Speaker 1: I say I became that way from It was really
Speaker 1: a conversation that I had with my mama. I had
Speaker 1: a conversation with my mother man, and I don't even
Speaker 1: think I ever talked about this before, but I had
Speaker 1: a conversation with my mother about my father. And she
Speaker 1: never talked to me about who my father was. She
Speaker 1: talked to me about how my father was like you
Speaker 1: act like your daddy, you look like your daddy, you
Speaker 1: lie like your daddy, but she never.
Speaker 2: Told me who he was as a man.
Speaker 1: And having this conversation where it was just spurred the moment,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm, you know, staying in North Carolina.
Speaker 1: I went home to visit and I had just went
Speaker 1: through some shit and stopped dealing with a female based on.
Speaker 2: Some bullshit that I did.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And I'm having a conversation
Speaker 1: and I just I asked my mama. I was like,
Speaker 1: my daddy ever cheat on you? And she was like,
Speaker 1: cheat on me? She said, cheat on me? She was like,
Speaker 1: what made you ask me that? I'm like, I'm just
Speaker 1: wondering if you ever went through that with my father.
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, with you out here, nigga, got
Speaker 1: you dig in the streets.
Speaker 2: This my mom.
Speaker 1: That's how she talked to me, like, what you got
Speaker 1: your digging in the streets. I'm like, yeah to an extent,
Speaker 1: but I just was wondering, if you know, because I
Speaker 1: don't know who my daddy. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: got something. I don't know if this nigga was a
Speaker 1: you know, if he had that black snake moaning. I'm like,
Speaker 1: was this nigga the hound dog or who was he
Speaker 1: in that regard? Because I'm at this point, I'm feeling
Speaker 1: like a sucker because I had got caught doing some
Speaker 1: shit that was some sucking shit I missed and caught
Speaker 1: me up lying about some sucker shit, and I just
Speaker 1: felt like, man, and that's the only person I can
Speaker 1: come to about it. So she was like, your daddy
Speaker 1: ain't never had the cheat on me. She's like, your
Speaker 1: daddy ain't never told me nothing but what it was.
Speaker 1: She was like, so that's the only And that's why
Speaker 1: I feel like I ain't had nobody to ever meet
Speaker 1: that standard since then, because everybody that came in contact
Speaker 1: with me then been full of shit. And I ain't
Speaker 1: a bitch that you can play with like that, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, that changed my perspective, and
Speaker 1: they gave me a little glimpse into Okay, my daddy
Speaker 1: was a he was telling the truth. What does that
Speaker 1: even look like? What does it feel like to look
Speaker 1: a woman in the face and be able to tell
Speaker 1: her some shit that did make her turn around and
Speaker 1: walk away from you and be all right with it.
Speaker 1: I had no idea what that was to say some
Speaker 1: to a woman. But is your saying I'm good taking
Speaker 1: the l of you not getting whatever it is you
Speaker 1: I had no idea what that felt like. I didn't
Speaker 1: even know that that was something that could be done
Speaker 1: outside of the type of relationships that I saw my
Speaker 1: uncles have. That was, you know, pimps. That's a different
Speaker 1: type of look the level of love and relationship. I'm
Speaker 1: not that nigga, I know that, but as far as
Speaker 1: I've never seen what it looks like to freely have
Speaker 1: that conversation and be okay with the result of having
Speaker 1: it turned out. And from that moment I remember, I
Speaker 1: went back down to North Carolina and I just cut
Speaker 1: everything off. I ain't do no fucking I just went
Speaker 1: to work, did my shows, went home, and did the
Speaker 1: same thing I read I'm talking about poured into myself.
Speaker 1: I rode around, I talked to my poured into me,
Speaker 1: And when I came out of it, I remember the
Speaker 1: first conversation that I had why I told a woman,
Speaker 1: I don't think I want to ever be married or
Speaker 1: be in a relationship because I did the research on
Speaker 1: where all this shit came from, Like where does this
Speaker 1: even come from?
Speaker 2: Why do we believe in it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like why do we believe? Why do people want to
Speaker 1: why do you have to have a wedding ring? Where
Speaker 1: did that come from? And where did this idea of
Speaker 1: love come from? That we because we questioned everything else.
Speaker 1: We are questioned religion, We are question the every all
Speaker 1: of the systems that's in place, the government. But when
Speaker 1: it come to the dick pussy game, that's the only
Speaker 1: one that's truth.
Speaker 2: You gotta do it this way.
Speaker 1: So and just learning and opening my mind up to
Speaker 1: all of this different information, I realized that, man, you
Speaker 1: got to establish who you are and the way that
Speaker 1: I've always been. I've never had to even ask a
Speaker 1: woman to go with me. I wrote two yes no
Speaker 1: maybe soul letters in my life.
Speaker 2: Them the only two times I've never had to ask.
Speaker 1: Every other time it's women coming up on me like
Speaker 1: hey man, what's up with you? So that's just made
Speaker 1: me understand the type of energy that I have naturally.
Speaker 1: So do I curate that and learn how to work
Speaker 1: within that or do I strip myself for that to
Speaker 1: try to conform to what people say count in regards
Speaker 1: to my interaction with women. And I chose the latter,
Speaker 1: the previous, you know what I mean. I chose to
Speaker 1: embrace who I am and how things have always worked
Speaker 1: naturally for me and build on that.
Speaker 2: And that isn't that how long it's been?
Speaker 1: Shit, it's been I'm thirty six now twenty three, so
Speaker 1: you know what I mean that it's been a long time,
Speaker 1: and I've been living.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, to click into.
Speaker 1: That, yeah, I mean very young, And like I said,
Speaker 1: I've grown more over time regards to being able to
Speaker 1: explain it, Like my explanation of it now has grown
Speaker 1: exponentially versus when I was that young, because I've lived
Speaker 1: it and I've been through all of the different ls
Speaker 1: that you take in being this way, because emotions are
Speaker 1: very unusual and can get tricky when you're dealing with
Speaker 1: a woman because.
Speaker 2: They hear what you say, but your.
Speaker 1: Actions are gonna make them feel a certain way, Like
Speaker 1: I only know how to love give love the way
Speaker 1: I know how to give it. So if you're telling
Speaker 1: me you accept me as who I am, and I
Speaker 1: choose to give you the love that I give, you
Speaker 1: can in turn trick yourself into believing I want something
Speaker 1: else without involving me in that decision.
Speaker 2: And if you do that, that's on you.
Speaker 1: And I've given myself the ability to be able to
Speaker 1: separate myself from it, but it doesn't change the fact
Speaker 1: that I still have to have that conversation. And then
Speaker 1: having those conversations, I've been able to learn the things
Speaker 1: that I need to lead with more and more as
Speaker 1: I have them over the years, the things that I
Speaker 1: need to explain when I meet a woman. If you're
Speaker 1: showing any interest, because I'm not coming over there fucking
Speaker 1: with you. I'm good, you know what I mean. It's
Speaker 1: good to look at you. You look lovely. I give
Speaker 1: you a compliment. You look lovely in your dress to day,
Speaker 1: you beautiful, lovely, have a good dayat But I'm not
Speaker 1: doing nothing else because whatever you got going on, that's
Speaker 1: on you. I don't want nothing from you. I didn't
Speaker 1: turn down more pussy than most niggas they've been offered,
Speaker 1: So I'm not end of that day. And it's not
Speaker 1: something that I'm not. That's the least valuable thing on you.
Speaker 1: That's something that a nigga gave me. That's something my
Speaker 1: uncle gave me. The pussy is the least valuable thing
Speaker 1: on a woman unless you a pimp. So if you
Speaker 1: ain't a pimp, ain't pussy, ain't valuable up here? The
Speaker 1: mind's what a mind like.
Speaker 2: So because you'll come give me that pussy and ruin
Speaker 2: everything else.
Speaker 1: I guess exactly. And if that's all you got to
Speaker 1: give me, that's all you ever gonna be worth. And
Speaker 1: if I can't get you to sell it, then we're
Speaker 1: never had nothing. So it's like being able to navigate
Speaker 1: through these conversations that I've had over the years have
Speaker 1: gotten me to a point now where I sit and
Speaker 1: it's so many people around that just black ball, Nah, nigga,
Speaker 1: your perspective gonna change. Wait till you get this age,
Speaker 1: Wait till you get that age. And I understand it
Speaker 1: because you're not doing anything in thee but projecting with
Speaker 1: your capacity to interact with a woman or the opposite
Speaker 1: sexy is on to me, and I'm not mad at
Speaker 1: you about that, but people don't understand, like, no, you
Speaker 1: don't have to love in the way that you say
Speaker 1: love that you're being told that you've been told that
Speaker 1: doesn't work that way. And I watch my mama play
Speaker 1: that game with niggas my whole life.
