice and then bing suit comes off and then

1205
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 3: he's face down and he just keeps hitting little icicles

1206
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 3: and he's not even caring, he's not even hurt. And

1207
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 3: then he gets up at the end and they have

1208
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 3: to blur it and he goes tada, and it's like

1209
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 3: and there's nothing left. They didn't have to blur it.

1210
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 3: I mean it's gone, it's gone, dry erased it. So

1211
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 3: that's the kind of and I narrate this stuff and

1212
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 3: it's just it's it's a hell of a lot of fun.

1213
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 3: So I hope you like it. And we did twelve

1214
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 3: more episodes that'll be on after in the months ahead,

1215
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 3: after this big hour thing.

1216
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 2: Love it.

1217
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 3: Let me keep talking.

1218
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: I am really having a hard time finding time for things.

1219
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 2: And one of the things that I think frustrates me

1220
00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 2: the most is going to the post office because it's

1221
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: just a hassle. There's always a really long line, and

1222
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: it's to drop off one thing or a package. It

1223
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 2: just I don't know, it just seems such like a

1224
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 2: time consuming thing for me. So that's why I'm obsessed

1225
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 2: with stamps dot com. It's so easy. All you have

1226
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: to do, literally is gone Stamps dot com and that's it.

1227
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 2: It saves the trip to the post office. They'll send

1228
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 2: you a scale, they'll send you everything you need, so

1229
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: all you have to do is simply use your computer

1230
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: to print official US postage twenty four to seven for

1231
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 2: any letter, any package, any class of mail anywhere. I mean,

1232
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 2: it's literally the easiest thing ever. So with stamps dot

1233
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: com you get five cents off every first class stamp

1234
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 2: and up to forty percent off priority mail. Not to mention,

1235
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,760
Speaker 2: it's a fraction of the cost of those expensive postage meters.

1236
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: It's again, it's just a no brainer. You save money,

1237
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 2: you save time. It's no wonder. Over seven hundred thousand

1238
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,479
Speaker 2: small businesses already use damps dot com. And they also

1239
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 2: send you a scale too, so if you're sending something

1240
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 2: heavier than just a letter home to your mom, if

1241
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 2: you're sending the package, they'll send you a scale. So

1242
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 2: right now, my listeners get a special offer that includes

1243
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Speaker 2: a four week trial plus free postage and a digital

1244
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 2: scale without any long term commitment. Just go to stamps

1245
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: dot com and click on the microphone at the top

1246
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 2: of the homepage and type in Jana that stamps dot com.

1247
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 2: Enter Jana I just have to discuss something because I

1248
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of women that listen to the

1249
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 2: show can relate, and I honestly I want to know

1250
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 2: what they do and how they handle it, because Michael

1251
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:43,919
Speaker 2: has the man cold right now. But here's my thing, though,

1252
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:50,399
Speaker 2: I don't understand why you feel like you're dying when

1253
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 2: you just have the cold. And I had the cold.

1254
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 2: I had a fever, I had a runny nose, I

1255
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 2: couldn't breathe, I was coughing my I had terrible sinus headaches.

1256
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 2: I mean again fever, I mean feeling awful, But yet

1257
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 2: I didn't stop. And you're like, I'm knowing, I mean

1258
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 2: you you're out for the count.

1259
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, men, it is scientifically proven. Then men get colds

1260
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 6: worse than women.

1261
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we have. We have actually the same cold.

1262
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 2: All of your symptoms.

1263
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,360
Speaker 6: Manifests stronger in men. Yes it does.

1264
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: But that's the thing. It doesn't like we have We've

1265
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 2: equally had the exact same symptoms, and you've been the

1266
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 2: biggest baby. But what I don't understand is that the

1267
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 2: thing is.

1268
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 6: I haven't though, like have I not? What haven't I done?

1269
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 6: What haven't I done?

1270
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 2: Are you haven't put chased down in the past.

1271
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, okay, granted, because that's more out of

1272
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 6: caution of his health.

1273
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: When I was sick, I was holding him. I put

1274
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 2: him down still.

1275
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 6: I did, Michael, I didn't let you a couple of times.

1276
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm sorry one or two times.

1277
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 6: But I'm just saying, but like there's not like I'm like,

1278
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 6: all right, you got both. I'm in the room, like

1279
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 6: I'm still out there doing stuff, yeah, helping.

