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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to bet You're Happy Hour. I'm

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Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena, and today we are diving into

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Speaker 1: part one of our Happy Hour crossover with our Golden

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Speaker 1: Hour ladies, Kathy and Susan. Welcome. How are you?

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Speaker 2: Yes, hey, how are you? Thanks for having.

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Speaker 3: Us happy we were here.

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Speaker 4: So last time we had you guys on was for

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Speaker 4: Joey's season. We did an episode recap and that was

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Speaker 4: I think right before Golden Hour became a thing.

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Speaker 5: So how's it been.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's fabulous. We're having a ball.

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Speaker 7: It's so much fun. I think the most fun for

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Speaker 7: me is hearing readers questions and people asking us for

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Speaker 7: our advice. It's just so fun to hear what people

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Speaker 7: think all over the country.

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Speaker 8: Part for me is arguing with Kathy we have different

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Speaker 8: point of views.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's kind of what we're going to get into today.

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Speaker 4: So for today's episode, we're mixing it up a little

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Speaker 4: and getting into the true cross over spirit. For those

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Speaker 4: of you who haven't listened to Kathy and Susie's Golden

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Speaker 4: Ewer yet, you're missing out for So today we're gonna

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Speaker 4: be answering some listener writings together A four for one

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Speaker 4: deal or a four for two deal, I should say.

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Speaker 4: And we have some good wins here, so we're so excited.

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Speaker 4: This is fun for us because I feel like.

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Speaker 1: It's so different.

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Speaker 5: It's so different. We've never done anything like this on

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Speaker 5: here before.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, I had Before we start, Susan, I have

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Speaker 1: to ask how how is Bradley Cooper? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: yes day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you didn't see it, No, I missed it.

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Speaker 5: Tell me.

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Speaker 8: We get for lunch and he's making cheese steaks, which

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Speaker 8: happens to be one of my favorite, and he is

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Speaker 8: from my same town, and we see each other.

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Speaker 3: We point and he goes, I'm a huge fan.

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Speaker 8: Then he brings me on the back of the of

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Speaker 8: the truck I mean of the food truck, and he goes, Susan,

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Speaker 8: I have to take selfies with my camera.

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Speaker 6: I have a million questions for you.

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Speaker 3: I never missed a show.

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Speaker 6: You're my favorite.

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Speaker 5: Was like, oh my god, that's crazy. I actually I

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Speaker 5: saw him doing the cheese truck thing.

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 5: That you guys met. That's so funny out of nowhere.

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Speaker 6: It was a blast. Yeah, and you know what, he's

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Speaker 6: a really nice guy.

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Speaker 7: Susan, I don't know if you guys know this. He

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Speaker 7: emailed me and asked me if I would do a

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Speaker 7: duet shallow with him.

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Speaker 6: Little Yeah. He was great.

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 1: Kathy, where are you again? You're in Texas right, I'm

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Speaker 1: in Austin, Texas. Austin, okay, Serena's never been really wants

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Speaker 1: to go?

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Speaker 5: Do you want to come on?

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Speaker 2: Come on, I've got plenty of bedrooms.

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Speaker 8: It was my first time there. I went out to

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Speaker 8: marry to perform the ceremony for Kathy's son's wedding.

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Speaker 6: Because I keep saying.

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Speaker 2: To marry her son.

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Speaker 6: Everybody's like, yeah, what.

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Speaker 8: I lived in Texas, right outside of Dallas for nine years.

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Speaker 8: I did not think I was in Texas. Being in Austin,

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Speaker 8: they have rolling, rolling hill roads and trees everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Just like here.

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Speaker 2: Austin is very different from the rest of Texas.

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Speaker 7: I am originally from Massachusetts, which is where my accent

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Speaker 7: comes from. But Austin is a great city with a

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Speaker 7: lot to do, and anyone who wants to come, Serena,

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Speaker 7: come on, I'll show you a good time. While Wiley

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Speaker 7: f One's going on, come here, We'll have fun.

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Speaker 4: I should, honestly well it's two PM and you're prepping

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Speaker 4: for Italy with a glass of wine right now, So

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Speaker 4: I don't doubt it.

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Speaker 5: Kathy.

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Speaker 4: I love I feel like I always see you with

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Speaker 4: with Katie Vigor too.

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Speaker 5: You guys always look like you're having so much fun.

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Speaker 6: Can I just tell you?

