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Speaker 1: Jeff is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 1: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Caitlyn.

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Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 1: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 1: get him a second date. But first, Jeff, how long

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Speaker 1: has it been since you talked to Caitlin.

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Speaker 2: It's been like two weeks?

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Speaker 1: Okay. Have you been trying to hit her.

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Speaker 3: Up in that time?

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Speaker 2: I did. I texted her about four or five times.

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Speaker 1: Oh, sorry, not to be so shocked with that's a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, and you've heard nothing back.

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Speaker 2: Nope, I haven't heard anything back, unfortunately. Yeah, I may.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it was because of the text

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Speaker 2: or what.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think now you need to tell us about

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Speaker 1: the date.

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Speaker 2: You know, we we've been on the same dogball team, okay,

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Speaker 2: and you know I've been kind of crushing on her

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Speaker 2: all season, and you know, after our team want to

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Speaker 2: Be game, we all went out to celebrate at a

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Speaker 2: bar nearby, okay, and a couple of drinks and uh,

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Speaker 2: Caylen started flirting with me pretty hard, and you know

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Speaker 2: she laughed at everything I said, like touching my arm

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Speaker 2: type of thing. You know, I was. I was pretty psyched,

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Speaker 2: and one thing led to another and we ended up

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Speaker 2: going home together and you know, chemistry was pretty insane.

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Speaker 2: She seemed really into me, and the next morning we

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Speaker 2: just kissed goodbye and said see you at practice. That

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Speaker 2: was it. Yeah, everything seemed really perfect. And now you

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Speaker 2: know she's not responding.

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Speaker 1: Have you practice since?

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Speaker 2: Not? Not since? No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you don't know if she's going to be

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Speaker 1: dodging you there.

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Speaker 2: Either, Yeah, I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: So how did you leave it?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you said that you'll see each other, but

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Speaker 4: when she did, it sound like she wanted to see

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Speaker 4: you again outside of practice or it was just more

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Speaker 4: like cool, thanks.

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Speaker 2: I mean, nothing was really like specifically said, but that's

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Speaker 2: the feeling I got. Like I thought we would definitely

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Speaker 2: see each other again, considering it went so.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, what do you think happened? Why do you

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Speaker 1: think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think, you know, maybe my text

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Speaker 2: came on too strong, you know, I told her like

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Speaker 2: I you know, I never thought i'd be into a dodgeball.

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Speaker 1: Girl and like I used to see the Dodgeball Girl Escape.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I usually played escape real life and I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, you kind of become a new reason to

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Speaker 2: show up to practice, and you know, I mostly had

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Speaker 2: a great time with you. I can't wait to see

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Speaker 2: you again, and you know, and then I was like,

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean mostly agment, Like I really did, you know,

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Speaker 2: my text were kind of clunky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeff is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 1: by a woman named Caitlyn. So we're about to call

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Speaker 1: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 1: him and maybe get him a second date. But before

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Speaker 1: we do that, Jeff, why don't you break down your

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Speaker 1: day again with Kaitlyn for us real quick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So we went out to celebrate the big game

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Speaker 2: win and you know, had a few drinks, end up

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Speaker 2: going back to my place and yeah, everything went great.

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Speaker 2: And upon texting her later, there was no response. And

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Speaker 2: I think I may have came on too strong.

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Speaker 1: And when you say big game, you mean dodgeball game,

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Speaker 1: not the Super Bowl. Yeah, okay, all right, okay, Well

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try to call her right now. You're ready

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Speaker 1: to go?

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Speaker 2: I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I ma expeacing to Caitlyn. Please,

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Speaker 1: this is she? Hey, Caitlyn, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Caitlyn.

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Speaker 1: My name is Nina. I'm Victoria and my name is Jubel.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Is there reason why I'm getting called right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: There is.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I have?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Cool? Well, maybe, Caitlin, you've heard a first Date

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Speaker 1: follow up. That's the segment we do where if you

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Speaker 1: go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 1: that person can email us to call you and ask

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Speaker 1: why you're ghosting them. Do you have any idea who

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Speaker 1: would email us?

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Speaker 3: Is it recent?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Pretty recent, I would say, within like three weeks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, I know you think?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Is his name Jeff?