Speaker 3: Love is no different than pain, right, So you can't
Speaker 3: tell me if you pinch me when it starts to hurt.
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you what pain is to me, right, and
Speaker 3: I'm telling you what love is to me. And people
Speaker 3: gotta be able to accept that. Man, I think you
Speaker 3: put some real good game down.
Speaker 2: With I mean people, are you know? It's like you know.
Speaker 1: One of the reasons why I think it's so much
Speaker 1: divorce in America, Loan, and I truly believe this. I
Speaker 1: think people get divorced at the rate they get divorced.
Speaker 2: That and this is the thing.
Speaker 1: You got a fifty something percent divorce rate in America,
Speaker 1: not to mention the other twenty percent who stay together
Speaker 1: and can't stand each other just because they don't want
Speaker 1: to go seventy right.
Speaker 2: The reason why people.
Speaker 1: Get divorced so much or get married so quickly, is
Speaker 1: because you don't have to get divorced in the same
Speaker 1: capacity that you get married. See, when you get married,
Speaker 1: you go down and get your paperwork from the.
Speaker 2: Judge, you know, the justice of the peace.
Speaker 1: But then you had that big ceremony and you wear
Speaker 1: a white dress, and you listen to Brian make night songs,
Speaker 1: and you eat sam and or steak, and you had
Speaker 1: the first dance, and you do all of this shit,
Speaker 1: and everybody get to come cry and have this beautiful
Speaker 1: ceremony and watch you tell this person how you gonna
Speaker 1: be with him for the rest of your life until death.
Speaker 2: Do you pardon all of that?
Speaker 1: Then you get to go get divorced in private, only
Speaker 1: you and your lawyer. You get to hear that shit
Speaker 1: y'all say to each other when y'all hate each other.
Speaker 1: But if in America you had to get divorced like
Speaker 1: you get married, if you get divorced, you gotta now
Speaker 1: have the same ceremony where we get to come watch
Speaker 1: y'all tell each other why y'all can't stand each other other,
Speaker 1: the same way we had to watch y'all tell each
Speaker 1: other how y'all was gonna be together for the rest
Speaker 1: of your life.
Speaker 2: And why y'all wasted.
Speaker 1: And wasted all our time and go and going and
Speaker 1: doing all of this and coming sitting in here and
Speaker 1: if you want, you know, because people want you to
Speaker 1: be a part of the success story. But the failure
Speaker 1: they want to keep private. And the thing about it
Speaker 1: is in regards to the relationships. To me, people are
Speaker 1: bullshitting out here. That's what I see most of the time. Nigga,
Speaker 1: you faking. You the realist nigga in the world. But
Speaker 1: you got all these women in the cut that you
Speaker 1: scared to tell us because she gonna what because she's
Speaker 1: gonna leave you for Yeah, she.
Speaker 2: Deserve to leave you, sucker ass, be a real man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't play like it. Every woman just watching
Speaker 3: this didn't know me that fuck with me. No, he
Speaker 3: don't play I don't go for that.
Speaker 2: Me neither.
Speaker 1: And that's the reason why you can say it publicly
Speaker 1: because you I've been saying this shit publicly for years.
Speaker 1: If it was any faking I was doing, you know
Speaker 1: how many how quick a motherfucker would be like that,
Speaker 1: that nigga lie, he'd have been my boyfriend for the past.
Speaker 1: Because that's the thing to embarrass me. You embarrassing yourself
Speaker 1: because all you gonna do is tell exactly what I
Speaker 1: told you, And have all these women who pretend like
Speaker 1: they don't understand. They call you dumbest, fucking the comments,
Speaker 1: a bitch better than me, ain't nowhere in the world.
Speaker 1: I ain't sharing and all of that. Okay, cool, that's
Speaker 1: cool for you, But I don't subscribe to that. And
Speaker 1: it's not just about sex. Fucking take the pussy out
Speaker 1: of it. Like there's certain women that bring certain shit
Speaker 1: to the presence. When I'm in their presence, I don't
Speaker 1: even fuck it my manager, like I was telling you,
Speaker 1: But man, I wouldn't hit her if she was a
Speaker 1: punching bag.
Speaker 2: We that's my family.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna talk to her on the phone for
Speaker 1: three hours sometimes. Energy, I'm gonna have conversations with her.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you to feel that position to be next
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 3: It gotta be that, yeah, I mean, but not even
Speaker 3: sexual ya mentally like energy.
Speaker 2: This somebody.
Speaker 1: If I got a problem, I'll hit her and ask
Speaker 1: her her a it. What do you think about this?
Speaker 1: What do you think about that? That's somebody that serves
Speaker 1: a purpose in my life. That's beyond anything. And I
Speaker 1: fuck sex, but what she serves as a purpose in
Speaker 1: my life, I'm not gonna be explaining to you because
Speaker 1: you feel like you don't understand why we took a
Speaker 1: picture with my arm around her.
Speaker 2: I'm not playing that game with nobody.
Speaker 3: Stop playing with me.
Speaker 2: Just what somebody told you. Yeah, like you know all
Speaker 2: the band.
Speaker 3: If it takes me to run my business, and you
Speaker 3: think I got time to deal.
Speaker 2: With this low level boards, shit, yeah they do. I
Speaker 2: don't even got time.
Speaker 1: But you if you don't establish that, they'll play them games.
Speaker 1: And then the thing is, that's just a test. It's
Speaker 1: like every man is the way I explain it, Loan
Speaker 1: is every man is the professor of his own court.
Speaker 1: This is I'm Chico being one oh one, and as
Speaker 1: a professor when you come, if you come in and
Speaker 1: take my class, the first thing I'm gonna give you
Speaker 1: is my syllabus. And this is who and what and
Speaker 1: everything that you're gonna get out of this course. This
Speaker 1: is what I'm offering from the door. You got a
Speaker 1: choice as to whether or not you want to drop
Speaker 1: this bitch or take it from the door. If you
Speaker 1: choose to take it, after a certain time, you can't
Speaker 1: do nothing but get an ale fail this bit a pass,
Speaker 1: a failed class. If you fail, you failed out, and
Speaker 1: you can't take this bitch no more.
Speaker 2: That's how I operated as a man. Ain't no coming back.
Speaker 1: You fail out, you fail out, And that's cool because
Speaker 1: at least you'll respect me, and I respect you because
Speaker 1: I ain't told you no bullshit. You just couldn't adheit
Speaker 1: to it once you thought you looked at it, and
Speaker 1: you thought maybe you was tricking yourself to think you
Speaker 1: can change me or me, or you think you can
Speaker 1: trick me into thinking that.
Speaker 2: You did what.
Speaker 1: You ain't fuck with me yet, that's what women tell
Speaker 1: me that all the time, or you just ain't met
Speaker 1: her yet met who? You know how many raw ass
Speaker 1: women that I have in my life that loved me
Speaker 1: to death that I ain't never got to put no
Speaker 1: dick nowhere near? You telling me that I ain't found
Speaker 1: somebody that's worth me loving in the way that you
Speaker 1: think love is supposed to go because I ain't did
Speaker 1: it the way you respect it. That's disrespectful to me
Speaker 1: as a man and how I curate relationships. But I've
Speaker 1: gotten to a point over the years that I know,
Speaker 1: it's no point of trying to fight that fight, because
Speaker 1: why would I want to try to change your perspective.
Speaker 1: You entitled to that, and that's the reason why you
Speaker 1: not gonna be over here with me. But anybody that's
Speaker 1: over here knows I'm gonna show up the same person
Speaker 1: I've always been, just a better and better version of it.
Speaker 1: And if you get the benefit from that, then that
Speaker 1: means that you understand what comes with me. So don't
Speaker 1: come at me with nothing that I've already explained to
Speaker 1: you in this syllabus. If you understand what I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: whatever you tell yourself to be okay with it.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to take that away from you.