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Speaker 7: I was at her house last weekend for she had

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Speaker 7: a bunch of women over. We had so much fun.

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Speaker 7: I was the oldest one there by about thirty years.

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Speaker 7: But they are. She is the best friends. She is

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Speaker 7: the kindest person. She is beautiful, she's smart, she's talented.

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Speaker 7: That girl Zach hit the jackpot with her and she

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Speaker 7: with him too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: And I was there with Kathy and we did a

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I hope she's listening to this.

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Speaker 7: If I had another son, Zach, I love you, but

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Speaker 7: you'd be history.

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Speaker 2: Wow. I want to be your mother in law.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. All right, let's uh,

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Speaker 1: let's get into this. So questions. I'm going to read

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Speaker 1: the first one. Question one. It's from Priscilla from Tampa Bay.

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Speaker 1: She's asking when do conflicting timelines become a deal breaker.

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Speaker 5: She's twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: Did I not say that.

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Speaker 2: No nice.

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Speaker 1: She's also twenty seven. She has said. I've been dating

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend for a little over three years and things

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Speaker 1: have been going well overall. However, lately we have been

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Speaker 1: having discussions about our future together, and it seems like

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Speaker 1: to timelines. For contexts, he's twenty nine. I'm ready to

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Speaker 1: take the next step and move in together, but my

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Speaker 1: living with his roommates. He does at least tell me

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Speaker 1: that he's open to the idea. Eventually, when it comes

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Speaker 1: to marriage, it gets worse. Anytime I bring up the

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Speaker 1: idea of one day getting married, my boyfriend always just

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Speaker 1: refers to the fact that he's not ready yet. He

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Speaker 1: understand that everyone moves at their own pace, but I

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Speaker 1: can't help feeling anxious about our conflicting timelines. How big

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Speaker 1: of a problem is this in a relationship and how

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Speaker 1: can we work through it? I feel like I can't

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Speaker 8: Point one question did I miss? Did they say how

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Speaker 8: long they've been together?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Over three years. That's so that's a decent amount of

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Speaker 7: You should something, Yeah, there was again, there was something

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Speaker 7: you said, Joe when you read it that told me

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Speaker 7: everything I need to know. This isn't a this is

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Speaker 7: a her problem. He's perfectly happy with the way things

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Speaker 7: are going. She's the one that's not happy, and she

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Speaker 7: can't force him to do It's not a good idea

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Speaker 7: to give ultimatums. You know, She's either got to sit

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Speaker 7: and be patient and wait or move along, because you

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Speaker 7: can't force someone to do what they're not ready to do.

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Speaker 6: What do you think ever ready?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 8: Is this just buying time for him that you know

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Speaker 8: it's comfortable? Yeah, because if you're with her, she's going

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Speaker 8: to split the rent anyhow.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's the thing. It's like, I want to save

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Speaker 4: money by living with my roommates. It's like, well, you

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Speaker 4: still falls your budget.

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Speaker 1: And it's like how many, Like who are these roommates?

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Speaker 1: Is it three guys that he's been friends with for

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Speaker 7: Now it's three girls. I got the same question sent

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Speaker 7: to me. I'm kidding my thing is.

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, you're together for three and a half years,

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Speaker 5: It does sound not great.

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Speaker 4: But I think when it comes to timeline, there's no

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Speaker 4: right or wrong timeline for a relationship. But you have

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Speaker 4: ready to take the next step and he's not, it's like, well,

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Speaker 4: why are you not ready?

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Speaker 5: And when do you think you might be ready?

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Speaker 4: Like three and a three years and a bit is like, okay,

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Speaker 5: Is it three years? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think that he's not doing it.

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Speaker 7: Serena tells me he's not ready, and that's why I said,

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Speaker 7: it's it's her problem.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's not ready. He's not ready with her.

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Speaker 7: That's my point. If if she it's it's you know,

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Speaker 7: cast cast your lot. Either wait around and see if

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Speaker 7: he's ready, and if you're ready and he's not, you

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Speaker 7: can't say will you be ready in a year?

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Speaker 2: He doesn't know, so you know if you're ready and

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Speaker 2: you don't want to wait a year. Move along, girl friend.

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Speaker 8: How about the question how not ready are you? Like,

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Speaker 8: exactly are you saying?

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Speaker 2: You know, I think actions speak louder than words.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's it goes to what you said, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's not like he's gonna be like I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not like he's saying like I just need

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Speaker 4: I envision myself getting married around.

