Speaker 1: All right, welcome to your brand new Second Date Update
Speaker 1: and Happy Monday. It's up and Jeffrey, you found the
Speaker 1: Second Date podcast, and I will just say we were
Speaker 1: shocked to hear a musician be turned down, but it happened.
Speaker 1: It happened, and he called us for help. You're gonna
Speaker 1: hear the whole thing in just a second, but let's
Speaker 1: do some comments.
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Speaker 1: the Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Who is the worst person that could
Speaker 3: randomly show up and surprise you on your date? Your dad?
Speaker 1: I love it if he ever really loves my dad too. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because my day would be.
Speaker 3: Like who Let's go hang on with whom, yeah, happens
Speaker 3: a lot. Maybe your grandma because she made you a
Speaker 3: ham sandwich so you'd have enough energy to last the
Speaker 3: entire night.
Speaker 1: Okay, are so cute?
Speaker 3: Is really old? I don't think she knows which grandchild
Speaker 3: I am anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Charlie.
Speaker 3: Apparently it got a little awkward for our listener Jack,
Speaker 3: because he says somebody from his past kind of crashed
Speaker 3: his date the other night. And Jack, I've not read
Speaker 3: your email yet, so I'm just gonna assume it was
Speaker 3: your third grade teacher who gave you a C in handwriting.
Speaker 3: Miss mccrowsky.
Speaker 4: No, it's even worse than that. Wow, Yeah, my ex
Speaker 4: showed up to Wait.
Speaker 1: Is it one of those drama things where it's an
Speaker 1: ex who's been following you around and can't get over
Speaker 1: you and then just causes all sorts of business. Is
Speaker 1: that it?
Speaker 4: Well, it hasn't really been before, but it is starting
Speaker 4: to kind of feel that way after that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it.
Speaker 3: Was natural, like it just happened kind of thing. I
Speaker 3: guess we have to hear the story, tell us how
Speaker 3: it went.
Speaker 4: So I'm a I'm a musician. I played drums in
Speaker 4: the band.
Speaker 3: Is that have anything to do with the story or
Speaker 3: is that just a flex you wanted to tell us
Speaker 3: out there?
Speaker 1: I mean it's a good flex.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, what's the setup? Okay, Okay, it has to
Speaker 3: do with the story. Okay.
Speaker 1: So where did you meet the girl that you were
Speaker 1: going to go out with? Not your ex?
Speaker 4: So we've actually been talking through Instagram and I've been
Speaker 4: chatting with her and seemed like things were starting to
Speaker 4: feel like there was some chemistry there. So I invited
Speaker 4: her to the show so she can come watch me play.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love having a comedy show because girls, it's like,
Speaker 3: can I come?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: I think it's not sold out? Yeah, that's why I
Speaker 3: invited miss mccrofsky to my concert. Beside, yeah, so that
Speaker 3: she boosts up that hanwriting grade.
Speaker 1: But you're great handwriting.
Speaker 3: It worked. You're flexing on the wrong women, I know. Sorry, Jack,
Speaker 3: tell us how it went with you and your concert.
Speaker 4: Well, so before the show started, I was chatting with
Speaker 4: this girl. Her name is Andrea. We were having a
Speaker 4: good time, and right before the gig starts and I'm
Speaker 4: about to go up on stage, my ex walks in.
Speaker 1: This makes more sense though, because it's like a public
Speaker 1: venue you're obviously going to be playing. I thought she
Speaker 1: was going to be like crashing your dinner day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like she.
Speaker 3: Didn't know you were going to be there. She knows
Speaker 3: you're in a band. Yeah, she's doing this on purpose.
Speaker 3: Your band's probably like advertising it on social media, so
Speaker 3: it's everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how long ago did you guys break up?
Speaker 4: Well, it's been like a year or so, so it's
Speaker 4: like new and old.