1280
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 2: But here's the problem. I'm kind of a warm That's

1281
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 2: the thing is he's more of a warm body, like

1282
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 2: a coat hanger in the corner. And then he'll make

1283
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 2: the loudest He'll be like, I mean, your cough is

1284
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 2: so loud. But the worst part is he is stink

1285
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 2: bombing the house. I literally told him, I said, stay

1286
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 2: in the room if this is what's going to happen,

1287
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 2: because this is disgusting. I mean, I was so angry with.

1288
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 6: My body is fighting for my life.

1289
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's.

1290
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 6: Noises and smells that come out of me. I cannot

1291
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 6: be held accountable for.

1292
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 2: I just don't understand. Mark. Maybe you can help with

1293
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 2: us with this. With us is you know, there are

1294
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 2: so many gifts and memes about men and their colds,

1295
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 2: and they even say that's why you know men can't

1296
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 2: have children because you know the speech we would die

1297
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Speaker 2: through Yeah, you would die through childbirth because you can't

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00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 2: even live through the cold. So I don't understand because

1299
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 2: we have the same symptoms.

1300
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:00,959
Speaker 5: I'm on web md right now trying to find something

1301
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 5: to back up Mike because bro code, there's really no

1302
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,239
Speaker 5: difference in the immune systems in men and women, is

1303
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 5: what it says here. They said that estrogen can.

1304
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 6: I think someone who actually look it up, they just

1305
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 6: take my word for it.

1306
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 5: They think estrogen can maybe slow the spread of a

1307
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 5: cold throughout the body. So it might, but it's the

1308
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 5: same deal basically as what they're saying on this article

1309
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 5: on WebMD. And I'm a bad example of this because

1310
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:26,479
Speaker 5: I refuse to ever admit that I'm sick.

1311
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 2: Oh I love that.

1312
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 5: My wife's like Mark, seriously, you can't stop sneezing. You're

1313
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 5: clearly miserable, Like no, no, no, I'm fine.

1314
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 6: I'm fine.

1315
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 5: I'm going to work.

1316
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 6: Everything's fine.

1317
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 5: I've been going, you know, out in the garage anyway,

1318
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 5: So I'm I'm not that So I don't know I can't.

1319
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 6: See I'm the same way. And so that's the thing

1320
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 6: that I told Jama. I'm like, when I am like

1321
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 6: kind of down and out, it means I really feel

1322
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,760
Speaker 6: like right, like I really feel bad.

1323
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're down and out is like down and out,

1324
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 2: whereas I had the same thing, and I'm not down

1325
00:56:58,840 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 2: and out.

1326
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 6: I want really weren't down and out.

1327
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 2: Oh see, that's oh real trigger trigger. Then you're telling

1328
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 2: me I'm fine, and you got real upset with me

1329
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:13,479
Speaker 2: last night because it was amazing trigger, Oh my god,

1330
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 2: because I said, what are your symptoms?

1331
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 6: And he said she super parental.

1332
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 2: I just said no. I said, do you have a fever?

1333
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 7: No?

1334
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 6: I don't think so.

1335
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 2: I said, do you you know? Do you have chills? No?

1336
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 6: Not really.

1337
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 2: I said, then you're fine, Okay, you're fine, And so

1338
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 2: he got rural upset with me. Okay, that's a trigger

1339
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 2: from childhood.

1340
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 6: I like it just it just felt so parental. But

1341
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 6: I just heard telling me I'm fine. No, I'm an adult.

1342
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 6: I feel like crap, I'm telling you, and how many

1343
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 6: times I get sick a year? Once? Not true, maybe twice.

1344
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm not true either. You're soul Easton, Do you have

1345
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 2: the man cold.

1346
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 5: I think I lean into it when I get sick,

1347
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 5: but a little stuffy, I'll be like, hey, my goodness,

1348
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 5: like out the vapors, I cannot lift the thing.

1349
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 6: You're sweet?

1350
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 2: So why isn't though, I just don't understand. It's just

1351
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 2: because you guys have more ability to just we have nothing.

1352
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 6: We have no monthly period. We don't have children or

1353
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 6: estrogen or cormons or any of that that give us

1354
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 6: a reason to be, you know, embrace sympathy or empathy.

1355
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 6: This is all we got. We don't get when we

1356
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 6: get a cold capitalized what this is all we got?