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Speaker 5: Thirty three more expectable. It's like just a general well

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Speaker 5: I don't know which is.

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Speaker 7: And the question is does he not know because he's

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Speaker 7: not sure she's it. He's not feeling it, you know,

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Speaker 7: he wants to save ten thousand, or does he want

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Speaker 7: twelve thousand, five hundred?

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Speaker 8: You know, And her talk is ticking in her world.

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Speaker 8: She's talking about marriage.

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Speaker 6: You know, she's.

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Speaker 4: Looking, but she's also probably thinking, I've been with this

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Speaker 5: I don't want to waste my time if it's not

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Speaker 5: going to fully you know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what her name is, but I would

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Speaker 7: say a feeling strongly, don't waste your pretty and skinny

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Speaker 7: on some guy that may or may not ever get

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Speaker 7: to the finish line.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so serious conversations with him.

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Speaker 7: I think his actions speak loudly. I think it's it's you.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what her name is, but either be

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Speaker 7: patient and Pricella plays Priscilla. That was my mother's name, Priscilla.

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Speaker 7: Either be patient and wait and see how it plays out.

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Speaker 7: But if you can't wait, there's your answer. Move along,

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Speaker 7: and you're in the driver's seat, not him. You're in

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Speaker 7: the driver's seat. You either wait around to see if

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Speaker 8: As well as how good is your relationship? Do you

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Speaker 8: feel great when you're with him with the time you

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Speaker 8: do spend together? Is he the one for real?

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Speaker 4: I also think waiting around is hard because it sounds

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Speaker 4: like her patience is already wearing thin, and if she

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Speaker 4: and it's gonna send.

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Speaker 3: Yeah here two, three, yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Good luck, sweetie?

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Speaker 5: But if I feel like he's not really giving her much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like what's the lifestyle like living with the roommates

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Speaker 8: Because I can't imagine if it's all men that place

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Speaker 7: What comes to my Joe and Serena, Susan Spence Just

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Speaker 5: We don't know what it is.

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Speaker 4: When you came home, not bad, but when you're over

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Speaker 5: We did vinegar and baking soda.

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Speaker 5: You should not get there.

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Speaker 3: Feel I'd take a wooden spoon and scrape or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I do? One eight hundred clean

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna call somebody because honestly, I can't hurt

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Speaker 4: but Priscilla, I think our collective answer is you need

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Speaker 6: Yep, agreed for a way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, But good luck, Priscilla, Oh, good luck.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, we hope it works out all right. Question should

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is from Talia. That's my sister's name, twenty

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Speaker 5: The biggest issue is politics.

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend and I feel the same politically as do

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Speaker 4: I can't see a world in which either of us

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Speaker 2: Come, Susan.

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Speaker 2: And I would do that.

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Speaker 5: I would you do it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, come on talk to us.

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Speaker 5: But are so but friends. It's not crucial for them

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Speaker 5: Maybe they just stay.

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Speaker 4: You know, if it's one of Joe's friends that just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And then it's on them.

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Speaker 7: They started, Remember though, I remember being young and look

447
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Speaker 7: back in the dark ye when it was black and

448
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 7: white TV.

449
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 2: I remember it all well.

450
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Speaker 7: But I remember loving that energy of having religious discussions

451
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 7: and political discussions, and that's sort of how we all

452
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 7: formulate our opinions. We read, we talk about things, and

453
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,199
Speaker 7: they're just in that stage of their life.

454
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 6: But there's a time and a place for that.

455
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just gonna say it, like wait till,

456
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: wait till, wait till one of them sleeps with someone

457
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,679
Speaker 1: and then they and then they and they ghost that person,

458
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 1: and then they all gonna be problem.

459
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,679
Speaker 5: That's a lot worse than political argumented.

460
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 4: It's also like I do wonder with this girl, like

461
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 4: is she overthinking it? Like she's like, you know, nothing

462
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 4: was happening, but I felt I felt the awkwardness. And

463
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 4: it's like maybe like her own anxiety about the situation

464
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 4: is making it feel like a bigger deal than it is.

465
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 4: Like I think she I think she should go ask

466
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,919
Speaker 4: her friends like hey, because they might be like, oh, no,

467
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 4: it was awful.

468
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 5: They might be like, no, it really wasn't that bad.

469
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 4: Like fine, Like she's probably putting a lot of pressure

470
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 4: on herself, you know, herself.