Speaker 1: I could, and in certain moments I feel like I
Speaker 1: should have when I've had to have those conversations with
Speaker 1: what well I thought and I thought and how you
Speaker 1: think that? I mean, because you be over here and
Speaker 1: i'd be everywhere. Yeah, the same way I'm over here,
Speaker 1: laid up with you, kissing and loving on you and
Speaker 1: making you laugh and we having a good time. It's
Speaker 1: somebody somewhere else that I had the same experience with
Speaker 1: in the way that we do. But that ain't stop
Speaker 1: me from having it with you, right, But if you
Speaker 1: want me to do this exclusively with you, then I'm
Speaker 1: not the nigga for you. And you've been wasting your
Speaker 1: time trying to imagine that I am.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're not gonna trick me. You know, I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna do nothing that ain't been done. You ain't
Speaker 3: gonna do it a different way. I'm the one doing this.
Speaker 1: Shit, right, But I owe it to you to give
Speaker 1: you the respect of letting you know that before you
Speaker 1: invest your time and energy as a woman, Because it's
Speaker 1: a nigga out here that's gonna play whatever game you
Speaker 1: want to play.
Speaker 2: There's plenty of them.
Speaker 1: It's just not me. I'm just not the one that's
Speaker 1: playing that game. So don't try to force me to be.
Speaker 1: This the terror dome over here. In regards to public
Speaker 1: perception and what people think and accept its socially normal,
Speaker 1: and regards to interaction, it's totally different. And I ain't
Speaker 1: talking like on no polygamy and all that that ship.
Speaker 1: I ain't doing none of that. I run my own program.
Speaker 1: I ain't subscribing and nobody's doctrine, but my own God
Speaker 1: has given me the ability to develop my own doctrine
Speaker 1: in regards to my interaction with anybody of the opposite sex,
Speaker 1: and this is me.
Speaker 2: This is my doctrine.
Speaker 1: So if you overhear, we ain't subscribing to nothing but
Speaker 1: the Book of Chico Bean. So you can be a
Speaker 1: part of that or not. Either way, I'm cool.
Speaker 2: Right, and it don't hurt me.
Speaker 3: And it's important that people know I'm not emotionally attached to.
Speaker 2: Whatever this is.
Speaker 3: And they may yeah, yeah, listen, I bless you, Yeah, blessings,
Speaker 3: blessing on every level.
Speaker 2: I mean me too, but I'm mad about that. I
Speaker 2: mean that.
Speaker 3: I hope you wish you the best out all the
Speaker 3: way macause I'm keen. I'm keen Kong. I know what's
Speaker 3: going on. You know when you over here, we gonna win. Man,
Speaker 3: whoever around me, were.
Speaker 1: Gonna every day and I'm talking about hell every day.
Speaker 2: And you know what I'm saying. You not getting nothing mediocre.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you get from nobody else. It's
Speaker 1: only one of me. You can never get what you
Speaker 1: get from me from not another motherfucker on the planet
Speaker 1: because I'm the only one. So if you loving what
Speaker 1: I'm doing and what I'm laying down. And that's what
Speaker 1: I try to tell women when I had these conversations,
Speaker 1: like you expect a man to be something that you
Speaker 1: haven't given him the ability to be safe or feel
Speaker 1: safe enough to be in front of you. Yes, and
Speaker 1: as a man, if you come in like we come
Speaker 1: in like, I ain't talking about these niggas out here
Speaker 1: selling dreams. Hey, look hey, but if you one of them,
Speaker 1: niggas like Pimpcy and the words of the pimp got
Speaker 1: long live the pimp. It's never too late to stop
Speaker 1: being a bitch, shake back, get out that shit, my niggas.
Speaker 2: But I'm not this not for you.
Speaker 1: I'm talking to the niggas that got the standard and
Speaker 1: the honor to be able to lead into who they
Speaker 1: really are with a woman from jump.
Speaker 2: If you do that, even.
Speaker 1: If you are with the relationships and you want to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship, and you because there are men
Speaker 1: out here who you know really conform to that and
Speaker 1: do their best, and then you expect this man to
Speaker 1: be something that you've never even shown him the grace
Speaker 1: or the space that he's safe enough to be able
Speaker 1: to trust that he's not gonna get chance.
Speaker 2: Starves for being around you and then you judge him
Speaker 2: for it, and you that's you demonize him for you
Speaker 2: know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And it's like I tell women, you got to create
Speaker 1: a If you've created a space for a man and
Speaker 1: you tell them that this is who I'll be yourself
Speaker 1: and I'm.
Speaker 2: Showing you and then he still don't do that, then.
Speaker 1: That's a sucker and you need to get this far
Speaker 1: away from that nigga as possible. But if you find
Speaker 1: a man and you say, look, this is who I'm
Speaker 1: allowing you to be who you are in full, just
Speaker 1: be honest with me about who that is. And that's
Speaker 1: what most women say until they run into a nigga
Speaker 1: that's honest with it. Then they can't take it because
Speaker 1: you've been getting the lives feel so bad that you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You just think you want the opposite,
Speaker 1: but when you get the opposite, you realize all that
Speaker 1: it is the lies feel So if the lies hurt
Speaker 1: so much that you think this, I gotta get the opposite.
Speaker 1: But no, what you really want is you want what
Speaker 1: you have in your mind to be played out by
Speaker 1: somebody in real time.
Speaker 2: And that's okay. Just establish it. That's what you're looking for.
Speaker 1: I'm looking for a man to do what I want
Speaker 1: him to do in the times that I want him
Speaker 1: to do it. And I'm gonna do the shit that
Speaker 1: he wants me to do for him in the times
Speaker 1: that he wants me to do it. And that's gonna
Speaker 1: be a situation exclusive even have that in it not
Speaker 1: be exclusive. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But what you.
Speaker 3: Provide a level of things for you just it ain't
Speaker 3: exclusive just to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's the possessiveness that comes with it, Like
Speaker 1: it's like you don't you don't own anybody's energy, Like
Speaker 1: even if you know you see, that's my man, that's
Speaker 1: my lady. And the thing is, and being on the
Speaker 1: outside looking in, I'm able to get so much different perspective.
Speaker 1: Like one of the things that I talk about on
Speaker 1: my shows is the type of games that women get
Speaker 1: the benefit of running because nigga are so horrible at
Speaker 1: running game when it comes to y'all, because y'all are
Speaker 1: too in depth. You pay attention to us in details
Speaker 1: like you. I mean, when a woman is sitting watching
Speaker 1: you sleep, nigga, like and she just she's paying attention
Speaker 1: to your movements I'm all the way down to the
Speaker 1: way you lay at night, you know what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: So she's documenting these things as a woman in her mind,
Speaker 1: and she's paying attention to where if you come in
Speaker 1: and put your drawers in the wrong place too many
Speaker 1: times in the row, something different. So now she's fishing.
Speaker 1: She looking for some shit. And niggas are so sloppy
Speaker 1: that we believe that in doing all of this dirt
Speaker 1: you didne got away with it for so long that
Speaker 1: you start to think you immune to getting caught up
Speaker 1: because you think that you telling the truth outside of
Speaker 1: everywhere but in your household. Now, I'm good long as
Speaker 1: my bitches d ain't gonna say nothing, but nah that
Speaker 1: it don't work like that, you gonna get caught.
Speaker 2: And once she catch you.
Speaker 1: The difference between us and them is if you catch
Speaker 1: your girl doing something wrong, you snapping immediately.
Speaker 2: Cas bitch, I can't believe I to knock your mother.
Speaker 1: You tripping but a woman nothing and make you believe
Speaker 1: that she still believe you the nigga you're pretending to be.
Speaker 2: Every day, that's the get you.
Speaker 3: Every day she's still doing it, She's still doing everything
Speaker 3: and kissing you and giving you pussy and all that.
Speaker 2: But nigga, little do you know.
Speaker 1: If she did, and if that's it, and if she
Speaker 1: ever run into a nigga that bring out that part
Speaker 1: of her that she was thinking that you was pretended.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, man, because she just needs to be
Speaker 1: convinced god, Oh my god, man, I'm talking about I
Speaker 1: noticed from experience loom like the way that I've seen
Speaker 1: women transition in my dealings with them versus what they
Speaker 1: had to be doing prior to getting to meet. It's like, Man,
Speaker 1: if that nigga knew you did ship like this.
Speaker 2: He'd kill everybody. He had killed every because.