Speaker 1: So you're shocked to see her then.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've like seen her around, but I hadn't really
Speaker 4: like seen her face to face or anything. And the
Speaker 4: biggest problem was she was where in the jersey that
Speaker 4: she stole from me when we broke up.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, this girl's friends need to get her other plans. Yeah,
Speaker 2: what is she doing?
Speaker 3: Well, clearly I think she knows exactly that she's trying
Speaker 3: to do her at least, and yeah, clearly he's she's
Speaker 3: getting into your head. Dude.
Speaker 1: Wait, we're not doing this second date because we're calling
Speaker 1: your ex?
Speaker 3: Are we?
Speaker 4: Oh no? No?
Speaker 3: Okay, because I was about to feel really bad about
Speaker 3: talking so much trash. Yeah that's what I'm saying. Okay.
Speaker 4: Well, so at the end of the day, like we
Speaker 4: got to hang out after the said, me and the
Speaker 4: girl I've been talking with while I'm trying to talk
Speaker 4: to you guys about.
Speaker 1: Andrea Andrea that you met on Instagram.
Speaker 3: Thought it was Andrea? Did it wrong? It was and
Speaker 3: I remembered it?
Speaker 4: No Andrea, All right.
Speaker 1: Oh so that is wrong. He's a drummer, so he's
Speaker 1: going a little bit.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: There's three beats to it.
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, so you did get someone on one
Speaker 1: time with her?
Speaker 4: Yeah, before the show we were chatting a little bit,
Speaker 4: but then afterwards we were going to have our meet
Speaker 4: and greet where, you know, we just have some fans
Speaker 4: come around. I spent about fifteen minutes. It took way
Speaker 4: longer than I'm meant for it to and she ended
Speaker 4: up telling me she needed a bounce.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have fun on a date like that.
Speaker 3: No, it's not fun. I have my experience. The girls
Speaker 3: do not like to wait around for you.
Speaker 1: But it's not only that you start to feel lame,
Speaker 1: Like you start to feel like, what am I doing?
Speaker 1: Why am I by myself while this guy is talking
Speaker 1: to everybody else. I feel really pathetic right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I mean it just continues to get worse.
Speaker 4: During the meet and greet, I had to introduce my
Speaker 4: ex to Andrea what they were.
Speaker 1: Together, Like, wait, did you introduce her as your ex?
Speaker 4: Well, no, but it just sort of came up because
Speaker 4: they were talking, and it just became a thing where
Speaker 4: I was trying to pull her away and my ex
Speaker 4: was sort of being a toxic you know, sort of seeing.
Speaker 1: That I bet your ex just ruined your chances. I
Speaker 1: mean told her something about you that true or not.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't see them talking a lot,
Speaker 4: but when I did see them talking, I just try
Speaker 4: to rush over and pull her away, and.
Speaker 5: Before you know it, it's like, oh, do you guys
Speaker 5: know each other?
Speaker 4: And I'm not trying to lie on the.
Speaker 3: First day, but at no point after the show, you
Speaker 3: were never able to get alone time with Andrea and
Speaker 3: just connect with her.
Speaker 1: Andrea not more than.
Speaker 4: That for her, because she was like I just got
Speaker 4: to go and she just bounced. And then on top
Speaker 4: of that all like just to cherry on top, then
Speaker 4: my ex comes back over and offers to give me
Speaker 4: my jersey back, and it's bragging about how that's all she's.
Speaker 3: Whare Oh wow, I'm really trying to get back she's
Speaker 3: just trying to mess with you.
Speaker 1: Do we have to ask did you take the jersey back?
Speaker 1: Did you hook up with her that night?
Speaker 4: I did not know.
Speaker 3: Night.
Speaker 4: No, that's good.
Speaker 3: Well, let's make this phone call and we'll reassure Andaria
Speaker 3: that she is one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: How do you say it different every single time?
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, what he said, Andrea almost called her diarrhea. Whatever,
Speaker 3: We'll call this lady, and we'll try and get you
Speaker 3: your second date update right after this second date update.
