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Speaker 1: All right, welcome to your brand new Second Date Update

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Speaker 1: and Happy Monday. It's up and Jeffrey, you found the

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Speaker 1: Second Date podcast, and I will just say we were

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Speaker 1: shocked to hear a musician be turned down, but it happened.

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Speaker 1: It happened, and he called us for help. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear the whole thing in just a second, but let's

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Speaker 1: do some comments.

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Speaker 2: Alexis, Oh yeah, I saw one from Blue Jean Auvey,

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Speaker 2: who said, Hey, guys, hate to break it to you,

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Speaker 2: but I've been listening to y'all well before I went

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Speaker 2: to my very first day of preschool, and this year

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Speaker 2: I'll be old enough to dream. Love y'all, Love y'all.

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Speaker 2: Show y'all basically raised me. So I guess I'll bill

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Speaker 2: you for the therapy that is amazing.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much listening.

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Speaker 1: Your soul, I mean, and also I apologize for your

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Speaker 1: really terrible childhood that we provided you. Let's get to

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Speaker 1: the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Who is the worst person that could

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Speaker 3: randomly show up and surprise you on your date? Your dad?

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Speaker 1: I love it if he ever really loves my dad too. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because my day would be.

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Speaker 3: Like who Let's go hang on with whom, yeah, happens

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Speaker 3: a lot. Maybe your grandma because she made you a

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Speaker 3: ham sandwich so you'd have enough energy to last the

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Speaker 3: entire night.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are so cute?

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Speaker 3: Is really old? I don't think she knows which grandchild

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Charlie.

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Speaker 3: Apparently it got a little awkward for our listener Jack,

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Speaker 3: because he says somebody from his past kind of crashed

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Speaker 3: his date the other night. And Jack, I've not read

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Speaker 3: your email yet, so I'm just gonna assume it was

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Speaker 3: your third grade teacher who gave you a C in handwriting.

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Speaker 3: Miss mccrowsky.

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Speaker 4: No, it's even worse than that. Wow, Yeah, my ex

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Speaker 4: showed up to Wait.

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Speaker 1: Is it one of those drama things where it's an

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Speaker 1: ex who's been following you around and can't get over

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Speaker 1: you and then just causes all sorts of business. Is

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Speaker 1: that it?

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Speaker 4: Well, it hasn't really been before, but it is starting

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it.

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Speaker 3: Was natural, like it just happened kind of thing. I

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Speaker 3: guess we have to hear the story, tell us how

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Speaker 4: So I'm a I'm a musician. I played drums in

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Speaker 4: the band.

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Speaker 3: Is that have anything to do with the story or

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Speaker 3: is that just a flex you wanted to tell us

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a good flex.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, what's the setup? Okay, Okay, it has to

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Speaker 3: do with the story. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So where did you meet the girl that you were

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Speaker 4: So we've actually been talking through Instagram and I've been

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Speaker 4: feel like there was some chemistry there. So I invited

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Speaker 4: her to the show so she can come watch me play.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I love having a comedy show because girls, it's like,

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Speaker 3: can I come?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: I think it's not sold out? Yeah, that's why I

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Speaker 3: invited miss mccrofsky to my concert. Beside, yeah, so that

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Speaker 3: she boosts up that hanwriting grade.

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Speaker 1: But you're great handwriting.

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Speaker 3: It worked. You're flexing on the wrong women, I know. Sorry, Jack,

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Speaker 3: tell us how it went with you and your concert.

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Speaker 4: Well, so before the show started, I was chatting with

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Speaker 4: this girl. Her name is Andrea. We were having a

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Speaker 4: good time, and right before the gig starts and I'm

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Speaker 1: This makes more sense though, because it's like a public

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Speaker 1: venue you're obviously going to be playing. I thought she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like she.

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Speaker 3: Didn't know you were going to be there. She knows

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Speaker 3: Your band's probably like advertising it on social media, so

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how long ago did you guys break up?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's been like a year or so, so it's

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Speaker 1: So you're shocked to see her then.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've like seen her around, but I hadn't really

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, this girl's friends need to get her other plans. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what is she doing?

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Speaker 3: Well, clearly I think she knows exactly that she's trying

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Speaker 1: Wait, we're not doing this second date because we're calling

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Speaker 3: Are we?