Speaker 1: He thought you was that, not even knowing that you
Speaker 1: just ain't had that part of your femininity tapped into.
Speaker 3: To bring out who you really are as a woman.
Speaker 3: He married you as that, not when he figured out
Speaker 3: that you wasn't who he married he didn't know he does.
Speaker 3: The thing is, most of the time, I give you
Speaker 3: a perfect example. This girl I deal with love to death.
Speaker 2: Man. She was in a relationship, you know, married for
Speaker 2: a long time, and like she gave.
Speaker 1: And it's proved this to me because I thought she
Speaker 1: was bullshit and she gave this man all of the
Speaker 1: options in the world to stay married.
Speaker 2: Like, look, I noticed who you is.
Speaker 1: These bitches keep hitting me, these women keep calling me,
Speaker 1: they keep contacting me.
Speaker 2: This obviously has to be who you are.
Speaker 1: Fuck it, just be real about the fact that you
Speaker 1: are at and we'll work around it. What the like
Speaker 1: snapped on it because the nigga hasn't accepted the fact
Speaker 1: of who he is.
Speaker 2: He mad he got caught alone.
Speaker 1: Once she got out and ran into a nigga like me,
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, that's how you come on, I got
Speaker 1: something to show you and who she turned into now
Speaker 1: she unrecognizable to this nigga because you gotta still deal
Speaker 1: with him, And he hated her for it because he's like, bitch, you.
Speaker 2: Mean to tell me you was this the whole time? Yeah,
Speaker 2: she was.
Speaker 1: You just want a nigga to get it out of it.
Speaker 1: And you don't even know who your woman is if
Speaker 1: you being a fake version of yourself and your household.
Speaker 1: It's a woman in there that you have no clue.
Speaker 3: Who she really is, and you done convinced her because
Speaker 3: that's the only reason she does exactly.
Speaker 1: She thinking you this nigga, and she thinking who she
Speaker 1: is is based off of somebody who don't exist for real.
Speaker 1: And once she find out that you faking, oh my,
Speaker 1: that's the light bulb to go off in her head.
Speaker 3: Oh god, man, it's so crazy.
Speaker 2: Man seen him?
Speaker 3: Don the light bulb cut on? You mean to tell
Speaker 3: me he ain't.
Speaker 1: It's nasty, it's nasty work, and you can't never get
Speaker 1: back after that. You can try, but you'll never be Yeah,
Speaker 1: you stole something from her time, and it's the thing
Speaker 1: it like for me. That's why I don't have no
Speaker 1: sympathy when it comes to women chastising me. From my perspective,
Speaker 1: I embrace it. I get it, baby girl, I get it.
Speaker 1: You you've never had a man be this way with
Speaker 1: you to where you understand it. It's possible for a
Speaker 1: woman to be loved in that capacity.
Speaker 2: Still you you've never no, you good man. I don't
Speaker 2: ain't worry about that ship. Whatever it is.
Speaker 1: The conversation is beautiful me like you haven't experience what
Speaker 1: that feels like. And I can't be mad at you
Speaker 1: that you think I'm crazy or think that any woman
Speaker 1: who's over here with me is crazy for dealing with it.
Speaker 2: I respect it.
Speaker 1: It's because you've never even experienced what it feels like
Speaker 1: that And if you have and you didn't like it,
Speaker 1: then I can respect that too. Whatever it is that's
Speaker 1: making you feel like I'm wrong dumbs up to you.
Speaker 1: But just know I'm not coming over here trying to
Speaker 1: change your mind?
Speaker 2: Know will you be able to change mind?
Speaker 1: And we as long as we can operate and those parameters,
Speaker 1: everything smooth. But unfortunately, in a lot of cases, women
Speaker 1: like to engage you because they just so used to
Speaker 1: getting lied to and finessed by niggas that they think
Speaker 1: every niggas finessing in line.
Speaker 2: Niggas feel like we what we tell them, but they just.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah they came, man till they want to tell
Speaker 1: you how many bitches they got. That's the craziest shit
Speaker 1: to me. Like, what do you think causes from your
Speaker 1: perception being at you know, high level thinking?
Speaker 2: How operating? Man? You know what I mean? Not?
Speaker 1: Like, what do you think makes if you can pinpoint
Speaker 1: one thing makes niggas afraid to be real with they woman.
Speaker 2: I think it's something about the vulnerability, you know. It's like.
Speaker 3: I let that lady in too, She's seen a different
Speaker 3: side of me.
Speaker 2: I don't know I really can't relate to it. I
Speaker 2: can't really wrap my mind.
Speaker 1: Or what was the thing that made you stop telling lies?
Speaker 1: If you ever have just what.
Speaker 3: Made me stop telling lines is because it was it
Speaker 3: didn't make sense.
Speaker 2: It was it was just too much. It became too
Speaker 2: much just to remember. And then you arguing about it.
Speaker 2: I don't argue. I got ship to do. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: ain't got time to be going back like so when you.
Speaker 3: Know, and then my ship just cut off on just randomly,
Speaker 3: just one day. I'm just like, yo, you know what,
Speaker 3: I don't even accept talking about that, like that's over with.
Speaker 3: You don't like that I let you. I was already
Speaker 3: like that anyway. I just I didn't tell you because
Speaker 3: I thought it'd hurt your feelings.
Speaker 2: But I was already slick, like if you leave, you leave.
Speaker 2: I've been like that forever and ever and ever. You
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying. So I'm saying to myself one day,
Speaker 2: I just say, you know what, this.
Speaker 3: Woman right here is bothering me about shit that I
Speaker 3: feel as though it's frivolous, And in the grand scheme,
Speaker 3: it is frivolous because if me and your relationship ain't
Speaker 3: been affected what's the problem.
Speaker 2: What the fuck are we talking about? Exactly?
Speaker 1: And that's the part that I always have found to
Speaker 1: be something that makes me feel so good about the
Speaker 1: way that I operate and move because I'm not entertaining
Speaker 1: none of that shit, Like you stop trying me. I
Speaker 1: got two rules. Don't play with my manhood, don't play
Speaker 1: with my intelligence. Yes, those are two things that I've
Speaker 1: invested too much time, energy, sweat, blood, tears and all
Speaker 1: that into for you to try to think that you're
Speaker 1: finessing me out of either one. So, for example, like
Speaker 1: my ring that I got on, right, I had a
Speaker 1: girl that I dealt with hit me, like, take that
Speaker 1: ring off.
Speaker 2: I'm like what she was like? Oh well, I just
Speaker 2: was saying.
Speaker 1: Because the perspective that you have on marriage, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: think that you would attach yourself to anything that has
Speaker 1: First of all, what is who you talking to? What
Speaker 1: the fuck is you talking about?
Speaker 2: Like? First of all, you.
Speaker 1: Are talking to somebody who has always been consistent. So
Speaker 1: the fact that you felt like you needed to try
Speaker 1: to ask me something through some shit that don't make
Speaker 1: no sense is a problem for me. So what you
Speaker 1: really want to talk about? Because obviously whatever it is
Speaker 1: I've been doing in my explanation to you about who
Speaker 1: I am isn't enough. So now I'm about to give
Speaker 1: it to you one hundred percent raw since you feel
Speaker 1: like you can question me about some shit that one
Speaker 1: don't have nothing to do with you, and two don't
Speaker 1: make no goddamn sense. I don't give a fuck about
Speaker 1: what nobody think about me being having this ring on
Speaker 1: my finger. Got it because it looked good. But if
Speaker 1: you think I'm married because I got it on, good
Speaker 1: for you. But somebody who knows me and knows how
Speaker 1: to operate for you to try me like that, now
Speaker 1: we got a problem because now you you just tried
Speaker 1: me and tried to use that as a way to
Speaker 1: be in and introduce a question that you really wanted
Speaker 1: to ask. So now I ain't gonna let you ask
Speaker 1: you know what, since you want, let's let's get to
Speaker 1: it like I buy boom. And now it's like, well
Speaker 1: I didn't want to know all that. Yes, you you
Speaker 1: had to because you beat around because who I told
Speaker 1: you I was prior to that wasn't enough for you
Speaker 1: to make make you not try me in that regard.
Speaker 1: So now it's my obligation and duty to make sure
Speaker 1: we never have this problem agoundary testing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they do little things like that, they shooting ship
Speaker 2: out there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I always tell like
Speaker 3: I tell girls. Me and Big Bang was talking the
Speaker 3: other day. He was saying, Man, niggas always talking about
Speaker 3: what they.