Speaker 3: You're just joining us, our listener. Jack was on a
Speaker 3: first date that just kept going from bad to worse
Speaker 3: to Florida Bad is a good get? First, his ex
Speaker 3: girlfriend randomly shows up to the concert where his band
Speaker 3: was performing. She was wearing his jersey, which she stole
Speaker 3: after their breakup, and ended up speaking to his date.
Speaker 3: And who knows what she said to her during that interaction.
Speaker 1: I know it was a short interaction, but I bet
Speaker 1: she got some damage.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you know yea. Because it's definitely not
Speaker 3: a good sign that Andrea decided to duck out early
Speaker 3: for the night.
Speaker 1: I am so glad you practiced her name eighty times
Speaker 1: before we win it.
Speaker 3: I wrote it out phonetically.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so make sure I got it right. But Jack,
Speaker 3: you just want to redo, like a start over on
Speaker 3: your date, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and not at a concert. We're gonna go get
Speaker 4: drinks or do something a little bit more normal.
Speaker 1: Ye.
Speaker 3: Yes, at the bar where your ex bar tend shop
Speaker 3: where she works.
Speaker 1: Definitely start bartending that night.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean that's what sucks is you were trying to
Speaker 1: kind of not show off, but like show her something
Speaker 1: you're really interested in, and then it totally backfired. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just felt like a Murphy's Law night. Everything
Speaker 4: went wrong too.
Speaker 3: Well. Everybody hits rock bottom at some point, and for
Speaker 3: a lot of people, that's when you're on this show.
Speaker 3: So only places up from here. Let's give Andrea call
Speaker 3: and see if she picks up you ready.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's give it a go out.
Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hi is this Andrea?
Speaker 4: Yeah sheep.
Speaker 3: Hey, you're on the radio right now with a show
Speaker 3: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hello.
Speaker 1: Why why I like it? Are you right to the point?
Speaker 3: You sound a little scared, but you don't have to
Speaker 3: be because this is a segment. It's like a friendly thing.
Speaker 3: We do call the second date update, and we're trying
Speaker 3: to help one of our listeners get back in touch
Speaker 3: with you after you went out the other night.
Speaker 5: Okay, but if I'm not answering, why would I want
Speaker 5: to talk to them now?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you may not want to. I think it's
Speaker 1: more that we're trying to figure it out why.
Speaker 3: Because the guy is really confused after your hangout. His
Speaker 3: name's Jack. You went to his concert, well, and I
Speaker 3: guess confused. Confused doesn't necessarily the right word. I think
Speaker 3: he knows the night didn't go perfectly.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, no, it was super awkward.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'd love to hear. I mean, your side of.
Speaker 5: It, right, I mean, I don't really know why I
Speaker 5: tell you that.
Speaker 4: This just seems valid.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, here's what we know from Jack. He says
Speaker 3: that you were supposed to go to his concert. His
Speaker 3: ex girlfriend randomly showed up uninvited and basically caused a scene.
Speaker 1: Not a scene, I mean, she introduced herself and.
Speaker 3: That's a scene for a guy.
Speaker 1: I mean, it was definitely a stressful moment for him
Speaker 1: and like super regrettable. He wishes that he would have
Speaker 1: done something totally different for your first date.
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know it was I was really
Speaker 5: excited to see his band and see him play, and
Speaker 5: it just seemed like it got more awkward as the
Speaker 5: night went on. Like, I don't know he he just
Speaker 5: seemed really sketched out by the whole thing, but also
Speaker 5: kind of still polite to her. It was very strange polite.
Speaker 1: I mean, wouldn't he have to be polite? What do
Speaker 1: you want him to be?
Speaker 2: You don't want to see a man yelling at his ex.
Speaker 3: Respectful women, And I mean he is working at the
Speaker 3: same time too, Like he has to put on a
Speaker 3: good face to do the show. He's a rock star.
