Speaker 1: Second date up date. They say, if you truly love something,
Speaker 1: you need to set it free, and then if it
Speaker 1: comes back to you, that shows you're really soulmates.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I heard that, and my ex is still it's been.
Speaker 4: She's not listening.
Speaker 1: It hasn't worked for Jose, But someone has come back
Speaker 1: to us after we let them go when they fell
Speaker 1: short for a second date from a few months back.
Speaker 1: His name is Logan. Logan, you came back. Does this
Speaker 1: mean we're soulmates?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 5: I'd returned to you guys.
Speaker 1: A little clinger. Last time Logan was on he got
Speaker 1: delayed at the airport and ended up spending about four
Speaker 1: hours with a woman at the airport bar. And it
Speaker 1: was really, really good for about the first five minutes
Speaker 1: until she said Logan got a little bit on her nerves. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to get into too much detail about it.
Speaker 1: But you spent the next like three minutes basically roasting
Speaker 1: him for being annoying and clinging. I cannot believe you
Speaker 1: came back. We must be doing something right now because
Speaker 1: you lock down another date for yourself. Who was it
Speaker 1: with this time?
Speaker 5: This girl named Megan?
Speaker 1: All right, what did you and Megan do for a date?
Speaker 5: Well, first of all, let me just preface this all
Speaker 5: with I learned some very valuable things from my first
Speaker 5: debacle at the airport therapy.
Speaker 4: Okay, what'd you take away?
Speaker 5: One is that my perspective of who I am when
Speaker 5: I get drunk is completely different than someone else's perspective.
Speaker 4: So that actually takes a lifetime for some people to learn.
Speaker 5: Yeah, in my mind, I'm in a tuxedo tap dancing
Speaker 5: on a table. In reality, I just like crashed on
Speaker 5: something birthday cake.
Speaker 1: I I drink too, So is the perspective now you
Speaker 1: you wanted to tone it down on the booze a
Speaker 1: little bit this time around.
Speaker 5: Yes, So what I said to Megan? I said, I said,
Speaker 5: you know, I'm working on myself and I have a
Speaker 5: one drink minimum.
Speaker 1: Oh wait for maximum?
Speaker 5: Yeah, god, one drink maximum?
Speaker 1: Sorry, go off?
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean, why did you feel like you had
Speaker 4: to tell her that? Why didn't you just do that?
Speaker 5: You know, I was just letting her in on the
Speaker 5: fact that I'm like a guy who's under construction a project.
Speaker 1: Women, what did she think about that? Was she cool
Speaker 1: with it?
Speaker 5: She seemed fine. I said, I just want to have
Speaker 5: one drink, so I want to get to know you.
Speaker 5: I want to be able to listen. So I suggested
Speaker 5: this fun, almost like a game. I said, for the
Speaker 5: first thirty minutes of our date, we are only going
Speaker 5: to pass notes to each other. That way, everything that's
Speaker 5: being said or communicated is really focused and important.
Speaker 1: Well, you want to work on your listening, but passing
Speaker 1: notes doesn't involve any listening whatsoever. That's more of the
Speaker 1: reading and writing aspect, which is still also good to
Speaker 1: work on.
Speaker 4: What did she say to that idea?
Speaker 5: She thought it was cute, really okay, oh wow. So
Speaker 5: then we started getting into things. You know, what matters
Speaker 5: to you, what's important.
Speaker 1: To you, and this is all being written down. It
Speaker 1: sounds like a lot of right.
Speaker 2: You could have texted this before the date.
Speaker 5: I know. But we're there and we're looking into each
Speaker 5: other's eyes and she starts getting in on this popcorn thing.
Speaker 5: This she has a dog named popcorn.
Speaker 4: Okay, there's an appetizer.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, started getting excited. So she was like scribbling
Speaker 5: down popcorn, popcorn, this, popcorn that, and I was, you know,
Speaker 5: I just sent her back like, you know, more question mark,
Speaker 5: question mark. I couldn't believe how much popcorn was coming
Speaker 5: at me.
Speaker 3: I drinks the minimum one right now, I really go
Speaker 3: on for thirty minutes.
Speaker 5: No, it didn't, it did not. I really overblew that estimate.
Speaker 5: It was about maybe five to seven minutes in and
Speaker 5: it's like I'm getting writers pamp.
Speaker 3: At that point I would have to your face, left
Speaker 3: you on red, just folded the note.
Speaker 1: So at that point, after five whatever seven minutes, you
Speaker 1: decided to transfer back to normal vocal conversation.