Speaker 2: Little hole told them.
Speaker 3: Why my little hold on never tell me nothing because
Speaker 3: it's established that we don't talk about men.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't talk about it.
Speaker 1: I'm not having no conversations, and my perspective is different.
Speaker 1: I'm an ego opportunity nigga. You know how niggas say.
Speaker 1: I do what I want you to do what I
Speaker 1: tell you.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: Man, my uncle told me a long time ago. If
Speaker 1: you don't wake up in the morning to wash it pussy,
Speaker 1: it don't belong to you. It's hers. It'll never be yours.
Speaker 1: It's just your turn. So you just make sure that
Speaker 1: whatever she doing when it is not your turn, ain't
Speaker 1: fucking up your turn.
Speaker 2: That's just the way.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you do when I'm not around,
Speaker 1: as long as whatever you're doing when I'm not around
Speaker 1: don't bring me no problems when I am around. Were
Speaker 1: good because you've grown and you able to do what
Speaker 1: you want to do as long as it ain't no
Speaker 1: niggas out here mad at me. If you saying that
Speaker 1: I'm the only nigga you fuck with and all that,
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna hold you to that because I.
Speaker 2: Ain't ask you for that, but you ain't ain't got
Speaker 2: to that.
Speaker 1: I don't care about none of that because I'm out
Speaker 1: here doing what I do and I'm a bunch of
Speaker 1: different places, So I understand. If you need that companionship
Speaker 1: and consistency consistently, then who am I to stop you
Speaker 1: from getting that? But if you really fucking with me,
Speaker 1: then when I show up, just make sure that the
Speaker 1: other nigga got the same level of understanding that I got.
Speaker 1: If not, stay the fuck away from it, because I
Speaker 1: don't play them type of games, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's like it's very easy for me in regards to
Speaker 1: keeping myself from having to deal with the bullshit that
Speaker 1: comes with the interaction that niggas. That I see niggas
Speaker 1: go through with women, I can't be ran up on.
Speaker 1: I'm traumatized. I seen the nigga. I love the death
Speaker 1: mister Charles. I loved this nigga This was one of
Speaker 1: them dudes I looked up to as a young nigga.
Speaker 2: My Aunt Mary was fucking with him.
Speaker 1: I seen him run out his own establishment because my
Speaker 1: aunt Murray walked in there and he was in there
Speaker 1: with a woman.
Speaker 2: He ran out it.
Speaker 1: Let's be like you in here with a woman, bitch,
Speaker 1: come in, you run out your own building.
Speaker 2: That fucked me up.
Speaker 1: And I didn't realize how that fucked me up until
Speaker 1: I got caught up like that and Slick did some
Speaker 1: shit like that. It tore into my spirit and let
Speaker 1: me know that I'm like, man, I just did some
Speaker 1: mister Charlie ass shot feel like a whole my god. Man,
Speaker 1: I can't never do no ship like that no more.
Speaker 1: And I realized that I'm the reason why you the
Speaker 1: reason it's your fault, nigga, because you gotta be able
Speaker 1: to stand on a woman saying no, thank you.
Speaker 2: I'm good and that's cool. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: That's cool.
Speaker 1: That's something that I didn't learned to accept. It's cool
Speaker 1: to look at you cool to. I ain't ever somebody
Speaker 1: tell you I slid in, they d m they lines.
Speaker 1: I ain't got none of that energy for nobody.
Speaker 3: And then they'll do that kind of ship for they
Speaker 3: have a screen shot and some ship like I don't
Speaker 3: even talk.
Speaker 2: Like no, nah man, nah man.
Speaker 3: And if you come to me about any screen shots
Speaker 3: and all that, you got to get out the car.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the car my life. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, certain,
Speaker 2: because life you're done, because that showed me the operating
Speaker 2: level that you at.
Speaker 1: You still operate, you you still got the dolls. Yeah, Michael,
Speaker 1: you got to flopping this bitch. We we somewhere else with.
Speaker 2: It, you know what I mean. But but you.
Speaker 1: Gotta be really willing to all the niggas listening. Man,
Speaker 1: this ship sound good, but it takes you gotta be
Speaker 1: staying on beniners as they saying. Now, you gotta really
Speaker 1: do it because it sound good, it sounds great. But
Speaker 1: when you don't live up to that. Man, the way
Speaker 1: a woman gonna take into your spirit for faking, she's
Speaker 1: gonna make you feel I ain't no.
Speaker 2: And she pay everything.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, man, she gonna kill you, I mean bad,
Speaker 1: and it's and it's.
Speaker 3: Gonna you're gonna be buried alive because you gonna die
Speaker 3: in that house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: But out here you're gonna still make it look good.
Speaker 3: But boy, when you go home, yeah, you gonna know.
Speaker 3: And she'll tell you. Man, think about them girls. An
Speaker 3: he can be a step out here. He get in
Speaker 3: there and she'll tell that nigga about itself.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Perfect perfect example of that is Dead President's cutting. Remember
Speaker 1: Dead President's cut It When that nigga pulled up and
Speaker 1: that nigga say, man, you know, man, man, stay the
Speaker 1: funk away from my family.
Speaker 2: That nigga said, what did you say?
Speaker 1: And smack that nigga with that gun and told them
Speaker 1: and say, nigga, I took care of these motherfuckers when
Speaker 1: you wasn't around. Little nigga, like, nigga, don't you ever
Speaker 1: bite the hand that feeds you. That's a reality for
Speaker 1: so many niggas out here because you are letting another
Speaker 1: motherfucker feed your household because you ain't being who you
Speaker 1: really are to go out here and face the world
Speaker 1: for real. So it's some nigga that it either got
Speaker 1: lucky enough to beat the odds or that your woman
Speaker 1: is subscribing to. And you will never know I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: You can't imagine the type of I didn't been around
Speaker 1: women that then gave me some of the tricks that
Speaker 1: they run when they whoa. I mean it's different, man,
Speaker 1: it's different. I'm talking about in the same room with you.
Speaker 1: And you'll never know because niggas ain't gonna say nothing again.
Speaker 3: They giving the self rewards in the future. Yeah, they
Speaker 3: sit for you.
Speaker 2: You even running in the home. That's home.
Speaker 3: That yay, that's my professor, dude, I be learning from ya.
Speaker 2: Dave taught me that, my professor.
Speaker 1: God, yeah, we don't even hold niggas, don't even hold
Speaker 1: them over to the same standard as women do women
Speaker 1: in the same scenario. If you got a man that's
Speaker 1: cheating on a woman and a woman that's cheating on
Speaker 1: a man, If the woman scream and go to social
Speaker 1: media and be like, I'm fucking your man, nobody says nothing.
Speaker 1: That's what if a nigga we all as a unit,
Speaker 1: like what type of bitch ass niggas?
Speaker 2: You man?
Speaker 1: We don't even hold each other to the standard. And
Speaker 1: when you think about that as a man, that should
Speaker 1: let you know how easy it is for your bitch
Speaker 1: to get away with the shit that you out here
Speaker 1: trying to get away with. It's like the nigga said
Speaker 1: on the old school song who making love to your
Speaker 1: old lady? While you was out making love? Niggas exactly
Speaker 1: it's going down. You think it's not going don't ever
Speaker 1: think it can't be you, nigga. No niggas above it.
Speaker 1: Your bitch will get hit out here. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck who you is this nigga, she.
Speaker 3: Make, what you make, who you are, how much money
Speaker 3: you got, how many niggas you just.
Speaker 2: Stepping on the chopping block.
Speaker 1: She is on the board out here, if she out
Speaker 1: here in these streets, No niggas above it. I've seen
Speaker 1: it happen to the best of them across the board.
Speaker 2: Ship.
Speaker 1: Nigga, you just got to change your perspective. That's the
Speaker 1: only thing that you can do, because it's no way
Speaker 1: that you can shield yourself from that ship.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. Sometimes you got it and then
Speaker 3: you're playing in the water trying not to get wet.
Speaker 2: There you go. It's impossible. It's impossible. It is impossible.
Speaker 3: I want I wanted to ask you too, man, how
Speaker 3: many minutes of comedy can you do an hour special?