Speaker 3: I don't know how polite. It's like he could spit
Speaker 3: on someone and they'd be like, thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Oh he was flirting?
Speaker 3: What flirting?
Speaker 1: Wait, flirting with you his ex?
Speaker 5: Yes, Like he introduced me to her and like it
Speaker 5: seemed like their vibe was still very flirty.
Speaker 3: Really, are you sure?
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I don't think that you were overreacting,
Speaker 1: But is there any way maybe you were being a
Speaker 1: little sensitive just because of the situation, which you would
Speaker 1: be understandable.
Speaker 5: I mean maybe, but I don't think so. Like she
Speaker 5: cornered me in the bathroom and she's like talking about
Speaker 5: how he's still in love with her. He's wearing his
Speaker 5: jersey and talking about how he gave this to her
Speaker 5: at the end of the relationship and then still open
Speaker 5: a door. I don't know, Like I didn't really know
Speaker 5: how to respond to her, as.
Speaker 1: I could totally see why you wouldn't want to see
Speaker 1: him again because of the drama she started, but she
Speaker 1: sounds unhinged, like that is definitely not not it.
Speaker 5: I mean I was actually thinking that, like maybe she's
Speaker 5: the wacko. You know, she's got this ulterior motive that
Speaker 5: wants to get back with him. But this is the
Speaker 5: worst part in this whole thing, and really what makes
Speaker 5: me not want to go out with him at all.
Speaker 5: What she was telling me about his nickname for her
Speaker 5: and how she can't wait to be his cockatoo or
Speaker 5: I don't know, some songbird and he was calling me
Speaker 5: that during our Instagram like, no.
Speaker 1: It's like his babe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also just weird to give you a name
Speaker 2: before even meeting you.
Speaker 5: I mean, I thought it was cute because it's a
Speaker 5: songbird and he totally played it off, but he obviously
Speaker 5: does that with multiple women.
Speaker 1: I mean, but that doesn't mean that he's a bad guy.
Speaker 1: It just means that he's uncreer.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but before this gets any more awkward, I should
Speaker 3: just tell you this, Andrea, that Jack is listening on
Speaker 3: the other line waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 5: You're joking, right, like he's not really on the phone.
Speaker 3: No, No, that's kind of how this whole thing works. Jack.
Speaker 3: Are you are you there?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Hey, hi, Andrea?
Speaker 5: Oh why would you embarrass me twice? Like that night
Speaker 5: was awkward? And now I'm on the radio talking to
Speaker 5: strangers about you, like this is weird.
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I wanted to apologize for the
Speaker 4: way that night went, but you wouldn't even answer my
Speaker 4: calls to let me do that. So obviously my mad Sorry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the start with the apology Jack, instead.
Speaker 4: Of well that's not obviously. She just showed up, right,
Speaker 4: and she's telling you things that aren't true.
Speaker 5: And yeah, but she didn't lie about the nickname. You
Speaker 5: called me that from like our third day of talking
Speaker 5: and made it seem like it was so special to me.
Speaker 5: That's like major ick man.
Speaker 4: I mean, but out of all of the cockatiles out there,
Speaker 4: you are my favorite one.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's gotta feel good.
Speaker 5: I'm not buying it.
Speaker 1: Sweet, Are you buying that he isn't interested in his exo?
Speaker 1: Does it that part? Do you buy?
Speaker 5: I mean, I totally believe she was a psycho because
Speaker 5: she was giving me crazy eyes. Honestly, but psychos attracts
Speaker 5: psycho so it just doesn't give me a good vibe.
Speaker 4: But look, I was listening when she told you that
Speaker 4: I gave her that jersey. She stole it from me
Speaker 4: when she broke up with me. I mean, I'm trying
Speaker 4: to be polite with her because she's crazy. She's gonna
Speaker 4: key my car and light it on fire if.