Speaker 5: Yes, and then and then at that point it was like, okay,
Speaker 5: so my little cute attempts obviously fell a little not short,
Speaker 5: but we adjusted them. So then I also lifted the
Speaker 5: one drink min a moment, I was like, okay, you
Speaker 5: know what, no rules?
Speaker 1: H see there? Yeah. The good thing is you're adapting.
Speaker 3: You know, if you would have said, well, no, I
Speaker 3: did not break the rules and I forced us for
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, then of course that's the reason.
Speaker 1: I feel like he caved to all of it.
Speaker 4: Like it's like you set up all these rules for
Speaker 4: yourself logan, I mean, were you having fun?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: For sure?
Speaker 5: It was like how many people go out and just
Speaker 5: do the same mundane thing. This was like something that
Speaker 5: was memorable. So I was having a good time.
Speaker 4: Okay, what about her?
Speaker 5: Yeah, she was having a good time.
Speaker 1: Maybe, and maybe it's something like we don't understand the vibe,
Speaker 1: like you had to be there to feel what was
Speaker 1: going on between them.
Speaker 5: Yeah. You know, if you ever watched like that Netflix
Speaker 5: show Wednesday, Yeah.
Speaker 4: The Adams Family spin off, it's right.
Speaker 5: The lead actress is always just sitting there, like just
Speaker 5: with her eyes, like looking back and forth.
Speaker 4: In a round blink or smile. Wait, is that how
Speaker 4: you're saying, was like Wednesday Adams.
Speaker 1: In the Network show?
Speaker 5: No, I'm just saying that there's a lot to be
Speaker 5: communicated with eyes and.
Speaker 1: Just you know, she puts like fear and me. So
Speaker 1: in your opinion, in your opinion logan, no speed bumps.
Speaker 5: I don't think so. No, it was good. I got
Speaker 5: a nice hug at the end. But then I was
Speaker 5: setting up a second date and she was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm busy for the next couple of days or you know,
Speaker 5: this week is really bad next week, so she yeah,
Speaker 5: I couldn't read. Is she blowing me off?
Speaker 1: Sounds like if you think that you had a good time,
Speaker 1: then we totally believe you want it and we want
Speaker 1: to help you get another date.
Speaker 4: Here with with your favorite pen pal.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're gonna call Wednesday Adams here in just
Speaker 1: a second. First, we're going to play a song come back,
Speaker 1: and then get your second ate update right after that.
Speaker 1: Hold on it, second date.
Speaker 4: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 4: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 4: right after you here Part two, you're.
Speaker 1: In the middle of a second date update with a
Speaker 1: good friend of the show named Logan, and it's not
Speaker 1: his first time doing one of these with us playing
Speaker 1: the Adams Family theme song because he described his date
Speaker 1: with a girl named Megan like Wednesday Adams the Netflix series,
Speaker 1: meaning during their dinner they did a lot of staring,
Speaker 1: a lot of brooding and nonverbal communicating, which was extremely healthy. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's a little bit fearful, but healthy.
Speaker 3: I mean Tim.
Speaker 4: Burton told her not to blink in that show ever,
Speaker 4: because it was creepier.
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, I get it. It nays down a little
Speaker 1: out of the ordinary to most people. But Logan did
Speaker 1: end up getting a hug and the only thing he
Speaker 1: hasn't gotten is another date. So we're about to call
Speaker 1: Megan up here, and I just want to get your
Speaker 1: approval logan before we do this to use verbal communication
Speaker 1: with him? Is that okay?
Speaker 5: With you stamped? I stamped my approval boring if not?
Speaker 4: Honestly, you know, I felt bad for you the first
Speaker 4: time that we did a second date update. But I
Speaker 4: think you're such a good person and confident in who
Speaker 4: you are, You're going to be able to bounce back
Speaker 4: from this no matter what she says.
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1: Put that on a note card and send it over
Speaker 1: to it. Okay, let's just dial her number and we'll
Speaker 1: see what Meghan has to say.
Speaker 2: Here.
Speaker 1: Are you ready?
Speaker 5: Let's stay quiet?
Speaker 1: Good Ideah, that's until until we need you to speak up.
Speaker 1: That's really important. You all people know how this works.
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: Here here he goes, Hello, Hi, this is jeff from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Blink twice. If this
Speaker 1: is Megan, please, how would you see her?
Speaker 5: Wait?
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, who's calling?