Speaker 2: Right now? Yeah? I can do it three hours, specially
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: Without Yeah, there is four o'clock, it's eight twenty even
Speaker 1: look at the time. I mean, but that's just you know,
Speaker 1: that's how natural it is.
Speaker 2: Man, it's very rare.
Speaker 3: How do you craft an hour show? How would you
Speaker 3: go about something like that?
Speaker 1: It depends on what it is in what space I'm
Speaker 1: in at the time that I'm crafting it.
Speaker 2: Like I already know what I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna call my first hour special is just what of
Speaker 1: the odds, because just the odds of the way that
Speaker 1: things have transitioned and came about for me. But I
Speaker 1: ain't in no rush to do it because, like I said,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm operating on a.
Speaker 2: Different playing field.
Speaker 1: Like I if I was to do what people felt
Speaker 1: like I was supposed to do, then I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: who I am right now, because listening to the open
Speaker 1: air is what fuck you up? Me being able to
Speaker 1: do an hour of comedy I can. As long as
Speaker 1: I ever been on stage was two hours and forty
Speaker 1: five minutes alon by myself, And that's and that's that's tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Tomorrow is a college show. Them different like they the
Speaker 1: college show. They you know, these as youngins, so they
Speaker 1: just want to they want to you know, they want
Speaker 1: to turn up and party and talk, and they still
Speaker 1: they still want the jokes, but it's they're not gonna,
Speaker 1: you know, sit there and let you work your way through.
Speaker 1: And hey, so you know what I mean. When I'm
Speaker 1: in the comedy club, it's engaging. I'm able to engage
Speaker 1: a whole room of people. Like the silence is what
Speaker 1: I revel And it's not the I love the laughter,
Speaker 1: but it's that silence that come after the laughter to
Speaker 1: let me know where I'm at in the game. When
Speaker 1: I look around the room and everybody's what's next, What's next?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, what's that's the part
Speaker 1: of the game.
Speaker 2: Freestyl I mean always freestyle. No, you got your jokes
Speaker 2: that you tell.
Speaker 1: But I always allow myself to be driven by the room.
Speaker 1: Like I did a showing Raleigh. It was a nigga
Speaker 1: in the name mister Higgins, like that was on his
Speaker 1: driver's license. I asked, like, what's your name man? He
Speaker 1: was like, mister Higgins. I'm like, man, what's your name?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 1: He said, mister Higgins. Nigga pulled his wallet out. His
Speaker 1: name was m I. S. T. E. R.
Speaker 2: Higgins. I'm like nigga you.
Speaker 1: Named after a teddy bear that's crazy than a motherfucker,
Speaker 1: And then the whole thirty minutes, I'm like.
Speaker 2: Is you a mad at Mommy? I wasn't, mister is
Speaker 2: and this.
Speaker 1: Nigga walk in Like it's just those type of things
Speaker 1: you can't account for, and a lot a lot of
Speaker 1: people call it crowd work, but what it really is
Speaker 1: is just you being able to engage the people that's
Speaker 1: coming to see you to make it a tailored experience
Speaker 1: to what's going on in that room right then. But
Speaker 1: a special is a little different because come say, crowd
Speaker 1: work is it is not it? It doesn't translate on
Speaker 1: camera because you can't do it on a special if
Speaker 1: you're taping conventionally. But that crowd work still gives you
Speaker 1: a different perspective in something that you may have been
Speaker 1: figuring out how to write a joke about. Like I
Speaker 1: always do a set a part of my set every
Speaker 1: show I do, or most of the shows that I do,
Speaker 1: where I talk about my perspective on relationships because it's
Speaker 1: just such a major thing that people always want to
Speaker 1: hear my perspective on. And then having those conversations the
Speaker 1: questions that I get to ask the crowd. It provokes
Speaker 1: the thoughts that moved that hour that I'm gonna do. Like,
Speaker 1: for example, my showing San Antonio this past weekend, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about getting divorced and I asked a dude. I said,
Speaker 1: you married. He was like no, I said you've ever
Speaker 1: been married? He was like yeah, I said you know
Speaker 1: how long you been divorced? He was like, man, about
Speaker 1: three years. I was like, what she do? Because you
Speaker 1: always hear about the nigga, it's always that side what
Speaker 1: she do?
Speaker 2: Tell me about what she do that made you say
Speaker 2: fuck it?
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, man, she got my costole three times.
Speaker 1: I'm like, she got your costole three times? How the
Speaker 1: fuck that happened? He said that she was fucking three
Speaker 1: different niggas at three different points in their relationships and
Speaker 1: let them niggas drive his car so much so that
Speaker 1: he had to report this shit stolen to get it back.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: You hear some shit like that and that opens up
Speaker 1: with like, nigga, I didn't even know shit like that
Speaker 1: was going on out here. So for me, an hour
Speaker 1: special is meja. At whatever point I decide to do it,
Speaker 1: it's just me putting together an hour or an hour ten. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course I've had to write them for other people,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like being on wild'n Out.
Speaker 1: That's one of the things that you learn, like I
Speaker 1: have been. You ask anybody when in that space, Chico,
Speaker 1: what you think about this?
Speaker 2: Chico? What should I say here? Chico? I know how
Speaker 2: to write.
Speaker 1: I'm a writer first, like so it's just when it
Speaker 1: comes to me, I'm talking about me on stage, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about my life. I have a different type of audacity.
Speaker 1: That's where this ship comes from. Like I don't have
Speaker 1: to write down my emotions and feelings.
Speaker 2: I have to structure it now. But I do that.
Speaker 2: Like for me too, who's your favorite black comic? Earthquake
Speaker 2: is my favorite comedy? Top three? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hell yeah yeah, that's my personal favorite, personal top three.
Speaker 1: That's a loaded question for me, man, because I consume
Speaker 1: so much comedy, you know, even.
Speaker 2: Before I became Black.
Speaker 1: Quake, Dave and Martin, as far as me growing up,
Speaker 1: watching that had the biggest impact on me, Quake because
Speaker 1: that's who I saw the niggas who I looked up
Speaker 1: to laughing at when I saw them watch him, he.
Speaker 2: Wasn't selling as much.
Speaker 1: He was a fucking monster, even Bruce Bruce, Yeah, that
Speaker 1: comedy was fucking amazed. But the niggas that I grew
Speaker 1: up around that raised me, my uncles, my big big
Speaker 1: cousins and all of that. When I saw them, I'll
Speaker 1: never forget. I saw them watching Earthquake and this nigga
Speaker 1: told a joke that what about Muslims needing a short
Speaker 1: set in the summertime, Like they ain't got no Muslim
Speaker 1: short sets. Like the laughter that I saw as a
Speaker 1: young as a little boy, that that gave them dudes
Speaker 1: made me attached myself to him as a comedian and
Speaker 1: as I've watched him for the years. Like one of
Speaker 1: my favorite stand up specials if if you've never seen it,
Speaker 1: you should watch an Earthquake about goddamn time. One of
Speaker 1: the funny but it's like it ain't mainstream, but like
Speaker 1: that special is one of the greatest constructive specials ever,
Speaker 1: just because of the way that that it's rapid. If
Speaker 1: you don't even get a chance to breathe when that
Speaker 1: nigga is telling them jokes, it's just it's NonStop.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: He got a joke where he was like, man and
Speaker 1: all you niggas he go from out of one Joe.
Speaker 1: All you niggas, it ain't circumcised. You niggas need to
Speaker 1: be just stop the bullshit. Dick looking like a blunt.
Speaker 1: He's like, nigga almost lit this nigga nuts on fire
Speaker 1: of it. I thought this nigga had a blunt. Let
Speaker 1: me hit that all my bad. This nigga ain't got
Speaker 1: no draws on like that type of shit. That perspective
Speaker 1: was like, Nigga, that's you know what I mean, so
Speaker 1: quake because of the way that I saw him impact
Speaker 1: the people around me. Martin, because of the way that
Speaker 1: I laughed at him as a young man and still
Speaker 1: laughed at him throughout my life. At the same ship
Speaker 1: that I had been watching the whole time, but noticing
Speaker 1: something different about it each time I watch it. That's
Speaker 1: how deep is within Martin Lawrence's comedy style. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's to the point where everybody, every black person, you
Speaker 1: done seen pretty much every episode of Martin. But if
Speaker 1: Martin on, you're gonna watch Martin still replay value because
Speaker 1: you see so many different things that as you developed.
Speaker 2: That's what yeah, all the way.
