WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ex Marks The Shot

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<v Speaker 1>All right, welcome to your brand new Second Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>and Happy Monday. It's up and Jeffrey, you found the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date podcast, and I will just say we were

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<v Speaker 1>shocked to hear a musician be turned down, but it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened, and he called us for help. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hear the whole thing in just a second, but let's

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<v Speaker 1>do some comments.

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis, Oh yeah, I saw one from Blue Jean Auvey,

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<v Speaker 2>who said, Hey, guys, hate to break it to you,

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<v Speaker 2>but I've been listening to y'all well before I went

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<v Speaker 2>to my very first day of preschool, and this year

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be old enough to dream. Love y'all, Love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Show y'all basically raised me. So I guess I'll bill

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<v Speaker 2>you for the therapy that is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Your soul, I mean, and also I apologize for your

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<v Speaker 1>really terrible childhood that we provided you. Let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update. Who is the worst person that could

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<v Speaker 3>randomly show up and surprise you on your date? Your dad?

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<v Speaker 1>I love it if he ever really loves my dad too. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because my day would be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like who Let's go hang on with whom, yeah, happens

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<v Speaker 3>a lot. Maybe your grandma because she made you a

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<v Speaker 3>ham sandwich so you'd have enough energy to last the

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<v Speaker 3>entire night.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are so cute?

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<v Speaker 3>Is really old? I don't think she knows which grandchild

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<v Speaker 3>I am anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Charlie.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently it got a little awkward for our listener Jack,

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<v Speaker 3>because he says somebody from his past kind of crashed

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<v Speaker 3>his date the other night. And Jack, I've not read

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<v Speaker 3>your email yet, so I'm just gonna assume it was

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<v Speaker 3>your third grade teacher who gave you a C in handwriting.

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<v Speaker 3>Miss mccrowsky.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's even worse than that. Wow, Yeah, my ex

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<v Speaker 4>showed up to Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it one of those drama things where it's an

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<v Speaker 1>ex who's been following you around and can't get over

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<v Speaker 1>you and then just causes all sorts of business. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it hasn't really been before, but it is starting

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<v Speaker 4>to kind of feel that way after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was natural, like it just happened kind of thing. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess we have to hear the story, tell us how

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<v Speaker 3>it went.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm a I'm a musician. I played drums in

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<v Speaker 4>the band.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that have anything to do with the story or

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<v Speaker 3>is that just a flex you wanted to tell us

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<v Speaker 3>out there?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a good flex.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay, what's the setup? Okay, Okay, it has to

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<v Speaker 3>do with the story. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So where did you meet the girl that you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to go out with? Not your ex?

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<v Speaker 4>So we've actually been talking through Instagram and I've been

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<v Speaker 4>chatting with her and seemed like things were starting to

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<v Speaker 4>feel like there was some chemistry there. So I invited

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<v Speaker 4>her to the show so she can come watch me play.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I love having a comedy show because girls, it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>can I come?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's not sold out? Yeah, that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>invited miss mccrofsky to my concert. Beside, yeah, so that

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<v Speaker 3>she boosts up that hanwriting grade.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're great handwriting.

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<v Speaker 3>It worked. You're flexing on the wrong women, I know. Sorry, Jack,

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<v Speaker 3>tell us how it went with you and your concert.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so before the show started, I was chatting with

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<v Speaker 4>this girl. Her name is Andrea. We were having a

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<v Speaker 4>good time, and right before the gig starts and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>about to go up on stage, my ex walks in.

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<v Speaker 1>This makes more sense though, because it's like a public

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<v Speaker 1>venue you're obviously going to be playing. I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be like crashing your dinner day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like she.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't know you were going to be there. She knows

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<v Speaker 3>you're in a band. Yeah, she's doing this on purpose.

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<v Speaker 3>Your band's probably like advertising it on social media, so

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<v Speaker 3>it's everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how long ago did you guys break up?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's been like a year or so, so it's

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<v Speaker 4>like new and old.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're shocked to see her then.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've like seen her around, but I hadn't really

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<v Speaker 4>like seen her face to face or anything. And the

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<v Speaker 4>biggest problem was she was where in the jersey that

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<v Speaker 4>she stole from me when we broke up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, this girl's friends need to get her other plans. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what is she doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, clearly I think she knows exactly that she's trying

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<v Speaker 3>to do her at least, and yeah, clearly he's she's

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<v Speaker 3>getting into your head. Dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, we're not doing this second date because we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>your ex?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because I was about to feel really bad about

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<v Speaker 3>talking so much trash. Yeah that's what I'm saying. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so at the end of the day, like we

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<v Speaker 4>got to hang out after the said, me and the

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<v Speaker 4>girl I've been talking with while I'm trying to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to you guys about.