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Speaker 4: Oh no? No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, because I was about to feel really bad about

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Speaker 3: talking so much trash. Yeah that's what I'm saying. Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, so at the end of the day, like we

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Speaker 1: Andrea Andrea that you met on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Thought it was Andrea? Did it wrong? It was and

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Speaker 3: I remembered it?

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Speaker 4: No Andrea, All right.

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Speaker 1: Oh so that is wrong. He's a drummer, so he's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: There's three beats to it.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, so you did get someone on one

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before the show we were chatting a little bit,

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Speaker 4: but then afterwards we were going to have our meet

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Speaker 4: come around. I spent about fifteen minutes. It took way

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Speaker 4: up telling me she needed a bounce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have fun on a date like that.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not fun. I have my experience. The girls

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Speaker 3: do not like to wait around for you.

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Speaker 1: But it's not only that you start to feel lame,

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Speaker 1: Like you start to feel like, what am I doing?

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Speaker 1: Why am I by myself while this guy is talking

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I mean it just continues to get worse.

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Speaker 4: During the meet and greet, I had to introduce my

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Speaker 1: Together, Like, wait, did you introduce her as your ex?

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Speaker 4: Well, no, but it just sort of came up because

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Speaker 1: That I bet your ex just ruined your chances. I

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Speaker 1: mean told her something about you that true or not.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't see them talking a lot,

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Speaker 5: Before you know it, it's like, oh, do you guys

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Speaker 4: And I'm not trying to lie on the.

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Speaker 3: First day, but at no point after the show, you

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Speaker 1: Andrea not more than.

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Speaker 4: That for her, because she was like I just got

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Speaker 4: my ex comes back over and offers to give me

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Speaker 3: Whare Oh wow, I'm really trying to get back she's

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Speaker 3: just trying to mess with you.

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Speaker 1: Do we have to ask did you take the jersey back?

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Speaker 1: Did you hook up with her that night?

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Speaker 4: I did not know.

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Speaker 3: Night.

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Speaker 4: No, that's good.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's make this phone call and we'll reassure Andaria

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Speaker 3: that she is one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: How do you say it different every single time?

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying, what he said, Andrea almost called her diarrhea. Whatever,

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Speaker 3: We'll call this lady, and we'll try and get you

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Speaker 3: your second date update right after this second date update.

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Speaker 3: You're just joining us, our listener. Jack was on a

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Speaker 3: first date that just kept going from bad to worse

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Speaker 3: to Florida Bad is a good get? First, his ex

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Speaker 3: girlfriend randomly shows up to the concert where his band

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Speaker 3: after their breakup, and ended up speaking to his date.

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Speaker 3: And who knows what she said to her during that interaction.

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Speaker 1: I know it was a short interaction, but I bet

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Speaker 1: she got some damage.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you know yea. Because it's definitely not

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Speaker 3: a good sign that Andrea decided to duck out early

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Speaker 1: I am so glad you practiced her name eighty times

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Speaker 1: before we win it.

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Speaker 3: I wrote it out phonetically.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so make sure I got it right. But Jack,

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Speaker 3: you just want to redo, like a start over on

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Speaker 3: your date, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and not at a concert. We're gonna go get

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Speaker 1: Ye.

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Speaker 3: Yes, at the bar where your ex bar tend shop

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Speaker 3: where she works.

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Speaker 1: Definitely start bartending that night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what sucks is you were trying to

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Speaker 1: kind of not show off, but like show her something

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Speaker 1: you're really interested in, and then it totally backfired. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just felt like a Murphy's Law night. Everything

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Speaker 3: Well. Everybody hits rock bottom at some point, and for

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Speaker 3: a lot of people, that's when you're on this show.

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Speaker 3: So only places up from here. Let's give Andrea call

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Speaker 3: and see if she picks up you ready.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's give it a go out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hi is this Andrea?

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Speaker 4: Yeah sheep.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you're on the radio right now with a show

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Speaker 3: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Why why I like it? Are you right to the point?

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Speaker 3: You sound a little scared, but you don't have to

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Speaker 3: be because this is a segment. It's like a friendly thing.

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Speaker 3: We do call the second date update, and we're trying

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Speaker 3: to help one of our listeners get back in touch

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Speaker 3: with you after you went out the other night.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but if I'm not answering, why would I want

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Speaker 5: to talk to them now?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you may not want to. I think it's

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Speaker 1: more that we're trying to figure it out why.