1357
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 2: Okay, time out? Where do we get any empathy for

1358
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 2: our periods? For I mean, when have you ever given

1359
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 2: me empathy from my monthly period? Never?

1360
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 6: I'm speaking from a general standpoint. You're not from my

1361
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 6: not from my personal or my personal experience, from the

1362
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 6: general general point of view.

1363
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: And this is all we walked yourself into a brick wall.

1364
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 6: Anyways, let's get to some email. Bottom line, I'm sick,

1365
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 6: I'm still here. I've still shown up as a dad.

1366
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,919
Speaker 6: The only thing I haven't done is put Jays down

1367
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 6: for his health, or cook dinner.

1368
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 2: Or screwed your wife.

1369
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 6: I did that the first time you got home. I

1370
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 6: wasn't feeling great. Anyway, you want me coughing? Come your baby?

1371
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 6: You got me coughing all over you?

1372
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 2: No, okay, yes, readA something Mark.

1373
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 5: Okay, sure, as an anonymous email saying I have a

1374
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 5: coworker and he's cheating on his wife. They have two

1375
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 5: kids together, and I don't know should I let the

1376
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 5: wife know? Like, I don't even know if anonymous is

1377
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 5: male or female, but he has an access. He has

1378
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 5: access to the wife if he wants it.

1379
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: Or I have a coworker and he's cheating on his wife.

1380
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 2: So it sounds like it's a guy.

1381
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 5: Sounds like it. But then.

1382
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 2: His wife happens to work with my fiance. Okay, with

1383
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 2: my fiance, so so it sounds like he's the anonymous

1384
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 2: is from a guy. It sounds like.

1385
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, anyway, he says, this is eating me up

1386
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 5: because I don't want to break up their family, but

1387
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 5: I feel she has the right to know. I would

1388
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 5: want to know if it was me.

1389
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm on two. I have two sides of this.

1390
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 2: From the side of it happening, obviously, I would want

1391
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 2: to know now if before that though I would have said,

1392
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 2: don't say anything because it's not your business. So that's

1393
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 2: where I that's interesting, that's where I'm torn.

1394
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 6: Get stitches, Jesus my.

1395
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: No, No, but do you see what I'm saying?

1396
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 6: Though, No, that's that's a tough dilemma. I mean, you

1397
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 6: have to, like I guess, try to bring it up

1398
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 6: with your coworker. And at the same time, it's not

1399
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 6: your business.

1400
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 5: That's not a balance. So we should stay out of

1401
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 5: other people's nonsense.

1402
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 6: But I know, right, it's a catch twenty two.

1403
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 5: It's a tough one.

1404
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 2: What would you do? What if what if Easton was

1405
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 2: cheating on his wife?

1406
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 5: I would bury my head in the sand and say, Easton,

1407
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 5: you should really knock it off. But I would not

1408
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 5: tell as well.

1409
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 3: You're here, all right, came on.

1410
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 5: It also depends on the situation, like who are you

1411
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 5: closer friends with and all that stuff. But I think

1412
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 5: in general you shouldn't poke your nose where it doesn't

1413
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 5: belong to.

1414
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 2: Get on. If I was cheating on Mike, would you

1415
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 2: tell Mike that I was having an affair on him? Okay?

1416
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 7: Everybody, I feel like got a way easier question because

1417
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 7: I have a soft spot in my heart for the

1418
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 7: both of you, I kind.

1419
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 2: Of feel, Okay, well, what if he was cheating on me?

1420
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: And and so let's say what if.

1421
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 6: Let's see the entire world would line up to tell you, well, that's.

1422
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: Also true, right, But let's say you got you were

1423
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 2: doing a good job, which you know it's good, you

1424
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: can and you can get away with it. But you

1425
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 2: know what if what if he was cheating on me?

1426
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 2: Would you? Would you tell me?

1427
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 8: Then I probably tell Sarah and then have no I

1428
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 8: Actually I'm just somebody who are like, if I'm in

1429
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 8: the same position, you're gonna immediately get really mad at

1430
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 8: the person for breaking the news. You're you're gonna go

1431
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 8: million miles per hour, But at the end of the day,

1432
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 8: you're gonna appreciate the person who is trying to be

1433
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 8: honest with you. So if I had actual facts that

1434
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 8: I knew this, I think that I would be honest

1435
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 8: in it, being like, hey, that friendship is probably gonna

1436
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 8: be broken now for a little bit of time, but

1437
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 8: the healing of it, and then at least I was

1438
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 8: being honest throughout the situation, cause I think it's worse

1439
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 8: being the person who knew and doesn't say anything than

1440
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 8: being the person who says something. Even if you're like,

1441
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 8: I'm gonna drop the bomb and leave, but at least

1442
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 8: you're gonna know that, like it might think about.