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<v Speaker 1>Andrea Andrea that you met on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought it was Andrea? Did it wrong? It was and

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<v Speaker 3>I remembered it?

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<v Speaker 4>No Andrea, All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so that is wrong. He's a drummer, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>going a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>There's three beats to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, okay, so you did get someone on one

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<v Speaker 1>time with her?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, before the show we were chatting a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>but then afterwards we were going to have our meet

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<v Speaker 4>and greet where, you know, we just have some fans

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<v Speaker 4>come around. I spent about fifteen minutes. It took way

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<v Speaker 4>longer than I'm meant for it to and she ended

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<v Speaker 4>up telling me she needed a bounce.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have fun on a date like that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not fun. I have my experience. The girls

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<v Speaker 3>do not like to wait around for you.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not only that you start to feel lame,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you start to feel like, what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I by myself while this guy is talking

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody else. I feel really pathetic right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I mean it just continues to get worse.

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<v Speaker 4>During the meet and greet, I had to introduce my

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<v Speaker 4>ex to Andrea what they were.

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<v Speaker 1>Together, Like, wait, did you introduce her as your ex?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, no, but it just sort of came up because

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<v Speaker 4>they were talking, and it just became a thing where

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to pull her away and my ex

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<v Speaker 4>was sort of being a toxic you know, sort of seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>That I bet your ex just ruined your chances. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean told her something about you that true or not.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't see them talking a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>but when I did see them talking, I just try

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<v Speaker 4>to rush over and pull her away, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Before you know it, it's like, oh, do you guys

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<v Speaker 5>know each other?

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm not trying to lie on the.

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<v Speaker 3>First day, but at no point after the show, you

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<v Speaker 3>were never able to get alone time with Andrea and

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<v Speaker 3>just connect with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Andrea not more than.

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<v Speaker 4>That for her, because she was like I just got

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<v Speaker 4>to go and she just bounced. And then on top

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<v Speaker 4>of that all like just to cherry on top, then

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<v Speaker 4>my ex comes back over and offers to give me

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<v Speaker 4>my jersey back, and it's bragging about how that's all she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Whare Oh wow, I'm really trying to get back she's

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to mess with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we have to ask did you take the jersey back?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hook up with her that night?

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<v Speaker 4>I did not know.

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<v Speaker 3>Night.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let's make this phone call and we'll reassure Andaria

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<v Speaker 3>that she is one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you say it different every single time?

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm saying, what he said, Andrea almost called her diarrhea. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>We'll call this lady, and we'll try and get you

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<v Speaker 3>your second date update right after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just joining us, our listener. Jack was on a

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<v Speaker 3>first date that just kept going from bad to worse

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<v Speaker 3>to Florida Bad is a good get? First, his ex

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend randomly shows up to the concert where his band

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<v Speaker 3>was performing. She was wearing his jersey, which she stole

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<v Speaker 3>after their breakup, and ended up speaking to his date.

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<v Speaker 3>And who knows what she said to her during that interaction.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it was a short interaction, but I bet

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<v Speaker 1>she got some damage.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, you know yea. Because it's definitely not

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<v Speaker 3>a good sign that Andrea decided to duck out early

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<v Speaker 3>for the night.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so glad you practiced her name eighty times

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<v Speaker 1>before we win it.

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<v Speaker 3>I wrote it out phonetically.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so make sure I got it right. But Jack,

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<v Speaker 3>you just want to redo, like a start over on

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<v Speaker 3>your date, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and not at a concert. We're gonna go get

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<v Speaker 4>drinks or do something a little bit more normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, at the bar where your ex bar tend shop

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<v Speaker 3>where she works.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely start bartending that night.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's what sucks is you were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of not show off, but like show her something

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<v Speaker 1>you're really interested in, and then it totally backfired. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just felt like a Murphy's Law night. Everything

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<v Speaker 4>went wrong too.

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<v Speaker 3>Well. Everybody hits rock bottom at some point, and for

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people, that's when you're on this show.

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<v Speaker 3>So only places up from here. Let's give Andrea call

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<v Speaker 3>and see if she picks up you ready.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's give it a go out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hello, Hi is this Andrea?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah sheep.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, you're on the radio right now with a show

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<v Speaker 3>called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why I like it? Are you right to the point?