Speaker 5: I'm going to keep my car or light it on fire,
Speaker 5: I don't want to deal with that. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: Together, some people could see it as like Jack is
Speaker 3: such a great boyfriend that it drove her to madness.
Speaker 3: With how strong and wonderful the relationship is, she's unwilling
Speaker 3: to lose it.
Speaker 1: Okay, But honestly, though, like there's psychos don't always attract psychos.
Speaker 1: Like there's people that want to see the best in
Speaker 1: others and they run past the red flags. I mean,
Speaker 1: we've all been in relationships with somebody that was some
Speaker 1: level of crazy.
Speaker 3: Right. We're definitely not just talking about ourselves here, right, No,
Speaker 3: I'm just.
Speaker 1: Saying like he can't be labeled psycho just because he
Speaker 1: had a psycho X. That's all I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 1: think that's fair.
Speaker 4: Well, thank you.
Speaker 5: Well he has bad judgment then, because why would he
Speaker 5: go out with her? I think he dated like a
Speaker 5: year with this girl.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a rock star. He doesn't have time to
Speaker 3: make great romantic decisions.
Speaker 1: You know, the good psychos aren't psycho at first.
Speaker 3: It's slowly yes, yeah, it's a slow bird psychosis.
Speaker 5: I don't I don't want to go out with him.
Speaker 3: You didn't even give me a chance to offer a
Speaker 3: free date on us.
Speaker 5: But well that should tell you that I don't really
Speaker 5: want to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're here, I think too, Jack.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like that's my out. Guys, maybe you
Speaker 4: can make like.
Speaker 1: A sad rock drum song out of it, you know,
Speaker 1: use it as fire for your next game.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need a thirty second solo.
Speaker 1: And maybe alert security about your girlfriend.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it sounds like she's still into it.
Speaker 3: You always have another option, I.
Speaker 4: Mean, at this point, if she just keeps showing up.
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll just take her back. Who knows.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the sign. If you love a bird, you
Speaker 3: have to let the cockatile fly free and if it
Speaker 3: comes back to you, that's the sign.
Speaker 1: And cockati is a terrible pet name. Think of something else.
Speaker 3: I kind of agree. You got to work shop that one, Jack.
Speaker 4: I mean, guys, I've got two cockatiles in my life
Speaker 4: and one's just flown away, and I don't even know
Speaker 4: if I want to keep the other one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're in a cockatil mess.
Speaker 3: Two cockatiles in the hand is worth one in the bush.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes you're the statue, sometimes the birds sitting.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: You're a rock star. You don't have to kind of problems.
Speaker 4: All right, guys, I'm just gonna get back out there.
Speaker 3: There right to meet girls for show. Looking Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the morning. Man, When are we gonna get people on
Speaker 3: this show that say, you know what, I like the drama?
Speaker 4: I need more.
Speaker 3: Chaos and excitement in my life. Bring the X back
Speaker 3: for our second date.
Speaker 1: Let's get three x's in here.
Speaker 3: Where are those people? Because everybody these days is so
Speaker 3: drama avoidant. It just it really messes with our content
Speaker 3: for the show.
Speaker 1: Like stability. Who wants that?
Speaker 3: You know? This is literally why reality TV dating shows thrive. Yes,
Speaker 3: we got a rock star and then ten random women,
Speaker 3: one of them is X.
Speaker 1: How you noticed on those it's all the same people
Speaker 1: too though, it.
Speaker 3: Really I mean, look, I'm excited for all like the
Speaker 3: happy stable people out there, but we need drama heavy
Speaker 3: content to post on our podcast.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, maybe he really will get back with his
Speaker 1: AX and then there'll be an awkward Tuesday phone call
Speaker 1: about maybe the Jersey like that. I mean, there's still
Speaker 1: potential with this guy, That's right.
Speaker 3: We can dream. Hopefully he'll be back to be on
Speaker 3: our podcast, which is available online wherever you get yours
Speaker 3: at Brooke and Jeffrey