471
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 6: Let them, babe, they want to argue, Let them argue.

472
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 6: Stop worrying.

473
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 2: I've got the solution before the next party, Priscilla.

474
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 1: Is that.

475
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 5: Talia?

476
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 2: Oh?

477
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 7: Sorry Natalia, they're both twenty seven. Sorry, I Tellia before

478
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 7: the next party. Hell, I encourage you to deeply I do.

479
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 2: You still have your name wrong?

480
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 7: Because we're can spend thirty minutes on this tell ya, which,

481
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 7: by the way, Joe brings me to my question, what

482
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 7: the hell is your last name? And how do you

483
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 7: pronounce it? But we'll get to that. Uh, I would

484
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 7: say deeply inhale or poor glass of something before your

485
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 7: next party.

486
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:26,360
Speaker 2: Roblem solved?

487
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, before everyone shows up?

488
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 1: Kathy, are you asking me my last name?

489
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: Yes?

490
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Speaker 7: Because it looks like a moble, which in Spanish means

491
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 7: you know, friendly.

492
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:38,199
Speaker 2: Uh, you know.

493
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 7: I don't know exactly what it means, but a mobla

494
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,959
Speaker 7: is like a cheerful, nice person.

495
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 2: But how do you pronounce your last name?

496
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: Well, it's Italian and in Italy it means love.

497
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 2: But it's a mobilibley. Wait wait, I'm going to Italy

498
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 2: say it again.

499
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: My full name, So, like my first name is Joseph

500
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Speaker 1: Anthony Amobley a mabuli or a mob at a Mabeli Mobley,

501
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to walk.

502
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 2: Around the streets of Italy.

503
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: They pronounced it pronunciated so well in Italy, like when

504
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: we like, even when we were checking into the hotels.

505
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 4: Like mister and ever, we like obviously travel a lot.

506
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 4: Whenever we check into hotels in the States, they're like, hi,

507
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 4: mister ammobile, and I speak phonetically like that's how it is.

508
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 4: But when we went to Italy on our honeymoon, oh

509
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 4: my gosh, they pronounced it so beautifully.

510
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: Do you battalion either one of you a little bit?

511
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 5: No, he doesn't. He always says this, he always does.

512
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 4: We went to Italy and the codrivers like do you

513
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 4: speak and he was like a little bit.

514
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 5: And then I'm like, you don't speak any Italian? This

515
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 5: guy is going to start talking to you.

516
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 2: It was.

517
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: It was a woman, and she did start talking to me,

518
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: and we had a conversation.

519
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, but different conversations.

520
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 2: I didn't know what she was.

521
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 7: She had no idea. The woman was having a great conversation.

522
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 7: Joe had no idea what was going on? Okay, Joe,

523
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 7: how do you say an Italian? I would like a

524
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 7: glass of red wine?

525
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 6: Please, red wine.

526
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: Red wine please?

527
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 5: Zero Italian like not a word, Well, wine's veno.

528
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, I can do it. In Spanish and something. Vino

529
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 7: tinto is in Spanish, but I don't know. I would

530
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 7: yeah Italian, I would say veno, uh.

531
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 3: Roja sa veno, and it's usually red.

532
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true.

533
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 7: Or just put my hand up to my mouth and

534
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 7: they'll bring me something to drink.

535
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 6: You get it free on the train, like they give

536
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 6: you wine. It's amazing.

537
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's jealous.

538
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: All right, let's let's we got the question three. Last question?

539
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: All right, Charlie. He's thirty from New York City. Am

540
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my girlfriend's close friendship

541
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: with her ex?

542
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:55,719
Speaker 8: Right?

543
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 1: Here we go. I've been dating my girlfriend for about

544
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: a year now, and things have generally been great. However,

545
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: lately I've been feeling uneasy about her friendship with her

546
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend. They dated for several years before breaking up,

547
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: and now they are still very close. They talk almost

548
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: every day, have the same friend groups so they see

549
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 1: each other often, have one on one hangouts like a

550
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 1: few times a year, and even have inside jokes that

551
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Oh, this is an issue me Now.

552
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: I've expressed my concerns to my girlfriend and she reassures

553
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: me that they are just friends. Now and that I

554
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: have nothing to worry about. She's always emphasizing that they've

555
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: dated when she was eighteen and that the relationship was

556
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: juvenile means nothing now.

557
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 5: Eighteen is not like fifteen, you.