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<v Speaker 3>You sound a little scared, but you don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>be because this is a segment. It's like a friendly thing.

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<v Speaker 3>We do call the second date update, and we're trying

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<v Speaker 3>to help one of our listeners get back in touch

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<v Speaker 3>with you after you went out the other night.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but if I'm not answering, why would I want

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to them now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you may not want to. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>more that we're trying to figure it out why.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the guy is really confused after your hangout. His

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<v Speaker 3>name's Jack. You went to his concert, well, and I

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<v Speaker 3>guess confused. Confused doesn't necessarily the right word. I think

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<v Speaker 3>he knows the night didn't go perfectly.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, no, it was super awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'd love to hear. I mean, your side of.

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<v Speaker 5>It, right, I mean, I don't really know why I

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<v Speaker 5>tell you that.

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<v Speaker 4>This just seems valid.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, here's what we know from Jack. He says

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<v Speaker 3>that you were supposed to go to his concert. His

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<v Speaker 3>ex girlfriend randomly showed up uninvited and basically caused a scene.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a scene, I mean, she introduced herself and.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a scene for a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was definitely a stressful moment for him

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<v Speaker 1>and like super regrettable. He wishes that he would have

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<v Speaker 1>done something totally different for your first date.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know it was I was really

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<v Speaker 5>excited to see his band and see him play, and

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<v Speaker 5>it just seemed like it got more awkward as the

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<v Speaker 5>night went on. Like, I don't know he he just

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<v Speaker 5>seemed really sketched out by the whole thing, but also

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<v Speaker 5>kind of still polite to her. It was very strange polite.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, wouldn't he have to be polite? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you want him to be?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to see a man yelling at his ex.

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<v Speaker 3>Respectful women, And I mean he is working at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time too, Like he has to put on a

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<v Speaker 3>good face to do the show. He's a rock star.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how polite. It's like he could spit

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<v Speaker 3>on someone and they'd be like, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh he was flirting?

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<v Speaker 3>What flirting?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, flirting with you his ex?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Like he introduced me to her and like it

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<v Speaker 5>seemed like their vibe was still very flirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, I don't think that you were overreacting,

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<v Speaker 1>But is there any way maybe you were being a

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<v Speaker 1>little sensitive just because of the situation, which you would

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<v Speaker 1>be understandable.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean maybe, but I don't think so. Like she

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<v Speaker 5>cornered me in the bathroom and she's like talking about

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<v Speaker 5>how he's still in love with her. He's wearing his

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<v Speaker 5>jersey and talking about how he gave this to her

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<v Speaker 5>at the end of the relationship and then still open

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<v Speaker 5>a door. I don't know, Like I didn't really know

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<v Speaker 5>how to respond to her, as.

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<v Speaker 1>I could totally see why you wouldn't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again because of the drama she started, but she

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<v Speaker 1>sounds unhinged, like that is definitely not not it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I was actually thinking that, like maybe she's

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<v Speaker 5>the wacko. You know, she's got this ulterior motive that

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<v Speaker 5>wants to get back with him. But this is the

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<v Speaker 5>worst part in this whole thing, and really what makes

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<v Speaker 5>me not want to go out with him at all.

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<v Speaker 5>What she was telling me about his nickname for her

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<v Speaker 5>and how she can't wait to be his cockatoo or

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, some songbird and he was calling me

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<v Speaker 5>that during our Instagram like, no.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like his babe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's also just weird to give you a name

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<v Speaker 2>before even meeting you.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I thought it was cute because it's a

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<v Speaker 5>songbird and he totally played it off, but he obviously

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<v Speaker 5>does that with multiple women.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but that doesn't mean that he's a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It just means that he's uncreer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but before this gets any more awkward, I should

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<v Speaker 3>just tell you this, Andrea, that Jack is listening on

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<v Speaker 3>the other line waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You're joking, right, like he's not really on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, that's kind of how this whole thing works. Jack.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Hey, hi, Andrea?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh why would you embarrass me twice? Like that night

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<v Speaker 5>was awkward? And now I'm on the radio talking to

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<v Speaker 5>strangers about you, like this is weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first of all, I wanted to apologize for the

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<v Speaker 4>way that night went, but you wouldn't even answer my

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<v Speaker 4>calls to let me do that. So obviously my mad Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think the start with the apology Jack, instead.