Speaker 3: Think it gives the ability to Yeah, and that's the
Speaker 3: thing that you learn in regards to like, my writing
Speaker 3: style is just different.
Speaker 1: I don't write it down, but I write it uphill,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's how I write it.
Speaker 1: But you absolutely write in regards to the way that
Speaker 1: you're able to layer different things within, like and being
Speaker 1: able to watch something a hundred times and be able
Speaker 1: to see.
Speaker 2: Something different or nervous. Yeah, all the way.
Speaker 1: Like so Martin because of just how in depth his
Speaker 1: comedy or how much of an impact he's had on
Speaker 1: me as an entertainer. Dave, because when I was at
Speaker 1: that age of adolescence, his comedy translated to me in
Speaker 1: a way where I never heard anybody put shit into
Speaker 1: perspective in the way that he had at that point.
Speaker 1: And Davis, Davis, I'm talking about something special.
Speaker 2: But like I remember, I watched.
Speaker 1: Killing Them Softly, which is his, uh, the first HBO
Speaker 1: special that he did. And in mind you, the thing
Speaker 1: that all the three of these dudes have in common
Speaker 1: is all of them are from my area. It's from DC,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, in DC, Maryland area. But
Speaker 1: he told a joke about d C when he first
Speaker 1: came on stage. He was like, yeah, I'm from DC.
Speaker 1: He was like, remember when DC was, you know, the
Speaker 1: city where it was dangerous. He said, white people wouldn't
Speaker 1: even come to DC. They was looking at DC from
Speaker 1: Virginia like Nope, not yet, not yet, too much going on.
Speaker 1: And it's that alone. I'm like, Oh, that's what locked
Speaker 1: me in because I didn't know. I had seen him
Speaker 1: in the movie Half Baked, but I didn't know that
Speaker 1: he did stand up comedy until I saw Killing Them
Speaker 1: Softly And that shit is still one of the most
Speaker 1: brilliantly written specials that you could ever watch. And then
Speaker 1: in becoming a super fan from that point and mind
Speaker 1: you just as a fan of comedy watching how he's
Speaker 1: developed in his writing style and the Chappelle Show. Like
Speaker 1: when you think about The Chappelle Show and that level
Speaker 1: of comedy that defined the generation like Martin did. Martin
Speaker 1: defined the generation. The Chapelle Show defined the generation. That's
Speaker 1: a generational show in regards to where you say something
Speaker 1: from it and everybody know where you got it from.
Speaker 2: It grew up in a certain era.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that grew up in a certain era, and because
Speaker 1: of that, it translates down because you naturally pass it down.
Speaker 1: So you know, those I would say are my Top
Speaker 1: three as far as personal impact on me, guys that
Speaker 1: that I've watched now removing the three that you know myself,
Speaker 1: loose and fly, I got a dude. Top three Ogs
Speaker 1: versus Top three Young niggas, The Ogs, d Ray.
Speaker 3: D Ray Davis Man, d Ray Is is just yeah,
Speaker 3: Ray is he one of the men. D Ray so long,
Speaker 3: Corey Holkom, Cory's funny and.
Speaker 1: Man, oh geez that I have seen Lavell Crawford that
Speaker 1: nah nigga was hurting listen, man, that nigga. Lovell Croft
Speaker 1: made me cry last man. There's still a bunch of
Speaker 1: my man during Big Baby Brand when I'm big h
Speaker 1: Larry Sass nigga. But Lavell Crawford, Man, Man, that nigga. Man,
Speaker 1: that nigga. It'll hurt you. Man, It'll hurt you watching
Speaker 1: that nigga.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 1: So I say, hit them three, the o gs and
Speaker 1: something my my top three to watch. And I'm just
Speaker 1: talking about personally for me to watch work young.
Speaker 2: Niggas man stand up wise, we're just talking.
Speaker 3: Standing yeah, not social media. I'm talking about it. Don't
Speaker 3: confuse social media. They been good at dragging the social
Speaker 3: media cloud to comedy. But I'm talking about when you,
Speaker 3: as a comic sit.
Speaker 2: In the back of that and just laughstraw strawing, Man,
Speaker 2: what's my man name?
Speaker 1: I gotta give him. I gotta give him some love
Speaker 1: in this moment. Man, I'm having a brain fop with
Speaker 1: his name right now, though, hold on, let me see
Speaker 1: I'm looking up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, come back to him. I find him.
Speaker 1: Another young and that's that's funny that I've seen do
Speaker 1: stand up h It's a young dude out of DC
Speaker 1: named Fat Marco. Now, Fat Marco is somebody I allowed
Speaker 1: to come do some time in my MGM show, and
Speaker 1: just seeing how naturally funny he was on stage and
Speaker 1: seeing it. He's young in it, but that natural ability
Speaker 1: and the ship that he was talking about on stage,
Speaker 1: he's somebody that's gonna be a monster when he keep
Speaker 1: working at it. I'm trying to think of dudes that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't know to give him that. Look who else
Speaker 1: stand up wise, money bag, money bag mafia? He down
Speaker 1: with her, yeah, but he down with with us. But
Speaker 1: like this nigga is one of the funniest nigga. He's
Speaker 1: real big on the social media's skits and all of
Speaker 1: that already. But on stage man, just the way his
Speaker 1: mind worked. The niggas incredible man with the with the
Speaker 1: words and how you put them together. So I say,
Speaker 1: bag is one of my favorite to watch. And and
Speaker 1: mind you, this is all me, excluding my personal personal folks.
Speaker 2: This is just me.
Speaker 1: I gotta find my man name, I gotta give it
Speaker 1: to him. And this nigga is so goddamn funny man.
Speaker 1: Oh let me go through.
Speaker 2: We go through it.
Speaker 1: See, I mean, I know, man, we'll be here forever's left.
Speaker 2: You ain't never even do no intro nigga. We just
Speaker 2: came into fuck. It ain't no need and you know
Speaker 2: what it is already.
Speaker 1: But yeah, rob Ward comedy man, rob Ward, if you
Speaker 1: look him up, Man, that nigga is hilargy and minds you.
Speaker 1: This is me, you know, giving it to motherfuckers.
Speaker 2: You don't know.
Speaker 1: You know, I respect everybody I got lover, you know
Speaker 1: all of the guys that's that's doing it, you know
Speaker 1: from you know everybody. Man, It's too many to name,
Speaker 1: but I respect everybody and show love to everybody. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying because you know this ship, I'm
Speaker 1: not defined by this like this is just what I do.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, if you a certain type
Speaker 1: of person, and you know what I mean, I respect
Speaker 1: your craft and I'm always show up and do whatever
Speaker 1: I can to support you. And if it's you know,
Speaker 1: some shit that I can do in my space, and
Speaker 1: we're gonna offer all of us do That's what the
Speaker 1: eighty five platform was about, us being able to create
Speaker 1: and open up opportunities in doors for other motherfuckers. And
Speaker 1: you know, like I Didne shared my stage with so
Speaker 1: many people. Salute to the og Slink Johnson. He just
Speaker 1: came through and did some shit. He just came through
Speaker 1: and just said what's up, just to say what's up
Speaker 1: and show love. I'm like, nigga, you hit the mind,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, my nigga, come performed, because why not? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You somebody I respect and fuck with,
Speaker 1: Like just you being able to be in front of
Speaker 1: these people that wouldn't see you or didn't haven't seen
Speaker 1: you, you know what I mean, Like you being able to
Speaker 1: be in that capacity gonna make them, you know, come
Speaker 1: fuck with you with your shit.
Speaker 2: The next time.
Speaker 1: And that's why I feel like I'm blessing the game
Speaker 1: because I didn't been received in that way from the Ogs,
Speaker 1: d Ray, Corey Duval, all of these people, man, I mean,
Speaker 1: the list goes on and Mike all At everybody, Kevin,
Speaker 1: all them niggas have embraced us, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: especially in ways that Corey is the first person. Corey
Speaker 1: Holkan was the first person to take me on the
Speaker 1: road and pay me for comedy. Want put me on
Speaker 1: a plane to tell jokes. It's Corey holkom flew me
Speaker 1: to Dallas to do the add as an improv where
Speaker 1: I got this weekend on my own. This coming weekend,
Speaker 1: I'm performing there five shows by myself though. But the
Speaker 1: first time I was there, I was hosting for him.