1443
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 6: If you're a friend in that situation where if your

1444
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 6: friend didn't tell you and you're like, you knew I'd

1445
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 6: be seen and tell me you're nuts.

1446
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 2: Well, I will say this, so not to get like

1447
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 2: personal and bring up our stuff which people don't like,

1448
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 2: but I will say the one of the affairs partners

1449
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 2: reached out to me, but he didn't reach out to

1450
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 2: me when it was happening because he saw me on

1451
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 2: Facebook and saw that we have a family and he

1452
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 2: didn't want to break up the family. So he said

1453
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 2: that he hoped that maybe he got better. So in

1454
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 2: that situation, I appreciated that, but at the same time,

1455
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 2: I would have wanted that to So it's I don't know.

1456
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 2: That's where it's like I go back and forth with that.

1457
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 2: I think that's okay, his cough drop, that's saving his life.

1458
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 6: Saving my life. I think that's just a difference of

1459
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 6: whether you have a prior like a friendship. It's true

1460
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 6: if that's your friend, it's different if it's you don't know.

1461
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 5: It's just a coworker.

1462
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's And if you don't really know the wife,

1463
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 2: then it's like then you're just butting your business into

1464
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 2: something that you really do. So if you don't really

1465
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 2: so here's anonymous. If you don't really know the wife,

1466
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 2: our suggestion is to probably not. But if you I

1467
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 2: would say, if you are like close with them close.

1468
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 6: So that's my coworker. So if he doesn't say, my friend,

1469
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 6: what do you what.

1470
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 8: Do you feel about like an anonymous note?

1471
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 2: Oh I'm all about that, do you know what mean? Yeah,

1472
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 2: like just sliding it. I did that in high school.

1473
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 2: I mean it's very high school of us. But yeah,

1474
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 2: I mean that's like anonymous like Instagram, like, hey, your

1475
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 2: husband or wife is cheating.

1476
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 8: I just feel like, also, there's got to be some

1477
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 8: kind of inkling probably happening in the household.

1478
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 2: It'll show up.

1479
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 7: So yeah, it'll always be exposed.

1480
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, just be Yeah, that's what I was gonna do.

1481
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 5: She says, my husband and I struggle with intimacy. In fact,

1482
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 5: I'm embarrassed to admit it, but we have not had

1483
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 5: sex in two years. Like you, Jana, my love language

1484
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 5: is physical touch. So this has greatly affected me. We

1485
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 5: have two young kids and get cut up in the

1486
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 5: everyday life, so we don't always take the time to

1487
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 5: work on us. To me, a relationship with no physical

1488
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 5: touch and no intimacy is not a relationship at all.

1489
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 5: Help suggestions.

1490
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you take this, and maybe you should

1491
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 2: tell them about the what we just did.

1492
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 3: Mmmm.

1493
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 2: Where do you want me to take it? Because I

1494
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 2: know your cold is really affecting my words.

1495
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 6: When we allowed so many words to speak per day, Harry,

1496
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 6: like doctor's orders.

1497
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 5: If you want to lay down, we can adjust the

1498
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 5: microphone please. Yeah?

1499
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 6: Can I take this thing off the same right now?

1500
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 6: I mean two years? Wow, that's tough. I mean, what

1501
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 6: do you think? Where would you Where would you start?

1502
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 2: I would do the tantra We did tantra therapy Michael

1503
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 2: and I a couple of weeks ago, and it's it's

1504
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 2: basically homework for intimacy, yeah, and which you have to

1505
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 2: choose how many nights a week and after you do

1506
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 2: the tantra exercises, you're not supposed to have sex afterwards.

1507
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 2: So it's it's just about building true intimacy up. So

1508
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 2: I think if they do exercises, even if it's once

1509
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,959
Speaker 2: a week. Yeah, you know, we've obviously set ours and

1510
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 2: whatever is good for them. But if you can find

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01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 2: because it is hard with kids and stuff, but if

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01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 2: you can find a time to maybe just do once

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01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 2: a week one of the practices in tantra just to

1514
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 2: just to start to reconnect again and to try to

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01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 2: have intimacy because practice makes perfect. I guess no.