Speaker 1: Definitely lah? Yeah, I laughed at that. I'm a funny person, Brooke,
Speaker 1: deal with Hey, Megan, So you're on the radio right
Speaker 1: now on a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Oh I thought this was a prank call.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we also do those so we're pretty stereotypical morning radio.
Speaker 3: We don't normally introduce ourselves well before we do that.
Speaker 1: Right, you're gonna find we're pretty bad at our jobs.
Speaker 5: Here.
Speaker 1: One thing we're kind of good at, though, is helping
Speaker 1: people get another date.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you're calling me about a date.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, a date you went on with a guy
Speaker 1: named Logan.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember Logan.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a good friend of ours. Actually, i'd say
Speaker 4: he seems like a nice guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I would say he's he's a nice guy.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, we're starting off on the right foot.
Speaker 1: Anything more. Because he told us a little bit about
Speaker 1: the date, and we teased him a little brook teased him. Actually,
Speaker 1: I personally thought it was kind of a fun, creative
Speaker 1: idea for you to pass notes to each other. What
Speaker 1: did you think of it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that part of the date was actually nice.
Speaker 2: You know, I like the guy that's willing to just
Speaker 2: improve themselves and try new things. But there was just
Speaker 2: something weird that happened on the date.
Speaker 4: So was it one of the notes that he passed?
Speaker 2: Actually maybe it was that.
Speaker 1: You what do you mean, how do you not know?
Speaker 4: If it was written down well, it.
Speaker 2: Came to the point where we had to order and
Speaker 2: the waitress that showed up to our table, and he
Speaker 2: wrote a note to the waitress. And I have no
Speaker 2: idea what he wrote to her, but like she started
Speaker 2: giggling right away.
Speaker 1: Maybe some dietary restrictions that he has.
Speaker 2: Great, she's making fun of us. Was just it was
Speaker 2: very flirty to me, and I immediately felt uncomfortable because
Speaker 2: I didn't know what he wrote, and I was like,
Speaker 2: what's going on here? And then you know, she wrote
Speaker 2: a note back that she did. Yeah, and she gave
Speaker 2: him a fifth bump too.
Speaker 4: Wait, wait, what did it say? Did you ask him?
Speaker 4: I mean I would have been so curious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked him, and he said he was like
Speaker 2: it's a secret, and like in a joking way, but
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm sitting right next to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well I'll just tell you, Megan that we
Speaker 1: weren't aware that that happened, that there was anything going
Speaker 1: on between Logan and the waitress.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't call her on another line.
Speaker 1: Something that you're not aware of, probably unless you have
Speaker 1: a really good sixth sense, is that Logan has been
Speaker 1: listening quietly on the other line, this entire time line,
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you with his voice.
Speaker 2: Oh no, are you serious.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing, Megan, Hi, O's to sing it
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 4: I guess this is your chance to get the bottom
Speaker 4: of what was going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like pulling my hair out here. I feel
Speaker 5: like I'm in a bumper car and I'm focused going
Speaker 5: forward and then I just get bammed from the side.
Speaker 1: Vivid imagination. But let's bring it back to uh, let's
Speaker 1: talk about the notes that you were passing with the
Speaker 1: waitress logan.
Speaker 5: I am, I floored. I am such an idiot. I
Speaker 5: cannot believe that I didn't pick up on that that
Speaker 5: looked bad. Like I literally I thought it was neat
Speaker 5: to just be like, oh, here comes the waitress. We're
Speaker 5: including her in the game for a second.
Speaker 1: The whole restaurant passing notes to each other.
Speaker 5: All I wrote was like playing a note game with
Speaker 5: my date. What's good or what's your favorite? And she wrote.
Speaker 4: Shrimp taco and you fist bumped over shrimp tacos.
Speaker 5: I said, I was like faux show or something like
Speaker 5: a little job. I was like Fox Show, shrimp or something.
Speaker 5: And she goes she goes yes, favorite, and then I
Speaker 5: was like, done.
Speaker 1: How much she Okay? Well do you believe him? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I was not getting the vibe that this was something
Speaker 2: like fun and it was a game that the whole
Speaker 2: restaurant could have been involved in. I mean, you made
Speaker 2: to me like you were trying to improve yourself and
Speaker 2: you were trying to prove to me that you know,
Speaker 2: you had interest in me and you wanted to kind
Speaker 2: of get to know me better.
Speaker 5: That's what I got.
Speaker 2: So it's just your action did not make sense to me.
Speaker 5: I should have showed you the note. I thought I
Speaker 5: was being cute when I was like, oh, it's a secret,
Speaker 5: Like to me, it didn't mean anything. You can ask
Speaker 5: these wonderful radio personalities. We talked about the date thoroughly.