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Speaker 3: Because the guy is really confused after your hangout. His

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Speaker 3: name's Jack. You went to his concert, well, and I

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Speaker 3: guess confused. Confused doesn't necessarily the right word. I think

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Speaker 3: he knows the night didn't go perfectly.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, no, it was super awkward.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'd love to hear. I mean, your side of.

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Speaker 5: It, right, I mean, I don't really know why I

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Speaker 4: This just seems valid.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, here's what we know from Jack. He says

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was definitely a stressful moment for him

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know it was I was really

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Speaker 1: I mean, wouldn't he have to be polite? What do

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Speaker 2: You don't want to see a man yelling at his ex.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how polite. It's like he could spit

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Oh he was flirting?

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Speaker 3: What flirting?

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Speaker 1: Wait, flirting with you his ex?

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Speaker 5: Yes, Like he introduced me to her and like it

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I don't think that you were overreacting,

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Speaker 5: I mean maybe, but I don't think so. Like she

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Speaker 1: I could totally see why you wouldn't want to see

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Speaker 5: I mean I was actually thinking that, like maybe she's

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Speaker 5: What she was telling me about his nickname for her

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Speaker 1: It's like his babe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also just weird to give you a name

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Speaker 5: I mean, I thought it was cute because it's a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but before this gets any more awkward, I should

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Speaker 5: You're joking, right, like he's not really on the phone.

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Speaker 3: No, No, that's kind of how this whole thing works. Jack.

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Speaker 3: Are you are you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Hey, hi, Andrea?

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Speaker 5: Oh why would you embarrass me twice? Like that night

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I wanted to apologize for the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the start with the apology Jack, instead.

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Speaker 4: Of well that's not obviously. She just showed up, right,

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Speaker 4: and she's telling you things that aren't true.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, but she didn't lie about the nickname. You

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Speaker 5: That's like major ick man.

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Speaker 4: I mean, but out of all of the cockatiles out there,

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Speaker 5: I'm not buying it.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, Are you buying that he isn't interested in his exo?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I totally believe she was a psycho because

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Speaker 4: But look, I was listening when she told you that

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Speaker 5: I'm going to keep my car or light it on fire,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to deal with that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Together, some people could see it as like Jack is

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Speaker 1: Okay, But honestly, though, like there's psychos don't always attract psychos.

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Speaker 3: Right. We're definitely not just talking about ourselves here, right, No,

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Speaker 3: I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Saying like he can't be labeled psycho just because he

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Speaker 4: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 5: Well he has bad judgment then, because why would he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a rock star. He doesn't have time to

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Speaker 1: You know, the good psychos aren't psycho at first.

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Speaker 3: It's slowly yes, yeah, it's a slow bird psychosis.

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't want to go out with him.

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Speaker 3: You didn't even give me a chance to offer a

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Speaker 5: But well that should tell you that I don't really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're here, I think too, Jack.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like that's my out. Guys, maybe you

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Speaker 1: A sad rock drum song out of it, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I need a thirty second solo.

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Speaker 1: And maybe alert security about your girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it sounds like she's still into it.

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Speaker 3: You always have another option, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, at this point, if she just keeps showing up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the sign. If you love a bird, you

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Speaker 1: And cockati is a terrible pet name. Think of something else.

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Speaker 3: I kind of agree. You got to work shop that one, Jack.

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Speaker 4: I mean, guys, I've got two cockatiles in my life

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're in a cockatil mess.

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Speaker 3: Two cockatiles in the hand is worth one in the bush.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes you're the statue, sometimes the birds sitting.

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Speaker 3: You're a rock star. You don't have to kind of problems.

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Speaker 4: All right, guys, I'm just gonna get back out there.

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Speaker 3: There right to meet girls for show. Looking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: this show that say, you know what, I like the drama?

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Speaker 4: I need more.

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Speaker 3: Chaos and excitement in my life. Bring the X back

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Speaker 1: Let's get three x's in here.

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Speaker 3: Where are those people? Because everybody these days is so

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Speaker 1: Like stability. Who wants that?

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Speaker 3: You know? This is literally why reality TV dating shows thrive. Yes,

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Speaker 1: How you noticed on those it's all the same people

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Speaker 3: Really I mean, look, I'm excited for all like the

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, maybe he really will get back with his

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Speaker 1: about maybe the Jersey like that. I mean, there's still

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Speaker 3: We can dream. Hopefully he'll be back to be on

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Speaker 3: our podcast, which is available online wherever you get yours

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