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01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 6: I think that's a good point, honey, where you're not

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01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 6: putting the pressure to just to dive back into intimacy. Yeah,

1518
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 6: from the get go, it's not like, all right, let's

1519
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 6: send time together and just be intimate. So it don't

1520
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 6: work that way. Let's give yourself some leeweight ease back

1521
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 6: into it, you know, be soft with one another, and

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01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 6: you know, see where it goes.

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01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 2: But do the work too. Yeah, it's like, don't just

1524
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 2: you know.

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01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, you got to follow up and do the work.

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01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 6: And Jane and I say a lot on here is

1527
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 6: make intentional time for each other. Because it's good that

1528
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 6: you're there for your kids. But if you guys aren't

1529
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 6: there for each other then yeah, and.

1530
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 2: Then for some reason, you know, because Mike's fighting this

1531
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 2: awful plague, you know, we haven't been able to do

1532
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 2: one of the days that we said we are going

1533
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 2: to do the intimacy exercise, so we acknowledge, like, hey,

1534
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 2: I am just if you're not going to be present

1535
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 2: and be able to do it, then then acknowledge it

1536
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 2: and then say, but I'd like to do it on

1537
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,240
Speaker 2: this day instead, right, So to still make intentional.

1538
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 5: Just can you just gribe one of the intimacy exercises.

1539
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,439
Speaker 2: So there's a couple. The dry hump is fun.

1540
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 6: The dry hump is fun.

1541
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 2: You basically spoon and dry hump.

1542
01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 5: I think we have a titler for this episode.

1543
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 2: The dry hump is fun, but you can't exact afterwards. No,

1544
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 2: but the other ones where you sit and you just

1545
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 2: stare at each other for three minutes. Yeah, you hold hands, No,

1546
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 2: you hold hands, right, Yeah, you hold hands and you

1547
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 2: stare each other. Another one is a massage, so it's

1548
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 2: just touch. So it's just like touching, but in.

1549
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 5: Your fully clothed you're fully clothed.

1550
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 2: Fully clothed, but you can touch for you know, three

1551
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 2: minutes and then three minutes each and then but that's

1552
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 2: a way of connecting.

1553
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 6: And then another one is the four Layers of Touch,

1554
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 6: which is the first one is like, it's hard for

1555
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 6: me energy level. Second one is skin, next one's muscle,

1556
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 6: then bone.

1557
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 2: But you go so you'll start like.

1558
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 6: Above their body and then you'll just do lightly on

1559
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 6: their skin. Then you do deeper, more pressure under their muscle,

1560
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 6: and then even more even deeper like to the quote

1561
01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 6: unquote bone level.

1562
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 2: And you can explore. You know, if it does lead

1563
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 2: to stuff, that's fine, but don't put the pressure on it. Mark.

1564
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 2: You looks so confused.

1565
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 5: I think it's fascinating. The bone part sounds painful to me.

1566
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 2: No, it's just it's just a deep it's just a

1567
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 2: deep massage.

1568
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, which can be painful, not if.

1569
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 2: It's in the lower areas, because you could massage the body.

1570
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 5: Oh, this sounds like it was fun a bone. Do

1571
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 5: you want to be.

1572
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 7: All right?

1573
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 6: What more you know? Lady?

1574
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 5: My husband and I have been debating whether we should

1575
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 5: have a second child. I have a sister and I

1576
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 5: can't imagine being an only child. The problem is kids

1577
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 5: are hard, and I went through postpartum depression with my daughter,

1578
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 5: and I'm terrified of going back. What if I regret

1579
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 5: having a second what if I don't love them the same?

1580
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 5: Did you have these same questions when deciding for your son.

1581
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 5: I this is very relatable.

1582
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 2: It was so relatable, Lacey. Thank you for your question.

1583
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 6: I was hugging Janna last night and I said to her,

1584
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 6: I whispered to her, I said, could you imagine if

1585
01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 6: we had a third kid? Right now?

1586
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 5: It's hard struggle?

1587
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jase was, yeah.

1588
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's just hard. It's been a hard week. But

1589
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 6: I mean, two kids is doable.