558
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: Know, But every time they spend time together, I can't

559
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: shake how uncomfortable it makes me. Am I overreacting or

560
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: is it reasonable for me to feel uncomfortable about this situation.

561
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: She's adamant about keeping the friendship because he was there

562
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: for her during some really unfortunate family times and is

563
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: have integrated into her friend group from college. I trust her,

564
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: and I've never seen any kind of flirtation from either

565
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: of them. Honestly, if I didn't know their history, I

566
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't think much of it. But knowing they have

567
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: a romantic past changes things for me.

568
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 5: And they dated for several years.

569
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 6: This wasn't I ever spend time with the two of them.

570
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 4: I wonder that's a good It sounds like yes, because

571
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 4: he says that seeing them integrate together and that he's

572
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 4: part of her friend group, so I would assume that,

573
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 4: like when he hangs up with the friend group, the

574
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 4: ex boyfriend is present.

575
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 5: At times.

576
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Speaker 8: I feel like he has a little bit of jealousy,

577
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 8: but rightfully so to a point.

578
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 6: If you don't trust.

579
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 8: Then you're going to have these issues. But I'm friends

580
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 8: with all my.

581
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 3: Exes, really are you everyone, Susan?

582
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 2: But you're not. You don't go on one on ones

583
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: with them?

584
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 6: And can you talk to them George and.

585
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 5: I a year?

586
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 4: Do you like talk to them every She's he says,

587
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 4: they're talking every day.

588
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 2: That's that's a lot. That's yeah.

589
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 8: You know, if she cares enough and she knows how

590
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 8: he feels, then she's got to pull back a little

591
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 8: bit with.

592
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 2: That or an Italian a rivederci?

593
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: Do you do no Italian?

594
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

595
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 1: And also I don't like the inside joke thing like

596
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: and if you don't get the inside joke, you ask

597
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: her later what was the inside joke about? And she's like,

598
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: don't worry about it's between him and I. Then you're

599
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: like a then you break like yeah.

600
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 7: I mean, don't you think though that there's it's it's okay,

601
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 7: I'm friends with you know, the one x in my life.

602
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 7: I'm friends, but that this is beyond talking every day

603
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 7: and inside jokes like that smells like a dog, looks

604
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 7: like a dog, you know, and.

605
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: He's uncomfortable with it.

606
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 7: So if she, as you said, Susan, if she loves

607
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 7: him or really cares about him, I would think she

608
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 7: would be saying, you know what, I'm not going to

609
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 7: see him as much. We're not going to talk every day.

610
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 7: If she's if she's insisting on that, there's more to

611
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 7: this story.

612
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 8: So just say, for instance, you have an ex from

613
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 8: eighteen and you're really good friends and there's nothing really

614
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 8: going on.

615
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 6: How would you handle that? What would you mean?

616
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: Yes, me an X from when I was eighteen years old.

617
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: I can't remember what.

618
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 6: I'm saying ere about you?

619
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 4: Well, if so, if I was this girl that he

620
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 4: was dating, and I had an ex that I was

621
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 4: talking to every day, see, I mean I'm not. I

622
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 4: don't have a relationship with any of my exes. So

623
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 4: this is like so mind buggling to me. But I

624
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 4: think you have to be willing to redefine that relationship

625
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 4: when someone new comes into the picture. It's like she

626
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 4: needs to prioritize her current boyfriend and the fact that

627
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 4: it's like she's going out spending one on one time

628
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 4: with her ex knowing that it's making her partner uncomfortable

629
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 4: and she's totally fine with that.

630
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh, we don't know, we don't know, we don't know

631
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: if he if it is making he may no, he.

632
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 5: Says, Like I tell her, she tells me like it's nothing.

633
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the whole point.

634
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 7: You You are hitting the nail on the head. He

635
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 7: is uncomfortable. If she loves this guy, then she's just.

636
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 6: Like, no more one on ones. Okay, if you're out, yeah,

637
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 6: that's fine.

638
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 4: But I would be like redefine the relationship of like

639
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 4: you're in the same friend group, you can't you shouldn't

640
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 4: have to avoid your friends to avoid this person, but like.

641
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 5: No more one on one hangouts.

642
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 4: Like maybe you know, if you want to do it,

643
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 4: you can catch up in a group setting you see

644
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 4: him all the time, and no more talking every day.

645
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to be jokes yeah.

646
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 5: Or like let's just you know xnay them.