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<v Speaker 4>Of well that's not obviously. She just showed up, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's telling you things that aren't true.

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, but she didn't lie about the nickname. You

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<v Speaker 5>called me that from like our third day of talking

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<v Speaker 5>and made it seem like it was so special to me.

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<v Speaker 5>That's like major ick man.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, but out of all of the cockatiles out there,

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<v Speaker 4>you are my favorite one.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's gotta feel good.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not buying it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet, Are you buying that he isn't interested in his exo?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it that part? Do you buy?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I totally believe she was a psycho because

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<v Speaker 5>she was giving me crazy eyes. Honestly, but psychos attracts

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<v Speaker 5>psycho so it just doesn't give me a good vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>But look, I was listening when she told you that

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<v Speaker 4>I gave her that jersey. She stole it from me

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<v Speaker 4>when she broke up with me. I mean, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 4>to be polite with her because she's crazy. She's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>key my car and light it on fire if.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to keep my car or light it on fire,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to deal with that. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Together, some people could see it as like Jack is

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<v Speaker 3>such a great boyfriend that it drove her to madness.

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<v Speaker 3>With how strong and wonderful the relationship is, she's unwilling

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<v Speaker 3>to lose it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But honestly, though, like there's psychos don't always attract psychos.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's people that want to see the best in

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<v Speaker 1>others and they run past the red flags. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we've all been in relationships with somebody that was some

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<v Speaker 1>level of crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Right. We're definitely not just talking about ourselves here, right, No,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying like he can't be labeled psycho just because he

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<v Speaker 1>had a psycho X. That's all I'm saying. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well he has bad judgment then, because why would he

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<v Speaker 5>go out with her? I think he dated like a

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<v Speaker 5>year with this girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's a rock star. He doesn't have time to

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<v Speaker 3>make great romantic decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the good psychos aren't psycho at first.

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<v Speaker 3>It's slowly yes, yeah, it's a slow bird psychosis.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't I don't want to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't even give me a chance to offer a

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<v Speaker 3>free date on us.

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<v Speaker 5>But well that should tell you that I don't really

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<v Speaker 5>want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're here, I think too, Jack.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like that's my out. Guys, maybe you

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<v Speaker 4>can make like.

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<v Speaker 1>A sad rock drum song out of it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>use it as fire for your next game.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I need a thirty second solo.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe alert security about your girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it sounds like she's still into it.

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<v Speaker 3>You always have another option, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, at this point, if she just keeps showing up.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I'll just take her back. Who knows.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the sign. If you love a bird, you

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<v Speaker 3>have to let the cockatile fly free and if it

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<v Speaker 3>comes back to you, that's the sign.

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<v Speaker 1>And cockati is a terrible pet name. Think of something else.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of agree. You got to work shop that one, Jack.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, guys, I've got two cockatiles in my life

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<v Speaker 4>and one's just flown away, and I don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>if I want to keep the other one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you're in a cockatil mess.

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<v Speaker 3>Two cockatiles in the hand is worth one in the bush.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Sometimes you're the statue, sometimes the birds sitting.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a rock star. You don't have to kind of problems.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, guys, I'm just gonna get back out there.

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<v Speaker 3>There right to meet girls for show. Looking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning. Man, When are we gonna get people on

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<v Speaker 3>this show that say, you know what, I like the drama?

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<v Speaker 4>I need more.

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<v Speaker 3>Chaos and excitement in my life. Bring the X back

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<v Speaker 3>for our second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get three x's in here.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are those people? Because everybody these days is so

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<v Speaker 3>drama avoidant. It just it really messes with our content

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<v Speaker 3>for the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Like stability. Who wants that?

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<v Speaker 3>You know? This is literally why reality TV dating shows thrive. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>we got a rock star and then ten random women,

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<v Speaker 3>one of them is X.

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<v Speaker 1>How you noticed on those it's all the same people

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<v Speaker 1>too though, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Really I mean, look, I'm excited for all like the

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<v Speaker 3>happy stable people out there, but we need drama heavy

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<v Speaker 3>content to post on our podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, maybe he really will get back with his

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<v Speaker 1>AX and then there'll be an awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 1>about maybe the Jersey like that. I mean, there's still

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<v Speaker 1>potential with this guy, That's right.

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<v Speaker 3>We can dream. Hopefully he'll be back to be on

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<v Speaker 3>our podcast, which is available online wherever you get yours

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<v Speaker 3>at Brooke and Jeffrey