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Speaker 1: Yes, his name is Jeff. Can you tell us why

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Speaker 1: you're ghosting Jeff? He really likes you and wants to know.

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Speaker 6: Okay, well, isn't a little personal. But he makes these

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Speaker 6: dodgeball sound effects when we were intimate.

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Speaker 1: Wait, he makes dodgeball sound effects when you guys are.

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Speaker 6: Internet whispering thing in my ear like incoming and like

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Speaker 6: you can't dodge this one. He like tapped my head,

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Speaker 6: but he yelled that's a direct hit.

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Speaker 1: The worst part.

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Speaker 3: The worst part was.

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Speaker 6: Like when he finished, he said, game, set match, My

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Speaker 6: body was like something to finish, and it was like

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Speaker 6: so comfortable.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting. Yeah, huh okay, you guys and you guys

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Speaker 1: met on your dodgeball team.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, he's nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, but he uses dodgeball like he says dodgeball

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Speaker 1: stuff while you guys are doing stuff.

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Speaker 3: That just really makes me good.

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Speaker 4: So you're just not into dodgeball the same way, not

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Speaker 4: into dodgeball dirty talk.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I just I don't think it's she.

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Speaker 6: It's like someone says sudden death over time, like while

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Speaker 6: we're doing things together. And at one point he rolled

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Speaker 6: away and he whispered, coach would be proud.

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Speaker 1: Wh Yeah, well all right, thank you Kaitlin for telling us. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that. I mean, I don't I don't know. For

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Speaker 1: some people that might be sexy. Obviously for Jeff, it

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Speaker 1: is and Jeff is on the phone listening right now

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Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you, there's no.

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Speaker 5: Really yeah, oh my god, no, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 6: Jeff?

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I was just bummed out that I haven't

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Speaker 2: heard from you, But I get no I know why.

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Speaker 2: I just really like competitive and you know, dodgeball product here.

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Speaker 1: I am okay, so you you do do that, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: like in the bedroom, you'll say dodgeball stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I thought it was playful banner. I

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Speaker 2: mean she called me m v P at the bar.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, So that was the green light for

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Speaker 4: you to get it, go in with it double down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like.

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Speaker 6: You know, okay, great, Yeah, I need a man and not.

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Speaker 3: A pe teacher with the whistle fantasy. So that's kind

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Speaker 3: of why.

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Speaker 2: They teacher you're a dogeball girl, you know. I figured

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Speaker 2: you'd like it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but not in bed, you know, like I have

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Speaker 3: a life outside.

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Speaker 6: Of dodgeball, like in bed for example. It's just like,

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Speaker 6: you know, for baker, you're not going to use that

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Speaker 6: bead baking terms you like, yea activating definitely don't use that.

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Speaker 2: I mean I would, I would totally like going on

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Speaker 2: the baking terms if that were the case.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's saying she wants to baking talk.

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Speaker 1: I think she's saying she didn't like the dodgeball talk

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Speaker 1: during I mean.

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Speaker 2: Baking is cool, like we could do baking.

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Speaker 3: That's not the toy.

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Speaker 6: I didn't want dodgeball to be like when we were,

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Speaker 6: you know, doing our stobs. I just yeah, it was

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Speaker 6: a little much for me, you know, But I mean, like.

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Speaker 1: What are you in then?

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I feel like what a lot

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Speaker 3: of people are into, just like someone who is like

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Speaker 3: chill you would you do your thing and let the

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Speaker 3: let the chemistry go. It's way.

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Speaker 2: Like I would hit the high five was probably too much, but.

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Speaker 1: I like to five might be kind of fine. No, hey, Caitlyn,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Jeff again? We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I just know and I five after?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure?

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Speaker 6: I just really can't hear the unhere the direct hit

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Speaker 6: in my head. It's you know, it's not the best

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Speaker 6: memory I have.

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Speaker 2: I mean I could have said Grand Slam, but that

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Speaker 2: would be more dateball. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hey, well Jeff, I'm sorry you did not get a

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Speaker 1: second date. But you tried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, thanks for trying anyway. If I was just

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Speaker 2: trying to bring that championship energy, you know, but like

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Speaker 2: didn't work out.

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Speaker 3: It's okay.

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Speaker 1: Not all of them are home runs. You will be

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Speaker 1: somebody's at VP.