647
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: But the problem is when you when you have to

648
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: tell your partner they can't do something it is very hard.

649
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: It's not even about it being very hard. Then they're

650
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: just going to want to do it more. The truth

651
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: is she needs.

652
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 5: She does want to do more. That's the problem.

653
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying.

654
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 4: She told me I don't want you to do this.

655
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 4: I would be like, yeah, no problem, she wouldn't want

656
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 4: you to feel bad.

657
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, I think she needs to realize

658
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: that it has now become a little inappropriate. It's making

659
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: him uncomfortable. She needs to be able to see that

660
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 1: for herself and gradually stop. But if he's like, you

661
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: can't do this anymore, that's different. Yeah, it's it's just

662
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: that never works.

663
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 8: Or put yourself in his shoes, stop and think about it.

664
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 8: How would I feel if he were doing.

665
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: This one hundred percent?

666
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, right, it's only fair and that maybe would modify

667
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 8: the way you.

668
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's thinking about the other person's feelings. You know,

669
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 7: how is it going to affect our relationship? All those things?

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Speaker 7: And if you're not having that communication and talking, then

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Speaker 7: there's a bigger chasm in your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Then you realize that's what I would do. But I'm

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Speaker 1: a child. I would instantly be like, Okay, fine, then

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm just gonna become best friends with a few

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Speaker 1: of my exes and go hang out with that and

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Speaker 1: then well then we'll we'll play that game, and.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm going to do. I want to

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Speaker 2: meet Susan's xes.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, EXA's Susan's sexes could become my currents.

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Speaker 6: They could y.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I do think it's one thing to be like, hey,

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Speaker 4: my ex is in town. We ended on great terms.

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Speaker 4: I'd love to like go grab a coffee with them

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Speaker 4: or go grab lunch with them, Like yeah, like you

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Speaker 4: trust your person you're with, that's totally fine. Like this

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Speaker 4: relationship is so extensive it does borderline inappropriate. I feel

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Speaker 4: that the conversation needs to be like, hey, this makes

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Speaker 4: me uncomfortable. These are the parts that make me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: Are you willing to make adjustments? And if she's like no,

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Speaker 4: I don't care that you're uncomfortable, I'm not going to

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Speaker 4: do that every You might need to reevaluate the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Everyday conversations on the phone.

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Speaker 6: Give me a break. Are you not over him? Maybe

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Speaker 6: you wouldn't keep.

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Speaker 2: That makes you look it makes you think it looks

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Speaker 2: like something. It probably is something.

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Speaker 5: And you know, yeah, where there's smoke, there's fire usually.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So intuition okay, So overall, what's what's the advice

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Speaker 1: we're given? We're given Charlie from.

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Speaker 6: New York lay some graund rules.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Kathy, I would say I have the conversation and

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Speaker 7: don't give ultimatums. If if if she insists on the

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Speaker 7: relationship and isn't willing to compromise, that does not bode

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Speaker 7: well for a future relationship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, damn all.

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Speaker 5: Right, what is this guy going to be like in

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Speaker 5: Abrise med at their wedding?

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Speaker 1: I mean, at this rate, it's going to be like

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Speaker 1: that movie with uh gonna end up?

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Speaker 5: What's happening?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to be the other guy competing against

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Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey? Is the question? Okay? That is that's going

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Speaker 1: to wrap the questions. Thank you guys for writing in

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Speaker 1: your questions. We really appreciate it. And Kathy and Susan,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us today. It was

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Speaker 1: so much fun having you guys on Happy Hour.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 2: And it's great to see you.

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Speaker 7: And I'm so glad to know because so many people

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Speaker 7: don't know how to pronounce your last name.

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Speaker 2: Joe A.

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Speaker 7: Mobley, Say it one more time, Joe Joseph Anthony?

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Speaker 2: Was it Joseph Anthony A Mobley? Byeful?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is so much fun. Thank you guys again,

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Speaker 1: and to all our listeners. We'll be doing a Part

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Speaker 1: two where Kathy and Susan take the wheel and we'll

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Speaker 1: be the guest on their podcast, so be sure to

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Speaker 1: keep an eye out for that episode dropping later this week.

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Speaker 4: YEP, be sure to give part to a listen and

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Speaker 4: make sure to subscribe. We have new episodes of Happy

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Speaker 4: Hour dropping every single week.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye bye, see you very soon.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having us, Yye