Speaker 5: Not once did I even consider the waitresses being anything.
Speaker 1: That's because you were hiding Logan that you secretly got
Speaker 1: her phone number on one of the notes.
Speaker 4: Jeff, I mean it's what a lot of people were thinking.
Speaker 4: Be honest, Logan, did you get the waitress's number?
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. I mean given it to me.
Speaker 2: If I asked, probably, are you trying to make her jealous?
Speaker 5: What are you doing? Why would you say that I
Speaker 5: was trying to be charming and I and I thought
Speaker 5: if if this other girl was giggling, I thought it
Speaker 5: was points for me, like, oh people like him. Clear
Speaker 5: I was wrong.
Speaker 2: Don't turn other women when you're on a date.
Speaker 5: You guys know me. I'm a charismatic, charming guy.
Speaker 1: You and I have the same curse.
Speaker 3: Make everyone we talked to you laugh sometimes at backfires.
Speaker 6: You know why she laughed at that, Megan, I know
Speaker 6: that this is a lot coming at you, But from
Speaker 6: my perspective, it's just like you're going out with a
Speaker 6: guy who's just very charming to a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Naturally, what do you say one more date with logan
Speaker 1: on us?
Speaker 2: Yes, I get where you're coming from. Like, I would
Speaker 2: rather have a guy be super charismatic and funny and
Speaker 2: kind of have everybody like him rather than being, you know,
Speaker 2: a dork that you know doesn't have any confidence or boring.
Speaker 1: YouTube may be made for each other. Yeah, so it's happening.
Speaker 2: I think I'll do it. Let's go out again.
Speaker 5: I thank you so much.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: It takes a team, it takes a village, and you
Speaker 5: guys are my my my true ones. There brooking Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the morning.
Speaker 1: It's been months since we came through for Logan, and
Speaker 1: now he's back again with Meghan so that they can
Speaker 1: give us an update on their lives. What's up you two.
Speaker 1: Is it weird to hear your old second date call
Speaker 1: being played again?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Are you happy Meghan that you gave him another chance?
Speaker 4: Or you call it to tell us if it didn't
Speaker 4: work out?
Speaker 2: You know, it's funny because our friends and family members
Speaker 2: all heard the podcast of it, and they just couldn't
Speaker 2: believe that we actually did a date like that.
Speaker 4: You pass the notes back and for us exactly like
Speaker 4: they were like, did you seriously do that?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, of course.
Speaker 5: Actually, since then, we have a little tradition now that
Speaker 5: we do once a month.
Speaker 1: Tradition.
Speaker 2: So yes, we pass notes and kind of relive that
Speaker 2: first experience that we have together. He's actually kind of
Speaker 2: hot when he's not talking.
Speaker 1: I did I did a lot of guys like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 4: I wait, So the relationship is good then?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah. The quiet nights has been great, except for
Speaker 5: there was a little incident. I was I went to
Speaker 5: the bathroom and this guy was in the bathroom and
Speaker 5: there was something going on with him. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I thought he was having a heart attack.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 5: It ended up being just something minor. But at the
Speaker 5: time I was like, I need to go assist in
Speaker 5: this or I need to let people know. And I
Speaker 5: rushed over to her and I'm like, okay, follow the rules.
Speaker 5: So I grabbed the piece of paper and I'm scribbling
Speaker 5: down his back like man like man in trouble in bathroom, Like.
Speaker 1: Break the rules my friends.
Speaker 5: Right, that's what she said. She goes, just tell me
Speaker 5: what's going on. I was like, okay, well, the guy
Speaker 5: in there, I think he's having an art.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you it's going to ruin our day.
Speaker 2: He didn't. Just broken the silence faster. I mean, if
Speaker 2: any people are watching this that really want to try
Speaker 2: the same thing we did, just break the silence. If
Speaker 2: there's an emergency, get help.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: These are those PSAs that you're like, I can't believe
Speaker 4: that has to be said.
Speaker 1: Yeah, although Logan was not as hot when he told
Speaker 1: her that there was an emergency, it's much hotter when
Speaker 1: you run it down. Done. Yeah, well, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you guys are happily still together. Yeah, yeah, we love it.
Speaker 1: Keep us updated on your lives okay yeah. Text in seven, eight, five,
Speaker 1: nine too if you want to be onto the next
Speaker 1: edition of Second Date Updates. You could end up like
Speaker 1: Logan and Megan. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 5: Morning, brooking Jeffrey in the morning,