Speaker 1: And this was twenty thirteen after we filmed wild'n Out,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, the first person that did that.
Speaker 1: So me being blessed in the game that way, because
Speaker 1: you got a lot of these niggas that got hard
Speaker 1: stories when they come to the game and it make
Speaker 1: them jaded and bitter. I've been blessed not to have that.
Speaker 1: So I think that me being able to be that
Speaker 1: position allows me to be more open minded to the
Speaker 1: next generation, if you will, even though we the next generation,
Speaker 1: but the generation after us or the people that's been
Speaker 1: doing it longer than us. It ain't necessarily got that
Speaker 1: look or that shine.
Speaker 2: But you know them.
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna act like I don't know who
Speaker 1: you are because I'm me and I'm in this position.
Speaker 1: No nigga, I know exactly who you is. I fuck
Speaker 1: with you, nigga. What you're doing this is, that is.
Speaker 2: What it is.
Speaker 3: Young niggas that too, man, because it's important that they
Speaker 3: know because this game for so long been stone them out,
Speaker 3: stonma them out, act.
Speaker 2: Like you don't see them, and you don't see them.
Speaker 3: And that can that can literally make a person stop.
Speaker 3: If they do it long enough, you could be right
Speaker 3: on the brink of that ship and they just don't
Speaker 3: look pasting you. And that's why I'm trying to tell
Speaker 3: the youngsters following me, is like, don't expect no nigga to.
Speaker 2: Validate this, yeah, because it ain't gonna happen. To give me.
Speaker 2: Give me three white comics. You you think it's fire?
Speaker 2: Oh man?
Speaker 1: Uh right, Okay, I do a O G and a
Speaker 1: young list O G. Bill Burr, Carlin, George Colin.
Speaker 2: Man and it's a dude named Dale Quinn. If you
Speaker 2: never heard of Dale Quinn. Look up Dale Quinn.
Speaker 1: This motherfucker is hilarious, man, ye Dale Quinn.
Speaker 2: Man, he is he doing yeah clubs?
Speaker 1: He's not like a super known person, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, But I mean hilarious. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: hilarious all the way. And then you know, you know
Speaker 1: Bert Kaiji fuck with Bert. You know Bert is is
Speaker 1: you know, cool, always show love and it's hilarious.
Speaker 2: I think he's more though, even though he's funny.
Speaker 1: Anthony Jesselnick, like, oh man, you gotta look up this.
Speaker 1: It's that dark humor, but that ship is hilarious, like
Speaker 1: if you in up just you know, having an open
Speaker 1: mind to be able to see comedy.
Speaker 2: Anthony jessel Nick. Uh who else?
Speaker 1: And this is just you know more than three But
Speaker 1: the youngins, the young white comics that I know Matt
Speaker 1: Rife and you know he was on wild'n Out and
Speaker 1: you know all of that, man, but you.
Speaker 3: Know he's raw on stage, always has been. So Matt
Speaker 3: Rife is my guy.
Speaker 1: He's not really young, but shortz I like Sharks is my.
Speaker 3: Guy to me. He's been able to do it pretty
Speaker 3: fast as well.
Speaker 2: Has been in the game for a minute shots.
Speaker 3: But he's done it fast, right, not saying you ain't
Speaker 3: been around, see, because it's like the last couple of
Speaker 3: years just an celerated one. It's a lot of people
Speaker 3: that didn't Matt Rife hit that stride, you know, with
Speaker 3: the TikTok saluted my brother, Nate Jackson, Big Nate Jackson,
Speaker 3: Big Nate Jackson hit that stride, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But Jesus, dudes, that's been doing this ship for years.
Speaker 1: You never know when it's gonna be your your shot
Speaker 1: to go like you know what I mean, and they
Speaker 1: I'm talking about and out of there and when now
Speaker 1: you in front of them people, you never know when
Speaker 1: they when your number get called, You just got to
Speaker 1: be prepared for when it get called. You never know
Speaker 1: when the next level is gonna just say, but as
Speaker 1: long as you're in position when it comes, just don't
Speaker 1: blow your opportunity. But it happened for a lot of
Speaker 1: people like that, like Nate own the club, been doing
Speaker 1: a comedy for years, was on wilding out. All of
Speaker 1: that got on that TikTok stopped fessing that TikTok. That
Speaker 1: nigga sold out every show he got for the rest
Speaker 1: of the year and got another deal all the way
Speaker 1: through next year and shows had that Rogan effect too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all that that's the thing, like what this is gonna
Speaker 1: be for our comings?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: And eighty five years too, is like we gotta start
Speaker 3: talking more like this to each other. Yeah it ain't
Speaker 3: like you a funny motherfucker. We ain't been funny out there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it ain't yet, because we're having amazing game. And
Speaker 1: it's necessary, you see what I'm saying. Necessary.
Speaker 2: I need people to know that our black comedians.
Speaker 3: They they got they think on a high level, is
Speaker 3: high level thinking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's high level.
Speaker 3: I need people to know that thought, mother, because they
Speaker 3: don't know that. They see y'all is funny, goofy man, they.
Speaker 2: Don't see the other side of it to do that right.
Speaker 2: And then you get the.
Speaker 1: Perception that people put out on social media for views,
Speaker 1: and it kind of can jage you a little bit.
Speaker 1: And the regard too because some of the things that
Speaker 1: you know, these guys that are real deep thinking subject
Speaker 1: themselves to for views.
Speaker 2: You know, it's very compromising.
Speaker 1: So if we can find platforms for them to be
Speaker 1: able to establish themselves within that, it helps you right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, that's what we're all doing.
Speaker 3: So I know my people are gonna be like, man, Chico,
Speaker 3: I know he kicked that ship like and I know
Speaker 3: he swift, but Nigga, it's a side of Chico that
Speaker 3: like what Nigga, They went from relationships, tickets, so much different.
Speaker 2: Shit that could be in here another four hours.
Speaker 1: Because I ain't even got into none of the ship
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask buys out none of the ship
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you. I had a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of questions I thought I was gonna ask you. We
Speaker 1: ain't get to none of that. But that's just that
Speaker 1: genuine in its genuine interaction.
Speaker 2: Man. But I gotta do eighty five again. We gotta
Speaker 2: set that up.
Speaker 1: With everybody there, yeah, all the way, and then I
Speaker 1: gotta come back and we gotta come do it to
Speaker 1: do this with you together. And I gotta come back
Speaker 1: and do this again when we get all of the
Speaker 1: questions down, because listen, man, this was one of the ones.
Speaker 1: And I knew I was excited because just as a
Speaker 1: fan of and I, you know, I con ansume a
Speaker 1: lot of media and you know, I'm I'm real, you know,
Speaker 1: strategic and methodical about what I let leave lasting impressions
Speaker 1: on my mental you know what I mean. But listening
Speaker 1: to you, that was never any filter that I had
Speaker 1: to put in place. It was like with this nigga
Speaker 1: talking about whether I agree or disagree?
Speaker 2: What are you talking about? You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: So I knew coming to have Like when you hit me,
Speaker 1: I'm like, of course, nigga, I been wanting to sit
Speaker 1: down and talk to you, just to be able to
Speaker 1: see where you take my mind and where we able
Speaker 1: to you know what I mean, to be able to
Speaker 1: bounce and take each other right.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's like it's beautiful and that's something that you only see.
Speaker 2: You don't usually see that. You don't see that direct
Speaker 2: like you do it.
Speaker 1: You know, you see that with Rogan, but you don't
Speaker 1: get to see this one on one, that type of
Speaker 1: you know, direct conversation where it's just it's not interrupted
Speaker 1: by it and not that anything is wrong with it.
Speaker 1: But this right here gives a different vantage point. And
Speaker 1: that's why I was excited to come because I knew
Speaker 1: your vantage point would give me one, you one, and
Speaker 1: most importantly them folks is going to tune in and
Speaker 1: watch it. It's gonna give them a totally different vantage point.
Speaker 2: And we're gonna set that up man. So we'll set
Speaker 2: that up. Man. We're gonna keep it coming. But Bro,
Speaker 2: appreciate you. Man, Thank you. Man. I can't wait till
Speaker 2: we do it again.
Speaker 1: All the way man, it's to you, man, all the
Speaker 1: way from you. Oh I got you. You ain't did
Speaker 1: nothing like that, man, not of the So what you
Speaker 1: want me to say