1590
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 2: Well, I will say this, Lacy, it is true when

1591
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 2: people say that two kids is two kids are harder

1592
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 2: than three one hundred percent. The transition to two has

1593
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 2: kicked our pass. But we've now gotten to the groove

1594
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 2: of it. We're three months out, we're now in the

1595
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 2: groove of things. But what I will say is for us,

1596
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: I knew I didn't you know, I had a brother,

1597
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,639
Speaker 2: Michael had has siblings, so we knew that we didn't

1598
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 2: want an only child. And sometimes, you know, I have

1599
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 2: a froone brand who has an only child. That's fine,

1600
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 2: that's what they want, and that's their decision. If you

1601
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 2: have that feeling that you want you don't want to

1602
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 2: have an only child, then that's something to be said

1603
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 2: for that. But then also my biggest fear was not

1604
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 2: loving them the same. And I remember when I had Jason.

1605
01:09:57,439 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 2: I don't know if it was from all the hormones

1606
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 2: or all the medicines, but I called my friend Beth,

1607
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 2: and I was so scared to tell anyone else because

1608
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 2: I felt like I didn't love him as much as

1609
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 2: I love Jolie. And it scared the heck out of

1610
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 2: me because I was just like I'm supposed to, like,

1611
01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 2: how do I not feel this love? And I felt

1612
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 2: like it was more with Jolie, and so it really like,

1613
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 2: it really messed with me because I thought I was

1614
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 2: maybe having postpartum depression because I just was in such

1615
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 2: a fog and I didn't feel connected to Jace and

1616
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like I felt when I had Jolie,

1617
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 2: and it really freaked me out. But then two weeks later,

1618
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 2: I think it was just the medicines and the hormones,

1619
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 2: because now I love him more than Jolie, to be honest,

1620
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 2: but I think it's just a real thing and we

1621
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 2: just have to talk to our friends because postpartum depression

1622
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 2: is very serious, and you know, our hormones are all

1623
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 2: over the place, so I think you just need to

1624
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 2: have a little grace for yourself and talk to your

1625
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 2: friends because you're you know your friends a hopefully they

1626
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 2: know you symptoms and if not, tell them that you

1627
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 2: had it before, and just make sure you have people

1628
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 2: there for you to But you're gonna love them. It's

1629
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 2: such a different love, Like I love Jason such a

1630
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 2: different way that I love Joli. And I don't even

1631
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 2: know how to describe it, but I do. But now

1632
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:16,720
Speaker 2: I feel like I love I don't know, I just

1633
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 2: love him more as a baby sense. Yeah, it's weird,

1634
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 2: it's just different.

1635
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 6: We didn't regret. We never thought we had regret having

1636
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 6: a second child because we knew we wanted multiple children,

1637
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 6: but we did have to ask the question. It's like,

1638
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 6: we love Joli so much before we had Jace. It's like,

1639
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 6: how do we love another human being this much? And

1640
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 6: like Jana said, I mean, we love him tenfold. Yeah.

1641
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 2: And I don't mean to say I don't love Joli, No,

1642
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 2: it's just she's being real difficult. Right now. I love

1643
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 2: her more than life. But right now I think I

1644
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 2: love Jace a little better because he loves Mama, and

1645
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 2: Jace doesn't love Julie, doesn't love mommy, right now he's like,

1646
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:53,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to love you.

1647
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 6: Say hell let Joey, no love you, no love you.

1648
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 2: So I said, okay, well, mommy loves you.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, I think you need to apologize to

1663
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,879
Speaker 2: every woman for the comment you just made about postpartum depression,

1664
01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 2: because it's it's a it's it's.

1665
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:44,720
Speaker 6: Am I going to get a backlash of this. I

1666
01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 6: was just kidding you guys sense of humor.

1667
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 2: I hope they give you crap as much as they

1668
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:50,759
Speaker 2: give me crap for my sense of humor.

1669
01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 6: They have empathy lots.

1670
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 5: Of different cultices.

1671
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 6: I'm not responsible for what I've said.

1672
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:00,880
Speaker 5: He's a woozy from all this buggy's on right now.

1673
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I keep being like, tay or take this.

1674
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 2: Take you can take. He's like, can I take it? Just?

1675
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1676
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 2: I take that. You can take that with that anyways,

1677
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 2: all right, let's wind down later. Bye.

1678
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go and get in bed.

1679
01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 5: You would.

1680
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 2: Such a baby.

1681
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 6: I'm sick.

1682
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 2: Good show, guys,